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TARUN TAHILIANI ON WEDDING TRENDS AND TIMELESS ELEGANCE

THE BRIDE WORE SNEAKERS.. AND OTHER QUIRKY TRENDS GOING TRADITIONAL - THE NEW MODERN

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Timeless Traditions and the Magic of Weddings

Weddings are one of the most joyous and important celebrations in our culture, and we never tire of their vibrant energy. From the dazzling colors, intricate jewelry, and joyful rituals to the sweets, makeup, and outfits, South Asian weddings are unlike any other in the world. In this Bridal Issue, we bring you all the beauty, tradition, and splendor of these unforgettable celebrations—covering the ceremonies, fashion, makeup, and more.

Welcome to the Bridal Issue of SEEMA Magazine, a complete collector’s edition and your ultimate guide for planning the perfect big day. This edition is filled with inspiration and insights tailored for brides-to-be, celebrating the beauty and diversity of weddings in our community.

In our feature interviews, we sit down with renowned designer Tarun Tahiliani, who shares his thoughts on the latest trends in wedding wear, ensuring that every bride can find the perfect outfit for her special day. Our cover story highlights Pooja Mehta, a makeup maven

turned beauty entrepreneur, who offers her expertise on achieving that flawless bridal look.

We delve into the enchanting world of a cross-cultural wedding that beautifully embraces Hindu rituals, demonstrating how love knows no boundaries. Alongside this, we explore quirky trends that brides are adopting to add a personal touch to their celebrations, from unique decor choices to unexpected entertainment options. You’ll also find a variety of attire options for the different ceremonies and rituals, helping you curate a stunning wedding wardrobe.

Planning a destination wedding? We provide essential tips for navigating the logistics, ensuring that you coordinate travel arrangements and guest accommodations seamlessly. Discover where to save and where to splurge, so you can allocate your budget wisely while still achieving the wedding of your dreams. Additionally, we highlight sustainable options for green weddings, showing you how to honor the environment without compromising on style.

Managing wedding stress is crucial for a joyful planning experience, and our mental wellness tips will help you maintain balance amidst the excitement. We also share innovative ideas and trends on how to make your wedding unique and personalized, ensuring that your celebration reflects your love story.

With insights from talented wedding photographers like Priyanca Rao and tips on trending color palettes and floral designs, this edition is packed with inspiration to help brides-to-be make their day uniquely theirs. Packed with beautiful imagery, expert advice, and

creative inspiration, this edition of SEEMA Magazine is designed to guide you through every aspect of your wedding planning journey. Join us as we navigate this enchanting world of weddings, where every detail reflects love, culture, and individuality.

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SUSTAINABILITY • DESTINATIONS

Weddings

Go Green

A look at sustainable wedding service providers to help make your celebration both memorable and environmentally friendly.

Top US Destinations for Big Fat DESI Weddings

Whether you’re planning a large or small celebration, the U.S. offers a range of breathtaking destinations with world-class amenities, ideal for beginning your happily ever after.

Weddings Go Green

by Bindu Gopal Rao

While your wedding is arguably the most important day of your life it is important to note that they are also a big source of carbon emissions which is why vendors are switching on the green button.

Did you know that statistics estimate that a wedding in the USA produces about 400 to

600 pounds of trash and about 60 metric tons of carbon emissions? Well, the numbers might baffle you, but it is a fact and an unfortunate reality of today. And if you are planning to get hitched, here are some vendors who specialize in eco-conscious wedding services, so that you can have a sustainable wedding day.

Zero Waste Company

Started by Sofia

Ratcovich, Founder & CEO in 2012, Zero Waste Company works on ensuring that about 80% of the wedding waste is not sent to a landfill. They work closely with their clients and plan the wedding in a manner that it helps reduce operational inefficiencies. During the wedding, the team is onsite and ensure that they do it all to reduce waste and recycle, compost, reuse or donate any trash.

Paper Culture

a million trees and counting). Interestingly they work in state and national forests in the USA damaged by fire to plant these local trees.

Repeat Roses

Started by Christopher Wu, CEO and Co-Founder, Paper Culture has products that are only made with 100% recycled paper and other eco-friendly materials. They also make sure to offset 100% of the carbon footprint of production by partnering with CarbonFund.org. The best part is that they also plant a tree with every order (they have planted

Flowers are an integral part of all weddings but they usually go waste once the event ends. That is where Repeat Roses comes in to make a difference. The take these flowers, convert them into beautiful arrangements and brighten up hospitals and shelter homes. Once the flowers wilt, they are converted to compost. The idea of celebrating with a purpose, extending your happiness to other people who need it.

Eco

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Event Design

Angela, designs weddings through her company Eco + Ivory

Event Design around Pittsburgh for those who have little or no time and yet want to have an eco-friendly wedding. She offers a comprehensive wedding planning service, that includes eco-friendly vendors, designing the wedding and even managing logistics on the wedding day, all with an ecological focus. She is available to assist for all kinds of weddings - intimate or lavish and helps add a green angle in every step.

JoAnn Moore Weddings

If your wedding is around Vail, Colorado, or Lake Tahoe, JoAnn Moore Weddings can help you make it an environment friendly

and sustainable event. A certified green wedding planner, she works on aspects like locally sourced, organic flowers, biodegradable confetti, reusable/ rented decor, and tableware, reusing flowers, donating to local charities and more. She also suggests eco-friendly venues so you can actually have a zero waste wedding.

Christy Dawn

With a concept of ‘farm to closet’, Christy Dawn is all about wearing your values while being attentive to Mother earth. The handmade dresses are made using deadstock and vintage fabric by a local artisan and they work tireless to manage their carbon footprint. An ode to slow fashion, they believe in creating mutually beneficial relationships with the communities and ecosystems and focus on regenerative farming that increases biodiversity.

Emily Katherine Events

When Emily got married, she planned everything to the tee but had issues executing the same. This convinced her to start Emily Katherine Events, that offers event coordination, full service planning and even à la carte services for weddings. The focus is on keeping this green, so, think paperless invitations, local or organic food, table scraps composted, using sustainable flowers, making bouquets out of recycled materials, and even rented decor and outfits.

Wild Violet Rentals

Wild Violet Rentals rents mismatched glassware, tableware, décor, and china in northeast Texas for weddings and other events. Their ethos is to allow their clients to use color and pattern in a way that allows their personality to shine through. The team rents drinkware, dishware, flatware, tea + coffee, serve ware, candlesticks + lighting, decor + details, furniture + large pieces as well as inventory by theme so you can be sure that none of these things are wasted.

TOP US DESTINATIONS FOR BIG FAT DESI WEDDINGS

by Rashmi Gopal Rao

Desi weddings are famous for their multi-day, lavish celebrations rich in cultural and religious significance. While many prefer grand “big fat” Indian weddings, a growing number opt for intimate ceremonies. Whether you choose a large or small celebration, there are several U.S. destinations that offer stunning locales and world-class facilities, perfect for starting your happily ever after.

Napa Valley

Often touted as a lover’s paradise, Napa Valley is a favorite with prospective brides and grooms.

Whether you are looking to indulge your guests or pamper yourself, Napa Valley is your go to destination to

create romantic memories that last a lifetime. It is a destination that is replete with world class resorts, state

of the art spas and some breathtaking views. Further, there are several top-notch restaurants that are Michelinrated and offer great hospitality. Needless to mention, there are several wedding planners in the vicinity who can help you curate the perfect itinerary for multiple events including the proposal, bridal shower and reception party apart from the main wedding.

Miami

A much-loved vacation destination, Miami with its stunning beaches, warm weather and inviting resorts is another popular venue for South Asian weddings. There are several hotels in the vicinity that offer the services of a certified wedding specialist who is sure to make your D-day unforgettable. Luxury services, amenities, a vibrant nightlife and breathtaking locales; Miami sure ticks all the boxes when it comes to having a dream wedding.

Hawaii

If pristine beaches and beautiful sunsets are your cup of tea, Hawaii forms for the ideal wedding destination. A favorite with South Asians irrespective of the season, Hawaii is again a sought-after destination to exchange wedding vows. Every island here has numerous attractions which include awe inspiring beaches, ranches, botanical gardens, valleys and other historical sites. With versatile wedding planners offering a wide variety of services, you are sure to enjoy your D-day in Hawaii.

Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts

Known for its exquisite scenery, wildflower fields and majestic cliffs. Martha’s Vineyard is also called the ‘Jewel of New England’. With the magnificent ocean as the backdrop, Martha’s Vineyard is a wedding destination preferred by many South Asian families. Whether you are looking for a simple, rustic ceremony or a lavish celebration replete with horse drawn wedding carriages and curated treats, Martha’s Vineyard offers all this and much more. From beaches to resorts and churches to cottages there is no dearth of venues for you to celebrate your special day in this exquisite land.

