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Message from St. Pete Pride President Stanley Solomons; Introduction of Board members

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Welcome by St. Pete Pride Executive Director Chris Rudisill

A Full Pride Month St. Pete Pride is more than just aStreet Festival and Promenade—it’s a June full of events

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Proclamation & Letters

Cover: To celebrate its 10th anniversary, St. Pete Pride has selected a theme of CARNIVALE—which is synonymous with community, Pride and fun.

Photo illustration by Jake Stevens and Andres Duputel

Absolutely Proud Superstar Deborah Cox is St. Pete Pride’s rst headliner—and she tells us why she’s so willing to celebrate Pride

10 Years, 10 Grand Marshals St. Pete Pride could not be successful for a decade without the help of some inspirational groups

Staging Entertainment Two stages bring entertainment throughout the day during the St. Pete Pride Street Festival June 30

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Co-dependant Funny Girl Christine O’Leary explains her love for St. Pete Pride and Tampa Bay’s LGBT community and what she has planned for her role as Mistress of Ceremonies

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A Proud Reputation In the last 10 years, St. Petersburg has become even more accepting of LGBTs and our families

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Planting a Dream A decade ago, a small group of people decided the time was right to bring Pride to St. Petersburg. A few share their thoughts on the event’s evolution

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Welcome to St. Pete Pride 2012

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et me take this opportunity to welcome you to CARNIVALE—our 10th anniversary celebration of St Pete Pride, Pride in Paradise.

It’s been a great year for the LGBT community in Pinellas County. Three cities, St Petersburg, Gulfport and Clearwater, will soon have Domestic Partnership Registries. The Largo City Councilwoman who forced the ring of transgender city manager Susan Stanton in 2007 was beaten in the last election by openly gay candidate Michael Smith; and our own St. Petersburg councilman Steve Kornell was re-elected.

A lot can and does happen in 10 years.

St Pete Pride has grown from a relatively small dream of Brian Longstreth’s to a monumental happening that has taken on

a life of its own. Gay couples are now able to adopt children in Florida and for the rst time you will see Armed Forces recruiting tables along the Promenade route thanks to the end of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.

We are people, as good as anyone else, and can now represent our country proudly, in times of both war and peace.

I want to also thank our many partners and especially our friends at Metro Wellness and Community Centers, the Tampa International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Metropolitan Community Church and the AIDS Service Association of Pinellas. Of, course, I must mention the board members of St Pete Pride who have worked many hours and many months to make this event, and all our other events throughout the course of the year, happen.

A special thanks to the Entertainment Committee for bringing the fabulous Deborah Cox to our main stage and for all that is involved in that endeavor.

This CARNIVALE, our 10th Anniversary of Pride in Paradise, is for you, our community. Enjoy yourselves and remember that this is a celebration of us, of who we are and what we are, and a remembrance of those who have gone before and paved the way.

Never forget.

Stanley Solomons President, St. Pete Pride

ST. PETE PRIDE BOARD 2012: (L-R): Treasurer Chris Tate, Kori Stevens, Thompson D. Kellett, Aaron Horcha, Amy Foster, David Kline, Secretary Scion Provenzano, Vice President Barry Parks, Jr., Nathan Taylor, George Wenzel and President Stanley Solomons (Not Pictured: Richard J. Robinson, Steve Weldon) PHOTO BY NICK CARDELLO

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Experience CARNIVALE

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ast year, many asked the question, “What makes St. Pete Pride different than other Pride Celebrations across the region?” The event and the organization behind it are made up of the community, its people, its desires and its exuberance.

But, what sets it apart? With our home in the Grand Central District of St. Petersburg and the surrounding business community, St. Pete Pride takes on a life of its own as a street festival or carnival—a celebration. So as we started to plan, thoughts of the largest, most elaborate street festival in the world immediately came to mind—Carnivale in Brazil.

The essence of “CARNIVALE” is the expression of the people and a celebration of life. It’s a mixture of uniqueness, color and excitement. The cochairs of the 2005 Street Festival said, “In 2003, our Inaugural year, a group of dedicated individuals with a vision born of love of community gathered together and began a journey that this year continues enhancing our lives in the City of St. Petersburg, and all of Tampa Bay.” That statement still holds true today.

Those individuals—Brian Longstreth, Ellen Levett, Rod Houston, Gerry Broughman, Ed Cassidy, Robert Danielson, the late Carl Kuttler, III, Greg D. Stemm, Claudia Cole, Robin Hankins, the late George Shaughnessy and the late Robert Victor— all had that spirit of life and a vision that through celebration, the community could come together to create something amazing.

Each year, St. Pete Pride has continued

to grow and is now the largest Pride celebration in the state of Florida and ranks as one of the top festivals of its kind in the country.

I’d like to personally thank the many sponsors and donors that make St. Pete Pride possible—through their nancial and in-kind support tens-of-thousands have the ability to share in the excitement each year, continue to express their uniqueness and celebrate the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community in Tampa Bay and throughout Florida. I also thank the Board of Directors and many volunteers that work tirelessly to make all of the events surrounding St. Pete Pride throughout the year happen. If you see them walking the streets, they will probably thank you for attending.

Please thank them as well for continuing that spirit that began 10 years ago.

This is my nal year as Executive Director of St. Pete Pride. It has been an exciting and ful lling adventure and I look forward to continuing to work to make St. Petersburg a safer, productive and rewarding community for LGBT residents and visitors alike. My life has grown from the people who will take to the streets on June 30th this year and there are several people I’d like to especially thank for their continued support and friendship: Brian Longstreth, Stanley Solomons, Lorraine Langlois, Michael Keefe, Nadine Smith, Steve Blanchard, Mike Bell, Scott Turner,

The essence of “CARNIVALE” is the expression of the people and a celebration of life.

Jim Nixon, Renee Cossette, Mariruth Kennedy, Lara Shelton, Larry Biddle, DT Minich, Steve Kornell, Christopher Johnson, Mikael Audebert, Monica Bishop, my partner and the love of my life, Jacob Hamm, and the many board members who have been a part of St. Pete Pride over the years.

I hope you enjoy the month-long celebration that is St. Pete Pride and when you take to the streets at the end of the parade on that last Saturday of June, grab a hold of the giant rainbow ag as it makes its way down Central Avenue. I invite you to become a part of the celebration that this year we call “CARNIVALE”. Share your uniqueness, celebrate the wonderful welcoming community that we are lucky to live in, or visit, here in St. Petersburg and most of all continue to live a colorful life!

With Pride, Chris Rudisill Executive Director St. Pete Pride

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A triumphant decade

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t. Petersburg | For the past decade, St. Pete Pride has brought literally hundreds of thousands of people to the Grand Central District—and this June could bring the largest single-day crowd to Central Avenue yet. But accomplishing such a feat isn’t done by just one organization. It’s the community organizations that have helped create such an inclusive and welcoming atmosphere in St. Petersburg for LGBTs. “To celebrate our 10th anniversary, the Board of Directors and the Promenade Committee really dove into the history of St. Pete Pride and how it has grown and developed as the largest Pride celebration in Florida,” says St. Pete Pride executive director Chris Rudisill. “In doing so, they came across the various members of the community and organizations that have been there along the way to help shape our local community. There were many to pick from and the decisions were extremely dif cult.”

The board decided to choose grand marshals in 10 categories representing Tampa Bay’s LGBT community. The categories—family issues, transgender rights, HIV/AIDS, service men and women, lesbian health and rights, political advocacy, community involvement, youth, spirituality and the arts—are all well represented in St. Petersburg and throughout Tampa Bay. “These individuals and organizations represent some of the best and we hope

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will translate into a story that represents everyone that comes to St. Pete Pride.”

Along with this year’s 10 grand marshals, St. Pete Pride also recognizes its founding board members, a small group who created St. Pride in 2003. (See page 72).

GRAND MARSHALS

lines during the ght for those protections, and that’s why St. Pete Pride selected the organization as a grand marshal celebrating Family Recognition in Tampa Bay. “We’re honored to be a part of it and to be a grand marshal for their 10th anniversary celebration,” Win eld said.

“St. Pete Pride does a phenomenal job not just for the LGBT community, but for the community as a whole. It’s great for the entire Tampa Bay area.”

Family recognition: Equality Florida A lot has changed for LGBT families over the past decade. In 2003, St. Pete Pride’s inaugural year, it was almost unheard of for a local government to offer any protections for same-sex couples—much less an entire family.

“It’s a completely new world today,” says Brian Win eld of Equality Florida.

“Florida’s gay adoption ban was ruled unconstitutional and there was a literal oodgate of LGBT couples lining up to adopt children. This year, domestic partnership recognition is seeing a tipping point. Communities have recognized that offering the bene ts and protections that they can on a local level is the right thing to do.”

Equality Florida has been on the front

Transgender Issues: Trans*Action Florida Like any organization, St. Pete Pride has evolved over its rst decade—and for Michael Keefe, executive director of Trans*Action Florida, that evolution has helped empower the Tampa Bay transgender community.

“Having us as a grand marshal shows great progress for St. Pete Pride as an organization and for the community of St. Petersburg,” Keeffe says. “The board has been especially welcoming to us to make sure they are addressing the needs of the transgender community.”

