JAYE magazine May 2009: The End-of-School Issue

JAYE May 2009

great graduation gifts to give, P. 36

100 instant updates under $100

Because College is More than the Classroom

Ebony Christina plays hard but works harder

16 pages of tips, trends and ideas to get head-turning

Now What? The ULTIMATE post-graduation guide

hair

221 End-of-school >> Easy, breezy dresses & skirts + gotta-get bags & shoes

Essentials

Infidelity Explained Why college students cheat virtual haters how to handle electronic agression get tight and toned for the summer

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Kyle Brooks of Howard University March 2009 cover girl

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WHAT’S INSIDE MAY 2009 / VOLUME 1 / ISSUE 12 JAYEMAG.COM

cover reads 17

221 end of school essentials Easy, breezy dresses & skirts + gotta-get bags and shoes — and 100 instant updates under $100!

36 great graduation gifts To give 56

ebony christina plays hard but works harder

74 virtual haters How to handle electronic

aggression 80

The IN Thing

100 under $100

P. 17-45

now what?

The ULTIMATE post-graduation guide

84 infidelity explained Why college students CHEAT 111 16 PAGES OF TIPS, TRENDS AND IDEAS TO GET HEAD-TURNING HAIR 126

get tight and toned for the summer

beauty news & views 46 beauty bulletin Eyemasks, men wearing

makeup, super sunscreen,

and more

38 BEST OF THE BEST: SHAMPOOS The market’s best shampoos

style flash

10 trend watch Stars love their prints 12 STYLE STAR Estelle delivers hits and an

admired personal style 40 DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT Tracy Reese is all about

femininity and flair

fashion focus

90 jumpin’ for

jumpsuits Transition into

summer in the

season’s

hottest one-piece

wonders 98 brilliantly

blue Spring’s must-wear

hue adorns the key

staples every girl

should have in their

wardrobe 98 battle of the

sexes Guys and

gals face

off as they

disect the

season’s key trends

and offer candid

opinions

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Cyberbullying is on the rise. Read our feature on the disturbing trend. (p. 74).

56 EBONY CHRISTINA This Eastern Michigan University undergrad offers her

insight on topics ranging from

boys to handbags 68 LESSONS LEARNED Five women share what college

taught them this

semester — both inside and out

the classroom

74 IT’S ABOUT TO BE A TEXT FIGHT! Technology has made it easy

to bully and bother our

generation to no end. Britney Darnell explores this startling

trend 80 WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD Graduating this month? Check

out our post-grad survival

guide to see you through the

next phase of your life 84 WHY WE CHEAT Do men and women cheat

for the same reasons?

How can you recover if you’ve

been cheated on? This story

has all the answers

By Terin Bufford

JAYE pulse 51

scoop Meagan Good tries her hand at singing, this month’s must-see movies, must-hear music, plus more

63 digest A look at the sext

messaging trend, are the Obama daughters off limits

from the media, plus more

beauty & Health

111 SPRING ahead

Your wardrobe’s must-have

accessory? A fresh new ‘do.

We show you the season’s

hottest

By Ariel Burke 117

The Regulars 9 Memo from Mike 15 Masthead 130 Horoscope 132 Shopping Index 134 ‘Till We Meet Again

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121 hairapy Ariel Burke has the answers

to your questions concerning

your hair 122 au naturel

Natural or relaxed — which look

is for you? Here, the pros and cons

By Ariel Burke

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124 haircoloring 101 A cheat sheet on the differences

between the types of hair color 126 tight & toned An easy-to-implement workout plan

to get you fit for summer

By TaNesha Spratling

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Memo from mike Find out what our readers learned during the semester in “Lessons Learned” on p. 68.

Beauty Director Randall Upshaw and her team put together a must-read hair special, including “Hairapy” on p. 121 with answers to all of your hair-raising queries.

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hose who know both my mom and me swear that I’m my “mother’s child,” and it’s an observation that I never tire from hearing. She’s made such an impression on me and the person I’ve become today, and for proof, look no further than this issue of the magazine.

In this month’s “The IN Thing,” starting on p. 17, we feature 100 stylish must-haves for under $100 — mom knows how to get the most bang for her buck!— and my fashion team made it a priority to show you how to mix the season’s high-end classics with easy-on-the-wallet finds to instantly update your wardrobe.

For as long as I can remember, my mom has been my barber and my sister’s hairstylist, so what better month than the one that honors our mothers to present our first hair special? The 16-page package, helmed

by Beauty and Health Director Randall Upshaw, is filled with the hottest spring hair trends, answers to your questions and a look at women and their attachment to their hair in “Mane Squeeze” on p. 117 penned by the aforementioned Ms. Upshaw.

And even when she doesn’t know it, I’m always watching my mom and learning from her experiences and the wisdom she shares with me, and that sparked a curiosity that was quelled in “Lessons Learned” on p. 68, a collection of Q&As from college students across the country with insight on what they’ve learned throughout the semester.

So, mom, although I can’t get you those black strappy sandals you’ve been yearning for or that animal-print bag you’ve had your eye on for Mother’s Day, consider this issue, which was edited with you in mind, my gift to you. Happy Mother’s Day. How will you show your mom how much she means to you? Shoot me an e-mail, let me know and while you’re at it, let me know what you think of the issue. In the meantime, have a ball reading the issue!

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JAYE STYLE

becki newton wows onlookers in Matthew Williamson.

Hollywood starlets love their prints

Mommy-to-be Nicole Richie is whimsically chic in this flowy number.

Heidi Klum reigns in the billowy shape and defines her waist with a simple wide belt.

pretty prints: pick up a lpd (little printed dress) this spring. the stars show you how

Ginnifer goodwin keeps it classy in a strapless to-thefloor frock.

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Camilla Belle is ladylong-legs her in this above-theknee stunner.

kristen bell’s is sweet and demure in a comfy cardi and pointed-toe pumps.

Jennifer Aniston on the move in beautiful Balenciaga.

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■ At first glance, you wouldn’t expect such a unique voice from such a small frame, but Estelle’s come from London and made a splash in America with her powerful pipes. Now, with two albums under her belt and a solid affiliation with John Legend’s label and a mainstay association with the elusive Kanye West, this London-born songstress is making us quickly pull out our pen and pad for more than just her magnetic sound and fun, resonating lyrics.

Estelle pulls off this all-white look with ease and a pop of color. (rnbmusicblog.com)

Estelle delivers hits and an admired personal style

Estelle knows how to spice up a pair of jeans with edgy accessories like a structured blazer and a pop of color. (madnews. wordpress.com)

Walk on the wild side with busy prints and a leather jacket— perfect for the spring! (dailymail. co.uk)

Estelle keeps it simple with a classic black dress and adds feminine flair with a statement belt and bejeweled sandals. (gladitsnight.com)

“Let me be different. Let me be that person that you’re not used to hearing … I got to the point, between the last album and this album, where I stopped apologizing for being the person I am. I feel I owe it to people to be 100% honest in my lyrics. I’m just satisfied with who I am, and who I’m turning out to be.”

— Estelle

By Christina Payne

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TheIN Thing 100 under $100 delias.com.

Just because the economy's plummeted doesn't mean your style has to. The key is finding ways to get the most bang for your buck. Here, you'll find the indespensible pieces to add to your wardrobe at prices that won't subtract too much from your wallet. After all, every JAYE Lady loves a bargain

Plaid, a huge trend this season, can be found at various price points. Top, $39.50, Delia's, delia's.com.

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the in thing 100 under $100

3 Hinge Wallet $20, Urban Outfitters, urbanoutfitters.com.

4 Retro Sunglasses $98, Marc by Marc Jacobs, shopnordstrom.com.

2 Beaded Sandals $95, Sam Edelman, shopkitson.com.

7 Gem Comb $55, Jennifer Ouellette, barneys.com.

1 One-shoulder dress $49.50, delias.com.

5 Open-front cardigan $15, Old Navy, oldnavy.com.

8 Denim shorts $26.99, Levi's, kohls.com.

6 Skirt with bow belt $19.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

9 Faux pearl necklace $7.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

11 Skinny belt $28, Steve Madden, stevemadden.com.

10 Sleeveless dress $53.99, Design History, bluefly.com.

15 Bohemian scarf $48, Free People, chickdowntown.com.

13 Bow earrings $30, Betsey Johnson, shop.nordstrom.com.

14 Chain-handle tote $79, Piperlime, piperlime.com.

16 Geometric ring $62, A Plus Store, aplusstore.com.

12 Swimsuit $44.50, Victoria's Secret, victoriassecret.com.

17 Headband $5, Wet Seal, wetseal.com

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19 Heart ring $90, Just Cavalli, eluxury.com.

100 under $100 18 Billowy top $42.99, Shop Ruche, shopruche.com.

23 Shoe with chunky heel $69.69, Steve Madden, stevemadden.com.

25 Dress with belt $58, Arden B., ardenb.com.

20 Skirt with band $49, Metro Park, metroparkusa.com.

22 Flower necklace $23.99, Mod Cloth, modcloth.com.

26 Peace sign watch $95, Lucky Brand, shop.nordstrom.com.

21 Skinny Jeans $58, Arden B., ardenb.com.

24 Mixed bangles $45, Blu Bijoux, maxandchloe.com.

27 Envelope clutch $39.50, Gap, gap.com.

28 Floral brooch $25, 6th June, yesstyle.com.

34 T-strap sandals $85, Kenneth Cole Reaction, davidz.com.

29 Khaki vest $26, Daytrip, buckle.com.

31 Nail polish bundle $12, Delia's, delias.com.

33 Ruffled Top $26, New Look, newlook.co.uk

32 Beaded necklace $12, Xhilaration, target.com.

30 Denim cutoffs $44, Billabong, shop.pacsun.com.

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37 Long marquis earrings $32, Sheila Fajl, chickdowntown.com.

36 Fringe party dress $22.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

35 Gladiator sandals $70, DV by Dolce Vita, davidz.com.

38 Fold-over clutch $89, Banana Republic, bananarepublic.com.

40 Seersucker shorts $49, Nine West, ninewest.com.

39 Tribal-neckline top $38.50, Delia's, delias.com 41 Duffle Bags $50, Victoria's Secret, victoriassecret.com.

43 Spring bliss necklace $10.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

42 Striped skirt $56, Kensie Girl, zappos.com.

47 Cuffed shorts $50, PPQ, oli.co.uk.

48 Bow hair clip $5.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

44 Drop earrings $48, Nordstrom, shop.nordstrom.com.

49 Casual slip-ons $44, Toms, tomsshoes.com.

50 Braided belt $12.50, Delia's, delias.com

51 Bright watch $59.99, Nixon, tillys.com.

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45 Skinny Jeans $79, Metro Park, metroparkusa.com.

46 V-neck t-shirt $15.50, Nollie, shop.pacsun.com.

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55 Beaded earrings $4, Charlotte Russe, charlotterusse.com.

54 Ruffled tunic $17.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

53 Metallic Sandals $89.95, Steve Madden, stevemadden.com.

52 Tiered dress $77, Revolver, bluefly.com.

56 Woven belt $9, New Look, newlook.co.uk.

58 Classic denim $98, Diesel, bluefly.com.

57 Bright tote $98, Longchamp, shop.nordstom.com.

59 Colorful bangles $38, Natasha Accessories, dillards.com.

60 Sunglasses $35, Spitfire, tobi.com.

61 Two-tone jumpsuit $68, Arden B., ardenb.com.

62 Swimsuit cover-up $39.50, Delia's, delias.com.

63 Bow skirt $22.50, Wet Seal, wetseal.com.

67 Bow clutch $98, Beckon, shop.nordstom.com.

68 Bead ring $4.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

64 Button-front vest $24.50, Daytrip, buckle.com.

66 Drop earrings $5.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

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65 Feathered hair clip $5, Wet Seal, wetseal.com.

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the in thing 100 under $100 71 Antiqued bangle $29.99, Spiegel, spiegel.com.

69 Fringe sandals $75, Jeffrey Campbell, shopkitson.com.

74 Sunglasses $89, Von Zipper, tillys.com.

73 Business trousers $39, Arden B., ardenb.com.

70 Nylon skirt $24.50, Delia's, delias.com.

72 Braided belt $12.50, Old Navy, oldnavy.com.

75 Animal-print swimsuit $29.99, Go Jane, gojane.com.

76 Tribal earrings $7.99, Mod Cloth, modcloth.com.

78 Skinny Jeans $58, Bluemint, yesstyle.com.

79 Tassel tote $29.99, Gap, gap.com

77 Asymmetric dress $57, Oli, oli.co.uk.

80 Tie-front shorts $17.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

82 Shell disk necklace $50, Topshop, topshop.com.

84 Floral platform $79.99, Jessica Simpson, piperlime.com.

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83 Basic tank $15.50, Aerie, ae.com

81 Layered ball necklace $60, Topshop, topshop.com.

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96 Sunglasses $87, Paul Frank, shop.nordstrom.com.