New York

the new York City can be a great destination for a South Asian wedding provided you plan early based on your

selected location and the size of your wedding. While iconic spots like Central Park and Brooklyn Bridge may not always be available for photo shoots, the city is full of eclectic venues which can be accessible with advance planning. This includes the New York Public Library, the City Hall in down town, the intricately designed Weylin which is the site of the iconic Williamsburg Savings Bank in Brooklyn and the 19th century, The Foundry in Long Island. Apart from this, there are several hotels, convention centers and banquet halls that form for wonderful ideas for a memorable celebration. For seamless execution, it is always recommended that you enlist the services of an experienced wedding planner so that you can truly enjoy your big day with your love and loved ones.

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Spice Up Your Big Day

Top specialist caterers in the USA, known for creating personalized, gourmet experiences that blend tradition with modern culinary innovation.

Tips for Navigating the Logistics of a Destination Wedding

Essential tips to help you coordinate travel, accommodations, and more for a smooth and unforgettable celebration.

My Indian Wedding Rooted in Hindu Rituals

Despite coming from different backgrounds, this couple celebrated their union with a traditional Hindu wedding, fully embracing its rich rituals.

Spice Up Your Big Day

South Asian weddings in the USA are known for their vibrant traditions, lavish celebrations, and, most importantly, exquisite cuisine. The best South Asian specialist caterers bring an authentic taste of the region to these events, offering a diverse menu that spans the flavors of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and beyond. These caterers specialize in creating personalized, gourmet experiences that blend traditional favorites with modern culinary innovations, ensuring each wedding is a celebration of culture and taste. With attention to detail, these experts craft bespoke menus that accommodate a wide array of dietary preferences while maintaining the rich, aromatic essence of South Asian cuisine. Here are some of the top South Asian specialist caterers for weddings in the USA:

Darbar Catering: https://www.instagram.com/ darbarcatering/?g=5

Chai Walla Cart: https://www.instagram.com/ chaiwalacart.ny/

Gaurav Anand Culinary Experience: https://www.gaurav-anand.com/

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Bukhara Grill: https://www.instagram. com/bukharagrillcaterer/

Tips for Navigating the Logistics of a Destination Wedding

Planning a destination wedding can be a dream come true, but the logistics can feel overwhelming. From coordinating travel arrangements to ensuring your guests are comfortable, managing the details requires careful thought and organization. Here are a few essential tips to help you navigate the logistics of planning a seamless and unforgettable destination wedding.

1. Choose the Right Location

Selecting the perfect destination is key. Consider accessibility, weather, local wedding laws, and accommodation options. Look for places that offer a range of activities to keep your guests entertained before and after the wedding. Make sure the venue aligns with your vision and can handle the size of your wedding party.

2. Hire a Local Wedding Planner

A local wedding planner familiar with the area can be a lifesaver. They can help with vendor recommendations, legal paperwork, and onthe-ground coordination. Having someone knowledgeable about local customs, language, and logistics will minimize stress and prevent miscommunications.

3. Send Save-the-Dates Early

Destination weddings require guests to make travel and accommodation arrangements, so it’s essential to give them ample time. Send save-the-dates 8-12 months in

advance, allowing guests to plan their budgets and request time off work. Be clear about location details, travel options, and the expected time commitment.

4. Create a Wedding Website

A wedding website is a great tool for sharing vital information with your guests. Include travel tips, accommodation suggestions, and a schedule of events. Regularly update the website with any changes, ensuring everyone stays in the loop.

5. Negotiate Group Rates for Accommodation and Travel

Work with local hotels and airlines to secure group rates for your guests. Not only will this help reduce costs, but it also simplifies booking logistics for everyone. Block rooms early, especially during peak travel seasons, and provide a range of options to suit different budgets.

6. Factor in Local Laws and Customs Research the legal requirements for getting married in your chosen destination. Some countries have specific residency or paperwork requirements. You may need to arrive early to fulfill these obligations. Understanding local customs and traditions can also add

a unique cultural element to your ceremony, but be respectful of any legal or cultural constraints.

7. Consider Shipping Essentials in Advance

If you plan to bring decorations, attire, or other wedding essentials, consider shipping them to the destination ahead of time. This minimizes the risk of lost luggage or last-minute packing stress. Be mindful of customs regulations and shipping times to ensure everything arrives intact and on time.

8. Arrange Guest Transportation

Help your guests with transportation logistics by organizing group transfers from airports to hotels or venues. Providing clear instructions for public transport options, ride-sharing services, or car rentals will make it easier for them to navigate the destination without confusion.

9. Plan for Unexpected Costs

Destination weddings can come with hidden expenses, such as vendor travel fees, currency exchange rates, and unexpected weather-related costs. Include a buffer in your budget to accommodate these potential surprises. It’s also a good idea to have wedding insurance to cover any unforeseen issues.

10. Prepare for Weather Conditions

Weather can be unpredictable, especially in tropical or coastal destinations. Be prepared with backup plans for outdoor ceremonies or receptions. Provide your guests with useful items like umbrellas, fans, or even bug spray, depending on the environment. Communicate any weather concerns in advance and have a plan B ready.

A destination wedding requires careful planning, but with the right strategy, it can be a magical experience for you and your guests. By organizing logistics early, hiring local experts, and keeping your guests’ needs in mind, you can create a seamless event that blends adventure,

My Indian Wedding Rooted in Hindu Rituals

by Krissy Jadhav

On May 21st, 2023, Alex Leissl and Krissy Jadhav tied the knot at the Mamaroneck Beach and Yacht Club in Mamaroneck, New York. Alex, of German descent, and Krissy, of Indian heritage, embraced their shared desire to honor Krissy’s cultural roots by celebrating their union with a traditional Hindu wedding. From the moment they were engaged, the couple knew they wanted to incorporate time-honored rituals passed down through generations.

Despite Alex’s different cultural background, he was captivated by the richness of the Hindu wedding traditions and found the experience both meaningful and fascinating. Together, Alex and Krissy felt deeply fortunate to uphold these sacred customs, believing that the rituals not only honored their heritage but also deepened their connection as a couple. For them, the Hindu ceremonies were a powerful symbol of unity,

binding them in a special way for the journey ahead. According to their wedding program, the following rituals were included:

Baraat (Groom’s Entrance) - Alexander arrived to the ceremony in a procession of song and dance accompanied by family & friends. Krishnapriya’s family welcomed him to their family by placing a red powder (kumkum) on his forehead for good luck and placing a rose garland around his neck. This represented the unification of the two families, or Milni.

Ganesh Pooja - The ceremonies began with a prayer of Lord Ganesh, who is known as the God of Peace, Happiness, and Prosperity.

Kanya Aagman (Arrival of the Bride) - Krishnapriya arrived alongside her loved ones at the Mandap. She was escorted underneath the Phoolon Ki Chadar (blanket of flowers).

Mangalashtak (Request of Blessing) – A veil (antarpat) remained in between Alexander and Krishnapriya while the Priest chanted mantras that spelt out different blessings for the couple. At the appropriate time, the veil (antarpat) was removed.

Jaimala/Varmala (Exchange of Floral Garlands) - The couple exchanged garlands, symbolizing the acceptance of one another as lifelong partners.

Kanyadaan and Hast Milap (Joining of Hands/ Tying the Knot) - The bride’s parents placed Krishnapriya’s hand on Alexander’s hands. The scarf worn by Alexander was tied to the scarf worn by Krishnapriya, which signifies the meeting of the souls. When this Hast Milap concluded, sacred water was poured by the bride’s mother onto the bride’s father’s hands. The water was poured in such a way as to let it flow to the bride’s and the groom’s hands as well. A sacred string was tied between the bride and groom to connect them. It signified that the couple were safe from negative energy and evil.

Vivaah Home (Lighting of the sacred fire) - The priest built a small fire in a copper bowl, known as a kund, using Ghee. The kund became the focal point for the remaining rituals. The priest chanted incantations which the couple repeated after him. Simultaneously, sacrifices of sandal wood, rice, crushed herbs, oil, and sugar were offered to Lord Vishnu via the kund as peace offerings.

Laaja Homam - This ritual is centered around puffed rice. The rice is offered to the sacred fire (agni), and the bride also offers her groom some. This

symbolizes her wishing him a long life and good health to keep their family going and productive.

Mangal Pheras (Circling the Holy Fire) - Krishnapriya and Alexander walked four circles around the sacred fire (agni), signifying their journey to reach four key goals in life: Dharma - duty and ethical conduct, Artha - prosperity and success, while being charitable to others, Kamalove, dedication, desire and Moksha - enlightenment and liberation.

Saptapadi (Seven Sacred Steps) - Alexander and Krishnapriya took seven steps together, signifying the beginning of their journey through life as partners. Each step symbolic of the following vows:

1. Equally share happiness and sorrow

2. Always speak gently and respectfully

3. Share and support each other’s feelings

4. Raise a family and be faithful and loving to each other

5. Always be truthful

6. Do spiritual and charitable work

7. To be content in any circumstances and care for our loved ones

Mangal Sutra, Sindoor and Ring Exchange (Marriage Necklace) - To signify their marriage to one another, Alexander applied the red powder (kumkum) onto Krishnapriya’s forehead. He then tied a pendant necklace (mangalsutra) around her neck and they both exchanged rings.

