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EASY STEPS TO SHOPPING FOR ENGAGEMENT RINGS AT
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When it comes to finding the perfect engagement ring, the experience should be just as magical as the moment you pop the question. With countless ring options and important decisions to make, Wimmer’s Diamonds makes the process easy, enjoyable, and stress-free. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you navigate the journey!
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PREPARE, RESEARCH, & PLAN!
Before stepping into Wimmer’s Diamonds, think about how you’d like the ring-buying experience to go. Will you and your partner shop together, or are you planning to surprise them? Having a basic idea of ring preferences—like style, metal, diamond shape, and size—can make your visit more productive. If you’re keeping it a surprise, save any photos or hints your partner may have dropped.
START WITH A CHAT
Your journey begins the moment you walk in. The expert team will take the time to get to know your vision for the ring, learning about preferences, lifestyle, and budget to help you find the perfect fit.
EXPLORE YOUR RING OPTIONS
Wimmer’s offers a variety of rings ready to try on. This hands-on experience lets you see how different styles look and feel. You can also work with their team to modify a ring or create a custom one from scratch!
DID YOU KNOW?
You can create a Wish List at Wimmer's Diamonds and they will save your info for your loved ones who want to shop for you! This eliminates a guessing game for the gift giver, from style to size. Plus, it's not just for rings! You can add any type of jewelry to your Wish List. Dream BIG!
STAY TRUE TO YOUR STYLE
Don’t get swept up by trends, or do! Choose a ring that reflects you and your partner’s unique style and personality. Wimmer’s team encourages couples to select what they’re comfortable wearing, whether it be the latest trend or a timeless classic. They’ll help guide you to the perfect ring that aligns with your lifestyle and preferences.
BONUS! STEP PLAN AHEAD FOR CUSTOMIZATION
TRUST THE EXPERTS
Shopping local at Wimmer’s Diamonds means you’re getting a ring, along with a personalized experience. Their knowledgeable team is available to answer any questions and guide you through every step of the process. Plus, you’ll enjoy lifetime inspections, cleanings, and the peace of mind that comes with working with a trusted family-owned jeweler.
If you’re opting for a custom or modified ring, be sure to allow extra time for craftsmanship. It’s recommended to start the process at least 6-8 weeks before your planned proposal date to ensure everything is ready for the big day.
RING SIZE
Knowing your partner’s ring size ahead of time is important for the perfect fit. If you’re unsure, ask a close friend or family member for help, or encourage your partner to visit Wimmer’s to try on styles and note their size. While resizing is possible, it’s always best to have the correct size from the start to maintain the integrity of the ring.
DON’T FORGET THE WEDDING BAND
Once you’ve found the engagement ring, don’t forget to think about the wedding band. Wimmer’s has a wide selection of his and her bands that can complement your ring perfectly, whether you’re looking for something classic or trendy.
Shopping for an engagement ring should be an exciting and memorable experience. With Wimmer’s Diamonds, you’ll have expert guidance, endless options, and the peace of mind of knowing you’re making a special purchase with the help of Fargo’s most trusted jeweler with over a century of experience.
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MEET WIMMER’S CUSTOMERS
Aronah and Taylor
Aronah and Taylor both attended college in the FM area. Taylor graduated from NDSU with a degree in architecture and Aronah graduated from Concordia College with a degree in business. He proposed in September of 2020 on their 5-year anniversary, and officially tied the knot the following year in 2021!
Today, Aronah works tech sales and his wife Taylor stays home with their little one. But, before all that—Aronah worked with Wimmer's Diamonds to make sure their perfect day could be just that.
"Shopping for an engagement ring with Wimmer’s Diamonds was really a joy. Why? Simple, from the very first time I met Aaron, they had won our business due to their support, attention to detail, and friendly yet professional team." - Aronah
WHY DID YOU PICK WIMMER'S DIAMONDS TO SHOP FOR AN ENGAGEMENT RING?
"I visited four jewelers before stopping in at Wimmer’s. While each had their own strengths, the patience and
expertise displayed by Aaron and the crew were top-notch. Not to mention their wide variety of rings to meet many different needs."
HOW DID THE TEAM AT WIMMER'S DIAMONDS HELP GUIDE YOU THROUGH THE ENGAGEMENT RING SHOPPING PROCESS AND MAKE THE EXPERIENCE SPECIAL FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER?
"Before she was my wife, Taylor had a Pinterest board of her dream ring styles, colors, and sizes that I used as a cheat sheet to surprise her with a ring. As mentioned, I stopped into a few different locations before stopping in at Wimmer’s. Each location simply showed me some of their top rings. Aaron was the only one who took the time to ask me a series of questions around who I was and who my thengirlfriend was before showing me any ring option. That was the differentiator, he took the time to understand her."
WERE THERE ANY SPECIFIC DETAILS OR CUSTOMIZATIONS THAT MADE YOUR RING FEEL PERSONAL AND UNIQUE?
"Because of the attention to detail Aaron and his team paid on the front end, we ended up with a ring that my wife didn’t even know she truly wanted. The result was that she ended up loving what we chose more than any ring on that Pinterest board."
"I know my personal experience was with Aaron, but I’m confident to say that after meeting the rest of the team members, the experience would have been very similar. I’ve stopped back over the years to buy other items and have learned the team to be very kind, knowledgeable, and professional people to work with. As that continues, they’ll continue to have our business."
Don't take it from us, or even from Wimmer's—trust a happy couple! Stop into Wimmer's Diamonds today to make your dream ring a reality!
Crafting Unforgettable Wedding Experiences
By Cameron Carlson, Multi-Brand Marketing Manager, National Hospitality Services
Your wedding day is a celebration of love—a momentous occasion that deserves nothing short of perfection. At Delta Hotels by Marriott Fargo, our motto is “simple made perfect.” We believe that your wedding should be as unique and special as your love story. We sat down with our expert wedding team to discover why this venue remains a local favorite among couples, offering unmatched elegance, luxury, convenience, and personalization for your dream day.
TTailored Experience with Limitless Personalization
At Delta Fargo, every wedding is a customized event. The team’s dedication to bringing your vision to life ensures your big day is truly one of a kind. Whether you imagine a glamorous ballroom affair or an intimate celebration, Delta’s versatile spaces cater to any style or size. The grand 15,000 square foot Crystal Ballroom offers an elegant canvas for your reception, while Symphony
Hall provides a more intimate setting for smaller gatherings. Also, our Crystal Courtyard, where you’ll find the ballroom’s entrances, features a fountain and spacious layout, making it the perfect spot for pre-wedding socials. Couples have been known to take a “lucky penny” and make a wish for their future in that very fountain!
What truly sets Delta Fargo apart is their focus on personalization. From custom lighting to unique room layouts, no detail is too small when it comes to
making your wedding day uniquely yours. The team thrives on turning your ideas into breathtaking realities, ensuring your wedding reflects your individual style and personality.
Comfort and Luxury for You and Your Guests
As important as the reception is, Delta Fargo knows the comfort of you and your guests is equally vital. Their wide range of accommodations is designed to meet every need. Whether you’re
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booking a romantic Honeymoon Suite or reserving spacious suites for your bridal party, the hotel provides the perfect setting to relax and prepare for your special day. The wide range of amenities includes getting-ready rooms, ceremony and reception spaces, private dining, Starbucks®, an airport shuttle, and more!
The convenience continues with exclusive room blocks for your guests, allowing them to enjoy the hotel’s amenities—like the indoor water park, 24-hour fitness center, and the popular Urban 42 Kitchen + Bar. With everything you need under one roof, your guests will appreciate the ease and comfort Delta Fargo offers.
The Dream Team
When it comes down to the wedding details, Delta Fargo makes it easy with their exceptional planning services.