85 Pleated skirt $48, B.B. Dakota, fredflare.com.

86 Swimsuit top & bottom $19.50 each, Old Navy, oldnavy.com.

87 Beaded earrings $7, New Look, newlook.co.uk.

95 Bead bracelets $9.50, American Eagle, ae.com.

97 Metallic top $18.99, Charlotte Russe charlotterusse.com.

88 Wide-leg trousers $89, Nine West, ninewest.com.

94 Sateen Jacket $59, Spiegel, spiegel.com.

89 Casual dress $56, C&C California, bluefly.com.

98 Flower ball ring $20, Fred Flare fredflare.com.

93 Convertible Bag $69.99, Dutchy, piperlime.com.

99 Bow Blouse $47, Vila, oli.co.uk.

90 Tie-neck skirt $52.99, Mod Cloth, modcloth.com.

100 Charm bracelet $8, Claire's, claries.com.

91 Layered necklace $75, Betsey Johnson, betseyjohnson.com.

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92 Gladiator Sandals $19.50, Wet Seal, wetseal.com.

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Clockwise from top: miss sixty $91, freemans.com. asos $31, asos.com. versace $1730, eluxury.com.

Chain of Cool

Get a handle on one of spring's quilted bags — perfect for midday errands or a night on town 30 JAYE | MAY 2009

the in thing

Sunnies side up

Block the sunrays in style with spring's must-have eyegear

From top: armani exchange $70, dillards.com. carrera $150, net-a-porter.com. christian dior $223, freemans.com.

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the in thing

From top: SAM EDELMAN $89.95, shop. nordstrom.com. steve madden $99.95, stevemadden.com.

Flat Chance

You don't have to sacrifice chicness at the expense of comfort with these braided sandals 32 JAYE | MAY 2009

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Try the trend for under $50

Get ruffled in the affordable pieces that can be dressed up or down 34 JAYE | MAY 2009

style tip Contrast the femininity of the blouse with the toughness of tuxedo pants or an oversize blazer. Thanks to the ruffles, it's best to keep the accessories to a minimum.

1. CHARLOTTE RUSSE $19.99, charlotterusse.com 2. ARDEN B. $38, ardenb.com. 3. FOREVER 21 $17.80, forever21.com. 4. ARDEN B. $38, ardenb.com. 5. FOREVER 21 $19.80, forever21.com. 6. VICE AND VANITY $47, tallulahtu.co.uk 7. OLD NAVY $24.50, oldnavy.com.

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Gift Card $105 plus shipping, American Express, walmart.com.

Luggage Set $49.99, TAG, macys.com.

Digital Camera $329.99, Panasonic, bestbuy.com.

20-Piece Bedding Set $195, Ferrara, kohls.com.

The JAYE Lady's Graduation Gift Guide

BlackBerry Storm prices varies, see wirefly.com for details.

Nested Gift Boxes GiftCard $10-$1000, Target, target.com.

Classic Pump $139.95, Steve Madden, stevemadden.com.

It's not easy buying presents for your friends walking across the stage this month, but Stephanie Taylor, our fashion director, shows what pieces to purchase to show just how proud you are Graduation Party Dress $75, River Island, stylefinder.com.

Interview Suit $1400 Just Cavalli, net-a-porter.com.

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Picture Frames $65, Lazy Susan, bloomingdales.com.

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MacBook Air $1700, Apple, apple.com.

Watch $225, Michael Kors, neimanmarcus.com.

Designer Bag $428, Marc by Marc Jacobs, piperlime.com.

Linen Pants $22.80, Forever 21, forever21.com.

MAC Gift Card $15 to $250, MAC, maccosmetics.com.

Floral Skirt $65, Topshop, topshop.com.

Printed Blouse $1950, Emilio Pucci, net-a-porter.com.

Chain Necklace $23, Miss Selfridge, missselfridge.com.

Flats $122, Ted Baker, asos.com.

Notebooks $16, Vera Bradley, verabradley.com.

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Flat Iron $119.99, CHI, target.com.

Coffee Maker Prices vary, Cuisinart, ebay.com.

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pants?

No Payne, No Gain

Back with her monthly column, Fashion News Director Christina Payne calms your fears of one of the hottest trends: harem pants.

Exhale deeply and take notes on how to wear them without looking like Hammer

the in thing the look: Brunch or Girl’s Night Out C. Payne explains: This look is edgy, tough yet still sexy. It can work for day or night (just add a boyfriend blazer for night.) The accessories sharpen the look with a pop of color, the statement necklace and menswear-inspired peep-toe booties. It’s totally in to mix gold and silver accessories, if done the right way.

no payne, no gain

Pants $79, All Saints, allsaintsshop. co.uk. Tank $15.50, Delia’s, delias.com.

Boots $149.95, Steve Madden, stevemadden.com. Bag $430, Marc by Marc Jacobs, net-a-porter.com.

Earrings $90, Willa M, maxandchloe. com. Necklace $198, Juicy Couture, shop.nordstrom.com.

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know what you’re thinking, and I don’t blame you: Harem pants, also known as “MC Hammer pants” or “Aladdin’s pants” are not on top of the shopping list for the average fashionista. Harem pants made a huge comeback during on the spring runways. If you were following the collections, almost every designer had at least one look incorporating the trend. On the hanger, they aren’t flattering, and may be even less becoming when

tried on. However, as cliché as it sounds: don’t knock it until you try it. In other words, try it with some of my styling and you’ll be sure to stand out among your peers—in a good way.

First things first: when trying a new trend, know how to wear the trend—accessories are vital.

Certain trends evoke a particular mood, so it is important not to think just because you are wearing a trend, you are being trendy. Of course, putting your own spin on

the trend is all a part of developing one’s own style, but approach this look with caution.

Harem pants, available at different price points, are appropriate for most any occasion from a lunch date to a night out to work, and in various textures: cotton, denim, and, my personal favorite, linen.

After seeing the trend put together in a less dramatic setting like the runway, see if one of these looks fits you. Remember, the best accessory is confidence! >> JAYE | MAY 2009 41

Pants $65, Topshop, topshop.com. top $24.99, Charlotte Russe, charlotterusse.com. shoes $105, Asos, asos.com. Bag $517, Marc by Marc Jacobs, farfetch.com. Earrings $15, Napier, kohls.com. the look: Maxin’ and Relaxin’ C. Payne explains: “This look is bit more laid back, yet still chic—perfect for a shopping day, or lunch with the girls. Spring is all about mixing neutrals with bright colors, so these harem pants in fuschia are the perfect fashion forward piece for your wardrobe. Keep it simple with these trendy caged sandals and neutral accessories to complete the look.”

the in thing no payne, no gain

Pants $178.50, Maje, my-wardrobe. com. jacket $14.80, Forever 21, forever21.com. pumps $110, Aldo, aldoshoes.com. Bag $695, Botkier, singer22.com. Earrings $62, Rachel Leigh, couturecandy.com. the look: Workin’ Hard for the Money C. Payne explains: “This look can work for a more sophisticated setting, like work. The blazer, sleek pumps, structured bag and studs, give the harem pants balance for a more refined look. The pop of color in the bag also adds edge. Always remember, when trying a dramatic trend, compliment the trendy piece with polished accessories to complete the look.”

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Kim Kardashian stuns in a Tracy Reese dress.

DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT

Tracy Reese

Reese later launched two more lines, named plenty and frock! as well as accessories such as shoes, handbags and belts. A home collection, candles and cosmetic cases have also been added to the brand. Her lines can be found in top retailers, Bergdorf Goodman, Neiman Marcus, Nordstrom and Anthropologie to name a few, as well as retailers in Europe and Asia.

Her spring collection is a myriad of feminine prints and silhouettes in an array of colors of neutrals and a touch of pastels. Various textures, including her signature chiffon fabric, contribute to the signature Tracy Reese façade of feminine sophistication.

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If you’re looking for femininity and flair, this designer is who you’re looking for

Here and at left: Looks from Reese’s spring ‘09 show.

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Tracy Reese’s attention to detail has earned her a strong reputation in the fashion industry.

■ Tracy Reese, a Detroit native, has her finger on the pulse of what womenswear is and should be. Since she launched her first collection in 1998, Reese has set herself apart from the rest with her signature, classic and ultrafeminine designs.

“Perfect for the modern woman who simply loves to be a girl,” the Tracy Reese label is known and loved by women of all ages and shapes. Countless celebrities have been spotted in a Tracy Reese frock.

Her innate attention to detail and extensive knowledge of colors and fabrics appear every season, as she consistently reveals ageless, wearable pieces that exude sophistication and elegance. The brand’s signature look was created by mixing modern craftsmanship with vintage flair.

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sleep soundly Eye masks, also known as sleep masks, are primarily used as room-darkening sleep aids. Simple synthetic eye masks made of nylon or any other synthetic fabric are the most basic ones. Rest and relax as you finish your finals with a Silhouette™ Eye Shade ($12.95, Dream Essentials, dreamessentials.com) with an elastic strap at the back and thankfully, an inexpensive price tag.

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Believe it or not, men, like High School Musical and 17 Again star Zac Efron (right), are wearing makeup to create a more smooth and flawless look. Studio 5ive (studio5ive.com) is a new cosmetic line for men that is an advanced system of skin care treatments and corrective cosmetics that have the power to transform his appearance in subtle or dramatic ways. super sunscreen According to beauty blog BellaSugar.com, one of the best things you can do for your skin is to wear sunblock every day. “But with warm weather around the corner, even the SPF slackers will want to wear sunscreen to protect their skin.” After testing La Mer’s SPF 30 UV Protection Fluid ($65), Bella Sugar writes, this product “isn’t a traditional sunscreen. The mint-colored fluid is incredibly lightweight, and it sinks into skin right away; small reflective particles give skin a light-catching glow.”

splurge of the month Flora by Gucci, $65, a subtle and sophisticated floral scent, says Nordstrom, is ideal for easy, breezy spring days.

The latest products, trends and news

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Cute & Curly Lashes

The new Shu Uemura Eyelash Curler ($19, Shu Uemura, sephora.com) is designed to ensure superior functionality and performance. The upgraded silicone pad in a new “mushroom” shape provides a protective, stay-put edge for improved safety and optimum curl. The new, patented hinge is specifically engineered to apply the perfect amount of pressure on eyelashes. The calculated shape, size of frame length and ergonomic handles ensure stability and control, while the curved angle suits all eye shapes.

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Jaye beauty Joico Moisture Recovery Shampoo The claim: “This hair-quenching shampoo provides gentle cleansing while restoring hair’s moisture level. Moisture Recovery’s exclusive Hydramine Sea Complex, combined with Joico’s Quadramine Complex repairs and reconstructs, restores vital fluids and provides intense moisturization.”

Why it works: The Hydramine Sea Complex, which is a blend of “moisture-loving ingredients from the sea that quenches overly dry hair attributed to the environment, chemical services or genetics,” really does do something to repair the hair.

It’s a little pricier than the other shampoos, but it’s definitely worth it. You can purchase Joico products at your local salon or beauty supply retailer.

Pantene Pro-V Relaxed and Natural Shampoo The claim: “This rich Pantene Pro-vitamin shampoo has moisturizing conditioners that hydrate hair and help relieve the scalp’s dryness with every wash. It can help dry, brittle hair look healthy and irresistibly shiny.”

Why it works: This ultra-creamy shampoo is amazing because it really cleans your hair without drying it. Your hair will feel remarkably softer after just one wash.

It works just as great on relaxed or natural hair. You can find Pantene Pro-V products at your local drug store.

Nexxus Therapee Shampoo The claim: “This luxuriously lathering, beautifully scented, and lavishly opalescent formula was created to help restore and maintain hair’s vital moisture balance. Intensely moisturizing and nourishing, you will notice the difference in just one shampoo.”

Why it works: This shampoo detangles hair wonderfully and is also extremely hydrating. This shampoo uses scientific technology to make your hair noticeably more pliable.

It includes such naturally moisturizing ingredients such as Avocado Oil and Wheat Flour. You can find Nexxus products at your local salon.

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Mizani BotaniFying Conditioning Shampoo The claim: “Gentle enough to use everyday, it cleanses the hair and scalp while restoring a natural moisture balance. The aromatic blend of botanicals nourishes, soothes and massages the scalp. The lubricating emollients of the shampoo linger in the hair long after the rich lather is gone.”

Why it works: This shampoo smells amazing, and while that obviously isn’t a good enough reason to use a shampoo, it definitely adds to the experience. Mizani products are great for women of color and the focus of this line, as their tagline proclaims, “beauty and innovation in balance.”

The products makes your hair more manageable, softer, and shinier. This shampoo is slightly more expensive than drug store brands and can be found at select Mizani salons.

