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Inside this issue The Cultivated Palette On Becoming Flower Wise Preparation for the Journey Survey Says Not Pinterest Perfect

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Jen Fariello

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Dear Friends,

contents

We dream about lots of things when we are children. From what we will be when we grow up to who will be “the one” that we

The Cultivated Palette

I (Still) Dream of a Wedding

Making Your Big Day “Yours”

On Becoming Flower Wise

On Trend

Preparation for the Journey

a little girl’s dream. From stories

like the Three Little Kittens and

Survey Says

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spend the rest of our life with (and what our wedding day will be like!), we can all look back and think on those childlike fantasies that may or may not be the lives we are living today. For me, I never thought that I would be touching the lives of brides in our region, and I love the fact that life takes us on unexpected paths. This, our second wedding issue of clutch, embarks on just that …

Sleeping Beauty to the wonderful “everyday weddings” that fall in between, we hope to inspire you to make your special day the one that you have thought about ever

I Do’s and I Don’ts

Not Pinterest Perfect

since you were a little girl. So, welcome to clutch, the bride’s guide to have and to hold, and we hope you find ideas to make your wedding all you ever dreamed it would be.

74 Before You Book

Quips: what makes a bride memorable?

48 Quips: Favorite wedding gift

everyday Wedding: Andrew & Jessica

everyday wedding: Capron & Elizabeth

everyday wedding: Dan & Chelsea

everyday wedding: Shea & Jessica

everyday wedding: Jason & Essence

66 Quips: Favorite wedding moment

Weditorial: The Three Little Kittens

GPS: Get Prepared for (Bridal) Shows

clutch Goes Culinary

Whether playing or taking tea,

Before you head out to your first

sense as you join us for a European

our kittens inspire fashion ideas

show, learn tips to get the most out

inspired feast in shades of green.

for your own flower girl.

of your experience.

Tempt your taste buds and your DIY

Weditorial: Marie Antoinette

Wedding Survival Kits Be prepared for anything from

Weditorial: Sleeping Beauty

A young queen and her lovely

wardrobe mishaps to mini medical

Woken up with a kiss, our beauty

maidens grace a style portfolio filled

situations with our well stocked kits.

and her beau relax and set off on

with unique French touches.

their new life together.

The Cultivated palette 3 Tips for Choosing Your Hues

Photography by Visions by Heather

Yay, color! At some point in your planning you are going to have to consider color. Just think of Shelby from Steel Magnolias who knew for certain that her wedding would be draped in her signature colors, “blush” and “bashful”. Whether you know your color scheme from the beginning or decide after more careful planning, color plays a very important role in your wedding day details. It is weaved throughout your day and encompasses more than just the color of your bridesmaids’ dresses. Heather Cheatham owns and operates Visions by Heather. You can easily find her and her husband at a field, courtside or poolside supporting their two boys at sporting events, but she also enjoys time traveling, decorating and volunteering.

Start with a main color. This may come from your favorite shade, or it could be related to the season, theme, venue or flowers. You may even consider honoring your mother or grandmother with a color from her wedding day. As you begin to decide on critical elements of your day (dresses, flowers, décor, etc.) your wedding will develop a color palette of its own. Don’t be shy to use what you like, even if it seems out of place. If you want mint green, go for it! After all, it’s a trending color for 2013. While your bridesmaids may frown upon minty green frocks, you can weave the color throughout your day with particular accents like linens, flowers and more. Look to the color wheel for compliments or look online. One color combined with the right accents (or used as an accent with the right primary color) can change the entire mood of your day. Imagine your favorite mint green combined with pale coral (vintage), yellow (retro), rust (autumn), or even red (bold). The right complimentary colors will complete the overall mood of your day. Your color palette should connect your choices to how you want your wedding day to feel.

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Whether your preferred color is royal, plum, or emerald (the 2013 color of the year!), picking a cooler hue is both refreshing and calming.

Brighter palettes in yellows, reds and oranges evoke feelings of excitement and happiness and lend themselves to any time of year.

At times a neutral palate is preferable, and using monochromatic colors in these tones allows for textures to really shine through.

Have several favorites? Try mixing them in a pleasing combination to create a unique color scheme that is all your own.

In addition to Pinterest (search â&#x20AC;&#x153;wedding color palettesâ&#x20AC;?), there are many resources on the web to help with your wedding day color palette. Some of my favorites include: Design Seeds: design-seeds.com/ The Perfect Palette: theperfectpalette.com/ The Knot: wedding.theknot.com/wedding-colors.aspx

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our love story into 500 words, and Steven helped me edit the document over the phone. We had no idea that in clicking “send” on this email to Hill City Bride, our relationship would be taken to a much deeper level. After a few weeks of waiting, we received an email saying that we had advanced into the final four, meaning we were much closer to the reality of winning this local contest. Suddenly, we were placed into a world of Facebook soliciting, competition, local vendors, and anticipation. We strove to appear

I (Still) Dream of a Wedding By Christy Mays

genuine and approachable, not fabricating fairy tales or getting the idea in our heads that we were

Planning a wedding is one of the

behind a wedding ceremony is much

suddenly more important than

most exciting times in a woman’s

more important than the location,

we actually were. However, the

life. Choosing colors, having photos

flowers, and even the dress.

contest itself was a stress on our

taken, touring venues, and sampling food makes for a busy but joyful

Four or five months ago, my fiancé, Steven, and I entered a contest to

time. It is far too easy, though, to

win a free wedding. We really didn’t

get caught up in the stress of dates,

think much of it; I thought it would

flavors, and family politics and to forget the true meaning behind the nuptials. My personal experience in wedding planning has taught me that the commitment and devotion

be a fun opportunity to improve my writing, and Steven thought it wouldn’t hurt to try to win. The contest required that I summarize

engagement. We were planning on getting married in the spring, and we needed to select a date and start to select vendors. However, our involvement in this contest put that progress on hold because we were hoping we would win. So, last summer, Steven and I

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were constantly breathing prayers,

But then, after a gentle conversation

Also, the goal of the I Dream of a

reminding our friends to vote for us,

with my patient Steven, I realized

Wedding contest was, ultimately,

calling our families with updates, and

that absolutely nothing had been

a wedding. And whether we won the

still attempting to cultivate a healthy

lost or squandered. The I Dream of

contest or not, Steven and I were

relationship.

a Wedding contest was one of the

still committed to carrying out that

best things that ever happened to

very thing. When I began to view the

us. It proved to us that there is life

situation in that light, I saw that we

after disappointment and blessings

really hadn’t lost anything. I still am

to boot!

blessed to have as my future husband

After a two-month waiting period, the results of the contest were announced. Hill City Bride threw an incredible kickoff party, hosted by

the most patient, faithful, and

many generous Lynchburg vendors.

