Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: March 24, 2024

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CHURCH of SAINT MARY

March

Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor

Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar

Reverend Father Rafal Borowiejski | Parochial Vicar

Reverend Father Edward Obi, MSP | Parochial Vicar 1300

Palm Sunday of the Passion of the Lord
24, 2024
Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030 516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Mission Statement

We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.

Church of Saint Mary

1300 Northern Boulevard

Manhasset, New York 11030

(516) 627-0385

Fax (516) 627-6070

www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Schedule of Masses

Thursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session)

Monday–Friday 9:00 AM

Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM

Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon

Sacrament of Penance

Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.

Anointing of the Sick

The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.

Parish Office

627-0385 | Fax 627-6070

Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM

Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM

Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM

E-mail: information@stmary.ws

Parish Social Ministry

365-2705

Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM

E-mail: kkosciusko@stmary.ws

St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws

Religious Education

627-4028

Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM

Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM

Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM

Closed on Friday

PARISH DIRECTORY

Pastoral Staff

Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor

627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar

627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Rafal Borowiejski Parochial Vicar

Rev. Fr. Edward Obi, MSP Parochial Vicar fredward@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Staff

Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws

Marie T. Granieri

Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws

Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager

627-0385 | ext. 1002

Kathleen Kosciusko

Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws

Jennifer LaChance Office Manager 627-0385 information@stmary.ws

Daniel Maimone Music Director

627-0385 | ext. 1021 dmaimone@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws

Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010 traftery@stmary.ws

The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade

Very Rev. Dom Daniel Nash, Can. Reg. President 627-2711 president@stmary.ws

Norma Ragalli Stafford

Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws

Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120

eshort@stmary.ws

Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711

esymmons@stmary.ws

Kiera Gmelich Walsh

Director of Alumni and Parent Relations

627-2711 | ext. 1162

kwalsh@stmary.ws

Sarah de Venoge Griffin ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgriffin@saintmarysmanhasset.org

St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184

www.stmary11030.org

Theresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org

St. Mary’s High School 627-2711

www.saintmaryshs.org

Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org

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Church of Saint Mary

From the Pastor’s Desk

Dear Parishioners,

“He humbled Himself, obediently accepting even death, death on a cross.” (Philippians 2:8)

As a Christian people, we are entering the holiest and most solemn week of our year. During these days we celebrate what we call the “Paschal Mystery.” The Paschal Mystery is the fulfillment of the promises first revealed in the Old Testament and now bought to perfection and completion in the actions of Jesus. Beginning in Genesis with the fall of humanity through the sin of Adam and Eve, God has prepared the human race for the acts that would restore our relationship to God. The Church calls us in a special way to enter into the mystery and joy of these days. I invite and encourage you to join with the community and participate in these days of our salvation.

PALM (PASSION) SUNDAY

Today is the beginning of Holy Week. The readings begin with the triumphant entrance of Jesus into the holy city of Jerusalem. He is acclaimed as the Son of David, King, and Messiah. Jerusalem is filled with Jews from all over the world who have come to celebrate the Passover Feast. Many have heard of Jesus and because of the heightened feelings against Rome, they see in Jesus the one who will free them. They cut branches from palm and olive trees and lay them on the ground for Jesus to pass through. The tone of the Scriptures changes quickly and the religious leaders, fearful of Jesus, plot to destroy Him. Our Gospel reflects the “Passion” (the betrayal, suffering, and death) of Jesus. We receive palms today so to remind ourselves that Jesus is our king and we, like the people of Jerusalem, sometimes turn from Jesus. By the way, the palms left from today will be used as the burnt ashes on Ash Wednesday next year.

