2019 St Pete Pride Guide

June 2019

Honoring 50 Years Since the Riots at Stonewall

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Table of Contents Pride Essentials

COVER

11 | LETTER FROM MAYOR RICK KRISEMAN 12 | LGBT TIMELINE 21 | THE ONGOING FIGHT FOR LGBTQ CIVIL RIGHTS 42 | AREA MAP

Features

41 | THE BEST BARS IN THE BAY AREA

67 | TRANSPORTATION MAP

47 | ABOUT THE HEADLINERS

75 | GRAND MARSHALS

51 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT: DANIEL CHRISTIAN w/ GENDER UNLIMITED 55 | METRO WELLNESS: THE IMPORTANCE OF AN LGBTQ+ OR AFFIRMING MEDICAL PROVIDER

Schedule 25 | WEDNESDAY SCHEDULE 27 | THURSDAY SCHEDULE 29 | FRIDAY SCHEDULE 31 | SATURDAY SCHEDULE 35 | SUNDAY SCHEDULE

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17 | ABSOLUT: TAKING PRIDE IN DIVERSITY

59 | PRIDE COMMUNITY EVENTS

87 | PRIDE BOARD & STAFF BIOS

St Pete Pride honors those members of the LGBTQ+ community who began the Gay Rights Movement and paved the way for it's organixation and mission.

69 | JAKE & ANDY: A REAL ST PETE LOVE STORY 71 | THE TAMPA BAY DIVERSITY CHAMBER OF COMMERCE NGLCC CONFERENCE 81 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT: ERIK SWOPE-WISE

STAFF Luke Blankenship, Executive Director Fernando Chonqui, Development Director

BOARD OF DIRECTORS Chrys Bundy, President Nathan Bruemmer, Vice President Richard Brandt, Secretary Stanley Solomons, Treasurer J. Aller Scion Crowder Laura Legarreta Susan McGrath

DIRECTORS OF OPERATIONS Tri Nguyen, Volunteer Director Travis Geerdes, Parade Director Daniel Doolin, Parade Director Dan Garcia, Parade Director Dave Cousineau, Festival Director Jessy Hanks, Festival Director George Allen, Festival Director Molly Robinson, Pride Parks Director Danny McAfee, Pride Parks Director

OUR MISSION The purpose of St Pete Pride is to promote unity, visibility, self-esteem, and a positive image of and among the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) community of Tampa Bay and throughout the State of Florida by way of cultural and educational programs and activities. www.stpetepride.com |

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Moments that defined LGBTQ+ History 1958 - 2019

LGBT Timeline

Milestones in the American LGBTQ+ Movement 1987

Jane Golden is murdered in St. Petersburg. It is the first known murder of a transgender person in Florida.

1977

June 28th, 1969

Police officers attempt to raid the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village, sparking a three-day riot.

Thousands of protesters spark America’s modern LGBTQ+ rights movement.

Save Our Children campaign formed resulting in the ban of same-sex adoptions in Florida.

1973

USF Gay Coalition is formed and is considered the longest continuing campus sanctioned organization of its kind at a higher educational institution in Florida.

1958 - 1961

Johns Committee founded to investigate homosexual behavior; 130 gay men arrested in Tampa.

1963

USF expells a student for “definite homosexual tendencies.”

1975

Pride Picnics begin at USF Riverfront Park.

2007

Largo receives national attention when City Manager, Steve Stanton, announces plans to undergo gender reassignment surgery. The city fires him, claiming he is untrustworthy.

1989

Tampa International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival is founded.

2008

Pinellas county adopts human rights ordinance that prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation.

2015 2003

Inaugural St Pete Pride Promenade & Festival held. Tampa Mayor Pam Iorio grants domestic partner benefits to LGBTQ+ employees.

US Supreme Court rules banning gay marriage is unconstitutional.

2005

Hillsborough County Commissioner Ronda Storms successfully leads vote to ban displays of Gay Pride on basis of high-risk behavior.

1991

Sexual orientation is added to the Florida Hate Crimes Reporting Act. Gay Days Begins. PFLAG Tampa, Crescendo, and the Tampa Bay Womyn’s Chorus, are formed.

2019

50th Anniversary of the Stonewall Riots.

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March 28, 2019

The ongoing fight for LGBTQ civil rights

This year marks the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots in New York City, a pivotal moment in the pursuit of LGBTQ equality and civil rights in the U.S. ‘Viewpoints’ invites guest authors from outside of Wells Fargo to share an important perspective related to their work. Today, we welcome Christopher Rudisill, executive director of the Stonewall National Museum & Archives.

A crowd clashes with police officers outside the Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street in New York’s Greenwich Village on June 28, 1969.

Photo credit: NY Daily News Archive via Getty Images

With the recent gains made by the LGBTQ community in social acceptance and inclusion, it can be easy to forget how different things were just last decade, let alone 50 years ago.

Today, loving couples can marry regardless of their sexual orientation, LGBTQ politicians hold offices around the country, and successful media images — such as RuPaul and the TV shows “Queer Eye” and “Will & Grace” — bring LGBTQ stories to life in living rooms every day.

But the LGBTQ community has faced a long struggle to reach this point.

This was a time in U.S. history when homosexuality was still listed as a mental disorder, and gay behavior was illegal in 49 states. People could be arrested for having a physical relationship with a member of the same sex. The act of wearing clothes resembling the opposite gender was outlawed.

In major cities, raids of gay bars were common.

In the 1950s, organizing began with the formation of LGBTQ civil rights groups like the Mattachine Society and Daughters of Bilitis. The 1960s gave way to pioneering activists who picketed draft boards to protest the policy of releasing information about men’s sexual orientation to employers. These groups also picketed at Independence Hall in Philadelphia and the White House in Washington, D.C., to protest the federal government’s policy of discrimination and hostility against its homosexual American citizens.

The Compton’s Cafeteria Riot in San Francisco in 1966 marked the beginning of transgender activism.

Marches and protests had been ramping up as well, including at the Black Cat Tavern in Los Angeles, the site of a 1967 civil demonstration to protest police raids.

All of this culminated in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street in New York City.

‘This is what we’ve been waiting for’ The summer of 1969 had witnessed a surge in bar raids by New York City police. All of the raids took place in the same neighborhood, and the fateful raid on Greenwich Village’s Stonewall Inn was the second in less than a week.

It was the first hot weekend of the summer. At about 1 a.m. on Saturday, June 28, eight New York City police officers entered the Stonewall Inn and ordered the 200 or so patrons to line up and produce identification.

Many refused, and those without proper IDs, drag queens, and several employees were arrested.

Young people gather outside the boarded-up Stonewall Inn in summer 1969. In 2016, the site was designated a United States National Monument.

Photo credit: Fred W. McDarrah/Getty Images

As verbal protests over the raid turned to physical violence, the police barricaded themselves in the Stonewall Inn. After several hours of confrontation, things seemed to settle down — only to see the rioting begin again the following night.

The riots at New York City’s Stonewall Inn in June 1969 are generally cited as a catalyst for the LGBTQ rights movement, but efforts had been growing steadily during the previous two decades.

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“There was a very volatile active political feeling, especially among young people … when the night of the Stonewall riots came along. Just everything came together at that one moment,” recalled Craig Rodwell, a gay rights activist who was at the Stonewall riots. “People often ask what was special about that night … there was no one thing special about it. It was just everything coming together, one of those moments in history that if you were there, you knew, this is it, this is what we’ve been waiting for.”

Media coverage immediately afterward was minimal and very few photographs of the riots are known to exist — certainly none of the riots themselves. Beyond personal accounts and a few newspaper articles, the Stonewall riots are virtually undocumented.

In the days and weeks following the riots, a rash of meetings took place, and within a month pioneering organizations such as the Mattachine Society and Daughters of Bilitis secured a city permit and organized the first mass rally for gay rights.

The Stonewall Inn and surrounding area were the site of a series of demonstrations and riots in June 1969, which led to the formation of the modern LGBTQ rights movement in the United States.

‘A fight that is far from over’ The first anniversary of the Stonewall riots was commemorated as Christopher Street Liberation Day. On Sunday, June 28, 1970, several hundred LGBTQ people gathered at Washington Square in Greenwich Village and marched to Central Park to a “Gay-In.” By the time they arrived at the park, the crowd had grown to the thousands, making it the largest gay demonstration of its time.

The site itself was designated a historic landmark and, in 1999, was added to the National Register of Historic Places, the first listed site with a connection to gay and lesbian history. In 2016, the site was designated a United States National Monument.

As we mark the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots, the event has become the symbol of the LGBTQ rights movement. Pride events are held throughout the world to commemorate the riots, and the Stonewall Inn has become a place of pilgrimage. As we celebrate this year, we remember that this moment in time — this flashpoint in an ongoing movement — was a turning point in a fight that is far from over.