The journey of marriage (including

Steven and I were able to meet the

the months of engagement prior

other contestants, share our story,

to the ceremony) is not about a

and enjoy delicious food. By the end

final destination or one single

of the night, though, we were both

accomplishment. It is a representation

shaking with anticipation. Finally,

of steadfast love that endures and

the votes were tallied, counted, and

persists even in the face of trial and

re-counted, and we, along with the

disappointment. Marriage is not a

Thank you so much to Christy for her

other couples, were called to stand at

fairy tale, where the sun sets each

candidness. I (Jennifer) love that we are able

the front of the room, awaiting the

night on gardens of bliss and every

to give a wedding away to one couple. As I

news that…

dream comes true. Marriage is better

announced the winners, I felt joy for them,

we didn’t win.

than that: the grit of reality and

Not only did we not win, but the

makes this union into a beautifully

distance between us and the winning

functioning machine. The machine,

couple was impossibly small. I

though, needs maintenance and

If you would like to be considered for our 2014

remember the crushing feeling of an

constant attention to detail in

I Dream of a Wedding package, please consult

entire summer of heart-wrenching

order for it to operate to its fullest

www.idreamofawedding.com. Oh, and one big

hopefulness that had been wasted;

potential. Was there no adversity to

the futility of all our attempts and

prove the strength of love, how

our time was the only thing I saw.

would we test its strength?

the stain of human imperfection

intelligent man that I know. I am still under the mercy and grace of God Almighty every day of my life. I still get to wear my beautiful white dress. I still get to rejoice with family and friends. I still dream of a wedding.

yet my heart mostly rang out for couples (like Christy and Steven) who were deserving but not the “winners”. I wish that we could give away many weddings!

blessing for clutch was to meet Christy because she now writes our Minding Her Business column for our women’s publication. So fun!

Quips: Vendors, what makes a bride memorable to you?

I have so many amazing brides.

clients are hyper about detail

My favorite girls are always the ones

perfections to the detriment of

who make their day their own with

being in the moment.

personal and unique touches and

— Allegra of Allegra’s Studio

enjoy the process and the day for what it is; a celebration of love and

I have one bride that sticks out the

a commitment to forever.

most. Right after my grandmother

— Crystal of Crystal George Studios

died she asked me if I would be ok emotionally to do pictures of her

For the first time ever in

and her grandmother. So many of

photographing weddings, my heart

my brides were so over-the-top

was blessed beyond words by the

supportive during that hard time!

We have had the most gracious

bride and groom... (they) were about

— Kimberly of K.D. Burke Photography

brides. But... we love it when they

service. They, together, literally

are open to ideas and suggestions,

served their guests dinner. They did

The brides that are special and

and we can really get our creative

not sit down until everyone had a

come to mind fastest are those that

juices flowing!

plate and the same with the cake...

are gracious, love fully, trust me

— Linda of Love Is in the Air

they cut the cake and then delivered

wholeheartedly, and shine. Their day

each guest a piece. — Christopher of

is a day of celebration and not worry.

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They make secure choices in the

Having a bride that gets you and

beginning and trust all their vendors

your work and puts her full interest in getting great results can only

To me, the brides that stand out are

to do their jobs without thinking

make you work harder to do more

the ones that lose themselves in

twice, and it just shows how much

and be better at what you do.

the moments and enjoy their day.

they enjoy every moment.

— Jeremiah of Stone Blue Productions

It always makes me sad when my

— Heather of Visions by Heather

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everyday wedding

Andrew & Jessica

Birds and chevrons make this wedding an adorable feast for the eyes. Add hues of yellow and gray accented with aqua, and you have Andrew and Jessica’s sweet, rustic event.

“ I started with wanting to do grays and yellows because I liked the way it looked together and then gradually started adding to it to brighten it up and add more detail. We would go and find random fabric patterns that I loved and slowly added to it all. Andrew and I are not super fancy people, and I knew I liked “unique vintage with a twist.” No one would have anything exactly like our wedding and I liked that.” —Jessica Cake – family friend Catering – Caroline Street Catering Flowers – Pittman Florist Gown – Alfred Angelo Photography – S Carter Studios Venue – Clore Brothers Outfitters

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Making your big day “yours” Your wedding is the day when you and your fiancé declare your love in front of friends, family, and loved ones - and it should reflect you, your personalities, and your relationship from start to finish. In the modern world of wedding planning, personalizing your big day has officially evolved from the traditional selection of wedding colors and china patterns into crafting a ceremony and celebration that have the hallmarks of your identity as a couple. This task can, admittedly, be overwhelming, so here are some fresh new suggestions to help you do just that! Turn the tables on you:

It’s as good as it themes:

DI-why not?:

Everyone loves a beautiful tablescape,

A great way to showcase your

Personalizing your wedding can

and chances are you have been

identity is to choose a theme that

be as simple as adding in a few

drooling over plenty of beauties. Use

runs throughout - from stationery

Do-It-Yourself (or DIY) touches,

your centerpieces as an opportunity

to decor to favors. Decide on

especially if it is something you

to share more about you as a couple.

something that is representative of

and your groom can do together.

Photos are a great start, but how

you as a couple. Think about what

Both avid gardeners? Seedlings

about shadowbox frames that let you

you both love to do, and that can

you’ve started would make

share more? Tie this in with table

likely be turned into a theme! If you

memorable and appreciated favors

names, such as places you visited

both are avid cyclists, you could

for your guests. Perhaps you share

together. Guests won’t be wondering

incorporate bicycles graphically

a love of drawing and doodling

why you named their table New York;

throughout your stationery suite

— go ahead and design and create

they will be busy examining the

and later ride off on a tandem

the chalkboard signs for your

Yankees sticker and the photo of you

bicycle. Bike baskets filled with

big day.

both at the Statue of Liberty!

flowers at your event would be the

If you want to take it a step further,

perfect finishing touch.

Strapped for time (or just not that handy?) - try asking a local

look into sourcing or renting small

The key to using a theme is to be

craftsman or a seller on Etsy if

props to complete the picture. If

consistent without overdoing. Don’t

they can fabricate what you are

you met at your college library,

feel the need to make guests ride

envisioning. The good news is that

incorporate books. Have a shared

around on bikes for photos unless

you don’t necessarily have to slave

love of photography? A collection of

you know that they are going to love

over a glue gun and sewing machine

vintage cameras will do just the trick.

it. Instead, focus on fun and subtle

for a craft component to speak to

touches to weave throughout.

your relationship and personalities.

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Six unique personalized takes on the wedding guest book:

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Artistic? Have your guests sign a blank canvas. Added bonus - it makes S Carter Studios

a great post-wedding wall hanging! Love hanging out in the kitchen together? A cookbook works great. Just ask guests to leave a message in the margins of a favorite recipe. Travel-savvy? Use a map mounted on a bulletin board, and provide guests with pieces of paper to pin to

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their favorite vacation destination. Love “your song”? Get a vinyl copy, and add gold and silver markers for a great keepsake. Both have the same favorite poet, author, or children’s book? Snag a hardcover edition of your favorite work, and have guests write in any blank space they can find. Share an alma mater? Grab a school-spirited item, such as a banner, and have guests sign in your Jane Bradley Photography

school colors!

