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or years, and even to this day, my girls would tell you that I love to run the vacuum. They make it sound as if it’s my favorite hobby and something I dearly enjoy. As I always point out to them, I don’t love to vacuum, but I do love clean floors.

And it’s true—I do run the vacuum daily and I do ask that people take their shoes off when entering our home. And we may own a large number of mops and Swiffer products. But all of that just helps with my goal of clean floors.

In a similar vein, I like to regularly clean out the refrigerator. Again, not because I think it’s fun, but because I like the end result. Keeping your home clean can help it be a healthy home.

Judy Goppert takes a look on pg. 46 at other small things to do around the house to keep it clean and healthy!

Having favorites is human nature. Favorite foods, colors, places to visit, hobbies, clothes, etc., etc. One place where parents need to make an effort to not have a favorite is when it comes to kids. My girls like to ask, “Who is your favorite?” to which I reply, “The dog.” It can be tricky, because there are days when one child acts up and another child doesn’t. It can be easy to have a favorite (and it can change day to day), but the goal is to recognize when you may be favoring one child and to stop it.

Lauren Greenlee has great suggestions on how to keep from playing favorites on pg. 40.

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DATES WITH LETTER Q

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Are you on a “Quest” for great date ideas? If so, why not try one of these?

THE QUEEN The Queen is an excellent movie from 2006 that my husband and I recently watched. Academy Award-winner Helen Mirren plays Queen Elizabeth II and does a spectacular and flawless job. The movie begins with Tony Blair being elected the new prime minister in 1997, followed by the sudden death of Princess Diana in a car accident about four months later. What unfolds is several stories in one and is a chronicle of the week following the princess’s death.

It’s a history of the private life of the royal family and their longheld traditions. It’s a story of the British people and their love for the princess. And it’s a tale about the struggle between the prime minister and the queen on how to handle Diana’s death and funeral.

We highly recommend this film, especially if you know very little about the royal family. It was superb from start to finish.

Q39 BARBECUE Kansas City is, of course, known for great barbecue, and one place that has made a name for itself in a short time is Q39. Some of the best-known barbecue joints have been around for decades, but Q39 just opened in 2014 and is often listed in the top five barbecue restaurants in the city. We have been there a few times, but our most recent visit was by far my favorite. I had the barbecue veggie burger, which has a white bean and lemon base, topped with barbecue sauce, provolone and onion strings. I loved it! I also enjoyed some of their baked beans. My husband settled on the combo plate with brisket, pulled pork and smoked chicken with beans and steamed veggies. He had no trouble cleaning his plate of deliciousness.

THE BOOK OF QUESTIONS The Book of Questions by Gregory Stock was originally written in 1987 and then updated in 2013. My husband and I have quizzed each other through this entire book. From the slightly mundane and silly to the downright serious and thought-provoking, there is a question in here that is guaranteed to get the conversation going—as well as some that will make you think twice. For example...For $100,000, would you put on 40 pounds and keep it on for three years? What is the most outrageous thing you’ve ever done? If you had to either change professions or move to another part of the country, which would you choose? These are just a few of the approximately 300 questions in this book. Now, truthfully, the questions are hit or miss.

Some will resonate with you, some will not, and some are just a little bit out there. But you can skip over the ones you don’t care for—like we did—and still get plenty of good use out of it.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives with her husband in Kansas City. They enjoy regular date nights and love trying new restaurants and activities.

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ant a fun and easy way to celebrate St. Patty’s Day? Why not make a giant rainbow using everyday kitchen utensils such as a meat chopper or potato masher? This simple craft is a fun way to use household objects in a new way!

Step one: Plan out the size of paper you need in relation to the size of the kitchen utensil you will be using. For larger utensils, you will want a larger piece of paper. A cheap and easy jumbo canvas can be the inside of wrapping paper.

Step two: Set out white paper (taping down sides might make it easier).

Step three: Pour each color of the rainbow onto a paper plate or paint dish, one color at a time.

Step four: Use your chosen utensil to stamp out a line in the rainbow.

Step five: Wash and dry your utensil between each color.

Step six: Use your chosen utensil to stamp out another line in the rainbow.

Step seven: Wash and dry your utensil between each color.

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Overland Park with her husband, son and two dogs. Janelle is a former health care executive director and is a mediator in Kansas, helping families in conflict. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

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• White paper • Assorted paints • Paper plates or paint dishes • Kitchen utensil such as a

meat chopper or potato masher

• Optional: tape or something to hold down the sides of the paper

4 S.T.E.M. Outings in KC

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The Linda Hall Library of Science, Engineering and Technology is a research library, home to a beautiful

14-acre arboretum and a facilitator of amazing online resources for S.T.E.M. learners. The library is not your traditional local library with stacks of books to explore; rather, expert librarians help researchers discover materials among their thousands of volumes to work on projects. The grounds surrounding the library are home to a beautiful 14-acre arboretum that is free and open to the public. The grounds are especially lovely in the spring and autumn and are a favorite place for exercise, quiet respite, dog walks, photographers and nature lovers. This is a great place to enjoy a beautiful green space in the heart of the city. In addition to the physical library, Linda Hall Library offers other fantastic resources for S.T.E.M. learners. Specifically, their online exhibitions and their “How Do I Become ____?” Series are wonderful for young people! Visit LindaHall.org to learn more.

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Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary offers tours of their facility devoted to the care and preservation of endangered large cats to educate the public on their behavior, physiology, habitats and the threats and dangers of extinction. Keepers at Cedar Cove are educated and trained in the care of large exotic felines.

Visit SaveOurSiberians.org for information.

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Richard L. Sutton Jr., MD, Museum of Geosciences at UMKC displays a collection of cephalopods (squid-

offers spectacular public shows and night sky viewing opportunities. The 60-foot dome makes it one of the largest planetariums in the Midwest. This is a great add-on to a visit to Science City. Visit UnionStaiton.org for information.

like ocean dwellers), crinoids and fluid inclusions (rocks containing liquids). An interactive feature allows viewers to tip one such specimen of clear quartz to watch the trapped primordial water move. These and countless other mineral and fossil specimens are available for viewing by the public.

For more information visit cas.UMKC.edu/geosciences/ opportunities/geosciences-museum.

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Q&A DEARTEACHERS

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CHILD SIMPLY DOES NOT GET PHONICS

LOWERING STRESS AT SCHOOL

INCREASING VOCABULARY TRICKS

QUESTION: My second grader simply can’t sound out most new words; however, she is a very good reader.

You can tell her what a word is, or she figures it out through context. Her teacher’s reaction is: “Some kids just won’t get phonics.” This remark bothered me. Is it important for my child to become more skilled with phonics? – Good Reader

QUESTION: My second-

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grade daughter is anxious and stressed every day in school.

I feel that this is affecting her academic growth. How can I help her to relax in the school environment? – Scared

fourth grade. How can he increase his vocabulary? – Needs Words

ANSWER: Children learn to read in different ways. Your daughter is a sight reader. This is the way children were taught to read years ago. It would be helpful if your daughter could use phonics to recognize the first sound in unknown words as it would make it easier for her to use context in recognizing them. While she may never be great at phonics, it is highly probable that she has some knowledge of phonics simply through her ability to read so well.

ANSWER: You definitely want your daughter to have a more positive learning experience. It is time to get an appointment with her teacher and school counselor, who should have some solid ideas about how to turn this situation around before third grade. An investigation should tell everyone what is causing the anxiety and stress.

Could it be the schoolwork or related to her classmates?

The answer could be as simple as getting her some tools like a stress ball, having her chew gum or allowing her to sit on an exercise ball – techniques she could use to calm herself and get her mind in a different place.

ANSWER: Children pick up new words and their meanings in two major ways, through listening and through reading. Starting in fourth grade, new and unfamiliar vocabulary is introduced in all subjects, especially science and social studies, building a foundation for future learning.

Mastery of these words is absolutely essential to understanding the material.

This task is much easier for the good listeners in every classroom. Children who don’t listen in class are always playing catch-up in learning vocabulary.

Building children’s vocabulary does not just occur at school, though. The more you talk to your children, no matter what their age, the larger their vocabularies will be, because parents use far more challenging words than children’s peers. We doubt that we have to sell you on the advantages of having a good vocabulary, from higher grades and standardized test scores now, to future college admission tests.

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Nail Buff Years ago, I was suckered into one of those mall kiosks to buy a nail kit.

I’m not sure why—it was a weak moment. Anyway, I bought the entire kit, but what I loved most from it was the block used to buff out my nails. I had worn it down and needed a new one and, after a short search, found the Tweezerman Neon Hot 4-in-1 File, Smooth & Shine Block. It is perfect! And the best part is that it comes with replacement pads, so it’s sure to last a long time! Amazon.com

Anxious People I’ve written in this space about Fredrick Bachman’s debut novel, A Man Called Ove. If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend you do.

Once you finish, pick up his most recent, Anxious People.

It starts out a bit dreary and depressing, but by the end you’ll be eager to reread it to discover everything you missed the first time. I’m currently reading another of Bachman’s titles, My Grandmother Said to Tell You She’s Sorry. I’ll report back after I finish!

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Sweet Foam I’m strictly a hot coffee gal, but the rest of my family enjoys both the hot and cold varieties. I was introduced to a cold/ sweet foam topping by my younger who often orders that atop her iced beverage. She enjoys making coffee treats at home, so I was thrilled when I saw that Reddi-wip had sweet foam in a can!

Now the fancy coffee shop topping can be added to any at-home concoction.

It is sweet, as the name implies, but a fun addition to your morning drink!

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Now, the moisturizer didn’t nourish my more-maturethan-a-teen’s skin as well as I like, so I’ve stuck with my tried-and-true, but the facewash is a winner! If you’re looking for a good wash at a reasonable price, give Simple a try!

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the march dilemma “Dad, there’s nothing to do.” Ian threw himself onto the sofa, the very picture of dejection.

“Why don’t you go outside?”

“Too cold.”

“How about some baseball?”

“Nobody wants to play in weather like this.” He peered around the drapes. Solid, low clouds and dormant grass did nothing to lighten the Saturday morning or Ian’s mood. “What did you do on days like this when you were little?”

I leaned back in my chair. “March is tough. Temperatures can get below freezing, but there’s no snow, and spring feels like it’s months away.”

A fond memory drifted through my mind. “My parents wouldn’t let March stop them. One time, Dad made a bunch of hamburger patties while mom cored apples, filled them with cinnamon candy, and wrapped them in aluminum foil.”

Ian sat upright and stared at me. “What did you do then?”

“They took us out for a picnic. We bundled up and drove to the park. Once there, we had our pick of the tables, and Dad sent us out to get sticks for the fire.

My sisters were too little to help, so my two brothers and I brought back a boatload.”

I studied the skies through the picture window. “A leftover snowbank in the shade chilled our bottles of soda, and, after the fire burned down, Mom put the apples in the coals while Dad cooked the burgers.

We climbed in the rocks and boulders until everything was ready.”

Ian slouched back on the couch. “Then what?”

“A funny thing happened. The sun came out and warmed things up. We ate hamburgers, chips, cottage cheese and steaming baked beans, all washed down with snow-cold soda. And, for dessert, cinnamon apples, fresh from the fire.”

“Sandi?” I rose from my chair. “Feel like going on a picnic?”

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If you have a question that needs answering, get in touch.

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AdventHealth Shawnee Mission’s pediatricians and primary care providers offer compassionate, expert care for children of all ages. Find a provider at AdventHealthKC.com.

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My daughter has eczema.

What’s best to help with the itching?

I’m interested in tracing my family’s genealogy.

What’s a good way to get started?