Trans*Action, formerly know as FORGE,

Timeline 1969

Previous St. Pete Pride Grand Marshals (L-R): Candace Gingrich (‘05), Gregory A. Kompes(‘06), Susan Stanton (‘07), 2008 Janice Langbehn (‘08), Kevin Beckner (‘09), Steve Kornell (‘10), and Troy Perry (‘11).

was incorporated the same year as St. Pete Pride’s inaugural year. So the two organizations have a shared history. While Trans*Action has worked on issues directly affecting the transgender community, St. Pete Pride has raised awareness of LGBT rights in the county. Now the two entities are community partners working toward that common goal.

“My hope is that as grand marshals this year, awareness of Trans*Action will rise,” Keeffe says. “We want to get the attention of those corporate sponsors in the area and help them realize that transgender issues are coming to the forefront. I’m hopeful that the kind of exposure Pride gives will draw the attention needed to help fund our programs and to support transgender people throughout the area.”

June 27: LGBT patrons of the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village ght back during a police raid, sparking three days of violent protest. The so-called “Stonewall Riots” transform the gay rights movement into a widespread quest for equality.

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June 1: For the rst time, businesses y rainbow ags along Central Avenue throughout the month.

INAUGURAL YEAR

February: A small group of community leaders hold the rst organizational meeting for the inaugural St. Pete Pride at Grand Central Station.

June 5: St. Pete City Councilman Rick Kriseman signs the rst proclamation proclaiming June “St. Petersburg Pride Month.”

June 7: Rev. V. Gene Robinson is named Bishop for the Diocese of New Hampshire, becoming the rst openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church in the United States.

June 26: In Lawrence v. Texas, the Supreme Court rules that sodomy laws are unconstitutional, holding that “Liberty presumes an autonomy of self that includes freedom of thought, belief, expression, and certain intimate conduct.”

June 28: The inaugural St. Pete Pride overtakes the Grand Central District.

An estimated 10,000 people attend. The long rainbow ag makes its debut at the end of the promenade.

Gay Veterans Pride month 2012 is an unprecedented milestone for LGBT veterans and service members. This is the rst year of Pride events since the repeal of “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” became of cial in January, meaning out service members can participate in Pride without fear of being dishonorably discharged.

“Gay Pride month is very signi cant for us because of the repeal of DADT,” says Greg Gales, with the VA Regional of ce in St. Petersburg. “I don’t think people realize the full impact the repeal of DADT has for us—for LGBT veterans.”

While mainstream news about DADT has focused on the military reunions of same-sex partners, veterans are often pushed out of the spotlight. Inviting gay veterans to march in this year’s St. Pete Pride is one step toward reminding the public that LGBT military personnel are a part of this country’s history.

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June 26: The second annual St. Pete Pride Promenade and Street Festival brings an estimated 20,000 revelers to Central Avenue.

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May 17: The State of Massachusetts issues the rst same-sex marriage licenses in the country.

June 12: First ever Pride Pet Show is held at Grand Central Station June 18: A Sunset Sail from Tradewinds Resort sees its rst cruise.

June 25: Tropicana Field hosts the rst “Pride Night at the Trop,” where the Tampa Bay Devil Rays defeat the Florida Marlins 2-1.

PRIDE IN MOTION: OUR RESOLVE STRENGTHENS Grand Marshal: Candace Gingrich, National LGBT Rghts Activist

June 15: At the urging of Ronda Storms, the Hillsborough County Commission votes 5-1 to ban the county from acknowledging any form of Gay Pride.

June 25: The third Annual St. Pete Pride Street Festival is the biggest to date with 35,000 attendees.

July 20: A year after the Canadian Supreme Court rules that same-sex marriage is constitutional, the House of Commons and Senate extend marriage rights to same-sex couples.

2006

PRIDE IN UNITY Grand Marshal: author Gregory A. Kompes, author of 50 Fabulous Gay-Friendly Places to Live

June 23: Academy Award Winning Actress, Margaret O’Brien attends a screening of Meet Me in St Louis for a Pride Brunch at the Hospice Community Room.

June 24: The Fourth Annual St. Pete Pride expands two additional blocks, covering 22nd through 28th Streets.

More than 50,000 attend and the festival is dubbed the “Largest Pride Event in Florida.”

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PRIDE IN PARADISE Grand Marshal: Former Largo City Manager Susan Stanton Feb. 27: The City of Largo, Fla., res its City Manager Steve Stanton after he announces plans to undergo gender reassignment surgery.

Stanton successfully transitions to become Susan Stanton.

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people dishonorably discharged from our armed services prior to DADT’s era, which began in 1993,” Gales says. “Those service members were unable to take advantage of the bene ts allowed to veterans, until now.”

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March 14: Ryan Skipper, a young gay man in Polk County, is attacked and killed simply because of his sexual orientation. During St. Pete Pride, Gay American Heroes honors him and other victims of violence.

May 20: For the rst time, Watermark Media Inc. publishes the of cial St. Pete Pride Guide.

Medical Services: AIDS Walk St. Petersburg The recognition by St. Pete Pride is an honor, and a humbling experience, for the AIDS Walk St. Petersburg organizers, according to William Harper, Executive Director of the AIDS Service Association of Pinellas.

“It’s humbling because it means the Walk has become recognized as a cornerstone in the community,” Harper says. “It gives recognition to the walk as being beyond a fundraiser, but a signi cant event that makes an impact on the community.”

In each of its eight walks, AIDS Walk St. Petersburg has seen a steady increase in the funds it raises and the number of people participating from both sides of Tampa Bay. “When we started the event we hoped it would grow, of course,” Harper says. “The community has taken to it and supported it in a tremendous way. It has grown to become a Tampa Bay event—it’s beyond what we’d ever hoped.”

Money raised through AIDS Walk St. Petersburg funds several ASAP programs that are not federally funded, like its food pantry, medical assistance copay program and its Brighter Seasons for Children charity.

AIDS Walk 2012 is Saturday, Sept. 8.

June 10: The long-time home of the After-Pride T-Dance, the Suncoast Resort, closes its doors after seven years in business. St. Pete Pride’s T-Dance relocates to Nova 535.

June 29: Last Comic Standing comedienne Michele Balan headlines the rst-ever Laughter in Paradise at the USF-St. Petersburg Student Activities Center.

June 30: 60,000 people descend upon the city’s Grand Central District or the Fifth Annual St. Pete Pride Street Festival and Promenade.

2008

PRIDE IN PARADISE Grand Marshal: Janice Langbehn May 15: The California Supreme Court strikes down a ban on same-sex marriage, ruling that same-sex couples have a constitutional right to marry regardless of sexual orientation.

July 27: Comedians Ant and Christine O’Leary perform at Laughter in Paradise, held at Nova 545.

July 28: An estimated 75,000 people enjoy the Sixth St. Pete Pride Street Festival on Central Avenue.

Oct. 9: The Connecticut Supreme Court rules that same-sex couples have a constitutional right to marry.

Nov. 5: More than 60% of voters in Florida pass Amendment 2, banning same-sex marriage and its “substantial equivalent” throughout the state; California voters approve Proposition 8, which puts a halt to same-sex marriages in California.

Nearly 18,000 same-sex couples

Women: Sonia Plotnick Health Fund In 1996, a women’s dance was held in Gulfport for the very rst time in memory of Sonia Plotnick, a woman who died of breast cancer. Today, the name “Sonia Plotnick” is synonymous with women’s health issues in

remain married despite Prop 8’s passage.

Nov. 25: For the rst time a Florida judge rules that the state’s ban on gays and lesbians adopting is unconstitutional.

2009

REMEMBERING OUR ORIGINS: THE 40TH ANNIVERSARY OF STONEWALL Grand Marshal: Hillsborough County Commissioner Kevin Beckner Feb. 2: RuPaul’s Drag Race premieres on Logo.

April 3: The Iowa Supreme Court unanimously rejects the state’s ban on same-sex marriage, becoming the third state—and the rst Midwest state—to authorize same-sex marriage.

April 7: Vermont becomes the rst state to legalize same-sex marriage by an act of legislation.

May 6: A bill recognizing same-sex marriage is signed into law in the State of Maine. Voters repeal the bill in November.

June 3: The Governor of New Hampshire signs legislation legalizing same-sex marriage in that state.

June 27: St. Pete Pride continues to break records when 80,000 people attend the annual street festival on Central Avenue.

Oct. 15: St. Petersburg plays host to the Interpride Conference, which brings representatives from pride organizations around the world to the Sunshine State.

Dec. 2: New York legislators reject a marriage equality law that would have made same-sex marriage legal.

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CELEBRATE FAMILY Grand Marshal: St. Petersburg City Councilman Steve Kornell March 3: Same-sex couples begin to wed in Washington, D.C.

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the area, and it continues to raise money for women in need of health care.

Proceeds from that rst dance were given to the Womyn’s Energy Bank to help women pay for mammograms and breast cancer treatment. In 1997, organizers saw the increased need for women’s healthcare assistance and established The Sonia Plotnick Health Fund.

The organization’s mission is simply stated—“To promote the wellness of women by honoring requests for nancial assistance with traditional and nontraditional healthcare.” But what it has accomplished is no small feat. The group has provided more than $100,000 to women in the local community—and that number continues to rise.

Political Advocacy: Rick Kriseman St. Pete Pride, quite literally, couldn’t exist without Rick Kriseman. The former St. Petersburg City Councilman and current Florida Representative signed the rst City Proclamation denoting June as “St. Petersburg Pride Month” back in 2003.

