Mother Etha Campbell

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Order of Service

Musical Prelude

Prayer

Praise and Worship

Opening Remarks and Invocation

Opening Hymn

Minister R. Mitchell

“How Great Thou Art”

Scripture Reading Lammar Campbell-Lindsay (Granddaughter) Psalm 21

Song Selections

Scripture Reading

Prudence Campbell (Daughter- In Law)

Shanakay Hamilton (Family Friend)

Rachel Williamson (Great Granddaughter) 1 Corinthians 15: 50-58

Tributes

John McLean

Deacon C. Bryan

Lurlene Davis

Musical Rendition

Song Selection

Family Friend

Family Friend

Family Friend/Sister in Christ

Marching Band

Marvella Allen, Assana Mitchell, (Grand Children)

Renae Campbell- Edwards

Shyan McLeod

Musical Selection

Offertory Hymn

(Great Grand Child)

“In the New Jerusalem”

Family Remembrances

Desrene Monroe Neice

Cynthia Campbell Daughter

Collen Simms-Bamidele & Delmore Simms Nieces

Elvena Campbell & Zhorelle Brown

Daughter & Granddaughter

George, Rupert, Clenton, Durant, Sons

Fitz & Cornelius Campbell

Sermon

Eulogy

Vote of Thanks

Prayer for the Family

Recessional Hymn

Bishop C.O. Gayle

Theresia Williamson (Granddaughter)

Georgette McLeod (Granddaughter)

Pastor C. Thomas-Peart

“When I’ve Gone the Last Mile of the Way”

“Always have a little savings put aside, wey nuh baddi nuh know bout” “ “ MOTHER ETHA FAVORITE QUOTES

Order of Interment

Bishop St. Elmo Taylor

Opening Sentences

Musical Rendition

Words of Inspiration

The Committal

Prayer

Praise Choruses

HOW GREAT THOU ART

O Lord my God, When I in awesome wonder, Consider all the worlds Thy Hands have made; I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder, Thy power throughout the universe displayed.

Chorus

Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art. Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art!

And when I think, that God, His Son not sparing; Sent Him to die, I scarce can take it in; That on the Cross, my burden gladly bearing, He bled and died to take away my sin. [Chorus]

When Christ shall come, with shout of acclamation And take me home, what joy shall fill my heart

Then I shall bow, in humble adoration And then proclaim, my God, how great Thou art [Chorus]

WHEN THE ROLL IS CALLED UP YONDER

When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound and time shall be no more, And the morning breaks, eternal, bright and fair; When the saved of earth shall gather over on the other shore, And the roll is called up yonder, I’ll be there.

Refrain

When the roll is called up yonder, When the roll is called up yonder, When the roll is called up yonder, When the roll is called up yonder, I’ll be there.

On that bright and cloudless morning when the dead in Christ shall rise, And the glory of his resurrection share; When his chosen ones shall gather to their home beyond the skies, And the roll is called up yonder, I’ll be there. [Refrain]

Let us labor for the Master from the dawn till setting sun; Let us talk of all his wondrous love and care. Then when all of life is over and our work on earth is done, And the roll is called up yonder, I’ll be there. [Refrain]

When the toils of life are over, And we lay our armor down, And we bid farewell to earth with all its cares, We shall meet and greet our loved ones, And our Christ we then shall crown, In the new Jerusalem.

Chorus

There’ll be singing, there’ll be shouting When the saints come marching home, In Jerusalem, in Jerusalem, Waving palms with loud hosannas As the King shall take His throne, In the new Jerusalem.

Tho’ the way is sometimes lonely, He will hold me with His hand, Thro’ the testings and the trials I must go. But I’ll trust and gladly follow, For sometime I’ll understand, In the new Jerusalem. (Chorus)

When the last goodbye is spoken And the tear stains wiped away, And our eyes shall catch a glimpse of glory fair, Then with bounding hearts we’ll meet Him Who hath washed our sins away, In the new Jerusalem.

When we join the ransomed army In the summer land above, And the face of our dear Saviour we behold, We will sing and shout forever, And we’ll grow in perfect love, In the new Jerusalem. (Chorus)

WHEN I’VE GONE THE LAST MILE OF THE WAY

If I walk in the pathway of duty, If I work till the close of the day, I shall see the great King in His beauty, When I’ve gone the last mile of the way.

