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The Triangle Here and Now

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from the publisher Seventeen years and counting, we sure have seen a lot of weddings over the years!

art director Stephanie DuBois

Our 2012 issue is bringing the best yet. As you glance through the real weddings, par-

account manager Maureen Powell

assembled right here in our magazine. In addition to our wonderful printed magazine, our

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ties, fashions, flowers, cakes, food and style shoots you will be amazed at the talent web site boasts so many more opportunities for brides and grooms to get to know each of these wedding professionals.

Be sure to visit our site while you are planning your wedding this year. Our entire

copy editor Katey Warren

printed magazine can be viewed online – handy when you have family and friends in other

interns Katey Warren Megan Ransone Lauren Vied

blog posts, photographs and event happenings. It is also a great place to see other real

distribution Rick Mangrum For Advertising Information visit or call: www.weddings-magazine.com 919-552-7655 Reproduction of copy or artwork is strictly prohibited.

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states who might be helping in the planning process. Our site is updated hourly with new weddings not featured here in the magazine. The site is also open to brides who would like to submit their own real wedding for all to see! And the icing on the cake…when you register online, you will be eligible for six giveaways in 2012.

This will be a busy year for all of you planning your wedding here in the Triangle and we certainly hope our local magazine will help guide you along the way. Just remember to enjoy the planning process, patronize our wonderful vendors and by all means, do not forget to savor every moment of your big day.

We wish you all the best of luck and a long and happy life as a newly married couple.

Robyn & Maureen

Ad content is not the responsibility of Mangrum Publishing. Mangrum Publishing prints articles and features for entertainment purposes only and does not seek to advise readers on medical problems or decisions. Under no circumstances will Mangrum Publishing be liable for any damages that result from reliance on or use of the information provided herein. cover Credits: Photographer: Agata Stoinska / www.stoinska.com Stylist: Roxanne Parker / www.roxanneparker.com Photographer’s Assistant: Nikki Browne Hair: Jackie Faye for www.kazumihair.ie Make Up: www.kenboylan.com Model: Nadia Ribenio Dress: www.anabelrose.com All jewelery www.accessorize.com Flowers: by the Flower Box, Mount Merrion, Dublin Location: www.tankardstown.ie members of

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One of the most difficult decisions when Bridal Fashion & Jewelry . . . . . . . . . .

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planning your wedding is deciding exactly where you should tie the knot. These days,

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the wedding. So where do you begin your search when trying to decide on a venue?

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sider your guests. If a good portion of your wedding guests are older, extreme temperatures or the need to travel long distances may affect whether they can attend.

Coastal Beach weddings can fit almost any budget. While time of year

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Feature Parties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

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plays a part in when you can have a coastal wedding, travel and guests’ schedules are also important considerations.

Historic Downtown Sites Getting married in the town you and your future spouse-to-be met or grew up in can hold special meaning and is

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NC Marriage Laws . . . . . . . . . . . . .

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a beautifully timeless venue.

Local Farms With a backdrop you can’t beat, farms are generally set up to easily accommodate large numbers of people and are found within or nearby most towns.

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Vineyards Vineyards provide a vintage feel and plenty of wine, usually have wedding packages to choose from, and are a great fit for just about anyone.

A Boat Getting married on the water can be an unforgettable experi-

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ence. Of course, one must consider possible side-effects: seasickness, wind, and how well you and your guests can handle being on a boat for several hours.

Museums & Libraries Full of history and incredible architecture, his-

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Planning Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . .

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toric museums and libraries are an unusual yet unique wedding venue trend this year.

Aquariums Who wouldn’t want to get married under some of the most dangerous and beautiful creatures on earth? You are entering uncharted

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waters! Peaceful and spacious, aquariums are becoming more popular locations for weddings. Working out an affordable price and date are the trick to getting the underwater “I do’s” of your dreams. wm

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Cardinal Club 150 Fayetteville, Ste 2800., Ral • 919-834-8829

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The Carolina Inn 1211 Pittsboro Street, Chapel Hill • 919-918-2749

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Coquette 4351-119 The Circle at North Hills • 919-789-0606

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The Cotton Room 807 E Main St., Rm 2-350, Durham • 919-530-8380

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Embassy Suites – Raleigh Crabtree 4700 Creedmoor Rd., Raleigh • 919-881-0000

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Embassy Suites – RDU / Brier Creek 8001 Arco Corporate Dr, Raleigh • 919-572-2200

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1705 Prime Chophouse & Events 1705 Millbrook Ave., Raleigh • 919-850-2340

Fleming’s 4325 Glenwood Ave #5004, Raleigh • 919-571-6200 Frazier’s 2418 Hillsborough • 919-828-6699 The Grand Marquise Ballroom 205 New Fidelity Ct., Garner • 919-773-0013

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Available Serving Sytle

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Reception & Banquet Guide

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Average Price per Person

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Available Serving Sytle

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Het Landhuis 1898 Henderson Tanyard Rd, Pittsboro • 919-545-2280

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Highgrove 1613 S. Main St., Fuquay-Varina • 919-552-6154

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Hilton Garden Inn – Raleigh-Cary 131 Columbus Ave., Cary • 919-339-1607

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Homewood Suites - Cary 100 MacLayson Ct., Cary • 919-467-4444

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Jennette’s Pier 7223 S Virginia Dare Tr, Nags Head • 252-255-1501

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Marriott RTP 4700 Guearduan Dr., Durham • 919-941-6200

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Facility Information Hampton Inn – RDU / Brier Creek 8001 Arco Corporate Dr, Raleigh • 919-484-0500

The Matthews House 317 W. Chatham St., Cary • 919-467-1944 Michael Deans Seafood Grill 6004 Falls of Neuse Rd., Raleigh • 919-790-9992

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NC Aquarium on Roanoke Island 374 Airport Road, Manteo • 866-332-3475

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Red Room 510 Glenwood Ave., Raleigh, NC • 919-835-1322

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Second Empire Restaurant 330 Hillsborough St., Raleigh, NC • 919-829-3663

Varied

6

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SEVEN 501 Washington St., Raleigh, NC • 919-833-7776

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350

3

12

$50-75

Yes

Varied

No

Yes

No

No

Yes

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up to 175

3

6

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Varied Yes

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5

2

$50-75

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No

No

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2+

$26-50

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Varied Yes

Yes

Call

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Yes

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200

2

12

$100+

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Varied Yes

Yes

No

No

Yes

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$26-50

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Varied Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

•

•

2

Call

Yes

Varied

No

No

No

Yes

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Preston Woodall House 201 E. Hill St., Benson • 919-894-7025 Prestonwood Country Club 300 Prestonwood Pkwy., Cary • 919-467-2566 Raleigh Marriott City Center 500 Fayetteville St., Raleigh • 919-833-1120

The Siena 1505 E Franklin St., Chapel Hill • 919-918-2544

The Sutherland 1371 Wake Union Church Rd., Wake Forest The Umstead Hotel & Spa 100 Woodland Pond Dr., Cary • 866-877-4141 Vivace at North Hills 4209-115 Lassiter Mill Rd., Raleigh • 919-787-7747

Ward’s Hollow 3215 Mt. Gilead Church Rd., Pittsboro • 919-617-1840 up to 300

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Number of Months in Avance to Schedule •

The Preserve at Jordan Lake 840 The Preserve Tr., Chapel Hill • 919-542-5501 x4

Available Serving Sytle

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Facility Information

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Reception & Banquet Guide

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Discover a Perfect Setting for Your Bridal Celebration

Prime Steak & 100 Wines by the Glass

Rehearsal Dinners • Engagement Parties & Bridal Showers Cocktail Gatherings • Bachelor/Bachelorette Dinners Preset Menus and Custom Dining Arrangements

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www.waltersandwalters.com

at the fabulous Raleigh Marriott City Center in downtown Raleigh.

Boasting a grand entrance, modern décor, a lavish lobby and posh guest rooms, this hotel was the perfect venue for our Old Hollywood theme. The Raleigh Marriott City Center has a grand Ballroom that can accommodate up to 630 guests for weddings, rehearsal dinners, luncheons and ceremonies. Located in the heart of downtown Raleigh, the hotel is convenient to shopping, nightlife and sight seeing. All of your guests will certainly feel welcome in one of the 400 beautifully decorated sleeping rooms and suites. Visit www.marriott.com/rdumc for more information and booking your wedding.

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fashionforward

Weddings Magazine ‘red carpet’ fashion shoot was held this year

glamourgirls Arriving to the big event in a Maserati on a red carpet is surely a nice touch, but the bride will surely be a showstopper in this gorgeous belted sheath gown. Add sparkle to this with vintage hair accessories and bold jewelry.

gown Traditions by Anna (p63) tuxedos Cape Fear Formalwear headpiece & jewelry www.margargetrowe.com shot on location Raleigh Marriott City Center, Entrance (p10) Photography waltersandwalters.com (p116) Red carpet Classic Party Rentals (p220) 2012

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glamourgirls An intricate pattern adorned with tiny sequins play up this timeless strapless gown. For added drama, slip on a brilliant ring and necklace.

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glamourgirls Classic Hollywood glamour at it’s finest, a 1961 Corvette and a striking gown boasting layers upon layers of elegant tulle.

Highlight the crystal embellished waistline with dangling earrings and a brilliant cuff bracelet.

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glamourgirls It will be hard to go unnoticed down the alleyway in this beautiful baby-doll gown. Tiny beads accentuate the bustline and empire waist while a bold ring adds flair.

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glamourgirls The best of both worlds, fitted and full. Lovely layers of fabric accentuate the lower half of this dream-girl dress.

Ramp up your jewelry with a double-layered crystal necklace and bold ring.

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glamourgirls The intricate lace overlay on this fitted gown adds movement and elegance. Play up this flattering neckline with a unique necklace.

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Tiers of sheer fabric cascade down this gorgeous peplum dress.

A taupe satin sash adds color and shape to this flattering style.

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Cascades of ruffles flow down this elegant shoulder strap gown. All bridesmaids will look stunning in this pale lavender satin sheath.

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glamourgirls A true fit for a princess. Fine tulle drapes this entire dress and fills out the lower half of this glamorous gown.

Play up the jeweled waistline with a dramatic necklace.

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glamourgirls Command the bar and all the attention in this traditional strapless ball gown. Finish this look with simple drop earrings and a stunning hairpiece.

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glamourgirls One of the sexiest gowns of the season. A plunging neckline and satin fabric drape the body while the shirring trims the waistline.

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glamourgirls Be the center of attention in a figure-flattering gown enhanced with fine lace detailing. A crystal hair accessory and classic hair will complete this look.

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glamourgirls Be on the lookout for paparazzi in this gown! Swirls of added fabric accentuate the bottom of this gown while a black sash adds a formal flair. (other sash colors available). Trade in your mothers pearls for this fabulous pearl and chain work of art.

gown Traditions by Anna (p63) tuxedos Cape Fear Formalwear jewelry www.margargetrowe.com shot on location Raleigh Marriott City Center (p10) Photography waltersandwalters.com (p116) 2012

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glamourgirls Hand cut tulle gives this gown dramatic texture and appeal.

Opt for a traditional clean hairstyle when wearing a bold dress.

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glamourgirls A Weddings Magazine favorite, this gown drapes beautifully while the beadwork and sequins are impeccable. Burgundy for bridesmaids is making a comeback for 2012 in short and long gowns.

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glamourgirls Beautiful hand cut fabric flowers are intricately sewn on this trumpet style gown. Bring out the tiny crystals embellished in these flowers with an edgy crystal choker and drop earrings.

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glamourgirls A fit and flair satin beauty with a neckline to flatter any bride.

Rev up this look with a one-of-a-kind bracelet and hairpiece to match.

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glamourgirls This unassuming figure flattering trumpet gown gets a boost with unique jewelry and a sleek hairstyle.

Bridesmaids will love dancing at the reception in this halter style playful dress.

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jewel rules What to Wear on Your Wedding Day

inspired by her coast California

Worn by celebrities such as Heidi Klum and Christina Applegate,

lifestyle, the mystique of golden

Margaret Rowe’s collections have graced the pages of several trendy

hollywood eras and the sizzle of

women’s magazines, including InStyle and Modern Bride. Rowe’s hand-

the silver screen’s red carpets,

crafted bridal collections are an amalgam of sparkling gems, crystal quartz,

margaret rowe creates couture

polished silver accents and stunning centerpieces of vintage or artistic ori-

jewelry collections that as timeless

gin. Rowe takes pride in knowing that each piece in every Margaret Rowe

as they are trendsetting.

collection has been touched by her designing hand, a fact that resonates with brides when they are searching for that special wedding day heirloom.

The hottest style for wedding day jewelry right now is ‘Hollywood Red Carpet’— think wide jeweled cuff bracelets with dramatic drop earrings.

Pairing bold statement accessories with strapless gowns also creates a look that fits well into this trend, adding glamour to an otherwise simple silhouette. Don’t forget that you are the star, so you should let yourself shine and

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sparkle — literally!

If the dazzle of the red carpet look is a little too over the top for you, you may instead opt for the classic alternative of adorning a piece of heirloom jewelry on your wedding day. Find a treasured heirloom in your jewelry box and have it made into a one-of-a-kind piece that echoes all the love that it has brought to you over the years. Wearing a piece of jewelry that has a special history within your family will allow you to feel even more connected to family members, while also providing you with a special piece to pass down to your own children one day.

When selecting your bridal jewelry, determine which pieces will be the focal point of your look. Perhaps it’s a jeweled hairpiece, dramatic necklace or shimmering bracelet. You may even shop for the jewelry first, then find a gown later to coordinate with your jewels. Pair delicate jewelry, such as small pearls and pave crystal pieces, with a lace gown. Go with bold jewelry if you wear a ball gown or strapless gown. If this bold piece is a statement necklace, complement the look with classic post earrings. If your statement piece is a set of bangles or a cuff bracelet, you may complete the look with either very simple or very ornate earrings. Remember, it’s your day to show your personality, so go with the jewelry that you enjoy most.