Avoid dry skin! This will help with the itching. Her skin should be moisturized often – ideally two to three times a day. The best time to apply moisturizer is after a bath or shower, with the skin gently patted dry. Moisturize with oilbased products such as ointments (like petroleum jelly) and creams, instead of lotions. Kids should take short baths or showers in warm – not hot – water. Use mild, unscented soaps. Wear soft clothes that are breathable such as those made from cotton. Sometimes anti-allergy medicine is needed at bedtime to help itchy kids sleep better at night.

Talk to your doctor to ask whether topical corticosteroids, oatmeal soaking products and/or bleach baths are needed.

The starting point in any family history research project is to first determine what details you know. The Midwest Genealogy Center provides downloadable forms that you can print at home. You can also ask older relatives to help fill in the blanks. Document their stories using a Tell Me A Story oral history kit available for checkout from MGC or reserving online for pickup at any Mid-Continent Public Library branch. The next step is to take a Genealogy 101 class through Universal Class or start using online genealogy resources on the library’s website like MyHeritage.com and others to find out more information.

The Midwest Genealogy Center in Independence is open seven days a week to provide advice. Visit MyMCPL.org/FamilyHistory for more information.

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What can I do?

What are two pro tips in planning wardrobe choices for family photos?

This is a fairly common concern. In fact, a study published in Pediatric Dentistry showed that 23 percent of young children have halitosis (bad breath).

The most common things that cause bad breath are tongue coating, gingivitis (inflammation of the gums) and tooth decay. Bad breath is simply the result of bacteria in the mouth breaking down sugars. Cavities are caused by these same bacteria. Brushing with a fluoride toothpaste can protect your children from cavities and will alleviate their bad breath. Make sure your kids brush their teeth and their tongues thoroughly. A good habit to get into is to brush for two minutes twice a day.

Texture and balance. When choosing outfits for family photos it is important to create balance. Try to keep everyone in the same depth of color. Darks and lights can be hard to balance in camera. Mix up the looks: pants, dresses, skirts, jackets. If going for a monochrome look, be sure to mix lots of textures. Options are always great. If you aren’t sure, bring them and ask your photographer what looks best. Moms with little ones, it is best to keep your look simple. You will be picking up babies, they will be crawling on you and you will be in motion. An outfit with too much fuss makes getting the shot harder. My best wardrobe tip is to pick Mom’s outfit first and go from there.

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TASTYTREATS

eat right, bite by bite Open wide because March is National Nutrition Month! The annual education month focuses on the importance of making knowledgeable food choices and developing key health and wellness habits.

Eating a healthy and nutritious diet can easily seem overwhelming, especially if you don’t know where to start.

A good place to begin is with the MyPlate dietary guidelines, set forth by the USDA. Meals and snacks that follow these guidelines will help provide the fuel and food your kids need.

fruits and vegetables These natural nutritious gems provide megadoses of vitamins and minerals needed for growth and maintenance.

Aim to get 1-2 cups of fruit and 1-3 cups of veggies per day.

HOW? Serve a glass of 100 percent fruit juice at breakfast and keep a bowl of bananas, apples or clementines on the kitchen counter for a quick snack. Individual containers of applesauce, mixed fruit and raisins are easy to carry and pack in a lunch. Opt to bake and cook with fruit. For instance, add bananas to pancake batter or top ice cream with mixed fruit. Now, on to those veggies. Sauté spinach, tomatoes and onions to serve in a breakfast omelet.

Incorporate grated carrots, cherry tomatoes and slices of avocado in a green salad.

Or offer cucumbers, celery sticks and bell peppers with nut butter and crackers for an afternoon snack.

whole grains Grains provide an excellent source of fiber and B vitamins needed for energy. Depending on age, gender and activity levels, your kiddos require three to eight servings of grains a day.

HOW? Offer whole-wheat toast at breakfast and use whole-wheat bread for making sandwiches.

Try brown rice and wholewheat pasta for side dishes and dinners. You can experiment with grains, too. Deb, a Lenexa mom of three boys under the age of 14, says, “I use whole wheat flour when making waffles and cookies, and my kids love them!” Finally, snacks can be as simple as offering popcorn or whole-grain crackers and cheese.

protein

dairy

Your child needs strength and fuel to grow, so, depending on your child’s health needs, a good rule of thumb is to include three to eight servings of protein per day.

Kids need their bones, muscles and tendons in good condition, and having two to three servings of dairy each day will help meet their calcium and vitamin D needs.

HOW? Variety here is key.

Think chicken, beef, fish, turkey and vegetarian options such as tofu and beans. Start with an egg a day. Hard boil eggs in advance for the week to add in at breakfast, pack in lunches, or for a strong and mighty snack.

When making sandwiches, choose lean roast beef and ham. Veggie or salmon burgers for dinner are a great opportunity to increase your child’s taste buds. For more plantbased options, try tofu scrambles at breakfast, hummus with pita bread for a snack, bean enchiladas at lunch and chili with beans for dinner.

HOW? Simply offer milk or soymilk at all meals and snacks. Breakfast can be as easy as oatmeal or cereal with milk and adding a cup of yogurt.

Simple snacks are a cup of creamy yogurt, cottage cheese or a few string cheese sticks. Add flavor to wraps at lunch with shredded cheese or top off creamy pasta dinner dishes with melted cheese.

Dessert can be delicious with a yogurt-filled smoothie.

Amy Hundley is a registered dietitian nutritionist, licensed in both Kansas and Missouri, and a published freelance nutrition writer.

She is currently practicing as a clinical RD and has been a resident of Olathe since early childhood.

Sources: EatRight.org, USDA

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teacher’s pet or peeve: how to handle your child’s position in class

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eachers do their level best to make certain each of their students is treated fairly. In fact, the idea that a teacher would favor or slight

a student is likely in the top hits of an instructor’s no-no list.

But this is real life. As parents, we cannot expect our children’s’ teachers to get along swimmingly with every student that walks in their doors (or signs onto their Zoom class). Without realizing it, teachers may tend to gravitate to students who help make their job easier. And despite the best intentions, personalities can clash.

Teachers—especially in these times—are looking for any way to make the path to knowledge a little less resistant. They search out help in any way they can get it, and they focus on reducing hindrances that prevent the class from moving forward.

So what do you do when your child falls into a precarious position of teacher’s pet or teacher’s peeve? Here are a few tips:

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TEACHER’S PET PEEVES

TEACHER’S PETS

If you discover your child is not engaging with her teacher the way you had hoped, don’t immediately dismay. Take a breath and take stock of the situation to know how to best move forward.

It sounds like a dream come true. The teacher gives your child rave reviews and couldn’t be happier with his performance. Although this sounds like the best-case scenario, bear in mind that others may not appreciate this special relationship. For other students in the class, a child who receives such praise and warmth could be perceived as a threat, and your child could even be teased for falling into favor.

Is this a pattern? If there haven’t been issues in the past, this could be an instance where your child—or the teacher—had an off day. No one is perfect, and your child is bound to make a mistake or two. Hear your child’s side of the story with an empathetic yet discerning ear and express compassion. Make a note of the incident and how it was handled. Then, unless it was an egregious situation, let it lie.

Avoid overreaction. We all want to protect our children from unfair treatment, but resist the urge to call in the cavalry because your child feels slighted one or twice.

Understand that the story you’re getting is colored by your child and her very big feelings, especially if she isn’t used to being “in trouble.” This isn’t to say you should immediately discount a negative incident. But remember, you are the adult. Stay calm and keep a level head.

Make a plan. If a pattern begins to develop, and you sense an exaggerated negative slant toward your child, it’s time to go to the source. Spoiler alert: That’s the teacher, not the principal. Establish a time when you and the teacher can speak privately. Use that time to share your child’s feelings and your notes. You are the advocate, and your child needs you to express in a grown-up way what’s happening. This means leaving assumptions and bad attitudes at the door.

It won’t—and can’t—be fair all the time. Teachers have an incredibly difficult task at hand. They must dole out attention, care, concern and time to many bodies all at once.

Understand that though your child’s previous teacher may have had an extra bit of affinity for him, the new teacher may not. It does not mean your child is being slighted; he is just receiving an adjusted balance of care according to that teacher’s unique personality.

Know when it goes deeper. There may be a situation when your child and her teacher genuinely do not relate with each other. Although a lack of connection is acceptable and likely inevitable, your child should never be singled out or receive demoralizing treatment because of a personality conflict. If a one-on-one doesn’t resolve the issue, you must call in reinforcements. Set up a meeting with the principal and include the teacher. Going behind a teacher’s back to enact a change will only make things much worse.

The teacher, the principal, your child and you all want an appropriate resolution. Get there together.

Don’t ignore your gut. History has taught us there can be an occasional bad apple of a teacher. Do not second guess your intuition if something truly feels off. If you feel your child (and other children) are truly being mistreated physically or emotionally, take steps. Use your common sense and first-hand knowledge to do so appropriately with facts and documented instances.

Make your child aware. It’s completely acceptable to praise your child for earning a special place in the teacher’s heart. Explain that it is fantastic to do well but advise him to avoid bragging about it with others. Teach your child to be gracious and kind to others who might be struggling with the teacher.

Let them lead by example. Your child is in the unique position to be the eyes and ears for the teacher. Perhaps he notices a fellow student is being bullied and therefore acts out. Encourage him to speak privately to the teacher about what he’s witnessing. The teacher will appreciate the insight, and the child being bullied will almost certainly appreciate the newly acquired understanding from the teacher.

Don’t let them slip to fit in. Some children might consider actively trying to get in trouble, so they won’t be the teacher’s pet. This is a difficult line to toe. Teach your child to ignore it if someone calls him out for being the favorite. Over time, it will likely die down.

WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR CHILD’S POSITION IN THE CLASSROOM: Overcommunicate – Although you shouldn’t spam the teacher’s inbox, a bi-weekly check-in to share how your child is working to improve his performance will be welcomed.

After all, teachers love to see students make an effort!

Hold up your end – We’ve all forgotten to sign a grade card or failed to bring cupcakes on the appointed day.

Understand that repeated instances of these oversights can reflect negatively on your child, even if it’s unintentional. Do your best to make sure your child is up to speed on all tasks and papers each week.

Can’t buy their love – Teachers won’t be bought. They have the relationship daily with your child, not you. Don’t expect a teacher to overlook bad behavior because you had your kid bring a Starbucks gift card. Encourage your child to improve the relationship by behaving, listening and participating. Buy the gift card afterward.

Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son. kcparent.com march 2021

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to raise a skilled communicator in the digital age

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n a world ever distracted by dinging devices, children who develop a wellrounded set of communication skills will stand out in the digital-focused crowd.

“We have so many different ways to communicate that kids are going to need to be well-versed in as many as possible to be successful,” says Sarah L. Cook, co-author of The Parents’ Guide to Raising CEO Kids.

Thanks to social media, today’s kids have the ability to access an extensive social network. But, missing from those online interactions are the subtle nonverbal cues that enrich our face-to-face interactions, like tone, voice inflection and facial expressions, which can change the entire meaning of a

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statement. Some experts warn that too much reliance on technology to communicate can impair a child’s ability to read nonverbal cues.

“We have to make a conscious effort to insist on face-to-face socializing because it would be so easy for kids to rely more and more on screen interactions,” says Michael Osit, a child psychologist and author of Generation Text: Raising Well-Adjusted Kids in the Age of Instant Everything. “As long as parents and educators continue to involve kids in face-to-face social groups, classroom interactions and family interactions, we can preserve their ability to function in social real time.”

Talk to your kids. From the time your children can talk, ask open-ended questions and listen to their answers.

“What was the best part of your day?

Why?” Share your thoughts, too. Not only will this practice help their speech and listening abilities, they will learn the back and forth nuances of conversation.

