Confeti magazine

CONFETI SUMMER 2010

Exclusive interview with Jasper Conran Cake maker to the stars TOP TIPS from Peggy Porschen

THE VOW FACTOR

Fashion style for wedding guests DREAM HONEYMOON in St Lucia

Latest collection from Oscar de la Renta

Catering: leave it to the professionals

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hen we launched Confeti last year the main objectives were to provide a definitive and all-embracing magazine for couples planning their weddings and a welltargeted advertising platform for businesses and specialists involved in this fascinating – and flourishing – industry.

The very generous comments we have received suggest we have achieved those goals, but we have also discovered a third “role” for the magazine. Once the relevant companies and experts advertising in Confeti have been consulted, when the planning has been concluded, and the wedding and honeymoon have become cherished memories, we have found that many couples still want something else from the magazine. A special memento, or keepsake.

They have the photo album, the DVD and the gifts, but the icing on the cake, so to speak, is to have their wedding featured in a followup issue of Confeti.

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As you will see in this issue, several couples have already asked their photographers to send us images after the event to include in our new “Confeti s You” feature, and we are planning other sections for the many newlywed couples who have told us they want an even more lasting, and widely disseminated, memento of their special day. In a way, doubling as a kind of select social networking source for friends, acquaintances and distant family who were unable to make it on the day.

If you would like more information about this offer, we will be pleased to receive your call or email, or you can make the arrangements directly with your photographer. We have reached agreement with many of the top wedding photographers on the Coast to offer special discounted rates to their clients.

We are also pleased to report that our visit to the Bride of the Year Show in Dublin resulted in one very happy couple receiving a wonderful prize which has enabled them to

Photography by del Sol Photography

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set a date for their wedding on the Coast next year.

In March we were at the National Wedding Show in Birmingham and, once again, we were pleased to see how the magazine was very well received – by both couples and exhibitors. We plan to boost our presence at other fairs outside Spain over the coming months, while also consolidating our growing relationship with wedding planners around Europe.

In the meantime, our new bumper issue for summer features an exclusive interview with “The Godfather of Bridal”, Jasper Conran; a chat with cake maker to the stars Peggy Porschen; and a dream visit to the idyllic Caribbean island of St Lucia for this issue’s featured honeymoon destination.

For autumn, don’t miss our special issue on Gibraltar – where John Lennon and Yoko Ono were famously married in 1969.

Andy Clark andy@iconpublishing.es

ADVERTISING DIRECTOR Fay Jones 617 651 732 advertising@iconpublishing.es

ADVERTISING EXECUTIVE Emma Maria Landberg 617 600 167

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ASSOCIATE EDITOR Nicola McGeorge info@iconpublishing.es

FEATURES EDITOR Jessica White features@iconpublishing.es

CONTRIBUTING EDITOR Peter Leonard

CONTRIBUTORS & PHOTOGRAPHERS Giles Brown, Natasha Johnson, Hayley Newbury, Ariane Poole, Hayley Reed, Heather Sadtler, Tara Smith, Jeremy Standley, David Toms Confeti is published quarterly by: Icon Publishing S.L. CIF: B93035210 The views and opinions expressed by contributors to Confeti may not represent the views and opinions of the publishers.

Icon Publishing takes no responsibility for claims made in advertisements or advertorials in this magazine.

No part of Confeti may be reproduced or copied in any way without the prior written consent of Icon Publishing.

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CONTENTS Features, advice, tips, ideas and suggestions to help arrange THE PERFECT WEDDING IN SPAIN

11 CONFETI Loves… 47 Prepares… make-up 60 Celebrates… at top 68 Gets real… in rural splendcontemporary glamour with a touch of tradition

14 Desires… glittering jewellery as a style statement

16 Styles… haute couture, brides, bridesmaids, guests and men

40 Talks to… “The Godfather of Bridal” Jasper Conran

44 Gets to know…

Peggy Porschen and her “Cake Chic”

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by Ariane Poole, hair with Tara Smith, hot trends and catering

58 Chooses… the ideal wedding photographer

venues in Spain & Gibraltar

our in the heart of Andalucía

64 Designs… real brides 70 Asks… for valuable tips in designer gowns

66 Finds… beautiful wedding bouquets

from the experts

72 Informs… latest news from the world of weddings

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Photography by del Sol Photography

74 Remembers… special moments from your big day

78 Congratulates…

96 Warns about… honeymoon horrors

98 Declares… have you got the vow factor?

COVER IMAGE: Angelina from £2,795 sassiholford.com

Irish couple, winners of fantastic wedding prize

82 Relaxes… with pamper days at Spain’s finest spas

84 Recommends… the best professionals, specialists and services

86 Travels… to a honeymoon dream destination CONFETI

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The definitive magazine and perfect wedding guide for couples already settled on the Costa del Sol, and an excellent promotion for businesses and specialists trying to attract newly-engaged couples from other parts of Europe.

With trend-setting features on couture and jewellery, beauty tips, select venues, gift ideas and much more, Confeti provides readers with all the information and advice they need to make their special day one to remember.

And advertisers with the perfect medium to showcase their services and products.

new horizons EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY

for ambitious salespeople We need agents to sell advertising in various key areas around Andalucía – including Almeria, Ronda, Granada and Sevilla – for one of southern Spain’s fastest-growing magazines.

You should have a keen interest in the world of weddings and honeymoons, and a sound knowledge of new opportunities for business in this sector.

English is essential, and fluency in Spanish preferable.

We offer an attractive remuneration package.

Contact Andy: andy@iconpublishing.es

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DIAMONDS AT THE RIGHT PRICE Anthony’s Diamonds & Pawnbrokers (Est. 1983) Avda. Ramon y Cajal 40 – 29640 Fuengirola – Malaga Tel/Fax: 952 588 795 – Mobile: 609 529 633

email: diamonds@anthonys-diamonds.com

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Romantic Bridal Wear Make a statement with Temperley London’s Long Dragon Dress.

This is a more conventional structured dress that combines the quintessential Temperley elegance and attention to detail – Long Dragon Dress £2800; Selena Shrug £695. temperleylondon.com

Stepping Out in Style Which bride wouldn’t want to walk down the aisle in a pair of Louboutins! The Bretelle Strappy Shoe combines subtle bling and the classic pillar box red sole.

Enough to make you go weak at the knees.

Christian Louboutin – £480 Browns Bride. brownsfashion.com

Fashion at Your Fingertips

Leave an Impression “Made With Love” is where dream stationery is made. Nothing less.

The couture wedding stationery collections (featuring vintage buckles, lace, crystals and kitsch feminine florals) are like nothing you will find on the high street. madewithlovedesigns.co.uk

Minx nails are more known for their edgy designs spotted on the talons of Lady Gaga and Beyonce.

However, they also offer custom lace styles that are ideal for brides.

“Since Minx is a flexible film, we can create Minx using any design or pattern, so matching the bride’s dress, or the colour of the bridesmaids’ dresses,” says PR Janice Miller. minxnails.com

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Real flower petals in their natural colours make beautiful biodegradable confetti. We love Indian Summer, a colourful mix of scarlet red, saffron yellow and rich chocolate brown rose petals. It’s bright, bold and Bollywood... need we say more! shropshirepetals.com

Embellished Elegance Unfussy and highend glamour is more on trend for 2010. This style was created by Anna Bloomer at Errol Douglas. “I used jewellery, even brooches and necklaces, as new hair accessories, for bringing a modern twist but with a nod to classic, vintage styles.” erroldouglas.com

Oh so sweet favours ...

1. Individual cup cakes: Tel. (+34) 666 584 132; deliciouscakesandtreats.com 2. Dolly mixtures bucket: confetti.co.uk

3. Just Married Love Hearts: theweddingshop4u.co.uk

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The Devil is in the Details Philip Treacy’s hand-made hats are feats of craftsmanship and will ensure that nobody, but nobody, steals the limelight from you.

Having crowned the coifs of an eclectic menagerie of A-list celebrities over the years, including Madonna, Grace Jones and Marilyn Manson, he is guaranteed to create you a head turner for your big day. philiptreacy.co.uk

Time For Tea

A touch of India

For brides having a tea party theme The Dizzy Flee boutique has a perfect idea for wedding favours: tea-cup candles.

Each candle is set in an individual and unique tea-cup featuring a vintage or contemporary design, which can be used after the candle has burned. Prices from £7.99. thedizzyflea.co.uk

Flor Valentin designed this dazzling bouquet for Norwegian bride Liv Karin Alvheim. With a mixture of Aspidistra, bear grass, hypericum, painted hazel branches, roses and sisal, the bridal bouquet really has captured the essence of India. Owner Janne Valentin explained, “The bride showed us a picture of her wedding dress, requesting un-traditional flowers and Indiainspired.” A great way to spice up your wedding. India Bouquet: €125.

Tel. (+34) 669 06 12 34; florvalentin.es

Pandora’s Box The Pandora Jewellery range speaks for itself. These Love Pod earrings would be a simple but elegant edition to your overall bridal look. pandora.net

The Queen of Cakes Carrying on with the vintage trend, Irish patisseur Fiona Dodson has created this sumptuous wedding cake aptly named Cath. This Cath Kidston-inspired bespoke wedding cake would definitely be a talking point at any wedding.

Tel. (+34) 697 228 088; sweetthingsbyfi.com

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Birds of a Feather With Cath Kidston styling heavily influencing the wedding scene, we are loving these decorative bird cages. If your wedding is outdoors, why not try hanging birdcages with floral or greenery displays inside from the trees, a unique way to accent your special day. For more ideas contact Laura Charles at Reviva Weddings. Decorated birdcages start from €25.

Tel. (+34) 618 021 172; reviva-weddings.com

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Double Trouble The Harmony Bi-band is a double pearl headband made from Swarovski pearls and makes a great hair accessory for the bride or the bridesmaids – £54.99. ayedo.co.uk

Crystal Stems Silver tone rhodiumplated metal barrette set with super sparkly Swarovski Crystal – £85. ebuni.com

Understated Glamour This delicate Swarovski Crystal vintage style tiara comb adds the wow factor without being over the top – £29.99. crystalbridalaccessories.co.uk

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Who says jewellery has to come in the form of a necklace, bracelet or ring?

Make a style statement with the latest hair accessories.

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Sparkle Sparkle Blooming Marvellous

Aurora Tiara is one of our favourites!

This tiara features a combination of pearls, bicone Swarovski crystals and different size diamante – £84.99. olivierlaudus.co.uk

We think this Pearl Paradise hair clip would look gorgeous on the side of an oversized bun – £26. glitzysecrets.com

Diamonds and Pearls Ornate detailing on one side of this Chenni hair band gives a modern feel to a classic look – £250 approx. haloandco.com

Royal Chic Glamorous Belgravia Tiara by Swoon London, with unique antique-style Swarovski Crystal design – £195. crystalbridalaccessories.co.uk

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See the latest collections straight from the runway

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rue to his bridal style, the gowns for 2010 are ultra-feminine with divine detailing. White silks and satins dominate the collection, including a satin one-shoulder draped gown, a silk organza strapless crinoline gown and a knee-length faille strapless dress. Gowns appeal to both the contemporary and the classic bride.

