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CONTENTS ABOVE LEFT Joe Livingston plays in the sand with his adopted sons and Dakota James, 9, and Joshua Daniel, 11.

ABOVE CENTER (L-R) Lara Shelton and Megan Szczepanik enjoy a St. Petersburg beach with daughter, Annie Roze Pisanello, 6.

ABOVE RIGHT Christopher Farmer and his son, Braden, 6, spend some quality time at Fort DeSoto Park in St. Petersburg.

7 // MESSAGE FROM ST. PETE PRIDE CO-CHAIRS Introduction of Board members

8-10 // LETTERS AND PROCLAMATIONS 11 // WELCOME BY ST. PETE PRIDE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR CHRIS RUDISILL

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31 // MONTH OF PRIDE:

June is full of LGBT Pride all month long.

32 // MAP OF THE PROMENADE 42 // DEEP FEELINGS

Residents share their love of St. Pete.

14 // FINDING FAMILY

52 // THAT’S ENTERTAINMENT!

Gays and lesbians successfully take on parenting roles.

Entertainers of all varieties will perform on two stages during St. Pete Pride.

21 // HISTORY IN HIS HOMETOWN:

30 // KEEPING IT LOW-KEY

St. Pete Pride 2010’s Grand Marshal, Steve Kornell

25 // PAY ATTENTION!

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St. Pete’s LGBT community is thriving, but laid back.

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Elected officials put out the welcome mat for LGBTs.

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e would like to formally welcome you, our “family,” to the 8th Annual, 2010 St. Pete Pride Festival.

As always, St. Pete Pride aims to promote equality and diversity in an effort to increase awareness of all issues facing the entire LBGT community. We do this, not just in the month of June, but throughout the entire year through the use of theatre, the arts, music, debate, comedy, and the Promenade. All this in an effort to raise awareness that we are a vast and diverse population— with a voice that demands equality.

This year our theme is “Family.” There are many same-sex couples and single LGBT parents within our community that have the responsibility of raising their own children. We welcome them, especially, to participate in this year’s St. Pete Pride Promenade and festivities to show our LGBT community yet another reason to be proud.

It is also important to note that we, the board members of St. Pete Pride, are all volunteers. We spend countless hours throughout the year planning and organizing events to further the causes of equality.

Please take the time to mark your calendars and realize the immense importance of your support for all of this year’s pride events.

We greatly appreciate you, our LBGT “family,” and look forward to seeing each and every one of you. There is so much of which to be proud, so let’s share these moments together!

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Scott Turner & Stanley Solomons CO-CHAIRS, 2010 ST. PETE PRIDE

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n 2009, St. Pete Pride celebrated and remembered the Stonewall Riots of 1969.

A lot has changed in over 40 years. Today, gay and lesbian couples can legally wed in five states and in our nation’s capital, and domestic partnerships or civil unions are an available alternative in a handful of others. We are probably visible in our communities and nationwide than we have ever been. More than 80,000 people attend St. Pete Pride last year and our city is home to an array of international visitors year-round. We have made great strides in having our families recognized locally and

nationwide and we have witnessed the continued fight for adoption equality in our own backyard.

This year, St. Pete Pride is proud to celebrate our families. During the past few months, I’ve been fortunate to meet several wonderful LGBT people in the Tampa Bay area. I’ve met with local leaders who fight for equality year-round and attend benefits where small groups of grassroots individuals are working hard to make our families recognized and our homes free of prejudice. These people comprise our families. From the married and unmarried couples with children to the single LGBT parents and those unique families we create from our very own circle of friends—all of these people help to create the diverse community that we celebrate during Pride.

As we honor all of these families,

families. They face many more issues than diaper prices, school supplies and how to juggle afternoon karate class and dance lessons. Only together can we continue what was started more than four decades ago. Only together can we make a difference for our own families and those of the future.

In addition, Pride is—and always has been—about celebration. Pride makes us visible in a world where we need visibility to ensure our equality.

It shows that we are a vital part of our local communities and the state of Florida. This week and in the months and years that follow, let’s make sure we celebrate our lives and our families openly, honestly, and most importantly, proudly.

As the Executive Director of St. Pete Pride, I welcome you and hope that you enjoy our celebration. Our

We must stand behind the LGBT families who are trying to raise children in a country that is often unwelcoming to their families.”

CHRIS RUDISILL, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, ST. PETE PRIDE

however, we must also remember the battles for equality both in our history and the ones that lie ahead in our future. We must never forget the events that occurred that fateful night in New York City 41 years ago and the many often unrecognized events that took place leading up to it. We must realize that there are still gaps in our community that need to be bridged and relationships that need to be strengthened. We must remember that we, ourselves, are a diverse group of individuals and families made up of many colors, many creeds, many sexual orientations and identities.

We must stand behind the LGBT families who are trying to raise children in a country that is often unwelcoming to their

month long recognition of Pride is an important milestone for the LGBT community of St. Petersburg and the entire state of Florida. I am proud to be a part of such a thriving and loving community, where everyone is accepted regardless of their gender, race or sexual orientation. I send best wishes and my hope that each person who participates enjoys all the fun and awareness-raising activities that our Board of Directors and volunteers have worked so hard to organize for this celebration of ourselves, our families and our PRIDE! Most sincerely yours,

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LGBT families are more common than many realize

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amily is a state of mind—just ask Lara Shelton.

Shelton recently moved into the Indian Rocks home of her partner, Megan Szczepanik, and is helping raise Szczepanik’s 6-year-old biological daughter, Annie Rose Pisanello.

Because the two women reside in Florida, Shelton, 32, cannot become Annie’s legal guardian.

“But this relationship is legal and legitimate to us,” Shelton says.

“We don’t need someone to say its okay for two women to raise a child.

We don’t need government approval to know that we love each other.”

Florida remains the only state that expressly prohibits gays and lesbians from adopting, thanks to a 1977 campaign by beauty queen Anita Bryant. In recent years, however, several state judges have ruled that law is unconstitutional and the ban could be challenged in the State Supreme Court.

But until the ban is overturned, LGBTs are finding ways to raise thriving families in the Sunshine State.

“Annie adores Lara and we’ve never told her that our relationship isn’t legal in Florida,” Szczepanik says. “I want those legal protections and I think they are important. But Lara is right: love is more important than a legal document any day.”

All Annie knows, they say, is love and acceptance.

WE’RE HERE AND WE’RE FAMILY Determining exactly how many LGBT-led families are in the state can be difficult, since many are not recognized by the government. But gay men and lesbians are raising children all around Florida, and right here in St. Petersburg.

Christopher Farrar considers his role as dad to six-year-old Braden the best job he’s ever had.

“When you get that kiss and hug and night and hear that ‘I love you,’ you just melt,” Farrar says. “I always wanted to be a dad and when I lived in California, the opportunity presented itself.”

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Farrar and his ex-partner, Scott, adopted Braden when a friend approached them about taking over parental duties of the then fourmonth-old.

“We had talked about adopting, but when the opportunity presented itself I knew I’d be a dad,” Farrar says. “His biological parents used drugs, so he’s had some special needs issues and that’s why we adopted him.”

The adoption process was fairly painless, Farrar remembers, and Braden is doing well emotionally and physically. Farrar says that Braden doesn’t view his family any differently than families with opposite-gender parents.

“He goes to a religious school and they have several same-sex parents there,” Farrar says. “There is always that handful of people who will think what they think, but we’re happy and he’s happy—that’s what’s most important.”

