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HAYATI No 6

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Hayati Magazine 180 Talbott Street, Rockville, Maryland, 20852 No 6 June-July 2013 Chief Brand Officer: Fatima Togbe The magazine HAYATI is a publication edited for Hayati by Kimera Media, Potomac, Maryland, 20854 FATIMA TOGBE Editor-In-Chief AAMIRA JOHNSON Director of Marketing & Advertising aamira@hayatimagazine.com BINTA MOHAMMED Online Editor & Content Director binta@hayatimagazine.com +1(573) 415-0275 RUMKI CHOWDHURY Writer ALYA ALFATHEL Online Blogger NILLY “MANGO WHIRL�

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No Time To Spare This month as I was walking out of my house I bumped into my uncle who can be very chatty. We started with greetings and before I knew it we were having a full blown conversation I felt like I could not get out of. He spoke to me about my great-aunt and how hard working she was. He went on to tell me that as people get older they begin to develop routines for themselves and that is what keeps them going. My great aunt’s routine was to wake up in the morning, take a 20 minute walk to her shop, work till it got dark and make her way back home. The moment her children begged her to stay home, stop working and leave everything else to them, she fell ill within a short period of time and soon after passed away. May her soul rest in perfect peace.

A few weeks later, my uncle’s wife stopped by and as I tried to rush back to my office (to work on Hayati of course) she cornered me with what I anticipated to be a long talk. She spoke to me about marriage, advised me to take my time when picking a spouse and finally told me that she had stopped by to invite us to her 16th year wedding anniversary. I do not believe in coincidences but I do believe that everything happens by the will and power of Allah swt. Many times I get consumed with work and I am unwilling to spare a minute or two for fear of losing much more. However I have learned over the past few months that when Allah swt want to teach you a lesson, there is no way for you to avoid it.

It is easy to take the people around us for granted because it seems as though they will always be around. You go to bed at night and wake up in the morning by the grace of Allah swt and these people are still around. So you go through your day not even taking the time to talk to them or lend them an ear. This month, I want you all to start taking time out to talk to your family and friends. Understand what they are going through, whether good or bad because at the end of the day we will all pass away and at that time it will be too late for “should have’s”. Most importantly, never take anyone for granted for Allah swt can choose the most unlikely person to teach you life’s most important lessons.

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ANGLOMANIA When you quickly need to jet out and you are looking for something easy and cute to slip on, this is the outfit. Vivienne Westbood, $815.

MORWENNA This pretty floral dress is all you need to spice up your day during the summer. With a light cover-up and a bold color hijab, you are good-to-go in my books. Erdem, $2,225.

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MISS FISH I am always game when it comes to fun accessories and this clutch can instantly transform any plain outfit.

Sylvia Toledano, $1,650.

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5 EYELET There is something about belts that have eyelets. Paired with indigo dark jeans and a crispy white blouse.

You can never go wrong. Burberry, $495.

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SUNSET METALLIC I have a soft spot for anything golden.

Earrings, belts, shoes, accessories and clothes, you name it; this is no different Charlotte Olympia, $1,195.

LAPIS LAZULI Dangling earing will always add an element of elegance to your outfit and this month, this pair will do trick. Oscar De La Renta, $285.

CALF HAIR Sometimes you just want to slip flat shoes on and feel like you are still dressed up to an extent. I would go for this pair. Burberry, $495.

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PRINTED SILK Sometimes you just want that dressed up look plain hijabs cannot always provide. This is a great scarf to seal an outfit with.

Gucci, $410.

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LEOPARD-PRINT As an alternative, if you would like to wear calf hair shoes which are a bit more elegant, I would pick these shoes.

Gianvito Rossi, $795.

BLOGGER’S DIGEST ALYA ALFATHEL

Alya is 23 years old and studied diplomacy and international relations at Seton Hall Univerisity. Her hobbies include drawing/ painting, reading, writing poetry and last but not least, her passion for fashion.

Be sure to check out her many posts on fashion, style, beauty and more on hayatimagazine.com

Also follow her on instagram @hijabspiration

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HAYATI JUNE 2013

FAITH Skin Care During Ramadan The Mystery of Marriage (The Invisible Due Date)

HEALTH Fasting Is Healthy (Prepare for Ramadan)

BEAUTY Facial Treats Skin Care Durong Ramadan Quick Beauty Picks

FASHION Hijab-friendly looks Quick Shoe Fix Accessories Of The Month Bag Fix

LIVING Recipes

FEATURE Shemiza Rashid Disabled Muslim Network

IN EVERY ISSUE Editor’s Letter Editor’s Top 10 Picks Bloggers Digest Insta-Hayati Hot Spots Credits

Bracelet, Swarovski Crystal and Faux Pearl Bow, MIU MIU

KRABI FRENCH ALPS CAPE TOWN DUBAI ABUJA NICE SANTA MONICA

T O H T O SP KRABI

RAYAVADEE Situated at the heart of the stunning Phranang Peninsular on the edge of Krabi Marine National Park, Rayavadee nestles discreetly amidst tropical gardens and coconut groves against a backdrop of sheer cliffs, lush jungle foliage and the clear waters of the Andaman Sea. In addition to stylish, five-star accommodation, Rayavadee boasts fine cuisine, one of the most unique relaxation spas in Thailand and warm, attentive service.

