The Knot Winter 2020 by The Knot

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ABSOLUTELY HEATHER Comedian Heather McMahan dishes on the pressures of wedding planning (and postponing) during a pandemic.

STELLAR STYLE

The Astro Twins predict the best accessories based on your zodiac sign.

ALL IN WHITE Modern details and pops of rust add sophistication to a simple palette.

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HONEYMOONS BY SEASON Six intimate, winter destinations that are just a road trip away.

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SEND NOODS Cover star Heather McMahan brings the chic Italian vibe of her postponed destination wedding home to Georgia. Dress in sizes up to 26W, Hayley Paige, $1,495, BHLDN.com; earrings, $300, KennethJayLane.com

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WINTER 2020 20 116

79 REAL LOVE 105

Get inspo from these couples’ one-of-a-kind celebrations.

I N E V E RY I S S U E 22 30 38 44 46 48 55 168

FA S H I O N + B E AU T Y 61

BLACK WEDDING DESIGNERS TO FOLLOW RIGHT NOW Gorgeous collections that should be on your radar.

REAL WEDDINGS

EDITOR’S LETTER CONTRIBUTORS TOOLS ADVICE TR ADITIONS MENTAL HEALTH NEW + NOW LAST LOOK

RING TONES

WEDDING SKINCARE DECODED

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The ingredients to look for to amp up your complexion.

STYLE + PLANNING 79

R AINBOW DONE RIGHT All the details you need to create multicolor magic.

HOT HUES Set the scene with fresh, funky and chic color combos.

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REGISTERING IN THE TIME OF COVID How to make (and shop) a wish list during a pandemic.

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EDITOR’S NOTE

FIND SOME HAPPY REG I STRY PICKS FOR RIGHT NOW

Whether you hosted a minimony or postponed until 2021, don’t forget to register! After all, you’re most likely spending more time at home than ever before.

CORDLESS VAC U U M V11 Stick Vacuum, $700, Dyson, TheKnot.com/ registry

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MCMAHAN: AB+DM; MAXWELL COOPER: SARAH LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY; INVITATIONS: DESIGNED BY CHRISTINE JOY; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS

don’t know about you, but I sadly reached a point in 2020 where I almost forgot how great it felt to laugh. And while the events of 2020 are certainly no laughing matter, I do think it’s important we remember to find moments of joy even in the darkest times. Whether that’s bringing your friends and family together to celebrate your nuptials virtually, or cracking open that bottle of champagne you were saving for what should’ve been your wedding night, I encourage you to create those moments and surround yourself with those that make you happy. And while we’re not out of the woods yet as far as COVID-19 is concerned, I assure you that The Knot will be with you every step of the way with tips and advice, as well as all of the inspiration and ideas that make planning a wedding such a joyful experience—and hopefully bring you some happy.

WINE FRIDGE 32 Bottle Wine Cooler, $440, Cuisinart, TheKnot.com/registry

COZY THROW Henley Blanket, $103, Pom Pom at Home, TheKnot.com/registry

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T H E K N OT I N V I TAT I O N S

CELEBRATING BLACK ARTISTS For The Knot Invitations’ first collaboration, we’ve commissioned four Black artists to create one-of-a-kind invitation suites in their unique aesthetic and style. Turn to page 58 to learn more about the artists, and keep your eye out for the official launch of the collections on November 9th.

Q UA R A N T I N E Q U E E N

HEATHER McMAHAN This woman is not only funny, but as a COVID bride herself, she has some sage advice for all of the other couples out there dealing with a wedding postponement: “Be kind to yourself, be kind to others and just be patient because nobody knows what the right answer is. We’re all just trying to stay safe and figure it out one giggle at a time. I just learned I drink a lot more wine than I used to.” Read more of our hilarious (yet insightful!) interview on page 50.

DISCLAIMER: WE HAVE INCLUDED THIRD PARTY PRODUCTS TO HELP YOU NAVIGATE AND ENJOY LIFE’S BIGGEST MOMENTS. PURCHASES MADE THROUGH LINKS ON THIS PAGE MAY EARN US A COMMISSION.

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CONTRIBUTORS

Masks on! Heather McMahan’s glam squad at work.

JAMILA DEBOW HAIR + MAKEUP ARTIST WH AT WERE YO U R BIGGEST BEAU TY CHA L L E NG E S O N SET? Masks and makeup in the Georgia heat was definitely a challenge! But skin prep under Heather’s makeup with the Sunday Riley C.E.O. line, Shiseido sunscreen and Lancôme La Base Pro Primer plus Graftobian foundation and concealer saved the day! Timing is everything on set and on your wedding day. Planning ahead and scheduling more time than you think you’ll need will help to alleviate any anxiety or stress. Having time available to tweak the hair or lipstick will ensure you feel your best. @jamila_energy

MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS This issue came together 100% remotely— including our cover shoot. Here’s the inside scoop on how our pros made it happen. AB+DM H OW H A S T HE PANDE MI C CHANG E D Y OUR C R E A T IV E PR OCE S S AND W HAT HAV E Y OU L E A R NE D A L ONG T HE W AY ? Executing photo shoots during this time has made us shift what we think is possible—it’s made us more imaginative, and our ideas have to remain fresh and innovative. Because 85% of our shoots are on-location now, we have to consider the different issues and scenarios that could arise and prepare for them all. We’ve become way more knowledgeable of what it takes, the questions to ask before hand, and how to pivot while on set. We’ve also become very good resources on how to facilitate and produce for our clients who are off-site. But best of all, we have quickly learned how to get over the awkward moment of how to greet people during a shoot. Whether it’s the elbow bump, the hand wave or the performative air shake—it seems like our list of how to say “hello” during this time is growing longer and longer. @abdmstudio

TA M A R A C O N N O R WARDROBE + PROP STYLIST AN Y TIPS FOR COU P L E S PL AN N IN G TO CE L E B RA TE VIRTUAL L Y? Connectivity is so important when sharing virtually, whether it’s a photo shoot or a wedding. Making sure you have solid WiFi to stream is important—do a couple of test runs so you know ahead of time any issues that may arise day-of and remedy them before you say “I do.” Having a backup connection would be a great idea as well—just in case! @tamaraconnordesigns

STAFF SPOTLIGHT KELSEY PILLISCHER VISUALS EDITOR T HI S S HOOT CAME T OGETH ER Q U ICKL Y! AN Y TIPS FO R CO U PL ES SH IFTIN G TO A PLAN B ON T HE FLY ? Make a thorough list of everything you’ll need for the day, then organize by priority and what takes the most time to accomplish. If you’re relying on vendors, friends, or family, assign their tasks (with detailed instructions!) before you start on anything yourself. The key to planning any event is being organized, prepared, and detail-oriented, especially if you’re on a deadline. Lists and spreadsheets aren’t the most exciting part of planning, but they’re important! @kelorhighwater

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FROM THE BIG DAY TO EVERY DAY

TOOLS

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YO U ’ R E E N G A G E D ! Here are the big to-dos from “yes” to “I do.” Turn the page for more, including the 411 on our tools and how to get your personalized checklist.

BUDGET

B U Y YO U R

WEDDING PAPER

Select invites, thank-you notes and other stationery. If you place one order, you may snag a discount.

FIN A L IZ E OTH E R

PARTY DETAILS

G E T TH E

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Book any outstanding pros like hairstylists, makeup artists, day-of transportation or a photo booth for your reception.

MARRIAGE LICENSE

Head to the state registrar’s office in the county where you’ll wed for this must-have doc.

GET MARRIED!

R I NGS

Try on and purchase your wedding rings—then get insurance. (Now it’s starting to feel really real, right?)

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The planning and hard work are behind you—time to celebrate your new status.

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Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling, if required.

Plan your rehearsal dinner, after-party and morning-after brunch.

Have final attire fittings and arrange for dress and/or suit pickup.

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Research and book pros— anyone you have to have should be locked in ASAP.

Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories. Choose what your wedding party will wear too.

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Ask your besties to stand by you at the altar and in the months leading up to your day.

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Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the date.

PIGGY BANK: KALININ ILYA/NOUN PROJECT; VENUE: KOBY BROWN PHOTOGRAPHY; LAPTOP: OLGA/NOUN PROJECT; STAMPS: CLAIRE BENOIST; CARD, DRESS, VOW BOOKS: COURTESY OF VENDORS; MEASURING TAPE: TATYANA/NOUN PROJECT; RINGS: ALEX MURAVEV/NOUN PROJECT; BOUQUET: SARAH ANNE WARD; DRINKS, CAR: ISTOCK; CONFETTI, MARIACHI BAND, MAKEUP, SIGN: GETTY IMAGES

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Envision your wedding and decide how much you want to spend (and who else will be contributing).

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WE’VE G O T YO U And You’ve Got This!

STYLE

FIND YOUR WEDDING We know—you’re probably wondering where you should even start (totally normal, btw). First, download our app and take our Style Quiz. It’s a fun way to help zero in on your vibe, (think: industrial with bohemian details). We’ll generate your very own Wedding Vision (more on that on the next page). EDITOR TIP Think about what you love as a couple—are you

homebodies or always looking for an excuse to dress up and hit the dance floor? Your wedding should be a true reflection of who you are, so let your personalities lead your style.

ORGANIZED

KEEP Not sure what to do when? Look no further than our totally customizable checklist. If you’re asking your future brother-in-law to officiate, you can cross “find an officiant” off your to-do list. Want to add extra entertainment? No problem. Bonus: Our budgeter will help you track your overall spending.

YUNHEE KIM

Organizing all those details and a checklist? There’s an app for that. The Knot Wedding Planner pulls together your vision, pros and guests to put planning in the palm of your hand.

EDITOR TIP Psst, it’s okay to go out of order or to not tick off

every to-do. Really. It’s also totally okay to ask for assistance from your crew or your wedding VIPs—they want to help!

PLANNING WITH We’re here for you, every step of the way. Now, let’s get you married.

SHARE THE LOVE

HIT THE BOOKS

GET SOCIAL

PICK YOUR PAPER

We love a good meet-cute. Share your proposal story with us at HowTheyAsked.com

We’ve got 10-plus titles full of advice, inspo and DIY crafts to bring your day to life. TheKnot.com/books

Find us @theknot on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter for tips, inspo and more.

Customize everything from save-the-dates to wedding invites at TheKnot.com/paper

DISCLAIMER: WE HAVE INCLUDED THIRD PARTY PRODUCTS TO HELP YOU NAVIGATE AND ENJOY LIFE’S BIGGEST MOMENTS. PURCHASES MADE THROUGH LINKS ON THIS PAGE MAY EARN US A COMMISSION.

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TOOLS

Take our Style Quiz in the app and we’ll help you create your very own Wedding Vision board. Use it to plan your #bestdayever.

PROS

COMPILE YOUR After sharing your info (budget, location, guest count) we’ll help you assemble your squad with recommended vendors. And if you want to keep scrolling, we’ve got tons of award-winning pros (right where you are), plus reviews, on The Knot Marketplace. EDITOR TIP If you have your heart set on a master chef, a true

floral wizard or an epic cover band, book those pros first. Many in-demand vendors get scooped up early, especially in high season. Don’t panic: If your first choice is already booked, ask them for a recommendation. Chances are they have an industry BFF who can also help bring your vision to life.

DISCOVER WHAT YOU LOVE You’ll start by swiping right on images you love—these will be added to your final board (you can always add more). There’s also room to add personalized, must-haves (think: taco truck, dog-friendly venue or room for a sangeet).

DEFINE YOUR STYLE No couple is just one set style—instead, you’ll get a series of words that describe your vibe. Bonus: You can use this lingo when talking with your pros.

REGISTRY

MANAGE YOUR People will want to shower you with gifts from “We’re engaged” to your wedding day, so a registry is a must-have. Build yours on The Knot and add items from our expansive catalog or wherever you shop online using our universal registry tool. That means you don’t have to choose between Etsy finds and smart tech from Amazon. Plus, your guests get a one-stop shopping experience—a win-win. EDITOR TIP The Knot Registry also lets you ask for cash for

things like an epic trip to Bali or a down payment on a new home. Yes, you read that right: It’s okay to ask for $$$.

LIGHT BULB: HEADSOFBIRDS/NOUN PROJECT; MAGNIFYING GLASS: LINSEED STUDIO/NOUN PROJECT; IDEAS: CREATIVE STALL/NOUN PROJECT; COLOR PALETTE: OLGA/NOUN PROJECT; TARGET: PRIME ICONS/NOUN PROJECT; LIST: ALEX MURAVEV/NOUN PROJECT

YOUR WEDDING VISION

SHARE YOUR IDEAS When you’re ready, send your inspo-packed vision board to your fam and the people bringing your day to life. Your series of images will help convey your idea of what a “romantic garden party” really looks like.

PERFECT YOUR COLOR PALETTE We’ll even suggest colors that match your wedding style. Not quite right? Change them up as you plan.

GET PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS

GUESTS

THINK OF YOUR A wedding website is clutch—for your guests and you. Fill your site with need-to-know info, like hotels and registries, then share it with your guest list. Your friends and family will be in the know, and you won’t be fielding “directions please” emails hours before you say “I do.” You can even stay on top of RSVPs with our handy built-in reply tool. EDITOR TIP Choose from free designs (coordinate

We’ll take your quiz answers and match you with vendors based on your location, style and budget—starting with your venue.

SAY “I DO” WITH EASE We’ll send you helpful reminders along the way and create a day-of timeline to ensure smooth sailing.

with your Minted wedding invites), and even snag a custom URL for an extra touch of personalization.

DO SOME SHOPPING

GIVE BACK

MAKE IT LAST

SHARE PHOTOS

Find personalized décor, unique favor ideas and wedding party gifts for all your peeps at TheKnotShop.com

For every gift purchased from your registry on The Knot, we’ll make a donation to a charity on your behalf—no cost to you or your guests.

Keep the flame alive while planning with on-the-go relationship counseling from the Lasting app. GetLasting.com

Prompt guests to download The Guest app, and their photos and videos will be shared in real time!

DISCLAIMER: WE HAVE INCLUDED THIRD PARTY PRODUCTS TO HELP YOU NAVIGATE AND ENJOY LIFE’S BIGGEST MOMENTS. PURCHASES MADE THROUGH LINKS ON THIS PAGE MAY EARN US A COMMISSION.

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ADVICE

ASK THE KNOT SQUAD You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. We tapped our team—and one of our go-to industry pros—to solve some of your of-the-moment planning asks.

O U R TA K E

I WANT TO BUY SOMETHING UNIQUE FOR MY WEDDING PARTY MEMBERS, BUT I FEEL OVERWHELMED BY ALL THE OPTIONS OUT THERE. ANY ADVICE? EMILY PLATT e-Commerce Editor

I STILL WANT MY INTIMATE, AT-HOME WEDDING TO FEEL O VER - THE- TOP A N D C E LE B RAT O R Y . W H E R E W O U LD Y O U SUGGEST I FOCUS MY DÉCOR BUDGET? WHAT ARE SOME WAYS TO CR E A TE A STA ND- O U T D E S I G N F O R A PARE D -D O W N E V E N T ?

P R O TA K E

SHEAN STRONG Renowned Atlantabased event designer Shean is the floral and event mastermind at the helm of his eponymous brand. Shean believes in the power of floral styling to create effortless refinement.

