confeti magazine

CONFETI SPRING 2010

Exclusive interview with Sassi Halford Serenaded at dinner...dancing till dawn AMANDA WAKELEY Gowns and glam

WHITE HOT STYLE Latest collection from Vera Wang Gieves & Hawkes for men EXTREME bridal makeovers

Kasbah cool: the ultimate honeymoon haven

CONFETI: Andalucia’s first dedicated wedding magazine

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LETTER FROM THE

PUBLISHER

STAFF PUBLISHER

ANDALUCIA’S FIRST DEDICATED WEDDING MAGAZINE

Andy Clark andy@iconpublishing.es

ADVERTISING DIRECTOR Fay Jones 617 651 732 advertising@iconpublishing.es

From Marbella with love

ADVERTISING EXECUTIVE Emma Maria Landberg 617 600 167

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he resounding success of Confeti Magazine has encouraged us to give the title an even more international focus and scope. To that end, in January we attended and distributed the magazine at the Bride of the Year Show at the RDS Main Hall in Dublin – Ireland’s longest established (21 years) and “number one wedding show”. And in March (5th to 7th) we will be taking this issue to the National Wedding Show at the NEC in Birmingham – “the UK’s largest wedding spectacular”.

Previously, in November, we formally presented the magazine at the Celebra wedding fair in Málaga, where the response was extremely heartening, confirming that – even during these recessionary times – couples are still pressing ahead with plans for their marriage, the Costa del Sol remains a dream wedding and honeymoon destination, and there is a definite

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need for a dedicated Costa del Solbased wedding magazine.

The international spotlight this issue is focused on the stunningly glamorous latest collection from Amanda Wakely (featured on the cover); an exclusive interview with couture bridal designer Sassi Halford; another invaluable makeup class with Ruby Hammer; celebrity hair advice from Tara Smith and… an exotic trip to one of the world’s most heavenly honeymoon havens, Sir Richard Branson’s Kasbah Tamadot retreat in Morocco.

Our regular features cover the whole wedding experience, from choosing stunning gifts and favours, latest styles in wedding gowns, bridesmaids’ outfits, lingerie and menswear, and creative cake and floral arrangements to finding the ideal venue and the best photographer.

Our team of wedding experts answer your questions and offer

PRODUCTION Opus 1 Design

ASSOCIATE EDITOR Nicola McGeorge info@iconpublishing.es

FEATURES EDITOR Nicola McGeorge, Associate Editor at the Bride Of The Year Show at the RDS, Dublin

Jessica White features@iconpublishing.es

CONTRIBUTING EDITOR Peter Leonard

tips on how to make your special day one to truly remember, including advice for “brides on a budget”; and – in a light-hearted, final word to complete this bumper spring issue – we “spare a thought” for the best man and share the trials and tribulations of a wedding planner’s “typical” day in Marbella.

Finally, for readers living outside Spain and looking for an exceptional and memorable wedding location, we can assure you that you will find all you need and desire here on the Costa del Sol – including the finest professionals in the business.

CONTRIBUTORS & PHOTOGRAPHERS Giles Brown, Trish Dynes, Ruby Hammer, Conrad C Jones, Hayley Reed, Heather Sadtler, Tara Smith, Jeremy Standley, David Toms Confeti is published quarterly by: Icon Publishing S.L. CIF: B93035210 The views and opinions expressed by contributors to Confeti may not represent the views and opinions of the publishers.

Icon Publishing takes no responsibility for claims made in advertisements or advertorials in this magazine.

No part of Confeti may be reproduced or copied in any way without the prior written consent of Icon Publishing.

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Spring 2010

CONTENTS Features, advice, tips, ideas and suggestions to help arrange THE PERFECT WEDDING IN SPAIN

07 CONFETI Loves… 50 Chooses… the ideal 70 Gives… gifts for contemporary glamour with a touch of tradition

10 Desires… glittering jewellery for a stunning look

12 Styles… haute couture, brides on a budget, bridesmaids, lingerie and men

36 Talks to… designer Sassi Halford

43 Prepares… hair with Tara Smith, make-up by Ruby Hammer and an extreme bridal makeover

wedding photographer

54 Celebrates… the new villa phenomenon, select venues on the Coast and entertainment

different tastes and budgets

72 Informs… latest news from the world of weddings

60 Designs… real brides 74 Remembers… in designer gowns

63 Finds… the top cakemakers and florists

special moments from your big day

81 Recommends…

66 Gets real… with

the best professionals, specialists and services

classic elegance at a luxurious wedding

82 Conspires… with

68 Asks… for valuable tips from the experts

Gown by Amanda Wakely Strapless Mikado dress £3,800 worn with a cropped jacket

90 Laughs… with a candidate for “Wedding Planners Anonymous”

the best man

84 Travels…to the ultimate honeymoon haven CONFETI

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The show stopper Be the most stylish bride of the year in this Vera Wang strapless nude tulle ball gown with crystal beadwork at bust, blush hand-painted floral tulle draped skirt and horsehair bow at waist. verawangonweddings.com

It’s all in the name Make your seating plan a talking point with Natural Designs paper roses in mini zinc pots. They come complete with individual name-tags. naturaldesign.co.uk (£4.50)

The mad hatter Hot, young New York milliner Holly Slayton is the designer to go to if you want a statement head-piece. “A lot of my styles are classic shapes,” she says. “Customers can request specifications and I will make made to order hats.” She creates various styles, uses different materials and also specialises in men’s hats. artikal.com

Breathe deeply The team behind Neom Organic Candles work with the bride, venue or wedding planner to find the right scent for any bride, a scent that suits the couple’s personality and the mood of the day. neomorganics.com

cobalt t h g i r RT – B 2010, E L A So inviting D ue for nd Your wedding stationery TREN h t is the first o h a a glimpse your guests will have of blue is a fresh, bold the your wedding theme and style, so you want to make a great first offeringheric twist on impression. Invite your guests in atmosp radition. style with this Tie The Knot t y s personalised stationery from e u l b Confetti. The burgundy bow trim stationery starts from £40. confetti.co.uk

Set your heart a flutter Style-savvy brides will love this contemporary wedding cake: A traditional top tier with 40 individual butterfly cup cakes.

Tel. (34) 666 584 132; deliciouscakesmarbella.webs.com (€188)

Confeti’s top three cake stands Glass bead cake stand: bhs.co.uk (£10) Traditional floral cake stand: marksandspencer.com (£15)

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Red And White Spotty Cake Stand: tch.net (£24.99)

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C Scent with love Nestled behind the Scandinavian shopping centre Centro Idea in Mijas is the florist Flor Valentin. Rustic with a twist of French bohemia, the store has a homely vibe. Owner Janne Valentin Lassen is Danish and has lived in Spain for 15 years. With blue being one of the major wedding colour schemes for 2010, we are loving her bridal bouquet, perfect for spring or any of our Scottish brides.

Tel. (34) 669 061 23; florvalentin.es

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Always remember This hand-made wonderful keepsake box is the perfect way to store photos, cards and other precious mementoes from any special occasion.

Covered in a luxurious soft cream satin, with a delicate mother of pearl heart embroidered on the front, it ties together with a beautiful ribbon gettingpersonal.co.uk (£24.95)

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If your hubby-to-be prefers a more simple design how about these elegant Tiffany Lucida band rings in 18 carat gold and platinum. The band rings were inspired by the Lucida diamond and are an original Tiffany creation of incomparable beauty. tiffany.com

Ice cool Emily MacKeogh and Leah O’Reilly are the talented duo behind Crystals & Co, an online accessory boutique showcasing glamorous crystal-embellished costume jewellery and bags suitable for any occasion. This clear, full crystal heart clutch at €190 is designed to give you the red carpet look without breaking the bank. crystalsandco.com

Light up your life Sky Lanterns are the new alternative to fireworks, and loved by men who all seem to turn into pyromaniacs! Light the lantern, make a wish for the bride and groom and release it to float off into the night sky. This is a lot of fun and very pretty. Watch out for high wind and wooden roofs!

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ONE-STOP SHOP for busy brides Brides-to-be… Net-a-Porter have re-launched their Wedding Boutique, featuring exclusive designer wedding dresses by Lanvin, Valentino and Temperley and even customised Alexander McQueen shoes. The best part is that it is not just the bride who gets to enjoy this experience. We especially rate the stylish mother of the bride section, and a guest area which is split into different types of weddings.

Net-a-Porter’s Wedding Boutique also includes a decadent lingerie and honeymoon section. net-a-porter.com

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Antonio Sejo Necklace:

€10,000 Earrings:

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Manuel Spinosa Ring, white gold plate and white sapphire stones:

€155

Hirsh London Regal ring, platinum with one natural cognac-coloured diamond and 36 diamonds 0.30cts:

€14,795

Tiffany & Co

Diamonds

Rubelite and diamond pendants: (Price on request)

are forever

Starlet Jewellery Swarovski crystal set earrings: starletjewellery.co.uk

Tiffany & Co Fish diamond earrings in diamonds and platinum:

€3,000

EB by Erick Beamon Boxed pave hinge bracelete: (Price on request)

GIFTS FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS Give them a gift from celebrity jeweller Stephen Webster that will last a lifetime.

All bespoke designs by Stephen Webster: frontline Puerto Banús; Tel. (34) 952 816 976

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See the latest collections straight from the runway

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VERA WANG

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era Wang’s autumn 2010 collection is inspired by Cecil Beaton’s My Fair Lady. This can be seen through its dramatic lines and daring silhouettes. The heavy use of French tulle, organza pleating, flange skirting, horsehair detailing and touches of black create a nostalgic feel.

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asper Conran’s simple, flawlessly cut dresses are created with the finest attention to detail. Fabrics that flatter are chosen for each creation – georgette, satin, zibeline and grosgrain – creating iconic, textured, architectural forms.

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owns with strength and fresh lines‌ travelling from the containment of elegance to the tenderness of the purest fantasy. Noble and natural fabrics which achieve a complete reinvention of the volume and, consequently, of the female body. Lightweight empire style designs with vaporous layers of lace and bright detail.