Aptly named, The Grotto (pictured above) nestles under an ancient limestone cliff on the edge of Phranang Beach. There you can enjoy a leisurely lunch with your favourite book or lose yourself in the magic of a perfect sunset as you enjoy cocktails and a menu of light snacks with soft sand underfoot and a hint of romance in the air. Sumptuous barbecues are also held here on special nights each week.

Surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, the resort is also the perfect Thailand honeymoon destination and setting for intimate, personalized wedding celebrations or just a calm gettaway. This is a definetly a spot to add on your must visit list, because it is certainly on Hayati’s. •RAYAVADEE KRABI, 214 Moo 2, Tumbon Ao-Nang, Amphur Muang, 81000 Krabi Thailand. Tel : 66 75 620 740-3 and 66 75 620 051. http://www.rayavadee.com

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his is an exceptionally elegant fully catered chalet situated in the Legettaz area of the sought after ski resort of Val d’Isere, in the French Alps. Built over three floors to accommodate large parties of up to 20 people.

All ensuite rooms benefit from unparalleled views and direct access to balconies or the private terrace, where two hot water tubs and a swim spa create the perfect space for your relaxation. For those looking for a more adrenaline packed activity the concierge service can organise husky rides, ski-doing, ice climbing, go karting or ice driving in a top of the range car. Enjoy the exclusive atmosphere of private dining at your chalet where the Chef is at your disposal to prepare 4 course meals, as well as breakfasts and afternoon teas six days per week.

•VAL D’ISERE, SK1243-Chalet Le Chardon,Tel: +44 01442 870055

CAPE TOWN

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•One&Only Cape Town, Dock Road, Victoria & Alfred Waterfront, Cape Town 8001, South Africa. Tel: + 27 21 431 5888. capetown.oneandonlyresorts.com

DUBAI

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ashion and food, what’s not to love? Combining two industries that inspire creativity and passion in equal measures, Condé Nast International has launched its latest Vogue Café in Dubai. Partnering with Inspired Group, the café opened its doors within shopping mecca the Dubai Mall. For Fashion lovers, this is really a spot worth visiting.

•CAFE VOGUE, The Dubai MAll, Dubai, United Arab Emirates Tel: + +971 4 501 6810.

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anilla is a neighborhood spot that attracts diners from all across the city. Located in Abuja’s prime neighborhood Maitama.

Vanilla is a little gem of a restaurant... with cooking consistently good and the young staff, attractive and efficient. In addition to a deliciously inventive mix of Western and Nigerian food and a comfortable but energetic dining room, Vanilla also offers an outdoor garden bar, a relaxed lounge and an outdoor dinning experience suitable for any taste.

•VANILLA, 28 Pope John Paul II Street Maitama, Abuja, Tel: +234 810 454 5070

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•NICE, France. http://en.nicetourisme.com/

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he Museum of Islamic Art, Qatar, is a museum for the world. It will bring the world to Doha, but it will also connect Doha to the world. The Museum of Islamic Art is dedicated to being the foremost museum of Islamic art in the world, and as well a centre of education and information in the field of the arts of the Islamic world.

Through the vision of its leadership and the dedication of its staff, the Museum of Islamic Art will manifest this commitment by establishing, preserving, and documenting a collection that reflects the vitality, the complexity, and the diversity of the arts of the Islamic world.

•THE MUSEUM OF ISLAMIC ART, Doha Qatar Tel: +(974) 4452 5555

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FACIAL TREATS Affordable luxuries that go a long way to rejuvenate your skin and making you feel vibrant.

By: Karen Bruno - WebMD

There are thousands of anti-aging creams, moisturizers, lotions, serums, exfoliators, and cleansers available, and you can spend hundreds of dollars on luxury brands, or just a few dollars at the drugstore. But many inexpensive drugstore brands work just as well as the luxury brands, dermatologists say, because they contain many of the same ingredients. The secret? Find your glow with the right products for your skin type.