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The decision of whether to incorporate color in your jewels is also a very personal one. You may add a splash of color to your look in many different ways. I love vintage style! My wedding cake was mint green with pink flowers and my ‘something blue’ was the nail polish on my toes! Most importantly, remember it is YOUR day, so wear pieces that you absolutely treasure and love! wm

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avoiding wedding wars Keeping the Peace Under Pressure

As if you don’t already have enough

Get Together Immediately after you decide who will be in your bridal party,

to do as a bride-to-be, throwing every

it is a great idea to get everyone together and delegate certain roles or tasks

opinionated family member and friend

to each member of your bridal party. Throw a luncheon to give everyone the

you know into the mix could easily

chance to get to know each other on a more personal level. This way, you can

create a recipe for disaster!

observe each of the ladies’ reactions to each other and see who gets along

Cutting off conflict before it begins

with whom, and most importantly, who doesn’t! Another bright and resource-

by setting some boundaries at the

ful idea is to create a “traditions book.” This is a list that details the roles of

beginning of your wedding planning

the mother-in-law, the maid of honor, the bridesmaids, etc. Add a touch of

process can help to deter drama and

humor to it with outdated traditions, but primarily focus on including modern-

keep the peace among the ones you

day roles to give everyone something to refer to when disagreements arise.

love during your special time.

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Be Crystal Clear Let your maid of honor act as your “voice” and express to her what you do and do not want when it comes to your bridal shower, bachelorette party and other wedding details. Don’t be afraid to be as thorough as possible and make a list; this takes the guesswork out of planning for the bridal party and gives them guidelines to follow, derailing any arguments that may pop up.

Stress Less Don’t get involved! If disagreements arise, let them take care of themselves. Assign a bridal party member that you know and trust to keep a close eye on anyone you may be worried about. If fights do break out, keep your cool and have this peacemaker take care of the situation and politely remind everyone that this is YOUR day.

There may be family members or friends that YOU want to avoid or who may want to contribute their two cents about everything (you know, the ones that just rub you the wrong way!). Ask a close friend, family member or confidant to discreetly keep this person at arm’s-length from you during your wedding, or simply assign them a particular task that will keep them busy while also helping you out.

Assign Seating Smartly Seating archenemies side-by-side during a dinner that may last hours could be disastrous! When assigning the order of your bridesmaids or when making the seating chart for your reception, consider who gets along with whom best and who should be separated. Planning ahead may be a little extra work, but will help you to keep problems that could have been avoided at bay, allowing you to breathe a little easier.

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a diy by events by la fête Katie Dunn, owner of Events by La Fête, enjoys creating fun and unique ideas for reception seating. When guests arrive, a puzzle piece with their name and table number is presented to them. When all of the guests arrive at the correct table and have fit together their pieces, the puzzle is complete! Below are Katie’s instructions for this fun do it yourself.

1. the puzzle

Purchase thin sheets of cherry wood and have them cut into small puzzle pieces. These were purchased and cut at www.oslopress.com.

2. the pen

Purchase a calligraphy pen in the color of your choice at any local arts and crafts store, or hire a professional calligrapher such as www.calligraphybycarrie.com.

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each puzzle piece with the guest’s name and table number.

4. the finished piece

Voila! When all the pieces are together your table will be full and ready to be served.

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With a network of trusted vendors, behind-the-scenes expertise and a finger on the pulse of emerging trends, we make sure every detail falls beautifully into place.

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Ben & Bronwyn High school sweethearts Bronwyn and Ben have always loved playing Frisbee golf together. So when Ben strategically placed an engagement ring in a Frisbee goal for Bronwyn to find during one of their many games, the storybook wedding wheels were set into motion.

Bronwyn and Ben’s summertime ceremony was held at The Chapel of the Cross on Franklin Street in Chapel Hill. The bride wore an exquisite Pnina Tornai dress during the ceremony, and then changed into a second dress for the reception. Each bridesmaid selected her own black satin-faced taffeta dress in either mermaid or trumpet style, each completing her look with a set of double strand freshwater pearls, given to the ladies by the bride. To differentiate the maid of honor from the rest of the bridesmaids, Bronwyn adorned this special lady in waiting with a unique black feather and crystal headpiece.

Both Bronwyn and Ben are avid Tar Heels fans, so the historic Carolina Inn was an obvious choice for the venue of the pair’s rehearsal dinner and reception. Bronwyn chose a timeless and classic color scheme for her wedding, which included blacks and cremes with gold and platinum accents. Tables featured romantic pomander-style centerpieces draped with delicate Swarovski crystals. Each arrangement was made primarily of antique roses, peonies and hydrangeas with very minimal greenery.

Customized platinum calligraphy was used for the place cards and menu cards, allowing all paper material to match her colors perfectly. Special attention was paid to lighting, including a projection of the new couple’s monogram on the all-white dance floor and pin spot lighting to make the tall floral arrangements sparkle. The elegant cake had platinum detailing, sprays of sugar flowers and a breathtaking birdcage

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topper with sugar lovebirds.

The Carolina Inn provided a mouthwatering five-course seated dinner, complete with a sushi bar and chilled seafood station for cocktail hour, and mini milkshakes and warm chocolate brownies for late-night snacks.

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a diy by orangerie events Priscilla Erwin, owner of Orangerie Events, likes to think out of the box when it comes to seating. Instead of the traditional tent cards, she likes to infuse her brides personality into the project and create something a little more personal and meaningful.

Below is one of her favorite do it yourself ideas that she has created in the past.

1. gather the goods

Purchase a glue gun, glue sticks, and microwaveable candle wicks from any arts and crafts store.

2. gift tags & marker

Gather together gift tags on string and a brightly colored marker.

3. go to work!

You will need several large blocks of candle wax and a microwaveable container for melting.

Purchase teacups to match the dĂŠcor and theme of your wedding.

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and dry, place the wick in the center of the cup and glue the base to the bottom. Heat the wax according to the directions on the package and pour into the teacup.

4. the results!

Let the wax harden then trim the wick to the desired length. Attach a gift tag with your guests name written on to the handle and you have a charming table marker and wedding favor!

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Jackson & Jamie It’s often by chance or a touch of serendipity that two people meet.

This was certainly the case for Jamie and Jackson, who met at a random encounter at ‘Top of the Hill’ restaurant in Chapel Hill on a wintry December evening.

Just over a year later, the couple said their “I do’s” at an elegant vintage wedding ceremony.

The wedding was held in the same church that the bride’s sister had been married in years prior. Following the ceremony, guests traveled to the Homestead in Roxboro for the reception. Upon arrival, the attendees found their escort tags hanging from delicate lace, which was attached to antique trunks. Pictures of the bride and groom were also hanging from an old door that had been crafted into the perfect photo display.

In lieu of a traditional guest book, guests were invited to leave their well wishes on fabric squares, which will eventually be sewn into a quilt as a keepsake for the couple. The main ballroom was infused with a color palette of soft pinks, ivory and hints of purple. The bride had spent several months leading up to the wedding visiting local antique shops to collect frames, cake stands, tea kettles, milk vases and candle holders for the centerpieces, and each table featured a collection of these carefully-selected vintage accents and gorgeous floral arrangements. The rectangular head table was centered in front of the venue’s stone fireplace and was adorned with beaded overlays, tall floral arrangements and lace-wrapped votive candles. The incredible four-tier wedding cake was a symbol of class and sophistication, serving as the jaw-dropping focal point.

Guests danced the night away and as a late-night snack, everyone was treated to a Biscuit Bar, complete with homemade biscuits, honey and jams. As a takeaway for the guests, an antique candy display featured old-fashioned candies and small, handcrafted goodie bags. Jamie and Jackson departed the reception with a picturesque sparkler-lined exit, surrounded by their friends and family.

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a diy by erin mclean events To Erin McLean, of Erin McLean Events, tradition and family are very important. Incorporating memorabilia from both sides of the families in this family ‘tree’ makes for an interesting showpiece and conversation starter.

1. the goods

At a local craft store, purchase bags of moss, a foam block, curly willow branches, card stock paper, ribbon and a large potting container of your choice.

2. the photos

Have your relatives email highresolution pictures of themselves when they were married. Size the images to either 5 x 7 or 8 x 10 depending on the size of your tree.

Glue the picture to the backing and punch a hole in the top.

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3. one more thing!

Tie the ribbon through the hole.

4. the results!

Place the foam block in the pot, stick the curly willow branches in the foam, cover with moss and hang the pictures throughout the tree. Add string lights for a dramatic effect.

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Matt & Elise Elise and Matt are a classic New York City couple with style and elegance. Originally from North Carolina, Elise knew that she would need help with the design and planning of their large wedding and that the elegant High Point Country Club was the perfect venue.

Matt and Elise exchanged vows in her family’s church in front of 350 of their friends and relatives. The bride selected a unique peacock blue, pink, and silver palate as the wedding colors. Bridesmaids donned colorful and stunning cocktail-length dresses and carried lush bouquets of peonies and garden roses in varying shades of pink.

The bride carried a similar cream and ivory version for her bouquet, the perfect complement to her breathtaking gown.

The altar was adorned with a white and cream lush floral runner that spanned throughout the entire front of the church and was highlighted by candles, accenting the bridal party’s dresses and bouquets beautifully.

Guests arrived at the reception for cocktail hour on the veranda.

Tables were draped in peacock blue and attendees enjoyed a variety of passed appetizers, featuring Indian-inspired cuisine in honor of the father of the bride’s heritage.

The reception ballroom was stunningly decorated in a variety of table shapes and sizes to create depth and interest. Round tables were dressed with pewter crinkle linens and square tables with ivory satin linens.

To tie the look together, all rectangle tables were dressed in both ivory satin linens and custom-made pewter runners. Each table shape had its own styled centerpiece of lush flowers and was completed with silver chargers, ivory satin napkins, menu cards, escort cards, favors and pink rose settings.

After dinner and dancing, the band invited guests to the outdoor patio lounge area where a 20-minute firework display that rivaled any July 4th celebration was held, making it a magical ending to a

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a diy by a southern soiree Megan Gillikin, of A Southern Soiree, enjoys getting crafty with save-the-dates. One of her favorite ideas allows the recipient of the card to play a scratch-off game. Here are her instructions for this nifty project.

1. create template

Create the desired template for the Save the Date in a word document, using only half the page. Print out the Save The Date on a piece of 8 1/2-by-11-inch card stock in the color of your choice. Use a metal ruler and craft knife to cut the card stock to the desired size.

2. the hearts

Use scissors or an exacto knife to cut three heart shapes into contact paper (be sure they are the same size hearts as on the printed out Save The Date). Take off the back 1

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layer of the contact paper and place the sticky layer on top of the hearts on the card stock.

3. the scratch-off!

Combine liquid dish soap and metallic silver acrylic paint (one part dish soap to two parts paint). Paint neatly over the hearts. Let the coat dry throughly for 1 hour, then paint on a second layer.

4. the results!

Put the finalized Save The Date in an envelope and include a “lucky� penny for scratching!

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Annette & Joel longtime sweethearts annette and joel grew up together and both attended First Baptist church, where they also decided to marry.

Held in the small North Carolina town of Clinton, their fall wedding was followed by a hometown reception, held at the Sampson County AgriExposition Center.

The bare reception space gave the couple freedom to decorate as they pleased. With 500 guests attending, the first order of business was draping the mundane concrete reception area with soft fabrics, brilliant lighting and internally lit columns to separate the cocktail space from the reception area.

The traditional ceremony was highlighted with whites and golds and accented beautifully by the teal bridesmaids dresses. Elegant flowers filled all available spaces of the reception area and graced the tables, which were lined with cream linens and beaded overlays.

Guests raved about the menu, which included a full-blown Southern dinner topped off with pear and Brie mini pizzas and short rib sweet potato tartlets.

The six-tier wedding cake served as a centerpiece for the reception, and family and friends were treated to a candy buffet as parting favors.

Guests were later ushered to the lounge area, where they danced the night away and took turns leaving their mark in the photo booth. A sparklerlined driveway lit up the night as Annette and Joel departed in a white Excalibur and onto an unforgettable honeymoon.

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a diy by parties by bash Courtney Scholl, owner of Parties by BASH, has always been creative when it comes to do-it-yourself projects. Keeping it simple and classy is the main key. Below is her take on reception table markers.

1. the goods

You will need a thick card stock or cardboard in the color of your choice. Also, purchase stencils and larger colored papers available at arts and crafts stores. Trace your stencil on the large papers and using an exacto knife, carefully cut out the stencils.

2. get to work!

Cut the stencil to match to the card stock backing and glue together.

This works with either 5 x 7 inch or 8 x 10. Be sure to have your picture frames ready in the same 1

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size as your card stock.

3. get creative!

Buy wooden numbers from any hardware or craft store for as many tables that will be at the reception. Paint each number in your desired color with an oil based paint.

4. the results!

Glue the number on to the stencil backing, put in the frame and set on each table.

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Jantzen & Natalie Jantzen literally swept Natalie off her feet from the beginning of their real-life fairytale romance as he flew her to dinner on his family plane for their first date.

Natalie was also selected to be a part of an “Oprah’s Wildest Dreams” episode, winning a Vera Wang couture gown and an all-expense paid honeymoon, thanks to Jantzen submitting his bride-to-be into the contest. These unbelievable events, however, only marked the start of their fairytale journey.

The couple’s dream wedding took place at Natalie’s home church in Rose Hill. The elegantly decorated sanctuary was filled to capacity as Natalie and Jantzen exchanged vows. After the ceremony, guests were invited to an evening of dinner and dancing at a picturesque country club. White hydrangeas, orchids, peonies, roses and tulips wowed guests as they were greeted by the couple’s monogram, made completely from flowers suspended from the grand staircase of the ballroom.

Natalie selected ivory and gold hues to set the elegant tone of her reception, so the main ballroom was filled with tables set with gold Chivari chairs, beautiful ivory damask linens and three varieties of custom-designed centerpieces.

Personal and unique touches were displayed throughout the ballroom, including wedding pictures of family members, each accompanied with a card describing who they were and when they were married. Natalie surprised her groom with a special cake that was a replica of the family plane he whisked her away in on their first date.

Instead of a traditional guest book, the couple opted to use rocking chairs, perfect for the porch at their new home, for guests to hand write their wedding wishes on.

At the bar, beer was served in custom-designed stadium cups, each adorned with a whimsical monogram and 50 tips for a great marriage.

