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Living Luxuriously, Worldwide

global style

Christopher Guy Luxmere Caviar & Cashmere

feature story:

Third Culture Kids

University Transition Discovering the hidden jewel

A luxurious cruise holiday for the uninitiated on Norwegian Cruise Line

global events

A peek inside two high-end events in London and New York City

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A rundown of some helpful (and entertaining!) mobile applications for any trip

luxury real estate

John Henshaw Architect Inc. takes us inside some of their exclusive design projects

Wanderlust

Inspirational travel photography from around the world

Also Inside: Learn how to write about your life abroad andLiving get | published 1 | Global August/September 2012

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from the editor | alison cavatore Global Living Magazine moves to Washington, D.C. As an American citizen who has spent nearly half of my life abroad, I now find myself, and Global Living Magazine, planted in the nation’s capital. After eight international moves, this is the first time I have ever moved within the same country, which translates into some simple but welcome joys, such as not having to change banks or phone numbers. Either way, I am thrilled to be in Washington, D.C. and to present the second edition of Global Living Magazine.

Diving right into Washington’s elite charm, we had our cover image shot in the upscale neighborhood of Georgetown. Photographed by Ajda Berryman, the cobblestone streets and European-style cafes were the perfect backdrop for this issue, celebrating luxurious living and a global lifestyle.

BORN IN: Pittsburgh, PA, USA LIVED IN: USA, France, The Netherlands, Canada and Switzerland FAVORITE PLACE: Montreal, Canada BEST PART OF LIVING LUXURIOUSLY, WORLDWIDE: Discovering new places, learning about different cultures and having friends (and favorite hot spots) around the world!

FAVORITE CITY FOR SHOPPING: Close call between London and Paris.

PLACE YOU SOMEDAY HOPE TO LIVE IN: Would love to live in Chicago at some point (yes, I am one of the few people who loves cold weather!), but somewhere in Asia is also on our ‘move-to-next’ list.

For world citizens looking to document and share their own stories, author and publisher Jo Parfitt tells you how to write your own memoir, and get it published (p. 34).

For the luxury side of this issue, we visited Vancouver, B.C., Canada to share with you the interior designs of John Henshaw Architect Inc., (p. 24), and London, England for the Independent Woman Party hosted by Maiden-Voyage.com at the Met Bar (p. 31). We also made a stop in New York City where luxury eyewear designer Robert Marc held a boutique opening party (p. 29), and in the Provence region of France where the annual Fête de la Véraison takes place (p. 20).

From high-end furnishings, expat memoirs and travel applications for your smart phone to discovering the luxuries of a special cruise ship, this issue of Global Living Magazine gives you yet another privileged insight into living luxuriously, worldwide.

Keep traveling,

Alison Cavatore Founder, CEO & Editor-in-Chief of Global Living Magazine.

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Alison Cavatore

Our feature story this month, Third Culture Kids: Stages of University Transition (p. 42), highlights the ups and downs that global citizens undergo as they leave the comfort of their parents’ home to head off to college alone, usually in a new country. Having completed my high school education in Paris, France, and my undergraduate degree in Montreal, Canada, I can attest to the difficult, yet still exciting, time in my life when being an ‘expat kid’ turned into being an international college student. Despite my North American roots, as a student in Canada I remember seeking out the comfort of other ‘foreign’ students in a similar situation.

As Tina Quick reports, embracing your global sentiments is key to Join us on Twitter getting the most out of the experience – it’s who you have become @GlobalLivingMag that matters. Most universities have international groups and clubs or @AlisonCavatore that expats are instinctively drawn to, and I highly recommended taking advantage of those. While attending graduate school in Miami, I often (purposefully) took a detour to my car so I could walk through the international students’ section of campus just to hear different languages, see various cultural interactions and share a subtle ‘I understand you’ smile with my expat peers.

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Discovering Cruises p.15

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Contributors

A sneak peek behind the scenes of the cover photo shoot in Georgetown, D.C..

10 Mobile Applications for Travel

A look at 10 smartphone applications great for any trip to keep you organized, informed and comfortable on the go.

Expat Mathilde Cathelin in Georgetown, D.C. Photography by Ajda Berryman

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The Patriot in the Expatriate

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Expected and Unexpected Stages of Immigration

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Five of the Best... Expat Memoirs

Fête de la Véraison

A weekend to indulge in delicate wines, medieval joviality and a marché de Provence at the Châteauneuf-du-Pape's Fête de la Véraison.

Wanderlust p.54

On the Cover

Meet the writers, editors and photographers who contributed to this issue of Global Living Magazine.

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An insider's look at the process expats go through in terms of patriotism.

Immigration attorney Elizabeth Blandon discusses common misunderstandings during the immigration process.

A compolation of five great expat memoirs.

Trouble-free Travel with Children

Helpful hints for traveling and moving around the world with children.

Global Real Estate

A look at John Henshaw Architect's purposeful aesthetics and designs.

Global Events

Global Events from major cities around the world.

For this issue we present the Robert Marc boutique opening in New York City and Maiden-Voyage.com's Indepedent Woman Party in London

Write About Your Life Abroad

Expat, author, publisher and writers’ mentor, Jo Parfitt, tells how and speaks about some of her favorite expat books.

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global living contributors | meet our team

Ajda Berryman

Apple Gidley

Apple Gidley, a freelance writer and author of Expat Life Slice by Slice, is a seasoned expatriate, having started her nomadic life at a month old in Nigeria.

She has called 12 countries home and currently lives in Houston, Texas. www.expatapple.com

Ajda Berryman currently resides in the Washington, D.C. area where she works as a marketing director for a computer software firm. Born into an artistic family, Ajda took up piano and singing from age 5 and discovered her love for photography post-university. As the daughter of an American diplomat, she was born in the U.K. and raised abroad in Iceland, Senegal, Mauritius, Italy and France, along with many summers spent in Turkey.

Her mother, Gulay Berryman, is of Turkish origin and is an established artist who has exhibited around the globe (www.gulayberryman.com). Her father has family ties to France, with relatives still living in the Paris region and in Corsica. Ajda will forever have the travel bug; she takes advantage of both business travel and vacation time to continue exploring and photographing everywhere she goes.

DM Banks

Dounia Fayad

Dounia Fayad is a lifelong expat and Third Culture Kid (TCK). She has lived in several countries on four continents, so far. She continues to follow and enjoy this global lifestyle with her husband, who is also a lifelong TCK. Dounia has always loved to write and currently has a blog where she shares her expat experiences and memories (www.tcknextstop.wordpress. com). She also loves to take photos and is often found with her camera in hand.

After nearly 11 years in France, Dounia is currently living in the U.S.

With a background in public relations, marketing, brand consulting, video production and entertainment media, DM Banks focuses much of his work on the travel and tourism industries. As Senior Account Executive at DMB Public Relations (www.dmbpublicrelations.com), he specializes in travel, tourism, hospitality and brand development for a variety of clients. He balances PR work with freelance writing assignments based around the things he loves most: luxury travel and lifestyle, cooking, fashion, golf and fitness.

As an editorial contributor, consultant and advisory board member to travel and lifestyle publications, he remains current with all of the latest trends. When not working, DM can usually be found planning his next vacation.

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Camille Cathelin

Camille Cathelin is a hospitality professional and passionate photographer currently living and working in London, U.K. Born in France, Camille has also lived in Switzerland, the U.S. and Australia. The global lifestyle is one that she has embraced with open arms and thrives in.

Her photographs in this issue depict the neighborly and convivial attitude that transcended London leading up to the 2012 Summer Olympics. Camille is looking forward to her upcoming wedding and the opportunity to continue traveling, and photographing, with her husband.

Tina Quick

Tina Quick, author of The Global Nomad’s Guide to University Transition, is a wellseasoned traveler and mother of three collegeaged daughters. She is an ‘Adult Third Culture Kid’ (ATCK) who, having made 29 moves (15 of them before her 13th birthday) understands well the cycle of loss and grief involved in a cross-cultural lifestyle. Tina has raised her own TCKs across four cultures on the continents of Asia, Africa, Europe and North America.

After spending 15 adult years abroad, Tina made a career change from registered nurse to cross-cultural trainer. Her time spent substitute teaching and coaching in the International School of Geneva endeared her to many students who continue to stay in touch. Their stories and others like them have ignited her passion to work with students before, during and after their college transitions. Witnessing the struggles of students – who have not yet learned how to live out the differences their international upbringing has created in them in a positive and fulfilling way – has inspired her to create specialized training to suit their individual needs.

Tina is now a cross-cultural trainer, writer and international speaker. She is on the Board of Directors of Families in Global Transition (FIGT) and serves as Chair Person of the Program Committee. She is on the advisory committee of TCKid, a non-profit virtual community whose mission is to help TCKs find a place of belonging. She is also a member of the Overseas Association of College Admissions Counseling. Tina works closely with colleges and universities, and domestic and international schools.

Shirley Agudo

Assistant Editor of Global Living Magazine Shirley Agudo is an American author, editor and photographer based in The Netherlands. She is the author/photographer of five books: Bicycle Mania Holland (www.bicycle-mania.nl), Fodor’s Holland, Hot Pink, Network Your Way to Success and Here’s Holland (www.heresholland.com).

As a documentary photographer, she is also the founder of the Amsterdam Street Photographers’ collective. Along with Street Photography Workshops, she leads regular Photo Walks in Amsterdam. For more information, contact Shirley directly at: shirleyagudo@gmail.com.

Jo Parfitt Hilary Saunders

Hilary Saunders is a transient (but usually USAbased) freelance journalist who contributes to a number of music, travel, activism and pop culture publications. Her work has been published in four countries and her stories have appeared in Paste Magazine, MTV Sticky, MIAMI magazine and the Miami New Times.

Follow her on Twitter @hilary_saunders.

Aisha Isabel Ashraf

Aisha Ashraf is an expatriate freelance writer with a passion for smashing stigma and defending the underdog. Although currently living in Canada, she’s crossed geographical, cultural and religious borders in a life that reads like an Amazon bestseller. Aisha gives an honest account of the journey on her award-winning blog, Expatlogue, where she covers topics as diverse as censorship in Islam, mental health taboos and cross-cultural relationships.

