The Knot Fall 2022

a moment in time

What creates the perfect moment? It’s lounging on pristine white-sand beaches enveloped by the bluest waters.

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LESSONS IN LOVE

Nikkie rocked a timeless illusion mock-neck dress and diamond pendant.

YouTuber NikkieTutorials on makeup and wedding planning.

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AFTER HOURS The keys to a perfect wedding night.

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WHEN TO SPEND AND HOW TO SAVE

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The ins and out of budget prioritization.

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THE ULTIMATE FINANCIAL WELLNESS GUIDE Must-know money tips from experts.

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IT’S A VIBE

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WANDERLUST FOR EVERY WALLET Tips for honeymoons on any budget.

LESSONS IN LOVE

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CONTENTS

FALL 2022

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REAL LOVE 87

One-of-a-kind real-life celebrations to inspire every to-be-wed.

FA S H I O N + B E AU T Y 43

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BEAUTY BEAT Beauty looks from the runway to steal for your own nuptials.

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I N E V E RY I S S U E

RUNWAY REPORT Designers’ hottest styles, from blue dresses to mock-neck gowns.

HEIRLOOM APPEAL

REAL WEDDINGS

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EDITOR’S LETTER TR ADITIONS EVENTS ADVICE ESSAY NEW + NOW TOOLS LAST LOOK

These sparklers are proof that what’s old is new again.

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SAV V Y STYLE

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Dress shopping tips that won’t break the bank.

STYLE + PLANNING 68

REDEFINED R ANCH Bucolic wedding inspiration you’re sure to love.

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ON THE COVER PHOTOGRAPHERS Meis Belle Wahr & Jip Merkies MAKEUP NikkieTutorials using Maybelline HAIR Mandy Nijland STYLING Marja Bennenbroek SET DESIGN Gloudy

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E XECUTIVE E D ITO R

Lauren Kay

E D ITO RIAL O PE R ATI O N S MANAG E R S E NI O R FA S HI O N & B E AUT Y E D ITO R S E NI O R E D ITO R , WE D D IN G S VI S UAL S E D ITO R D E S I G NE R CO NTRIB UTIN G CO PY E D ITO R CO NTRIB UTIN G RE S E ARCH E D ITO R CO NTRIB UTIN G PRO D U C TI O N A S S O CIATE

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Morgan Gibson MaryKate Callahan Esther Lee Kim Forrest Samantha Iacia Sarah Hanlon Chapelle Johnson Emily Platt Naoimh O’Hare Monica Mercuri Emily Rumsey Whitney Little Clair Belleveau Mina Garagozlo, Danielle Savoy Lucy Ferut Meghan Ho, Kerre Jo Lattanzio Heather Kon Kimberly Brown Jeffra Trumpower Amanda Miller Daniela Kelley McInerney Siobhan Carty Malu Frasson Nori Raul Ferrari Jessica Kane

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EDITOR’S LETTER

For Love AND Money O.G . W E D D I N G VOW S consisted of promises “to have and to hold, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer.”

And while vows have evolved over the years, conversations about finances are still an essential part of saying “I do.”

Protecting and nurturing your financial wellness as a couple is especially important while wedding planning—full stop. So much so that we’ve devoted this issue to that very topic. We have tips from experts (p. 114), guidance on prioritizing your budget and stories

from couples about combining finances.

We’ve also got love! You will not want to miss our cover story (p. 30) or any of the epic real weddings, which are packed with inspo (p. 87). We also have fashion and beauty trends straight from the runway (p. 43), the perfect after-the-after-party setup in a hotel suite (p. 65) and a new line of invites from Vera Wang x The Knot Paper (p. 41).

Have the tricky money talk.

You won’t regret it.

— L AUREN K AY, E XECUTIVE EDITOR

MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS

N I K K I E T U TO R I A L S

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It’s a little girl’s dream come true [to be on the cover of The Knot]. Growing up, you always think about marrying the love of your life. And having that special moment celebrated in a beautiful magazine like this is just like, ‘Is this real?

Is this really happening?’

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Nikkie swears by Maybelline New York’s Fit Me foundation, which comes in 40 shades for a perfect match.

M E I S B E L L E WA H R + JIP MERKIES COVER PHOTOGRAPHERS P. 3 0

W HAT W AS YO UR FAVO RITE PAR T OF TH E CO VER SH O O T? W HAT W AS IT L IKE WO RKIN G W I T H A CREW CO N N ECTIN G R E MOT E LY FRO M TH E US? Nikkie’s such a warm, inspiring and lovely person.

Our favorite part of the shoot was the stages of the ombré lip—we loved watching Nikkie work her magic! Thanks to technology, it was nice to have some of the crew connecting from the US. We hope they felt the Nikkie sparkles through the screen. @meis.jip

SARAH SMART

PROP STYLIST P. 1 2 4 WH AT IN SPIRES YO U CREATIVEL Y? WH AT DID YO U L O VE M O ST ABO UT TH IS SH O O T?

I find inspiration everywhere, like in the gesture of a painting, in film and in nature.

Travel is a great catalyst for creativity for me. For the shoot, I was especially happy to source props and materials from some tried-and-true shops in New York City. So much shopping has become remote and online; it was great to rediscover places that still remain. @sarah.smart.style

LY N N D U N S T O N

REAL WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER P. 1 0 8 WH AT’S YO UR BEST ADV ICE FO R CO U PL ES FEEL IN G N ERVO U S ABO U T BEIN G IN FRO N T O F TH E CAM ERA O N TH EIR WEDDIN G DAY?

I always advise couples not to focus on the camera.

Movement really helps shake the nerves, so I often capture them while walking, dancing and embracing on the wedding day. Once they’re comfortable, I start mixing in more portraits of them looking directly into the lens. @lynndunston

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We asked some of the pros from this issue for the inside scoop on their areas of expertise.

creating memories for 40 ye a rs What creates the per fec t moment? It ’s pristine white - sand beaches enveloped by the bluest waters, where couples can play, or relax. It ’s luxurious sanc tuaries made for romance at water ’s edge, or direc tly over the water. It ’s a mouthwatering gourmet creation and a creatively craf ted cock tail.

But , most of all, the per fec t moment is found in the details, an ar t that we ’ ve per fec ted with our Luxur y Included® Vacation. Sandals ® Resor ts, turning moments into memories for 4 0 years.

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TR ADITIONS C O M F Y A N D C U S T O M Although she slipped

N E E R E L LY N + M A R Q U I S

SHOES FOR “I DOS” Wedding day style doesn’t end with the perfect dress or tux. Round out your nuptial ensemble with personalized shoes—whether casual and eclectic or sparkly and glam—that fit your vibe.

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Salima settled on strappy gold-andpearl Gucci heels for her City Hall wedding to ensure the intricate henna designs on her feet took center stage.

A NEW TAKE ON BAREFOOT Waterfront weddings are the perfect excuse skip shoes.

To accessorize her feet, Deja donned lace soleless sandals for her SoCal day.

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C H A N T E L + E M I LY

CUSTOMIZE YOUR KICKS Your wedding is your day to plan your way, and the footwear you choose is no exception. Many brands offer customization, from monograms to navy soles that can be your “something blue.”

Follow this link to get inspired by an array of personalized kicks to consider.

P O P O F P R I D E Chantel sported rainbowhued Converse sneakers for her wedding to show off her LGBTQ+ pride in style.

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DEJA + MICHIAH

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: ZYAIRE PORTER OF PORTERHOUSE LA; SPOSTO PHOTOGRAPHY; CAITLIN ALOHILANI PHOTOGRAPHY; MAJIDE/NOUN PROJECT; APOLLO FOTOGRAFIE

into gold platform heels for the main event, Neerellyn rocked Crocs at the reception.

She decked them out with wedding charms.

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EVENTS

The couples took a stroll downtown to see the Santa Catalina Arch.

MEET THE CREW Our 12 couples experienced the culture of Guatemala by partaking in local chocolate and coffee workshops.

GETAWAY TO >> We gathered our Influencer Crew for a few days of prewedding fun in Antigua, Guatemala.

GUATEMALA

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ON THE MENU In addition to enjoying local Guatemalan cuisine like fish tacos, attendees also got to see day-of stationery options available from The Knot.

EVENT PLANNING Aimee Monihan HOST PROPERTY Villa Bokéh PHOTOGRAPHY Allan Zepeda Photography EVENT DESIGN Addy Florales; Nestor Gamez OFF-SITE CATERING Casa Troccoli STATIONERY The Knot Invitations LOCAL HOSPITALITY + TOURISM Ayuntamiento de La Antigua Guatemala; La Cámara de Turismo de Guatemala; Wed in Guatemala ATTIRE Men’s Wearhouse VIDEOGRAPHY Elysium Productions BEAUTY LeJeune Artistry TRAVEL ACCOMMODATIONS The Travel Siblings

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CALMING COCKTAIL Traditional Mayan worry dolls, which are said to help you throw your cares away, garnished refreshments. One of the signature sips was a mix of local rum, pineapple and Campari.

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TRENDY THREADS To-be-wed Michael Mendieta donned a JOE by Joseph Abboud linen suit from Men’s Wearhouse, while his partner, Whitaker Irvin Jr., opted for a light blue Calvin Klein look to celebrate the final dinner of the trip.

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VIDEOGRAPHY: RODRIGO ZADRO FILMS; WEDDINGPRO EDUCATORS: ANDREA EPPOLITO EVENTS; COCKTAILS + DETAILS; RHEEFINED COMPANY; FLORAL DESIGN: DECOR GUATEMALA; RENTALS AND DECOR: HOUSE OF HOUGH; D’LUX; LUNA ZORRO; DEO; ALFOMBRAS LOPEZ; CATERING: PITAYA; MIXOLOGY: ULEW COCKTAIL BAR; MUSIC: ETNO FUSION; ADOLFO MÉNDEZ; RAMIRO JIMENEZ; GLORIA CACERES; ENTERTAINMENT: BAILE DE GIGANTES DE SANTA ANA; ZOEL VALDES FOLKLORE; CIRCUS EVENTOS; ACTIVITIES: CONVENTO SANTA CLARA; CONVENTO DE LAS CAPUCHINAS; FINCA LA AZOTEA; LA TRUFA CHAPINA; LUNA ZORRO; TRANSPORTATION: PREMIER TRANSPORT SERVICE GT; ACCOMMODATIONS: KUXTAL RESIDENCES; COVID TESTING: VITALMED; GIFTING: DAGNE DOVER; SLIP

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MAGICAL MELODY Marimba musicians serenaded attendees, setting the tone for the getaway.

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KENNY BRAASCH C A R O L I N E VA Z Z A N A @cvazzana

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D AV I D L O P E S

FABULOUS FLORA Basket chandeliers and vibrant birds of paradise decorated the dining room at a tropical breakfast.

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ADVICE

QA

ASK THE KNOT SQUAD You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. We tapped our team—and one of our go-to industry pros­—to solve some of your most of-the-moment planning asks.

O U R TA K E

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W H AT AD V I C E D O Y O U HAV E F O R G I V I N G AN E N GAGEMEN T GI FT T O A C O U PLE B E F O RE T H EY ’ V E C R E AT E D T H E I R W E D D I NG REGI ST RY ?

MONICA MERCURI Assistant Commerce Editor

Q: P R O TA K E

BRIAN A. M. GREEN Owner, By BrianGreen ATLANTA Beyond dreaming up epic wedding designs from his office in Atlanta, Brian educates fellow vendors through WeddingPro. LEARN MORE ABOUT

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A R E THE R E U P - A ND -C O M I N G W E D D I N G T RE N D S Y O U ’ RE ESP ECIA L L Y E X CIT E D AB O U T ?

To be honest, I’m not the biggest lover of trends. I always feel that a classic, timeless wedding is the way to go. I look at my parents’ wedding album from 1964, and it still looks current almost six decades later because the whole aesthetic was classic. Trends have a way of making your wedding show its age—like those with blue leisure suits from the 1970s.

Can you add fresh colors to your wedding? Sure! But don’t go so far into the realm of what’s hot that you lose a sense of timelessness. Your wedding images should be as lasting as your love. While we’re on the topic of trends, there is actually one fad I would love to see go away: the idea of nonconsumable wedding favors. Unless you can eat or drink it, wedding favors are worth skipping. I love seeing guests focus their budget elsewhere on things that make a greater impact on the guest experience. For our clients who love the idea of favors, we have the valet team place gifts in guests’ cars with a note that says, “So sweet of you to come! Please enjoy this sweet treat on your way home.” This is a nice way to enhance the guest experience without gifting a useless tchotchke.

An engagement gift is a wonderful way to celebrate a newly betrothed couple, but the absence of a registry can definitely make it more challenging.

You can’t go wrong with a present that the couple can enjoy together.

I’m currently loving experiential gifts for couples: A romantic cooking class, a weekend nature getaway or a surprise date-night subscription box are just a few ideas. But if you’re looking to keep things simple, the couple’s favorite bottle of wine with a sweet card is a perfectly appropriate gift option too. The to-be-weds are sure to appreciate your thoughtfulness in selecting something meaningful to celebrate their new season of life.

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W H AT AD V I C E D O Y O U HAV E FOR TO-BE-WEDS WHO ARE O V E RW H E LM E D B Y AL L O F T HE I N S PI R AT I O N T H E Y S E E O N L I N E? MEGHAN HO Social Media Coordinator

If you find that social media is becoming more stressful than helpful to your wedding planning, it may be time to limit your consumption. Set a onehour time limit or designate a single day of the week when you search social media for wedding ideas. It’s also wise to remember that everyone has different styles and perspectives.

Don’t let opinions you hear online cloud your own thinking.

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This chandelier proves that some ideas can be both au courant and timeless.

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ESSAY

ALL ABOUT

ACCESSIBILITY Disability rights activist and author Judy Heumann opens up about the questions couples should ask themselves while wedding planning to ensure their celebration is as accessible as possible.

especially helpful to have grew up in a society where the someone coordinating our big disability rights movement was day. Planning with disabilities just beginning to emerge. My battle in mind isn’t a cookie-cutter with polio as a child, in the 1950s, endeavor, but there are some led me to start advocating for disabled questions you can ask yourself people. Clearly, a lot has changed to make sure your own wedding in terms of public policy in the last is accessible for all guests.

