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October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month Can we create the community mothers need and yearn for? by Marilou Coombe
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Letter from the Editor
Alone we are strong… together we are stronger ~ Walter Payton
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t’s time to remember the joy of coming together to support one another, and the power that comes when women unite and pool their skills, knowledge and resources together. So much good is brought to the world when we do. For so long, we have been lost in a place of separation, competition and comparing with each other, where women would try and tear each other down. We can see how this has eroded not only our lives but also our society. Women are the glue of this world, and it has been slowly falling apart due to women isolating themselves, fearing other
women, and fearing themselves. We have a choice to unite, to come together with the same intention and purpose of creating a better life, business and world for our children, family, friends and ourselves. We have the power to change the way we interact with one another, to learn to love other women as we re-learn to love ourselves. Let these articles within these pages inspire you, motivate you and empower you to find your community. Together our: Lives become stronger Our families become stronger.
Our businesses become stronger. Our communities become stronger. The World becomes stronger. Let the strength, love and courage of all women heal our lives, and together we can create a world where we are all stronger together. So be brave, beautiful woman and let’s do life, motherhood and business together.
So much love, Tam x
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WHEN WOMEN UNITE, MAGIC HAPPENS Briana Seaton
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GIVING A VOICE TO RURAL WOMEN
CAN WE CREATE THE COMMUNITY MOTHERS NEED AND YEARN FOR?
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THE REFORM OF THE MUMPRENEUR Renee Mayne
18 TOP GROUPS TO JOIN 25 WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER Robyn C Ellerbock
27 INTERNATIONAL PREGNANCY AND INFANT LOSS AWARENESS 29 EMBRACING A DIFFERENT YOU Kelly Maree
31 COMITTED TO CHAMPIONING CHANGE Samantha Payne
33 MY LOSS IS HELPING ME TO HELP OTHERS. Taneal Perry
35 HOW I FOUND MY GRACE IN GRIEF, AND MAGIC IN THE TRAGIC? Georgia Hansen
38 WHEN WE ARE STRONG; WE ARE STRONG Shaylene Harth
40 A TEAM OF CHAMPIONS WILL NEVER BEAT A CHAMPION TEAM Suzette Thomas
42 THE POWER OF WOMEN COMING TOGETHER Tammie Pike
44 OUR TOP 10 PODCASTS 46 TRACY VERDUGO 49 WORLD FOOD DAY 50 BEET RASPBERRY WAFFLES (VEGAN & GLUTEN-FREE) WITH COCONUT CREAM TOPPING RECIPE Aarika Chilson
Contributors Amy Walker Briana Seaton Denise Duffield-Thomas Kelly Maree Marilou Coombe Nyree Johnson Renee Mayne Robyn C Ellerbock Shaylene Harth Suzette Thomas Tracy Verdugo Aarika Chilson Rachelle Panitz Taneal Perry Georgia Hansen Samantha Payne Taneal Perry Design Nebojsa Dolovacki
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When Women Unite,
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Community and community networks like WiNE are the key to sharing our stories, learning from one another to grow in our acceptance of differences.
I AM BEAUTIFULLY FLAWED. I CAN SAY THAT WITH CONFIDENCE NOW, BUT IT WASN’T EASY COMING TO THIS REALISATION.
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eing able to truly embrace oneself in a society where acceptance is based around status, race, religion, culture, wealth, and so many other perceived factors, it was never going to be easy. I have learnt to hear, acknowledge, thank and ignore the inner voice that tells me “I’m not enough”. I am perfectly imperfect, and more than enough, just the way I am. Mentors and true friends support and lift me up so I can internally help lift myself, and this is likewise my passion for empowering others, especially women. Because when women unite, it’s magic, and when a community of women come together, the power of unity is created. As a mum, I strive daily to be a role model for my children by living and teaching equality and equity. It is important to me that they have a good sense and acceptance of self and others around them. The big wide world awaits them, and I want them to be prepared with as many tools in their toolbelt as possible, and the greater understanding of love and support for one another. While this is part of the home, my professional world as a life and business coach, sees similar struggles, just on a grander scale. I
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work mainly with women who are challenged with low self-worth and belonging. I help them understand that they too are enough and to unify their understanding that regardless of how different they feel to others around them, that they also are worthy and have a special place in society. What I’ve learnt along my journey is that I’ve caused trouble and conflict internally and externally, I have had moments where I have shut down and sacrificed my authentic voice, but in the end, ‘me being me’ is the only thing I am perfect at. And who
is society to shape me to believe I should be any different? I’ve never been one to stick by the rules or stay in my lane. I am often outspoken and passionate and will defend myself and my loved ones with gusto. And that is ok. Like myself, I want my clients to know and accept their unique differences, and to honestly know they are like a magical power. Inner self-confidence comes from likeminded and supportive people; people who will listen and hear your story and lean in to hear more; to accept you for being you and not try to squeeze the round ‘you’ into a square box. While working as a Life and Business Coach allows me to help empower women, I began thinking of how many of my clients felt isolated before having someone help build them up. Not everyone has access to a great listening friend, non-judgemental colleague or professional such as myself and living in a rural country town this resonated with me. Even though I work in the role that I do, I know what isolation and not fitting into the mould is. I looked around at the collectives in my region – groups for mums,
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businesswomen, leaders, cake bakers, dancers and more. But what about those women that don’t fit into just one or any group at all? I knew there would be other women in my rural community that would want to steer from the curve of isolation and self-doubt. They were women, who were looking for something new, who likewise were wanting to embrace learning, growth, support, story sharing, leaning in to and on one another through similarities and differences. Genevieve De Santis and I saw our vision of bringing a collective of women together from all walks of life, and any age or stage of life, come alive. This collective became the WiNE (Women in North East) Network - a community of women that Empowers, Inspires, Educations, Nurtures, and Connects women without the fear of judgement
and exclusion. The WiNE Network produces a variety of events that you can pick and choose whatever suits your wants and needs, whether you are a socialite, introvert, stay at home or a working mum, feel comfortable/ uncomfortable in a group, love/loathe being on-camera or speaking out loud, live with challenges or mental illness or more, everyone is welcome, included and supported. Community and community networks like WiNE are the key to sharing our stories, learning from one another to grow in our acceptance of differences. My role as a mum, Life and Business Coach and one part of the WiNE Network is to keep helping women understand that they are more than enough just as they are, and to embrace the differences to unite women and make pure magic happen.
A mother, entrepreneur, author, speaker and coach Briana Seaton is a woman of many talents, who is dedicated to helping you become your best self. Briana became an entrepreneur from a very early age and now co-owns and manages a multi-million dollar business and team with her husband in the Victorian High Country. Briana is a mother to two beautiful children who she believes has taught her some of life’s more important lessons. Briana is a wellrespected businesswoman in her region and has won multiple business accolades because of her ability to take something ordinary and make it extraordinary. She is well known for her positive outlook as well as her tenacity to overcome any challenge thrown her way. Briana has inspired the lives of hundreds of women through her speaking, successful coaching business and her thriving Networking group, Women in the North East (WiNE). Through the power of life coaching, she supports women to realise and work towards their goals and aspirations, to create greater balance and achieve the results they are seeking in both their personal & professional lives where she shares her principles the 3 B’s, BEGIN BELIEVE BECOME.
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What are your 3 top tips are for creating wealth as a woman in today’s world? - Brooke Huggins
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oney is the easiest thing in the world to get. You sell something somebody wants, in exchange for money. There is a virtually endless supply of it out there. Here’s where it gets complicated - all our underlying beliefs about money.
The very first interaction you had with money was fear. Every toddler wants to eat coins, and then we get yelled out “Don’t put that in your mouth, money is DIRTY”. Then we’re told, “money doesn’t grow on trees!” when we express desires. We’re told it’s better to give than receive. We’re shown that rich people are greedy, selfish, and wear impractical fancy clothes. We want to make money, but we have complicated feelings about it! Plus, women today mostly grew up in an analog world - where making money meant hard work. Our bodies might live in a digital world now, where running a business takes little capital or physical labour, yet our brains haven’t entirely caught up. Where do you feel guilt or shame around creating wealth? Do you believe it makes you a bad mother, or worry that you’ll turn into an unethical “rich bitch”? Do you feel like making money doing something
Denise Duffield-Thomas Denise Duffield-Thomas is the money mentor for the new wave of online entrepreneurs who want to make money and change the world. She helps women charge premium prices, release the fear of money and create First Class lives. Her books Lucky Bitch, Get Rich, Lucky Bitch, and Chillpreneur give a fresh and funny roadmap to living a life of abundance without burnout. Her Money Bootcamp has helped over 6,000 students from all around the world. She’s a lazy introvert, a Hay House author and an unbusy mother of 3. She owns a rose farm and lives by the beach in sunny Australia. Find her at...
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be #breastaware October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month - a time to check, talk to your girlfriends, sisters, daughters and get things investigated
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o Brave is Australia’s Young Women’s Breast Cancer Charity, empowering young breast cancer survivors, educating young women to be breast aware and funding research to change the future. The best way to be #breastaware is to know your normal. Put a monthly reminder to check in your calendar, your planner, your phone. Get to know your breasts. Every month. No one knows your body like you do!
We encourage YOU to be #breastaware
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Aimed to educate young women, the book is filled with stories of women who inspire us, beautiful quotes, activities and full of resources from experts across a wide range of health topics, not just breast awareness. The celebrations commemorate five years of empowering young women and supporting and advocating for the 1000 Australian young women diagnosed with breast cancer annually. Paired with the release of the book is exclusive access to an expertled course running in October via a members-only Facebook group and Zoom webinars. Available to purchase at sobrave.com.au/me. The bundle also features Six FREE beautiful Loved By Gaia beauty products to refocus on you.