Farrar and his ex have full legal rights to Braden, something Laura Quets and Trish Madsen can’t say regarding their blended family of four children. The Madeira Beach couple has spent the last three years raising their children together, ages 9-13, and the couple has a special relationship with St. Pete Pride, where they met in 2007.

Quets was married to a man for two decades before finally coming out as a lesbian and asking for a divorce. Madsen was artificially inseminated with her son, Pierce, when she was with her ex-girlfriend, Becky.

“We were three years into our relationship before he was born,” Madsen says. “Adoption was a non-issue for us, but it can be frustrating when your partner has no legal rights to your child.”

Madsen says she speaks with her ex daily about Pierce’s activities ,even though the 5-year-old lives with her and Quets. So far there have been no legal issues regarding parenting.

Quets has full custody of her three biological boys, Patrick, 13, Spencer, 11, and Gray, 9. Her ex-husband and the boys’ father has passed away.

“I always knew I wanted to be a mother and I thought the only way I could be a mom was to be married to a man,” Quets says.

(L-R) Gray Madsen, Trish Madsen, Pierce Quets, Laura Quets, Spencer Madsen, Patrick Madsen, Christopher Farmer and son Braden Farmer, Joshua Livingston, Joe Livingston, Dakota Livingston, Megan Szczepanik, Laura Shelton and Annie Pisanello are members of families headed

by LGBTs.

A FAMILY STRUGGLE Laws have tried to define, and strip, family rights concerning LGBTs for decades

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1996

The Society for Human Rights in Chicago becomes the first known gay rights organization in the United States.

The Daughters of Bilitis, a pioneering national lesbian organization, is founded.

In Romer v.

Evans, the Supreme Court strikes down Colorado’s Amendment 2, which denied gays and lesbians protections against discrimination. The same year, Congress passes the Defense of Marriage Act, barring federal recognition of same-sex unions.

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2001

Harry Hay and Frank Kameny form the Mattachine Society, the first national gay rights organization.

1956 Quets says she’s done having children, but she has served as a surrogate before and wouldn’t mind helping other couples achieve the joys of parenthood.

“When you become a parent everything changes,” Quets says. “You do everything for them—you live for them.”

A FAMILY REDEFINED Ask any LGBT parent if they are redefining “family,” and you’ll probably get a very harsh, “No.” But Joe Livingston did exactly that when he adopted his two young nephews, who now call him “Dad.” “I adopted them both out of the foster system,” Livingston says of his sons Joshua Daniel, 11, and Dakota James, 9. “I lied on the adoption application and said I wasn’t gay.”

Livingston says his sister was in a “bad situation” and lost her parental rights. The adoption became official in 2003.

“They both know that I’m gay and I take them to King of Peace Metropolitan Community Church,” Livingston says. “I’m a gay man and a Christian. Spirituality and faith is very important to me.”

The 39-year-old says he lives his life openly and that his sons’ friends and teachers all know that he is gay.

“I try to be open with everybody and explain Christianity as I see it,” he says. “God created us all equally and the term ‘whosoever’ comes to mind. Jesus doesn’t discriminate.”

Livingston seems beyond comfortable with his role as father. In fact, he and the boys are discussing bringing a little girl into the Livingston fold.

“We’ve talked about it and we think a little girl will bring something new to our house,” he laughs.

A NEW PERSPECTIVE The LGBT experience is very different for those in our community raising children. Late nights out are rare, impromptu visits to Sunset Beach aren’t usually possible and homework around the kitchen table oftentimes usurps date night.

“Dating can be a challenge,” Farrar laughs. “But usually when men find out I’m a dad I get positive feedback. Sometimes I’m even admired, I think.”

Farrar, 40, wouldn’t be opposed to being father to another little one, but he wants to find a solid relationship again before he travels down that road.

Wisconsin becomes the first state to outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.

Rev. Troy Perry invites 12 gays and lesbians to worship with him in his California living room and founds the Metropolitan Community Church. There are now 300 denominations in 22 countries.

Gay, lesbian and transgender patrons of the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village fight back during a police raid on June 27, sparking three days of violent protest.

The so-called “Stonewall Riots” transform the gay rights movement into a widespread quest for equality.

1973

The American Psychiatric Association removes homosexuality from its official list of mental disorders.

1977

The Florida Legislature votes to prohibit adoptions by gay men and lesbians in the midst of a campaign led by the entertainer Anita Bryant to repeal a gay rights ordinance adopted by Dade County.

Vermont becomes the first state in the country to legally recognize civil unions between same-sex couples. Connecticut (2005), New Jersey (2006) and New Hampshire (2008) follow suit.

The Netherlands becomes the first country to legalize same-sex marriage.

Belgium, Spain, England, South Africa and Sweden follow in the next half-dozen years.

2002

Talk-show host Rosie O’Donnell comes out, and becomes an outspoken advocate for LGBT equality and same-sex parenting.

2003

The Massachusetts Supreme Court rules that barring gays and lesbians from marrying denies them “the dignity and equality of all individuals” and creates “second-class citizens.”

Same-sex marriage becomes legal a year later.

2004

The Canadian Supreme Court rules that same-sex marriage is constitutional. A year later, the House of Commons and Senate extend marriage rights to gay and lesbian couples.

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2007

Largo receives national attention when then-City Manager Steve Stanton announces plans to undergo gender reassignment surgery. The media focuses on Stanton’s relationship with her teenage son.

2008

The California Supreme Court rules that it is unconstitutional to deny same-sex couples equal marriage rights, making California the second state to legalize same-sex marriage.

18,000 marriages are performed before voters pass Proposition 8, banning same-sex marriage in California.

Voters in Florida pass Amendment 2, banning same-sex marriage and its “substantial equivalent” throughout the state.

The Supreme Court of Connecticut rules that same-sex couples have the right to marry. For the first

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time a Florida judge rules that the state’s ban on gays and lesbians adopting is unconstitutional. Two other judges make similar rulings in 2009 and 2010.

2009

The Iowa Supreme Court unanimously rejects the state’s ban on samesex marriage, becoming the third state—and the first Midwest state—to authorize same-sex marriage. Vermont becomes the first state to legalize same-sex marriage by an act of legislation. Maine and New Hampshire become the fourth and fifth states to approve same-sex marriage. New York legislators reject a marriage equality law that would have made samesex marriage legal.

2010

Washington, D.C. legalizes same-sex marriage.

“It’s not an easy job,” he says. “You realize the importance of a partnership when you’re raising a child.”

Szczepanik also realizes the benefits a partner brings to the table concerning child rearing. When she first became a mother she was living with her late partner, Andrea Pisanello. While Szczepanik gave birth to Annie, it was Andrea who took on the role of mother.

“We started a family with an anonymous donor shortly after Andrea’s father died,” Szczepanik says. “I had never thought about being a mother and I seriously thought I lacked the maternal gene.”

Annie called Andrea “Mom” and Szczepanik “Megan.”

You just know in your heart when you’re ready to be a parent.”

JOE LIVINGSTON, ADOPTIVE FATHER OF TWO BOYS

When Lara entered the picture, she wasn’t thrilled with the young girl calling her mother by her first name.

“Now she’s ‘Mommy’ and I’m ‘Larbar,’” Shelton says. “I’m hoping to be “Mommy Lara’ very soon.”