40 years, but I believe there’s still much to be done. I care deeply about W H AT T Y PE S O F D I S AB I LI T I E S D O intergenerational work and educating Y O U R G U E S T S H AV E ? Not younger people about accessibility, everyone has a visible especially since disabilities are not disability, and there is no onealways visible. I’ve found that the size-fits-all approach to “out of sight, out of mind” mentality accessibility. If you have deaf guests contributes to a stigma around attending, you may need a sign disabled people that I’m working to language interpreter present, while dismantle in all arenas, the wedding you would have to make different industry included. accommodations for visually I met my now-husband, impaired people. Understanding Jorge Pineda, in 1991, and the unique needs of your we got married a year later wedding is the first step in California. We actually toward identifying how you had two weddings, a civil can accommodate everyone.

JUDY HEUMANN one and a religious one, to ARE PE O PLE C O M F O R T AB LE celebrate our marriage.

Award-Winning Activist and Author D I S C LO S I N G T H E I R The process of planning our WASHINGTON DC D I S AB I LI T I E S ? Some people own weddings taught me In her memoir, are afraid to reveal their a lot about the steps couples Heumann opens disability if they feel like it can take to make their up about fighting isn’t significant. As the hosts nuptials more accessible to belong in a world that of a wedding, you can invite to disabled people. wasn’t built for guests to share what they’re A decision I’m grateful we everyone. $16, comfortable with, helping made was to hire a wedding JudithHeumann.com ensure everyone is at ease. planner. She listened really The RSVP cards in your well to all of my thoughts invitations are a simple place and concerns, which helped to gather information from make the wedding planning guests. You can ask about process a success. We had food allergies and also 32 people in the wedding include a spot for guests to party, many of whom were share any other information in wheelchairs, so it was

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that would be helpful. Even considering the legibility of the stationery you’re sending guests is key to improving accessibility. Is the font easy to read for those who may have limited sight? Doing your due diligence ahead of the wedding will go a long way in making sure everyone is comfortable.

D O Y O U R V E N D O R S H AV E EX PERI EN C E W O RK I N G W I T H D I S AB LE D PEO PL E? In addition to making accommodations for my own disability, it was important to me that the wedding be accessible to all of my guests and vendors. Part of that involved hiring both vendors with accessibility experience as well as disabled vendors. Our DJ had a disability and needed extra space for his music booth. If you have entertainment that you plan to place on a stage, it’s important to think through how easy it is to get onto the stage. As you interview potential vendors, ask about their experience as well as accommodations they might need. In the end, you want to find a vendor who is open to working with you and meeting your needs.

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“Accessibility to me means that facilities consider all people and adapt to ensure guests can enjoy a place,” says Vanessa. “While planning, I had a hard time telling if venues were accessible, so we made sure to physically visit locations. Our venue was not fully accessible, so we made certain adjustments. Notably, we had our brother-in-law build a ramp to enable me to smoothly go over a step that was in the path of where I would be going down the aisle toward Erick to say our vows.”

H OW AC CESSI B L E A R E Y OU R VEN U E A N D RENTALS? When it comes to finding a venue, you want to book a place that will enable your guests to participate.

Accessibility can inform other decisions too. What is the height of your guest-book table? If it’s too tall, wheelchair-bound guests won’t be able to write you notes. We had a lot of guests in wheelchairs at our wedding, so we made sure to rent a larger dance floor to give everyone space.

At the tables, we removed chairs at the places of guests who were in wheelchairs. Even the amount of space between tables will impact the freedom that those with limited mobility feel during the wedding. Each of these decisions involved special planning based on the specific needs of our wedding.

Also keep in mind the transportation to the venue. Having your ceremony and reception in one spot, instead of requiring travel between two locations, might be a way to make the day feel more accessible. Our bigger wedding was held at the University of

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California, Berkeley, and we made sure to recommend hotels to out-of-town guests that we knew were close by and wheelchair accessible.

HO W AC C E S S I B LE I S T H E F O O D Y O U ’ R E SER V I N G ? Asking about food allergies on your RSVP cards is one of many ways to ensure that everyone can enjoy the meal. It’s also important to consider the style of food service you’re planning.

Some details are small and simple—like reminding servers passing hors d’oeuvres to bend down as needed so guests in wheelchairs can easily reach the appetizers. And then on a larger scale, if you’re having a buffet instead of a seated dinner, wheelchair-bound guests may need extra assistance from servers.

HO W AC C E S S I B LE ARE T H E R E S T R O O M S ?

One question I had while wedding planning was how I would use the restroom. My planner helped me come up with the idea of making my dress have two parts. The skirt section had a slit down the back so it could be easily removed. I also made sure that our guests could visit the restroom.

During a site visit, check the paths to the restroom and look for steps, rocks, uneven ground or anything that would be hard to navigate with a walker or wheelchair.

W H E RE ARE Y O U S E AT I N G D I SAB L ED G U E S T S ? Where people are seated can have a big impact on their ability to enjoy the wedding. You don’t want guests to feel stuck, so ensure the ceremony aisle and walkways throughout the venue are easy for them to maneuver. Also think about where you seat guests who are hard of hearing. They should be close to the speakers and, if you have one, in sight of a sign language interpreter.

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The spacing of aisles and walkways is a key accessibility consideration.

D O Y O U F E E L E M PO W E R E D T O MAK E T HE AC C O M M O D AT I O N S Y O U R W E D D I N G D E S E R V E S ? Ultimately, in establishing what accommodations you need to make for a wedding, it really comes down to creating an openness between the couple and the vendors. You should feel empowered to have these discussions in advance, so you’ve covered all the bases when the wedding day comes along.

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ikkieTutorials (whose real name is Nikkie de Jager) posted her first YouTube beauty tutorial in 2008, at the age of 14. Fourteen years later, she has 13.9 million subscribers, her own makeup line, Nimya, and a fiancé named Dylan she lovingly refers to as her “person until the end of time.” But it hasn’t all been lipstick and falsies. In January of 2020, Nikkie posted a video called “I’m Coming Out,” where she revealed she was trans after being blackmailed by someone who threatened to publicly expose her assigned sex at birth. In April of 2020, the COVID-19 pandemic derailed her wedding planning (along with millions of other couples worldwide). That August, Nikkie and Dylan were robbed at gunpoint in their home in the Netherlands. Despite the adversity she has faced, Nikkie’s message—and presence—is overwhelmingly positive and inspiring. She’s looking forward to “living the bridal fantasy” and, like every nearlywed, can’t wait to make it official with the love of her life—in a stunning custom gown and flawless makeup, naturally. Here, she talks how coming out affected her relationship, her wedding plans and her top beauty tips.

him. I woke up that day and we had our game plan. I did my hair and makeup. I had this gorgeous orange-red dress on. And the entire day Dylan was in a great mood. And I remember that before we went to the restaurant, we went to get coffee and he did something with his phone that alarmed me, because he kept putting it away. And he’s never really secretive about stuff like that, so I was like, ‘What is this all of a sudden?’ But I just let it go.

The closer we got to the dinner, the more anxious he became. As soon as we got to the dinner, he said, ‘Now let’s take that picture.’ So I see the staircase that we’ve seen online. I’m like, ‘That’s where we’re going to take the photo and I’m really going to kill this picture.’ So he walks up, he takes my photos, and after a while, I feel like we got it. And, he never says stuff like this, he goes, ‘Do you mind taking a picture of me?’

And I’m like, ‘Okay, Mr. Influencer!’ So we switched places, and I took his photo and he didn’t move for 10 shots. And I was like, ‘Give me some variety, baby.’ He had the same pose for every shot. And he says, ‘Can you turn around and grab that for me? I left something up there.’ When I turned back around, he was on one knee. And my favorite moment is that it started off with ‘Dear Nikkie,’ and then emotions took over and I couldn’t understand a word. And it ended with, ‘Do you want to be my wife?’

The first thing I said was, ‘Are you sure?

Really, with me?’ And then after he insisted that, yes, he wanted me to be his wife, I said yes. I guess this restaurant sees a lot of engagements. So I’m on cloud nine, living my best life: ‘Oh my God, I’m engaged, I’m engaged, I’m engaged.’ Then the waiter comes over and I’m like, ‘Look, I just got engaged.’ And she literally says, with no emotion, ‘That’s great.’

And then, because we were in a cave, there was no phone connection. We couldn’t call or text anyone. So it was great to really celebrate that moment with each other, just the two of us. It’s a moment I’ll never forget.

S B: I love that story and that your reaction was, ‘Me? Are you sure?’

NJ: I really said that!

S B: You came out in a pretty public way. How did it affect your relationship?

NJ: Oh my gosh. While my coming out was one of the scariest moments of my life, I had a couple of rocks surrounding me. And one of those people was Dylan.

He was everything I hoped he would be for me in that period because he was super, super supportive. He was with me throughout every second.

When I had to click publish on my coming-out video, it was a very scary moment, because you don’t know what the future will bring. He took my hand and looked me in the eyes and said, ‘You’re going to publish this. We’re going to be fine. You got this. Whatever happens happens, but know ››

WHILE COMING OUT WAS ONE OF THE SCARIEST MOMENTS OF MY LIFE, I HAD A COUPLE OF ROCKS SURROUNDING ME. AND ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WAS DYLAN.

S H ELLE Y B ROWN: When did you know that you wanted to marry Dylan?

N I KKI E DE JAG ER: Dylan is such a great guy and a loving, caring person. I think we were in a relationship for, I don’t know, six months, and everything felt right. I’d never felt that comfortable with a person before. After my previous relationship, I put away the idea of marriage, because it wasn’t working out.

I was like, ‘Okay, well, I’m never getting married.’ But then when I found Dylan, I was like, ‘Wait, this could be the one. This could be the one where it actually happens, and where I could have my happy ending.’

S B: Will you share your proposal story?

NJ: Oh, yes. It’s a fun one. So Dylan and I went on vacation to Puglia in the south of Italy and we got this gorgeous hotel. It was just stunning—what dreams are made of. Whenever I go on a trip, I always try to get one perfect photo for the ’gram, as the life of an influencer goes. And there was this one restaurant inside of a cave. I don’t remember the name, but if you see a restaurant in a cave in Italy, it’s that one. And Dylan said, ‘Look at this place. It’s beautiful.’ I said, ‘Wow, I guess that’s my photo. That’s where I have to take it.’

The entire trip we had been talking about the photo I was going for. He was like, ‘Stand at the top of the stairs and pose as if you’re walking.’ He’s so invested—I love that about

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that we have each other and it’ll be just fine.’ When he said that I was like, ‘This man is never leaving me, and I’m never leaving this man.’ I thought, ‘That’s my person. He is mine until the end of time.’

S B: That’s really amazing. Now that you’re planning your wedding, what beauty trends are you loving?

NJ: This is my first and, hopefully last, wedding. I’m so excited to see how I make the bridal trends mine. As you can see [gestures to red lips] I love a bit of color. So there will be something colorful, but I’m also all about the glam. So think of rhinestones, little crystal gems scattered across the face. But I also want to be careful, because these wedding pictures will live until the end of time—and that makeup has got to be perfect. So, better to keep it classy. I know that’s a lot coming from me, but better to keep it a bit more safe than to go too over-the-top.

S B: Will you be doing your own wedding makeup?

NJ: I’ve gotten this question a lot. And the answer is, of course, yes. Can you imagine? I do all my makeup all the time. I do it for big events. And can you imagine me waking up on my wedding day being like, ‘I’ll have someone else scoot in and just do it for me.’ I could not have that trust.

Nobody can touch these brows like I do. It’s all going to be me.

S B: Do you have tips for to-be-weds looking to hire a professional makeup artist?

NJ: It is really important to get to know your pro. I think meeting up at least once prior to the wedding, even prior to your makeup trial, is super important. Go for coffee if they have time. Get to know them. Really dive into their work. Basically become besties with them for about a week.

You want to make sure that the style you’re looking for is something they can comfortably do with a time limit.

Ask if they have done weddings before. Have they mastered the style of makeup that you want? And please, trust me, test out your makeup first. Plan a makeup trial so you can see what it looks like and if it’s what you want.

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style? And how long do you need? Plan, plan, plan! The last thing you want on this magical day is to stress over time limits. Make sure that they are comfortable with the amount of time they’re given and ask for examples of their previous work so you can really zoom in on the details. And above all, make sure they have a foundation that matches your skin tone.

S B: Are you building a wedding registry?

NJ: What is a wedding registry?

S B: Maybe this isn’t a Dutch custom, but it’s when you register for gifts that your wedding guests give you.

NJ: Oh! S B: Yes! Gifts.

NJ: You call it what?

S B: A wedding registry.

NJ: A wedding registry. I actually am working on a wedding registry. What’s funny is the dress that I’m working on is pushing the budget a little bit, and by a little bit I mean a lot, so my invite is literally going to say, ‘Please send scented candles and/or some money, because the budget got pushed by a lot.’

S B: That’s very honest and straightforward. What’s the most outrageous item you’ve registered for?

NJ: Oh, I don’t really have a crazy item I’ve registered for. If I get at least two scented candles, I’m a happy girl. I’m also a little bit scared because I feel like I’m going to get like 50 scented candles, but it’s fine.

S B: Do you have a favorite brand?

NJ: God, scented candles by Diptyque.

Please. Yes. S B: Which part of wedding planning are you enjoying the most?

NJ: If I’m being a hundred percent honest, I’m going to taste some food this week and I cannot tell you how excited I am about that part. I’m a huge foodie—I love food. I have been dreaming of this day for so long. The day after the wedding we’re doing a big breakfast, since it’s my favorite part of the day. We’re tasting all of the breakfast food this week.

I’m so excited. ››

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S B: What has been the biggest challenge?

going to be surrounded by food. I think our theme is food. I might just pull up in a Lady Gaga meat dress. We love food so much, so of course, we have to give our guests the best of the best. I’m really excited for even our guests to see what we came up with.

S B: Are you serving a certain kind of cuisine?

NJ: We did taste the dinner food already. We were between two restaurants and one was this very high-end type of food, like Michelin-star food. Like ‘ugh’ food. But it was so niche.

So we found this other restaurant that has hints of Michelinstar food but is more accessible. I can’t wait, because I know my brother, who’s not about fancy food at all, will love it, and I know that my mom, who is all about fancy food, will love it as well.

S B: Are you incorporating any details to honor your families or loved ones?

NJ: A few years ago, my little brother Mikai passed away, and his favorite color was red.

We are paying tribute to him by incorporating the color red somewhere. I’m not going to tell where yet, but it’s going to be there.

S B: Are you incorporating any Dutch wedding traditions?

NJ: In the Netherlands, you have typical Dutch snacks. We have frikandel, croquettes and kaassoufflé. If you’re not Dutch, you have no clue what I’m talking about, but they’re amazing fried snacks. You can serve the best food in the world, but people will go nuts for a FEBO food wall. Again, if you aren’t Dutch that won’t mean anything to you, but it’s a food wall you can get snacks out of.