Bar Soap and Liquid Cleansers Most bar soaps are too harsh to use on your face because they contain ingredients that may irritate and dry the skin. Liquid facial cleansers or foaming products are less harsh. Some even moisturize your face as they clean. Aesthetic dermatologist Amy Derick, MD, advises women to use a liquid facial cleanser containing ceramides, lipids that help skin retain moisture.

Clockwise starting from the left: Even Better Face Serum, CLINIQUE, $49.50.

Hope Is Not Enough Firming & Lifting Serum, PHiLOSOPHY, $41.00.

Tonic Lotion, CLARINS, $22.

Idealist Skin Refinisher, ESTEE LAUDER, $52.00

If you insist on bar soap, avoid soaps with sodium lauryl sulfate which can dry skin.

Instead, look for moisturizing soaps with ingredients such as glycerin and plantbased oils.

If you have oily skin or acne, use a cleanser containing salicylic acid, which removes dead cells from skin, or benzoyl peroxide, which helps unclog pores. This may prevent further breakouts too.

Anti-Aging Creams How do retinoids and over-the-counter moisturizers and serums that contain retinoids help diminish signs of aging? Yale dermatologist Jeffrey Dover, MD, says they increase cell turnover and may build collagen. Another compound, GABA (gammaaminobutyric acid), a neurotransmitter, seems to work at the nerve level to relax wrinkles temporarily.

Try creams containing retinyl propionate or retinol, which are found in the skin as vitamin A derivatives. Read your labels.

Ingredients such as peptides and sirtuin, a protein, help smooth uneven texture and improve skin’s elasticity. Look for the terms PAL KTTS, copper peptides, and palmitoyl oligopeptide on the ingredient list of anti-aging creams.

Moisturizers The skin on your face is constantly exposed to air and pollutants that rob skin of moisture. Old-fashioned petroleum jelly has been used for decades as an inexpensive moisturizer. It works by sealing in moisture, but it’s greasy and heavy.

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Moisturizers with emollients and humectants hydrate the skin without the greasy effect. Humectants help retain moisture while emollients help soften and soothe skin. Together, they can temporarily minimize fine lines around the eye or on the neck.

Many skincare products both moisturize and provide anti-aging benefits, dermatologist Doris Day, MD, says. Look for creams that contain glycerin and hyaluronic acid, which plumps the skin temporarily, minimizing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles.

Exfoliating Scrubs and Lotions Ingredients in moisturizers and serums must get through the the skin’s outermost layer to work effectively. Using an exfoliator twice a week will help slough off dead skin cells, allowing creams to penetrate. It also helps make skin appear smoother and less blotchy. Some all-in-one skin cleansers and exfoliators are gentle enough to be used every day.

For an effective but gentle exfoliator, look for products containing glycolic acid, lactic acid, salicylic acid, or malic acid.

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TAKING CARE OF YOUR SKIN DURING

RAMADAN By: Karen Bruno - WebMD

It is highly important to look after the skin in this Holy month of Ramadan as the body and skin goes through a number of ups and downs which lead to many changes. If your skin is sensitive you need to take extra care in this month as our whole diet cycle is changed. Skin care in Ramadan should be on the top of your priority list in Ramadan as nobody wants to have a damaged skin which in turn causes a lot of issues for you. Skin care in Ramadan is important in such ways that whatever changes your skin goes through during Ramadan, you can cover them up through easy skin care in Ramadan tips.

In order to have a beautiful and glowing skin Ramadan, you need to make sure that you are following all the tips that are specifically for skincare in Ramadan. In order to keep the skin moisturized during Ramadan cleanse, tone and keep your skin hydrated as the most common problem faced by people regarding skin care in Ramadan is the dehydration of the skin. For proper skin care in Ramadan, try to cleanse and tone your skin with really good products that are mostly water based. If you have oily skin, wash your

face as much as you can with running cold water.

As Ramadan is coming in the summer season, you also need to keep your skin and skin cells really fresh. Skin care in Ramadan regarding this issue states that you should always keep a rose water bottle or spray in your refrigerator and spray it on your face as much as you can. This gives your skin a really fresh feel and is an amazing tip for skin care in Ramadan. Drink necessary amount of water in Sehri and Iftari but do not go overboard with it as you have to keep fasting in mind too.

Avoid oily stuffy in food especially in Iftar as that can cause many skin care issues for you such as acne and pimples and in a situation like that, skin care in Ramadan becomes really hard.

Follow the above mentioned skin care in Ramadan tips and you are sure to have a beautiful skin that is flawless all through Ramadan and even after that. Keep your sleep cycle in perfect order and stay away from tension. Stay relaxed as that is perfect for skin care in Ramadan. Take a lot of fruits as they definitely help a lot regarding skin care in Ramadan.

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The Invisible

RACE...