Model appropriate social interaction.

Children learn how to interact with friends, family, store employees and strangers by following your lead.

“Be careful about subtle messages such as how [you] incorporate texting, emailing and social networking in interpersonal relationships,” Osit advises.

For example, put your phone aside when your child is talking to you and when interacting with a cashier or restaurant server. Make eye contact and show courtesy toward the other person to help your children learn that the person standing in front of them is the greater priority at the moment.

Pass the mic. Family meetings and meals are great ways to touch base with your busy family. Cook suggests putting each member of the family in charge of a different part of the meeting. For example, one child could begin the meeting by reciting an inspiring poem or scripture while another wraps the meeting with a joke, prayer or song.

Use teachable moments. Discuss social interactions that you and your kids see on TV programs, online or in real life.

For example, “When you are walking in the mall and you observe kids interacting inappropriately or disrespectfully to an adult, point it out.

Ask your child what he thinks about that behavior and help him evaluate it as appropriate or inappropriate,” Osit says.

Listen. Encourage your kids to share their feelings about peers (including those they aren’t friends with) and adults, like teachers and coaches.

“Parents can shape and enhance their child’s social skills on an ongoing basis,” Osit says.

“We have so many different ways to communicate that kids are going to need to be well-versed in as many as possible to be successful.”

– Sarah L. Cook, co-author of The Parents’ Guide to Raising CEO Kids.

Pick up the phone. Kids can learn to order a pizza or call the dentist to schedule an appointment for themselves.

“I’ve encouraged my kids that if they want to have a playdate, they can call their friend’s parent, and I’ll be there to jump on the phone to back them up,” Cook says. “When they take on more roles that parents typically handle, that allows them to feel confident talking to adults, which is often scary for kids.”

Place an order. Before the server approaches at a restaurant, help your child narrow down what to order from the menu. Even preschoolers can politely request a glass of milk or water.

Make a purchase at the store. Next time your child wants to spend some of his allowance or gift money, have him conduct the transaction with the cashier.

Be there to support him but allow him to take the lead.

Use video technology. If you travel, call home using Skype or Facetime, or use the apps to connect with relatives. Your kids will grow more comfortable talking on a camera. You can also use birthdays, the first day of school, the holidays or just random moments to interview your kids on your video camera.

Seek interactive activities. Scouting, theater and 4-H give children many opportunities to develop presentation and leadership skills. Also, encourage your child to participate in class plays, musicals and show and tell.

Like anything, the more we practice our communication skills, the better

they become and the less anxious we are about managing different situations.

Empower your children with the skills to communicate in a variety of situations, and watch them rise to opportunities that come their way with poise and confidence.

Freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines and her husband are the parents of two boys. She is the author of Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

The amount of time children ages 0 to 8 spend with screen devices has tripled in the past three years to a little over two hours a day. 1 Tweens, ages 8 to 12, spend an average of five hours a day using screen media.

Watching online videos is the most popular activity in this age group. 2 Teens, ages 13 to 18, use screen media an average of seven-and-a-half hours a day not including time for school or homework. 3

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Build independence Camp is a great place for kids to explore their own independence, and day camp is no different. Kids are dropped off at camp in the morning where they are challenged with new activities they may not get the opportunity to try at home. They will make friends, eat lunch and follow directions without the help of their parents. Kids start to feel more self-confident and independent as the week goes on.

Learn new skills Day camps typically offer opportunities to learn and grow in areas that children may not be exposed to at school. Kids can pick camps tailored to their interests, including a variety of sports, music, dance, theater, science, arts, nature exploration and more. If your child is drawn to a particular activity or subject, chances are there is a camp to interest him. Kids who are not particularly drawn to academics

will thrive in day camps because they are rewarded for their talents and interests.

Make new friends While you may sign your child up for a camp with a friend, she will meet many new people her age. Children gain confidence as they learn to talk to and work with people they have never played with previously. The opportunity to make friends with children that share similar interests and a fun new experience helps kids feel more comfortable when they are in new situations.

Take a break from the screen When children spend time at day camp, they get a much-needed break from screen time. As video games, apps, TV and tablets take more and more of our free time, getting the kids outside to play or having fun while learning new skills is a priceless benefit. Who knows? When the kids come

home from camp, they may realize they don’t need as much screen time as they thought they did.

Lifelong skills Day camp helps kids learn skills they can use for a lifetime, including problemsolving and leadership skills, improved confidence and an openness to new things.

Depending on the camp, youngsters may learn other skills that will stick with them.

My kids learned how to start a fire and cook their own meal at local Scouting camps. My daughter gained the confidence to get on stage in front of a room full of parents and peers at theater camp. My kids improved their skills at sports camps and they faced their fears while trying the camp obstacle course. These experiences will stay with your children throughout life as they face challenges and successes in the future.

Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her family.

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Understanding the options is key.

Many people don’t realize there are so many choices when it comes to summer camp. The best way to decide is to know your audience.

Read on for an overview of camp varieties so you can be well-versed as you choose the right camp for your child.

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Day camp is a great option for both single parent homes and parents with fulltime job responsibilities—and sometimes both! Day camp is usually an option for parents during the summer after the normal school term ends. Some day camps are regional, single sex or religious, and other day camps (traditional ones) are daily and operate like schools do. Day camps like this serve as a filler. While you work, the kids can play. Rest assured that when you choose a traditional day camp, your kiddos are in a structured and healthy environment while you make a living.

Camping Overnight

Camping overnight requires a particular skill and comfort level. I like to classify these skills under two categories, both by how campers sleep: Type A campers enjoy sleeping in a confined space, in this case a tent or cabin. Type B campers relish sleeping under the stars.

These personal differences lead to a huge difference in the way kids experience overnight camp options.

Type A campers love nature but prefer to disconnect from it and reconnect with some closed-in comfort while they snooze. Type A campers typically love technique when it comes to camping. They enjoy the challenge of setting up a tent, making home in a cabin, building a fire and planning the details of the camping excursion.

Type B campers, on the contrary, don’t mind any of nature’s elements and typically become one with the great outdoors.

They find amazement in astronomy and have fun identifying starry constellations.

Type B campers are also usually more open to gathering their food, fishing or hunting. Whether they are type A or type B campers, one thing kids tend to agree on are the campfire sweets, so be sure to send some marshmallows along with the bug spray if your youngsters go for an outdoor camping adventure.

Specialty Camps Tons of specialty camps are on the market for Kansas City families. Just about all of them require some sort of buy-in, and camps like these ultimately help your children gain confidence in a skill set they have already started to build.

The most common of the specialty camps are sports focused. Camps for golf, baseball, softball, football, soccer and basketball abound. Coaches often encourage whole teams to sign up for sports camps like these, so, odds are, if your kids join a camp like this, they will be joining with friends. The best part about sending your kids off to camps like these is that you come out looking like the hero. Camps like this guarantee your kids will want to show you every new trick in the playbook and

how they’re going to use them in their next rivalry game.

Arts camps that develop skills in band, orchestra, dance, theater and other fine arts are another type of specialty, as are academic and STEM options. These camps traditionally build on the basic skills your child already has and wants to cultivate further. These camps also sprinkle in some traditional camp dayto-day activities. Academic and music teachers and directors may have favorite programs they recommend, so check with them.

Specialty camps of any kind can be daunting at first, so speak to coaches and teachers to see what they think needs a little work. Going in with a goal can be helpful guidance.

There are all sorts of camping types, and no matter how you swing it, camp in general lays out a feast of fun and challenging activities, from swimming, hiking, star gazing and making camp to expanding arts, athletic and academic abilities. All in all, summer camp is designed to get kids away from the typical routine of life so they can decompress, have fun and explore new skills and friendships. So when you’re considering the camp that’s best for you and your family, stop, take a deep breath and remember some of these tips first.

You’ll find just the right one!

Jessica Samuel lives in Kansas City and is a freelance writer and photographer.

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which camp is best for your child?

1) How often do I want to have my child occupied/entertained over break? a. The majority of break. b. About 50 percent of break. c. Occasionally. d. Maybe a couple of times.

7) I would like my child to improve athletically over break. a. Strongly agree. b. Agree. c. Somewhat agree. d. Not really.

2) Does my child need to work on anything specific over break? a. Yes. b. Part-time help would be helpful. c. Some refreshers here and there would be great. d. Not really.

8) I would like my child to improve artistically over break. a. Strongly agree. b. Agree. c. Somewhat agree. d. Not really.

3) How do I feel about overnight camp? a. I think it’s a great rite of passage! b. I think a few nights would be fun! c. I think a couple nights may be okay. d. I’m not quite ready for that yet.

9) I would like my children to be with their friends over break. a. Strongly agree. b. Agree. c. Somewhat agree d. Not really.

4) I think it’s important to keep up with academics over break. a. Absolutely! b. Mostly. c. Somewhat. d. Let them enjoy their childhood vacation!

5) I would like my children to focus on one of their interests. a. Strongly agree. b. Agree. c. Somewhat agree. d. Neutral.

6) I would like my child to stay active over break. a. Strongly agree. b. Agree. c. Somewhat agree. d. Neutral.

10) I would like my child to gain more independence this year.

a. Strongly agree. b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree.

d. Not really.

11) How far away am I comfortable sending my child?

a. If the camp is worth it, we’ll go!

b. Maybe half a day’s drive.

c. An hour away.

d. It needs to be within 30 minutes.

12) How much is cost a factor?

a. It’s not a factor.

b. Not much.

c. A little bit.

d. A lot.

Mostly A’s Sounds like you’re ready for your kiddo to enjoy all there is to experience at a long-term summer camp, even overnight! Chances are you experienced and loved summer camp as a child (or wished you could have) and want your child to have that experience too! Camp can provide kids with life skills, socialization, and keep them active and learning in a different way over the summer.

Mostly B’s Sounds like you’re ready to have your children experience some various day camps according to their interests. Maybe they will fine tune their drawing skills or come home the best free throw shooter for the team! Selecting a few different camps can help kids focus on one area at a time and maybe be with different friends throughout the summer.

Mostly C’s Sounds like you’re ready to get your feet wet with some shorter camps throughout the summer as they are available and work into your schedule. These can give the kids something to look forward to and you a break from entertaining them 24/7, but you’ll have room in your schedule for a relaxed summer vacation.

Mostly D’s Sounds like you’re not quite ready to start in on summer camps, or perhaps they don’t seem that important or worth it to you. Maybe you’re able to be home with them and enjoy doing a summer bucket list and spending time with them before they head back to school. Perhaps a week or two at some local vacation Bible schools is a reasonable way to fulfill any camplike experience you feel your kids need.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 9, Mason, 8, and Slade, 4, and has been known to send her kids to numerous VBS camps throughout the summer and has finally reached that magical time when all three can go at the same time!

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Leawood Camps The City of Leawood Parks, Recreation and Cultural Arts department is offering a variety of summer camps for all ages and interests! Join us for creative and engaging art camps, fun and active sports camps and day camps, and curiosity

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JULY 18–23 • VIRTUAL + IN PERSON OPTIONS • COR.ORG/VBC2021 Summer at Pembroke Hill Extra! Extra! Read all about what an exciting summer you are going to have attending camps at Pembroke Hill. Our comprehensive summer camp provides a variety of academic, athletic and enriching classes while focusing on what summer is really about... having fun!

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Youthfront Bring on the fun! Youthfront Camp is excited to welcome campers and families this summer. Overnight and Day Camp sessions are available for students entering grades 1-12. Camps feature splash parks, theme nights, zip-lines and more. At Youthfront, kids can grow in their relationship with God and make friendships that last a lifetime! Family Day Passes will also be available for a limited time. Learn more and register at youthfront.com/summercamp. See display ad on pg. 35.