Shampoos best of the best:

Show your hair some love by washing it with the best cleansers on the market.

We chose the top five you should try

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Crème of Nature Regular Shampoo The claim: “This formula effectively cleanses, richly conditions and gently detangles, all in one shampoo.”

Why it works: It detangles extremely well and leaves your hair soft and super conditioned.

This shampoo has been around since the 1970s and for good reason—it works. It’s a two-in-one shampoo and conditioner, so no conditioner is needed at all. It’s inexpensive, too.

You can find Crème of Nature Shampoo at your local beauty supply retailer.

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>> WHAT’S HOT IN MOVIES, MUSIC, TV & POP CULTURE

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Megan Good’s got the goods Can Meagan sing Good? You be the judge!

The 27-year-old actress recently revealed that she’s preparing for her first album. According to BET.com, she has been working with a vocal coach and has hooked up with The Dream in the studio. Good, who’s going for a pop sound, is currently unsigned, but is already sifting through deals from a plethora of labels. Look out for the acting/singing bombshell; she’s ready to take the music scence by storm. >> JAYE | MAY 2009 51

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on MAY’s movie menu >> Ghost of girlfriends past You can’t always run from your past — or can you? Connor Mead, celebrity photographer, enjoys his freedom, fun, and women — in that particular order. Connor is a full-time bachelor who nonchalantly thinks its okay to break up with multiple girls on a conference call. Paul, his younger brother, deems Connors actions a real “buzz kill” and on the eve of Paul’s wedding, he singlehandedly tries to sabotage the wedding. Just when he thinks he has it in the bag, Connor is visited by the ghost of his former ditched girlfriends. Together they attempt to figure out why Connor is the insensitive jerk that he is and is there hope for him to become a better person. Directed by Mark Waters and starring Matthew McConaughey, Jennifer Garner, Emma Stone, and co starring Christina Millian, this romantic comedy is coming to a theatre near you on May 1.

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Dance Flick

Easy Virtue

Ever encountered an overbearing in-law?

Well, Larita Whittaker experiences this very nuisance after marrying her dream guy, John. easy virtue Ever encountered an overbearing in-law? Well, Larita Whittaker experiences this very nuisance after marrying her dream guy, John.

After their spontaneous marriage, the handsome couple move into John’s family home with his mother, Mrs. Whittaker. She despises the marriage and is doing everything in her power to belittle Larita, who tries her best to fit in. After bearing Mrs. Whittaker’s tasteless antics for so long, a wedge begins to form between John and Larita since she decides to fight back. Will they be able to keep their vows or will they lose the love they share? This movie stars Jessica Biel, Kristin Scott Thomas, and Collin Firth and will premiere May 22.

ghost of girlfriends past, dance flick: themovieinsider.com. easy virtue: cinencuentro.com.

Dance flick The Wayans’ brothers are back at it again and this time around they’re busting moves and cracking jokes as only they know how! In this spoof of all the major musicals and dance movies, Tracy Transfat, a rich suburban girl moves to the inner city. On her quest to fit in, she meets Thomas Uncles, whose street smarts guide her through life in the inner city. As the two begin to bond, they realize their mutual passion for dance and enter the biggest dance battle of all.

Starring the Wayans’ family, Chelsea Makela, and David Allen Greer, this dance comedy is sure to have you crying from laughter. Directed by Damien Wayans, Dance Flick is set to release on May 22.

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tunes to bob your head to >>

BUSTA RHYMES Back On My B.S. This multi-platinum rap artist is all set to debut his eighth studio album.

Busta delivers a sixteen track album that is guaranteed to make you bob your head. Look forward to seeing special appearances from musical greats such as Mary J Blige, Jamie Foxx, Lil Wayne, Common, and Linkin Park. Album in stores May 19.

music news >>

Check out these summer concerts...

Dave Matthews Band

Robin Thicke and Jennifer Hudson

Taylor Swift

>> For dates and other artists touring this summer, visit jayemag.com.

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EMINEM Relapse Guess who’s back?

That’s right, the infamous Slim Shady better known as Eminem! This rapping phenom is coming out of retirement to take on Dr. Dre and 50 Cent in a friendly battle of the U.S. hip-hop giants, according to guardian.co.uk.

This is his sixth solo album and will hit shelves May 19.

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Novel notes: must-read books >>

TTYL by Lauryn Myracle This young-adult novel takes the reader into the lives of three friends, Madigan Kinnick (madmaddie), Zoe Barrett (zoegirl), and Angela Silver (SnowAngel), who are high school sophomores facing teenage drama! Zoe has to deal with a flirty teacher, Mr. H, in school who uses Christianity as an excuse to get close. Madigan/Maddie has to deal with a manipulative and wicked classmate, Jana, who is popular, or so she thinks. Angela has to deal with a boyfriend who could possible be cheating on her. Can they overcome the wiles of high school drama?

With the breathtaking momentum and riveting emotional twists that have made James Patterson a bestselling author all over the world, Sundays at Tiffany’s takes a well rounded look at the timeless and transforming power of love.

This just in >> 1. From actress to producer to vocalist to now schoolmaster After cultivating a home-school program for her own children, Jada Pinkett Smith has opened a school, the New Village Leadership Academy for pre-kindergarten through sixth grade children in Calabasas, California.

She eventually hopes to expand in order to accomdate all grade levels.

The academy relies on instructional methods developed by Scientology founder L. Ron Hubbard but it is by no means a Scientology facility.

2. Keyshia Cole is pure GOLD! Keyshia Cole’s album, “A Different Me,” is finally gold. The album sold 322,000 copies in its first week. This is Cole’s third album and the third time she’s become certified gold. This singing sensations is making her mark on the music industry and setting a standard for up-and-coming artist.

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Sundays at Tiffany’s by James Patterson Jane Margaux is a lonely child: Her mother, a powerful Broadway producer, makes time for her only once a week — for their Sunday trip to admire jewelry at Tiffany’s.

Jane has only one friend: a comical, comforting, and good looking man named Michael, and he’s perfect except for the fact that he’s imaginary.

On Jane’s ninth birthday he disappears leaving her with a promise that she’ll soon forget about him. Years later, in her thirties and a successful playwright, Jane is just as alone as she was as a child. She then meets someone with the same qualities as her childhood imaginary friend whose name happens to be Michael. With the breathtaking momentum and riveting emotional twists that have made James Patterson a bestselling author all over the world, Sundays at Tiffany’s takes a well rounded look at the timeless and transforming power of love.

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ebony christina Eastern Michigan University undergrad Ebony Christina keeps it real with Editor-in-Chief Michael Jones on a bundle of topics including her keys to unforgettable girls’ nights out, how she deals with men’s insecurities and why it’s so important to be comfortable in your own skin

“While I accept all criticism, it doesn’t mean I change myself to fit into other people’s expectations of whom they think you should be—people will put you in a box if you let them.”

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hen my girls and I go out, we’re looking for comfortable, lounge-like settings—no clubs with loud music and all that,” the soon-to-be 21-year-old Ebony Christina explains. “Now that I’m getting older, I’m a little more sophisticated, and I’m interested in mingling with people, not meeting guys.”

And who has time for small talk with men, when there’s so much to balance. “It’s hard to balance everything—school, work, making time for the important people in your life—but I keep a planner in my purse, and I put my priorities first. Family, friends and church are extremely important to me, so I always make time for those aspects of my life,” Christina says. “Sometimes, I have to write ‘shopping with best friend’ to make sure that I’m spending time with the people who mean a lot to me.”

Though Christina focuses on her inner circle and support system, she still hears the murmurs and senses the misconceptions people, namely guys, have of her. “When I was younger, I used to worry about what people would say about me. I would literally go home and look in the mirror and say ‘what am I doing wrong?’” Christina confesses. “But I’ve learned that this is who I am, and you just have to accept that this is me.”

And those men? “I’m never rude

to men—these days, guys are so disrespectful and unpredictable, you reject them in a way they interpret as wrong, who knows what names they’ll call you—but there are times that guys approach me when I’m out with my girls, and I’ll politely say I’m seeing someone or I’m not interested. But it’s hard because I’ve found that sometimes they guys I’m interested in don’t come up to me because they think I’m out of their league or unapproachable, but I’m neither—I’m as down-to-earth as they come!”

Christina admits that men aren’t the only ones who have shared their feelings about her business-first, play-later mindset. “I take my school work very seriously,” she says. “And I’m not going to apologize for that.

A close friend of mine said that I needed to ‘soften up a little bit’ and while I accept all criticism, it doesn’t mean I change myself to fit into other people’s expectations of whom they think you should be—people will put you in a box if you let them.”

After our almost hour-long chat, I learned that Christina is more concerned about helping and positively impacting other people, especially young minorities. “Ideally, I’d like to eventually be a defense attorney. In my opinion, our criminal justice system, if you can call it that, is horrible. I don’t believe everyone in the prison system are horrible people—I think most need someone to fight for them and show them they way—and I think too often, they’re cast aside and written off. I want to start off as a public defender

fighting for young men and women who need and deserve strong legal representation, but can’t afford it.

Our justice system needs to change, and I want to do my part to make it happen.”

Another thing that most people think needs to change, is our faltering economy, but Christina, who lives in Michigan, and was raised in Detroit, the Motor City and home to the troubled automobile industry, has a surprisingly optimistic view.

“Obviously the economy is bad, but I think people fall into the trap of blaming the economy for everything.

There’s always going to be something bad going on and there always something wrong, but you have to move forward and keep pushing— things are going to get better; in the meantime, you have to stay focused and stay positive.”

The thought of finishing college helps Christina stays focused and positive. “College means the world to me. I think an education opens so many doors, and nowadays without an education, you can’t do too much.”

Thanks to our visually-driven, pop-culture influenced society, you can’t do much if you don’t look the part either. Luckily, Christina has the style aspect of her life nailed.

“I’m a dresses girl,” she says with a giggle that you can’t help but fall in love with. And she stocks her wardrobe with “pop factors: chunky rings, bright clutches and statement shoes—you know those pieces that take your classics through the seasons.” And Christina suggests adding a “career piece” to >> JAYE | MAY 2009 59

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“College means the world to me.

I think an education opens so many doors, and nowadays without an education, you can’t do too much.” your wardrobe—a professional pencil skirt, a pair of slacks or a tailored blazer—each season.

Christina vehemently warns against following trends as they appear in the pages of magazines and off the runway, and believes personal style comes with a healthy dose of trial-and-error. “I look back at pictures of myself from my senior

year of high school and freshman year of college and think, ‘Ebony, you look hideous!’ I was all about trendy, fad-fashion. But now, I know what works for me and my body.”

And what works are the aforementioned dresses, handbags like the Louis Vuitton her mother wore 20 years ago, and Christina carries now, and skinny jeans.

At the end of the day, Christina realizes that her style, just like her life, is a constant evolution. But with great friends, a strong, supportive family and a few fail-safe standbys in her closet, she realizes the journey is part of the fun. “I’m so blessed to be where I am right now, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds.” ■ JAYE | MAY 2009 61

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quick hits on current events, happenings & trends Students who send sext messages should be aware that they can be used against them by a bitter ex-boyfriend or conniving friend. Worse, legal action is starting to be filed against those who send these types of messages.

let’s talk about sext, baby Think those provacative pics you sent aren’t a big deal? Think again.

Authorities are stifling the sext messaging phenomenon and even taking legal action

from top: gizmodo.com. impactlab.com.

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ext messaging, sending sexually explicit text messages that include photos and personal messages, is creating serious legal consequences for some.

“Recently, teenagers have been arrested on child pornography charges, and there have been reports of high-school students losing jobs or college scholarships as a result of being identified in sexually suggestive pictures that have appeared on the Internet,” reports The London Times.

Just receiving such graphic messages on one’s cell phone can be grounds for a child pornography charge, according to the newspaper article, which discusses several recent U.S. cases.

Many college students don’t want to risk their education on binding charges, such as this one, but there are still some that entertain the issue, and perhaps think it’s not a big deal. “It’s a way of expression,” an anonymous student says. “I do it because it makes my girl happy.”

Though it’s earning it’s fair share of coverage, this isn’t a new trend. With the advancements in technology, it’s no surprise that something that many Gen Yers and Millenials consider frivolous is taking society by storm (Tyra Banks devoted an entire hour of her talk show, The Tyra Banks Show).

“Hopefully we’ll get the message out to these kids,” says Michael McAlexander, a prosecutor in Allen County, Ind., which includes Fort Wayne, where a teenage boy is facing felony obscenity charges for allegedly sending a photo of his genitalia to several female classmates.

Another boy was recently charged with child pornography in a similar case.

