NOVEMBER 2016 | ISSUE NO. 11 COMPLIMENTARY
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Editor's Note You are a Creatrix.
Your gifts are needed in the world. Allow the freedom of creative self-expression to flow into every area of your life. Create one thing everyday: an article, blog post, audio, video, painting, song, poetry, pottery, song, sculpture, dance, etc.
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EDITOR IN CHIEF Kadena Tate-Simon
MANAGING EDITOR Frenetta Tate
LAYOUT EDITOR Karena Simon
PHOTOGRAPHY EDITOR All photographs used with the permission of Dee Hill, http://www.DeeHillPhotography.com
HAIR AND MAKEUP Vivienne Vermuth, http://www.makeupartbyvivienne.com
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CONTENTS
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WALK TOWARDS YOUR DESIRES - OTITI JASMINE
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CELEBRATING CREATIVITY
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WITH ERIKA MATOS http://www.thefeelgoodshift.com
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THE COURAGE TO SAY NO - KADENA TATE-SIMON http://www.KadenaTate.com AMP UP YOUR INTUITION
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- KADENA TATE-SIMON http://www.KadenaTate.com SURPRISE BUSINESS TUTORIAL
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Walk Towards Your Desires BY OTITI JASMINE http://www.OtitiJasmine.com Let today be the day you walk towards your
You might get too busy, too tired, too wrapped up in
desires.
your story to care about where you’re headed and why you’re headed there.
There will always be a reason to postpone, to shy away, to play small and act like what you need
So this is a reminder, today, to acknowledge what’s
isn’t that important.
calling to you and act on it. ‘Cause you’ll never know how good it feels to follow your dream until you actually do it.
There will always be a reason to give up, to give in, to pretend that what you desire isn’t burning
What action do you need to take to get you closer to
a hole in your gut and keeping you up at night.
where you want to be?
What there won’t always be, though, is the time
Today’s the day to figure it out.
and space to make your dreams happen. There won’t always be the drive or inclination to bring forth what’s in your heart. Life can get in the way and suck up your precious time and energy. Photo Credit: https://pixabay.com/photo-700141/ NOVEMBER 2016 • 50 SHADES OF PAID | 6
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Celebrating Creativity with
Erika Matos
Hello, I’m Erika Matos, an intuitive energy healer and a spiritual counselor. Oh, I didn’t always embrace that identity, but Spirit had other plans for me. Saying ‘no’ wasn’t part of them. My mission is all about YOUR freedom: the spiritual, the financial, the mental, and the purposeful. When I help you raise your vibration, you become magnetized to your desires as you fulfill your mission on earth. My clients marvel at my process that guides them to easily, effortlessly and purposefully manifest their authentic desires. Be it large amounts of soulful money, the ideal partner, a delightful career, and the like. Everything that is in alignment with your soul’s version of an extraordinary life by design.
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Celebrating Creativity with Erika Matos PART 2
What inspired you to start your company? We are in the midst of major planetary shifts, and I wanted to be in service of Spirit during this time. I was born with a spiritual gift that has been called into good use at this pivotal time. I’m thrilled to help others, who are ready, ascend. We are evolving as energetic beings, and through this transition, we need all the support we can get! I felt a powerful urge to get this message out to people: The world needs you. You are here for a very special reason. Only fear is getting in the way. How do you help people? I help people reconnect to their Divinity and open themselves up to greater possibilities. From physical healing to financial manifestations, it’s very rewarding to see the client’s faith and belief in miracles restored. Moreover, they start embodying their creative power and take charge of their life. Once they become intentional about what they truly desire, it inevitably shows up in their life. My gift of energy healing and vibrational support provides support for conscious women entrepreneurs to achieve increased peace, passion and profits. How Do You Handle Stress? Stress is my signal that I’m believing ego. Breath is my first resource. As I consciously breathe, I ask: Can I get out of my head? Can I trust that it’s all perfect, exactly as is? Can I, as a Child of the Divine, trust it’s all working in my favor? Daily meditation and frequent energy healings make this process much easier, as What does being creative mean to you? It means being in my inspired power; grounded in the heart and elevated through the crown. I think trusting the vision and plan for my life and moving unapologetically in that direction is crucial for creativity. God’s–Creator’s–promises are always on time. In this state of existence, one can easily access the Creative Genius that lives inside. Think of it as being guided to the right place, allowing synchronicity to happen; knowing it’s all part of the Divine Plan.