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BENEFITS r a e Y OF A Gap

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arch 12, 2020, was my last day of high school. I wasn’t aware at the time it was going to be my last day. If I had been, I probably would have spent it differently. I left school early that day because most of my day was a study hall. I regret leaving early, but that day now serves as a reminder to live every day like it could be the last—not necessarily your last day alive, but your last day as a high schooler, teenager and so on.

Although I was sad about high school being over so abruptly and missing many senior traditions, I was thrilled to start college. As summer went on, though, I became increasingly uncertain about attending school in the fall because of the changes sparked by the pandemic. I talked to my admissions counselor and, ultimately, decided to defer for the year. I did this in late July. Once again, my life was turned upside down, and I didn’t know what to do.

I’d never considered a gap year or known anyone personally who had taken one. In fact, I’d always thought taking a gap year meant just staying at home or working—and it might mean that for some people. But really taking a gap year can be whatever you want it to be. After many months in

Learning to scuba dive!

Tori and friends Livvy and Sydney before a hike at Waipi’o Valley.

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Wilderness First Responder class and certification in Placerville, California.

quarantine, I knew I needed some time away from my family, so I started researching programs. Eventually, I came across a program called Adventures Rolling Cross Country, or ARCC. ARCC typically offers programs abroad for students taking a gap year, but like everyone else, they had to adapt because of the pandemic. This year they offered domestic programs. The one I ended up applying for was a 60-day program in Hawaii.

Sounds amazing, right? Sixty days in Hawaii—beautiful place, new people, no family! Well, there was a catch, I would be camping. I had never seriously camped for a weekend before, let alone for 60 days, but I was up for the challenge. Those 60 days in Hawaii turned into 30 days in Hawaii and a 30-day road trip down the west coast through Oregon and California. Leaving for this adventure with a 75-liter backpack while all my friends were leaving for college definitely made me doubt my choices. Was I making a huge mistake not going to school?

What if this was a waste of my time? I ended up learning more in those 60 days than I ever could have imagined.

My grandpa once said, “Don’t let your studies get in the way of your education.”

He would be happy to know how much experiential learning has taken place in my gap year thus far. I learned how to successfully put up a tent by myself in the dark. I hand-washed my clothes in a bucket,

Tori and Henry getting ready for a hike near Bend, Oregon!

and I cooked meals for 15 people—in an outdoor kitchen, mind you. I don’t think I would have learned these things in a college classroom.

Along with learning new skills, I had the privilege of seeing and doing some absolutely amazing things. We went on numerous hikes, received our scuba certification, volunteered in national and state parks, and so much more. While on my program, I truly lived every day to the fullest, something I wish I’d done more of in high school. I’ll carry that mentality through the rest of my life. Taking a gap year changed my perspective on a lot of things and continues to shape my daily life.

Perhaps most importantly, in my gap year I have met some truly amazing people.

ARCC brought me 12 new best friends from all over the nation. We all came from different backgrounds, with different stories and different life lessons to share with one another. Spending 24/7 with 12 other people forced me to become more patient; it also allowed me to get to know them on an extremely personal level, something I don’t often have the privilege of doing with new people I meet. I have an intense amount of gratitude for them and all the life lessons they taught me.

Since coming home, I started a new job as a hostess. Although it is not nearly as thrilling as traveling the country, it has allowed me some time with the people I

Lunch at Crater Lake—the deepest lake in the United States.

love. I have also visited some of my new friends from the trip, and two of them even came to Kansas! I attempted to teach myself to snowboard in Utah, which resulted in many bruises but also many good memories.

And I am now off to San Diego, where I will volunteer for the next few months.

It is never too late to consider a gap year or even just a gap semester. The spring and summer months are approaching, college decisions will begin to roll out, and I will start to prepare myself for the next chapter in my life. I feel so much more prepared and comfortable with the idea of going to college now that I have had some time to myself this year. I have a better idea of what I am going to study and where I want to go.

Considering a gap year might seem like a daunting task, but the internet has so many resources that can help give a kickstart to your research.

I can’t really say anything good came from the pandemic, but I will say I would never have considered a gap year if things had been normal. I am so thankful for my gap year and encourage everyone to think about it. The lessons I learned and friends I made will be with me for a lifetime.

Tori Sarver is the daughter of KC Parent Magazine editor Margaret Sarver. Both mom and daughter are so thankful for Tori’s gap year.

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PLAYING FAVORITES DID YOU KNOW? According to a Journal of Family and Marriage study, only 15 percent of adult children interviewed felt they received fair treatment from their mothers. A Psychology Today article titled “When Parents Play Favorites” cites that somewhere between onethird and two-thirds of American families deal with parental favoritism.

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y mother-in-law has an ornament that makes its way up on the Christmas tree every year. On it are the words, “I’m Mom’s Favorite.” My mother-in-law informed me once that her mom bought her this ornament—and her two sisters, who were within earshot, were quick to add that they each received the same gift, as well!

This keepsake always produces raucous laughter in the family, but for those who have experienced favoritism, they can attest that it is no laughing matter.

Parental favoritism can be described as “when one or both parents show preferential treatment to one child over another.”

Favoritism is often displayed through gifts and privileges, time spent together or greater lenience with discipline. Most parents don’t intend to pick a favorite but oftentimes do so unknowingly. And although Mom and Dad may be clueless of their preferences, children intuitively pick up who is the favorite of the family (or who isn’t).

Just why do parents play favorites?

Common reasons include having a child that looks or acts like you or has talents or personality characteristics you are drawn toward. Children with easygoing temperaments are naturally more enjoyable to be around than ones that are critical and defiant. Because girls are innately more affectionate and less aggressive than boys, parents tend to favor daughters over sons.

Favoritism can rear its ugly head when parents are facing crisis or hardship, such as financial stress or divorce. Another factor?

Birth order. According to sociologist Jill Suitor’s research, firstborns and last-borns tend to have one common quality that makes them more easily favored than their middle child counterpart: time exclusively alone with their parents. Middle children will always have a sibling around throughout their entire childhood, whereas the firstborn gets Mom and Dad all to himself at the onset, and the baby of the family gets her parents’ undivided attention when older siblings fly the nest. Typically, this equates to firstborns’ receiving more privileges while last-borns get more affection.

Mallory Williams, LCSW, says that the consequences of household favoritism can be catastrophic and long-term. “The biggest long-term dangers are depression, anxiety, unstable or even traumatic reactions in personal relationships, and

“Parents serve their families best when they strive to avoid comparison between children, praise consistently but differently, and show a vested interest in each child’s success, whatever that may look like.” performance anxiety for both the favored and unfavored children,” Williams says, adding that the feeling of rejection and the lack of self-esteem that follows often plague children into adulthood. An unfavored child ultimately comes to a point of giving up when he realizes there’s nothing he can do to attain the same amount of affection and attention that a favored sibling will receive. Because the parental relationship is foundational for developing expectations for other relationships, this feeling of helplessness can carry over into school or job performance, as well as interpersonal relationships. Another surprising consequence is that non-favored children can end up becoming isolated and withdrawn. After all, if you learn to live without Mom and Dad’s seal of approval, it’s easy to avoid seeking deep personal relationships altogether.

Being a favored child isn’t all it’s cracked up to be either. When Mom and Dad dole out the praise for their golden child, inevitably it’s only a matter of time before siblings grow resentful and bitter about the dynamic. Accolades mean little to a child when it comes at the cost of a healthy relationship with brothers and sisters.

Parents are often surprised that preferential treatment hurts their favored child more than it helps, since they feel they’ve given their favorite an advantage in life. Williams points out that favoritism actually produces the opposite effect.

“Because of the praise and favoritism they experience, [favored children] often have difficulty with failure of any kind,” says Williams. “They often feel so much pressure to keep up their star performance that they feel that there is no room for mistakes.

They also are prone to rejection or a tense relationship, at the very least, with the nonfavored sibling, and find it hard to repair such a relationship, considering that they did nothing to create the situation.”

Favoritism has consequences that children may not outgrow, but if parents aren’t careful, they can make it worse over time. Preferential treatment actually tends to increase with adult children, this time for new reasons such as how close by a child lives, whether or not she shares similar values, or how much financial or emotional support the child has provided.

So what can parents do to avoid such a mistake?

First, acknowledge that fairness does not constitute equality. Many family dynamics are forever changed by the impact of a child with special needs, and there will be seasons of life when one child will need extra attention, be it a high needs newborn or a wayward teenager.

Because needs within the family are ever shifting and changing, your ability to serve them will be different as well. When this is explained with compassion and care, siblings are often more gracious and understanding of your limitations. Children may think they want equality in how they are treated by their parents, but, ultimately, no one wants to be viewed as a carbon copy of a brother or sister. Expectations for a toddler and a teenager should be different. Honest and trustworthy children should receive different outcomes than children that are defiant and dishonest. When it boils down, children want to be acknowledged for the ways in which they’re unique and one of a kind. Parents serve their families best when they strive to avoid comparison between children, praise consistently but differently, and show a vested interest in each child’s success, whatever that may look like. Second, acknowledging your own story (both the good and the bad) from your childhood experiences, can be a great motivator to help you strive to create a healthy home atmosphere, as well.

Lauren Greenlee is the oldest of four children and a mother of three, soon-to-be four, children. She writes from her Olathe home. kcparent.com march 2021

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et ownership can bring joy and happiness to any home. For children with special needs—particularly for those with sensory processing disorder, autism, ADHD and social or behavioral issues—adopting a domesticated pet can provide wonderful benefits. Here are some great reasons to consider adding a pet to your family.

Helps grow social skills

Kids who spend time playing with a pet typically enjoy interacting with people more than kids who don’t own a pet. They also learn to develop skills such as trust and interpreting nonverbal cues. Owning a pet can also encourage empathy toward animals and humans alike.

Lowers stress

Having a furry friend to play with, pet and cuddle can lower stress and elevate mood.

Stroking a pet’s soft fur can have a calming effect on people. “When my daughter is crying, our cat will come running and snuggle up to her,” says Katlyn Purkapile, Edgerton mom of three. “It has been amazing to see the change it has made with her.

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Helps develop life skills

BENEFITS

of pet ownership for kids with

SPECIAL NEEDS

My daughter starts petting her and calms down quicker than any other techniques we have tried. It’s a really special relationship.”

According to a study done by Frontiers in Psychology, people who spend time with a pet on a regular basis have lower blood pressure, lower heart rate and less stress. Patients that were visited by a service animal while in the hospital also reported less pain.

Kids who have the opportunity to care for a pet will also develop important life skills, such as time management, responsibility and an understanding of the importance of schedule for feeding, walking and cleaning their pet.

Builds stability

Kids who crave stability and routine will benefit from having a pet in their lives.

Pets can provide a different type of stability that they may not get from peers or family members. “My 8-year-old has ADHD. We recently got him a kitten, and he sits still and is calm with her for long periods of time,” says Olathe mom Pricella Edwards.

“I believe it helps him.”

Promotes learning

Many parents have found that having their pet near them during virtual learning or while doing homework helps children stay calm and focused. “My 11-year-old has anxiety and depression. For her birthday, she received a guinea pig. Lilly, the guinea pig, has been a game changer,” says Tiffany Nolan, mom of five. “Virtual schooling was

especially difficult for her. Suggesting she snuggle Lilly will dramatically improve her mood and demeanor. For her (and for us) it has had a huge positive impact.”