After a night filled with dancing, each guest grabbed a box of mini chicken biscuits labeled “Love, Peace and Chicken Grease” to honor Natalie’s family’s business, House of

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Raeford. These treats offered the perfect late-night bite to guests before they sent the newly married couple off through a parade of sparklers.

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a diy by posh event planning Katherine Wrenn of Posh event planning came up with a unique save the date that can be personalized to each bride.

This project can reflect the brides theme, personality, and colors used in the wedding. The possibilities are endless.

1. the tools You will need to have a

personal screen printer, a pillow case, iron, iron on printer transfer sheets, ribbon, colored card stock, envelopes, and an exacto knife for trimming the paper.

2. prepare work area

Gather together hankerchiefs.

Prepare your work area by placing a clean, white pillow case on a flat surface, not an ironing board.

3. your design

On your computer, design the text for your Save The Date. Always 1

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selecting “mirror” from the print box. Print one on regular paper first to check placement. Cut around the printed design on transfer/iron-on template.

4. the results!

Once aligned, set the iron to cotton setting and hold on each section of the transfer 15-20 seconds. Once cooled, peel the backing from the design. Tie to precut card stock in a coordinating color. Punch two holes in the card stock and run a ribbon through to tie in the front.

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“I do ” made simple.

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Daniel & Suzanne At Jones Chapel on Meredith College’s campus, a cloudy April day turned sunny just in time for a beautiful wedding for high school sweethearts Suzanne and Daniel. Stunning letterpress invitations set the tone for the traditionally elegant ceremony.

Following the couple’s “I do’s,” a white wedding trolley, complete with a bridal porch, provided transportation to the warm, rustic reception at MacGregor Downs Country Club. Guests were greeted by an entrance filled with freshly-planted spring flowers and wrought iron candle groupings. The comforting atmosphere continued into the cocktail hour, where hors d’oeuvres were butlered in a breathtaking setting of cascading garden florals. Dinner was served beneath a large white tent on the brick patio, and wrought iron chandeliers helped create the perfect ambiance.

A second tent was set up and showered with large floral orbs and scrollwork lanterns that hung overhead. A mixture of flowers, metal sculptures and candlelit lanterns were placed at different elevations at the center of each table, one of which featured the couple seated in chairs draped with monogrammed sashes. The tents were not the only outdoor space that was thoughtfully decorated; black lanterns with detailed cutouts hung from white satin ribbon on a tree between the tents. One of the highlights of the evening was the unique, same-day video that was shown to guests during the reception.

The wedding cake was a five-tier work of art, featuring beading, swags, sugar anemones and the couple’s monogram on a custommade plateau.

Guests were also presented with the couple’s favorite treats, which were displayed in ornate two-tiered baskets as favors. These treats included chocolate chip cookies and peanut butter eggs, both a perfect fit for the Easter weekend.

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The couple departed through an

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planning & consulting

Joye Speight, owner of Virtue Event planning & consulting, knows that creating a special scent for your wedding can have a lasting impression on your guests. Another advantage to this DIY idea is that it can be mixed and matched according to your favorite scent, or even your guests’ and wedding party’s scents.

1. gather your herbs

Purchase scented herbs such as patchouli or lavender from any local Pier One or World Market.

2. purchase bottles

Be sure to purchase glass bottles that can be opened by a cork or cap of some sort. Any size or shape of bottles will do. Gather enough for one for each guest.

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4. the results!

Place each bottle on a favor table or at each guest’s placesetting.

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Robyn & Zak When Robyn, a scientist, met Zak, a notable record producer, in a popular Atlanta nightclub in 2006, no one could have guessed that sparks would fly.

After watching the movie “Count of Monte Cristo,” Zak proposed to Robyn by tying a string around her finger, imitating one of the scenes. It was no surprise they decided on a modern-vintage theme for their wedding, illustrating their common love for the rustic glamour in the movie.

Shades of black, white and eggplant dominated the décor, while small, personal touches added hints of Robyn and Zak’s personalities.

For example, the couple’s custom-designed monogram was incorporated into several details of the ceremony and reception, including on the dance floor, on the black menu cards and on the white invitations. The monogram was also used on signs that led guests to the private garden of the Swan House. Robyn’s mermaid-style satin and tulle bridal gown was adorned with Swarovski crystals and broach lacing the bodice. To accent the vintage theme and wedding colors, the groom and groomsmen wore black and white Ralph Lauren tuxedos.

The bridesmaids wore varying styles of black satin cocktail dresses and carried bouquets of white roses and hydrangeas.

The cocktail reception was held on the top floor of an art gallery, where signature “Wallace Martinis” were served with hors d’oeuvres.

To complement the bridesmaids’ bouquets, the reception décor also included large, dramatic bouquets of white roses in vintage black vases on the tables and throughout the venue. In addition, custom black chandeliers were hung throughout the gallery. Glass was used as an overlay for the black, floor-length satin linens to create an intimate and glamorous feel in the reception area. The six-tier cake was also designed to match the vintage black-and-white theme.

Each of the couples’ one hundred guests went home with a preview copy of unreleased music from Zak’s record label. After enjoying surprise performances by several

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celebrity music artists and DJs, the couple moved their party to the nightclub where they met.

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why hire a wedding planner?

Even if you are a do-it-yourself type, planning a wedding may be

WM: When asking for references, what should you ask the past clients about the wedding planner?

a little daunting when it comes to

You should ask for at least five references from the planner, each complete

the amount of details, time and

with wedding date and location. Once you have these references, I would

connections you need to get exactly

recommend asking the following questions:

what you want. Enter: the wedding planner. They are the fairy godmothers of the wedding world and although it is an extra expense, we’ve got proof that hiring a planner is worth every single penny!

1) Why did you hire ___________ as your wedding planner?

2) Were you satisfied with the job they did in planning your wedding?

3) How long did they typically take to respond to your emails/phone calls?

4) Would you hire this person again given the opportunity?

5) Is there anything you wish they had done differently during the process?

Megan Brewer Gillikin, A Southern Soiree

WM: Why would someone NEED a wedding planner?

For peace of mind on the wedding day. No bride wants to wor-

WM: What makes a great wedding planner and how do you know if

ry on her big day; she wants to know that everything is taken

he or she really “gets” you?

care of. The planner is there to handle any last-minute hiccups

I think a great wedding planner understands that you are planning your wed-

or snafus. Having a planner gives a bride and her family a way

ding, not theirs. He or she will listen to your ideas and help guide you toward

to enjoy the day without worry.

things that fit your vision. A planner will share his or her expertise and give Katie Dunn, Events by La Fête

you guidance, but should let you make final decisions. Look for someone who seems to be on the same page as you as far as design and vision.

WM: When looking for a wedding planner, what should

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one take/ask?

Ask for professional credentials. Find out what education and/

WM: What are some unrealistic expectations when it comes to hiring

or experience the planner has and what professional industry-

a wedding planner?

related organizations he or she belongs to. Potential planners

It is crucial to set realistic expectations when hiring a wedding planner and

should never mind you asking for references. Ask how many

especially when hiring a day-of coordinator. If you are only hiring a planner

weddings/events he or she has planned. Always make sure

for the day of, remember that you, the bride, are the actual planner. The

that you are comfortable with your wedding planner and that

coordinator is there to implement the plans you have made and to work with

he or she makes you feel like you are first priority, no matter

the vendors you have secured.

how busy he or she may be.

Priscilla Erwin, Orangerie Events

Katherine Wrenn, Posh Event Planning WM: Before hiring a wedding planner, how can you determine that WM: What are a few red flags to look for?

you really need one?

Ask how long they have been in business. Ask how many wed-

Planning a wedding is a serious emotional and financial commitment. Hiring

dings they do a year. You should be hiring a planner because

a wedding planner is a great way to make sure that you don’t succumb to

he or she has connections with solid vendors. Major red flags

the pressures and demands of planning your special day. Hiring a planner

are when their price is much lower than other planners. They

may be beneficial for you to maximize your money and time.

should provide you with a great value, not just a good deal.

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Your wedding reception is a time for guests to dine, drink and enjoy chatting with one another around the reception tables. However, if guests are confined to a small area due to oversized or bulky tabletop arrangements, they may quickly become annoyed and uncomfortable. The following tips from Quintessentials suggest ways you can put together your tabletop arrangements while avoiding frustration among guests.

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Keep DÊcor on the Down-Low As guests get to know each other around the dinner table, they don’t want to have to talk through tall candelabras or flower arrangements.

Depending on the type of table you choose and how you seat your guests, make sure they are able to talk to one another without having to strain to speak.

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Flora Fragrance As beautiful as many flowers may be, some are a little too fragrant for a meal. You don’t want your flora to overpower the food that you are paying so much for!

When selecting your tabletop flowers, smell your arrangements and make sure that they will complement dinner aromas.

Keep it Comfy! Avoid having too many place settings, since this can cause the table to look and feel crowded. Nothing is more irritating than knocking over a drink when you are reaching for the salt. Make sure you see your table in its entirety beforehand so that you can make any last-minute adjustments necessary to give guests plenty of room.

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invitation trends There are more choices than ever

Engraving This oldest form of printed invitations is usually chosen for

before when it comes to selecting the

formal weddings or weddings without many budgetary limits. Engraved

perfect invitation for your wedding.

designs are etched onto a metal plate and pressed into paper, creating a

Depending on your budget, theme

raised effect. Engraving is also a common selection for larger guest lists

and the tone you want to set

since the more you order, the better the price. At least one month should be

for your special day, the right invite is just waiting for you to find it!

allowed for engraved invitations.

Thermography Thermography combines heat, ink and powder to create a raised look on invitations, similar to that of engraving, yet at a lower cost.

These are usually printed more quickly than engraved invites, making this printing style a great choice for formal or smaller wedding invites.

on location

Foil Stamping Similar to engraving in price, foil stamping is also primarily reserved for formal weddings. This style is not always shiny and uses an etched design on a heated copper plate pressed onto a Mylar material, allowing it to transfer smoothly onto the invitation no matter the texture.

Allow between four and five weeks to have these invites made.

One glance into Quintessentials of Raleigh, you will be in “home decorating heaven�. From the beautiful fixtures, to

Letterpress Letterpress is a machine process that stamps inked, raised type onto paper. Becoming increasingly popular, thanks in part to Martha Stewart, letterpress is generally applied to handmade paper and is very expensive. Similar to foil stamping, letterpress is another printing process

the antique tables and upholstered library

that is usually reserved for formal weddings.

chairs, this shop feels like home. It is why

Lithography Most commonly used on textured papers, lithography is one of

we chose this boutique in the Alexan at

the least expensive forms of printing and also one of the easiest. This trans-

North Hills in Raleigh as the backdrop to our wedding invitation shoot. The stun-

fers an inked impression from a plate or rubber cylinder onto each invitation.

The result is smooth type and details, making this print style a great choice for any type of wedding, but ideally for less formal affairs.

ning china and crystal rooms showcase

Digital Printing One of the easiest and most affordable forms of printed

hundreds of patterns and will inspire

invitations, digital printing creates a flat image that looks bold and vibrant

any new bride. Or if it is bridesmaid or

on paper. Though not ideal for use on textured papers, it is top-quality for

groomsmen gifts you seek, this store has the most unique you will ever find.

the price and a great fit for casual or less formal weddings.

Embossing Embossing is a form of imprinting that uses stamps and metal plates, but no ink. This type of printing can be pricey and is primarily used to accent invitations with monograms and borders. Expect three to four weeks

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for embossed invitations to be completed.

for more information and to sign up for

Calligraphy Handwritten by trained calligraphers and ideal for smaller

their one-of-a-kind registry.

weddings or weddings without budgetary constraints, calligraphy brings elegance and personalization to invitations. Allow plenty of time for your calligrapher to complete your invites or consider computerized calligraphy to save time and money. wm

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formal flair

A black formal invitation takes on a bright burst of color when combined with lime green.

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naturally inviting A perfect color combination for a destination or coastal wedding.

A screened-back monogram adds a personal touch to this invitation.

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feminine touch Pale yellow scrolls embellish this lovely pocket invitation that will keep your invitation and response cards well organized.

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precious patterns

Elements of avian nature such as birds and owls are hot for 2012.

Mix contrasting colors for a unique appeal.

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modern romance For a traditional yet edgy look, combine a romantic engraving with modern fonts on a square invitation.

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ravishing reds The richness of red and black accented by scrolling fonts will certainly make a bold formal statement about the upcoming nuptials.

INVITATIONS: Cute Buttons (p106) SHOT ON LOCATION: Quintessentials (p97) photographer: www.marthamanning.com (p121)

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seaworthy sophistication

The merging of sea and sand come together in full force with this blue sea horse embellished design.

INVITATIONS: Cute Buttons (p106) SHOT ON LOCATION: Quintessentials (p97) photographer: www.marthamanning.com (p121)

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Creative Cuisine Start your marriage off cooking together. This fabulous cookbook has recipes sure to please any newlywed.

2 Top it Off Dress up the wedding cake with two crystal hearts that will sparkle at your reception.

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Thought Provoking The wedding planning process can be daunting, write down all of your ideas and thoughts in a custom journal.

Sign Off Show your appreciation to all of your guests with a whimsical thank you card.

Frame It! Show off those professional wedding pictures in a floating glass frame.

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Cinch It Cufflinks to fit any groomsmen’s hobby. A variety to choose from including mini shotgun shells, fishing lures, and more!

8 By the Horn A true keepsake and gift for the best man who loves hunting.

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Dainy Gift Beautiful porcelain hand-painted ring dishes will be cherished by any maid of honor.

Color Me Pretty Great little address books in a variety of colorful leather. Perfect gift for the bridesmaids.

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Picture Perfect Keepsake frames your bridesmaids will adore.

Money Must A classy way to keep your bills organized.