Early experiences led to a fascination for travel and psychology, which drives much of her work today. She’s made the expatriate leap of faith twice over; first as a lifestyle choice, from Ireland to the U.K., and now as the ‘trailing spouse’ of a civil engineer in a global consultancy. Now in Canada, Aisha is finding the harmonious existence of a multitude of cultures inspiring her writing in ways she never imagined.

Her series of blog posts, ‘Breaking the Code of Silence’, about fighting the stigma surrounding mental illness, led to her documenting her participation in a research study for the Center for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH), investigating the use of mindfulness in depression relapse prevention. Aisha also writes independently for various travel and lifestyle publications, among them the U.K.’s Weekly World Edition of The Telegraph, and is a columnist for Expat Focus, a longstanding online expat resource. She is also the well-traveled mother of three children. Word has it that she still can’t pack a suitcase but hasn’t misplaced anyone yet…

Follow her on Twitter @AishaAshraf1. www.expatlogue.wordpress.com.

Jo Parfitt has published 26 non-fiction books, an anthology of poetry called A Moving Landscape, and a novel called Sunshine Soup. She is a journalist, teacher, editor and publisher who also mentors others to write and publish books and articles. Jo has lived in Dubai, Oman and Norway, and is now in the Netherlands, and it is living and working overseas that has made her the mentor and publisher of choice for countless expat writers at Summertime Publishing. All her expat titles can be seen at www.expatbookshop.com.

Pick up a free report on How to Write Your Life Story – the Inside Secrets at: www.joparfitt.com/freereport.

Jo also leads weeklong residential writing courses in Tuscany on how to write life stories. More information can be found at: www. watermill.net.

Want to contribute to Global Living Magazine? Contact our Editor-in-Chief, Alison Cavatore, at: Alison@GlobalLivingMagazine.com.

We are always looking for experienced, well-traveled writers and photographers and we want to hear from you, our readers. Contact us now about opportunities!

Visit us online at GlobalLivingMagazine.com

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on the cover

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photography by alison cavatore

Global Living Magazine headed to the cobble-stoned streets of beautiful Georgetown, D.C. to capture the cover image for this issue.

THIS ISSUE: ON THE COVER Photographer: AJDA BERRYMAN Model: MATHILDE CATHELIN Wearing Sergio Rossi pumps and Zara dress

Location: GEORGETOWN, DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA, U.S.A.

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issue 2 | august/sept. 2012

Magazine

Living LuxuriousLy, WorLdWide

global style

Christopher Guy Luxmere Caviar & Cashmere

feature story:

thirD culture KiDs

University Transition Discovering the hiDDen jewel

A luxurious cruise holiday for the uninitiated on Norwegian Cruise Line

global events

A peek inside two high-end events in London and New York City

plus...

A rundown of some helpful (and entertaining!) mobile applications for any trip

luxury real estate

John Henshaw Architect Inc. takes us inside some of their exclusive design projects

wanDerlust

Inspirational travel photography from around the world

photograph by ajda berryman

Also InsIde: Learn how to write about your life abroad andLiving get | published 1 | Global August/september 2012

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global style | international treasures

“Regardless of whether the design piece leans towards modern or classic, above all else, it must be elegant in nature.”

With an eye for detail, passion for design and ability to capture and reflect a distinctively classic yet contemporary mood, Christopher Guy has remained at the forefront of luxury furnishings design and garnered international acclaim. His designs have graced the homes of Hollywood celebrities, as well as suites of luxury hotels and resorts around the globe. Christopher Guy furnishings continue to lend an air of sophistication and glamour to numerous film sets and have ‘starred’ in motion pictures such as Casino Royale, The Devil Wears Prada, Hangover and The Resident, among others.

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Christopher Guy Harrison

Christopher Guy

"Mademoiselle" collection

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Born in Britain, raised in Spain and France, and now residing in Singapore, Christopher Guy Harrison’s international background is reflected in his distinctive designs that transcend cultural barriers to create a cosmopolitan feel.

Visit ChristopherGuy.com for more information.

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Christopher Guy continues to grow the brand via standalone stores in West Hollywood, High Point, Verona, London, Shanghai, Taiwan, and via established growth strategies worldwide in every continent. He continues to push the boundaries with his unique, distinctive and timeless designs that transcend cultural boundaries and redefine trends.

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photograph by alison cavatore

Christopher Guy

images courtesy of christopher guy

A newly-designed gallery presentation of Christopher Guy’s designs at Harrods in London was launched in June and attended by the ‘who’s who’ of Harrods’ privileged clientele, through a series of presentations and events. A state-of-theart global flagship showroom is under construction in one of Singapore’s prestigious locations overlooking the city-state’s majestic and inspiring skyline. The new 1,000-square-meter showroom will serve as the model for Christopher Guy’s monobranded showrooms across the globe.

Luxmere When Carol Donnelly, Founder of Luxmere, moved back to Belfast after spending years in Glasgow and London, she realized that her passion for beauty products and luxury hotels could be combined by creating something beautiful from Ireland’s own

natural resources. After collaborating with a team of chemists, each with more than 20 years of experience, Donnelly came up with the Luxmere collection, a unique, luxurious beauty product line for high-end hotels.

Without relying on harmful chemicals or sacrificing ecological responsibility, Donnelly created a luxurious range of products by selecting the finest ingredients and combining aromatherapy oils with minerals, plant extracts and natural, organic ingredients sourced from the west coast of Ireland.

After meeting with General Managers from 5-star luxury hotels in London to understand what is important to their guests, Donnelly registered her company in October 2011. By November, she had The Ritz London as her first client, for whom she created a unique range of candles, which were used in the hotel’s Cigar Lounge over Christmas.

Currently supplied in the U.K. and Ireland, Donnelly plans to take Luxmere global. She is in talks with luxury hotels in the Middle East and the U.S. and hopes to soon also establish Luxmere in exclusive department stores worldwide. Global Living Magazine readers can stay up-to-date by checking the website (www.luxmere.com) and following Luxmere on Twitter (@Luxmere).

images courtesy of carol donnelly of luxmere

Straight from the source: Carol Donnelly How did you decide to start Luxmere? Having worked in corporate life for a long time, I wanted to set up my own business. I moved back to Ireland and wanted to create something beautiful from there that would be available worldwide.

What is ‘global style’ to you? I love to see people who are well-dressed and who make the effort to look good, but the most attractive thing for me is personality; it always shines through.

What is your must-have travel accessory? When going on my travels I never leave the house without Eve Lom Cleanser from Space NK. It works wonders on the skin and gives a fantastic glow.

What is your favorite style item to recommend to a best friend? It would have to be a beautiful dress; Karen Millen has some fab dresses that flatter the figure, so I would definitely recommend one from there.

What celebrity or public figure's sense of style do you admire? I do like how Victoria Beckham dresses; she is always very stylish and rarely seen without her high heels.

What's next for Luxmere? I want to ensure Luxmere is available worldwide, so I’m having some very interesting discussions with retailers so it can be purchased either online or in-store.

Luxmere Founder Carol Donnelly

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Caviar & Cashmere Malibu Throw ($99)

Shown in Ivory Also Available in Grey and Camel 12 Ply Yarn 100% Cashmere 56” x 72”

Created by a Los Angeles-based motherdaughter team whose love for luxury would inevitably be realized with a line of highend home and fashion accessories, Caviar & Cashmere’s inspiration comes from the beauty of the world – nature, art and architecture.

Marilyn Chase, an interior designer with more than 25 years of experience, and her daughter, Caitlyn Chase, a luxury lifestyle and fashion writer, both decided they wanted to share their passions and design a line of luxury accessories using only the finest materials. After spending a year traveling the world to source the finest fabrics, Marilyn and Caitlyn found what they were looking for in India. A family, originally from Kashmir, who owns several unique textile factories, demonstrated an appreciation for the craft and devotion to sustaining it in India; they were the perfect partners for Caviar & Cashmere.

Art Uzbek Scarf ($149) 45% Silk / 55% Wool 28" x 78"

Lace Embroidery Scarf ($154)

45% Silk / 55% Wool 28" x 78"

Jet Set Travel Set ($350)

Shown in Leopard Print Also Available in Zebra Print Cashmere 100% Cashmere 36" x 60" Blanket, 8" x 10" Pillow Cover

Marrying traditional handmade artisanship with unique and contemporary cutting-edge design, Caviar & Cashmere products are made with fine fabrics and feature handpainted, digitally-printed designs resulting in a distinctive piece of wearable art.

How did you decide to start Caviar & Cashmere? I decided to start Caviar & Cashmere in January 2011 after freelancing for several magazines as a fashion writer and having my own fashion blog by the same name, Caviar & Cashmere. I felt like I knew the publishing side of the industry and wanted to foray into design. Combining content and commerce seemed like a great transition. I started the e-commerce site with my mother, who is an interior designer. It’s a family run business now – my mother and I design, my father helps with the business end, and my sister runs specialty sales.

What inspires you when you design for Caviar & Cashmere? I am inspired by the art, architecture, cultures, fashion and textiles I see all over the world. I am an avid traveler and love visiting new places to find inspiration. My home and closet have become a personal sartorial scrapbook of the favorite places I’ve visited.

What is ‘global style’ to you? Personally, ‘global style’ is incorporating the pieces I’ve found in travel – whether it's from a chic local boutique or a great find in a bazaar – into my wardrobe with ease. I also believe ‘global style’ is being conscious of the way global style functions, through eco-friendly, natural fabrics and items that come from well-managed factories.

What is your must-have travel accessory? I never travel without the Caviar & Cashmere Jet Set Travel Set. Long plane rides can be made bearable, and actually comfortable, when you’re swathed in the softest cashmere!

What is your favorite style item to recommend to a best friend? A smile.

Which celebrity or public figure's sense of style do you admire? Kate Middleton (Duchess of Cambridge) has impeccable style; she always looks sophisticated, poised and stylish without being too trendy.