Pets are a great addition to any family but can be a huge help to kids with special needs. Before adopting a pet, consider what type of animal would best fit your lifestyle, space and budget. “It’s important to do your research and get a pet that will work for your family,” says Becky Smith, Olathe mom. “I was very careful about getting an older cat with a calm demeanor to best get along with my kids.” Ask your children for their input and let them help choose what type of pet they would like to join the family. Chances are your new pet will have a positive impact on everyone in your household.

Mom of six Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her family.

Important Things to Consider Before Adopting a Pet • Cost – Pet ownership can be expensive. Before adopting an animal, research

the cost of purchasing the animal, vet bills, food and any other items needed.

Depending on the type of animal, the cost could go on for many years.

• Space – It’s important to choose a pet that is a good fit for your home

and yard size. If you are renting, check to make sure your property owner allows pets.

• Care – Determine who will be responsible for your pet. Some special

needs children may not be able to clean up after or manage some of their pet’s needs. Who will be responsible? Are you willing to commit to this for the lifespan of the pet?

• Attention – What does your child’s schedule look like? Does your child

have time to give the attention the pet deserves? Are you home enough to walk a dog? Do you travel often? Who would take care of the animal while you are at work, school or on vacation?

• Noise – Some kids may have sensitivity to loud noises. If this is the case, you may not want to adopt a dog that barks loudly. If your child is a light sleeper, you may not want to have a nocturnal animal’s cage in the room at night.

Keeping these things in mind will make it easier to determine which animal would be the best fit for your family.

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Bad Behavior OR

Building Connections?

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ou may not have realized it, but much of the “poor” behavior you discipline your toddler over could just be her attempt to learn.

Cause and effect learning like understanding what happens when she throws her toys or uses a Sharpie on the wall could be less about disobedience and more about understanding the surrounding world. Although it can be destructive and frustrating, it’s also a vital part of development. What is a parent to do? Provide guided and controlled situations for kids to explore their surroundings physically and actively.

These explorations are what developmental experts call sensory play, which is simply a type of physical play using both gross and fine motor skills. It can be anything from bouncing in a bounce house or wrestling on the floor to stacking blocks or digging in the dirt. Sensory play is a part of development that helps build strong connections in your child’s brain.

Much like adults remember a name or fact better when they associate it with a song, smell or situation, a child playing with her food before she eats it builds a connection in her brain about texture and color, as well as taste.

In her article “Why Sensory Play Is Important,” Amanda Morrin says, “Sensory exploration is a child’s way of examining, discovering, categorizing, and making sense of the world.”

And there are incredible benefits for your child that come from this sort of active play, including developing language skills, overcoming picky eating, and encouraging critical thinking and problem solving skills.

Teacher and early childhood educator Katie Barnes says she has always given opportunities for sensory play in her classrooms and has seen it overcome numerous behaviors.

“I’ve had some kids who don’t like the way some things feel, and it helps them to explore the different textures of things,” she says. “If someone doesn’t like getting dirty outside, playing with mud or slime gets them used to texture and teaches them it’s okay to be messy.”

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Barnes feels so strongly about this type of play that she’s created sensory bin tables (@lovekatiejo) to provide a contained, controlled space to allow for regular play and exploration.

It’s been a great success in helping occupy her own 2-year-old as she’s getting dinner ready or performing some other chore. The tables are a simple construction allowing for four bins or tubs to be used for sensory play. She puts items like rice and cars, kinetic sand, pom-poms and plastic Easter eggs into the bins. Her son can move around the child-sized table, play with what interests him and usually stays busy for 20-40 minutes.

She says that it does take a little patience, and you need to establish some rules because a toddler’s first instinct is to throw, but if you’re willing to put in a little effort, it can have a big impact. “Just find out what works for your family. Get used to it. It might take me five minutes to set it up, but if he plays for 20, it’s worth it.”

Other options are to put a tray on the table with beads, a cup and a spoon, or you can give little ones play dough or cookie dough and plastic cookie cutters. The point is to allow kids to feel, explore, create, get messy and learn.

Sandboxes, water tables or simply an opportunity to dig in the dirt and mud are also great for multisensory exploration.

This works well with older kids as well. As most parents know, older kids may be able to control their behavior better, but the energy level is still there. Having a constructive outlet helps keep boredom from turning to misbehavior. Letting kids conduct science experiments, like giving them a tub and letting them mix vinegar and baking

soda, engages their sense of smell and allows them to see a great chemical reaction. Water and food coloring is fun to play with and teaches about color and combining. Freezing toys into large blocks of ice and letting kids chip away encourages a natural sense of exploration. You can even let them “bake” by giving them flour, sugar, salt and water.

Simple play is a childhood necessity, but in sensory play, a great deal of learning takes place—and kids aren’t even aware. Barnes gives the example of playing with a Barbie.

“If you’re playing with a Barbie, you’re only going to use so many senses. But If you put it on a table and give Barbie sand or water, and the kids start acting out scenes, you are helping to build nerve connections in the brain, increase fine and gross motor skills, and even word development if the kids are describing what they’re doing.”

We all learn about the world around us through our senses—what we can see, hear, taste, touch and smell. We learn what we like and dislike, what gives us joy or makes us uncomfortable. Children do the same thing, although their actions and reactions aren’t as tempered as an adult’s.

Giving outlets and opportunities for kids to move, make a mess, touch, feel and explore their surroundings gives incredible developmental benefits. It allows them to balance the boredom, anxiety, energy or restlessness they are feeling on the inside with an action they can perform on the outside.

Christian Barnes lives in Kansas City with her husband and two nearly grown sons. She’s fascinated by how children think and learn and enjoys sharing any information that she’s gathered with others.

Sensory Play and Helping Behavior Autism: Sensory play has been shown to help acclimate children with autism to the sometimes harsh realities of their world. Barnes says, “Autistic kids thrive with sensory play. They have a very unique makeup and sets of behavior. Sensory activities help to desensitize them and get them used to things they might experience in the real world like textures, smells and sounds.”

ADHD: For children who are easily distracted, have trouble concentrating or can’t concentrate, sensory activities allow them to harness their attention because it engages more of their senses. Kids playing in a sandbox are seeing the sand, feeling it on their fingertips, possibly speaking with friends about how it feels or what they are making. A fuller engagement in the process allows kids to bring the activity into focus.

Overly Excited: If your child is prone to overexcitement or has trouble coming down from high energy activities, certain activities have been shown to help the calming process. Allowing kids to run their hands through water, play with sand or play dough, take a bath or even take a ride on a swing for 10 minutes, has proven to be very soothing to many kids. The repetitive motion is calming, allowing the kids to relax slowly and naturally.

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HOW

HEALTHY IS YOUR

?

healthy home is the foundation for a healthy family AAhealthy home is the foundation for a healthy family

Plants remove indoor air pollutants. Peace lily, lady palm and snake plant, often called motherin-law’s tongue, should be placed in high traffic areas such as the bedroom and living room.

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hese days, messages about keeping our hands clean, wearing masks and using antiseptic wipes on everything from steering wheels and grocery carts to our phones trumpet at us from every side. So what about inside our homes, where many of us are spending more time than ever? Read on for some tips to make where you play, eat and learn safe and clean.

First, we all know bathrooms harbor many germs. Thankfully, the number of cleaning products on the market make targeting these nasties easy. Consider placing a bleach tablet in the back of the toilet. It not only smells nice but keeps the bowl clean. Place sanitizing wipes on a shelf or in a cute holder so Mom, Dad and kiddos can grab and wipe the toilet handle, the lid and even the floor around the toilet.

In the bedroom, eradicate any haven of dust, dust mites and even pet dander. Dust mites actually produce waste and lay eggs, and hair, dead skin, fungi and pollen can collect in the bedroom too. Some tips to minimize these little monsters? Use zippered allergy-control covers on mattresses and pillow covers. Once a week, wash all your bedding in hot water above 130 degrees to kill dust mites, and vacuum uncovered mattresses often.

Throughout the house, consider displaying hard-to-clean collectibles behind glass doors. If you undertake a remodeling project, hire a licensed company to clean your home’s duct system of the dust that gets stirred up. Choosing easy-to-clean window treatments, such as flat-weave cotton and linen fabrics, can limit dust. Avoid heavily textured draperies and blinds, which always collect dust. Buy a quality vacuum to rid the house of allergens and dust mites. Look for a vacuum with an agitator, high suction, high filtration such as HEPA filters, and tools for cleaning furniture, draperies, ceilings and baseboards.

Battle bacteria on kitchen surfaces by sanitizing sponges.

Simply toss them into the microwave or dishwasher. Choose nonporous countertops and cutting boards and clean them regularly. Also, look for cleaning products made from plant sources rather than petroleum, ones free of chemicals that can irritate, such as chlorine, or pollute, such as phosphates.

Change air filters frequently in your furnace and air conditioner—at least once a season, especially when you are running your furnace constantly. Install a dehumidifier in the basement to combat mold and a humidifier upstairs to aid with breathing and skin conditions.

Place a shoe basket by the door, so nobody wears shoes into the house. This way, no unwanted germs or dirt will enter your home. Add some comfy slippers in the basket so visitors and kiddos can remove their shoes and be comfy and snug.

Plants remove indoor air pollutants. Peace lily, lady palm and snake plant, often called mother-in-law’s tongue, should be placed in high traffic areas such as the bedroom and living room.

Cleaning your dryer vent is a good way to help clothes dry completely and reduce dust and lint. Simply unhook the hose, vacuum it out, then brush it out.

Our indoor spaces have come a long way through the years, and we take for granted a lot of modern conveniences that can bring harmful chemicals, germs and safety risks inside. With a few steps and precautions, you can make your home a safe space for dreaming, learning, cooking and growing.

An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

Keeping the Fridge Clean and Working Properly When we get home from the grocery store, we usually just unload everything into the fridge without a thought. But refrigerators actually are designed to store different types of food in designated places because of how the cold air circulates in the fridge. Storing each thing according to its preferred temperature location will result in food that stays fresher longer and a fridge that smells nice and works well.

Don’t over pack it, which will disrupt the proper distribution of airflow and could cause food to spoil more quickly. Be wary of weighing the doors down with heavy things like liquids, which could damage the hinge, causing it to not seal properly and fail to maintain temperature. Cleaning the fridge regularly can reduce the risk of bacterial growth and contamination that can lead to food poisoning.

The trick is to wipe and dry on a daily basis to prevent build-up. Make a habit of doing a weekly or bi-weekly food purge, and deep clean seasonally, every three to four months.

Something you might not think of is leaving room for airflow around the actual fridge. Heat emitted can cause damage, so don’t install it in a tight space. Without proper ventilation, the compressor may overwork and create even more hot air.

And, never put large quantities of hot food in the fridge … for obvious reasons!

Sources: BHG.com, SynergyAppliances.com, Healthline.com

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picked up a new hobby?

GREAT REASONS TO KEEP IT GOING

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h freshness of spring, a new season of life and the desire for something pleasurable during this stressful time in history are all reasons to feel the pull toward wanting to learn something new. Hobbies can vary due to interests, time, budget and more, but hobbies are a healthy activity to incorporate into our daily lives.

A new year often brings ideas for change and goals, but new seasons can also be a great time to reevaluate and start anew.

Spring tends to have an overall freshness about it too, so now is a great time to think of something you might like to try or incorporate into your daily life. If fitness was a nice thought in January but hasn’t amounted to anything quite yet, perhaps you can start with some outdoor walking as the weather warms up. Listening to music or a podcast, or reveling in the quiet, can add an important layer to your new walking hobby.

New seasons of life can also be a time to start something new and add a new layer to your personal identity. Examples of this could be any move, marriage, divorce, addition of a new child, a new pet or a new job. I’ve always been very aware of the importance

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of not losing my own identity as a parent— especially as a stay-at-home mom. Hobbies become a way to claim your talents and interests.

