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ff to college, take two! My older is a 2020 graduate, and she’ll forever have the memories (or lack thereof) of the last quarter of her senior year. Instead of going off to college in the fall of 2020 as planned, she took a gap year. So here we are, a year later, getting ready to send her off to college. It’s strange to be going through a process I thought we’d be going through 12 months ago. I still remember her first day of kindergarten. I had so many worries … would she make friends? Was she prepared? Would she speak up for herself and ask questions?

Would she eat her lunch? And while the list of my worries might look a bit different for her first day of college, I know in my heart she is prepared and ready for this next step.

Whether your child is going to elementary school, middle school, high school or college, August is back-to-school month! To help make it a smooth one in your home, we’ve got our annual Back-to-School Guide, starting on pg. 36. It’s chock-full of great tips, ideas and info to help you hit the ground running this school year!

Personally, I think the kids go back a tad too early. I think summer should last until Labor Day (but no one asked me). To that end, we’ve got some great ideas to help you soak up the last days of summer and make some more memories before that first bell rings. Check the story out on pg. 50. And be sure to explore our calendar of events for ideas for family fun all month long. From the best festivals to daytrip ideas, we’re your one-stop shop for family fun!

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For a “v”ery special date this month, why not try one of the following?

VOLUNTEER In my opinion, one of the best things you and your significant other can do together is give back and help those who are less fortunate. It allows for a different kind of bonding than your traditional date because you are doing something to help others instead of doing something to help yourselves. My husband and I definitely love to volunteer together. We have given our time to Harvesters on a number of occasions. We have sorted frozen food and put potatoes into bags. We have also sorted out food from the food bins that you sometimes see at grocery stores.

Our favorite job, though, has been to help fill backpacks for kids for the BackSnack program. Two other volunteer opportunities we have really enjoyed have been to prepare and serve dinner at Shelter KC and prepare and serve breakfast to the families staying at one of the Ronald McDonald Houses while their child/sibling is undergoing care at Children’s Mercy Hospital. Such rewarding experiences!

V’S ITALIANO RISTORANTE Kansas City suffers no shortage of good Italian food restaurants, and one of our favorites is V’s Italiano Ristorante in Independence. For almost 60 years, the Totta family has been sharing their beloved family recipes, coupled with exceptional service. We have eaten there on a number of occasions. Most recently, we tried out their Sunday morning champagne brunch, which is served from 10:00 to 2:00. Their buffet features traditional breakfast items, lunch items such as pasta and salmon, carved meats, burnt ends, fresh fruit and desserts. Plus, you get a choice of endless fruit juice, champagne or mimosas! V’s also has happy hour daily until 7:00 in the cocktail lounge, which is definitely fun for a date night. And when you go to V’s for dinner, you will be served complimentary rum cake at the end of your meal. It is delicious, as is all their food!

VALKYRIE I first saw the movie Valkyrie on a plane ride home from Paris in 2009.

It seemed like a good way to pass the time, and it most certainly was.

I am not a big Tom Cruise fan, but I thought the movie was excellent.

So recently, my husband and I had an opportunity to watch it since he had never seen it. The film is about Nazi Germany during World War II and the July 20, 1944, attempt to assassinate Adolf Hitler and take control of the country. Cruise does a remarkable job playing Colonel Claus von Stauffenberg and is one of the key players in the political coup plot.

If you like history at all, you will like this movie—I highly recommend!

And the timing of my hubby and I watching it together couldn’t be better, considering that Union Station now has the Auschwitz exhibit, with more than 700 original objects and 400 pictures depicting its role in the Holocaust.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives with her husband in Kansas City.

They enjoy regular date nights and love trying new restaurants and activities.

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(Family Features) ummer sun means it’s time for warm-weather fun for kids of all ages, and all that activity and playing calls for snacks and hydration to recharge. Whether your children like to play poolside or take a bicycle adventure through the neighborhood, the right nutrient-dense foods can keep the fun going all day long.

For an option that quenches hunger (and thirst) without sacrificing nutrition, try an assortment of ways to enjoy watermelon. As a refreshing ingredient or stand-alone treat, watermelon includes just 80 calories and no fat while providing an excellent source of vitamin C (25 percent) and higher levels of lycopene

(12.7 mg per 2-cup serving)—an antioxidant being studied for its role in sun protection—than any other fresh fruit or vegetable. Plus, it’s made of 92 percent water, meaning it’s a flavorful way to encourage kids to rehydrate during some fun in the sun.

Make watermelon part of a balanced snack plate with this Kids Charcuterie Snack Board that includes assorted watermelon, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, sliced veggies, sliced fruits, crackers, pretzels and more. In addition to the nutritional benefits, the simplicity of this snack means children can help assemble it while showing off their creativity.

Visit Watermelon.org to find more kid-friendly recipe ideas.

kids charcuterie snack board Recipe courtesy of the National Watermelon Promotion Board Cubed watermelon Watermelon balls, skewered Watermelon wedges Watermelon sticks Flower-shaped watermelon cutouts Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, halved Ham and cheese pinwheels Sliced veggies, such as cucumbers, carrots, sweet peppers and celery

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Sliced fruit Pretzels Crackers Small bowl of candy (optional) Prepare watermelon, sandwiches, pinwheels, veggies, fruit, pretzels, crackers and candy, if desired.

On large board or platter, arrange all ingredients.

KC’s Best Pancakes Treat the kids to breakfast before you head out for back-to-school shopping!

We’ve rounded up our favorite pancakes in town: BIGGEST Pancakes The City Diner in the River Market is known for its “you’re one of the neighbors” atmosphere and delicious diner fare. Pancake aficionados will revel at the sheer size of the pancakes—all nearly 13 inches in diameter! Finishing one pancake is a feat, finishing two is nearly impossible … but it can be done, as proven by the signatures adorning the walls from customers who are proud to boast the achievement. TIP: The City Diner accepts cash only. The City Diner, 301 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.471.5121

Silliest Pancakes IHOP (multiple locations: IHOP.com) is known for their variety of delicious pancakes. Our staff is partial to the Harvest Nut and Grain Pancakes and the Pumpkin Pancakes every autumn, but our children LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the Create-a-Face Pancake! Children are served a buttermilk pancake with strawberry eyes, a whipped topping nose and a fresh banana smile along with a tube of strawberry yogurt to add their own special touch.

Homestyle Variety You won’t leave hungry after a trip to the Big Biscuit (BigBiscuit.com). The Big Biscuit offers one of the biggest homestyle breakfast menus in town, with an entire section devoted just to pancakes. Whatever your pancake

preference, you’ll find it at Big Biscuit! A sampling of the choices includes buttermilk, blueberry, strawberry, chocolate chip, pecan, banana pecan and cranberry pecan pancakes, as well as the truly decadent Southern Delight with strawberries, bananas and pecans, topped with caramel and whipped cream! The Big Biscuit has four locations.

Signature Specialties With 10 local restaurants, First Watch (FirstWatch.com), the daytime café, is one of the most popular breakfast restaurants across the metro! You’ll love their delicious and nutritious breakfast menu with an outstanding array of pancakes, crepes and more. Specialty pancakes include wheat germ, blueberry, cranberry nut, chocolate chip, banana crunch with granola, pecan and our staff favorite … carrot cake!

Best Nutritious Pancakes Eggtc. is known for their eggs … from omelets to eggs Benedict to any breakfast egg preparation you can imagine, but they also serve a delicious and nutritious pancake! You can order traditional or honey whole wheat pancakes and add banana and nuts, blueberries, chocolate chips or ricotta for $1 more. Eggtc. has two locations in the metro: 5107 Main St., Kansas City, MO, 816.561.0116 and 7182 Renner Rd., Shawnee, 913.631.4400.

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I Am the Storm Written by Jane Yolen and Heidi E.Y. Stemple Illustrated by Kristen and Kevin Howdeshell This beautifully illustrated picture book provides children with a great introduction to all types of severe weather. The material is presented in a non-frightening manner portraying children from different parts of the country experiencing everything from ice storms to hurricanes.

The book begins by describing a tornado: “When the wind howled and blew, loud as a train, we had a party in the basement with Grandma, reading books and playing games with the flashlight.”

The authors explain that storms always end and that it is okay to be scared. Children are reassured that, although nature might be strong and powerful at times, they are powerful too.

Endnotes provide detailed information about each of the storms described in the book.

Illustrators Kristen and Kevin Howdeshell hail from Kansas City, MO

Saturday

The Oldest Student: How Mary Walker Learned to Read

Written and illustrated by Oge Mora

Written by Rita Lorraine Hubbard Illustrated by Oge Mora This inspiring picture book follows the life of Mary Walker, who was born a slave in 1848.

Author Rita Lorraine Hubbard explains in the endnotes that she combined facts about Mary with details she imagined in telling Mary’s life story.

Mary was emancipated at the age of 15. Her life is a powerful example of fortitude and forgiveness. She wanted to learn to read her whole life. She finally accomplished this goal through the Chattanooga Area Literacy Movement (CALM) when she was 116 years old!

Mary could still bake cakes, write her name legibly and sew before passing away at the age of 121!

The book combines Caldecott Honor-winning illustrator Oge Mora’s beautiful collage illustrations with actual photos of Mary.

This is an inspiring story for all ages.

Saturdays are very special to Ava and her mother. Ava’s mother works every day except Saturday, so that’s the one day they get to do all the fun things—things like going to story time and getting their hair done. But what happens one Saturday when everything goes wrong?

Story time is canceled. Their new dos get ruined. The quiet picnic they had waited all week to enjoy turned out to be loud and chaotic. And the puppet show across town that was to be the highlight of the week was also ruined.

What can a mom and daughter do to make their day special?

Follow along as Ava and her mother experience one disappointment after another on this particular Saturday and find out how they salvage the day . . . together.

Publisher’s Weekly calls Mora “a major new talent.” Her collages are created with old book clippings, patterned paper, acrylics and markers.

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As with all of the Library’s resources, these are free to use with a Mid-Continent Public Library Access Pass (Library card), which metro residents can sign up for (and immediately begin using) at mymcpl.org/NewCard.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF READING TO YOUR CHILDREN

QUESTION: I know that it is important to read out loud to young children. I have been reading a lot to my younger children. Should I also have been reading to my older children in middle school and high school? At what age should you stop reading to children? – Wondering

ANSWER: Your question is a concern of many parents.

Although many parents stop reading to their children when they are able to read on their own, it is very beneficial to continue reading to children even in their early teen years.

Research shows that reading aloud to school children of all ages will definitely improve not only reading skills but also listening skills and academic performance.

Unfortunately, the percentage of parents who read aloud to older children drops drastically for children over the age of 5. This is way too early to stop reading to your children. When surveyed, older children say they enjoy read-aloud time. In fact, children of all ages enjoy listening to a good story, and reading aloud to children helps them in so many ways: • Builds vocabulary.

• Increases comprehension.

• Models how to read.

• Improves listening skills.

• Introduces them to longer books like the classics.

• Helps improve discussion skills.

• Broadens knowledge of different genres.

• Promotes reading beyond schoolwork.

• Lessens time spent on electronic devices.

• Gives them an understanding of more sophisticated concepts.

• Cements ties between parents and children.

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Good readers succeed in school. Poor readers have far more problems with subjects that require considerable reading. Help your children—regardless of their age—become active readers who are engaged with the printed page. This is very important for your children’s ability to comprehend what they are reading. The following questions will help you and your children talk about the stories you are reading to them: • Do you think this story could really happen?

Why? Why not?

• Did you think a certain event in the book was funny or sad?

• Would you like to be friends with a character in the book?

• If you were the major character in the book, what would you have done differently?

• Would you like to be able to do something the hero of the book did?

Besides reading fiction to your children, be sure to include interesting nonfiction works that will add to their knowledge of the world.

Parents should send questions and comments to DearTeacher@DearTeacher.com and, to learn more about helping their children succeed in school, visit the DearTeacher website.

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FIVETHINGS Ticonderoga Pencils Contrary to what many retailers told us in July, the true time for back-to-school shopping has arrived, and I know pencils are on every list. Through many years of trial and error, I have found the Ticonderoga black pencils (not yellow) are the perfect pencil. They write smoothly, and the lead isn’t too light. In fact, I hide them in my office so they don’t mysteriously walk away. If you like to write with a pencil, give them a whirl! Be sure to stock up during back-to-school sales!

Dorm Shopping Remember the easy days of grade school supplies and those awesome packs you could order that had everything you needed?

Guess what—the same thing is available for college/ dorm room shopping! OCM has more than 900 college checklists of items needed and has put together value packs that contain essentials to outfit the dorm room! No more hitting several different stores and wandering aimlessly. It’s a dream come true! They offer so many bedding options, and all the items I’ve seen are high quality. In addition, they offer care packages, personal care items and so much more!

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Pool Float You’ll notice that I’m vacillating between summer and back to school in this month’s column. I still have one foot firmly in summer but also realize the calendar dictates I send the kids to school. In light of keeping summer alive for at least one more month, do yourself a favor and get the Aqua Monterey Hammock. It’s perfect for both a visit to the pool and a trip to the beach. I’ve tried it in both situations, and it’s the perfect way to relax in water. It’s very versatile—you can sit, straddle or lie on it. Because it’s lightweight and small, packing it is a breeze!