Invest where people are going to be spending most of their time—the reception. Indulge in items that may not have been in the budget for a large scale wedding, like textured linens at the reception and luxury flowers for the ceremony. Recently, my clients were forced to scale back their wedding (see above) due to the COVID-19 pandemic. To create an over-the-top feel for Shanna and Evyn’s Georgia wedding, we went minimal while executing everything with intention. Throughout the whole home, I created small moments so that everywhere you looked there was a design element to be noticed. Creating points of interest throughout creates a feeling of continuity for guests. It also blurs the lines of the home, so the residential venue doesn’t detract from the wedding’s aesthetic. People may think downsizing a wedding is a bad thing, but I’ve found this to be the opposite for most clients. Shanna was able to maximize her investment and elevate the items she really wanted. Scaling down the guest count allowed her to scale up her design so we could make it feel more personal and luxe.

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: LOVE AND COVENANT PHOTOGRAPHY; COURTESY OF SUBJECT; BECCA DELMAN; LOVE AND COVENANT PHOTOGRAPHY

Scaling down the guest list meant this couple’s taupe décor was scaled up.

I’m a firm believer that the best gifts check three boxes: They’re practical, personal and delightful. You want to find presents your wedding party will use beyond the day, but that still somehow represent—and feel festive enough for—the occasion. How about themed drinkware for everyone on your list? (Think: a wine glass for your rosé-loving bestie and an old-fashioned glass for your old-school father-in-law.) If boozethemed presents don’t speak to your audience, opt for personalized reusable water bottles instead. Essentials for getting ready are another go-to idea. Monogrammed loungewear or Dopp kits come in handy on the morning of and beyond.

I ’ M N O T RE ALLY F E EL I N G T HE O V E R T LY S E AS O N A L C O L O R PALE T T E S . C AN I S E LE CT HUES T HAT DON’T SPEAK TO THE TIME OF YEAR? SARAH EVANS Creative Director

One hundred percent. All aesthetic choices for the day should reflect your style and taste as a couple—the color palette is no exception! Ditch seasonal clichés for hues that make you happy in order to achieve a truly timeless vibe. Look to your go-to outfits and fave pieces of art to select true-to-you color pairings as a starting point. Then, translate that palette to your wedding stationery, floral design and fashion.

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“We had wafers with Oliver’s picture created to go atop lemon drops that we served to our guests following the ceremony,” the couple says.

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For many couples, the most VIP guest isn’t a person— it’s their pet. We’re all for having your animal attend the festivities, but with a bit of ingenuity, you can also showcase their cuteness without them being present on everything from stationery to food.

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The pair’s beloved dog Frank joined the ring bearer at the ceremony on a needlepoint pillow, a surprise handmade gift from Stacey’s mother.

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Kevin, the couple’s feline, made multiple appearances at this wedding. “As a surprise, my mom had cookies that looked like our cats made for the guests as favors,” Kelly says.

PURRFECT ATTIRE If your pet will be present at the wedding, outfit them in an ensemble that will rival their cuteness. Deck out Fido in some bling, or ask your florist if they can create a greenery collar.

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MENTAL HEALTH

TOXIC POSITIVITY

HOW TO NAVIGATE

Planning a wedding during a pandemic is hard— it’s OK to admit that. BY MADDY SIMS

Confiding in your partner can make things better.

WHAT IS TOXIC POSITIVITY? Toxic positivity might initially sound like an oxymoron. Even though the intention behind toxic positivity may be to cheer someone up, it misses the mark because TALKING it lacks empathy, which is ABOUT YOUR NEGATIVE problematic. "Instead of EMOTIONS meeting the other person DOESN’T where they are and validating MAKE YOU A what they're feeling, toxic NEGATIVE positivity tries to leap over PERSON. IT the negative and offer MAKES YOU a positive perspective," HUMAN. says Jean Fitzpatrick, LP,

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relationship therapist and premarital counselor in New York. "When you do that, the other person gets the message that their feelings are unacceptable."

they like, but unfortunately, we aren't wired for that," Bejar says. "Cutting off an emotion is like trying to keep a beach ball underwater: it's bound to pop back up eventually."

HOW TOXIC POSITIVITY IMPACTS TO-BE-WEDS AMID COVID

POLITELY SHUT IT DOWN WHEN IT HAPPENS

While a postponed or downsized wedding isn't the worst thing to happen in a pandemic, it's valid for couples to be upset about the change in plans. "If we're not allowed to express those negative emotions, we end up feeling even worse because we're closing off a portion of our reality," Stukas says. Picture this: you tearfully tell a friend you have to uninvite 200 guests from your wedding because of COVID-19 and they say, "At least you won't have to pay for such a big reception." That's, in fact, an example of toxic positivity. "A more empathetic approach would be to acknowledge the loss by saying, 'Sorry to hear. I know you've always dreamed of a big wedding,'" Fitzpatrick explains.

HOW TO ADDRESS TOXIC POSITIVITY RECOGNIZE WHEN IT'S HAPPENING "The biggest way to combat toxic positivity is to be able to recognize it," Bejar says. If you're noticing an overload of "it could be worse" messaging in your life, reflect on where it's coming from. Consider journaling about it or sitting down with your partner to talk it out. ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR NEGATIVE FEELINGS

"Many people wish they could siphon off certain emotions and only keep the ones

If you're experiencing toxic positivity from others, Rachel Sussman, LCSW, recommends respectfully stating your needs. A response like: "You're absolutely right—it could be worse. But for now, I feel this is bad, and I want to sit in bad for a while," is a great option, Sussman says. Explain that they don't have to feel sad too, they just need to be there for you. LEAN ON YOUR PARTNER "When we confide in our partner about something painful and get told to look on the bright side, that feels like a door slamming on our emotional connection," Fitzpatrick says. Express how you're feeling to your partner and ask for what you need— whether that's words of affirmation or a comforting hug. SEEK OUT PROFESSIONAL HELP AS NEEDED

Your loved ones can only do so much. "Talking with a therapist is a healthy option," Stukas says. It's a way to create a safe space for yourself, as therapists don't need you to be positive at all. Wherever you stand in relation to COVID-19, what you're feeling right now is valid. "The pandemic is a layer of chronic stress that everyone is being affected by on both day-to-day and big-picture levels," Bejar says. "Talking about your negative emotions doesn't make you a negative person. It makes you human."

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ue to coronavirus, many couples have postponed or reimagined their nuptials. The change in plans (not to mention the pandemic itself) has couples dealing with anxiety, stress and a rising new mental health concern: toxic positivity. While positivity is generally a good thing, too much of anything (even optimism) can become harmful. "Toxic positivity involves solely viewing things in a positive light across all situations—no matter the circumstances— without regard toward how that viewpoint might make others feel," says Landis Bejar, LMHC and founder of wedding planning therapy practice AisleTalk. If you're upset about COVID-19 changing your wedding plans, it's OK to admit it. True, you still have your partner and you will get married, but only focusing on the bright side can be, well, toxic. "Feeling the full range of human emotions is healthy, necessary and allows us to actually experience the good ones even more so," says Sarah Stukas, MS, LCPC and therapist at Life Insight.

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first started following Heather McMahan on Instagram when a friend of mine shared one of her Instagram Stories on our group text chain. Another friend chimed in to say her podcast, Absolutely Not, was a mustlisten. Next thing I knew, I was hooked. Her brand of humor—whip smart, relatable and just plain funny—has been the perfect antidote to this very heavy year. So when it was time to choose our cover star for the last issue of 2020, Heather, also a bride-to-be, seemed like the perfect choice. When we jumped on the phone on a Friday afternoon in September, Heather laughingly admitted, “I kept thinking, what am I going to say in a bridal interview?” Then went on to joke, “Well, wedding planning was great until we got to the point where we don’t even know if we’ll ever be able to have a wedding.” Like so many engaged couples across the US and the world, Heather and her fiancé Jeff had to postpone their 2020 wedding, which was originally set for September 26th in Italy, because of the COVID-19 pandemic. “Nobody knows what the next step is. I think you have to be flexible and just go along for the ride,” said Heather about her postponed nuptials, and essentially, the entire year. “Basically, just grab a bottle, hunker down and pray for daylight.” ››

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COVER STORY KRI STEN MA X WELL COOPER: How are you doing? How are you a mask on, drink a cocktail and enjoy themselves, than feel feeling about having to postpone your wedding? the pressure of having to walk on eggshells. I want everyone to H E ATH ER M CMAHAN: Listen, I’ve got to be honest with you, this have a real carefree, safe experience. Listen, we may get a year whole bridal thing has been a shock to the system. I’m an down the road and still be in this [expletive] up situation and entertainer, right? I enjoy entertaining and being in the spotlight have to adjust, but at that point, I’ll take all the money that I but usually I get to set and tell the narrative. Being a bride has was going to use for the wedding and go on, like, a three-year kinda been an out-of-body experience for me because it’s all honeymoon. Tell brides to be patient with themselves and be about attention that’s on you, but I’m not really controlling kind to themselves. You’re going to have to adjust. I’m in show the situation. (Jeff and I) haven’t had an engagement party, we business, the show must go on in some form or fashion. I’m just haven’t really celebrated anything. Shit, we haven’t even had waiting for when I’m allowed to have my stage time as a bride, a dinner together with our families. So for me, I’m kinda like, and I’ll be ready to go. But until then, I’m going to hang out and it doesn’t even feel real. And now that the wedding has been just drink some wine and not try to stress myself out about it pushed back again I’m just...listen, it’s first-world problems. I’m because, guess what? There’s not a lot you can do. so grateful that I have a healthy, happy family and that we’re all KM C: What did wedding planning look like pre-postponement? safe. But the fairy tale of being a bride is completely lost on me H M: I have an incredible wedding planner, Jill Romanelli of right now. Which I know sounds a little pessimistic, but frankly Tuscan Wedding, and I just really trusted her. I was like, ‘Listen, it’s just kinda the truth that we’re living in. I’m a comedian, I I just want everyone to have the best time.’ I’m telling you, I’m have to take really shitty situations and try to find the humor in the last one of my friends to get married. I have probably been it. And I was like, the Lord just doesn’t want me to wear white. to over a hundred weddings and I’ve been a bridesmaid 25 He’s like, ‘Heather, it’s not your color.’ He’s times. I basically took notes from all the like, ‘You look good in animal print or some other weddings and grilled my friends on sort of black number, so this just isn’t going what stressed them out, what was worth to happen the way you want it to.’ it, what wasn’t worth it. And I just decided KM C: Will you be doing anything different I wanted to bring people to a beautiful with your new wedding plan? place and a place that brings me so much H M: I’m hoping, if everything goes right, joy. I mean, there’s no way you can’t have that by the time our wedding actually fun in Italy. There’s no way that the food rolls around people are going to be so is going to be bad in Italy. It’s a little more Each week, Heather shares amped to travel and feel normal again and expensive for your guests, but really I just an “absolutely not” on to celebrate again, that I have a feeling want my guests to have an experience. her podcast by the same it’s going to go from zero to one hundred I mean, when all my other friends got name. Here are her wedding real quick. In the aspect of everyone just married, I was broke as a joke. I was a “don’ts” and one “do.” going balls to the walls party, you know? struggling comedian. I was lucky if I And I respect brides who may have gone could make a grilled cheese sandwich. smaller and done things in backyards, but So now I’m like, ‘Screw it. We’re all semito be totally honest with you, being in the adults now, so we’re going to do what To people just asking, ‘Am I coming to public eye, even if you have 10 people in we want to do.’ the wedding?’ Listen, if we didn’t your backyard, there’s a level of ‘COVID KM C: Plans for a bach party? already have this conversation, then shaming.’ I’d rather just wait and do it H M: It’s funny, I joke with my girlfriends probably not, Aunt Linda! right. Do it big. I’ve been with Jeff for 10, when they ask what I want to do for my almost 11, years and at this point I can bachelorette party. I don’t want to go to a wait another couple of months. strip club or run around with a white sash To asking what’s happening every KM C: Is Italy a nonnegotiable? on, I want to go to a spa somewhere, like three seconds in the height of COVID. H M: Yeah, Italy is where I want to get in Sedona, and get rubbed down for four I will let ya’ll know as soon as the world married. Even if it got to the point where it days and drink fancy champagne and then knows what’s happening. Right now was just Jeff and I and we maybe eloped, rehydrate. You know? we’re locked out of the country of Italy, so just hang tight with me. just the two of us. Jeff’s Italian and I’m KM C: You and Jeff moved in with your mom, Italian. It’s like if I’m going to marry the Robin, in Atlanta. How is living together Italian Stallion, I’ve got to marry him in under one roof? Italy over a bowl of Bolognese and a bottle H M: You know, it’s been a fun experience. To this entire year. of Chianti. It’s just how we roll. Honestly, it’s kinda been like summer KM C: Do you have any advice for other camp in the best way possible. My mom’s COVID couples? widowed—I lost my dad a couple of years H M: You know, don’t put so much pressure ago—and I just always want to make sure I To doing what you want to do. Listen, on the whole situation. The whole world keep an eye on her. I think about what the at the end of the day, screw it. If you want to dress up like Cinderella and be is trying to figure out what’s next, right? future looks like when I’m able to get back at the magic castle, I guess, more So take the pressure off yourself for on the road, and I’m like, she’s going to power to ya? I’d prefer to have my face everything to be perfect and just go with have to come to every show with me, and in a bowl of spaghetti, getting drunk what feels good to you. I’d rather do it be on the tour bus! It just feels so good to off a Lambrusco, so to each their own. Who am I to judge? when everyone can just sit back without have everybody under one roof because I

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I ’ M A C O M E D I A N , I H AV E TO TA K E know that we’re all going to be okay and if shit hits the fan, we’re all in it together. KM C: Does Robin give you any wedding advice? H M: Robin is like, ‘Do whatever you want and just have fun.’ And listen, I would not be surprised if somehow my mom shows up in white on my wedding day and walks down the aisle to, like, Britney Spears and shows me up. Like I’ve prepared myself for that. But honestly and truly, no. My mom was like, ‘Go. Go wherever you want. It’s your time to travel. Just do what you want to do.’ And one of the reasons why I loved Italy is that it’s not all about the tchotchkes and the favors and all this stuff. It’s about having amazing food and amazing wine and beautiful scenery and having people come together. My love language is spending time with people and I can’t think of anything better than getting all these people together in a vineyard in Tuscany. KM C: When the wedding dresses started to arrive for our cover shoot, you shared on your Instagram Stories about your dress shopping experience... H M: I did one day with my matron of honor, my best friend since kindergarten, of going to a few bridal boutiques to see what they had. And it was so disheartening. Even if they had something that was going to be in my size eventually, it was still cut for a size two. There just wasn’t something real and tangible for me to touch and try on. And I was like, I have no idea what this crepe is going to look like on me! So this is my best advice: I found my favorite dress in my closet that I wear to a lot of formal events because it just fits me incredibly, and then I found a designer, Xay Vongphachanh at Watters, and I said make me something like this. I don’t mean to dissuade others from using designers, but (dress shopping) was such a pressure cooker situation. They just didn’t have what I wanted, and then I’d have to picture what a dress in a size 8 was going to look like on me, and I’m a size 12/14. It became super disheartening. Dress shopping should be such a personal and exciting experience. There’s this whole idea of ‘Say yes to the dress’ and it just did not happen for me. And at the end of that long day of bridal dress shopping, I was so hungry—I was like give me a taco and a glass of wine. I’m freaking over it. KM C: So there’s a lot going on in the world today—how do you personally process it and approach it all? H M: I’m a woman in comedy and my whole job is to take things

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R E A L LY S H I T T Y S I T U AT I O N S A N D T RY TO F I N D T H E H U M O R I N I T. A N D I WA S L I K E , T H E LO R D J U ST D O E S N ’ T WA N T M E TO W E A R W H I T E .

that make people feel uncomfortable or that they don’t understand and to break it down in a humorous way for us all to find a common thread and a human connection. We’ve either got to learn from things, grow from it or adjust. So I can only hope that the world is going to become a kinder, more gentler, more patient place, but there’s also got to be equality for everybody. There is so much unknown and as long as you’re not being an asshole and you’re doing your part to treat everyone kindly and justly and sticking up for those who need you to have their back, then that’s all you can ask for. KM C: What’s your and Jeff’s secret for a successful relationship? H M: At the end of the day, I say that we invest in each other. Like people invest in a start-up. Jeff and I met when we were 22. We both had big dreams and it has not been glamorous along the way, but I think it’s just finding somebody who’s going to be your [expletive] cheerleader. I think that if you’re independent and the other person is independent, then when you come together you’re just that much stronger. But you’ve got to have your own thing and you’ve got to have your own passions. If you’re staying in your lane and doing what fulfills you, that only makes you a better person to your partner.

