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YEARS OF LOVE F E AT U R E S 36

THE REAL DEAL The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Kyle Richards and her husband of 25 years, Mauricio Umansky, open up about what keeps their love strong.

BEAUTY AWARDS

MODERN MUSE Classic meets contemporary with vow inspo drawn from fine art.

POWER COUPLE “I always say that he pushes me outside my comfort zone and I keep him safe and alive, so we’re a good combo,” says Kyle. Mauricio: Suit, PaisleyandGray.com; bow tie, CalvinKlein.com; pocket square, TheTieBar.com; shoes, JimmyChoo.com; Kyle: dress, VeraWangBride.com; jewelry, SylvaCie.com

MADE TO LAST Add these beloved registry mainstays to your wish list.

114 THE ROARING 2020s Gatsby-inspired details (think: fringe and beading!) are back.

124 WINTER WELLNESS Explore six honeymoons for couples who want to relax in the great outdoors.

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Discover editortested and -approved best-ofthe-best picks for your big day.

Beyond the kids they share, the couple’s pack of pups is a big part of their life.

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REAL WEDDINGS One-of-a-kind real-life celebrations to inspire every couple.

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CELEBRITY WEDDING The inside scoop on The Bachelor star Caila Quinn’s seaside wedding.

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FA S H I O N + B E AU T Y 51

STELLAR SPARKLE Out-of-this-world bling with statement settings and futuristic gems.

25 YEARS OF BRIDAL FASHION

A retrospective on the hottest—and most revolutionary—wedding dress designs from 1996 until now.

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EDITOR’S LETTER CONTRIBUTORS ADVICE TR ADITIONS ESSAY NEW + NOW TOOLS LAST LOOK

STYLE + PLANNING 34

YOUR WEDDING AND COVID A look at the lasting changes the pandemic has brought to the world of weddings.

TR ADITIONS WITH A TWIST A guide to remixing oldfashioned traditions in favor of something of-the-moment.

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EDITOR’S NOTE

It’s our silver anniversary! And if we’ve ever needed an excuse to celebrate, it’s now. Throughout the issue, you’ll find nods to this epic milestone with tips, trends and ideas from the past that are equally relevant today. But first, to kick things off, we asked The Knot cofounder Carley Roney to reflect on the past 25 years. KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief @kristenmax

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ow, that was fast…. It all started with a hunch (and a hellish wedding, but that’s another story). A hunch that cookie-cutter, by-the-book weddings were just too boring and out of step with the cool, fun, savvy couples my husband (cofounder David Liu) and I knew. A hunch that technology could vastly simplify—and spice up— the world of weddings. And a hunch that launching a company could not only be really fun, but also revolutionize and bring vital energy to an important creative industry. Twenty-five years—and some 20 million weddings—later, we still

need to pinch ourselves. Building The Knot has been a dream, with such extraordinary highs (hearing Oprah declare, “If you are planning a wedding, YOU HAVE TO use The Knot!”) and a few serious lows (reading hate mail after we very publicly declared our support for gay marriage in 1999 ). But since Day One, by far the best part of this project (and our greatest inspiration) is our community—you, our couples, who have trusted us with your big day, given us feedback and helped build the most beautiful, practical and popular wedding planning platform in the world. And also our community of creative partners: the designers, florists, photographers and other wedding professionals who work with us to make The Knot the vibrant, growing brand we all love. So, to you all, our community, our “better half”: Happy Anniversary. We are so happy we found you. We couldn’t imagine life without you. Thank you.

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If you’re like me, you’re always questioning the actual “reality” of reality TV. One thing that’s very real? The love and respect between The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Kyle Richards and her husband of 25 years, Maruicio Umansky. Read about their love story on page 36.

KEEP CALM + PLAN ON Our best-selling planning binder just got a major update. The new version (available December 7th!) includes the helpful advice we’re known for, plus modern ideas and twists on traditions. Pick it up for yourself or gift it to an engaged friend—after all, proposal season is here! $32.50, Amazon.com

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PHOTOGRAPHER + COLLAGE ARTIST T H E R O A R I N G 2 0 2 0 S P. 1 1 4

Not only is Mindy a collage artist— she captures all of her own pics too.

WH AT ADVICE D O YO U H AVE FO R DIY CO UPL E S IN TERESTED IN CO L L AGIN G SO M E O F TH EIR W E D D ING STATIO N ERY? Once you’ve decided on your color palette or theme, play around with different paper textures, patterns and color families that work well together. Using different paper styles and thicknesses will help create a really dynamic finished piece. When it comes to sourcing materials for your collages, look for local art and paper shops. They usually have the hidden gems you can’t find anywhere else that will give your wedding a special and personal touch. @mindybyrdlegs

MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS We asked some of the pros from this issue for the inside scoop on their areas of expertise.

JAMIE CHUNG PHOTOGRAPHER

PA M E L A B R O G A R D I

A S A N A R T I S T , WHE R E DO Y OU FI ND I NS P I R A T I ON? I find inspiration almost anywhere: a lump of raw pizza dough dusted with flour, the wag of my little dog’s tail, when toes hang over the edge of a sandal, the churning of the slushy machine at my neighborhood bodega, seeing my shadow really big when the sun is setting, the cotton-candy clouds at dusk in late summer. For couples getting married, family heirlooms can be a great source of inspiration that nod to your love story or family history. And as a photographer, I love to capture heirlooms and the beautiful stories those objects convey. @jamiechungstudio

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WH AT IS A CO M M O N M ISCO N CEPTIO N WH EN IT COME S TO M AKEUP? You don’t need a major, heavyweight makeup transformation. Less can be more—enhancing what you already have is key! Popular trends are not for everyone. If you’re a to-be-wed who doesn’t wear a lot of makeup in everyday life, I recommend you get a light spray tan two to three days before the wedding. This will give you a natural glow and make it easier for your glam team to apply minimal makeup. @glambypamelab

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SENIOR EDITOR, NEWS & CULTURE AR E V I R T UAL W E DDI NG E LE ME NTS, BRO UGH T ABO U T BY TH E PAN DEM IC, HE R E T O S T AY ? Absolutely. Couples are leveraging platforms like Zoom, their wedding websites and other digital planning tools to streamline the process. It’s now possible for anyone around the world to experience a loved one’s wedding without having to travel away from home. Now, an ailing family member or someone who’s unable to hop on a plane across the country, like your pregnant friend, is able to experience the wedding in some form. @theestherlee

Learn more on page 34 about other trends spurred by COVID-19 that are here to stay.

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ASK THE KNOT SQUAD You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. We tapped our team—and one of our go-to industry pros—to solve some of your most of-the-moment planning asks.

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AS A T O -B E -W E D Y O U R S E LF , W H AT AD V I C E D O Y O U H AV E F O R F I E LD I N G UNSOLICITED ADVICE FROM LOVED ONES? MARYKATE CALLAHAN

When it comes to receiving unsolicited wedding advice, I take inspiration from the crafty penguins in the movie Madagascar: just smile and wave. Or, more specifically, smile and then change the subject. You don’t need to heed wedding advice that doesn’t apply to you or your relationship. If discussing it makes you uncomfortable, then you have every right to shift the conversation in another direction. However, in the same way you’re being mindful of your own feelings, it doesn’t hurt to keep other people’s feelings in mind too. Loved ones don’t typically offer advice in order to be harmful; ultimately, their intention is to help.

A S WE HEA D IN TO A NEW Y E AR, W H AT E M E R G I N G TR E NDS A R E Y O U E X CITE D AB O U T T H AT Y O U ’ D LO V E TO SEE M OR E CO U P L ES A DO P T I N T H E I R O W N N U PT I ALS ?

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MICHELLE NORWOOD Owner of Michelle Norwood Events Michelle is a wedding planner based in New Orleans who specializes in bespoke destination events around the country.

I’m loving how more couples are planning multi-day destination celebrations for their nearest and dearest loved ones. Even if to-be-weds and their guests aren’t quite ready to travel internationally, we’re seeing a rise in domestic destination weddings. After such a long period of isolation, people are excited to connect and celebrate. Couples are hosting their friends and families in stunning locales (the reception above took place in a quaint courtyard in New Orleans) and creating experience-based trips that go beyond an evening reception. The rise in weekend-long destination affairs has also contributed to another trend I’m loving—highly intimate and personalized nuptials. Many to-be-weds are paring down the guest list considerably, which leaves space in the budget to go all out on the details. For example, if your guest list is small enough that everyone can be seated at one long table, consider splurging on luxe linens or copper Tolix chairs, like those seen above, to elevate the only tablescape you’re creating.

W H AT ’ S O N E T H I N G T H AT C OUPL ES OFTEN FEEL THEY “SHOULD” INCLUDE IN THEIR WEDDING DAY THAT THEY DON’T AC T U ALLY N E E D T O W O RRY AB O U T ? SAMANTHA IACIA Editor

This is a hot take, but you don’t need to have a wedding party if you don’t want to. If choosing a wedding party makes you feel more stressed and obligated than excited, it’s completely okay to skip this tradition. There are other ways to include the people you’re genuinely close with, such as asking someone to help you choose your wedding attire or give a reading during the ceremony.

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TR ADITIONS B E E P , B E E P For a prewedding

Charms and lockets aren’t just for bouquet wraps.

BETTER WITH AGE It can feel daunting to find “something old” to incorporate into your wedding as a nod to the past. To start, chat with your family about your heritage. Chances are you’ll find a well-loved heirloom to include.

