“
Winning the first position in an
Bikram refused the proposal right
essay competition organised in my
away and tried to convince his parents
school turned my life forever,” says
as he was underage. He wanted to
16-year-old Bikram Godia, an eighth-
complete his education and become
grade student at Janata Basic School in
independent. But his parents were
Duduwa Rural Municipality, Banke. Right
adamant. Then Bikram threatened his
after the essay competition in school,
parents saying he would go to police
Bikram’s relatives came from India with
and report that they were getting him
a marriage proposal.
married off against his will. His parents
He was shocked to know that his parents had already accepted the proposal and were planning his wedding. The irony was he had just won a prize on his essay on child marriage.
A young man who stopped his own marriage
and relatives tried to persuade him by getting engaged and get married after
Bikram Godia. Photo by: Aarati Sharma/Oxfam
seven years. Bikram refused again
Bikram’s parents had to eventually drop the marriage
saying he wouldn’t commit for such a
proposal. “My parents now want to see me as a
long period.
successful and highly educated person. They don’t bother me with marriage proposals anymore,” said Bikram smiling. “He is the hero of our school. We give his example to all the children of our school and community,” said Shiva Sapkota, Vice-Principal of the school. Through the Creating Spaces project, a total of 58 cases of child marriages have been stopped in Banke, Rautahat, Baitadi, and Dailekh.
Child club members staging forum theatre in Dailekh. Photo credit: Oxfam
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“He is the hero of our school. We give his example to all the children of our school and community,” said Shiva Sapkota, Vice-Principal
