STARTING SCHOOL time to collect you”. The night before, try to create a calm atmosphere at home. Let your child know that everything is organised. Talk them through what will happen in the morning. Again, emphasise all the positive aspects of starting school. On the big day, a transition object can really help. For example, a former colleague used to encourage parents and guardians to give their child an (old!) set of keys to “mind” as visual proof that they will be coming back. Another tip is to spray your usual perfume on a tissue so that your child feels protected and connected. Sometimes parents slip out the door without saying goodbye. Although they
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are well-intentioned, this can actually be very upsetting for a child. Instead, say goodbye, give them a kiss and a hug, tell your child that you know they’ll have a great day, remind them that you’ll be back to collect them and then leave. Even though it’s tempting, don’t linger, or try to peep in the window! Make sure that you are there on time to collect your child as this builds trust, remember to allow time for parking! This article :https://www.elsa-
support.co.uk/elsachatseparation-anxiety/ also helps to explain why starting school can be overwhelming for a young child and gives practical tips.