SACRED TRIDUUM: HOLY THURSDAY

Holy Thursday begins our Sacred or Easter Triduum. These three days focus more deeply on our salvation and the Pascal Mystery. Daily Mass or Funeral Masses are not celebrated during the Triduum so that we are able to focus more deeply on the meaning and solemnity of these days. The Church gathers to celebrate Morning Prayer at 9:00 AM. After the Mass, Morning Prayer is the most important prayer form in the life of the Church. We pray the Psalms and read the Scriptures. Earlier in Holy Week (Tuesday), the priests and faithful of the Diocese gather at the Cathedral to celebrate the “Chrism Mass.” At this Eucharist, the bishop blesses the oils that will be used in the parishes throughout the year. The Oil of the Catechumens is used to strengthen those who will enter the Church at Baptism in their journey as a Christian. The Oil of the Sick is used by the priests to anoint those who are sick or near death. The bishop consecrates the Sacred Chrism and the power of the Holy Spirit is infused into the oil. Chrism is used at Baptism and Confirmation as well as the Ordination of a priest to anoint in the power of the Holy Spirit. The oils are then solemnly received into the parish church.

In the evening, the Church gathers to celebrate the Mass of the Lord’s Supper at 7:30 PM. The Last Supper is the first Mass that Jesus celebrated. He commanded the disciples, as he does us today, to do this in remembrance of Him. The Eucharist/Mass/Liturgy celebrates the suffering, death, and resurrection of Jesus. It also makes real the fact that Jesus will be present to us, through this saving action, for all time. We are invited at each Mass to enter into the days of salvation and allow them to touch the very depths of our beings. At the Last Supper, Jesus also created the ministerial or ordained priesthood. The Apostles were the first priests of the New Covenant so that, just as the priests of the Old Testament were able to offer sacrifice to God for the people, the priests of the New Covenant are called to do the same. This celebration also contains a “new commandment.” Jesus washed the feet of the disciples. In this action, called the “mandatum” or command, Jesus teaches His followers that in order to be His disciples we have to be willing to be “servants of all.”

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From the Pastor’s Desk

At the end of the Mass, the Blessed Sacrament is removed from the tabernacle and brought to another place. This offers the faithful time to pray before Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. In our parish, we will process to the chapel, which will be open until 11:00 PM. I invite you to sign the sheet in the vestibule of the Church so that that the Blessed Sacrament is never left unattended.

At the end of the Liturgy, the altar is stripped and left bare, and the holy water is removed as we enter into the days of silence. The tabernacle of our church will be empty until the Easter Vigil. In a sense, as Jesus was hidden in the tomb, we also await the Resurrection.

GOOD FRIDAY

This is truly the most solemn and profound of all our holy days. The great sacrifice of the life of Jesus for the forgiveness of our sins reminds us of His obedience to the Father. The death of Jesus on the cross is His body broken for our sins and His blood that washes us clean. The sadness of His death is always seen in light of the glory of His Resurrection. As we venerate the wood of the cross during our Liturgy at 3:00 PM, we are called to give thanks for all Jesus has done for us.

Now the forgiveness of our sins is remembered in the unbloody sacrifice of the Mass. On the cross, we hear the cry of Jesus to the Father, “Why have you abandoned me?” A plea that will be answered in the most profound way on Easter. We enter and leave the church in silence as we stand in awe of all that Jesus willingly gave for us. As He is laid in the tomb, the Bridegroom, as described in Scripture, is taken from our midst. The Church begins her period of waiting. May the Crucifixion inspire us to act in love and obedience to the will of God in our own lives. Mass is not celebrated today, but so that the faithful are not deprived of the Eucharist, Holy Communion consecrated on Holy Thursday will be distributed. We gather at 9:00 AM to pray Morning Prayer and at 7:30 PM to walk the Solemn Stations of the Cross.