Refrain:

When I’ve gone the last mile of the way, I will rest at the close of the day; And I know there are joys that await me, When I’ve gone the last mile of the way.

If for Christ I proclaim the glad story, If I seek for His sheep gone astray, I am sure He will show me His glory, When I’ve gone the last mile of the way.

Here the dearest of ties we must sever, Tears of sorrow are seen every day; But no sickness, no sighing forever, When I’ve gone the last mile of the way.

And if here I have earnestly striven, And have tried all His will to obey, ’Twill enhance all the rapture of heaven, When I’ve gone the last mile of the way.

Etha

Solvoleta Simms came into the world on October 29, 1930. She was born in the parish of St. Catherine after her parents, Leteisha and Edward Simms emigrated from Cuba to Jamaica, while being pregnant with her. Etha, the second of eight children, completed her primary education at the Wakefield Baptist School.

In 1949, at the age of 19, she married her husband, Cornelius Campbell. Etha couldn’t resist his charm, and so she accepted his proposal after he asked her father, Edward, for her hand in marriage. At the age of twenty (20), they welcomed their first son, George Headley. Over the next ten years, their union blessed them with six more handsome boys.

THE PILLAR OF THE FAMILY

Etha was the matriarch, pillar, and chief cornerstone behind her husband and the family’s success. She was a visionary who made dreams possible and turned them into reality for her family.

In the early years, Cornelius, her husband, migrated to England in pursuit of better opportunities and a higher quality of life for his family. Cornelius recognized Etha’s strength and he wished for her to be by his side in England. However, Etha swiftly rejected the idea, firmly determined not to leave her children behind. Instead, she vowed to be there every step of the way to nurture and care for them. Eventually, seeing that Etha would not relent, Cornelius moved back to Jamaica to be with his wife and children. Just nine months later, their first daughter, Elvena, was born. Over the following years, they welcomed seven more children into their family.

Despite the challenges they faced, particularly in the early years, Etha’s life was marked by unmatched hard work and determination. She would venture into the bush to dig yams and other produce to take to the market. Her days began early and ended late. Loading up the donkey with produce for the market was no easy task, but she persevered. Etha and her husband capitalized on cultivating various crops on their farm, including oranges, sugarcane, yams, bananas, and tomatoes, among others. Her harvests were consistently bountiful and abundant, earning her a reputation for success in anything she touched.

HOMEMAKER EXTRAORDINAIRE

Etha’s culinary skills were exceptional. She took great pleasure in cooking for her husband and children, regardless of how late she returned home from a hard day’s work at the marketplace. Additionally, she delighted in preparing and sending dishes to various individuals in the community, earning her a reputation for kindness and generosity. Etha was renowned for her culinary prowess, particularly her mastery of dishes like rice and

peas and stews and was considered the best cook in the district. She was also an excellent homemaker, and her dedication to cleanliness was evident. She instilled the value of “cleanliness is godliness” in her children, ensuring that tidiness was a priority. If someone was untidy, Etha would kindly straighten them out. Her domestic duties were essential in sustaining the family’s well-being. Etha was also a skilled seamstress and even though she did not sew to make a living, she ensured that she made her own children’s clothes and that they were always well dressed.

ETHA A LOVER OF JESUS CHRIST – A FAITHFUL SERVANT

Etha accepted the Lord Jesus as a young adult and dedicated her life to serving in various capacities within the church, including as a missionary, church treasurer, president of the Youth Empowerment Ministry and the church’s caretaker. One of her most significant contributions to the ministry was her exceptional ability for fundraising, which played a pivotal role in procuring funds for numerous church initiatives.

Faith played a pivotal role in Etha’s life and she instilled these values in her children. As her relationship with the Lord continued to grow, it touched the lives of many through her heartfelt exhortations, the songs she sang, and the exemplary life she led. She found great joy in spending time in the presence of the Lord and enthusiastically sharing the good news of salvation with others. Etha not only nurtured her own faith but also taught her children to love and fear the Lord. Attending church every Sunday was a non-negotiable for all her children. Her children fondly remember how she diligently read the Bible and began her day with daily devotions, making it the first priority each morning before doing anything else.