Wells Fargo's John Lake is interviewed at the Newseum's Rise Up exhibition in Washington, D.C., making the 50th anniversary of Stonewall riots.

The events around Stonewall that occurred 50 years ago are just a small part of LGBTQ history and the contributions of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer individuals in America.

Two projects this year — the Rise Up exhibition at Washington D.C.’s Newseum and the Stonewall National Museum & Archives’ LGBTQ History Traveling Exhibition Program — share these important stories of our past and present and celebrate American history through an LGBTQ lens.

In its 45th year of operation, the Stonewall National Museum & Archives is one of only a few museums in the country dedicated solely to the history, civil rights, and culture of LGBTQ people. Through an extensive library, archival collection, programming, exhibitions, and a national education program, the museum works to promote understanding through preserving and sharing the proud culture of the community.

When we share the stories of the Stonewall riots, or monumental things that have shaped our country since — including the AIDS epidemic, “don’t ask don’t tell” law, transgender equality, marriage equality, and adoption rights — we’re sharing the stories of hope, of perseverance, and of community.

These are the stories of the LGBTQ experience of America. These are the stories that will guide the youth of today as they become the next trailblazers of tomorrow — as they take the reins of this movement built upon the contributions of our past.

From Stonewall and the events that led up to that pivotal night in 1969, to the historic events today, it is important this year more than ever that we continue to protect and make visible the social, cultural, and civil rights history of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer people throughout our communities.

Fifty years after the riots, the Stonewall Inn is celebrated for its role in LGBTQ history and is listed on the National Register of Historic Places.

Contributors: Christopher Frers, Matt Wadley and Dustin Wilson

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Stonewall St Pete Pride Reception Museum of Fine Arts Limited Tickets Available For A Limited Time @$30

7:00PM - 9:00PM

What started out as an event for friends who enjoy the arts has turned into the must-attend reception during the week of Pride. Hosted and sponsored by the Museum of Fine Arts in St. Petersburg, the Stonewall Reception by St Pete Pride will feature an open full bar and light hors d’voeuvres.

The Art of Fashion Museum of Fine Arts

Included with admission to the Stonewall St Pete Pride Reception “The Art Of Fashion” is anything but a common fashion show. Our vision is to bring together the unique and creative influences of a diverse blend of area designers, stylists, models and creators, to show the vibrant artistry of fashion.

Designers, Urban Native by Erik Wise, Elizabeth Carson Racker & Audrey Pat McGhee, along with stylist Ricc Rollins from The Style Lab, combine to deliver you glamour, resort chic, the Avant-garde and a splash of individuality.

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SP2 Concert North Straub Park Limited tickets available starting at $50

Gates Open at 6:00PM

The SP2 Concert hosted by Alexis Mateo is a fundraising event to assist in funding various Tampa Bay community organizations. A mix of various bands and local singers will warm up the crowd as attendees cool down with their choice of Bud Light and Absolut Vodka beverages. Beverage sales benefit the St Pete Pride Community Grants Program.

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Board games, movies and beer await you at the Flying Boat Brewing Company. Visit the up and coming LGBT-friendly brewery in town as they host a pre-party with an emphasis on the gender expansive community.

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St Pete Pride Celebration Bayshore Dr., North & South Straub Park Always Free, Everyone Welcome.

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Featuring live entertainment on the Wells Fargo & HCA Stages, diverse food and beverage vendors, and SunTrust Family area and Amazon Art Zone, the St Pete Pride Celebration is the best way to begin your parade experience.

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Now an annual tradition, we continue to fight for rights of our trans and gender non-conforming siblings. Last years march saw a record 750 marchers open our parade in advocacy, celebration and a coming together of our community.

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The Glittering Firework Celebration presented by Hard Rock Hotel & Casino

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Approx. 10:30PM

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Art Zone presented by Amazon South Straub Park

Opens at 2:00PM

If you’ve been to St. Pete for more than 20 minutes, you know how integral the art culture is within the city. Join local muralists in their live art creations, NOMAD Art Bus and more as you can snag a glimpse of the creativity St. Pete offers.

Family Area presented by Suntrust South Straub Park

Opens at 2:00PM

Want to bring the family out for a nice day in the park and a good view of the parade? Join kids and kids at heart and immerse in familyfriendly activations. In partnership with Great Explorations Children’s Museum and SunTrust Bank, we are proud to provide a swell time for people of all ages.

Chill Zone presented by Truelive North Straub Park

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On a hot summer day in the Sunshine State, there's nothing better than to cool down with some shade under a nice tent. Swing by our Chill Zone where you can take a breather from the hustle of the parade route.

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Join us in the Grand Central District for one of the community’s mostloved events.

The St Pete Pride Street Festival attracts more than 40,000 people that enjoy a selection of cuisine while perusing blocks of community exhibitors and learning from local LGBTQ+ organizations. We top it off with wonderful entertainment from various venues throughout the district all day long, ensuring that there’s something for everyone, including you.

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Daniel Christian

Luke: What happened after that?

Daniel: Because her husband was from a good family, her parents turned against her, saying ‘what kind of woman are you, you can’t have children?

Allah, put us on this Earth to bring children to our husbands and you can’t even bear fruit?’

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Daniel Christian is a distinguished army veteran. During his tours overseas, he met people of various cultures and backgrounds that changed his life. In an interview with Executive Director Luke Blankenship, Daniel describes the tragic events of two individuals, Aaminah and Pranaya.

In their memory, Daniel founded an LGBTQ+ rights organization, Gender Unlimited, USA. Disclaimer: Tough experiences across various aspects of life, including sexual assault, are discussed. Nothing said is indictment on any culture or religion as a whole.

Luke: Now you’re an ex-military soldier, worked for the army during the war on terror and headed over to the Middle East. Tell us about your tour, how long and what did you do over there?

She told me that her marriage was over and her husband left her. I was shocked, because she was so nice, fun, and beautiful. Then she told me how the first 2 months they tried to conceive a child.

Daniel: In 2002, I was stationed in Qatar. I was a Logistic Analyst, while maintaining a government contract for the military. Specifically War stock: helicopters, weapons, vehicles. Specifically, anything the soldiers needed to go fight and complete their mission.

But after many failed attempts, she finally went to a physician, who informed her she had fibroids in her uterus. And it was really important that she have a surgery to remove them, because it could cause complications later. Once the surgery was complete, the doctor informed her 3 weeks later, she will not be able to conceive children.

Luke: Tell us some non-military experiences you had over in the Middle East, specifically the couple you met over there, Aaminah and Pranaya.

Daniel: The girls were regular people… One worked in a bank and held our government account. Over a two year period, we built a business relationship and bond. One day she told me she was getting married. So every month when I went to the bank, I would count down to the day. After six months, I went to her going away party and didn’t see her again until about 3 months later. She looked sickly and anorexic… I barely recognized her. I said her name “Aaminah” and looked at me and started crying. I asked her to stop crying and let’s go somewhere to sit and talk. I asked her what happened, because 6 months ago she was happy and full of life.

She was always told, that the purpose to get married was to have children, so she can have a family. She said it was always an honor, when the husband has a boy to carry on the family name and traditions.

Once her husband found out she couldn’t have a child, he took a second wife. In the Arab custom, you can have up to four wives. Two months later, his second wife became pregnant with twin boys.

After his second wife delivered, he divorced Aaminah and said he wanted to be with his new family. He gave her the house and some money, then left. Aaminah spiraled out of control, as it was her first love…

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She got to a point where she stopped eating and taking care of herself. When I saw her, I told her to not blame herself. I told her we have a perfect God. He does not make mistakes. He did this for a reason…

Maybe God didn’t want you to have children with your husband, because this wasn’t the right person for you… if he leaves you in your worst time, he was never right for you anyway.

Over time, she started coming around. I use to have a little potluck with several people across different cultures, whom I worked with. I invited her to come over as there was a couple of Arab speakers there as well. After Aaminah started mingling, she got her confidence back. A few months later, she pulled herself together and even went back to work at the bank.

Daniel: The second part of this is the Pranaya.

She worked with for me as our admin assistant.

I worked and supervised all kinds of people over there. Indians, Shri Lankans, Philippines and others. Pranaya was Indian.

One day, Pranaya came into work and she was wearing sunglasses indoors. I asked her “why are you wearing sunglasses indoors?" She explained the sun and light was hurting her eyes.

But I asked her to take the glasses off, as they were unprofessional, plus we were inside. Once she removed her glasses, I saw that her eye was swollen and had all sorts of colors… black, blue, green… I told her to put her glasses back on and we went for a walk. She started crying, as we sat down to chat over a coffee.

She told me the previous night, she came home and her father was beating on her mother. I asked her why and she said “It was because she didn’t have any Indian tea made, when he came home from work." She then told me about the father’s cycle of abuse, she also disclosed, how she didn’t like men and hated her father, as he beat on her and he sexually abused her from 10-12 year old age. I told her to stay home, until her eye got better. I sent her all her files and admin work to do from home.