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J A Z Z A G E The duo hired an electric violinist to perform their music, but a vintage gramophone enhanced the day’s “Prohibitionera speakeasy” theme.

C L O S E A T H E A R T On their wedding day, Shanna gifted Evyn a charm with a photograph of his late grandmother, which he wore close to his heart on his boutonniere.

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T R AC I + T R AV I S C E D A R C I T Y, U T

SOMETHING MORE Don’t limit your storied element to physical items.

A N N I V E R S A RY Honor your parents’ or grandparents’ lasting love by tying the knot on their anniversary.

F I R S T DA N C E Pick a centuryold tune for your first twirl as newlyweds.

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Include an age-old love poem or quote from a classic novel in your ceremony.

P I A N O B A R Instead of renting a simple table to display a selection of refreshing drinks, like strawberry lemonade and infused water, this couple repurposed a vintage upright piano for the job.

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portrait shoot, Jay borrowed a vintage 1974 VW Bug from a friend. The pennant-clad prop worked as both “something old” and “something blue.”

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ESSAY In addition to red or white wine, offer an N.A. option.

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A WITHOUT CHAMPAGNE IS STILL A TOAST How to host a dry(er) wedding, accommodate teetotaling guests and everything in between.

n September 2020, my friends Jessica and Jessie were married at a safe, socially distanced outdoor wedding in New York City. Besides the mask mandate, six-foot separation rule and copious amounts of hand sanitizer, there was something distinctly different about that day. Namely, my level of intoxication (read: zero). It was the first time I was ever sober at a wedding. I was partaking in a dry month. I’m in my early thirties. I’ve partied through bachelorette weekends, raised multiple glasses to many happy couples, drunkenly danced the night away and unfortunately woken up with hangovers. Don’t get me wrong, it’s been (mostly) fun—minus the dreaded headaches, dehydration and so forth. But I’ve come to realize that my experiences would have been just as amazing (if not better) without taking shots at the open bar or going back for a second cocktail. After all, these nights are about celebrating the happy couple, not the drink menu. In 2017, I started participating in annual Dry Januarys. Initially, I made a silly bet with a friend about a month-long hiatus from booze. I quickly learned that giving up wine, beer and spirits for a mere 31 days positively affected my mood, sleep, skin, bank account, as well as so many other aspects of my life. I love the benefits of Dry Jan so much that I’ve done several other alcoholfree months over the years. During Jessica and Jessie’s wedding, a

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Sober September was already a few weeks underway. At the ceremony and reception, I was able to be more present without an alcoholic beverage in hand. Focusing on speeches, my date and the happy couple (ahem, the reason I was there in the first place) only enhanced this special day. To boot, I knew I wouldn’t wake up with a dreadful hangover (which was liberating!). There were also some surprising perks I didn’t think about in advance. For starters, I looked better in photos, because alcohol dehydrates your skin; I slept soundly that night, as alcohol can cause awakenings; and I felt energetic throughout, instead of losing steam at the end of the event. My experience led me to consider what couples could do to make their wedding more sober-friendly.

A C K N O WLEDG E T H A T NOT E V E R YONE WA NT S T O INDULG E I’m not in recovery, or 100% sober, or pregnant, but if you’re planning a wedding, some of your guests might be. Given that, it’s important to be inclusive of everyone in attendance. There are people who don’t drink due to religious beliefs or medical conditions, individuals trying on a sober curious lifestyle, and/or friends and family who simply don’t like the taste of alcohol—not to mention the designated drivers. The point is that there are many reasons people abstain from alcohol.

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It really is imperative to think about alternative sips for nondrinkers. When selecting beverages, you can stock the bar with standard sodas, juices and the like, but other thoughtful options include nonalcoholic wines (including bubbly for toasts) and beers. Mixed drinks with nonalcoholic spirits (ranging from N.A. tequila to N.A. whiskey) have gained popularity on bar menus nationwide. With these innovative liquids, you can offer signature cocktails that are buzz-free too.

C ONSIDER YOUR R UN OF SHOW While alcohol is typically part of weddings, it certainly is not the main event. For this reason, it’s a good idea to think about how you’ll schedule the day. For some couples, that might mean scheduling big moments (cake cutting, speeches, etc.) earlier in the evening so nondrinkers can opt out of late nights often fueled by greater alcohol consumption. Of course, if alcoholfree guests want to stay late, they can drink the N.A. beverages you’ve supplied and party on.

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WHILE WE CONTINUE TO FIGHT OUR WAY OUT OF A GLOBAL PANDEMIC, WEDDINGS HAVE MADE A RETURN TO OUR SOCIAL CALENDARS. HERE’S THE LATEST TAKE.

TRENDS WE HOPE ARE HERE TO STAY It’s no secret that COVID-19 changed the way couples married in 2020/21. But it wasn’t all bad! Here are some ideas made popular by the pandemic that we plan to keep around.

INDIVIDUAL FOOD PORTIONS It started as a necessary health measure, but it will stay because it’s so darn fun. A charcuterie board for one? Yes, please!

2 SOUPED-UP WEDDING WEBSITES Through all of the uncertainty, The Knot wedding websites made it easy to keep guests up-to-date in real time with new features like a Q&A section and a place to livestream minimonies. Bottom line: Guests love to be in the know— the more info the better!

4 HUMOR Laughter proved to be the best medicine as couples were forced to postpone their weddings (in some cases, multiple times!). As a result, some of our fave changethe-dates, cake toppers and wedding signs were infused with the couple’s sense of humor. Definitely more of that.

5 COLOR —AND LOTS OF IT

3 VIRTUAL ELEMENT With restrictions on things like travel and group gatherings, Zoom weddings actually became “a thing” in 2020. While most of us prefer to celebrate IRL, a virtual option for those who can’t make it in person only adds more love to the day.

With rescheduled wedding dates came a rethink of entire aesthetics. Couples ditched muted hues and embraced color to infuse an unmistakably celebratory vibe for when they finally said “I do.” Our take? The bolder, the better.

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To still request and/or require masks at your wedding

To have hand-sanitizer stations and/or provide it in welcome bags

To keep your guest list small…

Or to (safely) throw a massive bash

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BY THE NUMBERS The latest data from The Knot paints a cautiously optimistic picture around the future of weddings.

81%

AGREE TH AT H O STING OU TD O OR WEDDI NGS VS. IN D O OR W EDDI NGS I S A L ASTING TR EN D

17%

STAT TAKEN FROM MAY 2021 COVID COUPLES SENTIMENT SURVEY & 2020 REAL WEDDINGS STUDY

AGREE TH AT FU L LY VIRTUA L EV ENTS LI K E ZO OM SHOWER S W I LL REMAIN P OP U L A R

20%

SAY TH EY ’ LL STIL L R EQ U IR E MASKS AT THE IR WEDDING

70%

BELI EV E PROVIDING HA N D SANI TI ZER AT WEDDING S IS A CONTI NUING TR EN D LES S THA N

15%

WI LL REQUI RE G U ESTS TO B E TESTED ON-SI TE OR SHOW P RO O F OF A NEGATI V E COVID TEST

REAL TALK

SO A GUEST WON’T GET VACCINATED… If you and your partner decide to require vaccinations, it doesn’t mean all guests will oblige. Here’s how to handle the situation. EXPLAIN HOW THEIR VACCINE H E S I T A N C Y M A K E S Y O U F E E L Share how important their attendance is to you, as well as the ability for all of your guests to celebrate at your wedding safely.

OPEN UP A DIALOGUE WITH YOUR L O V E D O N E S Empathy and the willingness to listen, without imposing your beliefs immediately, will help you work toward a solution together. Keep in mind this is someone you love. SHARE WHY VACCINE INFORMATION M A T T E R S F O R Y O U R W E D D I N G From a pure logistical standpoint, whether or not guests are vaccinated will impact the necessary health and safety measures for your day, like requiring masks or creating a socially distanced seating plan. LEAD WITH FACTS FROM A REPUTABLE S O U R C E If your loved one is misinformed or worried about health implications, you can offer to put them in touch with a medical expert and/or suggest some reading that’s rooted in science.

IF APPLICABLE, HAVE BACKUP PLANS R E A D Y Consider extra precautions to keep your friends and family safe and healthy, like having COVID testing on-site or requiring a negative test to attend. SHOW A UNITED FRONT AS A COUPLE It’s important to make this personal decision together and to stand by it. You won’t please everyone, but just remember, it’s your wedding. PRIORITIZE SELF-CARE IN YOUR R E L A T I O N S H I P These convos aren’t easy, so if you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a step back to spend QT with your partner.

INTRODUCING THE HEALTH & SAFETY

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In addition to or on the back of your RSVP card, consider surveying your guests for vaccine tracking and testing information. Here’s how to word it.

HE A LT H & SA F E T Y I N FOR MAT I ON Will you be or do you plan to be fully vaccinated for COVID-19 two weeks before [scheduled wedding date]?

YES

Our state requires all guests to test negative for COVID-19 before attending the event. Will you receive testing the week of the wedding?

YES

If “no,” please explain why:

To feel stressed about the post-COVID wedding boom (it’s real)

ADDITIONAL REPORTING BY ESTHER LEE

On a scale of 1 to 5 (least to most comfortable), how will you feel about attending a wedding with [number of] guests in [wedding month]?

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SIP, SIP, HO O RAY !

