Should You Ask For Financial Assistance? Adoption is not always an inexpensive decision, but it does not have to break the bank either. However for the many families who are not as financially well off as others, the costs of adoption can be heavy. That brings up the question of asking for financial aid from friends and family. Adoption is a beautiful service, one that gives the gift of family to a child who perhaps would never have one. Some families feel it is perfectly acceptable to ask for money since the cause is so worthy. However, other families do not feel the same way. The reasons for both sides are many, and the arguments valid. Below are the pros and cons of asking for money. It is Acceptable to Ask for Money Some people find that asking for adoption money is perfectly fine. The cause is noble and the endresult is quite beautiful, and one that is certainly life changing. Friends and families will most likely be more than happy to lend a hand if it means growing the family. After all, adoption is not always affordable, even for families who get by quite easily. For those who may want to pursue this course, it is good to keep in mind that raising money for adoption does not have to be direct asking. Prospective parents can host a fundraiser or a garage sale to raise the necessary funds. This can make for exciting events that celebrate the future addition to the family, which in itself, beyond the monetary aspect, is a fitting way to welcome a new family member. Adoption is a wonderful act and should be treated as such. For proponents of asking, it is good to remember that everyone needs help at some point in their lives. Asking for Money is Unacceptable On the other hand, asking for money can open several unwanted doors. For starters, there is a real limit to how far generosity can go. Many people are fine with donating money when asked, such as through fundraising dinners or crowd funding. However, being repeatedly asked for money will quickly turn off even your closest friends and family. It can also be considered poor taste to ask for money outright, even if the request is limited to one instance. Parent readiness is another point raised by those who say that asking for money is not a good idea. If the adoption itself has parents stretched thin, how can they hope to raise a child once he or she is brought home? The cost of raising a child reaches thousands of dollars each year. Some would say that it is best for parents to have their affairs in order beforehand, or as close as possible, before deciding to adopt.
Final Thoughts There are good reasons on both sides of the argument. At the end of the day, it all comes down to your personal philosophy on how to finance an adoption. If you would like advice or counsel on these matters, or want more information about any other aspect of adoption, feel free to consult an adoption agency. Adoption counselors can help walk you through the costs of an adoption and offer advice and tips on what is required to properly finance an adoption and successfully bring home a new family member. About Action Adoption at Providence Place Placing a child for adoption is an important decision that requires careful consideration. Are you contemplating this loving option? Do you have any idea about how or where to start? Action Adoption at Providence Place can help. We will guide you through the process while making sure all your questions are answered. Contact us today to learn more.