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playful and passionate line of couture gowns by leading designer Ian Stuart. In the Paramount Collection he has used only the finest of fabrics: Thai silks, beaded French lace and Swarovski crystals. The range offers a dynamic and directional approach to bridal wear design.

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he Amanda Wakeley signatures are attention to detail, use of the ultimate in fabrics and perfection of cut, all of which are present throughout the Morocco collection.

Highlights are the corseted strapless superfine jersey dress with ruched silk tulle bodice and the silk tulle dress with ivory bead detail.

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HE ETHNIC FLAVOUR

Cover: Strapless Mikado dress ÂŁ3,800 worn with a cropped jacket Tulle dress with bead detail ÂŁ3,500 CONFETI

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Bias satin halter dress ÂŁ2,800

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Draped full satin dress ÂŁ2,800

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Ivory Cord Embroidery Detail dress ÂŁ3,900

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Empire line georgette dress with gun metal chain detail ÂŁ2,950

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Amanda Wakeley Bridal 175-177 Fulham Road London, SW3 6JW 0207 590 9108 bridal.amandawakeley.com

Strapless jersey and tulle bodice dress ÂŁ3,200

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Gibraltar Weddings Why Choose the O'Callaghan Eliott?

1. Photo Perfect Moments: breath taking panoramic views of North Africa and the Straits of Gibraltar 2. Variety of Dining Rooms: For intimate events or large parties 3. Wedding Licence: the hotel can host full wedding ceremonies 4. Complimentary Bridal Suite: for added luxury 5. Menu Tasting: compliments of the Head Chef 6. Rooftop Pool: An ideal spot to unwind from the preparations 7. Weddings as Individual as You!: organised by our dedicated wedding co-ordinator.

Why not add your name to celebrities who have married in Gibraltar; including John Lennon, Sean Connery and Frederick Forsythe Call Your Dedicated Wedding Co-Ordinator T: +350 20070500 E: joseph.andrades@ocallaghanhotels.com Website: www.ocallaghanhotels.com

Dublin Weddings Intimate Luxury: Perfect for couples seeking an intimate and contemporary Dublin wedding venue.

U.S.A Weddings An Irish Welcome: Perfect for couples seeking a big Irish welcome and an unforgettable experience for all your guests.

For more information on Dublin and U.S.A visit our website.

FOR WEDDINGS WITH DISTINCTION

Gabi Bernhardt

Creating Memorable Events since 1994

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Exclusive venues, catering, marquees Planning, design and decoration Bespoke linen hire & props Live entertainment DJs,Sound & Lighting Fabulous flowers, beautiful balloons and special effects

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Professional enquiries welcome Plaza de las Orquideas,29660 Nueva Andalucia, Marbella

Tel 0034 952 81 25 80 / 655 155 107 info@partypeoplemarbella.com

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A unique look Step back into the ‘20s by teaming Moonsoon’s white bust embellished Avaline Dress (€350 right) with their long silver Tiffy Feather Cape. www.monsoon.co.uk

Fit for a princess Who needs to know that they aren’t real diamonds? Set off any elegant updo with this exquisite Swarovski Crystal Tsarina Tiara. ebuni.com (£67.50)

New romantics BHS? Yes, exactly what we thought, but we can promise you it really is from this high street retailer. This Eloise ivory bridal gown looks every inch designer. bhs.co.uk (£250; Tara pleated shoes £35)

Brides on CONFETI a budget TOP IDEAS FROM

Recession-friendly designs which are still high on style… here are Confeti’s special picks:

High society This ladies’ parasol is exquisitely crafted in cotton Battenburg lace and embroidery. It has a wooden manual frame with a straight turned wooden handle and makes an elegant accessory to any outfit and is ideal for those weddings in the sun, highsocietybride.co.uk (£30)

Award-winning wedding shoes We are loving the affordable Rainbow Club. Each pair of your wedding shoes is handmade using only the best components, from their exclusive dyeable satins to their Swarovski buckles and embellishments. Even their comfort is legendary. rainbowclub.co.uk

n’t allow you o d s e c n a n fi TIP – If er wedding n ig s e d a e s a to purch renting. r e id s n o c , s s dre Cream satin pump; €50, Red Herring at Debenhams

White satin peeptoe: €75, Faith

Antique chic Look like you have raided your grandmother’s jewellery box with these vintage-inspired replica antique heirloom earrings.

GlitzySecrets.com (£35)

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Top Three Bridal Shoes Diamante knot trim sandal: £120, Moda in Pelle

Creating Beautiful Occasions Reviva Weddings are one of the top wedding, party and event stylists based in Marbella.

We offer a host of delightful details helping you create your dream day, chair covers, sashes and table linens, lantern and candle packs, venue dĂŠcor, creative flowers, plus fabulous wedding and party accessories.

Reviva Weddings have teamed up with Earthscent Florists to open the first wedding and party design studio in Marbella.

Stocking many unique and stylish accessories, fabulous gifts, favour ideas, sky and water lanterns, wedding stationery, cakes, cake toppers, confetti cones and fans.

Feel free to pop in and see us, we are conveniently located in Elviria with easy parking at the Centro Comercial Los Pinares de Elviria.

Appointments are recommended please call Laura on 951 271 220 or 618 021 172 www.reviva-weddings.com or visit our popular blog www.theweddingdecorator.blogspot.com

Images courtesy of Jeremy Standley

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Flower power

Vintage appeal Add a touch of old school glamour with this unique, hand-made, vintage side hair comb with pearls and diamantes: £139, from Rose Garden Accessories. rosegardenaccessories.co.uk

We love this statement dress.

Hobbs have outdone themselves again with their Collybrook gown. The muted palette tones down the extravagant floral detailing: £299, from Hobbs. hobbs.co.uk

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Delicate and timeless Ultra-feminine, soft and delicate, this blush crinkle chiffon, empire waist gown

by Vera Wang shows how wearable the nude option can be. An obvious choice for a bridal party or a wardrobe staple. Price - $240. verawangonweddings.com

Pretty in pink Aye Do’s eternal bracelet has a very modern feel, using traditional pale pink pearls and AB crystals: £46.99, from Aye Do. ayedogifts.co.uk

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Nude is huge this season: you can achieve the barelythere look either with the dresses themselves or by adding just a hint of nude with accessories.

If you prefer more simple detailing try the Victoria Jane dress: €148, from Coast at Debenhams. debenhams.com

Paired up Matching accessories are back again. Thank goodness! Astor Swarovski crystals and ivory silk Bridal Shoes with Gina Handbag are to die for: £209, from Crystal Bridal Accessories. crystalbridalaccessories.co.uk

Sheer pleasure Lace all over can be rather OTT, so why not just let your shoes do the talking. These gorgeous Bruce Oldfield platform court shoes at £395 tick all the right boxes. A modern classic.

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Glitter Ball Pouch, €155, BDL by Ben de Lisi at Debenhams

Top Three Metallic Clutches Sparkly Clutch, €51 Accessorize Gold bow clutch, £365, Moschino at House Of Frasier

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LINGERIE J by Jasper Conran at Debenhams

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raditionally, the wedding night would have been the first one a man and woman spent together‌but of course things have changed a fair bit over the years!

Nevertheless, brides still want to wow their new husbands on their special night. Here is a selection of sexy lingerie to make his jaw drop‌

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FiestaSol Weddings & Catering is the Costa's premier wedding planner for your special day anywhere in Puerto Banus, Marbella, Mijas or the Costa del Sol. Weddings in Spain can be difficult to organise, but with FiestaSol's expertise in all matters of paperwork, legalities, venues, churches, priests and suppliers, we can take over the hard work and let you enjoy yourself! Our catering services are second to none, and we provide reasonable and modern menus to cover barbecues, weddings, private dinners, canapes, finger food, vegetarian, buffets and corporate functions.

Contact us any time for a free quote, menus, images and information www.fiestasol.com • Tel/Fax: +34 952 89 87 46 • Mobile: +34 657 214 831

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HERITAGE CHIC SPRING/SUMMER COLLECTION

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amed for their finest tailoring for over 200 years, the latest spring/summer collection from Gieves and Hawkes is modern and fresh yet still has the same touches of tradition. Inspired by functionality, craftsmanship, luxury and imagination the collection is perfect for any man getting married this year.

Petrol blue wool birdseye singlebreasted peak lapel suit, £1,495 Sky blue stripe shirt with white collar and cuffs, £95 Light purple fox jacquard bow tie made in England, £345 White linen handkerchief, £15

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Grey wool/linen single-breasted notch lapel suit, £995 Blue button down collar shirt, £125 Red, blue and white stripe silk bow tie, £45 White cotton handkerchief, £15 Blue suede brogues made in Northamptonshire, £245

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Black full canvas morning coat with peak lapel, £595 Grey fine wool stripe formal trousers, £195 Light blue classic fit shirt with white collar and cuff, £79 Light blue double-breasted waistcoat with peak lapel, £125 Pale blue delicate polka dot silk tie, £69 Black leather Chelsea boots, £265

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Black fine wool doublebreasted dinner suit, £1,295 White marcella dress shirt, £95 Black barathea silk bow tie, £25 White linen handkerchief, £15 Black patent lace-up evening shoes made in Northamptonshire, £245 www.gievesandhawkes.com

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My boutique is… located on the everfashionable Fu lham Road in London, offerin the discerning g bride-to-be m y Couture Collection. M y knowledgea ble and pass will inspire br ionate staff ides with an ar ray of sumptuous si lks and delicat e laces to peruse throug h. Our bespok e service includes full m ade-to-measu re and professional fit ting. The bout ique itself has a real un derstated eleg an ce to it that offers a ca lm atmospher e for all of my clients’ ap pointments – something that I feel is ne cessary, for ev ery bride, to enjoy ever y moment of finding “The One”. In the hope that my clients won’t have to search too far for accessorie s to complete their outfit, we also offer a gorgeo us selection of ve ils and shoes and, in addition, th ere’s a stunni ng collection of he adpieces and glittering jewel lery to carefu lly consider, whi ch I have specially sele cted to complement my design styl e.