ETHA AN EXEMPLARY MOTHER AND WIFE

Etha’s greatest source of pride and joy was her children. She had an unconditional love for her children. She would shield her sons from their father’s disciplinary measures when they misbehaved, such as him withholding food as a form of punishment. Etha did not agree with this form of punishment. She believed that children should always have enough to eat, and she did not want this lack of food to cause her children to resort to stealing to satisfy their hunger. Without disrespecting her husband, Etha cleverly hid food for her boys in conspicuous places and subtly guided them to its location so that Cornelius wouldn’t discover her actions.

Etha was equally devoted to her daughters, sewing their clothes, and setting an exemplary model of decency for all her children. She demonstrated an unwavering “can-do” attitude, no matter the challenges, instilling resilience in her children. They embraced the values and can attribute these lessons to their success today.

As a wife, Etha served her husband, Cornelius, faithfully until he passed away in the year 2000. After losing her husband, Etha migrated to the United States and divided her time between her children George, Clenton, and Elvena. She took immense pride in her children and cherished the care and attention she received.

Despite the comforts and pleasures of life in the United States, Etha harbored a deep longing to return to her own home, where she could once again be surrounded by the lush greenery of Pampi. Her heart yearned for the familiar surroundings of her beloved home. Eventually, Etha made the decision to return to Wakefield, where she spent the remaining years of her life.

ETHA’S NOTABLE CHARACTERISTICS

Who was Etha, how will her life be remembered, and what made her stand out? Etha epitomized the qualities of a Proverbs 31 woman. The question arises: Who can find a virtuous woman? Our Mother and Grandmother was such a virtuous woman, her value surpassing that of rubies; she was truly precious and rare. She worked diligently with her hands, seeking wool and flax. Like a merchant’s ships, she brought food from afar. She rose

before dawn to provide for her household, considering fields and making fruitful vineyards. Etha’s strength and compassion knew no bounds, as she extended her hand to the poor and reached out to the needy.

All of Etha’s children rose up and call her blessed. Many daughters have demonstrated virtuousness, but our Mother Etha excelled them all.

Our beloved Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother, Sister, Aunt, and Friend will be remembered for her unwavering love for God and her children. Her words of wisdom, her loving, kind, and caring nature, her dedication, humor, wit, industriousness, entrepreneurial spirit, and strong work ethic made her an extraordinary individual. Etha offered extraordinary hospitality to all who visited her, always searching for ways to provide something before they departed. She epitomized hard work, honesty, and integrity; she didn’t tolerate nonsense and commanded respect.

THE LEGACY LIVES ON

Despite living a fulfilling life, Etha’s health deteriorated rapidly in the past several months of 2023. On Saturday, August 19, 2023, our beloved Mother, Etha Solvoleta Campbell (affectionately known as Sista Etta or Stata), departed from this world after spending a week in the Kingston Public Hospital.

Etha was blessed with a total of thirteen (13) children, of whom three (3) tragically passed away at a young age. Etha’s legacy lives on through her ten (10) surviving children: George (Headley), Rupert (Pickey), Clenton (Cushu), Fitz (Gentleman), Durant (Colard), Elvy, Princess, Eunis (Miss U), Cynthia (Miss I), and Cornelius (Boy-Boy). She is also survived by her five (5) daughters-in-law and one son-in-law, as well as twenty-five (25) grandchildren, thirty-eight (38) great-grandchildren, and two (2) great-great-grandchildren. Additionally, Etha lives on in her two brothers, Martin and Lloyd, her sisters Gurline and Bobs, numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.

My Grandmother, my granny, you have run the race and kept the faith. Treasures in heaven await you. We thank God for the years he blessed you with us, fulfilling his promise of satisfying you with long life. Life will never be the same without you. We thank God for the life you lived and the exemplary way you served and guided all of us. We understand that it was not robbery for the Lord to call her home to find rest.

By God’s grace, we will continue your legacy, ensuring that even our children’s children will know of you. We will always love you, knowing that Jesus loves you best.

Sleep in Heavenly Peace, our beloved Mother and Grandmother, Etha Solvoleta Campbell.

FROM THE BISHOP’S DESK

Etha Campbell: A Faithful Servant of Christ

Sister Etha Campbell was saved at a campaign meeting conducted by the late Overseer W.C. Narcisse. She, along with others, worked relentlessly to purchase a church spot for erecting a building to continue the work of the Lord Jesus. Sister Campbell remained faithful after her conversion. I came to know Sister Etha Campbell in her late twenties, and our relationship grew stronger over the years. Due to her faithful and dedicated service, she was elevated to the title of Mother Campbell. She was a kind and loving person, always giving of herself, and her presence will be greatly missed.

