Dubbo Photo News 21.04.2022

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THE POWER OF CONVERSATIONS FOR VETERANS

Brigette and Luke Glynn are two of the local veterans fundraising to set up a support cottage for others who served and may be struggling with mental health issues. They said that sharing their story and having an open and honest conversation with Dubbo Photo News last Anzac Day has changed their lives. PHOTO: DUBBO PHOTO NEWS/STEVE COWLEY

By JOHN RYAN BRIGETTE Glynn is, literally, a different person to the lady I first spoke to just before Anzac Day last year. While she had good memories from her time in uniform, she’d also experienced trauma sufficient to see her diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), an ailment which sapped her confidence in herself. When husband Luke, also a veteran, initially contacted Dubbo Photo News it was to make a comment about how Anzac Day was portrayed in the media, and during that conversation he agreed to tell his story, and Brigette came along and shared hers as well. She said she was incredibly fearful at how her story was going to be portrayed, taking an incredible leap of faith entrusting her soul to the local newspaper. “It was huge, huge, I was so scared to the point of not sleep-

ing before it came out, and the biggest fear was of being ridiculed, of people reading it and going, ‘Oh, she’s just after sympathy,’ and that type of thing,” Mrs Glynn revealed. She believes that fear of being publicly shamed was a huge weight on the minds of so many people who’d served in the Australian military, people who were worried that while they’d tried to do their best, others would view their contributions in an unsympathetic light. “One hundred per cent, it is probably one of the biggest things that you are worried about because when you’re in the military, even if you have a common cold and go to the medical centre, it’s frowned upon and people automatically think you’re malingering, that you’re faking it. So in order to come out and do that, or to come out and say anything to anyone about your concerns and fears, you’re 100 per cent think-

ing that people aren’t going to believe you.” When the article came out, she couldn’t believe how much the reactions from locals sparked positive conversations, eventually helping to restore her confidence. “It was huge, the article opened up the conversations that made me feel like I had served, so I joined the RSL Sub-Branch and I spoke with some of the other veterans and they were so welcoming,” she said. “I then joined the Air Force cadets as staff, so it made me take that huge leap of faith to go back into a system that’s very similar to the military and I wasn’t as fearful of it as I used to be.” Husband Luke agrees that opening up, for many, is an incredibly difficult and torturous first step. “Telling my story to Dubbo Photo News, when it was published it made it easier for me to open up,” he said.

“Even when talking to my own clients, I’m now able to explain my situation and my story without the judgement that’s involved in any of these kinds of things – that’s the biggest fear I guess for any veteran, the judgement that comes with your story and by having it out there. “People actually said, ‘I didn’t realise that you actually did that, I didn’t realise that was an actual thing.’ It makes you open up a conversation and that’s probably the biggest benefit for most people – being actually able to have the confidence to open a conversation.” He said so many people read the story and wanted to show they supported him. His story in Dubbo Photo News gave others the inclination to talk about it with Luke and find out more about his story – many people were even interested in the stories behind his various tattoos which were pictured with the article, Luke said.

“(The tattoos) have been a big conversation starter because all of a sudden people were saying they’d seen them in Dubbo Photo News and they’d ask me to tell them more. When I start to explain our story to people, they then realise there’s a lot involved, and because I’m so passionate about (being a veteran), that gave me the confidence to actually talk about what’s going on my life,” he said. Prior to the story, Luke said the couple were so lucky to have found each other, not least for the mutual support, but they had a real sense – on a daily basis – that it was them against the world. He said finding not just likemined veterans who served, but also people in general who read the story and are very empathetic towards their sacrifices and respectful of their service, has been a gamechanger when it comes to happiness. Continued page 3

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