After returning to work, I told her to come to my monthly potluck, as I have a couple of Indians, Sri Lankans, and Arab people joining.

Now at the potluck, we would gather and play Nintendo Wii. It had just came out and it was a fun activity for everyone. We had competitions for prizes like a free dinner, coffee at Starbucks, or a dinner. We had two giant 65’ screens.

Bowling on one side, golf on the other and then we did a tennis tournaments. It made the event fun and people got some good exercise.

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Daniel: Pranaya started coming every month and made many friends, including Aaminah.

During my time there, I was married and my family was living in Germany. So every other month, I was going home. I told my friends, they could stay and continue to have the potluck while I was away, as I had a private villa. November that year, I went home for Thanksgiving. When I came back, I saw Aaminahs’ car was at the house. I figured they had a late night after the potluck. I always told anyone, if they had a drink or it was late, they should stay at the villa overnight. I had 3 extra rooms. I came back a day earlier than expected, so I figured I would let her know I was home and make some breakfast. I went upstairs and found her and Pranaya in the bed sleep, so I closed the door and went downstairs. When they woke up, they were very apologetic and said they hoped I wasn’t mad at them.

I asked them, "why I would be mad at you?”

They said, ‘for sleeping in the same bed.’ I said, in our culture it’s like a slumber party, maybe you had a girl’s night and watched TV or whatever and fell asleep. They said ‘Yeah, but we have to tell you something.’

‘The last couple of months, we’ve leaned on each other during our trials and tribulations.

And as we got to know each other, we fell in love with one another.'

I told them, ‘I don’t care, but you know here in Middle East, the punishment is by death or imprisonment. I will give you an opportunity to be who they want to be, but asked only behind these four walls and nothing in public.’

They thought that was great as it gave them an opportunity to spend time together embrace their new love and identity. So when they weren’t working or wanted to spend time together, they had somewhere to go without being persecuted.

So for two years, I witnessed a loving connection, a love stronger than I have ever seen. In 2006 the LGBTQ movement was still somewhat not fully recognized like today and definitely prohibited in the Gulf Countries.

They were two of the most beautiful people I ever met. And they looked Bollywood beautiful. No one knew about their relationship but myself, a female friend and my wife. My wife thought it was beautiful what I was doing for them, giving them an opportunity to feel unconditional love.

Love is Love. My wife says you only have one opportunity on this Earth. You should love, who you love. No who others think you should love.

Daniel: After two years of being together, one day they came over and told me how Pranaya’s father was drinking with a bunch of his buddies and one of them said she was beautiful. He then told her father, he would pay him dowry, ‘if he let him marry her.’ The father agreed, because she was already 28 and they thought she was way

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pass the age, the average girl from her country married. The man was 25 year her elder.

In this type of marriage, the husband and wife will never interact until the day they get married. That is arranged by the family. The girls were miserable. They were crying and screaming ‘no, no, no, this can’t happen!’

Aaminah said “he is a drunk and he doesn’t respect women."

Now, I didn’t know too much about Indian culture at the time, so I figured the men were just drunk and it was going to go away. Pranaya explained, ‘No Daniel, in my culture, when I’m promised to a man and I don’t marry him, they can kill me as an Honor killing.’ I did some research, found out that even her brother can kill her and stone her, as she has ‘disrespected’ their father. That have a law and are trying to change that law in India now, due to they’re killing a lot of women for these reasons. I told them, ‘6 months is a long time, something may change.’

Daniel: I went home to Germany, for Christmas, in December of 2008. When I returned home, I found a letter on my desk. After reading it, I called Aaminah’s sister and she told me Aaminah had killed herself.

A maid in a hotel found both Aaminah and Pranaya. The night prior, they checked into a nice 5-star hotel, got themselves some champagne, tainted it, and celebrated their lives.The maid came in the next morning, and found them dead in the bed, holding hands.

After months of anxiety, I had no choice but to leave the Middle East. I saw them everywhere in the house. I blamed myself and didn’t understand. I felt responsible. I could never imagine loving someone so much that I had to take my own life. I couldn’t picture it. But their love was stronger than life.

I went home and talked to my pastor and other spiritual people in my church. They told me I had nothing to be sad about or to blame myself for. They said what I did was give two people a chance, to feel unconditional love.

Back home in Germany, I was waking up all the time with cold sweats… Every night about 3 am… I was talking to God at night, asking him to tell me what he wanted me to do. I really needed the pain and burden to go away. It was like swallowing a grapefruit, that won’t go down. It was so painful, it was stuck. This happened for 2 months, until one night, I woke up about 1 am. I had a vision that told me to begin attending Pride events around Europe.

Daniel: I told my wife about the vision. She was an airline stewardess for Lufthansa. She said “we have a lot of LGBTQ men working with me, I will ask them where the next Pride will be. We went to the Love Parade in Berlin, Cologne Pride, and a Pride in London, and of course the Pride in Paris. What I saw was clear, people have every right to love to whomever they want to and identify however they choose.

Without persecution. I saw this in my dream.

This is who Aaminah and Pranaya represented in my eyes and what they dreamed of… Love, Peace, and Equality. Expressing, who the girls represented in my eyes and what they dreamed of… Love, Peace, and Equality.

Luke: So let’s talk about Gender Unlimited, the org you’ve founded. What’s your goal with the organization and talk about your early success?

Daniel: Firstly, it’s something I have to do.

This was something that chose me. I vowed to continue to fight and support those, who stand for the exact things my friends died for.

A big thing everyone talks about right now is Gender. There are so many elements within the LGBTQ+ community, it’s so broad, and some would say it’s Unlimited.

The mission is to provide products tailored for personal, organizational and special events that will give you not only a voice of support, but also a clean, respectable and inspiring logo that supports and represents everything LGBTQ+ people stand for, which is love, equality and ownership.

I’ve participated as a major sponsor in many prides including Miami Beach 2017 and 2018, Atlanta Pride 2017, Stone Wall Wilton Manor 2017 and Cincinnati Pride 45th Anniversary 2018.

As we continue to grow, I plan on sponsoring prides throughout the year and participate in charitable events. Anything, I can do to give back, I want to try to be a part of. I want to be one of many major supporters and a strong advocate for the community. By sponsoring events, this allows me to show the community they have another ally, who stands beside them. I am hoping to team up with other sponsors to help spread the word Globally.

I talked to Uncle Johnny, who was a speaker at Miami Beach 2017 Pride. Stonewall 50 years ago, he stated that, if two or three gay guys were sitting around talking, they would get arrested, because they thought they may be forming a cult or something. Today, many people, especially the millennials, don’t fully know what others had to endure, so they are able to enjoy the freedom they have now.

That’s something I’ve been focusing on.

Teaching the history of the community.

Luke: Anything else you want to add?

Daniel: Like I said before, we only get one life.

Don’t let someone hold the pencil, to write your story of your life.

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The Importance of an LGBTQ+ or Affirming Medical Provider

Let’s face it, talking to your various services in 2018, Metro doctor about certain things Inclusive Health indicates that is just, well, uncomfortable. over 70% are members of the Now consider you’re part of LGBTQ+ community. There are the LGBTQ+ community and many reasons the community you’ve added a whole extra is choosing METRO as the level of potential awkwardness. provider of choice, let’s start Trans, gay, lesbian, questioning with that word “inclusive.” or HIV+, -- Our primary care needs, including sexual and behavioral health, are different. Having touched over 27,000 individualsthrough

Should gay men be concerned about anal cancer? Is it true that lesbians are more prone to breast cancer? How do routine examinations differ for the trans community? With over 25 years of experience, METRO has seen it all and has been doing it longer than most, including answering questions like these.

Take PrEP for example, the daily pill that reduces exposure to HIV up to 99%.

In February, the CDC issued a plan for reducing HIV in heavy hit areas across the U.S., which is nearly identical to the strategies METRO has been successfully implementing with Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ+ community for nearly six years. In addition to being one of the largest prescribers of the PrEP in the state, METRO assigns each patient a “navigator,” to monitor sexual and physical health. METRO also remains one of the few organizations in the area to combine both Primary Care and HIV care together for one centralized point of care.

With partners CAN Community Health, they bring an integrated approach to HIV care rather than segmenting it between infectious disease and primary care doctors. There are important considerations towards each individual’s treatment. Perhaps the patient is diabetic or maybe even a cancer survivor,” said Dr.

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Edward Braun of CAN Community Health in Tampa Bay. “We look to eliminate any chance for complications while simplifying a patient’s overall experience.”

The organization’s immersion in every aspect of trans care, from letters of support to hormone replacement therapy, has resulted in a major growth in services for the Trans community. In 2016, Metro Inclusive Health was seeing around 60 clients for HRT which has skyrocketed to over 800 today.

