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contents on the cover: Dr. Lisa Weah, Pastor New Bethlehem Baptist Church 1354-66 North Carey Street Baltimore, Maryland 21217 410-669-9119 www.newbethlehembaptist.com thenbbc@gmail.com FB: New Bethlehem Baptist Church Tw: NewbethlehemMD
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Q&A Interview with Dr.Lisa Weah, Pastor
SPECIAL FEATURE
National Women’s History Month Pg. 24-25
features 13 MAYOR’S JOURNAL 15 GOVERNOR’S PAGE 17 FROM THE PULPIT
Min. Aida J. Ingram
What Are You Doing With Your Gifts?
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19 TO YOUR GOOD HEALTH
Carla J. Debnam, MS, LCPC
What’s Next?
21 BOOK SHELF
Brandie Manigault
The Crossing (Serita Jakes)
26 FASHION FOCUS
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Spring Fashion Week 2012
28 GOSPEL INDUSTRY NEWS
Ericka Johnson
31 NURSE’S CORNER
41 A WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE
Maryland General Hospital
Maryland’s Wound Healing Center
Cassandra Vaughn-Fox
How Will You Be Remembered?
43 EDUCATION DIGEST Dr. Tim Tooten
33 NUTRITION & YOU
Herline A. Knights
National Nutrition Month
39 WORD ON FINANCES
Dr. Kenneth O. Robinson
Don’t Be A Prodigal
Basic Training
45 WORD OF ENCOURAGEMENT
Donna Williams-Ross
God’s Truth is Marching On
In Every Issue Contributors..................... 6
Scripture Page.................. 11
From the Editor................ 7
Carter Commentary........... 46
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EDITOR-IN-CHIEF
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Dr. Kenneth O. Robinson Dr. Harold A. Carter, Jr. Cassandra Vaughn-Fox Herline A. Knights Charles ‘Chizel It’ Harris Pastors Gregory and Tonya Dennis Carla J. Debnam Donna Williams-Ross Governor Martin O’Malley Ericka Johnson Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake Rev. Tim Tooten Brandie Manigault
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Chairman — Dr. A.C. D. Vaughn Sr. Pastor, Sharon Baptist Church, MD Vice-Chairman — Dr. Frank M. Reid III Sr. Pastor, Bethel A.M.E. Church, MD Dr. Jerome A. Barber Sixth Mount Zion Baptist Temple, Hampton , VA Dr. Michael A. Battle Sr., U.S. Ambassador President, ITC Seminary, Atlanta, GA Dr. Timothy Boddie Friendship Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA Bishop John R. Bryant Presiding Prelate of the 5th Episcopal District Dr. Harold A. Carter, Sr. Pastor, New Shiloh Baptist Church, MD Dr. Suzan Johnson Cook, U.S. Ambassador Dr. WIlliam H. Curtis Mt. Ararat Baptist Church, Pittsburgh, PA Bishop Ralph L. Dennis Sr. Pastor, Kingdom Worship Center, MD Wanda Q. Draper/Media Executive Michele J.K. Epps/Health Sciences Cassandra Vaughn/Out Foxed Media LLC. www.Outfoxedmedia.org Dr. Donte’ L. Hickman, Sr. Pastor, Southern Baptist Church, MD Pastor Timothy V. Manigault Bishop Dennis V. Proctor Presiding Prelate of the Western Episcopal Region AME Zion Church Dr. Kenneth O. Robinson Pastor, Restoring Life International Church, MD Bishop Walter Scott Thomas, Sr. Pastor, New Psalmist Baptist Church, MD Dr. Timothy Tooten, Sr. Pastor, Harvest Christian Ministries, MD
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I Look To You
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arch is National Women’s History Month. This month’s edition of the Grace & Glory Magazine is dedicated to the memory of Whitney Elizabeth Houston, a woman who will forever be remembered in music history as one of the greatest female singers of all times. To me and perhaps to many of you the news of Whitney Houston’s death was both shocking and heartbreaking. In fact it was still hard to believe despite all of the days and weeks of media coverage following her death. For days the stories and images of her life played out in the media and her record-breaking songs being played over and over were seared into my brain; so much so that I found myself thinking about this tragedy trying to make some sense out of it. Despite the fact that at the time of Whitney Houston’s death, there was no definitive answer to how she died, the media immediately bombarded the airwaves about her struggles. Despite the fact that it was noted that Whitney started singing in church under the direction of her mother, the media chose to focus on her downfalls. Despite the comments from relatives, family friends and music industry associates stating that Whitney loved the Lord, the media sought to interview those who would cast a shadow on that fact. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? (Romans 8:31) Well I believe Whitney Houston was and is a child of God and is now in the presence of the Lord. Being a child of God, there are some things I know for sure and no doubt she knew these things too. Once you become a part of God’s family, you also become an enemy and a target to the adversary. The Bible tells us that we have an adversary that walks about seeking whom he may devour (I Peter 5:8). Being a child of God doesn’t mean that there won’t be pain, sorrow, disappointments and struggles. In fact the Bible also tells us that in this world we will have trials and tribulations, but the good news is we can have peace and be of good cheer because Jesus has overcome the world (John 16:33). One thing that resonated in my spirit after the death of Whitney Houston was the fact that if we would be honest with ourselves we would all admit that each and every one of us have struggles. But we are not alone in our struggles, Jesus promised to be with us always and God will always love us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:35-39 And so we look to You (God). When all our strength is gone, we look to You, the source of our strength.
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G&G: Dr. Weah I am very excited for this opportunity to talk with you. We are delighted to feature you this month as we recognize and honor the contributions of women in history. First I would like to start with getting to know you Dr. Lisa Weah the woman. Please tell us something that most people would not know about you. Dr. Weah: Let me first say, I am honored and excited as well to have this opportunity to share my faith with your readers. While I have been in ministry for many years, most people probably would not know that I started in ministry as the pianist/organist for the church choir. My father (now retired) was a music educator in the public systems, and started developing my musical gifts when I was in preschool. When we joined my home church, Morning Star Baptist Church in Catonsville, I was groomed to accompany the choirs, eventually became Minister of Music, and went on to become Minister of Cultural Arts and Worship. Although I was also involved in various other aspects of ministry, such as the Discipleship Ministry, a major area of passion for me, was the Music Ministry, which, along with Sunday School, excited and ignited my thirst for God from a very early age. G&G: Dr. Weah most pastors have shared with me that ‘preaching the gospel’ was not necessarily what they had planned to do with their lives. Was it the same for you, did you have alternate plans for your life before your call to ministry or was it always your desire to preach the gospel? Dr. Weah: I never thought I would be a preacher. I did not come from a family of preachers, and I found my niche in Music Ministry at a very young age, so preaching never crossed my mind. I was quite content to 'hide' behind the piano and watch the extroverts preach. I was a very introspective reader and songwriter who studied and pursued academics. I guess another thing people would not know about me is that my undergraduate degree from the University of Maryland at College Park is in Civil Engineering (B.S.C.E.), and I worked in the corporate sector for a few years as I wrestled with my call to preach and then to enter full time ministry when I was a young adult. G&G: Dr. Weah, please share with us how this journey began for you, your dreams, goals, and aspirations that made you the woman you are today? 8 March March 2012 2012 || Grace&Glory Grace&Glory 8
INTERVIEW WITH
Dr. Lisa M. Weah Pastor
New Bethlehem Baptist Church Baltimore, MD
Dr. Weah: My journey began with my parents, both educators, who pushed me from a very early age. I always dreamed of expressing myself artistically, and because my parents were the first generation in their families to go to college, I further pushed myself academically. Having been born in the immediate aftermath of the Civil Rights Struggle, I was keenly aware from a young age that some in the world would try to hold me back not only because of my gender, but because of the color of my skin. But God has taken my faith and determination, and used me to show others what is possible when you refuse to be labeled or limited by others. G&G: Dr. Weah you are known for being a powerful woman of God and a true visionary, what would you say is your passion in ministry? What excites you the most when it comes to serving the Lord? Dr. Weah: My passion is seeing lives transformed as people accept Christ and grow in their relationship with Him. I believe there is God-given potential in each and very one of us, which the enemy has come to steal, kill, and