Stockist: brownsfashion.com

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ringes and flowers feature strongly. The collection is inspired by two trends: one, simple lines with closefitting gowns; the other, spectacular volume. rosaclara.es

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inner of Best British Bridal Designer at the 2009 Bridal Buyers Awards, Suzanne Neville is renowned for her perfectly structured bodices and amazing fit, and she aims to create the most flattering shape for any bride. Her latest collection was largely influenced by the rich, luxurious fabrics which have been sourced from all over Europe. suzanneneville.com

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ueùo Contigo (I Dream of You) is the title of the Victorio & Lucchino 2010 bridal collection. The designer duo from Sevilla have reintroduced the mermaid line with frilly finishes, creating a decidedly romantic feel. They have placed the focus firmly on the bride’s waist; however, the highlight has to be the grandiose floral arrangements worn on the heads. victorioylucchino.com

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his collection is classically elegant but with a distinct romantic tone created by French and vintage laces.

From delicate to bold, the strap is back; and with big, romantic skirts the gowns are glamorous but have softer, more feminine looks by using silk organza and ruched chiffon.

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Sassi Holford Bridal Couture, Fulham Road, London, SW3 sassiholford.com Samantha from £3,795 COVER IMAGE: Angelina from £2,795

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Creating Beautiful Occasions Reviva Weddings are one of the top wedding, party and event stylists based in Marbella.

We offer a host of delightful details helping you create your dream day, chair covers, sashes and table linens, lantern and candle packs, venue dĂŠcor, creative flowers, plus fabulous wedding and party accessories.

Reviva Weddings have teamed up with Earthscent Florists to open the first wedding and party design studio in Marbella.

Stocking many unique and stylish accessories, fabulous gifts, favour ideas, sky and water lanterns, wedding stationery, cakes, cake toppers, confetti cones and fans.

Feel free to pop in and see us, we are conveniently located in Elviria with easy parking at the Centro Comercial Los Pinares de Elviria.

Appointments are recommended please call Laura on 951 271 220 or 618 021 172 www.reviva-weddings.com or visit our popular blog www.theweddingdecorator.blogspot.com

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Elegant and Ethereal Marchesa is an A-list designer favourite for the red carpet – Sandra Bullock even picked up her 2010 Oscar in one. When they started designing show-stopping bridal gowns we couldn’t contain our excitement. Our favourite for this season is this pleated, satinfaced organza strapless dress. Modern and stylish is the bride who chooses Marchesa.

Stockist: brownsfashion.com ($6,820)

Watch this trend: Metallic accessories were hot on ready-to-wear runways this year, and that look has trickled down to bridesmaid fashion as well.

Romancing the Stone Could this ring be any more fabulous! Bring out your inner magpie and make a statement with this oversized gem. hirshlondon.com

Hot and in Stock Ladies, La Perla have launched their new bridal collection! Stampede alert. The garments are designed to be invisible under the bridal wear without compromising on that touch of hyper-femininity. Now you can look as beautiful out of your dress as in it. laperla.com

Drop Dead Gorgeous Accessories that will suit all your grown-up bridesmaids are quite hard to come by. However, there will be no complaints once you give them these EB by Erickson Beamon beaded chandelier earrings. debenhams.com (€15.50)

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The Perfect Fit Maria Grachvogel is like a breath of fresh air. She believes that great design combines art and functionality, and her mission is to design for all women. Real women! This satin number would make your bridesmaids wonder what they had done to deserve such a stunning gown. mariagrachvogel.com

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Our fashion team’s pick of what’s hot for brides and their maids Baby-licious If your flower girl is under 18 months, how about this charming ivory baby bridesmaid dress that has delicate fabric flowers at the waist and charming puff sleeves.

Ellie ivory baby dress from £30; bhs.co.uk

Top Three Designer Bridal Shoes

1. Bow-embellished satin pumps: €720 Fendi net-a-porter.com

2. Verity, Ivory Satin: Arm Candy Whether it’s for the lady herself or her bridesmaids, this gorgeous clutch is stylish without breaking the bank.

Babylon Bow Clutch €42; accessorize.co.uk

£360 rupertsanderson.com

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Quinta mirroredleather sandals: €575, Jimmy Choo net-a-porter.com

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A splash of Colour Give an outfit an instant lift with this fun aquamarine Thomas Sabo cocktail ring – £259. thomassabo.com

Sign of the Zodiac Embellished with blue and aqua faceted Peruvian chalcedony stones, Monica Vinader's 18-carat gold-plated necklace is a beautifully bohemian accessory. Monica Vinader – €343.65. net-a-porter.com

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The Return of Elegance

Our associate editor Nicola McGeorge is a big fan of hats at a wedding and in fact will use any excuse to wear one. “You can’t go wrong with a Philip Treacy,” she recommends. “Wear this contemporary design to perfectly complement a sheath or cocktail dress.” – £840. philiptreacy.co.uk

This figure- flattering coral dress from Bruce Oldfield is exquisite. Team with nude accessories to keep it looking fresh. From £1,700. bruceoldfield.com

Dress to Impress Exude effortless elegance in Halston's sensational violet strapless silk-chiffon gown with ruffled tiers.

Pair this delicate runway style with silver sandals and a luxe clutch.

Halston – €3,595. net-a-porter.com

Delicious ice-cream shades in sheer and floaty fabrics give glamour to girlish looks. Lighter colours such as pretty pinks, baby blues, pale purple, nudes and greys will make your wedding guest outfit bang on trend. Go ahead and refresh your wardrobe with these pretty, subtle hues.

Beyond Retro If you’re going for an old school Hollywood glam look, try this Teal Aloha Peacock Pillbox from Accessorize. Worn at the centre or at the back of the head, they work well with fitted sheath dresses and suits – €41. accessorize.co.uk

Full Bloom From ditsy and pretty prints a la vintage-style tea roses to those loud and splashy such as bright abstract poppies, floral fashions are a firm favourite for the new season. This gorgeous tea dress from M&S hits the nail on the head – €60.00. marksandspencer.com

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Feeling Blue The favourite of SATC’s Carrie Bradshaw, Manolos are legendary, recognised everywhere and fashion statements in themselves. We are drooling over this pastel perfect pair; the only problem is that no one will be looking at the bride if you turn up in these. manoloblahnik.com

Elegant and chic beachside wedding location We can cater for large or more intimate smaller parties

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This collection captures a sense of optimism, freedom and fun.

Clear, clean colours deliver eye-catching shirts.

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Asteroid plain classic shirt in lilac Trek Vertical tie in purple/white Bond leather belt in black Thomas Pink flannel trousers in grey Peggy stripe vest in black/white Edison check Slimfit shirt in lilac/white Orchid plain tie in lilac Savile leather belt in black Thomas Pink flannel trousers in black

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Radloff stripe shirt in blue/pink Regent Belt Thomas Pink jeans

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Stein stripe Slimfit extreme cutaway collar shirt in purple/white Mougins Dots tie in pink/navy Savile leather belt in black Thomas Pink flannel in black

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Pretty In Pink

The menswear collection defines Jasper Conran’s signature with its sartorial elegance and modern cut.

Each suit is silk lined with a choice of unique colours, patterns and textures which Jasper Conran has developed with one of England’s finest silk mills. jasperconran.com

Ensure that he complements your pink theme with this grey sharkskin suit and waistcoat, pink and blue stripe shirt, white handkerchief, cufflinks and pink paisley tie. moss.co.uk

Black Magic Who says it has to be all about the bride.

Let him show his fashion credentials with these black patent leather loafers from Tods, New Gommini (€285). tods.com

Lord of the Ring If your soon-to-be hubby is not one for wearing rings, don‘t despair. Follow Jordan Bratman’s lead (Christina Aguilera’s husband). He commissioned Stephen Webster to create a piece of jewellery that included his ring. The result was this wedlock pendant; the ring fits into the pendant. Wow! stephenwebster.com

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1. Autograph by Simon Carter black gem cufflinks: £19.50 at M&S

A Close Shave This delightful contemporary set is a great choice and is especially popular with more modern wet shavers. Fitted with the Gillette Mach3 blade system the razor will give a close and safe shave (£92.95). fabstuff.net

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Personalised platinum cufflinks by Dominic Walmsley, £2,000 Knot cuff links in 18-carat gold, Tiffany & Co.

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PEGGY PORSCHEN When Elton John, Gwyneth Paltrow or Madonna throw parties, they have Peggy Porschen on speed dial. Her cakes are so beautiful that it’s almost sacrilege to cut into them.

“Ever year I like to create a new flavour. This year it is a caramel cake: simple vanilla sponge, brandy syrup and caramel butter cream. This is my favourite flavour at the moment.”

Oscar de la Renta wedding dress. It is decorated with intricately hand-crafted sugar lace embroidery, topped with a fabulous cluster of sugar-crafted roses and stephanotis.”

“I had the honour of making Stella McCartney’s wedding cake.

Being a top fashion designer, it was a real privilege to be asked to design it. We travelled to Scotland for the wedding. The emphasis was on organic products for the cake, while the theme was very romantic and floral.”

“The secret to my cakes is that I only source the finest ingredients available and always freshly bake to order. Using traditional baking techniques I create deliciously moist cakes filled with luscious layers of home-made butter creams, luxury jams and preserves, and the finest Belgian chocolates.”

“My most popular cakes are the Rose Explosion, which is adorned with an abundance of sugar-crafted white Avalanche roses and wind-blown petals, and also The Couture Lace cake. This was inspired by an

Cake Chic by Peggy Porschen is out now.

Master classes – Peggy has designed a selection of technique as well as projectbased master classes intended to be a fun and informative day for amateurs and experienced cake decorators alike. peggyporschen.com

“My favourite cake changes all the time, but I still love my own wedding cake. Topped with opulent white sugar roses and a chic white satin bow, the icing was embellished with the most exquisite hand-piped butterfly, scroll and blossom design. For our wedding stationery we chose a stunning laser-cut design by Chatula which inspired the look of the cake.

I always thought I would go for colour as I love it, but in the end I went for the traditional ivory and white.”

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THE MAKE-UP essentials for Every Bride Celebrity make-up artist Ariane Poole, whose clients have included everyone from Penelope Cruz to Uma Thurman, shares her best tried-and-tested tips for brides. our make-up doesn’t need to be heavier than usual for the photos.

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Foundation: G Primer is a must. The right primer will keep your make-up on longer, your face shine-free and even diminish the appearance of fine lines and large pores.

G Even if you don’t wear a foundation it’s a good idea to use a lightweight one to even out your complexion; photos and videos tend to show every little thing. The Mineral Tint Foundation is lightweight and feels like a second skin.