The couple says that any LGBTs who want to become parents should, but they should take face the responsibility head on.

“When we go out we don’t hide anything,” Shelton says. “We hold hands and we show that we love each other whether we’re at home or in the mall.”

Both women admit that society makes it easier for women to live so openly, but that men in relationships should live openly too, especially if they are raising children together.

“You have to show your love day by day,” Szczepanik says. “That’s what the child needs to see and that’s what society in general simply has to understand.” SPP

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teve Kornell knows St. Petersburg. The native son was born here and has worked with the children of the community for nearly two decades through the Parks and Recreation Department.

He’s been entrenched in the city for years, and that’s why he ran—and won—a seat on the City Council last November.

“This is such a vibrant city and it’s so welcoming to everyone,” Kornell says.

“We’re happy to have St. Pete Pride here and I’m thrilled and excited to be the 2010 Grand Marshal.”

Kornell is the city’s first openly gay elected official, a historic fact that he modestly brushes aside.

“I am who I am,” he says. “I’m no different now than I was before the campaign. I never hid the fact that I was gay, but I never made it an issue either. I stuck with the facts of the campaign and I was never embarrassed to say what I stood for or who I was.”

In fact, Kornell announced early in his campaign—at a televised forum—that he was gay after an audience member asked him about his sexuality. By answering that question openly and honestly, his personal life became a non-issue.

St. Pete Pride is not new territory for the 44 year-old councilman. He attended the very first one eight years ago and has marched in several promenades since then.

“The promenade is not new to me,” he laughs. “But I’m honored to be the Grand Marshal and it’s a responsibility I don’t take lightly.”

Serving as grand marshal goes further than simply waving from a moving car or float on one day of the year, Kornell explains. It’s about being seen and saying that you are proud of who you are and of the community in which you belong.

“There are kids in our city who are growing up and they are gay,” he says.

“I’ve had kids come up to me and share the turmoil that they are going through.

But they say when they see an elected official who lives his life openly and honestly that it inspires them to be who they truly are. When they see me, they see themselves. That’s a powerful thing.”

An estimated 90,000 LGBTs and supporters are expected to descend upon Central Avenue during this year’s St. Pete Pride Festival. That sheer number gives Kornell hope that things can be

History in his Hometown

Steve Kornell is St. Pete’s first openly gay councilman and this year’s Grand Marshal accomplished to install real equality for LGBTs in the city and in the Sunshine State.

“The LGBT community is powerful and we can accomplish things and make change happen,” he says. “A beauty queen shouldn’t make policy. The people of Florida should make the policies.”

Kornell is referring, of course, to former beauty queen Anita Bryant, who is mostly responsible for the 1977 gay adoption ban currently on Florida’s books. Florida remains the only state that directly prohibits gays and lesbians from adopting children, although fostering children is allowed.

“My favorite part of Pride is seeing all of us together and the diversity we represent,” Kornell says. “It’s not just LGBTs, it’s our straight allies, our families and our friends.”

When asked about his favorite Pride memory, Kornell doesn’t hesitate. His first Pride is undoubtedly his favorite.

“I walked with GLSEN (Gay Lesbian and Straight Education Network) in the promenade,” he recalls. “I was so inspired by these kids who were strong enough to be who they are that it inspired me to stay true to who I am as an adult.”

That gives the city councilman hope for the future of Florida, which is often seen as one of the most conservative of

the 50 states. His hope is that the LGBT community will see the power that it has behind it and direct that power to enact change.

“It would be amazing to me if, say, the day after St. Pete Pride, every one of those 90,000 people donated $5 to a political campaign like Alex Sink’s,” Kornell says. Sink is running for governor of the state. “That’s not hard to

When gay kids see me, they see themselves.

That’s a powerful thing.”

ST. PETERSBURG CITY COUNCILMAN STEVE KORNELL

do. They can do it online and it takes five minutes. That would be huge. We have to support those who support us.”

And by supporting those who support us, we let people know our true nature, he adds.

“As Harvey Milk said, ‘Come on out,’” Kornell says. “Every time I have gay doors have opened. Some slam shut, true, but being gay doesn’t stop you from living your life and we have to let people know who we are.” SPP

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Varla Jean Merman headlines Laughter in Paradise

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arla Jean Merman began climbing the stairs to celebrity back in the early 1990s. That was when New Orleans resident Jeffery Roberson first donned a copper-haired wig, slapped on some makeup and red lipstick and proclaimed to be the rejected spawn of Ernest Borgnine and Ethel Merman’s 38-day marriage.

Since then, countless music videos, appearances in clubs around the country, a gig on LOGO, a few film roles and even— count them—two stints at the Sydney Opera House in Australia ensued.

Now Miss Varla Jean is coming to St. Pete Pride to headline the annual Laughter in Paradise show at 8 p.m. on Sunday, June 20, at St. Pete Beach’s Sirata Beach Resort at 5300 Gulf Blvd.

The busy red-haired beauty took some time to share some insight on her upcoming appearance:

HOW DID YOU BECOME INVOLVED WITH ST. PETE PRIDE THIS YEAR? They contacted me, which is shocking.

I’ve had people looking for me before but it wasn’t for anything good. I haven’t done Pride in a few years because I’m preparing for my show in Provincetown each June. So I’m looking forward to St. Pete Pride.

SO WHAT MADE YOU DECIDE TO PURSUE A CAREER ON THE STAGE? A desperate need for attention and free drinks. If I wasn’t a performer I’d be begging for even more drinks because no one would be paying me any attention.

YOU SING, YOU ACT, AND YOU DO COMEDY. DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF A TRIPLE THREAT? Many people have considered me to be a threat, especially old boyfriends and meter maids.

HOW DID GROWING UP IN NEW ORLEANS SHAPE YOUR LIFE—ON AND OFF STAGE? In New Orleans, people dress up in costume for any occasion and drink for no reason! That breeds a lot of creativity and some glittery hangovers. Being around so many outrageous characters has influenced me, and now I’m one of ‘em!

A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY THAT JUNE IS JUST TOO HOT FOR LGBT PRIDE CELEBRATIONS, BUT IT COMMEMORATES THE STONEWALL RIOTS. DO YOU HAVE ANY KEEPCOOL SUGGESTIONS FOR PRIDE ATTENDEES? Before applying your makeup, liberally coat your face with an antiperspirant rich in aluminum like Mitchum! It clogs the pores and keeps your face as dry as a crack whore’s mouth—although your knees will be sweating like a stockholder with British Petroleum.

I HEAR YOU’RE A REALITY TELEVISION SHOW JUNKIE. WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITES? I love America’s Next Top Model and I should be on it whenever they add a season for old and hairy big ladies! And I secretly lust after those “Jersey Shore” studs!

WHAT’S YOUR TAKE ON LADY GAGA? Now that gal knows how to get a lot of attention. I imagine she gets a lot more free drinks than little ol’ me! I think she is amazingly talented. I just hope she doesn’t get too serious, like Madonna has been known to do. I love them both but that “Telephone” video was not my favorite!

Making Beyoncé commit mass murder? I don’t know.

WHAT WILL YOUR LAUGHTER IN PARADISE PERFORMANCE BE LIKE? Because I have only performed in St. Pete a couple of times—and years ago at that—I will do a sampling of all my greatest

I love America’s Next Top Model and I should be on it whenever they add a season for old and hairy big ladies!”