Technology makes it easier for us to do and say things we would normally not do in person, and with the barrage of court cases surfacing, dialogue is beginning to take place. Who knows if charges will not stop it from happening, but for some, it’s one step closer. – Britney Darnell >>

sexting stats According to The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy and CosmoGirl.com a significant percentage of teens admit to electronically sending or posting online nude or semi-nude pictures or videos of themselves: ■ 22 percent of women ■ 31 percent of young adult men of teen girls ■ 18 percent of teen boys ■ 36 percent of young adults Source: tyrashow.com.

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Despite President and First Lady Obama’s busy and hectic schedules, they always make time for their daughters Sasha Malia.

They have worked hard to protect the girls and keep thier lives out of the public eye.

the economy and students

As a child, we were always told that school was the safe haven from the real world. This statement is becoming undeniably true as more and more Americans are being laid off and returning to school thanks to the strained economy.

Students across the United States are looking more into entering graduate school to avoid the economy, and for this reason it is in a way paralyzing them from entering corporate America because of thoughts of lacking success or just not yet ready.

Candace Bagwell, a journalism graduate student at University of North Texas in Denton says the economy worries her because of layoffs in the job market she is entering. Newspapers across the nation have lain off employers by the minute, and television news is also not an acceptable option.

“The job market for me is not thriving right now,” Bagwell says. “I am in graduate school right now to get my teacher certification.”

School is always looked upon as the home away from home, and for some it is also a refuge for more time for exploring and figuring out what is the next step in life. – Britney Darnell

Abortion: ND measure says fertilized egg has human rights ■ A measure approved by the North Dakota House or Representatives gives a fertilized human egg the legal rights of a human being, a step that would essentially ban abortion in the state. The bill is a direct challenge to Roe v. Wade, the U.S. Supreme Court decision

Women’s Issues

Wish your mommy a Happy’s Mother Day on May 10. Here are a few stats from womenshistory.about.com: In the U.S. there are about 82.5 million mothers. Mother’s

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Is College the New Refuge?

Should Malia and Sasha Obama be off limits?

President Obama gets enough attention; Michelle Obama gets just as much as the attention of being the first African-American first lady in history. And though they are constantly in the public eye, they work hard to protect their daughters, Malia, 10, and Sasha, 7, from public.

Earlier this year, Michelle Obama scolded Ty, the company responsible for the popular Beanie Baby dolls for making dolls with similar names and appearances to the first daughters.

A spokeswoman for Michelle Obama says they feel it is inappropriate to use young private citizens for marketing purposes.

College students are disturbed by the issue, stating that the children should not be exploited by the media speculations because of their age and the weight that their dad holds in office.

Frazier, a junior accounting major at Baylor University in Waco, Texas says the children should be off limits. “I think it is sad that marketers would go so low as to exploit the image of the Obama daughters, and they have not even been in the White House for a year yet,” Frazier says.

–Britney Darnell

that extended abortion rights nationwide, supporters of the legislation said.

Some college students comment that this type of ban could possibly be preventing the right to abortion.

The argument stands because the fertilized human egg hasn’t developed much, and this gives a woman a shorter amount of time to have an abortion, if she chooses to.

Students against abortion agree 100 percent with this bill, and hope that it will become a law of the entire

United States. This bill is also proposed to speak less volume than those bills proposed in the past. A North Dakota measure’s sponsor, Rep. Dan Ruby, R-Minot, was one of the leading in prohibiting abortion in the state.

“This language is not as aggressive as the direct ban legislation that I’ve proposed in the past,” Ruby said during a House floor debate recently.

“This is very simply defining when life begins, and giving that life some protections under our Constitution — the right to life, liberty and the

pursuit of happiness,” Ruby says.

– Britney Darnell Did you know...

Of the 1.6 million abortions performed in the U.S. each year, 91 percent are performed during the first trimester (12 or fewer weeks’ gestation); 9 percent are performed in the second trimester (24 or fewer weeks’ gestation); and only about 100 are performed in the third trimester (more than 24 weeks’ gestation), approximately .01 percent of all abortions performed.

Source: Fox News Web site

Day is widely reported as the peak day of the year for long distance telephone calls. About 96 percent of American consumers take part in some way in Mother’s Day.

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Baby Boomers reluctant to move out of the way of Gen Yers in struggling economy It’s no secret young, fresh students coming straight out of college are willing to take entry-level positions that can get them in the door and help them make ends meet. But now tenured employees are being pushed aside for vivacious recent grads and it’s an awkward situation on both ends.

Leaders sometimes find themselves in the worst predicament when passing the torch to future generations.

Because it involves taking risk or embracing a vision that might not be fully understood, fear of relinquishing control gets in the way of providing an opportunity to help shape new leaders. But in this case, this is even worst for the industry because it does not allow room for growth for the future.

A survey conducted by seven random students at the University of North Texas in Denton, Texas supported the passing of the torch to the next generation because college students are willing to be paid less than those who have been working in the business for years. Although some felt that the situation was wrong, they understood the truth of the matter.

The best opportunities come out of the worst situations. Adults should understand that this is for the best of the company as well as their future counterparts. Having a shared vision is just as much a reward than owning all rights to the one embraced vision. Share the passion and share the wealth, but be open to passing it over when time permits. – Britney Darnell Gen Yers are trying to find their niche in the workplace. But will Baby Boomers let them?

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Sensational Summer Camps Make a difference this summer and rack up some community service hours by contributing your time to summer camps in your community. Here are a few tips courtesy of rockymountainnews.com: Get the most bang for your buck. Giving a child the memory-making experience of camp doesn’t mean you have to strive for molding the next Tiger Woods or Tony Hawk. “If you’re paying $500 as opposed to $1,500, you might not get water-skiing,” Jeff Solomon, executive director of the National Camp Association, said. “But are you going to have a less-safe, less-fun experience? No.” Donate items or barter services. Times are tough for everyone, so camp directors might jump at a chance to trade tuition for gear or help. Get creative, Solomon said: Maybe your parents own a business with potential camp supplies such as food, linens or sporting goods. Or if you’re a PR major, offer to do publicity, write press releases and create brochures.

Put campers to work. Teenagers can pare tuition by working at camp. Let them cook, wait tables or become counselors-intraining. They’ll enjoy camp life and gain a work ethic.

Forget about fashion statements. “There is no need to go out and buy expensive camping gear and clothing for your children,” Betsy Thamert, executive director of the Rocky Mountain chapter of the American Camp Association, said. Try thrift shops or discount stores. Borrow items from friends or family. Or ask camp directors about renting gear; sometimes fees are so nominal that renting makes more sense than investing in an item that might never be used again.

Consider nonprofits. Nonprofit camps, such as Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts or YMCA, often fall on the lower end of the price range, and they tend to offer more financial scholarships, if you’re interested in enrolling siblings or younger relatives, Solomon said.

Hit up Uncle Sam. Check with your accountant or camp director about your eligibility for tax breaks for tuition. If the camp is a licensed child-care provider and you normally pay for child care so that you can work during the summer, tuition might qualify under the Child and Dependent Care Credit. Or you might be able to use a pretax expense account for tuition.

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“I learned to put myself first and that I sometimes have to help myself before I help others. Also, I learned to put my family before I put my friends.” ashley norwood, texas a&m university-commerce What is something you learned this year/ semester academically? This semester was a little harder for me. This was my first semster as a junior and I’m in a sorority as well, so I had to learn how to priortize things, organize my surroundings, and manage my time.

What is something you learned this year/ semester in your social life? I learned to put myself first and that I sometimes have to help myself before I help others. Also, I learned to put my family before I put my friends because I realized that I was neglecting my mom a little so it was necessary to put her first. I’m getting closer to God as well. I’ve noticed that sometimes I can be judgemental so I’ve applied the

old saying, “Never judge a book by its cover.” I’m taking the proper steps to get out of that habit.

What was your biggest triumph? My biggest triumph this year would be that I became a member of the Theta Nu Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. and maintaining a 3.36 GPA. What was your biggest disappointment? The thing that disappointed me the most was the way in which I budgeted my money. I haven’t been able to manage my money in the manner that I should be.

Calculus 2 has been another disappointment for me in a sense. I know that I will overcome this class, but as of right now, it’s a bit overwhelming.

Do you have any words of wisdom or pieces of advice for our readers? If there’s a will there’s a way and never give up! – As told to Ashley Johnson >>

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Ashley Norwood balances her social and academic responsibilities with always making time for family and friends.

jaye because college is more than the classroom Alana Gilman is dedicated to positively impacting the people’s lives, no matter their age.

“Some semesters I partied five nights a week and some semesters all I saw were the insides of my textbooks. That’s how I work though, trying out all the extreme options to calibrate that balance for myself.”

ALANA GILMAN, INdiana University What is something you learned this year/semester academically? This year I participated in a program called Project Care, where I mentored three students in a lower-level chemistry class I had previously taken and done well in. Through this program I worked side by side with these students tutoring them through the course.

This was an eye opening experience for me. I finally began to understand how different people can sit side by side in the same class, and receive a completely different experience.

Project Care really showed me how

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to understand the range of subjective experiences in a college class.

Plus, I knew I was really helping them—on average, the students involved see a 22 percent increase in grades from the first exam to the fourth exam. It was definitely a worthwhile program to be involved with.

What is something you learned this year/semester in your social life? College, for me, socially speaking has been a healthy and necessary opportunity to try on different personas to figure out which one fits me best.

IU has been a great springboard for me to do this. Some semesters I

partied five nights a week and some semesters all I saw were the insides of my textbooks. That’s how I work though, trying out all the extreme options to calibrate that balance for myself. Recently, I found an organization that combines two of my passions: the Spanish language and the medical field. It’s called The Timmy Foundation, a nonprofit student-driven organization that tries to improve health care in underdeveloped countries. This spring break I am headed to Quito, Ecuador on a trip to improve medical conditions there. It’s empowering the difference you can make as a youth on a global scale, your fundraising side

by side with your friends for something so important.

What was your biggest triumph? I always dreamed as a child of going to college and graduating with a 4.0 GPA, and in a few weeks I will proudly be able to say I reached that goal. It’s been a struggle, and I have had to sacrifice many different things along the way. But, in the end it was worth it. Another childhood dream was being inducted into Phi Beta Kappa, and I was the third generation of my family to do so. It’s nice to know all my hard work has paid off in such a tangible way.

What was your biggest disappointment? My biggest disappointment is that college is almost over for me.

Four years just wasn’t enough to fit it all in.

I have so many interests besides my major that I would have loved to have explored. For instance, I took a criminal justice course one semester and have always wanted to find time to take another. So, make sure you take as much in as possible, the years go by so quickly; you get caught up in life and don’t have time to take classes like music of the islands of Tahiti.

Do you have any words of wisdom or pieces of advice for our readers?

If you start dating someone and they are an asshole, run immediately! But seriously, apply yourself academically; it will open so many doors for you in the present and the future. At the same time, don’t forget to have fun, because this is such a unique transition in your life that will never happen again. You should definitely do well in college, college is not about partying, but college is kind of about partying so have fun! – As told to Devin Thomas

Tiffanie Jones realizes that by taking care of herself first, she can be an example to others and help them reach thier potential.

Tiffanie jones, sam houston state University What is something you learned this year/semester academically? I have learned to prioritize more than anything, I am beginning to take my major courses and it’s not as easy. Therefore my study habits have increased.

What is something you learned this year/semester in your social life? Socially, I would definitely have to say that I have learned to take care of myself first. Too many times have I tried to please everyone surrounding, while leaving myself out of the equation.

What was your biggest triumph? My biggest triumph have been me maintaining my relationship with Christ, as a college student there are many challenges that face us everyday.

What was your biggest disappointment? My biggest disappointment was not getting this job position I’ve interviewed for twice.

Do you have any words of wisdom or pieces of advice for our readers? The only place you will find success before work is in the dictionary. – As told to Ashley Johnson >>

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jaye because college is more than the classroom Ashley Ofuokwu, Texas A&M University-commerce

“Socially, I would definitely have to say that I have learned to take care of myself first.

Too many times have I tried to please everyone surrounding, while leaving myself out of the equation.”

What is something you learned this year/semester academically? I’ve learned that engaging in college organizations is the number one factor to being successful because it allows you to network. I’ve also learned that time management and organization are essential tools in order to be successful during college.

What is something you learned this year/semester in your social life? You can learn a lot from people if you step out of your box and make friends with someone that you wouldn’t ordinarily be friends with.

So what have you learned from someone whom you wouldn’t normally talk to? On campus, there are a lot of Somalian and Arabian students and I made friends with one young lady and she opened my eyes to her culture; she’s fluent in Arabic and she taught me how to speak a few words.

What was your biggest triumph? My big-

Danielle Roberts, Western Michigan University What is something you learned this year/ semester academically? To complete my schooling, I will spend a semester working as a student-teacher.

This time has allowed me to really put my knowledge from school into practice, and this real-life application is the best way to develop as a teacher. I have perfected my ability to prioritize, acquired excellent time-management skills, and have determined what does or does not work for me in the classroom.