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Bug Bite Thing I love to spend time outside, especially during the summer. But what I don’t love are the bugs. I am one of those people who get bitten a lot, so when I read about the Bug Bite Thing, I was intrigued. It’s a device that suctions out insect gunk from the bite to help alleviate itching and swelling. It needs to be used on a fresh bite, and it didn’t take long for that to happen for my product trial. Once bitten, I ran inside, grabbed my Bug Bite Thing, placed it over the bite and pulled up on the suction. It’s a funny sensation, but I’m here to tell you it works! No itchy bite and no need for creams to stop the itch!

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Aztec Theater The Aztec Theater, located in downtown Shawnee, recently reopened after three-and-a-half years of construction working to refurbish the space. As I’ve mentioned before, my husband and I really enjoy live music performances. We found out a local band we like was performing at the newly rehabbed venue, so we were anxious to check it out. The updated theater looks great and is the perfect spot to take in live music! They have a robust calendar of upcoming acts every Friday and Saturday evening.

It’s the perfect spot for a date night, and I highly recommend!

Check out the schedule at AztecShawnee.com.

My dog absolutely hates the doorbell and acts like Cujo when anyone rings it. He is friendly with visitors, but just really hates the doorbell. What can I do to get him to stop barking at the doorbell?

– Ruben Jacobs I recommend teaching him to do something else when he hears the doorbell. Have him watch you ring the doorbell (so he knows it is you making the noise, not a visitor) then lure him to his bed and reward him when he is lying down and quiet. Repeat this to desensitize him to the sound of the bell. Then have a friend or neighbor ring the doorbell while you encourage him to lie down and be quiet. When he starts going to the bed on his own, make sure to give him a big reward for this behavior.

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA Is using treats considered bribery during dog training? Do I need to keep giving my dog treats once he has learned a new command?

– Olivia Howell

Treats are reinforcers and a great way to teach pets new commands through luring. Dogs, like humans, like to be reinforced for their good behavior. Would you go to work every week if your employer stopped paying you? Treats are not the only rewards that your pet might like. Some pets like attention, petting, toys, or playtime as a reward instead of treats.

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noise is reward enough! Training your cat is a great way to bond with your pet.

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Yes, you can really train cats!

Training cats is like training dogs.

Start with a treat that your cat really likes and is willing to work for. First try simple tricks to show your cat that good things happen when they display desirable behaviors. Keep training sessions short (10 – 15 minutes) and positive so your cat is eager to participate. Cats do well with clicker training since they are very time-oriented creatures and enjoy routines. For some cats the clicker

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Babs is a darling two-year-old terrier mix who is ready to find her forever home. She loves exploring new places and hiking as much as snuggling up to her favorite people and doling out affection. She is obsessed with toys, is very treat motivated and loves to be with her people. She has great house manners and is housetrained. Babs is looking for a home where she can shine as the only pet, and she will thrive with consistent exercise and continued training. With Babs around, your life is sure to be bright!

Contact adoptions@greatplainsspca.org to learn more.

Email askashley@greatplainsspca.org for a chance to have your pet question answered here in KC Parent magazine.

Animal expert, Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA, is the Director of Animal Behavior & Training at Great Plains SPCA. Ashley has more than 16 years of experience in animal training and behavior.

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annually in the Johnson County community. As Kansas City’s premium family shelter, we continue to support the seven municipalities with which we are contracted including Overland Park, Leawood, Lenexa, Shawnee, Lake Quivira and Johnson County Parks and Recreation and unincorporated Johnson County.

it’s apple picking time It’s apple picking season! Each of the u-pick apple orchards on our list is a locally-owned family operation designed to provide the best in healthy produce and a great family outing.

Apple picking season is typically mid-August through early October, but you’ll want to call farms or check their Facebook status for current hours and information.

Weston Orchard & Vineyard PRODUCE PICKING TIPS:

ADDITIONAL ORCHARDS:

• Call ahead or check the farm’s Facebook page (linked in the status update for each farm) to verify picking times as they vary from farm to farm. This is a MUST! • Remember comfortable shoes (you will be walking in fields) and wear sunscreen.

• Bring bottled water and pack a picnic if the farm allows.

Alldredge Orchards 10455 Hwy. N, Platte City, MO, 816.330.3448 Nearby: Watkins Mill

OUR TOP PICKS:

Peter’s Orchard 32615 Highway 65 South, Waverly, MO, 660.493.2368

Fun Farm Pumpkin Patch The Fun Farm is the place for all-day FUN. This beautiful farm stands out in the crowd for its intentional layout welcoming guests of all ages to experience agritourism at its finest. Kids will love the Keebler Treehouse Village, the petting zoo, barnyard games, jumping pillows and more. Add on to your daily ticket and enjoy picking several varieties of apples.

FunFarmPumpkinPatch.com Weston Orchard & Vineyard Situated on a bluff in Historic Weston, this family-owned farm is a fun getaway in the country. Enjoy a u-pick apple orchard with 7,000 trees on 15 acres offering 12 varieties, hayrack rides, apple cannons, rat racers, bouncing pillow, low ropes course with zip line, kids corn maze and more!

OrchardWeston.com Johnson Farms Plants and Pumpkins Johnson Farms hosts apple picking in August and September, even before pumpkin season begins. Enjoy a hayride out to the orchard where you can pick beautiful apples.

This is one of our favorite ways to kick off autumn family traditions. Check their website for up-to-date information: JohnsonFarms.net.

Louisburg Cider Mill Although you can’t pick apples at Louisburg Cider Mill, you can enjoy apple treats! Watch as cider is made from scratch, enjoy fresh apple cider donuts and shop their country store.

In the fall, play at the pumpkin patch and enjoy the corn maze.

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Cider Hill Family Orchard 3341 N. 139th St., Kansas City, KS, 913.721.2507 Nearby: The Legends Shopping Center

Pome on the Range 2050 Idaho Rd., Williamsburg, KS, 785.746.5492 Rock Creek Apple Orchard 619 W. Lone Jack Lee’s Summit Road, Lone Jack, MO, 816.286.6262​ Nearby: Powell Gardens Schweizer Orchards S. Hwy. 169 & FF, St. Joseph, MO, 816.232.3999 Nearby: Patee House Museum Sunflower Orchards 16905 W. 311th St., Paola, KS, 913.244.4034 Wagon Wheel Orchard 15380 Edgerton Rd., Gardner, KS, 913.893.6050 Nearby: Lanesfield School Historic Site Fun Farm Pumpkin Patch

AUGUST

festivals

ACROSS KANSAS CITY Miami County Fair July 24-Aug. 1, 401 E. Wallace Park Dr., Paola, KS. Youth rodeo, carnival, races, parade, demolition derby, bike derby, dog show, horse show, pancake breakfast, concerts and more.

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July 27-Aug. 1, Johnson County Fairgrounds, 136 E. Washington St., Gardner, KS. Celebrate the best in Johnson County while preserving the agricultural heritage of the community. The Johnson County Fair is a free fair except for the carnival and nightly arena events. JoCoKansasFair.com

Grand Carnivale Thru Aug. 8, Worlds of Fun. You’ll be transported to amazing locales far and wide with authentic entertainment, delicious tastes and sips, lively games, unique crafts and traditions from nations spanning the globe. WorldsOfFun.com

Missouri State Fair Aug. 12 -22, Missouri State Fairgrounds, Sedalia. Livestock shows, animal competitions, concerts, carnival rides, food, vendors and more are part of this annual summer tradition.

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Parkville Days Aug. 20-22, downtown Parkville. One of downtown Parkville’s largest events, the Parkville Days festival features a variety of family-friendly entertainment. Browse and enjoy arts and crafts, retail, food and specialty booths. ParkvilleMO.org

Summer Fest Aug. 21, Colonial Gardens. Join Colonial Gardens for our annual Butterfly Festival! Explore local vendors, learn more about local pollinators and participate in or observe the release of over 300 butterflies over the course of the day!

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Summer Fest

Find the complete Summer Festival Guide on KCParent.com.

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EASY WAYS TO SAVE MONEY

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s it me, or does it seem like everything goes on sale the moment we all decide to save a little money?

If you thought for a split second, “Oh my God, yes!” then you, my friend, are not alone. That “Oh my God” moment happens to more of us than you know. It happens to me at least once a month, usually after I get my first string of bills. So how can you save money and not completely change your lifestyle? Keep reading for some goodsense tips.

Automatic Savings We live in a world that’s becoming more and more tech savvy each day, and yet we underestimate the ease and reliability of electronic transfers. If your bank has a downloadable app, odds are there’s a

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function to make a scheduled transfer.

Use it! Pick a date and time that works for you and send your money right along into savings. One of the biggest and easiest ways to save money is to have your money automatically withdrawn from your account and deposited into some sort or savings account. Also, most employers offer more than one direct deposit option.

Some places allow you to split your check between accounts, and some even offer you an opportunity to deposit your earnings by percentage. Either way, if you safely deposit your earnings into your savings before you get a chance to spend it or see it, you’ll be well off. Out of sight, out of mind. Check with your bank and your human resources department to be sure of your options.

Budget Your Savings Cliché right? It’s easy to just say, “I’ll just budget better,” which is always easier said than done. Where most people go wrong is thinking about budgeting as only what we’re making. We never really think about what we’re saving. Having a goal in mind when budgeting your savings makes the saving process easier and purposeful. Big, small or ongoing—give yourself a goal and stay on it.

One trick that works for me is thinking of a “rainy day.” When it rains it pours, right?

My golden number is $500. If anything small in life goes wrong, it usually costs a couple hundred dollars to fix. If my goal is $500, and I save more than that and continue to save, I can budget my savings for any rainy day and a sunny one. Giving yourself a deadline to hit your savings goal is another amazing tactic.

Don’t Cheat Yourself, Treat Yourself!

I know this may sound a little weird when talking about saving money, but buy the things you need! The absolute worst thing you can do when trying to save money is deprive yourself of the things you like, want or need most. Conditioning yourself to believe you just don’t need it is a bad idea!

You work hard; it’s okay to treat yourself.

Now, I’m not suggesting everyone go on a shopping spree. I’m simply suggesting a more creative approach. If you’re concerned about overspending, try (if you can) to wait for the sale. Stretch out the periods between shopping sprees. If you shop once every two weeks, try to go once every month. Most retailers receive stock each week. Every month, they almost always have some sort of sale. That’s the perfect time to have a little fun. Do yourself the favor and wait for the sale before you buy it. Another great tip: Don’t be afraid to ask for a discount. They exist everywhere! It’s also helpful to have

a friend or close relative nearby to make sure you don’t overspend. You can hold each other accountable.

Fun Things Come in Free Packages If you’re looking to save money when it comes to entertainment, find some free fun. Believe it or not, this city offers all sorts of entertainment options that are free. Check the local listings! KC Going Places (KCGoingPlaces.com) is a great place to start. VisitKC.com is another great resource for fun free things to do around the city.

Do It Yourself Another great way to save money, especially on those pesky projects around the house, is to do them yourself. DIY projects can save you hundreds of dollars, and they can make fun and easy family collaborations. If you can afford to pay someone to clean your house, opt out for a

few months and do the cleaning yourself.

If you pay for prepped meals, try cooking a few days out of the week to pocket a little of what you’ve been shelling out. You can even lighten the load with how you eat. We all know eating out less is a great way to cut food costs, but we don’t always consider how to cut costs when shopping for groceries. First and foremost, do the grocery shopping yourself, instead of farming out the task. If you shop yourself, you can locate the deals and map out your purchases. This will help you avoid overspending or buying things you never intended to make in the first place.

So, there you have it, a few simple ways to save a few nickels to rub together! If you stick to it, these tips are sure to help you build up a nice little savings stash.

Jessica Samuel lives in Kansas City and is a freelance writer and photographer.

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Teaching Kids to Manage

RISKS

It’s important to give children opportunities to do new things together as a family and individually.

Introducing them to as many new and challenging experiences as possible will lead to more confidence and courage to try new things on their own.

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s parents, our natural instinct is to keep our children safe. In fact, it’s not just our instinct, it’s part of our job.

But another part of our job as parents is to not only allow but encourage our children to take risks too. Now if you’re like me, the word risks makes you sweat and immediately conjures images of a trip to the emergency room! And although sometimes that may actually happen as a result of risk-taking, it’s not the norm!

Risk-taking can actually be quite simple ... a new playdate, starting a new school, trying a new food even. Allowing your child to take risks might feel very scary to you, making difficult the act of releasing control for your child to have access to this experience. But with a carefully crafted balance, you can encourage your children to take risks that develop courage and confidence while still keeping them safe and healthy.

Part of a child’s development is gaining confidence, self-esteem and courage. Encouraging your child to take risks is an excellent way to foster the development of these qualities. According to BrightHorizons.com, “taking risks in a safe environment builds confidence and teaches valuable life skills.” We may be easily tempted to protect or stop our kids from taking risks so they will never fail or get hurt, but we are actually doing them a disservice. Danielle, Olathe mom of three, says, “Kids used to just experience things, get hurt and learn from it. Now, the world we live in is extremely safety conscious.

We don’t like to deal with the hurt, so we try to eliminate the possibility, which I think is not always a good thing for their development.” Polly, Overland Park mom of two, agrees, saying, “Risk-taking is really important from both a success and failure standpoint. We learn so much from taking risks, especially when we fail. We have to be okay with letting our kids fail, otherwise we’ll discourage risk-taking.”