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Cater to you (and your groom!):

Not feeling like you can be that

Gone are the days of the same old,

adventurous with dinner? Try “his

same old “chicken or fish” option

and hers” cocktail hour appetizers as

for dinner. The wedding reception

a nod to your favorite foods, or offer

menu is the ideal place to show some

a selection of sustainable beer and

personality - from passed-down

wines to make your big day a bit

family recipes to meals reminiscent

more “green.”

of what you ordered on your first

Personalizing your wedding day is as

date. If you both love bacon in a sort

simple as bringing in the things you

of “would eat it at any meal, have to

love (and love about each other!) and

have it, bacon-wrapped-anything-

transforming them into something

is-the-best” kind of way, ask your

your guests can see, feel, and touch.

caterer to serve a tray full of it at

No matter what you decide to

the reception. Yes, it will be a bit

showcase about your relationship and

different, but folks who know you

personalities, as long as it is true to

will get a great chuckle out of it, and

you, it will fit the day perfectly!

it will certainly be enjoyed by all. Just be sure to include a note on your menu cards letting guests know why these delectables are so you!

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Four ideas for a personalized wedding theme: The location of your first date Was it Italian? Picture a delicious meal of Italian favorites, wine and grape centerpieces, and Italian cookies as favors. Your favorite activity to do together Film buffs can send save the dates shaped like movie clapboards and have reception tables named after favorite flicks. For those that are feeling really adventurous, you could set up a photo booth in a style similar to a scene in your favorite movie. Your favorite place to visit Jane Bradley Photography Crystal George Studios

If you and your fiancé love the beach, think ocean blue and sand colored stationery and seashell escort cards with an album of photos of your favorite beaches serving as a guest book. A family heritage Perhaps you and your fiancé come from a similar background. This is a great opportunity to expose your friends and loved ones to the intricacies of your family history. Coming from different cultures can be just as exciting, as you blend together different traditions!

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Dan & Chelsea

Pops of color and vintage styling throughout Dan and Chelsea’s wedding create a sense of happiness. Sunflowers, popcorn and coke bottles added flavor to this unique celebration.

“ I’ve always loved the vintage look. I love the 1940s and 50s. Coke is my favorite beverage, and the advertising they did in that era is so fun. My favorite thing about the wedding was taking a moment after the ceremony to be with Daniel, just the two of us. I also loved having everyone we love and care for together to watch us get married. — Chelsea Bridesmaids’ Dresses – Unique Vintage Cake - grandmother Catering – Robin Alexander DJ – Mason Reiley Flowers – Perfect Arrangement Gown – Absolute Bridal/David’s Bridal Groom’s Attire – Amazon (suspenders), Macy’s (shorts) Hair and Makeup – Summer Miller Jewelry – gift from mother Photography – Crystal George Studios Save the Date – Laurel Burkholder Venue – The Avoca Museum

Get Prepared for (Bridal) Shows

Navigation is a term normally referred to on the high seas, but when a bride enters a show, it can seem like uncharted waters. Shows are a great way to sample catering and see floral arrangements, but they can make for a long day and information overload if you are not adequately prepared.

Preregister if the show offers that option. Shows may have entrance lines, and preregistering eliminates the need to fill out paperwork while a plethora of other brides are doing so. Create labels. Be sure to include your name, address, email, phone number, and wedding date. This will save you time and keep your hand from hurting from writing all day! Have a date and number of people in mind before you go. You will be asked this question, so having some idea or at least a range is helpful. Keep your purse light. Normally you will receive a bridal bag (if not, you may want to just bring an empty tote for collecting information). You will save your arm and shoulder by only worrying about carrying minimal things. Have a friend tag along (but not an entourage!) - Having key people come with you is a lifesaver. They can help you with ideas and gracefully guide your timetable with vendors. Be careful not to bring too many as trying to move through with a group of ten can be difficult.

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Bring water. Most bridal shows are very heavy on the food, yet beverages are scarce. Bring water or at least scope out the water fountains so you can stay hydrated. Dress Comfortably. You definitely want to look nice, but you may want to forgo the heels and not have your outfit be a hindrance. Go hungry (but bring a snack!). Shows have caterers and cake artists who are waiting to tempt your tastebuds. Go with an appetite (although not starving so you are not ravaging the first caterer you stumble upon!). If there are less sampling stations than expected, a snack will offer sustenance. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get sidetracked by non-food vendors offering food. Save the eating for the caterers and bakers ... unless the non-food vendor has partnered with a catering company or baker so that you can have a taste of their creations. Have an open mind. Services that may not top your list could make your life easier (or your wedding more fun!) in the end. Look for trends, color combinations, unique flowers, and other things you can view in person rather than in a magazine. You may leave with a few new ideas.

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Bring a manilla envelope. Placing information from vendors you are serious about in a separate envelope will ensure that the florist that impressed you isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t forgotten about in the shuffle of papers you take home. Or snap a photo with your phone of the business card of the vendors that are â&#x20AC;&#x153;must havesâ&#x20AC;? so their information is readily available. Interview the vendor. Sometimes you will not only be impressed by the talent of the wedding professional, but you could really click, which will make the wedding planning process that much more enjoyable. Be honest with vendors. Shows are tiring! They have to plan their booths, get materials ready, set up, be at their best for hours (in heels, maybe!) and then tear down and put things away. If you are truly not interested, let them know politely. This allows them to expend their energy on brides that are considering booking them. Take information, and regroup at home. Take information from each booth (unless you are truly not interested in or have already booked their type of service). Once home, you can spread out the information and have a thorough look at it. Be prepared for emails and follow ups. Expect for key vendors to do a follow up with you after the show via email or even a phone call if you expressed that you were interested or in need of their services. Jennifer Prince is the face behind Bliss (www.hillcitybride.com/bliss), which are upscale wedding events for local brides. You can find her (in her heels most likely!) at bridal shows around town.

On Becoming Flower Wise

Arrangements by The Arrangement Company Photos by Allegra’s Studio

Think Outside the Color Box.

Hydrate your Blooms.

When choosing the palette for

During pre-wedding photography

your wedding, don’t feel compelled

keep in mind how long your bouquets

to have it all match. Coordinate,

are out of water. You don’t want to

yes, but matching isn’t a necessity.

walk down the aisle with bouquets

Multicolor combinations and

that have been tossed around and

contrasting colors can be a pleasant

dehydrated for two hours prior.

alternative to a monochromatic

While you want the bouquets in your

or two-tone approach. The Perfect

photos, consciously limit their time

Palette www.theperfectpalette.com is a

out of water, or perhaps the flower

great resource to help you visualize

shots can be reserved for after the

different combinations.

ceremony.

Choose Seasonal Flowers.