VARLA JEAN MERMAN

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF OUR FIRST AFRICAN-AMERICAN PRESIDENT? It sucks that he has the worst mess ever to try and fix! I actually get more excited, though, about having Michelle Obama as First Lady. Those Daughters of the American Revolution women must be out of their minds! I love it!

hits and videos, new and old! It’s like a Varla Jean Pu-Pu Platter!

WHAT IS YOUR NUMBER ONE BEAUTY SECRET? I let my beautiful Boston Terrier, Mrs. Danvers, lick my face clean every morning.

She licks me so much with that really scratchy tongue that she exfoliates me like some fancy spa never could! SPP

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ChristineOLeary: St. Pete’s Princess returns for laughs

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hristineOleary has a crush—and it’s on more than just St. Pete Pride co-chair Scott Turner (more on that later). The New York-based lesbian comedienne has fallen hard for St. Petersburg and Tampa Bay, and she can’t wait to return for the 8th Annual St. Pete Pride and Laughter in Paradise on June 20.

“My relationship with that whole area has just been pure love,” she says during a phone call from her NYC home.

She appeared at the 2008 Laughter in Paradise. “There’s so much hospitality and generosity there. If you want a role in the community, there’s a job for you.”

The happily partnered ChristineOleary has been voted one of the country’s top 50 lesbian comediennes and is as politically active as she is funny. She’s a board member of Gay American Heroes, an organization raising money to erect a 100-foot long and 9-foot high movable memorial honoring LGBT victims of deadly hate crimes.

“Before we get to the pink fabulousness, let’s focus for one second on a place like the Vietnam Memorial Wall,” ChristineOleary says. “That’s a powerful place and it puts things in perspective. The Gay American Heroes project is a brick and mortar project of equality.”

ChristineOleary first became involved

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with the project after meeting its founder, Scott Hall. The two have since married in Omaha, Neb., even though both are openly gay.

“We were there for a Valentine’s Day protest where gays and lesbians apply for marriage licenses,” she says. “We found out that all you literally have to be is opposite genders. You don’t have to know each other’s last names, you don’t have to know each other’s parents and you don’t even have to live in the same state. So we got married to show how ridiculous the rules were. It only cost us $15.”

mother and may even bring her with her to St. Pete Pride this year.

“My mother essentially told me I was gay,” ChristineOleary laughs. “Before I came out to her I had a girlfriend who had left me and I was crying at my mom’s house and she asked me, ‘What did she do to you?”

ChristineOleary says her mother had seen the signs.

“She told me, ‘Honey, what did you think those sleepovers and softball were all about?’” ChristineOleary says.

“Every time I take her to Pride it’s like four hours into the event and she’s with the drag queens singing some Judy Garland song.”

Since her last performance here in 2008, ChristineOleary says a lot has changed, and so has her act. She says she’s blonder, her teeth are whiter and she’s skinnier. In fact, she has lost 130 pounds on the Fat Flush Plan.

“At first I was concerned about my skin because I didn’t want to look like a turtle without a shell,” she says.

“Mom knew I was gay. She told me, ‘Honey, what did you think those sleepovers and softball were all about?’”

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She speaks with Hall regularly, but she lives with her full-time “Luzband” and their pet St. Charles Cavalier Spaniel, Tilly.

“I’m now the whacky dog lady,” she says. “Ever since I got her I’ve never had any problems ovulating. I think I’ve fulfilled my maternal instinct.”

ChristineOleary says that her mother would like her and her “luzband” to have “real human children” but the comedienne doesn’t see that in her future. But she remains close to her

ChristineOleary’s comedy has also changed because she has “lived more” and has more experiences to share.

Oh, and about that crush on Turner: “I have a big lesbian crush on his postal moistening stick,” she says of the co-chair and postal worker. “He actually has a vibe of a civil servant, which is hot. I’m constantly looking at his Facebook picture with his dogs. One time he called me sugar and I got some lip sweat.” SPP

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A Month OF Pride Saturday, May 29

PRIDE POOL PARTY 12 p.m.-4 p.m.

Gay St. Pete House 4505 5th Ave. N., St. Pete Come join your friends and kick off Pride Month with some fun in the sun, as Gay St. Pete House and MyQmunity.com host our kickoff event this season. Tickets are $20 apiece or two for $25 and include beer, wine, soda, games and a cook-out. Proceeds benefit St. Pete Pride. For more information visit StPetePride.com/Events.

Thursday, June 3 MURDER MYSTERY PARTY 7 p.m.-9 p.m.

Gay St. Pete House 4505 5th Ave. N., St. Pete Ahoy Mates! During the annual violent summer thunderstorm season of the Caribbean, swashbucklers need a place to rest, repair their ships, barter and

fence their stolen goods. They’ve chosen Gay St. Pete House as their temporary residence and its time for a night of mystery and intrigue.

Be a part of the action and join Murder for Hire for this inaugural party. Tickets are $45 and include beer, wine and hors d’oeuvres.

Space is limited so register online now at StPetePride.com/Events or by calling 727-388-9435.

Saturday, June 5 PRIDE FAMILY DAY AT THE ZOO 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m.

Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo 1101 W. Sligh Ave., Tampa Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo is ranked the number one zoo in the U.S.

by Parents magazine. Today is a day to celebrate the diversity of our families and enjoy the region’s only dedicated zoological garden, with more than 2,000 animals housed in 56 acres of lush, natural habitats. For a $4 Pride discount coupon visit StPetePride.com/Events.

A calendar of all St. Pete Pride events that you just can’t miss!

Sunday, June 6

Tuesday, June 8

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Island Seafood 2057 Central Ave., St. Pete

7 p.m.-10 p.m.

American Stage Theatre Co. 163 Third St. N., St. Pete

Bring your pets in “pride” garb and join other pet owners for the 2nd Annual Pet Pride as we celebrate our favorite little companions.

Local celebrity judges will select the best looking pets for some fabulous prizes. The $5 entry fee benefits the Dogs Deserve Better Organization.

Following the Pet Pride, relax with friends over a traditional low country boil—shrimp and all the fixins. Even non-pet owners are welcome! Tickets are $15 at the door.

Join us for an evening of theatre and Pride as we take over American Stage for an exclusive performance of David Mamet’s November, followed by a private party with live entertainment

by O&A member Steve Long, dessert and drinks. This is a unique opportunity to get a closer look at how theatre productions are put on, including costume display and post-show meet and greet. Theatre tickets are $20.99 and theatre tickets plus the party pass are $25.99 (space is limited). Proceeds benefit St. Pete Pride. For more information or to purchase your tickets visit OutingsAndAdventures.com.

MISS ST. PETE PRIDE PAGEANT 9 p.m.

Club Nautico 4900 66th St. N., St. Pete Female impersonators will compete for the chance to represent St. Pete Pride 2010.

The audience participationbased competition hosted by Alexis Mateo will incorporate the classic pageant categories like evening gown and talent, along with several others to choose the best candidate for this year’s festival. The winner will receive a cash prize, a chance to perform at the St. Pete Pride Festival on June 26 and honorary crown and sash. Tickets are $5 at the door. For more information or if you’d like to compete, e-mail NauticoStPete@aol.com.

PRIDE SQUARE DANCE FUN NIGHT 7:30 p.m.-10 p.m.

King of Peace MCC 3150 5th Ave. N., St. Pete The LGBT square dancing group Suncoast Squares will hold a special fun night to raise money and awareness for St. Pete Pride.