A Marriage Mystery By: Meltem Baykaner - Suhaib Webb

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have recently reached that age. Many sisters will know the age that I am speaking of. It is an age not necessarily marked by a number, but rather recognised by the way you are treated…

Having bounded through childhood, jumped the hurdles of adolescence and, alhamdulillah (praise be to God), somehow managed to trudge through the trials of university; the next obstacle seems to be approaching quickly – and it is a two-person race.

This race, or rather marathon, is marriage. It is often the first question on a sister’s lips when meeting me (‘so, are you married?!’) and the last thing on my mind before sleeping.

It seems at twenty-two, having graduated just under a year ago now, I have left the honeymoon period new graduates enjoy after university – a blissful time when you can happily do nothing for a while before ‘real life’ starts – and am now faced with an actual honeymoon period to be thinking about.

I first noticed this otherwise imperceptible shift that took me from care-free twenty-something to a care-full young woman when, at my local mosque, an auntie I recognized by face and not by name suddenly became very interested in me. Gripping me eagerly as I spoke, she excitedly enquired after my age, job and parents with a big grin and wide eyes.

Naturally I was bemused; it was Friday prayer and, as my workplace was located so close to the mosque, for months I had been attending the jummah prayers and khutbah (sermon) at this very masjid – why was this Friday any different?

Only later that week when my mother told me that she had been approached by an auntie at the mosque who had, it seems, taken a liking to me, did I realize that this kind (but probing) woman had stored the nutshell of information I had given her in her cheek, like a squirrel

with an acorn, to be taken home and opened before her single son.

I fear that I am giving off an impression of disinterest in marriage, that I had never thought about it before or that perhaps I don’t want to get married. This is NOT the case; I’m happy to start thinking about it, but the problem is, I don’t know what I think about it…

There is a scene at the Netherfield ball in the classic novel Pride & Prejudice in which Elizabeth Bennet says, ‘I hear such different accounts of you as puzzle me exceedingly,’ (Austen). Though the heroine of the novel is referring to her sworn enemy-cum-true love, Mr Darcy, she could just as well be talking about marriage.

Like Elizabeth Bennet’s confused opinion about the proud Mr Darcy, my opinion and knowledge of married life has been formed mostly from what others have told me on the subject. Much like a collage, the cuttings and clippings of information that I have collected and stuck on to my mental pin board are mismatched, pieced together haphazardly.

As single Muslims and Muslimahs, we are told that marriage is half of our deen (religion) (Al-Bayhaqi). Contrary to this, we are also told that once you marry, seeking knowledge and learning about our religion is put on pause and, mysteriously, we are not informed of when the ‘play’ button of our lives will be pressed once more.

So, what are we meant to feel? Are we, as currently unmarried people, supposed to want to get married, knowing that our deen is from that point onwards going to remain stagnant? Or should we put this warning from our minds, brush it off as unnecessary advice that does not apply to us, and run full-pelt into imagined marital bliss?

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I now understand that I am not the only one struggling between wanting to be a learned, independent woman and a learned woman in a happy unit; and the reason that my vision of marriage is so distorted is that these things are frequently presented to us as mutually exclusive.

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Often the Islamic literature directed at women is on the topic of marriage; even if the book title or blurb does not directly link to the subject, somehow the text turns into a handbook on wifely duties.

So, here is what I propose to all single people: let us push away this confusing array of text, talk and tips being thrown at us, which, even whilst writing this article, have clouded my mind further. Let us return to perhaps the only words that have our real best interests at heart, which tell us the true meaning of marriage; to make us come closer to Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala (glorified is He) by becoming so close with another: ‘And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.’ (Qur’an 30:21) Finally, let us strive to feel that thinking about and wanting to get married are both healthy practices, but doing this with a mind foggy with what others have told us or a heart heavy with external pressures is not a healthy approach to an institution that has been designed for us by our Creator on the foundations of love, mercy and tranquillity and not, as some might have us believe, on anxiety, idleness or doubt.• 30

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By: Rumki Chowdhury

You are probably surprised to have just read that sentence. According to NHS Dr. Razeen Mahroof, fasting is ‘a detoxification process,’ which ‘also occurs because any toxins stored in the body’s fat are dissolved and removed from the body.’ This not only clears our body of all ‘bad’ food, but also the body burns the fat to make energy!

ISLAMIC YOGA

Namaaz or Salah, the Muslim way of prostrating to Allah, is a form of mild exercise, which can also be considered a form of yoga. Bending down slowly, taking the ‘turtle’ position and then sitting back up….

These are just the few ways Muslims exercise their body almost every day and not just during Ramadan.