Be Aware of Your Budget.

Many brides desire a peony wedding

Not everyone has had to buy flowers

in November, but for peonies, you

in quantity like they do for their

are best to stick with April and

wedding. This can cause quite the

May. Global growers and worldwide

“sticker shock” during planning.

shipping provide peonies throughout

Be sure to enter each consultation

the year, however the cost increases

with a figure in mind so your

significantly. There are many other

designer knows where to begin and

flowers that are similarly affected,

how far they can go. A little research

but rejoice because there are always

on wedding costs can prevent the

flowers in season. Keep an open mind,

surprise that can come with the quote

and make your choices practically.

and can save you time while easing your mind.

Choose Linens Thoughtfully. Linens are an important piece of

Floral Trends for 2013

your table décor. The right choice

•Loose arrangements

can enhance and compliment the

•Garden feel

centerpiece, while the wrong choice

•Garlands

can make the flowers appear washed

•Natural elements

out or dull. If colored linens are not

•Floral headpieces

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clutch goes Culinary

A european bridal brunch

For our feast, we head over to France and England to enjoy delectable treats such as scones and quiche. No matter what time of day, macaroons are always a treat. Join us as we enjoy a DIY brunch with Pantone’s color of 2013, emerald, in mind.

English Scones with Devonshire Cream

English Scones with Devonshire Cream and Strawberry Jam Spring Vegetable Quiche Strawberry & Toasted Pecan

Ingredients

Method

Scones:

Scones

12 cups flour

Sift together dry ingredients in a large bowl or

1/2 tsp salt

*on our blog April 1 Mint Chocolate

ingredients until mixture looks like course meal. Add 1 level tbsp baking powder

the egg and milk mixture, and stir with a fork until

1/4 cup sugar

the mixture comes together (dough should be fairly

Spinach Salad with Poppy Seed Dressing

processor. Cut butter into cubes, and work into dry

6 tbsp butter

soft). Lightly dust working surface and hands with flour to prevent dough from sticking to hands. Use

1 egg in a liquid measuring container,

rolling pin or pat out with hands to about ½ inch

then add enough milk to the egg to

thickness, and cut into 2” rounds. Bake at 425 for 10-12

make 2/3 cup of liquid

minutes. To reheat, place scones in hot oven for a

Devonshire Cream

couple of minutes to crisp up.

3 ounces softened cream cheese

Devonshire Cream

Michelle Duncan

1 cup heavy whipping cream

Whip all ingredients together in a blender or food

Food styling and

1 tsp powdered sugar

Macarons Cheese Plate

Set styling and Decor

photography Stephanie Mast

½ tsp vanilla extract

processor until thick and peaks form. After blending cream, do not re-stir the cream, otherwise it will break down and not be fluffy. Refrigerate prior to serving. Serve alongside strawberry jam.

Spring Vegetable Quiche Ingredients 1 unbaked 9” pastry shell 1/2 cup sliced fresh mushrooms 1/2 cup green bell pepper 1/2 cup asparagus, cut on an angle 1/4 cup chopped green onions 2 tbsp butter 4 eggs 1 1/4 cups half-and-half 1/8 tsp pepper 1 cup shredded Swiss cheese

Method Line unpricked pastry shell with a double thickness of heavy-duty foil. Bake at 450 for 8 minutes. Remove foil; bake 5 minutes longer. Remove from oven; reduce heat to 375. Meanwhile, in a small skillet, sauté vegetables and onions in butter until tender. In a large bowl, beat the eggs, cream and pepper. Using a slotted spoon, transfer mushrooms and onions to egg mixture. Stir in cheese. Pour into crust. Cover edges loosely with foil. Bake for 30-35 minutes or

TIPS for creating a cheese plate

until a knife inserted near the center

The beauty of a cheese plate is the variety it offers and the rich culinary

comes out clean. Let stand for 5

experience of pairing complimentary flavors. Aim for variety and

minutes before cutting.

contrast. When choosing cheese, try to include the following: a sharp cheese (any type of sharp cheddar), a tangy, flavorful cheese (such as a blue cheese variety), a mild cheese, and a smooth, creamy cheese, typically a goat cheese variety. Then, choose items to accompany or “fill” the cheese plate. Try to include both sweet and salty elements: fresh or dried fruit, prosciutto, nuts, jams, grainy mustard, and even honey. The goal is to compliment the flavors of the cheese without overpowering it. Serve with crackers or toasted baguette rounds available at local grocery stores.

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Mint Chocolate Macarons

Method Sift the confectioner’s sugar and almond flour together. Whip

Ingredients Macaron

Filling

3/4 cup almond flour

1/2 cup heavy cream

1 cup confectioner’s sugar

1 tbsp light corn syrup

1/4 cup sugar

1/2 bunch mint leaves

2 large egg whites

80 grams semisweet

gradually incorporate sugar. Whip egg whites until a firm, glossy meringue appears. To check, shake off the beaters until the egg whites sit on top of the egg whites in the bowl without sinking in. Add mint oil. Beat the oil until evenly incorporated.

chocolate

Mint extract

egg whites until they are at soft peaks. Once at soft peaks,

80 grams milk chocolate 1/2 tbsp butter

Fold in the almond flour/confectioner’s sugar mixture. Keep folding the mixture until it loosens, enough for it to disappear into itself after a few seconds. Put the batter into a piping bag, and pipe out small circles onto a parchment lined baking sheet. Then let these rest for 30 minutes. Bake at 290 for 5 minutes. Reduce the temperature to 280, and bake 12 minutes more. Let cool on sheets, and then carefully pry the shells off.

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Ribbon

Black foam board

Fresh flowers

Chalk Paint pens of desired color (I used silver)

Pencil Sanding sponge

Scissors and Exacto knife

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Royal colors and lots of sparkles characterize the wedding of Jason and Essence. Unique bridesmaids’ gowns and fun DIY touches make this event one to remember.

“ My very crafty family and I pulled together and made much of the décor and other details for our wedding. When our big day finally arrived Jason was all smiles! He told me over and over how much he loved everything and that it was well worth it (the money spent). When I looked around that day and saw everything we created come to life, I felt so blessed.” — Essence Bridesmaids’ Dresses – Liz Fields Cake – Klassy Cakes Caterer – Tanya Brown and family DJ – DJPDogg Entertainment Flowers, Invitations, Programs – DIY Gown – David Tutera from Couture Miss Bridal and Formal Photography – K.D. Burke Photography Shoes – DSW Tuxedos – Calvin Klein from Men’s Wearhouse Venue – The Atrium at Treetops Videography – J Lewis Visuals

ON TREND What’s New for the Modern Wedding

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Handsome hues, pretty patterns and sumptuous flavors – if you are newly engaged you probably boast a favorite list of the most popular blogs or a Pinterest board bursting with images reflecting the latest in wedding wonders. A steady flow of new ideas means that there is something just right for every couple. The new trends certainly do not disappoint!