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How does creativity support your life purpose? My life is one creative spiral! When I’m working PART 3
with clients, it is very intuitive. Intuition in itself requires a degree of playfulness!
Celebrating Creativity with Erika Matos
So, as a healer, Spirit points the way, and I follow. It doesn’t matter what challenges my client might be experiencing, there’s always a Spiritual solution. In my type of work, you have to believe in the unseen. As important is the unfailing trust in
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facilitating the healing energies that come
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through to you at any given time. I can not live in
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my head to be effective. It’s all heart and soul. Where is your virtual residence? Erika Matos Energy Healer and Soul Counselor http://www.thefeelgoodshift.com http://www.facebook.com/TheFeelGoodShift/
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ELEVATE! AUSTIN, TX What is it?
BEVERLY BIEHL KADENA TATE
ELEVATE is a two day intensive about how to double, triple or quadruple your business profits in one year. What are we going to do exactly? Create your 2017 Income Road Map (vision and action), working side-by-side with talented and committed female entrepreneurs doing the same. Is this event for men, women or both? This Event is for Women Only so do let your girlfriends know. When is it? January 14th and 15th, 2017 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. both days
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The Courage to Say No
In the last several issues, we’ve talked about the courage to
BY KADENA TATE-SIMON
We’ve talked about the importance of doing your great
do bigger, bolder things. We’ve looked at being vulnerable, playing bigger, starting again, showing up, and looking fear in the eye.
work, exploring your genius, and other yummy goodness. This month, we’re talking about something equally important−the courage to say no. You gotta be ninja-like about your time and resources. Every time you say no to something, you say yes to something else. Embracing the power of saying no makes you more Photo Credit: https://unsplash.com/search/no?photo=zj475haUy2M
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discerning of where to spend your time and energy.
The Courage To Say No You need to say no to some things because you can’t
PART 2
It only distracts you from your bigger goals.
say yes to everything. You can’t say yes to the bake sale and the carpool and the swimming committee and
We’re constantly asked to give up our time and attention
camping. You can’t say yes to everything on the buffet
to something, so we must be discerning when we decide
table, and you can’t say yes to every single thing in life
what to take on.
and business, either. No matter how great an opportunity or request seems, if So why do you say no?
it’ll distract you from your bigger goals & intentions, it’s a hell no.
It doesn’t light you up. You can use a short checklist for each new request so it’s If you’re not excited about it, it’s not for you right now.
easier to say yes or no pretty quickly. If you need more
Maybe you’ll be interested later, maybe you won’t.
time, be sure you’re not driven by fear or obligation.
Either way, don’t burn precious hours in drudgery because you feel you “have” to say yes. You don’t “have”
When you say no to the non-essentials, you make space
to do anything that goes against your gut & doesn’t light
for the revolutionary opportunities that grow you, delight
your fire, except your tax returns! Tax returns are crucial.
you, and fill you up inside.
Ditch the boring & go for thrilling. You save your time, attention, and energy for the It’s not vital to your growth.
projects that really matter to you and nudge you closer to mastery.
Sometimes we take on opportunities that scare us shitless because we know it’s time to grow. We carve out
It’s not about trying to do everything, it’s about only doing
time for them because they matter enough to us and
the right thing for you.
expand our capabilities. Have the courage to say no to the maybes so you have So if it’s not growing you, it’s not glowing you; say no to it!
room for the hell yeses.
You already have your play & leisure activities in place, and you don’t need any moths eating up your time and
You are the stewardess of your resources.
energy.
Act accordingly.
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Amp Up Your Intuition BY
KADENA
Hearing the voice of your intuition is super important for your joy and evolution. If you really want to discover what you’re capable of, you have to drill down to the essence of who you are, and you can’t do that without tapping into your intuition. You discover what makes you different when you
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yourself to fit a mold, you get to play with the wonders and treasures of your spirit as you unearth them and sprinkle them all over your life and business. You can’t hope to stand out and be successful if you’re not sharp, distinct, and magnetic. Amping up your intuition takes time and space. You need blocks of uninterrupted time to clear your mind so you can hear your inner wisdom, and how exactly
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you clear your mind is up to you.
Amp Up Your Intuition
PART 2
If you’re the type that absolutely can’t sit still to meditate,
You’re more conscious of the choices you make, and you
a hobby or bout of exercise also helps to get you out of
pay greater attention to the actions you take.
your head and into your body. I’ve always found it helpful to ask questions in a journal You want to feel into your intuition, not think into it;
and keep digging until your intuition rings through loud
thinking won’t get you as deep as you need to go before
and clear. This means getting the surface stuff out of the
you reach the pure essence of who you are.
way so your deeper wisdom has space to bloom.