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PA N D E M I C P L A N N I N G Saying “I do” in the new-normal? These few extra steps will ensure a safe (and unforgettable) celebration for all.

FOLLOW THE RULES

Look to local and national (CDC) guidelines and respect! Then fill your guests in on the safety measures you’re taking.

TAKE IT OUTSIDE Plan an outdoor celebration (if possible) or opt for a hybrid event.

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Brush your teeth on the reg. Mouth bacteria can aerosolize and transfer to your face, causing acne.

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Wear a disposable mask, or wash your cloth mask in between uses to prevent bacteria build up.

Make sure your mask is loose enough to give your skin room to breathe.

Use an exfoliating glycolic wipe after cleansing your face to purge your pores.

AVANT BRIDE

SKIN ESSENTIALS

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CLEAN CUT Set up a hand-washing station or place sanitizers throughout the party.

SIGN ON Use signage to keep guests safe—one way traffic and assigned seating.

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THAT POD LIFE Assign socially-distanced seating, grouping guests by family when possible.

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V I R T UA L WEDDING GUEST ETIQUETTE D O N ’ T FO RG E T

I NVITE O N LY Swap out the message whenever you want a change.

Unless you’ve been invited with a plus one to the original wedding or the virtual one, attend solo. Most rescheduled events are more intimate affairs, so be considerate of the couple’s wishes.

DRES S FO R

TH E O C CA S I O N Much like an in-person wedding, look to the couple’s invite for clues—even if it’s an email invite or a quick text with a Zoom link. The couple may include dress code wishes on their wedding website, too. If given no direction, opt for something celebratory—at least from the waist up.

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BE SEEN

N OT H E A R D Keep the focus on the couple and choose a simple background with good lighting. Pro tip: It’s best to stay on mute with your camera on. Unmute to clap and cheer after the official kiss, or if instructed to by the host. Same goes for toasts—only give one if you’re asked to ahead of the celebration.

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DANCE OFF Create a few satellite dance floors so guests can shake it safely.

NOW STREAMING Include a virtual component for guests who aren’t able to toast in person.

All the typical in-person wedding etiquette applies—this isn’t the way the couple planned to say “I do,” so help them make the most of it. Log on at the designated time and follow any requests (think: “bring something to toast with us”). Be attentive and respectful, and let them feel the love. And if you haven’t already, send a gift (turn to page 101 for more on this)!

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Black Wedding Designers to Follow Right Now

The wedding industry has made strides in recent years where inclusivity is concerned, but there’s more work to be done. When thinking of mainstream bridal designers, few people of color come to mind. The problem isn’t a lack of talent, but rather, a lack of representation. Here, gorgeous collections that should be on your radar. BY SHELLEY BROWN PHOTOGRAPH BY VIOLETTE TANNENBAUM

V I O LET TE TA N N E N BAU M TANNENBAUM: COURTESY OF SUBJECT

@violettetannenbaum

Fashion girls, take note—this is the effortless bridal line you’ve been waiting for. French designer Violette Tannenbaum launched her eponymous collection in 2103 after designing a wedding dress for a friend. Drawing inspiration from ready-to-wear trends, her designs offer a range of options, from chic little white dresses meant for a minimony or elopement, to more formal—though always modern—gowns for grander nuptials.

I want brides to be cool and unconventional. I design for the woman who doesn’t care about the rules and gets married the way she wants.

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E S É A Z É NAB O R @eseazenabor

Nigerian-born Esé Azénabor got her start designing custom evening wear. She made her first wedding dress after working with a client who couldn’t find bridal styles that worked for her darker skin tone and body shape. This void in the market inspired Azénabor to create a bespoke bridal collection, tailored to the individual needs of each bride. Inspired by a fusion of African and European influences, Azénabor’s namesake line is all about empowering women through fashion, as well as an attention to luxe details: An abundance of crystals and hand embroidery are the defining characteristics of her designs. Today, Azénabor’s designs have been worn by A-listers like Taraji P Henson, Michelle Williams and Kelsea Ballerini. Though known for her bespoke gowns, in 2020 Azénabor launched a ready-to-wear line called Prêt Mariée By Esé Azénabor, for brides looking for options with a faster turnaround time.

The Esé Azénabor bride is definitely not a wallflower. She is daring, confident and appreciates what it takes to create art.

FROM LEFT: FREDA BANKS; EMILY-MELISSA PHOTOGRAPHY; COURTESY OF DESIGNER (3); ELODIE TIMMERMANS. HEADSHOTS ALL COURTESY OF SUBJECTS.

LAURY BRIDE IS CHIC AND MINIMAL, BUT BOLD I N I T S O W N D I S T I N C T W A Y. M Y D E S I G N S A R E CLEAN AND SIMPLE , BUT THERE ’S ALWAYS ONE ELEMENT THAT SPEAKS TO THE TRUE STYLE AND PERSONALITY OF THE BRIDE.

L AU R I E U N D E RWO O D OF LAURY BRIDE

@laurybride

Laurie Underwood’s beautifully bold and structured gown designs took her far on season 14 of Project Runway. After the show and the success of her popular ready-to-wear collection Wanda Grace, Underwood created Laury Bride, a bridal collection which showcases her unique perspective on bridal style with distinctly dramatic designs (think: oversize bows, ruffle details and airy ball gowns). Currently a primarily bespoke collection, Laury Bride launched an additional ready-to-wear bridal line in Fall of 2020.

S TE PH A N I E W H ITE O F O DY LY N E T H E C E R E M O N Y @odylynetheceremony

Designed by Stephanie White, boho-luxe brand Odylyne the Ceremony is made for the free-spirited bride who doesn't shy away from unexpected silhouettes and ornate embellishments. Inspired by the works of French symbolist painter Odilon Redon, this dreamy collection infuses every gown with a sense of whimsical romance that also pushes the limits. OUR COLLECTION IS CREATED FOR THE BRIDE THAT UNDERSTANDS THAT STANDARDS ARE MEANT TO BE CHALLENGED, AND THE LIMITS SHOULD FEEL ENDLESS. IN OUR ETHEREAL SPHERE THERE LIES N O R E A S O N I N G , N O T Y P I C A L I T Y, N O E X P L A N A T I O N S , N O R E A L I S M , N O C O M P A R I S O N S , N O T H I N G O R D I N A R Y A N D N O N O R M A L C Y. O U R M I S S I O N I S T O H E L P Y O U L E A V E A L L O F T H O S E T H I N G S B E H I N D .

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A N D R E A PIT TE R - CA M PB E LL OF PANTORA BRIDAL @pantorabridal

Andrea Pitter-Campbell established Pantora Bridal, both a salon in Brooklyn, New York, and a bridal collection, to address a lack of inclusion and diversity in the bridal industry. Pitter-Campbell sought to create a safe space where women of color could shop and also find fashion-forward dresses created specifically for them. A combination of classic silhouettes paired with ornate details, Pantora Bridal is for the bride who doesn’t shy away from cutting-edge trends. Highly customizable, the collection features gowns with various alternative strap, neckline and skirt options. Above all, Pantora Bridal designs with the Black bride in mind. In 2016, the brand created Forgotten Skin Tones, a selection of illusion and mesh linings created for brides of color in the market for trendy illusion gowns, given that standard mesh options only work for lighter complexions.

The Pantora aesthetic is glamorous and edgy, yet familiar. I wanted to strip away the idea of all societal beauty standards. It became important for me to create a place where women could be understood, honored and celebrated.

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OF CUSHNIE @cushnie

If you’re looking for a fierce dress or jumpsuit, this luxury brand is worth getting to know. Established in 2008 by Carly Cushnie, CUSHNIE offers both ready-to-wear and bridal collections. With a focus on clean, sculptural lines and simple-yet-striking silhouettes, it’s no wonder CUSHNIE is also a go-to for A-list celebs including Michelle Obama, Beyoncé and Jennifer Lopez.

MY DESIGNS ARE FOR WOMEN WHO WISH TO HIGHLIGHT THEIR FEMININITY WITHOUT COMPROMISING THEIR C O M F O R T. I G I V E A L O T O F THOUGHT TO THE FABRICS I S E L E C T, A N D C R E A T E P I E C E S W I T H F L E X I B I L I T Y. I R E A L LY W A N T TO C R E AT E SHOWSTOPPING LOOKS THAT COULD WORK FOR THE RED CARPET JUST AS E A S I LY A S A W E D D I N G .

I strive to give my customer silhouettes that make her feel sexy, sophisticated and powerful—all at once.

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VA LE NTI N E AVO H @valentineavoh

Valentine Avoh’s namesake collection has both high-fashion and royal roots. After graduating from the London College of Fashion, Valentine Avoh worked for prestigious fashion houses such as Alexander McQueen and Alexis Mabille. In 2013, Avoh made bespoke gowns for the Queen of Belgium, which propelled her to launch her own brand two years later. Based in Brussels, Belgium, Avoh’s designs are a marriage of easy silhouettes and delicate touches (read: feathers and pearls), and are inspired by the opulence of the Jazz Age and the Golden Age of Cinema.

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NARDOS IMAM OF NARDOS DESIGN @nardosdesignbride

FROM LEFT: COURTESY OF DESIGNER; TESHORN JACKSON; COURTESY OF DESIGNER (2); GETTY IMAGES; COURTESY OF DESIGNER; ALY KULER PHOTOGRPAHY. GRAFTON-HOLT: GYAN GURUNG PHOTOGRAPHY; ALL OTHER HEADSHOTS COURTESY OF SUBJECTS.

Nardos Imam dreamed of designing dresses as a young girl growing up in Eritrea. Her mother was a talented seamstress who loved making colorful outfits for her children, and Imam was fascinated by her mother’s work. After studying costume design at El Centro College in Dallas, Texas and spending several years in the fashion industry, Imam launched her own collection in 2009. Since then, Nardos Design has expanded into evening wear, a ready-to-wear line and a custom bridal collection. Imam credits her faith and the unique perspectives and backstories of her clients as her main source of artistic inspiration. The Nardos Design bridal collection offers a variety of classic, tailored silhouettes with standout details like oversize rosettes, colorful statement bows and 3-D florals.

Our brides are truly one-of-a-kind and their unique aesthetic is something they dream up. Our goal at Nardos Design is to cultivate, create and design the dresses of our clients’ dreams.

Y E M I O S U N KOYA H OF KOSIBAH @yemikosibah

Inspired by weddings in his homeland of Nigeria, Yemi Osunkoyah knew at a young age he wanted to create bridal gowns. In 1991, Osunkoyah launched his wedding dress label, Kosibah, based on an alternative spelling of his mother’s name. Now based in New York, Kosibah specializes in bespoke gowns, designed from scratch and inspired by the intricacy of Dior, Balenciaga and Givenchy Couture gowns of the ’40s and ’50s.

M Y H E A RT I S A LWAYS D RAW N TO A VA R I E T Y O F S T Y L E S , C U LT U R A L REFERENCES AND THE PERSONALITIES OF THE WOMEN WHO I DESIGN FOR. MY COLLECTION IS REFLECTIVE OF MY CLIENTS, WHO SEEK THEIR OWN PATH AND HAVE A DIVERSE RANGE OF EXPERIENCES.

I create gowns that enhance the hourglass shape and celebrates the female form—regardless of dress size.

CY NTH IA G R A F TO N - H O LT O F C Y N T H I A G R A F T O N - H O LT C O U T U R E @cynthiagraftonholt

Growing up in the small town of Smethwick in England, Cynthia Grafton-Holt was inspired by the elegant style of her aunts, who relied on a community dressmaker to keep up with trends. A graduate of the London College of Fashion, Grafton-Holt honed her craft creating countless gowns for design houses like Gile Deacon, Emelia Wickstead and Victoria Beckham. After 20 years in the business, Grafton-Holt launched her own bridal brand, Oui Madame. In 2020, Grafton-Holt embarked on a new journey: a bespoke bridal line called Cynthia Grafton-Holt Couture.

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MY PIECES ARE INTENDED TO MAKE YOU FEEL FABULOUS. THE LOTUS BLOOM CO. BRIDE IS C O N F I D E N T, F A S H I O N A B L E A N D O W N S H E R I D E N T I T Y. S H E K N O W S W H A T S H E W A N T S A N D ISN’T AFRAID TO BE BOLD.

N N E K A C . A LE X A N D E R OF BRIDES BY NONA

@bridesbynona

When she couldn’t find her dream wedding dress in bridal salons, Nneka C. Alexander decided to leave a budding career as an investment banker to design her own gown— and many gowns to follow. In 2014, Alexander launched Brides by NoNA. Based in Atlanta, Brides by NoNA offers a collection of readyto-wear wedding dresses and formalwear, but the brand’s main focus is bespoke garments for brides looking to go totally custom-made.

Our bride understands luxury and the intricacies of a bespoke process. I create timeless gowns that will take your breath away 10 years down the road.

K E I S HA R AN S O M E OF THE LOTUS BLOOM CO. @thelotusbloomco

Keisha Ransome got her start in bridal by happenstance. Ransome was selling tulle skirts on Etsy when a customer requested a custom skirt for her wedding. Initially, Ransome was intimidated by the prospect of making a garment for such an important event, but the customer was insistent. Today, The Lotus Bloom Co. offers a fully realized world of whimsical tulle pieces—from the skirts that inspired its inception, to airy capes, boas and veils.

JEAN-R ALPH THURIN @jeanralphthurin

A M SA LE A B E R R A OF AMSALE @amsale

Since Amsale Aberra launched her namesake label in 1990 with groundbreaking designs, her minimalist aesthetic changed the course of wedding dress trends. Although Aberra passed away in 2018, the Amsale fashion house is devoted to carrying on her 30-year legacy under the design direction of Margo Lafontaine. The brand now has three lines: Amsale, Amsale Nouvelle and Little White Dress by Amsale.