We’re going to have a FEBO food wall at the end of our wedding. It’s brilliant.

S B: What’s not to love about that?

NJ: Ugh. Yes. S B: What’s another wedding-themed word in Dutch?

NJ: The Dutch word for wedding is bruiloft. You’re cordially invited to Nikkie and Dylan’s bruiloft. But actually, please don’t show up. I don’t have room for too many people.

NJ: Easily the biggest challenge has been the dress. So much

depends on the dress. Creating a dress from scratch—because that’s what we’re doing—has not been easy. You have to find a designer who really connects with you, someone you trust.

But also, in my case, someone who I want to give that special moment to, because this dress will be seen by the world.

I want someone genuine and talented to make that dress for me, because it will be a huge moment for them as well.

It has been very difficult. And then with designing the dress comes deciding on the shape, the material, the fabric.

It’s a nightmare.

S B: Have you chosen a designer?

NJ: My wedding is this year and we are still working on sketches, if that gives you any idea. What happened was—I’m giving you the real tea, all the tea—I had a designer and their budget was just...not even a scented candle could fix that. Like that budget was a no. So we switched designers. This new designer is incredible. And I’m so honored that they even want to do it for me, but still we are in a little bit of a time crunch, and we are starting over with sketches again.

S B: Is there anything else you can reveal about the dress?

NJ: Well, first of all, look at me. It’s not going to be simple. It’s going to be a lot of dress. It’s going to be shiny. It’s going to be glamorous.

It’s probably going to be a lot for a lot of people out there, but that’s what’s perfect for me.

S B: Why the decision to go custom?

NJ: Your girl is large and in charge. I’m 6’3”. And basically I can’t find the craziness, the madness that is in my head, in a store. I need someone to physically create that for me because I’m a little cuckoo up in here.

S B: Which part of your wedding day are you most excited about?

NJ: I’m looking forward to putting that ring on and kissing each other, knowing that we’ve sealed the deal. I think every bride says that. I’m also really looking forward to the food.

Oh my God. Like I said, I’m a big foodie and this wedding is

I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO PUTTING THAT RING ON AND KISSING EACH OTHER, AND KNOWING THAT WE'VE SEALED THE DEAL.

Other wedding-related words in Nikkie’s native tongue.

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TALLER MARMO: FRANCESCO SCOTTI; HONOR: YELENA YEMCHUK; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF DESIGNERS

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YOL ANCRIS

THE TREND

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MOCK NECKS Yes, queen. A high collar has an inherently regal feel and is an über-chic way to give any wedding ensemble a more modest vibe.

TALLER MARMO INES DI SANTO

HONOR

ANNE BARGE

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A first-of-its-kind designer collection of platinum-set, colorless lab grown diamonds.

Shop helzberg.com/jennypackham or visit a Helzberg Diamonds store near you.

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SAREH NOURI

ELIE SA AB

THE TREND

RIVINI

BY RITA VINIERIS

BALL GOWNS This maximalist silhouette isn’t going anywhere for a reason: It’s an elegant way to make the most of your wedding fashion moment.

OSCAR DE L A RENTA

ALYNE BY DESIGNER RITA NAME TK VINIERIS

REEM ACR A DESIGNER NAME TK

MARCHESA

DESIGNER NAME TK INES DI SANTO

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MIR A ZWILLINGER

SACHIN & BABI PETER L ANGNER

THE TREND

ASYMMETRICAL NECKLINES

ANNE BARGE

Channel your inner Greek goddess with an angular neckline that shows off your décolleté and shoulders.

THEIA

HONOR

GALVAN LONDON

ROMONA KEVEZA

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SACHIN & BABI

NADIA MANJARREZ

CUCCULELLI SHAHEEN

THE TREND

BLUE DRESSES

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Who says your “something blue” can’t be your dress?

Gowns in every shade of this dreamy hue took over the runways.

INES DI SANTO

INES BY INES DI SANTO

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LIHI HOD

SAREH NOURI

THE TREND

STRAIGHT NECKLINES

ALYNE BY RITA VINIERIS

The sleek neckline that defined the gowns of the ’90s and early aughts is all that once more.

MARCHESA NOT TE

JUSTIN ALEX ANDER SIGNATURE

GALIA L AHAV

AMSALE

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GAL A BY GALIA L AHA AV

THE OTHER WHITE DRES S MORILEE

BY MADELINE GARDNER

JUSTIN ALEX ANDER SIGNATURE

DANA HAREL

THE TREND

HIGH SLITS

Dare to bare. A gown with a high slit both elongates your frame and gives even a formal ball gown some sex appeal.

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CUCCULELLI SHAHEEN

ALYNE BY RITA VINIERIS

ANNE BARGE

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HAIR BOWS No veil? No problem. Oversize bridal hair bows are equal parts classic and fashion-forward.

GET THE LOOK Simone Bow

barrette, $250, JenniferBehr.com

TEMPERLEY LONDON

Your guide to this season’s freshest wedding hair and makeup looks—plus how to pull them off IRL.

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BOLD LIPS A vibrant lip color both accentuates your pout and gives any wedding day ensemble a festive splash of color.

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SMOKY EYE Goth and gorgeous, smoky eye makeup brought a dramatic edge to the Bridal Fashion Week runways.

PRO TIP Use a long-wear formula that will stand up to first kisses and champagne toasts.

PRO TIP Don’t overdo it— keep the rest of your makeup dewy and natural, and let your sultry eye shadow do the all the talking.

GET THE LOOK

HERMIONE DE PAUL A

Cake Batter lipstick in Maraschino Cherry, $24, PoundcakeCosmetics.com

GET THE LOOK

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REN

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Super Nudes Easy eye palette, $57, CharlotteTilbury.com; Superhero No-Tug gel eyeliner in Super Black, $24, ITCosmetics.com

MIDDLE PART It’s baaack. This sleek Y2K throwback has officially replaced the side part as the “it” look of the moment.

PRO TIP Prep your damp hair with a smoothing cream or balm before styling it for a frizz-free ’do.

GET THE LOOK

Oribe Imperial Blowout Transformative styling crème, $68, Sephora.com YOL ANCRIS

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GALIA L AHAV

FROM TOP: COURTESY OF DESIGNER; COURTESY OF VENDOR; COURTESY OF DESIGNER; GETTY IMAGES; COURTESY OF VENDOR; COURTESY OF DESIGNER; @EYALNEVO; COURTESY OF VENDOR (3)

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PRO TIP Pair this polished hair accessory with an undone updo or messy ponytail for an effortlessly glamorous effect.

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AFLORAL FOREVER FLORALS

F LO W E R P O W E R Channel the classic style of royals like Kate Middleton and opt for a bold gem surrounded by a floral halo.

Edwardian ruby, diamond and platinum-topped 18k gold cluster ring, $8,140, FoxandBond.com

S H A P E O F YO U Invented during the reign of King Louis XV of France in the 18th century, the marquise cut is back as the musthave diamond shape.

Art Deco marquise engagement ring, $31,000, ErstwhileJewelry.com

C O LO R C R U S H Not ready to commit to a non-diamond ring?

Consider an Art Deco design with a vibrant colorblocked halo instead.

Art Deco old European-cut green target ring, $10,000, AshleyZhangJewelry.com

RETRO REDUX An octagonal halo and mixed-metal design update a vintage Europeancut diamond center stone dating back to the early 1900s.

Savannah old European diamond ring, $13,400, SingleStone.com

COURTESY OF DESIGNERS

CALLING ALL OLD SOULS. ANTIQUE AND VINTAGE RINGS—AS WELL AS NEW DESIGNS INSPIRED

BY BYGONE ERAS— ARE HOT RIGHT NOW. HERE, A GUIDE TO STUNNING SPARKLERS WITH A SENTIMENTAL VIBE.

BY SHELLEY BROWN

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FASHION + BEAUTY

EMERALD CITY

You might think the terms vintage and antique are synonymous, but they’re actually different. Vintage rings were created around 40 years ago, whereas antique ones are at least 100 years old.

Dazzling green emeralds have a rich history dating back to 330 BC. Another plus? They symbolize loyalty and new beginnings.

Belford Modern Era emerald, diamond and platinum ring, $6,500, TrumpetandHorn.com

JAZZY GEOMETRY Nod to the great era of Gatsby with an antique step-cut diamond set in a geometric design comprised of smaller baguettes.

Moira Art Deco carré-cut diamond ring, $44,000, VictorBarbone.com

CLUSTER STRUCK Made up of several smaller stones, a cluster setting is a totally unique and budget-savvy alternative to a large center stone.

Judy diamond and yellow gold ring, $2,950, DevereuxCollection.com

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Something old can also be something new. If you’re on the hunt for a contemporary ring with nostalgic charm, consider an antique- or vintage-inspired design or an upcycled stone in a modern setting.

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STEP IT UP

DOUBLE DELIGHT

Inspired by archive pieces, this stunner pairs a contemporary round brilliant-cut diamond with pavé side stones set in an Art Deco–esque stepped band.

Round diamond and stepped-band ring, price upon request, Kwiat.com

Made popular when Napoleon proposed to Josephine in 1796, a toi et moi ring (or two-stone ring) represents the union of two souls.

Platinum Ceylon sapphire and diamond twin-stone ring, price upon request, OscarHeyman.com

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Here’s how to find a wedding dress that’s big on style without blowing your budget.

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all us biased, but in our opinion, there are few things more exciting than shopping for your wedding dress. It’s a oncein-a-lifetime opportunity to go all in with your look and wear something that’s entirely you—whether that means lacing up the corset back of a dramatic ball gown or opting for an understated slip dress that’s tailored to perfection. But when you first start looking at dresses, it’s not unusual to feel a little dazed by the sticker shock of designer gowns.

According to The Knot Real Weddings Study, which surveyed more than 15,000 couples who married in 2021, the average cost of a wedding dress last year was $1,800. Spending money on a made-to-order wedding dress is justified by the fact that you’re getting a brand-new design created especially for you, but if you’re working with a limited budget, you might be feeling stuck for options.

The good news: There are several work-arounds you can use to save money and still find a wedding dress you truly love. Start planning now and follow these expertapproved shopping tips before you hit the salon.

ABOUT THE EXPERTS These bridal salon owners gave us the inside scoop on how to dress shop on a budget.

MALLORY THORBURN Co-Owner of The White Magnolia FL, GA, TN, SC

T I P : SIMPLIFY, SIMPLIFY, SIMPLIFY

T I P : BEGIN YOUR DRESS SEARCH EARLY

When you first get engaged, it might seem like you have plenty of time to find a wedding dress, but it’s better to start shopping as soon as possible (especially since it might take a few appointments

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to find your dream gown).

You should plan to purchase your dress at least nine months before your wedding day to give yourself the most options.

“This is a comfortable range to make sure you have the choice of any gown you would want without having to risk paying the rush fees associated with shipping or alterations,” says Mallory Thorburn, co-owner of The White Magnolia, a bridal boutique with locations in Florida, Georgia, Tennessee and South Carolina. Starting early also means that you won’t feel as pressured to make a purchase right away—and you can keep tabs on discounts and special offers at local bridal salons as they come up.

“Many bridal shops offer firsttime appointment incentives or have different sales throughout the year,” adds Thorburn. “Do your research on a bridal shop before you start the process so you go into your appointment prepared to take advantage of discounts."

CHRISTINE GREENBERG Co-Owner of Urban Set Bride Richmond, VA

One foolproof way to reduce the cost of your wedding dress is to choose a simple style, not only when it comes to embellishments, but also the silhouette and the amount of fabric required. All of these elements factor into the

Remember to factor accessories like a veil into your budget.

total price of the design and the time required to make it. The more time and materials needed, the more you can expect to pay.

“Most wedding gowns are made by hand, so the more details there are, the more expensive the gown will become,” says Christine Greenberg, co-owner of Urban Set Bride in Richmond, Virginia. “If you love beading, hand-placed European laces, fine fabrics and unique embellishments, be ready to invest.”

If your heart is set on an ornate gown, don’t give up just yet. With the help of your bridal stylist­—and an open mind­—you can get the same effect with a few budget-friendly tricks.

“There are different variations of all types of gowns, so you can achieve your bridal vision at almost any price point,” says Thorburn. “For example, if you love the look of head-to-toe sparkle, search for a gown that has a layer of sparkle tulle versus hand-sewn Swarovski crystals throughout."

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the store. Sample dresses may need extra TLC or alterations (due to limited sizes and wear and tear), but you can potentially find a designer gown that would otherwise be a stretch for your budget.

“Most bridal shops have a sample sale or two per year where they sell their samples at a fraction of the standard price,” says Thorburn. “Find a shop that carries designers you love, call to ask when their next sample sale is and mark your calendar.”

TIP:

PLAN AHEAD FOR CUSTOMIZATIONS

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The baseline cost of the dress isn’t the only expense you need to budget for. “Almost every wedding gown will to need to be altered in some form to perfectly fit your body,” says Thorburn.

“Keep in mind that alterations are typically not included in the cost of a dress.”

When you’re considering purchasing a gown, Thorburn advises asking your bridal stylist to estimate the cost of alterations before you commit—knowing that the final price depends on your seamstress. During your appointment, you can also ask about any customizations you have in mind, such as lining the bodice or adding straps, in case it’s easier for the designer to do while they’re making your dress.

“As you are being measured for your gown, be open with your

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stylist about what you hope to achieve with the final product," says Greenberg. "They’ll be able to guide you on changes you can make directly with the designer that could save you time and money once you're ready for alterations. Most seamstresses charge by the hour or by the amount of adjustments needed.”

T I P : SHOP SAMPLE AND OFF-THE-RACK STYLES

Whether you’re in a time crunch or looking to snag a couture gown at a discount, sample sales and off-the-rack dresses are great alternatives to consider. “From short engagements, unexpected pregnancies, military deployment and more, there are so many reasons why you may need a gown to take home that day,” says Greenberg.

With a sample dress, you save money by purchasing the actual dress that customers try on in

The average cost of a wedding dress in 2021 was

1,800

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according to The Knot Real Weddings Study.

ATTEND TRUNK SHOWS

Are you already obsessed with a specific wedding dress designer?

If so, be on the lookout for their trunk show at a boutique in your area.

“Waiting for a trunk show is a great way to get a discount on the retail price and a nice way to see the full collection of gowns that may not be present in the shop full-time,” says Greenberg. If you attend a designer’s trunk show, have your ideal dress and budget in mind ahead of time. “Trunk shows usually only last a weekend or two, so if you're looking for a specific gown, be ready to make a purchase,” says Thorburn. “There is typically a discount associated with the trunk show, allowing you to get a great deal on your dress.”