G Don’t be tempted to apply a darker foundation to get a healthy glow – it will look awful. Opt for an all-over false tan instead.

Concealer: G The Concealer Palette is a must for dark circles or blemishes.

Apply after foundation or tinted moisturiser for the best results.

Powder: G In photos too much shine looks sweaty; even if you want a dewy look keep your t-zone mat. Simply sweep a little Universal Yellow Powder over your t-zone.

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G Waterproof mascara is a must – G Try a no matter what! scented body G Curl your lashes. This will lotion mixed with instantly open up yours eyes either the and make them appear larger.

Shimmer Tint in G Apply an eye base like Bronze or the Skin the Crystal Taupe Eye Shine Illuminator in to keep eye shadow Champagne to give looking perfect. your body a stunning G Eyes need definition so run Gel red carpet sheen.

Liner in the shade you love along the base of the top lashes and half way along the base of the lower lashes.

Cheeks: G Try a cream or cream to powder blusher for a healthy flush of colour. Velvet Blush in Whisper or Sunset will do just that.

G For a long-lasting effect try layering a cream and a powder blusher in the same colour.

Lips: G Apply a lip base first to keep lipstick or gloss on longer and to help prevent feathering. Use the Natural Lip Pencil and any of the Lip Shines. Or fill lips in with the liner end of the Lip & Liner Duo then add colour from the other end of the duo for long-lasting lushes lips.

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Gibraltar Weddings Why Choose the O'Callaghan Eliott?

1. Photo Perfect Moments: breath taking panoramic views of North Africa and the Straits of Gibraltar 2. Variety of Dining Rooms: For intimate events or large parties 3. Wedding Licence: the hotel can host full wedding ceremonies 4. Complimentary Bridal Suite: for added luxury 5. Menu Tasting: compliments of the Head Chef 6. Rooftop Pool: An ideal spot to unwind from the preparations 7. Weddings as Individual as You!: organised by our dedicated wedding co-ordinator.

Why not add your name to celebrities who have married in Gibraltar; including John Lennon, Sean Connery and Frederick Forsythe Call Your Dedicated Wedding Co-Ordinator T: +350 20070500 E: joseph.andrades@ocallaghanhotels.com Website: www.ocallaghanhotels.com

Dublin Weddings Intimate Luxury: Perfect for couples seeking an intimate and contemporary Dublin wedding venue.

U.S.A Weddings An Irish Welcome: Perfect for couples seeking a big Irish welcome and an unforgettable experience for all your guests.

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For bobs it is really important to make sure that the cut is right for your face shape. Right now it’s really on trend to have a slight wave in the bob like we have seen on Dannii Minogue’s. If you don’t have a natural curl in your hair try curling sections with tongs or carmen rollers – visit your stylist for tips. If you do have natural wave use a diffuser on the hair to bring this out, and make sure you use a good serum. Other styling products you should use will thoroughlygorgeous.com depend on your hair type.

For pixie cuts make sure you keep it in good shape and have good styling products (texturising pastes, etc. – talk to your stylist about what’s best for your hair type). Do not be afraid of the pixie cut – there is so much you can do with it and it’s so easy to style.

If you feel like a change back to long hair there is also the option glosser to keep hair looking of hair extensions. Great Lengths healthy and rich, especially in the hair extensions are fab. winter months.

For long layers make sure you For all of these looks the most keep the ends trimmed and in important factor is that hair is kept good condition. Also you can try healthy and in good condition. half-up, half-down, or take heed Have a deep conditioning of Courtney Cox and Demi treatment ritual once a week using Moore’s natural wave (try products that do not contain tonging sections of the hair then chemicals for optimum shine. rake hands through).

Celebrity hairdresser of the year Tara Smith has worked with Hollywood heavyweights such as Demi Moore, Kevin Spacey, Neve Campbell and Anna Friel… often get asked about what sort of hairstyles suit women in their over forties, but these days forty is just so young!

However, there are a few things to keep in mind for tip-top hair that won’t betray your age. This applies to older brides, matrons of honour and, of course, the mother of the bride.

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I always think, unless you are making a statement with your colour (platinum blonde with dark roots), beware of your re-growth coming through. I would recommend using vegetable colour to cover up re-growth as it is less dramatic than a tint, and also visit an expert colour technician. I suggest having a

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“I hate smiling in photos as I do not like my teeth.

I am getting married in a month. Help!”

Georgia May, 31, Gibraltar.

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(breast) muscle or on top of it; the incision to introduce the implant can be made below the nipple, in the breast fold or under the armpit.

The operation itself takes between one and one and a half hours, depending on the technique, and can be performed under twilight sedation combined with local anaesthesia or general anaesthesia. The patient will normally spend one night as inpatient and be discharged the next day. You will notice discomfort and muscle ache-like recent study by Brides Magazine showed pain during the first three days, that at-least one third of would-be brides but from then on the recovery is get some type of cosmetic tweaking before quick and straightforward.

You should give yourself three they marry. Whether you are just wanting a to four weeks before the wedding to feel totally at ease with your whiter smile or a major overhaul, our experts new breasts; at this point after the are here to help. operation the swelling has augmentation procedure consists subsided and the shape of the "I am getting married and of the implantation of either breasts are almost perfect.

I want to wear a strapless silicone-gel or saline-solution Ocean Clinic wedding gown. I am filled implants underneath the Tel. (+34) 951 775 518 completely flat-chested and existing breast. Through those oceanclinic.net have wanted to have breast implants we achieve a threeaugmentation for a long dimensional breast augwhile now. To look my best mentation, which can be tailored on my wedding day and to be able to wear the dress of to almost every patient’s need thanks to the extensive range of my dreams I would like to implant styles, profiles and have this done before the volumes available today. wedding. Could you tell me The silicone implants used by a bit more about the Dr. Kaye at Ocean Clinic Marbella consultation and the provide a 15-year manufacturer’s procedure itself. Also how guarantee and are available in long before the wedding round, shaped, anatomic and should I have this done and how long after the operation high-profile styles.

During the first consultation, should I wait to have the last wedding dress fitting?"

Dr. Kaye will assess your Katie Johnson, 28, individual case and your exMarbella pectations to make the decision for the right implant together with Breast augmentation or breast you in an extensive consultation enlargement is performed to where you will have the chance to enhance the appearance, size “try on” different styles and sizes. and contour of a woman’s The placement of the implant can breasts. The breast either be under the pectoralis

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On the day you get married your face is going to be looked at, photographed and held as never before, and your blushing bride smile will be seen by everybody.

If you are self-conscious about your teeth, have you thought about teeth whitening. It may not sound that drastic but bleaching your teeth can whiten them by three to nine shades.

The Dentists, in Sotogrande, are members of the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry.

They use the opalescence whitening system as they believe the effects are longer lasting than laser whitening.

A member of the team will make an impression of your teeth to enable them to manufacture a customised, light and practical tray. For the best results use the gel and tray overnight for 14 days. The results? Let’s just say that your smile will light up the room on your big day.

The Dentists Tel. (+34) 956 795 273 thedentists.info

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Top10 Hot Trends for Weddings in 2010 Paloma’s Nest – all available through homewareboutique.com

1. Personalised pieces

2. Table decoration

We were so excited to discover such a novel and fresh idea as the heirlooms and favours available from Paloma’s Nest.

Every piece is individually made with care, pride and passion, using only the highest quality materials. By adding names, dates and customer inscriptions to the piece, it is ensured your ring bearer bowl or other modern heirloom will be cherished for years and even generations to come.

Romance is back in table dressings. This new collection called Paradise from Weissfee (Germany) is a contemporary twist on the doily. The runners are partially open, meaning a contrasting tablecloth can be placed underneath to create a stronger or more subtle look. The gold version looks stunning with black underneath and, if you want a softer look, we suggest a pebble beige or lilac under the white version.

Weissfee, Germany, weissfee.com – all available through homewareboutique.com

3. Sexy, slender centrepieces

Table dressings by Event Sensations – event-sensation.co.uk

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Less is more with the flower arrangements. Try adding height to the centre of the tables with the flowers. This leaves you more space around the table and will have more of an impact as your guests enter the room. You can use a single colour in the flowers and a colourful vase.

Simple and graceful!

4. Creating the ambience Weddings usually carry on into the early hours of the morning and the nighttime ambience is as important as the daytime atmosphere. We love the collections by Think Gadget for price and quality – this company has a range of stunning chain lights in orchids, moonlights, crystals and pearls perfect to decorate and illuminate. They have an exterior range too with floating lilies for the ponds, pools and even as centre table pieces in oversized glass bowls.

The perfect way to help softly light the evening festivities.

Think Gadget lighting solutions – all available through homewareboutique.com

5. Cakes The choices with your wedding cake now are endless. If you are heading towards the traditional three-tier arrangement, check out weddingcakesspain.com – they will tailor make your cake in the colours of your wedding and even coordinate the décor with your flower arrangements.

If you want something a little more casual how about going for the individual cupcake option from deliciouscakesandtreats.com which can be just as gorgeous and are becoming more and more popular.

7. All eyes on the bride Colourful cupcakes by deliciouscakesandtreats.com

With it being the bride's special day all eyes should be on her, with this year’s make-up trends favouring the unique and bold look. Reflections Hair & Beauty Salon points out how striking the bride's eyes should be. Heavy shading and even the use of skin crystals helps complete a jaw-dropping look.

6. The indulgent wedding favour It is always hard to find the perfect inexpensive wedding favour for both men and women. La Moraga Sweet in Puerto Banús have a gorgeous array of chocolates and bonbons that they can individually package for an ideal favour your guests can take home. They can also work with you to provide an alternative dessert.

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8. Mess the dress!

So you spend all this money on a gown you only wear once and then shove at the back of the wardrobe to be eaten by the moths. Many photographers are now offering a great alternative. A mess the dress photo session allows you to get all dressed up and have fun by yourself or with your partner. The concept allows you to have a secondary set of wedding photos with a more relaxed, romantic feel.

9. Wedding lists with a twist

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A wedding list is the perfect way to avoid having to return three of the same toasters a week after the wedding.

Companies like Homeware Boutique enable you to create an online wedding list along with pictures and descriptions of the items available for your guests to buy, and they can be delivered to any address in Europe on a date stipulated by you. They also allow you to add additional gifts that may not be offered on their website such as a long weekend away or a skydive for two.

Sevilla… right in the centre of this amazing city you will find the EME Catedral Hotel. The name already gives you a hint: it’s in front of the famous Catedral de Sevilla and impresses with its stunning view from the roof terrace – emecatedralhotel.com

10. Honeymoons near home With budgets being the operative word in 2010 and not everybody wanting to start their new life together overdrawn, honeymoons nearer home may appeal. There are some stunning Spanish destinations that suit all tastes and pockets.