“St. Petersburg was in the middle of a renaissance at the time, and I knew that the renaissance would not be fully achieved without City Hall embracing both St. Pete Pride and the LGBT community,” Kriseman says. “Signing the proclamation was not controversial to me.

It was easy and the very least I could do to support such an important social and economic event for our city.”

Kriseman’s constituents have always supported his embrace of St. Pete Pride, and he says being recognized as a Grand Marshal in its 10th year is an honor.

“Because of what St. Pete Pride celebrates and stands for, this recognition is one of the greatest honors I’ve received during my time as a public servant,” says Kriseman, now a state representative. “It’s especially meaningful to be recognized on this important milestone.”

Kriseman says that St. Pete Pride’s in uence in the city has been incredibly signi cant, and has “sent a message to the world that we are a welcoming and safe place to live and visit.”

“Simply put, we are a better place today because of St. Pete Pride,” he says.

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halls of area schools.

According to Lynn Mattiace, with Pinellas County Schools, the club falls under part of the equal access act.

“If you have a Bible club or a chess club, then you have to allow a GSA,” she says.

Clubs are initiated by students who express a need for a club to the administration. GSAs can be social clubs or service clubs—or a combination of both. The rst GSA in the country began in Largo High School—just 20 minutes north of St. Petersburg—and the clubs have expanded ever since.

St. Petersburg’s local colleges have also adopted GSAs. College-aged students have a similar support structure to those in high school, and ve area colleges have active GSAs that promote equality.

For the past six years, Sister Muffy and her fellow Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence have been staples at St. Pete Pride. The Tampa Bay Order of the Sisters have helped local non-pro t groups raise funds and awareness to their causes by purposefully putting a painted white face on every charity they touch.

“I think it’s become a staple for us to be at St. Pete Pride,” says Sister Muffy, the Order’s treasurer. “People expect to see the Sisters there. Pride is all about fun in the community—a celebration on a grand scheme—and that’s what we like to do.”

The Tampa Bay Order of the Sisters started modestly, with four men putting on white face paint and amboyant habits in an effort to raise awareness for a number of local charities. Today, Spiritual: Tampa/St. Petersburg 15 members continue the tradition and Metropolitan Community appear at everything from Pride events and fundraisers to town hall meetings and Churches The prestige that comes with the grand openings of new LGBT businesses. title of “grand marshal” in the St. Pete st “I always say we’re the 21 Century Pride promenade is something that gets drag nuns for the LGBT community,” King of Peace MCC Associate Pastor Sister Muffy explains While none of Lorraine Brock excited. the Sisters do The Metropolitan their charitable Community Churches good deeds for the in St. Petersburg and recognition—hence Tampa are grand the face paint— marshals this year Sister Muffy is and represent the excited that St. Pete spiritual community of Pride has chosen the Tampa Bay. Tampa Bay Order —REP. RICK KRISEMAN, “Our church will as one of its grand POLITICAL ADVOCACY be proud,” Brock says. marshals in its 10th GRAND MARSHAL “The congregation is anniversary year. so excited about Pride this year—even “It’s great to have such a respected before telling them about the grand organization want to recognize you marshal position. Pride means a lot to for all the things you’ve done in the them.” community,” says Sister Muffy.

And Pride means a lot to the entire community, says Rev. Phyllis Hunt, senior pastor of Tampa MCC. MCC’s role as a grand marshal will relay a message to the 100,000 expected revelers, that the denomination remains faithful to the spiritual, emotional and relationship needs of the Tampa Bay community.

“Issues of religion have harmed more Youth: Gay-Straight Alliances than helped many people,” Hunt says.

Pinellas County has a unique Having the spiritual aspect of who we are distinction when it comes to Gay-Straight in the parade says to the world that no Alliances in its public schools. All but one gets to de ne who we are but us.” one high school have active clubs where MCC is an international denomination LGBT students and straight allies work and 19 churches populate Florida, serving together to promote tolerance within the a special need for LGBT and allies alike,

“Simply put, we are a better place today because of St. Pete Pride.”

according to Brock.

“We serve a role for people who have been bullied or beaten up by other spiritual churches or organizations to come to be healed,” Brock says. “We also reach out for social justice reasons on all different levels and serve as a center where people can come gather and do healthy things together in the community.”

While political climates may change, the denomination’s mission has remained steadfast, Hunt adds.

“We’ve seen many storms pass our way and that has never deterred us from our mission to serve the community,” Hunt says.

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April 13: Gainesville, Fla., narrowly elects Craig Lowe as its rst openly gay mayor.

April 26: Orlando resident Tyra Sanchez is crowned the winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race, Season 2.

June 20: New Orleans-based performer Varla Jean Merman and comedian Christine O’Leary headline Laughter in Paradise at the Sirata Beach Resort.

June 25: Tyra Sanchez makes an appearance at the rst Pride in Fashion, hosted by comedian Christine O’Leary and Watermark Editor Steve Blanchard at Macy’s Department Store.

The Arts: Una Voce: The Florida Men’s Chorale & Crescendo: The Tampa Bay Women’s Chorus The opportunities presented by St. Pete Pride over the past 10 years haven’t gone unappreciated by Tampa Bay’s two largest choruses—Crescendo: The Tampa Bay Women’s Chorus and Una Voce: The Florida Men’s Chorale.

“St. Pete Pride is an incredible organization that ties everyone together,” says Kathie Michael of Crescendo. “LGBT organizations are independent but at an event like Pride, we come together and show our collective strength. The chorus has added several members the past few years who wouldn’t have known about us if it wasn’t for St. Pete Pride. We’re thankful for that.”

Crescendo and Una Voce hold grand marshal posts that represent the arts community of Tampa Bay. Crescendo will celebrate its 20th anniversary in November and Una Voce presented its 10th anniversary concert in April.

“This is the largest Una Voce has ever been,” explains managing director Tom Barker of the group’s 54 members. “Our goal is to keep growing the organization by continuing to focus on the quality of the music, the voices and the quality of our presentations.”

Crescendo is also thriving with 33 singing members. Both groups have an intertwined history that involves fundraising events and participation at St. Pete Pride.

“I think we’d all be disappointed if Pride didn’t choose both choruses,” Michael laughed. | |

June 26: In its eighth year, St. Pete Pride remains steady when 80,000 people attend the annual street festival.

Sept. 21: Dan Savage and Terry Miller launch the ‘It Gets Better Project,’ which combats LGBT youth suicides by asking older LGBTs and advocates to record inspirational messages and post them on YouTube.

Sept. 22: Florida Gov. Charlie Crist announces the state will no longer enforce its ban on gays and lesbians adopting.

Dec. 22: President Barack Obama signs the Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Repeal Act of 2010.

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ONE DAY Grand Marshal: Rev. Troy Perry, founder of Metropolitan Community Church Feb. 23: The Defense of Marriage Act faces its rst major challenge when the Obama administration announces it will no longer ght in favor of the law outlawing same-sex marriage.

May 2: St. Petersburg resident Alexis Mateo is second runner up in Season 3 of RuPaul’s Drag Race.

June 24: Two-time Olympic gure skater Johnny Weir and Alexis Mateo host Pride in Fashion at Macy’s Department store in Tyrone Square Mall. Later that night, New York lawmakers hold a late-night vote and legalize same-sex marriage.

June 25: Organizers estimate 85,000 attendees at the St. Pete Pride Promenade and Street Festival, headlined by singer Ari Gold. Many participants wave signs thanking New York lawmakers for legalizing same-sex marriage.

Aug. 23: The Tampa Bay Rays lm an ‘It Gets Better’ PSA at Tropicana Field.

Sept. 20: The repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ takes effect, allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly in the Armed Forces.

2012

CARNIVALE Jan.12: Unmarried couples begin registering in Orlando as domestic partners, thanks to its landmark legislation recognizing same-sex and opposite-sex couples who are unwed.

Feb. 7: A federal appeals court rejects California’s same-sex marriage ban, setting the stage for a U.S. Supreme Court showdown.

March 13: Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn signs the city’s domestic partnership registry ordinance, which will allow unmarried couples to register as domestic partners sometime in June.

April 5: St. Petersburg City Councilman Steve Kornell suggests a domestic partnership registry to his fellow council members. The board votes to allow city staff to work on the language of the ordinance.

May 6: Vice President Joe Biden announces support for same-sex marriage, making him the highest elected of cial to ever do so.

May 9: President Barack Obama tells ABC News that he supports samesex marriage, becoming the rst sitting president to ever take that stance. | |

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Absolutely Proud Long-time LGBT advocate Deborah Cox brings high-energy to St. Pete Pride

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eborah Cox has always resonated with the LGBT community. The singer, actress and Broadway performer makes certain she doesn’t forget her LGBT fans and performs at Pride events around the world every year.

This year she stops in St. Petersburg for the rst time.

“I am really looking forward to it,” Cox says by phone from her Miami home. “I’ve never done St. Pete Pride and I’m expecting a high-energy show. It’s going to be damn hot, but I’m prepared for that.”

This is the rst year St. Pete Pride has had a major headliner, and Cox will perform on the main stage at 1 p.m., Saturday, June 30. It gives her another opportunity to connect personally with LGBT people, with whom she says she can relate.