Kansar (Feeding Sweets)Alexander and Krishnapriya fed sweets to each other after all the rituals were completed, signifying their first meal together as a married couple.

Ashirwad (Blessing) - The priest invoked the blessings of God to

wish Krishnapriya, Alexander, their families, and all attending guests with peace and happiness. The newlyweds paid respect to the priest, their parents, and elders by bowing their heads and touching their feet. The couple then left the Mandap and walked down the aisle for the first time as husband

WEDDING ECONOMICS • CAPTURING LOVE

Prosper

Where to SAVE & Where to SPLURGE

Explore top tips from South Asian brides on saving money and finding great deals for a fabulous wedding celebration.

Capturing Love and Tradition

Priyanca Rao, a wedding photographer known for her blend of emotion and technical skill, captures the authenticity of South Asian weddings through her unique global perspective.

Where to SAVE & Where to SPLURGE

by April Mae Berza

Explore top tips from South Asian brides on saving money and finding great deals for a fabulous wedding celebration.

Planning a South Asian wedding is like a grand symphony. Every detail must harmonize to create a stunning masterpiece. From vibrant ceremonies to elaborate receptions, costs can add up. So, budget management is essential. But fear not—there are savvy ways to ensure your special day shines bright without breaking the bank. Whether you want a lavish party or a simple affair, it helps to know where to save and where to splurge. We’ve used the wisdom of two remarkable South Asian brides. They provide a guide to navigating wedding costs with flair. Meet Priya Patel. She found clever ways to cut costs while keeping her Gujarati wedding’s charm. Also, meet Ananya Singh. Her splurges made her Punjabi wedding a breathtaking celebration. Their experiences offer a wealth of tips. They blend tradition with modern budgeting. Prepare to learn how to balance elegance and economy. Make your wedding day both unforgettable and budget-friendly. Let’s explore their expert advice. It will reveal the secrets to a dazzling South Asian wedding!

Where to Save: Insights from Priya

Meet Priya Patel, a bride who recently tied the knot in a vibrant and traditional Gujarati wedding. Growing up in the bustling city of Ahmedabad, Priya now resides in the U.S. and found herself navigating the balance between maintaining cultural integrity and managing costs.

1. Save on Wedding Decor

Priya’s first piece of advice is to get creative with wedding decor. “While it’s tempting to go all out with

elaborate decorations, you can actually save a lot by focusing on key areas,” Priya shares. She chose to invest in a few statement pieces, like a beautifully adorned mandap, while opting for simpler, DIY decorations for the reception area. This not only cut costs but added a personal touch to her wedding setup.

2. DIY Beauty and Accessories

For Priya, the choice of DIY beauty treatments and

accessories was a game-changer. Instead of hiring an expensive makeup artist, she practiced her makeup skills and created a stunning look with the help of tutorials. She also opted for custom-made jewelry from local artisans, which was both unique and cost-effective.

3. Simplify the Catering

Another area where Priya saved was in catering. Instead of a lavish multi-course meal, she decided to streamline the menu with a few high-quality, traditional dishes. This approach not only reduced food costs but also allowed her to focus on the quality and authenticity of the dishes, ensuring a memorable dining experience for her guests. Priya credits her aunt, who had a keen eye for budget-friendly solutions, as her mentor throughout the wedding planning process. “Her experience and advice were invaluable in finding ways to save without losing the essence of our celebration,” Priya reflects.

Where to Splurge: Insights from Ananya

Now let’s turn to Ananya Singh, who celebrated her wedding in a grand style reflective of her Punjabi heritage. Based in New York City, Ananya’s approach to her wedding budget was all about strategic splurges.

1. Invest in Photography and Videography

Ananya firmly believes that capturing every moment of the wedding is worth the splurge. “Your wedding day goes by in a flash, and having high-quality photos and videos is priceless,” she says. She hired a top-tier photographer and videographer to ensure that the memories of her special day were captured in the most beautiful way possible.

2. Go Big on the Bridal Attire

When it came to her bridal wear, Ananya made a deliberate choice to splurge. She invested in a custom-designed lehenga, crafted by a renowned designer in India. “The craftsmanship and quality were worth every penny,” she explains. For Ananya, her bridal attire was not just an outfit but a cherished piece of her wedding story.

3. Choose a Premium Venue

Ananya also chose to spend more on her wedding venue. She booked a luxurious ballroom that offered a breathtaking view of the city skyline. “It was a key part of creating the ambiance we wanted,” she shares. The venue’s elegance provided a stunning backdrop for her wedding, making it a memorable experience for everyone involved.

Ananya was inspired by her mother, who always had a flair for balancing tradition with modernity. “Her ability to make the most out of any situation taught me the value of investing in what truly matters while still being mindful of the budget,” Ananya says.

Final Thoughts

A South Asian wedding’s splendor can clash with a tight budget. But, with the right strategies, you can balance them. It’s like walking a tightrope. Priya Patel’s tips show how to cut costs while keeping elegance. They cover DIY decor, cheap beauty, and catering. On the flip side, Ananya Singh’s costly choices show a truth. High-quality photography, designer attire, and a premium venue can improve a wedding. They can also create lasting memories. Combining these approaches will make your wedding day magical and manageable. It’s not just about saving or splurging. It’s about finding a balance that reflects your style and values. With careful planning, you can create a budget-friendly, unforgettable celebration. So, embrace these tips, let your creativity shine, and enjoy every moment of your special day! Happy planning!

Capturing Love and Tradition

by Abhijit Masih

Priyanca Rao specializes in wedding photography and is the harmonious blend of emotion and technical prowess which she brings to South Asian weddings making them unique and authentic. Her global perspective, shaped by experiences from India and New York City, adds a unique dimension to her storytelling and photography style. Priyanca’s journey reminds us that every click of the shutter holds not just an image but a narrative bridging tradition, love and the ever evolving art of photography. In a chat with SEEMA, she shares how she balances the emotional and technical aspects of photography

when capturing the essence of love and tradition in South Asian weddings.

How did your background in fashion design influence your approach to wedding and portrait photography, particularly in terms of boldness, vibrancy and artistry ?

I see fashion as a medium of expression where you show your identity, and I apply that same principle to photography, where you use photos in an empowering way to show your personality and express yourself. Whether it’s through connection, through your camera and lens, whether its body

language and the way you sit up, or it’s the clothes that you wear in front of the camera, it can really show who you are and help express yourself. When I was in fashion design school, I learned different techniques, like designing and balancing color concepts of composition. I use all of them for my photography on an everyday basis that produces really powerful images.

You have many accolades, which include being ranked number four wedding photographer in the US by fearless photographers. Can you tell us about a specific wedding or a photo shoot that you

particularly found challenging, but also very rewarding?

To win your photos have to be really extraordinary. This year alone, I got eight awards, which put me on the top four in America and top 50 in the world. But it’s taught me so much about facing my fears and getting over some of the challenges. One of them is when I’m in an emotional moment at a wedding, I get really stressed out because I am a little bit of an empath, and when someone is either super happy or super sad, I want to put my camera down and just give them a hug. So photographing through that moment is challenging for me. One example I can think of is at Isha’s wedding. She had written a letter to her dad, and he was reading it. I was taking photos of this moment. The dad was holding back tears, and it was a very emotional moment. And I looked back and looked at Isha, and she was also emotional seeing her dad. I wanted to have them both in one frame, but they were far apart. So I saw a

mirror sitting there, and I reflected her face in that mirror. And you can see in that one frame, I managed to capture both people to show the bond and their relationship. And I’m very proud of that photo.

So how do you balance the emotional and technical aspects of your photography when capturing the essence of love and tradition in South Asian weddings?

This is such a good question because it’s asked by professional photographers when they’re interviewing other photographers. South Asian weddings are packed with emotions start to end, and sometimes the lack of emotion, because culturally, we’re trained, sometimes not to show emotion, to be strong and hard. The way that I am able to balance that is, first of all, I want people to feel very comfortable around me and give them the space to emote in whatever way that they feel comfortable. I really try hard to

meet with clients before and break the ice even with parents. So that when I arrive on the wedding day, I’m not arriving as a photographer, but really as a family member. And the other thing that I’m I needed to work on was dealing with my own emotions during an emotional moment. Because, like I said before, I sometimes get a little stressed out. I practice photography on my children when I’m at home. That practice with my children has really helped ground me when I’m in an emotional situation, and helped me focus on the important moments with the technical aspects.

What advice would you give South Asian women, who are aspiring to be photographers like you?