Every step of the process is guided by their experienced Wedding Specialist Gabrielle Thibert, who ensures that no detail is overlooked. Whether it’s coordinating the perfect menu with Executive Chef Brian Barraza, mapping out the perfect layout, or choosing new audio/visual enhancements through their in-house A/V provider (AVEX), Delta Fargo’s team handles it all so you can relax and enjoy the journey to your wedding day.
A Venue Where Memories Are Made
Your wedding day is a very special day where your friends and family— everyone you love—will be in the same room to celebrate together! Embrace that! It’s so important to choose a venue that strives to create memories that will last a lifetime.
General Manager Andrea Ziemer proudly shared, “At Delta Hotels by
Marriott Fargo, we don’t just host weddings—we create experiences. From start to finish, we’re committed to crafting weddings that are as unique as the couple who celebrate here. With boundless personalization, culinary excellence, and a passion for exceeding expectations, we make sure your wedding day is an unforgettable celebration of love.”
For more information on how Delta Hotels by Marriott Fargo can turn your wedding dreams into reality, contact Gabrielle Thibert at 701.281.7164. | 1635 42nd St SW, Fargo, ND 58103 | 701.277.9000 Delta Hotels by Marriott Fargo
Three venues, breathtaking views, and guaranteed unforgettable experiences—Sanctuary Events Center in Downtown Fargo, RiverHaven Events Center in Downtown Moorhead, and The Reserve at Woodland in Valley City offer picturesque settings with rural vibes. Create memories and capture stunning outdoor photos with the convenience of being in the city close to hotels and attractions. These historic buildings, which date back to 1910, have been renovated to highlight their exquisite ceiling architecture with modern charm. Their new look makes them a popular choice for wedding couples looking for a mix of traditional charm with contemporary vibes.
Each venue offers all-inclusive packages for up to 300 guests starting at $2,500. The experienced team, led by Kayla Cash who has completed over 1,500 weddings in the last decade, is dedicated to making the wedding planning process stress-free. Her mission is to provide exceptional facilities and an outstanding customer experience. Cash and her team create unique and memorable moments through creative planning and execution, with commitment and integrity.
Whether your style is rustic, modern, classic, contemporary, or dark and moody—any of these three venue options are a perfect setting for the wedding of your dreams.
Sanctuary features two unique settings for wedding ceremonies, with a choice of custom wood or 110-year-old stained glass—the perfect combination for a traditional ceremony with contemporary vibes.
Couples can choose from multiple layout combinations between two floors, along with endless options for audio, visual and lighting. The LED lighting and concert-quality sound system make for an unforgettable dance experience.
The Reserve at Woodland in Valley City features four acres of gorgeous views overlooking the Sheyenne River Valley. The overall theme and style of this venue mirrors Sanctuary and RiverHaven. The Reserve is perfect for weddings of up to 300 guests and offers the same fullservice experience with in-house food and beverage services.
Embrace beautiful backdrops for wedding parties and family photos near Sanctuary’s outdoor courtyard. No matter the season, you’re bound to capture gorgeous scenery downtown.
RiverHaven features floor-to-ceiling windows in the gorgeous glass room overlooking the Red River, perfect for the ceremony and dance. The venue also features a beautiful outdoor patio space for social hour, and a classy dinner area with endless natural light. The white textured wood walls and large chandeliers give the space the perfect ambiance for an elegant wedding reception for up to 250 guests.
Contact Kayla today to schedule a tour and see all they can offer for your special day!
Your Day by Nicole's Custom Ring Experience
By Geneva Nodland | Geneva Nodland
our Day by Nicole (YDBN) has long since been the premier destination for bridal shopping in the FargoMoorhead area. The store stands out not just for its personalized gown shopping experience or even as a jeweler, but as a storyteller, where anyone, including bridesto-be, can custom-make a piece of jewelry to represent their unique selves. Specializing in engagement rings and wedding bands, YDBN views their creations as personal expressions, hand-crafted to celebrate and perpetuate each love story.
YDBN began with a clear vision: to offer a personalized bridal
experience that focuses on custom fine jewelry and special order bridal attire. The store is committed to creating a fun and relaxed shopping environment that puts the decisions in the hands of the client, offering a wide array of styles and sizes and endless custom design options for life's most treasured celebrations.
From its inception, Your Day by Nicole has striven to transform the bridal shopping experience, making it as unique and special as the brides they serve. Owner Nicole Gruchow and her team are proud to have grown her single boutique downtown to reach across the state to Bismarck, ND, and now in South Fargo—where she enjoys focusing on her passion for jewelry design.
Inside YDBN's new 32nd Avenue location, where you can custom-design jewelry with the team!
Custom Rings at YDBN
The process of crafting a custom ring at YDBN is an intimate, personalized journey that reflects the client’s personal style and emotional connection. Here, the can-be daunting process of ring shopping is made easy. Nicole makes the process educational and lacks intimidation as you go through each step of the process.
Check it out!
Come with ideas in hand or email them prior to your visit to info@yourdaybynicole.com
We'll curate a collection specific to your taste with no obligation to purchase!
We’ll discuss ideas, metals, gemstone/diamond options, design function as well as pricing.
Whether using our custom CAD process or choosing to modify one of our existing designs together we’ll create the ring of your dreams!
A New Gem on 32nd Avenue
Once you’re over the moon about the design direction, it’s time to move the project into production.
Once the design is approved the 3D renderings can begin.
Expect 1-4 weeks depending on chosen process.
YDBN's recent expansion to a new location on 32nd Avenue allows the already beloved store to be more accessible. Opening in the fall of 2024, this new venue is not only about increasing foot traffic but about offering yet another space where clients feel comfortable discussing their dream looks, which can then be crafted in-store with Nicole herself.
YDBN is a space where personal journeys are celebrated through the timeless beauty of gown shopping and custom jewelry. For those who cherish authenticity and seek to embed their personal stories into something they can wear, Your Day by Nicole is the only choice to be a part of bringing wedding or celebration visions to life.
For those interested in starting their journey of jewelry creation or to simply learn more about the artistry behind YDBN’s creations—visit their website explore and book your consultation!
By Geneva Nodland
Aaron and Maris met for the first time in 2019, at a farewell party for a mutual college friend. After a year of seeing each other at various events, Aaron asked Maris on a first date to the movies—which Maris thought went well so, she skipped work two days later to go skiing with Aaron and his roommates. Shortly after their first dates, COVID-19 hit the United States. This may have been an issue if these two didn’t live across the street from each other in their college apartments. They spent nearly every day together from March to May of that year. From car problems to visiting Disney World, the years they spent together while dating were filled with joy and laughter. In November 2022, Aaron proposed to Maris in Duluth, MN, at Bentleyville Tour of Lights to make their love a forever kind of thing. Aaron is a civil engineer at a Grand Forks firm, designing and supervising the construction of roads. Maris is a special education teacher in Grand Forks, teaching at a local elementary school. In their spare time, Aaron and Maris enjoy cuddling up on the couch together, working on renovating their 1920s home and spending time with their two cats, Tink and Beanz.
The Day They Tied the Knot
May 25th, 2024
“May 25th, 2024 was a magical, unforgettable fairy tale of a day filled with love, florals, and laughter. It was everything we dreamed our wedding would be and the day felt 100% authentic to who we are as individuals as well as who we are together.”
- The Kemnitzes
Venue: Synclaire
We searched long and hard for a venue that would fit our vision for a garden party aesthetic wedding. Finally, our wedding planner Karissa told us about a new venue that was starting renovations. When we picked Synclaire for our wedding it was a trust-the-process kind of situation. But in our hearts, we knew it was the perfect venue and everything would work out. They ended up finishing all their renovations two weeks before our big day. We loved that all portions of the wedding were at one venue so there was no need for us or our guests to travel. The ballroom was so beautiful and we felt like we were in our own little fairytale. Overall, Jenna and Synclaire was an amazing venue to work with and their renovation turned out so incredibly gorgeous.