My future am bitions are… to launch an evening and cocktail colle ction. Two years ago my collection was launched at New York into the American market and th at is steadily build ing to establish m y brand name.

A bride would get from a S assi Holford wedding dres s… a design that was hand made in Engla nd at my stud io in Somerse where I have t an extremely talented team cutters and ha of nd-beaders. Th e finished resu for every client lt is an exquisite cut that does truly echo a br ide’s own styl e. Nothing is spared in the structure of ea ch gown; ther an integral co e is rset within ea ch design that results in a be autifully stream lined silhouet and a decept te ively high leve l of comfort – an essential fe ature on the bi g day.

I would like to dress… anyone who wants me to!

I’m more society than celebrity , so there are no particular names in min d. I love to enhance the female form.

A bride’s perf ect dress would be… so mething that makes them look and feel at their most be autiful withou t compromisin g their level of comfort; and if we can bala nce that with just a bit of theatre too – the effect can be quite mag ical. www.sassiho lford.com

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Compiled by Jessica White • Photos David Toms • Dani Jones at Target Models

BLISSFULLY PAMPERED

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sk any man what the most important thing about his wedding day is and most of them will say, getting all their friends and family together for a party (apart from the obvious of course – marrying the love of their life). Ask any woman what her most important thing is and she will undoubtedly say that everything runs smoothly and that she looks amazing.

To look perfect on your wedding day – the preparation and choosing your individual look is the key. The team at Bliss salon can assist brides-tobe in every detail of their hair and make-up to ensure that it is one less hassle on the actual wedding day.

The salon at Urb. Guadalmansa has been popular with brides since it opened five years ago, so much so that another salon was launched at Hotel Villa Padierna 18 months ago. The newest salon ensures that brides marrying in the spectacular venue, which truly takes your breath away, need not worry about having to leave the hotel to have their wedding hair and make-up done. Many other members of the wedding party also stay at the hotel and want

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THE TEAM AT BLISS need to think carefully about: there is no point having a totally different look on your wedding day to one you would normally have, as you will not feel comfortable and therefore the photos may not come out as well as they should.

Professional Mac-trained make-up artist and hairstylist Jorge can create the exact look a bride wants – be it classic and chic or a trendier, bolder look.

Bliss salon offers special wedding packages tailored to each bride and groom – yes

guys, you should also be having treatments so that you too look groomed to perfection on the big day. Packages can include all the treatments a client needs, from tanning to manicures and facials, even just one or two specific treatments.

Hair and make-up created by Jorge Alvarez

I Bliss Hair Beauty and Nails Tel. 951 278 137

hair and make-up done, and that can all be accommodated by the Bliss team.

Owner and hairstylist Lance recommends that brides use the earliest possible moment to visit either salon and have a chat with the team so that both sides can understand what the bride wants for the day and how she can achieve it – she would then be advised to have a trial two to three months before the wedding.

As women do like to change their styles regularly different looks can be created. For example, extensions can be added and clipped-on just for the day, or hair pieces can be used for brides who want big romantic hair but only have short hair themselves. Brides who colour their hair – be aware! You should have highlights or colour added to your locks two days to a week before the wedding. But not before: otherwise the dreaded roots will appear in the photos – and those last a lifetime!

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MEET THE TEAM

LANCE – British hairstylist who speaks English and Spanish and has over 25 years experience, owning a salon for 15 years. He trained in the UK with Wella, L’Oreal and Vidal Sassoon and managed a successful salon in the prestigious 5 star swallow hotel in Birmingham attracting lots of celebrity clients, while participating in numerous shows and seminars. Winner of the midlands L’Oreal hair colour trophy, Lance trained young hairdressers in the academy and specialises in precision cutting and colour.

JULES – British beauty therapist and nail technician trained in the UK with over 15 year’s experience. She speaks English, Spanish and French and has worked in the famous 5star Ragdale Hall Health Spa winning a national award for beauty therapy. Jules specialises in Caci and Guinot micro current facial treatments and Dermalogica facials.

SIAN – Welsh hairstylist who speaks English and Spanish and has over 15 years experience and specialises in colour and cutting. She trained in the UK at a top 5star salon winning awards for her cutting and colour work. She keeps a keen eye on current fashion trends and also worked as an educator within the academy.

Bliss Hair and Beauty Salon, now in its fifth year of trading, has built up a reputation for quality, professionalism and great customer service for hair, beauty and nails. Based midway between Estepona and San Pedro near to Hotel Las Dunas, the salon was the mastermind of Lance and Jules Kearley.

JORGE – Spanish hairstylist who trained in Spain and has worked in New York and London for John Frieda and Nicky Clarke. He has also worked on many photoshoots for adverts, London Fashion Week and the Baftas and specialises in colour, hair extensions, hair up, bridal hair and is a Mac trained make up artist. He speaks Spanish, English and Italian.

JILL – Norwegian beauty therapist and nail technician who was trained in Norway and speaks Scandinavian, English and Spanish. She is Cidesco qualified in all aspects of beauty and has 10 years experience working in luxury spas with outstanding product knowledge and is a Dermalogica skin care specialist. She also specialises in Dermalogica and Guinot face and body treatments and nail care.

JEANNINE – Canadian nail technician who speaks Spanish, English, French and German and is a master nail technician with 20 years experience of all aspects of gel and acrylic nail treatments. She trained in the UK and is also a qualified trainer and assessor.

Jeannine specialises in all gel and acrylic nail treatments.

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THE MAKE-UP class Follow international make-up artist Ruby Hammer’s top bridal beauty tips… hat can brides do to bag a glowing complexion quickly if they’ve only got a couple of weeks until their wedding?

Have a professional facial as soon as possible but don’t leave it much less than two weeks before the day in case you get a breakout from the impurities being drawn out.

Dry Body Brushing three times a week will not only make the skin on your body feel great but the increased circulation and lymph drainage will make your face glow as well.

Another way to make sure your skin looks its best is to massage it when applying cleansers and creams to increase the circulation and make your skin look fresh and bright.

What products do you recommend as beautifying quick fixes for the morning of a bride’s wedding (make-up or skincare)?

Splash your face with lots of cold water in the morning to get the blood flowing then use a mask like Dr. Jules Nabet Revitaxin Mask (£75, 100ml).

This is an instant radiance booster and quick lift for skin – www.julesnabet.com. After the mask use By Terry Preciosity Highlighting Primer Serum, which will illuminate and smooth the skin before you apply your make-up.

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If I get a spot, what is the best way to disguise it?

If you have a spot on the day the best thing to do is work on hiding it the best you can.

Use a good concealer on the spot after the foundation is applied and blend really well.

Set with a translucent powder and keep a concealer to hand throughout the day to re-touch when needed.

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hoose a style that will suit your face shape. Generally round faces suit high “updos” and smooth, long styles; while long faces suit styles that have width and volume. Heart and oval faces suit most styles. To establish your face shape, stand in front of a mirror with an eye liner, then draw around the shape of your face directly onto the mirror. You should fall into either: Heart – The length from temple to temple is larger than the distance of your jaw line.

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ARA SMITH forehead. Your hair looks its best pulled off your face. Centre parts point out your perfectly proportioned face shape.

Square – Your face is as wide as it is long, with your jaw line and temple line of similar width. Curls are a good look for your face, adding a softer edge. Try piling curls right on top of the crown area if you want to add an elegant feel.

Think about the back During the ceremony, the only view that your guests will see is, of course, the back of you.

Bearing this in mind; the back of your hairstyle must have as much consideration as the front. For that extra wow factor accessorise with fresh flowers, vintage hair pins or diamond hair slides.

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Your face looks great when hair is left down or if the updo is centred low in the back and full.

Round – Your face is as wide as it is long; however, it may vary slightly. Your hair looks striking when taken away from your face, in a gentle updo. Any hair style that adds focus to your crown works best.

Oval – Similar length across each area of your face, with a rounded hairline on your

With vintage and retro trends being big news on the bridal scene it wasn’t going to be long before they hit the hair world. Crimping adds a modern edge to any bridal hairstyle. Hair that is part crimped and part curled makes for a really striking look.

Use my base coat serum then rough dry your hair. Keep the top section straight and then curl the mid-lengths and ends with small curlers or thin tongs.

Spritz with Elnett hairspray then use crimpers lightly through the hair and spray again with a hairspray. For extra shine finish with my Top Coat Glosser.

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For many a bride the thought of getting married is not just about marrying the love of her life but also about having her friends and family together and celebrating with them. On this special day a bride does, of course, want

to look her best and may go to extreme lengths to do that. If you have made sure every aspect of your day is perfect, from the venue to the dress, then you don’t want to be let down with any aspect of your body.

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Marbella Dental Many brides come to the Coast to get married for the sunshine and the stunning surroundings of the area’s top hotels. However, while thinking of everything else that must be done for their wedding in the sun, they often forget about themselves. Marbella Dental offer a range of makeover procedures that can be carried out in a short space of time and are suitable for brides to ensure their smile is perfect and gleaming on the wedding day, and more importantly in all the pictures –

which stand on mantelpieces and shelves for years.

Treatments at the clinic include a one-hour laser whitening, cleaning and polishing, and minor straightening and levelling, as well as a range of veneers. Brides can have a free no obligation consultation with Dr Steinruck before deciding on which particular treatment they will want and need for their wedding.

The one-hour whitening treatment is €350, cleaning and polishing is €60, and straightening and levelling starts at €100.

The Dentists You want to be smiling with confidence in your wedding photos so your teeth can’t let you down. For brides-to-be, veneers could be just the solution to give you that ultimate smile makeover for the big day. Veneers are waferthin, custom-made shells of toothcoloured porcelain designed to cover the front surface of the tooth. They make it possible to change the colour, shape, size or length of a tooth, transforming stained, crooked, chipped and damaged teeth as well as closing gaps.Brides wanting veneers would need to visit Lotta Kvist at The Dentists at least two weeks 48

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before their wedding to have a smile analysis, when photos and impressions of the teeth are taken to show you what the new smile will look like. The teeth are prepared for the veneers by shaving off approximately half a millimetre, and temporaries are put on which look just like your normal teeth. Then two or three weeks later the porcelain veneers are fitted.