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hot shots There are certain moments you never

Do: Go candid and make sure that your photographer captures the “story”

want to forget the day you get

of your wedding, action shots and all. When you look at your photos, you

married. Capturing these memories in

should feel as if you are reliving the moment.

photographs will allow you to always remember all the special

Don’t: Over pose! The “line-up,” ultra-posed style pics of the ‘80s and ‘90s

details, while also allowing you to

are so over. Get shots that encapsulate people’s personalities as well as the

possibly share them with

excitement of the day. When setting up shots, make consistent changes to

grandchildren and other family

the background and scenery to give your photos more depth and meaning.

members in years to come. This list of photo do’s, don’t’s and top 25 “hot

Do: Thoroughly look through your photographer’s portfolio. To make sure

shots” will help you complete your

that you get the shots you want, don’t be afraid to ask for examples of their

wedding album by capturing every

photos from several indoor and outdoor weddings. The photographer should

cherished moment of the most

be experienced in setting up lighting and creating interesting photo angles,

important day of your life.

so look for these aspects in their previous work.

Don’t: Be afraid to try new things. Let the photographer know what you want, but also give them a little artistic freedom. They are the professionals, so make sure you go with someone you trust.

Do: Have fun! Along the same lines as not posing for every picture, as difficult as it may be, don’t look at the camera every time you see it. It’s a tough habit to break, but getting great candid shots require catching you

Top 25 Hot Shots n Kissing Shot

n You Getting Ready

n The Guys & Gals

Getting Ready

n The Bouquet,

Boutonniere & Flowers

n The Reception Table n You in Motion n The Kids n The Cake n The Ceremony

(from a distance)

n The Dress

with Your Mom

Don’t: Send the photographer home early to save money. It’s not

n The Rings

worth the risk of missing out on all the photo opportunities just to save

n Special Details & Decor

a few bucks.

n First Dance n The Groom’s First Glance

Do: Speak up! If time is ticking by and the photographer doesn’t seem to

n The Families

be getting the pictures that you discussed, address it before he misses the

n The Location

moments you want to capture. You shouldn’t miss out on getting the photos

n The Send-Off &

you want at the risk of being afraid of insulting the photographer.

Getaway Car

n A Dramatic Black

& White Couples Shot

Don’t: Skimp on hair and make-up. This is your “shining moment,” so if

n The Hair

n Glamour Shots

you can manage it, set aside time and part of your budget to dedicate to

n The Wedding Party

n Toasts

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n The Guests

n The Two of you Right

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“This image was captured at a destination wedding in the Bahamas.

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“I remember when I was editing this wedding and I saw this photo that I took, it just made my heart stop. It’s dad with his girls (who were both flower girls in the wedding) and it feels so incredibly private. To me, it’s one of those photos I hope they can look back on 20 years from now and never forget that closeness this father had with his girls.” www.RobinLin.com

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w “This is my favorite shot of kids from a wedding because it tells a story. You can see the story on the faces of the children as they take their cues from the bridesmaids before walking down the aisle. I also love how they hold back laughter and hold their bouquets as if they’ve done this before.” www.MarthaManning.com

“Perhaps one my favorite and most unexpected moments from any wedding captured the bride’s brother John, with the bride & groom’s ring bearing bulldog. The entire moment lasted only a few seconds but could not have been planned! From the flowers around the bulldog’s neck and from the eyes of the bulldog wide open watching John with his eyes closed, this was a perfect moment captured on film.” www.Vesic.com

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the photographer...capturing innocence “I love capturing kids at weddings, they make the day more colorful and fun. It’s so exciting to watch their personalities come alive at an event like a wedding where the energy is beaming with emotion.”

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“This adorable picture really shows how much fun and sweetness children can add to a wedding. This image was taken at the reception when the bride was dancing with one of the flower girls.”

Amy Rutche of www.EmoryLanePhotography.com “I captured this image from a stairwell looking down on the bride and her daughter as they were getting ready to walk down the aisle and I love the way

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“I love it so much because it was a picture we took the day of the hurricane, and I captured the little girls watching the bride almost lose her veil in the wind.” www.GMPhotoNC.com

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“Kids enjoy being a part of the action at a wedding. Make it fun for them, and they’ll provide your guests with years of stories and good memories.” www.WaltersandWalters.com

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“I knew when I captured this image that it would be a favorite of mine.

The flower girl’s tenderness and her quiet confidence as she drops her flower petals, are what drew me in, and makes this a powerful image.”

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“Capturing the innocence and purity of a child on the day of two souls committing their lives to one another is a priceless moment that doesn’t happen often, but when it does, is unforgettable.” www.raybarbourweddings.com

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“This is the day every little girl dreams of.”

“This little one went completely off-plan by running across the lawn to her dad rather than walking down the aisle. Fortunately, the bride had a great attitude about it which is a must if you’re having very young children in your wedding.”

Elizabeth Myers of www.SweetLifePhoto.com

what they’re going to do or how they’re going to react to any given situation, but to me, that’s part of what makes children in weddings such a joy to photograph.

From the expressions they make and the emotions they show to their purity and innocence that I love to capture.” www.ReneeSprink.com

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once upon a time Turning your fairytale wedding into

Your wedding video is no longer just about the day itself. It can now be

an actual fairytale on film is no

made into a movie featuring tributes to moments as far back as your grand-

longer impossible. Thanks to modern

parents meeting and before. This new trend in wedding videography creates

technology and top-of-the-line video,

a keepsake that can be passed down for generations, leaving a legacy of

editing and production, your

where you came from, and the tale of two people falling in love.

wedding and more importantly,

A few years ago, it was typical to hire videographers that would produce

your story, can now be made into

simple point-and-shoot productions with edits only done within the camera.

what rivals the box office film!

Thanks to sophisticated editing setups, videographers are now creating more advanced and dynamic productions, many of which are true works of art. The focus of top videographers at the present time is not so much just capturing the day, but rather telling the story of the day.

Incorporating photos, symbols and videos of your grandparents, parents and other relatives’ weddings and lives has become extremely popular and gives endless possibilities. Many couples decide to include the stories and photos of where their families originated, a type of family tree on film. Including candid interviews with each other and those close to you who watched you fall in love are priceless. This “story of us” is like a time capsule that you can open whenever you choose to remind you both of where you came from and how you got to where you are today. Some grooms-to-be are able to catch the actual proposal on camera, which fits beautifully into this type of film. Even if the video is not of the best quality, it can be touched up and used. Leaving your children and future generations this keepsake and legacy reminding them how they got here has become a permanent trend in wedding videos today.

“Advances in equipment have changed the face of our industry,” explains Chris Wheaton of Heart Stone Films. “Wedding videographers are now able to take advantage of new HD cameras to produce high-quality, high-definition wedding videos that can look more like a movie than a traditional wedding video. Professional videographers are also expanding their knowledge base in editing and shooting techniques to produce ‘movie-like’ wedding videos.”

To make sure that you are getting a videographer with the type of wedding videos you want, ask about his or her experience in shooting weddings and to see his or her recent work. It is a good sign if your potential videographer has a portfolio that is up to date and showcases his or her most recent productions. Also, request references from the videographer’s past clients or from other vendors in the local wedding community. Find out what other people have to say about his or her work and what it is like to work with this person to assure the best experience and video possible. wm

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trend report left/ SurvivalStraps Cancel that engraved flask order and don’t even think about getting your groomsmen the typical money clip! SurvivalStraps are the latest trend in gift giving for groomsmen. Woven in any custom color, these paracord bracelets can be unraveled and used in all types of emergency situations. Manly and a gift that your friends will actually use, the SurvivalStrap will be a hit with your merrymen! www.survivalstraps.com

At Weddings Magazine, we are all about the latest and greatest in wedding trends. We’ve researched and read and scoured to find the best and

bottom-left/ Eco-Tensils For the ‘green’ event or any couple with a ‘waste not, want not’ wedding in mind, the eco-tensil is a perfect fit for you! A fullsized, moisture resistant paperboard spoon that can be easily recycled, the eco-tensil also comes in a smaller version for bite-sized foods and is an affordable detail that won’t go unnoticed. www.ecotensil.com

brightest trends for 2012. Here are a few of the things we think will be big hits for this wedding season! We hope you agree. Please visit our website, www.weddings-magazine.com for more trendy ideas, and if you have a suggestion, please register and let us know what you think will be trending this year!

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above/ Unique Wedding Cake Decor A green trend that takes the cake! Handmade recycled wedding flowers made from milk jugs, candy wrappers and shampoo bottles that aren’t only eco-friendly but will have jaws dropping and guests talking. A green keepsake that come in any color, size and shape, this is one trend that will literally last. below/ Paper Flowers Breathtaking and stunningly inventive, this simple trend not only takes the limits off of color and design when creating everything from your bouquet to your centerpieces, but paper flowers can be made to fit exactly what you want! With endless possibilities, these amazingly stylish flowers will impress your guests and last a lifetime.

The Top Wedding Trends of 2012 right/ White Bridesmaid Dresses You can thank the fearless Pippa Middleton for this trend.

White, cream and ivory bridesmaid dresses are the year’s hottest hue for the ladies in waiting. The rules have changed and brides have embraced this trend with open arms.

above/ Deposit a Gift Instead of just asking for money, set up this cash gift registry so you can get what you want, not what you don’t need! Whether it’s for a down payment on your first house or money to go toward the honeymoon you’ll never forget, Deposit a Gift walks guests and gift givers through a step-by-step process of the latest form of gift giving without the uncomfortable conundrum of just asking for money. www.depositagift.com left/ Food Trucks That’s right, food trucks! As well as sidewalk carts, offer guests an exciting selection of everything from gourmet ice creams to sensational sushi. A real conversation piece, food trucks at or after your reception are a trendy way of giving guests a great selection of foods without forking out a fortune.

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above/ Diamond in the Rough Bridal jewelry to be envied by every woman! A unique collection of one-of-a-kind stunning engagement rings and wedding bands, these gorgeous pieces are designed to tell a story. With numerous collections to choose from, Diamond in the Rough puts a whole new twist on bridal jewelry. www.DiamondintheRough.com below/ Ice Luges So smooth, so cool, so in! This icy reception centerpiece may seem a little lavish but can be used for a purpose.

A beverage ice luge where drinks are served through a maze of constructed ice tunnels looks fabulous and serves drinks, ice cold.

Of course, the standard shapes and designs are still very trendy, but the ice luge is so chic!

right/ Blowfish The latest in hangover prevention is here! Blowfish allows brides-to-be to fully enjoy their bachelorette parties without the dreaded morning after symptoms.

These FDA approved, dissolvable nuptial savers ward off headaches, sluggishness and the all over horrible feeling that accompanies a big night out so you can keep the celebration going without everyone knowing! forhangovers.com/try

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trend report Continued right/ Personalized Edible Favors From candies to wines, couples are giving their guests a sweet treat to remember their wedding day with. Personalizing chocolates, lollipops and cookies are an inexpensive and delicious way to leave your family and friends with a good taste in their mouth! The newlyweds favorite favors take the guess work out of pleasing everyone and is a “thank you” that everybody will appreciate. www.sweet-memory-creations.com

below/ Video Guest Books A notch above the photo booth trend, the video guest book gives the bride and groom lasting looks and words of wisdom from guests that they will cherish always. Easy to create and share online, these guest books are a great way for guests to open up and tell you exactly how they feel. Inexpensive and fun, this is a definite party starter!

For more info, go to TheKnot.com and search “video guest books”

above/ Dress Cakes This trend is catching on like wildfire! Brides everywhere are taking details and embellishments from their wedding dresses and matching them up with their cake. Ribbons, lace, jewels and embroidery from gowns can easily be duplicated on your wedding cake and looks amazing! below/ Indian Inspiration The rich hues of reds, golds and purples and the detailed decor and intricate beading lends itself to this year’s theme wedding inspirations. Exotic and palette pleasing foods served in over-the-top tents, set the mood and wows guests. If you are into the trends of 2012, indian inspiration is at the top of the list.

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below/ D’Lashes Used by top celebrities such as Victoria Beckham and Renee Zellweger, D’lashes are replacing mascara and putting teary eyed brides minds at ease! Getting longer, fuller and leak proof lashes is now as easy as making a phone call and last days longer than typical false lashes. Look your best and keep your make-up in check on your special day without the worry of raccoon eyes with D’lashes. www.dlashes.com/

the best in boutonnieres Sure, bouquets usually get all of

The Burlap Boutonniere Rustic and original, this do-it-yourself bouton-

the special, but what about the

niere requires twine, small feathers (color coordinated with your wedding

boutonniere? It seems like such

shades), burlap, buttons, bamboo skewers, ribbon and a little time. The best

a small detail, but the boutonniere

part about this particular type of boutonniere is that you don’t have to worry

is often overlooked and treated

about the flowers wilting or how rough the groomsmen get with delicate pet-

as an afterthought. Those days are

als! For more information on the burlap boutonniere and how to make it, visit

long gone and the more creative you

http://greenweddingshoes.com/diy-a-burlap-boutonniere/.

can get, the better! The typical rose and baby’s breath arrangement

Go Natural! Utilizing twigs, rope, berries, shells and even stones give the

has been replaced with unique

latest boutonniere great texture and is topping the 2012 trend list. Gener-

alternatives such as feathers,

ally less expensive than fresh flowers, these boutonnieres go with almost

burlap, buttons and other

any tuxedo. Manly and versatile, these neutral corsages are becoming more

imaginative embellishments that

popular with brides and grooms and are also influencing overall décor for

make the boutonniere an important

the wedding itself.

and unforgettable wedding detail.

Personalized Boutonnieres Probably the guys’ favorite, these are the most The Burlap Boutonniere

Go Natural!

unique (and fun!) boutonnieres, allowing your groom and his merry men to express themselves in all sorts of creative ways. For the hardcore sports fan and his sports-loving groomsmen, incorporate a few team emblems into each boutonniere. If your groom-to-be is an avid card player, use a few playing cards for the boutonniere’s backdrop. You can also highlight his profession by making subtle additions to the assortment. For example, if he is a golfer, add a golfing tee to the boutonniere to give it a distinctive and individualized touch. The possibilities are truly endless!

Personalized Boutonnieres

Pocket Squares Pocket Squares For the formal affair, pocket squares of any color and pattern are extremely hot right now! This simple addition, made popular in the early decades of the 1900s, is the vintage-inspired trend of the year. The silkier and shinier, the better, and don’t be afraid of a little design. Polka dots, stripes or plaids, these sassy squares are making a comeback, putting that extra eye-catching detail right in your hubby’s pocket.

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Get Creative!