The age of kids informs risk-taking and its consequence. And much like physical development, risk-taking varies from child to child—you’ll see this within your own

household. Some children are big risk takers, not fully understanding the dangers or hurt that can happen. Other children are more cautious and prefer to avoid new situations. Watching your child take risks also helps you see where additional support or guidance might be needed. “It’s important to give children opportunities to do new things together as a family and individually.

Introducing them to as many new and challenging experiences as possible will lead to more confidence and courage to try new things on their own. We also should talk about the potential fears (or other feelings) we are all experiencing that might get in our way and how to work through those when trying something new,” says Kay, an Overland Park mom of two.

So you might be wondering right now about how to craft that balance I mentioned earlier if you’re supposed to protect your children but not keep them in a bubble! One tip for parents is to set limits and boundaries where risk taking can occur safely. A parking lot or street are not good places for risk-taking, but climbing that tree? Sure!

Riding your bike at breakneck speed down your street? Go ahead—with a helmet of course! Going out for the lead in the school play? Awesome!

Be close and available to offer support, but also remember to celebrate the process and not just the product. Stephanie, Overland Park mom of two, says, “We try to celebrate even in small ways when our kids choose something brave. We celebrated our daughter when she auditioned for the school musical, not just when she got a part. We try to recognize when our kids put themselves out there, even if they fail, not just when they accomplish something.” Try not to be afraid of letting your kids take a risk for fear of failure, too. “If we are willing to celebrate failures that are results of taking a step into the unknown, then I think we have more comfort in taking risks,” says Anne, Overland Park mom of two.

Something else to consider (but you may not like me for!) is to be a good role model by letting your child see you take risks, too. I know, I know. Staying in our comfort

zones is so much easier. But if your child doesn’t see you willing to take risks, perhaps he won’t either. Besides, going through your own risk can help keep the doors of communication open between you and your child, particularly in the teen years. As Anne puts it, “Walking together through risks also makes them less scary.” Whether you are going through the same risk together or taking risks simultaneously, you and your child can share your experiences and even learn from each other.

Risk doesn’t have to be dangerous and can actually be a good thing. Keep in mind as you navigate these unknown waters that what feels easy and simple to you can actually feel quite scary and risky to your child. Be prepared to push your children out of their comfort zone and brace yourself for a little resistance too. Adults aren’t the only ones who prefer to stick to what’s safe and known! As with any other thing we are teaching our children, though, while the process can sometimes be painful and getting through it tough, everyone comes out better for it in the end! Good luck!

ACCORDING TO HUFFPOST.COM:

• Taking risks shows

confidence and helps you stand out.

• You don’t achieve your

dreams by playing it safe.

• Success doesn’t just fall in your lap—you have to go after it.

• Risk-taking helps you

overcome a fear of failure.

• Unforeseen opportunities

can come from risk-taking.

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PARTYGUIDE

fun and frugal summer birthday ideas

By Margaret Sarver

Hire some help Hire a couple of local teens/babysitters to help with the party. While you are keeping the kids entertained, the teens can help with cleanup! If you have games, ask the teens to teach the younger kids how to play.

If you have kids’ parties this summer, there is no reason that you have to break your bank to throw a great party that kids will never forget!

Games Games are an integral part of the party! Instead of going out and purchasing all new games, try setting up “game stations” with board games that you already own. Invite parents of the kids over to help supervise. Rotate stations once each game is complete. Cute idea: Make a version of “Guess Who” using photos of kids attending the party.

Make your own piñata A popular birthday item for kids’ parties is often a piñata. Instead of spending money on a store-made piñata, have the kids at the party make their own piñata using balloons or paper bags and help them stuff it themselves. It’s cost effective for you and more fun for them!

Make your cake (and eat it, too) Try hosting a makeyour-cupcake/cake party. Guests can help design and bake their own sweet treats. It acts as both the activity and the dessert for the kids and adults!

Location, location Have the party in your backyard. If it’s hot, bring out the sprinklers and enjoy frozen summer treats like ice cream and cool drinks. Cute idea: Set up a make-your-own-sundae station.

Arts and crafts Set up an arts and crafts station for the guests. You can stock it with leftover items from craft projects and supplement with a few dollar store buys. From paper bag puppets to clay creations and bead jewelry, crafting is fun for all ages and allows for guests to take home their masterpieces at the end of the party.

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watch this. > do that.

Family movie night is sure to be a hit with the whole family. You can take it to the next level by adding these activities that are both fun and educational. Here are some family friendly movies with ideas for activities, snacks, crafts, outings and books to continue the fun.

WATCH THIS: WONDER Auggie Pullman was born with facial differences that have kept him from attending school, until now. He has made the big decision to start fifth grade at a new school.

He quickly shows everyone that what you look like is not as important as what is inside and ends up winning over many at the school. Auggie is a boy with a lot of heart and will have everyone in the family rooting for him as he faces bullying and making friends for the first time. This movie is heartwarming and is a great gateway for difficult conversations about bullying and accepting others who appear to be different from us. (Rated PG)

DO THAT: Talk to your kids about bullying. What qualifies as bully behavior? How do you handle it?

How can you help a person who is a victim of bullying?

SNACK ON THIS: Because Auggie is headed to school for the first time, why not pack your kids a sack lunch? This could include a traditional sandwich and sides, or you could fill lunch sacks with movie popcorn and candy. Serve cartons of milk or juice to wash it down. Another fun idea: Choose a favorite hot lunch and serve it at home.

CREATE THAT: Make encouraging cards to send to friends who could use a boost and mail or hand deliver your messages.

GO THERE: Declare a “Random Acts of Kindness Day” and spread cheer and good vibes in your community. Some ideas include paying for the person behind you in the drivethrough line, doing yard work for a neighbor, dropping a card or gift off for a friend who could use some cheer or passing out gift cards to community workers.

READ THIS: The movie is based on Wonder by RJ Palacio. This is a great book to read before (or after) watching the movie. For additional reading about bullying try Real Friends by Shannon Hale or I Walk with Vanessa: A Story about a Simple Act of Kindness

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WATCH THIS: CARS Famous racecar Lightning McQueen gets lost on his way to the big race and ends up in the small town of Radiator Springs. His first instinct is to get out of town as soon as possible, but the longer he stays, the less he wants to leave. This movie has a great message about friendship and slowing down and appreciating what is important in life. (Rated G)

DO THAT: Set up your very own car wash. This can be a water table with dish soap and sponges for the kids to wash their Matchbox cars or a drive-through car wash for bikes and trikes on the driveway. You even can get the kids involved with washing the family vehicles.

SNACK ON THIS: Your race car drivers will want to enjoy some Cars-themed snacks. Make stoplights using graham crackers. Spread frosting on the cracker and add a red, yellow and green chocolate covered candy to make a traffic light. Other ideas could include “tires” (chocolate donuts), “tractor wheels” (Oreo cookies) or “Mack” and cheese.

GO THERE: Take the family go-kart racing, attend a local touch-a-truck event or go to a classic car show.

CREATE THAT: Create your own race car using a toilet paper tube. Cover the tube in construction paper then add construction paper wheels, stickers or any decorations you like.

READ THIS: Fans of Cars will enjoy reading If I Built a Car by Chris Van Dusen or My Truck Is Stuck by Kevin Lewis. There are also several Cars-themed books available for more stories.

WATCH THIS: CLOUDY WITH A CHANCE OF MEATBALLS When hard times hit the town of Swallow Falls, its townspeople are stuck eating sardines for every meal. Local inventor Flint Lockwood develops a machine that can turn water into food and becomes the local hero when tasty meals start raining from the sky. But things get out of control, and Flint and his friends have to save the town before it’s too late. This movie is funny and a joy to watch. It will make you hungry while imagining what food you would like to see fall from the sky. (Rated PG)

DO THAT: Have the kids draw a picture of their own crazy weather report.

What food will fall from the sky next? Take turns pretending to be the newscaster giving the crazy weather report.

SNACK ON THIS: Make a batch of spaghetti and meatballs to enjoy before the movie. While you eat, discuss what food you would like best to fall from the sky and what food you would least like to see.

CREATE THAT: Play dough thunderstorm—for this activity, you will need gray, blue and white play dough and yellow pipe cleaners. Use the gray play dough to make rain clouds, the blue to make rain drops and the white to make hail. You can use the yellow pipe cleaners to add lightning bolts. Let your children get creative and make their own thunderstorms.

GO THERE: In the movie it snows ice cream. Take the family out for ice cream and imagine what it would be like if it snowed ice cream. What is your favorite flavor?

READ THIS: Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs by Judi Barrett and the sequel Pickles Over Pittsburgh are obvious choices before or after enjoying the movie, which is inspired by these books. For kid-friendly books about weather, check out A Year in the Wind by Hanna Konola or Tap Tap Boom Boom by Elizabeth Bluemie.

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WATCH THIS: CHARLOTTE’S WEB After learning her friend Wilbur the pig’s days are numbered, Charlotte the spider comes up with a plan to save him. This movie is based on the 1952 book Charlotte’s Web by EB White and is a tale of unlikely friends. It’s a classic both adults and kids will enjoy. (Rated G)

DO THAT: What words would you use to describe yourself? What about your other family members? Use a paper plate and attach eight legs (use construction paper) to create a spider. Write your name on the paper plate body of the spider then write one descriptive word on each spider leg.

SNACK ON THIS: For a Charlotte’s Web-themed snack, serve farm fresh foods, such as watermelon, corn on the cob or apple pie.

CREATE THAT: Make a spider web craft. Cut the center out of a paper plate. Use a hole-punch to cut holes around the remaining edge of the plate. Cut a piece of yarn and tie a knot at the end. Have the kids weave the yarn through random holes on the plate to make a spider web. To make it easier to weave, wrap a small piece of tape on the tip of the yarn.

GO THERE: Take a trip to Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead in Overland Park where you can see real animals. Maybe you will even find a spider hiding somewhere.

READ THIS: A family reading of the classic book Charlotte’s Web by EB White is a must before watching the movie. If you would like to try some spider-themed picture books, check out Be Nice to Spiders by Maragret Bloy Graham and I’m Trying to Love Spiders by Bethany Barton.

WATCH THIS: MARY POPPINS Jane and Michael, children of the wealthy and uptight Banks family, are assigned a new nanny. They are thrilled to see she is full of magical surprises. The movie follows their adventures with their nanny, Mary Poppins. The kids try to pass on some of the things they learn to their distracted parents. (1964 Rated G and 2018 Rated PG)

DO THAT: Chalk the walk. Use sidewalk chalk to create Mary Poppins-inspired art.

SNACK ON THIS: Just a spoonful of sugar cake pops. To make this fun snack you will need a cake mix, buttercream frosting, candy melts, sugar and plastic spoons. Bake the cake as directed. Once it is cooled, break it up and mix in the buttercream frosting. Roll the mixture into small balls and freeze for 20 minutes. Melt candy coating according to package directions and carefully dip cake pops. Before the coating is dry, roll it in sugar. Place a dollop of candy coating on the plastic spoon and set cake pop on top. Place in the freezer until they are set.

CREATE THAT: Umbrella craft. You will need a round coffee filter, washable markers and construction paper. Lay the coffee filter flat and have your child color with markers.

Use a spray bottle on “mist” setting to wet down the coffee filter and allow it to dry.

Once dry, fold in half and attach a piece of construction paper in the shape of a handle.

Hang in the window so the sun can shine through.

GO THERE: Go fly a kite. If weather allows, get outside and fly a kite. If the weather isn’t quite right, create and decorate your own kite inside.

READ THIS: Mary Poppins the movie is based on a series of eight books by PL Travers.

The first book in the series is titled Mary Poppins.

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WATCH THIS: MADAGASCAR Alex the lion is the most popular animal attraction at New York City’s Central Park Zoo. Alex and his friends, Claudia, Melman and Marty, end up on the remote island of Madagascar where they are no longer served daily meals. Alex’s carnivore instincts make his friends, a giraffe, a hippo and a zebra, seem appetizing. He must learn to manage his instincts while confronted with an island full of eccentric lemurs. This movie is silly and fun for kids while still being humorous for adults as well. (Rated PG)

DO THAT: Have a dance party. The characters in the movie love to dance, so why not get your place some music and “Move it! Move it!” in the living room?

SNACK ON THIS: Because the four friends land on a tropical island, try serving fresh fruits, such as pineapple, bananas and oranges. You could also purchase prepackaged Melman-inspired zebra cakes.

CREATE THAT: Draw a circle on a yellow piece of construction paper. Add a lion face to the circle. Use a plastic fork dipped in orange paint to create a lion’s mane around the circle.

GO THERE: After watching the movie, head to the Kansas City Zoo to see some real life hippos, zebras, lions and giraffes.

READ THIS: Julius: Fun Facts About Lions for Kids by James Randall Miller is a book full of fun facts for kids interested in learning more about lions. For kids who are intrigued by zebras, check out How the Zebra Got Its Stripes by Ron Fontes.

WATCH THIS: WALL-E Wall-E (Waste Allocation Load Lifter Earth-Class) is the last robot left on Earth. He spends his days tidying the planet one piece of garbage at a time. But after 700 years, he is very lonely. When a probe named EVE arrives, he falls in love and follows her across the galaxy. This movie is heartwarming and has a good message about taking care of our planet. (Rated G)

DO THAT: Walk the neighborhood and clean up trash that you find in common areas.

