Markham Economist & Sun, September 28, 2017

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Family of teen who died by suicide hopes his legacy leads to more art, less shame KIM ZARZOUR kzarzour@yrmg.com "The pressure to be perfect, it’s too much." Seventeen-year-old James Peek - a funny, popular, athletic young man - confessed to his mom, late one evening 18 years ago, that he was tired of always feeling like he had to strive for perfection. Four months later, the Richmond Hill teen killed himself by suicide. A letter told his close-knit family of the pressure he felt in school, relationships, life. Before he ended his life, he had first completed his homework. What kind of hidden pressure, what kind of inner incessant drive, made him push himself so hard, struggle so unbearably? What stopped him from reaching out for help? These are questions that plague his family and his younger sister, Michelle, in particular. What burdens did he secretly carry, she wonders, and how many more of us, like James, yearn for space to be imperfect, to make mistakes and still feel worthy, to say "I need help" without shame or apology? For 17 years after James’ death, the family held a golf tournament in his memory. At the James Peek Memorial Golf Tournament, James’ parents spoke openly about the pain they were feeling, about the need for mental health, about the need to reach out and help. l See HOW page 18

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Michelle Peek, seen here with her brothers, Sean (middle) and Ryan, holds a picture of her late brother James who died of suicide 18 years ago. In memory of her brother, Michelle has launched a new program, Art Not Shame, aimed at helping young people.

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