HOW TO BE #BREASTAWARE 1. CHECK: Know your body, check your breasts and the area around them regularly, ideally monthly from age 16. Breast changes might be seen or felt and can include (but are not limited to): • Lumps: in the breast tissue, in the arm pits or around the collar bones, may be tender, painfree, round, flat, irregular, rough, smooth, stuck in place or movable. • Skin changes: redness, rash, heat, thickening, dimpling, puckering/pulling on movement, including skin around the breasts and in the arm pits. • Nipple changes: crusting, bleeding or discharge from the nipple, finding the nipple is pulling inward (retracting) over time. • Others: changes in breast size or shape, persistent pain in the breast or armpit, even without other changes. 2. DETECT: If you find a change, book in with a GP as early as possible to get a referral for imaging. Imaging is especially vital if you think the change might have been there for more than 4 weeks. 3. FOLLOW UP: If your imaging is clear, great! But make a plan with your doctor to follow up the change you presented with, and return earlier if you notice further changes. 4. FAMILY: Find out about your family history of breast and ovarian cancer. Talk to your GP about when YOU should start breast screening based on this history, considering MRI and family cancer clinic care are options if you have increased risk. This information is a guide only and does not constitute comprehensive medical advice. Consult your doctor for more information and specific advice.
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BREAST CANCER IS THE MOST COMMONLY DIAGNOSED CANCER IN WOMEN AGED 20-39.
Rachelle Panitz So Brave is Australia's Young Women's Breast Cancer Charity empowering young women diagnosed with breast cancer, educating young women to self-advocate and funding research to change breast cancer outcomes.
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Giving a Voice to
Rural Women WHEN WOMEN COME TOGETHER, GOOD STUFF HAPPENS. RIGHT?!
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o, when Amy Walker and Jaimie McMillan, two boss-babes on their small business journey in regional Queensland Australia, serendipitously connected, their spirits and vision aligned – and Creating Stories, a little workshop project, was born.
stories become visible – to those near and far.
Truth be told, it was a process of many, many a coffee-date, flurries of messages back and forth, and ultimately a shared desire to see locals connect and come together to creatively build a network that would see their little community and its many
“With our regions enduring a time of disconnect, and economic uncertainty for many small businesses based in these locations, I saw a need to energise the creatives locally and get them together so everyone could benefit.”
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“The purpose of Creating Stories is to provide an opportunity for women to gather, identify their why, their story, and translate that into imagery and media content,” said Amy.
Amy Walker “To see these local women bravely step into something new, and unearth their story – and that of their businesses – is something to share,” said Jaimie. “This bravery has been empowering and enlightening for everyone attending. With no two stories the same, and everyone offering something unique to the group and the local business landscape, we are so excited to see Allora’s experiences shared and our community strengthen.” You too can share in the #storiesofalloraqld by following Creating Stories Co on Facebook and Instagram. Better yet, why not get your girl gang together and talk to Amy or Jaimie about hosting your very own creative workshop to build and connect your little community of like-minds.
With financial investment from the region’s key community support organisation, the Warwick Credit Union, Creating Stories is rolling out its first community-based project, Visual Storytelling #storiesofalloraqld. And the transformation in mind-set and progression in attendee creativity has been inspiring.
Creating Stories is facilitated by Amy Walker of the wife creative. – Rural Room media stringer, QLD Government-sponsored SheEO member and champion of all things local and visual. Amy has 20 years experience in communication, media and events sectors nationally. She is supported by local businesswoman and co-author of Empowered Women Empowering the World, Jaimie McMillan, in her newly renovated Wild Sage Collective space in Allora Queensland Australia. A space focussed on wellness and sparking locals into action.
At this time of disconnect, there is a need to energise regional community creatives and re-connect residents. A need to replace the fractured events landscape that regions have lost, and that so many residents, businesses, sporting clubs and community groups need. Economically and emotionally. An opportunity to entice visitors and encourage neighbours to stopin, explore and stay a while – and experience Queensland. Gathering together, we create and share stories, to unite a community through imagery and connection. We empower locals to build a thriving virtual community, that will promote the beauty of their story, their region, to those near and far. Creating Stories is facilitated by Amy Walker of the wife creative. and supported by local businesswoman and co-author of Empowered Women, Jaimie McMillan.
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Can we create the community
mothers need and yearn for? DO YOU REMEMBER THE DAYS WHEN WOMEN WOULD GET TOGETHER, WHILST THE CHILDREN PLAYED AND “CHORES” STILL GOT DONE?
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pecifically, those early days with a newborn, where the support of another mother who gets it - especially one with older children - was so
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helpful to the mind, body and soul. I am one of the lucky ones that do remember this, as I grew up in a culture where my grandmother, my aunts and others in our village were an integral part of my upbringing. Sadly, when I became a mother, this was not my experience. I want to make it clear that it was no fault of anyone. It was a mixture of the system/society and the judgement that mothers can have for each other.
The Australian maternal care system tries hard to create this support through a mother’s group. I know this has been successful for some mums who years after their children have grown up, are still connected. However, I know for many, this is not the case. For me, it personally brought a lot of shame and inferiority with it as I never fitted into the group I was allocated. I don’t hide the fact that I went through an awful bout of post-natal anxiety and received judgement and criticism from the group. Most days, I was trying to survive to then only feel judgement for not having a child who played a certain way or slept through the night, which added to my feelings of inadequacy.
mothers in ways that are supportive and non-competitive. A societal structure that promoted the wonderful creative giving beings women are. If we can recognise this divinity in women, we truly can make the world a better place for all humans. I know this to be possible because I have arrived at this place with my second child. Whilst the village I dream of is yet to come into full manifestation of the vision I have, I am close to it. The little things each one of us can do to support one another can be as simple as helping a Mumma out in public whose hands are full with her baby and groceries. You can make a meal for another or just step in and give a mother time to herself whilst her child is being looked after. All done with no judgement but pure heart and understanding. Sadly, the only criteria the maternal nurses need before they lump us with a bunch of other women is the fact that we all had a baby at similar times. However, this may create further isolation because other than the factor of being a new mum, there are no other common grounds for these mothers to connect. The pressures on mothers are endless - to be, feel and do things in certain ways and then judged by the expected milestones our children do or do not attain. Imagine a space where women are encouraged to tap into their innate wisdom, knowledge and power to pass to
We can go further and lift women up by giving them opportunities to shine and when they do shine, celebrate them. And this is in reference whether a mother chooses to work, stay at home or do anything in between.
I encourage all women, mother or not, to think about how you can be part of a village that uplifts and supports each other. Humanity needs this!
We can go further and lift women up by giving them opportunities to shine and when they do shine, celebrate them.
Marilou Coombe Marilou runs orchestrate coaching & consulting. She is passionate about helping families and their children with positive mindset, self-regulation and expressing their emotions productively. A loving mum of two boys with an acute understanding of the challenges and growth opportunities of being a parent. She works primarily with 4-16 year olds, parents and educators in the areas of strengthening neural pathways to promote wellbeing through gratitude practices, yoga, meditation and coaching. She possesses extensive training and is certified in a number of modalities related to the social sciences, coaching and human behaviour dynamics more broadly. She draws her extensive life experience, including travelling to over 36 countries and 67 cities, living in 5 different countries and speaking 2 languages fluently. Underneath it all, She aims at understanding human behaviour and what it is that motivates people to behave the way that they do.
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To Join MANY FACEBOOK GROUPS HAVE BEEN CREATED AS A HAVEN FOR WOMEN AND TO EDUCATE, SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER IN ALL AREAS OF OUR LIVES. WE THINK THAT’S PRETTY COOL AND AS IT’S ALL ONLINE, IT IS ACCESSIBLE TO EVERYONE. SO WE HAVE SHARED SOME OF OUR FAVOURITE GROUPS WITH YOU. IF YOU HAVE A GROUP YOU LOVE, MAKE SURE TO LET US KNOW!
Business Magnetic Business Growth - The Thrive Factor Way! Magnetic Business Growth – the Thrive Factor way! Is a global online community for freedomloving, thrive seeking, ambitious, inspiration driven women in business - coaches, mentors, consultants, educators, therapists, and creatives and who work with women. Thrive Seekers have big dreams, audacious goals and are learning to believe in themselves so they can make a lasting impact and thrive simultaneously.
the support of an enthusiastic cheerleader.
Focused on creating magnetic business growth by tapping into your effortless success zone and the Thrive Factor Archetypes, this group is built on the pillars of inspiration, freedom and knowledge.
FOUNDER: Shannon Dunn
Monthly themed content will draw from founder Shannon Dunn’s 12 Thrive Factor Archetypes and the 4 M’s of Momentum to accelerate Mindset, Marketing, Money and Magnetism. Shannon’s Archetypes of Visionary Creator, Mentor Teacher, Liberator Engineer and Inspirer Believer mean you’re in for creative expansion, oodles of wisdom and freedom with
You’re guaranteed a safe place to connect, to learn, to promote, to share, to celebrate and to support yourself as part of a genuine collective of other women in business also committed to discovering what it means to thrive. There is no need to know your Thrive Factor Profile and Archetypes to actively contribute.
Shannon Dunn - super creator, visionary thinker, liberation loving, inspiration-seeking, chai devotee, stand up paddleboard addict, Thrive Factor founder, Principal Thrive Factor school, best selling author! She’s on a mission, activating thriving the world over, teaching businesswomen to unlock their effortless success zone by embodying their Thrive Factor Archetypes. Link to join:
The Recovering Perfectionists The Recovering Perfectionists is the FREE online community for womxn entrepreneurs to + rock your real, imperfect self + get more of the right stuff done, by taking imperfect action + beat overwhelm + celebrate progress instead of perfection + love yourself unapologetically! More than 1300 aspiring goodenoughists hang out in this safe space to try new things, get support and ideas, celebrate wins (and fails) and learn how to make their business a gorgeous, exciting expression of how they want to show up in the world. With daily theme days to help you start and contribute to conversations with other womxn in business, The Recovering Perfectionists Facebook Group is a safe place to experiment with your message and marketing. Talk about what’s working and what’s not working. Set achievable goals and get support along the way as well as a great place to network with other awesome people. We love that there’s so much positive engagement in the group and love welcoming new faces! FOUNDER: Claire Riley Claire Riley works with womxn whose business is relatively established but lacks sophistication in planning, strategy and implementation; womxn who struggle to get organised, make consistent income and serve their clients effectively, who just want some simple systems, accountability and affordable expert help to get productive and more profitable. Link to join:
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Women in Business Collaborative with Angela Henderson
This group is for women who want to share their story, experience and knowledge through the written word in our digital magazine. In the group, we keep you up to date with what themes we have, release dates and article opportunities plus you get to connect with like-minded women.