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Out With the Old If you are going to stick with floral boutonnieres, ditch the baby’s breath! Enhance your corsages with a more up-to-date backdrop such as eucalyptus or a little fir. Using a single, succulent lime orchid or other neutral flower is another alternative to the outdated, perfectly-matched boutonniere/bouquet combination. wm

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Weddings Magazine took the floral shoot to new heights at the beautiful AAA Five Diamond award-winning hotel, The Umstead Hotel and Spa in Cary. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or an extravagant wedding, The Umstead Hotel & Spa provides an exquisite backdrop for all of life’s celebrations. Outside, the manicured courtyards and lakeside terrace are yours to fill with guests and loved ones for weddings or social events. Inside, the walls of the grand ballrooms easily shift to accommodate parties of any size. Our florists’ creative and unique tablescapes come to life throughout the grounds and the ballrooms of this amazing property. For more information on celebrating your wedding, visit www.theumstead.com.

Be sure to visit www.weddings-magazine.com and click videos to view our behind-the-scenes making of our photo shoot!

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floral & event design

(p.163)

Plan the perfect spring or summer reception poolside! Accents of silver, white and pale gray highlight the gorgeous blue water while bringing a sense of cool refreshment to all your guests.

Shot on location: The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Pool & Cabanas (p. 5) Linens, china & chairs: Classic Party Rentals (p. 220) Menu cards: Cute Buttons (p. 106) Photos: www.kevinmilz.com (p. 118)

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fleuressence

(p. 166)

A textured bright apple green linen is the perfect backdrop for a modern floral sculpture literally dripping with elegant florals. Using non-traditional flowers such as succulents and pods will truly enhance the creativity and personalization of your reception.

Shot on location: The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Bridal Walkway (p. 5) Linens, china & chairs: Party Reflections (p. 221) Photos: www.kevinmilz.com (p. 118)

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the purple poppy

(p. 166)

Turquoise and red provide the perfect color combination for the bride wanting to make a lasting impression. Fill your tables with arrangements of blue hydrangeas and bright red Gerber daisies. Complete your indoor or outdoor look with overhead dĂŠcor.

Shot on location: The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Outdoor Lake (p. 5) Linens, china & chairs: Party Reflections (p. 221) Photos: www.kevinmilz.com (p. 118)

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greg warren flowers

(p. 165)

Nothing says elegance like a tablescape literally blooming with white orchids. Beautiful pale peach and white roses combined with gorgeous hydrangea create a classic look. Fill in with varying heights of candlelight for a romantic finish.

Shot on location: The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Ballroom (p. 5) Linens, china & chairs: Classic Party Rentals (p. 220) Menu cards: Cute Buttons (p. 106) Photos: www.kevinmilz.com (p. 118)

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The timeless babies breath takes on a fresh appeal combined with bright lemon yellow and royal china blue. Choosing classic antique china heirlooms can add a very personal touch to your reception.

Shot on location: The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Reception Area (p. 5) Linens, china & chairs: Classic Party Rentals (p. 220) Photos: www.kevinmilz.com (p. 118)

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brides & bouquets

(p. 167)

Create a spectacular fall look with shades of orange, yellow and deep burgundy.

For a unique touch, add a cocktail table showcasing personal family heirlooms and the bride’s bouquet for all to see.

Shot on location: The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Reception Area (p. 5) Linens, china & chairs: Classic Party Rentals (p. 220) Photos: www.kevinmilz.com (p. 118)

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Truly a showstopper, the design of this table is not only elegant but is also practical for your seated guests. It allows for easy conversation while getting a grand view of the spectacular flowers filling the entire room.

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expressions of love florist

(p. 164)

Gifts are typically placed on a table at the entrance of the reception so be sure to set the tone with elements of your wedding design. A simple centerpiece on a unique linen can make a statement while leaving space for all the goodies.

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This Tuscan inspired table combines elements of non-traditional flowers in varying shades of pink with a bridal favorite, the green hydrangea.

Choose cherry wood chairs for a bold statement.

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tabletop tips Your wedding reception is a time for guests to dine, drink and enjoy chatting

Flora Fragrance As beautiful as many flowers may be, some are a

with one another However, if guests

little too fragrant for a meal. You don’t want your flora to overpower the

are confined to a small area due to

delicious food that you are paying so much for! When selecting your

oversized or bulky tabletop

tabletop flowers, smell your arrangements and make sure that they

arrangements, they may quickly become

will complement, not clash with, dinner aromas.

annoyed and uncomfortable. The following tips suggest ways you can put

Keep it Comfy! To keep guests comfortable at their tables, you should

together your tabletop arrangements

also avoid having too many place settings, since this can cause the ta-

while avoiding frustration among guests.

ble to look and feel crowded. Do you really need three glasses or more than two forks per guest? Nothing is more irritating than knocking over

Keep Décor on the Down Low As guests get to know each other

a drink when you are reaching for the salt and pepper. Make sure you

around the table, they don’t want to have to talk through tall candle

see your table in its entirety beforehand so that you can make any last-

oberas or robust flower arrangements. Depending on what type of

minute adjustments necessary to give guests plenty of room. wm

table you choose and how you seat your guests, make sure that they are able to easily talk to one another without having to strain to speak.

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losing wedding weight Every bride wants to look her best on her wedding day, but if you are one of these

Personal Trainer If you are down to the last week or two before

brides and have let exercising and healthy

your “I do’s” and are simply desperate to lose a couple of extra pounds,

eating habits slip through your fingers,

get a personal trainer. He will tell you how to quickly yet safely lose the

here are the top five tips to get rid of a

weight and will also keep you motivated.

few pesky pounds before saying “I do”.

Start Early If at all possible, start exercising and eating right a few months before your special day. You will get to the size you want to be

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Walk Off the Weight – Two Times a Day Speed walking one to two

without the stress and last minute panic of wondering whether you will

miles twice a day keeps your metabolism in tip-top shape and going

fit into your dress! Simply exercising for an hour a day and watching

strong all day and night. Dedicate yourself to this regimen a few weeks

what you eat is all you need to do if you give yourself enough time.

before the big day and you will notice the pounds and inches falling off!

Hydrate and Avoid Sodium and Alcohol Cleansing the body with

Take a Bite, Leave the Rest It’s a given that you are going to be

water is a great way to shed a few excess pounds! Drinking eight

tasting cakes and reception foods, many of which are high in fat and

glasses of water throughout the day may make you feel like you are

calories, but you don’t have to eat it all! Use the “take a bite, leave the

packing on water weight, but what your body will actually be doing is

rest” rule to avoid packing on the extra pounds before your wedding

ridding itself of toxins. Avoiding large quantities of alcohol and sodium

day. This takes a little extra self-control, but in the end, it’s worth it.

is also key in shedding the extra pounds. wm

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What can we say?

Weddings Magazine has party planning panache.

We love to do it.

It’s just in our DNA.

sex in the little city bridal shower

What woman wouldn’t envy a little

Shower invitations requested that Jenn’s guests come ready to fill

“Sex in the City” inspired bridal shower

the bride’s closet with jewelry, pocketbooks and shoes. Attendees

with her best girlfriends to celebrate her

arrived to The Cotton Room, where the event was held, to a New York

last few days of freedom before

City styled bar, complete with white couches, striking crystal chande-

saying “I do?” While planning a shower

liers and butlered hors d’oeuvres, which included edible spoons filled

for Jenn Carlin, Michelle Aldred, owner

with Caesar salad and pancetta.

of Triangle Catering, and The Cotton Room, decided to do just that.

Michelle decided to have each table themed after a top shoe designer, and each was also adorned with crystal and glass centerpieces, which were surrounded with hot pink candles and scattered crystals. Beautiful floral arrangements in the chosen colors of the soiree along with foods that represented a wide variety of countries completed the table settings.

The Jimmy Choo table was set with fish and chips served in pink paper cones to mimic London dishes, the Christian Dior table provided Charcuterie to represent France and the Manolo Blahnik table was set with seafood paella to exude the flavors of Spain. To further execute the theme, the dessert display included jolly pops, parfaits, cheesecake lollipops, strawberry cake and cupcakes decorated with mini edible purses, martinis, and shoes.

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Get the Look Planner / designer Michelle Aldred, Owner Triangle Catering food Triangle Catering

Specialty drinks included “the Carrie” — a big apple martini, “the Samantha” – a manhattan cocktail, “the Miranda” — a Midori Cosmopolitan and the Charlotte — a pink martini with raspberry and X-Rated Fusion Liqueur. A

venue The Cotton Room

Carolina blue spiked lemonade served as the

chandeliers, chairs, & linens Party Reflections

signature bridal cocktail. Each of the ladies’

sofas & tables The Cotton Room

graphic, which came in a variety of designs

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glasses came with a “Glass Tatz” stick-on including a purse, the phrase ‘sassy lady,’ a present, hats, umbrellas and shoes.

videography Heart Stone Films Florist Fleuressence additional flowers The Cotton Room cupcakes The Cupcake Shoppe Raleigh Hair & makeup Sherry Clayton of Wavelengths

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The photo booth at the venue allowed Jenn and her guests to capture their memorable time, and shoe bottle opener favors were given out as thank you gifts. wm

a “guys’ night out”

bachelorette bash

Planning a themed bachelorette party is the perfect way to commemorate the last fling before the ring.

For Melanie’s bachelorette bash, Priscilla Erwin of Orangerie Events planned a girls’ night out centered around a guys’ night out theme.

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Sullivan’s Steakhouse in downtown Raleigh provided the ideal backdrop for this non-traditional bachelorette party that highlighted a sexy sultriness with hints of masculinity. The restaurant’s private dining room, complete with dark wood, built-in bookcases and old-world charm, was the perfect setting for an intimate celebration. To complement the venue and create an alluring atmosphere, Priscilla selected a color palette of black, silver and red. A modern, black-swirled linen created the foundation for a chic tablescape.

Priscilla used mirror ornaments attached to red wineglasses as place cards, and the tables were set with black chargers with diamond rims on ornate silver placemats. A red napkin “bow tie” was placed on top of each customized menu, and matching floral centerpieces adorned the table, giving the room a touch of feminine flair. Each chair at the dinner table was draped with a hanging necktie to play along with the masculine theme.

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Attendees dressed the part by wearing men’s dress shirts, ties and fedoras.

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Sullivan’s prepared an incredible feast for the ladies, with dishes ranging from succulent appetizers to mouth-watering steaks and, of course, the restaurant’s wildly popular Knock Out cocktails. For the sweetest part of the meal, decadent cupcakes creatively decorated with sexy cutouts replicating the women were served. Continuing with the evening’s theme, the ladies spent quality time together around the poker table and enjoyed hand-selected cigars and scotch.

According to Priscilla, revamping the traditional bachelorette party, as she did with Melanie’s soiree, just takes some creative thinking.

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engagement at the oaks Planning a rustic yet elegant engagement dinner with a romantic feel, Erin McLean with Erin McLean Events wanted to create an intimate celebration. The Oaks at Salem in Apex provided the ideal setting for this picture-perfect event as guests gathered to celebrate the upcoming wedding and commitment of the happy couple.

Set in a lush vineyard beneath a picturesque oak tree showered with twinkling lights, Tuscan tables were paired with mahogany chairs to create an affair that you may only expect to find in the movies. Candles illuminated the dining table, highlighting the natural textures and colors that complemented the surroundings.

Instead of creating one main centerpiece, Erin covered the center of the tables with flowers and candles, topped off with long, lush florals including sunflowers, garden roses and hydrangeas that pulled in shades of yellow, burgundy, green and red.

An antique window pane was used to showcase an amazing meal that included ciopinno-crab arancini, mussels, shrimp with tomato bouillabaisse and eggplant roulade with ricotta, roasted tomato, and balsamic aioli hors d’oeuvres. The first course consisted of a mouthwatering turkey fig salad with herbed chèvre, crispy proscuitto, petite greens, balsamic and maple-dijon vinaigrette. Pan-seared airline chicken breast over white bean ragout and wilted tuscan kale with fresh herb salad and extra virgin olive oil served as the main entree.

After dinner, guests enjoyed the showstopping cake that was displayed on a fire engine red table, as well as delicious macaroon favors, leaving all with sweet memories of the happy couple and an unforgettable evening.

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Get The Look Planner Erin McLean Events

Photography www.sweetlifephoto.com

Rentals Classic Party Rentals Florist Fleurtations Weddings & Events Venue The Oaks at Salem, Apex, NC

Cake Miel Bon Bons

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the children’s table Keeping children entertained

This kiddie table was designed to be gender neutral and age friendly to

at an adult wedding can be

demonstrate how easily one can create a fun-loving environment for children

quite a task but if you add

at a wedding. Katie Dunn, owner of La Fete Weddings and Events, chose

children-friendly décor

linens that are bright, vibrant and accented with every kid’s favorite food

and games (and hire a babysitter

group: candy!

for the event), your big day will be

The eye-catching daisies add a pop of formality while still keeping with

just as pleasant for the little ones.

the whimsical theme. Out-of-the-box food ideas that appeal to kids of every age were served at this event, which was held at Prestonwood Country Club.

Mini burgers and fries served in shot glasses, along with peanut butter and banana sushi rolls, converted all-American snacks into gourmet delights.

For dessert, the children were served candy-shaped mini personal cakes topped with each kid’s name, allowing the sweets to double as place cards.

To make the cake place cards even more special and appealing to the children, the layers inside the fondant were rainbow colored. Crayons tied to tiny drawing notebooks and balloons painted with each child’s name were handed out as favors as parents picked up their children and their escort cards, making the day a memorable event.

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Get The Look designer Katie Dunn, Events by La Fête

Photography www.emorylanephotography.com

linens & china Party Reflections florals Julie Liles Floral & Event Design location Prestonwood Country Club Cakes Christin’s Cakes

catering Prestonwood Country Club

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pre-party etiquette You’ll likely have several parties

party also provides a great way for friends and family members to get to

hosted in your honor. Here’s a primer

know one another. However, you shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement

on how to be a gracious honoree.

party that won’t be invited to the wedding.