From hideaways in Córdoba to the cultural saturation of Sevilla, your paradise doesn't have to be far away. We have listed some of our top “round the corner” locations…

Granada… after discovering the Alhambra try a stay in the stunning small boutique Villa Oniria, right in the heart of the old town – villaoniria.com

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Tarifa… for a laidback, stress-free beachside getaway, the Tres Mares Hotel couldn’t be more perfect – tresmareshotel.com

Córdoba… Palacio del Bailio – hospes.com

Tel. 902 118 307 Mobile. 662 192 080 www.lush-event.com www.theweddinglist.es www.homewareboutique.com

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You have a theme, a favorite character, hobby or color?

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From 2 to 400 persons, your imagination is the only limit.

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CREATING THE PERFECT DAY Essential Oils and Your Wedding

It will be a day like no other. Your wedding day will send you on the most sensational, emotional roller coaster ride you can possibly imagine. It will be your day – the fulfilment of a dream to find the perfect soul mate, an opportunity to be at the forefront of everyone’s thoughts and best wishes, the culmination of countless hours of planning and the beginning of a new life.

You’ll find yourself moving through the full gamut of emotions. Excitement and lightheartedness will be punctuated by nervousness and even some anxiety as you watch everything fall into place.

As you move through the preparations, ceremony and reception into your first night as man and wife, you’ll bask in the glow of your golden day, simultaneously relieved and thrilled.

And you can improve the whole amazing experience by making essential oils a part of your wedding day.

Essential oils can add another layer of meaning and beauty to the magical occasion with their stirring, pleasant aromas. Nothing creates a mood or plucks at the heartstrings quite like the unforgettable scents of essential oils delivered through a diffuser.

You can create the perfect scene at the church, during the reception and, of course, during your wedding night with essential oils.

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Masterfully constructed blends like Rose, Peace and Calming, Joy, and Harmony will do more than please the senses – they’ll intensify feelings to create unforgettable moments and memories.

An easy-to-use diffuser will atomise the essential oil blends of your choice, allowing the wonderful scents to work their magic. These small devices will make it possible for you to enjoy essential oils throughout your wedding day.

Aromatherapy with essential oils can centre you on the sentiments that should be the centrepiece of your wedding day. They’ll help you to shed nervousness and anxiety,

styling and special hand and foot techniques incorporated into the manicures and pedicures, to soften and revitalise the skin.

Then select your very own special blend of oils to relieve the tension and stress; you will not smell like a princess but float allowing you to revel in the through the day. excitement and romance of the day.

You’ve always known your wedding Essential oils also make a was meant to be perfect. Essential spectacular gift for bridesmaids. oils will minimise the distractions and A collection of the same oils used anxieties of the day while during your wedding day is a accentuating the positive, loving fabulous way to share the memory emotions that should be at the very of the occasion and its beauty with heart of your special day. I would love those who matter most to you. the opportunity to talk further.

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Leilani and Eric The couple worked with Reviva Weddings to create their perfect wedding in a private villa in Mijas. Releasing sky lanterns into the night was one of many highlights.

Photo by jeremystandley.com

Sofie Rosengren and Nathan Fish Sofie and Nathan were married at Bono's Beach, Marbella. Family and friends flew in from around the world to celebrate their special day. The beautiful beach wedding was made perfect by an amazing sunset.

Photo by jenniferjane.com

Samia Mohamdi and Marc Muller This well-known, popular local couple chose the beautiful Finca La Concepción for their wedding.

Photo by thoroughlygorgeous.com

Marion O’Malley and her bridesmaids Bride Marion with her bridesmaids on a beautiful sunny day in May at Guadalmina.

Wedding planners Fiestasol made sure everything ran smoothly.

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Jayne Crabbe and Bryan Murphy Jayne and Bryan were married in the Nerja church and their celebrations continued in Casa de los Bates. Jayne and Bryan flew in from Australia and were accompanied by friends and family from Ireland, the UK and Australia.

Photo by alexolsonphotography.com

Haifa Kayali and John Jordan Haifa and John celebrated their wedding at Los Monteros Beach Club with a cream and black theme for all flowers and accessories.

They finished off their magical evening with a rumba band from South America.

Photo by maxine4flowers.com

Martine O’Neill and Glen Mulholland Newlywed Irish couple Glen and Martine – wind-swept on the Balcon De Europa, Nerja Photo by yourweddingmoments.com

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Top Wedding Venues in Spain and Gibraltar Photography David Toms

Nikki Beach Still at the cutting edge for the international jet-set, Nikki Beach is the place to be seen in Marbella, not to mention its sister venues in Miami, St Tropez, Marrakech and Koh Samui.

Situated at the Don Carlos hotel beach, its sea views and seriously stylish dĂŠcor gives this venue a feel of real luxury and white modern sophistication.

A favourite with celebrities, models and socialites, this is a slick venue that will raise your wedding to an elite status and impress your friends. There is a dedicated events team on site who will guide you through all aspects of planning and menu choices. They can also recommend florists, DJs, etc., if you decide not to work with a wedding planner.

Depending on the size of your group, you can either hire the entire venue or use one of their private upper terraces for your ceremony or reception.

The beach club also benefits from its proximity to the hotel Don Carlos, who will provide rooms at a discounted rate for guests so that they can crawl into bed at the end of a very long night.

Tel. (+34) 952 836 239 Reservations: Marbella@nikkibeach.com Nikkibeach.com Heather Sadtler fiestasol.com

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Mons Calpe Suite Gibraltar This wedding venue is the ultimate “room with a view�. Perched 412 metres up right at the peak of the rock of Gibraltar, this newly refurbished function suite gives the breathtaking sensation of being on top of the world.

Through its floor-to-ceiling glass sides you can take in two continents at once, with Africa and the Rif mountains across the Straits of Gibraltar through the pillars of Hercules on one side, and the blue waters of the Mediterranean on the other. It truly is the meeting place of two worlds.

The venue is one of the few locations in Gibraltar outside of the registry office that has a licence to hold civil ceremonies, which is something still unobtainable in Spain if you are not a resident. You can still benefit from the sunshine as one of the terraces has its own retractable roof. The venue also has its own events team that can arrange flowers, live bands and DJs, and an on-site chef who specialises in gala menus.

The Mons Calpe truly is unique in its setting but remember: if any of your guests suffer from vertigo, they may need a wedding cocktail or two before the party even starts!

Tel. (+350) 200 79478 events@monscalpesuite.com monscalpesuite.com

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LEAVE IT TO THE PROFESSIONALS Top tips on how to choose the perfect wedding caterer The average couple spend between 70 and 80 per cent of their total wedding budget on catering, making it a hugely significant element in the planning process. With the rise in popularity of private venues on the Coast, outside catering is a booming business but one that can go very wrong if left in the wrong hands.

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n the one hand, holding your wedding in a hotel or restaurant makes the catering side of things relatively easy as everything is taken care of but, on the other hand, menus tend to be a great deal more inflexible and of course more expensive due to heavy mark-ups on alcohol, with free bar costs often pushing wedding budgets to their limit.

When choosing your catering company, the main deciding factor should be – will using this service make life harder than just going to a hotel? Look out for hidden costs and extra work involved with smaller companies that don’t stock their own tables, chairs, linens and other equipment or arrange cleaning. Other important factors to look out for are whether they offer a complimentary tasting, include waiter service and will allow you to bring your own alcohol in.

When making initial contact with caterers, the main things they will want to know will be what kind of menu you are looking for – buffet, sit down, barbecue, etc? Most will offer a selection of menus for you to browse and they should be able to send you photos of events they have previously catered. This is important, as the visual aspect is vital and having no pictures to show is an indication of disorganisation and lack of experience or professionalism.

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restaurant or chef that they are familiar with in the area and invite them to cater their wedding. This can be problematic – as they need to be experienced in the area of outside catering, which requires an entirely different set of skills to a restaurant scenario.

Don’t always look for the cheapest option, as experience, hygiene and customer service always comes at a price and are worth it in the long run. Always make sure that someone from the company is willing to come to visit the venue beforehand if they are not already familiar with it, as you don’t want any problems with ovens, electricity or space on the day. They should be clear as to when they need final numbers by and what their payment terms are.

Several different styles of catering companies are in operation on the Costa del Sol. There are the long-established and well-known Spanish businesses that have been around for years. You can benefit from their solidity and experience though there may be discrepancies in style of food as they cater more to the well-heeled traditional Spanish crowd. Wedding cakes for instance are a whole different ball game, involving very sweet and creamy pastries, and most will be unfamiliar with the more traditional English sugar paste icing and tiered styles.

Then there are the smaller companies, often involving just one chef who might

specialise in areas such as villa and yacht catering as well as small wedding groups.

These companies can often offer a more personalised service but would usually have to hire in all equipment, which can sometimes complicate matters.

There are also a few establishments which are designed to cater for the younger more International crowd and have specific experience in weddings, small and large. They offer a one-stop shop for not only the food but all the tables, chairs, linens, gazebos, red carpet, lighting, sound system, etc., and really do excel at making the whole process as pain-free as possible.

In the south of Spain, we benefit from a range of stunning local and organic ingredients, and the best caterers will take full advantage of the resources that are available to them. The best wedding food is simple – excellently sourced ingredients that are beautifully presented. Overly fussy menus don’t tend to appeal to everyone and classic choices are usually the best.

Presentation is, of course, one of the most important elements and is the area that raises a normal buffet or sit down meal to the level that befits an occasion as special and exclusive as a wedding. It is one of the things you hope that your guests will talk about and remember for a long time afterwards and any catering company should take this extremely

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seriously and provide examples of their previous work.

Always try to get personal references as this decision will be one that stays with you for a long time, as well as asking other local wedding suppliers such as photographers, florists and DJs to give you some recommendations. If you have a wedding planner, ask their advice; and there is nothing stopping you from contacting various caterers for a tasting.

As the client, you are the one who is calling the shots so go with your instinct and trust that you will make the best decision on the day.

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Weddings in Marbella FiestaSol Weddings & Catering is the Costa's premier wedding planner for your special day anywhere in Puerto Banus, Marbella, Mijas or the Costa del Sol. Weddings in Spain can be difficult to organise, but with FiestaSol's expertise in all matters of paperwork, legalities, venues, churches, priests and suppliers, we can take over the hard work and let you enjoy yourself! Our catering services are second to none, and we provide reasonable and modern menus to cover barbecues, weddings, private dinners, canapes, finger food, vegetarian, buffets and corporate functions.

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Rustic& Bohemian Style

A large sign on the wall of the Flor Valentin garden centre quotes renowned Danish author and poet Hans Christian Andersen: “Just living is not enough… one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.”

It is easy to understand why Janne Valentin Lassen chose the quote. In the first place, she is also originally from Andersen’s birthplace, Odense; and second, she has an avid passion for

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flowers – perhaps enhanced by the fact she came into the business in a major career change.

Janne and her boyfriend Benny Hansen were on

an Interrail trip in 1992 when, during a stop off on the Costa del Sol, they visited a Norwegianowned horticultural centre in Coín which Benny, a horticulturist, had heard about back in Denmark.