The Women in Business Collaborative is a community for women business owners/ entrepreneurs to feel connected, to collaborate and to seek business advice. It’s a place to share your wins. A place to share your products and services. A place to not feel alone in the world of being a business owner. FOUNDER: Angela Henderson Angela Henderson is an international award-winning business coach for women, international keynote speaker and podcaster who helps women in business get all the pieces in place to have consistent 5 figure months and then onto 6/7 figure years without burning out in the process. Link to join:
of others from around the world on & offline through her coaching, mentoring, courses, retreats, resources & events.
If you have ever wanted to share what you know and have experienced to help educate, empower and elevate other women, then this is the group for you. Women from all walks of like and from any phase in womanhood, motherhood and business, are welcome. FOUNDER: Tammie Pike CEO & Creator of Empowered Publishing, Mumpreneur Movement & Loved by Gaia, Tammie has collaborated and worked with the likes of Elizabeth Gilbert, Lisa Messenger, Denise Duffield-Thomas and in March 2021 at the Ultimate Girls Week Away in Vietnam, Gabrielle Bernstein. Since 2015 Tammie has been inspiring the lives of hundreds of thousands
Tammie believes that the new way to achieve sustainable success is through prioritising self-care, selfbelief, collaboration and empowering oneself that enables you to climb unimaginable heights whilst staying grounding and positively influencing those around you. Tammie is here to support others to step into their power by igniting their purpose, awakening their belief and recognising their potential to empower others through sharing their story and lived experiences. Link to join:
Motherhood The Imperfect Mum The Imperfect Mum is an online Sisterhood of women from all over the world who come together to support one another judgement free. Kristy Vallely created this online village in June 2011. The Imperfect Mum is a safe place that women go to, a place where they talk and relate to the imperfectness of Motherhood. Our sisterhood commits to encouraging a safe, supportive and nonjudgemental advice and environment. Kristy Vallely is the founder and Creator of the Imperfect Mum. Link to join:
Mums Making A Difference Mums making a difference is a safe community for self-aware mothers that are Juggling work/career/motherhood / family/health/me-time, and everything else a mum does in a day. It’s for Mums that want to do more, be more, have more and give more. We share tips, tricks and help one another to make a positive difference in our lives, our children and families lives and much of our positive influences ripple out to the wider community. What is it that inspires these Lyster Sisters to help others? Growing up in a small country town south of Perth,
WA, tragedy struck this family with their brother drowning, followed by their father taking his own life. It is through no surprise their strongwilled, determined, and amazing mother influenced and created a strong, resilient belief in all her daughters. Salli Galvin (author), mother of four boys builds Mindfitness Programs to help children become more resilient and well adjusted, plus has an Equestrian Centre that prides itself on the animal-human connection being great for the soul. She has represented Australia in her sport, namely polocrosse, and continues to compete at a high level. Suzette, a mother of four, owns a successful indoor swimming centre, helping to save children’s lives and create confident kids. She has also created sports performance programs for women, as a world-leading athlete, representing Australia undefeated 30 times in her sporting career, Suzette understands what it takes to be a high performing athlete. MUMPRENEUR MOVEMENT |
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Tracey Jarrett is The Juggling Mum of 5 young children (including a set of twins), author, elite sportswomen and multiple business owner. Through her work, mothers aspire to learn, implement, adapt and overcome challenges using her tricks, messages and knowledge in raising five amazing little people. She is currently in the Australian Polocrosse Squad and has represented WA in both Touch Rugby & Polocrosse.
The Orgasmic Mama For all who identify as a Woman or Mother who is seeking to reawaken and fully claim their sexuality, pleasure and eroticism. For those ready to learn how to LOVE sex again. This is an aspect of self that is SO EASILY ignored- especially as women. I am calling us ALL to action to face what is no longer serving us and claim the power of our Eros as nature intended. The Orgasmic Mama is deeply passionate about guiding women out of their heads and outdated conditioning into states of surrender, playfulness, pleasure, radical selfacceptance and holistic sexual freedom. The sexuality piece of the “personal development” puzzle is often neglected, definitely not easy - But always so so worth it! Our relationship with our body, pleasure and sexuality is not only personally important, but any reclamation of this part of our being will have a profound effect
So between 13 children, sports and businesses- they have created a group for all mum’s namely Mums Making a Difference. Designed to help, support and provide a space where mummies worldwide can relate to all the trials and tribulations of being a mum. Link to join:
on other areas of our lives including relationships, family, finance and the wider community. I am your guide on this journey and will recommit day after day to show up for myself, for you and future generations of liberated, sex-positive humans. Much Love, Tamica Wilder. Xx FOUNDER: Tamica Wilder Tamica is a Mama, Somatic Sexologist & Erotic educator committed to guiding humans home to their bodies and liberated self-expression. With over a decade’s experience in group work & facilitation, Tamica guides with wisdom, heart and humour in all that she does. Tamica believes our narratives around sexuality & relationships need a good shake up! - Never one to shy away from a challenge - Tamica is committed to resetting the stand.
Alternative Groups Soul Modes
FOUNDER: Carlie Maree
This group is for lovers and learners of the Soul Modes framework.
Carlie Maree is the master of motivational intelligence.
Soul Modes is a #2 Wall Street Journal bestselling book that came out at the end of 2019. The group is a place where you can connect with others who are reading the book to share your experiences and take-aways.
She’s a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, online educator, renegade researcher, sought-after speaker and creator of the binge-worthy podcast ‘Go Hack Yourself’.
Carlie, the author, pops up regularly for live Q&A’s and also shares free resources in the group to help women hack their lives.
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With her bold teachings and revolutionary frameworks, she empowers women all over the world to live differently. She has a deep understanding of how women work -
what motivates us, what drives us, and what holds us back. And since coming out last year with her ground-breaking book and Netflix-style documentary, she’s holding nothing back. This woman is the real deal. She’s here to change everything. Link to join:
Wild Spirits A space dedicated to remembering herstory, rewilding our spirits and reclaiming our witch. We engage in the space as if in Circle, and share our insights, lived experience, thoughts, feelings and wisdom without platitudes or sympathy, or seeking to fix or save one another. We embrace connection, collaboration, and co-creation and host conversations, classes, circles and community projects. We are women from across the globe with the shared intentions of: •• remembering our power and liberating ourselves from patriarchal expectations and conditioning. •• honouring our intuition so that we may live in harmony with ourselves and the earth •• embracing our creativity and being the fullest expression of ourselves •• returning to the wholeness and holiness of our being FOUNDER: Mitle Southey Mitlé is a former lawyer who identifies as a wild mystic witch, drawing on ancient wisdom and modern practices to guide women to remember, rewild and reclaim their wholeness and holiness. She is a Circle Holder, Intuitive Guide, Inspired EFT practitioner and Culinary Nutrition Expert, sharing her heart and spirit as she walks her path of recovery and reclamation. Link to join:
Superwoman SUPERWOMEN IN OUR DAY TO DAY LIVES OF BEING WOMEN, BEING A MUM, AN EMPLOYEE, A BUSINESS OWNER, A VOLUNTEER AND AN ALL-ROUND PEOPLE PLEASER, WE FIND OURSELVES WANTING TO ‘DO IT ALL’ AND PULL IT ALL OFF FLAWLESSLY. WHEN THIS DOESN’T WORK OUT, WE MAY FEEL LIKE A FAILURE.
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help you achieve your goals and who you, in turn, will assist in achieving theirs. It’s important to understand yourself, to believe in yourself and to blend your commitments to ensure you’re never missing out and that you’re always exactly where you want to be. Easier said than done we know, but it takes determination, resilience and a persistent approach to design your life to meet your needs to create and foster success and successful, rewarding relationships. Women who come together often find themselves making life long connections as friendships, business partners, affiliates and in general, enables an allround cheer squad in your pocket at any time. If there is something in this world you want to do or be, it’s never too late. Teaching yourself how to achieve your dreams is key and believing in yourself even more so. Please don’t put too much pressure on yourself though; there is no ‘one size fits all’ solution to life. Figure
out what it is that you need and what you want, then find out what is holding you back. Unpack the baggage and search for what you’re craving. Most importantly, be prepared to be uncomfortable because that’s where the magic happens. Connect with likeminded people who share your passions and values and who build you up. Take that step to reach out and connect whether that be at a networking event, in the school grounds, at a business function or even on a course. The opportunities to find the people you need in your life are endless. Be proud of the way you handle yourself and be confident in your own ability to manage what is thrown your way. You’ve got this, you truly just need to believe it. Always keep a check on your values and ensure you’re aligning your life, your commitments and your decisions to them. Be genuine, be authentic, be better than yesterday and always… show up!
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Nyree Johnson Nyree Johnson is the Manager and co-owner of Johnson’s 4WD Repair Shop in Rockhampton, QLD. Nyree also works full time as a Workforce Analyst for an electricity distributor and is committed to her family, as well as her community through volunteer activities. With all roles complimenting each other, the blended and ‘intentional imbalance’ Nyree works to achieve ensures the best of her transferable skills can be utilised across many avenues. With a passion for empowering those around her, especially women, Nyree clearly sees the value of collaboration, shared inspiration, networking and cheering for each other brings. With an Advanced Diploma of Leadership and Management, a Diploma of Business and a Diploma of Business Administration, Nyree enjoys sharing her skills, knowledge and experience with those who share her passion for small business management.