“Many healthcare providers are not experienced at monitoring hormone levels and, once a trans patient has had a negative experience, they will avoid a doctor’s visit unless completely necessary,” said Lucas Wehle, Trans Services Division Manager.

“It’s rewarding to know we’ve created a welcoming, understanding and, most of all, educated healthcare environment for the trans community.”

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There are dozens of LGBTQ+ focused centers across the country, similar to METRO. Many of them regularly share ideas, concepts and trends at annual gatherings and, among them, there are two that are considered industry models; the LGBT Center in Los Angeles, California and Metro Inclusive Health, right here in Tampa Bay. “We’ve made the most of our resources and have tried to stay ahead of our community’s evolving healthcare needs,” said Lorraine Langlois, METRO CEO. “As a result, we’ve been able to share that blueprint with other like-minded organizations across the country, helping them to maximize care for our LGBTQ+ family.”

Metro Inclusive Health indicates that over 70% are members of the LGBTQ+ community.

Healthcare that Gives Back

Metro Inclusive Health and CAN Community Health embody the idea that healthcare is a right, not a privilege, where one does not have to be LGBTQ+ to receive services.

In fact, the organizations have purposely worked serving under or uninsured members of our community into their business plan and mission. “Individuals with health insurance are making care available to uninsured, just by walking through the door, “said Kirsty Gutierrez, VP of “We look to eliminate Health Center Services. any chance for “Our ‘Copay it Forward’ program is a unique way for complications while community to give back at simplifying a patient’s no extra cost.”Ultimately, the importance is what overall experience. " each of us wants to experience when seeing a provider. Sooner or later, we all need access to healthcare and Metro Inclusive Health and CAN Community Health have worked to make that experience especially LGBTQ+, in every detail.

“As a team, we’ve been able to optimize the experience of every client and patient, right down to the pronoun stickers we make available in the lobby,” continued Langlois.

“We know it’s often the little things that count. Most important to us, is knowing that you can be you."

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EVENTS CALENDAR

FRIDAY JUNE 14TH

pride night with the tampa bay rays 7:10PM • Tropicana Feild Join St Pete Pride and the Tampa Bay Rays as they take on the Los Angeles Angels, in the annual “Pride Night with the Rays”

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FRIDAY JUNE 14TH

This year's Miss St Pete Pride celebrates it's 10 year anniversary and honors Star Montrese Love for 10 years of service. Join us for an evening of laughs, good company, and for the crowning of Miss St Pete Pride 2019. Categories: Personal Interview, Themed Presentation: Creative Pride Wear, Evening Gown, On-Stage Question/Answer and Talent (7-minute max) Grand Prize: $2500 and a Beautiful Crown.

Swim’s Annual Charity Pre-Pride Women’s White Dance Party is at Sirata Beach Resort on St Pete Beach, FL 33706, in a beautiful formal white pavilion on the beach.

Appetizers, DJ music, silent auction, live entertainment and more. Percentage of the proceeds will go to the Family Resources/ LGBT Homeless Youth Project.

The Sexy Bears of Quench will be out for Bear Pride Blacklight Glow Party at Quench Lounge, Friday June 14th, starting at 9:30pm! Quench Bear Party is a St Pete Pride Recognized Event! Drink Specials after 9pm: $3 Quench Draft, $3.75 Michelob Ultra Draft, $4 Kamikaze Shots and $3 Drinks After 1am! Half Price Happy Hour Drinks from Open until 9pm, 7 Days a week!

THURSDAY MAY 30TH

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lgbtq pride march 6:00PM • Gulfport Casino

Gather with us at the Gulfport Casino at 5:30 PM to prepare to march to the Library.

The sidewalk march will step off at 6 PM, led by the Gulfport Gecko Amalgamated Marching Band. Bring signs to show your pride and to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising. Free

THURSDAY MAY 30TH pride flag raising ceremony 6:30PM • Gulfport Library

We are proud that the City of Gulfport displays the LGBTQ Pride Flag every year for Pride Month in June. The Pride Flag raising will take place on the front lawn of the Gulfport Library, home of the lGBTQ Resource Center. Join the City Councilmember and other officials as Gulfport raised the Pride Flag and displays its inclusiveness of the entire community.

SUNDAY MAY 30TH 3rd annual artout!

7:00PM • Gulfport Library

This group art show will feature work by over a dozen artists in media such as oils, acrylics, photography, ceramics, glass, and more. The show will remin in place at the Library throughout the month of June. Our opening reception will recognize the partipating artists and will include complimentary beverages and hors d'oeuvre.

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THURSDAY JUNE 6TH

Florida's first out lesbian state legislator and Gulfport native - Rep. Jennifer Webb, discusses current legislation of particular interest to LGBTQ citizens, including Florida Competitve Workforce Act of 2019, chnages to domestic violence laws that would provide financial support for victims, and HB 195, which wiuld require public high schools to provide elective classes "on the Old Testament, New Testament or both"

bear pride blacklight glow party 9:30PM • Quench Lounge

THURSDAY JUNE 20TH

tampa bay pride worship service 6:15PM • Starting at Metro Wellness Center and Marching to King of Peace Join a collection of faith based people and organizations as we celebrate the Pride Weekend through our worship service. Our theme is Looking Back, Loving Forward.

Collection to benefit our Transgender community.

THURSDAY JUNE 20TH

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 12TH

the scott & patti show comes to gulfport!

7:00PM • Catherine Hickman Theatre

This presentation by Broward Circuit Court Judge Rober W. Lee examines the history of barriers against the LGBTQ people serving in the legal profession in Florida. Judge Lee is the first openly gay person appoitned to the Florida State Court bench in 1997.

Mother/Son lounge act Scott & Patti (Scott Daniel & Matthew McGee) bring their mix of camp, improvisation, showmanship, and glittering costumes to an unforgettable show featuring hits, standards, and show tunes of today and yesterday. The Scott & Patti show has played to sold out crowds across the country. Audicences leave with their sides aching from laughter and a classic pop song stuck in their heads.

This special Gulfport appearance at the Catherine Hickman Theatre is a fundraiser for the LGBTQ Resource Center.

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7:00PM • Gulfport Library

THURSDAY JUNE 13TH

stonewall uprising film screening 7:00PM • Gulfport Library This compelling documentary examines what happened in June 1969 when New York police raided a gay bar called the Stonewall Inn, resulting in three days of rioting by LGBTQ people no longer willing to abide by a punishing level of harrassment and inequality. The Uprising sparked the modern day Gay Rights Movement. The film will be preceded by comments from local resident Jay Chetney, who was present during the Stonewall riots.

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"the gay district" All Day Everyday • Central Ave, between 16th Street and 31st Street Eat. Drink. And Play. The Grand Central District is host to numerous restaurants, bars, art galleries, and antique shops that are open throughout the weekend and are LGBTQ+ friendly.

FRIDAY JUNE 21ST

drag queen docent tour 4:00PM • Chihuly Collection Join Bak Lava at the Chihuly Collection for a colorful and unique look at the stunning, permanent collection of artwork by worldrenowned artist Dale Chihuly. Join her for an educational and fun-filled tour, proceeds benefitting St Pete Pride organization. Bak Lava is a local comedy queen and enjoys being a part of the arts in various capacities.

Bak Lava was born in California at the Fresno Art Museum's Trashique Gala as a runway model. Since then she has performed at clubs, bridal showers and hosted Drag Queen yoga events throughout the country.

FRIDAY JUNE 21ST

street food and craft beer festival 6:00PM - 11:00PM • Albert Whitted Park Gulf to Bay Food Truck Association hosts the 2nd Annual Street Food & Craft Beer Festival on Friday June 21, 6-11pm! Located on 480 Bayshore Dr SE behind the Dali at Albert Whitted Park. A fun foodie filled evening with over 25 savory & sweet Food Trucks, live music by local favorite TL Jentgens. Beer & wine for purchase. We’re always family & pet friendly + free admission! Seating is available & chairs, blankets are welcome. Cash & credit cards accepted. Parking is $5 at Albert Whitted airport & benefits Westcare foundation. Sponsorship & vendor spots available, send to gulftobayfta@gmail.com.

FRIDAY JUNE 21ST

4th annual pride shabbat 6:30PM • Congregation B'nai Israel of St. Petersburg A welcoming Shabbat service embracing all traditions and members of the community.

The service will be followed by a festive cocktail oneg. It is a free event.

FRIDAY JUNE 21ST

pride gayla at red mesa 8:00PM - 1:00AM • Red Mesa Cantina A cocktail party in the newly remodeled ballroom located on the second floor above Red Mesa Cantina where elegance meets excitement. We will have a silent auction

benefiting Metro Inclusive Health with appearances and performances by local queens Jacqueline St. James and Victoria Michaels. We will have multiple giveaways throughout the night including a VIP New Years Eve experience for 4 here at Red Mesa.

Sip champagne and dance the night away for a good cause.