What is something you learned this year/ semester in your social life? I’ve learned I can have no social life! (Laughs) But truly, I have learned excellent relaxation methods. Again, time management has become a very important factor when you’re planning a wedding and working several jobs. One aspect I have really learned to appreciate is the network of peers—future teachers—I made during school. It is really nice to have some I can relate to and rely on when I need to vent about my job. There are 72 JAYE | MAY 2009

Danielle Roberts keeps things in persepctive by relying on a positive group of friends and colleagues that serve as a support system.

gest acheivement was competing in a premlimary pageant to the Miss Kansas Pageant. It took me a minute to get there and I was proud that I was finally given the opportunity.

What was your biggest disappointment?

Not earning a 4.0 grade point average. My current GPA is 3.0, but I’m definetly going to get there.

Do you have any words of wisdom or pieces of advice for our readers? My uncle told me something the other day that really stuck with me. He said, “Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt,” a quote by Ralph Waldo Emmerson.

– As told to Ashley Johnson

Ashley Ofuokwu gains insight by exposing herself to different cultures and learning from other students’ experiences.

“You can learn from people make friends with someone that you wouldn’t ordinarily be friends with.” just certain things people outside this industry just can’t understand.

What was your biggest triumph? I can think of a few instances where I felt really proud. The day I finished the last classroom course was a great one. Passing all of my certifications was really big too. I had to take four tests, because I had four minors. And, I had heard so many horror stories about those tests, but I passed all four—that was a great day. Oh, and when I passed my geography class, because, in my opinion, I am really bad at geography. I sure won’t ever want to take that class again!

What was your biggest disappointment? This one is really hard. I guess I had really good communication with my academic counselors, but I feel they kind of steered me in the wrong direction. I just didn’t really know better at the time. For example, if you are going to teach younger students, it is suggested you get a DA Endorsement. I knew right away I wanted to work with young kids, but I didn’t find out until my fourth year of school that some of my classes overlapped with this endorsement. In other words,

I could have taken a semester less of school if I would have stared working towards this endorsement earlier.

Do you have any words of wisdom or pieces of advice for our readers? If you are getting ready to graduate, stay on top of everything. You are the only person really watching out for you. Make sure you get your resume and all other necessities together early on, because most people don’t really think about it while their still a student.

Anyone getting ready to start college should try their best to map out a plan for school. You don’t want to end up taking classes you didn’t need to take. Especially if you know what you want to do in the beginning, don’t expect someone else to do it for you. – As told to Jillian Risnes ■

“I have learned to appreciate the network of peers school I can rely on when I need to vent about my job.”

jaye technology

It’s about to be Honesty boxes, status updates and text messages — our generation’s brand of communication makes it easy to bash each other in a matter of seconds. But as Britney Darnell discovers, electronic aggression is a form of cyberbullying, and leaves a lasting impression on its victims >> 74 JAYE | MAY 2009

e a Text Fight!

OMG! I can’t believe how many new technological devices there are to communicate with people. The youth community is using new media technology: cell phones, personal data assistants,

TV dramas like the CW’s Gossip Girl capture the consequences of cyberbullying each week, as the show’s stars send gossip and scandalous texts to the anonymous “Gossip Girl” who spreads the word instantly.

and the Internet, to communicate with others in the United States and throughout the world.

Text messaging, chat rooms, and social networking sites (e.g., MySpace and Facebook), have allowed our generation to easily develop and maintain relationships: They allow us to communicate with family and friends on more of a regular basis, rather than the occasional holiday visit or phone call. These upgrades in technology also provide opportunities to make worthwhile social connections for those teens and preteens that have difficulty developing friendships in traditional social settings and gatherings. In addition to these benefits, regular Internet access allows young 76 JAYE | MAY 2009

people to quickly increase their knowledge on a wide variety of topics.

But with new technological advancements, there are also the flaws associated with them. Young people use electronic media to embarrass, harass or threaten their fellow peers.

Increasing numbers of teens, preteens, and college-aged adults are becoming victims, as well as the aggressors, of this new form of violence.

Although many different terms— cyberbullying, Internet harassment, and Internet bullying—are used to describe this type of violence, electronic aggression is the term that encompasses all types of violence that occur electronically. Like traditional forms of youth violence, electronic aggression is associated with emotional distress and could potentially cause problems in school.

Electronic aggression among Americans, ages 10 to 17, increased 50 percent (from 6 percent to 9 percent) from 2000 to 2005, according to a watershed report by the University of New Hampshire’s Crimes Against Children Research Center. And the number of young people who said they had “made rude or nasty comments to someone on the Internet” increased from 14 percent to 28 percent in the same period.

Recent studies conducted at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) show that electronic aggression is one the rise and growing rapidly. The CDC are taking strides of their own to help ease this issue by jointly publishing a guide that gives tips on how to avoid electronic aggression. The publication, Electronic Media and Youth Violence: A CDC Issue Brief for Educators and Caregivers, written by Marci Feldman Hertz and

Corinne David-Ferdon, Ph.D., reviews the most current research, gives pointers on recognizing electronic aggression, and spells out prevention strategies for parents, educators and policy-makers.

“Educators, teens and caregivers are far ahead of researchers in identifying trends in electronic aggression and bring attention to potential causes and solutions,” the authors write. “Adolescents, their families and the school community have known for several years that electronic aggression is a problem, but researchers have only recently begun to examine this issue. Creating a stronger partnership between schools, caregivers and researchers would strengthen the activities of all invested persons.”

Jazmin Hooper, a senior high school student at Memorial High School in Port Arthur, Texas says although she has not been a victim or aggressor of this violent harassment, she has known people that have; some situations worst than others.

“I have seen incidents where my own friends have been verbally attacked through text messages,” Hooper says. “Some of my friends have gotten dumped through a stupid text message.”

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“I have seen incidents where my own friends have been verbally attacked through text messages,” high-school senior Jazmin Hooper says. “Some of my friends have gotten dumped through a stupid text message.”

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jaye technology

The adage “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” doesn’t apply to cyberbullying, a type of nonverbal violence that affects young people.

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“I have never seen anyone be verbally attacked on Facebook, but it is always fun to make fun of your friends on there,” Maurice Potts, a senior college student, says. “It’s just pure entertainment, that’s all.” there is still time for one to develop.

The evolution of ‘sext messaging’ has already taken strides of lawful punishment.

“Recently, teenagers have been arrested on child pornography charges, and there have been reports of highschool students losing jobs or college scholarships as a result of being identified in sexually suggestive pictures that have appeared on the Internet,” reports The London Times.

The difference between high school and college students is that high school students tend to hide their identity by creating screen names. College students just tend to use social networking Web sites, such as Facebook and Twitter, which include their real names and photographs.

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about ways to prevent it,” Potts says.

“You cannot stop it, but you can always talk about it.” ■ How to handle e-agression

Experts suggest that, like traditional bullies who agitate their victims in-person, cyberbullies tend to be deflecting their own personal insecurities and shortcomings by finding victims and hurting them to help them feel better about themselves.

Facebook has also taken on a much bigger role in the sharing of personal information amongs peers. College students are more prone to spill the daily gossip through a news-feed or status update, than they would traditionally do by telephone calls. Maurice Potts, a senior political science major at the University of North Texas in Denton, says he witnesses it all the time.

“I have never seen anyone be verbally attacked on Facebook, but it is always fun to make fun of your friends on there,” Potts says. “It’s just pure entertainment, that’s all.”

Many would agree with this, but because of the unlimited access and freedom of less restriction that college students have, it makes them the most highly affected trend. Parents can no longer monitor the different type of media aspects their children are exposed to.

Recent attacks of those verbally abused through this harassment have had to learn the hard way. The best advice that can be given is for our youth to be educated on the detrimental possibilities that this could cause.

“I think us as professional, young men and women just need to talk

Aggression is no longer limited to the campus. New forms of electronic media, such as blogs, instant messaging, chat rooms, email, text messaging, and the internet are providing new arenas for youth violence to occur. JAYE magazine wants to give you tips on how to prevent electronic aggression.

■ STOP USING CAPS IN YOUR TEXT MESSAGES! When you text all caps in a message, people tend to think you are shouting at them and could cause animosity on your part.

Be mindful of how people perceive text messages.

■ Keep them short and sweet. Do not overload a text message. Keep it short and to the point. You never might know when your text message might cutout something important because you want to text a novel.

■ Save all messages. You never know when you might have to go back to those archive messages and recall a situation. Keep them for personal records.

■ Just pick up the phone and call. If all else fails, just call that person and explain the situation. This way, there will not be any perceiving of any type of text messaging.

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that make this technological epidemic a fear for our future generations, and perhaps, they will be trapped by regulations, and it will no longer be a positive benefit for our youth community.

“I hope we are not controlled by the type of text we send, that would be ridiculous,” Hooper says.

There is nothing now that would limit the access to punish those that electronically aggresses others, but

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“The boomerang idea flatters our parental sense that our adult children need us more than they think. They think they’re going to be independent, but we know they’ll come back to the front doorstep and need us again.”

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Cheap rent? Seems logical enough, you are out of college, the economy is down, and you need to get on your feet. So you head back home for a while. You boomerang. At least that is what the experts call it.

The boomerang generation is made up of young adults born approximately between the years of 1975 and 1986 who choose to cohabitate with their parents for a period of time after a brief period of living alone.

While there is a lot of attention

Independence, has analyzed census data since the 1980s and sees things a bit differently.

According to Rosenfeld’s research almost 41 percent of singles ages 20 to 29 in 2005 were living away from their parents, compared with 11 percent in 1950 and about 19 percent in 1980.

In his book Rosenfeld states, “The

boomerang idea flatters our parental sense that our adult children need us more than they think. They think they’re going to be independent, but we know they’ll come back to the front doorstep and need us

again.” Whatever our ‘rents may think, we have to do what’s best and smart for us.

Of course, there’s nothing wrong with heading back home. With so much bad news swirling around the job market, it may be a good idea.

Just know that as a generation, we only boomerang as much as the ones before us! >>

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Chasing after the dream job: Is it worth it?

By Jillian Risnes

Little naivety exists among recent and upcoming college graduates, as anyone who has turned on a television or picked up a newspaper in the past six months is quite aware of the current economic situation.

As the workforce begins to flood with potential employees, college graduates must make a few very

that job seekers be resourceful, creative, and thorough.

Research the industry. Recognize those companies that practice your particular specialties, and capitalize on these attributes. Make sure to take the extra steps to earn recognition.

Follow-up. Write thank you notes.

Don’t be afraid to ask your elders for ideas, they’ve been in this position before. And, for most recent grads, the idea of an internship after receiving a degree leaves an ill feeling in the pit of their stomachs. Keep in mind, some of

What is a dream job? Might there be a “perfect” job for each individual? A place where a true marriage between the corporation and the individual can emerge— likely, there isn’t. important decisions. Should the effort towards obtaining a “dream job” be sacrificed to simply secure a job? And, what can recent college graduates do to locate potential employers, surpass job contenders, and seize a position?

First, what is a dream job? Might there be a “perfect” job for each individual? A place where a true marriage between the corporation and the individual can emerge—likely, there isn’t.

It would be nearly impossible to find an environment for which a person has zero complaints, but one may obtain a position that’s positives dissolve any negatives. Whether securing this type of position is worth the possibility of joblessness for a longer period of time, is a personal decision with no correct answer.

Regardless of this battle between optimism and reality, it is important

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these internships will pay competitive wages and allow for promotion within the company.

Finally, take advantage of whom you know. And if you don’t know anyone, find industry-related opportunities and organizations. Be proactive.

Abraham Lincoln said, “Things come to those who wait, but only things left by those who hustle.”

Celebrate graduation with a themed party with creative invitations.

Party time: How to celebrate your special day

For some seniors hearing “Pomp and Circumstance” while they collect their degree is enough recognition for their hard work. For others, it is just the opening ceremonies of the Graduation Celebration Olympics.

Some travel to foreign destinations while others throw the party to end all parties. Whatever your celebration style—jet-setting around the world or just a quiet dinner with the people who mean the most to you—here are a few tips to enjoy it without having to take out another student loan: ■ For those of you who are itching to get a global view before hitting the workforce, take advantage of The Student Travel Association, www. statravel.com, while you’re still considered a student. Packages are incredibly affordable and range in duration as well as destination. Plus, you can feel safe and stress free in well-organized trips with other people your age.

■ If planning your own party is more your style, then check out all the online sites that offer new and interest-

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Most graduates will agree: Standing in line to receive their degree is worth the wait.

ing ideas on how to individualize your shin-dig on a budget. For example, www.celebrations.com has ideas and tips on how to throw a remarkable Tapas-style open house. The guests will appreciate the change of pace and menu, and you’ll appreciate the lowcost ideas!