If there isn't a trunk show anytime soon, Greenberg recommends being open with your bridal consultant about your budget and asking if there are any other discounts available, especially if you’re a service member, teacher, nurse or first responder. “Your occupation could save you the same amount of money as a trunk show discount.”

Ultimately, remember that any gown you choose will be a special one—and the dress is only one part of your wedding day. “Don’t take things so seriously,” says Greenberg. “If you invest more in the gown that makes you feel the best, there is plenty of time to adjust your overall wedding budget to accommodate.”

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Look to the landscape for color palette ideas.

A milky pink mountain sunset inspired these tabletop hues.

Linens, @BBJLaTavola

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B E S P O K E PA P E R

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Create a cohesive design with a floral envelope liner that hints at the arrangements to come.

Stationery, @Isidore_Augustine

STYLE + PLANNING

B R I DA L B A U B L E S Invest in over-thetop kicks you can wear again—letting you reminisce about the big day.

Shoes, @JimmyChoo

P E R F E C T LY P O L I S H E D Personalize a classic suit with a chic bout and patterned pocket square.

BARN BEAUTY Highlight a bucolic landscape by setting tables within view of the venue’s grounds.

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PRETTY IN PEARLS Don’t limit hair accessories to combs and crowns— pearl pins are a timeless must-have.

Dress, @NardosDesign; accessories, @TwigsandHoney; hair and makeup, @CaitlynMeyerMua

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V I N TAG E G E TAWAY

EXTRA ENSEMBLE Have a little fun with your reception look. From bold colors to unique silhouettes, a second outfit lets you cut loose.

Suit, @Mr.KennethBoggs; dress, Martina Liana from @WeddingAngelsBridal

A retro ride is the perfect way to cap off an upscale barn wedding in style.

Car, Something Vintage Something Blue

WITH THIS RING A manicure isn’t the only way to draw attention to your new jewelry—body makeup can also do the trick.

Cake, @Ballerina_Baker

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L U M I N O U S L AY E R S Give a timeless all-white cake a modern upgrade with sugar-pearlencrusted staircase tiers.

PHOTO BACKDROP: CREDIT @ULTRAVIOLETBACKDROPS

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Rings, @VictorBarboneJewelry

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PHOTO BACKDROP: CREDIT @ULTRAVIOLETBACKDROPS

REINVENTING THE RUNNER

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Trade traditional floral centerpieces for a festoon of blooms running the length of the dining tables.

Rentals, @Wild_EventStudio

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STYLE + PLANNING

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LIFETIME, LONG TIME

C U T T I N G B OA R D A well-cared-for, solid-wood cutting board will be a mainstay of your kitchen. It’s easy on knives and is an ideal surface for dicing, slicing and mincing. A large board is also perfect for serving charcuterie or cheeses, and can be used as a trivet on dining tables. Hand-washing and frequent oiling will keep your chopping block looking its best, but this Cuisinart pick is dishwasher-safe and comes with a lifetime warranty.

BUT A

Acacia cutting board, $23, Cuisinart, TheKnot.com/registry

These quality registry additions have real staying power and deserve a spot on your wish list.

TOOLBOX + HAND TOOLS

13-cup food processor, $200, Cuisinart, TheKnot.com/registry

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P Y R E X C O N TA I N E R S Pyrex is legendary—it goes back over 100 years—for its heat-resistant glassware.

These containers are your leftovers’ best friend, moving from the freezer to the microwave with complete ease. Nesting bowls and stacking lids make this a lifetime set—it's nearimpossible to lose a piece of the food storage puzzle.

Glass storage set, $36 for set of 14, Pyrex, TheKnot.com/registry

These containers are microwave- and dishwashersafe—the glass dishes can even go in the oven for reheating.

C A S T- I R O N S K I L L E T Cast-iron skillets are workhorses. Today’s models come pre-seasoned and ready to use, heat quickly and evenly, and maintain a steady temperature regardless of your cooktop (even an open fire on your annual camping trip). A skillet is ideal for searing meat, sauteing vegetables and pan-frying. Thanks to its heavyweight design, the skillet can be transferred to an oven or broiler to finish the cooking.

12” seasoned cast-iron skillet, $40, Lodge, Williams-Sonoma.com

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LUGGAGE With proper care and some luck from the travel gods, a good suitcase will take you on many adventures. A polycarbonate case is lightweight but offers protection against the baggage turnstile. A duffle or soft-sided tote is great for weekend jaunts and doubles as a carry-on for long excursions.

Carry-on Pro, $306, Monos.com

You may be a renter with a super on call, but everyone can benefit from a good set of tools.

Invest in a steel toolbox and quality hand tools like a screwdriver, wrench, hammer and pliers. Unless you take on a DIY home reno, these basics will last you a long time.

Toolbox, $90, Big Red, Amazon.com

MATTRESS

WEBER GRILL

You spend a lot of time in bed, sleeping, bingewatching and...you know. A supportive mattress will help you to reach REM sleep every night, key for cell recovery and that well-rested feeling.

Consider your sleep style (side, back, stomach) and any sleep issues you have (like back pain or hot nights). Lay on a few beds if you can to ensure you find the right one.

Queen foam mattress, $995, Casper, Amazon.com

This charcoal grill is a classic of backyard grilling.

With proper cleaning and care, it will be the star of BBQs for years to come. The porcelain-enameled lid retains heat beautifully, while an ash catcher makes cleanup easy. It’s rust-resistant and has all-weather wheels too. There’s nothing better than a charcoal-grilled burger or hot dog on a summer night.

18-inch original kettle charcoal grill, $119, Weber, HomeDepot.com

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FOOD PROCESSOR Much like a stand mixer, a food processor will cut your kitchen prep time in half and help bring your culinary dreams to life.

Think of it as a blender and knife in one.

With a large feed tube, it can slice fruit whole, shred potatoes for hash browns or mix dough for a pie crust. Food processors are also great for blending soups and making purees.

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75% of couples served cake at their wedding reception

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Who said cake has to be the only dessert you serve?

Some catering packages come with sweets; check with your pro. If dessert is already on the menu, ask your baker to whip up a simple design and surprise guests with passed bonbons or late-night confections on the dance floor.

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vanilla cake with passion-fruit curd; lemon cake with whipped cream and raspberries; pistachio cake with honey buttercream

strawberry shortcake with white-chocolate ganache; coconut cake with mango curd; confetti with vanilla buttercream

pumpkin with cream-cheese frosting; apple spice cake with salted caramel; coffee and cognac

hazelnut cake with chocolate ganache; red velvet cake with creamcheese buttercream; cinnamon dulce de leche cake with brown sugar buttercream

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BAKER: JAY MUSE FOR LULU CAKE BOUTIQUE; PIPING ICON: SLIDICON/NOUN PROJECT

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Most wedding cakes are priced per slice—the more guests, the more slices you’ll need. A baker’s time is a big factor in the cost of a cake too.

If you’re the “eat dessert first” type, you may want to set aside a big chunk of your budget for your dream wedding cake. A healthy budget will let you indulge in complex flavors and speciality fillings. You’ll have more leeway with the design too— from sugar flowers to fondant cutouts, the options are sure to delight your sweet tooth.

If you’re looking to save money on dessert, stick to simple designs with minimal embellishments.

Fresh flowers will always cost less than their sugar counterparts.

Another idea is to have a beautifully decorated small cutting cake, and then serve guests the same flavor from a sheet cake in the kitchen.

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Fondant is an icing sheet draped over a cake to create a supersmooth exterior. It’s made of sugar and corn syrup but doesn’t have much taste. Most bakers will ice the cake in buttercream before draping it in fondant.

The smooth finish of fondant allows for endless design possibilities, from hand-painting to gold-leaf detailing.

Buttercream, as its name suggests, is a butter-based frosting that can be spread or piped on cakes. It absorbs flavor brilliantly and is the more affordable option when it comes to cake. It still offers plenty of design possibilities, including the rustic naked cake, where tiers are lightly coated in frosting to show off the cake and filling.

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smell the Flowers are synonymous with weddings. From centerpieces to bouquets and personals, flowers will undoubtedly stretch your budget regardless of how much you have to spend.

To make the most of every dollar, opt for in-season stems, grown locally if possible.

Not only will this guarantee you the freshest flowers, but you’ll save a little money too.

Share your vision with your pro and strategize on the best ways to achieve it. Some stems can be bought in bulk, resulting in savings, while some arrangements can do double duty in the ceremony and reception.

Less can be more too. Opt for minimalist arrangements, like ikebana-inspired centerpieces, or an artfully displayed single stem in a special vessel. Mix standout blooms with a variety of less expensive filler stems for a high-impact arrangement. Or supplement your tabletop florals with other decor pieces like lanterns or candelabras.

If you’re a flower fanatic and have money to spend, go big on blooms, complementing classics like garden roses and ranunculus with unexpected—and more costly—stems (think grape hyacinths and kumquats). You can also opt for elevated vessels like a copper urn or a pedestal vase. Add florals to other areas of the venue too, like the escort card display, a photo backdrop or the bar.

AN O D E to the CARNATI O N This hearty stem with fringed petals symbolizes love—need we say more?

Dianthus caryophyllus, aka the carnation, comes in a wide variety of colors and is almost always in season. It mixes beautifully with roses and ranunculus for a romantic, budget-friendly arrangement.

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Supplementing your flowers with a robust mix of greens will add texture and visual interest to bouquets and arrangements.

P R O TI P

Most florists have a variety of decor pieces available for rental.

Instead of buying a dozen hurricanes and a large frame to display your seating chart, rent them from your pro.

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Give your flowers a second life by arranging to donate them to a nearby hospital after your wedding. You might not save money, but your blooms will bring double the enjoyment.

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On their own, these florals aren’t showstopping, but when paired with other blooms, they can make a huge difference and add instant sophistication.

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These stems boast colorful clusters of fragrant blooms.

Hearty and colorful, statice has lasting power and represents memory.

These tall, delicate blooms come in a wide variety of hues.

These emerald bell-like blooms can double as greenery.

Unrivaled height in coveted blue make these stems head-turners.

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39% of couples served a sit-down, plated meal at their reception

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Planning to enjoy your first meal as an official couple at a sweetheart table?

Set your places with some of your registry gifts, like fine china or toasting flutes.

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This simple twist adds instant style.

Add a pop of color with a coordinating bow.

Dress up your setting with table “jewelry.”

Create height with napkin origami.

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seated Treating your guests to a good time means something different to every couple. Food and drinks are part of most celebrations, along with entertainment and, in some cases, experiences.

If you are setting aside a chunk of your budget for entertainment or a live oyster shucker, there are plenty of ways you can save on your tabletop rentals and still wow your guests.

The more formal your menu, the more sophisticated the settings should be. If you’re opting for a buffet or treating guests to a variety of culinary stations, simple rentals are a perfect choice. Most venues have white plates that you can accent with a linen or printed menu for a pop of color. Have a little more wiggle room in your budget? A charger or speciality flatware can add instant interest to a setting. If you plan to have a multi-course meal, you’ll need additional plates, flatware and stemware (if there are wine pairings) to serve this special dinner. You may want them to match the formality of the meal too, which might mean upgrading your plates or adding a lustrous linen to the table.

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When it comes to rentals, try to stick to one pro. This will help you save on delivery fees and taxes. If your venue doesn’t have everything you need, double check with your florist—perhaps you can add a few decor rentals to your flower order.

Some extras deserve, well, extra consideration.

These table additions can make a big impact.

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G L A S SWARE Adding colored stemware or vintage glasses can change the look and feel of a setting. Or opt for a specialty glass for your signature sip.

C HARG E R A charger plate is the ultimate backdrop for a plated meal. If you’re skipping linens, a statement plate can help distinguish a setting.

LI N E N S Napkins and tablecloths can instantly elevate the look of a table setting, especially those with a print or a textured design.

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FIN D YO U R

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VE N U E

Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind.

Then set the date.

EDITOR TIP Think about what you love as a couple. Are you homebodies or the types to dress up and hit the dance floor? Your wedding should be a true reflection of who you are, so let your personalities define your style. (FYI: Most couples aren’t just one style.)

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You can find tons of talent on The Knot Marketplace and check out reviews from newlyweds who hired them.

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Have final attire fittings and arrange for dress and/or suit pickup.

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EDITOR TIP Get ready to celebrate! From engagement soirees to couples showers and bach weekends, there are lots of ways to party.

Be sure to keep your registry stocked with gifts at various price points. And always show your gratitude for the hosts of these fun occasions.

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Plan your rehearsal dinner and morning-after brunch.

SH O P FO R

Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling, if required.

Try on and purchase your wedding rings—then get insurance. (Now it’s starting to feel really real, right?)

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Select invites, thank-you notes and other day-of stationery.

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We’re here to help with all of your paper needs.

Choose from tons of original designs— including those in our Black and Women’s Artist Collectives (bonus: you can coordinate with your wedding website)—and save time with guest addressing.

GET YO UR

WE D D I N G WE B S ITE Head to TheKnot.com to start your very own website. Share the link so guests are in on the details, like room blocks and your registry.

Include any FAQs or changes due to COVID-19. You can even stay on top of your RSVPs with our built-in tool.

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REG I S TRY People will want to shower you with gifts from “we’re engaged” to your wedding day, so a wish list is a must.

Build yours on The Knot and add items from our expansive store or wherever you shop online using our universal registry tool. The Knot Gifts Back makes a donation to a charity of your choice for every gift purchased off your registry!

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Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories. Choose what your wedding party will wear too.

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EDITOR TIP The Knot Registry also lets you ask for cash for things like a down payment on a home or an epic future trip to Bali.

Yes, you read that right: It’s okay to ask for $$$.

Head to the state registrar’s office in the county where you’ll wed for this must-have doc.

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IN MY VOWS, I SHARED HOW PHIL WAS THE FIRST PERSON I C O U L D T R U LY B E M Y S E L F AROUND. I ENDED BY COMPARING H I M T O A R O C K E T S H I P, A S HE IS THE CREATIVE FUEL THAT DRIVES OUR ADVENTURES.

-Kellen P H OTO G R A P H BY RYA N G R E E N L E A F

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COMPLEMETARY COLORS Instead of matching, Kellen (left) opted for a blue suit while Phil donned a yellow one.

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GUEST GUIDEBOOK In their welcome booklet, the couple “highlighted experiences that were special for us in our relationship and recommended wineries and sights to give people a feel for Los Alamos and Los Olivos.”