HOLY SATURDAY/ EASTER VIGIL

After 9:00 AM Morning Prayer, the Church continues her silent vigil awaiting the great news of the Resurrection. At the Easter Vigil at 7:30 PM, the Church completes the days of waiting and this culminates the Great and Holy Triduum. The days of waiting are about to end. God will redeem humankind in the silent hours of the night. God shakes the world from its slumber and the power of resurrection touches the world from that darkened tomb. This night we enter the Church in a darkness that will be lit by the fire of the watchman who awaits the dawn of resurrection. The Pascal /Christ/Easter Candle is blessed and consecrated and gives light to the darkened church. As the candle is solemnly processed to the altar, the faithful are invited to light their baptismal candles. The church is filled with the light of Christ and those who have, through baptism, dedicated themselves to continue the work of Jesus. The Easter Proclamation or Exsultet is sung announcing the great and wondrous work of Jesus. The readings are a highlighting of the history of our salvation, beginning with the creation of the world. The holy water is blessed and the faithful renew the promises made at their baptism. Any adults seeking entrance into the Church are baptized at the Easter Vigil. At the Gospel acclamation, we hear the great “Alleluia” for the first time since Lent began. It is the great story of the empty tomb, which we have waited these forty days to hear. To distinguish the glorious celebration of Easter and the joy in hearing the “Alleluia” again, we shall sing it before and after the Gospel. At the end of Communion, the Blessed Sacrament will again be solemnly placed in the tabernacle.

As you can see, these days are filled with ritual, symbolism, and joy. In a profound way, they tell the story of the work of our redemption and salvation. I encourage you to participate as much as you can in these days of prayer and joy.

May your Holy Week fill you with the presence of God’s love and a deep sense of prayer and thanksgiving.

In Jesus, the suffering Messiah, Fr. Bob

Palm Sunday of the Passion of the Lord | March 24, 2024

Stewards of God’s Gifts

Jesus was crucified for our sins.

Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Prayer: This Holy Week, be sure to take part in all the spiritual opportunities the Church has available to you. Go to Mass on Holy Thursday, go to the Good Friday service, go to confession and be sure to pray often and meditate on Christ’s Passion.

The collection for Sunday, March 17, 2024 amounted to $25,916.00.

The collection for Sunday, March 19, 2023 amounted to $25,502.00.

Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.

We Care for Our Parish Community

Baptism

We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”

Marriage

At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.

Children’s Education

Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.

Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.

The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays

4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministry

We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.

Youth Ministry

We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.

New Parishioners

We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.

Opportunities For Prayer

The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.

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From the Pastor’s Desk

The Veiling of Crosses and Statues on the 5th Sunday of Lent

As you came into the church last Sunday, you saw that the crosses and statues had been covered or “veiled.” Why are we doing this?

Veils over sacred images keep our minds on the promise of Easter.

It might seem strange that during the most sacred time of year, Catholics cover everything that is beautiful in their churches, even the crucifix. Shouldn’t we be While it may appear counterintuitive to veil statues and images during the final weeks of Lent, the Church recommends this practice to heighten our senses and build a longing for Easter Sunday within us. It is a tradition that should not only be carried out in our local parish, but can also be a fruitful activity for the “domestic church.”

The rubrics can guide us in the practices of this season. In the Roman Missal, we find the instruction, “In the Dioceses of the United States, the practice of covering crosses and images throughout the church from [the fifth] Sunday [of Lent] should be observed. Crosses remain covered until the end of the Celebration of the Lord’s Passion on Good Friday, but other images remain covered until the beginning of the Easter Vigil.”

This is the current practice of the Church, but veiling from the Fifth Sunday of Lent onward is minuscule compared to what was once practiced. For example, in Germany, there was a tradition to veil the altar from view throughout all of Lent.

Families are also encouraged to imitate this practice and veil prominent religious images in their homes. It helps us to participate in the liturgical season, especially if we are not able to go to Mass during the week. Otherwise, we only see the veiled images in church once or twice before Easter and it has a minor effect on us. It is also a beautiful tradition to pass down to our children, who will be intrigued by it, and it will make this time of year truly special for them. We go through great lengths to decorate our homes for Easter, so why not prepare for the great feast by using veils?

But why go through such lengths to cover up images that are designed to raise our hearts and minds toward heaven?

First of all, we use veils to alert us to the special time that we are in. When we walk into church and notice everything is covered, we immediately know that something is different. These last two weeks of Lent are meant to be a time of immediate preparation for the Sacred Triduum and the veils are a powerful reminder to get ready.

Secondly, the veils focus our attention on the words being said at Mass. When we listen to the Passion narrative, our senses are allowed to focus on the striking words from the Gospel and truly enter into the scene.