Dr. Lisa M. Weah Pastor New Bethlehem Baptist Church Baltimore, MD
Q&A interview destroy - BUT Jesus came that we might have life, and have it to the full (John 10:10). Therefore, we must provide relevant, contextual ministry, which meets people where they are, and empowers them in their process of 'becoming' who God has created them to be. G&G: Dr. Weah, throughout history women have come together to change our society for the better whether it was gaining the right to vote or overcoming obstacles like discrimination in the workplace or racism. Let’s talk about being an African-American female pastor in the Baptist denomination. Have you ever experienced any personal discrimination or situations of not being accepted as a woman in what was for many years a predominately male vocation? Were there any instances where you had to stand up for your rights as a woman? Dr. Weah: I have always known there are those who have issues with my gender, even when I was an engineer. However, I do not take others' issues on as my own. God made me, and predestined me, and I am as certain of His infallibility as was the generation of women who walked before me and endured far more than I have faced in my time. I bless God for my pastor and spiritual father, Bishop Dwayne C. Debnam, who not only nurtured me, but groomed me and pushed me to be who God created me to be without limits. G&G: Dr. Weah I know men and women do things differently, is there really a difference in how a man pastors a congregation as opposed to a congregation being led by a female pastor? How about when you became the new shepherd of the New Bethlehem Baptist Church, were there any disadvantages to pastoring an already established ministry? Was your vision for the ministry totally embraced by the members? Dr. Weah: My pastoral challenges are really no different from those of my brothers who are colleagues. When I became pastor of New Bethlehem Baptist Church, I had the same joys and struggles of any new pastor regardless of gender. Although I was the church's first female pastor, and only the second female to be elected pastor of a local Baptist church, New Bethlehem is thriving, because it is a Spiritled, vision-driven ministry, which seeks the heart and mind of God. G&G: Dr. Weah women play many roles in life as wives, mothers, daughters, sisters, girlfriends, business owners, employees, students, you name it. Given the added responsibility as a pastor who also happens to be a woman, how do you keep things balanced in your life? After you have poured out and your cup is empty, who do you turn to or where do you go when you need replenishing and restoration? What is your choice of escape? Dr. Weah: Balance, stress management, and physical fitness are extremely important to me, as I have always struggled with weight. Therefore, I walk, jog, or bicycle every day as a healthy means of escape and replenishing. New Bethlehem Members often join me at Lake Montebello or at the church for Zumba class on Saturday mornings. I
also enjoy reading, movies, concerts, theater and sporting events. G&G: Dr. Weah it has been said that if we want our girls to benefit from the courage and wisdom of the women before them, we have to share our stories. Who are the women who have helped shape your life and what words of wisdom would you give to an aspiring young woman who is answering the call of ministry? Dr. Weah: My mother has always been my model and inspiration in life because she exemplifies all that I aspire to be as a woman, and because she never let me quit in spite of many missteps and mistakes. I want to encourage every young woman who is pursuing God's plan for your life to remember that the same God who called you is also able to keep you. And that He will not only keep you, but hold you accountable for maximizing the life and ministry He has given you in your home, and in the world. Philippians 1:6 declares, "Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Chris Jesus." (NIV) G&G: Dr. Weah, my last question is about the New Bethlehem Baptist Church. What is on the horizon for you and this ministry you serve and how will it benefit the surrounding community? Dr. Weah: New Bethlehem has been strategically centered in the heart of Baltimore's Sandtown Winchester community to strengthen the community by strengthening families. In addition to offering spiritual, educational, personal and professional development ministry programs, through our Empowerment Institute and Family Empowerment Night (FEN), we have ongoing partnerships with our local schools and shelters to further address the practical needs of our community. In addition to our Community Revival and Community Chats, where we facilitate solution-centered dialogue between our neighbors, church, and public officials, we further partner with the West Baltimore Clergy United, (Coppin State Back to School Jam) and Full Gospel State of Maryland (Fellowship of Hope) initiatives. This summer we are pleased to launch our NBBC Summer Academy for children and youth, and our future plans include a year round youth academy for pre-k through elementary school.
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Dr. Lisa M. Weah
New Bethlehem Baptist Church Baltimore, MD
Dr. Lisa M. Weah
serves as the Senior Pastor of the New Bethlehem Baptist Church in Baltimore, Maryland. Prior to being called to New Bethlehem, she was a member of the Morning Star Baptist Church, where she served as Executive Minister under the leadership of her Pastor and father in ministry, Bishop Dwayne C. Debnam. It was at Morning Star, that she accepted Christ at an early age, was baptized, acknowledged her call to ministry, preached her initial sermon entitled, "Sunshine on a Cloudy Day," and was ordained.
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On June 22, 2008, Dr. Weah was elected as New Bethlehem’s third Pastor in a historic move of God, becoming the first female Pastor in the church's 58year history and the first female Pastor of a local Baptist church in 15 years. New Bethlehem Baptist Church is a thriving ministry located in the heart of the SandtownWinchester Community in Baltimore, Maryland. Under the anointed leadership of this dynamic preacher, teacher, and administrator, New Bethlehem is strengthening God’s family with a spirit of excellence through the establishment of the NBBC Empowerment Institute, which includes: Sunday school, Small Groups, Discipleship, weekly Family Empowerment Night, and monthly Family Focus Night. As New Bethlehem continues to flourish, a seasonal 8:00am, early morning Sunday worship service has been added to the 9:30am and 11:30am services, as well as a ministry broadcast. Under her leadership, campus enhancements and renovations, as well as, community outreach initiatives have begun, including a quarterly Community Chat, in which political and community
leaders are brought together with residents of the Sandtown-Winchester community to discuss and deal with current issues of the neighborhood. Dr. Weah is the founder and CEO of LMW Enterprises, through which she ministers through preaching, teaching, music and mentoring. She is the author of Creative Worship in a Contemporary Milieu, which offers a theological framework and practical tools for the use of creative arts in the corporate worship experience. Dr. Weah is a member of the West Baltimore Clergy United, (under the leardership of Dr. Karen Bethea) and an Executive Council member of the Kingdom Association of Covenant Pastors under Presiding Prelate Bishop Walter S. Thomas. Within the Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship International, she serves on the Worship Ministry Executive Board as Overseer of Administration under General Overseer William H. Murphy, III. She holds a Bachelor of Science Degree in Civil Engineering from the University of Maryland at College Park, and Master of Divinity and Doctor of Ministry degrees from Howard University. She is an active member of the Epsilon Omega Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. She is the proud parent of Courtney, Robert and Cayla. Her life's mission is to empower persons to live a victorious Christian life.
Dr. Weah’s book is available at www.Amazon.com, www.Cokesbury. com and www.barnesandnoble.com
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And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
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For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
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Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
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What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
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He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?
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Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifieth.
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Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.
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Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
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As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.