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DESIGN DUALITY “We juxtaposed buttoned-up elements in the midcentury modern aesthetic with the lightness of the color palette, all set against a beautiful backdrop of golden rolling hills, autumn colors and vineyards,” says the couple.

BURST OF LIGHT For their cake topper and stationery, Kellen and Phil took inspiration from their home decor and elements of the hotel. The Skyview’s restaurant, Norman, has a gold-and-brass sunburst design reminiscent of the chandelier in the couple’s living room. FESTIVE FLOWERS The couple describes their floral arrangements as “magical designs full of texture and interest, made up of cactus, ranunculus, orchids, anthurium, dahlias and dried palm leaves with fun pops of blue.”

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oth the East and West Coasts hold immense meaning for Kellen Schefter (36 and a clean energy professional) and Philip (Phil) Javellana (38 and a nonprofit professional). Though the couple has roots in Washington, DC, where they live, they serendipitously met in Los Angeles and got engaged in San Luis Obispo, California. The couple jumped right into planning a wedding in their beloved Golden State, but when the pandemic forced them to postpone, Kellen and Phil said “I do” at a minimony in DC. A year later, the couple celebrated at Skyview Los Alamos, a revamped 1950s motel, with a bicoastal-themed event befitting their jet-setting love story. “We combined East Coast sophistication with West Coast fun and the rustic surroundings of wine country,” says Phil. — HAN NAH N OWAC K

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LET’S DANCE Kellen’s mom suggested that the mother-son dance transition from a slow song to an upbeat number.

“We started with some basic ballroom dancing to ‘Theme From Mahogany (Do You Know Where You’re Going To),’

by Diana Ross, before breaking into ‘Shining Star,’ by Earth, Wind & Fire, for choreographed disco moves,” Kellen says. SPECIAL SIPS One of the signature cocktails on offer, a vodka soda with a splash of cranberry and pineapple juice, carried over from the couple’s minimony menu. As Phil’s go-to, it was a must for both events: “It’s a nod to my typical order at the bar after dodgeball games,” he says.

REST AND RELAX Phil loved the velvet couches and black ottomans in the lounge area because they “brought a chic and sophisticated vibe to the rustic surroundings.”

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E AS T COAS T C L AS S I C M E ET S CALI FU N Even the couple’s hues showcased the duality of their day—bright oranges anchored by crisp blues.

1 Tie, $25, TheTieBar.com 2 Tie, $22, TheTieBar.com 3 Pool float, $20, Target.com 4 Sofa, $1,029, UrbanOutfitters.com 5 Suit, jacket in sizes up to 54, pants in sizes up to 58, $149 to rent, TheBlackTux.com 6 Jacket in sizes up to 58, $260, pants in sizes up to 54, $150, Guess.com 7 Loafers, $275, TaftClothing.com

G MUST-HAVES AQ UATI C WE LCO M E The weekend began with a chill pool party with rosé and tacos, so guests could relax after a day of travel.

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U N I FI E D PROC ES S I O NAL “It was important to us to walk in together as equals, rather than having one of us wait for the other at the altar,” explains the couple.

PL AN N I N G PR I O R ITI ES Phil says it’s critical to be

“clear about your values and what matters to you before you start the wedding journey.”

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE Skyview Los Alamos, Los Alamos, CA PH OTOG R APHY Ryan Greenleaf VI D EOG R APHY Amora Cinema E VE NT PL AN N I N G + D ES I G N Karson Butler Events FLO R AL D ES I G N Noonan’s Wine Country Designs O FFI CIANT Tyler Schefter (Kellen’s brother) S U IT S Brimble & Clark, Washington, DC TI ES Kellen: Jos A. Bank; Phil: Tie Bar S H O ES Kellen: Ted Baker; Phil: TAFT ACC ES SO R I ES Shinola; Tie Bar E N G AG E M E NT + WE D D I N G R I N G S Baxter Moerman S TATI O N E RY Emily Baird Design R E NTAL S Avenue Twelve; Bright Event Rentals; Found Rental Co.; Freestyle Event Services; La Tavola CATE R I N G Skyview Los Alamos CAK E Bell’s; cake topper: Delovely Details M U S I C Ceremony: Mariposa Quartet; reception: DJ Malik Miko PH OTO BOOTH Bessy the Foto Bus G U ES T BOO K Fête Fone WE LCO M E BAG Ah Louis Store

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Only Phil’s sister and brother-in-law were present at the couple’s DC elopement, with his sister officiating.

The chance to gather more loved ones in person was a highlight of their sequel wedding. “We had a nice symmetry in our officiants thanks to our siblings. For our wedding in California, we asked my brother to do the honors,” explains Kellen.

W E O R I G I N A L LY P L A N N E D OUR CELEBRATION FOR O C T O B E R 1 7, 2 0 2 0 , B U T D E C I D E D I N J U LY 2 0 2 0 TO DO A MICROWEDDING IN WASHINGTON, DC, AND SAVE THE CALIFORNIA EVENT FOR WHEN IT WAS SAFER TO TRAVEL AND GATHER.

-Phil

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PURPOSEFUL PLANNING “It was helpful to be introspective about what we wanted our wedding to be at the beginning of the process, so we could be more efficient in making decisions as we got into the planning,” says Mili.

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Mili and Jai settled on Mayakoba because the gated community is near Cancún, which is accessible by direct flights from the East Coast.

Plus, guests could use golf carts to get around upon arrival.

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TROPICAL TRIMMINGS In addition to sourcing carnations, anthurium and protea for the arrangements, the couple’s floral designer included unconventional elements, such as coconuts, in some of the weekend’s designs.

COLORFUL COLLECTION The couple wanted the wedding events “to be filled with color to complement the lush tropical venue.” The weekend started with bright oranges and pinks on display at the mehndi party, while the reception leaned into darker shades of teal and red.

WELL CARED FOR Mili and Jai kept the guest experience top of mind, providing fans and parasols for friends and family to protect against the heat. They also gifted loved ones welcome bags with mezcal, survival kits and a weekend itinerary.

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ili Shah (31 and a VP of corporate strategy) and Jaidav (Jai) Reddy (32 and an investment banker) wanted a destination wedding so they could gather loved ones in a unique location where attendees could make memories of their own. Thanks to five events and ample entertainment, they were able to do just that. A mentalist kicked off the weekend by reading guests’ minds at the mehndi, which doubled as the welcome party. At the sangeet, attendees enjoyed a guided tequila tasting before being wowed by a surprise fireworks display. The next day, Jai’s arrival by horse preceded the couple’s Hindu ceremony, which was performed in Sanskrit. To top it all off, Mili and Jai made an epic entrance to their reception by boat and danced with loved ones until 3 am. — H N

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MADE OF MEMORIES The couple displayed seating arrangements on a hand-painted blue board, naming each table for a place they’d traveled.

Guests who shared in those fun times sat at the corresponding tables.

“For example, we recently had a great trip to Miami with a group of our friends, so we sat them at the Miami table,” says Mili.

MEANINGFUL MUSIC The couple shared a first dance to “This Will Be Our Year,” by the Zombies, because it’s a tune they listened to frequently in the early days of their relationship.

“After having to postpone our wedding by a full year due to the pandemic, this tune felt even more appropriate as our first dance song. Finally our year had come to celebrate our marriage after waiting longer than expected,” shares Mili.

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guava, ruby red, gold, teal, emerald green, sapphire blue and deep purple.

7 MUST-HAVES S I G NATU R E S I P S Mili is a fan of spicy margaritas and Jai loves Hendrick’s martinis, so they offered an array of both cocktails to guests.

Source on-palette parasols as functional favors that double as decor.

D ECAD ENT D ES S ERT S The reception’s sweets

menu included tres leches cake with passion fruit, carrot cake and cheesecake.

FR ES H E AT S The couple had fresh tortillas

and churros made on-site for the sangeet so guests could enjoy the local cuisine.

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The dance performance at the sangeet, which preceded the fireworks display, was one of Mili’s favorite parts of the entire weekend. “Our family members all performed high-energy dances, and then we took part in a huge group number with our wedding party that included a fireworks show as the finale,” she says.

“It was amazing to see everyone put in the effort to perform such amazing acts.”

WE WANTED ALL OF OUR EVENTS TO HAVE AN ELEGANT VIBE WITH INCREASING FORMALITY FOR EACH PARTY AS THE WEEKEND PROGRESSED. FOR OUR THIRD A C T I V I T Y, T H E S A N G E E T, WE ENDED THE NIGHT WITH A F I R E W O R K S D I S P L A Y.

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LOVE LETTERS Jason kept every note Haley ever wrote him and included excerpts of her words in his self-penned vows.

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“I wanted to bring in ample color in addition to natural Colorado elements such as wildflowers, leaves and trees,” says Haley.

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DREAM DAZZLER Jason designed Haley’s platinum engagement ring, which has an oval center stone framed by tapered baguettes. He based it on one she saw in a magazine 15 years earlier and the jewelry her late grandmother wore. WHAT IS LOVE? “Instead of a traditional guest book, we created a wall that said ‘Love is…’ and prompted guests to write their thoughts. I’m glad we did this, because after the wedding, it was special to read all of the responses,” says Haley. CUSTOM CREST The couple commissioned a personalized crest with “our initials, local wildflowers, sunflowers, yellow Aspen leaves, a bear, a bison and our wedding date,” says Haley. “The bison is an ode to the mascot of the University of Colorado Boulder, where we met, while ‘bear’ is what Jason and I call each other.”

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aley Burridge (31 and an educator and recent law school graduate) and Jason Chrestionson (30 and an antitrust attorney) met in Colorado and got engaged in the foothills of the Rockies several years later. So deciding to head back to the peaks to say “I do” on their nine-year anniversary was a simple choice.

In a beautiful stroke of symbolism, the state also happens to be “almost exactly halfway between where we are each from: Chicago and San Francisco,” says Haley.

Since most of the couple’s guests were coming from out of town, Aspen won out as the mountain town of choice, thanks to the many direct flights available. To make the weekend even more memorable for everyone making the trip, the couple hosted a welcome party with a Western theme as a festive nod to the locale. — H N

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PLENTY OF PERSONALIZATION “We incorporated several sentimental elements, from a Rupi Kaur poem in our ceremony to cocktail napkins that listed fun facts about us,” says Haley.

For further customization, the couple named their signature drinks after their pets and pulled reception table monikers from places around Boulder that are meaningful to them. “I loved that our wedding decisions were intentional and special,” says Haley.

BOOT SCOOTIN’ FUN “For favors, each guest left with a note from us thanking them for coming, a bag of Chicago-style popcorn, water bottles with cowboy-boot koozies and lightup silver-and-white sequined cowboy hats. The koozies were such a big hit that our wedding planner had to save two for us because so many people took them,” recalls Haley.

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#MAKETRADITION Haley and Jason met as sophomores at the University of Colorado Boulder, but didn’t become an item until their senior year—after Jason asked Haley out three times. They worked the college mascot, Ralphie, into their crest design and commissioned a cake resembling the CU logo.

INSTEAD OF A TRADITIONAL WEDDING CAKE, WE HAD A ‘CAKE’ MADE FROM STACKED WHEELS OF OUR FAVORITE CHEESES. HOWEVER, WE DID HAVE A RALPHIE GROOM’S CAKE FOR GUESTS WHO WANTED ACTUAL CAKE.

-Haley

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Diana + David

10�16�2021 | HUNTINGTON BEACH, CA

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FUNCTIONAL FAVORS “At each place setting, we gifted guests a gold frame with a note inside encouraging them to fill it with pictures from the photo booth,” Diana says.

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HONORING HERITAGE Diana and David held a tea ceremony as a tribute to their parents. In addition to the ritual, Diana says that her father-daughter dance was a meaningful part of the wedding, because “my dad whispered that he was so proud of the person I’ve become.” SUBSTANTIAL SPREAD The couple’s catering focused on variety.

“We wanted our guests to enjoy different types of foods and have fun with ones they may not have tried before,” says Diana. The menu included ice cream push pops, a milk-and-cookie station and gummy bear martinis with pea-flower syrup. PERSONAL PROMISES “We’ve rowed through rivers...and ventured to beautiful lands,” said David during his vows. “But these experiences only tell one part of our story. Every day we continue telling it.”

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hades of pink inspired Diana Le (33 and a clinical pharmacist) and David Ngo’s (34 and a psychiatrist) glamorous wedding. They wanted to showcase the color in all of its beautiful varieties and leaned into an ombré palette ranging from dusty pink and blush to deep berry. The couple first introduced the color scheme in their invitations, sealed with wax stamps, and carried it throughout the whole wedding. Even the menu got the pink treatment, as guests enjoyed raspberry frangipane tarts at the reception. To add a luxe feel to the design, Diana and David layered in a variety of textures and surfaces, from a mirrored ceremony aisle to glass tabletop decor, like delicate cloches that served as table numbers. — H N

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COLOR PALETTE PR ET T Y I N PI N K A collection of rosy hues ranging from light blush to deep mauve with gold accents.

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The couple celebrated their cats­— Gummy, Bear, Lexi and Boba— and their dog, Butters, in multiple ways throughout the wedding. In addition to commissioning an ice sculpture bearing the likeness of the five animals, David surprised Diana by adding “pictures of our pets to the lining of his custom blue suit jacket, so they could be with us on our special day,” says Diana.

WE HAD AN ICE SCULPTURE OF OUR FUR BABIES DISPLAYED DURING THE RECEPTION. WE ALSO CHOSE TO NAME OUR SIGNATURE COCKTAILS AFTER OUR PETS, BOTH THOSE THAT ARE STILL WITH US AND THOSE THAT HAVE PASSED.

-Diana

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MEANT TO BE “Before we even began planning, I wanted to wear this dress,” says Hawa.

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BOUNTY OF BABY’S BREATH “The softness of the flower makes me smile every time I look at the photos,” says Hawa. “We make it a point to have baby’s breath in our home almost weekly. I couldn’t find any other flower that complemented the space so well.

Everything else seemed to compete with the venue.” CULTURAL CUISINE “It was important to honor my family’s heritage with our food choices,” says Hawa. The menu included Liberian chicken gravy, Chianti-braised short ribs, jollof rice and fried plantains.

“At the tasting, I actually shed a tear because I was hit with a wave of nostalgia.” GRANDMA’S LOVE Hawa’s parents surprised her by flying her grandmother in for the wedding, something she hadn’t initially thought possible due to COVID-19.