A whitening treatment can also be carried out on the remaining teeth, ensuring the brightest smile.

In certain cases for brides who cannot have veneers, ceramic crowns may be an alternative.

Ocean Clinic Dr Kaye at the Ocean Clinic can offer brides many different body treatments before the wedding. If the bride has little time before her big day there are many procedures that can be performed which are very distinctive and are non-surgical treatments which require little or no downtime. These “lunch-time” procedures include Botox (€175€450), fillers for wrinkles or to enhance lips and cheekbones (€250-€600, depending on the amount of product needed) and skin soft peels (€500-€1,200).

If the bride has more time before the wedding different surgeries can be considered that enhance the body or get rid of unwanted fat deposits – to achieve a perfect wedding silhouette. The treatments can include liposculpturing (from

€2,500) and breast enlargements (from €4,500) and mostly need 10 to 14 days recovery before the bride can attend any social events.

There are also soft facial surgery procedures that can improve facial expressions and give a fresher look, including an eye lift (from €1,900), eyebrow lift (from €2,500) and liposuction of the neck to remover a double chin (from €1,500).

Contacts: Marbella Dental, Nueva Andalucía: Tel. 697 409 841; info@marbelladental.com; marbelladental.com Ocean Clinic, Marbella: Tel. 951 775 518: info@oceanclinic.net Lotta Kvist and Anders Friman, The Dentists, Sotogrande: Tel. 956 795 273: www.thedentists.info

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Capturing the moment THE FEMININE VIEW Julia Martinez is a former model turned photographer who runs Shoot the Bride, a contemporary wedding photography company.

It is the sister company to Shoot the Moon which specialises in portraits, corporate photography, baby portraits, model portfolios and boudoir shots of the bride – the perfect gift for her groom.

What is the benefit of having a female photographer?

I feel that a female photographer can get closer to the bride as she can take more intimate photographs of the bridal party getting ready. A female photographer also has a firsthand knowledge of how the bride is feeling on her big day – the excitement, the nerves – and has a better idea of how to keep the bride calm. We also notice the small details such as shiny makeup, hairs out of place or the dress not sitting right.

How do you think being a former model has helped with your photographic career?

I modelled for 15 years, all over the world, in baking heat to freezing cold. I understand how uncomfortable the person being photographed can feel, so I try to make the experience as enjoyable and comfortable as possible.

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hand experience of poses and helps immensely when directing people. Also, it has given me a fantastic directory of all the best make-up artists, hairdressers, locations and venues in the world.

Describe your career highlights?

Graduating from my photography degree with a distinction and the highest award the university had received to date, winning the Fuji award for best photographer; working for Bob Carlos Clarke in London; and having my work exhibited there. This resulted in me meeting Richard Avedon and David Bailey.

How would you describe your approach?

Relaxed, fun, laidback, unobtrusive… It’s supposed to be a fun day so let’s make it fun!

Describe a typical day for you, shooting a wedding?

There is a lot of behind the scenes prep that goes on before the wedding day: meeting the bride and groom to discuss their expectations; getting a feel of the day they have planned; a list of the key family members; checking out the venue, etc. This then makes sure that on the day all

that is required is for me to report everything as it unfolds, right from the beginning when the bride and groom are getting ready.

What is it like to capture such special moments for others?

It is very humbling and I am incredibly honoured by it. I thank my lucky stars that I found my vocation and that it involves capturing special, magical moments that are cherished forever. I feel incredibly lucky.

What advice do you give to brides to make them feel more comfortable and therefore take a better photo?

If they are feeling tense I advise them to give themselves a shake, loosen up, then go into the pose again. Relax… put trust in the photographer. If needed I also give lots of encouragement on posed shots.

What would a bride get from booking Julia Martinez as her photographer?

A fun and relaxed experience.

A woman’s understanding and attention to detail. A totally dedicated photographer who will stay until the very end because she loves what she does.

Shoot the Bride: Tel. (0044) 7540275631 julesmartinezb@yahoo.com shootthebride.eu

LIFE THROUGH A LENS Gary Tapp is an established, versatile wedding photographer who strives to make your wedding day as relaxed as possible.

What sparked your interest in photography?

My dad always had a camera when I was little which I played with and thought was really cool: so it started from an early age but didn’t really grow until the digital era. I worked with computers for a while then, in about 1994 when the first digital camera came out, my interest was sparked again so the two went hand in hand.

Why did you decide to specialise in wedding photography?

I started doing wedding photography for friends and family as they kept asking me, as well as the glamour, fashion and commercial, and then when more people started to ask I decided to set up a separate entity parallel to my other work.

What is your style?

I have a really relaxed style and approach to a wedding, to make it as informal as possible so the bride, groom and guests also stay relaxed. Obviously if a bride wants it more formal then I can accommodate this but generally the day leans towards a more documentary style.

What do you do when you have a “Bridezilla”?

I’m actually quite good with a “Bridezilla”; I’m quite good at calming people and reassuring them that everything will be fine. I tend to find that it’s usually after the wedding that brides are unhappy but I can always fix whatever it is they don’t like. Even if sometimes perhaps I wouldn’t agree, I will always do whatever it takes to make sure the bride is happy.

How do you remain unobtrusive at a wedding?

I use longer fast lenses so I can shoot at a distance, and always move around in soft shoes so as

not to make too much noise – there’s nothing worse than hearing footsteps during the ceremony.

Also I try to use the natural available light as much as possible and don’t use the flash unless I have to or I’m trying to create a dramatic lighting effect.

What is it like to capture such special moments for others?

I’m really surprised actually at how much I enjoy shooting weddings. I enjoy the challenge and love the satisfaction of capturing a particular person doing something while they aren’t aware I’m taking their picture. Capturing the spirit of the day, a laugh or expression, is what it’s all about.

What designs, albums, etc., do you offer?

I offer prints, digital photo books and albums including Queensbury and Jorgensen. I use mainly print labs in the UK, including Ilford Labs who specialise in black and white prints using real silver gelatine photographic paper, so I can offer very high quality black and white prints using my specialist conversion process to produce images that brides always find beautiful and timeless.

What do you love the most about your job?

Visiting different places up and down the coast and inland – no two weddings are the same so it’s always a challenge which I love.

What would a bride get from booking Gary Tapp as photographer?

Someone to rely on that can ease the stress that comes with planning a wedding, and ultimately everlasting memories of their special day.

Gary Tapp Tel. 952 885 723 / 600 545 032 www.YourWeddingMoments.com info@yourweddingmoments.com

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Shoot The Bride Contact Julia Martinez mobile; (+44) 7540 275631 / (+44) 208 1448208 julesmartinezb@yahoo.com www.shootthebride.eu Julia’s qualifications include BA hons in people photography, L.R.P.S, A.R.P.S, and F.R.P.S, she is a member of the royal photographic society and is a Fuji award winning female photographer.

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WEDDING VENUES on the Costa del Sol

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isiting EPCC is like finding a little oasis of calm and tranquillity, providing the perfect venue for your special day. Owner Marion Lewendon and her team offer a bespoke and personal service that is individually tailored to your needs.

The wedding fayre which took place at EPCC last October has provided an extensive portfolio of professionals, everything from photographers to dream cars and beauty experts; while a wide variety of entertainers and accommodation can now be easily located.

The venue, established for over 20 years in the centre of the Patio Alcornocal community, offers various location options for the ceremony, dining and entertainment.

The restaurant and crescentshaped terrace overlooks a beautiful pool and gardens. The Cristal Room – a creamcoloured function room on the first floor – is perfect to add your chosen colour for the reception, with access to a romantic terrace with both sea and mountain views, ideal for smaller ceremonies as well as a cava reception or to view latenight fireworks in the gardens.

For more intimate events, there is the Sala Rustica, a cosy, first floor room complete with antiques and log-fire. This room also has access to the terrace for pre-dinner drinks or a cake cutting ceremony. The bridge over the pool is illuminated at night and, together with garden torches and candle-lit tables, creates a magical evening ambience.

The main focus of planning your wedding at EPCC is to provide a stress-free day, with the preparations for the big event both enjoyable and fun. In addition, as Marion notes, “Even in these difficult financial times a restricted budget should not mean restrictions on quality. We think of every wedding we cater for as being as important as planning our own. It is all about listening to clients’ needs to ensure their day is truly memorable.”

With this in mind, the catering can be as diverse as a relaxed gourmet picnic, with cava, smoked salmon and cucumber sandwiches, and individual fairy cakes; a succulent hog roast or mouth watering barbecue lunch; or an elegant five-course formal wedding breakfast,

provided by new head chef Evan Owen. Franck Chaveau has also recently joined EPCC as maître d’. Evan and Franck are available to discuss personal requirements and devise a menu to suit your preferences – and budget.

El Paraiso Country Club Tel. 952 883 799 hola@elparaisocountryclub.com elparaisocountryclub.com

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THE VILLA PHENOMENON There is a new wedding phenomenon on the Coast that everyone is talking about – the villa wedding. It is estimated that one in three nuptials here now take place in a private villa, as opposed to a hotel or restaurant. There are several reasons for this, the most significant one being the feeling of true exclusivity and privilege that a private venue brings. When this is added to the flexibility it affords you in terms of decoration, timing and catering, it is no wonder brides and grooms are turning away from the rules and regulations of hotel venues, and taking matters into their own hands. This is a list of some of the best options in the area…

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hen considering décor for our beautiful Mediterranean evenings choosing the right lighting is an important element for any party or wedding.

Candles, twinkling fairy lights and lanterns dotted around transform gardens and create a romantic, magical party ambience.

Our local wedding stylist, Laura at Reviva Weddings, recognised this was an important factor to styling any wedding and offers lantern and candle packs to our clients wishing to create a magical garden setting.

Starting from just €350 Reviva Weddings have a whole host of ideas to choose from to help you create your dream fairytale evening.