Traditionally, the bride’s parents have hosted the engagement party, but

The Engagement Party An engagement party is the first party

that tradition has given way to friends, other family members, or even the

that’s hosted in your honor, usually within the first three months

couple themselves hosting the party. The host may ask you what type of

of your engagement. The party is a great way to announce and

party you would like. Be sensitive to the fact that more people means greater

celebrate your upcoming wedding with close friends and family,

expense for your host and make sure to be responsive to any guidance they

especially if you’re planning a long engagement. The engagement

give on the guest list. Also, provide your guest list to the host as soon as possible. Remember to send a nice thank-you note or bring a small gift to show the host how appreciative you are.

The Bachelorette Party The bachelorette party is typically hosted by the bridesmaids and the maid of honor. These parties are typically very casual and the cost is often shared among the maids.

If you have a preference about the style of bachelorette party (a quiet dinner or a raucous night of drinking) you should make that preference known.

Otherwise, you should let the planning to your friends. Though the party is casual, it’s still important to thank the hosts in writing following the big night.

The Bridal Shower Two to three months before the wedding, most brides have a bridal shower. The shower should be hosted by someone other than immediate family, and is traditionally hosted by the maid of honor. A small group of friends, family and the bridal party (typically no more than twenty guests) should be invited. As with other wedding-related parties, every guest at this event should also be invited to the wedding.

It’s important that you register before the bridal shower. It’s a time when many friends and family members send and bring gifts. As the honoree, you should provide the host with your guest list as soon as it is requested. In addition, you’ll want to make sure the names of guests and the gift they gave are recorded as you open them.

Though it’s wonderful to thank guests as you open your gifts, it is still important to send a written thank you for every gift. Thank you notes should be sent no later than two weeks following the event. Don’t forget to thank the hosts of the event as well. Multiple showers are only appropriate when they are hosted in different cities or by different groups of people (coworkers, etc). Make sure there is no overlap on your shower lists other than your immediate family and bridal party, as multiple invitations implies that multiple gifts are expected. wm

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great cakes Next to the bride, the cake is the

Buttercream, despite its less smooth look than it’s fondant counterpart,

star of the show when it comes to

is back in a big way! The taste and texture of this sweet and creamy icing

weddings. From choosing the right

gives fondant a run for it’s money and with a steady hand, can look just as

look to selecting the best flavors,

good. Consider your venue when selecting the appropriate time for setting

finding a great cake is at the top of

out the cake. Buttercream and heat do not go hand-in-hand, so keep that in

the to-do list when planning your

mind if you are throwing an outdoor reception.

wedding and this season, it’s all

Savor a new flavor and don’t be afraid to try something new like red

about getting what you want.

velvet, chocolate and orange or vanilla bean cakes. Layer your cakes with fabulous fillings such as caramel buttercream or chocolate ganache. Go for what you love, just make sure you taste the finished product before your wedding.

Height takes the cake this season as cakes are getting taller and bigger.

Towering wedding cakes are becoming the eye-catching talk of the reception. If price plays a part in how many tiers you can afford, fake layers can be used to get the height you desire without breaking the budget.

Cupcakes are still hotter than ever thanks to creative and personalized touches such as monogrammed fondants, jeweled candies and multiple unique flavors. Not to mention, guests (especially the kids) love trying out all the different flavors! Get really creative with cupcake holders and cake table layouts in unique designs that complement your theme.

Dress detail cake embellishments are so in this year! Designing your cake around your wedding gown is as simple as bringing the cake decorator photos of lace patterns, jewels and embroidery designs from your dress.

Simple and chic, this is the trend to follow in 2012.

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cake: The Cupcake Shoppe Raleigh (p 200)

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this traditional and affordable wedding cake has made it’s way back into receptions everywhere. Perfect for a smaller wedding (and budget!), two tier cakes can be made to appear dramatic with the right decorating and use of décor on the cake table.

Keep it simple! The use of dozens of cake flowers is out and the use of one or two large flowers is in. Nix busy cakes and bright colors and go for the easy-on-the-eyes look that will make your cake a classic.

Black and white cakes are striking and understated enough to go with all types of color schemes. The monochrome appearance draws the eye to the design and looks amazingly detailed without much fuss. Be careful not to use too much black, however, because this can ultimately make the cake appear dark and unappetizing. wm

takingthecake

Always the sweetest part of our magazine, cakes were photographed at the French inspired Coquette Brasserie in the North Hills shopping center in North Raleigh. The perfect location for your rehearsal dinner, intimate wedding reception or luncheon. You can reserve the entire restaurant (total seating capacity 190), dining room area, or the private room which seats 60 and is completely separated from the main dining room with soundproof doors. Our cakes never looked so delicious in such a chic venue!

Check out www.coquetteraleigh.com for more information.

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cakesby chloe

(p200)

A cascade of hand-crafted sugar flowers on a sea of blue.

Delicate pearls and quilting embellish the center tier of this flawless fondant creation.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

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christin’scakes

(p201)

Elegant edible lace, ruffles, and pearls accent this French inspired cake.

Personalize with a framed monogram.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

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mielbon bons

(p199)

Traditional wedding colors of gold, silver and white combine on this Romanesque confection.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

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dremecake artistry

(p203)

Birds, nature and foliage reflect the trend for 2012. Elegant hand painting and intricate sugar peonies adorn this awe-inspiring creation.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

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mielbon bons

(p199)

Crystals and baubles add sparkle to this black and white cake.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

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A black masculine sugar bowtie and pink feminine fondant are accented with stenciling and a ‘Mr & Mrs’ placard.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

thecupcakeshoppe

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thecupcakeshoppe

(p200)

An individual edible heart for all the guests to enjoy. Top off the cupcake stand with a personal cake for the bride and groom to enjoy.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

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christin’scakes

(p201)

Buttons without the bows.

Personalize a simple white cake by adding edible charms, buttons or jewelry.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

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Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

cakes

by chloe (p200)

Delectable elegance embellished with hand made edible pearls and gold tipped painted flowers. Quilting adds texture and design.

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dreme cakeartistry

(p201)

Defining details are flawless on this regal confection. Sure to be a showstopper at the reception.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

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miel

bon bons (p199)

The classic white wedding cake gets an inspiring update. Texture and quilting add sophistication to this unique-shaped cake.

Shot on location Coquette Brasserie (inside back cover)

Photos www.f8photostudios.com (p126)

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making it legal It’s easy to focus your attention on

North Carolina Marriage Laws

the dress and the flowers, but you’ll also need to take care of the one

(1) Both of you need to appear in person at a registrar of deeds – Monday

detail that makes it all legal – the

through Friday 8:30am to 4:30pm. You can visit any one of the following

marriage license. You need to obtain

offices, but you’ll need to mail the license back to the same office after the

it before the ceremony (no more

ceremony.

than 60 days before). Follow these simple tips to obtain your license:

Durham County

Orange County

Register Of Deeds

Register Of Deeds

P. O. Box 1107

P.O. Box 8181

Durham, NC 27702

Hillsborough, NC 27278

(919) 560-0480

(919) 732-8181

Johnston County

Wake County

Register Of Deeds

Register Of Deeds

Market St

P.O. Box 1897

Smithfield, NC 27577

Raleigh, NC 27602

(919) 989-5160

(919) 856-5460

(2) Be prepared to verify your social security number (a Social Security Card, a W2 form or a pay stub).

(3) You’ll need to show proof of ID (Drivers License, Military ID, Passport, State Issued ID or Birth Certificate).

(4) If you’re divorced, you’ll have to provide the date (month and year). If the divorce was finalized less than 30 days before your application, you’ll need an original or certified divorce decree.

(5) If you’re 16 or 17 years old, you’ll need written parental consent and a certified copy of your birth certificate. If you’re younger, you’ll need a court

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(6) You’ll need $60 in cash.

After you have your license, you must be married by a minister of any church, a magistrate, or a federally or State recognized Indian nation or Tribe. You’ll need two witnesses. The presider will then mail the marriage certificate to the registrar and it’s official – you’re married. wm

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catering by color Catering your wedding reception

Beverages have become a popular way of incorporating the signature col-

has become an art, utilizing colors,

ors of the wedding into the reception. Many caterers are now able to set up

content and the theme of your

times for brides and grooms-to-be to create their own drinks and design not

wedding to make presentation just as

only the ingredients of the drinks, but also the look and color of the bever-

important as taste. From appetizers

ages. Whether you decide on cosmos or coffees, drinks can be colored to

to desserts, foods and beverages can

match without sacrificing taste.

be designed to fit whatever the bride

Another popular beverage trend of the season is incorporating drinks that

desires. It’s not just about the cake

are commonly served with the foods you decide on. For instance, if you are

anymore; catering by color is taking

serving Mexican cuisine, tinted sangrias and margaritas with colored salts

wedding receptions by storm!

are a great match. Or, if you are getting married at the beach, opt for piña coladas served in coconut shells, tied with ribbons to go with your wedding colors.

Designing your menu to match your wedding colors is easier than it sounds. If your colors include red, for example, there are dozens of foods that can be used to complement your color and theme. Shrimp hors d’oeuvres, tomatoes, sauces and even caviar are just a few foods to get your menu going. If you are going green, salads, peppers, beans, fish and limes all pop with several shades of green.

Figuring out the best foods to match your colors can be inventive and fun.

Use food coloring sparingly and instead try to select foods that are naturally colored whenever you can. Bold fruits and vegetables can be used as toppings or garnishes and can be mixed in to naturally tint your recipes any color of the rainbow. The wedding reception meal may be traditional, but the food that is served doesn’t have to be. Give your menu a unique twist, come up with a theme and the colors for your wedding reception food and go with it!

Desserts are probably the easiest of the courses to match to whatever colors you decide on. Tinting white chocolate, edible flowers, buttercream and fondant gives you the freedom to get exactly what you want. Even cake batter can be tinted to almost any hue, revealing another level of your theme and signature shades when you and your groom cut into the cake.

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rental trends Custom Tenting This is the way to go when considering what to rent for your reception. Trained seamstresses are popping up all over the

trend that has reemerged over the past couple of years is traditional

country to help you get exactly what you envision. They do a great

black and white. Incorporating modern textures and patterns into

job of hand sewing tents and liners precisely to your specifications.

black and white linens is the perfect combination for a trend that has

Matching drapes and tent liners are other custom tenting accents that

come full circle from 1995 to 2012.

set your reception apart from any other, making it unique and unforgettable. According to Douglas Crowe of Party Reflections, “There has

Lighting When designing the tent of your dreams keep in

been an influx of requests for custom tent liners in a variety of colors.

mind that the tent ceiling should compliment the event, not

Sometimes brides request two colors in a liner and if so, we always

overwhelm it. In many cases custom lighting is recommended

caution not to create such a dynamic ceiling that it takes away from

behind or on a tent liner so you can control the light intensity on your

the tabletop and linens.� There is a fine line between elegant and a

tent liner. Many event planners are requesting pin spotting tablesand

three ring circus when it comes to utilization of color. Always order

stations with patterns and colors. Also custom lighting can really

samples so you can see the color combinations before paying for an

make a display, tabletop or event standout. Since it is rare to have the

expensive custom liner.

luxury of a full-scale mock-up of an event available before the actual installation, your lighting can really lend itself to the last minute

Colors Striking color combinations such as navy and canary-

modifications that always seem to be necessary. But, always keep in

yellow as well as granite and fuchsia are the in colors for 2011. One

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be our guest The often-overlooked guest book has

Handmade Quilt Squares Have each guest sign a quilt square, and

become the centerpiece of ceremonies

after your wedding day, have the pieces sewn together into a memo-

this season, thanks to creative and

rable quilt. For years to come, this quilt will not only surround you

inventive sign-in’s! Here are just a few

and your husband with warmth, but also with love from your family

ways to capture the moment, greet Guests

and friends.

and set the stage for your special day.

Dish Wish As guests enter your venue, have a large platter or dish Wishing Tree On cards and envelopes that go with the theme

for them to sign and write messages on. After the festivities, you can

and color scheme of your wedding, have guests jot down spe-

have the platter “set” and use it to serve visitors, or simply hang it in

cial messages and wishes for you and your groom. Advice and

your home.

dedications from loved ones are invaluable, and since you will be busy splitting time between guests on the day of your wedding, this helps

Polaroid Photo Guestbook Most people love to take pictures, es-

ensure that you won’t miss receiving their words of endearment.

pecially at weddings, so have guests “sign in” with a photo. Capture

If you decide to hang your cards on a live tree, you can plant it

family and friends on film and have them sign each photo. This way,

in the yard of your home, watch it grow and reminisce on where it

you can create an album and always look back on your guests’ excite-

all began.

ment on the day of your “I do’s”. wm

changing your name It takes months to get your name

cate or your new social security card to make the change. The easiest

changed. That’s okay; it takes months

method is to make lots of copies, write a “To whom it may concern”

to learn to respond to it too. Here’s the

letter, and leave a blank for the pertinent account numbers. wm

step-by-step guide to getting it done.

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Auto Registration

security office. Apply for a new social security card. They’ll mail it to

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Bank Accounts

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Car Insurance

you and you’ll have to have it before you proceed to step two.

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Credit Cards

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Credit Reporting Agency

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Doctors/Dentists

Step Two Take your new social security card and your old license down

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Employer

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Gym Memberships

to the DMV to have a new license issued. You’ll need a photo ID in your

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IRS

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new name before you can change any of your personal accounts.

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Property Title

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Savings Accounts

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wedding dj dos and don’ts Finding the right DJ for your wedding reception could make the

Red Flags n

Make sure you can interview the actual DJ who will be

difference between a reception

performing for your event. If a company says that all of its

that rocks and an affair that fizzles.

DJs are the same and you will be assigned a DJ for your

Planning the party of the year all

event, be careful, because that’s a big red flag!

comes down to the questions you ask

n Beware if the contract says “Deposit” with regard to booking.

and the answers you get. So we asked

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the best of the best what a bride is to do when it comes to finding the perfect DJ.

The DJ company can substitute ANY performer to fulfill the contract without prior notification to the client.

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If the contract says “Retainer Fee”, then the client has personally retained a specific performer and the DJ company must discuss any performer change with the client

Questions to Ask

and provide an option for the client to cancel the contract and

According to Brian McGuire of McSound Productions, when meeting with potential DJs, the client should bring a printed list of questions

be refunded the “Retainer Fee”. n

Avoid a DJ company that says it will “beat anyone’s price”.

with room to take notes during the interview. Here’s what questions

Quality wedding DJ services often range in price from $800

he suggests:

to $1600 for a four hour Saturday wedding reception, not

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How long has the DJ been in business?