Personalization is the

Colors

Stationery and Invitations

New Name of the Game

Today’s bride doesn’t simply choose

Say goodbye to plain old white

Couples are now, more than

white or ivory and one signature

invitations and formal calligraphy.

ever, personalizing their big day,

color. Oh no. The sophisticated eye

Brides now recognize that invitations

focusing on the elements that most

requires a more intricate palette than

and printed pieces like save-the-

intimately reflect their journey.

that. You will find binders full of

dates set the tone for the entire

Some incorporate Grandma’s favorite

color chips secured from local home

event, so they are taking things up a

recipe in their menus, while others

improvement stores and the annual

notch. Many will work with custom

add playful finishing touches like

“It” list from Pantone (www.pantone.

designers and printers to choose

a getaway in the family’s antique

com) from which to draw inspiration.

personal, memorable details and to

car. Many will choose a venue with

“Big and Bold” are in for now.

find alternatives to paper like fabric

sentimental value – perhaps a family

“Emerald”, “Poppy Red”, and “Monaco

and wood. Much time is invested in

farm or vacation home. The most

Blue” will grace bridesmaids’ gowns

these choices early in the planning

important details today are the ones

and tablescapes, while “Grayed Jade”,

process, as the motifs and themes

that honor the newlyweds, their

“Lemon Zest”, and “Nectarine” act

are carried through the rest of the

individual pasts, and the exciting

as accents. The enchanting dark-to-

wedding on complementary menu

future that awaits them.

light ombre pattern will continue

cards, place cards, and even signature

its popularity in the new year, and

signage for guest directions and

we haven’t seen the last of vibrant

candy stations.

patterns like the zig-zag “Chevron” or more classic herringbone either. There is certainly nothing bland to be found! 40

Event Lighting Great details deserve great lighting,

Top Five Trends We’re Loving

and many couples now understand

Table Runners in bold prints

that there is enormous value in

After all, who says you have to stick to just

hiring professional lighting designers

blush and bashful?

to showcase their special touches.

Broach Bouquets

Most wedding photographers jump a

If you’re the lucky recipient of these family

little with excitement when they find

heirlooms, consider incorporating them

that they will work in a professional

into your bridal bouquet.

lighting environment, as images are

Uplighting

more vibrant, polished, and stunning.

Washing the walls of your venue will not

Other vendors are also embracing the

only transform the space but set the exact tone you were hoping for.

trend as the “same old” spaces they

Watercolor Stationery

are used to can be transformed into

This handpainted touch is all the rage

something new and exciting. This trend has been growing in popularity for the last few years, and has come of age, making great options more easily accessible than ever before.

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these days, with everything from the initial save-the-date to the escort cards set out at

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something a bit more dramatic? You’re in luck as gold gowns dominated Bridal Market in New York this year. Stephanie Yonce Photography

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Weddings Go Mobile

Everyone knows you can’t have a

Gone are the days of distributing

Where to spot the latest trends?

wedding without some assortment

disposable cameras to each table

Bridal Market- Twice yearly, all

of tables, chairs, and linens.

and collecting them at the end of

eyes are on the Big Apple as the top

That’s a rule rather than a trend.

the night. Guests have all of the

designers present their latest lines.

The best trends tend, though, to

technology they need at their finger

bend the rules a little, and the

tips, and many are quite adept at

move towards different rental

shooting great photos with their

further than your favorite wedding

options is no exception. Specialty

phones. New mobile apps exist

blogs, which offer a steady stream of

rental companies are emerging

that allow guests to share all of

what’s hot in the wedding world.

that provide unique furnishings

their wedding day images with the

to make real life weddings look

newlyweds, so ditch the disposables,

to bring new and swoon worthy

better than the ones in magazines.

and encourage uploading!

inspiration to Virginia area brides.

Instead of plain folding chairs,

The new wedding trends incorporate

take a look at antique, upholstered

a little old, a little new, some ideas

love seats. Create a luxurious

borrowed from the past, and even

cocktail lounge with velvety sofas

some brilliant blue hues. There

and coffee tables instead of tall

are plenty of ideas to inspire every

cocktails draped in polyester. You

bride. Now your biggest challenge is

can use specialty furniture, linens,

choosing which ones are perfect for you!

and tableware to accent your event here and there, or go all the way

Wedding Blogs- Hoping for a daily dose of wedding trends? Look no

Clutch- Each year, clutch is proud

Meghan Ely is the owner of OFD Consulting, a niche PR and marketing firm that services the wedding industry. She loves ruffled linens and royal wedding tchotchkes.

and create an entire fantasy world of eclectic glamour.

Preparation

for the Journey

Sincerely, Liz: Photography

Imagine for a moment that you are

Watch that curve!

A good, thorough premarital

taking a long road trip with a friend.

None of us can predict what life is

preparation program will help

Even the most spontaneous traveler

going to throw at us. This is a critical

you align your expectations with

would probably want to do at least

truth: it is not the problems we

reality. Unrealistic expectations are

some preparation in order to decide

face but how we face the problems

a major source of disappointment

your route, to calculate the cost, and

that will make the difference in our

and frustration for newlyweds.

to choose which vehicle you will take.

marriage. If this were not so, we

Kevin and Tori Fritz of Forest say

You probably want to know some

would be able to predict the outcome

their premarital preparation “was a

things about your travel partner, too,

for every couple who experiences a

huge help to us in getting ready for

such as will you share the driving,

financial crisis, infidelity, or winning

marriage. It helped open our eyes

want to stop at the same places, and

the lottery. But, of course, that is not

to the reality of what a fulfilling

complete the trip together?

the case. Some couples, when faced

marriage looks like, instead of

Marriage is also a journey, but the

with such life events, will struggle

just the Hollywood image of a

sad truth is that many couples spend

and fail. Others will survive and

self-centered life of ‘bliss’, so that we

more time and effort planning for

persevere, their marriage becoming

were not so caught off guard once the

their honeymoon than they do for

even stronger in the process. The

honeymoon feelings began to wear off.”

their marriage. This is a problem

difference is not in the event, or even

In addition, good premarital

because you and your spouse will be

in the severity of the crisis. It has to

preparation will teach you effective

traveling together down a road that

do with how they handle it.

communication and conflict

neither of you can totally anticipate.

One of the main reasons most

resolution skills. You learn how

It will undoubtedly have a lot of

divorces happen in the first five

to work through issues as a team,

ups and downs, some unpredictable

years of marriage is that couples run

rather than as adversaries. Like many

curves, and perhaps a few detours you

into problems they did not expect,

couples, Kevin and Tori found the

didn’t expect.

and they don’t have the knowledge

communication training invaluable.

or skills to deal with them. That’s

“We were able to identify and start

why premarital preparation is

dealing with some of the conflicts

so important.

and problem areas that we would

encounter as a married couple and start putting together a framework for how we could address and work through our differences,” they offered. Dan and Karen Berkenkemper of Lynchburg agreed, “It opened us up to dealing with difficult issues instead of keeping them buried and really taught us how to communicate. This has proven to be an effective tool in our marriage more than four years later.” Know the rules of the road.