From Bishop Carl Gayle and Family

From the Missionaries and Ladies Ministry

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My Blessed Mother

Mama, you have played many roles in your lifetime - Daughter, Sister, Wife, Mother to many, Grandmother, Great Grandmother, Aunt, and Friend. Above all, you have been a true Woman of God, setting an example for us all. Your life has been a profound blessing, evident in the love you shared through both words and actions. You went above and beyond to provide for your family.

Your love and wisdom will be deeply missed, but we will strive to fulfill your wish of living in love and unity. Rest in Peace, Mama. We will always cherish and miss you.

Your son, George (Headley)

My Precious Mother

My mother is precious and dear to me. She was always there for me. During my childhood years, it was rough and difficult, yet I coped because my mother always had an encouraging word, saying, ‘Son, you will soon grow up.’ My mother had such high hopes for all of us, her children.

I can remember her during tough times, loading up the donkey and our heads with yams. Then came the thunderous rain on multiple occasions, resulting in itching from the yams. The itching was so unbearable, yet my mother and I had to continue pushing the donkey over those hills with the loads in the rain to get home. My mother would say, ‘My son, don’t worry, soon you will have your car to drive me around.’ Back then, I did not believe that would be possible, but her words did come to pass.

Stata, as I called her, prophesied positive words over me and my siblings. I can remember getting whipped for not wearing my brother Headley’s clothes. My mother was trying to instill in me humility and the importance of caring for each other. She said that we must wear each other’s clothes because when we get older, if one is not able to provide, we must help each other. She taught me how to love and care for each other as a family.

My mother is truly one of a kind. She made efforts in helping me take care of my children. She would take the tomatoes that I planted to the market to sell and would give me the proceeds from the sale to help me provide for my children. My mom taught me how to fight through difficulties and to never give up.

‘Stata,’ the love you showed me helped me become the man, father, and husband I am today. For your endless care and support over the years, I say, ‘Thank you, Stata.’ My mother, I love you with all my heart. I will treasure the memories and the lessons you taught me. Rest in Peace, My Mother.

Your son, Rupert (Pickey)

“God will pay every man according to him works” “

The Lessons my Mother

Taught

My mother, Miss Etha Campbell, deposited so much goodness in me while I was growing up. A few of the things she taught me include how to love one another, treat people right, avoid harboring bad thoughts in your heart towards anyone, and always strive to do good, for God’s blessings will follow you.

She also left me with a scripture, Proverbs 25:17, which says, ‘Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbor’s house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee.’

Thank you, Mom. I love you and will miss you dearly.

Rest in Peace.

Your son, Clenton (Cushu)

My Wise Mother

Mom, I just want to express how much I love and appreciate you. You have been such a wonderful and awesome mother, a woman of God who was always praying. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. I know your prayers have kept me ‘Blessed.’

I remember how you taught me to save. I’ll never forget your advice, “Durant, never put all your eggs in one basket; you have to get two bank accounts, and make sure the woman only knows about one.” I took your advice, Mom. From managing money to digging yams, you taught me so many valuable things.

I remember Brother Con’s workdays, where you would cook, and people would flock to your kitchen because you were the best cook out there. I also remember you telling my father when I needed lunch money, “You better find it and give it to him,” ensuring that all the men around you lived up to their responsibilities. As I’m repeating the way you said it, you’re making me laugh.

Mom, even though you are not my biological mom, you never treated me differently. I’ve always felt like your own. I love you, Mom, and thank you for everything you have taught me and done for me.

Rest In Peace, with all my love.”

Your son, Durant (Colad)

My Hardworking Mother

Mama, thank you for all that you have done for me and the lessons you taught me. You worked so hard for us and your children throughout the years. I remember how early you would wake us with the torch lamp to go to the bush to look for produce to take to the market. You would ‘pad’ the donkey and instruct us to meet up with you with the donkey at a certain spot and by a certain time. Mama, you worked hard to take care of us. Thank you, Mama. May your soul rest in peace.

I Love you and miss you, Mama.

Your son, Fitz (Gentleman)

“Learn to live good with unu brother and sister”

The Best Mother

My mom was one of the best mothers, raising nine children and more. I fondly remember her words, “See and blind, hear and deaf.”