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Caviar & Cashmere Founder and Designer Caitlyn Chase

photography courtesy of caviar & cashmere

Straight from the source: Caitlyn Chase

GLOBAL TRAVEL| norwegian cruise line

discovering the hidden jewel A cruise holiday for the uninitiated on Norwegian Cruise Line

photography courtesy of norwegian cruise line

by dm banks

It’s always a matter of personal preference when selecting from the innumerable travel destinations and activities available to us today. Like most people, I tend to have certain preferences when it comes to the destinations, itineraries and accommodations I choose when traveling both domestically and internationally.

With the exception of a long weekend cruise to the Bahamas years ago, I’ve always shied away from the small staterooms and intolerable midnight buffets typically associated with modern-day cruise vacations.

Not wanting to lose my sense of adventure, however, I jumped at the opportunity when an Alaskan cruise was introduced to me.

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The Journey Begins

Norwegian Cruise Lines (NCL) was determined to make me a believer, once on board their celebrated ‘freestyle’ ship, The Jewel. After a very smooth ride from the airport along the picturesque part of Seattle’s harbor area, I arrived at the port. Having my bags filled with long pants, coats and sweaters, I was eager to rid myself of them and begin seeing for myself the perks and services that had been promised. Eagerly, I checked in my two bags and passed through the long lines of security as quickly as possible. By this time, fatigue was setting in; I had been in Seattle – the birthplace of a certain coffee icon – for almost four hours, and I was still hanging on to my bit of caffeine from an in-flight, thimble-sized shot of coffee much earlier in the day.

Like a beacon of light, a gentleman was waiting for me at the top of the stairs. “Mr. Banks, please follow me for express check-in,” he said as we entered into a series of small hallways. Not certain if I was entering express check-in or an interrogation room, I happily followed the person who had just rescued me from the congested lines I left behind. Congratulations NCL, I thought, this was the way check-in

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should be handled: alone in a room where I quickly had my picture taken, keys issued, and was introduced to the woman who would become my new best friend while a guest of The Jewel: Ruth the VIP Concierge. With a perfect combination of her Austrian friendliness and the precise professionalism that has made European hospitality worldrenowned, she began her mission by sending me for express boarding with Christopher, one of the personal butlers on board.

Food, Glorious Food

With ease, Christopher guided me past the long lines, through an express entrance onto the ship, and into the grand lobby. After a brief tour of the main areas, I was whisked up to Cagney’s Steakhouse for lunch in the private dining room. Having dreaded the thought of fighting off several hundred other guests for my place in line at the buffet, I was already enjoying the rich interior of Cagney’s and, most importantly, the savory lunch, first-class service and the peacefulness of being far away from the busier restaurants. Enjoying the serenity while getting caught up on business and meeting several NCL onboard staff members, I managed to stretch my lunch for almost two hours. Though a very mediocre salad and almost-still-frozen banana cream pie started and ended my lunch, the grilled swordfish and fries were fresh and fantastically prepared.

NCL was quickly winning me over when the server brought me a large French press filled with a delicious robust coffee to enjoy during

photography courtesy of norwegian cruise line

The reality was that the thought of being ‘stranded’ on a ship in the middle of nowhere – away from my work for a week with only the Alaskan cold temperatures – made me very hesitant, to say the least. With the help of a very trusted travel expert friend and several public relations acquaintances, I set out to discover the alternative Alaskan cruise – one that provides the luxurious amenities and services desired by so many travelers these days – while on board one of today’s mega-ships. With much reluctance, the journey began with a very early flight from the east coast, arriving in Seattle on a brisk Saturday morning in May.

desert. I discovered that this private dining room would be made available to only a small number of guests during breakfast and lunch each day, and was pleased to learn that I would be among them.

Leaving the serenity of Cagney’s, I was eager to explore the ship a bit more, and begin discovering all that The Jewel has to offer.

Sweet Suites

With a few hours behind me, it was time to finally see these accommodations I had heard so much about in the weeks leading up to the cruise. ‘The Haven’ provides a club level of services and amenities, with the suites situated around a peaceful courtyard.

A simple door somewhat hidden at the top of a single staircase beyond Cagney’s is the key to experiencing luxury at its finest when on a large ship of this caliber. With the key to this door, you are not just one of several thousand guests; you are a guest of ‘The Haven’. While the rest of the ship is also bright and modern, ‘The Haven’ has a richness all its own with the luxurious wood paneling and artwork complementing the impeccable staff and services available to you every minute of the day. The suites provide ample space, with sitting areas, large king beds as an option, and a bathroom complete with separate shower and tub. Everything on a cruise ship is usually somewhat miniaturized, but these accommodations are clean and spacious and provide butler and concierge service second to none. With a glass of wine and a cheese plate on my balcony, I enjoyed watching the Washington coastline slip away, with the peace of mind that Ruth had secured dinner reservations and my only concern was pulling myself away from the balcony to get ready for dinner.

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A Reluctant Convert

Needless to say, I was able to spend the week gaining a new appreciation of the many advantages of cruising. I am still someone that would like to spend a few days exploring a destination, which is generally not an option during cruises. However, in the case of these destinations (Ketchikan, Juneau, Skagway and Victoria Island), a few hours were more than enough time to explore, in my opinion.

Charming, with friendly locals and some interesting excursions, but unless you are a true connoisseur of Alaskan jewelry or salmon, a few hours might be all you need. The reality of cruising is that, for many people, it’s

much more about the services, amenities and activities available on board, with the ports of call being a brief respite from cruising. I particularly enjoyed the unhurried breakfasts and lunches at Cagney’s, along with a variety of dinner options, including a dinner with the executive chef at the chef ’s table. My goal of discovering the hidden luxuries on board The Jewel was a success, thanks to the flawless services of the concierge and the hotel manager, the variety of treatments and services at the spa, and most importantly, the secluded paradise of ‘The Haven’.

The Choices are Yours

Accommodations: Like all ships, The Jewel has a large variety of rooms available, including single suites and larger options such as ‘The Haven 3-Bedroom Garden Villa’, which can sleep up to eight people and features three separate bedrooms, a private courtyard, a dining room, living room and a private garden with hot tub spread over approximately 4,891 square feet. If The Haven is not available, there are also a number of other impressive suites throughout the ship to choose from, according to preference and need.

Dining: As the pièce de résistance of most cruise ships, many dining options are available at all hours of the day. I did walk through the buffet on several occasions and the food and drinks were indeed bountiful, with a large selection of fresh fruits and vegetables. Of the restaurants included with the cruise, I preferred Tsar’s Palace for dinner, simply because of the quality of food and service (and less children). The Blue Lagoon

was conveniently open all day and night, but it seemed to be a training ground for staff, so don’t expect the same level of food and service there. For additional fees, dinner options include Asian, Italian, French, steakhouse and others. For a more intimate experience with superb service, my favorite was Le Bistro. For guests able to dine at Cagney’s for lunch, I would highly recommend the NY strip with white truffle fries.

Spa: I always enjoy spas at hotels and resorts when traveling, so it seemed only natural to make a point of thoroughly experiencing The Jewel’s spa during the cruise. With a spa membership fee, you can have access to the locker room during the entire week. While I found many things about the spa services and amenities that could be improved, I would still recommend it if you want to have access to the steam rooms, saunas, hot tubs and lounge areas. One of my best discoveries by far was the thermal chair area, accessible in the co-ed portion of the spa and available to those with the weekly membership, or afterspa services. These chairs simply look like tiled chaise lounges, but as you melt into the perfectly contoured shape, you realize that the warmth from the chair is surrounding your body – leaving you totally at peace while you enjoy the fantastic views over the

bow of the boat. In general, I found all the spa treatments very therapeutic and the staff extremely accommodating. Specifically, I would have liked a little more attention to detail in the lounge areas, such as toiletries and a selection of beverages. Nonetheless, the spa provides a very quiet hideaway and, in my opinion, is well worth the expense. Tip: Take advantage of the days that the ship is at port, as you can indulge in multiple spa treatments at great discounts.

The Final Word

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options out there that provide extreme luxuries, smaller ships and more perks overall. However, cruise ships such as The Jewel do have luxury accommodations and amenities such as ‘The Haven’ that make cruising a bit more comfortable for the traveler looking for a unique luxury experience.

Having a hotel manager like Hugo and a concierge like Ruth make the entire experience a delight – no need to worry about making reservations, carrying a wallet or worrying about having enough activities and excursions to fill your time. Norwegian Cruise Lines successfully converted me, and I look forward to booking more cruises in the very near future.

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Whether you’re an expat living abroad or just visiting a faraway land, your iPhone and iPad will undoubtedly come in handy. From booking flights to converting currency, shoe shopping to engagement proposing, there truly is an app for everything these days. So take advantage of your technology and download these apps ASAP to ensure a luxurious travel experience.

All apps are available from the iTunes Store.

1. Google Translate

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So what if you can’t speak Thai (much less read the beautiful script) before heading to the gorgeous coast and outlying islands. Google Translate’s simple interface provides translations between nearly 60 languages. Plus, users can ‘favorite’ specific words or phrases, as well as use voice recognition to translate.

2. Google Maps This app that comes preloaded on all Apple mobile devices is simply a lifesaver. Using data or Wi-Fi, Google Maps is accessible and applicable around the world, offering suggested directions by means of automobiles, public transportation and even while on foot. And if you’re really lost, Google Maps will pinpoint your location with one touch.

3. XE Currency With more than 180 international currencies listed in this app, XE eases the challenge of converting monetary values on the fly. Not only does it allow users to convert currencies precisely up to eight decimals, but the app also updates exchange rates every 10 minutes.

4. Skype Just like Skype on your desktop or laptop, this communication app allows for easy video chats, voice calls and instant messages so that you can keep in touch with family and friends and brag about all the incredible places you’ve been. Skype can also be configured to function as a forwarding account to and from mobile devices.

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5. MO Hotels Mandarin Oriental With five-star hotels on five of seven continents (plus locations in Africa already in progress), the Mandarin Oriental has perfected the art of luxury living. Not only can resort-seekers take virtual tours of MO properties on this app, users can also book rooms with ease. And, to top it off, the hotel group offers exclusive cities guides for certain cities.