MEDITATION

‘Allah hu Akbar,’ which is Arabic for ‘Allah is Great’ has its meditative purposes. Number one is that as Muslims say ‘Allah hu Akbar,’ they throw their hands up in the air and that is the gesture signifying that they are throwing all of their worries and thoughts off their shoulders and about to focus on one thing…prayer.

This gesture leads to a clarification of the mind so that one can focus on one goal or aim, in this case, Allah, and reap the rewards, as a result. ‘In remembrance of Allah do hearts find peace’ (Qur’an, 13:28).

BEAUTY SLEEP

Lack of food leads to tiredness. It is okay to let your body relax, take a nap or sleep comfortably. It is scientifically proven that sleeping on your back or on your right side is the best position for a healthy heart and reduces pressure on the liver and intestines.

MASJID

Muslims’ home away from home. It is, in fact, a social point for all. Muslims not only pray at the masjid, but also find it a social gathering, a place where they can eat, sleep and read the Qur’an or Hadith. The masjid has a peaceful ambiance, perfect to set the mind, body and soul at ease.

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and Muslim parents with disabled children, feel welcome, supported and accepted by their local Muslim community, with services provided that cater for their particular requirements.

Who are the recipients of your services and is anyone with any form of disability (no matter how big or small) welcome?

Our DMN members are Muslims with disabilities and illnesses, parents with children who have disabilities or illnesses, even siblings, friends and carers of disabled Muslims are all welcome to the DMN, as it is an organisation that seeks to provide support as well as advice for those affected by the illnesses and disabilities being suffered from, whether it is for themselves, their child, sibling, friend, or even a member of the community who seeks to help in any way they can.

How did The Disabled Muslims Network get started?

If someone needs assistance or help how do they go about contacting your organization?

I started the Disabled Muslims Network in January 2012, after feeling frustrated by the lack of support out there in our Muslim community for Muslims with disabilities and their families.

There are various ways of contacting the DMN such as: Email, Facebook private message, website private message or even message the DMN via twitter and Instagram.

Are you or is anyone close to you disabled?

Does your organization only help people locally or is this an international effort?

I was born 3 months premature so due to this I have hearing loss, sight problems and various other chronic illnesses. At the age of 14, I began to suffer from severe back pain, and after 2 years of hospital appointments, I was diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis, which is a form of arthritis that affects my spine and all other joints.

How is life for a disabled Muslim (growing up, family, religion, prayers, community, schooling, social life etc)?

Growing up as a Muslim child with disabilities and chronic illnesses, it was difficult but since I was very young the disability didn't really bother me, it was mainly hard for my mum who had to deal with my weekly hospital appointments and chasing various Medical staff for diagnosis and the associated stress involved. This included various M.R.I scans, bone scans, operations and daily growth hormone injections from the age of 6 due to an inability of my pituitary gland to produce growth hormone. I had a lot of help from various charities that supported children with chronic illnesses and disabilities in the UK by providing support to their families play schemes and days out during school holidays. Going to Madressa was difficult as there was no dedicated special needs section to help me progress, therefore my Madressa education didn't progress very far, and there was a lack of understanding in regards to what I could and couldn't do. Due to illness my attendance wasn't 100%, which they didn't take into account and in the end I stopped going.

What is The Disabled Muslims Network's mission?

To make sure that Muslims who have a disability/ chronic illness,

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The DMN provides support to Muslims living in the UK and living internationally.

What can people locally and internationally do to help the cause?

At the moment I'm working on spreading awareness of the DMN. Muslims can help by printing the DMN's poster and put it up in their local mosque, Islamic centre, Madrassa, Islamic nursery or school. They can also help by sharing the DMN's Facebook page or other social networking sites on their social networking page's.

How will donations help your organization and help the cause?

Donations will help to keep the organisation going. Your help is vital as only with it will we be able to provide support to Muslims with disabilities and to parents with disabled children by setting up regular support groups and events.

I am very happy with how the DMN has been received by the Muslim Community. Since I launched the DMN in January 2012 we are going from strength to strength, and this is all due to the amazing support I am receiving from Muslims living in the UK and living internationally.