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Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
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For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
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Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
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n our media driven world of headlines and sound bites, it is easy to get consumed with what is happening around us. The water cooler conversations are fresh every morning, and thankfully so is the amazing mercy and grace of God. It doesn’t take much to become distracted or disenchanted with the things and stuff around us, but God! Today is a rich and ripe opportunity for personal reflection. As I think about our country and our world, I am reminded of the parable of the talents in Matthew 25:14-30. A story where three people are entrusted with the ability to build, and invest the master’s resources wisely so that when He returns they have something of value to show Him. This parable reminds us all that one day we will see God and we will be asked to account for our stewardship. These three stewards were given the awesome opportunity to take what He gave them and then create something better and greater, than what they started with in the beginning. He leaves them all with the resources they need to accomplish the work He has given them, but all three of them have some vital and important choices to make. That left me with some questions, which I will share with you and ask you to reflect on in your own life. What has He put in your hands? What are you doing with it? Are you investing your time and His talents well? Are you just burying His treasure and using excuses to validate your inaction? These three stewards were expected to produce something. They were expected to multiply the resources that they originally received. Just like us! God has gifted all of us, and the big, bold question is what are we doing with the gifts? When we spend our time being outwardly focused, pointing fingers at others, we do not give ourselves the time we need to be great stewards over the great gifts, which God has given us. When we sit idly by, and lament over the things we don’t have, we are wasting precious time that could be used to double, and triple our gifts. When we allow our fears to paint us into a corner, what is happening to our gifts? When we allow ourselves to be comfortable and rest on our talents, what is happening to our gifts? In the last few months, we have lost some amazingly talented people. Whether you knew them or not, loved them or not, saw their struggles up close and personal, or not, the truth is they lived their lives. They have invested their talents, and they have used their time. They WILL see God and He and only He will give them their just rewards. We don’t know what their exchange with God will be, and
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Enon Tabernacle Baptist Church www.thekingdomcoach.com it doesn’t matter because there is nothing that we can do to change it. What we are left with is the reality that time is moving, and every day that passes is time that we cannot recoup. Death is a shocking reminder that life does end. If we are still here, we know we still have some time left. We know we have some gifts we have not maximized (if we have even used them at all). This is our wake up call and our gentle reminder, that one-day to our time will come. In this story, God deals with each steward individually. God asked each steward, what they did with what He gave them, and He rewards all but one for their keen ability to look out for His best interests. As we reflect on that parable and the very gift from God, of life and breathe each new day that it is given. We must remember to be good stewards every day. We are given keys, gifts, and opportunities to live our lives and sow our talents into the Kingdom of God. He doesn’t make us do it, but He gives each of us the opportunity. Some of us take our gifts and talents and bless the world for His glory, some of us use them for ourselves without thinking about God or the Kingdom in anyway, others love the Lord, but do what they think is best. It’s time out for knowing, but not doing the things that push forward and grow God’s agenda. We are stewards nothing really belongs to us. We have been entrusted with this magnificent opportunity, to work in the vineyard of God. We have been created to bring Him glory, and inside of each of us there is so much potential. We have generations to influence and lives to help change. We have communities to rebuild and young minds to invest in; we have families to bless and buildings to build. Yet we have these treasures in earthen vessels (2 Cor 4:7), and we must COUNT on the power and direction of God, to move and guide us. We can’t do it on our own, we must rely on Him, to order and direct our steps. So we must lay down those things that so easily beset us, and run with endurance the race that is set before us. Grabbing hold of God, who is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow to keep us, hold us and guide us. When Jesus comes back for us, imagine what it will be like to look back as we stand with the King of King and Lord of Lords and smile as He says well done my good and faithful servant, you were faithful over a few things, now I shall make you rulers over many. Choose well my brothers and sisters in Christ, and use your gifts to the glory of God! www.gracenglorymagazine.org 17
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his verse reminds us of our part in the overall plans of God. Many of us take a lot of time and energy organizing, scheduling, and figuring out what’s next in our lives. Controlling every aspect of your life or the life of a loved one may bring you comfort and security but it may not always bring you peace and contentment. Instead of seeking to know everything and expending energy to determine the outcome of everything in your life, it’s time to rely on God. This year has already had a lot of unexpected twists and turns. Many of us have experienced the loss of a loved one while some have had health challenges and others financial problems. All of these were unplanned and unexpected. They were a surprise to us but not to God. He knows the plans He has for us. God knows what test or trial will lead us to the place He has determined as our destiny. He also knows the joys and blessings we need and when to send them. In other words, He knows what’s next. We can find comfort in knowing that whatever we face, we are not alone. Worrying about the future is fruitless. We are to be reliant on the faithfulness of God and live life in anticipation of what’s next and not in fear of what’s next. Those who are controlling by nature have a difficult time flowing with the plans of God. James 5 gives us a healthy
perspective on controlling, planning and influencing our future. Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” At times, we have taken our lives for granted by thinking we have to do it all on our terms. Having the wisdom to rely on God in times like these is what makes the difference when troubles or blessings come our way. Keep God as the priority in your life and you will not go wrong. Seeking Him, His kingdom and His righteousness will always get you in line for what’s next. Instead of stressing, worrying and complaining be encouraged that God has your back and your future is secure in Him. Whatever life brings your way, remember not to be concerned about what’s next when you know who is in your corner. Carla J. Debnam, MS, LCPC Executive Director, Renaissance Christian Counseling Center www.gracenglorymagazine.org 19 19 www.gracenglorymagazine.org
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Book Shelf The Crossing By Serita Jakes Captivating. Suspenseful. Easy to read. A page turner. Identifiable scenarios. Relatable characters. Unpredictable. These are just a few words to describe Serita Jakes’ novel The Crossing. From page one Serita Jakes had me completely wrapped up and enthralled in the lives of this cast of characters- BJ, Claudia, Victor, Casio, Harper and Georgie. Each character battles with the effects of the murder of BJ Remington on a school bus full of football players and cheerleaders ten years prior. Hidden secrets, silent frustration, personal demons and gutwrenching agony follow them around like the air they breathe, until Victor decided to try and find the killer of an already cold case. At times I wanted to cry with them as they recalled the painful memories of that ten year old tragedy that drastically changed each of their lives in different ways. I wanted to laugh at the sarcasm that their conversations were laced with. I was angered by the abuse some had endured at the hand of someone they loved and the lack of regret they were shown for it. My heart was saddened by the broken relationship between mother and daughter, husband and wife, and amongst friends. I was also given hope reading about the restoration of relationships forged together by forgiveness. As a whole piece, this book took me through the range of emotions that a good movie would do, better yet, what real life has done. Although a novel based around fictional characters and fictional events, Serita Jakes found a way to seamlessly intertwine the reality of Christ and the Cross in the pages of this book. She wrote about ups and downs of
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everyone from the pulpit to the back door. She showed the compassion of Christ as only someone faced with walking through the tunnel towards the light could tell it. My favorite line in the book reads, “That’s the problem with living for yourself. Sometimes miracles come too late to save the body. We have to be content to save the soul.” Such a powerful line delivered by BJ as she lay on the school bus faced with her last breath thinking about the selfish life she lived and staring at eternity in the face. Serita Jakes left me with the message that, “It’s never too late to get it right with God until your last breath is gone.”
Do I recommend this book to the Grace & Glory readers? ABSOLUTELY. But not just to you guys. I recommend this book to anyone who likes a good book. ‘Cause that’s what The Crossing is… a good book! A word of caution though, you will not be able to put it down, so don’t expect it to be a book that you will read over the next week or so. It will be more like the next few days. You will find yourself saying, “Just one more page and I’ll go to bed.” Next thing you know you have read three more chapters! Go out and get The Crossing. Buy it for a friend. Give it as a gift. And when you do read it, let me know what you think. Leave me a message on facebook.com/ gracenglorymagazine. You can also follow me on twitter @iambandaid. I want to know if The Crossing took you emotionally where it took me.