FRIDAY JUNE 21ST

3rd annual one love prom in wonderland 9:00PM - 2:00AM • Flamingo Resort Follow us down the rabbit hole for an unforgettable evening kicking off Pride weekend! Everyone deserves to experience prom and some LGBTQ+ individuals may have never had the opportunity to attend or bring the person they wanted to this special occasion! So we offer you Prom in Wonderland! Here's another chance to take that special someone or go stag with your friends and potentially meet the person of your dreams! This is an LGBTQ+ inclusive event with a Mad Hatters Theme!

FRIDAY JUNE 21ST

pride wod @ CFSP (crossfit st. pete) 6:30PM • Crossfit St. Pete (Please arrive early to sign waiver and socialize) – stay after for a cold refreshment from 3 Daughters Brewing.

WHY: All registration monies will benefit Family Resources, one of the only nonprofits primarily focused on providing support for LGBT Homeless Youth in Pinellas County.

SATURDAY JUNE 22ND st pete pride after party 9:00PM • Quench Lounge

Mingle with the Men of Quench and the Diva Show! Quench After Party is a St Pete Pride Recognized Event! Drink Specials after 9pm: $3 Quench Drafts, $4 Fireball Shots, $3 Drinks After 1am! Half Price Happy Hour Drinks from Open until 9pm, 7 Days a week!

SATURDAY JUNE 22ND

iberian rooster drag and burlesque show 9:00PM • Subcentral at Iberian Rooster St Pete's underground DRAG and Burlesque show. The party starts at 9PM with DJ Greg Anderson | Showtimes at 11PM & 12:30AM. Show cast includes the FIERY burlesque beauty: Carmen lai Garden, the GLAMAZON: Mya Valentine, our DARK lady of CIRQUE: Zeal Milan with CO-host Ashlee T. Bangkx and hosted by the Bearded Mermaid: Adriana Sparkle.

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SUNDAY JUNE 23RD

best little whorehouse on central 12:00PM & 3:00PM • Punky's Bar & Grill Enjoy the cast from Punky's Bar & Grill as we spoof the Best Little Whorehouse in Texas with the Best Little Whorehouse On Central.

Led by Victoria Michaels, Watermark Wave Award Winner and Ms Broken Slut 2019, the cast will be putting on a romp roaring fun show. Food and drink specials!

THURSDAY JUNE 27TH branchout!

7:00PM • Gulfport Library

Join us for a night of music and celebration as we present our first Gulfport LGBTQ Scholarship to a deserving local student. We will also celebrate the establishment of the LGBTQ Resource Center as an independent 501©3 non-profit organization. Enjoy complimentary wine and appetizers, as well as live music by powerhouse vocalist/ singer/songwriter/guitarist and Resource Center Board Member, Brittany Baldwin

FRIDAY JUNE 28TH

70's themed stonewall 50th anniversary and world pride day 9:00PM • Quench Lounge Join Quench Lounge on Friday, June 28th for our 70's themed Stonewall 50th Anniversary and World Pride Day event.

Drink Specials after 9pm: $3 Quench Drafts, $4 Fireball Shots, $3 Drinks After 1am! Half Price Happy Hour Drinks from Open until 9pm, 7 Days a week!

SATURDAY JUNE 29TH pride night with the rowdies 7:30PM • Al Lang Stadium

Join St Pete Pride and the Tampa Bay Rowdies as they take on the Ottawa Fury in the annual “Pride Night with the Rowdies”

SATURDAY JULY 27TH

pride night with the clearwater threshers 6:30PM • Jack Russell Memorial Stadium Our inaugural Pride Night is taking place on Saturday, July 27th. Enjoy special graphics, colors, and festivities that celebrate our community's diversity. A special, colorful, Fireworks display will follow this event!

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Jake & Andy: A Real St. Pete Love Story

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“Jake, are you sure you want me to stay here? Your date is about to show up!” That’s a conversation I had with one of my friends almost two years ago. We were in Downtown St. Pete at his favorite bar having cocktails catching up on the past week of work and personal life drama. Halfway through our conversation, Jake informed me that this guy Andy was popping in for a drink. It was going to be their first date! I scrambled to grab my phone, wallet and close my tab so I could get out of the way, but Jake wanted me to stay and see how I felt about this new guy.

Fast forward to 2019 and now Jake and Andy are flying across the country to exchange vows and marry at City Hall in San Francisco. So what happened in the almost two years that went from an awkward first date, where I was the third wheel, to two caring men proclaiming their love in front of family and friends? A lot.

When you think about how your love story will come together, you think of the fun times.

Meeting, going on dates, going on road trips, meeting families, late-night talks, moving in, proposing and hopefully walking down the aisle. In a romantic comedy there’s a struggle or two thrown in with a nice message to tie it all together in the end. We know life is messy and complicated, but that’s where true love is formed. From the very beginning of that first date, I knew Jake and Andy were like two firecrackers thrown into a pot. It was electric!

I’m pretty sure by the end of the first date they were already talking about how they each wanted kids. This was destiny in the making.

At a brunch, with all of our friends gathered around, we were informed that Jake and Andy were taking their relationship to another level by purchasing a house together. Most couples would have trouble even talking about moving in with each other at this point in their relationship, but Jake and Andy always knew they were destined to be together. Then the news comes that stops us all in our tracks: Andy had to have heart surgery.

Andy was born with a heart valve defect that caused him to have numerous heart surgeries in his life. When you are forced to live a life where you are constantly reminded of your

Left: Miguel with Jake and Andy. Above: Jake and Andy on their wedding day in San Francisco's city hall.

mortality, it makes you live life with a certain gusto. Andy does that to the fullest. I don’t know of many men who would have faced this situation with their partner with dignity and grace like Jake did. Sitting back and watching Jake take the lead and help Andy through another heart surgery was soul-warming.

" most couples would have trouble even talking about moving in with each other at this point in their relationship, but jake and andy always knew they were destined to be together."

One month they were buying a house, moving in and decorating, and in another month Andy was going under the knife to repair his heart Thankfully, he came out unscathed and ready to take on the world. A few weeks after Andy was home, my boyfriend and I took him to brunch and a movie. We just could not get over how well he was doing after having surgery on his heart. Jake and Andy were back on course building a life together. At that moment, we knew marriage would be in their future, but the couple had more obstacles in their path.

At the beginning of November, just when life really seemed to finally give them some peace, Andy had a stroke. The first few days were scary and concerning with not a lot of answers. One day we are all at brunch laughing, having a wonderful time, then all of a sudden one of your friends is in a hospital bed and can barely say

their name. When we were allowed to go and visit Andy at the hospital, you could see the spark of determination in his eyes. He was not going to be down for long.

I’ll never forget this moment of pure love between these two.

As we were sitting around Andy’s hospital bed, Jake rolled up his sleeves, pulled out a menu and wanted Andy to pronounce some of the food items. Andy would look, squint his eyes, think, then slowly start to say the word. When he got it right, Jake would raise his fist in the air to celebrate each success. This was patience and love looking at us straight in the face. When your partner has to fight through two health scares and you never skip a beat, it just makes your soul shine. Now Andy is recovered, back home and planning for the next stage of this amazing relationship.

In two years, this couple has dealt with moving in together, buying a house, heart surgery, a stroke and now marriage. This is not the story that either of them thought would be theirs, but it gives us hope that we could all find love as strong as that.

You can follow Miguel Fuller on Instagram and Twitter at: @MiguelFuller

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The Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber of Commerce will host the National LGBT Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) 2019 International Business & Leadership Conference in Tampa, FL. This world-renowned conference is the largest LGBT business event in the world and provides networking and engagement opportunities for business owners in the LGBT community. The Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber of Commerce (TBDCC) won the 2019 bid over all other applicants to secure the NGLCC 2019 International Business & Leadership Conference for the city of Tampa.

To kick off The 2019 International Business & Leadership Conference, the Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber will be hosting the Opening Night Reception on the evening of August 13, 2019, at the Italian Club in historic Ybor City. The Conference will be hosted at the Tampa Bay Convention Center, with its host hotels; Marriott Water Street downtown Tampa & Embassy Suites.

Additionally, the Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber of Commerce will be hosting its annual awards gala, “Diamonds in Diversity,” scheduled October 18, 2019.

“We’re working hard planning for 2019 — we’re ready to do more than ever before,” said Justice Gennari, President of Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber of Commerce.

“Celebrating 35 years, we are honored to host the 2019 NGLCC International Business & Leadership Conference. We are dedicated to doing all we can to building trusted connections and to expanding economic opportunities for all! We thank all our members for their ongoing support of the Chamber.”

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world, and we’re thrilled to work with the Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber of Commerce as we bring our annual conference to Tampa,” said NGLCC Co-Founder & President Justin Nelson. “With its rich history and reputation as a regional business center, Tampa will make an excellent host for the over 1,400 LGBT business owners, corporate thought leaders, and public and private sector decision-makers that the NGLCC International Business & Leadership Conference convenes each year.”