A 100-glass champagne tower was a must for celebrating their (and our!) anniversary. Mauricio: Suit, PaisleyandGray.com; Kyle: dress, @PajtimRaci; earrings, SylvaCie.com

WHO BETTER TO HELP US CELEBRATE THE 25TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE KNOT THAN A COUPLE ALSO CELEBRATING THE MAJOR MILESTONE? HERE, THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF BEVERLY HILLS STAR KYLE RICHARDS AND HER HUSBAND OF 25 YEARS, MAURICIO UMANSKY, TALK MARRIAGE, FAMILY AND LIFE ON A REALITY SHOW. BY KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER PHOTOGRAPHY BY EASTON SCHIRRA

yle Richards has had a busy year. In addition to her popular Bravo Housewives franchise entering its 11th season, Kyle’s feature film Halloween Kills (where she reprises her role from the original Halloween) finally hit the big screen after delays due to COVID-19. Her holiday movie for Peacock, The Real Housewives of the North Pole, is set to premiere later this year. But perhaps her biggest accomplishment was back in January, when she celebrated her 25th wedding anniversary to real estate mogul Mauricio Umansky. Kyle shared the milestone on Instagram saying, “I still get happy when I hear your car pull in the driveway and still get sad if we have to spend a night apart. How is that even possible?? May we continue to grow, learn, explore, experience & create incredible memories side by side. I love you forever.” Despite their being in separate places (and on the phone), Kyle and Mauricio’s connection is palpable during our interview. While they strike a playful tone in the retelling of their courtship, wedding and quartercentury marriage, they’re serious about the dedication and respect they have for each other and the life they’ve built. KRI STEN MA X WELL COOPER: So let’s go back to the beginning. Tell me how the two of you met. K YLE RI CHARDS: Oh my gosh, we actually met in a nightclub called Bar One, which is now Bootsy Bellows. It’s so funny to me because now our kids go there and we’ll says ‘well, that’s actually where we met 27 years ago.’ Twenty-seven-plus [years ago]! [Mauricio] thought I was Demi Moore’s

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COVER STORY sister—and I had actually been told that [before]— so he worked up the courage to come over and say hello, thinking that I was her sister. MAU RI CI O U MAN S K Y: I figured if I couldn’t get Demi Moore, I could try to get her sister! KM C: And then you got something even better! M U: Oh, I got something way better. KM C: Kyle, what was it that drew you to Mauricio? KR: He was just a sweet guy and he loved my daughter. And we like to do the same things. We share the same interests and have common goals, and I think that’s what really drew us together. But the most important thing to me was how he was with my oldest daughter, Farrah. KM C: And Mauricio, what was it about Kyle? M U: I mean, other than the fact that she is absolutely gorgeous, she has an amazing soul. She’s an amazing person. And quite honestly, the fact that she already had a daughter, it made dating a lot more important. I had to take it much more seriously because I was responsible for a woman with a daughter. I also got insight into the way that she was as a mom and how good of a mom she was. And that gave me insight into the future and what it would look like. KM C: That’s really beautiful. And so after that came the proposal. Tell me about that! KR: You tell, honey. M U: The proposal, oh my God, I took Kyle out to [Santa Monica restaurant] Shutters. And you know, Kyle at that point never wanted to leave her kid. She’s still the same. She just doesn’t want to be away from our kids, no matter what. But I took her to Shutters on a date, and I gave her a bouquet of flowers. And it was a very pretty, romantic evening and inside the flowers I had a rosebud case... KR: A ring box. M U: Yes, a ring box that looked like a rosebud. So I gave her the flowers hoping she would see the fake flower or box. Of course she didn’t because it was such a good box. So I had to tell her, ‘honey, smell the flowers, like, do they all smell the same?’ KR: Here’s the truth. I saw something that looked like a box, but I didn’t want to be wrong and embarrass myself.

I T H I N K T H E D I F F I C U LT I E S W E ’ V E G O N E T H R O U G H O N T H E S H O W — A N D I K N O W IT SOUNDS LIKE A CLICHÉ—BUT IT’S MADE U S S T R O N G E R . — K Y L E KM C: That’s fair! M U: And then when she saw the box and she opened it and saw

the ring, I got down on one knee and I asked her to marry me. Is that pretty accurate, honey? Twenty-seven years ago? Was that pretty good? KR: Yes, it was. KM C: Kyle, what was your reaction? KR: I was just so happy and excited—it was a dream for me. The moment we started dating, I just felt like he was the one. And

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a few months into dating he had asked me if I would consider converting to Judaism. Growing up in Los Angeles, Bel-Air where I lived, all of my friends are Jewish. So it was really a no-brainer for me. I used to look at the Jewish families and think, ‘Aw, they’re all married and they have these great family dinners together.’ I loved that whole life. I used to wear a Jewish star when I was a kid and pretend I was Jewish, so I was like, ‘Yes, I’ll convert!’ So then I just had to wait for the ring. KM C: What was your wedding planning like? M U: Oooh I’m going to let you take that one, honey. I did absolutely nothing. KR: He did absolutely nothing. He was a kid. He got the ring and then was like, ‘Okay, I’m out.’ I turned to my sisters for advice, but because it was a Jewish wedding, I really needed his parents involved, which they were. I had never done anything like that and all of a sudden I had to consider a chuppah and all of these things I didn’t even know the words to. We decided on the Bel-Air Country Club and it was just amazing bringing my family together and his family and all of our friends. And it’s so funny, I’ll never forget the day of our wedding, everyone had to wear kippahs on their head, and my family was like, ‘Wait, what’s happening?’ I looked over and my brother-in-law, who’s not Jewish, was in the mirror putting it on and I was like, ‘Okay, this is a first for our family.’ Overall, we knew we wanted it to be really elegant and really fun. But we were so worried about people making long speeches, so we said no speeches at all. M U: Honey, do we want to talk about how the wedding had to be moved up in time? Or do we not want to talk about that? KR: It’s not a secret. The wedding was originally going to be I believe in April, and then we moved it up to January so my dress would still fit, because I was pregnant. KM C: Well, that was an exciting addition to the wedding! KR: It was. M U: And our oldest daughter, Farrah, was in the wedding party, which was cool and fun. KR: That’s something important! When my husband asked me to marry him, he also gave Farrah a little ‘engagement ring’ that was a heart with two hands holding it. M U: That’s right, I had to ask her to marry me too! KM C: How old was she at the time? And what was her reaction? KR: She was five when we met so she was seven by the wedding date. And oh my goodness, she was just so in love with [Mauricio]. Every night we would all lay in bed and she would suck her thumb and rub his ear with her other little hand like he was her blankie! KM C: What was her role in the wedding? KR: She was a flower girl along with my sister Kim’s daughters, Whitney and Brooke, and then Nicky [Hilton] was a flower girl, but Paris [Hilton] was a junior bridesmaid. KM C: A real family affair! Were there any traditions you really cherished? KR: Well, all of it for me, really. But I can remember thinking, ‘I am so worried about people lifting me up on a chair while I’m pregnant and doing the hora.’ I’m a nervous Nelly anyway, so I would’ve already been scared. But then I thought, ‘Oh my God, I can not believe I’m doing this pregnant and being lifted into the air.’ KM C: If you were to get married today, what do you think you would do differently?

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COME OUT SWINGING The reality TV couple credits their happy marriage to prioritizing time together. Kyle: Jumpsuit, Halston.com; earrings, LarkandBerry.com; shoes, CallItSpring.com; Mauricio: suit, PaisleyandGray.com, pocket square, TheTieBar.com; shoes, KennethCole.com

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FASHION EDITOR: SHELLEY BROWN; WARDROBE STYLING: LISA MARIE CAMERON; HAIR: ANGEL GONZALEZ, CELEBRITY HAIRSTYLIST; MAKEUP + GROOMING: PAMELA BROGARDI, MANAGED BY TJ GUARDIA; PROP STYLING: STEPHANIE HANES. TIMELINE IMAGES: COURTESY OF SUBJECTS, @KYLERICHARDS18/INSTAGRAM AND @MUMANSKY18/INSTAGRAM.

“We shared the same interests and had common goals,” says Kyle. “I think that’s what really drew us together.” Mauricio: Suit, PaisleyandGray.com; bow tie, CalvinKlein.com; pocket square, TheTieBar.com; shoes, JimmyChoo.com; Kyle: dress, VeraWangBride.com; jewelry, SylvaCie.com

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Kyle and Mauricio share personal snapshots from the past 25 years.

1994

All smiles shortly after meeting

1994

Hitting the slopes while dating

1996

On the duo’s wedding day at the Bel-Air Country Club

2017

Stealing a kiss during a sweet moment

2021

Spending time outdoors in Aspen

COVER STORY home, even just for 24 hours, to see my husband and the other kids. You just have to make the effort, and it’s never not been worth it for us. KM C: Your relationship is obviously in the public eye. How do you keep it strong under scrutiny? KR : When we first started [The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills], the more people would talk about how happy we were, the more people would try to come for us. It was shocking because we had never dealt with something like that. But now, after all these years on the show, people know us and know our relationship. I think the difficulties we’ve gone through on the show—and I know it sounds like a cliché—but it’s made us stronger. And it’s crazy to think you could say that about a reality show. But when you’ve been tested over time, you either cave and you lose, or you win and come out on top. And we definitely ended up being stronger from being tested. KM C : What do you think is important for people to consider in a partner, if they want what you have? M C: For me, the most important thing is somebody that you love to be with and you love to hang out with. Romance is fantastic and it’s super-important, but at the end of the day, it has to be someone who makes you laugh and you can have fun with. That’s a recipe that lasts forever. KR: I do think some of it is that the planets align and it’s fate, or whatever it may be. But my husband and I have always enjoyed the same things and shared a common goal. We both want to succeed and do well. We both want to have our family together and strong. But as you grow, you do change and you have to know that. You can either grow apart or you can grow together. Something that I think is really important for any marriage starting out is to surround yourself with other happy couples. You don’t want to surround yourself with people where one is a cheater or they fight all the time or they have other problems. We make a point to surround ourselves with other solid couples and it just makes your foundation even stronger. KM C : Any last bit of advice for a 25-year marriage? KR : Oh my gosh, what could we say about these 25 years? We’ve been through so much. I think it’s important to know that you are going to be challenged and you have to start out remembering that you are in this for better or for worse. I’ve lost both my mother and my father during our marriage. I’ve been pregnant with my head in the toilet getting sick. We’ve done the not-fun times, but you just really have to know that you are sticking with it through thick and thin. There are going to be bad days, but hopefully the good outweighs the bad. We’ve, of course, had challenging times, but never ever a moment where we weren’t on the same page. We love each other more than anything, and we’re in this until the day we die. M U: Kyle, you’re so cute.