As a child, I, Fabian, Natalie, Colleen, and Gary would always play marbles at the gate, and she would be on the veranda sewing. She would call me to come and thread the sewing machine for her. I would ask why I had to do it, little did I know that as you were aging, your eyesight was getting bad. This did not stop you from making our clothes and ensuring we were well taken care of.

Mom, I love you so much and will always cherish you always.

Your son, Cornelius (Boy-Boy)

“No beg no borrow, if you no have nothing to cook put the pot on the fire and put water in it and cover it you neighbor won’t know you nuh cook”

My Mom Forever with Me

l am sorry for your loss” is a phrase normally used by a grieving person to give comfort.

But, how could I lose my mom when she is all wrapped up in me. I see her in my eyes, in my hands, in my cheekbones, in my smile, and hear her in my voice. She is forever etched in my memory. My life is guided by the lessons she taught me. Her Lesson in finance, cooking, housekeeping, honesty, independence, integrity, to be resourceful, in relationships, and marriage. I depict my mother as a University in her own right, with such entrepreneurial and eloquence comparable to that of an alumni from any University.

She was fully equipped to engage even the most educated in discussions and conversations. To me, my mother was flawless. As a child, I always aspired to be like her, wanting to do things just as she did them. To me, everything she did was perfectly done. I came close enough because she is identified in me. A great money manager and negotiator, her wisdom and talents were unmatched. She was articulate and witty. She is not lost; she is in me.

Your Daughter, Elvena

My Wonderful Mom

Mama Etha, thank you for being a wonderful mother to me. Thanks for raising me in the fear of the Lord; you will always be in my heart. Mama, I always heard you say you wished that God would let you live to see your children pass through the worst, and God did grant you that wish. Mom, I miss you so much, and I hope to see you again someday.

Rest in Peace, Mama.

Your daughter, Princess (Prinny)

My Hardworking Mom

She was a hardworking, loving, kind, and sweet mom. She was a disciplinarian and a homemaker. She was a skilled cook and a diligent woman. She showed love to her children and grandchildren. She raised all of us in the ways of the Lord. We all had to attend church every Sunday. Mom never let us go to bed hungry. If all we had was ‘food,’ at least we had something in our stomachs every night. I was the crybaby. If mama went to the market and didn’t come back on time, I would sit and cry until she got home. I only stopped crying when I heard her call out to Aunt T, then everyone would run out. She taught us that “family matters should be kept behind closed doors” and “what your right hand knows, your left hand should not.” She always warned us, “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket,” and that we should have two accounts, one the spouse knows about and the other one he/she doesn’t know about.

RIP, Mom.

Your Daughter, Eunis (Miss U)

My Miraculous Mom

My mother was my teacher, nurse, and doctor. She taught us to love God and to fear Him. I remember the days when my mother and I would go to the ‘bush’ to gather things for the market. We rode the donkey, selling mangoes, naseberry, and other items we gathered from the farm while growing up. I always remember Mom telling us that no work is degrading as long as you are not lying on your back. My mother instilled many values in me that make me proud of who I am today.

My mother was a miracle worker. She ensured we had clean clothes and nutritious food despite our small budget. She could stretch a dollar to make sure her family had the things they needed. She was my nurse, teacher, counselor, helper, and friend. My mother greeted the world with grace. Others may have had more money than we did, but no one had a better mother. Sleep well, Mom.

Your daughter, Cynthia (Miss I)

Industrious and One of a Kind

Grandma Etha, affectionately called by me “Me Sweata” since I was a little girl because I couldn’t properly call her name “Ms. Etha” as everyone else did.

She has been a pillar and tower of wisdom to me and my late brother Leighton who she called “Bredda Gaiton”. I cherished every moment we spent together as she gave me advice and admonished me on how to be a better woman as a wife, mother, daughter, and overall, a better child of God.

The first Bible verse she taught me was Ephesians 6: 1-3: “1Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.2 Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;3That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.”

She taught me with joy, always reminding me that she lived by this scripture and had always honored her parents, so she was sure her days would be long. To God be the glory, that the Lord always delivers on His promises and blessed her with almost 93 years. It is the same joy I share with my own daughter, Shyan, with hopes that we too will be blessed with a long life.

I will miss her words of wisdom, for example:

• “What your left hand knows, your right hand doesn’t have to know.”

• “Always put away a little something for a rainy day.”