Discuss what items can be recycled and why it is important. Consider planting a tree, plant or flowers, or take care of a garden in your yard.

SNACK ON THIS: For a healthy snack, try foods that come from the Earth. Choose fruits and veggies that your kids love and are more likely to enjoy.

CREATE THAT: Make your own robot. Gather empty cereal boxes, paper towel or toilet paper rolls and any other found items to design and build your own robot. What jobs would your robot do?

GO THERE: Visit the Overland Park Arboretum or Powell Gardens and spend some time in nature. For a fun activity, go on a scavenger hunt. Many scavenger hunt ideas are available online.

READ THIS: For books for young kids, try What a Waste: Trash, Recycling, and Protecting our Planet by Jess French or The Adventures of an Aluminum Can: A Story About Recycling by Alison Inches. Try In a Nutshell by Joseph Anthony for a book about the importance of plants for our environment.

All of these movies are rated G or PG, but please use discretion and choose movies you feel are appropriate for your family.

Mom of six Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her family.

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Tips for Parents of Picky Eaters Once little ones graduate from nursing or bottles, the challenge to tempt their palate begins.

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ottles and nursing seem difficult in the beginning, but as parents begin to introduce solid foods, they often recall that time as being so much more relaxing—and simple! A good way to help tots avoid becoming picky eaters is to begin introducing a variety of foods early.

When they get used to new flavors, they will crave different offerings than those chicken nuggets and mac and cheese. There certainly

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is nothing wrong with those standbys, but variety is the spice of life, right?

Understanding your child’s temperament is a first step. Does he readily accept a new toy, or does he hang back a bit before jumping in? Does she run up to meet new friends or act shy at first? Knowing how your little one accepts new situations translates into how he or she accepts new foods.

As with all stages of a baby’s life, this is a transition, so don’t fret. Try to make healthy food choices available and understand that your child’s appetite and eating behaviors will level out eventually.

A good way to ensure children eat different things is to share meals together as a family as often as you can. Turn off the TV and put away the phone so you can use this time to model healthy eating. Serve one meal for the entire family and resist the urge to make another meal for your child who refuses to eat what’s on his plate, a practice that encourages picky eating. Try to include at least one food your child likes with each meal and continue to provide a balanced meal, whether it gets eaten or not.

If that darling child absolutely refuses a meal, don’t fuss. It’s good for children to learn to listen to their bodies and use hunger as a guide. For example, they may have eaten a big breakfast or lunch and truly not be hungry. Don’t force another meal on them the rest of the day just because it’s “time to eat.” The parent’s responsibility is to provide food, and the child makes the decision whether to eat it. Pressuring kids to eat, or punishing them if they don’t, can make them actively dislike foods they may otherwise like.

When you’re exhausted, you may be tempted to bribe your kiddos with treats for eating other foods, but this can make that prize food even more exciting than the healthy food you offer. Remember, too, that even if a child refuses a food once, she may learn to like it. Even if it takes many attempts, your toddler’s taste buds may accept it one day. Another tactic to keep in mind is scheduling meals regularly and limiting snacking, which can help ensure little ones are hungry when you offer a new food.

Keep things colorful! Add vegetables, fruits and both meat and fish to help your child explore new flavors and textures of food. Different herbs and spices added to simple things like cauliflower mashed potatoes can make tempting tastes. To avoid waste, offer any new foods in small amounts, waiting at least a week or so before reintroducing the same food.

Get creative. The brighter the show, the more excitement! Colorful shapes kids recognize work, such as cutting sandwiches

into Mickey Mouse ears or making pancakes from a dinosaur cookie cutter. Little fingers like to dip, so provide hummus, peanut butter or any dip you like. Making foods that fit into their hands is another way to help them want to eat.

Definitely involve little ones in meal planning. Put that toddler’s growing interest in exercising control to good use and have him pick out fruits and vegetables during visits to the store or farmers market. There are kid-friendly cookbooks you can read together to find appealing recipes. Or visit websites that offer fun graphics and follow along as you cook. Supervise your little chefs as they sift, stir, count ingredients and pick fresh herbs from your garden or windowsill.

For example, painting on cooking oil with a pastry brush is fun, right?

Many nutritionists recommend using “food bridges” as a way to introduce foods with similar color, flavor and texture to help expand variety in what kids eat. If your little one likes that orange pumpkin pie, try mashed sweet potatoes then mashed carrots. Or say she like green Jell-o; try green beans, roasted brussels sprouts and cutting a big green watermelon.

Try pairing unfamiliar foods or flavors, such as sour and bitter, with familiar foods toddlers prefer, which are sweet and salty.

For example, pair that bitter broccoli with grated cheese, which is salty.

If you are concerned about your child’s diet, talk with your pediatrician, who will help troubleshoot and make sure your child is getting all the necessary nutrients to grow and develop. Also keep in mind that picky eating usually is a normal developmental stage for toddlers.

Do your best to patiently guide your little one on the path toward healthy eating. As always, you are the perfect person to begin your children on their eating journey. Your lifestyle, your tastes, your interests and your love will ensure they enjoy the food they eat.

Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

Sources: HealthyChildren.org, TheLearningExperience.com, PsychologyToday.com.

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staying calm and present WHILE PARENTING

Tips for destressing from the daily anxieties of family life

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eing a parent comes with various stresses that so often consume our thoughts. Are my children growing and developing properly?

Are they making wise choices? Are they prepared for the difficult things they will face in life?

If we focus on the stresses, we can miss out on the wonderful moments parenting has to offer. To become more focused on the joys of parenting as opposed to the challenges, we first need to recognize when we are letting our anxieties get to us.

Cary Corley, a counselor with Lakewood Family Therapy in Lee’s Summit, says people are becoming anxious when they dwell on a thought continually like a cow chewing cud. He says when people go into that spiral of thinking, they begin to go into fight or flight mode and perceive things as threats that might not be. For example, just because a child takes something from your desk does not mean she is one day going to end up in jail for stealing, but when anxieties build, it might be hard to convince yourself otherwise.

Before reaching that point, recognize the cause of your stresses, counselor Sara Ratliff says. Spending time processing our own stories can help us recognize what events and situations prompt us to anxiety, why they are triggers and how we can respond to those things in the future.

“If we have anxiety from our past that we have not fully processed, it can come up with our children,” Ratliff says.

She also highlights how important it is to recognize what stresses us because it will stay under the surface if we do not deal with it. In turn, the more we have processed our own anxiety, the more we can help our children process whatever they are going through.

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TAKING A MOMENT TO RELAX AND REFOCUS When anxieties build up, it is important to calm down and use grounding techniques to clear your thoughts. The goal is to become more present in the moment. Once you have accomplished that, you can address the issues at hand.

Deep breathing is always a calming mechanism, and so are exercises that engage all the senses. Counselors Cary Corley and Sara Ratliff recommend taking a moment to stop, look around and take notice of the things you see, hear, feel, taste and touch.

Rolling your shoulders, talking a walk and listening to calming music are other effective calming techniques.

Corley says all these techniques trick the brain out of fight or flight mode and back into reality.

“Once you have lowered your heart rate, you will want to steady your breathing and attack the false narrative,” Corley says.

“Sometimes our kids are upset, and we don’t know why,” Ratliff says. “If we are calm in those moments, it is easier to explore what is happening with them.”

One source of anxiety might be having unrealistic expectations for our kids in various aspects of life, whether that be academically, socially or athletically. While we might be well-meaning and want the best for them, we might unwittingly be putting a lot of pressure on our kids and then become filled with anxiety when they do not meet our expectations.

“Everyone has expectations, and those expectations come from dreams,” Corley says.

It’s also important to talk to your children about the dreams you have for them, Corley says. Then expectations become more palatable for children if they understand the dream. For example, if your dream for them is to go to college, talk about that goal you have for them. In turn, your kids will better understand why you have made it an expectation for them to turn in all their homework.

Similarly, if your dream for your children is for them to be kind and generous people, they will be more willing to share their toys and play well with others if you help them understand why being a loving person is important.

Ratliff says it is essential to keep an open line of communication with our kids to see where they are in terms of their interests and expectations for themselves. She encourages parents to make it a team process and enable children to feel they have a voice. The more we understand our children and are on the same page, the fewer anxieties there will be.

Anxiety can also arise when we put pressure on ourselves to be the perfect parents. After all, we will inevitably make mistakes and let ourselves down.

Keep in mind our children are not looking for the perfect parents, but rather parents that are present, authentic and teach life lessons through everything.

“It helps for our kids to recognize parents are not perfect and make a lot of mistakes,” Ratliff says.

Parenting through the pandemic and the unique set of current events has also brought a significant amount of anxiety to parents. Corley says people are often attracted to all the current negativity, especially considering there is no shortage of things about which to be anxious. He simply recommends taking a break from all the negative feedback, whether that be found on social media or in the news.

“Build those habits that break those chains of fear,” Corely says. “Often the simple things are overlooked because we are so fear-driven right now.”

Corley also suggests making sure your kids see you take a break from negativity, and he recommends having evenings of putting the phones and electronics down in favor of a family game night.

Additionally, be intentional about not comparing your child or family to others. Expecting your child to be like someone else will only bring anxiety, frustration and even resentment. Instead, address the narrative that makes you feel your child must be like someone else and establish what is truly best for your own family.

There are always going to be things that cause us anxiety as parents, but Ratliff says it’s important to accept that stressors are a natural part of life and realize not every day is going to present as many challenges as some days do.

“Every day is not the same,” Ratliff says. “That gives you some peace and calm to look forward to good things in the future.”

Allison Gibeson is a Lee’s Summit writer and mom. kcparent.com august 2021

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e d i u G TABLE OF CONTENTS 37 DIY Tie-Dye Shoes

38 Best Back-to-School Tips

40 Overcoming the Queasies 42 Trekking Thru Transitions

44 Ease Homework Frustration 46 Best Extracurriculars 48 Product Reviews

50 Last Hurrah Before the Bell Rings 53 Word From Dad

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CRAFTCORNER

Materials needed:

DIY Tie-Dye Shoes

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• White canvas shoes • Rubbing alcohol • Spray bottle • Masking tape

(We used painters tape and it did not work!)

• Assorted Sharpie markers et ready for back to school by making your own on-trend shoes this year! These DIY tie-dye shoes are easy to make, and you can customize them any way you see fit! Go bold with your shoes and get ready for fun at school!

Step one: Remove laces from shoes.

Step two: Tape any white rubber bottom of the shoe.

Step three: Set up design and mark off sections with your Sharpies

as a guide.

Step four: Color your design leaving white spaces for the tie-dye effect.

Step five: Outdoors or in the sink, spray rubbing alcohol all over shoes.

Shoes will drip the Sharpie color, giving the tie-dye effect. If you do this in the sink, rinse it immediately to avoid staining!

Step six: Allow shoes to air dry for at least 24 hours. (Our shoes dried way quicker than 24 hours.)

Step seven: Wash your hands immediately after you are done handling the shoes to avoid staining on them.

Step eight: Once shoes are dry, put in your laces and enjoy being trendy with your DIY!

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Overland Park with her husband, son and two dogs. Janelle is a former health care executive director and is a mediator in Kansas, helping families in conflict. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

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THE 10 BEST

Back-to-School Tips Ever!

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oing from summer fun, vacations and late nights to homework, packed lunches and strict bedtimes can be a tough transition for both parents and kids. With these parent-approved back-to-school tips and tricks, though, heading back to school is sure to run smoothly this year!

1. Start

Preparing Early

The sooner you start, the easier it will be. Make a list of everything you need to do before school begins.

The list can include everything from meal prepping and school supply shopping to hair cut appointments and sports physicals. The list will help you stay on track and, hopefully, keep you from forgetting something and having to make a last-minute trip to pick it up.

2. Set

Up a Command Center

3. Line

Out the Routine

A command center will help you stay organized all year round. This designated area will be where all school items go. Large cubbies work great to keep each child’s backpacks, lunch boxes, jackets and shoes together. This is also the ideal place to post your weekly calendar, so the entire family knows what is going on each day of the week. It would also be ideal to have a charging station for the kids’ school iPads and laptops, so they are ready to go for the next day.

Make a to-do list for each child that spells out the routine and responsibilities for the day. The list can include every task kids must complete before school, after school and before bedtime. Include tasks such as brushing teeth and combing hair, as well as after-school chores or putting away book bags. Spelling out their responsibilities for them will help kids get into their new routine and help you avoid asking them over and over whether they’ve brushed their teeth.

4. Create a Dedicated Homework Space

Sometimes getting your kids to do their homework can become its own chore, but a designated homework space can help with that. Stock pencils, crayons, glue, tape and all the necessary supplies for homework at a desk or wherever they will be doing homework each day.

Every day when it’s time for homework, the kids will be set up for success and won’t be wandering the house asking you where they put their scissors!

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Guide 5. Keep a Place for Important Paperwork

In your command center, create a filing system for important paperwork. This can be as simple as a file for each child or one tray in which to place all incoming paperwork and mail. This strategy ensures your kids know exactly where those important papers from their teachers need to go when they clean out their backpacks each afternoon. Gone will be the days of searching for a field trip permission slip the night before a trip to the zoo or trying to hunt down those overdue library books.

6. Let the Kids Pack Their Lunches

Organizing the pantry and refrigerator will make packing lunches and snacks a breeze! Create bins in the pantry for items like chips, granola bars and drinks. In the refrigerator separate lunch foods like fruit, string cheese and applesauce packets into a bin. Then you can easily pack the lunches, or the kids can pick and choose what they pack in their lunches each day. For the first few days, you’ll want to check their lunch boxes to make sure they’re making good choices.