Third, the Church uses veils to produce a heightened sense of anticipation for Easter Sunday. This is further actualized when you attend daily Mass and see the veils each day. You don’t want them to be there because they are hiding some very beautiful images.

And therein lies the whole point: the veils are not meant to be there forever. The images need to be unveiled; it is unnatural for them to be covered.

The unveiling before the Easter Vigil is a great reminder of our own life on earth. We live in a “veiled” world, in exile from our true home. It is only through our own death that the veil is lifted and we are finally able to see the beauty of everything in our lives.

Good Friday Collection

Pope Francis has asked our parish to support the Pontifical Good Friday Collection, which helps Christians in the Holy Land. Your support helps the church minister in parishes, provide Catholic schools and offer religious education. The Pontifical Good Friday Collection also helps to preserve the sacred shrines. The pandemic hit particularly hard the Christians in the Holy Land. Most of them depend on pilgrimages for work. In these times of crisis, the Pontifical Good Friday Collection is also necessary to meet the basic needs of the People of God still living in this Land where the Church was born. When you contribute to the Pontifical Good Friday Collection, you become an instrument of peace and join with Catholics around the world in solidarity with the Church in the Holy Land. For more information about Christians in the Holy Land, visit www.myfranciscan.org/good-friday.

PLEASE BE GENEROUS!

The Parish Office will be closed on Good Friday and Easter Sunday

Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on Easter Sunday of the Resurrection of the Lord

Reading I: Acts of the Apostles 10:34a, 37-43

This man God raised on the third day and granted that he be visible.

Reading II: Colossians 3:1-4

When Christ your life appears, then you too will appear with him in glory.

Gospel: Mark 16:1-7

‘He is going before you to Galilee; there you will see him, as he told you.’

Question for Adults:

How do I experience the light of the risen Christ in my life?

Question for Children:

Why does the Resurrection of Jesus bring me great joy?

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Cheerful Catholic Academic

THE SCHOOLS OF ST. MARY

Pilgrims Deepen their Faith on their Journey through Italy

This past February, during school recess, our Saint Mary’s High School students had the opportunity to travel abroad to Italy for this year’s Winter Pilgrimage. Gathering on campus before departing for their trip, Fr. Dominik, the chaplain for the Schools of St. Mary, celebrated Mass with the pilgrims and their families in the newly renovated Chapel in Marist Hall to pray for a successful journey. Fr. Bob imparted a blessing to everyone traveling. They went to JFK to catch their flight and officially began the weeklong journey with their first destination, Venice.

The excited group of 18 students, Campus Minister and Theology Department Chair Anthony Cannatella, Fr. Dominik, faculty, and parent chaperones touched down in Milan after a brief weather delay. Still, it arrived in Venice by the early evening and began familiarizing itself by exploring the area.

The pilgrimage consisted of multiple stops, including Florence, Assisi, the Isle of Capri, Pompeii, and Sorrento, culminating in the Eternal City of Rome. The architecture, landscapes, and artwork, such as the frescos covering each basilica wall, were breathtaking among the many historic and beautiful sights. The group tasted the local cuisine and visited purveyors, shopkeepers, and a leather factory.

They also attended demonstrations of cheese making and the famous Murano glassmakers. They toured many beautiful Churches and tombs of saints, providing opportunities to pray and attend Mass daily.

Highlights included viewing relics of St. Anthony, offering prayers at the Tomb of St. Clare, and visiting the San Damiano cross, where St. Francis was praying when he heard the call from Jesus to rebuild his Church.

They viewed Michelangelo’s David, visited the Roman Forum, the Colosseum, the Sistine Chapel, and they went to the House of Danté, who authored the Divine Comedy, where they learned how his work influenced literature, history, and theology.

Fr. Dominik celebrated daily Mass for the pilgrims throughout the journey, including at locations such as a chapel within the Basilica of St. Anthony. Here, a senior named Anthony Morello was appropriately invited to deliver the First Reading at Mass. When asked to recount his experience, Anthony shared, “I enjoyed going to the different Basilicas and seeing how beautiful they were. The art on the walls and the detail is breathtaking. Going to St. Anthony’s Basilica was amazing, fittingly, since my name is Anthony. Reading the First Reading was an honor!”