GLOBAL TRAVEL | travel mobile apps

Mobile Applications For Any Trip by hilary saunders

6. Virgin Atlantic As one of the premier airlines for luxury travelers, Virgin Atlantic offers an app that features the same sleek design as its neon-lit First Class bars and lounges at 35,000 feet. Search for flights, check in, play games and follow all of Virgin Atlantic’s flights on a snazzy global map, all without exiting the app.

7. Frommer’s Travel Tools Instead of schlepping heavy travel guides around the world, try using Frommer’s mobile apps. While this complimentary Travel Tools app offers friendly advice for packing, time changes and currency conversions, Frommer’s also has a number of country-specific apps (check out those for Spain, Great Britain, France and Japan, for example) that cost $14.99 each.

8. Tiffany & Co. Engagement Ring Finder Boyfriends beware: Whether you’re looking for ‘the rock for The One’ or just ‘jonesing’ for jewels, this internationally renowned jewelry store’s app serves as a mobile engagement ring finder. Browse shapes, settings, metals, designs and carats (up to 2.5), and book individualized diamond consultation appointments straight from the app.

9. Louboutin The iconic red-soled shoes company, Louboutin, has a mobile app that’s chic and sexy, just like their line of exclusive products. So whether you need a new pair of pumps for ambling along the ritziest of red carpets or just feel like browsing the collection, this app has it all. Don’t miss the frequently updated news section and store locator either.

10. Dolce & Gabbana Fashion Channel Clad in classy black and white, Dolce & Gabbana’s app seems to encapsulate the full experience of the fashion world. Just by exploring the app’s three tabs – Lifestyle, World, and Stories – users can watch entire D&G fashion shows, browse collections for men and women and search for stores internationally.

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global travel | fête de la véraison

A Weekend in Provence: La Fête de la Véraison à Châteauneuf-du-Pape by dounia fayad

Welcome to Châteauneuf-du-Pape and its Fête de la Véraison.

La véraison is the moment when the grapes in the vineyards begin to ripen and turn a rich, red color, announcing their approaching maturity and readiness to be picked for winemaking. The Fête de la Véraison is an annual celebration of the ripening, on the first weekend of August (3rd-5th), during which the city of Châteauneuf-du-Pape offers free winetasting amid medieval festivities and an open-air market.

Châteauneuf-du-Pape is a picturesque medieval town located in the heart of Provence in the south of France.

The Fête de la Véraison is the perfect opportunity to savor the wines of the region. Surrounded by vineyards, Châteauneuf-du-Pape retains much of its medieval charm, with cobblestone streets winding around the town’s stone buildings and cool wine cellars. Once the summer residence of the pope when the papacy was located in Avignon, the town has lost none of its prestige, and its annual wine festival remains extremely popular. The wines are renowned for the richness of their flavors, and the vineyards of Châteauneuf are unique 20 | Global Living | August/September 2012

with their soil covered in rocks of a pinkish hue. Throughout the duration of the festival – from Friday evening until Sunday evening –most of the wine cellars in town offer free wine-tastings.

A wonderful keepsake that is essential for the tastings is the festival’s wineglass, which is on sale at the town hall and at the different entrances to the town. The glasses are sold for 3.50 Euros ($4.30), and are engraved with the emblem of the festival. The festival also offers opportunities to speak directly with the owners of the wine cellars, allowing a fascinating peek into the world of winemaking and a chance to purchase the wines directly from the source. In between tastings, the free-flowing water from the fountain in the town center is perfect for rinsing your glass to keep the many flavors pure. Sometimes, one faucet of the water fountain even runs with wine. It is a wine festival after all, and Châteauneuf is proud of its vineyards, as they are among the best in the world.

Steeped in history, the town has more to offer than just wines, however. Should you desire a break from wine-tasting, the festival offers many options for distraction and entertainment. You can stroll through the outdoor market or pause to enjoy the medieval attractions on display throughout the town.

The open-air market lines the streets, stretching out into the squares and following the winding roads of Châteauneuf, offering up a wide variety

The atmosphere is highly jovial and the medieval festival brings you back to the heyday of Châteauneuf-du-Pape. of items. There are stands with artisanal jewelry, woodwork and clothing, but more importantly, there are many vendors providing typical Provencal wares. You can find artisanal soaps with special fragrances of the region and the famous ‘savon de Marseille’ (a traditional soap made around Marseille, France, for about 600 years), lavender-based products and a wide array of linens in Provencal colors and themes – bright and colorful, covered in patterns of lavender, crickets, olives and olive trees. There are also several ceramic items in the warm red and yellow colors of Provence, including crickets that actually chirp, much to the joy of the children and the dismay of their parents.

Should you wish to continue your feast once you leave Châteauneuf, or simply have a picnic in one of the squares for lunch or dinner, there are also many vendors who sell local gastronomy products. You’ll find local breads in all shapes and sizes, along with local cheeses and charcuterie (specialty meat products) of all types (make sure to try the ‘saucisson’!). There are also regional herbs and honeys, which are truly a delight for the palate. Should you wish, however, to sit down for a meal, the lovely restaurants and cafés of the town await your

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olden sunshine, a clear blue sky, the sound of crickets chirping and the scent of lavender floating in the air… A weekend to indulge in delicate wines, medieval joviality and a marché de Provence.

if you go: Festival: www.chateauneufdupape.org (Click top right corner where it says ‘Véraison’ for the festival details.)

Accommodation: www.chateaufinesroches.com

Gastronomy: www.vergerdespapes.com

Travel: TGV train to Avignon (direct trains from Charles de Gaulle airport in Paris), or flight to Marseille airport.

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company. If you are in a more adventurous mood, there are always the stands selling medieval cooked meals, prepared and eaten as they were in medieval times.

A medieval meal is not the only special aspect of these celebrations. There are many events and sights that will delight children and adults alike. Minstrels stroll through the streets, stopping for impromptu concerts … their lively music floating up throughout the town. Jesters infiltrate among the crowds and play the fools, mocking the gentlemen and trying to win lighthearted kisses from the ladies. Beautifully garbed noblemen and women daintily sip their wine as they watch ‘the commonplace people’ walk by.

These marvelous sights occur throughout the town, but even more spectacular events take place within the medieval campground, which is situated at one end of the town. Here, knights will joust to win a fair lady’s heart or simply to entertain their noble guests. There will be falconry shows and games for the children as well.

One evening during the festival there is a medieval banquet, complete with a grand feast, a ball and magnificent shows.

This particular evening is the only event that is not free, but it is nonetheless a worthwhile night of medieval memories.

These celebrations and festivities continue

throughout the weekend, to culminate in a spectacular final show and torchlight parade on Sunday night, which is open to all, free of charge.

The entire region of Provence is a beautiful one, with a rich history and even richer wines.

Should you wish to be ‘dressed the pvart’ to stroll through the medieval village, the vendors sell many medieval costumes, in all sizes. If you have the heart of a lion and being a knight is your calling, you’ll have many choices of armor as well as swords and shields. If you are looking to be a nobleman or woman, there are beautiful garments available in a variety of colors.

There is an abundant selection of costumes for children too, so there will always be something to satisfy every customer.

There is much to be said about this festival, but words do not necessarily do it justice.

The atmosphere is highly jovial and the medieval festival brings you back to the heyday of Châteauneuf-du-Pape. Carts will bounce through town, carrying barrels of wine and buckets of grapes. Everyone will find something to his or her liking, and it truly makes for a lovely day or weekend outing. If you’re lucky, you may

even see the pope ride by on his chariot, or even sit down in his chair to greet his subjects.

Should you wish to indulge while enjoying your time in Provence and stay in a truly luxurious setting very near Châteauneuf, then the Château des Fines Roches is an excellent option. This château, turned into a hotel and set deep inside a vineyard, offers a terrace with a stunning view, a pool and a haute-cuisine restaurant, which makes it an ideal choice for a relaxing and lavish accommodation.

For a truly delectable gastronomic experience, complete with wines from Châteauneuf-du-Pape, try Le Verger des Papes. This restaurant is also located among the vineyards, at the top of a winding road with breathtaking views of the valley, near the ruins of what was once the pope’s summer residence.

Indeed, the entire region of Provence is a beautiful one, with a rich history and even richer wines. Châteauneuf-du-Pape and the Fête de la Véraison fully embody this heritage. There’s something for everyone, and you’re sure to bring back a little of Provence to your corner of the world.

Bon voyage et bonne dégustation!

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global travel | traveling with children

Trouble-free Travel with children by aisha isabel ashraf

Many people view the prospect of traveling with children in the same way as they would a root canal. But with a little thought and planning, a harmonious family trip needn’t be the stuff of fantasy.

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ids thrive on adventure and are surprisingly resilient. Their enjoyment of a travel experience will add to yours and leave you both with lasting memories and a deeper bond.

As with most things, preparedness is the key to trouble-free travel with children. Follow these tips to smooth the journey and keep stress to a minimum: 1. Book ahead – Finding accommodation when you arrive at a destination can be challenging with tired, cranky kids in tow; make life easier and pre-book, even if it’s just for the first few nights. You can always find something more to your liking in a relaxed manner later.

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2. Visas – If you’re traveling somewhere that necessitates visas, the chances are this applies to your children too, and they’ll probably cost the same as yours. Visas often require that the applicant collect them in person, so apply in writing to avoid two trips to the embassy. If you’re using existing visas, remember to check expiry dates.

3. Documentation – Some countries require extra documentation when traveling with children. If a single parent is traveling to these locations, proof of consent from the other parent may be required, irrespective of marital status. If your child is adopted, it will be necessary to bring their adoption papers. The standard paperwork required to authorize your child to travel is the child’s birth certificate, your marriage certificate, and a signed, witnessed consent letter from the other parent. If they are no longer alive, you may need documentary proof.

4. Send bulky items on ahead – Baggage delivery companies can transport surplus suitcases and awkward items like strollers ahead, to await your arrival at your destination. Prices start from around $80 for delivery between European countries or around $150 from

the U.S. to the U.K., for example. Bear in mind, you often get a better deal the farther in advance you send it. Luggage under five pounds usually qualifies for cheaper rates too. Website SeatGuru (www.seatguru.com) offers additional information on this as well as a comparison chart of companies.