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hile the tall ceilings and marble pillars of the Baltimore Museum of Art impressed Hawa Boyce (27 and a registered nurse and soon-to-be-licensed esthetician) and Tony Douglas (29 and an entrepreneur), the museum’s art collection—which would serve as a backdrop to the big day—sealed the deal. With the art and architecture as a starting point, Hawa and Tony planned a wedding with a theme of modern elegance.

“We wanted to complement the design of the museum rather than hide it,” explains Hawa. Their minimal wedding was filled with baby’s breath, lots of candles and black-and-white details. “The contrast of our decor against the marble was striking yet not abrasive,” Hawa says. “I wanted guests to walk in and feel like they entered an ethereal evening of magic.” — H N

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FAS T- FOO D FAVES “I’ve always said ‘I’m going to

have Popeyes at my wedding,’” says Hawa.

She did just that by serving the chain’s chicken tenders as a late-night snack.

M E AN I N G FU L M U S I C The duo chose “My Song,”

by H.E.R., as their first dance because “every sentence felt like it came from our hearts.”

N E W H E I R LOO M Hawa’s mother gifted her a crystal headband that she hopes to give to her own future daughter one day.

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Hawa used the wedding favors to showcase Edamommy, the skin care company she is building. “We couldn’t think of a better way to share the hard work that I put into creating my brand’s first product,” says Hawa.

“It was an amazing way to share my favorite skin care product with everyone that I love, while getting feedback before our official launch.”

FOR FAVORS, WE HANDED OUT BOTTLES OF MY SKIN CARE BRAND’S F I R S T P R O D U C T. M Y C O M P A N Y, E D A M O M M Y, I S A M AT E R N I T Y- F O C U S E D WELLNESS BRAND WITH O U R F I R S T P R O D U C T, E A R T H OIL, LAUNCHING SOON.

-Hawa

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DO I NEED A PRENUP? I can’t tell you exactly what you should do, because I’m not a lawyer (and I’m also not you). But prenups—or postnups—can be a great and healthy beginning. They’re really just a thorough look at what might happen in your financial future.

Prenups aren’t just for self-preservation; they’re particularly useful if one of you owns a business or has children from a previous relationship.

Financial wellness begins with grasping the basics of money management and discussing everything from your income to credit scores.

HOW SHOULD COUPLES MERGE ASSETS? There’s no one right way to combine your finances. Some people merge everything into a shared account and some use a designated joint account to pay bills. They then split expenses according to their proportion of the household income. Others choose to keep everything separate.

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HOW DO YOU AVOID NEGATIVE FINANCIAL SURPRISES IN MARRIAGE? It feels uncomfortable at first, but at the end of the day, what could be more intimate than unpacking that emotional money baggage together? A statistic worth remembering: Some 78 percent of couples who talk about money every week report being happy, while only 50 percent of couples who talk about it very infrequently say the same.

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WHO SHOULD MANAGE THE MONEY? Research shows that 74 percent of women who outsource the management of their money to their partners will have a negative surprise when that money comes back to them (often after a divorce or death).

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HOW DOES DEBT WORK? The laws are different in every state, but usually, the debt you took on before you married stays your personal responsibility.

Debt you take on after you get married becomes your joint responsibility. This is all the more reason to stay involved in your joint finances—to avoid any negative surprises.

WHAT SHOULD I BE AWARE OF REGARDING TAXES AFTER MARRIAGE? Taxes can shift in quite a few ways when you get married, from your filing status and workplace benefits to adjusting the name on your social security card.

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Here are various insurance policies you can get for your wedding and marriage. iability, risks and insurance aren’t exactly the most alluring topics, but proactive preparation has been trending since the onset of the pandemic. Couples planning their weddings and honeymoons—even looking ahead to marriage—should understand the ins and outs of insurance policies. “COVID-19 made it clear that there are risks involved in wedding planning that people often take for granted,” says Michael Giusti, an analyst at InsuranceQuotes.com. Here’s the 411 on insurance, broken down by type.

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Perhaps the biggest jewelry purchases a couple will ever make,

engagement and wedding rings require protection—after all, accidents happen. (Remember when a certain celeb heiress chucked her $2 million diamond into an ice bucket while partying in Miami?) Rings are considered personal property and are generally protected by your renters' or homeowner's policy. However, most home and renters’ policies will only cover $500 to $2,000 per bauble— paid only after the deductible is met, says Giusti. “When it comes to big rings, look for a separate insurance policy that only covers the jewelry.

You can go with a specialized policy or get a rider through your primary homeowner’s or renter’s insurance.”

Both couples and wedding professionals will remember 2020, a time when the term “force majeure” had its moment in our lexicon. Liability protects you if something goes wrong at the event. “For example, if a guest damages the venue, a waiter trips and falls, or the potato salad gives everyone food poisoning.” While these less-than-optimal circumstances aren’t exactly on your wedding day schedule (as planners can attest, things go wrong all the time), imbibing guests do require extra protection.

CANCELLATION INSURANCE The other type of wedding insurance is related to canceled or postponed events.

“Cancellation protects you if something prevents things from going the way you planned.

For example, the venue closes and you have to reschedule or relocate, a hurricane prevents guests from attending or the mother of the bride gets food poisoning (hopefully not from the potato salad),” says Giusti.

“The cancellation policy would help pay for nonrefundable deposits and ideally help you reschedule the event.”

Certain policies will also cover the cost of a vendor who’s MIA or doesn’t uphold their end of the contract. In a few instances there are even “change of heart” clauses that protect innocent parties if someone calls off the wedding.

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Honeymoon insurance is a specific kind of travel insurance that protects you if your trip is canceled or interrupted by something outside your control.

“It’s meant to refund you for nonrefundable deposits,” says Giusti. “If someone gets cold feet and cancels, the policy won’t kick in. But if a hurricane hits your resort, your policy will protect you.”

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Strategic and calculated.

It's almost always more expensive to have two policies than one, so after the wedding, partner up.

“In some cases, [marriage] may make the driver appear less risky to the insurer. For instance, married men tend to get lower rates than unmarried men,” explains Giusti.

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Use the budget tool from The Knot to keep your spending in check.

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It’s best to be prepared for the unthinkable. Add your spouse to your life insurance policy to ensure your benefits go to them if you die.

If you don’t have a life insurance policy yet, a new marriage is a time to reevaluate your insurance needs.

“Life insurance is there to help pay for your obligations after you die,” he adds. “Without your income, how will your spouse cover your portion of the bills? Who would repay debts? Term life insurance policies are excellent tools to help plan for these obligations.

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Combining health insurance plans will save you money. “A wedding is considered a ‘change-in-life event,’ meaning once you’re married, you’re allowed (for a limited time) to make changes to your health insurance, even though it isn’t open enrollment,” says Giusti. Shop each other’s policies and decide if you want to keep both or drop one.

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Tackling your wedding budget may seem like a major headache, but it doesn't have to be. Knowing your financial personality is key to keeping your spending on track (and saving your sanity). Take this quiz to learn yours, along with our top tips to help you manage money like a total pro.

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For those merging lives, Giusti recommends updating your policy after the wedding. Add any expensive wedding presents that should be specifically addressed too (think: collectibles, high-priced electronics, etc.).

If you’ve just purchased your first home together, you’ll want a standard homeowner’s policy which protects your house and your things in case of unexpected damage (like fire or weather). “Some policies also protect you from intangible dangers, like defamation lawsuits and liability in the event someone claims you have caused damage to them,” says Giusti .

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STAY IN THE BLACK If you’re looking to start married life with your savings intact, we recommend a two-pronged approach: adjust your habits to save for the wedding and find ways to save on the event itself.

SHORTEN THE EVENT The longer the day, the more you need to provide for your guests (and spend on vendor hours). Have a short and sweet wedding instead. Many planning companies offer allinclusive micro-wedding packages that are a fantastic value and make planning stupidly easy.

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PICK A DO-IT-ALL VENUE If you have a lot of out-of-town guests, consider a venue where you can have the ceremony and reception at one spot.

A hotel allows you to save on transportation costs and makes planning much easier.

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Venues charge a premium for weekends since they are in limited supply. You can save big if you select a Monday or Thursday. Note that not all vendors offer discounts for weekday weddings, but venues typically do, and that's where a big chunk of your budget goes.

Digitally print your invitation suite or just do special printing techniques (like letterpress or foil) on the invite itself, not the whole suite. Some couples also choose an online RSVP, saving the cost of the card, envelope and stamp.

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In your 30s, you’ll want to max out retirement accounts. It’s free money!

T A KE A DVA NT A G E OF BENEF ITS Your financial health is an important part of your overall wellness. Most people stress out about money because they don’t know where they stand financially. Take the time to build a strong foundation—you’ll reduce that stress and gain financial confidence. Here are the habits to embrace ASAP. UN DERS TA N D YO U R REL ATIO N SHI P W I T H M O N E Y Financial health is based on both the quantitative side of money (dollars and cents) and the qualitative side (emotions and values). Start formulating your priorities when it comes to goals and think about how you can use money as a tool to help you achieve those goals.

S EEK P RO FE S S I O N A L HE L P Tap a financial advisor in your 20s or 30s. This is an investment with overwhelming long-term dividends.

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ES TAB L IS H A B U D G E T A budget will help you gauge your monthly saving and spending habits—and allow you to make smart decisions that position you for success in the long run.

Create one based on what’s coming in and what’s going out, categorize your spending and identify essentials like rent or mortgage, utilities and transportation.

Your goal is to balance living for today and saving for tomorrow.

B UIL D GO O D C R E D I T Your credit score is your personal financial report card—it gives you a number ranging from 300 to 850

CREATE A FINANCIAL REPORT CARD Sit down with your partner and determine where you are financially as a couple. Then discuss your short- and longterm financial goals and when you want to achieve them. Next, create a plan to achieve said goals in line with your timeline.

that tells lenders how risky you are as a borrower. A good credit score helps position you as a trustworthy, responsible customer. A low credit score can have significant implications on your ability to access money, affecting if you can rent an apartment, finance a car or get a mortgage.

Investing in your 20s is among the smartest decisions you’ll make.

The time value of money and interest are magic when it comes to investing—and these concepts work in your favor even more when you’re young. It may not seem like much at first, but it adds up over time.

C R E A T E A N EMER G ENC Y FUND Prepare for unexpected costs that may come your way by setting aside three to six months of expenses. Ensure your fund is easily accessible in a savings or money market account.

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No matter what career stage you’re in, you should continue to develop yourself not just personally, but professionally.

It will provide personal satisfaction if you enjoy learning and can be a springboard to your next position—while also increasing your income.

practice in New York City. She and her son have guided generations of families, executives and entrepreneurs through complex financial challenges.

C O N T R IBUT E T O R ET IR EMENT Beyond tax benefits, a retirement plan offers an easy way for you to start preparing for your life in the future. If your employer offers a match, contribute the amount needed to take full advantage.

PRIORITIZE SPENDING Talk to your partner about your need-to-haves versus nice-to-haves when it comes to the wedding. That may involve the city and venue, number of guests and whether to offer an open bar—all things that can significantly swing your wedding cost up or down.

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These can include traditional benefits such as medical, dental and vision insurance, as well as supplemental life insurance, legal assistance programs and health and wellness programs. Make use of them to reduce stress and keep costs low while taking care of your overall health.

EXAMINE MONTHLY EXPENSES Work with your partner to figure out which expenses you need to make and those that could be decreased or eliminated. Are there any unused subscriptions that make sense to cancel? Could your phone plans be consolidated for savings?

REVIEW PAYCHECKS Consider if you’ve gotten a refund or had to pay additional taxes after submitting your tax return. If you’ve typically gotten a refund, you may want to adjust your tax withholding so less money is withheld, and you receive current cash to fund your living expenses.

CONSIDER NEW CREDIT CARDS It may make sense to open up a new card that offers a signup bonus. These typically require that you spend a certain amount in the first few months. With large wedding payments, you'll meet the spend and get points for your honeymoon.

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off the entire balance before the expiration date of the offer or the due date. Otherwise, you may get hit with massive interest charges.

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Putting wedding expenses on a credit card will allow you to you earn points—aka free money for your honeymoon or post-wedding purchases.

THE BEST CREDIT CARDS FOR WEDDING EXPENSES

I recommend using a high-earning card for the biggest charges, such as the reception. If your venue takes cards as a form of payment, be aware of potential transaction fees and do the cost-benefit analysis of whether swiping is the best option for you. If so, the ideal card to use to pay for your reception venue will depend on how the purchase is coded. If your reception expenses (like caterer and/or venue) are coded as restaurants, put these purchases on an American Express Gold Card, which gets you 4x points per dollar at restaurants. A close runner-up is the Chase Sapphire Preferred, which gets you 3x points per dollar at specific establishments. These cards can also be handy for the rehearsal

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OUR TWO CENTS Only use credit cards when you have the cash flow to pay off the bills.

Otherwise, the interest rates will saddle you with additional debt—far from the financial responsibility necessary for your new marriage.

HOW TO AVOID TRANSACTION FEES ON CARDS

Some vendors won’t take credit cards, or they'll charge a fee. In this case, write a check—unless you’re working toward a welcome bonus on a new card and you wouldn’t otherwise be able to reach the spending minimum. If the vendor is willing to take a debit card without fees, consider opening an American Express Rewards Checking account.

You’ll earn 1x points for every eligible $2 you spend on the card, which is better than nothing.

If any portion of your wedding (or honeymoon) is international, use a card that waives foreign transaction fees. If you swipe the wrong card when you’re abroad, you could incur an additional 2.7 to 3 percent fee on top of the purchase. That’s money for a cocktail with your spouse.

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dinner or the farewell brunch.

For flowers for the bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner, certain online floral delivery businesses offer between one and 30 miles per dollar via airline partners through their online shopping portals. This is a great option for prewedding events, but not necessarily for the wedding itself, as most couples work with local florists.

Credit card shopping portals are a great resource for couples making other wedding-related purchases, such as accessories or gifts. Some vendors have deals with companies like David Yurman, Blue Nile and Nordstrom.

For purchases with merchants that don't fit into traditional bonus categories—like a photographer or furniture rentals—turn to a card that offers a solid earning rate on everyday spends. These options include the Capital One Venture card, Venture X card or the Citi Double Cash. Alternatively, if you're looking to pay for your wedding over time, consider opening a card that offers a zero-percent APR introductory offer, which could allow you to pay off expenses with no interest for up to 18 months. Pay

If you’re planning a destination wedding, most large hotel companies will allow you to earn points for hosting your celebration at one of their locations. Depending on the property, this could be in addition to the points you earn from paying with your credit card.

For example, hosting your event at a Marriott property could earn you 2x points for every eligible dollar (up to $30,000 in spending).