As a new mom roughly a decade ago, I took up running to get out of the house with my baby and dog. A decade later, I mostly enjoy running solo for a break from caring for my kids all day. I also expanded my hobby of exercise to include biking, hiking, dance fitness and bootcamps. As a new mother, I also took up blogging and creating photo books for our family during this early season of motherhood. As my last baby was entering his preschool years, my love for reading came back, as well as a new interest in listening to podcasts. I also picked up photography as a side gig which has been rewarding.

Kelle Szumilas had a similar experience as a new mother. She says, “Running was never my thing until baby number two. I needed something of my own, and it turned out to be a sort of meditation for me. It’s been one of the best hobbies I’ve tried!” Alli Stevick, mother of two, reiterates the importance of having something of your own while caring for your children. “Technically I’ve always loved reading for fun, but since the kids were

born, it became newly important to me,” she says. “It was something I could do (quietly!) while someone napped on me or near me. It is something that can be picked up and put down as needed without losing progress.”

According to CNBC.com, hobbies can help you have better work performance, can improve your physical health, as well as help to reduce stress. Over the past year, an unprecedented number of people have picked up—or at least considered—new hobbies because they have more time on their hands.

Sourdough anyone?

Tara Brune, mother of two, says a hobby she has recently picked up is calligraphy and brush lettering. “I carry my favorite pen and notebook with me, so I can do it anywhere!

It’s cheap therapy! I love the Tombow Fudenosuke brush pens and a dot journal.

That’s all you need!”

Lori Tate, mother of three, says she’s recently picked up living room yoga.

“Pandemic parenting—and I needed to have a physical outlet and relax all at the same time. I also started running, but that didn’t last. I injured myself, and well, I just hate running. I’ve been using SarahBeth Yoga on YouTube. I’ve been doing it in the afternoons

while my youngest has lunch, but I’m going to try to get it done in the mornings before the kids get up.”

Mother of two Kelly Smoak says, “I started sewing dresses for my girls and then clothes for myself as well. Now I’m working on my first quilt! I don’t have much family support to get breaks and time to myself, so I needed to find a hobby that I could do in my home with my kids around. Sewing fit the bill. I started about three years ago.”

Carly Rickard, mother of two, has a couple of hobbies she enjoys. She says she has gotten back into crocheting, as well as picked up cross-stitching. “I received a cross-stitch kit for my birthday, and it was harder than I thought! I had to teach myself but I really loved it! It’s really satisfying! I learned to crochet from my mom in high school and then just got out of the habit. I have a blanket I’ve been working on for years and want to finish it,” she says. “I honestly probably would never have picked cross-stich up had I not gotten a kit for my birthday. I think in a normal year, I might have been too busy to

“Sometimes being fulfilled overrides sleep.” keep at it, but because of the pandemic, we didn’t have much going on, so I really stuck with it,” she says.

Other factors that play a part in maintaining a hobby include time, whether it’s a solo or group activity, and whether you can meet in person or virtually. As far as time goes, if you value something, you can usually make time for it. Personally, a good reminder for the time that I have is to take an honest look at my phone’s screen time report.

Amiright? There’s also the idea of utilizing the fringe hours of the day, as author Jessica Turner writes about in her book The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You. That might mean heading to bed sooner to be able to get up and use some more of those morning hours, waiting until the house is quiet at night, or setting aside a specific time during the day (maybe even using a timer) to focus on your hobby. I actually do a mixture of all

three, which can sometimes lead to a tired mommy—but sometimes being fulfilled overrides sleep.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed with trying to come up with a new hobby, might I suggest scrolling Pinterest for hobbies and see what pops out at you. Or ask those closest to you if they notice any activities that spark joy in you. Think about it in terms of categories like being creative or doing something physical or mental. Examples could include drawing, painting, creating music playlists, crafting, cooking, baking, woodworking, hiking, biking, a new form of reading, or even taking luxurious baths routinely. A hobby should add joy and fulfillment to our lives after all.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 10, Mason, 9, and Slade, 6, and enjoys reading, writing, exercise and photography.

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ociety’s constant press to be the best can lead us into a parenting fog. We’re so wrapped up in helping our children excel in school, achieve on the soccer field and connect with a good group of friends that we often forget to help our kids with essential skills they need most, such as problem solving. Problem solving isn’t a skill our children just naturally acquire, yet it’s a superpower that will help them succeed throughout their entire life.

For young children, play is one of the best ways to learn problem-solving skills.

Did you know puzzles and shape sorters are classic problem-solving toys? Board

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games are also great, as they help kids think critically and detect patterns. Playing hideand-seek also gives the brain a workout as kids think about where to hide or look.

That’s because creativity is a big part of problem solving, so be sure to leave plenty of unstructured time for your little one to play and have freedom to roam. If a conflict happens with another child during playtime, don’t jump in right away. Instead, step back and allow your child space to figure it out.

If he’s struggling, jump in and offer some solutions, such as taking turns or playing a different game.

Older children without the skills to solve problems when they arise may avoid the

issue altogether, or they’ll simply end up making impulsive choices that create more problems down the road. But when given a clear formula for how to solve problems, they’ll feel more confident, manage their emotions, think creatively—and persist until they find a solution. Here are some great practices to help your children learn how to solve their own problems as they arise.

State the problem. It may seem silly, but sometimes all it takes is stating the problem aloud so your child can hear it. This simple task can do wonders in helping kids who are feeling stuck and don’t know what to do.

Three Creative Problem-Solving Activities for Kids: Fort Building – Provide your kids with pillows, blankets and chairs. Let them build the entire fort by themselves. If the fort falls over, allow your children to use their problem-solving skills to redesign it.

Legos – Have your children build their names using Legos, create an animal habitat or build their grandparents’ house. Get creative and see what they can put together!

Treasure Hunts – These can include riddles, rhyming clues or puzzles.

Develop solutions. Together, brainstorm ways to solve the problem. Not all solutions have to be good ideas. Help your child come up with ideas for solutions if he’s struggling. The key is to help him see that using a little creativity can help him come up with all kinds of solutions to problems, even if some are silly.

Identify pros and cons for each solution. This will help your child point out potential positive and negative consequences for each solution he thought up.

Choose a solution. Allow your child to select the solution he feels will best solve the problem.

Try it out. Have your child test his solution and see what happens. If it doesn’t work, he can try another solution from the list that he made.

As you sit back and observe your child working her way through problem solving, restrain yourself from jumping in to help her. It may seem easier and faster to offer your help, but by doing so, you will be stifling her thinking or sending a subtle message that she isn’t able to do it on her own. Acknowledge her efforts and offer support. Sometimes all that’s needed is a simple nod, smile or thumbsup. It’s also important to remember that just by sitting next to her quietly, you are communicating that you understand what she’s doing and know it’s important.

Remember, too, you can also help your child by modeling effective problem solving. When you encounter your own challenges, think out loud about your mental processes to solve problems. Give your kiddos the opportunity to help you with some of your own challenges you’re struggling to solve. Ask them for advice.

This helps them understand that their ideas are valued, which in turn boosts their confidence to solve their own problems. At the same time, show them your willingness to make mistakes. It’s okay to encounter problems, and it’s okay if the first solution doesn’t work.

If you’re parenting tweens or teens, these strategies can be used with them as well. You probably hope they’ll come to you with their problems, but if you’ve already taught them the skills to solve their challenges, they may not need to.

Empower them to be good problem solvers.

Let consequences do the teaching.

Your child will learn pretty quickly that if he doesn’t study, he’ll fail his tests; and if he doesn’t do his chores, he won’t receive an allowance.

Work together to break down problems. If your child keeps forgetting her lunch at home every day, ask her why she thinks it happens. Brainstorm together and then offer solutions (e.g., placing a note on the front door that will remind her to grab her lunch before leaving).

Weigh the pros and cons. Teach your child to evaluate the situation along with his options. Have him write out a list of pros and cons when he’s struggling to make a decision.

If your tween or teen is struggling with a peer, ask her how she thinks it should be resolved. Give her a chance to try it, and when you talk with her afterward, ask her if you can offer advice. Remember, though, it’s her right to take your advice or leave it. It’s very empowering to her.

When all else fails, bring your child—no matter what age—outside to play. Play is empowering and healing. Research has shown that problems get solved during play. Offer many activities that will take your kids’ minds off the problem at hand so they can refuel and approach things from a fresh, new perspective.

Mom and author Gina Klein lives in Kansas City with her husband and two daughters. kcparent.com march 2021

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remember being the tattletale among my younger siblings. It was always the little things, too. I don’t know whether it was for attention or simply because I wanted everyone to do the right thing, but I certainly caused some strife as I went through that phase.

Younger sister left the house when she wasn’t supposed to? I tattled. Sister or brother took my toy?

I tattled. Heck, I even tattled on myself. My dad often tells the story and laughs at the time he asked me, “Emily, why is your sister crying?” I replied, with absolutely no hesitation, “She took my toy so I had to hit her with it.” My tattletale phase knew no bounds.

So when does tattling actually become a problem, and how exactly do you tame a tattletale? There are necessary and unnecessary times to tattle, and it’s important for kids to be able to spot the difference.

You want your child always to report the truth, but you also want to set healthy boundaries.

According to the Child Mind Institute, tattling is children’s natural response to learning about rules, but they can learn that it is not necessary in every rule-breaking scenario. For example, tattling is reporting a peer’s wrongdoing when the situation is safe and the child doesn’t need intervention. Telling is

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letting an adult know that the situation is not safe or your child needs adult intervention when managing the situation.

Tattling just to share another’s mistake might reveal just a mean-spirited motive. On the other hand, a child’s urge to alert someone could very well be necessary. Each unique scenario should be examined separately to leave to an adult to decide. Several experts have shared their advice on the subject.

First-grade teacher Carol Anderson instructs her students that it is okay to tell if someone is hurt or in danger. “The first-graders need to be reminded of this often,” she says. “When they come to tattle, I will ask them if this person is being hurt or is in danger. If yes, they can tell—if not, then I stop them.”

Elementary teacher Amanda Grier echoes this sentiment, distinguishing between “tattling and reporting.” A report is helpful when someone is hurt or in danger. “A tattle is silly and could usually be solved by the kiddos themselves,” she says.

Taylor Morgan teaches her students about emotions because she doesn’t want them to hurt emotionally, she says, and they spend time working with their feelings and emotions. “Are you or someone else hurt?” she asks.

“Tattling may be the way a child reaches out to an adult because they don’t know how to handle, ‘Sarah took my toy,’” says Kariann Noland. “Teach them how to resolve the conflict and observe them resolve it in a healthy way.”

Kayla Ueligger, social worker and mom of three, shares a set of processing questions for when someone feels the need to tattle.

• Is someone hurt or unsafe?

• Did you tell them you didn’t like it and ask them to stop?

• Did you tell them you are getting help?

• Do you not like it or was someone unsafe?

Ueligger’s goal is to teach children how to recognize that an action is unsafe. “They may have something that ‘blips’ on the ‘don’t like’ radar that I want to know about and stop (touching, showing parts, etc.),” she says. “Unsafe or hurt is not just physical. Feelings and that social interaction piece can be just as unsafe and needs to be handled also.

Little moments add up to big moments by the time they are older.”

Reporting is always okay, Ueligger emphasizes.

She knows there will be times someone asks a person

to not tell, or people will be upset with the one who tells. “We still talk to our trusted adults and we always tell regardless if someone else likes it,” she says. “Talk about secrets, that talking to Mom and Dad is okay no matter what, and that sometimes you just need to talk and ask questions, which is not tattling.”