A high note for Fr. Dom was his invitation to concelebrate Mass at the largest Church in Venice, St. Mark’s Basilica, where the entire group joined the local community for their 8:30 AM Mass.

Mr. Cannatella noted that “the trip was an incredible experience for the entire group, especially those who had never visited the beautiful country of Italy. As the group’s leader, I thoroughly enjoyed collaborating with our tour guide to introduce the pilgrims to Italian culture and cuisine and to explore the rich historical significance of the cities we visited. What made this trip even more special was that we prayed together daily, which helped us deepen our Catholic faith with each stop, tour, and presentation. As we learned about and explored various historical relics, Churches, and Basilicas, we could see how meaningful each stop became, opening our hearts further to God’s greatness.”

Fr. Bob, the administration, and the students of St. Mary’s High School would like to thank the donors who helped make this pilgrimage possible this winter. Without your generosity in offsetting costs, we would not have been able to make this meaningful, spiritual journey.

Rosary Society

Our Mission Statement:

The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart

Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life.

On Thursday, March 14th, the Rosarians hosted a Lenten Day of Recollection with guest speaker Fr. John McCartney. Fr. McCartney is a son of St. Mary’s, having been raised in our parish and he is a graduate of St. Mary’s Elementary School (1978). A priest of the Diocese of Rockville Centre, he is currently the Pastor of Notre Dame Church in New Hyde Park. Mass was concelebrated with Father Dom. Over 60 people were in attendance at a midday Mass. Father McCartney gave a reflection on the spirituality of Mary, Our Blessed Mother, discussing her special relationship with each of the three persons that make up the Holy Trinity.

On Friday, March 15th, the Daughters of Mary hosted their Lenten Soup Supper, raising over $1,000. enabling them to provide Easter meals for over 30 Good Samaritan House families. The girls will be able to provide a ham or chicken dinner, accompanied by potatoes, veggies and a dessert for the families. They will also provide eggs for coloring as a family activity. A big thank you to the Daughters of Mary and their moms spending hours preparing delicious soups for the event, donating hours of their time and talent to making this evening a success. A special thanks to Laura Sciametta, Erin Morrissey-McNamara, and Cathy Morrissey for making this event possible.

SATURDAY,

MARY’S

20TH

11:30 AM Recitation of the Rosary

12:00 Noon Mass with Induction of New Members and Daughters of Mary Brunch Immediately Following at the North Hempstead Country Club Invitations will be arriving in the mail shortly

If you or someone you know was not formally inducted into the Rosary Society but would like to be at the annual Mass, please reach out via email.

If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws. S A V E T H E D A T E !
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ROSARY SOCIETY ANNUAL MASS and COMMUNION BRUNCH

Masses and Special Intentions

Theresa Fallon

Christine Marchese

Maria DeAngelis

Donna Chesney

Erica Klock

Jacob Rivera

Jaxson Rivera

Ronald Grubert

Dr. Michael O’Grady

Gladys Jean

Douglas Martocci, Sr.

Katharin Whelan

Carol Furciato

Mason

Tom Fra ncess

Gabriel Romeo

Ann Shields

Mickey Kennedy

Sarah Horsham

Nina Principe

Cole Marguglio

Sandy Pittman

Richard Atkinson

Anthony Polizzi

Kathy Dellis-Stover

Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing.

Elaine Marie Carlino

Donald Dunphy, Jr.