To advertise your villa in this section: Tel. 617 651 732; advertising@iconpublishing.es

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his venue combines the true elegance and quality of the iconic Marbella Club hotel with the privacy of the completely separate Villa del Mar. Annexed to the hotel in a discreet garden, the villa setting is second to none in its frontline beach position. Not for the economically-challenged, but still a perfect way to benefit from the Marbella Club’s status as the most well-known establishment on the Golden Mile, while still feeling completely secluded from the hotel’s other guests.

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would expect from any small hotel.

With an outdoor bar and barbecue hut, a large pool with plenty of lawn space for a wedding reception and a huge walk-in chiller in the kitchen, this really is the perfect place for a villa wedding and one of the most popular new venues on the Coast.

VILLA OLEANDER LAS CHAPAS or those looking for a more modern venue, this luxurious house is immaculately maintained and impressive throughout. It has a beautiful garden shaded by pine trees, which makes it a very pleasant space on a warm summer evening, with fairy lights threaded through the trees and floating lanterns twinkling on the swimming pool. Cocktails can be sipped around the large pool and there is enough terrace space to set up a dance-floor and party late into the night.

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LET US ENTER Choosing the entertainment for your wedding is like choosing the dress and venue. If you get it right, people will remember the wedding with fond memories of being serenaded at dinner and dancing until dawn. Get it wrong, however, and guests may leave early and be glad to get away from the terrible music and entertainment.

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here are many different types of entertainment to choose from for the big day itself, and they are not all limited to a DJ or band after the “wedding breakfast” has been eaten. It is becoming very common to entertain guests throughout the day – every bride and groom want their wedding to be different and a bit more special than any other, so put some thought into the entertainment and don’t just pick the quickest or cheapest on offer.

Take your time; the entertainment is just as important as the food or the venue.

You may wish to start with a choir or harpist as guests arrive at the church. This will instantly set the romantic mood and excitement of a beautiful day that is about to unfold. Musicians can play as guests arrive at and depart from the church, or wherever it is that you are getting married, and then move on to the reception venue and carry on playing while you are eating, with some light background music – you do not want full-on music for the meal as people want to chat and relax.

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provide professional, unique and classical music services including String Trio: two violins and concert harp; Classical Trio: violin, concert harp and singer soloist; and String Quintet: two concert harps and three violins (optional singer soloist).

Something else to keep in mind is the toastmaster, who presents the bride and groom, and announces the speeches and when the meal is ready, among other things. Traditionally, wedding toastmasters are there to help the bride and groom and take care of the smaller details

that make a huge difference to the big day; however, some couples decide they want a member of the family or a friend to be the toastmaster, to make it a little more personal. I went to a friend’s wedding and they asked a very funny friend of theirs to be toastmaster; he was great, did exactly what was needed and was hilarious, all the while ensuring the smooth running order of the day.

Alternatively, why not hire a Cheeky Butler to spice things up. They can meet and greet guests at the reception and

serve drinks before everyone sits down for the meal.

There is a lot of choice for the evening’s entertainment – from a jazz or live band, to a wedding singer, to a DJ – it can be a refined or a lively evening depending on what exactly it is you want. Wedding DJs often have a reputation for playing cheesy music that no one wants to dance to, and guests end up sitting round the edge of the dance floor like kids at a disco when they were 13 and too scared to be the first one up dancing. However, in reality DJs usually only play what they are asked to by the bride and groom, so this is where you need to take a minute and have a think.

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make will undoubtedly include most of your favourite songs, and you will be able to imagine dancing the night away on your special evening. However, many of the songs on that list may not be the favourite songs of any of the guests, so why not ask around a bit, speak to friends and family and see what they would dance to, and then add in a few great cheesy songs that everyone will love. Remember, it may be your wedding but the DJ isn’t just playing for you: he’s playing to the whole wedding party. DJ Rob can provide a great repertoire of music for your special day and is able to read the party clearly to make sure the right music is being played and the guests are dancing and having a great time.

A live band is a great way to make things lively and exciting at your reception. The Marbella

Big Band features top class singers and players with a huge variety of songs, including chart pop and rock hits from the ‘60s to the present day, soul and big band classics, as well as Frank Sinatra standards. They guarantee that they will cater for all music tastes, making your reception memorable – for you and your guests.

The Mighty Pimps have a reputation for being the most versatile live band, with three established top musicians who have been entertaining on the Coast for years. The repertoire embraces disco, soul and funk music and, by adding a female vocalist, they become Tina and The Mighty Pimps.

Sometimes it can be difficult choosing the right band or act to perform at your wedding; you know what kind of music you want but there is too much

choice. For times like this, it is a good idea to consult an agency like Pino Palma Music Productions who can handle everything from the act to the lighting, sound and staging, ensuring it’s one less hassle for you to worry about. Pino Palma Music Productions have many acts for you to choose from including The Costa Band, pop and rock bands, a salsa group and various other entertainment acts that would be suitable for your wedding.

CONTACTS Musibodas: classicalmusicweddings.weebly.com The Cheeky Butlers: cheekybutlersmarbella.com DJ Rob: robrocksthehouse.com The Marbella Big Band: marbellabigband.com The Mighty Pimps: themightypimps.com Pino Palma Music Productions: ppmusicproductions.com CONFETI

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Let us design the bouquet you always dreamt of!

Flor Valentin your florist on the coast.

Centro Idea Ctra. de Mijas km 3,6 29650 Mijas Malaga, España Web: www.florvalentin.es / Email: janne@florvalentin.es Photo: Jeremy Standley

Tel: +34 951 311 086 / Mobile: +34 669 061 234

WEDDING CAKE SPECIALIST For your dream wedding cake, be it Modern traditional or Bespoke Contact Debbie Sheridan Cakes serving the Costa Del Sol from Malaga to Sotogrande and beyond.

Tel: 0034 952 964 103 Mobile 0034 638 705 327 debsgds@hotmail.com

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SWEET NOTHINGS We gave the Coast’s top cake makers the task of incorporating flowers into their creations.

The outcome? Blooming marvellous…

Love Actually A seven-tier cupcake stand holding 51 vanilla cupcakes with creamy chocolate and vanilla butter cream, topped with white and red sugar roses.

The red tutu and silver crown are for hire – €168.

Delicious Cakes And Treats: (34) 666 584 132; deliciouscakesmarbella.webs.com

Springtime (left) A four-tier round with “trellis” side design and decorated with a cascade of lime green cymbidium orchids, roses, white gardenias, jasmine, cream roses and nomocharis lilies – from €550.

Debbie Sheridan Cakes: (34) 952 964 103; weddingcakesspain.com

Polly Anna (right) Inspired by the 1920s, vintage chic with ivory fondant, and fondant buttons with a pearlescent tone. Perfect for a romantic setting – from €400.

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Hyacinths and roses… bridal bouquet, €120; three table decorations in small glass vases and antique silver ribbon, €45.

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Gypsophila, white orchids and pearls nestled in a longstemmed cocktail glass.

Standing on a circular mirror, complete with three miniature arrangements and candles (price on request).

Exclusive Events: (34) 693 777 535; exclusiveeventsmarbella.com

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Pew ends of mixed spring flowers, tied with bow – €15 each.

Maxine 4 Flowers: (34) 626 784 278; maxine4flowers.com

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Pale pink tulips combined with hyacinths and panacium fountain, wrapped in a swathe of cerise pink silk chiffon fabric – €55.

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Classic Elegance Looking back at the high points of the wedding at Hotel Villa Padierna of Ghali and Lisa (director of Exclusive Events) The inspiration...

From the first moment we drove up to the Hotel Villa Padierna we both just knew it was the perfect setting for our wedding. We loved the classic elegance and understated grandeur of the hotel’s high ceiling and travertine statues and staircases, surrounded by a luxuriously green and romantic setting. It was everything we where looking for – and more. To follow through with this elegance we thought it would be complemented with a theme of “Diamonds and Pearls”, which we chose after listening to the song we both love by the artist Prince.

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match from the same ivory satin as my dress. My flower girls had dresses made of tulle with crystals hand-stitched all over the skirts, finished off with a satin sash waistband made of the same fabric as my bridesmaids’ dresses, in a shade of what was called ‘‘Banana’’. We chose orchids for the flowers and thus matched the colour of the bridesmaids’ dresses with the centre of the orchid, and they too had a band of crystals under the bust.

The finishing touches...

The details were very important to me so I made sure our theme was brought in every way possible. Thousands of pearls lined the glass bases of the tall flower arrangements, which guests could see when seated.

The tables had lots of loose Swarovski crystals placed carefully around, which our

guests scooped up and took home and went on to use as decoration in all sorts of wonderful ways. My serviettes were tied with organza and satin bows and had a crystal heart and pearl detail on each which the guests later wore as bracelets.

The menus had laser-cut edges shaped in crystals and butterflies, and we had lots of tea candles to reflect and set the scene.

My favourite moment?

Has to be the ceremony. Walking down the aisle with my Dad, the string quartet and grand piano playing beautifully in front of the lake. Seeing all my loved ones together in such a beautiful setting, all with so much emotion on their faces. It was so special; everything I had dreamed of had come together and it was even better then I had ever imagined.

How to create a romantic atmosphere....

Lighting is the key when it comes to atmosphere. Soft lighting is essential, and adding different coloured lighting can also create a magical, warm environment for the perfect wedding or event.

Adding up-lighters to the corners of a room is such a simple and low-cost way to create the wow factor for your wedding venue.

Money saving tips....

Exclusive Events are always looking to find ways to re-use key pieces throughout your wedding or event. One great idea we found are these bracelets. Made from real Swarovski crystals they not only make beautiful gifts for your guests to keep but also double up as napkin rings. They are great for adding a personal touch as they can be customised in any colour to match all themes.

The string bracelets have seven crystals on each, which is believed by many religious leaders to bring luck. The number seven is directly linked to the power of the divine and has great symbolic value in many religions.