KR: I would not change one thing. It was just filled with fun and love and it was just amazing. I wouldn’t change one thing about it today. M U: I wouldn’t change anything. I mean, if we were going to do it today and have a vow renewal, I would do it a lot smaller. KR: But here’s the thing, I don’t believe in getting married again or a vow renewal because we got it right the first time and I just don’t want to mess with what works. KM C: I actually really love that sentiment. Let me ask about your 25 years as a married couple. Are there any rituals you’ve kept throughout the years? KR: I could say we do a regular date night—we tried that, but honestly, the nights that we have open, we just go out, because our schedules are so crazy. When we were first married and we were struggling financially, we’d get a babysitter one night a week and we went to get our real estate licenses together. That was our date night! Let’s kill two birds with one stone—we’ll get a babysitter and maybe start a new business so we can start making some money. KM C: What do you hope your girls take away from seeing their parents being married for 25 years? KR: You know, it’s very hard to teach your kids this is what you should do and this is the right way to live your life. You have to lead by example. And our kids see us as being very proud of our family and loving being a family unit. And sometimes I do think that these are big shoes to fill. I know my husband and I are very fortunate, but I hope we set the bar high so they don’t ever settle. M U: We truly love to hang out together. You know, we have our house in Aspen and it’s become a real sanctuary for us. It’s definitely a place that Kyle and I use to go and tune out and, while we never fall out of love, we go there to fall back in love, for lack of a different phrase. It’s just a sanctuary. KR: It keeps us connected. M U: It’s real nature time and a time to get out of the city. It’s been really good for us. KR: I would add that fitness is a very big part of our lives and our relationship. We’ll go hiking or paddleboarding or biking, and we really enjoy that time together. I love that he pushes me out of my comfort zone because I’m cautious. I always say that he pushes me outside my comfort zone and I keep him safe and alive, so we’re a good combo. KM C: You two both have fairly demanding jobs, to put it mildly. How do you balance your time together and your time apart? KR: Calendar sync! M U: Well, we just try not to ever be apart. That’s the bottom line. Recently, we’ve just had to because we both have very busy lives. But I can tell you from my perspective that when I travel for business alone, I make the trips as fast as possible. KR : I was shooting this movie in Utah for five weeks and I was panicking about leaving the family. Portia actually ended up coming with me, but I would fly

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RETRO ESCORT CARDS Your escort card display is a great spot to showcase your theme from the get-go. On your next date night, scour thrift stores for gems to repurpose.

SMALL S’MORES

Met at camp? Pay homage with woodsy favors.

If you’ve always dreamed of capping off your reception with s’mores and a bonfire, but your venue isn’t quite conducive to pyro-entertainment, give guests favors with fixin’s to make their own campfire treats at home. These kits have all you need to get lit: mini marshmallows, graham squares and chocolate chunks in custom packaging. From $14, SmallSmores.com

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JET-SETTING POSTCARDS Celebrate your shared love of globe-trotting with a favor-meets-escort-card combo. Gift attendees vintageinspired travel postcards.

Thanks to Edie Parker, you can now carry your wedding blooms forever in the form of a chic clutch. The luxury accessories brand is expanding its Bouquet Bag collection to include a new custom program. Collaborate with designers on a stylized depiction of your stems on an acrylic bag, and artisans will make your bespoke piece by hand in around six weeks.

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MOTEL KEY TAGS Whether you’re tying the knot in Palm Springs or just want a David Rose–approved idea, custom key chains that resemble old-timey room keys are a must.

C E L E B R AT I N G 25 Y E A R S Not only is The Knot celebrating a quarter century, but these celebrity couples have also withstood the test of time to reach their silver anniversaries.

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CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: EDWARD WINTER/READYLUCK; COURTESY OF VENDOR (2); COURTESY OF SUBJECT; COURTESY OF VENDOR (3); GETTY IMAGES (3); JONNIE + GARRETT WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHERS

BESPOKE BLOOMS

HUGH JACKMAN + DEBORRA-LEE FURNESS The pair, who wed in April 1996, met Down Under filming an Aussie show.

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NEW + NOW Mix and match piercings in complementary styles for a balanced look.

The piercing guru and jewelry designer gave us the deets on how to pull off the perfect curated ear—plus how to time prewedding piercings for your day.

jewelry should also ﬂatter your skin tone, face shape and attire. I would also stay true to your personal style, whether it’s classic, bohemian, minimalist or glamorous, so you feel like the best version of yourself. If you’re wearing statement earrings or a bold necklace, make sure the metal color of the other jewelry you're wearing complements—and does not distract from—the larger pieces. You should look in the mirror and take note of how your eye moves between the different pieces in your jewelry ensemble. On a special occasion like your wedding, the jewelry you choose should both support your apparel and draw the eye to your best features.

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WHAT KINDS OF PIERCINGS ARE HOT RIGHT NOW? Multiple earlobe piercings are very popular in general. Piercings that sit high on the cartilage of the ear or nestled in the rook of the ear, like the Tash Rook, Tash Helix and the Tash Hidden Rook, are all trending for edgier ear curations. Last year I introduced the latter two piercings, and they have since become very popular because they create the effect of jewelry emerging out of cartilage in unexpected ways.

ANY TIPS FOR HOW TO PULL OFF MULTIPLE EARRINGS ON YOUR DAY? My jewelry is designed to be versatile and meant to complement any bride or groom’s style. Choosing a symmetrical or asymmetrical look is a matter of personal preference—and both can work well on your wedding day. The goal is to balance three forces: skin tone, personal aesthetic, and the weight and style of the jewelry that sit next to each other. Layering jewelry in the ear is an art. Each piece should have a similar metal tone and style of stone setting; tell a story; and be in visual balance with the pieces it's placed next to.

SILK AND SONDER Amid the hustle and bustle of wedding planning, it’s important to carve out time to decompress and center yourself. If you’re new to journaling, the blank page can feel daunting. Silk and Sonder has made it easier, reimagining the practice with thought-provoking prompts. Sign up for its monthly subscription, and journals will appear on your doorstep.

HOW FAR IN ADVANCE OF YOUR WEDDING SHOULD YOU GET PIERCINGS? It’s a good idea to get piercings well in advance of your day. Earlobe piercings typically heal in six to eight weeks, but cartilage and other piercings can take several months. If you're getting a piercing speciﬁcally for your wedding, consider going with a stud earring over a hoop earring for the initial piercing. With a stud earring, you can usually change the front piece while leaving in the post. This trick will allow you to wear a bigger, more decorative earring on your wedding day without compromising the healing process.

ARE THERE ANY RULES WHERE CHOOSING PIERCINGS AND JEWELRY FOR YOUR WEDDING ARE CONCERNED? You want to choose pieces with a timeless feel, since you’ll look at your wedding photos for years to come. Your

JADA PINKETT SMITH + WILL SMITH The couple celebrated meeting on the set of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air with a New Year’s Eve wedding in 1997.

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MIX IT UP The KitchenAid stand mixer is a registry staple—and has been for decades. The new Light & Shadow limited-edition colorway combines a matte mixer with a black, studded ceramic bowl, resulting in a sculptural piece of art for your countertop. Bonus: It has all the powerhouse features cooks love. $550, KitchenAid.com

KELLY RIPA + MARK CONSUELOS They eloped in Vegas in May of 1996 after meeting on All My Children—fatefully playing characters who get married.

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H A R D -T O - K I L L H O U S E P L A N T S Becoming a plant parent after you tie the knot may feel daunting—as beneficial as a bit of greenery can be to your newlywed home. As you craft your registry, include some hardy botanicals to instantly spruce up your living space, even if you're worried you don’t have a green thumb. PHILODENDRON

SNAKE PLANT

ZZ PLANT

Even the least horticulturally minded duos will be able to help a philodendron thrive. The heart-shaped beauty only has to be watered every one to two weeks. Expert tip: As a general rule, it’s better to underwater plants. In fact, overwatering is one of the easiest ways to kill a philodendron. Instead of keeping a strict schedule, it’s best to water only when needed. Always check the soil before watering; if it’s still moist, wait to water.

The snake plant is a lowmaintenance houseplant every novice grower needs. Not only does it claim a top spot in NASA’s Clean Air Study, but the snake plant is also a succulent that tolerates low light. What does this mean if you’re brand-new to taking care of plants? You can forget to water it and put it almost anywhere in your home—and it thrives!