About The Author
Serita A. Jakes Serita A. Jakes has been involved in Christian ministry all of her adult life and has served alongside her husband, Bishop T. D. Jakes, throughout their entire marriage of nearly 30 years. As an insightful speaker, she draws heavily from her education and background in theater and mass communications. A soft-spoken woman offstage, First Lady Jakes, as she is affectionately referred to by The Potter’s House congregation, possesses the rare ability to reach and stir her audiences as she works to complement her husband’s ministry. In addition to raising three sons and two daughters, she has assumed an active role at The Potter’s House of Dallas where her husband serves as Senior Pastor. First Lady Jakes serves as Executive Director of the church’s WoMan-to-Woman women’s ministry. She is founder of the much-acclaimed God’s Leading Ladies Life Enrichment program for women and The Potter’s House’s Debutante Program for teenage girls. Mrs. Jakes also speaks across the country on women’s roles in supporting their husbands, and she is in demand by women’s organizations throughout the nation as a celebrated speaker on issues concerning marriage and family. www.gracenglorymagazine.org 21
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national women’s history month
2012 National Women’s History Month Theme: Women’s Education – Women’s Empowerment Although women now outnumber men in American colleges nationwide, the reversal of the gender gap is a very recent phenomenon. The fight to learn was a valiant struggle waged by many tenacious women—across years and across cultures—in our country. After the American Revolution, the notion of education as a safeguard for democracy created opportunities for girls to gain a basic education—based largely on the premise that, as mothers, they would nurture not only the bodies but also the minds of (male) citizens and leaders. The concept that educating women meant educating mothers endured in America for many years, at all levels of education. Pioneers of secondary education for young women faced arguments from physicians and other “experts” who claimed either that females were incapable of intellectual development equal to men, or that they would be harmed by striving for it. Women’s supposed intellectual and moral weakness was also used to argue against coeducation, which would surely be an assault on purity and femininity. Emma Willard, in her 1819 Plan for Improving Female Education, noted with derision the focus of women’s “education” on fostering the display of youth and beauty, and asserted that women are “the companions, not the satellites of men”—“primary existences” whose education must prepare them to be full partners in life’s journey. While Harvard, the first college chartered in America, was founded in 1636, it would be almost two centuries before the founding of the first college to admit women—Oberlin, which was chartered in 1833. And even as “coeducation” grew, women’s courses of study were often different from men’s, and women’s role models were few, as most faculty members were male. Harvard itself opened its “Annex” (Radcliffe) for women in 1879 rather than admit women to the men’s college—and single-sex education remained the elite norm in the U.S. until the early 1970s. As coeducation took hold in the Ivy League, the number of women’s colleges decreased steadily; those that remain still answer the need of young women to find their voices, and today’s women’s colleges enroll a far more diverse cross-section of the country than did the original Seven Sisters. The equal opportunity to learn, taken for granted by most young women today, owes much to Title IX of the Education Codes of the Higher Education Act Amendments. This legislation, passed in 1972 and enacted in 1977, prohibited gender discrimination by federally funded institutions. It has become the primary tool for women's fuller participation in all aspects of education from scholarships, to facilities, to classes
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formerly closed to women. Indeed, it transformed the educational landscape of the United States within the span of a generation.
2012 Honorees
Recognizing the Pioneering Leadership of Women and Their Impact on the Diverse • Emma Hart Willard (1787–1870) - Women Higher Education Pioneer • Charlotte Forten Grimke (1837 – 1914) - Freedman Bureau Educator • Annie Sullivan (1866 – 1936) - Disability Education Architect • Gracia Molina de Pick (b.1929) - Feminist Educational Reformer
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• Emma Hart Willard (1787 –1870) Women Higher Education Pioneer One of the pioneer reformers of Women’s value the schooling of girls. Her father, however, w enter into discussions of philosophy and politics. Self-taught in areas of study reserved for me became the principal at the women’s academy in M Two years later she married physician John Willar she retired to the home, rearing her husband’s four But neither her “retirement” nor the work of borrowed college textbooks from a male relative, a world of the mind denied to women. When her husband was struck with financia with opposition there to her belief that women dese curriculum directed to young women, noting that, displaying to advantage the charms of youth and b
to prepare for the harvest.” Seeking a more hospitable location for her school, she moved with her family t Improving Female Education”—a document she had to submit in writing, as wome that, “Reason and religion teach that we [women] too are primary existences...the com While her ideas did not meet with universal acceptance, the Governor of New Yor raised taxes to endow the Troy Female Seminary, and families across the country sent Willard. The real education of American girls had begun. On the twenty-fifth anniversary of the Troy Female Seminary it was named th education to young women from all over the world. In 1895—twenty-five years after groundbreaking experiment. Its inscription reads in part: HER MOST ENDURING
national women’s history month
Areas of Education. These are the honorees for 2012:
kolo Rashid (b.1949) - Community Development Activist and Historical eservation Advocate enda Flyswithhawks (b. 1950) - American Indian Advocate and Educator
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Education, Emma Willard was born in 1787 into a world that did not was liberal minded, and encouraged his daughter to read widely and to
en, she went from being a student to being a teacher, and at the age of 20 Middlebury, Vermont. rd, and because it was considered improper for married women to work, r children from his first marriage and bearing a child herself. f running a large household kept Willard from advancing her studies. She and her eyes were opened not only to advanced learning, but also to the
al troubles, Willard opened a school in their Middlebury home, but met erved an education on a par with men. She criticized the finishing school “The education of females has been exclusively directed to fit them for beauty ... [and] though [it is] well to decorate the blossom, it is far better
to New York State, and approached state legislators with her “Plan for en were not allowed to address the legislature in person. In it she wrote mpanions, not the satellites of men.” rk, De Witt Clinton, was impressed. The booming industrial city of Troy t their daughters to be educated according to the philosophy of Madame
he Emma Willard School, and continues today to provide a first-rate Willard’s death—a statue in her honor was erected on the campus of her MONUMENT, [is] THE GRATITUDE OF EDUCATED WOMEN.
• Charlotte Forten Grimke (1837 – 1914) Freedman Bureau Educator Charlotte Forten was born in Philadelphia to an affluent and educated black family—a family of abolitionist activists who championed any number of civil rights organizations. She received her education at the Higginson Grammar School in Salem, Massachusetts, where she was the only non-white student in a student body of two hundred students. She then went on to the Normal School in Salem, where she studied literature and teaching. Forten became a member of the Salem Female AntiSlavery Society, where she proved her abilities as what we would now call a community activist—organizing, speaking, and raising money. When her financial situation demanded that she find paid employment, Forten became the first Black woman to teach white children in Massachusetts, at the Epes Grammar School of Salem. During this time she also began publishing poetry, much of it activist in theme. But with the coming of the Civil War, Forten’s determination to participate in the education of liberated slaves brought her to South Carolina, where slave-owners had fled the Union army. She left the north under the auspices of the Philadelphia Port Royal Relief Association and taught on the island of St. Helena—the first black woman to do so. Her activist spirit and idealistic determination are evident as she contemplates the challenge she has taken on: "The long, dark night of the Past, with all its sorrows and its fears, was forgotten; and for the Future—the eyes of these freed children see no clouds in it.” The physical and emotional stress finally took its toll on Forten, and she left St. Helena after two years. But she had achieved one dream, and had years ahead to achieve still more. She had national impact on education in the United States when she worked for the U.S. Treasury Department in Washington, D.C. recruiting teachers. At the age of forty-one, Charlotte Forten married Presbyterian minister Francis Grimké, himself a freed slave, and nephew of the famous Grimké sisters, who were abolitionist activists. Charlotte supported his work at his Washington D.C. church, where she organized a women's missionary group, and continued to work with and for the black community. Scholar, teacher, abolitionist, crusader, Charlotte Forten Grimké is remembered and read today as a writer whose careful documentation of her varied life is a testament to the racial experience of 19 th century America. www.gracenglorymagazine.org www.gracenglorymagazine.org 25 25
fashion focus
SPRING 2012
I don’t know about all of you, but in my neck of the woods, winter was never really present (no problem here!), so I think it’s fairly appropriate to start looking and buying some of 2012’s hottest spring trends. Here’s what’s on my list for this spring: COLOR BLOCKING Although this trend can be a little tricky to pull off, don’t be afraid to experiment. Color blocking is comprised of mixing 2 or more solid colors together, giving off a bright, cheery vibe that’ll put you right in the spring mood! Style Tip for Color Blocking: If you’re new at this, stick to mixing 3 colors or less.
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FLOWERY PATTERNS Flower patterns are so chic and feminine, so I’m glad they’ve made a comeback since last spring. Pair a flower print dress, skirt, or top with a solid hue bag. PEPLUM SKIRTS AND TOPS An old school style was revisited on the 2012 spring runways with peplum skirts, tops, and dresses. This style is very flattering since the ruffle sits right at your waist. So where would you wear a peplum top for example? Anywhere really, but I like this style for Sunday brunches or drinks with friends. 26 26 March March 2012 2012 || Grace&Glory
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Oscar de la Renta SAFARI FUN The safari trend has been steadily around for a few seasons now, but this year we’re looking at a more wild, primal version which I’m sure you will all love! To get inspired, pick up wooden, colorful accessories like bangles and don’t be afraid to incorporate fringes and wild patterns.