John Charles Ziliani

125th Brigade Support Battalion

23rd Marine Regiment

25th Marine Regiment

2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang

2-211th GSAB Task Force

War Horse

51st Security Force Squadron

75th Ranger Regiment

82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron

Alacqua, Alexander, 1LT, USA

Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA

Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA

Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC

Arnoux, Seraph, PFC, USA

Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF

Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF

Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA

Broderick, Steven, SN, USN

Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC

Brown, Jason, SGT, USA

Collins, Matthew, LT, USN

Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC

Hannan, Jack, ENS, USN

Hayes, Andrew, Capt, US MC

Hellman, Thomas, 2d Lt, USSF

Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF

Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC

Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA

Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA

Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC

Howard, Edward M., GySgt, USMC

Jones, Scott B., LT, USN

Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN

Kennedy, Michael, Col, USAF

LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA

Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN

Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC

Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF

Major, A. Edward, III, LTC, USA

Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161

Marine Transport Squadron 352

McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN

McKievear, Gary, LT, USA

Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC

Morris, Jr., Brian J., ENS, USN

O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF

Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN

Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA

Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA

Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC

Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN

Saville, John A., ENS, USN

Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC

Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF

Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA

Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC

Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA

Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN

Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA

Vachris, Madison, LT, USN

Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN

If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.

Masses for the Week

Monday, March 25th

Monday of Holy Week

Is 42:1-7, Jn 12:1-11

9:00 AM | Josephine Arkwright

Tuesday, March 26th

Tuesday of Holy Week

Is 49:1-6, Jn 13:21-33, 36-38

9:00 AM | Veronica Brooks

Wednesday, March 27th

Wednesday of Holy Week Is 50:4-9a, Mt 26:14-25

9:00 AM | Susan Olsen

Thursday, March 28th

Thursday of Holy Week (HOLY THURSDAY)

Ex 12:1-8, 11-14, 1 Cor 11:23-26, Jn 13:1-15

9:00 AM | Morning Prayer

7:30 PM | Evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper

Friday, March 29th

Friday of the Passion of the Lord (GOOD FRIDAY)

Is 52:13-53:12, Heb 4:14-16, 5:7-9, Jn 18:1-19:42

9:00 AM | Morning Prayer

3:00 PM | Solemn Liturgy of the Passion

7:00 PM | Choral Stations of the Cross

Saturday, March 30th

HOLY SATURDAY

Vigil of Easter

Gen 1:1-2:2, Ex 14:15-15:1, Is 55:1-11, Ez 36:16-17a, 18-28, Rom 6:3-11, Mk 16:1-7

9:00 AM | Morning Prayer

7:30 PM | Solemn Mass of the Easter Vigil

Sunday, March 31st

EASTER SUNDAY OF THE RESURRECTION OF THE LORD

Acts 10:34a, 37-43, Col 3:1-4, Jn 20:1-9

7:30 AM | Walter France

9:00 AM | People of the Parish

10:30 AM | Lucille Lukin

12:00 Noon | John Andrew Joseph & Arthur Adamo

Al Pennisi

Anthony Ciniglio

Ellen Coughlin

Mary Beth Brady

Antoinette Grella

12:15 PM | Deceased Members of the Forlenza/ Claps Family

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Cover Art: Christ Entering Jerusalem. Artist: Duccio di Buoninsegna

In Session with Dr. Patricia Pitta

Change Your Behavior by Changing Your Mind: God Can Help

“Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.” (Romans 6:4)

Well, you want to change your behavior. You decide to get off the couch and start exercising. Each Sunday, you say, “Tomorrow, “I will start.” By Tuesday or Wednesday, you give into your unconscious thoughts (those thoughts that are not in your consciousness) that inform you to continue old patterns and you continue to sit on the couch. You remain there rather than move and improve your health.

I know you can think of many examples of behaviors you would like to change. So, what stops you? It is your unconscious which controls 95% of our behaviors. How do you change your unconscious? The first step is to define your positive intention. A positive intention is a decision of what you want to do or change. Then you need to quiet your mind and become mindful to get in touch with the health and beauty inside of you. Remember, God is always inside of you. You just need to ask for HIS help. The best way to do that is by creating a relationship with HIM through prayer

and receiving Communion.

So, you want to change a behavior. Let’s start with learning how to relax. People have trouble with the thought of relaxing. These are the people who are always moving and can’t sit still. You find yourself in constant motion and never stopping. You say you would like to, but just can’t. To become more conscious, you need to quiet your mind, so you can begin to feel and see yourself for who you are.