The 2018 NGLCC International Business & Leadership Conference brought together over 1,200 business leaders to the city of Philadelphia, PA. Attendees heard from media icon, entrepreneur, and LGBT ally Martha Stewart, Pennsylvania Governor Tom Wolf and Philadelphia Mayor Jim Kenney, who delivered special remarks on the importance of including of LGBT Business Enterprises (LGBTBEs) in public and private sector contracting.

Throughout the week, attendees attended discussions with many of the world’s top corporate and government leaders committed to LGBT business development and opportunity. With the help of the International Business Alliance (IBA), the economic impact of NGLCC’s 2018 International Business & Leadership Conference was estimated at roughly $7.8-8.2 million dollars and made a lasting impact on the region’s hospitality and tourism industry.

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Theo Thalassites

Theo comes from a large Greek/Filipino family brought up with strong values and a community minded spirit. He has devoted much of his adult life on advocating for individuals where their voice is left unheard due discrimination or lack of awareness on social issues – specifically with the LGBTQ community. He understands the issues, questions and fears that arise with the LGBTQ community as he faced them for many years during his transition. He credits his loving family and very close friends who continue to support him to live his authentic life.

Theo’s list of advocacy work with the LGBTQ community started with the conception of a local advocacy group called Stand Indivisible, which later merged with Indivisible FL – 13 in November of 2016. Part of Theo’s goal with Stand Indivisible was to promote awareness for the transgender community. One of the larger projects adopted with the Stand Indivisible team for the 2018 and 2019 year, was fighting to reverse the transgender military ban. Many groups statewide (including Stand Indivisible) led a fight on the steps of Capital Hill fighting for our transgender service members.

Amanda Patano Amanda Patanow is a 13th generation Floridian and proud resident of downtown St. Pete whose dedication to community and the transformative power of local business began in childhood at her grandparents’ small-town gas and grocery store. Amanda is passionate about building communities to battle increasing isolation in society and delivering on our shared obligation to serve others. She works as a business leader, community activist, and yoga instructor.

In the fight for equity, equality, and access to voter education, Amanda served two terms as president of the League of Women Voters, moderated dozens of candidate forums, hosted various voter education programs, and organized the only 2018 Democratic primary gubernatorial debate in Pinellas County.

Amanda spoke in debate for the recognition of same sex marriages before more than a thousand delegates at the League of Women Voters national convention. As a result, she was successful in gaining League consensus that led the organization to work for national recognition of all marriages at a national level. Locally, Amanda volunteered her time for fieldwork to stop Amendment 2, the toxic anti-same sex marriage amendment to Florida’s constitution, and to bring the

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Domestic Partner Registry to St. Petersburg. In fact, Amanda was among the first couples to join the Registry. Amanda believes she can accomplish anything she puts her heart and mind into and dedicates much of her time to empowering others to do the same through personal and professional development outreach. She regularly volunteers to teach budding entrepreneurs at the St Pete Greenhouse to successfully build their own businesses Amanda also leads weekly donation-based community yoga classes at Grassroots Kava House.

Currently, Theo has been able to start an Employee Resource Group (ERG) with his company called “LGBTQ for Youth-Education and Awareness." This initiative allows for educational material to be furnished to employees who need support or resources to connect with their LBGTQ child. This ERG has over 3000 member and continues to grow on a global scale. Our mission statement slogan is one each member tries to live by each day, “Learn before you speak. Understand before you judge. Love and never hate.” Additionally, Theo is working on partnering with Pinellas County schools this summer on anti-bullying campaigns regarding LGBTQ youth.

Theo currently splits his time between St. Petersburg, FL and Boston, MA. He has also volunteered with King of Peace, First Unity of St. Petersburg, Hospice and local Veteran’s associations in his community. Theo also enjoys spending time with his mom, girlfriend, five sisters, their husbands and his nephews and nieces. He is known as the “Cool Uncle” a phrase he most thoroughly enjoys.

Professionally, Amanda works as a business strategist helping businesses that want to grow or be more profitable through improved marketing and operations. She is also a founder of the Institute of Economic Evolution, a private nonprofit research institute working to advance economic research that evaluates society holistically by including all stakeholders and all available data to better address contemporary challenges.

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Alexis De La Mer Alexis De La Mer was born in New York in 1965, and has lived her life on Long Island with her parents until about 15 years ago. Being an only child she kept busy being creative by coloring and putting car models together. Art was her favorite subject in school and always had a creative flair.

the BTS. Later, it became Waterside Landings, that became her home bar where she had her own Thursday night show with the Men of Rico and also won Miss Pasco newcomer, Miss Comic Strip and Miss Nature Coast at Large that became her home bar for years.

Alexis started doing drag in the early 90s by following her drag mom Ariel Sinclair perform all over Long Island, New Jersey and New York City. She entered and won her first pageant in the early 90s at The Bunkhouse, Miss Long Island’s ‘Most Campiest’ where she wore a blow-up child pool around her waist and a blow-up pool ring on her head.

She traveled around Long Island and Jersey as a Bette Midler impersonator for the Kenny Dash review at local restaurants and dinner theaters.

She has raised thousands of dollars for local nonprofit organizations, particularly through her frequent Drag Queen Bingo nights. Alexis is also a 4-year cancer survivor and donates many hours at Moffitt Cancer Center who saved her life.

When Alexis relocated, she moved to New Port Richey. There, she met Chichi Lalique, Nicolette Ashton and started doing shows at a club called

Alexis now is a server at the Sirata Beach Resort hotel, lives with her partner Eric for the past 3 years and has two dogs, Coco and Chanel.

Alexis credits her Florida drag mama, Kori Stevens for guidance and fashion advice. You can catch Alexis performing monthly at the Flamingo Resort in St. Pete, Oasis in Sarasota, the first Saturday of every month at Quench in Largo, and every few months down in Fort Lauderdale at Flip-Flops T Dance, and George’s Alibi… Alexis would like to thank everyone for all the love and support that she has received in the St. Pete area for the last 12 years.

Street Warriors

Street Warriors is a grass roots group who want to help the invisible people in the community become visible again.

We serve food and hope to those who live on the street.

Over the years, we have added others groups into this ministry, some of which are highlighted here. The ‘Sweet’ Warriors bake homemade desserts for the lunches. We have also partnered with Noah’s Landing, a community for adult developmentally disabled people to help prepare and package the lunches. Wells Fargo has provided us with over 600 pairs of socks as well as personal products so we can distribute hygiene kits. Volunteers in Service to the Elderly (VISTE) provides food products from a surplus in their warehouse, allowing us to lower the cost of the meals.

Christ’s Promise UCC church allows us to use their church building for fundraisers. This group has a heart for all those who are marginalized and invisible. We reach out to LGBTQ groups, who give us the opportunity to work with youth to teach them how to give back. They have learned how many of their brothers and sisters have found themselves without a place to go or a roof over their head. They have learned how many others have been rejected by their families.

Street Warriors was founded by Steven and Robert Blansfield, who met at a church in Lakeland, Florida. They were married in a chapel service in their backyard in 2015.

Steven was diagnosed with bipolar disorder as a young adult. He spent many years trying to find himself, during which he went through a long process of self-medication.

At one point he became so desperate he tried to take his own life. The long and painful road to healing lead him down many paths, including homelessness. He came to a place where he could make peace with his issues. He is now in a stable and loving relationship that has grounded him and deepened his faith. He knew he needed to share his story and give back to others who were in the same situation and had not fared as well. He had a story of hope he felt compelled to share. They joined a group at their church who fed the homeless. This group was eventually called Street Warriors of Central Florida, Inc. a 501c3 organization.

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Erik Swope-Wise Erik Swope-Wise is the Fine Jewelry Complex Manager at Macy’s and Jada, a fashion model in New York City. While sitting down with Pride’s Executive Director Luke Blankenship, they explain their journeys and a cultural background of what it’s like to be LGBTQ+ in Nigeria, West Africa.

Luke: So, Erik, tell me a bit about your life, particularly as a pastor?

Erik: I grew up in a very conservative environment in Houston. I was bred to go into ministry, as I have a Pentecostal background. It was very high energy, but lots of conservatism and judgmentalism. I actually, flowed through the traditional expectations. I was married for 21 years. I have a daughter and an adopted son. In 1990, I moved to Chicago, planting intercity churches, blurring across racial and cultural lines. I also had a recording contract in gospel music where I sang, played and co-produced 5 albums.

Luke: How long were you in Chicago for?

Erik: Almost 30 years. While I was there, in 1999 I was able to act on something that I had known was a part of me since I was a boy. Growing up in church the whole construct was; the missionaries would come visit on Mission Sunday. Back then we had a morning service and an evening service. I would hear the missionaries tell their experiences, go home and return that evening with my piggy bank and give everything I had. I guess I’ve always had a heart for people, especially for those that couldn’t do for themselves. That’s kind of where it all started… So in 1999, I went to Nigeria for a couple of weeks to help build churches.