Dancers of all (or no) skill levels are invited to participate, meet new friends and learn some new moves. Tickets are $5 at the door. For more information visit SuncoastSquares.com.

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Come cheer on your favorite area male impersonators as they compete for the title of Mr. St. Pete Pride 2010. The pageant will feature

Join local leaders from Equality Florida and city councilman and this year’s Grand Marshal, Steve Kornell, as the Dr. Carter G. Woodson African-American Museum hosts a community dialogue on homophobia.

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Dr. Carter G. Woodson African American Museum 2240 9th Ave. S., St. Pete The Dr. Carter G. Woodson African-American Museum opening coincides with the official Pride month exhibition on the Harlem Renaissance. Celebrate this wonderful era with food, drinks and dancing! (Period dress optional.) Admission is $25. For more information visit WoodsonMuseum.org.

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ARTPRIDE 2010 5:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m.

Throughout St. Pete The visual arts are vibrant in the Sunshine City. More than two dozen galleries comprise the Downtown Art Association and they open their doors on the second Saturday evening each month for a downtown gallery hop. For special Pride exhibits and community art projects, visit StPetePride.com/Events.

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8:30a.m.—Noon Sirata Beach Resort 5300 Gulf Blvd., St. Pete Beach Take Pride in your local beach!

Join Esurance and St. Pete Pride in conjunction with Keep Pinellas Beautiful on the beach in front of Sirata Beach Resort for Beach Clean-Up Day. Following the beach clean-up, volunteers will receive a

Sunday, June 13 TROPICAL WAVE 6 p.m.-9 p.m.

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The Tropical Wave silent auction, known as the anti-black tie event of the year, will once

again be at the Dali Museum in downtown St. Petersburg. The dress is Florida Formal, meaning flip-flops and Hawaiian shirts are encouraged! Barefoot Wines and Anheuser-Busch will provide refreshments. Proceeds will benefit The Dali Museum and St. Pete Pride.

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ST. PETE PRIDE & FRIENDS TURNABOUT 8 p.m.-12 a.m.

Georgie’s Alibi 3100 3rd Ave. N., St. Pete St. Pete Pride Board members and friends of the organization will cross dress for cash during the annual St. Pete Pride Turnabout show. Those participating will entertain the crowd with a number and incredibly fabulous outfits, all while reaching for your dollar bills! Proceeds benefit St. Pete Pride. Come out, have a few laughs, enjoy our fabulousness, and

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Join us for a panel discussion on Florida’s law that prohibits gay men and lesbians from adopting, featuring Martin Gill, Shelbi Day, and Nadine Smith. Gill, the plaintiff in the ACLU’s lawsuit challenging Florida’s adoption ban, will tell his story which began when the state placed two severely neglected brothers in his care more than five years ago and continues as his legal challenge works its way through the appellate courts. Day, one of Gill’s ACLU attorneys, will discuss the adoption ban and the legal challenge to get it overturned.

Smith will discuss past and current legislative efforts to repeal the adoption ban which came into

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Pride Family Day at Lowry Park Zoo is Saturday, June 5, from 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Dress your pets in Pride garb and join other pet owners for the 2nd Annual Pet Pride on Sunday, June 6.

being over 30 years ago in the wake of Anita Bryant’s anti-gay crusade. Q&A will follow the panel discussion. For more information visit: StPetePride.com/Events or ACLUFL.org/Training.

Saturday, June 19 LGBT FAMILY TRAINING & CHILDREN PROGRAM Noon-4 p.m.

King of Peace MCC 3150 5th Ave. N., St. Pete The ACLU of Florida, GLAAD, Family Equality Council and Equality Florida, in collaboration with St. Pete Pride and other local partners, bring the ACLU of Florida’s statewide education campaign on Florida’s law that prohibits gay men and lesbians from adopting to the Tampa Bay Area. This half-day adult speakers training led by GLAAD will equip you with the knowledge and skills you need to talk effectively about Florida’s adoption ban and change the hearts and minds of your friends, colleagues, neighbors

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and legislators. During the adult training, Family Equality Council will provide children’s and youth programming, which promotes confidence and self-esteem and celebrates diverse family structures. A light lunch will be provided. For more information visit StPetePride.com/Events or ACLU.org/Training.

HURRICANE PARTY & ARTWALK 8 p.m.- 11 p.m.

Downtown Gulfport Shore Blvd., Gulfport The third Saturday always marks the monthly Art Walk in downtown Gulfport. This month, finish the night off with some hurricanes, a true Florida tradition. The Art Walk takes place from 6 p.m.–10 p.m. on Beach Drive. Afterwards, join St. Pete Pride for a night of fun, music and libations as we give partygoers a chance to barhop between Gulfport’s favorite drinking holes, including O’Maddy’s, Gulfport On The Rocks and Roman Gardens.

Make sure you pick up your commemorative St. Pete Pride Hurricane Glass for only $8 (with a hurricane, of course) and be sure

to drink responsibly. A portion of the proceeds will benefit St. Pete Pride. For more information StPetePride.com/Events.

Sunday, June 20 LAUGHTER IN PARADISE 8p.m.—10:30 p.m.

Sirata Beach Resort 5300 Gulf Blvd, St. Pete Beach Known for her recent appearance on LOGO’s One Night Stand Up special drag queen spectacular and her award winning performance in the 2003 film Girls Will Be Girls, Varla Jean Merman will headline this year’s Laughter in Paradise. Varla Jean looks like Rita Hayworth, sings like Julie Andrews and vamps like Mae West. Opening the show is St. Pete Pride’s favorite lesbian and award-winning comedienne, ChristineOLeary.

She’s been called “brash, bold and a delicious delight.” Tickets are $30 and can be purchased online at StPetePride.com.

Enjoy Auntie Mame, starring Rosalind Russell during Historic Kenwood Movie Night on Tuesday, June 22.

Monday, June 21 PRELUDE TO PRIDE, THE LADY IN QUESTION 7:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m.

American Stage Theatre Co. 163 Third St. N., St. Pete The Suncoast AIDS Theatre Project will present Charles Busch’s The Lady in Question starring local favorite Matt McGee as Laura Keen, the British-born actress whose company performed at Ford’s Theatre. Tickets are “Pay What You Can” and benefit AIDS Service Association of Pinellas (ASAP), an organization that provides funding and services to those living with HIV/AIDS in our community. For tickets visit AmericanStage.org or call 727-823-PLAY.

Tuesday, June 22 VOLUNTEER TRAINING & ORIENTATION 6 p.m.-8 p.m.

King of Peach MCC 3150 5th Ave. N., St. Pete Huge events like St. Pete Pride can’t happen without the help

of volunteers. That’s why all volunteers undergo a training and orientation session before thev St. Pete Pride Promenade and Street Festival. Those planning to help out during the state’s largest LGBT Pride Festival are required to attend this training.

For more information visit StPetePride.com/Volunteer.

Historic Kenwood Movie nigHt 8:45 p.m.-10:45 p.m.

Seminole Park, 2900 3rd Ave. N., St. Pete Bring a blanket or lawn chair to enjoy an outdoor movie in Seminole Park with Historic Kenwood neighbors. This year’s featured film will be the classic Auntie Mame, starring Rosalind Russell, and is bound to put everyone in a great mood for Pride. Get there early to grab your favorite spot on the grass and get ready for a relaxing night out with friends. For information visit HistoricKenwood.org.