■ Of course, these aren’t the only ways to acknowledge your achievement. Head to an amusement park for the day. Treat yourself to a shopping spree. Or take just a day reclining by the pool with a fruity umbrella garnished drink.

Don’t forget to take some time to pat yourself on the back, and recognize that you pushed through when times were tough, focused yourself when you were unfocused, and that you have succeeded.

Meredith Ford, a music and mass communications alumnae from Texas Tech University in Lubbock, identified one of the biggest deciders for college students considering graduate school when she said, “In my industry, it isn’t about the kind of degree you have; it is about who you know.” — D.T.

Is Grad School the next step for you?

So many college seniors find themselves facing the huge decision as to whether they should immediately make the move into a graduate program after graduation. It is critical to recognize and deeply consider all pros and cons before reaching the final verdict.

Western Michigan University alumnae, Kaitlin Smith reinforces the importance of knowing your industry, “For every career path the pros and cons will be so different. Some industries—psychology, medical, law—require further degrees before you can

even think about getting a job.”

It’s beneficial for any type of student to talk to faculty and industry professionals. Find out if the career you selected will require a graduate degree to reach higher-level positions, or instead, if the industry demands experience more than anything.

There are several other factors to consider when determining whether graduate school is an ideal situation.

Financial costs are an overwhelming factor for many, as graduate educations can range from $20,000 to $100,000, depending on institution, degree and housing type.

Another important consideration is time. For some, time is spent: The time for applying, class, and studying

is lost—that would be a substantial con. While for others, time is bought: Many college students finish their undergraduate degree and still are not sure if they are ready and/or willing to make the jump into the workplace.

Smith continues, “Several believe more degrees means more knowledge.

This makes it extremely important for some professions to obtain these enhanced degrees. And, for some, it is simply a matter of self-esteem.”

So, is graduate school right for you?

Well, for those of you that decided to become politicians, CFOs, or surgeons, the answer is seemingly obvious. For the rest, only you can decide what is best for you and your future. ■ – J.R. JAYE | MAY 2009 83

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Revenge. Boredom. Companionship:

A few of the reasons why people stray.

Here, a look at why college students mess around on their lovers

By Terin Bufford

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>> In today’s society, cheating is highly frowned upon but that hasn’t stopped more and more married and unmarried women from doing it.

According to CBSNews.com, “Author Susan Shapiro Barash has written several books about her research into female infidelity. And what she’s found is astounding. ‘Based on my research,’ the gender studies professor says, ‘I believe that 60 percent of women will at some point in their marriage embark on an extramarital affair.”

Needless to say, more than half of married women are out cheating.

Though each situation is different, below are general explanations and opinions on why women and men cheat, plus the signs to pay attention to if your woman’s intuition tells you your guy could be looking elsewhere for love. >> Why Do Women Cheat?

Accurate statistics on women’s infidelity are understandably hard to come by since—no surprise here—ladies aren’t always quick to come clean about their outside-the-relationship activities.

But why are women cheating? The simple answer is that women are starting to grasp all the opportunities to cheat that men always had.

Working women have a chance to get together with other potential lovers (in class or at work) and the Internet is full of different chat rooms and Web sites to entice them down that infidelity path.

When a woman comes to a point in her relationship where she begins to feel like she’s been taken for granted, she will tend to look outside of that relationship for some other connection.

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Of all the reasons why women cheat, the most common is that women cheat for payback. If a woman finds out that her man has, at some point, cheated on her, she will do the same to him as a form of payback.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, as the old saying goes.

And when a woman happens to catch her man messing with another woman, she figures she has the right to do some of her own messing around. She may feel like the fastest way to heal her broken heart is to have sex with another man. In the end, two wrongs don’t make a right and though it is a common trend, most think cheating is never justified. >> Why Do Men Cheat?

Why men cheat on women is one of the oldest questions in the book and to this day, that question is still unknown. The truth is that men have various reasons as to why they decide to cheat. According to psychiatrist, columnist, bestselling author, and television commentator Gail Saltz, M.D., “When men cheat, they tend to be motivated by sex—new sex, more sex, different sex.”

Like women, men have a long list of reasons why they might cheat on their significant others, many of those reasons being the same as women’s reasons. Then why is it that men seem to be the leaders of infidelity?

Culturally speaking, our generation has equipped us to believe that most men, at some point in their lives, will cheat. Whether their reasons are justified or not, society has groomed women to expect our men to cheat.

And the leading reason as to why men cheat is the sex. As women get more and more caught up with life

Warning Signs NOT to Ignore There are several signs that you should look for to determine if your man is cheating. These signs can tell you if he is indeed cheating or if he is about to cheat, either way, his actions may be prevented.

These are some of the “red flag” signs that your man might be creeping around. He might not display all of these signs but if you notice anything, you need to start paying closer attention to him. Many women start to realize that all of these signs were evident and they still wouldn’t derive a conclusion. Marriage counselor Gary Neuman reports, “So many women, when they find out their husbands cheat, they know right away who he’s been cheating with because he’s been talking about her.” Use these signs so that this won’t happen to you. Pay attention ladies, this could save your relationship: ■ He spends more time away from you, the apartment, the house, etc.

■ If sex is involved, the two of you have less of it.

■ He avoids all contact.

■ He doesn’t answer his cell phone.

■ You argue more, often without a resolution or compromise.

■ He criticizes you more.

■ He can’t stop talking about another woman, whom he claims is just a friend.

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(kids, work, school, etc.), sex is likely to be the last thing on our minds.

With these daily worries, it’s easy for couples to drift away from appreciating one another as they should.

Other woman can make the man feel better about himself. Men aren’t offered sex as often as women are so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down. And sex with a woman, the same woman, can loose its excitement, causing men to stray. In spite of everything, when a man cheats, we still take him back, forgiving him of his bad ways. This can also serve as a reason why men cheat.

If you continue to forgive a cheating man, chances are he will keep cheating over and over again because he knows that you will forgive him.

Overall, no reason is a good reason to lie and be dishonest. What goes around comes around. >> How to deal with Messy Breakups: Relationships can be difficult to deal with, especially when they’re over.

Unfortunately, most of the time, you don’t get an explanation for the breakup. People leave. Relationships end. Through it all, you have to find a way to deal; learn from it, grow from it, and move on. Don’t dwindle in the mist of a messy breakup. Here are a few tips on how to deal with messy break-ups: Remain calm. If you keep arguing and fighting it will only make a hard break-up much worse. Take some you time and relax, just to take you mid off all the craziness that was going on.

Don’t dig for motives. People may lie and come up with several reasons why “this just isn’t working” but don’t

>> Cheating Statistics ■ Percentage of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional: 41% ■ Percentage of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had: 57% ■ Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve

had: 54% ■ Percentage of men and women who admit to having an affair with a co-worker: 36% ■ Percentage of men and women who admit to infidelity on business trips: 36% ■ Average length of an affair: 2 years ■ Percentage of men who say

push for them to tell you their motives and reasons, you might not want to hear the truth.

Don’t cyberstalk your ex. If the break-up went badly, do not cyberstalk him. Stay clear of his MySpace page, his Facebook page, and so on.

The updated pictures and statuses may be harsh; too much to handle after a rocky fall out.

Don’t punish yourself. It is very important that you stay positive during this messy process. It can be very stressful and drawn out so try to stay upbeat. Hang out with old friends or

they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 74% ■ Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 68% Statistics courtesy of infidelityfacts.com.

meet new ones, anything that will keep you from thinking negatively about yourself.

For many of us, break-ups are amongst the most difficult experiences that we will encounter in our lifetime, but fret not: you can work to deal with a messy divide. Be calm so that the break-up will go by as smoothly as possible without adding any additional problems to the mix.

Remember that will strength and patience, you will be able to spring back into the old you! ■

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Summer’s on the horizon, so you’ll need a wardrobe full of grab-and-go basics that get you dressed and out the door. Look no further: this season’s reinvented jumpsuits are just what the stylista ordered. Here, the best one-piece wonders Fashion editor: Stephanie Taylor

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Jumpsuit, $995, Stella McCartney; tank, $7.80, Forever 21; sandals, $79.95, Steve Madden; bag, $395, MZ Wallace; sunglasses with case, $160, Ray Ban; earrings, $34, Banana Republic.

Jumpsuit, $565, Alexander Wang; sandals, $225, Report Signature; earrings, $18, Urban Outfitters.

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Jumpsuit, $29.99, earrings, $4, Charlotte Russe; sandals, $35, Oli; bag, $240, Kate Spade.

Jumpsuit, $27.80, Forever 21; sandals, $25, Go Jane; hobo bag, $15.99, Target, bracelet, $7.50, Claire’s.

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Jumpsuit, $38, Twelve by Twelve; sandals, $69, earrings, $24, Banana Republic; clutch, $14.99, Charlotte Russe, sunglasses, $12.80, Asos.

Jumpsuit, $65, Topshop; sandals, $120, Lauren by Ralph Lauren; earrings, $7, BKE; bag, $272, Mischa Barton.

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Jumpsuit, $100, French Connection; pumps, $97, Asos; necklace, $15.80, Forever 21; clutch, $495, Michael Kors.

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Though spring showcased a kaleidoscope of colors, there was one that reigned supreme. On the following pages, the pieces you need to beam this season — all in brilliant shades of blue Fashion editor: Stephanie Taylor

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blouses 1 MISS SELFRIDGE, $35. 2 EMILIO PUCCI, $895. 3 TOP SHOP, $55, 4 DUCIE, $77. 5 CHARLOTTE RUSSE $16.99.

dresses 1 THREAD SOCIAL, $535. 2 TOP SHOP, $56, 3 FOREVER 21, $11.50. 4 MISS SELFRIDGE, $28. 5 DRIES VAN NOTEN, $589.

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skirts 1 TOP SHOP, $60. 2 MISS SELFRIDGE, $25. 3 MIU MIU, $535. 4 WHISTLES, $70. 5 LAGARCONNE, $223.

jackets 1 DONNA, $505. 2 ALEXANDER MCQUEEN, $745. 3 TOPSHOP, $110. 4 WET SEAL, $23.50. 5 $22.90 HERITAGE 1981

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tanks 1 $32, TOPSHOP. 2 FRENCH CONNECTION, $35. 3 FOREVER 21, $14.80. 4 ALEXANDER WANG, $235. 5 REISS, $110.

shorts 1 ELIZABETH AND JAMES, $435. 2 TOPSHOP, $60. 3 MARC BY MARC JACOBS, $170. 4 TOPSHOP, $44. 5 ALLOY, $28.50.

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“These days everyone is into fashion so you have to take risks with your outfits to show that you are up on things.”

– Joanne Roberts

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battle of the sexes Men are from Mars; women are from Venus. Men react according to logic; women react on pure emotion. The same is true when it comes to fashion — men and women interpret the latest trends quite differently.

We put our theory to the test with a fashion face-off: Here’s what they have to say >> Photographs from style.com

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“I don’t really like the clothes because I couldn’t see my girl rockin’ something like that.”

– A.J. Thomas

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The Trend:

Geometric Details Who said what: Dalen Lorenzo, Joanne Roberts

What is your first impression of the look?: “I think it’s bold and not everyone can pull it off. The girl has to be a confident chick; a trendsetter and they have to be that carefree type, kind of like Kanye’s new girlfriend, Amber Rose.” – Dalen Lorenzo “In my opinion some of the looks are really cute. These days everyone is into fashion so you have to take risks with your outfits to show that you are up on things.” – Joanne Roberts How would you feel if your girlfriend showed up to a dinner date sporting this trend? : “[Laughs] Do you mean before or after I left her at the dinner table.” – D.L. Style in a snap: ■ If the overall look is too intense for your personal style, wear the trend in smaller doses: a graphicprint skirt, printed blouse or an eye-catching geometric dress.

■ Accessories allow you to wear the season’s fads without breaking the budget or going to far out of your comfort zone. Grab a bundle of on-trend bangles in with geometric details and add them to your classic staples.

■ To look like you’re not trying too hard, pair this trend with neutral basics that take you from day to night.

The Trend:

Depression Chic

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why?: “I don’t really like the clothes because I couldn’t see my girl rockin’ something like that. But I guess if that’s your own personal style and you put some ‘flavor’ in it, you could make it look good” –A.J. Thomas “I love it and I totally dig the trends from that era anyway! Here in Atlanta, I could so wear something like this to an exclusive event or party but at the same time, these items are practical and chic. – Aja Boyd Style in a snap: ■ Dishelved glamour is no longer an

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oxymoron. Take your look to the next level with oversized pieces that look a little out-of place. Ground them with go-to items in your wardrobe to tone down this tough-to-wear trend.

■ Don’t be afraid to borrow from the boys: Grab your guy’s extra-large sporty jacket and wear it with spring’s animal prints.

■ Go crazy for this season’s headwear.