“It’s about love,” she says. “Everything I’ve sung is a topic that everyone has been through. My songs deal with love and everyone has dealt with it. I think the gay community nds a part of themselves in each song.”

Cox adds that her connection to her gay fans is no different than the connections she made as an elementary or high school student with disenfranchised classmates.

“This Pride thing has exploded for me,” Cox says. “I’m not gay but I grew up feeling different and insecure. The feeling that a young gay person feels when he or she is coming up and trying to t in, trying to gure themselves out, is something I can’t even imagine. It can be hard to just be who you are. I love that Pride celebrates the opposite—its being exactly who you are meant to be.”

Over the years, Cox’s big voice led to

11 number one singles—and legions of drag queens lip-synching to her mega hits like “Nobody’s Supposed to Be Here” and “Absolutely Not.” It’s a form of attery Cox adores.

“I love it when a drag queen gets up there and emotes,” Cox says. “They’re living on that stage and giving you more than I could even give. It’s so attering and there really is nothing like it. I can’t even put into words what it’s like seeing that.”

Over the years, Cox has performed at Pride festivals around the world. However, she says she rarely performs at the same festival twice because she enjoys traveling and seeing new places.

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true to themselves,” Cox says. “At Pride I’m celebrating right there with you. It’s like being at a birthday party—a really huge birthday party.”

Making a statement In January, Cox released the “No Labels Anthem,” which pointedly asks leaders in congress to work together to solve the nation’s problems, regardless of political af liation. The project is something that struck a chord with Cox, who says she’s always been an advocate for those who don’t have a voice.

“When I heard the lyrics, I thought, ‘This is absolutely what I believe in,’” Cox says. “There are certain things the Republicans are about that I agree with and things I don’t agree with. There are things the Democrats say that I agree with and other things they say that I don’t agree with. Sometimes it requires compromising on some things— it’s a delicate dance of give and take, and leaders have to do that to move forward.

This song spoke to my heart.”

Cox, a native Canadian, says she’s been frustrated with the bickering, political climate and hopes her message of compromise will be heard throughout this presidential election year.

“I thought, ‘If I can be a part of something bigger and help get a lot of things done and passed, then I’m in—I’m down,’” Cox says. “So far people have been pretty supportive of the song.

I’m proud of it, just as I’m proud of my participation in Pride events.

“I don’t get involved with things that I’m not 100% for. I can sleep comfortably at night with the decisions I’ve made.”

Pride to Broadway In March, it was announced that Cox will step into the role of “Lucy” in an updated version of Frank Wildhorn’s Jekyll & Hyde on Broadway. When the role, originally played by Linda Eder, was offered, Cox admits she was surprised, but excited by the opportunity.

“I’ve been craving a meaty role with meaty songs,” says Cox, who played the title character in Broadway’s AIDA in 2004. “I thought it was an interesting twist to cast me in the role. When I read the script and saw them breathing new life into it, I really got excited because I can play around with the role of Lucy and do

“I love that Pride celebrates exactly who you are meant to be.”

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my own things, make my own mark with the songs and with the role.”

Cox will star alongside Constantine Maroulis, of American Idol fame. Cox says that the show’s tour will start in September and will arrive at Tampa’s Straz Center for the Performing Arts in October.

“This is going to be a little bit more contemporary than the original but it’s about nding that common, delicate balance,” Cox says.

Singing before a live audience on Broadway is a completely different experience than performing a concert, Cox explains. By portraying a character, Cox says she’s part of a huge painting, featuring many different people.

“Plus working with an orchestra is different,” Cox says. “It’s a different sensation and performance.”

Even though she has her plate full with her role in Jekyll & Hyde, Cox has plenty of fantasy roles she’d like to capture in the coming years.

“I would love to star in the story of Lena Horne or one of those iconic women like her,” Cox says. “I love biographies. I’d also like to represent Billy Holliday.”

Anthem Queen There’s little doubt that Cox will perform her dance hits during St. Pete Pride this year. But she may also have one or two new songs to share. She’s planning on releasing a new album later this summer.

“I just nished my single and ‘It’s Over Now’ is number one in Italy,” the mother of three says. “I have so many songs and stuff I’ve recorded that I’m trying to get done. I also have a few other songs on the burner with the idea of getting an EP out by late summer this year.”

Cox didn’t say what kind of songs will be presented on that album—or what the title of the EP will be. She did say, however, that the big voice that has made her music a staple at LGBT clubs around the world will show up again in 2012’s offering.

“I feel like the gay community is about the big voices,” Cox says. “Everyone is doing dance mixes now but originally it was about the big voices and the diva persona. I don’t always feel like I am a diva because that word has such a negative connotation to it.

“Maybe later on in my years I’ll embrace that, but not now. But that’s not to say I don’t have moments where I express a diva attitude.” | |

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A month of Pride

A calendar of St. Pete Pride events t h a t y o u j u s t c a n ’t m i s s !

THURSDAY, MAY 24– SUNDAY, MAY 27

GaYBOR Days Throughout Ybor City GaYBOR Days is a celebration of all things GaYBOR, the business district centered around historic Ybor City made up of gay and straight bars, nightclubs, shops, non-pro t organizations and more. Events include a Health & Wellness Fair, movie night, bar crawl, music festival and parties. For a complete list of events, visit GaYbor.com. Viva la GaYBOR! SATURDAY, MAY 26

P3–Pride Pool Party 12 p.m.-4 p.m., Gay St. Pete House 4505 5th Ave. N., St. Petersburg Come join your friends and kick off Pride Month with some fun in the sun,

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as Gay St. Pete House and GayStPete.com host this annual party by the pool.

There is a $10 suggested donation. Proceeds bene t St. Pete Pride.

For more information visit StPetePride.com.

MONDAY, MAY 28

Drag Queen Bingo 7:30 p.m., Hamburger Mary’s 1600 E. 7th Ave., Ybor City Join us Wednesday night for some Bingo Fun at Hamburger Mary’s in Historic Ybor City.

Win fabulous prizes with your host Melanie Minyon.

St. Pete Pride will auction off two tickets to Kathy Grif n at Ruth Eckerd Hall on June 1. This weekly event draws a crowd, so get there early. The fun starts at 7:30 p.m.. $10 cash donation at the door to play. Proceeds bene t St. Pete Pride.

SATURDAY, JUNE 2

Inaugural ‘June Tunes’ Pride Bene t Concert

MONDAY, JUNE 4 & TUESDAY, JUNE 5

LGBTQA Youth Movie Night

7 p.m. Doors, 7:30 p.m. Show, Pro Star Sound Stage 3220 28th Street North, St. Petersburg

5:30 p.m., Metro Wellness & Community Centers 3251 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg, on June 4,

This special concert in memory of John Marvin Walsh will feature performances from Lorna Bracewell, The Fallopian Tubes, Nick Platanitis-McKee accompanied by James Weaver with Terry Paulsen Bartlett, Tim Platanitis-McKee, Melanie Downs and Brent Douglas. Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 at the door and include appetizers and dessert.

Proceeds bene t The Francis House, celebrating 22 years of providing HIV support services in the community.

For more information and tickets call 727-526-0446.

1315 E. 7th Ave., Ybor, on June 5 Many people don’t know the meaning behind Pride month, or why events are always scheduled in June. Join Metro’s LGBTQA Youth Discussion Group for a special Pride movie screening of Before Stonewall, with discussion led

by Andrew B. Schmidt, Ph.D. In what the Seattle Times calls “Funny, sad, courageous and touching,” the lm gives a history of the gay and lesbian movement before the Stonewall Riots on June 28, 1969. This event is for LGBTQA youth

between the ages of 14 and 18 only. For more information, visit MetroTampaBay.org or call 727-321-3854.

TUESDAY, JUNE 5

Pride Night at Beak’s 3:30 p.m., Beak’s Old Florida 2451 Central Avenue, St. Petersburg Come out to Tampa Bay’s best kept secret where 25% of all sales will be donated back to St. Pete Pride. Beaks’s Old Florida has been described as “friendly, relaxed casual fun, warm and inviting, and a great tropical respite for grown-ups over 21.”

Tuesdays are also “Two-Fer Tuesday,” so you can enjoy 2 for 1 drinks with any food purchase. For more information, visit BeaksOldFlorida.com.

THURSDAY, JUNE 7

Pride Links Us Together Through Knowledge and Freedom 2 p.m., Bay Pines VA Medical Center 10,000 Bay Pines Boulevard, Bay Pines The LGBT Program Committee at Bay Pines VA Health Care System will host the rst LGBT Pride education and awareness program at the center. This will be an open house-type program for staff, veterans and the public to promote diversity and cultural awareness within the VA system. Particular focus for this year’s event will be on legal issues facing LGBT persons, how changing legislation affects LGBT Federal employees and the impact of the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) on LGBT veterans and the services they receive at VA Medical Centers. The program will be held in the J.C. Cobb special events room in the main hospital building.

St. Pete Pride Proclamation 3 p.m., St. Petersburg City Hall 175 5th St. N., St. Petersburg The City of St. Petersburg will declare June St. Pete Pride Month when council members read the of cial proclamation

in their chambers. The annual tradition will of cially launch St. Pete Pride 2012 and those attending are encouraged to wear rainbow regalia.