I will miss her sense of humor, her laughter, and the jokes we share especially when she and my husband Delroy jokes about living abroad that they both dread so much as they love their freedom in Jamaica. Especially for her as she wanted to be able to go outside to plant her crops and take care of her flowers.

Another joke I enjoy is when my dad would ask her where she hid the money she got from abroad, she would laugh and say, “boy u love badda me”; and still not tell him where she put it. I will miss the love she demonstrated in so many ways and the pride she took in speaking about how much she loved her family overall, especially her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, including my daughter Shyan, whom she called “Mosquito.”

Last, but not least, I will miss her love and dedication to being a servant of the Lord. She taught me how to pray, not only “The Lord’s Prayer” but also two short prayers that I had to repeat every night before going to bed and as soon as I woke up in the morning. It is with great joy that I’m grateful the Lord blessed me with the opportunity to share the last prayer with her at her bedside before He called her home to rest with Him in heavenly peace. Sleep on, Grandma. You have run your course well and have been an example to us. It is our desire to carry on your legacy and fulfill your admonition to all of us that we should live well with each other.

Forever in our hearts. ❤�� Your Granddaughter, Georgette.

My Influencer

One of the most influential people in my life is my grandmother, I’ve learnt the value of life through all her teachings. She has taught me how to be hardworking and independent as a woman.

Thank you for everything Grandma.

With all my love.

Your granddaughter, Marvella (Tammy)

“Don’t depend pon man fi everything, have your own”

My Phenomenal Grandmother

Growing up, it was always Mama and me. I remember when we would go to the bush together to get produce to sell at the market. I would be the one to climb the trees for her. When she dug yam, we would sit and clean the dirt and the string from the yam. When she laid her plantain out in the sun, I sat down beside her plantain heap to keep away the chickens. On a Saturday morning before she went to the market, she would say, “Tammy and Finey Mek sure unuh do everything in the yard cause church Sunday”. Truth be told I love my grandmother.

Your granddaughter, Assana (Finey)

Nurturing Grandmother

I have almost no memories of my grandmother from when I was a child. A brain treatment I had caused me to lose most of those precious moments. I don’t remember her lifting me up into her arms, I don’t remember sitting in her lap. I don’t remember her giving me candy on a Sunday after church. But I remember her love in a way that is hard to describe. It is what I feel when I think of her. I see warmth and abundance in that space in my mind where her face should be. That love that she had for her family was something no injury could erase, because it was spiritual as it was physical. It is the kind of love that gives you strength when you are utterly alone because a towering woman of faith and determination is in your corner. I cry because I cannot remember her beyond a few years into the past. I do not remember her upright gait, or her more robust voice. But I do remember how powerful she had to be to impart on me a love that defies the physical limitations of modern medicine. For that small, yet not so small bit, I am grateful. I will lose the memories soon enough. I will have pictures to remind me that we were here together for a long time. I will feel her love when I look at them. That love is the only story I need. It reminds me that I will never lose the enormous capacity for wisdom and care that I come from.

Your granddaughter, Zhorelle (Jo-Jo)

More Than a Grandmother

My beloved grandma was more than just a grandmother; she was my confidant, my advocate, my comforter, and so much more. Grandma was the steady anchor in my life, always there with open arms and a listening ear. Her wisdom and guidance were the compass that helped shape the person I am today. She instilled in me the values of kindness, resilience, and love that continue to guide my path.

Today, as we say our final goodbyes, we also celebrate the beautiful legacy she leaves behind. Grandma’s love, her unwavering support, and her nurturing spirit will live on in each of us. Her impact on my life, and the lives of all those she touched, will be felt for generations to come.

Grandma, you were my confidant, my advocate, my comforter, and my guiding light. Thank you for the love and wisdom you shared with me. Your memory will forever be a source of inspiration, and I will carry your legacy in my heart always.

Rest in peace, dear grandma. You will be dearly missed, but your love will never be forgotten.

Your granddaughter, Natanya (Tanya)

My Granny Story

Once upon a time, I met a beautiful lady named Etha Solvoleta Campbell. She was my beloved grandmother, a constant presence in my life from my earliest days. Her wisdom and guidance shaped my childhood and continue to influence me as an adult. She was the mother of my dad, aunts, uncles, and my one and only grandmother.