Fedoras, bucket hats and newsboy-inspired toppers evoke the styles of the depression without the drab, desolate moods during that time in history.

The Trend:

Metallics Mania

Who said what: Jamal Petillo, Chelsea Barefield What are your thoughts about the look and would you or your girlfriend be seen in these drapes on weekend afternoons or fancy dinners?: “I could see the possibility of a casual dinner with a girl

wearing something similar to these getups. But most of them are a bit extreme for me. Realistically, I haven’t seen anyone wearing anything close to this at all. – Jamal Petillo “The possibility of me wearing an outfit or trend that resembled these looks would definitely depend on the venue. I could see myself wearing something like this to a cool sushi restaurant.” – Chelsea Barefield

“Some people take trying to be different a little too far and fail.”

– peter uwalaka

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Style in a snap: ■ Metallic pieces are classic and instantly update your wardrobe.

Retailers like H&M and Forever 21 stock their racks with this trend at affordable price points.

■ Girl’s night out and nothing to wear? Invest in a shiny party dress to turn to in fashion emergencies. A dainty clutch and classic platforms complete the look.

■ If you already have metallics in your repertoire, grab a smart boyfriend blazer to upgrade them into this season.

The Trend:

‘80s Reloaded

Who said what: Peter Uwalaka, Jazmine Gill How do you interpret this trend?: “Wow, these shoulder pads! Some of the looks of this trend are cool but a lot of it I would not want to see anyone on the street with it on. – Peter Uwalaka Should this look stay on the runway?: “Yes, for sure. Some people take trying to be different a little too far and fail.” – PU “No, I happen to like the flashback to the ‘80s. Trends on the runway are not always supposed to be taken literally and if you take a little here and there you can get an amazingly fashion-forward outfit.”– Jazmine Gill Style in a snap: ■ Visit thrift stores, vintage boutiques and mom’s closet for standbys of this old-school trend.

■ If you’re wearing pants with strong-shouldered tops, make sure they’re skinny to balance proportions. Skirts work well too — opt for pencil shapes.

■ Sky-high heels are the way to go with this look — they added height will elongate your body. ■ JAYE | MAY 2009 109

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As the seasons change, so does our look. Spring’s mantra? Less is definitely more: hair should be simple and chic with minimal effort. Here are the season’s chic yet easy-to-achieve looks

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long ponytail Thanks to this classic style, you can be trendy without looking like you walked off the runway.

Great for day or night, throw your hair up in a ponytail and pair it with jeans, a t-shirt and heels for lunch with the girls.

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This popular runway look is worn best if braided wet overnight and left to airdry. If you’re aiming for a boho-chic look, pair your long, flowy locks with a maxi dress and a thin headband for the perfect weekend look.

braided beauty If you’re tired of throwing your hair in a simple bun, opt for a twisted braid in the front to update your spring look.

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elegant twist This classic look is easy to achieve: first, apply a thickener to make hair more versatile and easy to work with. Next, pull strands into a French twist and mold the top by teasing, backcombing, and pushing accordingly until you get the desired look.

sittin’ sideways Try the side bun if you’re experimental and looking for something fresh. To get the look, just follow the tips from TheFashionableHousewife. com: First, put your hair in a ponytail, high or low will do.

Twist your hair, hold it like that, and wrap it around the base of your ponytail (where the elastic is). Then secure it with another elastic and a few bobby pins. We recommend getting small and large bobby pins for extra security.

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hether you choose to be elegant with a traditional up-do, rough around the edges with a razor-cut bob or embrace your hair’s natural beauty, the hairstyles we wear reflect our lifestyles, personalities—and many times our heritage and ancestry.

Women from many walks of life have different hair types: from curly to straight, the blondes and brunettes, and the shapes and colors of women’s hair also vary, affording them the freedom to determine which hairstyles suit them best.

“People inherit their grade of hair from their parents, but going beyond genetics, other factors could be the geographical location of people around the globe. Hair color and texture could also be altered especially when there are interracial marriages,” said Whitts Barbershop’s head stylist, LaTrina Brown. “This fusion of races results into assorted hair types and hair colors. As history has proven, people marry outside of their race and this is when the mixture of different genes starts to produce unique hair types.”

Scientists have tried to classify hair types in relation to the three earliest races.

Asian Americans often have black, bone straight hair and when compared to whites and blacks, theirs best resists damage. With that, African Americans are subject to the climate and other environmental factors that make theirs curly. It’s commonly black and the structure of the strands is twisted. Last, but not least, whites have the highest percentage of mixture among the three racial groups. These people range from the northwest Europeans to the Indian subcontinent: their hair color could vary from very pale to deep black.

“When women naturally have curly, frizzy or wavy hair, they often need special care as compared to those with straight hair simply because it is harder to maintain. However, all hair types require basic hair care such as shampooing, using conditioners, and combing,” Brown explains.

“Typically women between the ages of 16 to 21 observe that their hair becomes oily. Along with acne, oily hair is also just a temporary part of a

young woman’s life and it often occurs in people who have straight hair.”

Brown says at the other end of the spectrum, if hair becomes dry, it is best to wash it just once a week. Most curly and wavy-haired people are prone to dryness so these people should choose their hair care products well. Conditioning is a must and the recommended shampoos are those with jojoba oil.

While looking back on her career as a hair stylist for seven years, Brown has encountered and treated women of all races and hair dilemmas.

“I’m passionate about what I do because I love making women of all races look even more beautiful and most importantly I love making women feel beautiful inside and out,” Brown gushes.

Despite scientific support and professional opinions, the perception that women have about their hair never lacks the element surprise.

“My hair never fails to catch other people’s attention when they see me initially. I’m white but people assume that I’m mixed with so many other nationalities because my hair is thick, coarse, and more dry than other girls that supposedly look like me,” Carmen Fischer, a junior marketing major at the University of Texas at Austin, says.

Fischer considers her appearance to be unique, and has styled her hair in everything from ponytails to dreadlocks—it’s no secret she embraces the fact that she’s different. “I don’t have long, straight, stringy hair but I love my hair all the same.” And though Fischer emphasizes the importance of self-expression, she admits that >>

“I’m passionate about what I do because I love making women of all races look even more beautiful and most importantly I love making women feel beautiful inside and out.”

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maintaining her hair is one of her most difficult tasks on a day-to-day basis.

“If I don’t wash my hair it starts to smell and get oily. However if I do wash it, I can expect to spend the following two hours attempting to straighten it out, “said Fischer. “I love my hair but its bittersweet.”

Society commonly mistakes “going natural” for simply chopping your hair off and growing the infamous Afro, generally associated with the 1970s, but that’s not always the case.

“I love my dreadlocks because they not only represent what has happened in my past, but it is also a direct representation of how I am currently living my life and my current sense of style,” said Olivia Jordan, a senior interdisciplinary studies major at Jarvis Christian College, asserts.

“This experience has taught me to love myself and the way that God made me. I don’t need man-made chemicals to determine the depth of my beauty or fall into the stereotype that long, straight hair defines beauty because it doesn’t.”

Jordan has been natural for two years now and says that it helped her find her identity during the struggle to find herself and her purpose in life.

“I feel unique and distinguished

Women and their hair.

Women have always been passionate about their tresses being styled perfectly, even though the economy’s in the dumps.

Look no further than these statistics, courtesy of findbeautysalon.com, on the frequency of visits, money spent and other numbers.

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“My hair never fails to catch other people’s attention. I’m white but people assume that I’m mixed with so many other nationalities because my hair. I love my hair but its bittersweet.” – Carmen Fischer Carmen Fischer has worn her hair in various styles, including curly and straight, and embraces her unique grade of hair.

among others. My aunts relaxed my hair at an early age because it was easier to maintain, but that never quite gave me the opportunity to develop an identity of my own,” Jordan continues. “When I decided that natural hair was the best look for me, I did more research just to make sure that I was taking care of my hair properly and keeping it as healthy as possible.”

Some women prefer hairstyles that reflect their personal styles and compliment their personalities, Latina women typically hold on to the long,

>> 50 percent of the women that visit a salon will go at least once a month. The amount of money spent on services and treatments increased by 14 percent in 2007. In Spain, the typical visit cost approximately 182 Euros, or about $200. >> However, the expenses for a salon to operate also increased in 2007 by al-

straight, dark hair signifying a more exotic sex appeal associated with the entire culture.

“In terms of our physical appearance, Latina women are perceived as curvy, smooth completed women with long dark hair. When you think about people like Jennifer Lopez and Selena Perez one of the first things that come to mind is the sex appeal of the Latina woman,” Maria Morales, a sophomore journalism major at the University of Houston.

“Personally, I would not change my hair for the world because it makes me feel attractive all while embracing the look of the beautiful women that have come before me, constantly molding the image of my culture.”

With hair allowing each and every woman to express herself in an array of ways through style, length or texture, it also allows woman the chance to embrace their heritage, and in some cases find an identity that she has been deprived. Though cultural differences are evident, the hairstyle in which a woman chooses to represent herself distinguishes her from the next, yet makes her unique and beautiful in her own way. ■

most 58 percent. This trend is expected to continue as the world economy falters. >> In the United States, women made up about 89 percent of all customers in 2007. This number is down from 92 percent in 2006. >> This trend is expected to continue as more men are finding time for pampering.

CBS reported in 2007 that

number of visits to a beauty salon had increased by almost 4 percent from 2006. It was also reported that the turnover of salons had decreased by almost 7 percent, proving that the industry was once again experiencing an upturn in profits. However, much of this is due to higher pricing for treatments and services.

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jaye beauty If your hair fails these tests you should seek a professional stylist to evaluate the overall damage of your hair. A professional stylist can assist you with restoring your hair to a healthy state.

Finding the best styles and products for your hair isn’t easy. That’s why Ariel Burke has the answers to all of your burning questions

>> What are some essential ingredients I should look for in hair products? What are some ingredients I should avoid?

Ingredients you should look for in products include: Aloe vera, citrus fruits, jojoba, rosemary, and sage.

Harsh Ingredients to Avoid include: Sodium lauryl sulfate, ammonium lauryl sulfate, ammonium laureth sulfate, ammonium xylene sulfonate, TEA lauryl sulfate and sulfur (in dandruff shampoos). >> I’m looking for the best flat iron.

Do you have any suggestions?

When searching for a flat iron, there are many factors to consider — the most important being the texture of your hair. A course or thick hair texture may require a higher heat setting, this should be considered before purchasing a flat iron. The GHD MK4 ceramic flat iron (see right) far exceeds the competition in ratings, reviews and price. The one-inch rounded barrel allows for more precise styling and curling. The most amazing feature is the irons advanced ceramic heat120 JAYE | MAY 2009

ers that sense each individuals hair porosity and adjust the temperature to apply and maintain the proper amount of heat for your hair texture. The MK4 retails at $240. >> How can I determine if my hair is healthy or damaged?

There are three simple ways to determine if your hair is healthy or damaged: The first step is to perform a visual inspection of your hair. If your hair is dull or dry in appearance, has excessive split ends and fly away strands your hair is damaged. If the hair feels dry like a piece of straw then the hair is moisture deprived. Cut off a single strand of hair and hold it between two fingers and pull. If the hair snaps as a result of the pulling the hair lacks moisture. This can be remedied through the use of hot oil treatments and deep moisturizers. Cut off another strand of hair and place it in a sink filled with water. If the hair is healthy it will float. Hair that is damaged as a result of harsh chemicals will sink to the bottom. If the hair sinks it is porous and needs an acid based conditioner.

>> Do you have any suggestions on homemade hair treatments that I can create to help me save money?

For deep conditioning you can apply a hot oil treatment to hair twice a month by mixing warm olive oil and soybean oil and applying the mixture to your hair. Allow the oils to sit on hair for 1015 minutes before shampooing out.

Eggs and honey can also be applied as a deep conditioning treatment. Eggs provide the hair with essential proteins and the honeys adds much needed moisture. To add shine to dull hair mix one cup of water and juice from a lemon. After washing hair apply the mixture as the last rinse in your hair regimen. ■ The GHD MK4 ceramic flat iron

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>> Since school will be out this month, I’m looking for quick low-maintenance hair ideas to get me through the summer months.

Any suggestions?

One simple hairstyle that will be hot this spring is adding a few small individual braids to the top of your hair.

This style can be worn straight, wavy, or even in a ponytail. Another chic but quick hairstyle is to part your hair down the center. Twist hair away from your face and secure with barrettes or bobby pins.

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Stuck on relaxed hairstyles? The writer says you should consider going natural to eliminate hair damage.

■ The decision to have relaxed or natural hair is an ongoing battle that many women struggle with. Some women enjoy the benefits of relaxed hair, but many aren’t aware of how to deal with the harsh impact the chemicals have on the hair. Although relaxing will always be harmful for the hair, there are ways to remedy some of its problems and maintain healthy hair.