To find out more about The Disabled Muslims Network please click on the following links: www.disabledmuslimsnetwork.com www.facebook.com/disabledmuslimsnetwork/ disabledmuslimsnetwork@hotmail.co.uk

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Leather-trimmed monogrammed canvas tote, GUCCI, $1,180; Midlength cotton-gabardine trench coat, BURBERRY PRORSUME , $2,095; Maria high-rise skinny jeans, J BRAND, $200; Pigalle 120 patent-leather pumps, CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN , $625;

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Asher studded suede slippers, TORY BURCH, $235; Pakret metallic jacquard pants, PAUL & JOE, $435; Paneled silk crepe de chine and silkchiffon top, ALEXANDER WANG, $295; Polly patent-leather shoulder bag, MARC JACOBS, $1,350;

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Forever Karlie Flare mid-rise jeans, FRAME DENIM, $209; Dalaine twill blazer, THEORY, $415; Liberty matte-leather shopper, VICTORIA BECKHAM, $1,350;

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Metallic silk-blend crepe wrap gown, VIONNET, $4,350; Gold-plated resin clip earrings, OSCAR DE LA RENTA, $395; The Knot intrecciato satin clutch, BOTTEGA VENETA, $1,380;

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Mandal metallic jacquard coat, PAUL & JOE, $860; Dalaine twill blazer, THEORY, $415; Liberty matte-leather shopper, VICTORIA BECKHAM, $1,350;

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Le Color Crop mid-rise skinny jeans, FRAME DENIM, $179; Lola mirrored-leather pumps, SOPHIA WEBSTER, $340; B-Shopping textured-leather tote, VALEXTRA, $2,990.

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Polka-dot print silk jumpsuit, MOSCHINO, $850; Spiked suede wedge sandals, GIUSEPPE ZANOTTI, $1,425

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Sigrid oversized wool-blend poncho, DAGMAR, $799; Perforated leather Oxford brogues and Leather and mirrored-metal clutch, MAISON MARTIN MARGIELA, from $875

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Printed silk maxi skirt, emilio pucco, $2,590; Aoutien tie-front cropped silk shirt, MAJE, $340; Tube Streak silver-tone cuff and Streak gold-tone box clutch, ANNDRA NEEN, from $485;

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MOSCHINO, Call Me! printed iPhone cover, $55; 4.

KARL LAGERFELD, Karl 7 stainless steel watch, $275; 5. LANVIN, Set of two packs of illustrated playing cards, $95; 6. DOLCE & GABBANA, Floral-print silk scarf, $445

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JIMMY CHOO Limit tri-tone leather pumps, $795

GIUSEPPE ZANOTTI Suede sandals, $695

OSCAR DE LA RENTA Perforated two-tone patent leather pumps, $675

SOPHIA WEBSTER Riko cutout suede and leather sandals, $695

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN June 100 leather slingback pumps, $725

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN Hameau Strass 100 crystal-embellished PVC sandals, $1,495

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JIMMY CHOO Lance neon patent-leather sandals, $795 MIU MIU Crystal-embellished glitter-finished leather heart sandals, $650

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OSCAR DE LA RENTA Set of three gold-plated bracelets $298

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ERICKSON BEAMON Nexus Swarovski crystal earrings $380

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LULU FROST Sunburst Drape Swarovski crystal necklace $456

EK THONGPRASERT Silicone and cubic zirconia necklace $350

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J.CREW Crystal and neon chevron bracelet, $78

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shemiza rashid Edited by: Fatima Togbe

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Here is the little one on one we had with Shemiza.

This woman is extraordinary. She is a fully active mother, radio host, fashionista in her own right, social activist and teacher just to say the least. Needless to say, being a mother of 6 is already a mega job in our books. She will be hosting the Urban Muslim Woman’s show in london this June but in the mean time, here is a little something about her.

How did you get started as a radio presenter?

The founder of the station knew of my interfaith community art work via my organisation the ‘creative Muslim network’ he was also aware that I was a teacher thus invited me to present a show of the newly launched Inspirefm originally known as Radio Ramadhan. I am assuming he thought I had a lot to say. I enjoy Islamic inspired creativity and campaigns that engage the community with positive social and environmental messages so I thought this could be a great opportunity to share my passion with a wider audience.

At first I was a little apprehensive as I wasn’t sure how receptive the audience would be to the format of arts based show, if my presenting style would work or if anyone would listen! I kept it a secret from friends and family at first, just in case and I was even reluctant to give my name on air.... And then one day my children heard it as a repeat on the school drive home... My 4 year old piped up “that lady sounds funny like mummy”. When their father told them it was me, my 2 year old started crying the radio car has eaten mummy!! Yikes my secret is out, I thought to myself! The show originally called the ‘Arts and culture show, Masha’Allah, achieved a short list nomination for ‘community in the arts award in 2013. I then decided to re brand with a catchy title and call it ‘The Urban Kube’ (the Kube as in reference to the Khana Kaba and urban in reference to the city).

It’s awesome to hear positive feedback from the community but to get it from the wider community is fantastic because it’s helping break barriers and stereotypes. The show has encouraged a lot of its listeners to participate in national and local writing events, made them more aware of voluntarily opportunities and funding opportunities; one sister and her daughter even launched an Islamic inspired art club from tuning in. Others have spoken about igniting their interest in poetry and art and writing books. I’ve personally sponsored via the creative Muslim network 100s of books to engage wider reading in the community which I’m passionate about; as a 6th form teacher I find it distressing to see the number if young Muslims still not achieving the same level of literacy as their counterparts .