Etha, both in life and now in her passing, has been my unwavering source of love and guidance. As a child, she welcomed me into her world, nurturing and mentoring me. She introduced me to faith, christening me at Faith Assembly Church. Her support was invaluable, and I cherished the “Cheesestrix” treats she brought home every weekend for me and my cousins. Sunday mornings meant trips to Pampi for callaloo and duck bread, followed by a rush back for church.

Granny encouraged me to recite the books of the Bible and scriptures, always praising my brilliance. Her belief in me fueled my hard work and confidence. When times were tough at home, and my parents struggled, I knew I had a refuge in Granny. Despite limited resources, she always found a way to assist. Through her, I learned the values of hard work, love, dedication, and unwavering commitment to family.

She emphasized dignity, regardless of circumstances, teaching us to carry ourselves with pride, refrain from theft, and remain faithful to our spouses. Her home was immaculate, rivaling Buckingham Palace in cleanliness, and her culinary skills were unmatched.

Granny’s consistency in values, even when perceived as blunt, left a lasting impact. She never hesitated to speak her truth, and her love for me was palpable. I recall receiving a single whipping, a humorous lesson in responsibility. She taught me the significance of honoring my parents.

I gained wisdom and life skills from her, including the importance of cleanliness, understanding human nature, saving for the future, and having a financial safety net. Her sense of humor and negotiation skills rubbed off on me during market visits.

Despite her petite stature, Granny was a mighty worker, playing a pivotal role in her husband’s and the family’s success. She tackled farming, animal raising, and even roof repairs. Her sense of pride, independence, and dedication to hard work inspired me.

Granny’s legacy lives on through her descendants. She instilled values like treating others as we want to be treated, honesty, hard work, trust in God, and living for God. I aim to continue her legacy, even amidst family challenges. I’m grateful for her blessings.

This is just part of my story, honoring my beloved granny, Etha Solvoleta, as she rests in the arms of our Lord

and Savior Jesus Christ. She ran her race and kept the faith, and I will always love her. To all who read her tale, aspire to be like her, love the Lord Jesus Christ, serve well, inspire others, treat people kindly, build a lasting family legacy through hard work, dedication, and sound financial management. Write the story you want to be remembered for, cherish life’s moments, and pursue peace. In Granny’s passing at 92, I’ve come to realize the brevity of life. My forever granny, I love you.

Your granddaughter, Theresia (Tasha/Natasha)

The True Matriarch

Weekends and summer holidays take me on a nostalgic stroll through the beautiful orange orchard. The memories of picking oranges, mangoes, and June plums, and experiencing carefree flights on the greatest swing ever made, securely attached to that grand mango tree in the yard. I remember being awakened by your early 5 am conversations with grandpa until daybreak. Now, when I engage in similar early morning talks with my husband, it feels good, it feels necessary, it feels like I’m doing something right. I can recall days of assisting you in preparing produce for the market, then rushing to see you at the marketplace after school. Those Tuesday evenings were the highlight of my day because I knew a treat awaited me, whether it was box food, fruits, candy, or money. Getting a whole box of food was my favorite. You were always delighted to see me and proudly told the other vendors that I was your grandchild.

I remember how strict you were; we couldn’t stay in bed after 6:30 am. We had to get up and start our chores. Those well-intentioned kitchen tasks taught me domestic skills. How can I forget the first time you gave me that huge bowl of rice to shell! The pressure to do it right and not to miss any unshelled grain! “Hold the knife good and scrape the carrots properly!” you would say. “Oh boy, I thought to myself, “I’m too young for all of this.” But being lazy was not an option with you. I observed your unwavering and dedicated work ethic; you never took a break while caring for the family and doing all you could to generate income from the produce grandpa farmed. It was your way of life. You were resourceful, always ready to share with others. No one ever visited you without leaving with a bag of food. Life wasn’t always easy, but you remained hardworking, resilient, resourceful, and independent. You were loving, caring, kind, compassionate, and very wise.

Your contagious laugh will linger in the backyard forever; family gatherings will never be the same. Thank you for teaching me lessons in life: how to be a good wife, strong mother, independent go-getter, hardworking and a resilient upstanding woman. You lived by example, without excuses, and left a legacy for many to follow.

Sleep well, grandma. Rest in the arms of Jesus until we meet again.