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Who will actually be the DJ at my wedding?

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Does the DJ also handle the MC duties?

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What is the DJ’s style? Some DJs like to talk all night long

A good, experienced and respected DJ will be a member of local

and can get outrageous with comments or props such as air

industry associations such as the Triangle DJ Association, the Greater

guitars or silly hats. Other DJs may motivate people to dance

Triangle Chapter of International Special Events Society and Triangle

with good music selection and only make announcements

Wedding Guild, and will be able to supply you with at least ten refer-

as needed.

ences. The DJ’s equipment should be professional-grade commercial

How good is the DJs music library? A great DJ will have a

sound equipment and should include wireless microphones.

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including additional services such as lighting or video.

good variety of music to appeal to the different generations at a wedding.

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Does the DJ have backup equipment with them for every

ue,” said John Carter of Perfect Day DJ. “I love it when members of

event?,

the staff say that you are outstanding; they see vendors every week.

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Are there any other services that the DJ company provides

Everyone started somewhere, but your wedding is not the place for

such as lighting, videography or photography?

training.” Anyone can play good music, but a good wedding DJ will

Can the DJ provide a list of references?

know how to reach the entire crowd, so follow these guidelines and

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Does the DJ assist in planning the event?

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How often can you meet with the DJ before your event?

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What is the price of the service and what does it include?

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following in kate’s footsteps Wedding Cues From Kate Middleton

She’s the bride who changed the

The Dress Hundreds of designers tried to predict what Kate would wear

course of all aspects of the

on her walk down the aisle. Their guesses ranged from an updated

modern-day wedding with her

version of the strapless gown to the more traditional antique beaded dress, but

simplicity and grace. From her

few could have guessed that the sleeved gown with a lace bodice and sweet-

statement-making dress to the

heart neckline Kate donned would be her dress of choice. Modern yet simple,

wedding in its entirety, Kate

Kate’s dress has introduced brides to an updated concept of simple style and

Middleton’s style has become one

has broken the popular strapless trend that has lasted for over a decade.

that many brides around the world

The Hair An up-do was too predictable and uptight for this princess,

idolize. The following five

but the natural look of long, loose tresses continued the theme of her

timeless trends encompass the

“country comes to town” wedding. Not overdone, yet styled enough to last

most noticeable influences that

all day and maintain a laidback and beautiful feel, Kate captured the look of

the royal wedding has had on

a true fairytale princess. Kate completed her look with a simple, traditional

brides-to-be, many of which are now

tiara, keeping her veil perfectly in place. Kate’s hairstyle request was to look

finding themselves following in Kate’s footsteps.

like “herself,” a great rule of thumb for all brides!

The Bridesmaid’s Gowns Who’s afraid to share the white spotlight?

Not this fearless bride! Kate shattered the wedding rule of thumb that bridesmaids should steer clear of white. Soft and elegant, Kate Middleton’s bridesmaids’ gowns garnered attention all their own without taking away from the bride. From stark white to ivory and cream, shades of white for bridesmaids’ dresses are no longer off limits.

The Bouquet Less is definitely more when it comes to bouquets for brides this season, thanks to Kate. It’s all about size, shape and meaning when selecting a bouquet, as well as choosing a bouquet that compliments the dress. Kate’s slight, shield-shaped bouquet consisted of meaningful myrtle stems, lily-of-the-valley and hyacinth blooms, putting less emphasis on the actual look and size of the bouquet and more on the meaning behind it. For example, the Sweet William blooms were a gesture to Prince William and the myrtle stems were from greenery planted by Queen Victoria in 1845. This arrangement was a far cry from that of her hubby’s mom, whose bouquet encompassed the “bigger is better” motto of the 80’s. As Kate has suggested with choices such as these, it is the understated touches that make your selections even more memorable.

The Overall Look & Feel Chic and understated, Kate and her groom-tobe exuded a sense of ease and warmth rather than of royalty and inapproachability. The future princess and her wedding team managed to give Westminster Abbey a country wedding feel by including potted trees, flowers and berry bushes as well as the aroma of the English countryside. This feat proves that with a little creativity and use of the senses, you can turn any spot into the dream wedding you’ve always wanted. wm

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bridal makeup trends Bridal makeup colors and trends

Au Natural This trend starts with great skin. Flawless and soft, the natural

have evolved within the last year.

look enhances features with pink hues and creamy tones. Eyes are lined

From light and ethereal to strong,

with muted browns, lips are perfected with a light spice hue and cheeks are

dramatic looks, the top four trends

topped off with light bronzing. The blushing bride look is perfect for daytime,

cover the spectrum of wedding styles.

especially outdoors.

Finding the right fit for you is as easy as determining the time of day your

Romantic and Dreamy Plums and pinks make cheeks pop, channeling the

wedding is set for and what fits

popular looks of the Renaissance period. Stronger black and brown liners

your overall look and personality.

and mascaras line the top and bottom of the eyes, blended with ivory and buff shades of biscuit and honey shadows. Skin should be fresh, clean and slightly dewy and accented with a supple berry lip. Daytime and early evening are perfect times to flaunt this trend.

Timeless and Classic Highlighting your natural definition is the goal of this classic look. Using the blush shades of your natural skin color to accent cheeks and using warm coppers on your eyes will make your overall appearance pop. Line eyes in dark brown and use medium spice hues on lips.

This is a great choice for day or evening.

Dramatic For indoors or outdoors, drama is key! Berries or plums are used to highlight cheeks and rose accents are added along the apples. Smokey eyes paired with pastel shadows and bold, medium red or spice lips top off this glamorous look. This palette is recommended for evening weddings.

It is highly suggested to have a selected professional makeup artist for the bride and one or two other makeup professionals for the rest of the bridal party. At least one makeup run-through is advised, this way all of the kinks can be worked out, making for a stress-free day. Bring photos of looks you like, but also be open-minded to his or her suggestions.

If you are set on applying your own makeup, visit a professional at least once for tips. The key then is to practice a few times before your big day to know exactly what you are doing. Practice with your bridal party as well to get a clear-cut vision of how your photos will look. Set aside at least one hour to apply makeup on your wedding day and make sure to go over what you want with your bridesmaids repeatedly so you aren’t “surprised.”

The key to getting what you want is planning and practice! Don’t be afraid to ask for help; this is your day and you want to look your best without having any last-minute worries. wm

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destination wedding etiquette Who Pays for What

It can be a confusing and

The bride’s family is traditionally responsible for taking on most of the wed-

uncomfortable position to be in

ding expenses, so the first step is to talk with the bride’s parents to find out

when no one is sure of who pays

what type of budget you are working with. Have a few different wedding

for what when planning a

destinations and plans in mind that range in price and be flexible! Keep an

destination wedding. Depending on

open mind when realistically planning out your destination. Select three or

the location, destination weddings

four options that allow you to get what you want without having to forfeit

can be extremely costly, making it

a destination wedding altogether. Don’t forget to consider how many days

difficult for some guests to pay

the wedding will last, where many of your guests are traveling from (when

for, especially in today’s economy.

making the guest list), guests’ work schedules and the average income of

So who pays for what when it comes to destination weddings?

the guests you plan to invite.

Since the guest list of a destination wedding will most likely be smaller than that of a traditional hometown wedding, you may want to contact your guests ahead of time to discuss your plans and find out what they would be able to do and afford.

The next step is to approach the groom’s family to find out what they have in mind monetarily. Sit down with them to discuss if they are able and willing to add a little extra spending on their part to make your wedding dreams a reality.

It is proper etiquette for the bride, groom and/or their parents to pay for the wedding, the reception and the rooms and accommodations for the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Though the decision about who pays for guests’ travel expenses is ultimately up to you and your groom, wedding attendants are typically expected to pay for airfare, gas or other travel costs themselves.

If it is not in your budget to pay for everyone’s accommodations, make it very clear to guests that they are free to decline the invitation without any hard feelings. Since this is more of an imposition on guests, pay for what you can and let guests know in detail what is being provided to them so there are no last-minute surprises.

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Offer the option of guests’ attendance in lieu of a wedding gift.

Above all, make sure the decisions you make concerning your destination wedding are mainly based upon the budgets of you and your guests. In addition, it is also important to set clear guidelines and keep open lines of communication with your parents, guests and bridal party in order to avoid conflict or uncomfortable situations. wm

Both Amber and Casey had spent many summers vacationing with their families on the Crystal

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Coast, so when they decided to get married, Beaufort was the natural choice for the location of the elegant wedding with a hint of nautical flare they dreamed of.

The wedding took place at the Duncan House on historic Front Street in Beaufort. This circa 1728 house, once home to a sea captain, teems with history and maritime influence. Wooden signs, handcrafted by the bride’s family, welcomed guests and led them to the ceremony site, which overlooked the beautiful Intracoastal Waterway. Programs were made to resemble chalk boards, mirroring the chalkboards used in various other areas of the wedding decor. Shepherd’s hooks holding mason jars, each filled with flowers, lined the aisle, while rustic lanterns and other unique touches added to the vintage feel the couple sought for their day. The casual, country chic feel that Amber hoped to convey through her wedding decor was accomplished by melding the two lovely hues of mocha and peonyinspired pinks.

Flower girls dressed in soft pink pulled the ring bearer in a wooden wagon, adorned with lilies of the valley. Amber carried a gorgeous bouquet of white and fuchsia peonies tied in satin ribbon, and to complement the look, her bridesmaids’ bouquets burst with peonies in soft pink shades. The bride was beaming as she walked down the aisle in her strapless, sweetheart neckline wedding gown, again accented by bridesmaids’ mocha colored, A-line dresses with halter necklines. The groom paired his khaki suit with a light blue button down shirt, and his groomsmen donned blue button down shirts with dark pants.

The ladies made their way to the ceremony by land and the gentlemen arrived by sea. Over 100 family members and guests joined the celebration as the ceremony drew to a close and the reception began.

Treated to mouth-watering cuisine from Beaufort Grocery, guests were entertained on the tented lawn while the couple and their bridal party posed for pictures. The cake’s meticulously detailed work shone through, each of its four layers embossed with butter cream pearls and adorned with fresh flowers. As the evening drew to a close, guests looked on as the couple danced their final dance of the night, or as some might refer to it, the first dance of the rest of their lives.

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honeymoon your way Picking the perfect honeymoon

Adventurous If you both love outdoor activities, this is the type of get-

that reflects you and your

away for you two! An adventurous honeymoon may include deep sea div-

new hubby’s interests and

ing, mountain climbing, skydiving or any other adrenaline-pumping activity.

personalities is as easy as doing a

If this is what you seek, check out this adventure of a lifetime in Alaska!

little research and planning.

Whether you honeymoon in winter or summer, you’ll have dozens of ac-

Whether your dream honeymoon

tivities to choose from, including flight seeing, fishing, glacier and wildlife

consists of mountain climbing,

cruises, dog sledding, polar bear viewing, kayaking, and river rafting. In the

receiving massages on a tropical island or swimming with dolphins,

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you can follow up your perfect wedding with a

Active If you and your husband love to balance exciting activities with re-

honeymoon you’ll never forget!

laxing couple time, this is the ideal vacation for you. Camping and touring foreign countries are great options for active newlyweds. If your idea of rustic luxury camping is horseback riding, fly fishing, ATV tours and river rafting amongst breathtaking scenery, then Montana’s Paws Up Resort Spa Ranch is right up your alley! www.pawsup.com/ Laid-Back If kicking up your feet with a drink in hand and spending a few moments snorkeling or horseback riding on the beach is the “ahhh” honeymoon you desire, then you should plan for a laid-back getaway. Hot air ballooning and swimming with dolphins create just enough excitement for the couple looking to make a few memories without wearing themselves out. The latest beach-hopping trend is not only a wonderful way to change up scenery and discover new and exciting adventures, but also a way for you and your better half to enjoy quality time in serene locations! Beach hop along the Florida or California coasts and stop at some of the most beautiful beaches in the world to go parasailing, dine oceanfront and simply take advantage of the best each beach has to offer.

Total Relaxation If the goal of your vacation is to lay around and be waited on hand and foot, go with the total relaxation honeymoon! This style of honeymoon may include massages every day, endless room service and breathtaking sunset cruises. A great place to start your search would be to look into the Bora Bora Pearl Beach Resort & Spa. This resort just added a third spa to its amenities and advertises the island as one of the most romantic in the world. www.tahiti-tourisme.com/islands/borabora/bora-bora-romance.asp wm 2012

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save the date innovative little reminders have

can use to get guests pumped about your nuptials. Use your colors

become a creative way to make

and flowers on these terrific reminders to give guests a feel for what

a first impression and to reinforce

to expect at your ceremony.

the theme of your wedding. Simple

Magnets Photos or caricatures of the happy couple on a magnet make

save-the-date cards are a thing of the

the front row of the fridge every time. Your guests go to the refrigerator

past. Fun-and-fabulous is the new way

many times every day, so your save-the-date magnet is always in their

to get guests to RSVP, ASAP.

faces to remind them about your upcoming event.

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coastal ceremonies A seaside ceremony is one

There are a wide selection of hotels and inns offering wedding pack-

of the most beautiful weddings

ages that include everything from the décor and photographer to the florist

that any couple could ever

and reception hall. Average prices for a full wedding package ranges from

dream of. Finding the perfect

$3,000 to over $5,000 and catering is not usually included. Depending on

location that is easily accessible

time of year and location, these facilities are fully equipped to handle the

to your guests and with amenities

needs of large wedding parties, boarding, transportation and other con-

that can accommodate your

siderations. Choosing a location with a wedding coordinator can make the

wedding party and all within

details of your wedding as easy as a phone call. If you love the scenery, but

your budget can be difficult

dislike the sand, select hotels are now offering a garden area overlooking

but the end result…divine!

the ocean. For staffing purposes and to ensure quality service many hotels require couples to book a certain number of rooms for the occasion.