Lisa’s address book Photographer: Jeremy Standley, jeremystandley.com, (34) 607 717 565 Venue: Hotel Villa Padierna, hotelvillapadierna.com, (34) 952 889 150 Florist: Holland Flowers, hollandflowersmarbella.com, (34) 952 779 651 Dress: Kruszynska London, kruszynska.com, (44) 207 589 0745 Bridesmaids’ dresses: dessy.co.uk, (1) 646 638 9600 Groom’s waistcoat: favourbrook.com, (44) 20 7493 5060 Menus: Exclusive Events, exclusiveeventsmarbella.com, (34) 693 777 535 Wedding shoes: gina.com, (44) 20 72352932 Wedding cake: Exclusive Events, exclusiveeventsmarbella.com, (34) 693 777 535

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Advice and help from our top wedding professionals and etiquette experts

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“I have not even started planning my wedding in Spain yet; what steps do I need to take?”

Julia Clarke, 32, London

edding planners Hayley and Emma say: Firstly, don’t panic! You need to remember that this is your day. You don’t have to cater for friends and family with their likes and dislikes, as this is a day for you! We always suggest to our brides that they keep a wedding book to make notes, stick pictures and write down any ideas. This will be something to treasure in years to come.

The first thing that you need to do is have a think about how many guests you would like to attend. This will help decide whether you are planning an intimate affair or a larger gathering, and this makes the choosing of the venue a lot easier.

Next, you should choose your theme. Choosing a theme early on really helps with the

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“What type of wedding flowers would be suitable for the Spanish heat?”

Molly McKeirnan, 22, Dublin

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Florist Janne Valentin Lassen says: Normally you can use all kinds of flowers, since they are only needed on the day, but of course there are always flowers that last for longer, and I would recommend roses, cala, orchids, gerberas, freesia, carnations and lilies.

Choosing flowers is of course very personal, and the bride wants her bridal bouquet to tell something about herself. Most brides choose white flowers, but luckily more and more brides “dare” to use other colours.

I myself tend to be very romantic when it comes to flowers, and personally I would choose a close tied bouquet of mixed roses in pastel colours. It is the most beautiful thing in the world. My best guess for wedding flowers in the Spanish heat would be roses!

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coordination of your decorations, cake, favours, menu, flowers, dresses and menswear.

We find that the most fun part of planning a wedding for brides (apart from the choosing of The Dress!) is to discuss their vision for the day. We have many ideas to spark your imagination for fabulous themes such as Vintage,

Romantic, Seasons, Fantasy, Hollywood, Garden, Beach, Era, Butterflies, Fairytale, Floral, Cultural, Places, Angels, Bespoke and much more.

The next step would be to discuss your venue. To narrow down your choices, you should decide if you would like a church wedding or a civil ceremony.

Once decided, we would then look at suitable venues for your ceremony and for your reception to ensure your dream for the day is brought to life.

Next you should look at the finer details such as the cake, wedding favours, transport, menu, flowers, dresses and menswear, photographer and music/entertainment. We see every aspect of a wedding as equally important as the other so as much care and attention should be given to the flowers, for example, as to the venue. Getting every part of the day just right will make it all slot into place beautifully, ensuring you are both as happy as can be as you become “Mr & Mrs” to start the rest of your lives together as husband and wife.

THE BRIDAL EXPERTS

Hayley Newbury Wedding Planner unicornweddings.com hayley@unicornweddings.com

Janne Valentin Lassen Florist florvalentin.es (34) 669 061 234

Emma Jones Wedding Planner unicornweddings.com emma@unicornweddings.com

www.unicornweddings.com

Here to help you add the magic...

It's all in the detail. The finishing touches that will make your day extra special. Adding that extra sprinkling of magic dust. Making your day shine bright, just for you....

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By Homewareboutique.com

GIFT IDEAS Philipi Design vases Blomus fires A perfect addition to the new couple’s home and no chimney required! This latest collection from Blomus includes wall-mounted contemporary fires that run on odourless bio ethanol and are as easy to install as a picture frame.

These stunning vases by Philipi Design are perfect wedding gifts for the contemporary couple. The vases look stunning when dressed with flowers but still look like works of art when standing alone.

Ombrages collection by Raynaud The china has a captivatingly modern floral design, continuously reinterpreted in different colours. These artistic combinations are available in two different colour ranges: black, white and platinum or yellow, white and platinum.

The collection perfectly combines the romantic with the contemporary, and they are even suitable for the dishwasher!

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For him …For her The perfect travel kit for him… Whether it’s for the honeymoon or for the jet-setter, this leather and chrome-cased vanity kit comes with seven necessities to make sure he stays trim and pretty.

Lene Bjerre cosmetic case Make sure she is all set for her honeymoon with the all-essential cosmetic case by Lene Bjerre.

Available in black or cream and in various sizes, all the bags have the detail of pendant charms.

Möve dressing gowns His and hers 100 per cent cotton luxury dressing gowns by Möve are the perfect gift for newlyweds. With the contrasting piping… hers in ivory cream and his in black. Well, they do say opposites attract!

Tel. 902 118 307 Mobile. 662 192 080 www.lush-event.com www.theweddinglist.es www.homewareboutique.com

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LATEST NEWS from the Coast’s wedding experts

New website for top photographer’s studio Award-winning photographer Jeremy Standley will soon be launching a new website for his studio near Benalmádena Pueblo, a contemporary 100 square metre space featuring a viewing area for clients, a full sample range of albums and also the chance for clients to view imagery and album designs. From April 2010 the studio will be offering a range of innovative custom-made products, “with the emphasis on capturing unique creative imagery”. To be launched in late March or early April, the new website will detail information on the full range of services on offer.

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Launch of design and decoration shop Reviva Weddings has teamed up with Earthscent Flowers to launch the first wedding design and decoration shop in Marbella.

Owner Laura Charles said she decided to launch Reviva Weddings three years ago when she realised there was a huge gap in the market for a stylish

wedding and party design service. Reviva Weddings has since earned a reputation within the wedding industry as one of the top wedding designers in Europe. Loraine Gilder from Earthscent trained with the famous Paula Pryke flowers in London, and has successfully run her charming flower store for 10 years. With Laura and Loraine’s combined attention to detail, and

keeping up with the latest trends, they offer a wonderful selection of decorations and flowers to help you style your event, from elegant chair covers, sashes and linens to fabulous bridal flowers, ceremony decorations and enchanting centrepieces. Located with easy parking at the Centro Comercial Pinares in Elviria, the shop also carries many unique accessories, fabulous gifts, favour ideas, sky and water lanterns, wedding stationery, cakes, cake toppers, confetti cones and fans.

For an appointment (recommended): Tel. Laura on 951 271 220 or Loraine on 952 839 830; mobile 618 021 172.

Planning for the ultimate in luxury Unicorn Weddings is a luxury wedding planner that infuses sheer opulence with delicate personal touches into every wedding. With an abundance of expertise working within the high society and celebrity sectors, Hayley and Emma specialise in exclusive and prestigious weddings. From stylish and sophisticated to fantasy and

fairytale, every wedding is wonderfully unique. "We feel that it is so very important to have the right team to organise your wedding," says Hayley. "A team that shares your vision and can turn your dreams into reality."

Adds Emma, "We create everlasting memories, adding the magic from start to finish." From elegant favours and stationery to breathtaking locations and lavish venues, Unicorn Weddings offers an imaginative and creative service covering all aspects of the special day. The philosophy of Unicorn Weddings is simple: “anything is possible to make your dreams come true”.

More information: unicornweddings.com

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If you would like your wedding to appear in Confeti Magazine please contact: info@iconpublishing.es

A special wedding place in Mallorca Having lived here for two years, Spain was very close to the hearts of Danny and Hayley Newbury (nee Bingham) so it was inevitable they would decide to be married in their own special place in Deia, Mallorca. The theme they immediately decided on was “Rustic Spanish”, and they incorporated this in many ways to include a traditional Spanish guitarist performing for the drinks reception, serving Spanish tapas as canapés and having the tables decorated with fresh fruit, flowers and candles – with hand-made treasure chest box favours for the guests containing Spanish pesetas. The setting for the décor of the church (Sant Joan Baptista) and restaurant was based on the luxurious Spanish manor house Abaco, in Palma city centre, being lit only by candlelight, scattered with rose petals and displaying fresh fruit and flowers. The dress was created by awardwinning designer Maggie Sottero; and the photographer was Wilfred Chierico.

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Spanish celebrations Confeti chose Celebra Málaga at the Exhibition and Congress Centre to launch our new magazine, where we were able to hand out thousands of copies to would-be brides and grooms visiting the wedding exhibition. Celebra Málaga has consolidated itself as a yardstick for wedding and celebration fairs at a provincial and regional level – as an event that stands out for its excellent staging and quality. The highlight was definitely the catwalk where a large number of prestigious wedding designers showcased their latest fashions.

Photos by Conrad C. Jones

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Designer wedding boutique launch The elite of the Coast’s wedding industry were out in force to celebrate the opening of the first wedding shop in Marbella. Reviva Weddings and Earthscent have joined forces to bring the first wedding floral design studio and shop to southern Spain. Guests enjoyed canapés from Fiesta Sol, and cakes by Sweet Things By Fi and Delicious Cakes and Treats, while listening to the operatic sounds of Tres Divos.

Photography David Toms

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1. Laura Charles, owner of Reviva Weddings, and Loraine Gilder from Earthscent 3. Delicious Cakes and Treats’ Daniella and Carol James 2. Joanne McCafferty from Chocolate Fountain Spain and Martin Joseph 4. Exclusive Events director Lisa Lamrani from The Sinatra Tribute, with and Zoe Browning their daughter Kaity

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5. Jeremy Standley, wedding photographer, andJustin Curran 6. Tres divos 7. JH Productions’ Becky Sharpe, José Hernandez and Charlie Sharpe

8. Fiesta Sol’s Heather Sadtler and Alejandro Spinola

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Mobile: 0034 661 194 653

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I New, innovative menus I Great musicians and entertainers I Informal gourmet picnic to Elegant Formal Dining I ALL your requirements catered for by experts.