A perfect choice for beginner plant parents, the ZZ plant is a drought-tolerant succulent. Give a ZZ plant a spot in medium indirect light and water about every three weeks when the potting soil is completely dry. Like every good relationship, a stable environment is key. ZZ plants thrive when they're kept in a space that's 65 to 80 degrees Fahrenheit—extreme temp ﬂuctuations can stress them out. Pro tip: Don't place them near vents, radiators or exterior doors.

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PASTEL EYE MAKEUP Give colorful shadow a modern update by smudging some beneath your lower lash line. Mercury Retrograde eye shadow palette, $67, HudaBeauty.com

BUTTERFLY CLIPS We know: Butterfly clips on your day? But it can be done— thanks to these elevated gold ones by Jennifer Behr. Pippa bobby pin set, $162, JenniferBehr.com

MATTE MAKEUP The best thing about this trend? Foundations with a matte formula stay put. They’ll keep oil, sweat and even tears at bay. Say What?! foundation, $39, UomaBeauty.com

FROSTY LIPS Top your lips with a prismatic gloss for a shimmery final effect. Bonus: It’ll make your lips look fuller too. Gloss Bomb Universal Lip Luminizer in Fu$$y, $19, FentyBeauty.com

BOUNCY BLOWOUTS Get the OG supermodel ’do. Work a hot brush through your hair for iconic Cindy Crawford levels of volume. Rise hot brush, $189, GHDHair.com

Dua Lipa rocked ’90s-inspired glam at the 2020 Grammy Awards.

FAITH HILL + TIM MCGRAW The couple, who wed in October 1996, are musicians through and through— so much so that Tim proposed backstage.

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Oh, snap. The beauty trends that defined the era of Friends, Nirvana and Clueless are all that and a bag of chips again.

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CANDACE CAMERON BURE + VALERI BURE Candace’s Full House co-star Dave Coulier introduced the couple, who tied the knot in June 1996, at a charity hockey game.

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NEW + NOW

SOMETHING BORROWED New York–based jeweler Verstolo makes renting real diamonds effortless and affordable (even more costeffective than some costume jewelry). And now it ships nationwide. The process is simple: book an in-person or virtual appointment; choose from a selection of bracelets, necklaces and earrings; and reserve your favorites for a five-day rental period. After the festivities are over, simply drop off your pieces or ship them back. From $275, Verstolo.com

Q+A

Christian Siriano The designer is back in the wedding game with both a new bridal fashion collection and a luxe mattress (hello, registry must-have). Below, he talks about his inspiration, the importance of inclusivity and the trends he’s loving right now.

WHAT MOTIVATED YOU TO GET BACK INTO BRIDAL FASHION AFTER A HIATUS? This year felt like the perfect time to get back into bridal since all of our brides who couldn’t get married last year are ﬁnally walking down the aisle. I was so inspired by their resilience and wanted to create gowns that would reﬂect their happiness and excitement for their upcoming celebrations.

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WHAT’S THE INSPIRATION BEHIND THIS COLLECTION? I wanted to make sure there was a gown or suit for anyone and everyone

Vera Wang is synonymous with celebrating life’s biggest moments, so the designer's foray into festive sparkling wine should come as no surprise. A fresh take on premium Italian prosecco, Vera Wang Party offers crisp notes of apple, stone fruit and citrus. Packaged in a sleek, graffitiinspired bottle, this affordable bubbly makes for a chic wedding party proposal gift—and is otherwise a toasting essential. $25, VeraWang.com

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INCLUSIVITY HAS ALWAYS BEEN PART OF YOUR BRAND ETHOS. HOW DOES THIS NEW COLLECTION SPEAK TO THAT? I want every bride to ﬁnd a piece for their wedding day that makes them feel amazing. Since every body is different, size inclusivity is very important to me—it’s all about feeling comfortable. That’s why my collection is available in sizes 0 to 28.

ANY WEDDING FASHION TRENDS YOU’RE LOVING RIGHT NOW? I’m deﬁnitely seeing a lot more color in weddings. I love when a bride trusts me with her vision and allows me to create something bold and unique.

WHAT’S YOUR WEDDING ATTIRE SHOPPING ADVICE? It’s not the outfit itself but how you feel when you put it on. Your attire should reflect you and not other people's expectations of what a wedding dress should look like. You deserve to feel chic and confident.

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ANGELA BASSETT + COURTNEY B. VANCE Yale brought together these college lovebirds, who wed in 1997.

TELL US ABOUT THE MATTRESS! WHY DID YOU LAUNCH IT IN TANDEM WITH YOUR COLLECTION? From a design perspective, the bed is the centerpiece of the bedroom, but we also know a good night's sleep is so important to your overall health and wellness. I found inspiration working on my new bridal and interior design collections and chose to partner with Beautyrest to create the perfect wedding-themed mattress for newlyweds. The ruffle pattern across the top of the Beautyrest by Christian Siriano mattress mimics elements from my new bridal collection.

SARAH JESSICA PARKER + MATTHEW BRODERICK Family has always been at the center of this couple’s relationship—Broderick’s brother played matchmaker and his sister officiated their big day in May 1997.

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looking for the perfect piece for their big day. I think a lot of wedding traditions are becoming outdated, and more people are taking risks, which is why I created a versatile collection that removes masculine and feminine labels. My dresses and suits are also meant to move. Weddings this year aren’t only a celebration of love and marriage, but also a celebration of being surrounded by your friends and family on such a special day, which wasn’t possible a year ago.

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A first-of-its-kind designer collection of platinum-set, colorless lab grown diamonds. Shop helzberg.com/jennypackham or visit a Helzberg Diamonds store near you.

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In search of bling that’s out of this world? The coolest wedding rings are all about unexpected center stones and settings with futuristic ﬂair.

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1 MEGAWATT SHINE If a traditional engagement ring isn’t your thing, consider a blinged-out band. The curved design of this one is an instant conversation starter. Ava diamond wave ring, $13,075, AnitaKo.com

2 FUTURE NOSTALGIA Invented in the 1500s, rose-cut diamonds have heirloom quality. Opt for a minimalistic setting to give this antique stone a modern update. Always And rose-cut diamond ring, $12,800, aErstwhilejewelry.com

3 GREEN FLASH Feeling color? This lustrous emerald center stone is a total stunner, while pale yellow diamond accent stones play up its vibrant hue. Nova l’Œil Jaune emerald and yellow diamond ring, $16,625, Muzo.co (also on right)

4 TOTAL ECLIPSE Not all halo settings are created equal. Opt for a modern one in sleek black enamel to bring the fashion-forward drama. The Gloria ring, price upon request, AlisonLou.com

5 GEMINI SEASON What’s better than one rock? Two. These stackable rings with dual shield-cut diamonds serve effortless glamour. Kent offset ring, $6,250, Shield offset ring, $3,625, EvaFehren.com

6 SPACED OUT Forget what you think you know about three-stone rings. This open design is a fresh take on a time-honored style. Emerald-cut and double-pear diamond open ring, price upon request, JemmaWynne.com

7 IN ORBIT Thanks to the fluid lines of this avant-garde setting, the pear-shaped diamond appears to float on your finger. Diamond Trace ring, $15,260, KatKimFineJewelry.com

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TREND WATCH

A cluster setting of several small stones is a gorgeous way to upcycle gems. Plus, it’s a budget-savvy alternative to one large center stone. Demi Globe Plus 9 diamond ring, $9,880, GraceLee.com (also on right)

9 FULL TILT An east-west setting (read: where the center stone sits horizontally) gives a marquise diamond an edgier vibe. Marquise diamond and pavé engagement ring, from $4,000, Kwiat.com

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We’re predicting genderless bands are here to stay for a few reasons: They’re inherently inclusive, tend to be more affordable than classic bridal sets (depending on the style) and, in these post-COVID times, they’re easy to sanitize. The newest designs are bolder than ever. Diamond-encrusted cigar bands, signet

rings and eternity bands give the standard solid metal band a serious fashion upgrade. Have your heart set on an elaborate style but also don’t want to forgo a traditional engagement ring with a center stone? You’ve still got options. We love the idea of wearing your engagement ring and wedding band on separate hands, or wearing your engagement ring on certain days and your wedding band on others. The bottom line: You don’t have to stick to a classic wedding ring set if you’re feeling something different.

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They may be the “It” stones of 2021, but emeralds have always been one of history’s most sought-after jewels. Since the time of ancient Greece, when emeralds were believed to be the sacred stone of the goddess Aphrodite, they’ve been a symbol of eternal love. Ancient Arab, Hindu and Spanish physicians even used emeralds as protection against poison and disease. Magical powers aside, these vibrant green gemstones are associated with new beginnings and, not to mention, are undeniably gorgeous. In modern times, emerald is the traditional birthstone for May and the astrological sign of Cancer.

Ignore gendered sizing. If you have your heart set on a ring that isn’t available in your size, ask if your jeweler can make your preferred design to fit you.

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These green gemstones are stunning but fragile. Since emeralds are softer than diamonds and have more inclusions (internal flaws), they also have more breaking points than other gemstones. But don’t let that deter you from wearing your emerald ring—just make sure you care for it correctly. Keep it in a case separate from your other jewelry and never use commercial cleaners or chemicals to polish it. You’ll also want to avoid hitting your green sparkler against hard surfaces to prevent damage.

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SLIP DRESSES Two words: Sleek and chic. Influenced by Carolyn Bessette Kennedy’s iconic wedding style, late-1990s brides were all about the sultry slip dress.

