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ARTICLE JESSICA BEARD
Avoid Confrontations
Last February I had a beautiful friend who was bombarding me with messages and detailing their life in minute detail.
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absolutely adore this person and knew that I was going to have to say something because I didn’t have the time or patience to listen anymore. I am someone who doesn’t like confrontation and I was trying to craft the ideal message to not offend them but also assert my own boundaries. I wanted them to know that I was happy to answer questions they have, listen to breakthroughs, hear about their struggles or even a rant. But I didn’t want to know that they saw a bird that morning, were going shopping or brushing their teeth. Some of the messages were bordering on the bazaar, as I had never known anyone to message with such mundane details.
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This wasn’t like our normal communication and the sheer strangeness of the exchanges actually made me pause and ask myself if Spirit was trying to show me something. I wondered if this was a lesson for me to work on my issues with confronting people. Maybe it was supposed to be an opportunity for me to stand up for myself in a loving way. However, that didn’t feel right and I still procrastinated on requesting they stop. The Universe of course has a wonderful sense of humour and I got a final message from my friend which was so out of the world odd I did something very cool. I was sitting in my bed and I put my hand up in the www.spiritualeventsdirectory.com