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Jean-Ralph Thurin’s career in fashion began as a childhood interest in his grandmother’s sewing skills and iconic couture houses like Dior. A graduate of Parsons School of Design, Thurin creates custom bridal gowns and evening wear, with a focus on pieces designed specifically for Black women and their bodies. Recently, Thurin launched HUExJRT, a line of gowns with illusion details that match any skin tone.

I pride myself in designing for brides who have a sense of self and are strong, confident and passionate.

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TICKLED PINK Prepare to swoon over the über-romantic combo of a hot pink sapphire and velvety rose gold setting. The Infinity pink sapphire in 18K rose gold engagement ring, price upon request, EvaFehren.com

TREND ALERT Called a “rolling ring,” this design has interlocking bands that move around on your finger, so you can position your stack multiple ways.

MARINE LIFE Why are aquamarines suddenly so hot? These pretty, semi-precious stones trend to be less pricey than diamonds, so you can get more bang for your buck. Aquamarine and blue diamond ring in 18K gold, $3,595, YiCollection.com

C O LO R C R U S H We’ve established you don’t have to go for a standard diamond ring—but you also don’t have to go with a center stone in general. This colorful band is simple but stunning. Diamond and Sapphire Rainbow Confetti ring in 18K yellow gold, $6,160, PollyWales.com

SOMETHING SAPPHIRE Your wedding rings are a luxe way to put your own twist on tradition. An emerald-cut sapphire in a mixed metal setting is an ultra-modern Something Blue. Sapphire Pavé Rolling ring in 14K yellow gold and white gold, $3,000, AshleyZhangJewelry.com

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Ring Tones Calling all cool to-be-weds: The hottest wedding rings are anything but basic. Opt for unexpected bling with colorful gemstones.

RED HAUTE Historically, rubies represent passion and desire—so what better way to speak to your love story than with an elaborate, crimson-hued set? Attelage marquise ruby ring suite no. 01 in 14K yellow gold, from $8,600, AnnaSheffield.com

BY SHELLEY BROWN

SOULFUL STONES A gemstone is more than just a pretty addition to any wedding ring—many of them have deeper symbolic meanings. Here, some of the most popular ones and what they represent.

DIAMOND

RUBY

EMERALD

SAPPHIRE

AMETHYST

PERIDOT

Love Faithfulness Purity

Health Wisdom Passion

Healing Reflection Peace

Wisdom Virtue Prosperity

Intelligence Purification Psychic Ability

Strength Protection Friendship

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RING REPORT M I D A S TO U C H Get ready to turn some heads. There’s nothing mellow about this oversized cushion-cut yellow diamond in an equally impressive, white diamond-encrusted setting. Yellow cushion-cut diamond engagement ring in 18K yellow gold, from $5,425, Kwiat.com

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PA S T E L P L AY

If you want a ring that isn’t available in your size—say, you’re a woman in love with a men’s band or vice versa—ask if your jeweler can make your preferred design to fit you.

This all-blue take on a classic three-stone setting creates a dreamy, cornflower-to-periwinkle ombré effect on your hand. Sapphire Orion ring in 18K yellow gold, $4,250, Mociun.com

C H A M PA G N E C A M PA I G N A solid stack in and of itself, an interconnected set of rose and yellow gold bands set off a gorgeous champagne diamond center stone. Freyja ring in 18K rose gold and yellow gold, $3,500, SpinelliKilcollin.com

RAINBOW BRIGHT Whether you want to give a shout-out to Pride or you just really love rainbows, this vibrant band of gems is all about celebrating color. Multicolored gemstone baguette eternity band, $1,595, Eriness, AshleighBergman.com

PURPLE REIGN

B L U E N OT E

Made for the manic pixie dream bride in us all, a delicate spray of multicolor accent stones gives this lavender sapphire a distinctly magical feel. Lavender Pink Sapphire Spray ring in 14K yellow gold, from $7,500, MarrowFine.com

EMERALD CITY

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What’s better than one center stone? Eight. A single blue sapphire gives this retro-inspired band a pop of personality. Demi Demi Plus 8 sapphire ring in 14K white gold, $2,880, GraceLee.com

There’s only one way to describe this green dazzler: juicy. A minimalistic yellow gold setting puts all the focus on a vibrant pearshaped emerald. Pear-shape emerald ring in 14K gold, $7,700, MaterialGood.com

AQUAMARINE

PEARL

O PA L

GARNET

CITRINE

TO PA Z

TA N Z A N I T E

MORGANITE

Courage Clarity Protection

Innocence Purity Loyalty

Love Hope Prophecy

Nobility Love Prosperity

Wealth Abundance Energy

Affection Spirituality Guidance

Wisdom Truth Dignity

Divine Love Compassion Healing

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the trailblazer

ARIES

MARCH 21 - APRIL 19

You like to be first (and that’s putting it lightly). As the youngest sign of the zodiac, you lead the pack as a passionate and unstoppable force. You’re a trendsetter who’s attracted to cutting-edge accessories that aren’t too frilly or overdone, so menswearinspired pieces like a crisp white blazer plus lace-up booties appeal to your strong masculine energy. Ruled by your head, you’ve also never met a pair of modern statement earrings you didn’t instantly love. 1 Wheaton blazer, $440, Alice + Olivia, Net-A-Porter.com; 2 Helena bootie, $995, GianvitoRossi.com; 3 Enchanted hoop earrings, $198, LeleSadoughi.com

Learn what the cosmos have to say about your bridal fashion horoscope. Celebrity astrologers The Astro Twins predict the best wedding accessories based on your zodiac sign.

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the pragmatist

TA U R U S A P R I L 2 0 - M AY 2 0

You have two speeds: grounded and ready to charge. Tauruses are famous for their stubbornness (you’re named after the bull, after all), but there’s more to you than that. While you love a solid plan, you possess an appreciation for beauty and the arts, thanks to your ruling planet of Venus. Above all though, you like to chill. (You’re probably zoning out right now, TBH.) Given your fondness for relaxation, you seek out luxury with a comfy tilt. Rather than suffer in sky-high stilettos, heavy chandelier earrings or a cumbersome collar necklace, you opt for fabulous block heels, stunning studs and a delicate choker. 1 Sapphire choker, $65, Mejuri.com; 2 Nearlynude sandal, $398, StuartWeitzman.com; 3 Tallulah earrings, $248, JenniferBehr.com

the rule breaker

GEMINI

M AY 2 1 - J U N E 2 0

1 Prive diamond and pearl bangle, $1,100, JemmaWynne.com; 2 Sienna jacket, $1,250, KRPDenim .com; 3 Norma ring in silver, 18k yellow gold and diamond pavé, $6,800, SpinelliKilcollin.com

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You’re complicated, but that’s what makes you special. Depicted as a pair of twins, you’re a walking contradiction who frequently is torn between contrasting emotions and ideas. You change direction quickly and you’re always up for challenging the status quo. One of your favorite ways to break the rules? Your fashion choices. You spring for pieces that combine opposites (think: clashing metals and casual staples edged up with unexpected embellishments). Ruled by your hands, your wedding look wouldn’t be complete without an eclectic ring stack plus bangles.

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the caregiver

CANCER

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Your feels are real, Cancer. Guided by the moon, you’re all about nurturing feminine energy and an intuitive, compassionate approach to life. As one of the most sentimental signs, you’re drawn to vintageinspired accessories and jewelry with a distinct heirloom quality (think pearls and precious gems in ornate settings). A lover of tradition and all of the emotion that goes along with it, your sensitive nature also can’t resist working a gorgeous take on Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue into your bridal ensemble.

1 Cameo earrings, shop similar styles at NicolaBathie.com; 2 Japanese Akoya pearl necklace, $519, ThePearlSource.com; 3 Hangisi pumps, $995, Manolo Blahnik, BergdorfGoodman.com

the ruler

LEO

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Yaas, queen. A proud and fierce lion who never shies away from bringing the drama, you’re a born leader. Given your powerful—and slightly intimidating— presence, it’s no surprise that dressing subtlety is not your strong suit; you embrace vibrant colors, luxe, layered textures and graphic patterns. Statement pieces like a regal crown in lieu of a more traditional veil, an oversize right-hand ring or standout animalprint shoes are sure to steal all of the attention on your day—and that’s exactly what you want.

1 Tourmaline Poseidon ring, price upon request, AnabelaChan.com 2 Sofia crown, $1,400, KerenWolf.com; 3 Siren 105 pump, $550, TamaraMellon.com

the perfectionist

VIRGO

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AUGUST 23 - SEPTEMBER 22

Nobody’s perfect—except for you, Virgo. The rule follower of the zodiac, you’re energized by control and organization. You’re all about working toward a flawless existence and physical appearance. It follows, then, that you strive to curate a wardrobe of glamorous-but-restrained pieces. Well-made accessories with flair, clean lines and a subdued color palette give you the polished appearance you crave. 1 Gunmetal and Crystal Waterfall earrings, $200, KennethJayLane.com; 2 The Rodeo clutch, $950, EKRDesigns.com; 3 Sonia sandals, $725, Malone Souliers, MatchesFashion.com

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the romantic

LIBRA

SEPTEMBER 23 - OCTOBER 22

All you need is love, Libra. Ruled by Venus (the planet of beauty, romance and pleasure) you love to be loved, you love to be in love and you love to love others. Represented by a pair of scales, you’re happiest when creating balance or harmony. Neat pairs, whether matchy-matchy earrings or pumps, make your heart flutter. Bonus points if those accessories are literal hearts, or otherwise give a nod to your epic love story. An aesthetic queen who appreciates the finer things in life and seeks to be adored, you aren’t afraid to splurge in order to look your best for your “I dos.” 1 Slim Jean clutch, $1,095, Edie-Parker.com; 2 I Love Vivier pumps, $695, RogerVivier.com; 3 Baguette CZ Heart earrings, $28, Zaxie.com

the rebel

SCORPIO

OCTOBER 23 - NOVEMBER 21

Is it dark in here, or is it just you? Mysterious and magnetic AF, you rebel against social norms. Driven by a combination of scorching passion and desire, you come off as intense and maybe even a little bit dangerous. Simply put, you aren’t afraid of the subversive aspects of life, meaning your style can lean punk or goth. Black is your favorite color, and you take pleasure in the moody statement a deep lip color, boudoir-inspired booties or a leather jacket make. While some brides may want to look timeless or romantic, you’re concerned with just one adjective: badass.

1 Matte Revolution lipstick in Festival Magic, $34, CharlotteTilbury.com; 2 Lorre heels, $1,395, JimmyChoo.com; 3 Custom decal, $20, The Native Bride, Etsy.com

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the adventurer

S A G I T TA R I U S NOVEMBER 22 - DECEMBER 21

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If you had a personal motto, “Not all who wander are lost,” might be it. An adventurer with an uncanny ability to make friends everywhere you go, you equate happiness with a passport full of stamps. Making it official with a destination affair is your ultimate wedding vision. Statement tropical earrings and a coordinating bag channel the laid-back vibe of your nuptials and speak to your love of worldly details. Also essential? No-fuss sandals you can kick off when it’s time to dance—after all, you love nothing more than a wild party. 1 Carmen Miranda with Pearls earrings, $216, MercedesSalazar.com 2 The Bobbi bag, $255, WeArePoolside.com; 3 Lucy Folk Apteros Elements sandals, $455, Ancient-Greek-Sandals.com

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the achiever

CAPRICORN DECEMBER 22 - JANUARY 19

Some may say you’re obsessed with status, but you’re actually a hard worker who likes to show off the trappings of your success. (Can you say, #BossBabe?) Represented by a goat determined to climb to the highest peak, you will not give up until you accomplish the task at hand. Your ruling planet of Saturn means in addition to a professional drive like no other, you also have an appreciation of time and history. Translation: You don’t buy expensive things to seem bougie (though that’s def part of it), you invest in classic pieces that withstand the test of time. 1 Elsa Peretti Diamonds by the Yard earrings in platinum, $2,575, Tiffany & Co., Tiffany.com; 2 Benchley bag, $2,290, MarkCross.com; 3 Rosa heel, $595, ProtaFiori.com

the eccentric

AQUARIUS JANUARY 20 - FEBRUARY 18

If you paid attention to what other people thought, you might notice you’re frequently described as quirky or off-beat. But you live in your own head, Aquarius, and won’t change your beliefs or ideals to please anyone else. Sometimes labeled “The Professor” of the zodiac, you’re intellectual, innovative and unique without trying. Fascinated by the cosmos and anything with a futuristic vibe, you think nothing of mixing up your wedding day ensemble with metallic eyeshadow, an avant garde headpiece or sparkly sneakers. You don’t know how to think inside the box, and your bridal style is a reflection of your unconventional POV. 1 Moondust eyeshadow in Moonspoon, $22, UrbanDecay, Sephora.com; 2 Triple Ballchain wrap headband, $388, LeletNY.com; 3 Vieira sneakers, $2,095, ChristianLouboutin.com

the dreamer

PISCES

FEBRUARY 19 - MARCH 20

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Ruled by Neptune (the planet named after the Roman god of the sea), you’re a mermaid in a zodiac full of fish. The oldest soul of them all, you aren’t afraid to dive deep into the depths of emotion and spirituality (read: you’re everyone’s go-to therapist, tarot reader and crystals expert). As resident mystic, you’re attracted to opalescent jewels and accessories with an iridescent quality that complement your ethereal nature—you can’t help but feel enchanted by dreamy colors that shift and change as if by magic. 1 Rosalind heels, $450, SophiaWebster.com; 2 Isabella Opal earrings, $250, MignonneGavigan.com; 3 Pacey clutch, $65, NinaShoes.com

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wedding skincare Want to get a glowing complexion before your day? Of course you do. Here are the skincare ingredients to look for— and ones to avoid—to amp up your routine.

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ith your wedding date approaching, you may feel the urge to splurge on a serious skincare overhaul. (#selfcare, you know?) But there are so many trendy offerings with long ingredients lists out there, it can be hard to know which ones to add to your cart. To help simplify your prewedding prep, we tapped experts to decode the skincare ingredients to look for (plus the ones to be wary of) so you can feel the most confident and camera-ready on your day.

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It’s important not to get too carried away here. The last thing you want to do is overwhelm and irritate your skin. Most pros recommend going to see a board-certified dermatologist to come up with a routine specifically tailored to your needs. That way, you’re not using products that will cause you to break out, peel or otherwise not look your absolute best. But if you want to get a jump-start on your pre-wedding regimen, read up on these expert-approved skincare ingredients.

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This popular skincare ingredient is a type of charcoal made by burning carbonrich materials like wood. “Activated charcoal is specially processed to create numerous pores on the surface of charcoal particles to absorb impurities,” says Kelly Dobos, cosmetic chemist and former president of the Society of Cosmetic Chemists. If you’re suffering from congested skin (think: blemishes, blackheads or otherwise clogged pores), using a mask with activated charcoal once or twice a week can help clear things up before your “I dos.”

A C T I VAT E D C H A R C O A L

Derived from the seeds of the Psoralea Corylifolia (also known as the babchi plant), Bakuchiol is a gentle, plant-derived retinol alternative (more on retinol later) that softens the appearance of fine lines and improves skin firmness. “It works like retinol but without the irritating side effects of redness, flakiness, peeling or light sensitivity,” Helen Yang, product development coordinator at cocokind says.