5. If you intend to fly, remember to check the latest restrictions on hand luggage before traveling. Restrictions on liquids, gels and creams mean that children’s drinks, baby food, and even diaper cream are subject to regulation. Check the allowed amount and decant into smaller containers if necessary. For babies, bring milk powder that can be mixed with hot water during the flight. Once through security you’re free to stock up on bottled drinks.

6. If you’re traveling with a newly mobile baby or toddler, remember to perform the same hazard checks in your holiday accommodation as you would at home. Sharp corners may require you to re-arrange the furniture in a hotel or apartment. Look out for pull cords, or anything that a child could become entangled in.

Always check the temperature of the water; it’s often scalding, so be sure to warn older children. Ensure that children are supervised on balconies at all times, keep the door locked when not in use, and make certain that windows are closed, particularly if on upper levels.

7. Adjust the pace – Don’t expect to be able to accomplish the same amount you would if you were traveling without children.

Things will be slower than usual, but the experience will be richer.

If you plan for this beforehand, you’re less likely to be frustrated by an itinerary that defies completion. Focus on one or two things, depending on age and resilience, and don’t forget to factor in chillout time – parks and video games hold the same appeal abroad as they do at home! GL

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Architect

John Henshaw

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Purposeful Aesthetics Balancing Form & Function

global real estate | john henshaw architect inc.

Creating Soulful Global Real Estate For global citizens and world travelers, finding a ‘home away from home’ is not just about fitting in and adapting to a new culture. It’s also about feeling comfortable, content and secure inside your new house. With the help of talented designers and architects around the world, setting down roots with global real estate is a great way to make your new house a home.

Located in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, John Henshaw Architect Inc. was founded in 1989 by John Henshaw. Determined to approach each design project with the delicate balance between form and function in mind, Henshaw runs his company based on one idea: each project should have its own soul.

By adhering an acute sensitivity to every detail and considering the personality, desires and lifestyle of the client, Henshaw knows that every element in a room must meet both purposeful and aesthetic requirements.

Posing a unique challenge, that winning combination is what thrills Henshaw and has led his firm to receive a number of awards for their work.

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Using designs developed to blend western influences with Asian design principals for unique and inspiring living experiences, Henshaw works personally with clients to ensure that each individual project speaks true to his or her vision.

John Henshaw Architect Inc.’s team consists of two interior designers, an architectural technologist and a social media/marketing specialist to ensure all aspects of a project are taken into consideration. Though based in Vancouver, the firm also does projects in Asia.

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6391 Elm Street Location: Kerrisdale, Vancouver, BC Price: $6.8 million

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photography by janis nicolay

Located in Shaughnessy, an affluent residential neighborhood of Vancouver, this house embodies local style and luxury.

The hotel-inspired interior is built to Vancouver’s Green Homes program standards, with high-performance windows and a rain screen building envelope to maintain the indoor environment and facilitate climate control, solar pre-piping, heat recovery ventilation and a high-efficiency gas boiler for in-floor hydronic heating comfort and energy efficiency.

3921 West 12th Price: $5.2 million Location: Point Grey, Vancouver, BC

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This 10-year-old pink-stucco house, known as the ‘Pink Palace’, was transformed into a contemporary home inside and out. Featuring ocean and mountain views, the owners decided to do a major overhaul and have the house redone with white, glass and steel walls, dark walnut floors and granite tones.

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North American Premiere Wine (NAPW) shop, the new Shanghai flagship store, was created to bridge the gap between a wine shop and a wine bar: allowing patrons to lounge, drink and snack, and come in for wine-tastings seminars. The client challenged the designers to express the sophistication of modern Shanghai for the interior. Created as a place of contemplation, the store is a retreat from the fast paced lifestyle that surrounds it.

The color tones follow the local traditional building materials: grey brick, charcoal stone pavers, black metal, slatted shades, blond wood and white plaster. A private wine-tasting room can be found behind a secret door concealed in the wine rack behind the bar.

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North American Premiere Wine Shop Project Cost: $300,000 Location: Shanghai, China

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Robert Marc and Rachel Heller

Event guests mingle at Robert Marc store

Robert Marc and Katie Couric

Rachel Yurchak and Casey Sharbaugh of The Accessories Council

Robert Marc Store Opening at 1225 Madison Ave. & 88th St. New York City On June 27, Robert Marc hosted an opening party to celebrate his new eyewear boutique at 1225 Madison Avenue and 88th Street in New York City. Guests enjoyed cocktails as they mingled with industry insiders, celebrities and designer Robert Marc.

The 600-square-foot boutique features a white Carrera tile floor, soft grey leather upholstered furnishings, custom glass shelving and private viewing desks that align Robert Marc’s eyewear as the focal point of the boutique.

Guests at the event included journalist and author Katie Couric, vbeautĂŠ founder Julie Lerner Macklowe, editor and actress Rachel Heller, Steven Kolb of the Council of Fashion Designers of America, accessory and style expert Pamela Pekerman, clothing designer Katie Ermilio, and more.

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Julie Lerner Macklowe and Rachel Heller

Robert Marc and Steven Kolb of Council of Fashion Designers of America (CFDA)

Nikko Siragusa and Davey Napoli

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Katie Couric and Robert Marc

Coco Blaisdell of Cocotay Design and Robert Marc

Rachel Heller

Kristi Garced

Gunnar Spaulding, Katie Ermilio and Robert Marc

Robert Marc, Grace Givens, Gunnar Spaulding and Steven Kolb

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Robert Marc and Pamela Pekerman

Julie Lerner Macklowe

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New Robert Marc store

GLOBAL EVENTS | maiden voyage.com

Guests arriving at event

Jo Barratt, Rachel Tozer, Lisa-Marie Bowman and Katie-Ann Lamb

Rachel Tozer, Lisa-Marie Bowman, Katie-Ann Lamb and Jo Barratt

Tessa Shreeve, Andy Hewitt , Carolyn Pearson and Simon Dugan

Independent Woman Party at Met Bar london

Over 150 ladies enjoyed cocktails and canapés at the Independent Woman Party at London's iconic Met Bar to celebrate the partnership between Maiden-Voyage.com, a professional women’s business travel network, and their new corporate travel partner Ian Allan Travel.

The glitzy event was supported by headline sponsors Champagne For Life, Key-2 Luxury and Stoli Vodka. The jet-setting women left with stylish prizes from Maserati, The Metropolitan Hotel, Reiss, Nicky Clarke, Design Restaurants, Eurostar, and the Thanos Almyra Hotel and Spa. Lisa-Marie Bowman, Katie-Ann Lamb, Rachel Tozer and Jo Barratt

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Katie-Ann Lamb, Lisa-Marie Bowman, Rachel Tozer and Jo Barratt

Alex Jakovska wins star prize, the £5000 Key-2 Luxury

Rachel Tozer and Carolyn Pearson

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Linda Sharkey and Carolyn Pearson

Simon Dugan, Charlotte, and Robyn Cabarrao

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Carolyn Pearson

Linda Sharkey

Amanda Litzow, Ana Silva O’Reilly and Lynsey Devon

Carolyn Pearson

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Gerard Leeuwenburgh

Rachel Tozer, Lisa-Marie Bowman and Katie-Ann Lamb

Guests with goody bags

Maiden-Voyage.com was designed to make business travel safe and social for women, allowing them to connect for dinner, coffee, cocktails and networking while away from home on business.

The site recommends female-friendly hotels, provides travel safety tips, and partners with a number of travel, fashion and beauty brands to provide everything a female business traveler would need, including specially negotiated discounts, offers and competitions.

Maiden-Voyage.com has a global membership of both individuals and corporates such as DLA-Piper, a number of universities and Farnell electronics in Europe, the USA, Latin America, the Middle East, the Far East, many African countries, Australia and New Zealand.

Visit www.Maiden-Voyage.com for more information.

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Tessa Shreeve, Maria Ingold, Andrea Hewitt and Carolyn Pearson

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Carolyn Pearson

Write about your life abroad

GLOBAL LIVING | expatriate lifestyle

by jo parfitt

Expat, author, publisher and writers’ mentor, Jo Parfitt, tells how

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Or does that seem just a bit too scary? Luckily, there is a way to dip your toe into the water and see if your life really is interesting to other people: the blog.

try blogging If a book is going to 'have legs' then you can test out your theme and your writing ability by starting a blog. Blog entries are generally 400 words or so, and most bloggers know that posting three times a week is about right. You can hone your craft right there online, seeing what generates the most comments. Try out your writing style, your content and your voice via a blog.

Danie Barkhouse, who wrote The Expat Arc, began her book when living in Chennai, India, and when she discovered how many people loved her blog she turned the posts, exactly as they were, into what is sometimes called a 'blook'.

the bottom line

The bottom line is that whether they live abroad or not, people are interested in other people. They love to find out about people with whom they can empathize or through whom they can live vicariously. If you have expatriated, other people will find your experiences fascinating. If you have ever thought of writing a book based on your experience overseas, then maybe now is the time to start.

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By moving to another country you are able to compare and contrast the places you know well. You begin to see things more clearly, to notice more, and things to write about start to jump out at you. It is those memorable experiences, those defining moments – the high points and the low – through which your story will emerge.

four must-haves While a blog is a series of short personal essays, a fulllength memoir must have the following: • A solid theme (If you write a series of seemingly 'random' stories then they must be linked by a 'red thread'.)

• A plot (The reader must be compelled to read your story and want to find out what happens next.)

• A cast of characters (You need to have at least a few strong characters in your memoir, who appear repeatedly throughout your book.)

• Think fiction (If you can write your memoir like a novel, then you are on the right track.)

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"One of the great things about writing a book these days is that you can do everything involved with its creation and distribution without leaving your desk."

any people decide to live abroad and, of those, many also harbor dreams of writing a book about their experiences. The genre is so popular that many are being turned into films too, such as Elizabeth Gilbert's Eat, Pray, Love, Esther Freud's Monsoon Wedding, and even Alan Paul's Big in China.

I call this genre ‘expat memoir’ and I wish Amazon would catch on. If you key in those two words in the Amazon search box it displays just 61 books.