This also works great for after-school snacks. You can have a bin of healthy snacks the kids can always have, like fruits and veggies, and a bin for special request items they need to ask you for first.

7. Plan Outfits for the Week

There’s nothing worse than rushing around in the morning trying to get your kids dressed and their saying they “have nothing to wear.” Make an evening habit of laying out their outfits for the next day, so when they wake up they can get dressed without all the stress. If you really like to plan ahead, set up compartments in their closet for each day of the week. On Sunday, set out the entire week’s outfits.

9. Skip the Store

Dreading those long, detailed school supply lists and mobs of moms with their kids trying to pick out the perfect binder in the back-to-school aisle? Skip it! Thanks to Target’s School List Assist and Amazon’s School List program, school supply shopping has never been easier. Simply find your child’s school and class supply list online, match the list to the items you would like to purchase, add the items to your cart, check out and wait for them to arrive on your doorstep!

Speaking of skipping school supply shopping—one of our family’s best stress reducers is grocery pickup.

Most grocery stores offer online grocery ordering and free pickup or delivery. You simply add items to your cart, pay online and pick them up at a designated time.

My favorite feature is how it saves your favorite items to make them easy to add to your cart on your next visit.

You can even add last minute items if you forget an ingredient for your recipe or realize you’re supposed to bring treats for the class party in the morning.

10. Make It Fun!

Last but not least, make it fun and special for your kids. Starting a new school year is exciting. Take them out to breakfast before their first day, take their photos in their first-day-of-school outfits and maybe grab some ice cream after school to hear all about their day. The more excited they are to go to school, the easier the year will be for everyone!

Regan Lyons is a freelance writer who lives in St. Joseph, MO, with her husband and two daughters, Atley, 7, and Ensley, 10 months.

8. Back to Bedtime

Have your kids become night owls this summer?

Don’t worry! Slowly moving their bedtime up a halfhour per week until they are back to their school night bedtime will be a painless way to ease the kids back into their normal sleeping routine. When you bump up their bedtime, bump up their wake-up time, too. Give the kids a week before school starts to practice getting up on time, getting ready and eating breakfast before they would need to leave for school. Once the first day arrives, they will be up and at ’em bright and early! kcparent.com august 2021

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OVERCOMING THE QUEASIES

When Your Child Is Nervous About the First Day of School

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arents all know about the firstday-of-school queasies. Having a nervous kiddo is so hard and shifts your “mama and papa bear” instincts into high gear. Maybe your children are in full meltdown mode. Maybe the anxiety is subtle. Either way, all you want is to calm their nerves. Our hope is to help you help them combat some of those firstday butterflies.

The best way to ease the queasies is to prepare kids as much as you can beforehand while remaining calm and positive. Run through their routine a few times. If they’re going to ride the bus, practice waiting at the bus stop with them. Practice driving them to school. Predictability will be their best friend.

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We’ve provided a few tips for kids of all ages—whether it’s their first or fifth year of school—to make the day less intimidating.

Meet and talk about the teacher

This activity will help both younger and older kiddos with the jitters. A new year with new teachers can be intimidating, but getting to know them ahead of time may ease this transition.

Attend any and all back-to-school nights or open houses, so you can get acquainted.

Schedule a phone call or Zoom meeting.

Email them questions your student might have. Lastly, talk with your kids afterward about the interactions.

Practice first-day conversations

Maybe your middle schooler has anxiety about what she’ll say to potential new friends and gets tongue-tied. Practice chatting and making small talk, so she has ideas about what to say if she’s feeling nervous or inhibited.

Stay positive

It’s tough when you’re so empathetic to your child’s anxieties, but try to stay calm, upbeat and positive. This will reassure your kids everything will go smoothly.

Role play and pretend play

For younger kiddos, or those starting preschool or kindergarten, use pretend play to prepare them. Use their stuffed animal friends

Guide to talk about what the first day might be like.

For example, “little dinosaur” goes to school to eat snacks, sing songs and play games, then mommy dinosaur comes back to get him.

Create a “goodbye” routine

Whether it’s a special handshake, highfives, a hug or a catchphrase (“See ya later, alligator!”), your child will find comfort and security in a specific goodbye ritual.

Create a visual schedule

For your youngest kiddos, a visual schedule could be helpful. (Example: wake up, get dressed, eat breakfast, pack your backpack, hug mom and dad goodbye, get on the school bus.)

Practice relaxation techniques

Try deep breathing and meditation techniques on the drive to school. Safely play steps from a podcast, YouTube channel,

Pandora or other app. This may work best with your teen or preteen who is feeling nervous about meeting a new group of friends.

Reduce stress at home

Your children’s simply knowing home will be their safe haven once the school day is over will help immensely. Try to model good coping strategies at home when managing stress and anxiety, don’t load their afterschool to-do list with extra chores and try not to snap at them even if you’ve had a rough day. Greet them with open arms, a listening ear and maybe even a snack.

Lastly, remind them you’ll be there to greet them at the end of the first day.

School days can be long, anxiety-inducing, draining—but once they’re all done, you’ll be waiting with open arms to take them home. Once they adjust to the routine, it will become second nature.

Calm kids playlist: “Baby Beluga”

by Raffi “Wonderful You”

by Nancy Kopman “I Like You As You Are”

by Mister Rogers “Sesame Street: Dave Matthews and Grover Sing About Feelings” “Safe and Sound”

by Taylor Swift and the Civil Wars “The Rainbow Connection”

by Sarah McLachlan

Emily Morrison is a freelance writer, former copy editor, full-time mommy and Disney fanatic who lives in Independence with her husband, son, daughter and dog.

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KINDERGARTEN TREKKING THROUGH TRANSITIONS

“Don’t blink or you’ll miss it.”

If you’ve been a parent for any length of time, you’ve probably been given this advice. And it doesn’t take long for a mom or dad to understand the meaning behind the sentiment. Babies really don’t keep. This is perhaps most keenly perceived with the monumental milestones a child experiences during the first days of elementary school and middle school. Here are some ways you can prepare, coach and celebrate your favorite students from start to finish of their academic career.

KINDERGARTEN For youngsters with a year or two of preschool under their belts, kindergarten may not be that much of a transition. After all, they will already be acclimated to structured events like story time, and getting in line won’t carry much of a learning curve. What may come as a challenge, however, is the fatigue that comes from being away from home for a whole day, a more complex structure to the day, as well as potentially having homework.

Parents play a key role in not only preparing their child well for kindergarten, but through active engagement, they also set their child’s teacher up to best serve

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him throughout the school year. One of the biggest setups for success is when a child knows both his parents and his teacher are working together, cheering him on both in and out of the classroom. Parents should seek to maintain an open line of communication with both their child’s teacher and their child. Ask specific questions at the end of the school day such as, “What was the hardest thing you did today?” or “Did anything funny happen during class?” Allow your child time to process his feelings, whether he’s nervous or excited.

Because kindergartners already have more than 50 percent of their vocabulary established by age 5, these ongoing conversations can be hugely beneficial, not only for emotional health but also for your budding genius’ academic achievement.

Equally as helpful, spending time reading great books together at home not only bonds parents and children but it also is one of the only proven means of bolstering test scores.

Pick up a list of Caldecott or Newbery award winners from your local library or check out resources like The Read Aloud Revival podcast by Sarah Mackenzie or Jim Trelease’s book The Read Aloud Treasury for other fabulous and age-appropriate reads.

Ways Parents Can Prepare Their Child for Kindergarten: 1) If possible, visit the school and get to know the teacher before school is in session.

2) Inform all staff that will be in direct contact with your child (teachers, school nurse, etc.) whether your child has any special needs or allergies, regardless of whether or not it’s already been indicated on forms.

3) Establish your school routine well in advance, so your child is well rested, accustomed to getting up on time and familiar with how and when to get to school.

4) Read books together about what the first day of school will be like.

5) If you have any questions for your child’s teacher, ask them prior to the first day of school or later in the week. Teachers are often inundated in the first few days of school with a million parental queries.

6) Go through your child’s backpack every day together and make sure you read through and sign all paperwork that requires your consent.

Guide MIDDLE SCHOOL Of all K-12 transitions, the shift from elementary school to middle school is one of the most pronounced. Everything is different—from campus size to the number of students per class, student expectations and teacher accessibility. Perhaps the biggest change middle schoolers will navigate is learning the expectations that come from having multiple teachers instead of a primary one like they had in elementary school. And let’s not forget all of this is on the heels of navigating puberty and all that comes with it, including bigger-than-life emotions and an increased need for better hygiene. Middle school is no joke! Students entering this new chapter need the ongoing support of their parents, but they also need space to learn from mistakes and increase their own personal responsibility. It’s a tough line to tow for both parents and their children, and grace needs to be extended in both directions.

The transition from elementary to middle school is certainly a full package one: academic, social, emotional and

neurological. An elementary student’s brain is focused primarily on making connections to new information and absorbing it to become an automatic reference. A middle schooler’s brain has the space to start applying that information and asking complex questions about it.

Middle school teachers acknowledge this and will up the expectation ante accordingly. Although some children are adequately prepared for this academic transition, they still may flounder charting the waters of middle school social life—or vice versa. Accordingly, it may take more than the first day, week or month of school for kids to acclimate to all the new things they may face.

Ways to Prepare Your Child for Middle School 1) Teach your child to use a planner.

Instruct your child in how to map out her days, set goals and pace herself. This is a valuable life skill that will serve kids far beyond the school years.

2) Be an advocate and accountability partner. It’s not enough to instruct a child how to use a planner on the front end of the year. Follow up and make sure she is using it throughout the year. Encourage your student to email teachers directly with questions but you also be willing to participate in the conversation if the need arises.

3) Let them take credit. Consequences— both good and bad—should fall more on the student’s shoulders. Don’t make a habit of dropping forgotten work or lunches off if they forget. Let them learn to be more responsible.

4) Keep devices in public spaces. Know your child’s usernames and passwords and make a practice that all cell phones, tablets and laptops are both used and charged in a common place within the home.

Lauren Greenlee is a freelance writer and boymom of two middle schoolers, an elementary student and a newborn. She hails from Olathe.

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Homework Help!

Seven Tips to Ease Frustration & Boost Focus

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y the time Meira Mednick’s daughter was in third grade, homework time had morphed into lengthy, embattled evenings fraught with angry tears as frustrated daughter and frazzled mom squared off.

“My daughter began showing signs of difficulty in focus on homework in kindergarten. By second grade we were drowning,” Mednick says.

Mednick tried tactics like feeding her first grader an early dinner as soon as she got home from school and giving her time to relax before starting homework. Instead, Mednick says, “We ended up spending the next two years in a tug-of-war of time, and many tears were shed.”

Many parents can relate and dread the contentious homework hour, which can plunder an otherwise peaceful evening. For kiddos who struggle to tune out distractions and concentrate on the task at hand, sitting down to do homework doesn’t rank high on their list of priorities.

Thanks to the distractions of technology, the inability to focus is a growing problem in our culture. The number of children who are diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) also continues to rise. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that ADHD is “one of the most common chronic conditions of childhood.”

Experts agree: The ability to focus is crucial to achieving goals.

How can we create a more calming homework atmosphere that will enhance our child’s ability to concentrate and get the job done quickly—without the draining drama?

Work in short bursts.

Kids get overwhelmed with long worksheets and multiple assignments. Break homework into timed chunks. After a busy day at school, parents can typically expect their youngsters to focus on a task for one minute for each year of their age. That

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means a 6-year-old should be given a two- or three-minute break every six minutes.

“Expecting 30 minutes of homework out of a first grader isn’t realistic without breaks,” says Rachel Rudman, a pediatric occupational therapist.

The timed approach made a big difference for Mednick’s daughter.

“Previously, she would be discouraged even before picking up a pencil. By having a timed environment, she knew that she could tackle one interval at a time,” says Mednick, whose daughter is now an eighth grade honors student.

Create smart brain breaks.

During the timed breaks, engage your child in short activities that help reorganize and refocus the brain, like jumping jacks, playing with Legos or play dough, or snacking on crunchy carrots or pretzel rods or something chewy such as fruit leather.

Blowing up a balloon can also help ease frustrations. “Blowing forces the child to take deep breaths, which increases relaxation and focus,” Rudman says.

Avoid electronics, which can be harder to pull a child away from.

Strike a pose.

Yoga stretches and breathing exercises can calm and reenergize a tired body. Balancing poses, like bird or airplane, and a full body twist combine breathing and concentrated stretching movements.

“Balancing poses require a level of concentration that are a great way to strengthen those ‘focus muscles’ and create a body and mind that is strong and relaxed,” says Mariam Gates, the author of the new children’s book Good Night Yoga: A Pose-byPose Bedtime Story.

Guide Integrate natural elements.

Researchers at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign have found that including ornamental plants in a learning area can further enhance a child’s ability to concentrate and learn.

“And weirdly, the more involved the child is in the plant’s life or maintenance, the more learning goes on,” says Magalie Rene, a classroom design consultant, who works with parents and schools to create study spaces that foster learning.

Place a plant in your home’s study area and have your child water it as a transitionary cue before beginning homework, Rene suggests.

Chew gum.