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How long have you been presenting for? Was it an easy process or was there a lot to learn and master?

It will be three years this Ramdhan. As a working mum it is serious multitasking trying to produce and present the show, especially the preparation prior to a show at home.

I spend a whole week searching for guests, contacting them interviewing them with the wonderful sound effects of the children in the background whilst making chapattis and interviewing guests prior the live show interview. Producing the show on the day of the live show I will be preparing it to last second lol. In the mad rush I sometimes forget that I haven’t got my headphones on or I’m speaking to myself because I’ve forgotten to press on air. Once I even fell off my chair while I was live but with any glitch I always try to remain a true professional even if I have walked in with odd shoes, my 6 children hanging off my ears and my maxi back to front. However with practise the process becomes easier. But preparation is key; knowing the subject matter you wish to talk it’s always good to do your research. Having a passion for your subject matter also helps. Speaking to your guests prior to the interview finding out more about them makes a good interview.

What is your show about, how often and is it only talk or do you feature music as well?

The show is a real celebration of Islamic inspired creativity. I have a wealth of awesome guests that are local national and global, ranging from authors, artist, poets charitable pioneers film directors academics; it’s an eclectic mix which features arts and events updates but I always try and celebrate the achievement of Sisters.

The main purpose of ‘the urban kube’ is to showcase the positive impact and input Muslims are making and present examples of people who are successfully able to balance faith , family life and work and also be creative in the process. I include quirky features, arts updates guest interviews and competitions. The show is an hour lives every Sunday 2 till 3 and is repeated Thursday @ 6pm U.K. time and also uploaded on mix cloud. If a Nasheed artist is being interviewed then I will include their track but generally it’s more interviews and feature based. My work is my passion and hobby. I teach 2 out of 7 days and the remaining time I work from home. Any free time I spend with the children. I make conscious effort if I go out that I’m able to attend civic and community events that the children can benefit from too.

With 6 children I’m sure things can often get overwhelming (or not lol)

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and entertainment.

With time I have been able to organise myself more but I have the support of my husband and in-laws who see the value and benefit of the show with the community. I now have utilised a lot of space under the sofas and rugs... and get the children to play spot the dirt... with the prize of a packet of baby wipes :)

What do you do on your free time?

You have two campaigns that you support, tell us more about them?

What can people to do to help?

Subhan’Allah. I’m at present a campaign ambassador for ‘MADE in Europe; (Muslim agency for development education). One campaign is called the ‘Enough Food IF’ aims to lobby the government before the G8 summit about combating global hunger. 1 in 8 children across the globe is dying needlessly because of the unequal distribution of food. The lobbying of the government would make this a fixed agenda discussion. Another campaign is for maternal care and child morality awareness across Pakistan. For further information on the very inspiring and motivating campaigns ‘Mash‘Allah Www.madeineurope.org.uk So now that we know a little more about your work and what inspires it, tell us about Shemiza..

As a mother of 6 young children I felt it necessary to provide a faith based platform that my children could be inspired by and aspire to. I also felt that I was blessed to come across and network with such inspirational individuals of the Muslim community nationally and globally that I needed locals to know about. I enjoy the creative Muslim Scene and I wanted to share my knowledge to the community of Luton. It also got very frustrating with the media representation of Muslims and the low morale amongst Muslim across the country. I felt I needed to highlight the very much missed positive side that the mainstream misses off the radar. I believe that we can only create change if we take ownership of our own stories specifically in the media. The benefits of community radio are that this makes it possible.

Where are you from, studies, etc?

I’m of British Kashmiri origin 4th generation. Grew up in Nottingham but have lived in Luton for 12 years I’m a post graduate qualified teacher with a doctorate in education pending. Graduated In politics went into fashion then taught English, drama and expressive arts have now found my calling, using all my skills and expertise to network support, and engage others in the fields of Muslim arts

Free time is that a new invention? In the half an hour I’m spared a day after, household chores baby chores, taxi chores I find a cupboard hide in it and guzzle a iced coffee. I’m also always researching new ideas; can’t stop :) I also run the creative Muslim network and Shining Ummah children’s performing poetry club.

What must you always have in your purse when you go out?

Baby wipes and I always end up with one baby sock or two in my purse!!

What is your “it” accessory or product at the moment?

My smile ... It’s Sunnah... and a sense of humour ... Much needed in the present climate. However, I do love costume vintage jewellery and accessories and maxi dresses. It’s awesome that so much choice is available now in the high street for modest dressing my favourite key wardrobe items are blazers, maxi dress and brogue shoes.