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WE ARE AT A TIPPING POINT, CROSS-POLLINATION OF HOW WE SERVE AND RUN OUR BUSINESSES.
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s a womxn in business, we are craving a serious reform because the traditional business model is not conducive to how we want to live and run our businesses. The yearning for us to be a Mumpreneur is the fusion of our desire to raise our children and model to them that we can have it all. We can redefine societal conditioning of a working Mum in the 9 to 5. It required us to lean into our
entrepreneurial mindset whereby anything is possible. Only it’s not always that easy. Creating a business that works for us means sometimes working around the clock, trial and error, and a mix of passion and perseverance.
That can be exhausting, and it isn’t sustainable. We no longer have the conversations with friends in the lunchroom that banter and support with workmates. Sharing online about our vulnerabilities is hard because we need the level of professionalism, and we have to have our shit together. Usually, we are still running the household, running around after our kids as well as doing everything in our business from serving to creating content, to marketing to the books. The evolution of the Solopreneur and Mumpreneur is in dire need of reform! Preempting The Arrival. I purpose we start to celebrate and preempt this reform as we begin to imagine what this reform might look like? Our indigenous doesn’t do a rain dance when the rain arrives; they dance to celebrate its arrival before it rains! We need to do the same.
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Right now there is a win-lose game for people’s attention (our potential clients) and our attention is finite.
Time is not our most precious commodity; our attention to it is.
The keyword there is Be, what if we celebrated this reform as soon as we create it in our mind’s eye and our journal’s? This cross-pollination is about redefining how we show up in business and deepen our network… The keyword there is “deepen” and not expand. (Though we welcome that as well.) Let me explain.
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Experts tell us that 80% of our time should be marketing, that is a big chunk of our time.
Mumpreneurs are yearning for connections, friendships and a sense of belonging. We miss those conversations we had around the water cooler. (I’ve never actually had a conversation around a water cooler, but you know what I’m saying.)
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We’ve arrived at a time in our lives where we want to feel good, serve in a way that makes us come alive and not slaving along trying to be seen.
Time is not our most precious commodity; our attention to it is. Imagine we set the intention to call in a network of like-minded womxn whereby we work together to achieve that 80% of marketing? • Content creation becomes easy, • You give your community amazing value. • You’re surrounded by womxn who understand and get you. • Everything becomes fun! This energy is celebratory, and the wave that sends out into our community is undeniable. What does your reform like? A more seamless flow of parenting and business? Enough income so your partner can retire? To only do the things you love to do? For life to be this hedonistic, honouring and enjoyable adventure? We are at the tipping point, and right now, we have an opportunity to work together to create something magical. What are you putting into the cauldron?
Renee Mayne Renée is an unorthodox and freakishly gifted visionary and Priestess of consciousness and intuition, who leads a hedonistic evolution for womxn who are called to disrupt the status quo and make sense of their existence, to be initiated into a new way of being, and connect them to their divine self. A poetic and transformation Speaker, Teacher, Guide, Dominatrix, lover of lingerie and spoken word has been leading in the areas of self, service, spirit and sex for over two decades. The ascension of this hedonistic evolution opens you up to a world of no separation and for the first time in their life, it’s the end of all pursuits because they are complete in every. single. way. A womxn who has had this remembrance will inhabit Heaven wherever she happens to be standing. The Temple of Exploration Eros, Permission, Embodiment & Expansion.
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We are all in this
When people can disagree (and do it well) that actually creates more unity. Rachael Jayne Groover
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rom the beginning of the year, we have had extreme events, one after another. That, above all else, have created great divide and conflict between us, between friends, between loved ones, between families and between strangers. There is the one thing that is extremely clear amongst all the chaos in the world; I wonder, can you see it or feel it too? It has added even more stress, hardship and fear for our collective consciousness, our mental health and wellbeing. When we can differ in our thoughts and perspectives, without ‘vilifying’ the other; without disrespecting, dishonouring, and demeaning another, then we will discover our unity and togetherness. And only then will we truly see ‘we are all in this together’. If we feel we hold a right to belittle another human being for differing in point of view, then we are losing what makes us human; we are losing our sense of morality…Yes? The same morality that teaches our children to feel safe to have their voice heard in the classroom, that teaches them to build their self-confidence in allowing themselves to be who they are; unique, different, warts and all.
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This teaches our children to accept themselves and inturn allow, respect and accept others. #AntiBulllying It’s the same morality that stands against violence against women and domestic violence. It’s the morality that says, I am not at liberty to attack, abuse and control you for expressing yourself, for being you.
I am not at liberty to have power over you or silence you, with my words, my actions, my ‘superior intellect’ or my strength, simply because I don’t like what you are saying or doing. That means “You deserve what you get - because you said or did this” (You spoke out of term.) Respect Is Respect. Call it out, call it out all the time! Despite what differences we feel or think. We are all in this together, we are in life together, we are on this planet together, and we are all striving for the same thing. I wish every one of you a sense of inner power, safety, hope, peace and love.
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International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month LOSING A CHILD DURING PREGNANCY OR INFANCY WOUNDS A PARENT TO THE CORE. WHETHER IT’S A MISCARRIAGE, STILLBIRTH, OR SIDS, THE LOSS OF SUCH A NEW LIFE IS DEVASTING.
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ecause women can carry a child within their womb, their experience with such losses affects them in an entirely different way. This is not to discount the grief of husbands and fathers, but to acknowledge the unique challenges and emotions of a mother reeling from the loss. October is International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Month. More specifically, 15 October is World Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. At 7 pm local time, consider lighting a candle to participate in the International Wave of Light, to commemorate those young lives gone too soon. The Star Legacy Foundation created the #NeverBeStill campaign to bring
awareness to infant and pregnancy loss. Too many women suffer silently. Perhaps the only thing worse than suffering such wounds is having to endure it alone. You are not alone. Whether you yourself are a bereaved parent or you are looking to support those who are, let’s take a look at some of the ways we can stand in solidarity with those grieving families. Star Legacy Foundation’s website offers an abundance of ways to raise crucial awareness. There is a comprehensive “How Friends & Family Can Help” guide, the option to create a free Star [memorial] page on their site, frames, and images for various social media
platforms, and ideas for contacting elected officials. More than just raising awareness, #NeverBeStill aims to promote healthy pregnancies and births. As the foundation empathetically states, “every pregnancy deserves a happy ending!” There is still much to be learned about prenatal conditions and factors attributing to SIDS. It is only with research and education that we can combat such forces-and ultimately prevent them from happening. If you have been impacted by pregnancy or infancy loss, know that you are not alone. October is the month to acknowledge your grief. Let your grief motivate you to support change. Women-- all across the world-- deserve only the best prenatal and postpartum care. Whether it’s raising awareness, funds, or both, it’s time to combine forces until we fully understand these potentially preventable conditions.
To find out how you can get involved, how to find events you can be a part of go to https://www.sands. org.au/october-15th to find out more.
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PLEASE NOTE THAT THE FOLLOWING STORIES AND IMAGES MAY TRIGGER AN EMOTIONAL RESPONSE, IF THIS DOES HAPPEN, PLEASE ENSURE YOU SEEK THE APPROPRIATE SUPPORT OTHERWISE PLEASE REACH OUT TO THE FOLLOWING ORGANISATIONS WHO ARE TRAINED TO HELP YOU. https://www.sands.org.au/online-support www.pinkelephants.org.au
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By KELLY MAREE
LIFE DOESN’T ALWAYS PAN OUT HOW YOU IMAGINED IT WOULD. WHEN OUR TWIN ‘SURPRISES’ WERE BORN AT 24 WEEKS PREGNANT, LITTLE DID I KNOW THAT THIS WOULD BE THE START OF A JOURNEY THAT WOULD DESTROY MY ENTIRE BEING.
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suffer from severe anxiety and PTSD, needing medication to lead a normal life, I threw everything into the business and being a mother that I forgot who I was. It’s been almost five years since those events, and only four months ago that my life changed completely. I saw a shining light in that neverending pit of darkness. Due to COVID-19, our three month trip around the world was cancelled, our business had been set up to run itself while we were away, we pulled Oskar out of daycare to self-quarantine due to his previous lung issues, and I thought, ‘maybe this means I have time to do something for me?’ My husband was excited to be a stay at home dad, so I wrote three children’s books for Oskar in a week. I found an illustrator the following week, and the next month I found Ocean Reeve Publishing and here I am, in a completely different world. I am now a full-time author!
e sadly lost one of our little boys Oli 8 days later and spent a total of 133 days in the NICU getting Oskar well enough to come home.
When you lose a child, it breaks you. I was never the same person again. We tried for another baby, and after two miscarriages, we decided it just wasn’t meant to be. I still miss my little boy so much. I also miss the old me, so carefree, so happy, travelling the world in my dream job, it was an amazing life. Sliding into the black hole of depression was easy. When the adrenaline of the hospital journey wore off, the grief of losing Oli, being home with a sick child on oxygen, as well as the fear of losing him too, it was just too much and to add on top of it all I was building a business from scratch which was our only source of income... I plummeted deep into darkness. I used to think depression was a joke, that people were faking it. I can assure you that I was wrong. I now MUMPRENEUR MOVEMENT |
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I am creating a legacy for Oskar and Oli through my love of writing and creative expression. The books are dedicated to the loving memory of Oli, and the proceeds will be used to raise awareness about infant loss, supporting bereaved families through the Precious Wings and RBWH (Royal Brisbane and Women’s Hospital) Foundations. I want to bring PTSD and infant loss to the surface, it’s a subject that just isn’t talked about and way too many families experience it. This is now my purpose. Facing my demons has been very challenging, every day is a new emotion to navigate, but I am getting there slowly. There is no time frame for finding the light. I want to tell you that there are people in that black hole with you, who love you, even though you can’t see them in the darkness. Be kind to yourself. Find your reason, your purpose, and use your experience to help others. The more you help others heal, the more you will heal.