Conversely, if you key ‘expat memoir’ into Google, you’ll get over a million results. So, while we expat writers bemoan the fact that Amazon still has a long way to go in this regard, there is indeed a market for this kind of book. And, if, like me, you live and work abroad, then perhaps you have also considered writing your memoir someday.

where to start One of the great things about writing a book these days is that you can do everything involved with its creation and distribution without leaving your desk. You can take classes online, work with a writing coach or mentor, and liaise with editors and designers and even printers from the warmth of your own home. I personally run a business helping expats to write books and articles, and I have clients based all over the world, from Brisbane to Bangkok and Brooklyn. There is no doubt that the Internet can provide access to everything you need. And, once you have written your book, you have the potential to make money through online sales, even while you are asleep.

first five steps If you want to write a memoir, then your first five steps should be: 1. Read a lot of other books like the one you hope to write and see what works for you too. Inspire yourself.

2. Take a life story writing class and/or read some books on the subject. Learn your craft.

bitten by spain, expat life slice by slice, letters never sent book cover art courtesy of by summertime publishing; don't tell mum i work on the rigs book cover art courtesy of nicholas brealey publishing; lunch in paris book cover art courtesy of summersdale publishers ltd.

3. Get support. Find some people who care about your success and who will read your work for you and give constructive feedback.

4. Write an outline, table of contents or plot so that you have a 'road map'.

5. Write one chapter and then get feedback before you write any more.

four ways to write your expat memoir Not all memoirs start at the beginning of the author's life and then share 'what happened next' throughout his or her life. There are other ways to do it.

For example: Expat Life – Slice by Slice, by Apple Gidley, is written as a series of essays on a series of strong themes that have played out throughout the author's life in 12 countries. The essays are vaguely chronological and are designed to inspire and entertain others who live or have lived abroad.

C'est La Folie and Je T'Aime à La Folie, both by Michael Wright, cover the author's move to France from London – taking along his airplane for company, acquiring a flock of miniature sheep and pursuing a ‘suitable’ wife. Wright introduces the reader to the local characters he meets and shares his integration into the community.

Black and Abroad, by Carolyn Vines, begins when African-American Carolyn is asked to move to the Netherlands by her Dutch boyfriend. Her book shows her assimilation into Dutch culture and her exploration of her identity as a black woman, a mother and a professional overseas.

Tales from the Expat Harem, by Anastasia Ashman and Jennifer Gökmen, is an anthology of superb first-person writings from expatriates who live in Turkey.

For more information on Jo Parfitt or Summertime Publishing, visit: www.joparfitt.com. GL

See reviews of these great expat memoirs on page 58.

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The Patriot in The expatriate by apple gidley

As a member of the Anglo-Australian-American club, I have the best of all three worlds. I try very hard to be honest in my patriotism of all three, but I know I lean towards certain countries for certain events – I support England in rugby, Australia in cricket and America on the baseball diamond. I am a monarchist in Britain, a republican in Australia and a Democrat in America. I feel privileged to be able to lead this tricolor life made easier by the relevant flags all being red, white and blue.

And yet, I have spent most of my life as an expatriate.

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o ‘expatriate’, as defined by the Shorter OED, is ‘to banish a person from his native land, or to withdraw and renounce one’s allegiance’. Collins is not so harsh, merely describing an expatriate as someone living outside his or her native country, and Webster covers all bases by offering all three definitions.

I have neither been banished nor have withdrawn my allegiance, but having lived in 12 different countries for varying numbers of years, I have left slivers of my heart in each. I have also taken elements of those different cultures and incorporated them into my own, which perhaps is why the Spanish American philosopher, George Santayana’s words resonate, “A man’s feet must be planted in his country, but his eyes should survey the world.” I despair when a country in which I have been semi-planted is embroiled in conflict, and I rile against my three ‘home’ cultures when politics interferes with common sense.

True global nomads – the original expatriates – followed the seasons, animals and crops rather than commodities, education and freedom, both religious and political.

Yet whatever the reason for expatriation, the feelings of bewilderment and isolation often felt when first in a new country and culture not one’s own, must be the same now as they were in the dim past: that stab of panic that a decision made in the comfort and safety of the familiar was perhaps merely a crazy rush of endorphins brought on by the promise of better prospects. Whatever the lure, with technology and the advent of the Internet, staying connected to a passport country has in many ways lessened the extremes of expatriation. Gone are the long waits for the mail boats bearing news – not just personal but political.

Some expatriates, upon landing in a foreign land, embrace the excitement of the exotic, reveling in the strange sights and sounds that are humdrum to the people surrounding them. Others fall into a pattern of regret, ruing the day they waved goodbye to all they knew. Most, however, settle on the median: dipping a toe into the new while retaining much of their home culture.

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"Does the fantasy of expatriation, once it becomes mundane, encourage a romanticized version of ‘home’? Would those expatriates, the ones who always seem to be happier in the previous posting than where they currently are – really be better off going ‘home’?"

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It’s a strange quirk of expatriation that a place, whether home or a previous posting, once left often becomes more alluring.

The need to belong, to stay true to the culture exposed to in early life when straddling two cultures in later life, is strong.

No olivides, tus raíces are words incorporated in a tile mural in a largely Latino area of Houston, begging the passerby not to forget his roots. Thoughts of home, though, can become romanticized with distance – both in miles and years – and cultural traditions tend to take on a greater importance when in a foreign culture.

And does it matter? Maybe that is why some of the most elaborate events often sponsored by embassies and airlines are those relating to home. Secular or saints’ days mired in rituals, for example, or classic sporting events once barely acknowledged become pivotal to a sense of belonging when that belonging is no longer so readily apparent. These events are invariably well-attended by the phalanx of expatriates from the corresponding country.

Scene one: Kilts are donned at the whiff of a whisky bottle and the swirl of a bagpipe, giving those maybe not familiar with Scottish customs a glimpse of flashing skean dhus and whirling tartans amongst the crisp white tablecloths, glinting crystal, polished silverware and imported heather – all in the name of St. Andrew.

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Scene two: The bunting comes out in Lahore or Singapore, or anywhere in the world, when even the most ardent antimonarchist becomes embroiled in the latest British royal event, whether a wedding or a jubilee. We can’t help ourselves. A monarchist at heart, I’ve also enjoyed Koninginnedag (Queen’s Day) in The Netherlands, as well as holidays in Thailand that celebrated the Chakri Dynasty.

Scene three: To Australians, who are on the whole a laconic race comfortable with the ‘slip, slop, slap’ way of living (slip on a shirt, slop on the sunscreen and slap on a hat), mention of the Melbourne Cup brings on a frenzy of fascinators – headpieces brimming with feathers and flowers. The Grand National in Britain, or the Kentucky Derby in America are races known to

anyone with a passing equine interest, but to Australians the Melbourne Cup is a truly national event, marketed as ‘the race that stops a nation’. And it does. But more than that it stops expatriate Australians all over the world.

Scene four: It’s not just the English-speaking people that come over all patriotic. Picture the elaborate scene-making to reproduce a German bier keller in Bangkok in time for Oktoberfest, complete with trestle tables, lederhosen and dirndls! Or Chinese New Year in San Francisco. Carnival, while ‘technically’ a religious celebration, has taken on a life of its own in many countries around the world not traditionally Catholic. Nottinghill in London, for example, becomes the site of many a swaying hip swathed in miniscule strips of chiffon, with light ricocheting off sequins glinting in either the sun or street lights.

Such high days and holidays have become celebrated landmarks of expatriate life all over the world – events looked forward to on every expat’s calendar, whether Asian, Middle Eastern or Western; and, as long as the host country’s sensitivities are catered to, it’s all part of the fun.

But does the fantasy of expatriation, once it becomes mundane, encourage a romanticized version of ‘home’?

Would those expatriates, the ones who always seem to be happier in the previous posting than where they currently are – whether Ouagadougou or Oslo, really be better off going ‘home’? And is that why many expatriates go through agonies of repatriation when the reality of home does not live up to expectations?

With the decision to expatriate, whether short or long term, comes a commitment to go with an open mind – to leave the baggage behind without forgetting our own traditions, while incorporating some of the new culture.

Maybe that’s why I enjoy being a member of the AngloAustralian-American club; it’s fun being a patriotic expatriate of 12 countries, with a cabinet full of customs. GL

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ThirdCultureKids: Stages Of University Transition editorial by tina quick photography by ajda berryman

According to the March 2008 issue of Inside Flyer, a magazine dedicated solely to frequent flyers, “It's not unusual these days for children to get a frequent flyer card before they get their social security card.” Many children with globally mobile lifestyles will tell you they flew before they could walk.

Thanks to the nature of my husband’s work, my own children were familiar with the flight attendant’s safety speech before they were even born.

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The United Nations estimates that 200 million people were living outside their home country in 2010. No one knows for sure what the actual number is of children being raised abroad today, however, one thing is for certain – it is an exponential number. Thanks to the work of David Pollock, Ruth Van Reken, Norma McCaig and Ruth Useem, there are well-known terms for children who spend a significant part of their developmental years in cultures other than that of their parents.

These expatriate children are commonly referred to as ‘Third Culture Kids’ (TCKs) or ‘global nomads’ – children who amass unique skills and gifts from their cross-cultural and highly mobile lifestyles.

Transition Cycle

Besides the obvious gifts of learning new languages, developing social and cultural skills and becoming adaptable, TCKs gain the innate ability to get along with others of differing backgrounds. They understand that friendship and respect have nothing to do with nationality or skin color. They have developed a broad world view. They understand that there are many different ways of doing things and not just one ‘right’ way. That’s why they often make successful bridge builders, negotiators and mediators.

Possibilities for bright futures abound for a Third Culture Kid.

Leaving Stage: This stage begins the moment she is aware of an upcoming change. For the college-bound TCK this could be from the time she starts making college visits to application time or the decision time. There is a separating and distancing from roles, responsibilities and relationships. There are mixed emotions – celebrations mixed with farewells.

Let’s take a closer look at the second scenario.

For many global nomads, change and transition is a normal part of life; however, the move to university is often the first major move without a full support system – the family. TCKs have the double adjustment of not only transitioning to a new life stage as an independent adult but to a new culture as well. Even if they are returning to their home culture, they may not know it as well as they thought. This can come as quite a shock.