Floral: Love Always Floral Florals were a really big deal for our wedding day. Our theme, as Maris would like to put it, was a fairy garden princess party. Love Always made this a reality for us. There was beautiful florals throughout the wedding including a ceiling installation, floral arches for the ceremony, and a breathtaking bouquet for Maris.
Dessert: Bāk (Bozeman, MT)
My aunt Beth has a baking company named Bāk in Bozeman, MT. She made all the desserts for our wedding including a small wedding cake, tea cakes that were the same flavor as the wedding cake, chocolate cupcakes with peanut butter frosting, sugar cookie bars, and lemon tarts. She did an amazing job with all of our desserts and they were gone by the end of the night!
Gowns: Your Day By Nicole
I fell in love with the dress my first-time dress shopping, but what really pushed my decision to pick my dress from Your Day was their willingness and excitement to help me customize the dress to my personality. Nicole herself took the time to help me design my
sleeves for the dress. I felt understood and like a priority when they were working with me to create my perfect dress.
Suits: Nordstrom (Minneapolis) & Halberstadt’s on Broadway
Aaron picked out his suit from Nordstrom in Minneapolis. We knew we wanted Aaron to wear a light blue suit for the wedding (blue is his favorite color). After searching we landed upon a sports coat from Ted Baker and they were able to accommodate and make Aaron matching dress pants. We picked out groomsmen’s suits and our fathers’ suits from Halberstadt’s on Broadway.
Hair Stylist: Beauty
by Malanna
Beauty by Malanna did my hair as well as all my bridesmaids’ hair. She is my normal hair stylist and I trust her with all my hair needs. She did a fabulous job on my hair and everyone else’s.
Makeup Artist: Sephora
I was going to do my own makeup for my wedding but while shopping at Sephora for a new foundation, I began talking to Kylee. She convinced me to come in for a trial after asking what kind of look I was going for. She did amazing, I was glowing and ethereal, and I loved it. So prior to heading to the venue the morning of the wedding, I went to Sephora, Aaron came with me and it gave us about an hour of down time together before the busy day began.
Wedding Planner:
Gather Event PlanningKarissa Kjos
She was more than amazing when it came to helping us find the perfect venue to make sure the day ran so smoothly. She was willing and so excited to help make all of our crazy ideas a reality. Our wedding would not have happened without her help.
Wow, I could say so much about this beautiful day! Every detail was so thoughtfully planned, every person there was so happy to celebrate the newlyweds, and the couple was such a joy to capture. It was a dream to photograph such a sweet, genuine couple and an honor to capture the first wedding at the absolutely stunning Synclaire venue!"
- Madi Jensen, Madi Hope
Photography
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Q: Looking back, what was worth the coin and what wasn’t when it came to the entire process, why?
A: When looking back on the day and the process of planning a wedding, hiring our wedding planner Karissa was 100% worth it. Without her we would have never found our dream venue and our day would not have been run as smoothly.
Love Always Floral was an amazing vendor and definitely worth every penny, they were accommodating with our budget for florals, and they helped us pick every floral based on the aesthetic we were trying to achieve. They also did the complete setup and helped with the tear down of our event.
One thing we could have planned better for was the amount of alcohol purchased. At the end of the night, we had a lot of pre-purchased alcohol left over. I also felt like a lot of the signage I made went unused, we had printed quite a few QR codes linked to a shared photo album and we did not receive many photos from the day.
Q: Everybody says that you should have fun and enjoy the wedding planning process, but it is easy to get stressed! Any recommendations on how to stay calm during the stressful parts?
A: We would recommend just really leaning on each other. This day is about you and your partner and your love for each other. At the end of the day that is all that matters. It also helps to make lists and schedules for DIY’s waaaaay prior to when you think they need to be done.
Q: Can you share some advice with couples who are planning their big day?
A: We would recommend planning at least something for you and your partner to relax after your big day. Aaron and I did not take a honeymoon after the wedding and went back to work the following week. The day goes by so fast, even a mini-moon the next weekend, just so you and your partner have time to soak in all the joy and love from your big day.
Love Always Floral is a modern floral design studio in town specializing in artisan arrangements, weddings, and imaginative installations for a variety of events.
How do I book my wedding with Love Always Floral?
We’d be honored to be a part of your kick-off to forever! Start by filling out our wedding inquiry form at lovealwaysfloral. com. From there, we’ll get a complimentary design consultation on the books to discuss all your floral dreams, create a custom quote, and curate a mood board of your vision with designs detailed down to the petal.
What does your full-service minimum include?
We work with each couple’s budget to ensure that we achieve your vision. This includes bouquets,
Nichole’s Fine Pastry & Café, located downtown, is a bakery and café specializing in Europeanstyle desserts, classic American favorites, and savory dishes, all crafted in small batches using local ingredients—and, of course, wedding cakes and desserts!
Do I have to schedule a consultation for a wedding?
Yes. Please contact us to schedule an appointment for an initial consultation. We appreciate planning this a minimum of two weeks in advance to allow us time to schedule time and prepare tastings. There is a $50 fee for the consultation that will be applied to your total balance if you order through us. The consultation includes cake samples, a discussion to create a personalized cake, and a cost estimate. Please prepare for the consultation by collecting images,
breathtaking statements, and every floral dream in between!
What design style do you specialize in?
Using artisan florals and modern mediums, each Love Always Floral design is uniquely created in our signature garden style. With an emphasis on dimension, natural composition, texture, and unconventional colors and flower varieties, our work is crafted with intention and modern, artful precision.
Do you travel?
Yes! You name the time and place—we’ll be there!
Learn more at | lovealwaysfloral.com | /lovealwaysevents | @lovealwaysfloral | @lovealwaysfloral | @lovealwaysfloral
choosing colors, and identifying your style. These will guide the consultation and assist in meeting your desires within your budget.
Do you offer cake stand rental?
Nichole’s Fine Pastry rents display stands, platters, and cake equipment. A deposit is required for using these. A complete refund will be issued if the equipment is returned in good condition within one week of your event. During your consultation, Nichole will work with you to decide what is best for setting up and who should be responsible based on what you order.
Learn more at | nicholesfinepastry.com | /NicholesFinePastry | @nicholesfinepastry
By Geneva Nodland
We are Anthony and Jaci, high school sweethearts, who finally tied the knot after 10 years of dating. Anthony planned a proposal on a beach in Punta Cana in December of 2022, working closely with a local photographer to capture the moment. We both attended high school in the small town of Cando, ND. Anthony is a licensed addiction counselor, and will soon graduate with a master’s in social work. Jaci is a Registered nurse, and studying to become a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner. Outside of work and studying, we enjoy traveling and spending quality time with family, friends, and our 2-year-old red lab, Eva.
The Day They Tied the Knot
June 2024
“Our day was absolutely perfect. It was a beautiful, warm day filled with family and friends.” - The Wentzes
Venue: Pines Venue
Long before we got engaged, we always dreamt of touring the Pines Venue. Immediately after we arrived back home from where we got engaged, we toured both Pines White and Black and fell in love with the elegance and beauty of the venues. Ultimately, we chose the Pines black, which had a separate indoor ceremony room and an attached lounge and suite to get ready, along with a golf simulator, which the men thoroughly enjoyed.
Floral: Love Always Floral
They were so easy to work with and created the most beautiful floral arrangements. They were able to pull up our dream wedding floral Pinterest board right on their TV during our consult and made our vision come to life.