Let go on a journey together. As I said earlier, you have made an intention to want to learn how to relax. It is good for your health. To get yourself ready, say a prayer to God. Christ suffered, died, and was buried and rose again. We receive new life from Jesus. Invite him into your life through prayer (see below) and tell HIM of your love for HIM. Ask HIM to further embrace you inside and out so you can sit or lie down and relax. Some people have shared that they could feel the positive love of God in their gut, some on their heads, while others just a level of ease.

As you pray, take in a deep breath and breath in and hold it and let out your breath. Do that several times. Now think of a sight in nature or a sight that makes you calm. Some people envision the face of Christ. Remember, HE is always with us. Continue relaxing. Practice this several times a day to get yourself in touch with the love of God that lives right inside of you and learn to calm yourself.

Whenever you get that urge to move or do that which you don’t want to: Take is a deep breath and say “Jesus” on the inhale and on the exhale state what you need help with. Inhale: “Jesus” Exhale: Help me with not eating this snack, help me with exercising, help me with quieting my thoughts, help me to express my positive feelings, help me to express my anger in an appropriate voice, help me show my gratitude towards others, and many other intentions.

In preparation for Easter, why not begin this practice and continue throughout the year. As Christ rose from the dead to show us that He is our Savior, you can learn new behaviors that will change your life and love of self through Christ.

A prayer to Jesus:

Please Dear Jesus, YOU suffered so much for us. You came to show us the way. Help me with making a new way to change those aspects of my life that need changing. Help me become more conscious of what I do and think and work within you to love and become more whole and caring for myself and those I touch. I love you, Jesus, with all my heart and soul. Amen

Happy Easter from the St. Mary’s Mental Health Ministry.

Dr. Pitta is a Clinical and Family Psychologist practicing in Manhasset and is the chair of the Mental Health Ministry of St. Mary’s. For more about Dr. Pitta, visit her website drpatriciapitta.com.

Good Friday

Choral Stations of the Cross with Adult Choir and Cello

7:00 PM in the Church

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RCIA and Adult Faith Formation

The RCIA members (now known as “The Elect”) will be receiving the Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist) at the Easter Vigil next Saturday evening. They will have had a day of retreat on the Saturday before (March 23rd) as part of their preparation. Do keep them in your prayers.

Lenten Prayer Group - Last Meeting on Tuesday at 1:00 PM in the Msgr. Sharp Library

The Lenten Prayer group prays over the upcoming Sunday readings. We welcome anyone who would like to join in for the remaining week.

For more information about RCIA, the prayer group, and other aduly faith formation programs, please contact Sr. Teresa at 516-627-0385, ext. 1010. Her office hours are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between 10:00 AM and 4:00 PM and other times by appointment.

Parish Social Ministry

Our pantry is running low on the following items:

Canned Fruit

Boxed Potatoes

Instant Coffee

Icing

Juice

Jell-O

Mayonnaise

Ketchup

Toilet Paper

Paper Towels

Small Bottles of Laundry

Detergent or Pods

Thank you so much for your continued generosity!

Society of St. Vincent de Paul

THE NEXT SVDP MEETING IS WEDNESDAY, APRIL 3RD at 7:00 PM in the Saint John Paul II Room. New members are always welcome!

We invite you to explore the St. Vincent de Paul Society of St. Mary’s Church. There are no special qualifications to join, other than the desire to join with others in helping Neighbors in need. As a group, we meet monthly. Come decide for yourself if God is calling you to this special Ministry.

Today is Palm Sunday and the beginning of the holiest of Christian weeks. Let us pray for the grace to take up our own cross and to follow Jesus through death to new life. During Lent, through your gifts, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul was able to bring the mercy of Jesus into the hearts of the poor, by assisting families, providing food, gifts, and paying utility and rent bills.

Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Thank you for your continued support.

Visit the parish website:

www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

the latest parish news and events

Business Owners: Please consider advertising in our bulletin. It’s a great way to support our parish. Call our printer, LPi, at 1-800-477-4574
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Palm Sunday of the Passion of the Lord | March 24, 2024

Mass Intentions Book for

October 1, 2024 - December 31, 2024 (excludes Christmas Eve and Day) will open on Tuesday, April 2nd.