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MERMAIDS The dramatic mermaid gown, with a fitted top and full bottom, became the fave style of brides going for an ultra-glam look. Another trend often paired with this silhouette? Lots of bling.

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PUFF SLEEVES The maximalist aesthetic of the ’80s (think: Princess Diana’s wedding dress) lingered in the form of voluminous sleeves —the bigger, the better. Today, a toned-down version of this trend is all the rage again.

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STRAPLESS BA L L G OW NS A timeless style that remains au courant, strapless ball gowns were everywhere—both on celebrities and everyday brides alike—in the early aughts through the 2010s.

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We’ve seen thousands of dresses in our 25 years of sitting in the front row at Bridal Fashion Week. Our biggest takeaway? Wedding attire has changed a lot in the last two-and-a-half decades. And while the days of cookiecutter gowns and pure white palettes are long gone, scores of memorable looks have hit the runways in the meantime. Here, a look back at some of the hottest—and most revolutionary— wedding fashion trends, from 1996 to the present day.

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2012

B LU S H White gowns dipped in popularity when blush took over as the go-to hue of fashion-forward brides. Subdued but still nontraditional, this pastel shade of pink is now considered a wedding dress staple.

PRONOVIAS

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Dresses with removable skirts, trains, sleeves and toppers are the dress of the moment in 2021. A huge plus of a convertible dress? You get one look for your ceremony and another for your reception—without a full wardrobe change.

Dare to bare. See-through dresses shook up the bridal fashion runways. Once considered too risqué for wedding attire, totally sheer gowns with strategically placed appliqués made their way into the mainstream.

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DRESSES WITH SLEEVES Thanks to Kate Middleton’s custom gown by Alexander McQueen, sleeves quickly caught on with royal watchers. The covered-up style replaced strapless dresses as the “It” silhouette.

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Two-piece gowns with crop tops made their debut in the mid2010s. The edgy, midriff-baring look became the preferred silhouette of boho brides looking to pull off a more carefree wedding style.

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2018

B R I DA L JUMPSUITS No dress? No problem. Formal jumpsuits came on the scene as both an alternative take on the classic bridal suit and an effortless option for weddingrelated events.

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We tested hundreds of products to find the best of the best for your wedding beauty arsenal. The end result? Everything you need to get gorgeous for your day. BY

LOOK OUT! Keep your eyes peeled for our stamp of approval online and in stores.

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A guide to some of our standout picks

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CLEAN CHOICE:

Winners with nontoxic ingredients

BUDGET PICK:

Winners that won’t break the bank

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M AS CAR A This jet-black mascara lengthens, thickens and curls all at once, without any clumps or flakes. The viscous formula builds upward and outward for full, fluffy lashes that rival falsies. Anastasia Beverly Hills Lash Brag volumizing mascara, $25, Sephora.com

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EY E SHADO W Whether you’re going for a glam smoky eye or a more natural look, you’ll use this versatile mix of 18 talc-free shades in smooth mattes, pretty pearls and shimmery metallics well beyond your day. Lawless The One eye shadow palette, $63, Sephora.com

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It’s earned its cult status. The tried-and-true base makeup offers full coverage with lasting power (up to 24 hours’ worth) and comes in over 55 shades. Estée Lauder Double Wear Stay-in-Place foundation, $43, Sephora.com

Avoid a makeup meltdown with this hydrating spray. It ensures seamless makeup application, blurs pores and locks in your look for 16 hours— no matter how wild the dance floor gets. Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless setting spray, $35, Sephora.com

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CO N CEALER A miracle worker that disappears into the skin, this creamy concealer smooths away dark circles and blemishes without settling into fine lines. Clé de Peau Beauté concealer broad spectrum SPF 25, $73, Nordstrom.com

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A cooling combo of CBD extract, blue agave extract, aloe, hyaluronic acid and B vitamins hydrates and grips onto makeup for up to 12 hours. Milk Makeup Hydro Grip primer, $34, Sephora.com THE BEST

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SET T I N G PO W D ER Not only does this powder give you a complexion worthy of an Instagram filter, but it staves off dreaded T-zone shine without washing you out. Urban Decay All Nighter lightweight loose setting powder, $29, Sephora.com

These falsies come in sections versus strips, so you can choose the level of lash drama that works for you. Apply a few to the outer corners of the eyes for a subtle look or go all in. Lashify Control Kit, $145, Lashify.com

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B ROW P RODU C T Conquer your brow goals once and for all with this three-in-one tool that offers a retractable pencil, brow pen and a spoolie brush for blending. Valentino Brow Trio eyebrow liner, $40, Nordstrom.com

These must-haves stand up to happy tears and daylong celebrations—all while looking amazing in high-definition photos.

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B R U S HES The unique shape of these brushes makes sure the supersoft bristles provide even application no matter what makeup you use (cream, powder or liquid). Artis Brush Elite 5-piece brush set, $170, Net-a-Porter.com

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M A K E U P SPO N G E

These crayon-like lip colors look fun to play with, but they’re worth taking seriously. The saturated color goes on without drying or clumping. And it stays put through first kisses and after-party eats. Velvet Matte lip pencil, $27, NarsCosmetics.com

Disposable sponges aren’t the most ecofriendly option, but this biodegradable one means you can bounce and blend to your heart’s desire— without the added waste. EcoTools Bioblender biodegradable makeup sponge, $6, Ulta.com

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EYELINER You might think liquid liner is your best bet for a day of tear-inducing moments, but this gel pencil will change your mind. The ingenious formula glides on and doesn’t budge. It Cosmetics Superhero No-Tug sharpenable gel eyeliner, $24, Ulta.com

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HIGHLIGHTER Play up your cheekbones with this vitamin E and jojoba-infused powder that leaves a sheer wash of iridescent color. The end result? A dewy finish that won’t look too glittery in photos. e.l.f. Cosmetics Baked highlighter, $4, ELFCosmetics.com

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BR O N Z ER The cream-based contour shade in this handy duo effortlessly sculpts your features, while the superfine pressed powder sets your sun-kissed glow. Patrick Ta Major Sculpt creme contour and powder bronzer duo, $38, Sephora.com

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B LU S H This lightweight blush has a buildable color for a naturallooking flush. Plus, the highly pigmented shades won’t fade, even after hours of wear. Covergirl TruBlend So Flushed High pigment blush, $10, Target.com

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This blend of plantbased proteins, fatty acids and cow’s milk-derived elements (yes, really) promotes a healthier scalp and stronger, longer hair. Harklinikken Extract, $88, Harklinikken.com

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S H A M P O O + CO N D I T IO N ER You don’t have to spend a fortune for quality shampoo and conditioner. This smoothing duo contains nourishing ingredients like vitamin E and shea butter to hydrate your hair and give it a glossy finish after just one wash. Mondays Haircare Smooth shampoo and conditioner, $7 each, Ulta.com

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GROWTH STIMULATOR

While most curl products work for certain textures but not others, this is a dream for every kind of curl. The buttery formula glides onto strands without weighing them down to create frizzfree bounce that lasts. Bread Beauty Supply Elastic Bounce conditioning styler hair cream, $28, Sephora.com

Real talk: Stress, hormones and poor nutrition affect your hair. We’re fans of this plantbased, two-step system that’s customized for your unique hair profile. Root Source herbal supplement, $52, Prose.com

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HEAT PROTECTANT A true multitasker, this primes your hair for hot tools, adding volume and hold. The mist-to-mousse formula also allows you to see exactly where you’ve applied it and then dissolves with heat styling. Oribe Tres Set Structure spray, $46, Sephora.com

HAIR TREATME N T THE BEST

FRIZZ C ONTROL Thanks to patented bond-building technology, this leave-in treatment instantly locks in moisture and strengthens your strands to eliminate unwanted fuzzies for up to 72 hours. Olaplex No. 6 Bond Smoother, $28, Sephora.com

Give your hair a quick boost with this 60-second treatment packed with flaxseed, amino acids and antioxidants. It instantly seals your cuticles and hydrates—no matter your hair type. Amika Flash Instant Shine hair gloss mask, $25, Sephora.com

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HAI R BR U S H

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HAIR OIL

It’s the best of both worlds. This brush is made of wood and flexible vegan boar-style bristles to gently detangle your tresses while evenly distributing your natural hair oil for a mane that shines. INH mixed-bristle hairbrush, $22, INHHair.com

When it comes to getting silky locks, hair oil is your secret weapon. This one is infused with Mirsalehi honey, a powerhouse ingredient that repairs your strands—but never leaves them feeling greasy. Gisou honey-infused hair oil, $87, Sephora.com

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Volume your thing? Meet your new BFF. This iron has a smart-touch interface as well as HeadID technology, which adjusts heat based on your hair texture, color and chemical treatments for bouncy curls—sans damage. T3 Curl ID 1.25” Smart curling iron, $249, Sephora.com

Say goodbye to aerosol hair sprays and hello to this non-aerosol one, infused with vegan collagen and hempseed oil to hydrate while also creating a strong hold that’s never crunchy. Pacifica Higher Hold vegan collagen hair spray, $16, Ulta.com

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Even if your DIY blowout game isn’t on point, don’t stress. This easy-to-use dryer and brush combo, with its volumizing barrel and adjustable heat settings, will give you salon-worthy hair in minutes. Amika hair blow-dryer brush set, $100, Sephora.com

If your strands are fine or on the thinner side, we’ve got you covered. This gravity-defying spray lifts at the roots, doesn’t feel stiff to the touch and smells absolutely amazing. R+CO Bleu Magnifier thickening spray, $56, Nordstrom.com