BAKUCHIOL

PRO PICK Resurfacing Sleep Mask, $22, Cocokind.com

PRO PICK Dr. Jart+ ceramidin cream, $48, DrJart.com

This edible ingredient is a natural oil from the coconut plant. According to Caren Campbell, MD, a dermatologist, it provides moisture to the skin in addition to having antibacterial properties. “But coconut oil can be occlusive, which means it can clog pores and cause acne,” she says. Those with dry skin will love this superfood, but acne-prone nearlyweds might want to steer clear.

COCONUT OIL

PRO PICK Kopari coconut melt, $28, KopariBeauty.com

CBD is one of the many cannabinoids present in cannabis (the most well known one is THC). However, CBD doesn’t have any psychoactive effects on its own. According to Dobos, there is evidence that CBD oils in skincare may have anti-inflammatory effects in addition to acting like a traditional moisturizing agent. “CBD is a relatively trendy ingredient, but it is now being heavily researched in cosmetic applications to unlock its full potential,” Dobos says.

CBD

PRO PICK Acid Mantle Repair CBD moisturizer, $75, LordJones.com

This chemical exfoliator is an alpha hydroxy acid derived from sugar cane. It’s a smaller molecule than other AHAs, meaning it travels deeper into the skin to improve overall tone and texture. “It weakens the connections between the cells in the top layer of the skin, which helps to exfoliate dead skin cells— giving the skin a refreshed glow,” says Marisa Garshick, MD, a dermatologist.

Hyaluronic acid is a natural sugar molecule in our body. It’s a humectant—meaning it attracts moisture—and can hold up to 1,000 times its weight in water. Not only is it super hydrating, hyaluronic acid also plumps lines, areas on the face with volume loss and helps makeup go on smoother. If you’re hoping for a dewy complexion on your day, Garshick says it’s important to get serious about moisturizing in the weeks prior.

H YA L U R O N I C A C I D

PRO PICK Neutrogena Hydroboost water gel, $17, Target.com

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PRO PICK Freeman charcoal & black sugar facial polishing mask, $4.29, Ulta.com

“Ceramides are a component of the lipid-rich matrix that surrounds skin cells in the epidermis,” Dobos says. They create a barrier to prevent water loss and the penetration of irritants. Unfortunately, ceramides are depleted with age and sun damage. However, if your complexion looks dull, you can apply moisturizer with ceramides in it to give your skin a hydrating boost.

CERAMIDES

G LYC O L I C A C I D

PRO PICK First Aid Beauty radiance pads, $34, FirstAidBeauty.com

Kaolin is a creamy white mineral clay that naturally occurs in the earth. Yang says it absorbs impurities and sebum (also known as oil) as well as brightens the skin. While other types of clay are notoriously drying, kaolin is a gentle option that won’t leave your skin feeling stripped or irritated.

K A O L I N C L AY

PRO PICK Paula’s Choice skin balancing oilabsorbing mask, $22, PaulasChoice.com

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PRO PICK Antipodes Aura Manuka Honey mask, $38, Amazon.com

Vitamin A derivatives of different strengths, retinols are available over-the-counter and retinoids are prescription. “They’re used to treat acne and have antiaging benefits,” Garshick says. “They stimulate cell turnover, which combats fine lines and dark spots.”

RETINOL/RETINOIDS

PRO PICK RoC Retinol Correxion moisturizer, $20, Target.com

This plant-derived lipid is a version of a substance produced by our own sebaceous glands. “It prevents moisture loss and helps keep skin elastic,” says Marisa Plescia, research scientist at NakedPoppy. “It also has antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties, which combat aging.” Another plus? It can balance oily skin and is noncomedogenic (read: it won’t cause acne).

SQUALANE

PRO PICK Indie Lee squalane facial oil, $34, NakedPoppy.com

Also known as L-Ascorbic V I TA M I N C acid, vitamin C is a watersoluble vitamin and antioxidant. “It’s one of the greatest antiagers found in nature,” says Dennis Gross, MD, a dermatologist and founder of Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare. Vitamin C builds collagen and elastin—the keys to younger looking skin. It brightens and firms your complexion, and prevents future dark spots by reducing the enzyme that produces pigment. Bonus: It also protects against UVB and UVA damage. PRO PICK Dr. Dennis Gross C+ Collagen Brighten & Firm Vitamin C serum, $78, DrDennisGross.com

Watercress extract, also known as Nasturtium officinale, is derived from the watercress plant. It contains a variety of vitamins and phytonutrients like beta-carotene that are vital to skin and scalp health. Sarkar says this ingredient is anti-inflammatory, which means it calms irritated, stressed-out skin (like the kind wedding planning can cause). Though research on this up-and-coming ingredient is limited, a Shiseido study found it could stimulate type-3 collagen, creating a plumping effect similar to filler.

W AT E R C R E S S E X T R A C T

PRO PICK Volumizing Cream Supreme, $375, CledePeauBeaute.com

shop smart INGREDIENTS T O AV O I D APPLE CIDER VINEGAR While ACV is believed to fight acne and exfoliate, Garshick says more research is needed to back up these claims. It can cause redness and flaking, so skip it before your day.

DRYING ALCOHOLS Found in acne products, drying alcohols like ethyl alcohol and propanol (plus others) strip the skin of moisture and actually make acne worse, Yang says.

ESSENTIAL OILS These are all the rage, but Garshick says some essential oils can lead to breakouts. Patch test before use to ensure you won’t have a bad reaction.

FRAGRANCE There isn’t much regulation around this term, so you don’t really know what a scent is made of, Yang says. Use caution if you have sensitive skin.

PARABENS These Z INC OXIDE/T ITANIUM DIOXIDE two ingredients are found in sunscreens that are considered to be physical (or mineral) blockers. They work by sitting on top of the skin and physically blocking or filtering UV rays. We know that UV rays from the sun can lead to DNA damage, which can lead to the breakdown of collagen. Wearing physical sunscreen with these ingredients can help prevent sunburns, fine lines and sun spots leading up to your wedding. “In general, sunscreen should be worn regularly, no matter the weather or the season,” Garshick says. She recommends SPF 30 or higher and broad-spectrum coverage, which provides protection from UVA and UVB rays. PRO PICK UV Clear Broad-Spectrum SPF 46 sunscreen, $36, EltaMD, Dermstore.com

These preservatives extend the shelf life of cosmetics and personal care products, but according to Plescia, can also disrupt your hormones, leading to a variety of health issues. JAMIE CHUNG/TRUNK ARCHIVE; ALL PRODUCTS COURTESY OF VENDORS

This special form M A N U K A H O N E Y of honey comes from the manuka bush in New Zealand. According to Papri Sarkar, MD, a dermatologist, honey is a multitasker. “It soothes the skin, draws in moisture and prevents infection,” she says. “Anyone can benefit from it—especially those suffering from a broken skin barrier.”

PHTHAL ATES Found in nail polish, perfume and deodorant, these chemicals have a “plasticizing effect.” However, similar to parabens, they throw off your hormones, causing issues later on in life.

S U L F AT E S / S U R F A C TA N T S Found in shampoo and body wash, these harsh detergents remove dirt and oil. According to Garshick, they can also cause skin inflammation and irritation.

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Done Right

Color—and lots of it—is the focus of this décor vibe. Here’s how to pull off a wedding-worthy celebration that’s multicolor magic.

BY L AU R E N K AY PHOTOGRAPHS BY JESSICA HUNT PHOTOGRAPHY FLORALS BY FLOWER PEACH FLORAL PLANNING BY COLOR POP EVENTS VENUE UNION PARK EVENTS

Florals flank the sweetheart table making it the focus while giving guests a clear view of the newlyweds.

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Help guests find their seats with candy-dispenser place cards.

PA I N T E D P O SY A color-blocked bouquet makes a statement—elegant yet whimsical.

HAPPY HUES Bold invites set the stage for a lighthearted affair. Paper goods, Sugar Taylor Co., SugarTaylor.co

get the look

COLOR CRUSH What’s more jubilant than a riot of color for the ultimate celebration of love?

TA S T E T H E RAINBOW Edible favors are never left behind. Send guests home with sugary treats.

E X P E R T TA K E Leah Weinberg of Color Pop Events in New York City dishes on design.

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YOU DO YOU

WHITE ON WHITE

LESS IS MORE

Classic rainbow colors can skew juvenile, so use a variation of the palette for a wedding-chic look.

It’s totally okay to lean into your sweet tooth and throw an over-the-top, dessert-filled wedding!

Choose a raw, colorless space—this way your vivid palette won’t clash with the existing décor.

Avoid drenching the entire room in color—take a more curated approach so the details really pop.

WEINBERG: JUSTIN MCCALLUM PHOTOGRAPHY

A happy palette is the perfect antidote to 2020—and we are SO here for it! Throw in some other cheery details, like a bevy of kaleidoscope blooms and sweets for days and you’ve got yourself a party for the ages. The key to pulling off a rainbow bash that feels more wedding/less birthday is embracing all. the. white. Accent tables with white linens and ghost chairs to elevate the look. And lean into décor that does double duty, like a vibrant mural for the ceremony backdrop and later, guest photo opps. Hits of intentional color will give you the spirited vibe you crave but with the sophisticated wedding feel you want. How sweet is that?

SWEET ENDINGS Make your cake table #extra by adding bite-size desserts. Cake, Sarah & Simon Cake Design, SSCakeDesign.com; desserts, Leopard & Pear, LeopardandPear.com

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STYLE + PLANNING

all in

white

PHOTO CREDIT

Turn the traditional ‘wedding white’ palette on its head with modern details and pops of rust for a sleek-yet-sophisticated soiree.

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NATIONAL 2 COND BOLD 9 +80

B Y A LY S S A L O N G O B U C C O PHOTOGRAPHY BY MICHELLE SCOTT PHOTOGRAPHY FLORALS AND DESIGN BY BOWMAN & CLARK PLANNING BY THE BRIDAL MASTERCLASS

PHOTO CREDIT

VENUE FACTORY ATLANTA

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DELICATE DESSERT

PHOTO CREDIT

For a truly standout sweet, drape your cake with a bloom of florals. Here, a blush marble fondant exterior pairs perfectly with whispy orchids.

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ON THE EDGE Playing with textures can help make a bouquet anything but basic. For an airy effect, mix a bold hue (like this rust shade) with dried grasses.

SWEET SCRIPT Skip the smart phone and hire a calligrapher to scribe your vows for a sentimental keepsake.

GORGEOUS GATEWAY White-on-white doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to fall flat. Case in point: this bold altar, made from a textural mix of willow branches, anthurium, orchids, wild grass, bleached ruscus and more.

PHOTO CREDIT

Opposite page: Cake, CakeEnvyOnline.com; Linens, IDoLinens.com. Clockwise from top left: Florals, BowmanAndClark.com; Fashion, SarahSeven.com, KellysCloset.net; Jewelry, ThomasLaine.com; Stationery, TigerLilyInvitations.com; Florals, BowmanAndClark.com

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LIGHT AS AIR

Craft a visually stunning tabletop scene by mixing bold floral arrangements with bespoke details, like crystal stemware and frosted tealights.

Make the most of a sweeping loft venue by drawing the eye up using “floating” floral arrangements. Here, a combination of orchids, anthurium, bleached ferns and roses creates a cloud-like effect.

SWEETHEARTS IN STRIDE Request your photographer capture unique angles and crops to reinforce a modern vibe throughout your wedding day album.

PHOTO CREDIT

IN THE CLOUDS

Clockwise from top: Florals, BowmanAndClark.com; Tabletop rentals, ThePrissyPlateCompany.com, PeachTreeTents.com; Linens, IDoLinens.com; Decor, AccentDecor.com; Fashion, Viktor-Rolf.com, SarahSeven.com, KellysCloset.net; Florals, BowmanAndClark.com. At right: Stationery, TigerLilyInvitations.com

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PAPER WHITES A mix of materials is the key to keeping all-white stationery feeling fresh. Here, a vellum overlay and belly band pairs with shades of cream paper and modern script for a streamlined suite.

PHOTO CREDIT

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HEART EYES

Sunglasses, $55, RadandRefined.com

BOLD BLING Necklace, $50, KendraScott.com

KEEP IT

BRIGHT IDEA

Emma bag in Blood Orange, $299, ClareV.com

fresh W I T H

FLAME + BERRY

FLIRTY FROCK

Dress in sizes up to 22, $315, FameandPartners.com

Spice things up with this unexpected duo that’s equal parts sweet and energetic.

ROSÉ ALL DAY

Wife of the Party drink pouch, $6 each, SprinkledwithPinkShop.com

VELVET TOUCH

Wine velvet arm chair, price upon request, WallflowerRentals.com

SQUARED OFF

STRAPPY STEPPER Shoes, $795, Aquazzura.com

LOUD LIPPY

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Pink and Orange Square Applique pillow cover, $78, ThereseMarieDesigns, Etsy.com

Gucci Rouge à Lèvres Lipstick in Agatha Orange, $42, Sephora.com

FAB FLORALS Headband, $325, JenniferBehr.com

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STYLE + PLANNING FRINGE PARTY

Earrings, $47, ShopJessicaBuurman.com

GET

funky W I T H

PEACOCK + PERSIMMON SULTRY SLIT

Dress in sizes up to 30, $160, DavidsBridal.com

This warm-meets-cool pair is a unique combination that’s pure, vibrant fun.

CORAL KISS

Color Splash Lipstick in Sundaze, $21, TarteCosmetics.com

MODERN MAIL

COOL GEOMETRY

Metal Faceted Octavia stool, $70, WorldMarket.com

Color Block wedding invitation, $234 for 100, Minted.com

DAPPER DOTS

PATTERN PLAY

Bow tie, $25, TheTieBar.com

Painted Elza vase, $32, Anthropologie.com

DREAM WEAVER

SLEEK SIPS

LSA International blown glass tumbler, $38 for set of 2, Amara.com

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Clutch, $245, KayuDesign.com

TIED UP

Sandals, $350, LOQ, ModaOperandi.com

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CALMING EFFECT GO

chic

WITH

PINK SAND + SLATE

A&G Relax Himalayan salt bath salts vial, $10, WorldMarket.com

This subdued palette has a distinctly dreamy feel and works for almost any style.

GARDEN VARIETY

Ceramic bloom vase, $28 each, Anthropologie.com

STATEMENT SCENT

AERIN Amber Musk Eau de Parfum, $130, Nordstrom.com

ELEGANT INVITE

Relaxed Script wedding invitation, from $148 for 100, PaperCulture.com

FANCY FEET

GOLD STANDARD

GOA brushed gold and pink flatware, $89 for 5-piece set, CasadePerrin.com

INSTANT CLASSIC Tie, $25, TheTieBar.com

DAINTY DIGITS

Londontown Lakur Enhanced Colour in Cheerio, $16, Ulta.com

LUXE CLUTCH Clutch, $695, Edie-Parker.com

GODDESS VIBES

Dress in sizes up to 3XL, $99, BirdyGrey.com

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Shoes, $950, JimmyChoo.com

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STYLE + PLANNING

décor by destination Bottle the vibe of your favorite global locale with pretty palettes and clever décor picks that will transport you and your guests—no passport necessary. B Y A LY S S A LO N G O B U C C O

the location:

CAPRI THE COLORS

THE LOOK The bright blue seas, dramatic coastlines and vibrant florals of Capri make for a one-of-a-kind beach destination with an Italian vibe all its own.