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In sessions, you will also learn concepts and attitudes that have been

when it comes to communicating

shown to correlate with healthier,

expectations, confronting issues,

more satisfied marriages. For Brian

discussing differences, and airing

and Whitney Smith, that included

concerns.”

what Brian calls “the art of living

They thought, as many couples

intentionally.” He says, “We learned

do, that compatibility was the key

that in order to best prepare for

to happiness in marriage. “What

the many challenges that lie ahead,

we didn’t know, however, is that

there must be an intentionality

‘compatibility’ doesn’t just happen.

For more information about premarital preparation, it’s importance and effectiveness, check out these websites: www.marriagealliance.org www.smartmarriages.org www.prepare-enrich.com

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It is something that every happy and

for each other while respecting each

“The biggest benefit for Tim and I

successful couple must intentionally

other’s need for space and ‘alone’ time.”

was just the chance to talk about

work toward and then continue

One of the most critical advantages

issues that you don’t think about

to work at every day in order to

of premarital preparation is gaining a

when you’re dating, such as finances,”

maintain it,” they advise.

deeper knowledge and understanding

says Sarah. “These are such big issues

Part of the challenge of marriage is

of your mate. Although most couples

that not discussing them beforehand

learning to combine and balance two

think they know each other pretty well

could potentially cause a lot of

lives and schedules, which is tougher

by the time they get engaged, there

problems in a marriage.”

than it sounds. Dusty and Ashley

are usually some areas of discussion

All of these couples found their

Foster credit their premarital prep with

that may not have even come up. Tim

premarital preparation experience to

teaching them about “learning how

and Sarah Roland discovered some of

be worthwhile and valuable. Jon and

to build oneness” and “making time

those areas and were glad they did.

Amanda Kirk summarized, “It is an

A thorough premarital preparation package should include these basic elements: Relationship assessment questionnaire. These instruments are excellent for identifying a couple’s relationship strengths as well as those areas where they may need to talk more or work through issues they haven’t thoroughly dealt with.

Discussion about finances. This is an area that many couples don’t delve into very deeply while dating, but it can cause considerable friction in marriage. It should include the actual building of a budget, along with discussion of how finances will be managed and how assets and liabilities will be dealt with.

Communication and conflict resolution skills training. Because this is such an important part of a healthy marriage, it is critical that you get good training – and practice – in these skills. It involves learning how to really listen to your partner and reflect back what you hear, without getting defensive or avoiding the subject.

Conversation about the whole range of marriage-related subjects. These should include things like family and friends, leisure activities, sexual expectations, children and parenting, partner roles, and spiritual beliefs.

intentional time to come together with an unbiased third party and together, pause in front of each topic long enough to gain some real clarity on each other’s thoughts, hopes, dreams, and parse out any points of dissension that need resolution. It gave us the opportunity to look behind us, around us, and in front of us ... a full 360 of past, present, and future. Not just to resolve an argument about who to sit that weird relative next to at our reception but to develop a deeper understanding of the one we love, clarify misguided

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assumptions, identify potential triggers, and hone new skills for

an extensive series of sessions with

things, take the initiative to find

addressing and resolving conflict in

a mentor couple, lasting an hour or

someone who does. This is not a time

healthy ways throughout the long life

more each. It’s a good idea to ask

for shortcuts – you want the most

of our relationship.”

what will be involved. The Marriage

thorough preparation you can get.

The pre-journey checkup

Alliance of Central Virginia, an

After all, we’re talking about a journey

independent nonprofit organization,

that will last the rest of your life!

Many clergy who perform weddings will recommend (and in some cases require) premarital preparation for the couple. Clergy have a wide variety of approaches to premarital preparation, ranging from one or

will do premarital (or pre-engagement) preparation regardless of the couple’s religious background and has a standard premarital package that is comprehensive in scope.

two meetings with the officiant to

If the person officiating at your

discuss the wedding ceremony, to

wedding does not provide these

Larry Compter is the Executive Director of The Marriage Alliance of Central Virginia. When he and his wife, Barbara, are not helping couples, they enjoy music and playing with their dogs.

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Matching Snuggies! Totally

A friend of ours knew we weren’t

— Julie

unexpected and hilarious. — Lexi

headed out on our honeymoon until

Money! — Katlyn

Gift cards to the grocery store!

A porcelain nativity set. It’s our

the next day so she prepared a basket for our first married breakfast.

— Morgan

— Lucy

favorite Christmas item, and I love

A footstool with a bottle of

setting it out every year!— Alisha

champagne with a note to put up our

Gift certificates to local restaurants and theaters with a note explaining

feet and toast each other when the

A family Bible: it is filled with births,

My KitchenAid stand mixer; don’t

date nights and engaging in our

know what I would do without it!

community. — Jen

— Elliott

Cast iron frying pan. I use it every

A weekend away in Charleston. I so

day. — Karin

much prefer experiences to things!

unexpected! — Marilyn

wedding invitation. It meant a lot to me. — Marcy

dust settled. — Deirdre

the importance of monthly

An electric wok – practical and

My husband's aunt framed our

marriages, and death dates. — Deborah A friend designed and sent us Christmas cards with a photo from our wedding on it to mail out our

— Coleen

first year. — Vanesa

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“ I am an artist so I made our thumbprint tree in lieu of a guestbook. It was a really fun, love filled, candlelit garden party with all of our favorite people there. At our send-off everyone threw lavender, which is my favorite, and the yard smelled fantastic for days! The entire evening was absolutely perfect.” — Elizabeth Cake – Montana Plains Catering – Avenue Foods Flowers – Rod Meek Goat Cheese Truffles – Spring Mill Farm Gown – Church Street Bridal Hair/Makeup – Zen Micro Spa and Salon Photography – Stone Blue Productions Rentals – True Value Transportation – Premier Limousine Venue – family home

Survey Says M

any times we hear what is going on nationally, but what about brides in our very own area? Well, we asked quite a few about their own weddings, and here is what we found. Some answers may surprise you!

73%

will have both a flower girl and a ring bearer

56% are using the same location for both their wedding and reception

61% are using the outdoors for their wedding, reception or both

Purple, blue and yellow (in that order!) were the top three colors for weddings

Wedding Planner? 35% said YES

Winter Summer 17% 42% Spring

Fall

23%

18%

It helps to have someone who knows what they are doing and can help remember details that you wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t. It makes planning much easier. You can focus on all the details and send them off to actually make those details happen! It makes it less stressful.