The owners offered them a job, which they discussed on the train trip through Spain and southern France, and when they reached Nice they sent a “yes, we are interested” postcard to the centre.

By July 1993 they were back in Coín, ostensibly for just one year, but 17 years later they are still there – now wellestablished “locals” with two trilingual children going to international school.

Benny continues to work at the horticultural centre but three and a half years ago Janne, who had been in the clothes business back in Denmark but by then was an experienced hand in the flower business, decided to make her dream come true and open her own small garden centre.

On 24 March 2007 that dream become a reality, and six months later she was joined by a Swede who has lived in Spain for 12 years with her

Finnish husband and their two children, and who – though, like Janne, not a trained florist – shares her passion and has an exceptional eye for flowers and decoration.

Originally, they did not offer cut (or fresh) flowers at the centre but Janne had a chance meeting with two visiting Danish florists who offered to provide them with some intensive training – “like a little school” – in return for a place to stay.

“Fortunately, we had plenty of room at our home in Coin.” Now 50 per cent of their business is cut flowers.

The wedding side of the business “sort of happened”, according to Janne. “People

asked us to do bridal bouquets and I threw myself into it. It is very exciting to be a part of their special day.” Just how well she threw herself into this very specialised sphere is highlighted by the fact that Flor Valentin are now the official florists for the El Campanario Norwegian church in Calahonda.

Located in the Scandinavian commercial centre Centro Idea (on the Fuengirola-Mijas road), with ample parking space, Flor Valentin offer everything from seedlings to mature olive trees, various fruit trees and palm trees, as well as a wide variety of pots and planters, sphagnum (peat moss), fertilisers, wood shavings, fountains, interior plants, cut flowers, bouquets,

decorations (original designs, specially imported from Denmark, Germany, Holland and Sweden), candles and lanterns – plus garden and terrace designs, working with an experienced Spanish gardener.

Gift-wrapping is a special art at Flor Valentin, making the centre a perfect option for those seeking something a little different for wedding presents. “Beautiful bags, cellophane and tissue paper, as well as tasteful ribbons, make the experience extra unique when you want to give a nice present or just spoil yourself,” says Janne.

The Flor Valentin style is described as “rustic with a twist of French bohemia”, a cosy and

homely atmosphere with highly personalised service and advice.

As Janne has discovered over the past 17 years, the Costa del Sol is blessed with wonderful sunshine and the freedom to enjoy an incomparable lifestyle. All that is needed, then, is to add “a little flower” – especially on the most special day of your life – for living to truly become “enough”, in a way Hans Christian Anderson would certainly have approved.

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Rural Splendour Looking back at Emily and Jesse’s countryside wedding in the heart of Andalucía Our vision…

We always knew we wanted to get married in a rural location away from the coast, and so the moment we arrived at El Cortijo la Prensa, after a breathtaking drive through centuries’ old olive groves, we knew we had found our venue and, with it, the theme for our wedding.

We loved the fact that the building is historic, a mansion house and olive mill, and that it has been restored both luxuriously and in keeping with its past. To top that off, it was the jaw-dropping courtyard that blew us away. We could just picture our guests eating their wedding breakfast around the fountain with the smell of jasmine and lavender in the air.

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day was taking place outside in the mature grounds, I knew that most of our colour and texture would be provided naturally, so I didn’t want any strong colours for the bridesmaids’ dresses, flowers and décor. We had classic white flowers such as roses, lilies and hydrangeas, and my bouquet was made up of white and cream roses. It was also a hot September day, so we bought white Chinese parasols to shade our guests, which looked fab in the pictures.

We decided to have an accent colour, as we didn’t want the décor to be too plain. I love gold as a colour and it was in keeping with the venue, so the bridesmaids’ dresses were a light shade of gold and the flower girls wore ivory. We also used gold ribbons on our invitations, orders of service and menus, to continue the theme.

For my dress, again I wanted quite a classic, stunning but understated gown (no lace, no sparkle, no beads) and also something that would be comfortable in the heat and show off my figure modestly. I wore vintage style, cream, suede, custom-made shoes with a gold leather trim. All my accessories and jewellery were gold and matched the rest of the no-frills style.

Even our lighting was very natural and simple. No technical electric lighting, just rustic fire torches, fairy lights and floating candles in the fountain for the evening.

The icing on the cake…

What made our wedding even more special, more than we could have imagined, was the fact that we had a three-day

event in a venue exclusive to us.

The evening before the wedding, we had a beautifully lit dinner on the patio terrace, so that our guests could get acquainted – there definitely was an added sense of unity on the big day itself. And then the following day we had a pool-side barbecue, which was such a brilliant way to carry on the celebrations and the highs of the day before. The weather was also lovely, another reason why we got married in Spain, meaning that our entire three-day celebration was al fresco, taking place in a fantastic natural setting. That really did it for us.

Our treasured moment…

It has to be the ceremony. It was so personal, full of laughter and emotion, and allowed us to be married in exactly the way we wanted. We had quite a unique end to the ceremony, where our guests left before we did, so that when we arrived at our reception area we were greeted by them, and also by a storm of rose petals and rice (a Spanish tradition), which was hilarious!

Emily’s address book Photography – Alex Olson: alexolsonphotography.com; (+34) 628 077 459 Videography – JH Productions: jhproductions.info; (+34) 697 676 220 Venue – El Cortijo la Prensa: elcortijo-laprensa.com; (+34) 606 313532 Dress – Le Espose di Gio: le-spose-di-gio.it Shoes – Emmy Shoes: emmyshoes.co.uk (+44) 20 7704 0012 Humanist wedding celebrant – Natasha Johnson: malagaminister.com; (+34) 617 174 076

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“Can I hold a Jewish wedding ceremony in Marbella?”

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“We have an unusual theme for our wedding with different colours that we have chosen. We can't find anything for favours and stationery in these colours… what can I do?

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Wedding planner Hayley Newbury says: We run a bespoke service where we create favours and stationery according to your individual theme and colour choices. We create a selection of samples to send to you. For example, one bride was basing her wedding around the Spanish flag, wanting red and yellow throughout her wedding.

We created Spanish flag stationery, place names, table names, napkin ties and beautiful favours for guests.

Another bride wanted a button and bags theme so we created pretty handbag favours with feature buttons, with the stationery range and table décor to match.

We have dealt with everything from beach themes to winter wonderlands. Whatever your idea, we can incorporate it into your special day.

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edding planner Heather Sadtler says: Yes, you can hold a Jewish wedding blessing here in Marbella, but you must back it up with a civil ceremony either back home or in nearby Gibraltar. In Spain, the only officially recognised ceremonies are Catholic ones or civil ones if you are a resident.

Having said that, we arrange a large number of Jewish weddings down here and there are many fantastic options.

As there are two synagogues in the area, there are rabbis available to hold the blessing for you, though many couples bring their own rabbis over from home.

A chuppah can be set up in the

“I can’t decide on what type of cake to choose… what is the most popular choice this year?”

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area of your choice, usually in the same venue as the reception, and there is a good variety of catering companies and hotels that can provide kosher banquets. There is also a local kosher butcher if you want to source some of your own ingredients.

It is always advisable to request menu tastings for any wedding, but particularly in the case of a Jewish wedding, to make sure all dietary requirements are respected, and most reputable venues and catering companies should offer these on a complimentary basis.

Cake maker Fiona Dodson says: 2010 is incorporating many different types of trends, from eco-chic to the contemporary classic to the timeless romantic.

Brides are branching out from their comfort zones, often choosing more daring styles, experimenting with bright modern colours, or incorporating the design of their dress into the cake, rather than opting for traditional pastels.

A popular cake trend this year is one of “statement”, whether this be in a form of a cupcake tower or a five-tier cake, although some layers can be fake. Brides are also steering away from the traditional fruit cake and choosing more exotic flavours. Another trend is that of “dessert tables” where the bride and groom can offer their guests a choice of cakes, biscuits, cupcakes, etc.

What is most important is for a bride to choose a design that suits them regardless of the current trends: that is what will make their day truly unique.

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LATEST NEWS from the Coast’s wedding experts

An explosive and enchanting finale Fireworks are a truly stunning and spectacular way to send off the newlyweds, but now there is a more personal way for guests to pass on their final messages.

Sky Lanterns are a gentle and earth-friendly way of creating a memorable end to any occasion.

These beautiful paper lanterns look simply amazing when set off, particularly in larger numbers. With people writing messages on them and setting them up into the night sky, they are a beautiful end to any event: not only as a memorable send off to the bride and groom, but also for writing a message of love to a Valentine; as a magical finale to a 72

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mardi gras, party or fiesta; or a way to cherish a departed loved one, by saying your goodbyes in a peaceful and respectful manner, as has been done in Thailand and China for centuries.

On average Sky Lanterns will be in the air for about 12 minutes and reach up to a mile high.

Standing 108 centimetres tall, the Sky Lantern – once selfextinguished – floats gently to the ground and is 100 per cent biodegradable and flame retardant.

Last year, over five million Sky Lanterns were sold in the UK in the week running up to New Year’s Eve, proving that this phenomenon is catching on in Europe, as it already has in Australia, America and south-east Asia.

Fiesta Sky Lanterns Spain are the sole distributors for Sky Lanterns and Paper Candle Bags in Spain. They can be purchased online at: fiesta-sky-lanterns.com New product range for designer wedding boutique Add the finishing touch to your wedding or party by visiting the Reviva Weddings store, where they offer a wide range of fabulous decorations and accessories.

Reviva Weddings have a new truly delightful selection of vintage style decorations to help you

create your shabby chic themed wedding or party with style.

Their disposable, pretty card cake stands are perfect for scrumptious cakes. Combined with the cute teacup candles they add a quirky addition to any table decoration and can be used afterwards as a teacup, a delightful gift for any occasion.

If you are planning a glamorous

affair and want to add sparkle to your occasion, Reviva Weddings now stock divine faceted table gems; scatter them over your tables to add elegance – your guests will love them!

Appointments are required for personal consultations.

Visit reviva-weddings.com or Tel. (+34) 951 271 220 618 021 172.

Photographed in style Wedding photographer Gary Tapp has moved to a new studio in C.C Monte Biarritz, near Benahavis. A 130 square metre space is fully equipped with high quality photographic lighting equipment for everything from simple portraits, commercial, glamour and fashion shoots to pre and post wedding studio sessions and full high end post production editing facilities.

The studio is also available for hire.

The shop-front studio is split into two areas: the industrial working photography area and the modern client area for meetings, wedding Photobook/digital album design, product viewings and large scale imagery projection for client viewings.

For more information: Tel. (+34) 600 545 032 or visit yourweddingmoments.com/studio

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A dream seaside wedding Maria and Farrell Cahill’s wedding was inspired by El Oceano’s beautiful backdrop: the sea. The couple worked with Spanish wedding planner Dianna and her team at Party People to create the wedding of their dreams.