ProSuzy Grrrls Mingle 6 p.m., Mythos Greek Taverna 13575 58th Street, Clearwater Join the women in the community to start off Pride Month at this lesbian mixer and meet and greet for an evening of food, drinks and fun. Guests are encouraged to wear rainbow regalia.

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FRIDAY, JUNE 8

Windows On Broadway: A Musical Revue 8 p.m., King of Peace MCC 3150 5th Avenue N., St. Petersburg An evening of the nest songs from Broadway shows through the years, performed by the talented members of the King of Peace music team and joined by special guests from the community at large. $15 advance, $18 at the door, refreshments included.

For more information visit KingOfPeaceMCC.com.

SATURDAY, JUNE 9

Florida Blue Community Day of Service Locations throughout Tampa Bay Today is the day to give back to the community, from volunteering for a local charity organization, joining our annual Barefoot Wine & Bubbly Beach Clean-up or to just helping out a neighbor or friend in need. Sponsored by Florida Blue, volunteer information packets will be available at the following locations from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m.: Florida Blue Center at 201 North West Shore Boulevard in Tampa, Metro Wellness & Community Center at 3251 3rd Avenue North in St. Petersburg and at the Beach Clean-up listed below.

Pride Beach Cleanup & Party

9 a.m.–1 p.m., Location to be announced Join Barefoot Wine, Old Navy and Keep Pinellas Beautiful at a special beach cleanup and lunch celebration. You’ll get a chance to be a part of the Barefoot Wine Beach Rescue Project, a nationwide initiative that travels coast-to-coast keeping America’s beaches, rivers and lakes “barefootfriendly.” Immediately following the cleanup, Barefoot will provide complimentary lunch and wine for all volunteers. Please RSVP to Barefoot@stpetepride.com.

is the rst time the museum has presented his “The Humorous Daydreams of Pantagruel” (1973) based on the French writer Rabelais, and his “Dalí illustrates Casanova” (1967). Both the Rabelais and Casanova suites present a comical and complexly baroque pictorial structure.

Three additional portfolios complement the grotesque and carnival-esque qualities of the previous suites, at the same time tinged with tragedy of the combat between life and death. For more information, visit TheDali.org.

Let’s Talk Sero-isly 6 p.m., Metro Wellness & Community Center 3251 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg

SUNDAY, JUNE 10

Out & Equal CARNIVALE Sunset Cruise On Board at 6:45 p.m.

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Tropics Boat Tours 25 Causeway, Slip #25, Clearwater The traditional Sunset Cruise, fondly referred to as the Booze Cruise, makes a return this year for the 10th Anniversary of St. Pete Pride. Out & Equal Tampa Bay will host this enchanting event as guests have the opportunity to mix and mingle on the Tropics Sunset Party Cruise. Enjoy unlimited beer, wine and vodka punch, live entertainment, DJ and more while enjoying the beautiful sunsets we cherish along the Gulf Coast. Tickets are $40 and space is limited.

Proceeds bene t St. Pete Pride.

For more information and tickets, visit StPetePride.com.

MONDAY, JUNE 11

Grotesque Carnival The Dali Museum One Dali Boulevard, St. Petersburg The Dali Museum will display a new selection of graphic suites and book illustrations, most of which have never been exhibited, starting on June 11.

Dalí’s Grotesque Carnival,

HIV isn’t the rst topic that comes up when most couples start dating. You may not know the HIV status of your partner or you might not even have been tested yourself. It can be a dif cult subject to broach. Join Metro Wellness & Community Centers and AIDS Service Association of Pinellas (ASAP) for this informational round-table with moderator Andrew Schmidt, Ph.D. that will take a look at the issues surrounding Serodiscordant relationships, or couples with one person who is HIV-positive and one who is HIV-negative.

Testing will also be available.

TUESDAY, JUNE 12

Tampa Bay Business Guild Pride Mixer 6 p.m., American Stage 244 2nd Avenue North, St. Petersburg The Tampa Bay Business Guild will host a special Pride business mixer sponsored by St. Pete Pride this month, along with a special performance of Vanishing Point at American Stage.

Mingle with other likeminded professionals

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from throughout Tampa Bay starting at 6 p.m. Then join Todd Olson and Karla Hartley from American Stage inside the theatre at 6:45 p.m. for a special Q&A to provide guests with a behind-the-scenes insight into the production, along with information about the company’s upcoming show, 7 Homeless Mammoths Wander New England.

Guests will receive a special discount for the night’s performance starting at 7:30 p.m. TBBG members get into the mixer at no charge and guests are asked to pay a $10 donation. For more information or to make reservations, visit TBBG.org.

THURSDAY, JUNE 14

ProSuzy Grrrls Mingle for Professional 40+ 6 p.m., A Taste For Wine 241 Central Avenue, St. Petersburg Join the 40+ crew for this second Grrrls Mingle of the season as they welcome in St. Pete Pride at this beautiful

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venue to meet and greet new women in town and have a drink and some appetizers to start off the night.

FRIDAY, JUNE 15

Big Gay Art Show Reception 6 p.m., Metro Wellness & Community Center 3251 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg Presented by Suntan Art Center, local LGBT and allied artists will participate in this month-long exhibition.

Come meet the artists at our opening reception featuring live entertainment by the UV Rays, food from Ricky P’s, Meze 119, Hamburger Mary’s and Spaghetti Warehouse, wine from Barefoot Wines and more. Proceeds will be divided among St. Pete Pride, Metro Wellness & Community Center and Suntan Art Center, a volunteer non-pro t organization offering classes, exhibits and networking for the local arts community.

The show will be on display throughout the month of June. For more information, visit SuntanArt.org or StPetePride.com.

Use your SmartPhone to scan this QR code and see a map of the St. Pete Pride Street Festival or download it by visiting WatermarkOnline.com and clicking on the map’s link.

SATURDAY, JUNE 16

LGBT Leadership Training 9:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m., Metro Wellness & Community Center 3251 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg Metro Wellness & Community Center and St. Pete Pride will present a special LGBT Leadership Training Conference.

Terry Stone from CenterLink, the Community of LGBT Centers, will present topics that help nonpro t boards create successful planning for the future. $25 registration includes lunch and snacks. ($20 for 2 or more from the same organization). For more information and to register, call 727-321-3854, ext. 245 or email LGBT@MetroTampaBay.org.

Little Ashes: A Film Screening 3 p.m., Dalí Museum One Dalí Boulevard, St. Petersburg A ctionalized account of Dalí’s early life, Little Ashes is a contemporary story about universal themes such as love and relationships, longing, loss and betrayal. The three main characters are important Spanish gures—Salvador

Dalí, poet Federico Garcia Lorca and lmmaker Luis Bunuel—who met as students at the Academy of Fine Arts in Madrid. Dalí, Lorca and Bunuel de ed their society’s politics and forged new ground during a time when being an artist was revolutionary—and being a gay or bisexual artist was dangerous.

Together, these distinct personalities learn from each other and develop a complex new language about the nature of art. The event is free, but space is limited and based on rst come, rst served. A second screening is Saturday, June 23 at 3 p.m. For more information contact: CGuidry@TheDali.org or CKamen@TheDali.org

Pride Night at the Rays 7:10 p.m., Tropicana Field One Tropicana Drive, St. Petersburg The Tampa Bay Rays take on the Miami Marlins, but not before Una Voce: The Florida Men’s Chorale sings the National Anthem. General tickets are $20 and a portion of the proceeds bene t St. Pete Pride. VIP Tickets sponsored

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Limited space available for VIP Option. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit StPetePride.com. Tickets also available in the Sports Bar inside Georgie’s Alibi.

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8 p.m., NOVA 535 535 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Street N., St. Petersburg This year, ASAP (AIDS Service Association of Pinellas) takes you back to the ‘70s for a “Boogie Nights” Dance Party and Celebration. The event raises money for ASAP, a Suncoast Hospice af liate.

Tickets are $50 with two free drinks and complimentary valet parking, or $100 VIP tickets with complimentary bar & menu. Tickets are available at ASAPServices.org.

SUNDAY, JUNE 17

Trans*Action presents Mister St. Pete Pride 4 p.m., Flamingo Resort 4601 34th Street South, St. Petersburg Come cheer on your favorite area male impersonators as they compete for the title of Mister St. Pete Pride 2012 poolside at Flamingo Resort. The pageant will be hosted by Faith Michaels and Meagan Towers. The winning king will receive a cash prize, a spot on the main stage at the St. Pete Pride Festival on June 30 and honorary crown and sash. Sponsored

by FindADragShow.com, 6S Boutique and Sacino’s.

For more information, or if you’d like to compete, email Pageants@ StPetePride.com.

8 p.m., Flamingo Resort 4601 34th Street South, St. Petersburg Stick around the Flamingo Resort to see some of the best area female impersonators as they compete for the title of Miss St. Pete Pride 2012 inside the Flamingo’s main bar. The pageant will be hosted by Faith Michaels and Meagan Towers. The winning queen will receive a cash prize, a spot on the main stage at the St. Pete Pride Festival on June 30 and honorary crown and sash. Sponsored

by FindADragShow.com, 6S Boutique and Sacino’s.

For more information, or if you’d like to compete, email Pageants@ StPetePride.com.

MONDAY, JUNE 18

Domestic Partnership 101 6:30 p.m., Metro Wellness & Community Center 3251 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg The ACLU of Florida and Equality Florida will present this informative forum on Domestic Partnership Registries.