With Love, Lammar (Granddaughter)

““Family drum must beat behind closed doors”
“ “ “Me can peep through nine inches wall. If you a good behaving woman and good man want yuh, if yuh Deh a thatch hole, him will come down Deh fi yuh”

My grandmother was such a sweet soul, a very hard-working individual who loved and cared for her family. I remember growing up and looking forward to those Christmas dinners; oh, those were some fun times. Continue to rest in eternal peace grandma.

Memories of my Beloved Grandmother

I remember spending most of my Easter, Summer, and Christmas holidays with Mama. My grandmother was a workaholic, always on the go, and she was loving and kind. I never visited Mama and left with empty hands. She would always have something for me. The last time I visited and was leaving, I said, “Mama, I am leaving now.” She squeezed my hand, and I said bye, not knowing it would be the last goodbye. Fly with the angels, Mama, forever in my heart.

Your granddaughter, Renae

My Mother In-Law Etha- She was my (Naomi)

“I love Miss Etha; she showed me love, care, and support. I can remember being pregnant as a young girl and a first-time mother-to-be for her son (Pickey). At one of the most critical stages of my life, Miss Etha was like a mother to me, filling all the emptiness and void in my life. Miss Etha would prepare my breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Oh, my, Miss Etha could cook. When she brown-stewed the chicken back and then turned it into soup, you couldn’t believe it was chicken back soup. The food was so delicious, not to mention her rice and peas; she was an amazing cook. Miss Etha took the place of my mother and cared for me; I was always at her home, and she supported me by allowing Princess and Miss U to stay with me at nights so that I wouldn’t be lonely. If a day passed without her seeing me, she would send Princess or Miss U to come and look for me and take food for me. The grandmother of my children showed me love and support. Through difficult times, Miss Etha supported me and my children. I felt her love, and she made me feel at home and that I belonged in the family. I am surely going to miss you, Miss Etha. Thank you for all you did for me and my family. Sleep in Christ.”

I Love You, Ruth (Daughter-in-Law)

Greatest Mother in Law

Ms. Etta was a woman of great wisdom who always gave me excellent advice and encouragement on life issues. One of her motherly pieces of advice was, ‘Always make sure you take care of your husband’s food and clothes no matter what, and make sure he’s taking care of you too.’

One of my most memorable moments with her was when I had the opportunity to create a bond with her while she was visiting us in NY. We would go shopping together, and her favorite store was Bobby’s in Brooklyn because she enjoyed the train ride to get there.

She will always hold a special place in my heart, and she will surely be missed. Sleep in peace, Ms. Etta. We love you, but Jesus loves you best.”

Joan (Daughter-in-Law)

My Caring Mother-In-Law

“When I think about Ms. Etha, I think about a hardworking, hospitable, and caring person with a contagious smile. Whenever I visited her, she would be busy doing something; however, she would take the time to include my daughter and me in the happenings and talk with us. At the end of that talk, you would feel happy and appreciative of her stories and her support. May we smile in her memory and appreciate the love she always had for everyone. We love and will miss you, Miss Etha. Your laugh and smile will forever be with us.”

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“If you married no matter what you and you husband have, don’t deprive him of him food. Cook him food and give him”

My Virtuous Mother-In-Law

Proverbs 31 verse 10, asks who can find a virtuous woman? Miss Etha is a woman of virtue, the first time I heard her voice from that very minute I know that she is one of a kind. She was a gem; her smile was also warm and welcoming. I am so glad that I have the privilege to meet her in this life. I love Miss Etha in life and even in death, God as chosen an Angel to join him in heaven, Love you.

Prudence (Daughter-in-Law)

MOTHER ETHA FAVORITE QUOTES

Acknowledgments

The family of Etha Solvoleta Campbell takes this opportunity to thank you for all your expressions of love and support during this difficult time. You may have sent a card, prepared a meal, visited, held us in your thoughts and prayers, or called to offer support. We are grateful for all you have done and ask that you continue to keep us in your prayers. God’s richest blessings to you all.

PALL BEARERS

Rupert Campbell

Clenton Campbell

Durant Campbell

Cornelius Campbell

Kingsley Ellis

Richard Campbell

Damion Campbell

Zoean Williams

Shaykeen Smalling

Phabian Francis

Shane Mitchell

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FLORAL BEARERS

Sanya Anderson

Saneaka Anderson

Natanya Campbell

Brittany Campbell

Briana Edwards

Renae Edwards

Shaneakay Mitchell

Sarah Williams

Sashana Williams

Jaleal Haughton

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