If you are looking for more of an intimate locale to hold a slightly smaller scale wedding, but would still like the beach back drop sans the tourists, a bed and breakfast may be the right choice for you. According to the size of the bed and breakfast, these cozy homes away from home specialize in catering to a wedding party’s every whim. Undivided attention is top priority when it comes to a B&B wedding, so be prepared to be pampered! Prices for a B&B wedding range from $2,200 to over $5900. An event fee ranging from $1,500-$2,000 can also be added. These prices do not include catering and, depending on the size of your party and the requested amenities, can fluctuate throughout the year.

If you find that hotels and B&B’s are booked solid and it can require a little more legwork, but renting a cottage on the coast is a less expensive more personal option for a wedding. There are countless wedding coordinators that are able to guide you through the planning process from a far. These professional planners can recommend and book everything from catering to cakes. Permits are generally required for ceremonies and receptions held on the beach. If dining in the sand is not your preference, local restaurants are set up to cater receptions in-house.

It is important to book your seaside service well in advance, sometimes years ahead of time. Make sure to ask about year round rates, a matter of waiting a few days to book your wedding could save you hundreds even thousands of dollars. Check with your guests regarding travel considerations and take a headcount to determine how many rooms you need to book. Group rates can you save money and keep your wedding party to stay closer together.

Planning a coastal ceremony may take a little extra effort, but it is well worth it to have the wedding of your dreams. wm

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your budget

(A Closer Look at What Things Really Cost)

Every magazine tells you what you can afford.

We tell you what things really cost. Here’s a guide to what some wedding related services cost in and around the Triangle.

Keep in mind, we can only provide a range quality and specifics.

Final selections determine the final price.

Accommodations Reserving a block of rooms at one of the Triangle’s full service hotels should garner one of their better rates. Expect to spend $85 to $215 per night, depending on the hotel you select and the time of year.

Ceremony Facility Rental Fees If you’re not a member of the church hosting your ceremony, site fees typically begin at $250 and can be as high as $1500. For non-church

Hair & Makeup

facilities, including gardens, B&Bs, and historic spaces expect to

For bridesmaids, expect to spend between $25 and $40 for simple up-

spend $1500-$2000 for ceremony site rental.

dos completed in a salon and between $12 and $30 for in-salon make up application. Typically, the bride is more expensive, due to the care and time taken with her makeup and hair. In a salon, expect to spend

Ceremony Music

$40-100 for bridal hair and $20-50 for makeup application. On-site

Single musicians like harpists, organists and pianists generally cost

application is typically more expensive, but far more convenient and

between $150 and $300 for the preludes and ceremony. A string quar-

practical for a busy wedding day. Expect to spend $40-95 per maid for

tet should range between $575 and $1000 depending on the quality

makeup and hair, and $200-$400 for the bride. If looking your best

of the musicians. Soloists range from $75 to $300, depending on the

is of utmost concern, hire an artist for the entire day, which includes

number of selections required and the reputation of the singer.

initial application and touch ups throughout the day. Plan to spend $1000 to $2500 for this luxury.

Your Gown The prices of wedding gowns vary widely by designer, fabric quality

Invitations

and construction quality. At a national gown warehouse, you can ex-

Prices and quality vary widely depending on the thickness and quality

pect to spend $200 to $800. Most local full service bridal salons carry

of the paper, the type of lettering you choose and finish details of the

gowns that range from $500 to $2000, with lots of selection at every

invitation. For 100 invitations, you should expect to spend $100-150

price point. The local salons that carry couture gowns begin at $1500

for a set from a mail order company. For 100 thermographed invita-

and can go above $7000. Remember to count on $200 to $500 for

tions from a mid-range supplier, expect to spend between $200 and

alterations when you budget for your gown. Budget between $200 and

$500 for the set. Custom designed, hand embellished and specialty

$3000 when budgeting for your veil and accessories.

invitations can cost from $300 to $1000 for 100.

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your budget

(A Closer Look at What Things Really Cost)

Wedding Consultants Service fees for wedding consultants vary widely based on the number of hours you need and the reputation of the consultant. Day-of-services range from $500 to $2000 and full-service-planning ranges from $1500 to $7000. Be sure to thoroughly compare each consultant’s services. Many offer different combinations of services and hours in packages, but call them by similar names. If you’re interested in a planner but can’t afford a package, ask about hourly consulting or associates.

Photography

Reception Facility Rental Fees

Photographers prices vary based on the quality of the work, the skill

There may be no facility rental at private clubs, where fees are often

of the artist, the hours of coverage, the amount and type of film shot,

waived for members. At hotels and banquet halls, the fee ranges from

the type of processing, the number of finished prints and the type and

$1000 to about $2000. Couples with a $20,000 budget spend about

quality of the album included. Expect to spend $5,000 to $11,000 on a

$1000 on facilities. Need to save money here? Ask if the facility fee

top photographer, who’s work has been seen in national wedding pub-

can be waived if you meet a certain minimum. Or consider having

lications. The second tier of photographers charge $3000 to $6000.

your ceremony and reception in the same place – which may reduce

There are a number of traditional and a few photojournalists charging

the fee.

$1000 to $3000. Consider having a great photographer for a shorter period of time. How many images of dancing do you need anyway? Opt for a smaller number of finished proofs and a longer coverage day from

Tents

the best photographer you can afford. A few good images are always

Tent prices vary widely depending on the size of the tent needed. Ex-

better than a lot of photos you don’t like.

pect to spend between $1000 and $4000 on a frame tent, depending on the size area you’ll need tented. Draping the interior of the tent can range dramatically, depending on your use of a stock ($1500 to

Videography

$2000) or custom ($3000 to $15000) liner. Lighting also varies widely

Expect to spend between $700 and $5000 depending on the number

depending on the type of lighting selected, but expect to spend $400

of cameras covering your event and the amount of editing required on

to $2000 to light your tent.

the finished product. Most couples spend between $1000 and $2000 on their wedding video. This includes one or two cameras, some editing, and several finished DVDs.

Linens & Rentals Expect to spend $7 to $12 per table on basic white or solid color linens. Specialty linens, including prints and silks, can range from $15 to $28 per table. Chairs range from $2.00 for folding plastic chairs and $4.00 for white wood folding chairs to $6 to $8 per chair for chivari ballroom chairs or specialty bar stools. Candles, candelabras, centerpiece vessels, chargers, specialty china and more can all be rented locally, and are substantially less expensive than purchasing.

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Flowers The prices of flowers vary widely based on flower types and the labor required in arrangement styles. In general, you can expect to spend between $75 and $400 on your bouquet. Price depends on the size of the bouquet and the blooms you select. Bridesmaid’s bouquets are usually more modest and range from $75 to $225. Boutonnieres and

sizes are very controlled, so caterers know exactly how much of each

corsages range from $9 to $30. Arrangements for your ceremony can

ingredient to order. Seated dinner prices range from $18 to $85 per

vary widely, but expect to spend at least $200 on anything of sub-

person, with averages in most clubs and hotels around $35 per per-

stantial size. Centerpieces for your reception range from $50-$100

son. Buffet dinners are often the most expensive option. Caterers must

per table for something small and simple to $350 per table for a large

prepare more of each item to ensure that they don’t run out of food and

elaborate arrangement.

that means waste. Buffets generally start at $26 per person and go up to $60 per person, with averages around $38 per person. You’ll want to remember that you’ll have an additional 20% gratuity and 7% sales

Bar Fees

tax added to the final bill.

Most reception facilities and caterers in the Triangle price alcohol based on consumption. This means you’ll pay only for the alcohol that your guests consume. Expect to spend between $14-28 per person if

Transportation

you’re offering a beer and wine bar for four hours. Remember, you’ll

Traditional limousines are widely available in a variety of colors and

have to pay a service fee (generally 18-22%) and sales tax on your

sizes. Expect to spend between $100 to $155 per hour for a traditional

bar tab.

limousine with a three-hour minimum on most weekends. There’s also a 15-20% gratuity added to the overall bill. Larger scale limos, limo SUVs and specialty cars are typically more expensive.

The Cake Wedding cakes range from $2.50 per slice to $7.00 per slice. The average Triangle baker charges $4.00-$4.50 per slice. Keep in mind that

Reception Music

there are slice minimums as well as delivery fees. ($50-75 is typical

If you’re thinking of a DJ, budget between $800 and $1200 for

for a local delivery).

a four-hour reception. The cost of bands vary widely. For a local party band with four to five members, plan on $2000 to $4000. If you plan to hire a band with more regional appeal or more mem-

The Food

bers, you’ll need to increase your budget by as much as $4000.

This is your largest expenditure and the toughest to estimate. Hors d’oeuvres parties start at about $19 per person and can go as high as $72 per person. (We’ve even seen some $200 per person parties!)

The Wedding Favors

Price depends on the selections that you make with your caterer. Keep

Favor costs vary widely depending on the item selected. Most couples

in mind that there is an additional fee for carvers, servers, and bar-

spend between $2 and $5 per person on favors and packaging. Op-

tenders. This cost is either figured in a staff-cost expenditure, or it’s

tions like birdseed and bubbles are the least expensive, and items like

included in the 20% service fee. Though most couples don’t expect it,

custom poured chocolates, mini cakes and sterling silver gifts are

seated meals can sometimes be the most affordable option. Portion

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the ultimate

12+ Months Prior Pick a date.

Logistical Establish a budget.

Planning Choose a ceremony & reception site.

6-9 Months Prior

Select attendants.

Determine colors & theme.

Determine guest list.

4-6 Months Prior Schedule vacation time at work.

Apply for passport if necessary.

Interview caterers if not deterined by venue.

Schedule tastings.

Interview caterers if not deterined by venue.

Schedule tastings.

Evaluate and choose a wedding planner.

Meet with consultant to discuss design of wedding: florals, cake, and other decorative elements.

Interview and select a florist.

Interview and select a florist.

Officiant

Select a wedding officiant.

Begin pre-marital counseling.

Fashion Begin shopping for your & Beauty wedding dress.

Select and purchase your gown.

Shop and choose bridal party dresses.

Purchase accessories and shoes.

Begin wedding gown fittings.

Select tuxedos for wedding party and fathers.

Send Save-the-Date cards.

Shop for and select an invitation style.

Order invitations.

Hire calligrapher, if desired.

Music

Shop for your band or DJ.

Select ceremony musicians.

Photography Videography

Select your photographer.

Select a videographer.

Reserve a block of rooms for out-of-town guests.

Reserve transportation for bridal party.

Food & Beverage

Wedding Evaluate and choose a Consultant wedding planner.

Flowers & Decor

Stationery Order Save-the-Date cards.

Transportation/ Accommodations

Honeymoon Planning

Gifts & Misc.

Shopping

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Make honeymoon travel arrangements.

Register for wedding gifts.

Reserve any specialty linens, glassware, chargers, chairs or tables.

2-4 Months Prior

2 Weeks Prior

1 Week Prior

Apply for marriage license.

Develop your seating chart.

Confirm delivery with vendors.

Plan bar for reception.

Give caterer your final head count.

Give caterer your final head count.

Meet with consultant to discuss ceremony details and reception itinerary.

Develop your wedding day timeline.

Have consultant distribute timeline to all vendors.

Give consultant any items for set-up.

Day Before: Give fees & gratuities for distribution.

Meet with officiant and determine the ceremony particulars.

Get your officiant’s ‘okay’ on the wedding program.

Day Before: Give marriage license to officiant at the rehearsal.

Interview stylists. Have trial runs and reserve.

Have final gown fitting.

Break in shoes.

Schedule manicure and pedicure for the wedding week.

Day Before: Get a manicure and pedicure. Have massage, if desired.

Address and mail invitations.

Order napkins, favors, and any other printed items.

Order and print your wedding program.

Prepare menu cards, if desired.

Prepare placecards and seating cards.

Finalize ceremony music selections

Prepare a “must-play” list for band or DJ

Give emcee order of the reception.

Give photographer list of important formal photos.

Make sure both photographer and videographer have a timeline of the day.

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Finalize menu with caterer.

Communicate all pick-up and drop-off locations to transportation providers.

Reserve transportation for guests, if required.

planner

1 Month Prior

Day Before: Drop off any guest gifts.

Get foreign currency or traveler’s checks.

Buy groom’s wedding gift.

Purchase favors, toasting flutes, registry, send off items, garter and any necessary items.

Buy attendant gifts.

Check registry to ensure that there are enough items available for purchase.

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wedding day pet prep

Making Your Pet A Part of Your Wedding Day

To many people, pets are an extremely

Make sure you have a designated “pet pal” assigned to your pooch

important part of their lives and are

for the entire day. Your pet is going to need to be walked, watered, fed

often considered part of the family.

and cared for during this extremely busy time, and having someone you

Even though it may seem only natural

can trust to watch over your four-legged friend will give you peace of mind.

to include your furry friend in your wedding, there are a few things

When booking your venue, don’t forget to find out if they allow pets.

to consider before committing your

You may need to pay an additional fee or pet deposit to have your pup al-

canine to one of the most

lowed on property. Also, keep in mind that an outdoor setting is most likely

special days of your life.

the best environment for any pooch.

Practice makes perfect, so if you are planning to include your pet on your wedding day, practice, practice, practice! If you have a specific outfit or trick in mind for the ceremony, go through this routine or walk your pet through the venue multiple times before the day of your wedding so he or she is familiar with what to do.

Consider your pet’s temperament. If you have a nervous dog or untrained puppy, it’s probably a bad idea to include your dog in your “I do’s.” Make sure that your pet is comfortable around large crowds and trained to use the bathroom at certain times to avoid any unsightly accidents.

When planning pictures, it is a good idea to have them taken with your pet on a different day. Accidents may happen, so to reduce your risk of walking down the aisle in a yellow and white dress, talk with your photographer about setting up a separate time to shoot pics with your pet.

If you decide that it would be best to leave your dog at home on the day of the ceremony, there are still ways to include him or her. For example, you can request a groom’s cake that resembles the missing mutt, or add a resembling figure of the absent pet to your cake topper. You may also consider having your pet’s picture in the wedding program, or, during vows, sharing a funny story about how this special family member brought you and your partner closer together. These fun and interesting ways of

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including your furry friend will allow you and your hubby to still share the

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love you both have for your pet while also supplying your guests with quirky conversation pieces. wm

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