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This flat iron gets the job done and keeps hair healthy. It’s pre-set to 365 degrees, a safe temperature to minimize damage. And its two-inch plates have sensors for consistent heat distribution. GHD Gold Max 2” styler, $219, Sephora.com

To-be-weds with thick hair, rejoice. This powerful hair dryer may be pricey, but it’s worth every darn penny. It’s light as a feather, never singes your scalp and will dramatically cut down your drying time. Supersonic hair dryer, $400, Dyson.com

Spray this on your roots to absorb oils and sweat and keep your ’do looking fresh from the first look to the after-party. Bonus: This clean dry shampoo has no talc or aluminum, which can be toxic. Act + Acre Plant Based dry shampoo, $20, Net-A-Porter.com

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EXFO L IA TO R Do your skin a favor and swap abrasive face scrubs for this non-drying alternative. This five-minute facial uses clay and blueberry-seed powder to gently slough off dead skin. Glow Recipe Watermelon Glow Hyaluronic clay facial, $40, Sephora.com

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AC NE TREATMENT

Swipe on a lip mask before bed and you’ll wake up with a plumper pout—no needles necessary. This one is packed with shea and murumuru seed butters, which heal and condition even the driest lips. Summer Fridays lip butter balm, $22, Sephora.com

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Stop pimples before they surface. This two-step kit includes a salicylic acid wipe and microdart patch that kill bacteria in as little as two hours. Killa kit, $29, ZitSticka.com

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This lipid-enriched cream mimics your skin’s delicate moisture barrier. Reparative ingredients like squalane, ceramides and plant sterols hydrate evenly and plump up fine lines. Squalane + Omega repair cream, $58, Biossance.com

Formulated with the one of the highest concentrations of encapsulated L-ascorbic acid you can get, this fast-acting serum brightens, evens out and firms your complexion. BeautyStat Universal C skin refiner, $80, Nordstrom.com

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D A R K S PO T CO R R ECT O R If you’re dealing with discoloration, this innovative serum is here to save the day. While it can be used on any skin tone, it’s uniquely formulated for skin of color to fade dark spots and prevent new ones from forming. Milk Marvel Dark Spot serum, $68, EADEM.co

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FAC E MIS T Just a spritz or two of this triple threat—infused with aloe vera, squalane and green tea—calms skin, refreshes makeup and leaves behind a dewy finish. Bonus: You can also use it as a setting spray. Daily Hydrating & Setting Mist face mist, $48, BeiaBeauty.com THE BEST

HY DRATING SERUM THE BEST

LAS H S ER U M Not a fan of falsies? Go au naturel with this vegan solution. Its plant-based ingredients deliver thicker, longer lashes without the risk of darkening your lash line or changing your eye color. Vegamour GRO+ Advanced lash serum, $88, Vegamour.com

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When it comes to achieving that wedding glow, hydration is the name of the game. Get a radiant complexion with this soothing serum, which contains sodium hyaluronate, a derivative of hyaluronic acid that can penetrate into the deeper layers of the skin and draw in moisture. Drunk Elephant B-Hydra Intensive Hydration serum, $48, Sephora.com

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EY E MA S K Sleep deprived from wedding planning? Peep these eye masks. Brightening niacinamide, retinol and natural extracts work together to de-puff and smooth fine lines. Loops Beauty eye mask, $20 for 5, Revolve.com

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Not all toners are created equal. This alcohol-free mist has an aloe base, probiotics and soothing niacinamide, meaning it will balance out your complexion but won’t cause irritation. Molecular Saviour probiotics treatment mist, $59, AlliesofSkin.com

The difference between a close shave and dreaded irritation is often a good shaving cream. Enter: this nourishing one that conditions skin and adds a buttery buffer for your razor. Eos Shea Better shave cream, $4, Ulta.com

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RAZOR Shaving is no one’s favorite activity, but this ergonomically designed razor, with five supersharp blades surrounded by a water-activated serum, makes for a smooth experience. The Razor Kit, $9, AthenaClub.com

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F A C E W AS H It isn’t just a derm favorite. TikTok is also abuzz with this affordable, effective face wash. Its silky-smooth texture will gently remove dirt and makeup without stripping your skin’s natural oils. Cerave hydrating cleanser, $14, Ulta.com

If there’s a time to up your shower game, your wedding is it. Buff, bathe and bronze your way to head-to-toe confidence with these essentials. THE BEST

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E Y E C R EAM Look like you got your beauty rest (even if you didn’t) with this kiwi-seed-oil-infused eye cream. It sinks into your skin upon application and is clinically proven to stimulate collagen production. Kiwi Seed Oil eye cream, $46, AntipodesNature.com

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BODY SC RUB The gorgeous color makes it almost too pretty to use. But you’ll be glad you did once you feel how the gently exfoliating formula of crushed amethyst, salt, coconut oil and night-blooming jasmine leaves your skin oh so soft. Amethyst exfoliating body scrub, $44, Herbivore.com

While self-tanner might invoke orange nightmares, our pick is here to calm your fears. This lotion goes on evenly and darkens to a glowy, natural-looking shade. Vita Liberata Heavenly Elixir self-tanner, $44, Nordstrom.com

There are bound to be some stressful moments on your day. Stay dry with a spray that goes on sheer, won’t irritate sensitive skin and works for 48 hours. Dove Invisible Dry Spray Clear Finish antiperspirant, $7, Target.com

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SUNSC REEN Shield yourself with a fragrance-free formula that lasts for four hours at a time— and won’t leave behind a chalky residue or compete with your wedding fragrance. SPF 30 fragrance-free sunscreen lotion, $11, BondiSands.com

THE BEST

C L A R I F Y I N G M AS K One of the best ways to prevent breakouts? Add a purifying clay mask to your rotation. Choose this non-drying one to purge pores and remove excess oils. Clarifying clay masque, $59, SkinCeuticals.com

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B ODY LO TIO N

Apply this rich moisturizing soap all over at the beginning of your shower, then rinse it off shortly before drying off for silky skin that stays hydrated all day. Olay Rinse-Off body conditioner with shea butter, $6, Target.com

True to its name, this luxurious moisturizer is mega-hydrating. Packed with antioxidants like vitamins C and E, it soothes, firms and even fights off free radicals, which may cause aging. Peter Thomas Roth Mega-Rich body lotion, $18, Nordstrom.com

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BAS E CO AT A base coat should do more than just make your mani last. This one also strengthens your nails thanks to superstar ingredients like biotin and diamond particles. Power Coat base coat, $18, JINSoon.com

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GEL MANIC URE KIT THE BEST

H A N D S A N I T IZ ER In light of the COVID-19 pandemic, hand sanitizer is a new must for everyone’s beauty routine. This one’s so moisturizing, you won’t feel— or smell—the alcohol. Hand sanitizer with moisturizing aloe, $18, Lather.com

Gel manicures have some major pros: They last longer than traditional polish and tend to have a shinier finish. Our pick is a totally affordable DIY option that will give you the quality of a professional gel mani from home. Gelie-Cure Foundation Pro Kit Pro LED Light, $85, Zoya.com

THE BEST

P O L IS H RE MO VE R This nontoxic pick dissolves even the darkest and most stubborn polish without acetone (or its icky smell). Pr.01 Soy polish remover, $28, DearSundays.com

THE BEST

P O L IS H This bright, opaque shade of white is equal parts elegant and playful and flatters all skin tones. (Not your hue? No worries. This line offers dozens of other options.) Paper Plate nail lacquer, $18, JanetAndJo.com

THE BEST

Applying cuticle oil increases the circulation around your nails, stimulating growth. Use this luxe oil-based serum twice a day for noticeably stronger nails. Protect & Nourish oil-based serum, $58, MoMiBeauty.com

THE BEST

H A N D C REAM Your hands can show your age even more than your face. Get into the habit of massaging this decadent cream—with peptides, Marula oil and soothing niacinamide— into your knuckles and cuticles before bed. Nécessaire The Hand Cream, $20, Sephora.com

All eyes are about to be on your new bling—and your hands. These picks promise pristine digits, so you’ll be #ringselfie ready.

THE BEST

TO P C O A T Swipe this on to seal polish with a lustrous finish that’s immune to smudging or chipping. Pro tip: Make sure to pull it all the way over the tips of your nails for the most durable results. OPI RapiDry top coat, $14, Ulta.com

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It’s complex—and that’s why we love it. This intoxicating scent starts strong with bergamot and ban timmur, reveals notes of fig and rum, then fades to warm cashmere woods and tonka bean. Byredo Eleventh Hour eau de parfum, $190 for 1.7 oz, Nordstrom.com

W A R DS

Scent is closely tied to memory. Choose a new perfume to remind you of your “I dos” every time you wear it.