Simplicity was the key in order to accentuate the fabulous El Oceano setting. From beautiful flowers to the candlelit tables and scattered seashells… everything complimented this amazing location.

An excellent group of musicians played at the ceremony, while a wonderful Spanish guitarist was chosen for the cocktail hour, ensuring they had the perfect music match for the day – an important part of any wedding.

To top it all off photographer Jeremy Standley somehow managed to capture each and every wonderful moment on camera without them even knowing he was there!

As Maria commented later, “If we could do it all again tomorrow we would not change one thing about the whole day.”

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CONFETI IN IRELAND Fantastic wedding prize for Irish couple

From left to right: Kris McGuirk, Sue Danker, Shona from Bunches Joanne from Tamisa, Colin and Lisa.

Irish couple Colin McNabb and Lisa Devaney will be able to realise their dream wedding in Spain next year thanks to Confeti Magazine.

The happy couple

he couple entered a draw with hundreds of other hopefuls at a wedding fair in Dublin in January. Operated by Spanish Dream Weddings, a Marbella-based wedding planning agency, the draw offered a first prize valued at €5,000 which for any young couple would make their wedding so much more affordable.

The prize-winner was drawn on stage at the end of the show by Sue Danker, director of Spanish Dream Weddings, and she immediately phoned the lucky couple, who had read a flyer about the fair distributed inside a copy of Confeti Magazine which they picked up in Dublin.

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Colin said that when he received the call they had left the city and were browsing in a shop. After two years of “very bad luck” they nearly fell over with the shock of their good news and screamed down the phone in delight. The next day Colin phoned the agency to check exactly what they had won, as none of this information had registered the previous day in the midst of all their excitement.

They were told it included a free wedding planning package from Spanish Dream Weddings; a free drinks and canapés reception for 100 guests from Hotel Tamisa Golf; free wedding flowers from Bunches florist in Mijas Costa; a €1,000

photography voucher from Kris McGuirk Photography; a free chauffeur-driven Mercedes for their wedding day; and a red carpet and champagne on arrival. This entire prize made up about 50 per cent of the total cost of their wedding.

This spring, Colin and Lisa visited the Hotel Tamisa Golf to meet with the team for their wedding. They were greeted by events manager Joanne, who also gave them a complimentary night’s stay in a suite, and after viewing the wonderful outdoor area by the pool – with the backdrop of a golf course and the mountains of Mijas – the couple set their wedding date for 30 June next year.

They certainly had luck following them, as all flights had been grounded out of Dublin since the previous weekend due to the volcanic ash crisis and, for some reason, their flight was the first allowed from Dublin to Málaga – and it even landed early!

Sky Lanterns Cherishing the moment

Wedding Toastmaster

Prosperity Longevity Happiness Luck Commonly known as Chinese Lanterns, Wedding Lanterns or Sky Candles, Sky Lanterns are suitable for any occasion – christenings, birthdays, memorials and, especially, weddings.

They make any event enchanting and magical.

Their fuel cells come ready attached so all you have to do is light the fuel cell, using a normal lighter, and watch in wonder as the sky lantern floats up to the skies.

Now available in Spain, Sky Lanterns are known to carry luck and good fortune and can be seen for miles. They will certainly leave a lasting impression on your guests.

On average Sky Lanterns will be in the air for about 12 minutes and reach up to a mile high.

Percy Roland Tel. (00 34) 646 533 112 percyroland@gmail.com

Standing 108 centimetres tall, the Sky Lantern – once self-extinguished – floats gently to the ground and is 100 per cent biodegradable and flame retardant.

Sky Lanterns are perfect to celebrate that memorable event.

Fiesta Sky Lanterns (Spain) can be purchased online at:

www.fiesta-sky-lanterns.com

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The house has recently been rebuilt and refurnished – with no expense spared.

There are vast areas for relaxation. The dining room seats up to 20 guests, with a huge salon adjacent that looks out to

In one of the adjacent houses, the “entertainment centre” boasts a sauna, jacuzzi, gymnasium… the perfect setting for a special stay.

sea. The latter includes a baby grand piano and is an excellent venue for a formal reception.

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PA M P E R DAY S In this new regular feature, Confeti is going to review the finest spas in Spain.

Whether it be for your hen do, honeymoon or even to tackle pre-wedding stress, we will find something suitable for everyone.

By Belle Roberts

THE THALASSO SPA AT THE MARBELLA CLUB he team at Confeti thought my husband and I, as newlyweds, would be the perfect duo to sample the spa delights of Spain. Who were we to turn that down? Our first port of call was Marbella’s famous Thalasso Spa. Located on the beach, with the Mediterranean at its doorstep, this stunning spa blends the rich heritage of the past with the most up-to-the-minute treatments to ease away stress and beautify.

The spa occupies 800 square metres, featuring a dynamic indoor seawater pool, hammams (Turkish baths), saunas, a relaxation room overlooking the sea, and

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12 treatment rooms. With numerous treatments and programmes such as rejuvenation, weight loss and anti-stress, they really do cater for everybody’s needs.

We started off in the fresh seawater pool. The water in the 124-jet bath is warm and soothing, while the jets themselves are positioned to pummel every area of your body. I particularly enjoyed the underwater massage beds, while my other half decided to swim against the currents. I guess being in a spa he needed to prove his masculinity.

After a quick mint-infused steam, it was time for our treatment.

A couple’s massage was not actually listed on the treatment menu; however,

I was assured by the manager Magdalena that this could, of course, be arranged.

I had personally had enough of my hubby for the time being, so opted for a private Ayurveda massage. Not wanting to miss out he requested the same treatment.

This ancient holistic massage is based on Hindu philosophy, which achieves relaxation, well-being and inner harmony using different warm oils. Having heated oil dripped over your body is an experience in itself. After all the stress of my wedding, my back was in knots and rather painful. The heat eased my muscles, allowing maximum benefit from the massage. My therapist finished off by coating my hair in warm oil and steered me towards the hammam, which would allow the oil to nourish my hair.

We entered the spa, bickering and generally run down, but left relaxed, glowing and with smiles on our faces.

Now it was time to undo all the good work and pig out at the renowned Marbella Club buffet. Well what’s a girl to do?

The Marbella Club Tel. 952 822 211 marbellaclub.com

THE OCEAN SPA AT EL OCEANO HOTEL ur next review took us further up the coast to Miraflores. The El Oceano Beach Hotel is an oasis of tranquil luxury, privately owned and operated, where the guests’ comfort and satisfaction is paramount.

The Ocean Spa features an indoor heated pool, jacuzzi, swim-spa and steam room, while at the treatment centre you can

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find top beauty therapists, hairdressers and nail technicians, all of whom are qualified to provide you with a wonderful menu of luxurious treatments.

We thought we would treat our head bridesmaid, Heidi, as I had been rather a Bridezilla in the run up to the wedding. With such a vast array of treatments we found it really difficult to choose. I was very impressed with the high tech facials available: crystal clear, oxygen and the nonsurgical face lift Genie to name a few.

I decided on the Elemis Spa Therapy Advanced Anti Ageing Facial. These superior face and eye treatments include a luxurious hand, arm and scalp massage for ultimate relaxation. Heidi had the Guinot Paris Hydradermie, where pure and natural ingredients penetrate into the lower layers of your skin to flush out impurities and hydrate.

My husband went against my wishes and opted for a full body massage instead of a facial. (He is looking rather haggard at the moment; he claims he never looked like this before we got married. Humph.)

My facial was divine. Most therapists leave the room while your mask gets to work. However, Terri spent this time massaging my hands, wrapping my feet in hot towels and treating me to an Indian head massage. Heidi came out glowing and my husband came out refreshed.

After I had come round from my trance-like state of bliss we decided on sampling a few cocktails at the pool bar and treating ourselves to lunch. At El Oceano you can actually swim up to the bar, a feature that got the thumbs up from us. I actually felt like we were in

a scene from Cocktail and boy were the Pina Coladas good.

Lunch was served overlooking the ocean and the food was delicious. You must try the chocolate brownie, with a hint of orange. What can I say: a breathtaking setting, superb service and an unforgettable experience.

El Oceano Beach Hotel Restaurant and Spa Tel. 952 587 550 oceanohotel.com

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THE WEDDING BUSINESS

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DIRECTORY

Cakes

Catering

General

Cakes Couture: (+34) 693 379 397; wix.com/cakecouture/Cake-Couture-2

Cornel Catering: (+34) 952 929 120; cornelcatering.com

Homeware Boutique: (+34) 662 192 080; homewareboutique.com

Delicious Cakes and treats: (+34) 666 584 132; deliciouscakesmarbella.webs.com

FiestaSol: (+34) 952 898 746; fiestasol.com

Humanist Wedding Celebrant: malagaminister.com

Sweet things by Fi: (+34) 697 228 088; sweetthingsbyfi.com

Entertainment

Sky Lanterns: (+34) 648 859 672; fiesta-sky-lanterns.com

Tiffany & Co: tiffany.com

Pina Palma Music Productions: ppmusicproductions.com

The Dentists, Sotogrande: (+34) 956 795 273

Fashion

Toastmaster Percy Roland: (+34) 646 533 112; percyroland@gmail.com

David Toms: (+34) 690 656 120; davidtoms-weddings.com

Bravissimo: bravissimo.com

Hair & Beauty

Browns: brownsfashion.com

Bliss Hair & Beauty Salon: (+34) 951 278 137

Marks and Spencer: marksandspencer.com

Ocean Clinic: (+34) 951 775 518; oceanclinic.net

Net-A-Porter: net-a-porter.com

Reflections: (+34) 902 325 324; reflectionsmarbella.com

Florists Bunches: (+34) 952 463 712; bunchesspain.com Flor Valentine: (+34) 951 311 086; florvalentin.es

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DJ Rob: robrocksthehouse.com

Agent Provocateur, Puerto Banús: agentprovocateur.com

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Tara Smith: tarasmith.com

Photography

Jennifer Jane: (+34) 661 194 653; byjenniferjane.com Jens Nagel: (+34) 678 650 454; yourweddingreportage.com Jeremy Standley: (+34) 607 717 565; jeremystandley.com JH Productions (cinematography & photography): (+34) 697 767 220; jhproductions.info Your Wedding Moments: (+34) 600 545 032; yourweddingmoments.com

Jewellery

Stag & Hen Organisers

Anthony’s Diamonds, Fuengirola: (+34) 952 478 717

Solisol Travel: (+34) 952 090 351; solisoltravel.com

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DATES FOR YOUR DIARY Wedding events not to be missed!

Photography by del Sol Photography

Oscar de la Renta Trunk Show 11-12 June 2010, London Browns Bride invite you to the first viewing of Oscar De La Renta’s 2011 collection – flown from New York straight after the catwalk show. The designer to the stars’ representative will offer advice during a champagne appointment, and you will also receive a luxurious goody bag of gifts and ideas.