Allowing hair to remain in its natural state is best for the hair but it’s not for everybody. Some women enjoy chemically-relaxed hair and should not be stereotyped for their decision just as women that decide to go natural should not be judged for their decision.

The most important thing is to understand your hair texture and make an informed decision that is best for you.

In order to understand the relaxing process and the impact it has on the hair you must understand the makeup of the harsh chemical compounds that are in both lye and no-lye relaxers.

First, you may need a brief chemistry refresher. pH is the percentage of hydrogen and it used to determine acidity—pH is based on a scale of zero to 14. Pure water has a pH of seven, which is considered neutral. A pH level over seven is considered alkaline;

under seven is considered acidic.

Relaxers have a pH level that ranges from nine to 14—as the strength of the relaxer increases so does the pH level.

The chemical-compound make up is what separates a lye relaxer from a no-lye relaxer. Lye relaxers use sodium hydroxide as its chemical compound. No lye relaxers can be composed of potassium hydroxides, guanidine or lithium. Although no-lye relaxers claim to not contain any lye, it’s not entirely true. The

does not easily break down in water. The deposits left behind coat the hair shaft and prevent the hair from getting enough moisture by sealing the cuticle. As a result, hair can be left feeling dry and brittle. A chelating shampoo can be used immediately after a relaxer to lift any mineral deposits that may have been left behind.

Lye relaxers are preferred by the salon industry. These

au naturel Could 86ing the chemicals in relaxers work for you? Or are you loyal to relaxers that straigten your tresses? Ariel Burke explores the pros and cons of both hair-cair options compounds used in no-lye relaxers come from the same metal-hydroxide family as sodium hydroxide, which is used in lye relaxers.

The chemical compounds used in the relaxers determine the effect that relaxer will have on the hair.

When choosing between a no-lye relaxer versus a lye relaxer it is important to keep in my mind that relaxers by nature are damaging to hair and scalp. The major difference between the two being that a no lye relaxer is better on the scalp but worse on the hair and a lye relaxer is better on the hair but worse on the scalp.

The no-lye versions of relaxers are usually recommended for people that relax their hair themselves or those that suffer from sensitive scalp. The downside to no lye relaxers is that they are mostly composed of calcium and calcium

relaxers are usually best for those with very coarse hair and those that prefer their relaxers to be professionally applied. The pros of lye relaxers are they do not leave behind drying deposits, and allow hair to maintain its strength and elasticity. The cons? These relaxers can be extremely damaging to scalp, can have an increase in damage to external hair fibers, can result in scalp irritation or chemical burning and they will not leave hair as straight as a no-lye relaxer.

The overall synopsis: when it comes to hair treatments, lye and no-lye relaxers are both damaging to hair, but the hair health is up to you and how you apply the relaxer and the maintain it . ■ JAYE | MAY 2009 123

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hair coloring 101 dying to change hues this summer? learn the lingo so you can tell your stylist just what you’re looking for. on the opposite page, we make it easy for you with all you need to know >>

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Semi-permanent hair colors contain no damaging ammonias or peroxides and therefore can only take hair one or two shades darker or a shade brighter. It contains tiny color molecules that do not interact with the natural pigments of the hair. These tiny molecules enter hairs cuticle and cortex for color last for six to 12 shampoos. The color is best used as a way to enhance your natural color opposed to altering your hair color.

According to WorldVillage.com, There are several advantages: you can usually do it by yourself; the color does not rub off on your pillows or clothes as temporary hair color sometimes will.

Demi-permanent hair colors contain small amount of peroxide, but no ammonia.

In this process medium color molecules penetrate the cuticles and enter the cortex.

The larger the molecule, the longer the color takes to rinse out—which is why demipermanents last longer than semi permanents. These hair colors can cause a small amount of damage to hair.

Demis are the halfway mark between a semi-permanent and permanent hair color. The color lasts longer than a semipermanent for 12 to 24 shampoos. This method of coloring is also great for darkening hair but not for someone with dark hair trying to attain lighter hair.

Permanent hair colors contain ammonia and peroxide, which removes some, pigments from hair and deposits a new color. In this process tiny molecules enter into the cortex and expand in size. Remember: permanent colors do not wash out as the hair grows; the roots will need to be retouched with color approximately every six to eight weeks.

BONUS Highlights are for those that have great base tones to their natural hair color and are just looking for a slight enhancement.

Highlight can last up to two to three months.

The upside to hair coloring is that it provides you with a creative way to experiment with the color and shade of your hair. However when dealing with permanent colors and highlights, you are applying harsh chemicals to your hair.

Permanent coloring is damaging and some of the harm is irreversible. The hair can remain healthy if its properly conditioned and not over dyed. If your hair is permed or relaxed it is best to stick with a semi permanent or demipermanent color solution. The chemicals from the permanent hair color and the relaxer can be detrimental to the heath of your hair. When considering permanent hair color or highlights you should seek he opinion of a professional stylist.

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Summer knocks at our back door, and will be here before we know it. So of course we need to shape up: we can’t wear swimsuits with cellulite in the way. Exercise is not the only solution to obtaining the results that you want. Here are some tips to help get your body tight and toned to look your best this summer

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jaye health perfect your backside >> If you’re having trouble lifting all the junk in your rear, there are gluteal exercises

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that help lift and tone your back side. Simply squatting (left) or stationary lunges (below) do the trick. Stationary lunges kill two birds with one stone, toning your rear and the thigh. If you are not big on going to the gym, do not get deterred because your thighs and butt are extremely sore. Soreness is a good sign that those muscles are working. Do three sets of ten repetitions three times a week, and in no time you will see a tighter, more firm butt and thigh.

AWESOME ABS >> Most women struggle as much with their abdominals as much as their butt, hips and thighs. From personal experience, the abdominal muscles are not difficult shape to your liking if you have a strong work ethic and sense of dedication. Your abdominals require more attention than other parts of your body. Tips for shaping abs or for starters, flatten the tummy: Four sets of 20 repetitions four times a week (see right), will improve your abdominals. ■ JAYE | MAY 2009 127

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horoscope

As summer kicks into high gear, May urges Taureans to prepare for an end-of-school love — after dealing with a few things from the past You need to begin this month by putting your foot down with a friend who thinks that they are acting in your best interest. Romance may be difficult mid month and you will need to think seriously about how to move forward. Finances are looking up by the end of the month.

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Taurus April 20-May 20 If you are single then be prepared to be convinced that love at first sight really can happen! If you are attached, then this month will see your passions reignited although there will also be some issues from the past that need to be talked through. Finances are looking very strong.

Gemini May 21-June 20 As a Gemini, you have a natural charm and wit, which appeals to a wide range of people. This month you can use this to your advantage in the work place and this could lead to promotion. Youngsters will be able to charm their way out of any difficulties at school.

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Leo July 23-August 22 Emotions are running high in the first half of the month, but you are unusually perceptive right now and can resolve things with a few well-chosen words. Later in the month you will have the ability to persuade and you can use this to improve your career position or gain an advantage in a competition.

Virgo August 23-September 22 A range of positive influences this month mean that you will see success literally falling into your lap. You may find yourself getting so excited that you lose some perspective and forget your friends and family a little. Trust the advice of a loved one this month.

Libra September 23-October 22 It may seem a little early in the year to be thinking about taking a vacation, but the planets indicate that this is the best time for you to travel. You

are in the mood for soaking up some culture making this month a period of intense personal growth band learning for you.

Scorpio October 23-November 21 Scorpios rarely need to be told to be cautious as it is their standard approach to decision making. However, the planetary influences are encouraging you to take risks right now. The new feeling may be interesting, but do be careful as there is a potential for losing money this month!

Sagittarius November 22December 21 If you act now success will be fully within your grasp. A friend will be on hand to add their own particular skills.

Finances could be hugely improved if you willing to make the most of the opportunity before you right now. Don’t let personal disagreements distract you from the prize!

Capricorn December 22January 19 On the work or school front you have been feeling as though something has been holding you back. This month that block will be removed and you can make spectacular progress, which will bring you praise and respect from all those around

you, including someone special!

Aquarius January 20-February 18 If you are looking for success this month then you can rely on your charming personality as your charisma receives a major boost. Emotionally, this is a month where you should be looking to someone to make some kind of a commitment, don’t be scared to give them an ultimatum!

Pisces February 19-March 20 Nostalgia is likely to dominate the first couple of weeks as contact with relatives brings back a number of fond memories. However, the second half of the month will be demanding as a number of outstanding projects need your close attention.

Don’t let romance distract you!

Aries March 21-April 19 Those of you with families will be feeling a powerful nesting instinct this month as the planets encourage you to focus on domestic bliss. Other Aries will be drawn to get in touch with relatives and you may find yourself nostalgically flicking through the family photo album!

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Shopping index ■ jumpin’ for jumpsuits 90: Stella McCartney JUMPSUIT, stylefinder.com. Forever 21 TANK, forever21.com. Steve Madden SANDALS, stevemadden.com. MZ Wallace BAG, piperlime.com Ray Ban SUNGLASSES, asos.com. Banana Republic EARRINGS, bananarepublic.com. 91: Alexander Wang JUMPSUIT, netaporter.com. Report Sandals, nordstrom.com. Urban Outfitters EARRINGS, urbanoutfitters. com. 92: Charlotte Russe JUMPSUIT and EARRINGS, charlotterusse.com.

Oli, SANDALS oli.co.uk. Kate Spade BAG, ebags.com. 93: Forever 21 JUMPSUIT, forever21.com. Go Jane SANDALS, gojane.com. Claire’s BRACELET, claires. com. Target HANDBAG, target.com. 94: Twelve by Twelve JUMPSUIT, twelvebytwelve.com. ASOS SUNGLASSES, asos.com Charlotte Russe CLUTCH, charlotterusse.com. Banana Republic SANDALS and EARRINGS, bananarepublic.com. 95: Topshop JUMPSUIT, topshop.com. Lauren by Ralph Lauren SANDALS, piperlime.com Buckle EARRINGS, buckle.com. Mischa Barton HANDBAG, asos.com. 96: French Connection JUMPSUIT, frenchconnection.com. ASOS PUMP, asos.com. Forever 21 NECKLACE, forever21.com. Michael Kors CLUTCH, neimanmarcus.com. 97: Arden B. JUMPSUIT, ardenb.com. Go Jane SANDALS, gojane.com. Tory Burch TOTE, toryburch.com. Target EARRINGS, target.com.

■ brilliantly blue 100: BLOUSES: Miss Selfridge, missselfridge.com. Emilio Pucci, netaporter.com.

TopShop, topshop.com. Ducie, stylefinder.com. Charlotte Russe, charlotterusse. com. 101: DRESSES: Thread Social, netaporter.com. Topshop, stylefinder.com.

Forever 21, forever21.com. Miss Selfridge, missselfridge.com. Dries Van Noten, brownsfashion.com. 102: SKIRTS: Topshop, topshop.com. Miss Selfridge, missselfridge.com. Vanessa Bruno, netaporter.com. Whistles, stylefinder.com. La Garconne, lagarconne.com. 103: JACKETS: Doma, netaporter.com. Alexander McQueen, stylefinder.com. Topshop, topshop.com. Wet Seal, wetseal.com.

Heritage 1981, heritage1981.com. 104: TANKS: Topshop, topshop.com. French Connection, frenchconnection.com. Forever 21, forever21.com. Alexander Wang, netaporter.com. Reiss, stylefinder.com.

105: SHORTS: Elizabeth and James, netaporter.com. Topshop, topshop.com.

Marc by Marc Jacobs, stylefinder.com.

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Till we meet again Morsels of pop culture to tide you over for the month

May

There’s a first time for everything: Disney is releasing their first Black Princess Doll, Princess Tiana (left). This animated character, played by Anika Noni Rose, appears in the new Disney movie “The Princess and the Frog.”

In Madison, Wisc., a man left his apartment for about five hours and came home to find out that all of his belonging had been stolen— or so he thought. In actuality, the landlord made a mistake and evicted the wrong door number!

Remember to keep the faith... Faith 21 that is!

This is the new plus size line of the multifaceted Forever 21 brand!

princess doll, faith 21, limbaugh: latimesblog.latimes.com. caffeine: english.vietnam.net. man with paper bag: photobucket.com. empty apartment: wheeltribe.com.

Rush Limbaugh is back at it! This time he’s telling conservatives that President Barack Obama is “bastardizing the U.S. Constitution,” according to an article in The Los Angeles Times.

Beware of employment scams during the recession. Recent reports show that numerous phony-business recruitments and work-at-home schemes have been aimed at Americans looking to earn extra cash and make ends meet.

Fun in the sun: While you’re enjoying the summer keep in mind that recent studies have proven that caffeine may prevent skin cancer. So refresh yourself with a cold soda and remember to apply sunscreen liberally.

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