Please note our policy whereby you will be able to reserve only two Masses during the first two weeks of the opening of the Mass Intentions Book for the fourth quarter of 2024. After that time, you may reserve any additional Masses for the period. Mass intentions may be requested in person at the Parish Office, Monday through Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM, Sunday 9:30 AM to 2:00 PM or call (516-6270385) or email (information@stmary.ws) for other options.

Palm Sunday

On this day commemorating Jesus’s triumphant entry into Jerusalem, the people celebrated. Celebrate your marriage by giving your spouse the gift of a marriage encounter experience. Learn how to listen better, communicate more, and express your love for your spouse in many ways. You will be glad you did! You can find one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are:

April 11-May 23, 2024 (virtual)

June 7-June 9, 2024 in Upton, MA

June 21-23, 2024 in Huntington, NY

Worldwide Marriage Encounter sponsors a variety of in-person and virtual marriage experiences, some on weekends and some on seven weekdays. Couples explore their relationship with each other, God, and the Church. Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee. For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 516-554-3835 or https://wwmenyli.org/.

St. Mary’s Will Join with Parishes Praying for Priests and United in Eucharistic Adoration on Tuesday, April 9th 6:30 - 8:30 PM in the Church

Parishes of the Rockville Centre Diocese are answering Our Lady’s call to pray for our Shepherds. They will spiritually unite by offering prayer and adoration for priests on the same evening at the same time in the individual churches. All are invited to join us to pray for each priest and seminarian of our diocese by name. For more information, contact Cathy at cfmorriss@aol.com.

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Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament

Psalm 51

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Have mercy on me, God, in accord with your merciful love; in your abundant compassion blot out my transgressions. Thoroughly wash away my guilt; and from my sin cleanse me. For I know my transgressions; my sin is always before me.

Against you, you alone have I sinned; I have done what is evil in your eyes So that you are just in your word, and without reproach in your judgment. Behold, I was born in guilt, in sin my mother conceived me. Behold, you desire true sincerity; and secretly you teach me wisdom. Cleanse me with hyssop, that I may be pure; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. You will let me hear gladness and joy; the bones you have crushed will rejoice.

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction

Monday 3:00 - 8:00 PM in the Church

Children’s Liturgy of the Word will not take place on Easter Sunday.

We will resume on April 7th at the 9:00 AM Mass.

GOOD FRIDAY IS A DAY OF FAST AND ABSTINENCE - Those who have reached their fourteenth year are bound to abstain entirely from meat on. All Catholics between the ages of eighteen and fiftynine are also bound to fast on Good Friday. This means to limit oneself to a single full meal and avoid food between meals. Two other light meals, which together do not equal a full meal, may be taken during the day.

II

Turn away your face from my sins; blot out all my iniquities. A clean heart create for me, God; renew within me a steadfast spirit. Do not drive me from before your face, nor take from me your holy spirit. Restore to me the gladness of your salvation; uphold me with a willing spirit. I will teach the wicked your ways, that sinners may return to you. Rescue me from violent bloodshed, God, my saving God, and my tongue will sing joyfully of your justice. Lord, you will open my lips; and my mouth will proclaim your praise. For you do not desire sacrifice or I would give it; a burnt offering you would not accept. My sacrifice, O God, is a contrite spirit; a contrite, humbled heart, O God, you will not scorn.

III

Treat Zion kindly according to your good will; build up the walls of Jerusalem. Then you will desire the sacrifices of the just, burnt offering and whole offerings; then they will offer up young bulls on your altar.

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Knights of Columbus

Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122 Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org

What is a Knights of Columbus Family?

We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith.

Our lives, time, efforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.

We come from different places, backgrounds, and all stages of life. But the common thread is our Catholic faith. We are Catholic families seeking to improve ourselves and the world. It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice. Become a Knights of Columbus family.

Interested? Please call:

Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859

Dan Garcia 516 358 1817

Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes

Please contact Maura Clifford at Macliff56@gmail.com

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