Although the “no gum allowed” rule was grilled into our psyches when we were students, more schools now allow kids to chew gum during state assessments. The chewing movement has an organizing effect on the brain and can help kids focus.

Energize with aromatherapy.

Scent can have a powerful effect on our emotional wellbeing. Fill a spray bottle with water and two or three drops of peppermint, rosemary or citrus essential oil. Spray the scent around the study area to enhance concentration, focus and creativity.

Get organized.

Make a homework box either out of a large shoe box or plastic container. Have your child decorate it and store homework supplies, like pens, pencils, crayons, markers, scissors, paper, a glue stick and anything else he might need. “Having everything together creates an atmosphere of organization and success,” Rudman says.

If your youngster continues to struggle with focus and concentration, consult with your family’s pediatrician or a child psychologist.

As the mom of two active sons, freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines knows all too well the stress homework time can create in a family.

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hen your kids are at school, they’re at their desks most of the day and busy following the school’s schedule. Other than a short recess break or two, they don’t have a true creative outlet or even time to let loose and run free with their imaginations. That’s why after-school activities do wonders for child development. They can improve such things as a child’s social skills, sense of self and grades, to name just a few. Activities after school can also teach children important life skills such as teamwork and problem solving, improve kids’ relationships with adults other than their parents and give them a chance to be themselves without the structure of school. But how do you know which activity is best for your child?

Every child has a different personality, and each personality must be nurtured in its own special way. With the right after-school activity and proper guidance, children tend to stay out of mischief they might otherwise get into.

There are so many activities to choose from, you are bound to find just the right fit for your child’s interests. Here is just a sampling of the extracurricular activities available and what your child can gain from them. And remember, don’t give up on the idea of extracurriculars if what’s listed here doesn’t fit your child’s personality. Other options are out there, and you’re sure to find the perfect fit.

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Does your child love creating art?

Whether it’s painting, sketching or working with clay, your child will improve his creative skills. Clay, for example, can have a therapeutic effect and can keep your child occupied for hours. The more he is exposed to and works with creative things, the more his brain will begin developing the areas associated with creativity and problem solving, such as his sensory and motor skills.

GYMNASTICS

If your child loves to do somersaults, cartwheels and flips, this might just be the perfect activity. This extracurricular activity has something for every child, including running, jumping, flipping, rolling, swinging and using up all of their pent-up energy.

It’s a great way to stay in shape, and it helps young kids develop mentally and physically.

COOKING

Whether they’re running across a football field, basketball court, or running bases on a baseball field, child athletes will learn teamwork and release a lot of energy. There are many other options out there, too, such as tennis, softball, badminton, volleyball and golf that your child can try.

Some children naturally find their creativity in the kitchen, so a cooking class would be a great choice for your budding chef or baker! Not only is cooking an essential skill, but it will help children develop focus and creativity, as well as teach them useful skills such as how to handle sharp knives and other kitchen tools. They’ll learn along with others around their age about different ingredients and how to prepare healthy and balanced meals.

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Do you have a future ballerina in your house? Does your child enjoy hip hop or jazz dancing? Whatever their flair, you can find a plethora of dance classes available for kids: tap, jazz, ballet, hip hop, modern dance, lyrical, contemporary, ballroom and more. If your children opt for a more classical style of dance, they can learn about the culture of the dance style.

Dance, in general, requires discipline and endurance. It will help your child develop physically and mentally by building confidence and coordination.

MARTIAL ARTS

Although there are myriad styles of martial arts out there (e.g., Judo, Tae Kwon Do, Karate, Hapkido), all of them teach the same theme: discipline.

Martial arts teach kids (and adults) how to control their strength. They teach selfcontrol and self-discipline, and they help improve socialization skills and physical development in children.

Sewing may not be an activity most families think of, but the skill is a great one for kids to have. Sewing may be the skill that prepares aspiring fashionistas or designers for the future as they begin learning how to sew their own accessories, pillowcases, room décor and clothing. A sewing class will develop their creative abilities, build their self-esteem and give them a useful skill.

DRAMA

Is your child a budding theater actor or actress? If so, you might want to look into a drama club, the perfect venue for releasing dramatic energy. Drama club will help your child develop physical, artistic, social and public speaking skills, not to mention memory and improvisation skills.

CHESS

Once your child learns to play chess, there’s no going back. Chess club is a great extracurricular activity for kids. Many schools have chess clubs. If yours doesn’t,

check around town or start your own.

Through chess club, students learn patience, strategy and timing by playing the game.

Chess also hones skills in deduction, as a player tries to deduce an opponent’s strategy and beat it.

BOOKS

Do you have a bookworm in your house? If so, a book club would be a great after-school activity. There is much to gain from joining a book club. Not only will your kids get to socialize with other book lovers, but the books they read will teach a lot about the world and the way it works. It will also help hone their reading skills and vocabulary, which, in turn, will reflect on their writing skills.

MUSIC

Whether it’s a love for singing or playing an instrument, music offers a lot of freedom of expression that many children enjoy.

There are so many instruments for children to choose from, they’ll easily discover one they’ll find joy in playing. And music (both instrumental and vocal) carries with it a lot of history that children will learn about, especially with classical pieces!

Kids have an array of options for afterschool activities. Find out what your children’s interests are and what they might like to do. Once you know what they want, you can do some research to see who provides the classes you’re seeking. Be sure to take the time to visit places with your child while a class is in session to see whether the environment is stimulating and comfortable.

The places you choose to take your children are especially important—make sure they nurture their creativity rather than hamper it.

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Discovery Picture Book Series These bright board books are full of noisy fun perfect for toddlers to learn as they press buttons and engage with colorful photos and simple descriptive text. Series includes titles such as Rumble with the Dinosaurs, Roar at the Zoo, Oink on the Farm, Hammer at the Construction Site and many more. $12.99/each, ages 3-5, SilverDolphinBooks.com

Early Math101 To Go – Geometry & Problem Solving – Level 2 Contains everything you need to create a fun and hands-on experience for your child to learn problem-solving skills and logical thinking through play. In addition to activity booklet and cards, the set comes with tactile math items including pattern blocks, small pegs and lacing beads. $39.99, ages 4+, EdxEducation.com

Magna-Tiles: Animal Series These unique animals are ready for your child’s next adventure in creativity and learning.

Match animals to their footprints and build new and exciting environments. Compatible with all Magna-Tiles sets, featuring new characters, colors and patterns. Series includes Arctic Animals, Jungle Animals and Safari Animals. $39.99/each, ages 3+, MagnaTiles.com

That’s My Piano, Sir Travel through time with a charming little mouse who loves cheese and music as he learns more about Mozart. In addition to an illustrated story and introductory notes on the composer, this album features recordings of the narrated story and the performance of the composition “A Little Night Music.” $16.95, ages 5-8, TheSecretMountain.com

Ultimate Back-to-School Combo Includes all the durable, waterproof labels needed to keep your kids’ things out of the lost and found. Waterproof, dishwasher safe, microwave safe and laundry safe. $41.50, ages 3+, MabelsLabels.ca/en_CA/ultimate-back-to-school-combo.html

Sago Mini School A learning platform designed to build early reading, math, sciences and problem-solving through holistic, child-led activities. Monthly subscription will provide access to new activities. $7.99/per month, ages 2-5, SagoMini.com/school/

Math Wizard and the Magical Workshop An addition and subtraction adventure. Brew potions with dragon claws and magic sparkles to master place value on a magical quest. Then, add and subtract balloons to help dragons fly.

Part of the Osmo Math Series for first and second grade math curriculum learning. $59/each, ages 6-8, PlayOsmo.com

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Whitefield Academy is the premier Classical Christian School in the KC metro!

To learn more or to schedule a tour, please visit us at: www.whitefieldacademykc.org Contact our Admission Office at: 816-444-3567 or bjwilliams@whitefieldacademy.org

“Not only is the education superior, but the Whitefield community of teachers, parents, students, and school leadership has enriched our lives in so many ways. This school is a true gem!”

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BEFORE THE FIRST BELL RINGS the conversation now and keep it going all school year long with ongoing ice cream dates. To make the outing extra memorable, select a special restaurant for lunch—the perfect place for a treat! Some ideas for special occasions: Legends Outlets (LegendsShopping.com).

Get everything you need for heading back to school in one stop at Legends Outlets. With over 100 stores, you’ll find supplies, clothes, shoes and more. And, with 20+ restaurants to choose from, you can make a day of it.

Smitty’s Garage (EatAtTheGarage.com).

Smitty’s isn’t your typical burger joint. They offer everything from bison to turkey to angus beef burgers and vegan patties. And their fries? The house cut fries served with a variety of dipping sauces and homemade chips are favorites. Kids will love finishing off their meal with a Bomb Pop! Fritz’s Railroad Restaurant (913.375.1000).

This casual restaurant is one your children will not forget! Model trains travel around the perimeter of the restaurant and deliver burgers and fries to your table.

Before the First Day for Elementary Best Back-to-School Photos …

When I Grow Up Create an album for your child capturing not just the smiles of baby teeth, missing teeth, braces and grown-up pearly whites … capture who they are! Take a photo of your child against a backdrop with the child on the far right of the backdrop (a sheet or solid wall is ideal). Then, using your favorite photo editing software, add text to the left of the image answering basic questions about your child: name, age, favorite color, favorite hobby, what he wants to be when he grows up, favorite pet, nickname, favorite school

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subject, etc. Do this again next year, and the next … watch every year as your child’s dreams change from growing up to become a fire fighter to a veterinarian, a doctor to a ballerina, a movie star to an astronaut.

Back-to-School Shopping & Lunch … Just You & Me Moms often find the task of school shopping to be a daunting chore, but it can be a great chance for one-on-one time with your child.

Schedule dates with each child individually and go to lunch, buy that special outfit, get a new haircut and do something fun. Start

What does your child enjoy most in this world—and can you make it come true? You will find many great theme ideas on KCParent.com, but a few of our favorites are especially fun in August!

For many parents, back to school is a time to reminisce about their own childhoods.

One of our favorite attractions in Kansas City for sharing childhood memories is the National Museum of Toys & Miniatures (ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org). Remember Raggedy Ann? Electric trains? Your first Barbie? Playing marbles? The magic of childhood comes to life as children and adults explore more than 30 rooms of toys and treasures.

Guide with the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum to celebrate part of Kansas City’s rich baseball history. Enjoy the casual, fun atmosphere at Legends Field where they offer many special events throughout the season.

Make the most of your time with your children … teens and tweens often spend more time with peers than parents, but keeping communication open is important,

and having fun together is the best way to do just that!

Learn to wakeboard at KC Watersports!

KC Watersports (KCWatersprots.com) is the best wakeboarding destination in the Midwest. For beginners, they offer lessons to perfect new skills. For experts, the challenging set of rails, ramps and sliders tops those anywhere else in the United States. For the family, they have a beach— with shade—where you can relax and watch the kids ride, and the “Snack Shack” keeps everyone fueled throughout the day. The Pro Shop is well stocked with the best gear in the industry, and rental equipment is also available. This is a terrific way to enjoy some fun in the sun!

Head to Chicken N Pickle (ChickenNPickle.com). This is a great community hangout. Enjoy casual dining, pickleball courts, yard games and a super chill environment for a night out. They offer indoor and outdoor courts, so you can enjoy the fun atmosphere in any weather.

Finish summer with a night at the ballgame! Go cheer on the KC Monarchs (MonarchsBaseball.com). The Monarchs brand hasn’t had a home field since 1965, but the team is rebranding in a partnership

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Cosmosphere

Chicken N Pickle

Cosmosphere (Cosmo.org) is an out-of-this world museum inspiring future astronauts, pilots and those with an interest in outer space. Boasting exhibits, planetarium showings, science demonstrations and attractions, Cosmosphere is an all-day or multiple-day attraction. The museum is home to the largest combined collection of U.S. and Russian space artifacts in the world. The exhibits take visitors through the history of the Cold War and up through the modern era and include both the history and science of the space program. Sputnik I and II, space suits, rockets, a moon rock and more than 100 artifacts tell the story of the astronauts’ experience, how movies have been made and the history of the American space program. Visitors may even experience what it is like to fly on the naviGATOR Simulator.

In addition to spacecraft and exhibits, the museum offers several shows. This interactive museum tells the story of space in a way that is captivating and inspiring.

Before the First Day for Tweens & Teens

Still need ideas? Brainstorm together.

What has been on your bucket list all summer? Visit KCParent.com and click “Going Places” to find a ton of searchable ideas for fun. Axe throwing, laser tag, escape rooms, museums, waterparks, pools, indoor ice-skating, roller-skating, bowling, arts and crafts attractions and more are just waiting to be discovered. Pursue your favorite hobby or interest together and support local businesses on your next adventure.

Then, consider adding a monthly parent/ child night out to the calendar during the school year!

Kristina Light still remembers enjoying sopapillas at Annie’s Santa Fe with her grandmother on their back-to-school shopping dates when she was growing up.

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“Bill?” Sandi stood beside me as I worked on the computer. “You’re going to have to talk to Ian. He doesn’t want to go to school this year.”

I kept the groan out of my throat. “He listens better to you than me. You should.”

“Nope.” Sandi crossed her arms. “Only you can handle this.”

“All right.” I got up with a sigh. “Tell him to meet me in the car. We’re going to get ice cream.” I’d done this before, and I knew a treat made the talk a little easier.