Kelly Maree
Take one day at a time, stop to smell the flowers, live in the moment, move forward and reflect on the past with a purpose, learn from it and learn to embrace a different you. You are beautiful, you are worthy, you are loved.
Kelly Maree settled back in Brisbane, Australia with her husband after ten years of ravelling around the world, working as a diving instructor and photographer. Life was turned upside down when one of their twins passed away after being born prematurely. Now an author, Kelly Maree, has dedicated all of her books to the loving memory of Oli all the little angels that didn’t make it. A percentage of the book’s sales is donated to the RBWH and Precious Wings Foundations to help support bereaved families and premature babies, making this project personal for Kelly. With her ever-growing love for her little boy, Kelly decided to create a legacy for Oskar and Oli, and Oskar’s Adventures was born. Her passion for writing and creating poetic adventures for children to enjoy is apparent from the first few pages of any of her three books. The first three books of Oskar’s Adventures are Oskar and the Bear, Oskar and the Moon Rocks and Oskar and the Storm are due for release in November 2020.
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WITHIN AN ELEPHANT COMMUNITY, IF A MOTHER ELEPHANT LOSES HER BABY, THE OTHER ELEPHANTS USE THEIR TRUNKS TO FORM A PHYSICAL #CIRCLEOFSUPPORT AROUND HER.
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espite 1 in 4 pregnancies ending in loss before 12 weeks [1], in 2015, there was no support specific to early pregnancy loss or miscarriage available in Australia. Like the elephants who hold space to support a grieving mother, we understand the importance of creating safe spaces. You are not alone our #circleofsupport is here for you.
It started with the words, “I’m sorry there is no heartbeat” at
a routine scan in August 2015. We had lost our baby. “I’ve lost three much wanted and loved babies to miscarriage, each one has been a different type of loss but each one I have grieved and felt all of the feelings that come along with pregnancy loss. What really hurt me was the lack of support and even acknowledgment by others that I had lost a baby despite it being common people don’t know how to even talk about it, to me they are my babies I have lost. You don’t just get over it, and there is no at least it happened
early or at least you have a child. I will always wonder what if, I will always imagine how different my future may have been, I will always hold space in my heart for my babies.” Sam Payne CEO & CoFounder Pink Elephants Isolated, grieving, and searching for a support that wasn’t there, an idea of creating a safe space for women to come together to grieve and hold space for each other after losing their babies to miscarriage began to take form. After all, if 1 in 4 pregnancies ended in loss before 12 weeks, surely she couldn’t be the only one looking for support. It turns out she wasn’t;
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thankfully Sam was abel to translate her vision and engage others to build The Pink Elephants. Collaboratively they began with research and developed an actionable strategy to bring to life this amazing community and advocacy network to be there for all of those impacted by early pregnancy loss. Their achievements in the last five years are a testament to not just all of their hard work, drive, and determination but the clear need for such a support service as Pink Elephants. Women have been crying out for an advocacy network to champion the change necessary across communities and to RIGHT the story of early pregnancy loss, once and for all. So much of the experience around early pregnancy loss is driven by outdated perceptions and mistruths — whether you’re directly affected by it, a friend unsure how to help, or a healthcare professional just trying to make a difference. We seek to normalise early pregnancy loss by smashing the stigma and leading a new narrative, through evidencebased data, acknowledging the diversity of experiences, providing useful tools and content, and facilitating meaningful connections.
Our Mission - To normalise early pregnancy loss for the world through evidence, empathy, and connection.
Pink Elephants provides the latest resources, information, and peer support for anyone impacted by early pregnancy loss. Using evidence, empathy, and connection, our unique digital-first approach offers a single source of specialist support, whenever and wherever it’s needed — for anyone who has directly experienced it, for family and friends, corporate partners, or healthcare professionals seeking proven ways to help. Head to www.pinkelephants. org.au to seek support or learn how to support a loved one through pregnancy loss.
Our Purpose - That no one walks the journey of early pregnancy loss alone If you would like to join The Pink Elephants and their campaign to #rightthestory of early pregnancy loss you can head to www. pinkelephants.org.au to join their #circleofsupport.
[1] Statistics based on the report by William Richard Rice of the University of California, Santa Barbara
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Pink Elephants are not funded by the government and are urgently calling on women to support them to support others in their time of need. When you have lost a baby to miscarriage you need a #circleofsupport. 1 in 4 pregnancies that end in loss Pink Elephants needs your support to be there for all of them.
Samantha Payne Committed to Championing for Change Sam is on a mission to ensure that no one faces the journey of pregnancy loss alone and that they receive the support they need and deserve. Sam is an empathetic, engaging, knowledgeable and impactful advocate for those experiencing early pregnancy loss. She is an experienced public speaker with an ability to engage all. She speaks from the heart, sharing her personal journey as well as those of the thousands that The Pink Elephants supports. She links to a strong evidence base to create a clear call to action to inspire enhanced support for those experiencing early pregnancy loss. She is challenging cultural norms, breaking the silence, and initiating much-needed change.
My loss has helped me to help others WOMEN, WE ARE STRONG AND CHALLENGED EVERY DAY IN THIS LIFE WHERE I BELIEVE WE ARE GIVEN CHANCES TO EXPRESS OURSELVES BUT ALSO CHALLENGES US TO PROVE OURSELVES. I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE A MOTHER BY THE AGE OF 21; I DON’T KNOW WHY, BUT IT JUST HAD TO BE THEN.
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y fiancé and I had just moved to a new city, a whole new area 6 hours away from our home town and 2 hours from the nearest relative. It was awesome! My birthday was the week before, and I was 21, little did I know that two weeks after moving we fell pregnant. I was over the moon, and so was my now Husband. We did it even though I have endometriosis so was taken
by surprise, I was both excited and scary at the same time. When we went for our scan, we found out it was TWINS! We ended up having two healthy babies seven and a half months later, as they were eight weeks and five days early when we welcomed Logan and Ali-Jane to the world. A girl and boy, our family was complete in one go, so we thought. Unfortunately, our baby boy ended up with sepsis due to an infection, and this
was inoperable, it was the most challenging time of our lives. We were told we would have to turn his life support off as he wouldn’t be able to have a normal life. Deciding to keep one baby, and not the other was not how we wanted this to happen. Our family came to be with us and were amazingly supportive. The nurses and doctors were also very helpful during this time; though, there wasn’t much support for us apart from our family and medical team. We couldn’t find support groups or people to talk to without feeling judged or pitied; we just wanted an open space to talk and express our feelings without making other people feel bad. Now we know there are resources around that can help parents like my partner and I, who I highly recommend reaching out to. However, even with the support, it was still hard. We were first-time parents, having to leave one baby
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behind and bring home another. We always felt triggered when we saw other babies and being terrified of anything happening to Ali and this became our everyday life. Anxiety attacks, panic attacks and depression followed us around everywhere we went. So I reached out to my doctor and got a mental health care plan. I also started EMDR therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an interactive psychotherapy technique used to relieve psychological stress. It is an effective treatment for trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)) to help process the memories of Logan, the good and bad that
kept coming back. I still miss him so much; we all do. Two years on and our baby girl is healthy, has an attitude like her Mumma and Daddy, and she is the most precious thing on earth to us. I have shared my story and used that for motivation to start personal training and specialising in women’s physical and mental health. I use Logan to motivate me every day by reminding myself that he would be proud of me and what I am doing, I use Ali to remind me that I have something amazing and precious still here, so I need to keep going. After going through what we did, I don’t want any parents to have to go through that
alone ever again. It only takes picking up a phone to get help if you need it. Please use the resources around for support and reach out to me, as I am passionate about helping others and when you have a community of people who understand what you are going through, it seems just that little less hard. Taneal xx
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in the tragic? IT WAS 9 PM ON A FRIDAY NIGHT. MY BEST FRIEND MESSAGED ME (SHE WORKED AT MY OBSTETRICIANS OFFICE) “THE RESULTS ARE IN, SEE IF YOU CAN GET INTO A GP TONIGHT”.
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was able to get into a late-night GP. As I sat in the waiting room, I repeated over and over to myself “Amelia Jade Mcleod Hansen”. This was my baby girl’s name. I had known about her for eight years when she first appeared to
me in a dream. I always knew she was coming in every part of my Soul. Since that dream, I had been gifted three beautiful boys and had 2 miscarriages. A couple of months earlier, Amelia had let me know that it was now her time to come. I told
my husband, and he knew to follow my intuition, the next cycle I fell pregnant. Ten weeks later, after what felt like a year-long 20-minute wait, the doctor called me in to receive my NIPT blood test result. I sat nervously and told her how important this news was. I asked her to print the piece of paper and put it in an envelope, so I could take it home to share the news with my husband. I had packed a little box with a pink onesie saying “Daddy’s princess” in the car because I knew what the result would be. I also knew that I wouldn’t wait to open the envelope with him. My hands were trembling as I pulled out the piece of paper, time stood still. Tears ran down my face as I read the words “female” and no detected abnormalities. Fast forward six months, and we were finally on the way to the hospital, in very active labour, ready to meet this Soul we had waited so long for. There was a stillness, an eerie sense of knowing that our world was about to change. MUMPRENEUR MOVEMENT |
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heard come out of my mouth or body, or from any other human, and I hope I never hear them again. Those raging, primitive noises, were followed by the most extraordinary experience of my life. A vibration entered my body; I now know it to be the highest vibration there is, Universal Source Energy, or God. It reverberated through every cell in my being. LOUD, it still echoes in my ear when I recall it saying “EVERYTHING IS ACTUALLY GOING TO BE OK”. And somehow, I trusted it to be the truth. And it was. I birthed the most beautiful angel baby girl that anyone in the birth suite that night had ever seen. She was absolutely and 100% perfect. She was grace, beauty and magic all rolled into one. Every second, minute, hour and day of my life ever since has been the
reaction to the catalyst that altered the course of my life. I vow to live a life of grace, reverence and beauty in honour of my daughter. To teach and be the exemplar that there is magic in absolutely everything, even, and especially, in the tragic. My trauma and grief recovery didn’t include a single antidepressant drug (even though I have used them in the past), and not one appointment with a counsellor or psychologist (even though I have previously been in therapy for OCD). I did the work on the inside. I found what I needed within me. I’m not saying my way is the way for others but for me, I knew that no counsellor or trauma expert could have met me in the depths I’d been to, so I knew I had to do the damn work myself. I used my intuition and my connection to Amelia and Universal Source/God/
Georgia Hansen Georgia Hansen is one of those women. You know the ones. She is wildly intuitive and you are either magnetised to her warmth and held strongly in the presence of her heart, or you're shy in her gaze because you know she holds the ability to make you look sternly at yourself and see your own truth. The wife to her twin flame, and mama to 5. Four of her beautiful babies reside with her on Earth, and one is part of the infinite cosmos. She has almost completed her studies as a Third Level Priestess, to be globally recognised as a clinically trained Intuitive Guide.