We are making strides across the state in the passage of Domestic Partnership Registries and some equal protections for same-sex couples. But what does it mean, why does it matter and why should you care?

Come out for this informative session with city leaders to ask questions and learn about these important legislative victories.

TUESDAY, JUNE 19

St. Pete Pride & Friends Turnabout 8 p.m., Georgie’s Alibi 3100 3rd Ave. N., St. Pete St. Pete Pride Board members and friends of the organization will cross dress for cash during the annual St. Pete Pride Turnabout show bene tting

9 p.m., Bradley’s on 7th 1510 East 7th Avenue, Ybor City

St. Pete Pride and the LGBT programs at the Homeless Coalition of Hillsborough County. Those participating will entertain the crowd with a number and incredibly fabulous out ts, all while reaching for your dollar bills!

Come out, have a few laughs, and enjoy our fabulousness at the most entertaining event of the season.

The Tampa Bay Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence will present this unique fundraiser to bene t St. Pete Pride and the Francis House. It’s hot… it’s sexy… it’s a Sister event!

Come out in your red dress for Jell-o shots, 50/50 raf e, gift basket drawings and a special drag performance at 11:30 p.m.

A $10 donation is requested.

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SUNDAY, JUNE 24

Cabaret

7 p.m., freeFall Theatre 6099 Central Ave., St. Pete The legendary 1966 musical smash hit by Kander and Ebb opens tonight at freeFall Theatre Company. Set in pre-war Weimar, Germany in the seedy world of a Berlin cabaret called the Kit Kat Klub, the show blurs the line of sex and sexuality and has been a staple in gay theater since Joel Grey’s performance as the Emcee in the original Broadway production. For tickets and more information, visit freeFallTheatre.com.

SATURDAY, JUNE 23

Tropical Wave Silent Auction 7 p.m., Push Ultra Lounge 128 3rd Street South, St. Petersburg The Tropical Wave silent auction, known as the anti-black tie event of the year, will bene t St. Pete Pride and the Central Arts District. The dress is Florida Formal, meaning ip- ops and Hawaiian shirts are encouraged! $10 in advance, $15 at the door.

Auction items will range from fabulous vacations, artwork and crafts from local artists, collectibles and more. The Central Arts District includes those galleries between 4th Street and 8th Streets in St. Petersburg and includes Florida Craftsmen Gallery, the 600 Block Galleries and Morean Arts Center. Push Ultra Lounge opens its doors at 10 p.m. so stay after and dance the night away.

For tickets and more information visit StPetePride.com.

Pre-GALA Festival 2012 Concert 3 p.m., First Presbyterian Church 701 Beach Drive NE, St. Petersburg Diversity: The Voices of Sarasota, Diverse Experience, Crescendo: The Tampa Bay Women’s Chorus, UV Rays and Una Voce: The Florida Men’s Chorale will all join together for a night of song at this free concert. Donations will be accepted to bene t each chorus and their upcoming trip to the annual GALA Festival for gay and lesbian choruses nationwide in Denver this July. Come get a special local preview of what each chorus and ensemble will perform this year. For more information, visit Una-Voce.org.

MONDAY, JUNE 25

Prelude to Pride Wizard of Oz 7:30 p.m., American Stage 163 3rd Street North, St. Petersburg This is not your Auntie Em’s Wizard of Oz. Presented

by Suncoast AIDS Theatre Project, join us for this special performance about two women trying to kill each other over a pair of shoes! Starring Matt McGee, Michael Raabe, Joey Panek and more, this event will bene t Metro Wellness & Community Center’s HIV/ AIDS programs. The event is pay-what-you-can, but space is limited. To make reservations call 727-823-PLAY (7529) or visit AmericanStage.org.

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Drag Queen Bingo 7:30 p.m., Hamburger Mary’s 1600 E. 7th Ave., Ybor City Join us Wednesday night for some Bingo Fun at Hamburger Mary’s in Historic Ybor City.

Win fabulous prizes with your host Melanie Minyon. This weekly event draws a crowd, so get there early. The fun starts at 7:30 p.m.. $10 cash donation at the door to play.

Proceeds bene t St. Pete Pride.

TUESDAY, JUNE 26

Historic Kenwood Family Potluck 5:30 p.m., Seminole Park 2900 3rd Ave. N., St. Petersburg Bring the kids and come out for the inaugural Kenwood Neighborhood Family Potluck.

Bring a dish or some grill items and join your friends and neighbors for fun games, music and food. All families, LGBT and our straight allies, are invited to come together for this community-wide event.

And don’t forget to bring your blankets to stick around for the annual Historic Kenwood Movie Night. For more information visit HistoricKenwood.org.

Pride Bene t Square Dance Night 7:30 p.m., King of Peace MCC 3150 5 Ave. N., St. Petersburg th

The LGBT square dancing group Suncoast Squares will hold a special bene t night to

raise money and awareness for St. Pete Pride. Dancers of all (or no) skill levels are invited to participate, meet new friends and learn some new moves.

Come out for food, a silent auction, fabulous door prizes and of course some fun squaredancing. The door charge is $5 and all proceeds are donated to St. Pete Pride. Square dancing is for the LGBT and straight communities. All are welcome! For more information visit SuncoastSquares.com.

Historic Kenwood Movie Night Sunset–approximately 8:45 p.m., Seminole Park 2900 3rd Ave. N., St. Petersburg Bring a blanket or lawn chair to enjoy an outdoor movie in Seminole Park with Historic Kenwood neighbors. This year’s featured lm is Some Like It Hot, starring Marilyn Monroe, Jack Lemon and Tony Curtis. Get there early to grab your favorite spot on the grass and get ready for a relaxing night out with friends. For more information visit HistoricKenwood.org.

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 27

TIGLFF Film Night 8 p.m., The Queens Head Restaurant and Eurobar 2501 Central Avenue, St. Petersburg This year, the Tampa International Gay & Lesbian Film Festival will present The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert on the big screen outside at the Queens Head. Come out and join area drag queens for this gay classic about two drag queens and a transsexual who get a

cabaret gig in the middle of the desert. A $10 Suggested donation bene ts TIGLFF and St. Pete Pride. Afterwards, stick around for a special Stonewall Anniversary version of the venue’s weekly trivia night. For more information or to purchase tickets visit TIGLFF.com.

THURSDAY, JUNE 28

Stonewall Commemorative Reception 6 p.m., St. Petersburg Museum of Fine Arts 225 Beach Dr. N.E., St. Petersburg The Stonewall Commemorative Reception, sponsored by Carlton Fields, is St. Pete Pride’s sponsor and friends’ reception. Recently named the No. 3 location in the eastern United States for wedding receptions by Martha Stewart, the MFA is ready to inspire you with diverse and everchanging opportunities to experience art with a legendary permanent collection to fascinating traveling exhibits.

Una Voce will provide special entertainment along with Pride Weekend’s Mistress of Ceremonies Christine O’Leary in the Marly Room. This year, all galleries of the museum will be open to attendees with food and an open full-service bar. Tickets are $25 in advance, $30 at the door. For more information visit StPetePride.com.

FRIDAY, JUNE 29

Pride in Fashion 6 p.m., Macy’s at Tyrone Square 6901 Tyrone Square, St. Petersburg Kick off the Pre-Pride Party with a fashion extravaganza presented by Macy’s on Friday night. Join celebrity guests, including comedian and actor Alec Mapa from Ugly

Betty, actor and musician Jai Rodriguez from Queer Eye for the Straight Guy fame and comedienne Christine O’Leary. See the latest trends in fashion and enjoy complimentary hors d’oeuvres and champagne provided by Georgie’s Alibi and Barefoot Wine and Bubbly. A $10 suggested donation to the event is requested, which Macy’s will return with a $10 gift card to be used on merchandise.

All proceeds bene t St. Pete Pride. For more information visit StPetePride.com.

ROCK 4 PRIDE 8 p.m., Local 662 662 Central Avenue, St. Petersburg TwirlGirl Promotions presents a “ROCKIN” live music event & “gal” party with local band Someday Souvenir and musical guests Rise of Saturn & Bedroom Set. Tickets are $15 in advance, $20 at the door. For more information at Facebook.com/TwirlGirlPromotions.

Jagermeister Pride Pre-Party 9 p.m., Georgie’s Alibi 3100 3rd Ave. N., St. Petersburg Celebrate St. Pete Pride with RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 4 winner Sharon Needles at the of cial kickoff party at Georgie’s Alibi the night before the Street Festival and Promenade. Don’t miss this night of fun with great music, entertainment, drink specials, giveaways and more kick-starting the weekend prior to Florida’s Largest Pride Celebration.

For more information visit GeorgiesAlibi.com.

SATURDAY, JUNE 30

Una-Voce Pride Pancake Breakfast 7 a.m., King of Peace MCC 3150 5th Ave. N., St. Pete Pride Day is a big day, so why not start with a big breakfast? The annual all-you-

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can-eat pancake breakfast, presented by Una Voce: The Florida Men’s Chorale, is only $6 with a portion donated back to St. Pete Pride.

Pancakes, coffee and juice are among the selections at the annual breakfast. For details, visit Una-Voce.org.