I’ve been in this industry for over 12 years photographing luxury weddings, and it’s changed a lot. I feel the most genuine way that we can connect and contribute to the industry is by being authentic, by finding projects that you are truly passionate about and 100% believing in them. I also work really hard to build a connection with my clients before the wedding. For example, if I know a client is curious to hear more about our work, I will invite them into my home. We’ll drink a glass of wine together. We’ll talk deep stuff. I’ll tell them about me. They’ll tell me about them. We’ll laugh. We’ll cry together. I’ll ask about their parents. And then on the wedding day, when I show up, I’m not a photographer. I’m her friend. So they’re able to show me their true self. They’re able to be raw and authentic with me, and those are the photos that they treasure. So I would encourage all photographers to make genuine connections with their clients. Always work on projects that are less transactional and more heartfelt and genuine, because the money and the fame will come when it is real

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• Celebrating Love and Tradition with SHOBITAM

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Lets delve into the rich tapestry of customs that define Indian weddings, showcasing the profound emotional depth, spiritual significance, and strong familial bonds inherent to these celebrations. From the vibrant Mehendi ceremony, where intricate henna designs grace the bride’s hands and feet, to the deeply symbolic wedding rituals like Saptapadi and Bidaayi, each event is a reflection of love and tradition. The post-wedding reception further amplifies the joy, bringing together family and friends in a spirited celebration filled with music, dance, and heartfelt moments. We explore these cherished rituals that make Indian weddings truly unforgettable with some fabulous options from SHOBITAM .

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Mehendi Ceremony: A Celebration of Art and Tradition

The Mehendi ceremony is a vibrant and joyful prewedding ritual in Indian culture, where the bride’s hands and feet are adorned with intricate henna designs. As the bride is beautifully decorated, the atmosphere buzzes with excitement and anticipation, making the Mehendi ceremony a cherished and festive prelude to the wedding day.

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Wedding Rituals: Indian weddings are grand and deeply rooted in cultural traditions, each ceremony holding symbolic meaning. The bride and groom take seven sacred steps around the holy fire, making vows of loyalty, love, and togetherness. Each step signifies a promise for their married life, from nurturing each other to supporting one another through challenges.

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Post-Wedding Reception

The Indian wedding reception is a lively celebration filled with music, dance, and joy, as loved ones come together to honor the newlyweds. Indian weddings are incomplete without an evening of vibrant performances, heartfelt speeches, and festive moments.

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Classic Groom’s Attire for the Modern Wedding

Tarun Tahiliani, a master designer, has long been fascinated by the common perception among many Indian men that traditional Indian wear is uncomfortable. Renowned for his ability to blend Indian craftsmanship and textile heritage into tailored silhouettes, he showcases his profound knowledge of fit, fabric, and fashion at Tasva. The brand embodies his signature style, merging traditional aesthetics with contemporary design. Tasva offers designs that are a blend of intricate detailing and a vision to offer men the best of traditional wear. The timeless selection offers Sherwanis, traditional Kurta-Jackets, Bundis, exquisite Indo-western, and complementing accessories for festivals, parties, and special moments like your wedding.

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WELLNESS • QUIRKY TRENDS

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The Bride Wore… Sneakers?

Quirky trends for the Modern South Asian Bride

Mental wellness tips for brides to manage wedding stress…

Make the most important day of your life the most memorable.

Crafting Unique and Personalized Luxury Weddings

Trending color palettes, emerging floral styles, incorporating new technology, and more tips for personalizing your wedding

The Bride Wore… Sneakers?

Quirky Trends for the Modern South Asian Bride

by Melanie Fourie

The traditional South Asian bride conjures a vivid image: layers upon layers of luxurious silk, meticulously embroidered lehengas, and intricately detailed jewelry. For decades, brides have been draped in bright reds and golds, with every element from head-to-toe emulating grandeur. Yet, as we fast-forward to today, the South Asian bride is challenging these time-honored traditions and creating her own playbook for what it means to be a bride in the modern era. The result? A delightful mix of individuality, comfort, and yes –you guessed it – sneakers!

It’s a bit cheeky, isn’t it? The idea that you could strut to your mandap in a stunning designer lehenga paired with a fresh pair of sneakers, or perhaps opt for pastel hues instead of the traditional fiery reds and golds. But it’s happening, and it’s happening in the most fabulous way! These brides are breaking away from conventions, infusing their big day with personal flair, comfort, and bold fashion choices that are a far cry from the traditional. Let’s dive into some of these standout trends that are making waves in South Asian weddings. And remember, it’s not about eluding tradition but about reimagining it in a way that’s fun, fresh, and unapologetically unique. After all, your wedding day should be a

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celebration of you—quirks, kicks, and all.

SNEAKERS

UNDER THE LEHENGA: THE ULTIMATE POWER MOVE

Let’s start with one of the most unexpected but delightful trends: sneakers under the lehenga. Yes, brides are swapping stilettos for sneakers, and honestly, it’s a stroke of genius and sheer rebellion against discomfort! Why should you have to choose between fashion and comfort on one of the longest days of your life, right?

Imagine this: a bride in a resplendent goldembroidered lehenga, her face glowing with excitement as she twirls on the dance floor, all while sporting a pair of crisp white kicks. It’s not just practical (because, let’s face it, wedding days are long), it’s also a fun way to inject personality into the outfit. Some brides go for classic white sneakers, while others are opting for customized kicks with wedding motifs or pastel-colored shoes that complement their lehengas. It’s a stand that says, “I’m here to celebrate, and I’m going to be comfortable doing it.”

MINIMALIST MAKEUP: EFFORTLESSLY GORGEOUS

Forget heavy contouring, bold lips, and dramatic eye makeup. The minimalistic beauty trend is here,

and it’s making a strong case for less-is-more. Brides are embracing their natural beauty with a focus on fresh, dewy skin and subtle enhancements that let their real features shine.

Instead of layers of makeup, think luminous skin, lightly defined eyes, and soft, neutral lips. This trend is about looking like yourself—but the most radiant, glowing version of yourself. It’s perfect for brides who want their wedding photos to feel timeless, and it also keeps the focus on the bride rather than the makeup.

PASTEL PALETTES: GOODBYE RED, HELLO BLUSH PINK AND PASTEL BLUE!

One of the most striking shifts in bridal fashion has occurred. The move away from traditional reds and maroons in favor of dreamy pastel hues. Whether its blush pink, mint green, lavender, or powder blue, brides are opting for soft, ethereal shades that feel modern, fresh, and distinctly personal.

These lighter colors are not only romantic but allow brides to express their individuality while still honoring tradition. And let’s not forget how well these colors pop in photographs, especially when paired with soft lighting and outdoor settings. If you’re picturing a garden or destination wedding, these pastels are practically a must.

FLORAL JEWELRY: FRESH AND FABULOUS!

Why stick to heavy gold necklaces when you can drape yourself in fresh, delicate blooms? Floral jewelry, from rings to necklaces to earrings and even maang tikas, is becoming a hit among brides who want a boho-chic or nature-inspired twist to their bridal look.

The beauty of floral jewelry lies in its simplicity and the soft, feminine touch it adds. You can go all-out with a full floral set or choose just one statement piece like a floral anklet or a wrist corsage. It’s a refreshing and eco-friendly alternative to traditional jewelry, giving brides a way to keep their look light, fresh, and unmistakably unique.

LIGHTWEIGHT LEHENGAS: DANCING QUEEN IMPRESSIONS

The traditional wedding lehenga has always been a symbol of luxury, but it can also be really heavy. Modern brides are opting for lightweight

lehengas that allow them to move freely and, more importantly, dance all night without feeling like they’re lugging around a tonne of fabric.

Lightweight doesn’t mean less elegant, though. Designers are working with fabrics like silk blends, creating lehengas that have all the beauty and grandeur without the bulk. And let’s be honest, after hours of sitting through ceremonies and posing for photos, being able to dance with ease is the kind of freedom every bride deserves on her big day.

STATEMENT SHOES:

FLATS, MULES, AND EVERYTHING IN-BETWEEN

If sneakers aren’t your thing but you still want to sidestep the sky-high heels, there’s a world of fabulous flat footwear that’s perfect for your wedding day. Brides are embracing comfortable yet stylish options like embroidered juttis, chic mules, or even crystal-studded flat sandals that are just as glamorous but far kinder to your feet.

Flats can be just as much a statement piece as any heel, especially when you pick something that matches your lehenga or sari. Whether you go for ornate, embroidered designs or a sleek, modern pair of metallic sandals, these comfortable shoe choices are all about blending practicality with style. And let’s face it, no one’s going to see your feet under all that fabric anyway—so why suffer?

Personalized Mehndi: A Love Story in Symbols

Gone are the days when mehndi designs were limited to traditional florals and paisleys. Brides today are using mehndi as a canvas to tell their personal stories. Think inside jokes, important dates, or even elements that reflect a shared love—be it travel, pets, or favorite sports teams.

Some brides are going minimal, choosing smaller, more symbolic designs rather than full-arm coverage, while others are mixing contemporary designs with traditional motifs for a truly bespoke experience. It’s an intimate, personalized touch that makes the mehndi not just an accessory but a narrative of the couple’s journey together.

CAPED DUPATTA CHIC

If you’ve always dreamed of a dramatic bridal entrance, let me introduce you to the caped dupatta. This trend brings a sense of grandeur and flair to the traditional dupatta, draping it like a regal cape over the bride’s shoulders. It’s perfect

for brides who want that dramatic, queen-like aura without being weighed down by extra fabric.

The cape dupatta also offers brides a chance to play with different draping techniques and styles, adding volume and interest to their look. Whether you go for sheer organza or something more structured, the caped dupatta trend is all about combining tradition with creative flair.