Urb. El Paraiso, Ctra. de Cádiz Km. 167 29680 Estepona (Málaga) Tel/Fax: 952 88 37 99 Email: hola@elparaisocountryclub.com www.elparaisocountryclub.com

Tel/Fax: +34 952 858 765 Mob: +34 627 908 065 Email: info@ppmusicproductions.com Please have a look at our website www.ppmusicproductions.com

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THE WEDDING BUSINESS

DIRECTORY Cakes

Your Wedding Moments – (00 34) 600 545 032 www.yourweddingmoments.com

Cakes for Occasions – (00 34) 638 705 32 www.weddingcakesspain.com

Stag and Hen Organisers

Delicious Cakes and Treats – (00 34) 666 584 132 www.deliciouscakesmarbella.webs.c om

Solisol Travel – 0871 2182187 (from the UK) / (00 34) 952 090 351 www.solisoltravel.com Wedding Dress Emporiums

Sweet things by Fi – (00 34) 697 228 088 www.sweetthingsbyfi.com

Amanda Wakeley Bridal www.bridal.amandawakeley.com

Entertainment

General

Bruce Oldfield www.bruceoldfield.com

DJ Rob www.robrocksthehouse.com

Homeware Boutique – (00 34) 662 192 080 www.homewareboutique.com

Ian Stuart www.ianstuartbrides.com

The Dentists, Sotogrande – (00 34) 956 795 273

Jasper Conran www.jasperconran.com

Hair & Beauty

Pronovias – (00 34) 952 77 87 51 www.pronovias.com

Pina Palma Music Productions www.ppmusicproductions.com Fashion Accessorize www.accessorize.com Agent Provocateur, Puerto Banús – (00 34) 952 810 17 www.agentprovocateur.com

Bliss Hair & Beauty Salon – (00 34) 951278137 Reflections – (00 34) 902 325 324 www.reflectionsmarbella.com

Sassi Holford www.sassiholford.com Vera Wang www.verawangonweddings.com

Bravissimo www.bravissimo.com

Ruby and Millie www.rubyandmillie.com

Wedding Planners

Marks and Spencer www.marksandspencer.com

Tara Smith www.tarasmith.com

Exclusive Events – (00 34) 693 777 535 www.exclusiveeventsmarbella.com

Ultimo www.ultimo.com

Wood Hairdressing – (00 34) 952 771 791

Florists

Jewellery

Flor Valentine – (00 34) 669 061 234 www.Florvalentin.es

Antonio Seijo – (00 34) 952 900 140 www.antonioseijo.com

Maxine4Flowers – (00 34) 626 784 278 www.maxine4flowers.com

Stephen Webster, Puerto Banús – (00 34) 952 816 976 www.stephenwebster.com Tiffany & Co www.tiffany.com Photography Conrad. C Jones – (00 34) 626 250 073 info@conradcrispin.com David Toms – (00 34) 690 656 120 www.davidtoms-weddings.com Jennifer Jane – (00 34) 661194653 www.jjweddingphotography.com Jeremy Standley – (00 34) 607 717 565 www.jeremystandley.com JH Productions (cinematography & photography) – (00 34) 697 767 220 www.jhproductions.info Julia Martinez - (0044) 7540275631 www.shootthebride.eu

FiestaSol – (00 34) 952 89 87 46 / (00 34) 657 214 831 www.fiestasol.com Reviva Weddings – (00 34) 951 271 220 / (00 34) 618 021 172 www.reviva-weddings.com Unicorn Weddings www.unicornweddings.com Weddings in Spain – (00 34 951 317 367) / (00 34 622 087 222) www.weddingsinspain.com Venues Buddha Beach – (00 34) 95 281 3882 www.buddhabeachbanus.com El Paraiso Country Club – (00 34) 952 883 799 www.elparaisocountryclub.com Finca Cortesín www.fincacortesin.com Kempinski Hotel Bahía Estepona – (0034) 952 791 798 www.kempinski.com Puente Romano www.puenteromano.com

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By Giles Brown

SIMPLY THE BEST! to experience two laws of science at the same time – Murphy’s Law and Sod’s Law. For those of you that didn’t get your Science A levels, Murphy’s Law states that anything that can go wrong will go wrong, while Sod’s Law states that it will go wrong at the worst mentioned in the Thank You possible time. speeches.

As Best Man you’ll be given the But if Best Man duties have fallen task of rounding up the groom’s to you, may I suggest the following mates, some of whom you may tips. Let’s start with the Stag Night, know, but there is bound to be a subject that I touched on in the some misfit from the groom’s last issue. If you get the Stag Night Prep school who drinks too much, wrong then you are more than likely antagonises the other guys,

If you think that getting married is a big deal for the groom, spare a thought for the Best Man. Although the groom may be bestowing a huge honour on you, as Best Man you will be dealing with more minefields than the Iraqi bomb disposal team.

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Rather than a Best Man, they have testigos, a group of Best Men whose main function is to stand at the front of the church with the

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groom, look smart in their morning suits and sign the register, before hitting the reception and showing their best moves on the dance floor. Or at least that’s what I did when I was testigo at a Marbella society wedding several summers ago. Strangely enough I wasn’t

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"He woke the next day with a huge black eye, which I thought looked particularly fetching in the wedding photos"

bothers any girls in the pub, hogs the karaoke and is a general pain in the arse. Normally that’s me.

And here’s another bit of earth shattering news for the Best Man. The Stag Night doesn’t have to include strippers, especially if you live in Marbella. There are a couple of reasons behind this, the first one being that you only have to take a trip down to the beach clubs in summer to see semi naked girls. And if you do hire a stripper, make sure that she’s just going to strip and isn’t planning to spring any surprise “extras’ on a

drunken and unsuspecting groom in a “Brian McFadden” moment.

You also want to think again if you’re planning to force the groom to wear fancy dress. You only need to stroll past Lineker’s of a weekend to see grooms dressed as babies, or in more extreme cases, painted blue and handcuffed to a midget on a Smurf themed stag weekend.

(Yes, I HAVE seen this.)

But even fancy dress can be fraught with danger. I once went on a Stag Weekend in Torremolinos with a group of Australians who decided to dress the groom as a blonde. All was going swimmingly until we decided to hit the biggest disco in town, where we found it hysterical that the groom was being chatted up by a drunken guy at the bar.

Hysterical, that was, until the drunk suddenly realised that he was chatting to a bloke and unleashed a right-hander out of nowhere. A good old fashioned bar brawl ensured with tables upturned, women screaming and the stag party fleeing the scene, which wasn’t easy for the groom, unaccustomed as he was to running in stilettos. He woke the next day with a huge black eye, which I thought looked particularly fetching in the wedding photos.

So, if you’ve managed to get the Stag Night over and done with, and in the words of Brian

"You’re there to support him and get him to the church, not help him plan a last minute dash to Vegas in a moment of pre wedding nerves"

Hanrahan, have “Counted them all out and counted them all back in again”, it’s time for the big day.

The groom is likely to be a little nervous so you’ll be a combination of big brother, sergeant major and good cop/bad cop. You’re there to support him and get him to the church, not help him plan a last minute dash to Vegas in a moment of pre wedding nerves.

And whatever you do, make sure that you don’t lose the bleeding ring, Frodo.

Having rounded up the ushers from the nearest pub and handed out the breath freshening mints, you’ll probably find that the ceremony is the easiest part of the day. The happy couple and the guests head off to the reception, and as Best Man it’s time to come face to face with your fear. It’s time for the Best Man speech.

When you stand to deliver the speech, remember that you’ll have the groom terrified that you could do him crippling damage in the next 15 minutes, and the bride worried that her wholesome image is about to go out of the window when you recount the story about the time she was a student barmaid when the All Blacks walked in.

Don’t worry about having to be the natural heir to Jimmy Tarbuck with one-liners. Your audience is

willing you to succeed, and you’ll be fine as long as you avoid the stag weekend, his previous partners, her previous partners, the bride’s mother, slagging off the food or the venue. or which bridesmaid you fancy. My favourite best man “God, please kill me now” moment comes from the Best Man’s speech at a huge wedding in Barcelona.

“Marriage,” he began “Is a question of honour.”

Lots of “hear hears!”, polite applause and beaming smiles from the top table.

“Get on her and stay on her!”

Stunned silence, broken only by the sound of me calling a taxi…

If you’ve managed to get the speech over and done with, and haven’t been chased from the reception by the bride’s family brandishing burning torches and screaming “Kill the monster”, then you can relax and enjoy the celebrations. Now is the time to show the killer dance moves, unleash your best George Clooney smile on the bridesmaids and singlehandedly lower the European Veuve Clicquot lake. Best Man duties over, you can bask in the admiration of your peers, happy in the knowledge of a job well done. Until that fateful moment when the groom takes you aside and asks you if you fancy being a godfather…

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By Rod Neal

The ULTIMATE Honeymoon Haven

THIS ISSUE WE MOVE FURTHER AFIELD IN OUR SEARCH FOR EXCEPTIONAL, AND EXOTIC, HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS… DISCOVERING THE ÜBER LUXURIOUS ATTRACTIONS OF RICHARD BRANSON’S KASBAH TAMADOT RETREAT IN MOROCCO

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orocco is a land of stunning contrasts, from the centuries-old tradition of a bustling and bucolic market square to the contemporary splendour of a verdant hinterland retreat.

Take Kasbah Tamadot, for example. In a delightful potpourri of cultural integration, all its rooms are equipped with iPod leads and Bose iPod stations – as well as Moroccan slippers (Babouches) and ponchos (Bernous)!

About an hour’s drive from central Marrakech, in the

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foothills of the Atlas mountains, it is as far removed from the classic Morocco of backpacking tourists as it is intimately attuned to the “new” Moroccan tourism of five-star hotels, stateof-the art spas, championship golf courses, the ultimate in luxury – and all in select, secluded and serene settings far from the madding crowd.

One of Sir Richard Branson’s privately owned Virgin Limited Edition collections of luxury retreats, Kasbah Tamadot is surrounded on one side by a river valley with sheer rocky

limestone and forested mountains, and on the other by snow-capped peaks. To the east, a traditional Berber village is built into the side of the mountain; while the retreat’s own grounds include a garden of specimen fruit trees, a collection of cacti and a rambling rose garden.