NEON COLORS FOR SPRING And again we are taken back to the wonderfully confusing 80’s where neon colors were popular…just like today! That’s right, neon colors are it for this spring’s hottest colors. Like it or not, here are a few suggestions on how to wear neon colors…the right way. Although I wouldn’t necessarily recommend neon colors (I mean who looks good in neon!?), if you’re a fan by all means let it all hang out this spring because it’s your year! We will start to see the shelves fill with everything neon colored from pants to shirts and even purses. Of course, there will also be a wide variety of neon accessories, which I’m all for! If you’re going to wear a neon colored top, keep the bottoms a simple, neutral color. Black and white are good choices. You can always go for khaki or beige (although natural colors like those require finesse paired with something like neon!). Don’t over accessorize since you’re already wearing a bright color, keep it simple.
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PRETTY PASTELS Pastels can be very flattering to your complexion if you choose the right shade. So try on a few different pastel hues to see which color best suits you.
Now the runways have shown us neon colored skirts and pants, but I cannot condone that! I think if you stick to a neon colored top, it is more than enough. Neon colored pants are just not right, in any way. But if you must, remember the rule: keep it simple! I have to say that I am attracted to neon colored dress. They’re fun, flirty and very bold. So try a neon orange, pink, and even yellow with a pair of cork wedges. Add some simple accessories and a white bag- you’ll look superb! Source: styletips101.com www.gracenglorymagazine.org 27
gospel industry industry news news gospel The music industry at large suffered two major blows last month, losing two music legends that paved the way for many by sharing their gifts and their love for music.
Whitney Houston
On Feb 11, 2012 legendary female songstress Whitney Houston 48, was found unresponsive in her Beverly Hills Hotel room and later pronounced dead on the scene. Whitney was scheduled to attend a Pre-Grammy Awards Gala that same day. The family was devastated especially her 18-yr old daughter Bobbi Christina who was rushed to the hospital the day after the news of her mother passing. The Houston family released this statement from Houston’s publicist, “We are devastated by the loss of our beloved Whitney. This is an unimaginable tragedy, and we will miss her terribly.”
Don Cornelius
On Feb 1, 2012, Don Cornelius, 75 was found dead in his Sherman Oaks home in California. He was plagued by many health issues and in 1982 he had a 21 hour surgery to correct a congenital malformation in the blood vessels in his brain. Cornelius was the creator and host of Soul Train, one of the longest running music shows in history. It was the first run nationally syndicated show in TV history. The show began in 1970 in Chicago, on WCIU-TV, as a local program, and it aired nationally from 1971-2006. Soul Train has been the doorway on television for many legends including but Aretha Franklin, Marvin Gaye, and Barry White. Soul Train was the best R& B, Soul, and in its later years Rap and Hip Hop show. Don Cornelius’ vision for Soul Train brought African American Style to the world for over 35 years. He will truly be missed and the music industry has him to thank greatly for the unselfish exposure and spotlight he shared with the world.
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Houston’s body was flown back to her hometown in New Jersey where funeral services were held at the New Hope Baptist Church in Newark (East Orange), NJ where she got her start singing in the church choir, with her Grammy Award Winning mother Cissy Houston and her aunt Dionne Warwick. Whitney had just finished the movie “Sparkle” co-starring R. Kelly and Jordin Sparks, which is due to come out later this year. Whitney was also considered to be a mentor on X Factor, Simon Cowell said, “Given the choice, I would like to have taken her under my wing as well, because she would have been the ultimate, ultimate mentor to any contestant coming on the show. I am so sad for her. She was undoubtedly one of the greatest superstars of all time. One of the greatest voices in our time we are likely to hear.” Well-spoken Simon! I co-sign that! Whitney Houston made a remarkable impact in music and motivated and encouraged many artists. Her music and her voice shall forever live in our hearts.
The staff of BET’s Sundays Best is getting ready for season 5. The auditions start in Dallas, TX on March 24, Washington, DC on March 31, Atlanta, GA on April 14, and the fourth city is to be announced.
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INDUSTRY NEWS
gospelindustry industrynews news gospel with Miss Ericka Like me on my Facebook fan page Miss Ericka J, follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/MissErickaJ, email missericka75@yahoo.com
Andrea Helms Music World Gospel has signed BET’s Sundays Best season four runner up. She will be releasing cover hit “Yesterday” by Mary Mary. Her seven track EP will hit stores in March of 2012!!! Congrats!!!
Top Gospel Albums
NAACP Image Awards Special Congrats and Shout Outs are in order for Yolanda Adams, Deitrick Haddon, Kirk Franklin, Mary Mary, and Andre Crouch for their nominations for “Outstanding Gospel Album Traditional/Contemporary.” Sounds of Blackness was nominated for “Outstanding Music Album, Outstanding Group, Duo, or Collaboration.” Kirk Franklin was nominated for I Smile “Outstanding Song.” The 43rd Annual NAACP Awards aired in February, check your local listings for encore showings.
James Fortune & Fiya- Identity (2nd week at #1) Joyful Noise Soundtrack WOW Gospel 2012 Myron Butler- Worship William McDowell- Arise: The Live Worship
Micah Smith Micah is Baltimore’s own singer, songwriter, composer, and musician of Gospel & Christian Music. He’s an elite singer and studied at Morgan State University under the leadership of the late Dr. Nathan Carter and was part of the elite group The Morgan State University Choir. Micah decided to become a solo artist after seeing a need for change not just in gospel music but in the world. Micah has shared the stage with many of the world’s renowned artists including Donnie McClurkin, Kim Burrell, Karen Clark-Sheard, Roberta Flack, Kenny Lattimore, and Wynton Marsalis. He’s a part of the Soulful Symphony Singers and also sings background for Pastor Jason Nelson. Micah says as a musician his mission is to reach the heart of man through the passion of his music which is demonstrated not only in his performance but in his belief that listeners can identify with any of life’s situations through song. He will be in concert March 10, at the Kingdom Life Church, 125 N. Hilton Street, Baltimore MD. Doors will open at 7pm. The concert will also feature Jason Nelson, Jonathan Dunn, and Jonathan Ball. I have personally experienced his music and you are in for a treat! For more info, www.singmicah.com
Top 5 Billboard Singles
“In The Middle” - Isaac Caree “Still Able” - James Fortune & Fiya “I Need Your Glory”- Earnest Pugh “Spiritual” - Donald Lawrence & Company “I Won’t Go Back” - William McDowell
‘Til next month, 2012 is the year of establishment and order; it’s all coming together for you! Expect the great! Think about it, things are already looking better!!! www.gracenglorymagazine.org 29
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nurse’s corner
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here are many types of wounds that can damage the skin including abrasions, lacerations, rupture injuries, punctures, and penetrating wounds.
Many wounds are minor and require only local first aid that includes cleansing and dressing. Some wounds, however, are deeper and need medical attention to prevent infection and loss of function due to damage to underlying structures like bone, muscle, tendon, arteries and nerves. Wounds that do not heal in more than 30 days often have underlying medical conditions that if left untreated, could cause serious, even permanent damage. These types of wounds require specialized care. On March 27th, a new wound healing center will open at Maryland General Hospital to offer highly specialized wound care treatment. The Center will treat patients with chronic and advanced conditions which have not responded to previous treatment within 30 days. Leading edge treatments at the state-of-the-art, outpatient center will include negative pressure wound therapy, bio-engineered tissues, biosynthetic dressings and growth factor therapies. The wound healing center also will offer hyperbaric oxygen therapy. The physicians, nurses and technicians at Maryland General’s wound healing center have been trained in the latest therapeutic methods in wound management. They receive specialized training at the National Healing Institute at Ohio State University.
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nutrition & you
Tips for Your Family’s Health March is National Nutrition Month. Celebrate with your family by trying some of these helpful and healthful suggestions. Sensible snacking – Encourage your children to eat more fruits and vegetables by setting an example! Have carrots and celery or cut-up fruit readily available for the family to snack on. A low-calorie snack – Half a large pepper offers you a full day’s worth of vitamin C. Munch on a pepper, just as you would on an apple, for a delicious, low-calorie snack.