Elite members will even earn their usual bonuses, meaning that a Titanium Elite member could take home up to 105,000 points. Hyatt, on the other hand, is offering its "Together Offer" through December 31, 2023. This awards couples with up to 150,000 points on the event, again depending on your total spend. Participating properties will provide bonuses like complimentary guest rooms or enhanced food and beverage options. You’ll want to check with your property, of course, to ensure this is the case.

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While wedding planning, we discussed what sacrifices to make in order to save up for our wedding, but also how we could reach our goal of buying a house. Our wedding planner guided us on where to save and where to spend so we could get the things we really wanted for our wedding. We have decided to work toward creating a financial identity that involves combining our finances. Highlighting our individual strengths and learning opportunities regarding money allowed us to build trust with one another in creating a lasting financial relationship. We have also been working on furnishing our new home and preparing for a future family.

MONEY PRIORITY

Pragmatism and professional advice SAVING GOAL

Future children

Early on, we had honest conversations about our finances, including a consultation with a financial planner to make sure we were saving enough and could agree to some shared financial goals.

We did not combine our finances but agreed to contribute in proportion to our earnings for our shared goals. Our primary goal is starting a family, which is quite costly for a gay couple. We also want to reduce debt and save for some home renovations. Both of us are avid travelers, but while we are saving, we are holding off. It motivates us to know that we’ll travel more after we’ve saved for a new bathroom renovation and paid down our debts.

MONEY PRIORITY

'Ours' not 'mine and yours' mentality SAVING GOAL

Future children

Since getting engaged, we have taken the approach of viewing our finances not as "your" or "my" money, but as "ours."

After the wedding, we plan to combine our finances. We have very similar goals for our money and aren’t worried about being totally financially unified.

One shared goal is to invest in our future. We would love to buy a newer house in our dream neighborhood and a new car to set the foundation for building a family. As long as you and your partner are transparent with each other, you should do whatever you’re comfortable with and whatever works in your marriage.

MONEY PRIORITY

Scheduling financial conversations SAVING GOAL

Family trip to Europe

We sync up every quarter and do an audit of how much is in our bank accounts and investments, how much we’re spending and major purchases coming up. What we’ve found works for us is that we overcommunicate about major spending or investments, but trust each other about everyday purchases. We’ve hit many of our major financial milestones going into the wedding, including buying a house, being debt-free and putting money into investment accounts. We’d like to be more intentional about saving for family vacations. We both love investing in our businesses, our own personal growth and education. Setting goals and having a clear vision is everything to us.

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Four couples open up about their approach to financial planning and wellness, plus how they're saving or spending as they enter married life.

A couple's wedding budget, from the engagement ring to the ceremony and reception, depends on a lot of factors— location and venue among them. Take a look at how far your money will go based on where in the US you'll say "I do."

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The opulent details of the Regency era are having a revival.

SEAL THE DEAL Wax seal, $11, Yolakis, Amazon.com

MAKE LIGHT Floral taper candles, $18, UrbanOutfitters.com

SOCIAL B U T T E R F LY Papillon lucky butterfly, $200, Baccarat.com

CROWNING G LO RY Marisela tiara, $895, JenniferBehr.com

B O W L E D OV E R Ginkgo small bowl, $160, MichaelAram.com

G I L D E D C AG E Golden birdcage and mother-of-pearl earrings, $350, NicolaBathie.com

PICTURE PERFECT Victoria frame, from $26, Anthropologie.com

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This moody vibe captures the glamour of an evening out on the town.

KISS THE RING Médicis Pop Faunacrystopolis ring, $615, Baccarat.com

E Y E C ATC H I N G Lucky charm cocktail picks, $88, JoannaBuchanan.com

STRAIGHT UP Lismore black martini glass, $250 for 2, Waterford.com

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YO U R R O L L Five-piece dice set with case, $49, Georg Jensen, WilliamsSonoma.com; red casino dice, $18, Marion, Amazon.com

Fancy crystal stone drop clip earrings, $265, KennethJayLane.com

B L AC K P E A R L Classic caviar, from $45, WilliamsSonoma.com

S TAC K T H E D E C K Aureo black playing cards, $7, Bicycle, Amazon.com

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RED MY LIPS Lip Suede lip palette in Les Rouges, $85, Westman-Atelier.com

BLINGED OUT The Ludlow clutch, $875, EKRDesigns.com

WELL HEELED Cube Strass heel mules, $1,750, RogerVivier.com

FLIRTY FA L S I E S Noor false lashes, $22, LoveSeen.com

SOBER + C L A S SY Phony negroni, $56 for 12, StAgrestis.com

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Mother-of-pearl barware set, $59, bottle opener, $29, Anthropologie.com

LUSTROUS STICKS Aladdin chopsticks, $52, Vietri.com

BE JEWELED Cloud pearl clutch, $2,475, JimmyChoo.com

IN THE CLEAR Roxy pearl pump, $428, CultGaia.com

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Pearl embellishments plus iridescent shimmer elevate nautical nuptials.

PUT A RING ON IT Pearl napkin ring, $64 for 4, KimSeybert.com

SHINE BRIGHT Disco Eye eye shadow, $29, RoenBeauty.com

ALL OF THE LIGHTS Active Illumination shimmer palette, $72, KyprisBeauty.com

GO BAROQUE Baroque pearl earrings, $4,600, Assael.com

PEARLS OF WISDOM Balloon garland, $50, PopFestCoShop.com

G LO W U P Iced Out highlighter, $34, AnastasiaBeverlyHills.com

M A K E WAV E S Onda glass bowl, $109, Vietri.com

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F R EVERY Maybe you want a honeymoon packed with bucket-list moments and over-the-top luxuries. Or maybe you’re saving for a new house and need a romantic escape that won’t break the bank. Whether you’re looking for a bargain or want to seriously splurge, you’ll find inspiration in these six dreamy destinations.

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LORETO, MEXICO WHY Deserted beaches hugged by the Sierra de la Giganta mountain range to the west and the Sea of Cortez to the east feel reminiscent of an undeveloped Cabo San Lucas in the 1930s.

WHEN TO GO Visit between December and March to spot humpback, gray, blue and orca whales breaching the glassy surface of the Sea of Cortez.

WHERE TO STAY Villa del Palmar, a resort with a renowned golf course and dreamy beachfront location on Danzante Bay, has every amenity you can imagine, including Mexico’s largest spa, five pools and four restaurants. Upgrade to a one-bedroom suite so you can gaze at the ocean from a private terrace. From $659, all-inclusive; VilladelPalmarLoreto.com

ESSENTIAL ADVENTURE Discover why Loreto Bay National Marine Park is nicknamed the Galapagos of Mexico on a threeand-a-half-hour snorkel tour. The boat ride to Danzante Island doubles as a marine safari, with frequent sightings of bottlenose dolphins and manta rays. $198 for two people ROMANTIC MOMENT You could easily devote half a day to relaxing at 39,000-square-foot Sabila Spa at Villa del Palmar.

The 125-minute Paradise Relaxation treatment for two includes a mango-and-papaya scrub exfoliation, a massage and a mini facial, and concludes with a private Jacuzzi session with a bottle of sparkling wine. $635 for two people

Due to COVID-19, reopening times and prices are subject to change.

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WHEN TO GO The British Columbia coast reawakens with life each spring, leading to prime wildlife viewing (bears, gray whales). Winter is a great time to cozy up and watch dramatic storms roll through.

WHY This region’s pristine wilderness promises wildlife encounters that rival any safari (grizzly bears, orcas, otters, eagles), plus incredible seafood, including black cod, BC spot prawns and wild Pacific salmon.

WHERE TO STAY After a decade of operating sustainable expeditions, Outer Shores adventure company has opened an eponymous lodge set on five acres at the edge of Pacific Rim National Park Reserve. Daily trips range from expert-led walks through rocky intertidal habitat to guided tours of an ancient Huu-ay-aht First Nations village. From $850, all-inclusive; OuterShores.ca/outer-shores-lodge ESSENTIAL ADVENTURE A strenuous two-hour trek to the wild, empty shores of Keeha Beach leads intrepid honeymooners through a majestic old-growth rainforest.

ROMANTIC MOMENT In the evening, ogle the star-studded sky from the steamy outdoor hot tub, then continue stargazing with cocktails by the firepit.

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KEY LARGO, FLORIDA WHEN TO GO Summer heat drops in September, but the temperatures are still warm enough to enjoy time in the pool and ocean. With schools back in session, you can expect fewer crowds.

WHERE TO STAY The Bungalows Key Largo is an adults-only oasis occupying 11.5 waterfront acres. Each of the 135 cabanas features a private veranda with an outdoor shower and soaking tub, plus two cruiser bikes for exploring. Don’t miss the BYOB happy hour aboard the resort’s Tiki Boats, the SS Margarita and SS Rum Runner.

From $1,189, all-inclusive; BungalowsKeyLargo.com

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WHY The Keys are tropical Florida at its best. Key Largo, the first in the string of islets, is a nature lover’s paradise flanked by Everglades National Park to the west and the only living coral barrier reef in the continental US to the east.

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ESSENTIAL ADVENTURE For the best sunset views, board the resort’s luxury catamaran, Lady B, for a 90-minute cruise around Buttonwood Bay and toast the sun as it sinks into the horizon with complimentary bubbles. $338 for two people ROMANTIC MOMENT A custom couples massage at the spa’s waterfront tiki hut lets you unwind while taking in views of the Florida Bay from your massage table. $480 for two for 50 minutes

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north of Portland. The main lodge houses eight rooms, and 35 cottages are tucked within the surrounding woods; all feature fireplaces, porches or balconies, and homey touches like handmade quilts and fresh flowers.

Try to stay on a Friday to experience the resort’s beloved lobster bake.

From $540, all-inclusive; Migis.com

WHEN TO GO In September and early October, there are fewer families at resorts than in the summer months, and the natural beauty is just as striking. You’ll catch fiery foliage and brilliant sunsets.

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WHERE TO STAY Run by the same family for three generations since 1916, Migis Lodge is a lakefront resort just 40 minutes

ESSENTIAL ADVENTURE Covering over 45 square miles, with 105 miles of shoreline, Sebago Lake offers endless opportunities for exploration via kayak, paddleboard or canoe. Want an adrenaline rush? The lodge offers free wakeboard and water-ski instruction.

ROMANTIC MOMENT Stay through Wednesday and get a to-go lunch of lobster rolls and homemade chips, then canoe to the lodge’s private island for a picnic.

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PAPAGAYO, COSTA RICA WHEN TO GO December through April is dry season and best for beach lovers. June and July are on the cusp of rainy season, so prices will be lower and the rainforests lush.

WHERE TO STAY Adults-only resort Secrets Papagayo Costa Rica has 202 garden- and ocean-view rooms a short hop from the white sands of Playa Venado and Playa Jícaro.

Seven restaurants offer menus ranging from Asian to Italian, and five bars (including a swim-up pool bar) guarantee a cocktail is never far out of reach.

From $367, all-inclusive; AMRCollection.com ESSENTIAL ADVENTURE Experienced surfers should book a boat trip to iconic surf break Witch’s Rock while wannabe wave riders can arrange two-hour lessons at the mellow beach breaks in Tamarindo. Lessons $145 per person; boat trip $450 for two people; PapagayoTours.com ROMANTIC MOMENT The resort can arrange a private seafood feast paired with wine in a secluded spot where you can dip your toes in the sand and listen to the lapping waves.

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WHY Jungle meets sea in this natural haven situated on a peninsula in the northwest corner of Costa Rica. The 11-mile stretch of palm-fringed coastline is known for its commitment to sustainability and pura vida spirit.

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WHY Maine’s second-largest lake has crystal-clear waters and Sebago Lake State Park on one shore. It’s a quick drive to charming towns like Naples and Raymond, where you’ll find minigolf, homemade ice cream shops and lobster pounds.

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ANGUILLA WHY Serviced by just one major US carrier (American Airlines) via Miami, Anguilla takes some effort to reach. The reward: You’ll have endless stretches of powder-fine sand, turquoise water and some of the Caribbean’s top restaurants all to yourself.

WHEN TO GO Play it safe and avoid August through December, the worst of hurricane season. Summer can offer some of the best deals.

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ESSENTIAL ADVENTURE Pull yourself away from the cabana-lined pool for a snorkeling adventure to Prickly Pear Cay. Spend the afternoon spotting sea turtles, trumpetfish and grouper, then sip rum punch and take in the views on the boat ride back to the resort.

ROMANTIC MOMENT Ogle the coastline, including dazzling Little Bay and Katouche Bay, on a sunset sail.

You can glimpse the evening’s first stars with a glass of champagne as it gets dark.

From $458 for two people; Tradition-Sailing.com

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WHERE TO STAY A re-invention of the former CuisinArt resort, the new 300-acre, 178-room Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club raises the bar for luxury, with an 18-hole sea-facing golf course designed by Greg Norman and a holistic spa with therapies featuring island ingredients. The on-site hydroponic gardens and fresh seafood inspire the menus at the resort’s five restaurants.

From $1,250; AuroraAnguilla.com

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Antigua sits smack-dab in the center of the Caribbean Islands.

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2 The island has more than 350 chalky-white public beaches.

Some of the best include Dickenson Bay (for restaurant-hopping and people-watching) and Half Moon Bay (for windsurfing).

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Clothing is optional at one of Five Islands Peninsula’s beaches!

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4 The Antiguan climate is one of the most idyllic in all of the Caribbean, thanks to constant sea breezes and trade winds. The hot season runs from May to November.

Don’t leave without spending Sunday afternoon at Shirley Heights Lookout, a restaurant perched on a bluff on the south side of the island.

You’ll get a stunning panoramic view of English Harbour and the island of Montserrat, not to mention some lip-smacking barbecue.

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The Bahamas 10 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW 1 About 700 islands make up The Bahamas, tossed across the lower Atlantic between Florida and Cuba. Only 30 of them are inhabited.

The water is so clear in The Bahamas that divers experience visibility of up to 200 feet.

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3 The biggest eyefuls of coral are off Andros (home to the world’s third-largest barrier reef, with 140 miles of coral and cathedral-like caves), Bimini (where you can also find dolphins and sea turtles), Eleuthera/Harbour Island and the Exuma Islands.

Nassau, the capital city, is extra-crowded during March and April, when spring-breakers invade. It is also one of the busiest cruise ports in the world.

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Exuma Cays Land and Sea Park was the first of its kind in the world, pioneering the protection of marine life and its thriving ecosystem. Snorkel or dive in the second-largest coral barrier reef in the Western Hempisphere, swim through the hidden caves or wander through forests of mangroves.