Did we miss anything?

I would love to produce a cool Muslim lifestyle programme on mainstream television.

I was Former fashion designer and stylist and will be teaching fashion and retail diploma next academic term a key feature I’m exploring is ethical and modest fashion and fashion with compassion I’m also looking forward to introducing Hayati to my students :) • • • •

I am Judge at The young Muslim writer’s awards 2013.

I will be hosting the urban Muslim woman’s show in London in June 2013.

I will now also be a regular voice on mainstream radio Insha’Allah.

Releasing a children’s CD of Muslim children’s poems with my award winning children’s performing poetry club ‘Shining Ummah ‘. The children achieved an award for contribution to literary art in 2011 from Artsbeat in Luton; they helped fund raise £75, 000 by performing original poems to raise awareness of countries hit by natural disaster or conflict. Haiti, Gaza, Malawi, Pakistan...

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Hayati Recipes A few cool DIY recipes collections for you to try at home.

Plus a sweet cooling dessert to finish your meal off.

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asian glazed chicken wings INGREDIENTS 2 tablespoons vegetable or olive oil 12 whole chicken wings, drummers and tips Salt and pepper 3/4 cup plum sauce 1/2 cup orange juice, eyeball it 2 inches ginger root, peeled 3 tablespoons tamari, dark soy sauce, eyeball it 1/2 to 1 teaspoon red chili flakes, medium heat to extra spicy 1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro leaves 1/4 cup chopped fresh basil leaves METHOD Preheat oven 400 degrees F. Preheat a large oven safe skillet over high heat with the oil. Liberally season the chicken wings with salt and pepper.

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wings in 1 even layer. Brown the wings for 3 minutes per side. While the wings are browning, assemble the plum glaze: in a small pot over high heat combine the plum sauce, orange juice, ginger root, tamari and hot pepper flakes. Bring up to a simmer and lower the heat, reserving it until the wings are done browning.

Remove ginger from glaze. Pour the simmering plum glaze mixture over the browned wings. Place the skillet in the oven and roast for 20 minutes, flipping the wings once half way through the cooking time.

Remove the wings from the oven, if the glaze is not syrupy and thick, place the skillet of wings on the cook top and turn the heat on high, allow the glaze to reduce for about 1 minute. Toss the wings around in the glaze and finish with the fresh cilantro and basil.

Serve hot or room temperature.

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flank steak with salsa verde INGREDIENTS 2 cups loosely packed fresh parsley 3 scallions, coarsely chopped 2 tablespoons capers, drained Zest and juice of 1/2 lemon 2 anchovy fillets 2 cloves garlic, smashed 1/2 teaspoon dijon mustard 1/3 cup extra-virgin olive oil, plus more for the grill Kosher salt 1 flank steak (about 1 1/2 pounds) Freshly ground pepper 2 or 3 medium tomatoes METHOD Make the salsa verde: Pulse the parsley, scallions, capers, lemon zest and juice, an84

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chovies, garlic, mustard and olive oil in a food processor until slightly chunky. Pour into a bowl and season with salt.

Preheat a grill to high or place a grill pan over high heat. Pierce the steak all over with a fork and season with salt and pepper. Oil the grill or pan; grill the steak, 4 to 5 minutes per side for medium-rare, turning once. Transfer to a cutting board and let rest for 5 minutes.

Slice the tomatoes and season with salt and pepper. Thinly slice the steak against the grain. Serve with the tomatoes and salsa verde.

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smoky corn on the cob Peel back the husks from the corn and remove the silk. Butter the kernels and sprinkle with salt and smoked paprika. Fold the husks back over the corn and grill over low heat until cooked through, turning occasionally, 12 to 15 minutes.

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orange cream pops Ingredients 2 (15-ounce) cans Mandarin oranges, strained, juice reserved 1 cup sugar 1 cup heavy cream 4 ounces vanilla vodka, optional Special Equipment: 10 count (3.5-ounce) ice pop mold Directions For Ice Pops: In a small saucepan add the reserved Mandarin orange juice and 1 cup of sugar, and cook over medium-high heat until thick and syrupy, about 8 minutes. Let cool to room temperature.

Reserve 4 orange segments for garnishing the Orange Fizz Cocktail. In a blender combine the cooled syrup with remaining oranges and puree. Reserve 1 cup of the blended orange mixture for Orange Fizz Cocktail.

Add the heavy cream to the blender with remaining orange mixture and vodka, if desired, and blend until smooth. Pour into ice pop molds, cover, insert ice pop sticks and freeze until frozen, about 4 hours.

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