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Mental wellness tips for brides to manage wedding stress…

by Sweta Vikram

The world and the world of weddings from the time I was a new bride has changed drastically. I have been married for over 25 years. Most of us—me and my friends/ girl cousins — were married by the time we were 22 or 23 years of age. I didn’t lift a finger during the wedding planning and neither did most girls I knew. Because a bride was expected to be shy and follow what she was asked to do. We were passive participants in the patriarchal set-up of Indian weddings. For the most part, no one asked the bride and groom what

they wanted (aside from names of their friends for the wedding cards); it was about everyone but them. You couldn’t express yourself fully and had to stick to archaic social norms. The only place the bride (sometimes) had a say was the color of her lehenga.

Between globalization, feminism, and Sima aunty of Indian Matchmaking on Netflix ... I love that traditional Indian weddings are getting a makeover. The brides are active decision-makers and write their own narrative. They curate, enjoy, plan, dance, and organize their weddings. Sure, some old traditions are

passed down, but the brides have the choice to make it their own. They aren’t camera-shy or afraid to express their emotions and romance.

The modern bride reflects who she is as a person and what she aspires to in life. The focus is on personalization and what represents the true essence of the bride and the groom. This progress is so heart-warming, but the transformation also brings on stress, even if for a good reason.

For a bride, her wedding day is one of the most memorable days of her life.

Yes, there might be a maid of honor, mother of the bride, bridesmaids and bridesmen, and groomsmen … but there are a lot of responsibilities on the bride’s shoulders, which can elevate her stress.

Here are some tips for brides to manage wedding stress:

1. PRACTICE MEDITATION: Make sure to start your day with 10 minutes of quietude, no phone, and no talking to anyone. Even if it feels uncomfortable or unnecessary … it’s important to do mental flossing. Meditation and mindfulness make all the difference in navigating the wedding-related stress. Use apps like Headspace, Calm, or Insight Timer. Or you can go into nature and walk without anything plugged into your ears. Practice being fully present. Also, meditation and mindfulness foster a positive and patient mindset.

2. DELEGATE TASKS: Most people want to help and feel involved. If there is a friend or a cousin you trust, be OK with delegating chores to them—I just

don’t mean the Maid of Honor. Make a list, focus on people’s skills, match tasks based on their abilities, convey your expectations, provide necessary resources, express your gratitude, follow up, be flexible, and have a backup plan ready. Use this as an opportunity to feel supported and make those on your side … feel visible. But don’t overburden anyone. It also might be worth hiring professional help for complex tasks.

3. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER: I can’t even imagine the stress of wedding planning for a bride. The desire for everything to go flawlessly with all the eyes looking at you. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, let your partner know. They can’t support you if they’re unaware of what you are feeling/thinking. If disagreements arise, be compassionate with each other. To avoid misunderstandings, right at the start ... talk about your future goals, finances, hopes, budget, and plans in life. Don’t forget to hold space for your partner’s input so you both feel heard and valued.

4. SCHEDULE SELF-CARE ACTIVITIES: For self-care to be truly impactful, it needs to be sustainable and practiced regularly. Whether it’s 15 minutes of deep connection with a loved one or 10 minutes of pranayama practice or a workout or me-time with chai and a book or massages and facials … find self-care practices that sustain you. Plan regular catch ups with loved ones and let it be unrelated to the wedding. Know that there is no shame in seeking support from a therapist if needed.

5. TAKE BREAKS FROM THE WEDDING PLANNING:

Engage in non-wedding conversations, gatherings, and plans with your partner, friends, and family. Find other activities to focus on. Disconnect from social media and take intentional breaks from reading about other people’s successful wedding celebrations. This can help lower stress, prevent burnout, and help you enjoy normalcy amidst all the frenzy.

6. MAINTAIN A HEALTHY DIET AND EXERCISE ROUTINE:

I had a friend in graduate school (more recent bride) who ate only tuna fish and nuts for a month prior to her wedding. It made her emotionally miserable, but she wanted to fit into her wedding dress and wanted to look a certain way. But the lack of nutrition along with pressures of a wedding planning, full-time job, and graduate school … left her feeling unpleasant and frustrated. Eating nourishing meals also help cut out cravings and working out mindfully can make you mentally resilient.

7. GET ADEQUATE SLEEP:

We live in a world where sleep is underrated. I have heard people say that sleep is for the weak. Well, when we sleep … the body detoxifies itself, restores energy, repairs the cells, strengthens the immunity and cardiovascular system, and regulates metabolism. I mean there are many more benefits of getting good sleep— but for a bride-to-be, good sleep puts life into perspective, makes you glow, and helps you enjoy your big day.

8. SET REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS AND PRIORITIES:

A friend of ours was supposed to get married and the world shut down because of COVID. All the preparations, planning, venue, guests list, catering order … needless to say, it was the epitome of chaos. But they knew what mattered most: their relationship. Focus on the meaning of the day, not just the implementation of logistics. It’s important to accept that we can make all the plans, but there are things not under our control. Even those in your corner might do their best, but it might not meet your expectations. Prioritize your relationships and remind yourself that a wedding is just one day but your marriage is long-term.

“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.”

Dave Meurer

Crafting Unique and Personalized Luxury Weddings

by Abhijit Masih

“Ayesha Hakki, founder of Events by Ayesha, brings over 24 years of expertise as an art director, event producer, and former publisher of Bibi Magazine. Known for her work in the luxury event space, she crafts culturally rich and oneof-a-kind experiences, with one of her events even featured on Bravo’s The Newlyweds. Ayesha has also gained recognition as a wedding and cultural style expert, with appearances on E! Channel, Associated Press, and USA Today. Her commitment to storytelling ensures that no two events are ever the same. Drawing from her expertise as a luxury wedding specialist, she shares with SEEMA, her insights into the latest trends.

Popular color palettes for South Asian weddings this year: South Asian brides are leaning into colors that they like rather than following any particular trends. That being said, there is a general move towards a more organic palette with colors such as terracottas, hot pinks and oranges accented with sage, olive and natural greens. I’ve had a

lot of couple’s asking for neutral color tones which can range from ivory to dusky blue, lavender and periwinkle. Of course, the 2024 Pantone color of the year is peach fuzz, which is chosen based on the mood of the current zeitgeist. I believe it’s best to choose primary colors that you like, and then compliment it with colors that are current and modern.

Emerging trends in floral arrangements: Brides are moving away from structured arrangements and towards looser flower arrangements with trailing vines. The key to this look is to mix floral shapes and greens in your arrangements so that the colors, shapes and textures compliment each other in unexpected ways. For example, round blooms like roses, hydrangeas,

peonies and ranunculus can be mixed with longer shapes like delphinium, orchids, gladiolas and amaranth branches to create structural interest. Texture can be found in both floral blooms and greenery from smooth silver dollar eucalyptus to the stacked texture of large ginger flowers. Try unexpected combinations like calla lilies and carnations (yes, new varieties of carnations are making a comeback) or baby’s breath with peonies accented with berries and olive branch leaves.

Incorporating sustainable or eco-friendly elements into wedding décor: Younger couples are definitely considering the environment when considering their wedding elements. When choosing floral decor, look for flowers that are in season and easily available. It’s best to use locally available flowers when possible. I suggest working with your florist to see which flowers and greenery are easily available and sourced from sustainable farms. Also, I recommend using decor pieces, such as candelabras and vases that your decorator already has instead of custom-making pieces that will be of no use after your event. Of course, you can personalize these elements with thoughtful additions like pearl strings or pinspot lighting.

Modern interpretations of traditional mandap designs: Most of my clients hire me because my outlook is very contemporary. This past year, I’ve designed

quite a few mandaps that are basic wooden structures that are then enhanced with flowers, greenery and other unexpected elements. This gives a softer, more personalized look, which adds more meaning to the ceremony. For those couples that want a more traditional look, think about how you can take something traditional and still make it look fresh and exciting. Some ideas would be to add looser arrangements to the columns and supports in modern color combinations.

Creative ways to personalize wedding décor:

I tell stories through my events, meaning I reflect the couple’s personalities, lifestyles, hobbies, storylines etc into their events. This way, no matter what Instagram image they show me, I can find a way to take that and make it more personal. One of our couples got engaged while bike riding in Italy and so for their cocktail hour, we up-cycled a vintage bicycle and filled the basket with sunflowers and surrounded it with yellow and green Italian greenery. Their wedding favors were Italian pastries sourced from an authentic Italian bakery and placed on a vintage cart.

transformed the room into a starry night from a twinkling starlight backdrop, to the starburst napkins rings and to the dark blue up-lighting with stars projected on the high ceilings of the venue. It was an immersive environment…. as “Fly Me to the Moon” was the welcome song as guests entered the ballroom.

Integrating new technology into wedding décor:

the guests to the Taj Mahal which was projected on the walls, and the decor leaned into that aesthetic to complete the look. LED screens and dancefloors are also an excellent way to elevate an event experience. One of my favorite things to do is projecting EDM style visuals on an LED screen during the latter part of the night. It really gives a club vibe to the celebration.