Tapping into your intuition makes you confident in your
You’re basically coaxing your spirit out to play, and
business because you know what you want and why you
forcing yourself into a corner won’t get you where you
want it. If you take the time to discover what feels natural
want to be.
and true to you, you’ll tap into your Zone of Genius and shine with minimal fuss and drudgery.
You have to be calm, patient, and open to what comes up. Second-guessing your intuition is a sign you don’t
Floundering is often a sign you’re not doing what you
trust yourself enough to admit to and accept your gut
really want to do or what you’re coded for. If you have no
instincts, and it’s a real hindrance to stratospheric
aptitude for numbers but try to be an accounting
success.
hotshot, you’ll shed your body weight of tears in frustration and find yourself stumped at every turn.
Amping up your intuition is discovering your truth and acting on it. Taking the time to reflect and listen to your
But if you’re gifted with words and find a way to capitalize
inner wisdom gives you the roadmap to the joy, love, and
on that, you can be an author, a copywriter, an editor, a
abundance you seek, and the more tuned in you are, the
speaker, or a speech writer.
clearer your path becomes. You make better business decisions and give stellar service because you’ve found
The point is that you have unlimited room for growth
rocket fuel right at your fingertips.
when you use your natural gifts, and your success feels like an upward spiral that just gets better and better
It’s important to realize that intuition isn’t woo-woo New
because you’re right where you need to be.
Age nonsense. It’s simply a factor that determines how good you feel about yourself and your business, and
When you decide to amp up your intuition, you become
whether or not you’re fully exploring what you’re capable
an active participant in your life.
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Amp Up Your Intuition
PART 3
Much like daily visualization spurs people to greatness
Amping up your intuition is ultimately about self-trust.
because they see what they want and go for it, intuition
You can learn a lot from other people and external
spurs you to greatness because you’re plugged into your
resources, but your brand of wisdom only exists within
truth, your desires, your dharma.
you, and if you don’t tap into it, you’ll never know what it has to offer.
Knowing why you’re uniquely placed to do what you want to do frees you to stamp your magnetic personality
Your inner wisdom is the laser that cuts through apathy
all over everything you do.
and mediocrity, and you have to turn it on to get its full benefits.
Again, you need to clear your head to hear your intuition. There’s a lot of white noise in the world, and you can’t
Stumbling through the world doing what doesn’t feel
sink into contemplation without emptying your head of
true and freeing to you is the fastest way to despair,
said white noise. The many distractions that prevent
stasis, and numbness, and that’s not what you’re here to
deep concentration also prevent the quiet reflection
feel, is it?
needed to hear your intuition. Trusting yourself enough to listen to your intuition is Calm and quiet make it easier to hear your gut loud and
trusting yourself enough to build your dream life. You
clear so there’s no doubt you’re hearing the real thing.
need to know you really believe in yourself, and acting on your inner wisdom is a huge way to prove that.
How do you know you’re hearing your intuition? It feels freeing, empowering, and right. It fills you with energy
Remember, your intuition should feel freeing,
and makes you eager to explore what’s before you. And
strengthening, and totally healthy for you. You can’t
most importantly, it’s truly healthy for you in every way.
become a superstar without trusting your uniqueness enough to let it out in everything you do, and you can’t
Your Soul wants what’s best for you, so if you’re drawn to
build a business you love without being true to yourself.
something unhealthy for you, that’s your mind trying to muscle in on your intuition.
When you trust who you are and what you want, you trust that you can succeed at what you want to do.
Pay attention to how your gut feels, what your instincts are, and how the feelings flow through your body. If you
Bringing your dreams to life takes faith and courage, and
don’t feel buoyed and strengthened by your intuition,
if you don’t trust the source of those dreams, you don’t
you’re still trapped in your mind somewhere.
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PART 4
Amp Up Your Intuition BY
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I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that you won’t get very far with that attitude, so self-trust is vital for forward movement. Tapping into your intuition daily gives you the creative edge to do your best work, deeply nourish your spirit, and build a thriving business that makes you feel good all day, every day.
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Trusting yourself to act on your inner wisdom gives you the momentum to leap over obstacles and come up with creative solutions to thorny problems. Gift yourself the time and space to plug into your intuition often enough to make a difference in your life and business, and watch yourself soar. NOVEMBER
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