St. Pete Pride Promenade 9 a.m., Route is from Georgie’s Alibi, through Kenwood and along Central Ave., St. Pete Floats from organizations, clubs, social groups and businesses will be decked out in rainbow colors and CARNIVALE decorations for the 10th annual St. Pete Pride Promenade. This year’s parade will feature the founding Board Members of St. Pete Pride and 10 Grand Marshals representing organizations and individuals who’ve helped shape the LGBT community in Tampa Bay over the past 10 years.

St. Pete Pride Street Festival 10 a.m., Grand Central District Central Ave between 21st St. and 28th St., St. Pete Join us for CARNIVALE—The 10th Annual Pride in Paradise.

Vendors from across the state will line Central Avenue to celebrate their commitment to diversity. But remember: June is hot, so wear light-colored clothes and a hat to protect yourself from that Florida sun— and don’t forget the sunscreen!

Want to experience the festival as a VIP? Visit StPetePride.com for more details.

GSA Beach Party 4 p.m., Fort De Soto Park 3500 Pinellas Bayway, Tierra Verde High school and college GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance) students are invited to enjoy

A blue headline denotes an of cial St. Pete Pride event.

the beautiful beach at Fort DeSoto Park this afternoon.

The largest park within the Pinellas County Park System, Fort DeSoto consists of 1,136 acres of ve interconnected island. Enjoy the beautiful water, beach games, live music, and a cookout celebrating St. Pete Pride. $5 donation is requested and daily parking fees may be required. For more information visit StPetePride.com and GSAUSFSP.org.

Evening with Christine O’Leary Doors 7 p.m., Show 8 p.m., Metro Wellness & Community Center 3251 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg Join us for an intimate evening with the funny goddess herself—this year’s Mistress of Ceremonies, Christine O’Leary. She has been called “brash, bold and a delicious delight” and has been nominated one of the America’s 50 Funniest Lesbians. $10 cover. Cash bar. For more information and tickets visit StPetePride.com. Proceeds bene t Metro Wellness & Community Center.

SUNDAY, JULY 1

Detox Beach Day 10 a.m., Pinellas County’s Gulf Coast Sunday is traditionally beach day for St. Petersburg’s LGBT community, so the St. Pete Pride board suggests grabbing your favorite rainbow umbrella and beach towel and heading out to celebrate diversity along the water. Enjoy our beautiful, LGBT friendly beaches, which include Fort DeSoto, Pass-AGrille, Gulfport, North Shore Beach and Sunset Beach.

Celebrate the 10th anniversary of the inaugural Pride Night at the Trop when the Tampa Bay Rays take on the Maimi Marlins on Saturday, June 16.

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2 p.m., Flamingo Resort 4601 34th St. S., St. Petersburg Come party around the pool for the hottest T-Dance in town. Drink specials, drag queens, live entertainment, hot male strippers, giveaways and special guests from RuPaul’s Drag Race along with the Florida Jai Rodriguez— sun ensure that the along with Alec party never ends. Come Mapa and Christine O’Leary—will host this dance the afternoon year’s Pride in Fashion away at St. Pete Pride’s event at Macy’s in Tyrone of cial closing party.

Mall on Friday, June 29.

For more information visit FlamingoFla.com.

MONDAY, JULY 2

8th Annual Night of Alternative Theatre: Wizard of Oz 7:30 p.m., American Stage 163 3rd Street North, St. Petersburg

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ctionalized The Suncoast AIDS account of Theatre Project will Dali’s early life present this encoré when the Dali Museum screens performance about two Little Ashes on women trying to kill Saturday June 16 each other over a pair and June 23. of f shoes. Tonight’s event will bene t ASAP. The event is pay-what-youcan. To make reservations call 727-823-PLAY (7529) or visit AmericanStage.org. | |

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SCHEDULE OF ENTERTAINMENT // JUNE 30, 2012

Entertainment guide Two stages return to bring local and national performers to Pride

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n 2012, St. Pete Pride returns to its popular two-stage format as it presents local and national entertainment throughout the day of the Street Festival on Saturday, June 30.

The Jagermeister Main Stage, located on Central Avenue at 21st Street, will showcase live musicians and bands and be the site where of cials will read the of cial Proclamation from the City of St. Petersburg declaring June St. Pete Pride Month.

The Detour Pride Stage, on Central at 26th Street, will feature several impersonator acts, live focalists and dance music provided by DJ Skittles.

Times and acts are subject to change.

by Miss Gay Florida USofA, Anjila Cavalier

Jennifer’s lifelong passion for music is a motivating factor for sharing her musical gift with as many people as possible. Her genuine enthusiasm and commanding stage presence will captivate audiences and make for a most memorable performance. Jennifer is a sought after female vocal artist, concert performer and studio musician, throughout Tampa Bay.

10:35 a.m. Reading of City Proclamation

Noon Mr. & Miss St. Pete Pride 2012

Jagermeister Main Stage Central Avenue at 21st Street 10:30 a.m. National Anthem, performed

10:45 a.m.

Double M Band

Since its beginning in 1994, the Double M Band has built a reputation as one of Tampa Bay and Florida’s favorite all-occasion party bands.

Lead vocalist Mario Jooste and keyboardist Michael Monrad have played venues across the Sunshine State and have several regular weekly gigs right here in Tampa Bay. Guitarist Josh Rasmussen joined the band a few years back and has added a fuller sound to the energetic pop group.

Double M Band has sold more than 5,000 albums and will drop their 2012 album, Best Yet, later this summer.

For details, visit DoubleMBand.com.

11:15 a.m. Mr. & Miss St. Pete Pride 2011 Jeada Fuentes and Aiden Taylor

11:30 a.m.: Jennifer Real

When it comes to raw, unadulterated natural musical talent, Jennifer Real is the quintessential poster child. Her natural musical talent and mind-boggling four-octave range inspires all who happen to hear her sultry, seductive musical prowess.

12:15: |Karmic Tattoo

Karmic Tattoo’s members hail from throughout Tampa Bay and have a strong following of women and men. Known for their interaction with their audience, these women know how to get the crowd going. KT fans are something to behold— awesome and enthusiastic and leave KT concerts rejuvenated and empowered.

Blending 60s, 70s on up to today’s hits with beautifully rich harmonies, they are a fun loving group playing electric, acoustic & bass guitars and an unusual “drum set on a stick” that continually fascinates audiences.

KT’s music is playful feminine rock that heals the soul and captures many moments of life.

For more information, check out KarmicTattooBand.com.

12: 45 p.m. Miss USofA at Large Desiree Demornay and Miss ASAP Aspen Love 1 p.m.: Deborah Cox

Deborah Cox’s dance anthems have played in LGBT clubs around the world since the mid 1990s. Today the performer is still releasing hits while starring in Broadway productions and making

Detour Pride Stage Central Ave. at 26th St. 11:15 a.m. DJ Skittles Noon Alexis De La Mer 12:15 p.m. Franki Markstone 12:30 p.m. Jasmine Skiies, Miss Carolina Continental

1:45 p.m. Talent Quest Florida 3 p.m. DJ Skittles

cameos in television and lm projects.

So it makes sense that the talented advocate be the rst major headline to take the stage at St. Pete Pride. For more on Deborah Cox, see the interview on Page 37.

1:30 p.m. Alisa Summers and Alexis Mateo of RuPaul’s Drag Race 2 p.m.: Halcyon

Deb Hunseder and Steph Callahan met in 1989 and had their rst gig two weeks later. From the rst note, they knew they had something special. The duo has opened for national acts including John Mayer, Pat Benatar, Joan Osborne, Sister Hazel, Crosby, Stills, and Nash, Joan Bias, Wynona Judd, Sarah Bettens, Melissa Ferrick, and Koko Taylor.

They’ve also performed their stirring accapella rendition of the national anthem for the Atlanta Braves, Tampa Bay Rays and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.

With more than two decades of experience and eight CDs between them in the bag, this duo is a nely tuned personable act. For more information, visit HalcyonMusic.com.

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Codependency gone wild

Christine O’Leary loves those who love her

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BY STEVE BLANCHARD

hristine O’Leary has many titles.

She’s a comedienne, a lesbian, a wife and St. Pete Pride 2012’s Mistress of Ceremonies.

But the New England resident is so familiar with St. Petersburg and Tampa now (this will be her third time to St. Pete Pride) she has a different title in mind.

“I want to be Miss St. Pete Fabulosity—with a sash,” O’Leary says from her New England home. “I see purple sparkles. But I want a sash, not a messenger bag. Those skinny queens make those small ones. If I try one on I don’t want it up around my neck. Oh, and a crown—and some twinkle dust.”

O’Leary is not shy when it comes to

meeting new people or entertaining large crowds—so she was thrilled to learn that she would be the Mistress of Ceremonies at a number of events over St. Pete Pride weekend. It’s a gig that suits her just ne.

“I really want to meet and have fun with anyone who wants me,” O’Leary says. “That’s really the truth. If you want me there and I want to be there; and if you want to have fun and feel included and fabulous and special, then I’m the girl. I want to feel that way too.

“It really is codependency gone wild.”

After O’Leary’s rst visit to St. Pete Pride in 2008, she fell in love with Tampa Bay. Not necessarily just the locale, but the people who inhabit it. She’s come back for other special events besides St. Pete Pride and

says every experience is a memorable one.