By Herline A. Knights, RD, LD
Cherries for your health – Cherries are a great choice, whether fresh or dried. They are rich in fiber and vitamin C, and are associated with heart health and reducing the risk of cancer. Cherries also are rich in melatonin, which may help with sleep! Fresh or frozen – Frozen fruits and vegetables are just as nutritious as fresh. Toss carrots, broccoli, or corn into canned soup, or make a fruit smoothie for a quick, delicious breakfast. Fiber for digestive health – Eating a variety of fruits and vegetables gives you fiber that keeps your digestive tract healthy and helps protect against diseases such as diverticulosis. The benefits of blue and purple – All fruits and vegetables from the blue and purple color family contain flavonoids, the most powerful phytochemicals found in nature. Phytochemicals decrease one’s risk of cancer, osteoporosis, cardiovascular disease, and much more! Labels tell it all – Dark-colored bread does not mean it is whole-wheat bread. Take a look at the ingredients. Look for the words “whole grain” first in the list. Colorful vegetables – Dark, colorful vegetables, such as broccoli, peppers, tomatoes, and carrots, are more nutrient dense than pale cucumbers, mushrooms, and celery.
Carbohydrate facts – Excess calories are fattening, carbohydrates are not. ‘Soft’ fat is better – Choose your fat wisely. Limit your intake of “hard” fat, such as lard and butter, and use more “soft” fat, such as olive oil and canola oil. Hunger help – Fiber-rich breads, cereals, and pastas curb your hunger. They also help with weight management. Whole-grain goodness – Brown rice, wholewheat bread, and whole-wheat crackers contain more B vitamins, potassium, and fiber than processed white varieties. Restaurant advice – When dining out, ask for whole-grain foods! Some Italian restaurants offer wholewheat pasta or pizza crusts. Ask for brown rice at Asian restaurants. Ready-to-go lunch – Pack your lunch the night before. This way you can easily “grab and go” in the morning and avoid eating fast-food or a highly processed, fattening meal in a box.
Early to bed – Get some rest. Your body recovers and repairs while you are sleeping. Sleep also can affect your weight and mood. A perfect start to the day – Start your day off right with oatmeal, an excellent source of whole grains. Spruce your oatmeal up with some cranberries, apples, and nuts!
Nutrient-dense whole foods are best – Supplements are incomplete substitutes for nutrient-dense, whole foods. Grown from the ground up, real food offers a full spectrum of vitamins, minerals, protein, and phytochemicals that work together in your body. Vending machine alternatives – Stock your desk drawer with trail mix, whole-grain crackers, fruit cups, and reduced-sodium soups to satisfy your cravings and to keep you away from the vending machine. Healthy additions – If you prepare processed foods, make them better. Add broccoli, peas, spinach, beans, lean meat, or low-sodium sauce to create a more nutritionally balanced meal and to stretch the product. 100-calories/day – If you cut 100 calories from your daily food intake, you could lose 10 lb/year. It is as simple as skipping the cheese on your burger, choosing carbonated fruit-flavored water instead of a regular soda, or substituting pork sausage with turkey sausage. The power of phytochemicals – Phytochemicals are a key component of foods. These tiny compounds help to prevent certain chronic diseases, such as cancer and heart disease. Digestive health – Probiotics, found in many yogurts, are likely to help improve gut health, but they are not a “cure” for digestive problems. Fluid consumption, total fiber intake, physical activity, and stress reduction also are important for a healthy digestive tract. Empty calories – Soda provides calories and carbohydrate, but has little or no nutritional value. To burn off the 250 calories in a 20-fluid-ounce soda, a 135-pound (lb) person would need to play 40 minutes of vigorous basketball or bicycle vigorously for 22 minutes. Instead of soda, choose water, tea, low-fat milk, or 100% juice. Heart-healthy advice – To manage blood pressure and protect your heart, strive to maintain a healthy weight, exercise regularly, reduce your salt intake, quit smoking (if you smoke), and manage your stress levels.
Which cereal to choose – When choosing cereal, look for those that contain at least 3 grams (g) fiber/ serving, no more than 6 g sugar/serving, and no trans fat.
Osteoporosis prevention – Lifelong, healthy habits can help reduce your risk of developing osteoporosis. Eat calcium-rich foods to build strong bones and maintain bone density. Exercise regularly. Monitor your salt intake.
The fewer, the better – When it comes to choosing meat, the fewer the legs, the better. Chicken has two legs, thus it is a better option than pork, which has four legs.
A better juice – Get more calcium by switching from regular fruit juice to a calcium-fortified 100% juice, but watch your serving size. The calories from juice can add up fast!
Fish for omega-3s – Fish contain significant amounts of healthy omega-3 fatty acids that promote heart health. When purchasing fish, buy domestic, wild varieties and stay current on the latest news.
Germ warning – Did you know that the average in-sink garbage disposal contains about 1000 times more germs than the average toilet? At least once a week, clean the rubber stopper with a diluted bleach solution to avoid contamination.
Food budget basics – You can eat a healthy diet without destroying your food budget by planning your weekly meals before you shop and sticking to your list. Buy nonperishable foods in bulk. Leave the kids at home, if possible. Never shop on an empty stomach.
Food safety – To prevent cross contamination, refrigerate or freeze foods as soon as you return from the grocery store. Place meats below the produce in the refrigerator. Use separate cutting boards for meats and produce. When cooking, wash hands in hot water frequently. www.gracenglorymagazine.org www.gracenglorymagazine.org 33 33
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Bishop T.D. Jakes CALENDAR LISTING Sunday, March 25, 2012 after 8:00 a.m., 10:00 a.m., and 12:00 p.m. worship service
FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH OF GLENARDEN 600 Watkins Park Drive Upper Marlboro, Maryland 20774
Thursday, March 29, 2012 after 7:00 p.m. worship service
DELIVERANCE EVANGELISTIC CHURCH 2001 West Lehigh Avenue Philadelphia, PA 19132
Wednesday, March 28, 2012 after 7:00 p.m. worship service
CATHEDRAL INTERNATIONAL 277 Madison Avenue Perth Amboy, NJ 08861
WHO: Bishop T.D. Jakes, New York Times bestselling author and senior pastor at The Potter’s House of Dallas, Inc. WHAT: Bishop T.D. Jakes will hold a book signing for his newly released book, “Let it Go: Forgive so You can be Forgiven.” Jakes explores the spiritual truth of forgiveness and its importance to those who have had a hard time letting go of the past and moving forward to a more joyful, peaceful and purposeful life. For more information on this or other scheduled booking signings, please contact
(214) 331-0954, email info@tdjakes.com, or visit www.tdjakes.org/letitgo. About T.D. Jakes T. D. Jakes is a charismatic leader, visionary, provocative thinker, entrepreneur, and best-selling author who serves as the senior pastor of the 30,000-member church, The Potter’s House located in Dallas, Texas. Named “America’s Best Preacher” by TIME magazine, Jakes brings a fresh, 37 bold new perspective to real-world issues. Visit www.tdjakes.org for more information. Follow T.D. Jakeswww.gracenglorymagazine.org on Facebook and Twitter.