This became a major passion of mine and resulted in 86 churches being built across Nigeria.

Luke: What was the transition like from religious-based ministry to more LGBTQ+/humanitarian focused?

Erik: It was a long journey. I had to unlearn a lot of things that were instilled. I had to figure out what was right for me. I went through a period starting in 1993 where I had to reconcile my faith with my sexuality.

At the time there was no Pentecostal conservative gay man… in a pulpit! Well at least none that I knew of. I never preached against it and I always deflected any conversation about it, because I was on my journey. As I made a transition, it was a search for faith, without it

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being religion. These are very different things. I don’t think everyone gets that. You can have one, without having the other.

Erik: When I did eventually come out in 2006, everything was at stake.

There were existing ministries in Chicago that were not gonna get it.

There were churches in Nigeria looking for leadership, a place that is even more conservative in its construct of sexuality and religiosity than America is, and it’s our fault they are that way. We imparted that.

Everything was on the table and I would probably lose it all… But in the process of not trying to lose it all, I lost me. I had to find me, before I could do anything else. So, coming out in 2006, it was an expectation of starting from scratch. I had this plan to make it smooth and easy. I was a pastor of this great church in Intercity Chicago, so I brought in someone I had known almost my entire life, from Texas. I was going make him the assistant pastor, train him and ingratiate him into the congregation. Then I would install him as pastor, come out to my family and not cause any strife within the church. Unfortunately, six months after Joe came up, he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Six months later he was gone.

Erik: His daughter Amanda came to live with me and my family while he was sick, as she needed guidance to get through high school. On his death bed, he asked me to take care of his daughter and please be her dad. Once he passed, Amanda continued to stay with us in the house. Six months after, my coming out took place. It wasn’t anything like I had planned for it to be. In fact it was brutal. There were a series of betrayals and hurts by the very people that I had invested years of love and compassion into. Even getting one of them through a suicide attempt during post-partum depression. Somehow, got through it.

About six months after that, Amanda came out to me… and 5 minutes later, my daughter comes out to me and tell me that they are together!

Luke: Wow! Erik: Yea… they were in love, are now married and have a home in Chicago. I had adopted my son at 11 and he came out at 13. Both of my kids are a part of the LGBTQ+ community, so it made our coming out processes a little unique…..well VERY unique. I took two years out of ministry to find me and get to know my community. It taught me about what my purpose is. I’ve pastored affirming churches, I still lead a number of affirming churches/ministries, but as a bishop, not as the pastor. My heart was still in overseas missions work. So I reached out to some of my previous connections, and there was about 10-15% of the people that still just loved me for me and that was huge. So, I started going back, albeit nervously. When I got back there, all I saw was brokenness and hurt. Over some transition time, a year or two, I put people in charge of the ministry side of things, and turned my main attention to the humanitarian side. That’s when the Hope Center began.

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Nigeria Erik: Nigeria is one of the worst places to be LGBTQ+ in the entire world. I have lost young LGBTQ+ men and women in Nigeria. They come out, or are outed mostly, then they are never been seen again. Families (due to the shame) or police (by taking matters into their own hands use what is called “jungle justice” and dispose of these young people. I couldn’t sit by and do nothing. I’m just one man, but I had to do SOMETHING. In starting the Center, we had to keep the eyes of the government off of it.

We started a training center where any underprivileged teenager can get Microsoft Office training, fashion design and construction, jewelry manufacturing, cosmetology, etc. They now have a legitimate skill that can make them money if their family can pay for them to go to school. So, while that’s going on along the surface, not far away, we put in place the safe house for the LGBTQ+ community. I’ve had anywhere from 4-32 kids in the house at any given time. Two bedroom bungalow, 12 ft. cinder block walls, razor wire on top, iron gate front, 24-hour security… just so these kids are safe. It’s incredible to see how harsh the community is to these boys and girls over there. There is no leniency. If you are assumed to be gay, 14-years imprisonment, up to life if you’re caught in the act. That’s ‘if’ the police are involved. If the family is involved, that’s when jungle justice comes in to remove the shame from your family.

Erik: We’ve had that happen. I’ve had two young people in a relationship that were working in the marketplace down the road from each other. The other merchants began to see what was going on. After a few months, they followed them to their home and caught them in bed together.

Beheaded one, broke the shoulder and leg of the other, but he did get away with his life. Any number of things people will take into their own hands and the police will turn a blind eye.

Erik: Jada, myself and two others, on New Year’s Day in 2016 went out for the evening. We were going to travel a little ways from where we were

staying to do karaoke. We didn’t finish up until almost 1am and the motor taxis that usually take us to where we need to go where no longer there. Now I walk it every day, it’s a 15-minute walk, I know the way, no big deal. But on this night, there was four of us walking. There was one small space that was darker and these three guys come out from behind us with machetes. I say to them ‘You don’t want to do this. You don’t want to do this.’ I had a cross body bag and one of them reached to grab my bag and I told Jada and the other boy to run. Now I’ve never been in a physical fight in my life, I’m a pretty non-confrontational person, but I got into the fight for my life. They start swinging machetes and scraped some skin off my arm, and the next one came down directly on my wrist. Had I not been wearing a watch, that my family had given me for my birthday and had never worn in Nigeria before, I would not have a left hand. One of them jumped on my husband’s back, put him on the ground and split open the back of his head. I didn’t know I could fight, guess I watched enough TV, but I got the guy off my partner’s back and we got away with our lives.

back to Nigeria. Something in my gut told me to check on Anthony, I hadn’t heard from him.

I sent a message on ‘WhatsApp’ and he happened to respond back and told me what was happening. So, I sent money to our director at the house and instructed him to get a bus to pick him up. He was hiding out in a dumpster with the wash cloth, some clothes he got from a friend and a backpack…We brought him in to the house, got him established, got him a sewing machine and this young man, whose grandfather and family told him that he was nothing, never will never be anything and we are cutting you out of our lives… This young man has now designed clothes for Tampa Fashion Week and shows on runways all across the United States. Anthony is a testament to what can be done when determination meets opportunity. He’s living safely right now in the safe house. He has a forever-family that will only continue to grow.

Erik: That’s the kind of environment these boys and girls live in on a day-to-day basis. One of my little boys (ok, he’s older now, but always my little boy), Anthony, who is in Nigeria right now, is a fashion designer, and lives in our house. Previously, he went away to design school and the school called his family and told them that he was gay. Now what I don’t understand is does the school really think there are students in their school that aren’t? When Anthony returned to his home compound, his grandfather, while Anthony was in the shower, pulled him out of the shower and said ‘Are you or are you not?’ Anthony said, ‘We’ve had this conversation over and over. You know I can’t change who I am.’ Anthony was chased out of his family’s compound naked, with only a washcloth and a backpack…

Jada: Due to the all the problems, and because I had been in a lot of dangerous situations, I felt like my life was in danger in Nigeria. My mom bought me an outbound ticket and helped me get here, to the US.

Erik: I was in the United States when that happened, about three weeks from travelling

If you are assumed to be gay, 14-years imprisonment, up to life if you’re caught in the act.

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Luke: So Jada, tell me how did you end up in the United States and tell me a little bit about what you are doing right now?

Erik: Mom is supportive, but she does not want to talk about it...

Jada: Yes, she is very supportive. She helped me get my visa together and she sponsored me to get here. When I arrived, Erik helped me get the life I have. I am doing my modeling and other side gigs. I also recently moved to New York, last month. New York is nice, but it is challenging, sometimes I feel like I want to come back.

Luke: What is the most challenging part?

Jada: Living alone, thinking for myself. Doing all of the things by myself is very challenging.

And the food, because I now have to eat out.

Nobody is here in New York to cook for me, like Erik has been doing.

Erik: Getting a visa to get out of Nigeria is almost impossible. I’ve gone to the US embassy dressed in full clergy attire and got no results.

I had only been back for a couple of months, when Jada said, “I am coming.” And I said, “I know you want to come, that’s really cool.

Maybe someday,” and he said, “No, I have my visa. I’m coming on this date and I will be arriving in Atlanta.” That alone is a miracle.

Erik: Jada is the third young man we have helped come over and there are two more that are on their way. There is no way to help

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them get a visa. So, to be able to get one is huge. Elyan, the first one that we brought over, attempted 9 times to get a visa. The interviews cost them $200. No refunds, no credits, no guarantees, and no explanations why you get denied. Just, “apply again in 6 months.” Elyan took 9 attempts and finally found a conference that invited him and for some reason the agent that he got was on board. $1,800 just to have interviews, plus the cost of traveling to the embassy from across the country. Keep in mind that average individual income there is about $100US dollars per month. Ekeng, was a little bit different. He was the first runner-up on a version of The Voice in Nigeria, and because the winner of that season bailed, he became the winner. He is now in Chicago. He was a talk show host back home, and his coming out here was a big deal. He was kind of like what Ryan Seacrest is here, always doing interviews in fashion and stuff like that, it was faster for him to get here. But once you arrive here and come out, your family over there is pretty much done with you. We are coming on two years since Jada’s arrival, and his first pride, or LGBT event, was St Pete Pride. I have pictures that show how much fun he had and that this was the first time he could be himself. But, there was no turning back after that, once it got on Facebook, the whole world knew…

Erik: But getting here, is just the first step.