Wednesday, June 23 tigLFF dinner and Movie: roLe/PLaY 7:30 p.m.

Muvico Baywalk 101 2nd Ave. N., St. Pete Join the Tampa International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival’s screening of ROLE/PLAY, during its monthly film at Muvico Baywalk in downtown St. Petersburg.

Celebrate Pride week with this exclusive TIGLFF screening from award-winning writer/director Rob Williams who will also be in attendance. Williams holds a special place in his heart for Tampa Bay and is giving our community a first look at the original cut of his new film, which has just finished production. The film is loaded with the very sexy and talented actors Matthew Montgomery, Brian Nolan, David Pevsner, Steve Callahan and Jim Bullock. A special Q&A with Williams will follow the film. Williams intends to use the input he gets from this exclusive screening to guide editing of the final cut. This is a rare opportunity and a wonderful way to celebrate Pride. Tickets are $9.50. For more

information or to purchase tickets visit TIGLFF.com. Also make plans to enjoy dinner at one of the delectable restaurants along Beach Drive. Select restaurants will donate a percentage of all sales to St. Pete Pride for this event. For more details and a list of restaurants involved, visit StPetePride.com/Events.

Thursday, June 24 stonewaLL coMMeMorative recePtion 6 p.m.-9 p.m.

St. Petersburg Museum of Fine Arts 255 Beach Dr. N.E., St. Pete The Stonewall Commemorative Reception is St. Pete Pride’s sponsor and friends’ reception.

Fine foods and beautiful art will be provided for those who have helped make St. Pete Pride a successful organization.

The following shows will be on display: Whistler, Hassam and the Etching Revival, Turmoil and Triumph: American Works on Paper from the World War II Era, Changing Identities: The Len Price Photographs of Jessie Mann and A Passion for Photography: Selections from the Carol Upham donation. For more information visit StPetePride.com/Events.

Friday, June 25 Pride in FasHion 6 p.m.-8:30 p.m.

Macy’s at Tyrone Square, 6901 Tyrone Square, St. Pete Kick off the Pre-Pride Party with a fashion extravaganza presented

by Macy’s. Join celebrity guests, including winner of this year’s RuPaul’s Drag Race, Tyra Sanchez, and comedienne ChristineOLeary for this special look at what’s hot for this year’s Pride Season. See the latest trends in fashion and enjoy complimentary hors d’oeuvres and champagne provided by Georgie’s Alibi and Barefoot Wines and Bubbly. A $10 suggested donation is requested, which Macy’s will return with a $10 gift card to be used on merchandise. All proceeds benefit St. Pete Pride. For more information, visit StPetePride. com/Events.

Pride KicKoFF PartY 9 p.m.-12 a.m.

Georgie’s Alibi 3100 3rd Ave. N., St. Pete Georgie’s Alibi will hold the official Kickoff Party for St. Pete Pride the night before the Street Festival and Promenade. High energy music, light shows and drink specials will get you in the mood to celebrate. Macy’s will continue the fashion fun with special giveaways and more. Come out and kick-start the weekend.

For more information visit GeorgiesAlibi.com.

Saturday, June 26 Una-voce Pride PancaKe BreaKFast 7 a.m.-10 a.m.

King of Peace MCC 3150 5th Ave. N., St. Pete Pride Day is a big day, so why not start with a big breakfast?

The annual pancake breakfast, provide by Una Voce: The Florida Men’s Chorale, is only $6 with a portion donated back to St. Pete Pride. Pancakes, coffee and juice are among the selections at the annual breakfast. For details, visit Una-Voce.org.

st. Pete Pride ProMenade 10 a.m.-1 p.m.

Route is from Georgie’s Alibi, through Kenwood and along Central Ave., St. Pete Floats from organizations, clubs, social groups and businesses will be decked out in rainbow colors for the annual St. Pete Pride Promenade. The promenade will feature St. Petersburg City Councilman Steve Kornell, this year’s Grand Marshal, along with performers and entertainers of all kinds.

st. Pete Pride street FestivaL 11 a.m.-4 p.m.

Central Ave. between 21st and 28th St., St. Pete Vendors from across the state will line Central Avenue to celebrate their commitment to diversity.

But remember: June is hot, so wear light colored clothes and a

hat to protect yourself from that Florida sun—and don’t forget the sunscreen!

Sunday, June 27 detox BeacH daY 10 a.m.-2 p.m.

Pinellas County’s Gulf Coast Sunday is traditionally beach day for St. Petersburg’s LGBT community, so the St. Pete Pride board suggests taking your favorite rainbow umbrella and flag beach towel to your favorite beach and celebrate diversity along the water. LGBT-friendly beaches include Fort DeSoto, Pass-AGrille, Gulfport, North Shore Beach and Sunset Beach.

FUze troPicaL tea-dance 2 p.m.-Midnight, Flamingo Resort 4601 34th St. S., St. Pete Come party around the pool for the hottest T-Dance in town, sponsored by Fuze Healthy Infuzions. Drink specials, drag queens, hot male strippers and the Florida sun ensure that the party never ends. Come dance the afternoon away at St. Pete Pride’s official closing party. For more information visit FlamingoFla.com.

Tuesday, June 29 6tH annUaL nigHt oF aLternative tHeatre: sordid Lives 7:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m.

American Stage Theatre Co. 163 3rd St. N., St. Pete The Suncoast AIDS Theatre Project will present Del Shore’s hit comedy and cult classic, Sordid Lives, starring local favorite Joey Panek. Tickets are “Pay What You Can” and benefit Metro Wellness and Community Centers. The show tells the story of a colorful Texas family coming together in the aftermath of the matriarch’s death. For tickets visit AmericanStage.org or call 727-823-PLAY. sPP

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What do you like best about living in the St. Petersburg area?

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t seems very few people are actually from St. Petersburg.

No matter where we’re from, it seems we all arrived here for a number of reasons—mostly centered around the beautiful weather.

We asked a few random St. Petersburg residents what drew them to the city that is home to the state’s largest LGBT Pride celebration, and we honestly weren’t that surprised their answers.

Michael Reny

I really like our downtown waterfront area. The Pier, the parks, the marina and the scenic nature of our waterfront downtown is wonderful. There are always events going on there too—art shows, musical events, celebrations—all sorts of stuff. It’s really nice.

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Dhaamin Johnson

Despite the cold winter we had here this year, normally our weather is just perfect and we’ve had an absolutely wonderful spring. I also really like the close proximity to such great beaches.

Troy Smith

I think St. Pete is very friendly. It’s not cliquey at all.

It’s very open and accepting and the men are cute!

Sherril Parmley

The like the wonderful gay church we have here. It is a great spiritual home. Plus, I love the great beaches we have.

Karten Kunz Sheryl I moved here in 1979 because Schultz of the beaches and weather, but St. Petersburg also has a great gay community and the entire city is very eclectic and diverse. There’s always something going on. We have great events of all kinds and you never have to be bored in St. Petersburg!

Everything is so close and convenient here and everyone is so friendly and nice. It’s really a very welcoming and accepting community.

Everyone just wants to get along and be a good neighbor.

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The enormous amount of support you get throughout the entire community, gay and straight

William Waters

St. Pete has a real down home feel to it. It’s small, friendly and certainly has its share of great Southern hospitality.

Victor Curum

It’s not an overgrown city.