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word on finance
Dr. Kenneth O. Robinson, II
The economy is at the forefront of almost every American’s mind. We are in the heat of one of the most intense political races of the decade and the major issue for most people is what is going to happen in the economy. Rightfully so, since a recent study just revealed that money problems is the number one cause for child abuse, spousal abuse and divorce. This is why I believe today, as believers in Christ, it is so important that we have balance in our lives. Someone said, “Balance is the key to life.” We have to be careful that we are not so super spiritual that we forget we live in a natural world. On the other hand we cannot be so practical and natural that we leave out room for God’s supernatural power to work in our lives. We must be balanced, and the Lord will teach us this balance. Proverbs 11:1 says “A false balance is an abomination to the Lord: but a just weight is His delight.” God says our lives are like weights on a scale that if not properly balanced, it will tip over and fall. In other words, “Anything that is not balanced will fail; anyone who is not balanced will fall.” This holds very true concerning our spirituality and our relationship with money. The Message Bible says, “God hates cheating in the marketplace; He loves it when business is aboveboard.” God has no plan of failure for the child of God. That’s why He gave us the gospel (good news), which is His WORD so that we would know the truth and how we can win in every area of our lives. God’s way is the best way and that way is His Word. ST. JOHN 15:4-7-- Christ assures us here that when we stand and stay in a given place and state of expectancy in Christ, the harvest in our lives will be abundant. HOW DO WE DO THIS? Verse 7: By allowing His Word to shape and form the proper desires and wants in our heart so that when we ask for anything, it is as good as done. This type of fruitful and abundant living only comes with MATURITY IN CHRIST. This maturity in Christ has nothing to do with your chronological age or church tenure but everything to do with our personal commitment and daily obedience to His Word. This is what Christ was teaching his disciples concerning the money and finances. In Luke 16, Jesus speaks about the importance of managing money in our lives. Also, He tells us why it is important. Contrary, to what most of us have been taught about the gospel, He teaches that as a believer, there is a direct relationship with our managing the finances in our lives and with our spiritual relationship with God. He is not saying everyone who knows how to handle finances is right with God, nor is everyone who has a lot of money in rightstanding with God. What He is saying is that a proper attitude and relationship with money as it pertains to His kingdom will give you favor with God, position you to receive more from Him and be trusted with the increase of eternal spiritual riches in your life. Christ actually gives us a practical strategy. Jesus goes very deep in the root of our giving, and reveals what our true attitude must be concerning the world’s wealth and riches, and how we are to handle the finances He has given us. So this passage is not an indictment against having money, wealth, riches and
possessions but rather a guide to having a proper balanced relationship with money consequently using it to effectively serve the Almighty God. So He begins by saying: (He also said this to His disciples.) 1. The son is entitled but wasteful. 2. His immaturity caused him to be wasteful. 3. His want was greater than his wisdom. He could stand, stay in a given place or state of expectancy long enough. 4. He wasted it with riotous living (cell phones, cars, homes, business, websites, My space, Face book and iPod). Sin and financial increase don’t mix. (Eccl. 2:26-26) Read CEV. 5. He spent ALL and then came the famine. No. 1 problem with your finances is uncontrolled spending. The problem with broke people is that they spend all their money. We are spending more than we make. U.S. Consumers actually saved a negative 1% of their overall income; 75% of us carry heavy balances on our credit cards totally $915 billion. Most of Americans are using credit to finance a lifestyle and to survive. The average American is working too hard for too little and is missing out on the true joys of life. DON’T BE A PRODIGAL! He was not a prodigal because he came home but rather because he wasted his finances which led to a life of ruin. Now, in Chapter 16, He teaches His disciples how to properly manage their finances so they won’t end up prodigal. You must first get a breakthrough in knowing how to deal with your finances, before you can give the way God planned for you to give, and reap the blessings upon your life. Mammon is an arameic word which means worldly wealth; wealth abused and used. 1. God owns everything. 2. Know the devil can only accuse. 3. It’s accounting time. 4. Deal with your Debt. 5. Know you don’t have a FINANCE problem but a FAITHFUL problem. 6. God would rather you OWN than take out a LOAN. 7. There is no middle ground. Faithful servants of God have been set free from any slavery or bondage to worldly riches, and show this through their generous giving to God and to others. They understand their wealth is only used as a tool. GOD SAID TELL THE PEOPLE, DON’T BE A PRODIGAL! By thinking you can manage your life and your finances on your own, separated from Almighty God, you are wasting away His precious blessings with sin and lustful desires and wants that lead only to the PIGPENS OF LIFE. YOU CAN’T DO IT ON YOUR OWN! LET ME HELP YOU in your finances. LET ME TEACH YOU how to live in the abundance. YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE A PRODIGAL. AND WHEN IT’S all over, and you have been faithful, I’M GOING TO GIVE you YOUR OWN. I KNOW IT’S NOT EASY NOW…but let not your heart be troubled, ye believe in God, believe also in me, FOR IN MY FATHER’S HOUSE, there are MANY MANSIONS…
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woman’s perspective
Recently we have experienced numerous celebrity shocking deaths and public battles with demons. “How will you be remembered?” Leaders of our times who have accomplished groundbreaking memorable events; we have admired them when they are up and scorned them when they are down. “How will you be remembered?” But have we ever thought about their demons or the pressures of life that they constantly face? Do we really live our lives as Christians and follow what the scriptures say about not judging? Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven: Luke 6:37 I ask you again, “How will you be remembered?” Are you living your life as if today was your last and that God is coming at any moment? Or are you living your life recklessly to fulfill your selfish wants not needs? “How will you be remembered?” God has set a path for us. The foundation was laid before we were conceived. I suggest to you that as you read this article you consider this thought, “How will you be remembered?” And determine today to ask God to enlarge your territory and open your heart to the path He has set for you. Until next time stay strong, focus on God and create your legacy!
Cassandra Vaughn-Fox
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education digest
Basic Training "Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it." Proverbs 22:6 I realized many years ago that the responsibility of training our three children in the ways of the Lord belonged to me and my wife. For us, this included exposing them to a home of prayer, love, Christian commitment and an appreciation for attending our weekly worship services. These were the very disciplines we valued. They were learned from our parents and fore-parents. I am sure there are many persons who would argue that the "times" have changed and that parents should throw out many of the strict requirements of child rearing. I disagree. I believe basic training is needed now more than ever. We must keep in mind that it’s the kind of training which is not only taught but lived. In other words, the responsibility to train our children in the ways of the Lord should not be limited to what we say, rather what we do. Sometime ago I was drawn to this Old Testament scripture which I believe sheds light on this issue. "Love the Lord your God with all you heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates." (Deuteronomy 6:6-9) I used those scripture passages as the basis for my Doctoral dissertation entitled: "Teaching Beyond Sunday Morning. Equipping parents and guardians to teach and model Christian discipleship principles at home with their children (3-10)." The research was conducted with parents and guardians at Harvest Christian Ministries, a church where I serve as pastor and founder. I taught six sessions in which I helped adults become more familiar with their Christian faith. This included such topics as salvation, prayer, faith, baptism and church history. After leading these sessions, I designed a biblically-based 10-week curriculum for parents and guardians. They used the resources to teach their children at home. I was encouraged by the results of that study. We were all reminded of the need to teach and model our Christian faith and on a more consistent basis. The results from that study led to a greater sense of awareness, not only among parents and guardians, but the children whose lives were being transformed. A growing number of adults in our churches and communities also recognized the value of sharing and modeling their faith in the presence of children. There is an old African proverb which says, "It takes a village to raise a child." I believe it’s our responsibility Dr. Tim Tooten, Sr. is the Pastor to not only live in the village and founder of Harvest Christian but to take time and identify Ministries in Baltimore County, a child to help nurture in the Maryland things of Jesus Christ.
Dr. Tim Tooten, Sr.
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word of encouragement
God’s Truth
is March(ing) On.
© Donna Williams-Ross In Trust Ministries dwilliamsross@aol.com
We know who God is. And we also know that His truth is indeed marching on. We [mankind] burst on the scene as we arrive fresh from our mother’s womb and HE WAS there. As we grow and go about our daily activities we find out not only He WAS here before any of us got here, but that He IS presently here and as we near the end of our lives we see that He will always BE here. He starts off in Genesis with an earth that was formless, empty and with darkness over the surface of the deep. He looks at chaos, yet He doesn’t speak about chaos, He speaks to chaos, introducing us to what we now know as [the God who gives life to the dead and calls things that are not as though they were. Romans 4:17]. After speaking into existence all the things that He wanted on planet earth, God then made man in His image and likeness to do on earth that which He has was doing in heaven. In reality, in Genesis 1:26, God gave mankind the ability to be Him on the earth. Lucifer had other plans for mankind and deceived Eve in believing God was holding out on her – and that has continued to this day. We are still allowing satan to whisper in our ears [Did God really say, “You must not eat from any tree in the garden?” Genesis 3:1]. Yet in His love for mankind – God already knowing what the serpent would do, began to make a way to redeem us back to Himself. As we watch God’s truth still marching on – we see in Isaiah 9:6 — For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; And the government will rest on His shoulders; And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace. What was spoken of in Isaiah 9:6, we see the manifestation in Matthew 1:22-23 — All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel — which means, “God with us.” And again in Luke 2:6-7 — While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them. We see
Wars — in Iraq 2003-2011. War in Somalia 2006-2009. Yemeni al-Qaeda crackdown 2010 and ongoing. Famines — North Korean food crisis — Bangladesh food crisis – 2008. Horn of Africa, Somali and neighboring countries – 2011. Every truth in the Bible is still marching on – God continues to prove to us that His word does not return to Him void, but is completing everything He said that it would.