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Involvement Stage: This is life as the TCK knows it. She is involved in the community, has friends, roles, responsibilities, and feels comfortable and affirmed.

who have been prepared for the college/ university transition have a much smoother adjustment. There are four main insights every TCK needs to understand to light the path and keep him or her from stumbling while on this journey:

TCK Identity Development

Dr. Barbara Schaetti’s work on TCK identity development clearly explains what happens to many global nomads when leaving their host country and the expatriate culture. Because they carry passports with their nationality stamped on the front and they have been back ‘home’ for long visits over the school holidays, they expect to fit right in. But what often happens is that they feel like a fish out of water – alienated, isolated and depressed.

Dr. Schaetti calls this the ‘encounter stage’– when the TCK has an experience that wakes him up to the fact that he is different from others. Typically, he doesn’t take into account that it is his international experiences that make him different. All he knows is that he doesn’t fit in and doesn’t belong. If he explores why he feels so different and comes to the realization that his life experiences have been very different from most of the people he is surrounded by on his college campus, he will then move into the ‘integration stage’ and can learn to be comfortable with who he is.*

Transition Stage: This stage starts the moment TCKs arrive in their new environs. This stage is characterized by utter chaos. Everything is new and different. Culture shock or reverse culture shock takes place in this stage. At first everything is fun and exciting, but eventually things begin to grate on their nerves. They begin to resist adjustment. They may feel like they made the wrong choice of school and begin to think of transferring.

Entering Stage: This stage begins the moment the TCK either consciously or unconsciously decides she is going to settle in and become a part of this new place. Feelings of selfdoubt, anxiety, and ambiguity may still be hanging on from the transition stage, but she is committed to sticking it out and making it work.

Re-involvement: This is when the TCK realizes, usually after a long school break, that this new place feels more like home.

She once again has relationships, roles and responsibilities. She knows more than the newcomer and feels affirmed once again.

Unresolved Grief

The high-mobility lifestyle of a global nomad means there is a lot of separation and loss.

David Pollock and Ruth Van Reken say in their book, Third Culture Kids: Growing up

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As with anything, there is also a flip side to moving across cultures during those critical developmental years. TCKs face common challenges once they step out of the ‘third culture’ or the ‘expatriate culture’ where they enjoyed a sense of belonging with others of shared living experience. This commonly occurs either when the family decides to repatriate or upon the global nomad’s graduation from secondary school, when he or she returns to the home country or transitions to another host country for the college/university experience.

Anyone going through any type of major life transition goes through five very predictable stages. Understanding what takes place in each of these stages not only prepares us but helps us to appreciate that it is normal and temporary. Every first-year college student is going to go through these same five stages, but global nomads and foreign students have the cultural adjustment to make as well – even if it involves a return to the home base.

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"Global nomads also build their relationships differently from someone who grows up in one place all his life. ... The TCK typically does not have time to watch and wait to see if a relationship will develop."

When we lose people, things and places that are important to us we need to grieve over them. For multiple reasons, TCKs often do not have the opportunity to grieve their losses, many of which are invisible. Instead, grief is unresolved, swept under the carpet to deal with later, but never is until it creeps back later in life in the form of dysfunctional expressions of grief, such as anger, depression or rebellion.

Allowing grief to run its course is considered ‘good grief ’. When TCKs can put a name on their loss, spend time with it, and mourn over it, they can come to closure and move forward. Parents can help the grieving process by helping their children name their losses, especially the ‘hidden’ losses, i.e. the taste of certain foods, sounds, smells, status, lifestyle and more.

Homesickness in the university student is grief. Every first-year student is going to experience some degree of homesickness, but for the global nomad, it can be profound. It can also be lonely, particularly if his or her family is an ocean away or lives in a time zone that makes it virtually impossible to talk except on the weekends. If the family has decided to repatriate or transition to another host country at the same time that the TCK leaves for school, then he or she has lost everything all at once. The TCK needs to know it’s alright to give in to homesickness – to find an opportune time to crawl under the covers, put on his favorite music, pull out his yearbook and just spend time with the grief.

Relationships

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starters, TCKs need to remind themselves that they are different from their domestic peers – not they as human beings, of course, but their life experiences are very different from someone who grew up in a stable, traditional, non-mobile community.

Global nomads also build their relationships differently from someone who grows up in one place all his life. Domestic peers typically have time to watch and wait to see if a relationship will develop. They tend to spend a good deal of time in the safe but superficial levels of conversation to see if they can trust the other person to share something deeper and more intimate.

The TCK, on the other hand, typically does not have time to watch and wait to see if a relationship will develop. So he will immediately throw something out on a much deeper level to see if the other person will equally – and readily – share something back.

If there is a connection, a relationship is sparked.

When the global nomad tries making relationships this way in a more traditional setting, it can come off as inappropriate and the sharing of too much information.

Hence the alienation and distancing from others begins. TCKs need to understand that most relationships take time and need to be cultivated slowly.

Not every TCK, however, is going to have a difficult time making the adjustment to college/university. In fact, because they are used to change they often tend to fare better than many of their domestic peers. But for those who are not prepared, it can be difficult to recover from the unexpected challenges.

Advance preparation can significantly ease the adjustment process and allow these wonderfully gifted students to use their international experiences to make the most of the college years and beyond. GL

*Further discussion of TCK identity development can be found in Raising Global Nomads, by Robin Pascoe.

To view a preview of Tina Quick's book, The Global Nomad's Guide to University Transition, visit: www.the-global-nomads-guide-to-universitytransition.bookpreview.info For more on Tina Quick, visit: www.internationalfamilytransitions.com

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among worlds, “For most TCKs the collection of significant losses and separations before the end of adolescence is often more than most people experience in a lifetime.”

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growing up global: Helping Expat Children Thrive

Moving from country to country as an expatriate can be quite stressful for adults, so there is no question that children who are grappling with the changes occurring within themselves – in addition to those around them – can also struggle with a move abroad. Providing your child with the necessary tools to thrive in an expat lifestyle can significantly increase his or her interpersonal skills and therefore make that transition more bearable and rewarding, for the entire family.

To address this issue head on, author Julia Simens has created an engaging, conversational tool with her sensible, straightforward workbook based on the experiences of expat families she has encountered and worked with. While navigating eight international relocations, Simens worked with more than 8,000 families on five continents through her roles as a speaker, educator, author and consultant. By understanding and identifying the emotional similarities between expat children around the world, Simens has helped countless young children thrive in their expat lives.

a comprehensive step-by-step guide designed to increase a child's emotional vocabulary and emotional intelligence.

According to Simens, in order to promote the psychological health of your expat child in today’s global world, it is critical to ensure that you are well equipped to help your child reach his or her full potential. In her comprehensive workbook, Emotional Resilience and the Expat Child, Simens provides a step-by-step guide to increasing a child’s emotional vocabulary and emotional intelligence. Designed to be used together – parent with child – as a way of connecting families and sharing ‘emotion stories’, this book focuses on strengthening the bond between adult and child.

“Through socialization children learn an emotional vocabulary that enables them to name internal sensations associated with objects, events and relations that they encounter. Children learn how to express what they feel about the environment they are in and the people they are around.”

By developing a mutual respect for one another, children and adults who use this workbook will acquire a strong sense of personal narrative and, as a result, children will find their own voice. By giving children the tools they need to understand and express emotions, parents can provide the opportunity for reflection on how behavior, emotions and social interactions are intertwined. As Simens explains, being resilient as an expat means you have learned how to withstand or recover quickly from difficult conditions and, as a child, that resilience can be learned by consciously working on emotions and understanding them.

With in-depth chapters covering topics such as attaching to parents, the importance of emotions to your child, developing a family plan, and dealing with hard emotions with your child, Emotional Resilience and the Expat Child breaks down the skill of understanding feelings into easily digestible and practical steps that any parent can use. Covering all the relevant issues of being an expat child, Simens’ book offers a rare inside look at the wide range of emotional experiences many families have as they navigate around the world, and why resilience is key.

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According to Simens, “When expats move around so much, the parents become the main role models, so the messages we send our children are paramount.” She recommends asking oneself what message you may be sending to your child in certain situations: Is it ok to ask for help? Is it ok to be overwhelmed? Simens recommends being honest about your own feelings and not masking them so that the family seems ‘okay’.

Excerpt from Emotional Resilience and the Expat Child MOMMY, ARE YOU LISTENING?

“Grant, help me; what other word can you use?” I urgently ask again.

We move to Jakarta, Indonesia when Grant is six months old. We move into a home that is far too big for a family of four and a dog. We quickly acquire two cats and a host of workers that came with the house. We have 24-hour security so this results in four full-time guards; these four men rotate shifts so someone is always in the front of our house and garage area. We have two full-time live-in maids who are nannies/cleaners/cooks. We also have a gardener and a pool man that show up on some unknown schedule. Our two children have a lot of outside influence in their lives. They are surrounded in a language-rich environment of Bahasa Indonesia. Grant is now three years old and Jackie is six years old.

“Jahat.” This is his second choice of words to help explain the problem.

The three of us look at Grant and then look back at each other. ‘Jahat’ is a term we know because we see it often in the newspaper. It is used to explain the corruption of political opponents in the country. Most parents hate to admit that their three-year-old has them stumped.

It is even harder to have to go to the nannies’ door and knock after they have the evening off to ask for help with your three-year-old. We have a 10-minute discussion on if we should go get our staff. Then we have a five-minute discussion on who will go ask for their help. We deem that Jackie will be the perfect one to explain our 'confused’ issue to the staff and ask for help.

I am too embarrassed to go. Down the stairs, Jackie trots to get a staff member to help us. My husband and I with Jackie, two maids, and one security guard gather around Grant’s bed.

It is the second night in a row that I have to stay late at school for parent-teacher conferences.

When I get home the house is clean, dinner is made, and the kids are ready for bed. I am tired but content and happy that things are as good as this.

“Grant, it is time to go to bed, get a book and let’s go,” I say after giving both kids a big hug.

The mystery word is reviled. Armpit!

“Mom, Jackie is staying up later?” Grant questions with an unfair ring in his voice.