Ultimately, it is up to parents to decide whether their child truly has a tattling problem. If you feel tattling is becoming a problem or happening way too often, consider getting in touch with a child psychologist. A professional may reveal a potential reason behind constant tattling. The goal isn’t to deter children from reporting the truth, but to teach them when it is appropriate to share their knowledge about a situation, what is healthy and not healthy.

The root of tattling could be as simple as a craving for attention, and consistently being a tattletale makes a child feel noticed and important. Whatever the reason, it’s best to take children seriously and figure out what they are ultimately trying to communicate.

Emily Morrison is a freelance writer, former copy editor, full-time mommy and Disney fanatic who lives in Independence with her husband, 5-year old son and dog.

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SPRINGBREAK2021

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Dogwood Canyon Nature Park

FUN ATTRACTIONS

TO ENJOY THIS SPRING BREAK

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his spring break, your family can enjoy the ultimate getaway in the Branson area with great attractions for all ages.

THE EXPLORER PASS (WondersOfWildlife.org/explorer-pass/) includes:

• Dogwood Canyon general admission

• Wonders of Wildlife general admission

• Lost Canyon Cave and Nature Trail general admission

• Ancient Ozarks Natural History Museum general admission

• $15 Fun Mountain Game Card

Tip: Each attraction has posted its COVID response on its site. We were pleased with the cleanliness and safety protocols everywhere we went.

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DOGWOOD CANYON NATURE PARK Plan an entire day at this attraction.

Dogwood Canyon Nature Park, straddling the MissouriArkansas border, is a beautiful 10,000-acre oasis in the Ozarks. At Dogwood Canyon, the first stop is the water-powered mill, where families may watch live demonstrations, tour the small museum showcasing Native American artifacts and savor a delicious meal at the restaurant that boasts breathtaking views of the waterfall.

Our family enjoyed a bike tour through the park’s paved trails (you may bring bikes for free or rent bikes on-site). They also offer Segway tours, horseback riding, fishing, and walking tours (attraction availability is subject to change). On the trail, we saw beautiful waterfalls, crossed bridges, explored a small cave and saw a variety of wildlife, including fish and birds.

The attraction also offers open-air tram tours (reservations required) that take you on a two-hour guided tour where you will see bison, elk, whitetail deer and Texas longhorns. The knowledgeable guides are passionate about the wildlife at the park and provide many opportunities to take photos along the way.

For lunch, we dined at the Canyon Grill (admission to the attraction required to eat in the restaurant). Their bison burger was terrific. It is juicy, tender and full of flavor. The trout was great too— and they serve some of the best house-made chips I’ve ever had.

I love spending time in the great outdoors in my home state, and Dogwood Canyon truly celebrates the best of Missouri’s beauty.

DogwoodCanyon.org

WONDERS OF WILDLIFE NATIONAL MUSEUM AND AQUARIUM

LOST CANYON CAVE & NATURE TRAIL CART TOUR

Plan an entire day at this attraction.

Plan a half day at this attraction.

Wonders of Wildlife bills itself as the “largest, most immersive fish and wildlife attraction in the world!” The attraction was created by Johnny Morris, founder of Bass Pro Shops. Morris’s love for nature is contagious, and his passion comes across in every aspect of this attraction.

The museum includes, first, a natural history museum, with breathtaking exhibits showcasing the history of the Ozark region, Native American heritage, the Lewis and Clark Expedition and wildlife from around the world. The centerpiece of this half of the museum is the Great African Hall with beautiful displays showcasing African animals. The lighting and sounds of the hall transform from day to night while you’re there, creating the feeling that you are among the elephants, zebras and giraffes on the African plain.

I recommend spending the morning in the natural history portion, taking a lunch break and returning to visit the aquarium after lunch. This section of the attraction displays include not only aquariums, but swamp exhibits, fishing exhibits and history exhibits celebrating the history and sport of fishing—and even the passion America’s presidents have held for the sport.

The 1.5-million-gallon aquarium adventure features 35,000 live fish, mammals, reptiles, amphibians and birds. We loved the shark exhibit, we were transported to the bayou in the swamp exhibit, and the stingray exhibit was a highlight of the trip. My girls enjoyed seeing sloths, bears, alligators, flamingoes, otters and countless sea creatures, including octopus, sharks, clown fish, rays, jellyfish and fish from around the world. WondersOfWildlife.org

Top of the Rock is one of the most scenic places overlooking Table Rock Lake. During the Lost Canyon Cave tour, we took a 2.5mile drive through the Ozarks enjoying breathtaking views of the landscape. Guests drive their own golf carts along the paved path, taking in the waterfalls, beautiful Amish-built bridges, tree-lined trails and bluffs overlooking the lake, which create a stunning view around every bend. The kids enjoyed driving through the Lost Canyon Cave.

They even have a “Bat Bar” in the cave where you may enjoy fresh drinks. BigCedar.com/activity/lost-canyon-cave-nature-trail

ANCIENT OZARKS NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM Plan a few hours at this attraction.

The museum tells the history of the Ozarks through a vast collection of archaeological finds. Exhibits showcase an extensive collection of Native American artifacts, including wardrobe, arrowheads, tools, paintings, sculptures and stories. The Trail of Tears exhibit is extremely moving and brings greater understanding to some of the worst parts of our nation’s history. There is a lot to learn and see at this museum. I recommend it for older elementary to adult guests. BigCedar.com/activity/ancient-ozarks-history-museum

Kristina Light and her family enjoyed this less-than-a-tank-of-gas getaway for a bit of fun, education and memory making not too far from home!

Wonders of Wildlife National Museum and Aquarium

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Sea Life Aquarium

A KANSAS CITY SPRING BREAK STAYCATION This spring break, hit up favorite Kansas City tourist hot spots and see the city through the eyes of a visitor.

DESTINATION #1: DOWNTOWN Science City at Union Station is a favorite place to spend a day as a family. Kansas City’s largest, most interactive science museum offers something for visitors of all ages. Little ones especially love three experiential, hands-on exhibitions: “Let’s Play!” designed especially for babies, crawlers and toddlers with multiple sensory and role-playing activities, “Creative Corner where art meets science in a whole new way with cool interactive activities, and “All Aboard” that celebrates Union Station’s rail history, allowing families to discover how steam engines work as they play and explore throughout the exhibit that encourages problem-solving and creativity. Kids also love the classic exhibits including dinosaurs, water, the human brain, energy and more.

Sea Life Aquarium transports guests into an amazing underwater world with up-close views of more than 5,000 sea creatures! Walk through the 180-degree underwater tunnel, come face to fin with sharks and rescued sea turtles, and explore more than 12 breathtaking exhibits. Stingray Bay, Sea Turtle Rescue Center and Doodle Reef, an interactive exhibit where kids design their own fish, are favorites.

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Next door to Sea Life you’ll find Legoland Discovery Center in Crown Center, a larger-than-life attraction.

Begin your journey on a ride into the unknown on laser chariots. Play with the world’s biggest box of Legos. Watch a film in the Lego Studios 4D cinema and explore a miniature Kansas City that highlights 10 of the city’s most popular local attractions in Lego Miniland.

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National World War I Museum and Memorial is not only a Kansas City landmark, but an American landmark. The museum tells the story of the Great War through interactive displays, thought-provoking films and eyewitness testimonies. The museum houses one of the largest collections of WWI artifacts in the world. With family guides and hands-on exhibits, the museum is an educational attraction for all ages.

DESTINATION #2: MIDTOWN/ COUNTRY CLUB PLAZA The National Museum of Toys and Miniatures is one of the most fun and engaging museums in town. The first impression is incredible: A giant rotating spiral of backlit toys greets visitors who delight in finding their own favorites and discovering new ones on the animated real-life collage. Exhibits include a Grandma’s Attic display showcasing toys and presenting their individual stories as treasures to be discovered. Visitors enjoy interactive exhibits, learning more about the process of making both miniatures and toys.

Next, take a stroll through Kauffman Memorial Gardens.

The 2-acre garden features more than 7,000 plants and flowers. This free attraction is part of the Kauffman Legacy Park in the heart of Kansas City.

Just a few miles away, visit the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, home to one of the largest galleries in the nation. The museum maintains a permanent collection representing art from throughout history and around the world. Visitors enjoy the galleries and, on sunny days, picnic or stroll the landscaped museum grounds and sculpture garden.

Top off the day with a nice lunch or dinner at one of the restaurants on the Country Club Plaza.

DESTINATION #3: KANSAS CITY, KS Located in the heart of Village West, the state of Kansas’ top tourist destination, Legends Outlets is the only outlet shopping destination serving the greater metropolitan region. Legends Outlets is home to more than 75 leading designer and favorite brand-name stores, including Coach, Banana Republic Factory Store, Gap Factory, J.Crew | crewcuts, Nike Factory Store, Polo Ralph Lauren Factory Store, Tommy Hilfiger Outlet, and Under Armour Factory House, among many more, which offer savings of up to 65 percent off regular retail prices.

Stay at Great Wolf Lodge or buy a day pass to swim at the indoor water resort with a four-story interactive treehouse water fort, winding lazy river and numerous slides, including the Triple Twist, a high-speed, five-story drop into a huge funnel followed by twists and turns.

Take in a little sightseeing as well. History buffs will enjoy a tour of Grinter Place, the oldest home in Wyandotte County, for a look at frontier life along the Kansas and Missouri border.

DESTINATION #4: LENEXA Urban Air Adventure Park is our favorite local trampoline park. Offering much more than trampolines, this is a great place to spend a day! Urban Air gives a generous helping of frenetic fun with attractions like Kidzone and Urban Air Warrior Course. The Sky Rider is an amazing indoor ride where passengers zip across the park in a harness. The ropes course, climbing walls, virtual reality games and tunnel play areas are all great additions to the classic trampoline attractions. Open jump is held daily and perfect for any age, fitness level or athletic ability. Walk-ins are welcome anytime.

Open year-round, the Lenexa Rec Center offers lap lanes for swimming, a warm water wellness pool and two tall water slides.

The Gym for Me and Splash with Me drop-in activities for kids ages 5 and under are offered on various weekday mornings as excellent ways to get exercise and have fun during chilly weather. Lenexa.com The Lenexa Public Market is home to a variety of local merchants selling fresh food and handcrafted artisan products.

Enjoy a meal, purchase goods or take a class while supporting local entrepreneurs. Kids enjoy playing one of the many games around the market—from Jenga and Uno to checkers. LenexaPublicMarket.com One of the most scenic parks in the area, Black Hoof Park, is beautiful year-round. The 231-acre green space is home to the deep-water Lake Lenexa. The centerpiece of the park is the artistic dam and spillway, perfect for an Insta-worthy photo. Children love the natural play areas and equipment. Lenexa.com

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Animal Tales Story Time at Ernie Miller

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listen Visit Ernie Miller on March 2-3 and 30-31 for Animal Tales Story Time. Join a park naturalist for animal stories and surprises. Ages 2-6.

Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

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The Culture House Head to Colonial presents Shrek: Gardens on March The Musical March 13 for Kids Club. A 11-13. See the story hands-on way for of a green ogre and kids to learn how his sidekick, Donkey, to plant, when and who save the land what to plant in from an evil lord. spring! Pre-reg at CultureHouse.com ColonialGardensKC.com.

March 18 is Free Day at the Johnson County Museum.

Explore KidScape and our signature exhibition, Becoming Johnson County, with your family.

JCPRD.com/Museum

The Friends of the Library Book Sale is March 26-27 at Olathe Indian Creek.

Shop for adult, teen and children’s books, DVDs and more, all priced $1 or less.

OlatheLibrary.org

We encourage readers to call ahead or verify online before heading out to events.

Most events require advance reservations.