Videographer: Grace Films
We love their style, creativity, and attention to detail. We knew they would capture the special and fun moments throughout the day so we could relive them for the rest of our lives!
DJ: Fuze Entertainment
We could not have asked for anyone better. He was organized, and professional, and continuously checked in with us throughout the night. On top of that, our dance floor was filled the entire night.
Dessert: Cake + Cupcakes,
Nichole’s Fine
Pastry
We chose our cake and cupcakes from Nichole’s Fine Pastry. We were able to taste-test a variety of flavors, which were all very delicious.
Gowns: RSVP Fargo
They had a variety of wedding dresses for me to choose from and were very accommodating and easy to work with throughout the appointment.
Suits: Halberstadt’s on Broadway
The men picked out their suits from Halberstadt’s on Broadway. They took their time to make sure Anthony’s suit was perfectly tailored.
Hair Stylist:
Hide Out Salon by Ashley Mikkelsen
Ashley is very easy to work with and was able to complete nine beautiful hairstyles in just a few short hours! She is so talented, easy-going, and fun to be around.
Makeup Artist:
Artistry by Kimberly
Kimberly was able to accommodate eight other girls, as well as myself, and did a wonderful job. She was so kind and flawlessly created the perfect makeup look for each girl based on their request.
Jaci and Anthony’s wedding proved you can have a stunning wedding that also feels easy and fun. I adore the shots of the newlyweds diving into their cake at the end of the night!”
- Abby Anderson, Abby Anderson
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Serving: I’ve been photographing weddings solely in the FargoMoorhead area since 2008. I am looking forward to working with many more local couples in 2025!
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Q: Looking back, what was worth the coin and what wasn’t when it came to the entire process, why?
A: The areas we were not willing to comprise on were the venue and photographer. The Pines Black was the aesthetic we were looking for and really set the mood for the wedding. Abby Anderson was also an easy choice for photography as it was apparent that she left no detail unnoticed. We will look back on these pictures for decades, so price really wasn’t a consideration. Two areas that we tried to be mindful of cost were food and decorations. Nobody is going to complain about free food, and the Pines Black was so beautiful on its own that we felt we could go minimal on decorations.
Q: Everybody says that you should have fun and enjoy the wedding planning process, but it is easy to get stressed! Any recommendations on how to stay calm during the stressful parts?
A: Start early and stay organized! We booked the
venue, photographer, and DJ about 16 months before our wedding day, which gave us plenty of time to get everything else figured out. We also kept spreadsheets with costs and due dates for payments. This made everything feel fairly manageable. Another way we were able to stay calm throughout the process was by securing vendors that we knew were awesome at their jobs. This allowed us to just let them do their thing, and not worry about the outcome.
Q: Can you share some advice with couples who are planning their big day?
A: Keep it simple. It can be easy to get wrapped up in trying to make sure every little thing is perfect, but at the end of the day, having friends and family to celebrate with is the most important part of the day.
is a Fargo-based wedding videography company led by husband-and-wife team Hunter and Jess Mouw. They specialize in capturing and preserving the unique moments of your special day through cinematic
“I (Jess) have been in the wedding videography business since 2015 (so gosh almost 10 YEARS, which is crazy)! One of the most common questions I get from couples planning a wedding and inquiring about our services is:”
What is your turnaround time?
We prioritize a timely turnaround with our films. We ensure at minimum you receive your footage within 120 days, but our average turnaround time is 45-60 days. This allows you to reminisce and enjoy rewatching your special day while it’s still fresh in your mind!
Learn more at | filmsbygrace.com
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Hide Out Salon, Ashley Mikkelsen operated by independent stylist Ashley Mikkelsen in Fargo, offers a range of hair services including cuts, coloring, formal styling, waxing, perms, lash extensions, and makeup. She specializes in bridal hair as well!
Do I get a trial for hair and makeup?
If the bride would like a trial, we can get her booked for one! We typically like to see the bride two weeks to a month before the wedding if she is getting a trial.
What is the pricing for hair and makeup?
2025 pricing is as follows: Bride: Hair $95 - $125
Makeup:
Bridal Party: Hair and Makeup $85$100 per person per service
*These prices vary on time, amount of hair, the style of hair or makeup.
Travel fee?
Wedding venues directly inside the city limits of Fargo/Moorhead have no travel fee. Venues outside of Fargo/Moorhead are $1 per mile round trip and $20 per extra stylist. For any trips over 2.5 hours, we are required to leave the night before and charge for the night stay.
Learn more about Ashley and the salon!
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By Geneva Nodland
We are Johnny and Taylor, born and raised in Fargo, and middle school sweethearts. We have grown up together over the last 12 years, and after 11 years of dating, we got engaged on the gorgeous North Shore of Lake Superior near Duluth, MN. We love to travel, be outside, and stay active! Shortly after our wedding, we graciously got to honeymoon in Italy, traveling to Rome and Sardinia. We had so much fun and ate the best food we’ve ever had!
The Day They Tied the Knot
May 25th, 2024
“Our wedding day was the best day of our lives, a long time coming, and a dream come true!” - The Brooks
Venue: Jasper Hotel
We chose this venue because we enjoyed the aesthetic and the fresh, authentic, local food from Rosewild. We are foodies at heart!
Floral: Love Always Floral
We cannot say enough good things about them! They are detailed and thorough, amazing to work with, and their service is spectacular. One of our most favorite things about our day was the floral!
DJ: Corey, Take the Leap Entertainment
Corey is so professional and intentional in his work! He helped ease some of the stress that came with wedding planning, and he is the best at what he does.
Caterer: Rosewild in Jasper
Our food was unbelievable. We were able to customize our menu to anything we could have ever wanted and it was so delicious!
Dessert: Nichole’s Fine Pastry + Crumbl Cookies + Triple Crown Sweets
Our cake was a vanilla bean cake with salted caramel buttercream frosting, we are still dreaming! Our guests enjoyed various Crumbl Cookie flavors and dessert shooters from Triple Crown Sweets, which were both a hit!
Gowns: Your Day By Nicole
It was the first and only store I went to! They helped me to customize my vision and make it my reality! They are the absolute best and their team is so sweet and very appreciated.
Suits: Halberstadt’s on Broadway
They were very professional and easy to work with. They helped me to complete my look with a velvet bow tie and loafers!
Hair Stylist + Makeup Artist: Cally, Wild Soul Salon
Taylor & Johnny are middle school sweethearts, as well as two of the most genuine and kind people. I was smiling behind my camera the entire day just being able to see their excitement and contentment in getting to spend the rest of their lives together. Their love for Jesus, each other, and for others is so evident. It was such a blessing to be a part of their wedding day. Each detail and decoration was beautifully and thoughtfully put together, and I will forever show their wedding as an inspiration for future couples!”
- Kellie Ranae, K.Ranae Photography
Serving: FM & travel
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Q: Looking back, what was worth the coin and what wasn’t when it came to the entire process, why?
A: We believe all the wedding essentials and wonderful vendors we worked with were worth every penny! Looking back, we could have saved some money on our invitations and some of the little details of the day.
Q: Were there any “traditional” or “trendy” wedding things that you DID do or DIDN’T do, and why?
A: 701 Balloon Decor designed a balloon arch for our neon sign which guests used as a trendy photo
opportunity! Additionally, our grand entrance included introductions for our bridal party and the crowd loved this!
Q: Can you share some advice with couples who are planning their big day?
A: Weddings are fun, chaotic, beautiful, and stressful. It’s easy to blink and miss all the little moments leading up to your day. When the wedding day comes, don’t fret the little things, and remember the reason you’re there, to marry the love of your life. In the end, that’s all that matters. Focus on your spouse and take in every minute, as it really does go so fast!