To make an appointment contact brownsbride@brownsfashion.com or Tel. 0207 514 0056/ 57.

There is a £25 charge redeemable against any purchase.

Wedding Dress Emporiums Amanda Wakeley Bridal: bridal.amandawakeley.com Bruce Oldfield: bruceoldfield.com Ian Stuart: ianstuartbrides.com Jasper Conran: jasperconran.com Pronovias: pronovias.com Sassi Holford: sassiholford.com: verawangonweddings.com Wedding Planners Exclusive Events: (+34) 693 777 535; exclusiveeventsmarbella.com FiestaSol: (+34) 952 89 87 46 / 657 214 831; fiestasol.com Hour Weddings: (+350) 200 71335; hourweddings.com Neokoncepts: (+34) 952 838 664 659 464 100; nkweddingplanner.com Party People Special Events: (+34) 952 812 580 / 655 155 107; partypeoplemarbella.com Reviva Weddings: (+34) 951 271 220; reviva-weddings.com Spanish Dream Weddings: (+34) 951 317 367; spanishdreamweddings.com

Unicorn Weddings: unicornweddings.com Venues Beach House: +(34) 952 839 458; marbellabeachhouse.com Buddha Beach: (+34) 952 813 882; buddhabeachbanus.com El Oceano Hotel: (+34) 952 587 550; oceanohotel.com El Paraiso Country Club: (+34) 952 883 799; elparaisocountryclub.com Finca Cortesín: fincacortesin.com Kempinski Hotel Bahía Estepona: (+34) 952 791 798; kempinski.com Kristina Szekely (rentals department): (+34) 952 810 102; www.kssir.com Mons Calpe Suite: (+350) 200 79478; monscalpesuite.com Nikki Beach: (+34) 952 836 239; nikkibeach.com O'Callaghan Eliott Hotel Gibraltar: (+350) 200 70500; ocallaghanhotels.com Puente Romano: puenteromano.com Puro Beach: (+34) 952 897 871; purobeach.com

The National Wedding Show 1-3 October 2010, London 8-10 October 2010, Birmingham A visit to the National Wedding Show is an absolute must for all those planning their perfect wedding – be it a traditional fairytale affair or one for a modern bride seeking more of a cutting edge and contemporary style. There will be over 300 wedding experts, and inspirational features. nationalweddingshow.co.uk The Designer Wedding Show 8-10 October 2010, Battersea Park, London Everyone you will meet at the show has been carefully selected – sharing your passion for design, style and luxury. The beautiful fashion show, bars and restaurants, and the whole ambience are designed to make this a valuable, inspiring and enjoyable way to source everything you need. In a single day you will meet more than 130 of the finest specialists and creative spirits who can help you realise your vision. designerweddingshow.co.uk

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HAVE A DREAM‌ make it happen

St Lucia A relatively unknown tropical gem, St Lucia really has it all. Mystifying jungles, steamy volcanoes, secret waterfalls, pristine beaches and, of course, the iconic half a mile high green peaks – the Pitons. Let your adventure begin.

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Currency: Eastern Caribbean or US dollar Time Difference: GMT less four hours Visa: None required for British, Irish or Spanish passport holders.

Vaccinations: No compulsory vaccinations.

Advisable to contact your GP before travelling.

Flights: Virgin Atlantic flies from London Gatwick to St Lucia three times a week. Fares start from ÂŁ479 including taxes and can be booked either online at virginatlantic.com or by calling reservations on (+34) (0) 844 209 2770 Experience: If you are flying upper-class we highly recommend starting your trip in The Clubhouse, an oasis of calm in a sea of noise and bustle. You can be pampered with a massage, manicure or haircut, be served drinks and be tempted with the delicious menu. You can also use the full business facilities or simply find quiet space to read the paper.

The highlight was the stylish Cowshed spa complete with their 100 per cent natural product range.

Caribbean Delight For this issue’s honeymoon review, Confeti travelled to the breathtakingly beautiful island of St Lucia. Here the Atlantic Ocean kisses its eastern shore,

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while the beaches of the west coast owe their beauty to the calm Caribbean Sea. Our trip took us to the south-west coast, home to St Lucia's majestic Pitons, where we stayed for eight days at The Jalousie Plantation, two days at Jade Mountain and one day at Ladera. What did we find?

Paradise.

MUST SEE A Tour of the Island Do find time to go on this excursion; it was one of the best experiences of our trip. The tourist board very kindly arranged for Michael to be our tour guide.

Michael knew everybody, stopping and waving to people along the way. What is

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particularly obvious is how much the St Lucians love their country.

If you compliment the island, you compliment them.

We travelled through small fishing villages on winding roads to Soufriere, where pastel-coloured houses and the friendly locals all add to the Creole charm of the town.

Continuing on to the capital we passed through the rainforest.

Here we were lucky enough to see baby parrots taking their first flights and I even held a wild boa constrictor. My partner, however, wouldn’t even get out of the car. Men! Castries market is bustling with vendors selling everything from spices to sarongs. If you like to haggle you will be in your element.

Look out for sugared coconut sweets; they became something of an addiction for me.

Sulphur Springs St Lucia volcano is said to be the only drive-in volcano in the world.

A walk through the crater takes you past pools of bubbling hot springs which emit sulphur-laden steam. Opt for a tour guide as the history is very interesting.

Many people do not realise that the river that runs under the bridge is open for public bathing.

Afterwards join in the fun and take a therapeutic sulphur mud bath in the springs located just below the car park. Cake yourself in mud and then let the sun naturally dry you. Head to the small cascading waterfall, naturally heated by the volcano, to rinse off. Sulphur can stain, so be sure to wear an old bathing suit and bring an expendable towel. We were walking around with dirty feet for days; the damn stuff just wouldn’t come off.

Diamond Falls and Mineral Baths (Botanical Gardens) These gardens are not like any other; they boast a wide variety of tropical plant species and feature the stunning Diamond waterfall.

We particularly enjoyed the mineral baths (St Lucians say you come out looking 10 years younger), which are fed directly from the dormant volcano

sulphur springs and underground hot springs. I highly recommend paying a little bit extra for a private mineral bath. You are taken to a pretty cabin, where two baths are freshly filled. The very hot water takes some getting used to, but if you alternate between this and the cold shower it is very energising and I came out looking 21 again.

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HERE HEAVEN MEETS EARTH

Our first stop was The Jalousie Plantation and, after an hour of having my nose pressed up against the taxi window (so that I wouldn’t miss anything), I was keen – okay, extremely excited – to see where we would be staying for the next eight days.

So, was it all I had hoped it would be? You bet it was. Set within over 100 acres (40 hectares) of lush rainforest on the site of an 18th century sugar plantation, lushly landscaped grounds sweep down to a stunning white-sand beach and the glimmering Caribbean Sea. Nestled between St Lucia's most famous landmarks, the Gros and Petit Piton Mountains, it is a place that needs to be seen to be believed. The indulgent, world-class Rainforest Spa, a full PADI dive facility, superb waterfront dining and chic lounges ensure that the St Lucia resort vacation experience is one of sheer bliss.

(do remember neither of us had had much sleep). I had died and gone to heaven All Jalousie’s brand new luxury villas are built in small clusters and are furnished with magnificent four-poster beds, draped in sheer flowing fabrics which billow in the breeze, custom-made furniture in white, flat screen TV and iPod The Villa station, enormous walk-in body We were met by Jalousies shower, claw foot bathtub and director of PR Molly McDaniel and our personal butler Effe (who oversize plunge pool. They could rival a supermodel). I have have managed to beautifully marry colonial charm with to say it was largely down to these two amazing ladies that our superb modern amenities.

My favourite part? The bed. trip was as incredible as it was.

Expect to let out an “ooooooh” They really put themselves out, when you slip inside the Fili way above the call of duty. They D'Oro Egyptian cotton sheets didn’t even bat an eyelid as we and get the best night’s sleep ran around the villa like kids in a candy shop, hooting with delight of your life

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If you are a fan of wildlife, this is the place for you. Birds are confident and cheeky, occasionally eating out of the palm of your hand. At dusk we would have a daily visit from a pair of mongoose. Also, expect an occasional cat popping in to say hello.

The Beach Complimentary shuttle buses take you to and from the beach. The beach itself is

postcard perfect, as imported white sand replaces the volcanic black original.

Snorkelling is a must; it transports you to another world. Do, however, listen to the instructions from the dive centre, unlike I did – deciding to go off on my own. I was thinking how pretty the fish swimming next to me was when it opened its mouth to reveal razor-sharp teeth. Thinking maybe I should head back, I

spotted a school of them surrounding me – barracudas.

My partner, of course, thought this was hilarious and says that the barracuda gets bigger every time I tell the story.

Restaurants All of which are superb. Bayside’s al la carte breakfast is divine. Here you can watch the local fisherman catching your lunch, while trying the fresh juice of the day. Please look out for my adopted three

kittens, Ginger, Squirrel (he has a bushy tail) and Paw Paw (limps).

Let’s just say my partner wasn’t too impressed with me feeding them my fillet steak. Well, they needed it more than I did.

For the most discerning diners, the Great Room evokes Old World colonial charm while serving up Caribbean-influenced delicacies in candlelit, airconditioned surroundings.

The food here is impeccable.

I would recommend the soufflé; my partner had it three nights in a row, so that must tell you something.

Our Experience On our last day I was nearly in tears; I didn’t want to leave.

Who would look after the cats?

What about the mongooses?

What if I didn’t like the other resorts as much as this one?

Jalousie had stolen my heart and showed me a place that I didn’t think could exist. thejalousieplantation.com

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Clinging to a ridgeline, at a vertiginous 1,100 feet (335 metres) sits the Ladera resort.

The nine villas and 23 suites all have an “open wall”, allowing you to really be at one with nature. On arrival we were greeted with cool, mint-infused hand towels and a refreshing ginger-spiced cocktail.

Being the peak of the day, it was greatly appreciated and a fine start for what was to come.

After a quick tour we were taken to our room. Deliberately techno free, they are constructed of tropical hardwoods, stone and tile, furnished with 19th century French furniture or replicas, wicker and accessories crafted by local artisans.

The private plunge pool, bordered by hefty volcanic rocks and pots of tropical flowers, beckoned – perfect for romantic wallowing. Other highlights were the quirky bathroom with conch shell spouts and taps made from metal fish, the menagerie of wildlife that join you by the pool, and the binoculars and astronomy sky map, perfect for star-crossed lovers.

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I was keen to check out the sumptuous pleasures of the Ti Kai Pose Spa. After deciding on the al fresco couple’s massage, I was pleasantly surprised when we were joined by two male therapists. However, the look on my partner’s face showed that he wasn’t as enthusiastic! The massage was divine: a mixture of lavender oils, tropical breeze and birds’ chorus.

Highly recommended.