whatever term you choose to believe to guide my way through the darkness. In this darkness, I had a deep faith there would be light, 15 months after Amelia was born, part of her essence returned to us in our Rainbow baby girl Amber. For this gift, I will spend the rest of my life in ultimate gratitude. It has been a fierce and intense journey, fine-tuning my potent connection, learning about the complex quantum sciences and Immutable Laws that govern our Universe, discovering
powerful tools to shift through deep anxiety and fear, and how to use my innate intuition to guide all aspects of my life. I have started a company to teach these things, along with the solid foundations of core business (from my marketing career, and my business partner’s corporate finance background). Essentially an Academy combining human degrees with cosmic intuition, helping others forge a new way of doing business. This is how I found my grace in grief. This is how I live my magic in the tragic. It is my deepest desire to inspire others to find theirs too.
In this darkness, I had a deep faith there would be light, 15 months after Amelia was born, part of her essence returned to us in our Rainbow baby girl Amber.
Georgia comes from a corporate marketing background, but has been on a journey of self discovery, deepening into her awakening, and learning about all aspects of Intuition for the past 10 years, especially though in the last 3 since losing her daughter, Amelia at full term. Combining her background, training and following her heart to find her own grace and magic, led her to CoCreating the Intuitive Business Academy, a school teaching the core fundamentals of business - marketing, branding, finance, HR and business law along with learning how to trust your own intuition in guiding all aspects of your business decisions and life.
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strong I RECENTLY HEARD, ‘WHEN WE ARE STRONG; WE ARE STRONG’. ESSENTIALLY, AS EACH OF US RISE, OUR COLLECTIVE ENVIRONMENT ALSO RISES TO BECOME STRONGER, GREATER, MORE POWERFUL. MOTHERHOOD.
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my head. Say what?!! To resign would mean giving up what was comfortable and secure. But it was time for change. It was my time to go within and move from assisting people with their visible, outward journey to guiding their healing on the inside. You see, when the inside is firing on all cylinders, the home and workplace become magical places where production happens with ease, communication flows, relationships are positive, and learning and development are paramount. Naturally, I was scared but pressing ‘Send’ on my resignation email was seriously the best decision. My life has changed dramatically, and there have been plenty of ‘oh heck’
Shaylene Harth If I could gift the corporate world one thing, it would be the wisdom to implement holistic health modalities in all HR Departments. When I work with clients to release stress, anxiety, pain, sleep disruption, brain fog, etc., their vibrations and wellness levels rise. They feel good, can think clearly and logically, emotions are stable, and subsequently, they engage productively and positively with those around them. The healing energy is passed on, from one dynamic being to the next. Assist one person, and they will go on to assist another in their way. How cool is that?!!
moments, yet I listened to my soul, and all has fallen into place. To know me is to know my heart rules. From Psychology to Human Resources (HR), I enjoyed 25 years working with some of the most amazingly diverse and interesting people in the manufacturing and oil and gas industries. I travelled nationally for my role and worked with all levels of business. To guide and grow others professionally made my heart sing yet through my journey, I recognised the benefit of internal guidance and healing of the subconscious mind, in addition to traditional workplace performance practices.
For me, I have been lifted up by some incredible individuals. Ordinary people, doing their thing. I embrace my past personal and professional experiences so that I may pass on their gift and use Neuro-Linguistic Kinesiology, Reiki, Access Bars, EFT & TFT and Aromatherapy to facilitate this process. I do not cajole nor stroke the ego of symptoms but rather dig to the root cause of the discomfort or illness and work there. Who wants to keep going back over something? Not you. Not me. By reducing the energetic charge, the good stuff happens, Healing. It is bliss being on this heart centred journey where each day, my soul is touched by those aligned to me. I regularly see strength, bravery, and commitment, and am honoured to bear witness to those healing themselves and being the soothing balm to those around them. When one of us rise, we all rise – when we are strong, ‘we’ are strong.
I do not cajole nor stroke the ego of symptoms but rather dig to the root cause of the discomfort or illness and work there.
With a passion for working with people and a demonstrated ability to traverse industry, hierarchy and generations; Shaylene Harth, has the skills to assist in the creation of your future. If sustained change is what you are looking for, Shaylene, with a background in Psychology and 25 years as a Human Resources Professional specialising in Counselling, Development, Leadership, and Education; will assist you in releasing the past and embracing the future. The Sandalwood Connection offers the ultimate combination of Neuro-Linguistic Kinesiology, Reiki, Access Bar, EFT & TFT, and Aromatherapy, to address the underlying cause of any issue you are facing. Through the various techniques, Shaylene will facilitate access of the subconscious mind to quickly, easily and effectively discover exactly what needs to be released and reprogrammed. This may take an emotional, psychological, physical, or spiritual form and the best thing is your body communicates these needs throughout the session. At all times you will be supported by the kind and caring, intuitive, knowledgeable and skilled practitioner that Shaylene is.
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A Team of Champions
will Never Beat a
Champion Team By SUZETTE THOMAS
WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO BUILD A TEAM? A TEAM THAT IS STRONG ENOUGH TO WITHSTAND ANY OPPOSITION, A TEAM THAT CAN BUILD, DEVELOP AND GROW, A TEAM THAT TO BE HONEST IS ALL ON THE SAME PAGE & TRUST EACH OTHER?
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he teams I have played in [Polocrosse] have honestly never been the same, each time I have rolled out in the green and gold shirt for my country I have never had the same group of girls or guys to work with, trying to achieve the ultimate goal, winning. What does it take to make a winning team? What kind of comradery needs to be achieved to create a cohesive and amicable team of players from all across the country to outperform the opposition? It isn’t an easy taskhowever, it is well worth the work and effort put into building the team and getting to know like and trust them. So, when you are thrown on a strange horse, galloping across the field flicking the ball to one anotheryou completely trust they have your back, just as you have theirs.
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I feel the personalities, perceptions and unique ways we all have got to the top in our sport gives everyone’s opinions, outlooks and focuses credibility. There is always a member or two that are new to the task of representing their country, so are a little less confident and need a lot more attention on reassuring their confidence and attribution to the team. Yet, they are just as important as the older, more experienced players that have experienced all the pressure and adversity of playing their sport at a higher level. Polocrosse is not the most common of sports, and for those of you that have never seen or heard of it, it is a cross between polo ( like prince Charles plays) netball and lacrosse. It is a team sport that requires not only hand-eye coordination with a racquet and ball, you must also direct and manoeuvre horses of which aren’t necessarily your own, especially when playing internationally.
The art of working on not only your fitness, mindset, and coordination is essential as is working on the team dynamics and getting the best out of each person, as it is vital for the success rate I have achieved in 30 games in representing Australia. Of these 30 occasions, I have not lost one game! This success has not been handed to me, I will give you the tip! Through hard work, ambition, determination and commitment, I first represented Australia in 2007. Being the young pup of the team, and not having any idea of how the politics, dynamics and mental games among players and coaches worked was overwhelming to a new girl in a highlevel performing team. Pure resilience and determination created a super strong-minded rookie that resulted in crowning me the best women’s player in the world. It was a tremendous accolade; however, the pedestal didn’t last long, as my strongminded personality without much
I love the challenge now, helping other teams and including the ones I play in;
I love the challenge now, helping other teams and including the ones I play in; to work on cultivating the dynamics and bring the best out in all the players, as it is something I enjoy doing.
give, resulted in me being stripped of captaining the next World Cup team. Please don’t for a second feel sorry for me- colossal blow, yes! It was something that happened for me, not too me. The lessons learnt from this and the number of teams I have played in since have built this realisation, that without the unity, without the team being open to accepting others feelings whether positive or negative or being ok to have a member not entirely fitting into the team, you won’t win! Whether that be someone who is too strong-minded, not amicable or adaptable means teams won’t get the prize, they honestly won’t achieve the winning results. The glue that unites is just as important, if not more important then the individual champions in the team. Have you ever wondered why the underdogs that are enjoying the experience can quite often beat the top dog team? It isn’t a fluke; it is due to team camaraderie and the positive dynamics within.
COVID-19 has made me realise that other women in sport are looking for more, more to achieve in their sports success and performance. Having spent the last thirteen years at the top of my sports, I figured it is my time to share this knowledge and experience with those that want to improve not only their skills but also their teams. My ambition now is to help as many women worldwide with all the other things that are just as important to achieving their best, whether it be mindset, confidence, goal setting, motivation, the list goes on! Team unity; understanding different personalities and how to get the best out of other players in your team is something I am developing and will share more about in the future. If you would like any additional info, please join us www.thedoyourbestway. com or ask@thedoyourbestway.com as we are so excited to share the knowledge with all the sportswomen we can.