Whether you’re celebrating on a sand-covered beach or trying to bring la bella vita to your hometown venue, this look is all about bright, summery hues and Italian-inspired accents— think: vintage travel posters, playful lemon décor, lots of fuchsia and, of course, limoncello.

CAPRI: GETTY IMAGES; LOCATION ICON: PIXELZ STUDIO/NOUN PROJECT; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS

MAKE IT YOURS

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1 Fish pocket knife and bottle opener, from $28 for 50, EcoPlum.com 2 Lemon place cards, $150 for 100, PaintcrushPaper, Etsy.com 3 Eastport striped umbrella, $728, SerenaandLily.com 4 Chevron paper straws, $2.50 for 24, OrientalTrading.com 5 Vintage Capri poster, $35, NoveltyMarket, Etsy.com 6 Linea napkin, $140 for 4, KimSeybert.com 7 Capri napkin ring, $104 for 4, KimSeybert.com 8 Ombre sunrise glasses in Pink/Orange, from $36 for 4, MoMA, Food52.com 9 Lemon earrings, $176, Mercedes Salazar, Revolve.com 10 Miniature Luxardo limoncello, $6, TheWhiskyExchange.com 11 Melamine plate set, $18 for 4, Le Cadeaux, GraciousStyle.com 12 Bougainvillea branch, $14, Afloral.com

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the location:

MARRAKECH

THE COLORS

THE LOOK Dusty desert shades pair with metallics, vintage textiles and ceramics for an exotic, adventurous vibe that feels very now.

Marrakech is known for its patterned tiles and textiles, so don’t be afraid to mix and match to get a look that feels like you. Air plants and dried palms will bring that desert feel (even if you’re in the ’burbs), while Middle Eastern accents, like spice rub favors, pay homage to Morocco’s rich culture.

OPPOSITE: MARRAKECH: STOCKSY; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS; BAR HARBOR: ALAMY; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS

MAKE IT YOURS

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1 Whitewashed natural sun palms, $16 for 5, Afloral.com 2 Brass hanging lantern, price to rent upon request, WallflowerRentals.com 3 Teal vintaged pouf, price to rent upon request, WallflowerRentals.com 4 Distressed linen napkin, $120 for 4, Kim Seybert, HudsonandVine.com 5 Gold autumn mosaic tumblers, $33 for 4, Williams-Sonoma.com 6 Distressed clay vase, $68, ShopTerrain.com 7 Flora crown, $307, MignonneHandmade, Etsy.com 8 Arches invitation in Casablanca, $234 for 100, Kelly Schmidt, Minted.com 9 Xerographica air plant, $20, TheSill.com 10 Leather moroccan pouf, $150, Amazon.com 11 Block print napkin, $5, MyArtNTextile, Etsy.com 12 Pink cylinder vases, $50 for 4, ShopTerrain.com 13 Moroccan ras el hanout spice blend, $9, CalicuttsSpiceCo, Etsy.com

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the location:

BAR HARBOR

THE COLORS

OPPOSITE: MARRAKECH: STOCKSY; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS; BAR HARBOR: ALAMY; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS

THE LOOK Reel in that quintessential New England feel with Americana accents and a red, white and blue color combo that packs on the nautical vibe.

MAKE IT YOURS This look is as classic as it comes, so don’t be afraid to get a bit quirky to ensure it feels playful and celebratory. Lobster motifs bring the fun, while nautical touches (anchor cuff links, anyone?) bottle a seaside atmosphere.

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1 Natural rope pendant lamp, $230, WorldMarket.com 2 The Maine Event save the date, $109 for 100, Oscar & Emma, Minted.com 3 Anchor’s Away silver cuff links, $20, TheTieBar.com 4 Brass seashell ring holder, $28, BHLDN.com 5 Reclaimed bar, $300 per day to rent, RentPatina.com 6 Carice ceramic striped table vase, $49, Highland Dunes, Wayfair.com 7 American flag plates, $36 for 4, Williams-Sonoma.com 8 Brasserie blue-banded porcelain plates, $65 for 4, Williams-Sonoma.com 9 Lobster cracker, from $3 each, WebstaurantStore.com 10 Maine scented candle, $18, ChiCandle, Etsy.com 11 Decorative hanging buoy, from $30 each, TheBuoyGuy.com 12 Palm leaf rounded clutch, $59, MarkandGraham.com 13 Lobster needlepoint belt, $175, SmathersandBranson.com

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When it comes to a Peruvian-inspired celebration, go bold. This South American country is lively, so it’ll be easy to capture that same ethos for your bash. Focus on rainbow-hued details, unique accents and playful surprises, like llama piñatas at each seat.

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CAN WE REGISTER EVEN IF WE DON’T HAVE A WEDDING DATE DUE TO COVID? Absolutely! You can and you should. For starters, your engagement alone is worth celebrating, especially during these unprecedented times. And you’ve probably been spending more time at home than ever before and have a good handle on what you need or want to upgrade. Maybe you’ve been exploring new hobbies in quarantine (hello, chef!) and new cookware and a fancy espresso maker are top of mind. Wish list your picks—it’s one of the most fun parts of wedding planning!

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I S I T TA CKY F O R U S TO A SK F O R B IG GI FTS O R CA SH R IG HT N OW? There may be a global pandemic raging on, but love is not canceled. A wedding is a milestone in your lives and the people who love you will want to celebrate you! Ask for what you really want or need, even if it carries a bigger price tag (group gifting is a thing). If you’d rather not ask for a $1K outdoor grill upfront, ask for cash instead. You can do it in a couple of clicks on The Knot Registry and put the money toward anything from an epic future honeymoon to pet adoption or home improvements. And remember, when you’re compiling your wish list, include gifts in a range of price points. Then keep it updated. If you find the affordable picks are quickly being snatched up, add more.

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S H O U LD W E R E T U RN G I F T S T H AT W E R E S E N T B E F O RE W E PO S T PO N E D OUR WEDDING? If you’ve already received gifts from your registry it’s okay to keep them. Regardless of when your wedding will actually take place, your friends and family are likely eager to celebrate you and gifts are part of that. Be sure to send a note of thanks and then unbox your goods and put them to use! The same goes for any money contributed to a cash fund.

W H AT D O Y O U D O I F Y O U R G U E S T S AR E N ’ T S E N D I N G G I F T S ? This can be a tricky subject to navigate—but it’s doable! For starters, direct guests to your wedding website

I to announce shifts in wedding plans. In addition to including your registry on your site, add some language around where to send gifts (especially if you’re moving or quarantining away from your usual home base). This may be the gentle reminder your guests need—this is new for them, too! While it’s not polite to blatantly solicit gifts, your wedding party and close family (aka your wedding ambassadors) can help. They may be able to get the dialogue started with “Hey, they’re feeling down right now, let’s lift their spirits and send them something—want to go in on a gift together?” or at the very least let people know what’s going on. Keep in mind, some guests may have fallen on hard times and that could be the reason for the delay. If this is the case, exercise empathy. Also, be sure your registry features gifts at a variety of price points so you’re not imposing financial stress on those who may still want to send a gift.

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H O W D O Y O U C O M B AT O FF- REGI ST RY GIFT GIVING? It’s not recommended that you request guests only purchase gifts off your registry—but it is implied. If you find people going rogue, enlist your trusty wedding ambassadors to spread the word. Circle back to the idea of group gifting to ensure you’re getting what you really want.

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GIVE FOR RIGHT NOW Opt for a gift the couple can put to use right away—even if they’re socially distancing for the foreseeable future. Want more at-home favorites? Scan this QR code with your phone’s camera or head to TheKnot.com/ registry

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Engage in friendly competition—a classic board game is a coffee table staple for quarantine and beyond. Buddy chess set, $130, Umbra, TheKnot.com/ registry

Add some spark to your weeknight dinner. A built-in temperature gauge ensures dinner will be cooked to perfection. Smoker & Grill, $190, Cuisinart, TheKnot.com/ registry

Master the classics or discover a new signature sip with this seven-piece, dishwasher safe bar set. Mixologist set, $32, Libbey, TheKnot.com/ registry

Taking your coffee at home these days? This smart machine adds just a hint of luxury into your morning routine. Espresso maker, $220, Cuisinart, TheKnot.com/ registry

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I F TH E COU P L E HA S P O STP ON E D TH EI R W EDDING , WHEN DO I G IVE TH EM A GI FT ? Even if the to-be-weds have changed their plans, give them a gift on their original wedding date. This way they can celebrate as intended—they likely chose that day for a special reason. Plus, they could probably use a little gifting cheer after all the setbacks and shifts in their plans.

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I F TH E COU P L E IS HA VIN G M U L TIP L E W EDDI N G S, DO I N E E D TO G IVE MULTI PLE GIF TS? There is no obligation to give multiple gifts even if the couple is having a few celebrations due to COVID. One gift is sufficient, but if you want to extend your generosity, you certainly can. Maybe you purchase something off their registry to commemorate their original date, like a set of wine glasses, and then send them a bottle of your favorite pinot for their sequel celebration.

DO YOU STIL L G IVE A G IF T IF A C OUPLE DE CIDE S TO E L O P E O R HA VE A V I RTUAL CER E M ON Y ? Yes. Even during COVID times, a wedding is a wedding. If a couple has shifted their plans to a virtual celebration, attend and experience it as if you were toasting in person. Choose something off the couple’s registry and send it on the original wedding date or around the date of the virtual wedding.

I F T H E C O U PLE W AS H AV I N G A D E S T I N AT I O N W E D D I N G AN D N O W I S G O I N G V I RT U AL, S H O U LD I G I F T M O R E S I N C E I ’ M N O T S PE N D I N G O N T R AV E L? You should always spend what feels right to you and is representative of the relationship you have with the couple— regardless of the ceremony locale. If you’re attending the wedding of a coworker or a distant relative, consider gifting in the $75-100 price range. For the wedding of a close relative or friend, we recommend a gift ranging between $100200 or more, especially if the wedding is

for someone you’re really close to, like a best friend or immediate family member.

W H AT I F T H E C O U PLE HASN ’ T C HO SEN A N E W D AT E — T H E N W H AT ? If the to-be-weds are still sorting out a plan B, send a gift near their original wedding date. They could likely use some cheering up with all the unknowns and disappointment. Look for items on the couple’s registry that they could use right away, while socially distancing. They’re sure to feel the love and be grateful for the kindness.

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You’ll want an excuse to tidy up—this powerhouse adapts to floor surfaces and transforms into a handheld for decrumbing your couch. V11 Bagless stick vacuum, $700, Dyson, TheKnot.com/ registry

Warm up with a plush throw blanket that’s big enough to share and pairs perfectly with bingeworthy TV. Henley blanket, $103, Pom Pom at Home, TheKnot.com/registry

Keep in touch with loved ones or try a new recipe on the Echo Show. It has an HD screen, surround sound, and thousands of built in skills. Echo Show, $103, Amazon.com

Budding oenophile? Display your growing collection in this sleek, temperaturecontrolled cooler. 32 Bottle Wine Cooler, $440, Cuisinart, TheKnot.com/registry

Binge watch your favorite Netflix series or display art on this part TV, part masterpiece QLED screen. The Frame QLED HDR Smart TV, from $600, BestBuy.com

From backyard to neighborhood bike ride, take your music on the go with this wi-fi, enabled, Alexa voice control, portable Bluetooth speaker. Portable Speaker, $350, Bose, BestBuy.com

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Missy + Peter

2.29 | LOS ANGELES

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PINK POWER Peter chose a hot pink suit because he, “felt most myself wearing something so colorful.”

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BREAKING THE GLASS One of the Jewish traditions Missy and Peter incorporated in the wedding was the glass breaking. They also creatively memorialized the moment: “The glasses that we broke were made into an art piece that we now have hanging in our living room,” Peter says. THE BEST BOPS Although the couple chose not to include dancing in their reception, the night’s playlist was loaded with, “a mix of ‘80s and ‘90s classics, current pop songs and emo music. We ended the night blasting our favorite emo songs.” SIGNATURE SIPS A trio of cocktails (a Dark ‘n’ Stormy, an Eastsider and a balsamic/strawberry shrub) were on offer at the bar. STRONG SHADES Vibrant invites introduced the couple’s palette which intentionally, “strayed a bit from traditional wedding colors.”

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issy (25 and a restaurant general manager) and Peter (28 and a mechanical design engineer) exchanged vows on a day few couples have access to—Leap Day. Not only is their anniversary date a rarity, the couple’s neoncentric wedding was just as unique. With a vision for a “colorful, modern and clean,” aesthetic, they worked hand-in-hand to create the day as, “doing this stuff together made us feel more connected during the planning process.” Following a ceremony where Missy vowed to “always share my french fries,” and Peter promised to “always agree to watch one more episode,” the couple recessed under a shower of bubbles. An impromptu receiving line let the duo connect to guests before celebrating with an open-seating reception filled with lawn games and s’mores. — HAN NAH N OWAC K

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WEDDING STYLE Eclectic and Funky with modern, minimal décor. The setting could be a Warehouse, Urban Rooftop or light-filled Atrium. COLOR PALETTE Cornucopia of Color Prismatic shades of teal, pink, shamrock, lemon and tangerine with touches of copper.

5 MUST-HAVES COO R D I NATI N G ACC ES SO R I ES Peter’s starry

pocket square and necktie were sewn out of extra fabric from Missy’s wedding dress. P OWE R FU L PARTN E RS H I P “We did a lot of stuff together that is traditionally separate. Missy picked her own ring, we got ready together, we wrote our vows together and walked down the aisle together.” B L AN K S L ATE The warehouse venue’s blank canvas paved the way for their eclectic décor.

1 Alexander McQueen fitted button blazer in sizes up to 54, $1,020, $1,020 Farfetch.com 2 Richland amber honeycomb glass votive, $59.99 for set of 48, QuickCandles.com 3 Rainbow balloon arch kit, $26, MeriMeri.com 4 Boman $26 sofa in Sea Foam, $336, AllModern.com 5 GALA 1002 gown in sizes up to 48, $5,100, GaliaLahav.com 6 Nail polish in Olivera, $10, Zoya.com

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE The Unique Space, Los Angeles PH OTOG R APHY Mary Costa Photography/@marycostaphoto VI D EOG R APHY Shark Pig Weddings E VE NT PL AN N I N G Events by Emily Kay FLO R AL D ES I G N Shindig Chic O FFI CIANT David Aspinall (Peter’s brother) GOWN + VE I L Galia Lahav S H O ES Missy: Vans; Peter: Kenneth Cole S U IT Suit Street ACC ES SO R I ES Tie & pocket square: Galia Lahav E N G AG E M E NT + WE D D I N G R I N G S Erie Basin, Brooklyn, NY HAI R Katie Alm and Brooke Hernandez/The Storm Salon MAK EU P Karissa Lorinne/Elwynn + Cass I NVITATI O N S Invitation Maven R E NTAL S La Piñata Party Rentals CATE R I N G Chef Cordelia D ES S E RT S’moreology C E R E M O NY + R ECE PTI O N M U S I C Second Song E NTE RTAI N M E NT Live art: Chasing Linen

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As part of the evening’s festivities, artists were on-site to sketch guests throughout the reception. “I really wanted to have some fun and interactive activities for our guests to do aside from dancing,” Missy says of the unique entertainment offering. The custom portraits, “also doubled as our favors which worked out great!”