In short, the ideal place to enjoy a memorable honeymoon. Nonresidents are unable to marry legally in Morocco, but Kasbah Tamadot – which means “soft breeze” in Berber – can organise a traditional blessing and Berber feast for couples to celebrate with

friends and family before enjoying their own time together.

So what makes the Kasbah so special – apart from its setting?

Originally it was the home of Luciano Tempo, who filled it with antiques from India, Africa and the Far East. In 1998 Richard Branson went to Morocco as part of his famous attempt to circumnavigate the globe in a hot air balloon and, while there, his parents discovered the Kasbah and dreamt of turning it into an exclusive Moroccan retreat. His mother convinced him to purchase the property, and they

set about working on an extensive refurbishment that was careful to maintain, and enhance, the original character and charm of the complex, “marrying traditional Moroccan colours, textures and patterns with a more contemporary treatment to the interior architecture”.

In buying the property, Branson also inherited Luciano’s 1,000 square metre warehouse in Asni, “filled to the brim with his treasures” – with pieces from his collection used to furnish the Kasbah.

Kasbah Tamadot comprises 24 uniquely decorated rooms and suites; with 90 per cent of the staff being local Berbers from the surrounding villages, giving guests “a sense of staying in a Moroccan home rather than a hotel”.

The accommodation includes 15 rooms and suites in the main building; a master suite at the end of the garden, with three

rooms including the Deluxe Pool Suite (this is generally hired privately as a three-room cottage); and six Berber tented suites opened in 2008, set on the hillside overlooking the valley and offering superb views of Mount Toubkal, northern Africa’s highest peak. The tented suites, also equipped with private plunge pools, are variously named Afoulky (beauty), Addou (wind), Amalou (shade), Azoka (tree), Adrar (mountain) and Azenzer (ray of sun) – in a reflection of their appealingly natural settings and charm.

The extensive shared spaces are filled with staircases, courtyards and gardens; and include indoor and outdoor pools, the Asounfou spa, a traditional Moroccan Hammam, a deep-blue reflecting pool, the Kanoun restaurant, a rooftop terrace perfect for sipping G&Ts or cocktails as the sun sets,

tennis courts, a gymnasium, and a salon/library with flat-screen TV, DVD player and DVDs, games and a log fire.

“Asounfou” comes from the Berber word meaning relaxation, and there is no shortage of that at the spa. Guests can enjoy an indoor pool, treatment rooms (using exclusive products), spa, Hammam and, if the weather allows it, an outdoor treatment room where newly-married couples can have a simultaneous massage while admiring the mountain views.

The treatments include: “The Moroccan Experience” – to deep-cleanse, purify and soften the skin, based on the traditional weekly Moroccan cleansing ritual; Hammam – where a traditional soap derived form black olives is applied,

while guests sip herbal infused teas; and Nectarome Aromatherapy, using products based on old Moroccan recipes and sourced from the Atlas foothills in Morocco’s first aromatherapy gardens.

Men can enjoy a luxury shave using products to deeply cleanse the skin, a mask to rehydrate, hot and cold towels and a soothing massage – “the closest of shaves!”; and for women, the Rose Renew Facial, a “truly feminine experience” during which the pampering begins by lying on a bed of fresh Moroccan rose petals.

Named after the Berber word for a traditional free-standing charcoal burning brazier of sunbaked clay, the Kanoun restaurant offers a fireside bar for pre-dinner drinks, a stunning

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dining area for lunches and dinners, a range of local and international cuisine and a selection of international and Moroccan wines; while guests (as well as casual lunch visitors, on request) can also choose to dine al fresco next to the infinity pool, on the rooftop terrace under the stars – or, for something even more romantic, “somewhere private just for two”.

Cookery classes are also held in the afternoon, during which guests can learn to prepare traditional Moroccan and Berber dishes, using centuries-old methods, while tasting selected wines.

Many guests will be perfectly happy to limit their stay to the Kasbah itself, especially those on honeymoon, but the retreat also offers a wide and varied range of other activities. These include trips by private car, with an English-speaking driver, to Marrakech; or even a visit accompanied by fashion designer and personal shopper Laetitia, who knows all the top showrooms with latest Moroccan creations and designs and can also organise “Fashion Inspiration Trips”.

For the more active, there are numerous different treks in the mountains (up to as high as 4,167 metres, the Toubkal peak); mountain biking through the valleys; horse-trekking; mule riding; guided day excursions by car; golf (including the Royal Golf

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Course, owned by King Mohamed VI, and Palmerie Golf Course, designed by Robert Trent Jones); and… not surprisingly, hot air ballooning!

The “Sunshine Balloon Experience”, for example, is a romantic flight designed for two people; and on landing the couple enjoy a light breakfast with champagne before returning to Kasbah Tamadot.

As for the best time to visit Kasbah Tamadot – if you are still finalising the date for your wedding – the landscape and perspectives on local life vary depending on the season, but the climate is pleasantly moderate throughout the year: as high as 38ºC in Marrakech in summer; with an average winter daytime temperature of between 18 and 23ºC. It is usually a few degrees cooler in the mountains of Kasbah Tamadot – which can be especially welcome during summer.

That just leaves getting there… Morocco is served by direct flights from Spain (including Málaga), the UK and other major European hubs; with flight times to Marrakech of between three and four hours.

Luxury car transfers from the airport – approximately 45 minutes drive south to Kasbah Tamadot – and other points in the city can be arranged.

So all is taken care of to ensure a cherished honeymoon, steeped in exotic and tranquil luxury.

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AROUND THE WORLD The Virgin Limited Edition collection of retreats includes Necker Island in the British Virgin Islands; Ulusaba Private Game Reserve in South Africa; Sa Terra Rotja in Mallorca; The Roof Gardens and Babylon Restaurant in London; and The Lodge in Verbier (Switzerland). virginlimitededition.com

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Kasbah Tamadot has a special year-round offer for honeymooners: four nights’ accommodation, daily breakfast, one private dinner for two in one of the retreat’s romantic locations, and three dinners (a three-course meal from the a la carte men, including a bottle of house wine). Also included is a complimentary “spaceavailable” upgrade on checkin, a bottle of house champagne on arrival, a traditional Hammam spa treatment each and private return road transfers from and back to Marrakech. Rates start from €2,130. kasbahtamadot.virgin.com

VIRGIN UNITE MAROC Spearheaded by Richard Branson’s mother, and coming under the auspices of Kasbah Tamadot and Virgin Unite (Virgin Group’s entrepreneurial foundation), the Eve Branson Foundation aims to help local people in the long term by setting up sustainable enterprises. So far these include a carpet workshop and a craft house run and managed by locals. They have set up “Angel Spa Packages” in aid of the charity, where 15 per cent of the money from treatments sold helps raise funds for this worthy cause.

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The Diary Of A Male Wedding Planner

‘‘I do… but sometimes I don’t!’’

Where is it? Where the hell is it? I am on my knees in a Marbella church square, frantically looking under cars for that Willie Wonka Gold Ticket, aka “My Spanish Traffic Permit”. It’s 10 minutes before the wedding ceremony and the policeman is striding towards me with nostrils flaring!

His attention has not missed the three unauthorised Mercedes parked in “his” square. I have permission but I can’t find the permit.

He babbles as much Spanish at me as one can in an eight-second period. This guy is not taking prisoners.

These cars are being moved – pronto! I can understand some words like “car” and other minor swear words picked up living here for three years.

Then, like a heaven-sent angel at night, I spot my permit floating near his motorbike. At this moment a homeless man appears out of nowhere and offers to help if I give him €20. I explain my problem to the dubious Danish tramp and listen to him talk to the policeman in perfect English, just adding the letter “o” onto every word to sound Spanish. The policeman, in near perfect English, turns to me and says, “Well, if you have a permit you have no problem.”

Is this a set up? Is it something the homeless man does with this policeman all the time? Do they split the profits?

My wife, Chief Superintendant, Head Honcho, Planner Supreme, arrives like Greta Garbo with large dark glasses across her eyes; she has been inside the church all this time. She takes one look at my attire and tuts, “You could have at least put on a clean suit for the wedding today.”

My first effort at trying to explain is met with her “typical men” mutterings!

As a planner you try to prepare for every eventuality but one thing you can never predict is the scary way God lands you in certain situations. Last year we did a wedding in the Old Town and the night before the wedding the groom – with a few drinks in him – told the bride’s dad what he thought of him.

Fast-forward to church time and none of the 85 guests are present. Then the groom gives me and my wife the ultimate question: will you be our witnesses? “Sure,” says

my wife. I turn to her and give her that famous Father Dougal stare from Father Ted… a look of sheer terror that comes over us when faced with the impossible.

“Eh Sue, one teeny weeny problem here.”

“What?”

“I’m Jewish!”

“You’ll be fine,” she says.

Anyway we all go into the church, the ceremony is in full flow, and it is time for communion. The priest goes along the line and finally asks me: do I want communion? I can feel my wife’s eyes going through me like laser beams; her foot is now bench-pressing my toe, urgently telling me to get on with it.

I will not crack. I have the good rabbi on one shoulder begging me to stay on side; while on the other, Satan is screaming at me to accept this offering. Like Dermott O’Leary with The X-Factor results, I have my small audience held captive, waiting. I look at the priest with a Clint Eastwood “go on punk, make my day” sort of look and shout: “NEVER!” The bride and groom’s jaws just drop. The priest is, to say the least, slightly thrown. My wife mutters under her breath, “Typical man.”

It is like the opposite of Barack Obama’s political campaign slogan; I am Mr. “No I can’t”!

I’ve done so many weddings now that I feel I could go to Wedding Planners Anonymous (W.P.A.).

Just imagine it…

“Hi, my name is Howard and I am a wedding planner.”

Around me all these stressed out planners with foreheads like onion peels, bulging eyes, paracetemol at the ready, say, “Hello Howard.” We then swap stories and laugh together at the Bridezillas who are impossible to control. spanishdreamweddings.com

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