Unique or unconventional decor trends:

Using decor to create immersive experiences:

We had one couple recently that wanted their wedding to be about the moon and stars as it was a part of their dating history. So we brought in elements that

Lighting and sound can transform any event from great to fantastic! Lighting sets the mood for any event and today’s technology allows for you to change your room colors during the course of the event. For example, you can start the evening with lighter, more romantic lighting and then make it moodier and moving to the beat of the music when everyone is dancing. I find projection mapping to be very exciting, but only makes sense financially if a venue already has the technology built in. We did one event where we transported

I make sure that each event I do is personalized and fresh in its approach. We’ve done a few events on yachts and one time, we converted the inside of the yacht into a tropical paradise by bringing in potted plants and trees accented with LED lighting and adding bamboo and rattan furniture.

Another time, our couple left the venue in a vintage 1950’s red Chevy Impala convertible while all their guests held sparklers creating a lighted pathway. To me, the most important thing to make any event memorable is to really lean into your personality and choose experiences that reflect your tastes and lifestyle. That is the best way to create an event that will be truly yours and totally memorable.

The Art of Bridal Makeup

Pooja Mehta, founder of Makiaj, embodies a relentless pursuit of excellence in beauty and entrepreneurship. •

Abhijit Masih •

Pooja Mehta, founder of Makiaj, is a beauty entrepreneur specializing in South Asian and Western bridal looks. Trained in Paris, she launched her company in 2011, blending tradition with innovation. Her focus on artistry and emotional connections has transformed the bridal beauty industry. She re-imagines the beauty industry with innovation and creativity, specializing in both South Asian and Western bridal looks. Her vision for the future is to inspire creativity, build confidence, and shape the next generation of beauty professionals worldwide.

A South Asian Journey from Detroit to a Life Shaped by Art

I was born and raised in Detroit, Michigan to a South Asian family. Both of my parents are from East Africa We ’re Gujarati, and I grew up with two sisters. I was the middle and as they say, about middle kids we ’re a little different than the other two, and I was always quite artistic. As a child, I loved painting, ceramics and dancing, and that has really shaped the woman that I’ve grown up into today, and Art has always been a really big part of my life.

Paris:

How Studying in

the Beauty Capital Keeps Me Ahead of Trends

As you know, Paris, France is the hub of everything fashion and beauty related. And when I had the choice to go and study somewhere, I decided I wanted to go to the mecca of beauty, fashion and makeup. So that had given me a very unique opportunity to stay ahead of the trend here in the United States.

“When I see a woman’s face,I already know how theywill look their best,and it doesn’t matter what skin tone theyare.”

How I Transformed My Passion for Beauty into a Bridal Empire

Being an Indian woman I had always thought I wanted to go down the route of being a physician, and I really was interested in dermatology and really wanting to help people transform their skin. It had a lot to do with me and wanting to transform my skin and wanting to look and feel beautiful. I decided not to go the medical route, and to go into beauty. I can transform women in less than an hour and a half with makeup. I don’t have to wait for medicine to work. I wanted to see the dramatic transformation of women and be able to feel that. So in 2010 when I returned from Paris, I decided to start my own company. I named the company Makiaj, which means makeup in French. I said, I’m going to make bridal makeup cool again. And being a woman of color and being Indian, I started to attract all of these Indian brides. They trusted me in their appearance, and now here we are, 15 years later, and it has been quite the journey, after thousands of weddings of both South Asian women and also modern Western brides.

Modernizing Tradition for Today’s Brides

When I see a woman’s face, I already know how they will look their best, and it doesn’t matter what skin tone they are. What I found was that 20-30 years ago, when Madhuri Dixit was on the Bollywood screen you’d see a lot of red eye shadow, a lot of gold, a lot of green. That is part of the Indian culture. However, how do we bring that and modernize it and allow those Indian, South Asian women that are living in the United States to also feel fresh and modern like all the other brides, but also hold on to the culture and the tradition that is so highly revered by our community. These modern looks are monochromatic browns, really deep, rich golds, a lot more complementary to their skin tone

“It’sreallyatime for South Asian women to be able to celebrate theirbeauty, their looks, their style,andreally emanate from the inside out. It isreallytimefor themtoplayand be that Princess.”

and really for their complexion. It’s about evening out and balancing all of the yellow and green and purple undertones in South Asian skin. So it was really about accentuating and not overdoing the makeup, and that is what I became really well known for at Makiaj.

Making Every Girl’s Dream A Reality

In the South Asian culture, we have several events that are important to us. We’ve got haldi, chura ceremony, sangeet, all of these different events. It’s really a time for South Asian women to be able to celebrate their beauty, their looks, their style, and really emanate from the inside out. What is it that they want to look and feel like without any structural norms? It is really time for them to play and be that Princess. It’s every girl’s dream. I feel something we do well at Makiaj is we really blend the modern makeup look with tradition.

Current Trends for Classic Elegance

Trends change so fast, especially makeup trends. There’s a big boom happening right now in the beauty industry. We’ve got a lot of celebrities and influencers coming out with makeup lines - Selena Gomez, Hailey Bieber, and a lot of influential people. The trends come and go. I like to keep things as classic and monochromatic as possible. Right now, what we’re seeing is a lot of barely-there natural makeup, which doesn’t quite work for the South Asian bride, given that there is a lot of nuances to the complexion that we need to take into account. I feel most South Asian women have beautiful complexion. It’s just about accentuating the areas and maybe covering up, some dark circles or

Elevate Your Content

Pooja Mehta, founder of Makiaj, a beauty company renowned for blending South Asian and Western bridal aesthetics, is expanding her influence in the beauty industry by transitioning into a digital entrepreneur. With over a decade of expertise in makeup artistry and content creation, Pooja is now launching a range of digital creator tools aimed at empowering beauty professionals and enthusiasts alike. Leveraging her knowledge of both traditional and modern beauty techniques, she’s setting new standards in the

digital space, helping others enhance their creativity and build their personal brands in an ever-evolving industry.

“The thing that comes to mind first for me is to allow others to be confident in a digital space. And I believe lighting and the way we look affects the way we feel, and it affects the way we show up. So lighting has always been, and is becoming even more of a passion of mine. I believe we can show up in the digital space in our most authentic self.”

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• Something we do well at Makiaj is we really blend the modern makeup look with tradition.”

other hyper pigmentation. We have those bigger eyes, naturally, fuller eyebrows, all of that. So it’s really about accentuating

Styled Shoots Fuel My Entrepreneurial Spirit

I think the more I’ve moved into a business woman position, an entrepreneur in my company, I let go of one rope, and then hold on to one. And then I realized that the other rope is so far behind. So it’s really about carving out time to be creative. So I will plan styled shoots where I can just dream up the most beautiful, elegant brides and makeup and hair. I bring in a model, a photographer, unique clothes, and I just play because that is how I became so creative in this industry to begin with. That’s how I became successful. I would never let go of that creative muscle. I needed to keep coming back to it, because that fueled the business and the entrepreneur side of me.

Balancing Emotions and Technique

As artists, we have this part of our brain that is overactive, which is the emotional side, because it allows for more neuro connectivity, to think outside of the box, and that is what inspires a lot of our artistry. However, balancing the two can get quite tricky, because you’re with somebody on their wedding day, and if you’re an empath, you can feel what the client is feeling. So if they’re nervous, you’re taking on their nerves. If they’re excited, you’re taking on their excitement. This requires any artist, to really hone in on their technical skills, so that no matter what emotions arise that day, you’ve got the technicality part of it. I feel the artists who are emotional already have the

ability to connect with their clientele in a deep way. I believe that one of the most unique parts about me is the ability to connect so deeply with my clients while I’m working with them, and also be able to execute a pretty technically sound application.

Beauty Business in the Digital Age

There’s a really beautiful aspect of social media that allows everybody to connect, and it allows people to have an audience or a community. It’s not about followers anymore. It has become about creating community and nurturing community. I do believe that as a positive now. Areas that I feel like we might lack is when Artificial Intelligence starts to take over more and more of the beauty arena, and we are going to see that in the next four or five years in a rampant way. So we’ve got great things about digital and we’ve got some things to be wary about. The thing that comes to mind first for me is to allow others to be confident in a digital space. And I believe lighting and the way we look affects the way we feel, and it affects the way we show up. And so lighting has always been, and is becoming even more of a passion of mine, and where I believe we can show up in the digital space, in our most authentic self.

Staying Grounded Amidst a Busy Life

Meditating, lot of self reflection, lot of journaling, and then working out. I feel that has really helped me stay very grounded. I’m really into health and fitness. It’s become a big passion of mine. And so really staying up with that, really mentally checking where I’m at so that I can live a bigger, more fulfilling, open life.

QUICK FIRE BEAUTY TIPS

MAKEUP PRODUCT FOR A FLAWLESS BRIDAL LOOK?

Depends on the skin type and tone. My three favorites right now for South Asian clientele - Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation, Dior Backstage Foundation, and Haus Labs Foundation by Lady Gaga.