RSVP Bride by Alan Evans is a bridal boutique in town offering a curated selection of designer wedding gowns, bridesmaid dresses, and accessories.
When should I start shopping for my wedding gown?
Wedding gowns can take 6-9 months to come in if ordering. Make sure you have 1.5-2 months to get into a qualified seamstress.
How does bridal sizing work compared to our street clothes?
Bridal runs a little smaller than most street clothing, usually one to two sizes.
What is your cat’s name, and can I pet him?
This is not the typical question that most bridal stores get asked but we do on a daily basis. His
name is Kona. He is our blind rescue kitty. He usually loves our customers but as a cat is a cat; he can be spicy. He lives at the store and has since he was just a few weeks old.
Bonus: Do you do alterations in-store or do I have to find someone?
We have an in-house seamstress who has been doing alterations for our Brides for 20+ years. We don’t force our customers to use her but she is available.
Learn more at | alanevansbridal.com | /RSVPBridebyae | @rsvpbridebyae
Triple Crown Sweets is a licensed cottage food business based in Dilworth, MN, serving the FM area. They specialize in creating custom dessert tables for events and weddings, offering a variety of pastries and confections crafted with quality ingredients.
How many desserts do you recommend per person?
Depending on the items purchased, we typically recommend 1.5 - 2 items per guest.
Do you provide dessert tastings?
We do tastings for $50. We bring three treats of your choice and discuss your event so that we understand the vibe and your vision of the wedding/event.
Do you provide delivery? Or, setup and teardown?
We are a full-service dessert caterer. Delivery within the FargoMoorhead area is free of charge. If you would like us to set up and tear down, we also provide that service for a charge.
What happens to desserts at the end of the event if there are leftovers?
If we are doing a teardown, we pack up your desserts for you to take home from your event. If we deliver and aren’t tearing down, we leave the boxes necessary for you to take them home.
Learn more at | /triplecrownsweets | @triplecrownsweets
By Geneva Nodland
We are Mara and Jarod Berger, recently married in June of 2024. Our story started at NDSU and four years later we got engaged! Jarod proposed to Mara on a cold December night… in a blizzard (very North Dakotan of him). Jarod surprised Mara by inviting Tomi Dawn Photo to take photographs of the proposal in downtown Fargo. We love going on walks with our golden retriever, going to the lake, traveling, and spending time with friends and family. We just got back from our honeymoon in Spain and are loving being newlyweds!
The Day They Tied the Knot
June 2024
“We would describe the day as classy, timeless, and truly the best day ever. We added a lot of personal touches throughout our day which made it feel super intimate.” - The Bergers
Venue: Riverhaven Events Center
The moment we stepped foot into River Haven, we knew it was going to be our venue. The layout, packages, and views are incredible. We loved the ceremony room overlooking the river. It’s very classy and fits our vibe as we had a black-tie wedding.
Band: Save Me CJ
We chose this band as they play the classic 90s music we used to hear every weekend at the Pickled Parrot in our college days!
Caterer: Chef’s Table
We have tried many of their dishes at previous weddings. A few years ago, we tried their Swedish meatballs at a friend’s wedding and it was the best wedding food we have ever had! Swedish meatballs it was on our day and it did not disappoint!
Gowns: Flutter Bridal
I went out looking in Minneapolis and landed here. I loved the workers there,
specifically Drew! He is from Moorhead, MN, and went above and beyond to help me find my dress. I wanted something a bit different and I felt they had such a wide variety of dresses.
Suits: Halberstadt’s on Broadway
This is the way to go. They help with everything for the groom and groomsmen. They make it so easy and are so organized with their process.
Hair Stylist: Local
Stylist Sierra Kasson + I Do Crew
I had my local stylist do my hair and then the I Do Crew help with the moms and bridesmaids. I chose my personal hair stylist because she knows exactly what I do and do not like. She is a friend from back home and I wanted to have her be a part of my day!
Makeup
Artist: I Do Crew
They are such a fun group of ladies who made the morning so special and exciting!
I am incredibly lucky to have been a part of Jarod and Maras’s wedding. Every detail was so thoughtfully planned and their vision came to life so beautifully. My favorite part of the day was the love that just exuded from them—for each other and all of their families and friends. Truly, this was one of the most joy-filled days I’ve ever witnessed.”
- Tomi Thompson, Tomi Dawn Photo
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Q: Looking back, what was worth the coin and what wasn’t when it came to the entire process, why?
A: Your photographer is worth every penny. The moments captured by your photographer will last a lifetime. Having a band is worth it as well. Live music is so much fun at weddings!
Q: Everybody says that you should have fun and enjoy the wedding planning process, but it is easy to get stressed! Any recommendations on how to stay calm during the stressful parts?
A: It’s a lot to plan and sometimes can feel isolating if you’re doing it yourself. Just remember that the day is about the two of you and do whatever will make you happy. It’s hard letting all the other stuff get in the way of what’s truly important. You can also enjoy a glass of wine while planning.
Q: What were the standout vendors or products you found
that made your day memorable?
A: Kayla Cash is the event manager at River Haven. She was so helpful during the planning process and has everything set up/ organized for you the morning of.
Tomi Dawn Photography is the best of the best. You spend a lot of time with your photographer on the day of—probably more than your spouse! I love Tomi’s energy and knew spending time with her all day would make our day so much fun and special.
Save Me CJ, our band. We wanted our night to feel like another night at the Pickled Parrot and they did not disappoint. We had live music during our ceremony and first dances by the wonderful Zane Miller from Bismarck, ND.
Our officiant Aaron Jordan from Bismarck, ND. He is a family friend who did such a great job during our ceremony. He made personal touches that also moved everybody to tears.
The I Do Crew is a wedding planning service in Fargo, offering customizable packages from day-of coordination to full-service planning to help couples create their ideal wedding.
Do we travel?
Yes, but we only travel within a 15-mile radius of the FM area and require a travel fee.
How many hair and makeup services can we provide?
However many they need! Our group of talented stylists is in network with multiple stylists we trust and value to help out when the wedding party exceeds a certain limit of services.
Fuze Entertainmen is a professional DJ and lighting company based in Fargo, specializing in personalized wedding and event entertainment headed by Drew Boraas.
Can we give you a Do Not Playlist?
Absolutely! The last thing I want to do is ruin your night by playing something you didn’t want to hear. I encourage you to think of songs that remind you of an ex, someone who passed away, or any songs that would ruin your vibe/mood.
Can you describe your style?
On the MC side, I enjoy taking or directing attention where it needs to be. Making sure your guests understand what’s happening and when, without being over the top. On the DJ side, I enjoy mixing and transitioning music in a fun way. None of that awkward
Can we provide small services such as lash applications or just eye makeup?
Absolutely! We can adjust any service to their liking!
Do clients need to contact other stylists for bigger wedding parties?
NOPE! Once they contact the I Do Crew, we take care of the rest! Kelsey will reach out and contact more stylists if needed for their wedding party.
Learn more at | /I Do Crew | @idocrew.fargo
fade-in fade-out that your parent’s wedding DJ might have done. And reading the crowd, seeing what’s working and what’s not. Figuring out what songs will get Aunt Janice and your friend Michael dancing at the same time.
What do you listen to?
In my headphones: Nic D, Quinn XCII, Post Malone, Ben Rector, Sofi Tukker, Morgan Wallen, Conner Price
My Favorite Dance Floor Fillers: “Starships” by Nicki Minaj, “Man! I Feel Like A Woman” by Shania Twain, “Mr. Brightside” by The Killers, “Hotel Room Service” by Pitbull, “Year 3000” by Jonas Brothers, “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield, and “Party In The U.S.A.” by Miley Cyrus.
