Pedofili

paedophilia is on the agenda again

Number of children unaware of anything who dies because of sexual abuse is increasing Paedophilia is rising from its grave again! According to official records currently 5,681 missing children sought by law enforcement agencies!

Paedophilia is an adult finding preadolescence children attractive; it’s a psychosexual disorder. Amongst people paedophiliacs are called nonce. Paedophiliac does not enjoy sexual intercourse with adults. Tendency to children is because of lack selfconfidence and because finding children less threatening. Above sentence describes the situation a little bit. Paedophiliac also finds children less threatening because of lack of sexual self-confidence jection pushes a person to less threatening factors.

The reasons we can show are paedophilic know it is not correct, involves legal situations that might cause being guilty, against the mores. Paedophiliac knows there is or there will be no defence or reaction and uses the situation for his fantasies and turns his favour.

Paedophilic chooses the same sex or opposite sex. Researches show that paedophiliacs are usually man. Amongst women paedophilia rate is very low. According to a researches lack of selfconfidence, not maturing and personality traits not established character turns to disease.

“Kids!

Never hide anything from your parents!” “

Amongst women paedophilia rate is very low because of being a mother or being a potential mother. Paedophilia comes from the Greek words of paidio (child) and philia (addiction).

Paedophilia is bases on “child abuse”. Child abuse can be covered under emotional, negligence and sexual abuse. But sexual abuse is the most important one because of legally issues and horrifies he victims life.

Sexual abuse is using an “age of consent” child as a sex object in order to have sexual satisfaction. This shows itself with exhibitionism, voyeurism and frotteurism.

Paedophiliac sexual satisfaction happens through touching and looking at the genitals of the victim. The reaction of the victim impacts victim’s future sexual and psychological conditions but also results with passive pleasure, fear and violence. Child victims always become problematic adults.

Psychological researches show that when a child was a victim during childhood the ratio to commit a crime is higher.

Females ratio of experiencing such situations have tendency to use drugs and prostitution. Children are vulnerable in the society.

Paedophiliac knows this and gains their trust first. Child does not look anything under this interest and protects the paedophiliac and stay silent. this actions because of sexual fantasies and instincts.

According to DSMIV-TR results, people who show these behaviours and become a paedophiliac he needs to be at least 16, and victim needs to at least 5. Again, in order to accept this as paedophilia, paedophiliac needs to do this with sexual instincts.

Paedophilia Speak Up!

Paedophilia

Paedophilia is an adult finding preadolescence children attractive .

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Paedophiliacs researched in two main categories. First category is that victims are preadolescences and in the second category victims are post pubescent children.

Patience who only chooses children is called “selective” and who does not choose between children or adults are called “not selective”. Selective patience also splits as the ones choosing the babies or the children.

These are the main topic paedophiliacs defends themselves:

Refection: Paedophiliac claims that hugging a child is not a crime, says he loves the child innocently, says it’s not something bad and rejects the situation.

Underestimation: They say the incident only happened once and this situation cannot be described as a sickness or a crime, and avoids the situation. Sounding believable: Just like in rejection paedophiliac says the act is innocent; there is no sickness or crime, claims that the situation can be explained easily.

Making Up: Paedophiliac sometimes defends himself with illogical ways. Such as this was as assignment given to him.

Attack: Paedophiliac sometimes attacks the psychologists, legal people or people around him. We see that paedophiliacs have an undeveloped personality. This people are usually unhappy in their families, not valued enough with limited relations, introvert, psychopathic and psychosexual.

Issues to be considered...

The age of paedophiliacs is surprising. Most of them are between 40-70. Most of them are men. We need to remind that in order to prevent such fantasies and deviancies Internet should be used carefully.

Paedophiliac are usually relatives, teachers, and neighbours. This means people who gain the trust of the children dares to do such actions. Again, paedophiliacs need to gain trust or choose a job that they can gain trust and reach their purposes. Its is interesting where paedophilic actions take place.

They start their actions where the children feel safe and know. When the girls are the victims the incident usually happens in the victim’s house or the paedophiliac’s house. When the victim is a boy the incident usually takes outside of the home in a garden, by the roadside or at a hotel. We see that paedophiliac is not using force. It is interesting that these people have twisted behaviours like they being shy, nice, quiet and decent.

Paedophiliac approaches to his victim quietly and does not scare him. By the end of it ,the situation turning to games getting out of the hand is that is not acceptable and victim cannot tell to his parents.

Later nervous breakdowns, psychological diseases or substance abuse happen later in life and we think that precautions needs to be taken and the subject needs to be well understand in order to prevent the abuse. It is very normal that children victims do not tell about the situation or find it very hard to explain the situation. Because child thinks nobody will believe him.

The person who is doing this is a trustworthy person such as personnel, neighbour or relative. Child thinks his explanation would not be considered as real and with the effects of sexual abuse and the effects of the incident would start and increase in the following years.

The biggest risk is drug usage. Again sexual dysfunctions, trauma, alcohol and drug usage, depression sleep disorders, having nightmares, lost of appetite or increasing appetite, peeing the pants occurs.

Let’s see what can we do and how to take precautions:

First off all be need to be aware of the people who are very interested with the child. We need to control child’s Internet access and the people he is talking to.

We need to watch if the child behaves odd

When there is communication problem with the child we need to understand the reason and solve it.