After the wedding we had friends and family posting their portraits on social media and a few even got them framed—it was so nice to see how much people liked and used their portraits. -Missy

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Mari + Jan

11.30 | TULUM, MEXICO

DIS CO OASIS P H O T O G R A P H S B Y E M I LY W R E N P H O T O G R A P H Y E V E N T P L A N N I N G B Y T R O P I C O F F LO W E R S

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NATURAL DÉCOR MIrrored pedestals were chosen for the ceremony to highlight Tulum’s inherent beauty.

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Mari designed all the stationery with illustrated motifs that recurred throughout.

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BEACHY ATTIRE While Jan wore a bright blue suit for the wedding, Mari, “felt strongly that I wanted a pink dress and it was surprisingly hard to find a non-white dress!” In the end, she donned a light pink number and added, “a blush ostrich shrug later in the night.” BOTANICALS The day’s floral designs included delphinium, ranunculus, tulips, Juliet garden roses and lisianthus. The arrangements also, “incorporated painted birds of paradise and dyed roses in Jan’s favorite color, bright blue.” FOR THE GUESTS Fans and handkerchiefs were available for attendees to grab before the ceremony. LITTLE ONES Although the couple decided to skip having a wedding party because, “everyone who attended was a very close friend or family member,” they did include four youngsters in the ceremony.

ince they’re both designers, Marisa (Mari) Suárez-Orozco (35 and a floral, stationery and event designer) and Janette (Jan) Banner (41 and a carpenter and furniture designer) wanted to blend their two aesthetics when planning their wedding. It was, “a little tricky and took some reworking several times, but ended up being worth it!” Mari shares. While Mari loves, “lush, opulent florals,” Jan’s vibe is bold and modern. The melded result was, “a modern gay disco oasis nestled in the heart of the jungle.” Not only did the wedding’s visuals represent a beautiful coming together, the cultures of the day did as well. For the ceremony, Mari’s parents read the lyrics to “Gracias a la Vida” by Chilean folk singer Violeta Parra. As her father is Argentinian, he read in Spanish while her mother translated to English. - H N

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BLACK AND WHITE Wedding guests were asked to wear black and white, with patterns encouraged. “We thought it would keep the aesthetic cohesive and also that our blue and pink outfits would pop against them,” says Mari. MONOCHROME CAKE Iced in black and topped with gold animal figurines, the couple’s cake included a cookiesand-cream tier plus a second flavored with coconut and lemon curd. The dessert menu also included churros, mini cheesecakes, alfajores and chocolate-covered strawberries. RECEPTION DÉCOR “We found these cool black marble tables and Jan had the idea to do monochrome black for dishware, flatware and napkins so the blue menus and florals would pop. We wanted the flowers to shine and I think it was really effective,” Mari says.

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7 WEDDING STYLE Reimagined Tropical with Contemporary graphics. A white sand Beach, Resort or minimal Museum make perfect venues. COLOR PALETTE Bold at the Beach Black, white, ultramarine blue and pink, with accents of peach and mauve.

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5 1 Coupe salad plate in Moonstone, $30, HeathCeramics.com 2 Pink wood panel hand fan, $2.02 $2.02, PaperLanternStore.com 3 Georgie navy suit in sizes up to 24, $575 KirrinFinch.com 4 Danner studs, $575, $128 JenniferBehr.com 5 Luna flatware $128, in Brushed Black, $89 for 5-piece set, Food52.com 6 Gold giraffe cake topper, $28 for set of 2, Etsy.com 7 A-line wedding dress style 9552 in sizes up to $1,800 AllureBridals.com 30, $1,800,

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Argentina and Switzerland, it was important that the note in guest welcome bags be written in both English and Spanish. U N I Q U E R I N G S Mari and Jan’s wedding rings include black diamonds and moonstone. R EG I O NAL M E N U Traditional Yucatan cuisine informed the reception offerings, which included hogfish ceviche, grilled arrachera and cochinita de pibil.

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C E R E M O NY S ITE Mía Tulum, Tulum, Mexico R ECE PTI O N S ITE Hotel Tiki Tiki, Tulum, Mexico PH OTOG R APHY Emily Wren Photography E VE NT PL AN N I N G + D ES I G N Tropic of Flowers DAY- O F COO R D I NATO R Luisa Cartagena FLO RI S T María Limón O FFI CIANT Amanda-Faye Jimenez, friend and performer GOWN BHLDN S U IT Indochino ACC ES SO R I ES Shrug: BHLDN; earrings: Jennifer Behr; watch: Larsson & Jennings S H O ES Mari: Birdies; Jan: Gucci E N G AG E M E NT R I N G Anna Sheffield WE DD I N G RI N GS Mari: Anna Sheffield; Jan: Legier HAI R + MAK EU P Prep Tulum S TATI O N E RY Tropic of Flowers R E NTAL S Archive Rentals; Canteiro Weddings CATE R I N G Único CAK E Shoebox Bakery Shop CAK E TO PPE R Amazon.com M U S I C Ceremony DJ: Bogar Michel; processional music: Jennifer Vanilla & Jeff Brodsky FAVO RS MW Tarotscopes TR AN S P O RTATI O N Hotel Tiki Tiki HAS HTAG #badgirlsclubporvida

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Although Mari has been, “designing paper suites for years, this was BY FAR the hardest suite I ever designed!” Passionflower is her favorite bloom, so she illustrated one to thread throughout the stationery and day-of details. Together with an astrologer friend, Mari even incorporated the essence of passionflower and moonstone, a nod to the couple’s rings, into a tincture for the welcome bags.

Passionflower is probably my favorite flower. Passionflower instills a sense of calm as a spiritual conduit. Together with moonstone, it promotes strength, tranquility and harmony. -Mari

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Malika + Antar . 3 23 | SAN DIEGO

PRETTY IN PINK PHOTOGRAPHS BY ERICA BENSON, SOCAL STANDARD EVENT PLANNING BY LAUREL STREET EVENTS

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SUITED UP Antar’s outfit blended, “elements of both a tuxedo and a traditional South Asian sherwani,” which he dubbed a “tuxwani.”

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BURST OF BLOOMS In addition to bougainvillea, Malika’s bouquet incorporated astilbe, astrantia, peonies, lisianthus, ranunculus, garden roses, rice flower and spirea. FAITH FOCUSED Incorporating their shared Islamic faith was key for the couple. One way they honored their religion was by laying, “out carpets for those who wanted to pray the Muslim sunset prayer.” LIVESTREAM Inspired by the social media aspects of her job, Malika created a wall at the party displaying a live feed of guest tweets using the wedding hashtag. UP IN LIGHTS “We’re both in the production industry so we know the importance of great lighting,” Malika says. To illuminate the warehouse, they, “went all out with lanterns for a soft glow,” plus oversized LOVE marquee letters.

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ncorporating as much bougainvillea as possible was the goal for Malika (a journalist) and Antar (a photographer) with their “pops of pink”-themed wedding. “All the glorious colors,” of bougainvillea blooms inspired the warm, vibrant color palette, which the couple accented with modern white and gold touches in their warehouse space. Not only did Malika and Antar want the décor to look bright and cheerful, they wanted the celebration to feel that way, too. “Most important to us was ensuring that our guests walked away having thoroughly enjoyed themselves. “We didn’t want it to feel stuffy,” so the couple designed a, “classy party atmosphere with a spiritual undertone that highlighted why we were gathered. It wasn’t just a merging of two people, it was a merging of families and friends from across world.” — H N

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WEDDING VISION

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M A L I K A + A N TA R

WEDDING STYLE A modern juxtaposition of Glam and Industrial. Welcome guests to a Warehouse, Loft or even Speakeasy-Inspired Cellar.

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COLOR PALETTE Vibrant Pops of Pink Varied rosy hues, from fuchsia to blush, with white and gold. Plus brick and wood textures.

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menu was crucial. “The pièce de résistance was the taco truck,” that arrived after everyone enjoyed dessert. SWE ET FAVO RS Satchels of spiced tea leaves

from Antar’s friend’s shop were paired with jars of honey for guests to take home. PR ACTI CAL G I F T S Airline gift cards were the

couple’s favorite registry item, making their long-distance relationship more manageable.

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE Sandbox, San Diego PH OTOG R APHY Erica Benson, SoCal Standard E VE NT PL AN N I N G Laurel Street Events FLO R AL D ES I G N Joy of Bloom O FFI CIANT Ustadh Ubaydullah Evans, Muslim scholar and family friend GOWN David’s Bridal; alterations: Cheryl Lofton, Washington, DC H E ADPI ECE Culture Hijab S U IT SHAYQ Bespoke, Los Angeles; shawl: Africa by the Yard ACC ES SO R I ES David’s Bridal; Claire’s S H O ES Malika: David’s Bridal; Aldo; Antar: Aldo E N G AG E M E NT + WE D D I N G R I N G S James Allen MAK EU P Brittany Ingram WE D D I N G PART Y AT TI R E Etsy.com; ASOS; Nordstrom Rack; Kabayare.com S TATI O N E RY Invitations: Zola.com; programs & menus: Epoch Design; escort cards: InkandNik; guest book: Etsy.com R E NTAL S

Marquee letters: Big AZ Letters; lights: SociaLights; chairs: APR Boutique; linens & tableware: Patty’s Linen Rentals; tables: Wonder Event Rentals CATE R I N G Harvest Kitchen M U S I C DJ Double UP PH OTO BOOTH OC Shutterlite FAVO RS Honey: Madenh Ali; tea: Jeddah’s Tea TR AN S P O RTATI O N KLT HAS HTAG #MalikaEverAntar

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“I really wanted a meaningful, but not typical, wedding experience in as many ways as we could find,” recalls Malika. As an alternative to a traditional guest book, Malika and Antar purchased an art deco puzzle that had their names in the middle. They, “asked guests to sign their names and write a message on the puzzle pieces, and accompanied it with a sign telling them to do just that.”

When we thought about whether we wanted a guest book, we decided to go with something we could later frame and display in our future home instead of an actual book that we’d rarely look at. -Malika

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Ron + Gavin

2.29 | SCRANTON, PA

N I G H T AT T H E M U S E U M PHOTOGRAPHS BY DANIELLE COONS PHOTOGRAPHY EVENT PLANNING BY WILLOW PLANNING

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ARTFUL ARCH

The curvilinear design introduced in the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s invitation suite was threaded throughout the day.

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STAIRWELL WELCOME The couple’s modern signage and stationery “was beyond our wildest dreams.”

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SELF-PENNED VOWS During their ceremony against the Everhart Museum’s façade, the couple exchanged vows they wrote themselves. In his, Gavin (left) shared, “When I was a kid, I believed in miracles and magic…You are my miracle. You are my magic. You are my husband.” OFFICIAL OFFICIANT The mayor of Scranton presided over the couple’s wedding ceremony, sharing some, “beautiful words,” before Gavin’s sisters delivered readings for the occasion. SUITED UP For the ceremony, Gavin wore a metallic pewter suit jacket while Ron donned a similar design in floral. Later, the men swapped metallic for velvet, changing into different jackets for dinner. POCKET SQUARES Instead of traditional boutonnieres, the couple sported creative floral pocket squares.

avin Esham (44 and works in acting and management) and Ron Pritchyk (46 and works in sales) opted for an unconventional planning style when preparing for their big day. After winning a wedding contest orchestrated by a local art museum, the duo left the planning up to the pros. “We chose to enter a contest in order to have all of the questions answered for us,” the couple says. “We left our wedding up to fate.” To complement the art museum’s existing exhibits, the duo’s team of vendors designed a swanky, mid-century modern-inspired wedding that played with geometric shapes and bold hues. While much of the day felt modern, thanks to Lucite signage and velvet linens, an assortment of pampas grass, roses, orchids and greenery added a relaxed, boho flair to the space. — H N

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COHESION It was important for the décor to blend with the museum’s displays, not detract from the existing art. To achieve this, a burnt orange, soft pink and metallic palette was selected. SCULPTURAL SWEET Fitting given the art-centric venue, Gavin and Ron’s pale green two-tier wedding cake was embellished with a dramatic cascade of florals, which included dried ruscus and orchids. DINNER ASSORTMENT Ten local businesses contributed to the evening’s family-style catering needs. Guests dined on the curated menu with tarnished brass flatware, rose pink chargers, vintage goblets and velvet linen napkins. IN THE ROUND Circular die-cut menu cards further enhanced the arch theme seen in much of the day’s stationery. Calligraphed Lucite place cards were layered atop.

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G AV I N + R O N

WEDDING STYLE A Modern twist on Mid-Century Design. The setting could be an Art Museum, Storied Estate or Regal Ballroom.

G ET THE LO O K

COLOR PALETTE Warm, Ember-Centric Hues Shades of orange, peach and cantaloupe with notes of black. Paired with velvet and copper.

5 6 7 MUST-HAVES I NTI MATE C E LE B R ATI O N Gavin and Ron’s guest list included just 33 of their closest friends and family members. PE RSO NALIZE D PROC ES S I O NAL For the wedding

ceremony, Gavin and Ron entered behind their wedding party members, each escorted by his best man. M E LO D I C FI RS T DAN C E The grooms shared a dance to “The Luckiest” by Ben Folds during their reception.

1 Beard tonic, $20, HerbivoreBotanicals.com 2 Modern romantic wedding invitations, $199 for 100, TheKnot.com 3 Tropical velvet tuxedo in sizes up to 58, $575, TheBlackTux.com 4 Pampas grass, $35, UrbanStems.com 5 Copper Talix chair, $199, Macys.com 6 Velvet slip-on shoes in sizes up to 16, $125, TheBlackTux.com 7 Circe glass goblet in Blush Pink, $16, Wayfair.com

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE Everhart Museum, Scranton, PA PH OTOG R APHY Danielle Coons Photography; Emily C. Taylor Photography (assistant) VI D EOG R APHY Fonash Studios E VE NT PL AN N I N G Willow Planning FLO R AL D ES I G N Mattern’s Floral TUXE DO S Tuxedo by Sarno WE D D I N G PART Y AT TI R E Various HAI R + MAK EU P Lavish Body & Home S TATI O N E RY Calligraphy: Stone Fawx Studios; graphics: Danielle Coons Photography; printing: Center City Print R E NTAL S Chippy White Table; Maggpie Rentals; 570 Events CATE R I N G AV Restaurant & Lounge; Bar Pazzo; Jack’s Draft House; Mansour’s Market Cafe; Peculiar Slurp; Purple Pepper Deli; Maiolatesi Wine Cellars; Wallenpaupack Brewing Co.; Electric City Roasting Co. CAK E Electric City Bakehouse O FFI CIANT Mayor Paige Cognetti M U S I C Mariah Hawley E NTE RTAI N M E NT Bonnie Flaherty FAVO RS Valerie Kiser Design HAS HTAG #everhartinlove

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As a reference to the 1989 comedy-drama film Steel Magnolias, the grooms served a red velvet armadillo cake coated in gold and sliced with a sharp blade. Though the animal-inspired dessert’s gray icing is a point of contention in the flick, Gavin and Ron chose a metallic finish in keeping with their color palette.