Learn more at | fuzemobileent.com | /FUZEmobileent | @fuzeent
Videographers
When it comes to planning a wedding, photography often tops the list of priorities, but lately, couples in FargoMoorhead are turning to videography to add an extra bit of magic to their already fairytale-like day. Wedding videographers, armed with their cameras and creative vision, capture the laughter, tears, and heartfelt speeches in motion. Videos preserve the sounds and whispers, the subtle glances, and the joyful chaos of the dance floor, offering couples a chance to relive those often too fast-paced moments.
they craft a narrative, using their experience to highlight the love story at the heart of it all.
The allure of wedding videography lies in its ability to tell a complete story— one that unfolds naturally throughout the day. From the nervous energy of getting ready to the big emotional moments during the ceremony, and finally the celebration with friends and family, wedding films capture it all. Many couples hire videographers because they want to remember not just how their day looked but how it felt, and a good videographer does more than just press record;
Choosing the right videographer is a crucial part of wedding planning. Couples often start by exploring styles, as each videographer brings a unique approach. The best match is someone who aligns with the couple’s personality, understands the vision for the day, and can blend into the background to capture candid, authentic moments. And, of course, pricing plays a role too, with packages ranging from basic ceremony coverage to full-day, multi-video options that include everything from drone shots to heartfelt highlight reels.
In the Fargo-Moorhead area, couples are spoiled for choice when it comes to wedding videographers. Whether you're drawn to a handcrafted, intimate feel or a high-definition cinematic experience, there’s a videographer out there ready to bring your love story to life on film. Let's meet some of our local videography vendors!
Meadowlark Media
Based in Fargo, Janna and Marissa craft custom wedding films with a focus on candid, emotional moments. Their unobtrusive style captures the essence of your love story. They’ve been in the wedding videography business since 2019.
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Eclipse Multimedia & Video
With over 15 years of experience, Eclipse specializes in wedding and live event videography. They have extremely affordable services without sacrificing quality.
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| /eclipsemultimediafargo
Bryant Wedding Films
Founded by Joshua Bryant, this Fargo-based videography service transforms wedding memories into cinematic films. Their packages range from full-day coverage to highlight films and ceremony edits.
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Karied Away Video
Founded by Kari Tusler (formerly Schiefelbein), Karied Away Video offers personalized wedding videography. You'd never know that this business is just over a year old with the amount of work that's been done in that time, but Kari is well-loved for bringing a personal touch to her films and has extensive experience in video production.
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| @kariedawayvideo
| @kariedawayvideo
Black Label Productions
Black Label Productions is based in Fargo, serving North Dakota, South Dakota, Minnesota, and beyond. The videographer has worked with many of Fargo's top local venues and offers professional, beautifully done work.
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| @black_label_prods
Zeitlos Studios
Based in Fargo, Zeitlos Studios specializes in wedding cinematography that blends cinematic techniques with a personal touch, providing couples with a timeless keepsake of their special day.
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Grace Films
This Fargo-based videography company, led by couple Hunter and Jess Mouw, captures weddings with a focus on storytelling, ensuring each couple’s unique journey is highlighted in an authentic and emotional way. Grace Films works closely with couples to provide a stress-free
experience and deliver films that are full of heart and personality.
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| @filmsbygrace
Sublime Exposures Films
Fargo-based Sublime Exposures Films specializes in creating heartfelt wedding videos that encapsulate the magic of the day. Their packages typically include full-day coverage and tailored highlight films.
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The Archers
A husband-and-wife team, The Archers provide both wedding photography and videography services. They focus on capturing authentic love stories and creating timeless heirlooms for couples.
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| @thearchers.studio
Gabriel and Carissa
A wedding photography and videography duo, Gabriel and Carissa are passionate about documenting love stories in an artistic and thoughtful way.
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| @gabrielandcarissa
| @gabrielandcarissa
Harmon Entertainment
Harmon Entertainment offers wedding videography services (and DJ services) with a cinematic touch, capturing authentic, memorable moments that reflect each couple's story. Known for their creativity and top-notch professionalism, they serve couples across the Midwest!
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| @harmon.entertainment
| @harmonentertainment
Off/Szn Media
Serving Fargo... A to Z Creative
North Dakota-based, A to Z Creative is a versatile photo and video studio specializing in capturing life’s memorable moments with a personal touch.
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TraceLynn Films
Off/Szn Media based in Fargo offers professional and creative wedding videography services, as well as other areas of video production. They specialize in preserving your special day with energy and artistry.
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Beyerle Films
Beyerle Films is a wedding videography company specializing in capturing authentic and heartfelt moments. Their approach focuses on storytelling, check them out!
| beyerlefilms.com
| @beyerlefilms
| @beyerlefilms
Based in Bismarck, Tracy Johnson of TraceLynn Films creates heartfelt wedding films that capture each couple’s unique love story.
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| @tracelynnfilms
How to Change Your Last Name
By Sierra Johnson, Paralegal, SW&L Attorneys
HOW TO…
change your last name after marriage. For many, adopting a new surname symbolizes the union and shared identity that marriage brings, but it often comes with a mix of excitement and confusion on where to even begin updating your name.
Obtain a Certified Copy of Your Marriage Certificate
After your marriage ceremony, the wedding officiant is usually responsible for returning the marriage license to the county office where your marriage license was obtained to be processed and certified.
In North Dakota, once the certificate has been certified by the county, the couple will either receive a certified copy of their marriage certificate in the mail or you will need to return to the county office to pick it up in person. Some counties require a small fee to obtain a certified copy which varies from county to county.
In Minnesota, you can use the Minnesota Official Marriage System (MOMS) website to order a certified copy. MOMS can also provide the contact information to the county office where you applied for your marriage
license to retrieve a certified copy in person or by mail. There is a fee for a certified copy which varies from county to county.
It never hurts to give the county office where your marriage license is registered a call if you have any questions about obtaining a certified copy.
It is important that each copy obtained is certified because many entities require this when attempting to change your name.
Identification Updates Update Social Security Card
To update your name with the Social Security Administration, you will need to fill out an application for a Social Security card (Form SS-5). You can either mail the application in with the necessary documentation (i.e. a certified copy of your marriage certificate) or visit your local SSA office in person.
Update Driver's License
You can update your driver’s license at your local Department of Transportation Driver License office. Contact your local office to inquire about the name change process. Minnesota does require that you have updated your name with the Social Security Administration prior to applying for a new license.
Financial Records
Be sure to contact each institute that oversees your financial accounts listed
below to inquire about their name change process.
•Bank accounts
•Loans and mortgages
•Credit cards
•Retirement accounts
•Investment accounts
Personal and Professional Records
There are a number of personal and professional records to update after a name change:
•Insurance policies
•Health insurance
•Car insurance
•Life insurance
•Vehicle registrations
•Passports - A good resource for obtaining information on updating your passport is travel.state.gov.
•Voter registration - Some states require voter registration so it is important to check with your state or county election office.
•Utilities and bills - Contact your utility companies (electric, gas, water, trash) and service providers (cable, internet, cell phone).
•Employment records - Let your HR department know about your name change so they can ensure your name is updated on payroll, e-mail, and other work-related records.
•Professional licenses and memberships - If you have any professional licenses or certifications (like a doctor, lawyer, cosmetologist, etc.) you will need to update your name with the issuing board or agency.
•Wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and any additional legal documents - You may need to update your name on important legal documents like your will, trust, power of attorney, etc. If you are in
need of any assistance on updating or creating any legal documents now or in the future, please don’t hesitate to contact SW&L Attorneys at 701-2972890. We are always happy to help where we can.
•Personal email, social media, and online accounts - This one may not be essential, but it may be important to some individuals to update their personal email(s), social media accounts, and any other personal online accounts they may have.