Suzette Thomas Suzette Thomas is a mother of 4 champions, a worldleading athlete as well as running several successful businesses. Suzette is renowned for being ambitious and determined, resulting in remarkable achievements. Growing up on a small property south of Perth WA Suzette was always determined to understand the human mind after her father took his own life at age 4. She proceeded to use her psychology degree and sports focus together to maximise her high-level performance continuously. Her only brother out of 3 sisters drowned at the age of 2, so between the two tragedies she has made it her life work to build an indoor learn to swim centre to save other children’s lives and create confidence in the kids while keeping their families whole. Her determination to achieve her best is no surprise as she has been undefeated in representing Australia 30 times in a sport called polocrosse. Her current focus is to help other women, especially in their sports performance with overcoming mindset obstacles. Her knowledge and experience in overcoming adversity and still striving for better is admirable but also relatable.
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I HAVE A CONFESSION TO MAKE; I HAVEN’T ALWAYS BEEN GOOD AT WORKING OR COLLABORATING WITH OTHER WOMEN.
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or most of my life, I preferred male friends. I worked in a male-dominated industry for over ten years and had only a few close female relationships that would usually peter out or end due to some issue on either side. I found I preferred the sarcastic and impersonal way of men. I quickly learned to give as good as I got so to speak. I became very masculine in my dealings with other people; I wouldn’t get too involved or too deep, always keeping others at arm’s length. I was disconnected from my femininity. I dressed mostly in jeans and shirts. I avoided other women other than a select few as I saw women as mostly backstabbing, gossiping drama queens (me included, especially when I was
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around other women). I was very competitive, and so too where the women I became friends with, it was toxic for both parties. Then I became a mum, and as they say, having kids changes everything, and they did, just not to start with. The competing and comparing seemed to get worse as the pressure to be the perfect mum and have the perfect children now became the focal point. There was always the comparison of who’s baby walked first, cut their first tooth, who’s baby would sleep through the night, and the list goes on. The pressure built and it got too much. I never felt worthy or good enough. I was an unhappy woman, which affected how I showed up in my life and relationships. In 2014, my youngest daughter was born and shook up my world as I knew it, which I will be forever grateful. Long story short, I experienced a break down after my youngest daughter experienced health complications, and through that, I experienced my break-through. I embarked on my personal, professional and spiritual development journey. I came to realise after much soul searching that the reason I was so disconnected from women and myself is that I didn’t trust myself or other women. Throughout my life, I had felt let
down numerous times. I had turned away from the one source that would enable my healing, connecting to my femininity, sensuality and sexuality. As I healed and learned to love the woman that I was, something magical happened, I started loving the women around me more. As I started trusting myself more, I trusted other women more. From having 1-2 women friends, I now have hundreds of women from all around the world that I adore, work and collaborate with. Every day I get to talk to the most incredible women who are making a difference. This all happened because I chose to heal my inner world and by taking responsibility for my choices and actions. By doing this, I was able to show up in the world in a much more grounded, open and vulnerable way allowing myself to connect with other women. I can now celebrate other women’s success without being jealous or comparing myself. Don’t get me wrong on down days, I can fall into old habits, though the awareness and understanding kick in and I can see it for what it is and then work with it. Imagine having such confidence in yourself that you no longer felt jealous of another’s accomplishments, or compare yourself to others and there place in life. You no longer felt the need to justify yourself by putting others down, to gossip, and compete. You just showed up as you and welcome other women as they are. I love working with women; it fills up my soul. We are such incredible beings, and when we come together
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with the same intention our world shifts and change, we create a powerful ripple that affects our families, communities and beyond. Becoming an empowered woman has been the most rewarding and challenging journey I have been on and continue to navigate it every day. Here are some tips for you to create a strong foundation: Practice self-love and compassion with yourself every day. When we feel loved and loving of ourselves, we do not seek external fixes or the need to compare/ compete as we feel so good with who we are and where we are at in life. Become self-aware. If you find yourself judging or criticising others, breathe and bring your awareness on what triggered this and why. Journalling about this or talking to someone who can support you to have your own realisations can be very healing. Find other women who will give and receive equally; this is one thing when unbalanced creates the most friendship
and business break ups. If one of the women in the partnership over gives and the other takes too much, it can lead to feelings of resentment, anger and frustration. Also, if there isn’t open communication, then the relationship or collaboration can fall apart quickly. When collaborating make sure to get down on paper, who is to do what? What is to be given and received? By doing this, it keeps roles and responsibilities evident and also helps with clear communication of expectations on both parties. Be ok with walking away and doing it with grace. If a relationship or collaboration breaks down and is no longer is right for you, it’s ok to let it go and to walk away. Don’t attack the other person for all of their perceived wrongs; instead, take responsibility for your part; see the lessons you have learned and grow from the situation. It will only reduce your energy and creditability if you go putting down others and creating drama. Share your feelings with a close friend, express all your feels and let yourself move on. Be the woman who sees it for what it is an experience to grow from.
Kim Curd from Kandy Couture and Tammie Pike at Babes Bubbles Business Gladstone Event
We can create a life and business that is based on collaborations and mutual support, and I believe it’s the new way to success for Mumpreneurs. We don’t have to do it all, so why don’t we do it together!
"CEO & Creator of Empowered Publishing, Mumpreneur Movement & Loved by Gaia, Tammie has collaborated and worked with the likes of Elizabeth Gilbert, Lisa Messenger, Denise Duffield-Thomas and in March 2021 at the Ultimate Girls Week Away in Vietnam, Gabrielle Bernstein. Since 2015 Tammie has been inspiring the lives of hundreds of thousands of others from around the world on & offline through her coaching, mentoring, courses, retreats, resources & events. Tammie believes that the new way to achieve sustainable success is through priortising self-care, self-belief, collaboration and empowering oneself that enables you to climb unimaginable heights whilst staying grounding and positively influencing those around you. Tammie is here to support others to step into their power by igniting their purpose, awakening their belief and recognising their potential to empower others through sharing their story and lived experiences.
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Women’s
Top 10 Po dc ast ARE YOU GETTING BORED OF LISTENING TO THE SAME PLAYLISTS ON SPOTIFY? WOULD YOU LIKE TO LEARN SOMETHING NEW, AS WELL AS BE ENTERTAINED, AND FEEL LIKE PART OF A COMMUNITY? We have shared some podcasts that our team are loving right now. Have a fave podcast? Tell us about it!
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Nothing Much Happens
Not all of us have healthy relationships with sleep. Perhaps it’s time to update your whole bedtime routine? If you want to switch up your evening routine, instead of doing some mindless scrolling on your phone, swap it out for a bedtime story with the Nothing Much
Happens: Bedtime Stories for GrownUps podcast. Each episode lasts between 25 and 30 minutes. Kathryn Nicolai reads each story twice—so you can listen, and then doze off. You can listen on Apple Podcasts or Google Podcasts.
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Conscious Chatter
Hosted by Kestrel Jenkins, a storyteller and conscious style maven who believes fashion + ethics
can jive, and maybe even thrive together. Conscious Chatter is an inclusive audio space and is about cultivating conversation and asking tough questions, such as: Where are my clothes made? What are they made of? And most importantly, who made them? Each episode lasts between 30 and 40 minutes. Listeners can expect to hear from experts and changemakers in the industry like Shakaila Forbes-Bell,Christy Dawn, among others. It is available on ITunes, Stitcher, Podbeam and PlayerFM.
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Balanced Black Girl
Balanced Black Girl Podcast is a safe space for conversations about joy, holistic wellness, and selfimprovement from the perspectives of Black women. If you’re looking for a podcast rooted in experience and expertise, Balanced Black Girl, hosted by personal trainer and nutrition coach Lestraundra “Les” Alfred, is the podcast to listen to. Balanced Black Girl provides content and community creating safe spaces for millennial Black women to live their healthiest lives. Each episode lasts between 30 and 60 minutes. The content of this podcast is real, raw and unapologetic. It is available on iTunes, Stitcher and Spotify.
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Checking In with Susan David via Ted Podcasts
Fear, boredom, grief, confusion— we’re all feeling... a lot right now. How do we cope with our heightened emotions during this global pandemic? Host Susan David, an award-winning Harvard Medical School psychologist, ranked as one of the world’s leading management thinkers, offer us strategies in her podcast. This show is an urgent response to an urgent moment—a support system, toolkit, and understanding voice during a time of great uncertainty. Subscribe and listen to Checking In With Susan David on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher and Google Podcasts. 44
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Feel Good Podcast
Do you ever ask any one of these questions: Is it bad to eat frozen veggies? Are soy meat alternatives bad for you? And, how can I make my hair stronger? How do I find my soulmate and make it work in the real world? Spirituality, beauty, nutrition, and yoga are a few of the wellness topics covered on the highly-rated Feel Good Podcast. (Formally known as Beauty Inside Out with Kimberly Snyder) Podcast host Kimberly Snyder offers info, insight and practical tools to help you develop a lifestyle that promotes health, wholeness and healing. Every week tune into interviews with top experts in health, wellness, spirituality, beauty and personal empowerment, as well as the Thursday Q and A segment with questions from the community. Start living your most beautiful, inspired and joyful life…and start to really FEEL GOOD! Boost your confidence! Each episode lasts between 20 and 40 minutes. It’s available via iTunes, Stitcher and SoundCloud.
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Terrible, Thanks For Asking
TTFA was named one of the best podcasts three years in a row by The Atlantic. The New York Times calls it “a gift to be able to listen.” In this podcast, host Nora McInerny asks real people to share their complicated and honest feelings about how they really are. If you need a laugh, if you’re ready to shed some tears, give this podcast a chance to entertain you and eventually help you realise that it’s okay to feel terrible sometimes. It’s available via Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher and IHeart Radio.