“You have incredible people there,” she says. “I do fall in love with whatever community loves and wants me and there’s something about St. Pete. I don’t know if it’s the damn bridges or something, but you folks seem to be so present and so right in the game. You’re good-hearted, stand-up people. I want to be part of that group!”

It’s no wonder that Tampa Bay fell in love with O’Leary after her rst show here. Her comic timing always seems on—both on and off the stage—and her ability to make everyone in the room feel included has earned her countless fans throughout the Sunshine State.

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No Drama Zone “Listen, there is a lot of drama in gay communities because we don’t have equality in the world,” O’Leary says. “Let’s just rally for the good because our LGBT people are already disenfranchised enough. It’s already hard enough to be LGBT—especially in Florida. I believe gay people have to be better to each other. Just because.

Period. The end. I’m like the lesbian Oprah or Julie McCoy [of the Love Boat] that is always preaching to be good to each other.”

To say that laughter is the best medicine may seem clichéd and dated, but it’s a mantra by which O’Leary lives. When we laugh, she says, we feel better, no matter our circumstance.

She’s fortunate enough that her job is laughter, and she’s not afraid to use it.

“I look at my role like Bette Midler in the Bathhouse with the boys,” O’Leary laughs. “I’m an entertainer. I sing a little, dance a little and nd it hard to do both and not tinkle.”

During her appearance at Laughter in Paradise back in 2008, O’Leary decided to bring to the stage that year’s grand marshal, Janice Langbehn. Langbehn made headlines when she was unable to be with her wife when she passed away a few months earlier because the hospital didn’t view the two women as spouses.

“There sat Janice,” O’Leary remembers.

“She was by herself with some legal advisers, no kids… She’s not the kind of person who does public speaking—or has the out ts worked out—but she was laughing and enjoying the show. So I bring her on stage, do my bit about how food is like sex and the next thing you know I throw my chubby leg over her shoulder.”

O’Leary still remembers the surprise in the audience at her comic choice, but says she wouldn’t change a thing.

“Your community was worried about how to be respectful,” she says. “Any comic would say don’t do a bit like that on someone like Janice. But I knew it would be fun and that she’d love being a good sport rather than a fragile woman. I wanted the crowd to watch her be alright.”

“I’m an entertainer. I sing a little, dance a little and find it hard to do both and not tinkle.”

Bring on the heat As a New Englander, O’Leary isn’t as used to the Florida heat and humidity as many locals. However, she has had her fair share of time in the Florida sun.

“Oh my God, the heat,” O’Leary

—CHRISTINE O’LEARY

remembers. “I remember sitting on an ice block during St. Pete Pride one year.

I swear it should have counted as a visit with my gynecologist. I made an ice fossil of my punani.”

But braving the heat is worth it, O’Leary says, because Pride is just as important now as it was back in the days of the Stonewall Riots.

“It’s important to take up space and be who you are,” says O’Leary, who has spent the past seven years with her partner, whom she refers to as her “luzband.” “As time goes on, we get to do that and be more authentic in our every day lives all the time. So today, the world isn’t quite as closeted and aggressive and homophobic as it once was. But we’re not there yet.”

For one day, she says, LGBTs get to have full equality out in the open. It also gives the community a chance to include others, to share what it means to be proud of your relationship and who you

are as a person.

“People want to be included—the numbers re ect that,” O’Leary says.

“It’s easy to say that some of our events are over-produced, like white parties or whatever. That can be hard for me sometimes because our ght to become equal in some ways is more produced

by Mike’s Hard Lemonade—or as I often say, ‘booze and lube’—rather than social justice. But I get that, and that’s a part of who we are.” | |

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A Proud Reputation St Petersburg’s progress continues to bolster its LGBT attraction

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T. PETERSBURG | A lot can happen in a decade.

Since the rst St. Pete Pride 10 years ago, the City of St. Petersburg has added a new reputation to the one it already has as a vacation destination. It’s now seen as one of the most inclusive cities for LGBTs and our families in the entire state.

In 2003—the same year St. Pete Pride was born—the City of St. Petersburg expanded its human rights ordinance to include protections for gay and lesbian citizens. In 2008, Pinellas County passed a similar ordinance.

Currently, St. Petersburg and Pinellas County are working on implementing Domestic Partnership Registries, which will grant access to unmarried couples—gay and straight—to several rights typically reserved or legally married copules. Under the proposed ordinance, domestic partners can make medical decisions or each other, plan funerals, have access to their children’s education and more.

It goes along with the history of change in St. Petersburg, according to Lorraine Brock, associate pastor at King of Peace Metropolitan Community Church.

“The city is growing more accepting,” she says. “I don’t want to say ‘tolerant’ because that’s negative. I don’t want to be tolerated, I want to be accepted—and St. Pete has begun to do that.”

While Brock says there are always areas for improvement, she’s happy with the city’s willingness to work with the LGBT

passed through the district. community.

“St. Pete Pride opens people’s eyes,” says “As the city responds better to our Brian Win eld of Equality Florida. “Even if community, we have to respond better to the all you do is watch some of the news reports, city,” Brock says. “We have to let the city you can see the reporters have gotten better know when they’re doing something good. with not just reporting on most visually Our community will be very critical if the extreme people in parade. They also include city does something we don’t like. But when the family pushing a stroller in the parade. we take a step toward progress, we must sit People are seeing the many facets of the up and let the city know we appreciate what LGBT community.” they’re doing. It’s a two-way street.”

Win eld describes 2012 as a “tipping The late 1990s and 2000s were a boom point” for St. Petersburg—and Florida as a for the LGBT community of St. Petersburg. whole when it comes to equality legislation.

In 1998, the Suncoast Resort opened to Over the past much fanfare. Three decade, monumental years later, Georgie’s advances have been Alibi invited the LGBT made favoring the community to enjoy its LGBT community— signature drinks (Long like the current Island Iced Teas) and spread of Domestic its regular drag shows.

Partnership Registries When the Suncoast —BRIAN WINFIELD, EQUALITY FLORIDA currently across Resort closed in 2007, the region and the St. Petersburg LGBTs Florida Supreme Court’s 2010 ruling that the had to wait two years for a new resort to state’s ban on gays and lesbians adopting welcome them to T-dances. The Flamingo children was unconstitutional.

Resort opened in the summer of 2009 and “It’s a completely new world today,” is a weekly stop for many locals looking for Win eld says. “There was a oodgate of fun in the sun or drag shows and special LGBT families lining up to adopt children. entertainment in the evenings.

Hundreds and hundreds have taken place In 1999, the Grand Central District began in just the year and a half since the court revitalizing the Central Avenue area just determined that ban was unconstitutional.” south of the Kenwood neighborhood and St. Petersburg and Pinellas County a string of LGBT bars and restaurants and continue to be havens or LGBT people and shops soon moved in. During Pride month, families headed by same-sex partners. the association has helped display rainbow “Things just keep getting better here,” ags to celebrate LGBT culture and every Win eld says. | | Promenade since the rst St. Pete Pride has

“People are seeing the many facets of the LGBT community.”

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Planting a dream

Two of Pride’s founders re ect on those early years of St. Pete Pride

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T. PETERSBURG | When a small group of citizens gathered at a local bar to discuss organizing a street festival devoted to the LGBT community in 2003, none of them knew exactly what they were in for.

“I never thought it would grow as fast or as big as it has,” says Brian Longstreth, who was a co-chair of St. Pete Pride its inaugural year. “I always thought it would be a nice event, but it’s grown into a regional Pride event. I’m proud of what it’s become.”

That rst Board of Directors included Longstreth’s co-chair, Ellen Levett, secretary Rod Houston and treasurer Gerry Broughman. Other members were Ed Cassidy, Claudia Cole, Robin Hankins, Robert Danielson, Carl Kuttler III, George Shaughnessy, Greg Stemm and Robert Victor.

Stemm, who later served as a co-chair in 2005, remembers organizing the very rst promenade—which had its fair share of stress.

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that it is today—but both are thrilled with and I did it from scratch,” Stemm the success of the event they created. remembers. “I had some experience “I always thought it would be a nice because I had helped with the Festival of event, but I never thought it would have States. I remember setting up the launch the draw it has today,” Longstreth says. “It’s area that rst year and creating some grown into a regional Pride event, which is zig-zag format for the oats that just didn’t a challenge unto itself. But it has continued work. The next year we lined up everyone to be something for locals that is also a huge differently and that’s the process they still economic event for the use today.” city.”

Stemm says that in the Each year Stemm is inaugural year, St. Pete amazed by the growth Pride organizers were of the festival and nervous because of rains pleasantly surprised by that had drenched the area it’s ongoing popularity. early on the morning of the “Never in my festival.

—BRIAN LONGSTRETH, “It was cloudy and ST. PETE PRIDE 2003 CO-CHAIR wildest imagination did I imagine it getting it was still kind of so big,” Stemm says. questionable,” Stemm “Now I walk around and think,’ God, we remembers. “But about two minutes before created a monster—but in a good way.’” we stepped off, the sun broke through and Stemm has never missed a St. Pete Pride we had an amazing rainbow right over us. It Street Festival and plans to be part of it for was breathtaking—God showed up for our as long as he is able. parade.”

“It’s my favorite day of the year,” Stemm Neither Longstreth nor Stemm ever says. “I like it better than Christmas.” | | expected St. Pete Pride to grow to the size

“I never thought it would have the draw it has today.”

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