Conclusion
Each organization may have its own process for updating your name, so if you are ever unsure, pick up that phone and give each institute a call to inquire what they need from you to ensure a smooth name change process.
There may be an institute that is not mentioned in this article that you may need to contact. Creating a checklist of every institute you need to contact and crossing each one off as you complete your name changes may help ease the process and keep you organized.
Lastly, never forget to give yourself some grace through this process. Congratulations to all of the newlyweds and those soon-to-be!
Preparing a wedding speech can feel like a big deal, but it’s actually an exciting chance to honor the couple on their big day. Whether you’re the maid of honor, best man, parent of the bride or groom, or part of the wedding party, follow these steps to create a speech that’s fun, heartfelt, and memorable!
Here are 5 easy steps to prepping the perfect speech
1. Intro
2. Thanks
3. Personal
4. Admire
5. Celebrate
Let's dig in
AVOID INSIDE JOKES: WHILE IT’S TEMPTING TO INCLUDE FUNNY MOMENTS ONLY A FEW PEOPLE UNDERSTAND, ENSURE THE MAJORITY OF THE CROWD WILL APPRECIATE YOUR ANECDOTES.
BONUS TIP! KNOWAUDIENCE:YOUR THECONSIDER VIBE OF THE WEDDING. IS IT FORMAL OR YOURADJUSTCASUAL? TONE ACCORDINGLY.
Acknowledge the people who made the day possible, giving the crowd a little, light taste of the tone of your speech. Thank the couple for including you, recognize the families for their support, and give a shoutout to all the guests for being there.
Example: “Thank you to [Couple] for allowing me to be a part of this special day, and to everyone here today—it means the world to have you all here to celebrate.”
Kick things off by introducing yourself and explaining your connection to the couple. No matter your relation to the couple, this sets the stage for the rest of your speech. Keep it brief, as this part is just the appetizer.
Example: “Hi everyone! For those
USE HUMOR SPARINGLY:
A JOKE OR TWO IS GREAT, BUT MAKE SURE THE HUMOR IS TASTEFUL AND APPROPRIATE FOR ALL AGES (OR THE AGE OF THE AUDIENCE).
BRING NOTES: EVEN IF YOU’VE REHEARSED, HAVING NOTE CARDS CAN KEEP YOU ON TRACK AND FOCUSED. KEEP THEM SHORT AND SIMPLE SO YOU’RE NOT READING THE WHOLE TIME.
This is the meat and potatoes of the speech, and your chance to personalize it! Some go the route of sharing a funny, touching, or memorable story about the couple—something that reflects their personalities and your relationship with them. Just remember to keep it appropriate for a wedding crowd!
Here are some examples: Maid of Honor/Best Man: Talk about how you met the bride or groom, or a fun adventure you shared that reflects their unique character.
Parent: Reflect on your child’s growth and how you’ve watched their relationship with their partner blossom.
Wedding Party Member: Share a short, sweet story of something that stands out to you about the couple’s relationship.
Example: “I remember the first time [Bride] told me about [Groom]. She was so nervous for their first date, but when she came back, she couldn’t stop smiling…”
CONNECT WITH CROWD: LOOKING UP FROM YOUR NOTES TO ENGAGE WITH THE COUPLE AND AUDIENCE ADDS A PERSONAL TOUCH AND HELPS CALM NERVES.
PACE YOURSELF: SPEAK SLOWLY AND CLEARLY, PAUSING FOR LAUGHS OR REACTIONS. RUSHING THROUGH THE SPEECH MAY CAUSE YOU TO LOSE KEY MOMENTS OF CONNECTION.
BE YOURSELF:
AUTHENTICITY IS WHAT MAKES SPEECHES MEMORABLE — DON’T WORRY ABOUT BEING PERFECT, JUST
PRACTICE WITH A TIMER: TIME YOUR SPEECH DURING PRACTICE TO ENSURE IT STAYS WITHIN THE 3-5 MINUTE RANGE.
THECONSIDERCOUPLE’S
JOURNEY: MENTION MILESTONESCHALLENGESOR THEY’VE OVERCOME, HIGHLIGHTING HOW IT STRENGTHENED THEIR BOND.
Grab the tissues—now’s the time to get a bit emotional! This second course is all about complimenting the couple as individuals and as partners, highlighting their qualities and what makes their love special. Keep this heartfelt but again, not too long.
Example: “The way [Bride] lights up when she talks about [Groom] is truly something special. And [Groom], you’ve brought out a side of [Bride] I’ve never seen before— one filled with joy, adventure, and deep love.”
STAY SOBER UNTIL AFTER THE SPEECH: IF YOU’RE NERVOUS, IT MAY BE TEMPTING TO HAVE A FEW DRINKS BEFOREHAND, BUT WAIT UNTIL AFTER THE SPEECH. YOU’LL BE MORE CLEAR-HEADED AND CONFIDENT.
By Geneva Nodland
12 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR DAY ONE-OF-A-KIND!
Whether you're going with a traditional-style wedding, something completely unique, or somewhere in between, everyone wonders if they should do something on their special day that stands out. So, we looked into some of the wedding trends happening to make your dream day, a little bit more you!
Multiple Outfit Changes
Brides and grooms are embracing the opportunity to show off multiple looks throughout their wedding day. From an elegant gown for the ceremony to a chic, dance-friendly ensemble for the reception, outfit changes allow couples to express their personalities and embrace the energy of each wedding moment. This trend keeps the day feeling fresh and dynamic, letting the couple look and feel their best for every occasion.
Tip! Want to pull this off smoothly? Coordinate with your wedding planner or a friend to help with outfit changes and keep any necessary accessories nearby for quick swaps!
Colorful Veils
Why stick to traditional white when your veil can be a burst of color? From soft pastels to bold jewel tones, colorful veils are taking center stage as a playful way to add personality to a bridal look. A blush, lavender, or even a deep green veil creates a striking contrast with a classic white dress, while still offering a timeless silhouette. It’s the perfect choice for brides wanting a pop of color!
Tip! Test out colors in natural light to see how they pair with your dress and skin tone. Bring inspo photos to your final fitting to nail the look!
Mismatched Bridal Parties
More and more couples are embracing mismatched bridal and groom parties, allowing friends to pick attire that complements their style and comfort. This approach creates a unique look that feels personal, relaxed, and effortlessly cohesive. Bridesmaids in varying shades of a chosen palette or groomsmen in mixed styles add visual interest and let each person’s personality shine while still looking picture-perfect as a group.
Tip! To keep a balanced look, establish a color palette or a few guidelines on fabric types—send mood boards or inspiration pics to guide your party without limiting their choices!
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Timeless Documentation
More and more couples are looking for documentary-style, flash, and film photography at their weddings to move beyond traditional photos. This storytelling-forward method allows couples to break away from traditions and create a celebration that mirrors their unique personalities. Using film cameras to capture wedding moments adds a touch of nostalgia to modern celebrations and provides couples with a tangible connection to their cherished memories!
Tip! If you want this style of photography for your wedding, make sure you communicate that to your photographer—pull up your TikToks and Instagram Reels for inspiration to show them!
Flowers have always been a wedding staple, but 2024 is all about taking them to new heights—literally! Sculptural floral arrangements that seem to “grow” up walls, across tables, and even into the air are creating show-stopping backdrops. This floral-forward style transforms spaces into whimsical gardens or modern art displays, adding depth, dimension, and a lush atmosphere to any venue.
Tip! Love this idea? Consult your florist early to pick seasonal flowers, ensuring you get the most lush and cost-effective blooms for your chosen look.
Champagne Towers
This classy and chic trend is as pretty as it tastes. Incorporating a champagne tower at your reception or cocktail hour adds a touch of timeless elegance and sets the stage for a lively celebration. It not only provides a stylish means of serving drinks to your guests but also offers a perfect opportunity for a heartfelt, community toast to the newlyweds immediately after exchanging vows.