MATTE OR DEWY FINISH FOR BRIDES

Depends on their skin. If they’re dry, I want something glowy. If they’re glowy, I want something matte to be able to control the longevity of the product over eight hours. But a nice happy medium for me right now is satin. I love satin finish on the skin.

BOLD LIPS OR SOFT NEUTRALS FOR A WEDDING DAY?

Depends on the bride. My personal favorite for actual ceremony would be a color. I’m really big into color because right now, eyes have become a lot more subdued and not as heavy as they used to be. I really like a nice painted burgundy red, maybe wine color for the lip.

HOW DO YOU ENSURE LONGLASTING MAKEUP FOR ALL-DAY EVENTS?

The way that I layer on complexion, it’s

not just one layer, it’s like six layers, but all extremely thin. So by the time you’re really in front of that heat or maybe you’re outside sweating in the sun, any little bit of oil that’s produced or sweat, actually ends up looking good on the skin. It helps bring the skin back to life.

ONE BRIDAL MAKEUP TREND YOU LOVE RIGHT NOW?

I’d say the blush. I feel women have been so afraid of blush for so many years. Blush is really about being and looking feminine, flirty and fun. And so I love that blush has come back into style, especially for Indian brides, because they’re competing with these bright outfits.

FAVORITE EYE MAKEUP STYLE FOR A TRADITIONAL SOUTH ASIAN BRIDE?

I love a smudged out brown liner that starts in the lash line and extends out very softly and very minimal shadow in the crease, just allow the eye to look really elongated. Then beautiful individual lashes, on top of their natural lash.

HOW DO YOU APPROACH MAKEUP FOR OUTDOOR WEDDINGS?

We use all types of primers these days. There’s one trick - milk of magnesia.

They’ve been using that for years. I learned it years ago from Jennifer Lopez’s makeup artist, Scott.

THE KEY TO ACHIEVING A NATURAL YET GLAM BRIDAL LOOK?

Really good skincare. Brides have an expectation of what they want. However, it’s not realistic without really good skin care. That starts six to nine months before the wedding day. And it’s a lot about exfoliation and hydration. That is how the skin becomes supple, and how people can wear a natural look and still look beautiful and great.

TARUN TAHILIANI:

REVOLUTIONIZING INDIAN COUTURE WITH TIMELESS CRAFTSMANSHIP

PICTURE COURTESY: TARUN TAHILIANI

By Jaswant Lalwani & Abhijit Masih

Tarun Tahiliani has galvanized Indian fashion for over three decades. He is one of the pioneers of couture in India and founded his eponymous brand in 1995. Tarun’s creative talent and love for fashion is central to his outsize personality. He was a founding member of the Fashion Design Council of India and was one of the forces behind the first ever fashion week in 2000. His vision for the aesthetics of the drape has elevated the Indian sari, giving it a much needed international allure. His legacy will forever be one of bridging the past with modern India, as reflected in the title of his newly released book, JourneytoIndia Modern. In an exclusive with SEEMA, the fashion designer par excellence sums up: Always be the best version of yourself. ch

• What kinds of fabrics and embellishments are you experimenting with this year?

Our collections aren’t anchored to a singular theme built on our core pillars, each evolving and intertwining seamlessly. We continue prioritizing customer comfort and fit, focusing on fabrics that corset the body beautifully while allowing ease of movement. In terms of embellishments, we’ve re-imagined traditional crafts like Kashidakar, Mukaish, and Chikankari through a contemporary lens. We are blending old-world techniques with modern elements, incorporating Swarovski crystals alongside handembroidery methods like aari and zardozi. We’ve also introduced unique juxtapositions, such as monochromatic Pichwaiinspired motifs, and have drawn inspiration from carpets and blooming florals to create a collection that’s both timeless and innovative.

• Could you share a particularly memorable bridal project or a story behind one of your favorite creations?

One particularly memorable bridal project was crafting Radhika Merchant’s couture ensemble for her Hastakshar ceremony in Jamnagar. From our first meeting, I was struck by her impeccable taste and deep appreciation for intricate craftsmanship. Aligning with the theme of ‘The Valley of the Gods,’ her outfit was like a sartorial temple complex—adorned with delicately embroidered domes and architectural motifs in shades of peach, coral, and sunset hues. We elevated the ensemble with a specially woven tissue veil, softly scattered with flowers, reflecting her signature understated elegance. What made this project truly special was how Radhika’s innate beauty and grace enhanced the outfit- she knew what she wanted and the focus for her was on the bareeki of the work. It was an effortless process where her spirit shone through the design, making it one of our most cherished creations.

• How do you advise brides to navigate between choosing something timeless versus following the latest bridal trends? I always advise brides to focus on timelessness by choosing pieces they truly love, rather than getting caught up in fleeting trends. True sustainability in bridal fashion comes from being able to wear your wedding outfit long after the big day, and in versatile ways. A wellchosen bridal ensemble should be something you cherish, allowing you to re-imagine different elements of it for years. For example, you can pair the wedding lehenga blouse with a classic saree, drape the embroidered dupatta over a salwar kameez, or style the skirt with a new blouse, jeweled t-shirt or a simple shirt to match different occasions. You could even drape the dupatta like a cape over a modern silhouette. When you focus on what resonates with your personal style, the outfit becomes timeless, adaptable, and truly worth the investment. Trends come and go, but choosing pieces that reflect your individuality will stand the test of time.

“We continue prioritizing customer comfort and fit, focusing on fabrics that corset the body beautifully while allowing ease of movement.”

• What are the key things a bride should keep in mind when selecting her wedding outfit? Any common mistakes to avoid?

When selecting a wedding outfit, the most important factor is comfort. Your ensemble should feel like a second skin, allowing you to move with ease and confidence throughout your big day. Focus on how the outfit feels, not just how it looks—this ensures you won’t regret your choice. Many brides make the mistake of prioritizing aesthetics over comfort, choosing something heavy or restrictive that they can’t wait to change out of. Remember, if the outfit feels right, you’ll wear it with grace from the first step down the aisle to the last dance of the night. Avoid getting swept up in trends or overaccessorizing; stay true to your personal style, and you’ll never go wrong

“I always advise brides to focus on timelessness by choosing pieces they truly love, rather than getting caught up in fleeting trends.”

• What are some trends you see brides gravitating towards in 2024?

Brides today are gravitating towards exceptional quality and comfort in couture. They want garments that feel luxurious on their skin, not just look beautiful. There’s been a noticeable shift towards pieces that allow them to celebrate all night without discomfort— no more struggling with heavy or restrictive outfits. Our clients are incredibly conscious of how a garment should feel; they expect to leave the wedding in the same attire they arrived in, still feeling comfortable and elegant. They’re also moving away from overt branding— it’s about the purity of craftsmanship, not a loud logo. They know true luxury is about how it feels, not just how it looks.

Stylish Union at a Heritage Temple

LOCATION:

SRI BHOGA NANDISHWARA

GUDI TEMPLE, NEAR NANDI HILLS, BANGALORE

A new generation of South Asian women are changing the narrative when it comes to an Indian wedding.

A US based couple wanted to maintin the sanctity of marriage and selected a Heritage temple site in Bangalore, India to exchange their vows. Friends and family flew across the globe for the two-day destination wedding.

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Sanjana Bhandari, Founder MakeupWorks & Sales Manager, SourceFuse, share their story through pictures.

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Haldi: Paste of turmeric is applied to the bride and grrom, this ritual is like a holy bath to cleanse the body and mind before the sacred ritual of the wedding.

Pheras: The ‘Pheres’ involve the couple walking in a clockwise direction around the Angi (fire god). Each Phere stands for the promises and principles made by the couple to each other.

Saptapadi: Saptapadi (translates to seven steps in Sanskrit) refers to the seven promises of marriage that a bride and groom take with each step.

Mangalsutram: The mangalasutram is placed on a coconut and passed among the family members for their blessings. Then thegroom ties the mangalasutram with three knots, each representing Manasa (thoughts), Vacha (speech), and Karmana (action). This particular ritual signifies the union of the two souls physically, mentally and spiritually.

Talambralu: This custom is also called the ritual of happiness, the couple showers one another with a mixture of rice, turmeric, saffron, and even pearls. This tradition symbolizes fertility, prosperity, and happiness for the couple’s future life together.

Married!

The very berry themed wellwishers

Bride and groomSanjana and Chinmay

Laaja Homam: With the offering of puffed rice to the fire god Agni, the couple seeks blessings for happiness and prosperity.

Going TraditionalThe New Modern

Kritika Agrawal

Afew months ago, I was all over the internet to find inspiration for my wedding lehenga. It was exciting and overwhelming at the same time. There are terrifyingly millions of options out there to choose from and like many brides-to-be, I did not know what I was really looking for. I had this Bollywood-inspired Instagram vision of a wedding outfit, something that exudes opulence and wows the audience. Therefore, the determining factor in choosing the lehenga was this desire to match popular social media ideals and not how it would add value to my overall existence. But as soon as this idea hit upon me, I realized I want to go for an outfit that represents who I am, the culture my origin holds, and the craftsmanship that my community finds meaning in.