“Yes, but it is your story time so let’s go.”

“Ketiak,” he quickly replies.

Now that Grant is three we have a wellestablished bedtime. It starts with Grant getting a book of his choice, a short snuggle, and then lights off. Then Jackie gets a book of her choice, a short snuggle, and lights off. Then I get my own time. This usually takes 15 minutes per child so I look forward to my own time after a long hard day at work. As I tuck Grant into his bed, he starts to squirm and pulls at his tee shirt. I continue to read his story but his pulling becomes more and more intense.

“Ketiak?”

“Grant, what is going on?” I question.

“Ketiak.” More pulling on his tee shirt results in his face becoming more and more upset.

I run a smooth hand across his chest and give several more hugs. But he just keeps repeating this word. I call Jackie to come into the bedroom to see if she can translate this Bahasa Indonesian word for me. She cannot. I call my husband in to be my translator; he does not know ‘ketiak’.

Now the easy 15 minutes has grown into over 30 minutes.

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Yes my son has an itch in his armpit. This ‘need’ takes six people and over an hour to understand.

It is then quickly dealt with. A quick dab of antiseptic lotion and Grant is in bed and ready to go to sleep. I have only one more story and snuggle to go before my evening is my own time.

It is 75 minutes later than normal.

This is a good example of parents not listening to the real needs of their child. If we had just attended to his needs our bedtime would have been much earlier for all of us. We got stuck on the ‘language’ of the situation instead of the issue or concern. Grant was miserable with an itch in his armpit. You need to take time to listen to your child. False assumptions can lead to miscommunication.

| JULIA SIMENS

As an educator, speaker, author and consultant, Julia Simens has a gold-medal global perspective on children and parenting. She and her family have navigated eight international relocations, providing her the opportunity to work with over 8,000 families on five continents and helping her to understand the similarities of emotions children share, regardless of where they live. After personally gazing into the eyes of young children from around the world and helping them to successfully transition into their new environments, Simens can easily be considered as the expert on emotional resilience and the expat child.

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E xpected &Unexpected Stages of Dealing with Immigration by elizabeth blandon

Attorney Elizabeth R. Blandon

Immigration laws and the regulations used to implement them are confusing and complex. It is no wonder that certain mistakes are seen repeatedly in the applications made by foreign nationals and their family members.

In this issue of Global Living Magazine, Florida attorney Elizabeth Blandon runs down the top ten expected and unexpected stages of dealing with immigration.

Individuals who file immigration applications often:

"During the time that residency applications are in process, the foreign national may travel abroad. However, if the foreign national leaves without travel authorization, CIS assumes that they abandon their application and close their file."

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Waste time reading application instructions that do not apply.

Most benefits – such as work authorization and permission to remain legally – require filing an application with the CIS. Some of these applications have instructions that go on for pages and may not apply to the particular case. For example, the portions of the residency application instructions that apply when a United States citizen petitions a spouse are much longer than the instructions that apply when a U.S. citizen petitions a child.

Miscalculate how long the process takes.

When a foreign national applies for a visa at a U.S. embassy, the process is relatively simple. However, filing for legal permanent residency can take YEARS. For example, it takes about ten years for the sibling of a U.S. citizen to apply for residency.

Some citizens do not realize this. More commonly in family cases, foreign nationals do not know when they can apply for residency, based on the monthly State Department Visa Bulletin, which they should consult.

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Misunderstand the law and its consequences.

It is vital to understand that if a foreign national does not qualify under the law for a benefit, the only purpose served by filing an application is to inform Citizenship and Immigration Service (CIS) where to find that family member.

An unfortunate consequence may be deportation. Other unfortunate consequences include not receiving benefits for which the foreign national is entitled, as further explained below.

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Send originals or inappropriate money orders to CIS. Any money orders sent for payments to CIS should be drawn on a financial institution, which will recuperate the funds should the money order be lost. Do not purchase money orders from a grocery store or post office. Likewise, originals of documents should never be sent to CIS.

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Assume their case will be the same as their friend’s case.

Each case is different. The personal circumstances will affect whether or not the case gets approved. It is a similar mistake to assume that a friend or associate can advise you about the correct processing of your case.

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Rely on CIS information officers.

Although there is a 1-800 national customer service telephone number available to the public, the information available through that method is extremely limited. Wait times are lengthy and the computers do not allow those information officers to access certain kinds of cases. As a result, it is not uncommon for those officers to simply say, “There is no information I can provide on your case.”

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Fail to apply for proper travel authorization.

During the time that residency applications are in process, the foreign national may travel abroad. However, if the foreign national leaves without travel authorization, CIS assumes that they abandon their application and close their file. A common mistake is to not apply for this travel authorization or to fail to recognize when the foreign national should apply for emergency travel permission.

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Misunderstand which employment benefits apply when.

CIS issues an employment authorization document. The Social Security Administration issues a social security number.

Because of confusion about when to apply for what, the foreign national often sits around impatiently waiting for permission to obtain employment.

CAPSTONE.indd 1 Arrive at the CIS interview without sufficient preparation.

Interviews are not necessary for every case. However, if called in for an appointment, the worst mistake foreign nationals To learn whether you qualify for benefits and when is the right time make is lack of preparation. CIS officers will not organize to start applying for residency, call the Weston law firm of Elizabeth information for the applicants and will continue a case for a R. Blandon at 954-385-0157 and schedule a consultation. later date where the documents they request are not presented.

This causes a delay of many months.

Ms. Blandon is certified as an immigration expert by The Florida Bar, the state’s association of attorneys. There are fewer than 60 Assume they cannot afford an attorney. attorneys so certified in Florida.

Considering the delays in the case caused by improper preparation, the delays in obtaining work or travel permission, More information on immigration generally and on the credentials and the lost time on an appeal if the case is lost, the real of Ms. Blandon is available at www.Blandon-Law.com. question is: can you afford to not pay the reasonable rates of an immigration specialist? GL

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GLOBAL READING | book reviews Niamh Ni Bhroin Summertime Publishing €13.99* Many people want to write a book in order to express some tragedy from their past. Few do so as well as Niamh Ni Bhroin. She was born in Dublin, suffered abuse and loss and escaped abroad in her early twenties.

What is remarkable about this memoir is that the author writes in vivid stories, packed with detail.

We see her dancing in her red pleated skirt, brought home from Hungary where her father had been at sea. We feel her pain as the nuns in her convent school force her school friends to shun and treat her like a whore. We laugh when she buys her first bra and we share her excitement as she finally appears to find love on a Greek island. Throughout her life, despite being raped and bullied, she found solace and sanctuary in singing. Later, a Shamanic healing turned her life around. This is a story of hope.

Reviewer: Jo Parfitt, www.joparfitt.com

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Letters Never Sent

Lunch in Paris

Ruth Van Reken Summertime Publishing €12.99 Growing up, Ruth Van Reken could not understand why, despite a life filled with rich experiences, she felt so unhappy. All through her life she was unable to express her emotions of sadness, anger and frustration. Being the child of missionary parents, Ruth felt that it went against her spirituality and faith to complain. In fact the only emotion she allowed herself to feel was guilt: for feeling homesick as a child at boarding school; for feeling angry when her parents left her time and time again to do God’s work; and for feeling disappointed and enraged when her special times with her husband were spoiled by patients’ needs.

Ruth's candid journey of self-discovery will resonate with any expatriate as she finds healing by writing the heartfelt letters she never sent when, at age six, she was sent away to boarding school in Africa.

Reviewer: Rawia Liverpool

Elizabeth Bard Summersdale €10.50 Mmmm....food, France and words.

Could there be a more delicious combination?

Elizabeth Bard, an American, lands in Paris, planning to work as an art journalist and maybe take visitors on tours of the Louvre. But then she meets a tap-dancing Breton and falls in love, not only with him, but with food and cooking.

memoirs Perking the Pansies: Jack and Liam Move to Turkey

Jack Scott Summertime Publishing, 2011 €10.99 While many may dream of leaving the rat race behind for a new life in an exotic locale, it's the rare few that actually follow through. When committed British gay couple Jack and Liam move to Muslim Turkey to make their life of leisure come true, you know you're in for an exciting ride. Jack Scott deftly weaves vividly accurate images of expatriate life, capturing the idiosyncrasies and foibles of this all-too-human group of eccentric characters, including vetpats, emigreys, VOMITs and Bodrum Belles. At turns hilarious, saucy, witty, heartwarming and incredibly moving, Perking the Pansies (pun fully intended) chronicles the excitement, alienation, frustration, predicaments and ultimately the satisfaction of living in a different culture. Jack proves that wherever in the world we may be, it is the relationships we surround ourselves with that matter most. No wonder fans await a sequel with bated breath.

Reviewer: Linda A. Janssen, www.adventuresinexpatland.com

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Her story is sumptuously crafted, with recipes at the end of each chapter that had me running out to find the ingredients so I could try them the next day. The piece I call her 'Nigella Lawson moment', shows Bard standing up in the kitchen eating a freshlymade chocolate moelleux just to drown her sorrows. (I am rather delighted to share that she has now invited me to lunch in Provence, where she now lives.)

Reviewer: Jo Parfitt

In this section of Global Living Magazine, we feature five examples of good books in a specific genre. This issue, to tie in with Jo Parfitt's article on writing your life story (p.34), we feature memoirs.

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Don't Tell Mum I Work on the Rigs – She Thinks I am a Piano Player in a Whorehouse

Paul Carter Nicholas Brealey Publishing €10.50 Paul Carter is an Anglo-Australian, now based ‘down under’, who has written three hilarious memoirs, with this the first and still by far my favorite. Carter was a 'bit of a lad', who worked offshore for many years, getting up to all kinds of mischief as he traveled the world. With stories involving the kind of thing that makes men guffaw, this is the kind of book that will cause you to laugh out loud on the train. I've given it to many male friends as a gift and all have loved it, as did I. His next book, This is Not a Drill, is the weakest of the three, in my opinion, but his most recent, Is That Bike Diesel, Mate? is definitely up to par and tells the story of Carter's drive across Australia on a motorbike that runs on cooking oil.

Reviewer: Jo Parfitt

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