Once you get here, filing for asylum is very expensive, and time consuming. Jada had a hand of grace over his entire journey, his ability to get his visa, we got an immigration attorney through catholic charities that cost us a very little, which is a miracle and half, so all we had to do was filing fees. Everything was processed and approved on the first try. It was totally a hand of grace. Some of the other ones have taken a long, long time. Even years. And with the climate we are currently in with this topic of immigration, it's getting more difficult for it to happen.

Erik: The Hope Center safe house, is vitality important to me. I talk with them every single day, but it does not stop there. It’s about helping some of these young men and women get settled into a life they can actually live and be successful. After that, integrate them into the society here, the cultural shock. Although America is the land of opportunity, it is an expensive venture to find that opportunity. The dollar exchange rate is very high compared to their Naira. For example, with The Hope Center safe house, the rent is $2,000 for the whole year, and that’s it. Of course, there are utilities, food, and emergencies, but that’s all it takes. And when I was living there, and posting pictures there, it was easier to get funding. When I am not there, but still trying to make it happen, it’s more difficult because donors think I’m not doing anything. The problem is they do not see the day to day, or hear the phone calls that you get a 2am with kids crying, “I don’t know where to go or what to do”. They don’t experience the rescue missions, when we have to slip in in the middle of the night to get a young person out so they can get to the safe house, and then talk them off of the ledge.

The suicide rates for LGBT teens and young people in Nigeria is huge.

The suicide rates for LGBT teens and young people in Nigeria is huge. There is only a small group, bold enough to fight for their rights, but they are there. After that, they are part of this great divide. All these young people are now absent of any family, so The Hope Center becomes their family. If you ask me how many kids I have, I’m going to say hundreds. If I show up at their door, I am going to be dad, because their family is gone. Their families are not going to embrace them, they do not exist to them any longer. Jada is very lucky that his mom is still very supportive in that regards, some others won’t ever speak to their children again. With Anthony, our fashion designer, it’s taken 3 years and now they are barely just talking.

Erik: On top of that, it is not safe for them to be out. And that is part of the training they have to do, “What do you have to do to stay alive?” When you are inside the walls of this compound, you can be Beyoncé, in your high heels, and whatever else you want to add. But, when you walk out of those doors, you have to be Jay Z because I need to make sure that you come back at the end of the night. It is not giving up your identity, it is simply staying alive.

I guess some people in our developed world, where we have a bit more freedom, don’t understand that there are still places like that.

And it’s not that they are not standing up, they just don’t have the ability to do that and stay alive. Its brutal. There was a hairstylist in Nigeria that got pulled over because he looked gay.

And he was interrogated and thrown in jail until he could make bail. Missed work, missed a show, just because he looked gay, and that is the environment these kids live in. It's a scary thing for them to just go through day to day.

There are a couple of advocacies groups in Nigeria, and places where they can get tested.

We do this thing called Helping Hands Outreach, where we give free manicures, haircuts, and stuff like that. It might not look like a lot, but when you have a mom with 5 kids, getting a haircut for free its huge, and it also means that we are giving back. More than that is teaching our young people that this is the path you can take. During the community Outreaches, we also do HIV testing and counseling. Some may never go to a testing site to do it because of the stigma and the fear of being seen; but, when everyone is being tested, it can go unnoticed.

Erik: Another thing we do is just “Chill and Chat”. Here they can invite their friends.

However, their friends have to be screened because security cannot let just anybody in the safe house. We have to ensure their safety above all. Maybe a dozen people, have refreshments, and give them a chance to just talk. Some of them have never said, “I’m gay and I’m scared,” out loud. This is a time for us to tell them, “don't be afraid, no one is getting in, just breathe for an hour.” Jada can tell you, we’ve had young people on mats, or towels on the floor, every available piece of floor, kitchen, bathroom, etc.

They would rather sleep on the floor than go back home, because it is safer for them.

Luke: Anything else you would like to add?

Erik: I’ve been asked if we could do this anywhere else and the answer is, “yes,” but the questions is, “how?” We have to have people that are willing to work and do the sacrifice to help others. In 2015, we sold everything we had, but it was worth it. I would do it again. The Hope Center is there, and thankfully, there are people there that I trust and that can run the day-to-day. I do what I can from over here to make sure these people have food, meds, clothes, safety and love. I think this is where the whole reality of “born with purpose” comes in. What I thought was my purpose back then, was simply training for what my real purpose is. I don’t think I would have ever understood the amount of compassion I needed to start this journey. It taught me that each one has their own unique purpose and struggles. But most importantly that you don’t have to be my twin to be my brother. Together we can do anything. I don’t regret my journey, any of it. It brought me here and I am thankful for where I am.

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Luke Blankenship

Richard Brandt

Chrys Bundy-Brennan

J. started his advocacy for the Tampa Bay LGBTQ+ community in 2001.

In 2003, he helped found St Pete Pride. Over the years he's worked for various non-profits and events including TIGLFF, AIDS Walk Tampa Bay, Dining Out For Life, and Santa Speedo Run. In 2014, named Grand Marshal of the St Pete Pride Parade and later year, became a full time board member for the organization.

For the last 5 years, Luke has served St Pete Pride in various capacities from a general volunteer to executive director. Passionate about advocacy to the LGBTQ+ community, he is grateful to organize Pride Weekend and work with the amazing board and volunteers. Luke is often found cooking pizza rolls and scouring fantasy football websites.

A Sarasota native, Richard has called St Pete home for the past 5 years.

He graduated from The University of Tampa with a Bachelor’s in Accounting and a Master’s in Instructional Design. He serves as Secretary and Entertainment Committee Chair, and works at Franklin Templeton as an Information Security Analyst and leader in the development of corporate diversity and inclusion efforts.

Chrys and his husband Robert have been married for 15 years and moved to St Pete in 2014. He joined the Pride board in 2017 and has recently developed a passion for cycling, joining TheSmartRide (rider #242) in 2018. He is also a cancer survior thanks to Moffit Cancer Center. He is really excited about the entertainment line up for St Pete Pride 2019!

Nathan Breummer

Fernando Chonqui

Dave Cousineau

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Daniel Doolin

Nathan is a Florida native born and raised in Tampa. He now calls Gulfport home and is a proud graduate of USF and Stetson Law. Nathan began his LGBTQ+ advocacy with Equality Florida while serving as a public school teacher. He is currently the Executive Director of ALSO Youth, a LGBTQ+ youth organization based in Sarasota.

Originally from Ecuador, Fernando Chonqui is a Dance Artist and Administrator in the Tampa Bay Area. He is very grateful and honored to be part of the Pride Team and is looking forward to celebrating his first season. He graduated from the University of South Florida, Tampa and holds a Yoga Teacher Certification.

Dave moved to Florida with his husband Jess and their dog Sammie 2 years ago from Austin Texas. While living in Austin, he volunteered with the Octopus Club, AIDS Services of Austin dedicated to raising awareness and funds for the Paul Kirby Emergency Fund.

When Dave is not voluntering with Pride, he is creating Kitchen & Bath Designs for One Stop Kitchens.

Scion has sat on the Board since 2011 and has held almost every position. She has dedicated her time to developing our ally relationships and more recently, she has focused her efforts to board governance & organization sustainability. In her free time, she enjoys spending time with her husband and baby.

As a member of the St. Pete community since 2014, Daniel is honored to serve on the production team for Pride. As an elementary school teacher in south St. Pete, he is proud to be a leader and role model for the future of equality in this city.

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Travis has lived in the Tampa Bay Area for 15 years. In that time, he’s seen the LBGTQ+ community in the Bay Area grow and evolve.

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Jess and his husband Dave, and their dog Samantha arrived in Tampa Bay 2 years ago. He stays very busy working for Metro Inclusive Health. Jess is also a licensed cosmetologist. Between his dog, husband, haircuts and mates at the beach, you can always gaurentee Jess will stop to chat, give you directions, or whatever you need. (big stupid smile, “wink")

It has been an honor to serve over five years on the board of St Pete Pride. My dedication to community doesn’t end there. I also have been a nurse for over 25 years and proudly serve our American heroes.

I have served my country proudly so everyone of us can say and be whom ever we choose to be.

Danny has been a board member for three years. He spent 20 years in Atlanta and worked with Atlanta Pride. Dan and his husband Jason have been married for three years and are ghost hunters. He is a people person, an avid cigar smoker, and collects department store memorabilia.

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