For my pheras, I chose a traditional Rani Pink Bandhani (a type of tie and dye craft where the fabric is pinched and tied with threads before dying to make unique intricate dot patterns) Saree with Zardosi (embroidered metal threads) work. For the wedding, I went for a customized Preeti S Kapoor heavily Gota-Patti embroidered (a type of embroidery where golden and silver laces are intricately sewn into the fabric) soft pink lehenga. Both crafts are closely associated with my community. I grew up in a Marwari household where the Bandhani Odhani in the vibrant colors of red, orange, and yellow was ubiquitous among married women around me. I grew up watching my mother and my aunts wearing it at every single traditional event, wedding, and festival. I have seen both of these age-old crafts being lovingly embraced by the women in my community and therefore, they hold a sentimental place in my heart.

Ultimately, the decision to choose these outfits was more about choosing to carry forward a part of my heritage. This choice felt right—more authentic, more meaningful, and more personal. It is a way to not only celebrate my wedding day but also to celebrate the history and traditions that have been woven into the fabric of my life.

I am also glad to observe a similar sentiment among women in India. For instance, recently at her wedding, Radhika Merchant wore a Panetar lehenga - a traditional Gujarati red and white (symbols of love and purity) wedding outfit typically gifted to the bride by her maternal uncle. This craftsmanship

of Panetaris is made by the Chhipa and Khatri communities in Gujarat. Gujarati brides, by choosing towear it, not only honor their cultural heritage and traditions but also support local artisans and celebrate unique Indian traditional craftsmanship.

In today’s world, many “modern women,” those who have had the privilege of pursuing higher studies building their own careers, and becoming more informed about their rights, are challenging and redefining traditional norms.They are questioning age-old customs that have long restricted or confined women to certain roles, such as the practice of kanyadaan, which symbolically transfers a bride from her father’s care to her husband’s. Modern Indian brides are creating a unique blend of old and new—rejecting practices that no longer align with their values while cherishing and honoring the cultural symbols that continue to hold meaning for them.

For instance, when Indian film actor Dia Mirza chose a simple Raw Mango Chokadi silk Banarasi saree for her wedding and opted for a woman priestess while forgoing the traditions of kanyadaan and vidaai, she set an unconventional example of how one can reject orthodox practices while still honoring cultural legacies. Similarly, Sonakshi Sinha made a powerful statement by wearing her mother’s 44-year-old Chikankari saree for her civil marriage ceremony and a classic red Raw Mango Banarasi saree for her reception—eschewing the extravagance often associated with celebrity weddings. Both women demonstrated that embracing tradition doesn’t require conformity to outdated customs or overthe-top displays, but rather, it can be done with simplicity, respect for heritage, and a personal touch that reflects one’s true values.

Overconsumption is the biggest elephant walking in the aisles of the Indian wedding industry today. Choosing outfits that not only reflect personal style but also carry forward cultural heritage is a powerful way to counter the trend of excessive consumerism. By embracing traditional crafts and supporting local artisans, modern brides today are setting a precedent for how fashion can be both beautiful and responsible. This shift towards mindful fashion not only honors the past but also paves the way for a future where our choices are more sustainable, culturally rich, and deeply connected to who we are.

Indian Weddings

Following in the footsteps of tradition, Indian American couples are marking their impressions on an inherited culture. Through a mix of approachable text and scintillating photography, this book is a visual guide to Indian American weddings today. Resources include beauty and shopping tips, budgets, and schedules to help anyone who is planning an Indian wedding. But beyond that, this book will inspire couples to recreate the beauty of the rich Indian culture-one that is famous worldwide for its wedding celebrations.

About the Author: Simran Chawla was born and raised in Virginia, USA and considers Washington, DC her hometown, especially now that she lives in London. She has a journalism degree from George Washington University and a postgraduate degree from City University London. After years of working with National Geographic in her early career, she moved into higher education marketing, working at the Harvard Extension School and King’s College London. She writes in the mornings before work or at the weekend.

SEEMA’S VIEW:

This book is a fantastic resource for anyone interested in Indian American weddings. While it’s not a planner, it offers helpful information on rituals, along with beauty and shopping tips, budgets, and schedules. Indian Weddings is perfect for blending tradition with contemporary elements.

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TOASTING TO LOVE

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Weddings and drinks are almost a match made in heaven and doing drinks right is an important aspect of the wedding arrangements. It’s your D-Day and drinks on the menu must reflect the spirit of celebration. We speak to chefs who weigh in with their thoughts and recipes.

Banana Kaapi Martini courtesy

Chef Feruzan Bilimoria, Corporate Mixologist, PAN India, True Palate Hospitality, one8 Commune Bangalore

A twist on the classic Espresso Martini, with a South Indian influence. “The flavours are bold and vibrant, and the addition of bananas offers a comforting, familiar taste that we often take for granted. This version is perfect for something more elegant and uplifting like a wedding and is sure to stand out. The best part is that you can easily prepare everything a day in advance which makes this an easy, yet truly delicious and memorable cocktail,” says Chef Feruzan Bilimoria, Corporate Mixologist, PAN India, True Palate Hospitality, one8 Commune Bangalore.

Here is a recipe from Chef Sourabh, Founder, Craft of Food 2.0, a quaint cafe in Bandra, Mumbai.

INGREDIENTS

• Short Story Vodka 45 ml

• Homemade Banana Syrup 20 ml

• Decoction Coffee 15 ml

• Fresh Espresso 15 ml

• Ice for shaking

• Banana Slice for garnish

METHOD

• Build up all the ingredients (vodka, banana syrup, decoction coffee, and fresh espresso) in a cocktail shaker.

• Add lots of ice to the shaker.

• Give the mix a strong, short shake to combine and chill the ingredients.

• Double strain the mixture into a pre-chilled coupe glass to remove any ice shards or froth.

• Garnish the drink with a fresh slice of banana on the rim of the glass.

• Serve the Banana Kaapi Martini immediately while chilled for a perfect coffee-infused cocktail experience.

Blueberry Basil Jaljeera Delight

courtesy Lokesh Sharma,

Executive Chef,

Ananta Spa & Resort, Jaipur

The Blueberry Basil Jaljeera Delight is a refreshing fusion mocktail that blends the sweetness of fresh blueberries with the herbaceous notes of basil and the tangy, spicy kick of jaljeera. “This unique drink offers a balance of sweet, savory, and zesty flavors, making it a perfect refreshing sip for any occasion. The sparkling soda and lemon juice add a bright, fizzy finish, while the cumin garnish provides an aromatic twist. It is a delightful and innovative mocktail that celebrates both tradition and modern flair,” says Lokesh Sharma, Executive Chef, Ananta Spa & Resort, Jaipur

INGREDIENTS

• Fresh blueberries: 40 grams

• Fresh basil leaves: 5-6

• Jaljeera powder: 4 grams

• Lemon juice: 10 ml

• Honey (optional): 5 grams

• Soda water: 118.5 grams

• Chilled water (optional): 60 ml

• Ice cubes: 3-4

• Pinch of cumin powder (optional garnish)

METHOD

• Prepare Blueberry Basil Mixture. In a cocktail shaker or glass, add the fresh blueberries and basil leaves. Using a muddler or the back of a spoon, gently mash the blueberries and basil together to release their flavors.

• Mix Jaljeera and Lemon. Add the jaljeera powder and lemon juice to the muddled mixture. Stir well to combine.

• Sweeten (Optional). If you like a sweeter taste, stir in a teaspoon of honey at this stage.

• Add Soda and Water. Pour in the soda water and, if needed, a little chilled water to balance the flavors. Stir gently to mix.

• Serve. Fill a glass with ice cubes and pour the mocktail mixture over the ice. Garnish with a sprig of basil and a pinch of cumin powder for an extra burst of flavor.

Peruwalla Cocktail

courtesy Chef

Feruzan Bilimoria, Corporate Mixologist, PAN India, True Palate Hospitality,

one8 Commune Bangalore

The Peruwala is a sour cocktail that has a very nostalgic flavor of guavas and spice. “A sip of the drink is reminiscent of biting into a fresh guava. The cocktail is also very simple to make with just one day’s notice. The resulting drink is quick and refreshing, making it a great choice for any occasion, especially a wedding,” says Chef Feruzan Bilimoria, Corporate Mixologist, PAN India, True Palate Hospitality, one8 Commune Bangalore.

INGREDIENTS

• Gin 60 ml

• Guava Saccharum (Fresh Guava Syrup) 17 ml (prepared a day in advance with no added water)

• Fresh Lime Juice (undiluted) 20 ml

• Ice (for shaking)

• Rim Mix: Castor Sugar, Kashmiri Chilli Powder, and Salt (to taste)

METHOD

• Prepare the rim of an oldfashioned glass by dipping it in a mixture of castor sugar, Kashmiri chilli powder, and salt. Set aside.

• In a shaker, add Gin, guava saccharum, and fresh lime juice.

• Add plenty of ice to the shaker and give it a quick, short shake to chill the ingredients and achieve the right dilution.

• Double strain the mixture into the prepared old-fashioned glass.

• Serve immediately and enjoy the refreshing, spicy-sweet kick of the Peruwalla cocktail.