It’s very simple and I think we have a touch of old Key West going on here. It’s comfortable, friendly and really a beautiful place.

Loretta Powers

The weather and the beautiful water views we have make this paradise. Plus our people—that’s what really makes us special

Doug Larsen

It’s not just that we have great beaches—we have a wide variety of different kinds of beaches all so close by. There are very, very few places in the country that can boast that.

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inding entertainment at this year’s St. Pete Pride Festival won’t be difficult. With two stages offering a variety of performers, rainbow revelers are guaranteed to find something they like.

One stage will run on Central Avenue and 26th Street while a second stage at Central Avenue and 21st Street will crank the speakers at the same time.

Both stages will showcase lesbian folk rockers, bands, female impersonators, and dancers and singers out to entertain the expected 90,000 revelers.

While the lineup details were still in the final planning stages during production of this program, a sampling of some of the entertainment has been confirmed.

Check out StPetePride.com for updates and the St. Pete Pride issue of Watermark that hits the streets June 10 for complete details and times.

Veronica Eden

Singer/songwriter Veronica Eden has a playlist of more than 170 songs, and the ones she’ll pull out for St. Pete Pride is anyone’s guess. Her original songs have appeared on two record labels and she often performs the work of such visionaries as the Beatles and Led Zeppelin. Eden typically tailors her shows to the specific needs of the audience, ranging from rip-roaring rock fest offerings to quiet, romantic sounds. We’re guessing Pride will bring out her rip-roaring side. For more information on Eden, visit VeronicaEden.com.

Kelly Neff

Indie rocker Kelly Neff has been playing her music throughout the Sunshine State for the last seven years and this will mark her sixth year performing at St. Pete Pride. If you’ve ever been to one of the all-girl bars in St. Petersburg, you’ve run into Neff. The guitarist, songwriter and performer is a constant performer at places like The Hideaway, Gulfport on the Rocks and Gemini Lounge. Neff will no doubt perform some of her favorite tunes, like Next Time and Ladies of the Night. For more information on Neff, visit MySpace.com/KellyNeff.

One World Eclectic Ricky Wilcox Get pumped for St. Pete Pride as One World Eclectic entertains for equality, pride and you.

OWE is a group of actors and singers from all walks of life, religions and sexual orientations.

Each volunteers to entertain at St. Pete Pride because they do not accept the hate and ignorance that is directed at LGBT individuals and communities around the world and especially in our own back yard. If you enjoy the performance, OWE asks that you give $1 to help fund one of the local LGBT community centers and educational outreach programs in the Tampa Bay area.

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Ricky Wilcox is a versatile and popular St. Pete musician with serious alternative rock credentials and power pop roots and who has toured the US extensively as well as Japan, Germany, and Canada. Over the last year Ricky’s song ‘Insignificant’ from his CD monkeyshine has been featured in a recurring story line on the primetime soap “All My Children” on ABC TV. Ricky focuses mainly on his “singer/songwriter” career, playing guitar and singing full time. Ricky’s solo gigs, which he labels “acoustic power pop,” focus on creative song selection, original interpretation, a sense of humor and audience interaction. For more information on Wilcox, visit RickyWilcox.com.

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Sarasota/St. Pete-based Elysian Sex Drive is one of the more original rock bands on the local scene.

Their strong, self-penned material and spirited live shows, led by provocative front woman DeLaran, have earned ESD a dedicated following that’s as diverse as the group’s repertoire. Their sound is simultaneously a blend of rock, funk, alternative and world beat inspired tunes. An Elysian Sex Drive show is an unforgettable experience. For more information, visit ElysianSexDrive.com.

Dani Panic is quickly becoming one of Florida’s top entertainers. Specializing in the illusion of Michael Jackson, as well as Prince, Adam Lambert and androgynous stage shows, he’s a staple of St. Petersburg’s entertainment and night life. Having worked with performers such as 6Pak, Miss Gay America 2010 Coco Montrese and Bobby York, Dani is a respected figure in the drag community and has performed at the Flamingo Resort.

Cassidy Haley has hitchhiked barefoot across the country, danced with Hari Krishnas in the mountains of Kentucky, stripped in San Francisco’s seediest gay clubs and rallied at political gatherings in Washington, D.C. All roads, however, have led to his true calling— music. The son of a Berkeley-bred lesbian midwife and a gay electric car maker from San Francisco incorporates his own family diversity into his music by combining costumes, post-modern dance and complex staging. For more information on Haley, visit YouTube.com/CassidyHaley.

St. Pete resident 6-Pak has appeared on the cover of Watermark and has won numerous competitions for his male impersonation. But his most recent title is his most impressive: he’s the current reigning Mister Florida USofA M.I. 2010. Beginning in 2002, 6-pak has made his way on to many stages across the nation, including Las Vegas, where he was voted “Best Gay Entertainer 2009” in Q-Vegas . 6-Pak has the distinction of being the only transgender male celebrity impersonator to work with the cast of “An Evening At La Cage” in Las Vegas. His passion for the entertainment business is equal to his passion for educating the LGBTQ community about Trans Men, as well as the rest of the world.

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Local entertainer Meagan Towers is Miss Chattanooga, Tenn., 2001, and has earned plenty of other crowns before and since. Her impressive moves and show stopping numbers have put her on stages throughout the Southeast, which suits her fine since she is a Southern girl. While she is Southern, however, “I have never found my relatives to be interesting enough to date or marry.”

The happily partnered Towers hopes revelers will show what Pride really means this year: “Stand erect, show them your Pride and be counted!”

Mr. St. Pete Pride 2009, Teddy D, has been a male impersonator/drag king for four years and has performed throughout the Southeast United States. The 24-year-old has captured other numerous titles, including Mr. Pride of Florida 2008, St. Pete King Idol 2009 and She King 2009.

Teddy D is currently performing with Spikey Van Dykey and the AfterMidnights and with the Vaude Villian Burlesque Company.

Mickey Baynard is a native of St. Petersburg, a drummer, a biological female and a drag king and male impersonator known as King Aramis. The 42-year old has embraced the way God made him ever since he went to the bathroom with a Sharpie Marker see what he’d look like with natural facial hair. At that point, King Aramis was born. The entertainer is not male or female—he is both. He is a director, producer and performer and has been spotted on the stages of G Bar, Gemini Lounge and Chiq Bar. He recently performed at the Female-toMale Fund Benefit at the Gulfport Casino.

When these five women from throughout Tampa Bay get together, they produce a different sound you won’t soon forget. Leslie Kille, Chic Lisitano, Sweet Pea Jones, Linda Wallis and Rose Stauffer have formed the brand new band Silk Heat and will bring their talents to St. Pete Pride’s street festival. The women have never teamed up before at the festival and are excited to showcase their blend of original and cover songs to the LGBT and supportive crowds.

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t. Petersburg’s LGBT community has many identities, but overall, it’s the community’s style that gets most noticed. For many, the culture of St. Pete is best described as “laid back.”

There are plenty of night spots in the city, but there aren’t multi-level dance monoliths that cater to the LGBT community here. Georgie’s Alibi is always busy, but it is technically a sports bar that transforms into a dance club sometime after 10 p.m. Queens Head Pub on Central Avenue brings a taste of British cuisine and atmosphere into the LGBT-centric Grand Central District, and Club Nautico has evolved into a neighborhood bar with occasional drag shows.

But that’s the way we like things here in St. Pete. We’re a very low-key, albeit active, LGBT community.