72% will have a themed wedding Rustic elegance Nautical Rustic garden Vintage beach Books

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81%

Jane Bradley photography seasons, bride Crystal George Studios wooden frame, blue flowers S. Carter Studios flower girl / ring bearer, purple flowers

are wearing strapless dresses

Capture It yellow flowers K.D. Burke Photography bride with red bouquet Stone Blue productions beach wedding

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Picture Perfect

health and beauty for looking your best Former brides often can offer sage advice for those who are planning their weddings. From beauty to health, peruse our quick tips … you may find a few ideas to make you feel and look your best on your big day. Visions by Heather

Beauty: The second you are engaged, everyone is dying to see your ring, so keep your hands and nails in pristine condition. Three months in advance begin to treat and prepare your skin. Every girl wants to have an amazing complexion on her wedding day. When you are scheduling appointments, do it in person. This way you can observe the business, the people that run it, and the people that are leaving. If you plan on tanning before your

Clothing:

Bring a pack-up pair of shoes that are more comfortable for when you kick

wedding, try the service or product

Clean your rings and all of the jewelry

beforehand to be sure you get the end

you will wear on your wedding day.

result you want.

Sparkles, please!

Food for Thought:

Do a trial run of your wedding

Check your wedding dress to ensure

The most powerful weapon you have

day hairstyle so you can make any

that it fits perfectly, the beading

in reducing stress is your health. Keep

changes.

is secure, zippers are working and

your immune system strong by eating

everything is sewn on properly before

well, especially during the week

leaving the store.

before your wedding.

Try on the undergarments you plan

Carry around a water bottle and

on wearing under your dress before

snacks in your purse. With all of the

your wedding to be sure they fit

craziness of planning your wedding

perfectly together.

you do not want to go hungry when

Makeup: When you are purchasing your makeup, get samples of everything you will be using on your wedding day. It will be easier to carry around in your emergency kit. On the morning of your wedding, stay away from overloading on beauty and grooming treatments. Stay with your normal routine that works best for your skin. Do a complete test of your wedding day make-up. Wear waterproof makeup because tears will make an appearance at some point in the day.

Take a test walk in your wedding

up your heels at the reception.

you are on the go.

dress and shoes to get used to

Pre-arrange for food to be at your

wearing them together before you

destination after the wedding. Most

walk down the aisle.

couples do not have time enough

Make sure you “break” in your wedding shoes so they do not kill your feet. If your wedding gown is strapless, take your bra off three hours before you

time to eat or are starving after a long wedding day. Coffee and chocolate make life even more enjoyable for Michelle Wood, who loves the beach and is a Southern girl through and through.

have photos taken. This way the strap marks do not show up in photos.

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a bride’s guide

Wedding Day Survival Kits We consulted Amanda Gray, a wedding planner with Ashley Baber Weddings. We have seen her own emergency kit in action! Amanda describes some of the must have items to include in a survival kit for the bride and groom for those “oh so common” last minute emergencies on the big day.

for the bride

For a well stocked kit: tape, pens, sticky notes, lotion, baby powder, cotton swabs, disposable toothbrushes, breath mints, hand sanitizer, bobby pins, neutral nail polish, nail clippers, tweezers, scissors, safety pins, neutral scarf, facial blotters, false eyelash kit, adhesive bandages, bug repellant, undergarment tape (to keep wayward straps in place), deodorant, tissues 61

“There is always one in the crowd who forgets his black socks. There will inevitably be a dead iPhone, iPod or camera, so ... batteries and a charger to the rescue! It’s a great idea to include a lint roller, stain remover and comb for last minute touchups. “

for the groom

To be best prepared: energy bar, water, stain remover stick, lint brush, antacids, breath mints, dark socks, deodorant, contact solution, adhesive bandages, comb, brush, phone charger, shoe polish, batteries

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I do’s and I don’ts Professionals in the wedding industry

“Please do not ask for full height,

see it all. We see DIY weddings done

feathered angel wings to wear with your

well, and we see expensive “planned

bridal gown. You are not 12 years old...

within an inch of its life” weddings

please, move on.”

fall apart. One thing that most nuptials have in common is that nearly all brides and grooms desire to make their day memorable and unique to their personalities, but if

mind that all of these are based on real life weddings. “No, it is not appropriate to ask your groomsmen to perform a Chippendale dance at the reception. I don’t care how fit they are.”

you well? If you can afford it, hire a planner or coordinator to discuss expense, find someone who has a

(Even if you aren’t getting married

reputation for organization and good

in a church.)”

taste, and ask if he or she will work

reception favors.”

gain some perspective. Please keep in

a day that is fun and represents

ideas. If your budget can’t bear that

In the interest of fun and education,

as comedic relief and as a way to help

So, how can you be unique and have

appropriate recessional song.

“No, beer funnels will not make ‘fun’

were they thinking” moments, both

behind your back.

“‘Let’s Get It On’ is simply not an

you aren’t careful, this can backfire. I would love to share these “what

that will have people laughing

as your wingman. After you find the right people, brainstorm with them. Staying firm in the knowledge of

“Speaking of receptions, no matter how

good brainstorming means you will

well planned it is, do not think it is worthy

toss out dozens of ideas before you

of requiring a wedding gift as the price

find a really good one to keep.

of admission.”

It’s pretty simple really; by

Yes, these are the wedding moments

surrounding yourself with people

that would make David Tutera want

who will keep you on track, you will

to give up the wedding business and

find yourself enjoying a wedding

start planning kids’ parties at Chuck

day that is memorable and unique...

E Cheese. Just as there is a fine line

and one that would make even David

between being clever and witty as

Tutera’s heart swell with pride!

“Being referred to as “bridezilla” is NOT a

opposed to funny and laughable,

compliment. Please do not wear it proudly

there is also a fine line between

emblazoned in rhinestones on your t-shirt

injecting your personality into your

while meeting with your caterer.”

wedding and indulging a whim

Janet Rose Campbell is a certified wedding planner. She produces a program for the Victory Radio Network and is a motivational speaker for women’s events.

everyday wedding

Shea & Jessica

Stripes were found on bouquets, socks and straws at Shea and Jessica’s celebration. Fun touches like oversized balloons and a candy bar all proclaimed that love, indeed, is sweet.

“ We tried to include a lot of Southern touches in the wedding, including monograms. The theme of our wedding was southern, fun, and timeless. Shea and I both decided that we would do a “first look”… this ended up being one of my favorite parts of the whole day. It was so special having a moment alone, just the two of us, to take in all that was about to happen.” —Jessica Ceremony Venue – Mount Pisgah UMC Coordinator – Stephanie Douglas DJ – Manny’s Entertainment Florist – Coleman Brothers Flowers Gown – Caryn’s Bridal Hair and Makeup – Hair Productions of Salisbury (Amy, hair; Lindsey, makeup) Photography – Sincerely, Liz: Photography Reception Venue – Salisbury Country Club Stationary – 2BSquared

Quips: Brides, what was your most memorable wedding moment?

During our exchange of vows,

Standing at our unity candles,

I looked into his eyes and felt more

they were supposed to play “our

at home than I have ever felt before.

song”, but they got the wrong one.