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5 Friday

Discovery Kits 9:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Visit the arboretum and pick up a monthly kit for your family to enjoy and be creative with. Available at ticket kiosk. ArtsAndRec-op.org/arboretum

Outdoor Ice-Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Overland Park).

A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

The Snowy Day and Other Stories Thru March 30, streaming. The Coterie presents Mesner Puppets’ production of The Snowy Day and Other Stories. TheCoterie.org

2 Tuesday Happy Birthday, Dr Seuss! Take time to read some of your favorite Dr Seuss stories today.

Search “Seuss” on KCParent.com for Seussian inspiration!

Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

4 Thursday Little Critters Day Out 9:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Enjoy a snack, make a craft, play games and meet an animal visitor. Ages 3-5. Pre-reg at 913.826.2807.

Read & Sing with Mr Stinky Feet 10:00, MCPL360. Featuring the book Sullen Sally, songs about feelings and a fun activity.

Facebook.com/mcpl360

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

CeramicCafeKC.com

Animal Tales Story Time 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. For ages 2-6. Join a park naturalist for animal stories and surprises geared for preschool age children. Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

Eat, Drink, Play “Family Fun” Virtual. Tune in and hear a one-hour program of great chamber music and prepare a treat along with chef Philip Rodgers.

Tickets at JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center.

Spring Open House Today & tomorrow, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Retail shops and restaurants will be participating and have exciting new products for spring! DowntownLS.org Johnson County Home & Garden Show Today & tomorrow, Overland Park Convention Center.

Explore innovative home products and see hundreds of experts, all under one roof.

Moms Night Out 7:00, Westside Family Church (Lenexa). We will laugh, have fun and build new and deeper friendships. All moms welcome.

WestsideFamily.church

6 Saturday Outdoor Ice-Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

MEET THE EXPERTS | THOMAS BRADBEER: HANNA-BARBERA / MARCH 14 | 2PM–3PM | VIRTUAL FRENCH FASHION DOLLS, 1912–1918 / THROUGH JULY 17, 2021 | THE DOLL GALLERY BRIDGING THE GENDER DIVIDE: TOYS THAT BUILD STEM SKILLS / THROUGH SEPTEMBER 5, 2021 Support the T/m Mission at toyandminiaturemuseum.org/get-involved/ Find T/m on social media: Exhibit sponsored by: THE NATIONAL MUSEUM OF TOYS AND MINIATURES 5235 OAK STREET, KANSAS CITY, MO 64112 816.235.8000 TOYANDMINIATUREMUSEUM.ORG kcparent.com march 2021

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Early Explorations 10:00 or 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about colorful characters and make a printed superhero self-portrait. Ages 5-7.

Pre-reg at NermanMuseum.org.

Discover Nature: What Fishes Want 10:00, Burr Oak Woods. Explore tried and tested fishing methods, learn new skills and share some of your own. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

Learn to play piano and have FUN doing it!

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Roaring Through the ’20s 10:00, Kearney Historic Museum. Enjoy a variety of displays depicting daily life in the 1920s in Kearney and the surrounding area. 816.903.1856 Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Tour Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

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7 Sunday Early Explorers 9:30, Science City. Bring the younger set to visit the new Early Explorations areas designed for babies and toddlers. Pre-reg at ScienceCity.com.

Both daytime and evening lessons available!

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Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent. com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com

8 Monday Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com Polar Bear Passage 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Visit Nuniq, the zoo’s newest polar bear at home in the Polar Bear Passage. Reserve a time online and plan a visit with the family. KansasCityZoo.org

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PBS Writers Contest Thru March 31. Calling all authors and illustrators K through third grade!

Send in your best stories and illustrations to the PBS Kids Writers Contest. KansasCityPBS.org/write

9 Tuesday Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com Little Acorns 10:00 or 1:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Come learn about the many baby animals that are walking, skipping and jumping out in the spring sun! Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

10 Wednesday Open House 8:30, Whitefield Academy. Come take an inside look at our loving, Christian culture and vibrant learning environment.

Pre-reg at WhitefieldAcademyKC.org.

Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Enjoy a story from long ago, read by a special guest from the 1950s All-Electric House. You’ll also get to make a craft. Pre-reg at 913.715.2570.

The Snowy Day and Other Stories Thru March 30, streaming. The Coterie presents Mesner Puppets’ production of The Snowy Day and Other Stories. TheCoterie.org

11 Thursday Singing More Mother Goose 10:00, MCPL360.

Singer Suzie Sutton teaches the melodies of favorite Mother Goose nursery rhymes.

Facebook.com/mcpl360 Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

CeramicCafeKC.com Shrek: The Musical Thru Saturday, the Culture House. A green ogre and his sidekick, Donkey, save the land from an evil lord and rescue a princess. CultureHouse.com

12 Friday Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

816.235.8000 Sweetheart Bingo 1:30, Shawnee Town 1929.

Enjoy 10 games of bingo and prepackaged snacks. Prizes include gift cards and gift packs.

Pre-reg at ShawneeTown.org.

Family Bingo Night 6:00, Roeland Park Community Center. We’ve added twists and treats to make the game more active, silly and a family night to remember! Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

13 Saturday Indoor Triathlon 7:00, Gladstone Community Center. Start with a 10-minute swim, then cycle for 30 minutes and finish with a 20-minute run/ walk. Pre-reg at GladstoneCommunityCenter.com.

Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com kcparent.com march 2021

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Kids Club 10:00, Colonial Gardens. A handson way for kids to learn how to plant, when to plant and what to plant in spring! Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Spring Break Camps Thru Friday, Johnson County Parks & Rec. JCPRD is offering several different spring break camp options! Check them all out and pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Babysitting and CPR Classes 10:00, Olathe Indian Creek Library. The best sitter is a safe sitter! Learn how to handle emergencies when caring for children. Pre-reg at OlatheLibrary.org.

Topeka IrishFest Lite 11:00, Mater Dei Parish Hall. Join in person or order and enjoy at home.

Reserve your time for the dine-in or carryout at TopekaIrishFest.com.

Camp Imaginarium Thru Friday, KCYA. Spend spring break with KCYA! Camp immerses students into the world of performing art.

Offered three different weeks. Pre-reg at KCYA.org.

Leavenworth St Patrick’s Day Parade Noon, Fourth & Walnut. Celebrate all things Irish with a parade. Visit website for guidelines. LVIrish.com

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Free Day 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Visit the museum for free! Explore KidScape and our signature exhibition, Becoming Johnson County. JCPRD.com/Museum

14 Sunday St Patrick’s Day 4-Miler 8:00, Corporate Woods.

Sign up for the greatest Gaelic gathering this side of the Atlantic. Check out the Kids Fun Run. Pre-reg at StPatricksDay4MileRun.com.

Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Experience Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

Family Field Trip Days 10:00 or 1:00, Lanesfield Schoolhouse. Experience a bit of life in 1904— from life on the farm and completing chores to schooling. Pre-reg at 913.715.2570.

Tots on Tuesday 10:30, streaming. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own creation with a Kemper Museum educator.

Pre-reg at KemperArt.org.

18 Thursday

Early Explorers 9:30, Science City. Bring the younger set to visit the new Early Explorations areas designed for babies and toddlers. Pre-reg at ScienceCity.com.

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Living History 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Activities may include horsepowered plowing, blacksmith demonstrations, stagecoach rides and more! Mahaffie.org

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Open Play 11:00, Urban Air (Overland Park).

During spring break week, the park opens early or open play. Bring the kids to run, jump and burn energy! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

Family Fridays 10:00, IBEX Climbing Gym. Every Friday children 12 and under are free with purchase of adult day pass. Kids rental gear included. 816.228.9988

American Girl Doll Club 1:00, Wyeth-Tootle Mansion. Explore a doll’s historical time period through a variety of activities, craft session and snack. Pre-reg at 816.232.8471.

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Mario Kart Tournament 6:00, Gladstone Community Center. Participants will be competing in Mario Kart 8. Snacks and bottled water provided.

Pre-reg at GladstoneMO.Activityreg.com.

The Lost Treasure 7:00, Midwest Trust Center.

Follow giant puppets, Nathan Ready and a Quetzal bird into a mysterious cave in search of treasure! JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center

20 Saturday Roaring Through the ’20s 10:00, Kearney Historic Museum. Enjoy a variety of displays depicting daily life in the 1920s in Kearney and the surrounding area. 816.903.1856 Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Tour Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org The Amazing Family Race 4:00, Meadowbrook Park Clubhouse. Use clues to play games, solve puzzles and have fun. Pizza and Popsicles provided. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

21 Sunday PBS Writers Contest Thru March 31. Calling all authors and illustrators K through third grade!

Send in your best stories and illustrations to the PBS Kids Writers Contest. KansasCityPBS.org/write

22 Monday Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com Polar Bear Passage 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Visit Nuniq, the zoo’s newest polar bear at home in the Polar Bear Passage. Reserve a time online and plan a visit with the family. KansasCityZoo.org

23 Tuesday Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

24 Wednesday Discovery Kits 9:00, Overland Park Arboretum.

Visit the arboretum and pick up a monthly kit for your family to enjoy and be creative with. Available at ticket kiosk. ArtsAndRec-op.org/arboretum

Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

816.235.8000 The Snowy Day and Other Stories Thru March 30, streaming. The Coterie presents Mesner Puppets’ production of The Snowy Day and Other Stories. TheCoterie.org

25 Thursday Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

CeramicCafeKC.com Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent. com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com

26 Friday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Overland Park).

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Friends of the Library Book Sale 10:00, Olathe Indian Creek. Shop for adult, teen and children’s books, DVDs, CDs and CD audio books, all priced $1 or less. OlatheLibrary.org How Do I Become an Architect? 2:00, Linda Hall Library Virtual. Join for an interactive Q&A session to learn about coursework, internships and more! LindaHall.org Flashlight Easter Egg Hunt 8:00, Hidden Valley Park. Help find more than 2,000 eggs with your flashlight. Includes a snack, drink and a bag of candy. Pre-reg at BlueSpringsGov.com.

27 Saturday Hippity-Hop Paint Party 10:00, Shawnee Civic Centre. Some “bunny” is coming to visit soon! Celebrate by following along to create a painting. Pre-reg at CityOfShawnee.org.

Easter Egg-Stravaganza 10:00, Rotary Park (Blue Springs). Visit with vendors; enjoy crafts, activities and yard games; and, of course, hunt for eggs! BlueSpringsGov.com Winter Farmers Market 10:00, Lenexa Civic Campus. Place a pre-order for favorite goodies and cool season vegetables. Lenexa.com

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Discovery Kits 9:00, Overland Park Arboretum.

Visit the arboretum and pick up a monthly kit for your family to enjoy and be creative with. Available at ticket kiosk. ArtsAndRec-op.org/arboretum

Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent. com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com

Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

Easter Egg Hunt 1:00, Westside Family Church.

Attend Palm Sunday service and then take part in an egg hunt and lunch! WestsideFamily.church/

Animal Tales Story Time 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. For ages 2-6. Join a park naturalist for animal stories and surprises geared for preschool age children. Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

Easter Car-Nival 4:00, Lenexa United Methodist Church. Drive through parking lot and enjoy game and candy stations. LenexaUMC.org

29 Monday Grow a Reader 10:00, MCPL360. Join library staff for story times for your littles—and maybe for you too! Enjoy stories and songs.

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31 Wednesday Early Explorers 9:30, Science City. Bring the younger set to visit the new Early Explorations areas designed for babies and toddlers. Pre-reg at ScienceCity.com.

Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

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March 13: National Genealogy Day The Midwest Genealogy Center (MGC) is one of the United States’ preeminent resources for family history. The 52,000 square feet of space houses all the free resources needed to research your family history. MyMCPL.org/genealogy

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