Twenty minutes later, Ian and I sat in the car with cups of ice cream in our hands. “All right, bub, what’s up? Your mom says you don’t want to go back to school.”

Ian took another spoonful. “She’s right.”

“Why not? You used to love school.

New supplies, new clothes and seeing your friends again.”

“I’m 16 and I know enough. I don’t need to go to school anymore. Besides, I can stay up late, sleep late and go outside whenever I want.”

“Do you remember,” I took another sip of my shake, “the cartoon where the kid wished for his birthday every day, and his wish came true? How’d that end?”

Ian shifted in his seat. “He got bored, doing the same thing day after day.”

“Yep. But school is more than doing something different, even more than learning enough to get a good job.” I pointed toward a young lady, about his age, who’d just left the ice cream shop. “Without enough knowledge, how will you be able to talk with someone you’d like to get to know?”

Ian glanced at her as she got into a car. “I didn’t think of that.” He said nothing for a moment. “Can I have a new backpack?”

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Plunge into a fun, creative environment at Under the Sea Adventure through Sept. 6 at Crown Center. Kids can explore the deep blue sea.

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Visit Wonders of Wildlife in Springfield, MO, for a Jawsome Journey Aug. 9-22. Enjoy experiences and shark-themed adventures. Check for schedule at WondersOfWildlife.org.

On Aug. 8 enjoy Evening in the Park at Theatre in the Park. Bring blankets, chairs, a ball or Frisbee, and enjoy music and a movie.

Food available for purchase.

JCPRD.com

The Missouri State Fair runs Aug. 12-22 at the Missouri State Fairgrounds.

It features livestock shows, a carnival, competitive exhibits and more!

MOStateFair.com

Light Up the Lawn series returns to the lawn of Nerman Museum on Aug. 20 & 27. See various artists perform in an outdoor setting.

JCCC.edu/midwesttrust-center

1 Sunday Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org Plaza Live! Noon, Country Club Plaza. Enjoy live music in Penguin Courtyard, across from Brio at Nichols Road & Pennsylvania Avenue.

CountryClubPlaza.com Friends of the Library Book Sale 1:00, Olathe Indian Creek Library. Choose from adult, teen and children’s books, DVDs and CDs all priced for $1 or less! OlatheLibrary.org Train Ride 2:00, Belton, Grandview and KC Railroad. Take a 40-minute trip along the tracks of the Frisco Railroad and enjoy a fun afternoon!

Prepurchase tickets at KCRRM.org.

Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park (Blue Springs). Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free live musical entertainment.

Concessions available. BlueSpringsGov.com

2 Monday Sensory-Friendly Days 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Limited-occupancy session for kids with sensory processing differences and autism spectrum disorders. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Visit Legoland 9:30, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Dragons Love Tacos 10:00 & Noon, Coterie Theatre. A hilarious, dance-filled journey into the field of Dragonology has all the ingredients for a fantastic time! TheCoterie.org

Under the Sea Adventure 10:00, Crown Center. Plunge into a fun, creative environment in this free exhibit where kids can explore the deep blue sea. CrownCenter.com

Movies in the Park 8:30, Theatre in the Park.

Bring blankets, lawn chairs and snacks and enjoy a movie in the great outdoors. Tonight’s show: Tangled. TheatreInThePark.org

Grand Carnivale Thru Aug 8, Worlds of Fun. Authentic entertainment, delicious tastes and sips, lively games, unique crafts and more!

WorldsOfFun.com

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3 Tuesday FREE Admission Day 9:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Visit the Overland Park Arboretum & Botanical Gardens for free. OPKansas.org

Toddler Town on Tour 9:00, Clothier Park.

Explore playgrounds and enjoy crafts at parks through the City of Independence. Ages 2-9.

816.325.7114 Summer Movie Clubhouse 9:30, Cinemark Merriam. Enjoy safe and exciting big-screen entertainment. This week’s movie is Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs. Cinemark.com

Festival of Butterflies Thru Aug 8, Powell Gardens. Head to the gardens to see caterpillars, butterflies and moths and learn about the plants that sustain them.

PowellGardens.org

Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center. Hear a story from long ago read by a guest from the 1950s All-Electric House! Craft included. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

Auschwitz. Not Long Ago. Not Far Away.

10:00, Union Station. Exhibit features more than 700 original objects, 400 photographs and hundreds of artifacts. UnionStation.org

Pop in at the Park 11:00, Montgall Park. Find the Kansas City Public Library in the park!

Register for summer reading and enjoy handson learning activities. KCLibrary.org

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Missouri State Fair Thru Aug 22, Missouri State Fairgrounds. The 400-acre fairground in Sedalia features livestock shows, competitive exhibits and more! MOStateFair.com

Time Travelers 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Kids will enjoy hands-on, historic fun on Tuesdays and Thursdays at Shawnee Town. ShawneeTown.org Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

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6 Friday Tax-Free Weekend Thru Sunday, various locations. Take advantage of Missouri’s tax-free weekend and shop for back-to-school deals.

Friday Night Sound Bites 5:30, Lenexa Public Market. Enjoy live music and bites from a food truck or one of the Public Market restaurants.

LenexaPublicMarket.com

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Read a book then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack.

CeramicCafeKC.com

First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Art galleries, retailers and other participating art venues located in the Crossroads Art District showcase art. KCCrossroads.org

Food Truck Fridays 11:30, Grandview Historical Depot Museum. Enjoy a variety of tastes just outside City Hall every Friday during lunchtime.

Grandview.org

Outdoor Movie Series 7:30, First Baptist Church Weston. Enjoy hotdogs, chips, water and popcorn. Show starts at sundown.

FBCWestonMo.com

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Nature Story Time 10:00, George Owens Nature Park. Enjoy great stories and outside adventures. Dress down and wear old tennis shoes. Ages 3-8. Pre-reg at 816.325.7115.

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Movie in the Park Dusk, Kenagy Park (Raytown). Bring the family to enjoy a movie under the stars. Visit website for tonight’s movie. UnctionMedia.com/rp2019

Downtown Makers Market 10:00, Downtown Overland Park. Shop from inspired handmade and vintage vendors and enjoy local live music.

VisitOverlandPark.com

Disney’s Newsies 8:30, Theatre in the Park.

Newies is a Tony Award-winning, high energy, tour-de-force of song and dance fan favorites.

TheatreInThePark.org

Parkville Cruise Night 4:00, Farmers Market Lot (Parkville). Hang out with friends, listen to music and come see all the cars while also exploring downtown Parkville. ParkvilleMo.org

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Between the Bricks 7:00, Independence Square. Come listen to live music outdoors on the patio at Between the Bricks at the Courthouse Exchange. IndepSquare.com

Yoga on the Farm 8:00, Atkins-Johnson Farm.

Stretch, breathe and relax with yoga classes held outdoors at the beautiful and historic museum. Pre-reg at 816.423.4200.

Family Fishing Fun 9:00, George Owens Nature Park. Poles, bait, expert advice and fish. Fun for all your family and all free.

GeorgeOwensNaturePark.org

8 Sunday Train Rides 10:00, KC Northern Railroad. Fun for the entire family. Ride a park train from the ’50s and ’60s. Fare is 75 cents per ride. KCNRR.com

Missouri Trivia Day 9:00, Fort Osage. Compete with family and friends and test your Show-Me State knowledge. MakeYourDayHere.com

Imagineers Club 1:00, St Joseph Museum.

Explore topics of architecture, wonder, nature, transportation and culture. Pre-reg at StJosephMuseum.org.

Summer Workout Series 9:30, Legends Outlets. Open to all ages and fitness levels.

Enjoy a workout class on the Lawn. Free.

LegendsShopping.com

Evening in the Park 6:00, Theatre in the Park.

Bring blankets, chairs, a ball or Frisbee, and enjoy music and a movie. Food available for purchase. JCPRD.com

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Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park (Blue Springs). Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free live musical entertainment.

Concessions available. BlueSpringsGov.com

9 Monday Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com Koala Bears 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Meet koalas Chuckels and Thackory! These two cuddly marsupials are visiting the zoo through November! KansasCityZoo.org Jawsome Journey Thru Aug 21, Wonders of Wildlife (Springfield, MO). Enjoy “jawsome” experiences and shark-themed adventures. Visit WondersOfWildlife.org for schedule.

10 Tuesday Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com Under the Sea Adventure 10:00, Crown Center. Plunge into a fun, creative environment in this free exhibit where kids can explore the deep blue sea. CrownCenter.com

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Discover Nature: Naturalist Hour 2:00, Burr Oak Woods. Go on an adventure with a naturalist to make amazing discoveries as you explore on a trail. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

Nature Tots 10:00, Baker University Wetlands & Discovery Center (Lawrence). Kids 0-5 enjoy a story, walk and craft or activity. Pre-reg at 785.594.4700.

Food Truck Summer Series 5:00, Turner Recreation Commission. Join on Thursdays for food trucks, music, yard games and fun!

TurnerRecreation.org

Missouri 2021 Ice Cream Social 5:00, Lee’s Summit Historical Museum. Celebrate Missouri’s 200th anniversary with ice cream trucks, live music and more! 816.287.4477

Babysitting and CPR Class 10:00, Olathe Indian Creek Library. Class where you’ll learn how to handle emergencies when caring for young children. Pre-reg at OlatheLibrary.org.

Moonlight Movie Night 9:00, Independence Square. Come early to shop or get dinner and then grab lawn chairs for a movie outside the Pharaoh Cinema. 816.252.0344

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Farmers Market 7:30, English Landing Park.

Shop for assorted fruits and vegetables, meats, farm fresh eggs, local honey, jams, jellies and more! ParkvilleFarmersMarket.com

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

CeramicCafeKC.com

Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

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Toddler Town on Tour 9:00, Country Club Park.

Explore playgrounds and enjoy crafts at parks through the City of Independence. Ages 2-9.

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Pop in at the Park 11:00, Gillham Park. Find the Kansas City Public Library in the park! Register for summer reading and enjoy hands-on learning activities. KCLibrary.org

Grow a Reader Virtual Story Time 10:00, MCPL. Join library staff for story times for your littles—and maybe for you too! We will have stories and songs. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Missouri State Fair Thru Aug 22, Missouri State Fairgrounds. The 400-acre fairground in Sedalia features livestock shows, competitive exhibits and more! MOStateFair.com

Olathe Live! 10:00, Olathe Community Center.

Come sing, dance and play in the band during this fun, interactive show with Mr Stinky Feet!

OlatheKS.org

Farmers Market 4:00, Belton Memorial Park.

Shop for fresh produce, home baked goods and homemade items from local vendors.

BeltonParks.org

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Hummingbirds 101! 10:30, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Learn about the native plants, sweet nectar and insects loved by this tiny creature. Pre-reg at 816.759.7300.

Food Truck Fridays 11:30, Grandview Historical Depot Museum. Enjoy a variety of tastes just outside City Hall every Friday during lunchtime.

Grandview.org Friday in the Park 11:30, Macken Park (Festival Shelter). Enjoy free summer performances by local bands. NKC.org

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Summer Concert Series 7:00, Ward Parkway Center. Relax on the lawn (bring a lawn chair) or enjoy the show from the outdoor patios of various restaurants. WardParkwayCenter.com Live at the Legends 5:30, Legends Outlets. Join for a wide variety of live, local music performances on the Lawn. LegendsShopping.com Sounds on the Square 7:00, Linden Square.

Bring lawn chairs and blankets and enjoy a family-friendly concert. Picnics allowed.

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Movies in the Park 8:30, Theatre in the Park.

Bring blankets, lawn chairs and snacks and enjoy a movie in the great outdoors. Tonight’s show: The Incredibles. TheatreInThePark.org

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Newsies Thru Aug 15, Gladstone Amphitheatre.

Gladstone Theatre in the Park is the only free theater in Kansas City! Bring the family to enjoy Newsies. GladstoneTIP.com

14 Saturday Kill Creek Park Triathlon 7:30, Kill Creek Park. This triathlon is the perfect race for both the new and experienced triathlete. Visit JCPRD.com/KCPtri to register.

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Alphapointe Sailing 9:00, Lake Jacomo Marina. Join for a day of adaptive sailing on Lake Jacomo! For details and to register call 816.237.2060.

Kids Club 10:00, Colonial Gardens. Kids enjoy fun activities while you shop at Colonial Gardens or savor a coffee at the Bean Counter.

Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Dog Days of Summer 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Bring your dog to Shawnee Town for contests, prizes and visits with local vets, groomers and trainers. ShawneeTown.org Community Orchestra Concert 7:00, Community Covenant Church. The Lenexa Community Orchestra performs free concerts for the community. Lenexa.com Raytown Live 7:00, Town Center Greenspace.

Kick up your heels and have some familyfriendly fun while enjoying live music.

Raytown.Live Overnight Fishing 11:00, Shawnee Misison Park. Grab your fishing pole and lantern for overnight fishing. Park police officers on duty throughout the night. JCPRD.com

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1. CLIMB THE WALLS IBEX (IBEXClimbing Gym.com) is the ultimate indoor rock wall gym in Blue Springs and offers open gym times with day passes or memberships.

The gym features more than 24,000 square feet of climbing walls and fitness areas.

From tall walls, bouldering and moon board, to pull-up bars, bands and weights—they have it all.

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2. IN THE JUNGLE, THE MIGHTY JUNGLE Burrus Old Mill Park (112 NW Woods Chapel Rd.) is one of the city’s oldest parks, but it recently underwent a modern update, making it one of the most popular parks in eastern Jackson County.