what was spoken in Genesis come to pass in the four Gospels. [His truth is marching on]. We continue to see God’s truth still marching after He ascended back to His Father. Then he said to them, “Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be great earthquakes, and in various places famines and pestilences. And there will be terrors and great signs from heaven.”—[Luke 21:10-11]. Earthquakes — August 2005 – Hurricane Katrina affecting Louisiana, Mississippi, as well as other areas of the Southern United States with causalities upward of 1,300. In October 2004, The Kashmir Earthquake in Pakistan, India and Afghanistan with a death toll of 88,000. In December 2004, Indian Ocean Tsunami in Sri Lanka, Indonesia, Thailand, India, Bangladesh, Myanmar, Maldives and Malaysia with a death toll of 220,000. In January 2010 the Haiti Earthquake in Haiti with a death toll of 222,570 people. What God said was experienced in earthquakes.
II Timothy 2:2-5 – For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power. God’s truth is marching on because we are now living out II Timothy 2:2-5. Mankind has become lovers of self, money, boastful, arrogant, etc. We are seeing it more and more in the church. Even in the midst of God’s truth marching on, Body of Christ, we need to take our rightful place. No longer can we sit idly by as we become more like the world as opposed to the other way around. We are soldiers in the Lord’s army and we are living in a war zone. Soldiers pick up your weapons! Remember our weapons are not carnal, but mighty through God for the pulling down of strongholds. As God’s truth continues to march on – let us do the work that God has called and ordained for us to do as was boldly declare, “He who testifies these things says, Surely I come quickly. Amen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus.” Revelations 22:20. Let’s remember that He is going to come like a thief in the night and we must make the decision to be like the five wise virgins. www.gracenglorymagazine.org 45
carter commentary
Her Voice and “Voice”
That voice! That range! That note! When the late Whitney Houston propelled to meteoric heights of fame during the mid to late 1980’s, no singer was even close to the fame that fate had afforded her. Not only did she rise to the top of the pop music charts, domestically and Dr. Harold internationally, in many ways this soon-to-be megastar A.Carter, Jr. was, in the vernacular of today, “off the charts.” Pastor, New People magazine’s February 27th issue states: Shiloh Baptist She was just 19 years old… and she looked Church nervous—standing alone before a microphone on Baltimore, MD The Merv Griffin Show on April 29, 1983, Whitney Houston began to timidly sing the first few bars of “Home” from the Wiz…. Then, as she worked her way through the song… the extraordinary happened. Her voice ignited, flying from one octave to another. In that moment, a superstar was born.... It wasn’t mere hype, or even a prescient prediction, but rather a statement of fact. That name, that smile, and above all that voice…. There would be no Whitney Houston, as we came to know her, without her voice. She had a brief modeling stint as a young lady, having been one of the first African-American models to be on the cover of Seventeen magazine, in 1981. She went on to act (if not star) in three movies, not including “Cinderella,” the made for television film and the yet to be released “Sparkle,” as a young woman. But, it was her unmistakable voice that set her apart. Her mother, Cissy Houston, once told People magazine in 1988: “There was something in her voice that no one, not even I, could teach her.” When Kevin Costner, who co-starred in the movie “The Bodyguard” with Whitney Houston, shared a statement of tribute during Whitney’s Home Going Service, Saturday, February 18, he said that she had attained one of the rarest achievements (in the music industry); that she’d set the bar so high (with her rendition of Dolly Parton’s “I Will Always Love You”) that professional singers—her own colleagues—don’t want to sing that little country song. Adding, “what would be the point?” I heard, during a CNN interview with a music industry insider that singers and musicians often referred to the climax of “I Will Always Love You,” as “the note.” And, everyone knew that was a reference to Whitney Houston’s remarkable singing prowess and range, especially as exemplified at the end of that song. I must confess that I have never been a fan of Whitney Houston’s. I have been more than familiar with pop music, having been a disco dee jay during my junior, senior and freshman years of high school and college respectively. When Ms. Houston popped on the scene, with her self-titled debut album in 1985, I had already been captivated by the likes of Sade and Anita Baker, whose voices were much more soulful (if not spiritual) and more to my liking. There is a reason that Whitney Houston had become known as “the princess of pop.” Furthermore, when it came to pop; that is, pop music, I sided with Janet (you know, “Ms. Jackson….”) Nevertheless, Whitney Houston had become a force to be reckoned with. And, although it could be said that she had it all, it was her voice that distinguished her and set her apart from the rest of the pack. Oprah Winfrey said, “Whitney was the Voice. We got to hear part of God every time she sang.” All of us have a “voice,” meaning that certain sound that’s made by our persona. It’s who we are or, at least, created to be. Hence, the problem. All of us have “a voice,” but not all of us find it or come to it. We tend to imitate, assimilate, and/or perpetrate. And, when our “voice” requires certain cultivating, disciplining, sacrificing, and etc. we, also, tend to medicate, in more ways than one. Arguably, Whitney had the gift of an unusual voice. The question, however, given her more than public struggles is, had she found her “voice.” The world loved her because of her voice. However, did she love 46 March 2012 | Grace&Glory
herself enough to be who she was created to be; that is, her “voice?” Again, Kevin Costner’s observations are telling. He shared something of Whitney’s insecurities, wondering if she (even at the height of her career) was “good enough.” “Arguably, the biggest pop star in the world wasn’t sure if she was good enough…. She didn’t think she looked right. There were a thousand things to her that seemed wrong,” Costner said. He went on to say, “The Whitney I knew, despite her success and worldwide fame, still wondered am I good enough? Am I pretty enough? Will they like me? It was the burden that made her great, and the part that caused her to stumble in the end.” A source close to Whitney Houston stated that she was in pain from living almost a double life. A record exec who worked with her said that she wasn’t a “goody two shoes.” Whitney was proud of her “street” roots in Newark, NJ, states People magazine. “But Houston was meticulously groomed by Clive Davis (her manager and “industry father” as he called him) to fulfill the role of America’s Singing Sweetheart—and it was, at times, a deeply uncomfortable fit.” The record exec picks up, “She wanted to be down with her community. That’s who she really was.” Such, obviously, explains her connection, relationship, and marriage to Bobby Brown, “an R & B bad boy from Boston’s violent Orchard Park projects who appealed to the singer’s rebellious side,” according to People. Others may try to change us, make us over, or define/redefine us, but who we are is who we are. Tragically, as Whitney struggled to find her “voice,” pressured by the industry that was trying to make her into someone she wasn’t, she thought the way to cope was to medicate. By the time she tried to come out of the Far Country and come to herself (checking herself in rehab, etc.) she’d lost so much of her vocal voice. The range was gone. Her clarity was raspy. And, she could no longer hit “the note.” During one of her last performances, which was overseas, Whitney’s voice cracked as she tried to finish her signature song. There is nothing quite like being at peace with one’s self. Some come to such a state easier than others. Some never do. And, still, for others it’s a constant battle. Regardless of one’s abilities, status, culture, and so forth, real success in life is the ability to not be robbed of one’s “voice.” And, that ability only comes with a relationship with God, through His Son, Jesus Christ. Fortunately, for Whitney, she not only had religious underpinnings, but she seemed to personify Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way (she) should go: and when (she) is old, (she) will not depart from it.” The night before Whitney Houston passed, she attended her friend, R & B singer Kelly Price’s pre-Grammy party. As fate would have it, Whitney’s last stage performance occurred then as she did an impromptu rendition of her favorite childhood song: “Yes, Jesus Loves Me.” During that spontaneous moment, void of marketing, ticket sales, major production, and screaming fans, when she was simply “Whitney,” she didn’t miss a note.
Whitney 8.9.63 – 2.11.12
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