— Debra

So, not thinking, I blurted out “no” and got smacked in the leg by my

The look on his face when I began

new husband! Embarrassing.

to walk down the aisle. A big smile

— Nina

spread across his face, my nerves disappeared, and I told my step-dad

The moment after my husband and I

(who was walking me down aisle),

had walked down the aisle after being

“I’m marrying him!” — Brittani

pronounced man and wife. We had a moment alone, and I’ll never forget

Dancing with my dad and looking

how I felt in that moment.

around in awe at the love that

It was like my biggest, wildest dream

surrounded us. — Anita

had come true. — Carrie

I almost cut my finger to the bone

I will never forget my husband’s face

Standing in the back room with

about an hour and a half before

when he first saw me walking down

my Daddy, hearing the first

my wedding— thank goodness

the aisle towards him! — Cara

song playing, and knowing they

my bridesmaid was an EMT. She saved the day! — Jen

were lighting the candles and that After we said our vows and lit our

it was really time! — Angie

unity candle, we kneeled down to When I saw myself in my dress for

pray together, and in that moment

Our first moment alone as husband

the first time, tears of joy instantly

of praying with my husband for the

and wife in a private stairwell,

welled up in my eyes... the moment I

very first time as a married couple,

right after coming down the aisle—

had waited for was finally here.

I was overwhelmed with emotion

so happy to be married, we were

I couldn’t believe it! For the rest of

and felt so very blessed to be this

both crying and holding each other.

the day, I reminded myself, “savor

man’s wife. — Alison

— Lydia

this.” I honestly did. I loved each moment of my wedding day. — Stephanie

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It Doesn’t Have to be Pinterest Perfect Congratulations! That moment that at some point felt so far off and implausible is here--you’re engaged! And to a great guy. So now what? If you’re like I was less than a year ago, you might be a little overwhelmed by the sheer number of decisions that you need to make in the next 6-12 months. Planning a wedding can feel like a lot of pressure. But it is also amazingly fun! I loved the idea of throwing a fantastic party for all of my friends and family to witness our wedding vows. There are a few things that I learned along the way that I didn’t find in any wedding magazines or blogs ahead of time, so here you go--my top five list. 1. Release yourself from the Pinterest standard. Maybe you are already a genius with a glue gun, are all about crossstitching favors for each of your 150 guests, or are dying to decoupage the vases on every table, but if you’re not it’s ok. I had to come to grips with the fact that while I consider myself to have good taste, my wedding was never going to be one of those Pinterest-genius weddings, and I am ok with that! It’s just not me. While other people find joy in a DIY-tastic event, I just find it tedious. I decided

2. You will not regret coming up with personalized, thoughtful gifts for your parents.

relationship with them. We gave his parents a beautiful clock to go on their mantle to say thank you for all the time and sacrifice over the years. We gave my parents a

to release myself from the pressure

If your parents help out with your

framed original drawing of the

of living up to all the adorable ideas

wedding in any way, whether it is

phrase “Roots and Wings” (by local

on Pinterest. I decided I was going

moral support, financial support,

artist Kathleen Ostrom). My dad

to LOVE my dress, have beautiful

or by literally building you a

was a pastor for all my formidable

flowers, and make the music my

chuppah (yep, my Dad did that),

years, and when he would preach on

personalized statement at the

then you won’t regret giving them

parenting he would always say that

wedding. And it was much more

an unexpected gift to say thank

they strove to give my sister and me

of an authentic representation of

you. My husband and I opted to give

“roots and wings.” Roots to know we

my husband and me than sewing

our parents gifts at the rehearsal

belonged somewhere and were loved

together burlap utensil holders with

dinner. We wanted our gifts to really

and accepted and wings to go out, be

hand-painted chevron stripes for

be meaningful so we both chose

independent, and make our dreams

each place setting.

to give gifts that represented our

come true. By being able to

give our parents something tangible

opted to hire a professional cellist

Photos by Adam Barnes Fine Art Photography

and meaningful we really felt like we

and violinist. I have never been

my wedding to be in the fall, and I

got to say a proper thank you. Not

happier with the way I spent my

knew I wanted it to be somewhere

that any gift can accurately express

own cash. I am a musician myself,

between rustic and glamorous. (You

the thankfulness in our hearts for

and I have always (long before Mr.

can check my wedding inspiration

our parents’ sacrifices, but pausing

Right showed up) dreamed about the

board out at pinterest.com/

amidst all the wedding craziness to

music at my wedding. I didn’t dream

hilarysutton.) Pinterest was a huge

thank them really means a lot.

about the venue, the veil, or the bird

help in figuring out what that would

seed. My husband and I chose an

look like. Also nothing was cooler

eclectic mix of music to be played

about my 2012 wedding than the

pre-ceremony, during the ceremony,

fact that tons of my guests were on

at the cocktail hour, and during the

Instagram and posted photos under

reception that uniquely reflected

our hashtag #hilos1021. (Feel free

us. Unless you’re a Kardashian you

to check out the collection of 189

probably don’t have the money to

photos!) We got to see images from

make every facet ideal (well I guess

tons of perspectives that day. It was

not every facet was ideal--#72days).

so special. And it’s still out on the

Figure out what matters most to you

web for us to look at now and for

and prioritize that.

years to come! Oh technology, you

3. Prioritize what you value. This principal both applies to all of life and to your wedding budget. Don’t really like cake that much? Don’t spend $1000 on it. Always throw invitations away? Don’t spend $5 on each letter-pressed invitation you send out. This is not rocket science. If there is an aspect of your wedding that you’ve always dreamed about, make sure it is included in

are really cool sometimes.

your big day. Like I said before, I

4. Make the most of social

knew I wanted the right dress, earthy

media--if you want!

5. You do you.

colorful wildflowers, and heavenly

Pinterest was a phenomenal tool for

Hey guess what? You don’t have to

music. Instead of dropping money

me to get all the ideas in my head out

choose only two wedding colors. You

on party favors (that are often

on one virtual page. I knew I wanted

don’t have to have only instrumental

completely overlooked by guests) I

music. Your first dance doesn’t have

to be to “At Last.” You don’t have to have a bouquet toss. You definitely don’t have to have a unity candle. If there is any aspect of the typical wedding that doesn’t ring true for you, make up your own rules! This, for real, is your day, so conjure up your dream ceremony and reception and make it happen. This is about the beautiful commitment that you and your spouse are making on this momentous day and the support of your incredible network of loved ones. There’s so much to celebrate. So just celebrate it how you want to celebrate it. Planning your wedding can be so fun and so stressful. The most important thing is to enjoy it! You only do it once. So soak up every moment and plan a wedding that is an authentic reflection of you and your husband. Best wishes!

Hilary loves red velvet cake, Broadway, and her husband, Juan Carlos Lagares (but not necessarily in that order). Connect with her on Twitter @HilarySutton.

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