“It’s less about party, party, party, and more about quality of life issues here,” says Brian Longstreth, St. Pete Pride co-founder and owner of the Gay St. Pete Guest House. “There’s an emphasis on a welcoming laid back community, arts and culture, beaches and nature. The St Petersburg area will continue to prosper and grow as a destination for LGBT and progressive people.”

It’s less about party, party, party, and more about quality of life issues here.”

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David Connelly, public relations director for the St. Petersburg Museum of Fine Arts, agrees. When he arrived in the city in 1996 he was pleased with the level of acceptance he found here.

“Back then the city was much quieter, but even then it was very gay and lesbian friendly,” Connelly remembers. “We have been well-integrated into the community of St. Petersburg for years and I think that’s why St. Pete Pride is so successful.

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St. Pete’s LGBT culture is thriving in its own laid back style We’re now able to broadcast how LGBTfriendly we are on a national level.”

And for anyone living locally, the influence of the state’s largest LGBT Pride event has made dayto-day living easier, in Longstreth’s opinion.

“I think St Pete Pride has allowed a lot of LGBT’s to come out to their co-workers, employees and families,” Longstreth says.

While St. Pete Pride is in its 8th year, it was only three years ago that many began speculating that LGBT culture in St. Pete was waning because of the closure of the Suncoast Resort. But with the opening of the Flamingo Resort in 2009, St. Petersburg saw the return of the popular Sunday T-Dance, which all but vanished after the Suncoast Resort closed its doors in 2007. The large pool, welcoming Cabana Bar and Key-West style restaurant and show bar have attracted LGBTs from across the bay and from around the country.

Since the weather finally warmed after a record-setting cold winter, the resort has stayed busy daily and the Saturday and Sunday crowds continue to grow.

That’s just one sign of St. Petersburg’s LGBT resilience, according to Longstreth.

“It’s been interesting to observe as many as 70 LGBT owned businesses spring up in the Grand Central District due in part to St Pete Pride, Georgies Alibi and the surrounding neighborhoods,” Longstreth says. “Eight years ago there were hardly any restaurants in the area,

now there are over a dozen. With the Flamingo Resort opening, it’s interesting to see the effect a large hotel and bar bringing people from around the world has had on the community” The resort and the many arts attractions of St. Pete have made a significant impact, but Longstreth mostly credits the people of the local community.

“Because of the family friendliness, the tremendous growth, and economic boost provided by St Pete Pride,” he says, “it changed the discussion about what Pride celebrations had become and what actually constitutes ‘community.’” SPP

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he St. Petersburg area has a number of elected officials who are either gay or are strongly supportive of LGBT issues.

They are all in agreement that in recent years, St. Petersburg has transformed and reinvented itself from a sleepy retirement community into a vibrant, diverse and welcoming city with a strong LGBT population.

State Representative Rick Kriseman (D-St. Petersburg), who is straight, has been a long time supporter of the LGBT community. Prior to his election to state office, he served as a city council member in St. Petersburg where he drafted the first ever proclamation naming June as Pride month for the first St. Pete Pride celebration in 2003. It is a tradition he continued for several years afterward. Kriseman is one of two lawmakers who have introduced legislation calling for the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.

Kriseman says that St. Pete’s strong commitment to the arts and to culture in general has lead to a better educated, diverse population that is more accepting of gays in general. But he says LGBT people need to be visible in their communities.

“People are afraid of the unknown,” says Kriseman. “It’s a lot harder for people to be against LGBT rights when their next door neighbor is openly gay.”

This year’s St. Pete Pride Grand Marshal, St. Pete native and newly elected St. Petersburg City Councilman Steve Kornell has lived his life openly as a gay man, even during his campaign last year.

“St. Petersburg is an extremely welcoming and open community and the gay community is strong here because GLBTQ people feel so welcome here,” he says.

Straight Gulfport city council woman Michele King agrees with Kornell.

“St. Petersburg has done a remarkable job in the past several years of reinventing itself by making commitments to things like the arts, education and cultural activities which tend to attract a younger, more liberal and open minded population,” King says. “That creates an atmosphere where gay people can flourish.”

Gulfport is a small southern suburb of St. Petersburg where a third of its 13,000 residents are part of the LGBT community.

King notes that the expansion of the University of South Florida in the downtown area of St. Petersburg has also created an environment that tends to attract educated, accepting people.

“St. Petersburg made a conscious decision to take an aggressive stance to

Open Arms attract what I would call an entire creative class of people,” she says. “As a result we transformed the city that once was known for green benches and a conservative retirement age population into a vibrant liberal younger city that is committed to culture and the arts and welcomes open minded people of all sorts. I’ve lived in the area a long time and it’s really been remarkable to see how the city has changed so much.”

King, who spearheaded the passage of Gulfport’s human rights ordinance, the most inclusive and comprehensive in the state, says her city would never had passed

Local elected officials see St. Pete as a welcoming community Caldwell also notes that there are 24 different communities in Pinellas County, with each one being unique in its own way.

“It creates a great, friendly, small town atmosphere even in a county that is so urban in nature,” she notes. “Of course, our

It’s a lot harder for people to be against LGBT rights when their next door neighbor is openly gay and they see them as just another good neighbor and a friend.”

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its ordinance if St. Petersburg, which also has a human rights ordinance in place, had not passed one first.

“I think a number of factors have contributed to the attractiveness of St. Petersburg to the gay community,” said openly gay Treasure Island city commissioner Gail Caldwell. Treasure Island is one of several communities on the barrier islands adjacent to St. Petersburg proper. “It’s the climate, the revitalization of the downtown area and welcoming neighborhoods that have all had an impact.”

great beaches, like those in my community, make our county very unique and special.

It’s really a great place to call home.”

All four elected officials encourage LGBT people to get involved in the political process. All see it as being critical that our community be active and engaged as neighbors and friends in the wider general communities in which we live.

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makes good economic sense. Aside from the fact that it’s simply the right thing to do to support human rights, often you can get through to these people through their pocketbook.”

“I encourage my many LGBT friends to get involved in the political process. Support and work for candidates that support you.

Be visible. Be vocal. Vote. You can make a difference, but we need you to be engaged.”

King says it all boils down to following one’s heart.

“When you know in your heart that what you are doing is the right thing,” she says,

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“you really don’t have to deal with their criticism in any way.”

Many elected officials owe their win to the LGBT community, and that’s not lost on Kriseman.

“I know I’m very grateful for the strong support I get from the LGBT community,” he says. “We need your work, your support and your votes to get in and stay in office and to continue to represent your interests. You are vitally important to our communities and to our nation and your voices need to be heard.” SPP

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you are is the first step,” says Kornell.

“Then, it is very simple—vote. Donate $5 to a candidate you support. Spend a few hours volunteering for a campaign.”

Kriseman, King and Caldwll echo those sentiments.

“Let people know who you are,” says King. “Then become a viable political lobbying group. Get out and get involved.

Run for office yourself!”

All four face challenges from time to time from those who don’t share their more progressive values on human rights and issues affecting the LGBT community.

“When it comes to human rights, the people generally tend to be way ahead of some of the leaders who oppose them” says Kornell. “They are like school yard bullies; they will do it as long as we let them. When we stand up to them openly and honestly, they will back down and we will win.”

Kriseman believes that economics play a big role in swaying some who may not be inclined to support LGBT issues.

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