Guests of Ladera can enjoy the weekly complimentary manager’s cocktail reception. We were treated to a local art exhibition while sipping fresh coconut milk and rum cocktails out of coconut husks and nibbling on Creoleinspired canapés. A perfect introduction to the evening fare.

We were both keen to sample the delights of “Dasheene”, Ladera’s award-wining restaurant. It is renowned throughout the world for its eclectic, innovative cuisine, and guests travel from all over the island to experience the talents of chef Orlando Satchell. Think Carib shrimp marinated in mild

jerk and shadow bennie, then grilled and served on a plantain pancake with seasoning pepper and tamarind vinaigrette; or how about breast of chicken marinated with cinnamon spice, stuffed with plantain mousse on sweet potato Dauphinouise with Lady Labelle sauce. Now if that doesn’t tempt your palette!

I would, however, recommend that you chose an evening which is a la carte.

After supper you can meander over to the T'cholit Bar, sample one of their lethal Caribbean cocktails and relax to the live music show and, of course, the tree frogs. What more could you ask for? ladera.com

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We arrived at Jade Mountain by water taxi. Quite an adventure for me. I was rather worried that my Jimmy Choos would get wet but it was all plain sailing! We docked at the 600-acre (240hectare) beachfront resort, Anse Chastanet, and were taken straight up to its sister resort Jade Mountain. Architecturally astonishing and blessed with spectacular views of the Caribbean Sea… it was proprietor Nick Troubetzkoy’s desire to create an experience that would do more than feature the unforgettable view. Individual bridges leading to exceptional infinity pool sanctuaries and rugged stoned-faced columns reaching towards the sky make Jade Mountain one of the Caribbean’s most mesmerising resort experiences.

Our personal 24-hour majordomo, Okeda, showed us to our room, explaining that we could call her using our provided Firefly (a mini cell phone) with just about any wish we desired.

She talked us through all the little touches that would heighten our experience at Jade, including a daily food package, homemade chocolates, an early evening customised cocktail delivered to our room and a poem placed

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nightly on our bedside. As soon as she had left my partner dived straight into the pool and I started working my way through the fridge contents. Typical!

In all of the sanctuaries, the fourth wall is open to the views while at the same time allowing for complete privacy. You really are exposed to the elements so bring an eye mask and ear plugs if you want to get any sleep at all. The open floor design allows the bathrooms to become part of the experience.

The chromatherapy whirlpool tubs are designed to be enjoyed by one or two persons and are mounted on a pedestal, allowing the best possible panoramic views whilst bathing. The only thing that dampens this romantic ambience is the fact that the toilet is included in the open plan design. So, unless you really want to get to know your new husband, I suggest sending him on the occasional walk or two.

We tried all of the restaurants (you can use any Anse Chastanet’s facilities as well). The Tree House is a must for the experience; however, The Jade

Club is a once in a lifetime dining experience. The menu changes daily, with most of the fresh ingredients sourced from the hotel's Emerald Estate organic rainforest farm.

It is so hard to believe that executive chef Jonathan Dearden is only 24. Creating traditional Creole and Caribbean flavours with a modern twist, he even made a plain salad a sensory delight using unusual ingredients such as edible flowers.

We finished the evening with a nightcap on Celestial Terrace,

listening to the haunting sounds of the resident clarinettist and watching for shooting stars. jademountain.com

Tel: 952 929 120 Mobile: 618 343 488 info@cornelcatering.com www.cornelcatering.com

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By Giles Brown

HONEYMOON HORRORS So you got through the ceremony itself, didn’t forget the ring, the best man didn’t reveal your darkest secrets to your new in-laws and you were able to account for all the bridesmaids in that Brian Hanrahan “I counted them all out, and I counted them all back in again” at the Wedding Breakfast the next morning. You may be thinking that’s the hard part out of the way, and all you have to do now is sit back and enjoy your honeymoon. But get those two weeks away together wrong and you might as well have taken your beloved to St Helens than St Barts.

Here are a few pointers of places and things to avoid on your honeymoon, so that at least you are on speaking terms on the flight back ...

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void the obvious places. Paris and Rome may be the European “Cities of Love” but you are more likely to be wedged in between a group of Japanese tourists on one hand and Americans “Doing Europe” on

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the other at that quaint Left Bank café by the Seine.

Even if you both want fun in the sun, somewhere like Miami that's crawling with tourists and kids may not be the most romantic setting for you. Instead, find more remote places that cater to adults.

If you must go to Venice, try to avoid getting ripped off in the restaurants, be prepared to queue for the gondolier behind 8,000 Japanese tourists and make sure you are in the mood for love because after eight in the evening everyone leaves and there is NOTHING else to do than enjoy your hotel room. Trust me. I went several years ago on an assignment with a male photographer and everyone thought he was my “significant other”. I had to curtly inform a group of Americans that crew cut and a baseball cap were my personal style and not a statement of my sexuality, so “F… off!”

And if the photos posted on Facebook after Christmas are anything to go by, you want to avoid Thailand. Was I the only person in Marbella who didn’t go to Ko Sumai last year?

Conversely, you also want to avoid anywhere that’s known for partying. Go to Amsterdam and you’ll probably come back with hazy memories of coffee shops and “home baked” cakes, and wondering why you’ve got a king size pack of Rizzlas in your handbag.

You might have fantasies of emulating Frank, Sammy, Dean and the rest of the Rat Pack at the tables in Vegas, but you are more likely to be surrounded by Frat Boys on a break at the craps tables and zombiefied little old ladies at the slot machines than the cast of “Oceans 11”.

And stay away from Ibiza in high season: otherwise you’ll realise when you’re dancing next to an eight-foot drag queen and have been sprayed silver, while your other half is about to take part in the live show at Manumission, that perhaps those little tablets you

were given at the beginning of the evening weren’t aspirin after all.

As many of you know, “Danger” is my middle name, but it’s never a good idea to go somewhere that’s completely off the beaten track or has a reputation for lawlessness, political unrest or disease. So as a general rule of thumb that means that places such as Kabul, Gaza and Somalia are definite no nos, and you might want to think twice about Glasgow.

You also need to consider local sensibilities. Saudi and Dubai tend to frown on public displays of affection, so that romantic sunset stroll could get both of you flung in the slammer.

Things are a little more relaxed across the Straits in Morocco, but don’t even think of Tangier as a honeymoon destination. It would be like going to Dover or Calais.

Far better to take the overnight train to fabulous Marrakesh, but a word to the wise if you do. Book a private cabin and make sure you use the loo at the beginning of the journey. By the time you are approaching the outskirts of Marrakesh, “full of local colour” doesn’t do the facilities justice…

Conversely, don’t pick a boring destination. Kansas or Strasbourg are hardly places to inflame the passion, though I did chuckle to myself when the then deputy mayor of Marbella went to Moscow on her honeymoon, when the Russians had just started to spend their mega roubles on the Coast.

No suspicion of corruption there then. This was the same person who, when asked to explain what the bin bags full of cash buried in her garden were, shrugged and said they were wedding gifts.

Avoid going anywhere that either of you grew up in or went to school or university. I’m from Stoke, a place

that nobody in their right minds would want to go to on honeymoon (imagine a place full of people who look like Robbie Williams, Anthea Turner and me and you get a true idea of the horror), but if you grew up in Bath, or went to Oxford, then there can be the temptation to visit old haunts. But it only takes bumping into one old friend and the mention of a previous partner/nickname/incident to ruin your honeymoon. “Stinky! Do you remember that wild time we had with your Estonian ex in the nightclub in Bogota?” is going to take the diplomatic skill of Kissinger to get out of.

And whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do NOT, invite your in-laws or other family members along to bond with their new family. The potential for disaster is huge, especially if you married Daddy’s Little Girl. I famously remember one honeymoon that broke two of the above rules, when the happy couple

decided to spend the last few days visiting the family home. A drunken evening ended with the contents of a chamber pot being flung on the glass conservatory roof while the father was making a toast below, and a resulting huge brawl with her brothers. The following morning the groom (no, it wasn’t me, but it was a friend) pawned his wedding ring and flew back!

Enjoy your honeymoon. If you make it back and are still together, then you are ahead of the game!

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‘‘Have you got the VOW factor!’’

By Natasha Johnson

Your date is set. You’ve booked a venue that will take your guests’ breath away, you have a photographer who’ll capture your dreams and you’ve planned a day that no-one will forget. The invitations have been sent and your dress is locked away in your wardrobe.

So it’s safe to say that you’ve taken full ownership of your wedding day.

But what about your ceremony and the exchange of your vows – the actual reason for your celebrations? Hands up those of you who have given it as much thought and attention as the rest of your day? Don’t worry if you didn’t raise your hand: you’re probably not alone. The good news is, there is still time, whether your wedding is a month or a year away.

Your day, your way More and more couples are realising they can have just as much control over their ceremony as with the rest of their wedding. Your ceremony is your declaration of your love and commitment to your partner, so why not take the opportunity to say the vows you want to say and to celebrate your union in the way that you want to – whatever type of ceremony you have?

Pauline and Sean married in Nerja in the summer of 2009. They knew instantly what type of venue and reception they wanted, but they had no idea they could make important decisions about their ceremony too. After some research they decided on a Humanist ceremony because they believed it best fit their idea of marriage.

They were surprised by how much of a say they could have and were especially pleased they could choose their own vows.

“We weren’t confident enough to write our own vows but we didn’t want any old vow being said to us, so we were happy that our celebrant gave us some suggestions and let us know that we didn’t just have to stick to the norm,” recalls Pauline.

Putting the wow into your vow Some people still like the idea of saying “I do” in response to a vow read by a celebrant or minister. This doesn’t mean, however, that you can’t choose the vow you’re being asked or at the very least know what it is you’ll be promising to do, beforehand!

For couples who want to break away from tradition, the next and possibly the most romantic way to personalise your ceremony is to write your own vows, and you really don’t have to have Shakespeare’s skills to do it either.

There is nothing more special than knowing your vows will never be said to, or by, another person ever again – they are truly unique.

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There is also now a growing trend for couples to say “I do” to a question vow and then pledge their personal vows to each other – a mix of the old and the new.

Christine and Andrew married in Antequera in September 2009. They wanted a very personal ceremony and after some encouragement from their wedding celebrant they decided to write their own vows.

“I will never forget that feeling of saying my vows to Andrew and him saying his to me. I can’t imagine what our ceremony would have been like if we didn’t write our vows.

It made it even more special to know that we were saying things straight from the heart,” says Christine.

I do, I do, I do So you’ve now got your pen at the ready and are raring to go. What’s your next step? Any good celebrant or minister should not only accommodate your wishes but help you to produce intimate and meaningful vows – just ask! And don’t forget your good old friend the internet is also a fantastic resource, not just for vows but ideas for music and readings that you may want to use in your ceremony.

There is just one more piece of advice: remind your guests to bring some tissues, as there won’t be a dry eye in the house. Yours included.

Natasha Johnson Humanist Wedding Celebrant www.malagaminister.com

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