The jungle-themed park boasts a splash pad, skate park, nature trail, and a playground with ropes obstacles, slides and more.

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4. GO ON AN ART HUNT

Colonial Gardens (27610 E. Wyatt Rd., Colonial GardensKC.com) is a garden center and agritourism destination where you will find an abundance of plants, flowers and trees for all your gardening and landscaping needs.

Colonial Gardens provides nursery and greenhouse products for every gardener.

They also offer workshops, classes and programs throughout the year.

Like many local suburbs, the city of Blue Springs is home to public art. The art is inspired by nature, history, sentiment and whimsy. Our personal favorite is Sundance at Rotary Park in Railroad Lake. The brightly colored modern sculptures are fun, playful and iconic to the city. Discover all of the local pieces using the map at BlueSprings Gov.com.

5. COME FACETO-FIN WITH NATIVE FISH Burr Oak Woods Nature Center (1401 NW Park Rd., MDC.mo.gov) is home to a life-size animatronic Smokey Bear who teaches children fire safety and a large aquarium of Missouri’s freshwater fish. You’ll also find an indoor naturethemed playground, hands-on exhibit and many wildlife displays. The conservation area is also home to many nature trails and picnic areas.

6. A DAY AT THE LAKE Blue Springs Lake (1500 NE Bowlin Rd., 816.503.4870) is home to a freshwater lake, a swim beach and a marina where visitors may rent pontoon, bass and fishing boats.

The site is a great place for fishing, and the lake is surrounded by many hiking trails.

Pack a picnic, grab the fishing rod and enjoy a day at the lake.

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Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

Missouri State Fair Thru Aug 22, Missouri State Fairgrounds. The 400-acre fairground in Sedalia features livestock shows, competitive exhibits and more! MOStateFair.com

Plaza Live! Noon, Country Club Plaza. Enjoy live music in Penguin Courtyard, across from Brio at Nichols Road & Pennsylvania Avenue.

CountryClubPlaza.com

Farmers Market 8:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit.

Purchase a variety of fresh produce, plants, meat, baked goods, handmade crafts and more.

DowntownLS.org

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

Toddler Town on Tour 9:00, Mill Creek Park.

Explore playgrounds and enjoy crafts at parks through the City of Independence. Ages 2-9.

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Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com

16 Monday Visit Legoland 9:30, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Koala Bears 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Meet koalas Chuckels and Thackory! These two cuddly marsupials are visiting the zoo through November! KansasCityZoo.org Jawsome Journey Thru Aug 21, Wonders of Wildlife (Springfield, MO). Enjoy “jawsome” experiences and shark-themed adventures.

Visit WondersOfWildlife.org for schedule.

17 Tuesday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com Auschwitz. Not Long Ago. Not Far Away.

10:00, Union Station. Exhibit features more than 700 original objects, 400 photographs and hundreds of artifacts. UnionStation.org Tots on Tuesday 10:30, Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own art.

KemperArt.org Discover Nature: Naturalist Hour 2:00, Burr Oak Woods. Go on an adventure with a naturalist to make amazing discoveries as you explore on a trail. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

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Third Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station Arts District. Tour the art galleries. View live performances and visit artists on the sidewalks.

EnglewoodStation.com From Steam to STEAM Festival Today & tomorrow, St Joseph CVB. Family-friendly event with STEAM activities from chalk art to robot races. StJoeArts.org Ethnic Entertainment Review Thru Sunday, Swope Park. Bring chairs and a picnic and enjoy dance and musical performances. EECKC.org Sounds on the Square 7:00, Linden Square.

Bring lawn chairs and blankets and enjoy a family-friendly concert. Picnics allowed.

LindenSquare.info Light Up the Lawn 8:30, Nerman Museum.

During this fun outdoor concert, Kelley Hunt performs favorites as well as new material.

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Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

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Movies in the Park 8:30, Theatre in the Park.

Bring blankets, lawn chairs and snacks and enjoy a movie in the great outdoors. Tonight’s show: Up. TheatreInThePark.org

Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children. 816.235.8000

Outdoor Movie on the Lawn 8:30, Shawnee Indian Mission. Bring a blanket or lawn chairs and see Raya and the Last Dragon! 913.262.0867

Moonlight Market 4:00, Shawnee City Hall.

Grab goods from the farmers market, check out local restaurants, breweries and shops and enjoy live music! CityOfShawnee.org Summer of Music 7:00, Hawk Ridge Amphitheater (Raymore). Bring a chair and a picnic basket and enjoy an evening of live music! Raymore.com/arts

20 Friday Food Truck Friday 11:00, Union Cemetery Park. Enjoy a tasty and affordable lunch in one of downtown’s most peaceful park spaces.

816.513.7500 Local Life Today & tomorrow, downtown Overland Park. Explore locally owned businesses, activities and more. Head to DowntownOP.org for details about this month’s theme.

Parkville Days Thru Sunday, Downtown Parkville. Browse and enjoy arts and crafts.

Enjoy retail, food, specialty booths and carnival rides. ParkvilleMo.org BBQ & Fly-In on the River Thru Sunday, Excelsior Springs Memorial Airport. Great music, tournaments and fun for the entire family.

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21 Saturday Yoga on the Farm 8:00, Atkins-Johnson Farm.

Stretch, breathe and relax with yoga classes held outdoors at the beautiful and historic museum. Pre-reg at 816.423.4200.

Butterfly and Bubble Release 9:00, Fun Farm. Join us in releasing hundreds of beautiful butterflies and bubbles on the farm.

FunFarmPumpkinPatch.com Kids Triathlon 9:00, Kill Creek Park. Youth compete in a race against similar age groups, completing swim, bike and run portions. For more info, visit JCPRD.com/kidstri.

Maker Fair 1855 9:00, Missouri Town 1855.

Wander the Victorian community and explore the trades, crafts and arts of 1855.

MakeYourDayHere.com Summer Workout Series 9:30, Legends Outlets. Open to all ages and fitness levels.

Enjoy a workout class on the Lawn. Free.

LegendsShopping.com Summer Fest 10:00, Colonial Gardens.

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PNC kidFEST Aug. 28, Science City. Family-friendly day full of science play for our youngest explorers. Enjoy hands-on learning fun. ScienceCity.UnionStation.org

Little Acorns 10:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Join for a journey through forests, streams and other magical places as we read select books. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov.

Nature Story Time 11:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Join for music, movement and adventures outdoors hosted by Stepping Stones KC. Pre-reg at 913.685.3604.

Princess Tea Party 2:00, Vesper Hall (Blue Springs). Tea tastings, snacks goodie bags, crafts, games, princess sing-alongs, stories and more! Pre-reg at 816.228.0137.

Family Fun Concert 6:00, Ironwoods Park Amphitheatre. Sing-along in both English and Spanish with the duo Andrés and Christina.

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22 Sunday Train Rides 10:00, KC Northern Railroad. Fun for the entire family. Ride a park train from the ’50s and ’60s. Fare is 75 cents per ride. KCNRR.com

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park (Blue Springs). Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free live musical entertainment.

Concessions available. BlueSpringsGov.com

23 Monday Free Music Lessons Thru Aug 27, Music House.

Reserve your spot for a free lesson with guitar, piano, drums, voice and more. Hurry before they are gone! 913.562.4112 Apple Picking 9:00, Weston Orchard. Check out the website and social media for details on apple picking season and bring the family out for fun! OrchardWeston.com Visit Legoland 9:30, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

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Koala Bears 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Meet koalas Chuckels and Thackory! These two cuddly marsupials are visiting the zoo through November! KansasCityZoo.org Under the Sea Adventure 10:00, Crown Center. Plunge into a fun, creative environment in this free exhibit where kids can explore the deep blue sea.

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Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com

Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

816.235.8000

Under the Sea Adventure 10:00, Crown Center. Plunge into a fun, creative environment in this free exhibit where kids can explore the deep blue sea. CrownCenter.com

Tiblow Days Thru Saturday, Bonner Springs.

Community event includes a parade, musical entertainment, barbecue competition, car show and more! BSEDWChamber.org

Preschool Tropical Luau 10:00, Meadowbrook Park. Kids ages 2-5 with an adult will enjoy flowers and fun, including a snack and takehome craft. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Read a book, then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack.

CeramicCafeKC.com Fourth Fridays Art Walk 5:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Enjoy showcases from local artists and live music, along with shops and restaurants.

DowntownLS.org

Discover Nature: Naturalist Hour 2:00, Burr Oak Woods. Go on an adventure with a naturalist to make amazing discoveries as you explore on a trail. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

Farmers Market 4:00, Belton Memorial Park.

Shop for fresh produce, home baked goods and homemade items from local vendors.

BeltonParks.org

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Farmers Market 7:30, English Landing Park.

Shop for assorted fruits and vegetables, meats, farm fresh eggs, local honey, jams, jellies and more! ParkvilleFarmersMarket.com

Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Overland Park).

A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Kids Night Out 6:00, Shawnee Civic Centre.

Enjoy a night out while the kids have some fun!

Dinner, games, crafts, movie and more! Pre-reg at 913.631.5200.

Jammin’ on the Green 7:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Sit back and relax under the stars during the high-energy live performance of the Grand Marquis. ShawneeTown.org

Grow a Reader Virtual Story Time 10:00, MCPL. Join library staff for story times for your littles— and maybe for you too! We will have stories and songs. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Light Up the Lawn 8:30, Nerman Museum. See the Rainmakers perform their unique brand of Missouri rock ‘n’ roll. JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center

Friday Night Sound Bites 5:30, Lenexa Public Market. Enjoy live music and bites from a food truck or one of the Public Market restaurants.

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28 Saturday Apple Picking 9:00, Fun Farm. Fall and apple picking go together like apples in a pie!

Add on to your ticket and collect apples.

FunFarmPumpkinPatch.com Yoga at the Amp 9:00, Grandview Amphitheater. Grab your yoga mat and water and enjoy a peaceful outdoor session. All skill levels welcome. 816.316.4888 PNC kidFEST 10:00, Science City. Familyfriendly day full of science play for our youngest explorers. Enjoy hands-on learning fun.

ScienceCity.UnionStation.org Arts al Fresco 10:00, KCYA. Family arts festival includes performance, mini workshops, classes, face painting, photo booth, food trucks and more! KCYA.org Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org Main Street Cruise Night 3:00, Belton Main Street. Check out all the cool classic rides parked on Main Street. Enjoy shopping and good food and drinks, too! BeltonParks.org

Summer Concert Series 7:00, Ward Parkway Center. Relax on the lawn (bring a lawn chair) or enjoy the show from the outdoor patios of various restaurants. WardParkwayCenter.com

Under the Sea Adventure 10:00, Crown Center. Plunge into a fun, creative environment in this free exhibit where kids can explore the deep blue sea. CrownCenter.com

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Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com

Plaza Live! Noon, Country Club Plaza. Enjoy live music in Penguin Courtyard, across from Brio at Nichols Road & Pennsylvania Avenue.

CountryClubPlaza.com Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Train Ride 2:00, Belton, Grandview and KC Railroad. Take a 40-minute trip along the tracks of the Frisco Railroad and enjoy a fun afternoon! Pre-purchase tickets at KCRRM.org Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park (Blue Springs). Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free live musical entertainment.

Concessions available. BlueSpringsGov.com

30 Monday Visit Legoland 9:30, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

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31 Tuesday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Koala Bears 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Meet koalas Chuckels and Thackory! These two cuddly marsupials are visiting the zoo through November! KansasCityZoo.org Auschwitz. Not Long Ago. Not Far Away.

10:00, Union Station. Exhibit features more than 700 original objects, 400 photographs and hundreds of artifacts. UnionStation.org Discover Nature Urban Hike 5:30, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Put on your walking shoes as we explore one of KC’s iconic neighborhoods. Ages 16+. Pre-reg at MDC.gov.

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Wiggle Your Toes Day We can’t think of a better place to wiggle your toes than a local beach. Search “beaches” and “boating” on KCParent.com for tips to visit our local lake beaches.

AUGUST 19 Aviation Day Take a daytrip to Atchison,

AUGUST 9 Book Lovers Day Local bibliophiles are

AUGUST 1 Friendship Day Make plans to spend time with your best friend.

Visit a new park, catch a movie, try a new restaurant or enjoy a favorite activity together.

spoiled with so many terrific local libraries thanks to Mid-Continent Public Libraries, Johnson County Libraries, Kansas City Kansas Libraries and more. Take time to visit a new library and discover what makes it special.

AUGUST 12 World Elephant Day Head to the Kansas City Zoo to visit the spectacular Elephant Expedition where our resident pachyderms enjoy playing in water, basking in the summer sun and general pampering courtesy of our zookeepers.

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KS, childhood home of America’s most famous female aviator, Amelia Earhart. Tour her childhood home and learn about her adventurous spirit.

Ice Cream Sandwich Day Try a signature ice cream sandwich at Cookies and Creamery. Delicious, locally made ice cream sandwiched between two homemade cookies make this is the perfect summer treat.

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Dog Day Great Plains SPCA is a no kill animal shelter. They offer volunteer opportunities for families of teens 13-15 with a parent or those 16 and up individually.

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Toasted Marshmallow Day Invite neighbors over to enjoy a night around the firepit. Roast marshmallows, share stories and laughs and make some new friends.

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