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6 Looking for excitement? Don’t miss Junkanoo, a Bahamian costume parade in which people dance to copper cowbells, goombay drums and whistles. The parade goes from 2 a.m. to 8 a.m. (yeah, you read that right) on December 26 and January 1.

The Abaco islands are famous for sailing and bird-watching. Its secluded beaches, picturesque cays and charming colonial towns have a decidedly slower pace than Nassau or Freeport.

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8 Popular cuisine includes locally grown guava, mangoes, papaya and plantains with conch, kingfish, wahoo and grouper—all washed down with pineapple wine from Eleuthera.

9 Boats are available for chartering or group tours, including Sail Nassau’s two multimillion-dollar Racers, where you can take the helm or just sit back and feel the wind in your hair.

The Bahamas are just a 75-minute plane ride from Florida, making them a quick trip for destination weddings and honeymoons alike.

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he Luxury Included® Sandals Emerald Bay in Great Exuma, The Bahamas, is an oceanfront resort set along a pristine one-mile beach boasting some of the world’s clearest waters and a Greg Norman–designed championship golf course. The resort includes gourmet dining at 11 restaurants, premium liquors, and land and water sports—plus tips, taxes and Sandals airport transfers. The 16,000-square-foot Red Lane® Spa further enhances this 877-SANDALS 877SANDALS 500 acre resort, set on one of The Bahamas’ most beautiful Sandals.com Out Islands.

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ove Comes Easy at the reimagined Sandals Royal Bahamian in Nassau. Live the easygoing life with 7 new specialty restaurants and 3 new food trucks. Enjoy new beachfront swim-up suites with butler service or luxurious accommodations in the new Island Village–many featuring private pools. Venture to the Coconut Grove beach club where you can lounge, dine and play, keeping the easygoing feeling alive. Or you can take a short cruise on the Love Runner to 877-SANDALS the secluded Sandals Barefoot Cay exclusive island hideaway, Sandals.com nestled between two pristine beaches.

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Barbados 10 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW With more than 3,000 hours of sunshine each year, the weather is almost always sunny and warm, cooled by the constant northeast trade winds. The average daytime temperature is balmy, ranging between 84 and 88 degrees.

The rocky, wind-whipped Atlantic coast is one of the world’s best windsurfing spots, while the tranquil west coast that faces the Caribbean Sea, called the Platinum Coast, is lined with posh resorts.

2 Shorts, T-shirts, wraps and sundresses are your best bet for daytime wear and elegantly casual wear for evenings. Swimwear should be kept for the beach and suitable attire should be worn when shopping or dining out.

7 Indulge your taste buds with spicy FrenchCaribbean cuisine at the patios of Brown Sugar, or grab a seat on the intimate, torch-lit terrace overlooking the Caribbean at The Cliff.

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The Barbadian capital city of Bridgetown was originally named “Indian Bridge” for the crude bridge that was constructed over the river by early Indian settlers.

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First made more than 370 years ago from the sugar cane that populated the island, Barbados rum soon found the favor of many English sailors.

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Bajans (as Barbados residents are called) are crazy about cricket and golf.

8 Hike along an inland trail or down a coastal pathway, laugh at a mischievous green monkey in the wildlife preserve or unwind in one of the numerous parks.

If you want to take to the water, board a catamaran in Bridgetown for lunchtime snorkeling, or set sail for a sunset dinner cruise.

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10 Dance the night away in “irie” oblivion to live soca, reggae or calypso at Harbour Lights or hot spot Red Door Lounge.

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Embrace cool Caribbean waters at three sparkling pools, or for certified divers, by diving into the vibrant coral reefs. With 11 gourmet dining venues and 280 luxurious rooms—all overlooking the exotic gardens and ocean, many featuring private Tranquility Soaking TubsTM 877-SANDALS Sandals.com for two—there’s a magical story just waiting to be told.

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xperience the opulance and unrivaled services of Sandals all-suite resort, the most exclusive, all-inclusive ever. From SkyPool Suites and magnificent Swimup Suites, to lavish Millionaire Suites—all with outdoor Tranquility Soaking Tubs for two, extravagance is elevated to new heights. Indulge in 5-Star Global GourmetTM dining at nine world-class restaurants, innovative bars and pools, a bowling alley and a 15,000-square-foot spa. Ocean views, every land and 877-SANDALS water sport imaginable, and Butler Elite service complete your Sandals.com Luxury Included® experience.

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1 Visit Sulphur Springs, a “drive-in” volcano, which last erupted two centuries ago.

Make sure you check out Gros Piton and Petit Piton, rugged mountains located on the island’s southwest coast; they’re among the Caribbean’s most recognizable landmarks.

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3 You’ll need a guide to enter the island’s restricted rainforest region, so sign up for a tour to walk through the dense foliage and swim in one of the tropical waterfalls.

If you’re lucky, you may see the rare St. Lucian parrot.

6 The best place to start a scuba dive along the coral walls is the beach at Anse Chastanet, a hotel on the southwest coast.

Some of the coral walls plunge 200 feet deep!

Keep your eyes peeled for barrel sponges, angel fish, sea horses, spotted eels, stingrays, nurse sharks and sea turtles.

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8 Try local favorites like saltfish and green fig and Creole barbecue. While you’re in Castries, try Pink Plantation House, a can’tmiss Creole restaurant.

If you rent a car, make sure you keep to the left side of the road (like you would in the UK). You can also make your way around via ferry, bus or cab.

Gros Islet, a small island on the northwest shore of St. Lucia, is known throughout the Caribbean for its Friday night jump-up. Streetside music blares as locals jam to the sounds of reggae, soca and calypso.

5 Visit the hopping Saturday market in Castries, the island’s capital. The vendors sell everything from fruits and local spices to crafts.

10 If you or your partner loves jazz music, plan your trip around the three-day St. Lucia Jazz Festival, held every May.

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anoramic views add to this resort’s grandeur, set on its own spectacular peninsula with the ocean on both sides. Indulgences such as 12 gourmet restaurants, including the signature Barefoot by the Sea and Gordon’s on the Pier Restaurant, will impress the most discerning guests. Five magnificent pools and the Red Lane® Spa invite total relaxation. Accommodations include circular Rondoval Suites with private plunge pools, lagoon Swim877-SANDALS up Suites and Over-the-Water Bungalows. Weddings are Sandals.com magical at the Over-the-Water Serenity Wedding Chapel.

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waken your desires for romantic temptation in this true Garden of Eden.

Quintessentially Caribbean with classic island architecture and charm, this intimate seaside oasis is blissfully serene. Enjoy six gourmet restaurants, including Kelly’s Dockside Over-the-Water Restaurant, which extends out over the ocean and offers a one-of-a-kind dining experience. Laid back and casual, this is Saint Lucia’s ultimate beach resort, with 877-SANDALS Stay at 1, Play at 3 exchange privileges offered among all Sandals.com three Sandals Resorts in Saint Lucia.

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igh glamour rises to new heights of luxury on the legendary La Toc estate, which includes a half-mile cove beach, a nine-hole golf course, nine impressive gourmet restaurants and a stunning Red Lane® Spa. Dramatic two-story villas atop Sunset Bluff Village, with private pools and butler service, are the pinnacle of indulgence. Exclusive Millionaire Suites with private pools are the summit of 877-SANDALS prestige at the cliff’s peak with 180-degree ocean views, Sandals.com while elevated privileges include personal butler service.

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Jamaica 10 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW 1 The best way to get around is in Jamaican Union of Travelers Association (JUTA)– licensed taxis.

Montego Bay is definitely a must-see. Located near the airport on the northwest side of the island, “MoBay” is perfect for golf getaways and short honeymoon trips. Ever since Sandals opened the first all-inclusive resort there, it’s been the top destination for young newlyweds.

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Many popular Jamaican destinations are between one and two hours from the Montego Bay airport by car. Make sure you bring Dramamine if you’re at risk for motion sickness, as taxi drivers take the curvy roads at quite a clip.

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To see Jamaica at its best, go during Carnival, the highlight of the Jamaican year, in Kingston, Ocho Rios and MoBay each April and in Negril each May. 6

7 Reggae lovers should wait until July for the Reggae Sumfest, held in MoBay.

While shopping in Montego Bay, be polite and don’t hesitate to haggle. Sellers are insistent.

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9 Coconut water—sold as “ice cold jelly” at roadside stands—and conch soup are said to heighten amour.

Take our word that in Negril, dirty dancing is the norm, so don’t be afraid to whip out some moves that have never seen the light of day!

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Kingston, is perfect for honeymooners seeking their reggae roots or even just a starting point for spa trips and hikes in the beautiful Blue Mountains.

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5 The Blue Lagoon was filmed in Port Antonio, called the “most exquisite port on Earth.” It’s a less-developed gem on the northeast side of the island.

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et go and let loose because Negril invented “chill.” Located on the widest and best stretch of Jamaica’s famous Seven Mile Beach, Beaches Negril is an upbeat, family-friendly all-inclusive resort where three shimmering pools, nine gourmet restaurants and an exclusive Red Lane® Spa are a few of the heavenly temptations. Here you’ll sway to the beat of Bob Marley played by an authentic Mento band and stroll 877-BEACHES through lush tropical gardens—a paradise where no Beaches.com building is higher than the tallest palm tree.

he beach goes on and on and the party never stops as the flagship Sandals, set on Jamaica’s best, white-sand beach in Montego Bay. Twelve gourmet restaurants make you think, it doesn’t get any better than this, and a Red Lane® Spa renews you. Wedding bells ring at the Over-the-Water Serenity Wedding Chapel.

For those who prefer glamorous seclusion, the Beachfront Villa Suites with Butler Service provide privilege and specialized butler service along a beautiful stretch of beach. Best of all, when you stay here 877-SANDALS Sandals.com you can play at Sandals Royal Caribbean too!

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ick back on the best and longest stretch of Jamaica’s famous Seven Mile Beach and experience the very chic and slightly playful side of Negril. Unwind poolside or at the Red Lane® Spa. There are seven gourmet restaurants, including our signature dining experience, Barefoot by the Sea. Breathtaking Swim-up Suites are on the edge of a lagoon pool with the beach in view and exquisite Millionaire Suites include private 877-SANDALS outdoor pools and gardens that wrap you in luxurious Sandals.com seclusion while personal butlers attend to your needs.

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lassic Georgian architecture welcomes you to a place reminiscent of the grandest British manor houses. At the main resort, the noblest of British refinement blends with Jamaican charm. Feast at nine tantalizing gourmet restaurants including an authentic British pub. Enjoy Jamaica’s very first Over-the-Water Villas, with water hammocks and private infinity pools.

Then discover the resort’s exotic private island with a Thai 877-SANDALS restaurant, secluded beach and Red Lane® Spa Escape.

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estled between the St. Ann Mountains and the Caribbean Sea, this Jamaican paradise features three extraordinary destinations in one: the chic Ochi Beach Club and Riviera Seaside, the lively plantation-style Great House, and the exclusive Butler Village. Enjoy 16 restaurants, 11 bars, including the region’s only speakeasy—The Rabbit Hole—live entertainment, 7 main pools and two Red Lane® Spas. Best of all, your “I do’s” can take center stage at the Over-the-Water 877-SANDALS Sandals.com Serenity Wedding Chapel.

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uilt in the glamorous 1950s and luxuriously appointed in the 21st century, this serene sanctuary still maintains its stellar reputation as one of Jamaica’s most exquisite resorts. Sandals Royal Plantation sits on a bluff 25 feet above the Caribbean Sea, granting each of its 74 suites heart-stopping views of the ocean and exclusive butler service. Bask blissfully on the spectacular twin beaches where you can spend hours 877-SANDALS sunbathing or partake in exciting water sports including Sandals.com daily scuba diving for certified divers or snorkeling.

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1 Try to catch the “green flash” at sunset. This split-second burst of emerald light can sometimes happen along the horizon on a clear day.

Explore historic Cockburn Town on Grand Turk—some say it’s the spot where Columbus first landed in 1492. The quaint Bermudian-style houses will catch your eye, and you may be tempted to take an impromptu walking tour through town.

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3 Go horseback riding on Grace Bay beach, one of the highest-rated beaches in the Western Hemisphere.

Turks & Caicos is less developed and more upscale than other islands in the Caribbean.

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Enjoy 5-Star Global Gourmet™ Dining at 22 restaurants, and sip premium liquors at 14 bars. Plus, choose from five spectacular villages: French, Caribbean, Italian, Seaside and the Key West Village­—all 877-BEACHES Beaches.com boasting stellar accommodations.

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Curaçao 5 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW Located in the southern Caribbean, Curaçao is the “C” of the ABC islands (along with Aruba and Bonaire).

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Its sandy shores have 35 beaches, including the popular hot spot Playa Knip and the more secluded cove of Playa Lagun.

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The colorful capital, Willemstad, is a UNESCO World Heritage Site and home to a floating pedestrian bridge, charming restaurants and vibrant architecture.

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Grenada 5 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW The three islands of Grenada, Carriacou & Petite Martinique are located in the eastern Caribbean at the southern extremity of the Windward Islands, only 100 miles north of Venezuela.

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2 International flights stop at Maurice Bishop International Airport, and visitors who continue have only a short hop by interisland charter to Lauriston Airport in Carriacou.

The driest season is between January and May. Even during the rainy season, from June to December, it rarely rains for more than an hour at a time and generally not every day.

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4 If you want to drive in Grenada, you must obtain a local driving permit. Most car rental firms issue local permits. Note that driving is on the left.

River Antoine Rum Distillery, the oldest functioning distillery in the Caribbean, is a must-see for visitors. Using only BEST MONTHS TO GO locally sourced sugar cane, the rum is January to May handmade by the same process (and on some of the same equipment!) that was used when the distillery first opened in the late 1700s. You can even sample the rum at the end of your tour.

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renada is a world-class destination with a world-class resort to match.

At Sandals Grenada enjoy an unsurpassed, 5-Star Luxury Included® experience. Exotic elements of the South Seas are infused with bold, contemporary design while the pink gin beachfront boasts a peaceful atmosphere with calm, clear waters. Guests revel in pools that float in the sky, a living room that floats inside a pool and Tranquility 877-SANDALS Soaking Tubs for two that offer endless ocean views from Sandals.com magnificent patios and balconies.

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Hopping around the bounce house at our prewedding sangeet was magical— it embodied jumping with joy. The activity gave us the chance to let loose and be kids for a moment, taking in the happiness as our wedding vision came together. All of our hard work had come to fruition. This was the first time we were able to let go of the stress that had built up from years of COVID and wedding planning.”

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