Tip! For an extra bit of glam, ask your bartender to add edible glitter or a splash of fruit puree to each glass—this creates a sparkling, colorful effect when poured!
Photo by Tomi Dawn Photo
Vintage Sweets
Couples have been increasingly drawn to vintage-inspired wedding cakes as they offer a delightful blend of nostalgia and timelessness that complements various wedding aesthetics. This style of cake, spanning multiple decades, can allow couples to connect with family traditions and infuse a touch of “something old” into their special day. Whether opting for classic white-on-white designs for a timeless black-tie event or more playful, whimsical cakes that incorporate your wedding colors, vintage-inspired cakes effortlessly cater to a wide range of wedding styles while adding a charming touch of retro elegance!
Tip! Moonrise Cafe offers Heart Cakes vintage-style cakes for order for weddings, birthdays, and other celebrations!
Head to Instagram @moonrisefm @heartcake.jpg, on their website at moonrisecafefm.com, or visit their downtown storefront at 111 Broadway N!
Personalized Content Creation
A day-of wedding content creator is a relatively new addition to day-of festivities, specializing in capturing behind-the-scenes moments through media like vertical iPhone videos, Reels, and TikTok clips. They’re a must-have for couples looking to uniquely document their special day with a fresh, real-time perspective that’s different from traditional photographers and videographers. These creators focus on authenticity, following couples throughout the day to capture candid, cherished memories.
Tip! Consider choosing someone online-savvy among your bridal party or someone who will be with you every step of the day to fulfill this role!
Mismatched Glassware & Plating
Forget perfectly matched place settings, couples are opting for mismatched glassware and plating to create a more eclectic, vintage vibe at their tables. Mixing colors, shapes, and styles of glassware and plates brings a sense of charm and warmth to the dining experience, making each table setting feel unique. This trend adds a dash of creativity and makes guests feel like they’re dining at an intimate, individually curated gathering.
Tip! If your venue doesn’t have mismatched options, rent from vintage vendors or check out thrift stores to find pieces that match your wedding vibe on a budget.
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Families Sitting Opposite for Ceremony Reactions
A simple seating swap that makes a world of difference—by having families sit on the opposite side of where their loved one is standing during the ceremony (which, traditionally is swapped), they get to see the reactions up close. It’s a heartfelt way to catch those tearful glances, proud smiles, and genuine moments.
Tip! You can let your guests know ahead of time to avoid confusion if you’re seating guests by “bride” or “groom.” Include a note in the program or ask ushers to explain this when seating them.
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DIY Bouquet Making for Bridal Party
Turn florals into a bonding experience by hosting a DIY bouquet-making session with your bridal party the day before the wedding! This hands-on activity lets everyone personalize their flowers and offers a relaxed, yet creative moment amid the prewedding hustle. Plus, the bouquets will feel extra special knowing they were crafted with care by the ones you love.
Mirror Selfie Station for Guests
Move over, photo booth—2024 has brought the mirror selfie station to wedding receptions! A full-length or medium-large mirror with custom decals, flowers, or even neon signs gives guests a chic spot to snap their best photos. It’s a fun, interactive decor element that guests can’t resist, plus it offers memorable snapshots that go beyond traditional group photos.
Tip! Add a ring light behind or a stylish backdrop nearby to ensure everyone gets flattering lighting! 11
Tip! Have your florist provide a selection of blooms and greenery with a quick tutorial. Consider adding snacks or a mini drink station to make it a fun event!
◦ Settle on your budget and decide who’s paying for what.
◦ Decide on the style, formality, and size of your wedding.
◦ Choose a date.
(Tip! Keep in mind popular wedding dates, dates of sporting and special events, etc.)
◦ Create a save-the-date guest list and gather addresses.
◦ Choose your wedding party.
◦ Settle on colors and themes with your partner.
◦ Make a bridal salon appointment.
◦ Try on wedding gowns/outfits.
◦ Order your gown/outfit and veil.
◦ Book a makeup artist and hairstylist.
◦ Begin researching honeymoon locales, if you’re traveling after you say, “I do.”
◦ Start creating your guest list.
◦ Decide if you and your partner will do premarital counseling.
◦ Begin looking at wedding gown inspiration.
◦ Tour venues and book your ceremony and reception locations.
◦ Book your DJ or band.
◦ Book your baker and decide on cake design or alternatives.
(Not interested in cake? Consider another sweet treat like cupcakes, cookies, or donuts!)
◦ Find a florist and finalize your arrangements.
◦ Find a caterer if your venue doesn’t have one.
◦ Find a photographer and videographer and finalize contracts.
◦ Pick out bridesmaid dresses/outfits and notify your party.
◦ Finalize your guest list.
◦ Send out your save-the-dates.
◦ Begin creating your gift registry.
◦ Visit a jeweler and pick out wedding bands for you and your partner.
◦ Decide on wedding day transportation, keep in mind yourself and the wedding party/family if applicable.
◦ Book/plan a rehearsal dinner location.
◦ Choose your ceremony officiant.
◦ Confirm that the bridesmaids have had their fittings.
◦ Pick out groomsmen tuxes and notify them.
◦ Reserve hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.
◦ Purchase wedding dress accessories.
◦ Schedule engagement photo session.
Planning a wedding a no simple task, so we have a recommended one-year checklist for you to reference as you plan your special day!
◦ Confirm that groomsmen have had their fittings.
◦ Pick out wedding invitations.
◦ Finalize your catering menu.
◦ Confirm the dates for your bridal shower and bachelor/bachelorette celebrations.
◦ Reserve any necessary rental equipment (chairs, tables, linens, etc.).
◦ Have your first bridal gown fitting. Remember to bring your shoes!
◦ Select wedding favors and order if necessary.
◦ Notify family and friends who will be doing readings or singing at the ceremony.
◦ Confirm wedding day transportation.
◦ Select music for your ceremony and dinner.
◦ Mail invitations + RSVPs at least eight weeks before the wedding day.
◦ Design and order wedding programs.
◦ Get your marriage license.
◦ Do a trial run on your hair and makeup styles with your stylist(s).
◦ Have your final gown fitting.
◦ Meet with your officiant and finalize ceremony plans.
◦ Write your vows.
◦ Purchase gifts for your groom, parents, in-laws, and wedding party.
◦ Track down any remaining RSVPs.
◦ Prep a must-have shot list for your photographer and/or videographer.
◦ Finalize your reception playlist or setlist.
◦ Confirm all beauty appointments.
◦ Pick up your wedding attire.
◦ Confirm a final headcount from RSVPs.
◦ Give final numbers to all vendors.
◦ Congratulate yourself on all of the planning you’ve done and enjoy the day!
VENUES
A Friend’s House afriendshouse.info 701-261-1191
AmericInn Hotel & Suites americinn.com 701-235-4699
Armory Event Center armoryevent.com 701-271-1551
Avalon Events Center avalonfargo.com 701-478-9600
Bonanzaville bonanzaville.org 701-282-2822
Breezy Point Resort breezypointresort.com 800-432-3777
Brewhalla brewhalla.co 701-532-0506
Carlos Creek Winery carloscreekwinery.com 320-846-5443
Cellar 624 cellar624.com 701-951-9440
Clubhouse Hotel & Suites fargo.clubhouseinn.com 701-282-5777
Country Inn & Suites countryinns.com 701-234-0565
Courtyard by Marriott Fargo Moorhead marriott.com 218-284-1000
Delta Hotels by Marriott Fargo inspiredeventsfargo.com 701-281-7164
DoubleTree by Hilton westfargo.doubletreebyhilton.com 701-551-0125