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Asking For A Friend
Want to hack life like an Instagram pro? In today’s social media culture, it’s easy to look around and believe that everyone else has life figured out. But things aren’t always as they
appear! Asking for Friend is as much about the trials of motherhood and finding time for a skincare routine as it is about snapping the perfect IG post. If you want to learn how to quickly navigate a Pinterestobsessed world, host Lauren Conrad with her guests, offer a healthy dose of reality each week. Each episode lasts between 40 and 50 minutes. It is available via Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts and Radio.com.
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Afford Anything
Before anything else, did you know that Afford Anything host Paula Pant owned 8 homes by the time she was 34 years old? So if you’re ready to make some Cardi B level money moves, listen to Paula Pant’s Afford Anything. Her podcast answers some of the toughest questions surrounding financial security by focusing on the sacrifices and tradeoffs it takes to become an expert saver. If your answer is YES to any of these questions: Has the pandemic caused you to feel less-than at any point? Do you find your painstakinglyformed money habits harder to stick with? Do you believe in your ability to change? Are you scared to take the first step toward the habits that you want to build? You can listen to this podcast via Apple Podcasts and her website.
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Girl Boss Radio
Girl Boss aims to redefine success for millennial women by providing the tools and connections they need to own their futures. On each episode of their podcast, Sophia Amoruso interviews boundary-pushing women and gets solid advice from the lessons they’ve learned along the way. These women go deep on what it takes to build a successful career or grow a business with staying powerwhile living life on their own terms. If you’re career focused, goal driven and is willing to learn more this podcast is for you. Each episode lasts between 30 and 60 minutes. Subscribe and listen via the Girl Boss website.
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Oprah’s SuperSoul Conversations
Awaken, discover and connect to the deeper meaning of the world around you with SuperSoul. Hear Oprah’s personal selection of her interviews with thought-leaders, best-selling authors, spiritual luminaries, as well as health and wellness experts. All designed to light you up, guide you through life’s big questions and help bring you one step closer to your best self. Each episode lasts between 30 and 45 minutes. It is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Podbeam. MUMPRENEUR MOVEMENT |
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Tracy Verdugo IF TRACY VERDUGO WAS GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY TO COIN A TERM FOR A NEW ART MOVEMENT BASED AROUND WHAT SHE TEACHES SHE MIGHT CALL IT “CURIOSITY AND WONDERISM” OR MAYBE “LOOSEN-UPISM” OR “ENDLESS POSSIBILITISM”.
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hen she is not hanging out with her family in their artsy adobe home in a small village on the shores of Jervis Bay, Australia, or
throwing paint around in her little purple studio in their backyard, you may find her painting beside thermal pools on an Italian island with an eager group of students, Aperol
Spritz in one hand, paintbrush in the other, or sitting in a circle on St Pete Beach, Florida, listening intently as women share their stories of creative longing. Tracy is an inspiration instigator, prolific painter, bestselling author and lover of the written word, smitten traveller and soaker up of all that is beauty-full. She teaches her Paint Mojo and other creative workshops all over this amazing planet and reminds her students of the wonder that already resides within them. Her works are vibrant and filled with joy, inspired both by global travels and the simple beauty of the focused moment. Since 2000 Tracy has held 18 successful solo exhibitions and her works are held in collections both in Australia and internationally. Mostly though, she is mama bear to two gorgeous, zestfilled daughters, Santana and Cece, and co-adventurer in life with her amor of 34 years, the talented and brilliant Marco. artist.explorer.teacher.writer. wondering wanderer.curious creative.inspiration instigator. :)
Free Art Class A GIFT FROM TRACY TO YOU ALL, TO HELP YOU NAVIGATE THIS TIME AND TO REMIND US THAT WE ARE ALL CONNECTED. At our core we all share the same stories, the same basic need for community and love and we are all in this thing together. This painting tutorial speaks to the divine feminine spirit, in every person. The spirit of creation, intuition, community, compassion, vulnerability and collaboration.
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World Food Day
great time to introduce new flavours and cultures into your home, helping young ones learn about the world around them. It is important, however, to be mindful when nourishing your loved ones as eating has become a source of entertainment, that can often lead to bad eating habits. WFD not only brings awareness to the growing hunger in our world but mindfulness to what it is we are actually eating. Nutrition events are held worldwide to encourage healthy eating habits. Being mindful of what is being wasted is also of growing concern. Wasted meals and thrown out produce contribute to our world’s hunger problem, leaving one in every nine people hungry.
IF THERE IS ONE THING THAT BRINGS FAMILIES TOGETHER, IT’S MEALTIME. THE BASIC NEED TO NOURISH OUR BODIES IS SHARED BY ALL. PREPARING SOMETHING TO EAT, AND SHARING IT WITH LOVED ONES, BRINGS A SENSE OF TOGETHERNESS LIKE NONE OTHER.
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eing able to eat is not a privilege, but a right. This right is shared by every human being on this planet. For this reason, the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations created World Food Day. A day for people all over the world to come together, over our most basic human need. Observed annually, World Food Day (WFD) takes place on October 16. First established in 1945, the day is now observed by more than 150 countries. Awareness is raised on serious issues, such as poverty and hunger. This day is set aside to bring attention to those in need. The United States of America began celebrating in 1982, and has since collaborated with many organisations to hold feeding events nationwide. Asia, Africa and Europe participate in this global event as well. This worldwide event brings cultures together over an everyday basic need.
down to enjoy a meal together, makes the family unit stronger. Dinner time is a great way to share what everyone did that day, or how work or school is going. Mums and Dads look forward to dinner time discussions with their children. Seeing their offspring eat and nourish their bodies, brings a sense of calmness and joy to them. Multiple generations gather every day in kitchens all over the world, coming together over necessary nourishment. Dinner time is vital for creating a strong bond. This is a
Countries all over the world bring people together through initiatives to end produce waste and stop hunger. This year, we have an excellent opportunity to make an impact on a global scale. Support your local farmers by making a trip to the farmers market. You can also visit your local food bank or charity, to see how you can contribute. Ask how your household can volunteer their time and energy, to make sure another household is able to eat. Most organisations offer volunteer services year-round. This is a great way to get the entire family involved in a great cause. On October 16, make a snack, prepare a home-cooked meal, or pack a picnic for your fellow human. Share in the greatness of eating together with a friend, loved one or even a stranger. You never know what kind of impact you may have on that person. The need to eat is something every human experiences. Share a meal with others and watch the world come together!
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Beet Raspberry T WafFLes (Vegan & Gluten-Free) with Coconut Cream Topping Recipe
Filled with tasty tart fruitiness (and hidden veggies) these vibrant Red Beet and Raspberry Waffles are a delightful breakfast and brunch idea. Bonus - you can sneak some extra fiber and nutrition into your (and your kiddos’) diet!
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hese waffles are healthy, low-carb, and low in processed sugars. Not only is this recipe a vegan and glutenfree option for breakfast, the ingredients include fresh nutritious raspberries and red beets. This means that waffle time includes AMAZING antioxidants and Vitamin C. Fresh raspberries offer a wonderful blend of sweet and tart flavors. Roasted beets and fresh raspberries blended with almond milk adds fabulous moisture to the gluten-free mix and provides the most STUNNING pink/red hue. Serve these waffles for a Valentine’s Day-themed breakfast, Easter or Mother’s Day brunch, or any
Wedding or Baby Shower. However, you don’t need a special reason to eat these waffles because the gorgeous color, delicious flavor, and incredible nutrients are perfect every day. Top waffles with delicious vegan coconut cream topping, fresh berries, coconut shreds, maple syrup, almond butter, or applesauce. For more fabulous breakfast beet recipes, try Beet Almond Pancakes (Gluten-Free) and Beet and Blueberry Almond Oatmeal Cobbler.
Ingredients: • 1-2 medium red beets, roasted • 1 cup fresh raspberries • 1 3/4 cups gluten-free all purpose flour • 3 tbsp ground flax seed • 1 1/2 tsp baking powder (ensure gluten-free if necessary) • 1/4 tsp salt • 1/4 cup sweetener of choice (honey, maple syrup, etc.)* • 1 1/2 cup unsweetened almond milk • 1 tsp white or apple cider vinegar • 2 tbsp coconut oil • 2 tsp vanilla • a few tbsp of coconut cream topping (optional) This recipe utilizes the natural sugars from red beets and raspberries, so the added sugar content is low. If you prefer a sweeter taste, add more sweetener of your choice.
Directions: 1. Roast beets for about 25-30 minutes. To roast beets, wrap beet in foil and cook until beets are tender when pierced with a sharp knife.
2. When beets are cool enough to handle, remove skins (skins are edible but add a chunky texture), chop into quarters, and add to high-powered blender with nondairy milk (or milk of choice) and fresh raspberries. 3. Blend until smooth and vibrantly pink! Depending on your blender, you may end up with chunky raspberry seeds. If you prefer a smoother texture, use a sieve or cheese cloth to drain or squeeze liquid, removing raspberry seeds. 4. In a large mixing bowl, mix remaining ingredients (starting with dry ingredients). 5. Add blended ingredients to the bowl and mix, making sure to smooth out clumps. 6. Preheat waffle maker, lightly sprayed with non-stick spray or rubbed with coconut oil. 7. Cook waffles according to your waffle maker’s instructions. 8. Serve waffles with fresh berries and delicious coconut cream topping (vegan).
These waffles are best eaten fresh! They can be stored in an airtight container in the refrigerator for a few days; however, because of the density of the waffles, they do become dry after a day or two. You can soften them with toppings, such as berries or applesauce.
Aarika Chilson Founder, Owner, and Hugger Extraordinaire A lover of life and everything beets, I am passionate about happy dance foods: healthy foods that invigorate, inspire, and make me want to shimmy with joy! The extraordinary beet is one of my many “happy dance” foods. It is my goal to bring simplicity, joy, and wellness into YOUR life, changing the world one humble beet at a time. When I am not sharing the beet love, I also enjoy traveling, yoga, reading, laughing, volunteering with animal rescues, dancing, hugging trees, and eating. Yes – I love food!
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