Our catering was a collection from 10 of the area’s top restaurants. For desserts we had lemon lavender cake, a doughnut wall and even an amazing replica of the Steel Magnolias red velvet armadillo cake. -Gavin

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Hebron + Nebyou

1 2 . 3 0 | W I M B E R L E Y, T X

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STYLE ONE Hebron wore a strapless trumpet dress before slipping on another look for the reception.

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GILDED TYPE Romantic gold calligraphy was a key part of the couple’s stationery, from their Lucite escort card display to navy place cards bearing the stunning script. FRESH FLORALS White California poppies, clematis, toffee roses, dianthus, lisianthus and white spirea were used throughout the floral designs. CROWD FAVORITES Following cocktail hour, a barbecue dinner with mac and cheese that, “our guests to this day continue to praise,” and a simple lemon cake with vanilla buttercream rounded out the day’s menu. SABER ARCH At the conclusion of their outdoor ceremony, the couple exited through a traditional saber salute. ROMANTIC DÉCOR Silk table runners, velvet accent chairs and elegant taper candles exuded pure sophistication at the seated reception.

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hough Hebron Kelecha (25 and a medical student) and Nebyou Abera (27 and a US Army Infantry Captain) met as children (“It would be an understatement to say I had a crush on Hebron when we were teens,” Nebyou says), it wasn’t until a chance social media message many years later that the two connected on a romantic level. “We found time through our compounded schedules to see each other,” Nebyou recalls, traveling between Massachusetts, New York and Kansas while dating. With travel such a mainstay in their lives, a destination wedding was perfect. “The December weather in Texas was everything we could have asked for.” The weather even inspired the “Warm December” theme, chosen, “because it describes exactly how we felt internally and externally that day.” — H N

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H E B R O N + N E BYO U

WEDDING STYLE Romantic with European Garden vibes. Exchange vows at a Vineyard or among the manicured gardens of a Historic Château.

COLOR PALETTE Regalia-Inspired Tones Marigold, evergreen and navy were selected as they, “went well with the Army uniforms.”

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O FFI CIAL D R ES S Nebyou’s West Point class ring and his military saber, which he used to cut the cake, added to his regimental garb. H I P - H O P ANTH E M S Dancing to “Soldier” by Destiny’s Child was a highlight. “Everyone was singing to me,” Nebyou recalls. Beyoncé, Drake and Rihanna bops were also on deck. FAUX E XIT To ensure their sparkler getaway was captured on camera, Hebron and Nebyou staged the moment earlier in the evening.

1 Wax seals in Antique Gold, $25 for set of 25, Artisaire.com 2 Dried eucalyptus, $18.99, Amazon.com 3 Odessa earrings, $48, OliveandPiper.com 4 Kenna wedding dress in sizes up to 28, $887, Morilee .com 5 Velvet Elowen chair in Charcoal, $398, Anthropologie.com 6 Classic ball gown in Champagne Gold in sizes up to 24, $295, TwobirdsNewYork.com 7 Classic landscape wedding invitations, $199 for set of 100, TheKnot.com

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE The Ivory Oak, Wimberley, TX PH OTOG R APHY Angela Lally Photography VI D EOG R APHY ML Photo & Film DAY- O F COO R D I NATO R Elaine and Lee E VE NT D ES I G N 36th Street Events FLO R AL D ES I G N Native Bloom GOWN Ceremony: True Society by Belle Vogue Bridal; reception: Nadine Merabi S U IT Army Service Uniform WE D D I N G PART Y AT TI R E Bridesmaids: Azazie.com; groomsmen: Army Service Uniforms HAI R Molly Makeup & Hair; extensions: Nessa’s Beauty Salon MAK EU P Hebron: Mae Monroe; bridesmaids: Molly Makeup & Hair VE I L Blanca Veils E N G AG E M E NT + WE D D I N G R I N G S Meierotto Jewelers, North Kansas City, MO ACC ES SO R I ES Hebron: Badgley Mischka; Camille La Vie; Nebyou: West Point Class Ring S TATI O N E RY + CALLI G R APHY Jen Krause Paper Co R E NTAL S Marquee Rentals; Bee Lavish Event Rentals; Intelligent Lighting Design CATE R I N G Crave; Royal Fig CAK E Michelle’s Patisserie D ES S E RT S The Cupcake Bar; Riser Coffee O FFI CIANT Stephonn Alcorn, a close friend M U S I C Ceremony: Terra Vista Strings; reception: Mr. Austin DJ PH OTO BOOTH My Event is The Bomb TR AN S P O RTATI O N Lux Limo

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Hebron and Nebyou’s wedding was actually gifted to them, in honor of Nebyou’s military service. The couple’s venue, in partnership with the rest of their vendors, put together a giveaway for military couples and the two, “sent in our favorite (goofy) photo of us and a 500-word statement on why we should be chosen,” they say of entering the voting-based contest.

We realized how big our support system truly was when we were told we won! Nebyou was stationed at Fort Bliss in El Paso and getting to have our dream wedding in Texas was wonderful. -Hebron

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HONEYMOONS BY SEASON

ESCAPE THE CROWDS THIS WINTER AND ENJOY EMPTY TRAILS AND BEACHES, QUIET TOWNS AND INTIMATE, ROMANTIC INNS WITH COZY FIREPLACES—ALL IN YOUR OWN BACKYARD. CLOCKWISE FROM LEFT: GETTY IMAGES; COURTESY OF THE STEPHANIE INN (2); COURTESY OF TWIN FARMS (2). ICONS FROM LEFT: ACHMAD/NOUN PROJECT; LAKSHISHA/NOUN PROJECT; ADRIEN COQUET/NOUN PROJECT; LIGHTUPDESIGN/NOUN PROJECT; LNHI/NOUN PROJECT

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WHERE TO STAY Sorrel River Ranch & Spa offers 240 acres of seclusion and unbeatable red rock mesa views. Each of the 55 cabin suites has a soaking tub and kitchenette. Request one with a riverfront patio so you can stargaze at night. From $541, SorrelRiver.com

WHY GO NOW Moab is home to not one, but two national parks: Arches and Canyonlands. Tourists flock to the wondrous red rock and sandstone landscapes in summer and fall. In winter, you have the trails all to yourselves.

DISH TO TRY Make a reservation for a four-course meal in the garden. The house-smoked pork belly with braised apple and cabbage is always a hit. ROMANTIC MOMENT Book a UTV experience to Onion Creek where your guide will prepare a picnic lunch. The day ends with a couple’s massage at the spa. ADVENTURE TO HAVE Moab is considered the Jeeping capital of the world. The hotel can arrange a guided Jeep tour through the petrified sand dunes of famous route, Hell’s Revenge. Daredevils can choose to drive their own Jeep and follow the guide over extreme terrain. $650 for 3.5-5 hours

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CANNON BEACH, OREGON It’s crab season! Reason alone to visit the Pacific Northwest.

90 minutes from Portland 3 hours and 40 minutes from Seattle

WHERE TO STAY Stephanie Inn has panoramic views of the Pacific Ocean and iconic Haystack Rock, a 235-foot-tall monolith on the beach. All 41 rooms feature cozy gas fireplaces, binoculars for whale spotting and lanterns for night walks on the beach. From $299, StephanieInn.com

ROMANTIC MOMENT Request a beach bonfire, complete with a fire butler, local wine or beer and s’mores for two. $79 ADVENTURE TO HAVE Drive 15 minutes down the coast to Oswald West State Park. The five-mile Cape Falcon trail winds through old-growth forest and affords views of Smuggler’s Cove.

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BARNARD, VERMONT 2.5 hours from Boston 4 hours and 45 minutes from New York City

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WHY GO NOW Beaches and trails are empty and wildlife sightings are more prevalent, including herds of Roosevelt elk and bald eagles. Winter is also a prime time to spot gray whales off the coast.

DISH TO TRY Winter is Dungeness crab season. Enjoy it on a Caesar or as crab cakes paired with a local Sauvignon Blanc at the inn’s award-winning restaurant.

DISH TO TRY No one will judge if you order the decadent lemon soufflé pancakes (topped with local maple syrup, of course) every single morning.

WHERE TO STAY An idyllic countryside retreat in the tiny town of Barnard, Twin Farms boasts 20 distinctly designed accommodations, including thematic cottages that transport guests to an alpine chalet or 19th-century Appalachian log cabin. From $1,650 all-inclusive, TwinFarms.com

WHY GO NOW With over 50 alpine and Nordic resorts, Vermont is a great alternative to a winter trip out West. Central Vermont is home to legendary hills like Mad River Glen and the Suicide Six, plus dozens of intimate inns where you can sip après cocktails by the fire and unwind.

ROMANTIC MOMENT The Fireside Ritual in-room spa treatment starts with a customized massage and ends with a hot bath and champagne. $400 per person for 90 minutes ADVENTURE TO HAVE Skip the lift lines and make turns on the private ski slopes at Twin Farms. Six accessible trails crisscross the property’s over 300-acre estate. Guests of the romantic Chalet cottage can ski out their back door.

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JOSHUA TREE, CALIFORNIA 2 hours from Los Angeles 4.5 hours from Phoenix

DISH TO TRY Pioneertown Motel’s recently reopened Red Dog Saloon is just across from the movie set and serves Mexican food and draft cocktails. The queso is not to be missed. ROMANTIC MOMENT Book a private sound bath and experience 20 quartz singing bowls played live at Integratron in nearby Landers, California. $500, Integratron.com ADVENTURE TO HAVE Hike the Sawtooth Loop directly from Pioneertown. The 10-mile trail circles the Sawtooth Mountains and is easily one of the best hikes in the entire desert area.

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WHERE TO STAY Western movie stars including actor Roy Rogers founded the hamlet of Pioneertown in 1946 as a movie set located 30 minutes from Joshua Tree. Today, the buildings include artist studios, a saddle maker and the 19-room Pioneertown Motel. From $255, Pioneertown-Motel.com

WHY GO NOW Winter brings cooler days (around 60 degrees) compared to scorching summer days and way fewer crowds in Joshua Tree National Park.

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WHERE TO STAY A 19-room bed and breakfast, Glenlaurel, a Scottish Inn & Cottages takes its design cues from Scotland’s grand estates. Located on 140 acres, guests can access three private hiking trails far more secluded than any in the state parks. From $199, Glenlaurel.com DISH TO TRY The rack of lamb, a Saturday night special, is a favorite and often accompanied by a bagpipe performance. ROMANTIC MOMENT In the winter, Glenlaurel’s links course transforms into a half-mile cross country ski trail exclusive to inn guests. Work up an appetite then enjoy a fireside picnic lunch in your room. ADVENTURE TO HAVE A scenic flight tour offers a bird’s-eye perspective of the region’s unique natural beauty. From $85 per couple for 20 minutes, HockingHills.com/airtours

WHY GO NOW With nine state parks and nature preserves, three state forests and a national forest, Hocking Hills is an outdoor enthusiast’s dream playground. In winter, the area’s caves are lined with giant icicles and its waterfalls turn to beautiful walls of ice.

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BLUE RIDGE MOUNTAINS, NORTH CAROLINA 2 hours and 20 minutes from Atlanta 5 hours from Charleston

WHY GO NOW Set at an elevation of 4,118 feet in the Nantahala National Forest, Highlands sees temperatures that warrant nights snuggled up by the fire. The artsy town is quiet in winter and the area’s famed waterfalls look even prettier when frozen.

WHERE TO STAY Nestled on 14 acres, Half-Mile Farm feels remote but is only a five-minute drive from the galleries, shops and restaurants of Highland’s Main Street. Request one of the inn’s eight romantic cabins with stone fireplaces, Jacuzzi tubs and lake views that are perfect for snowy days. Rooms from $200; cabins from $250, OldEdwardsHospitality.com/half-mile-farm

DISH TO TRY Head over to sister property, Old Edwards Inn and Spa for a romantic dinner at Madison’s Restaurant. The coffee-brined and smoked beef brisket is a must order.

ADVENTURE TO HAVE Drive along US Highway 64, the Mountain Waters Scenic Byway, and take in more than a half dozen waterfalls including 60-foot Bridal Veil Falls.

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ROMANTIC MOMENT Unwind with an Herbal Garden Bath Rejuvenation treatment in the private Serenity Suite spa. A scrub and soak with garden-grown ingredients will help relax muscles ahead of a custom massage. $275

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WEDDING GOWNS 101 Searching for the one? Study up on everything you need to know before you hit the salon.

A GUIDE TO DRESS SILHOUETTES

Ball Gown

Perfect for the bride looking to make a statement, there’s nothing subtle about a ball gown. This classic silhouette has a fitted bodice and a voluminous full skirt.

A-line

Mermaid

This universally flattering style hugs the torso and has a skirt that flares out in—you guessed it—an A shape. Consider it a halfway point between a sheath and a ball gown.

Va-va-voom. This sultry silhouette has a fitted bodice, waist and hips, and dramatically flares out at the knee. It’s a great option if you want to show off your curves.

Trumpet

Sheath

This slim silhouette A toned-down version skims over the body, of the mermaid, the falling straight to skirt of this gown flares the floor below the out just below the hips, hips. What a sheath creating a semi-full dress lacks in volume, shape (like the bell it makes up for in of a trumpet) without versatility—it works with nearly every fabric. any extra volume.

Empire A dress for the Grecian goddess in us all, the empire style has a fitted bodice ending just below the bust, giving a high-waisted appearance that lengthens the body.

S H O P E A R L Y A designer wedding gown will take months to create and a series of alterations to fit your body perfectly. In other words, it’s not the kind of garment you can toss into an online shopping cart and have show up on your doorstep two days later. Book your first appointment 9 to 12 months before your wedding date. If you’re shopping closer to your wedding, you may be limited to samples or off-the-rack gowns. A L W A Y S B O O K A N A P P O I N T M E N T Scheduling an appointment is the only way to ensure you’ll get a full hour of undivided attention. If you’re the type who hates feeling rushed when shopping, make an appointment on a slow weekday morning or afternoon. L I M I T Y O U R E N T O U R A G E Bringing a big group to the salon is a gown shopping don’t. Enlist one or two of your closest friends or family members to help you start your search. This way you can find the gown that best suits your style and not feel pressured by too many opinions.

H I D D E N C O S T S A D D U P Remember, your wedding gown budget doesn’t just include the dress. Your veil or headpiece, accessories, undergarments and alterations will also add to your bottom line. Factor in these costs before you give the salesperson your shopping budget. T R U S T I S K E Y Even if a gown doesn’t look amazing on the hanger, that doesn’t necessarily mean it won’t look amazing on you. Be open to what an experienced consultant thinks will work for your body (after all, they’ve done this before). Bottom line: The dress you end up loving might be different than what you originally pictured, and that’s okay. S A L O N S C A N S O M E T I M E S T A K E R E Q U E S T S Just because a bridal salon carries your favorite designer, doesn’t mean it’ll have the exact wedding dress you’ve been wanting to try on. But, if you phone in advance and ask about a specific style, your consultant may be able to request a loaner sample of that gown especially for you.

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