THE BEST

BE A C HY Basically an endless summer in a bottle, this laid-back scent combines airy notes of sea salt, sandalwood and seaweed to mimic the smell of a breezy day at the beach. Salt Air eau de parfum $85 for 50 ml, Skylar.com

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Fresh mandarin, elegant vanilla orchid and sensual musk come together for a timeless scent that works for any wedding style and season. Alibi eau de parfum, $105 for 3.4 oz, OscardelaRenta.com

Inspired by fresh linens, this fragrance is all about clean vibes. Delicate notes of white musk and lily of the valley meet ambrette seed, pear and iris for the crispest scent ever. Maison Margiela Replica Lazy Sunday Morning eau de toilette, $135 for 100 ml, Sephora.com

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H E RBA C E O U S Forget everything you think you know about lavender. This electric fragrance blends two different kinds of the French herb with earthy carrot-seed oil and tonka bean for a powerful effect. Tom Ford Lavender Extreme eau de parfum, $368 for 50 ml, Sephora.com

THE BEST

F LO R AL It’s not your grandma’s rose perfume. Grasse rose and centifolia rose meet woodsy cumin, frankincense, cedar and amber for an unapologetically sultry take on an iconic flower. Le Labo Rose 31 eau de parfum, $285 for 3.4 oz, Nordstrom.com

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A fruit-forward fragrance with notes of grapefruit blossom, basil, tarragon, orange blossom and Haitian vetiver instantly transports you to a sunny destination. Eau Papaguéna eau de parfum, $225 for 50 ml, Elisire.com

Any fragrance can be unisex if you want it to be, but this one—with apple, bergamot, jasmine, violet, vanilla and pepper—is neither masculine nor feminine, but is both distinct and decadent. Parfums de Marly Layton eau de parfum, $215 for 2.5 oz, Saks.com

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Prefer savory to sweet? A “cake” of cheese wheels offers a grand finish.

WEDDING TRADITIONS TO 69

Nothing is set in stone. Everything can be tweaked and reimagined to suit your wedding day. Here are a few of our favorite ways to remix the tried and true.

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W E D D I N G PA R T Y Traditions for bridesmaids and groomsmen have been cast aside in favor of more inclusive customs—hello wedding party—and we’re here for it.

THE COUPLE There’s a good chance you’ve been fielding wedding advice since you announced your engagement—here’s a chance to go your own way!

TRADITION

Everyone in the wedding party must match.

Bridesmaids stand on the left, groomsmen stand on the right.

Flower girls and ring bearers are honors given to children.

TWIST

Mismatched fashion is all the rage (and beloved by your VIPs). Choose a palette, a fabric, or a series of styles (long gowns, jumpsuits) and let your friends infuse their own style into their look. This goes for shoes and other accessories too.

Today’s wedding parties are comprised of all kinds of loved ones who mean something to each half of the duo. Stand where it makes the most sense— i.e. your brother will look stellar in a suit sandwiched between your best girls.

What’s cuter than a Flower Grandma? We’ll wait. Positions of honor should go to the people who have championed you and your love story. Maybe that’s a bow-tie-clad nephew, or maybe it’s your grandparents who have spent decades together.

TRADITION

You can’t see each other on the wedding day before your “I dos.” TWIST

Get ready together—really. Or, if you like the idea of a grand reveal, opt for a first look with your photographer in tow. This first-look concept works for any and everyone, from grandparents to The One. TRADITION

The bride wears white.

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TWIST

Wear whatever color you want— red, blue, gold. And if a dress isn’t your vibe, skip it. Jumpsuits, shorts à la Olivia Palermo or separates are fair game. So are multiple outfits. TRADITION

Jet off on your honeymoon immediately following the reception. TWIST

Take your honeymoon when it works for you. With travel restrictions in place, couples embraced alternatives in 2020/2021. Escape for a mini-moon at a local hotel or celebrate your first anniversary with a bucket-list trip. Remember, there’s no one way to moon.

JUST SKIP IT It’s totally okay to pass on the things that don’t feel right to you. If you’re not in favor of these age-old rituals, you don’t have to come up with an alternative—just leave them out altogether.

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REGISTRY

Vows must be exchanged for it to be official, but everything else— from a unity ceremony to the music—is completely up to you.

Registering for gifts is the to-be-weds’ ultimate perk. This is your chance to get exactly what you want and need for your new life together— act accordingly.

TRADITION

A minister or clergy member must officiate.

TRADITION

TWIST

Your best friend, your uncle or a nondenominational officiant can preside over your wedding ceremony. You can include religious readings or poems, a ring blessing, or you can make guacamole in lieu of lighting candles. Bottom line: you do you. TRADITION

You have to walk down the aisle.

TWIST

Ask guests to process to you or enter from the sides of a ceremony in the round. You can also consider taking the aisle together. There are so many right ways to enter and exit. Same is true for your escort—choose the person or people most important to you and this moment. TRADITION

The ceremony comes before cocktail hour. TWIST

Keep guests guessing with cocktail hour before your “I dos.” Invite everyone to gather early for spritzers and light bites, exchange vows and then hit the dance floor to celebrate!

TOASTS AT THE RECEPTION

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RECEPTION Perhaps the best part of the wedding day, the reception holds endless possibilities for personalization and fun. Lean into your vibe!

TRADITION

You must hire a band or DJ for entertainment.

Every wedding needs a cake.

The first dance is sacred.

TWIST

We’re partial to cake, but stand firm on a grand finish to the night, whatever that is. Cupcakes, doughnut walls, help-yourself cookie bars and handheld pies are all excellent sweet alternatives to a tiered confection. If you love cake but don’t want to cut it in front of everyone, skip this ritual, or cut the cake in secret while your guests are enjoying cocktail hour.

Invite all your guests to open the dance floor and forgo the spotlight. Instead of parent dances, ask all married couples to take the floor for an anniversary dance (as the song plays, the DJ asks couples to leave the floor based on wedded years). If you like the idea of the ritual but don’t want to dance, opt for a duet, a lightsaber duel or a hula-hooping contest instead.

TWIST

We love a packed dance floor as much as the next guy, but unexpected entertainment is the best kind of wedding surprise. Opt for a roving magician during cocktail hour, a single electric guitarist or a Broadway dance number. There are plenty of ways to delight guests—like photo booths, tarot card readers or synchronized swimmers.

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You have to register for wedding china. TWIST

You can register for whatever you want. If you want china, add it to your wish list. But if not, ask for a new record player or a robotic vacuum instead. TRADITION

You can’t ask for cash. TWIST

Yes, you can! And you should if it will help fulfill your newlywed dreams. If you’re hoping to take an epic trip or buy a new home, cash can make these dreams a reality. The Knot Registry makes it easy to ask for money. TRADITION

You shouldn’t ask for anything expensive. TWIST

Group gifting is a win-win for guests and the couple of honor. If you’re in the market for something pricey, like a Big Green Egg cooker for the backyard, add it to your registry. You may have a very generous relative or, better yet, your college pals can band together to make your BBQ fantasies a reality.

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Modern AN ICONIC PIECE OF ART INSPIRED THIS CLASSIC-MEETS-CONTEMPORARY CELEBRATION IN SAN FRANCISCO.

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BY L AU R E N K AY PHOTOGRAPHY BY LARISSA CLEVELAND C R E AT I V E D I R ECT I O N BY JESSE TOMBS FLORALS BY STUDIO MONDINE VENUE SAN FRANCISCO MUSEUM OF MODERN ART

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STATUE: ELLSWORTH KELLY, STELE I, 1973; ©ELLSWORTH KELLY FOUNDATION, COURTESY MATTHEW MARKS GALLERY; PAINTING: JULIE MEHRETU, HOWL, EON (I, II), 2016-2017; SAN FRANCISCO MUSEUM OF MODERN ART, GIFT OF HELEN AND CHARLES SCHWAB; ©JULIE MEHRETU

Stele I, a weathered-steel sculpture by Ellsworth Kelly, inspired the wedding’s design. The invite suite includes an oxidized piece of copper that, like a fine wine—or a good love story—gets better with age. Paper, @YonderDesign

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STYLE + PLANNING STUNNING STEMS

AVA N T- G A R D E “ I D O S ” The sculpture serves as the backdrop for the ceremony, keeping the focus on the couple.

GOOD BONES “The venue is the backbone of the day,” says Jesse Tombs, an event designer in San Francisco. “Try and find a space that has 80 percent of what you love—the rest can be solved.” Dress, Carolina Herrera from @JinWangBride

Dalmatian foxgloves, dahlias, flowering oregano and stypha grass in a mix of bold and soft hues make up the lush arrangements.

ARTISTIC APPS Presentation and flavor pair beautifully in bite-sized delicacies. Ask catering pros to serve passed nibbles to be extra safe. Catering, @PaulaLeDuc

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F I N I S H I N G TO U C H

A pop of color on a classic lapel elevates the ensemble (and adds due attention to the VIP). Coordinate your bout buds with the other event florals for a polished look. Suit, @TheBlackTux

S I G N AT U R E S I P “Serve something that will be enjoyed by most of your guests,” says Tombs. A tequila-andelderflower cocktail is a crowd-pleaser.

M E M E N TO S

A striking combo of accessories, like a pearlencrusted turban and statement earrings, is a chic complement to a second look. Dress, @LelaRoseBridal

The linen folio invite is one of a kind, as are the engraved turquoise stone place cards. Both serve as nice postwedding keepsakes.

MODELS, @CASTIMAGES; BEAUTY, @SHERRIELONG

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MODELS, @CASTIMAGES; BEAUTY, @SHERRIELONG

Classic pastel and goldrimmed china marries beautifully with wine-colored linens and tarnished-copper napkin rings for an edgy, unexpected setting. Rentals, @TheoniCollection

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MADE to LAST THESE EIGHT HERITAGE BRANDS (AND PRODUCTS) ARE DECADES-LONG REGISTRY MAINSTAYS FOR GOOD REASON. PRO TIP: ADD THEM TO YOURS. BY L AU R E N K AY

KITCHENAID ARTISAN 5- QUART TILT-HEAD STAND MIXER If a KitchenAid mixer isn’t on your registry, are you even getting married? The brand's first stand mixer was invented in 1919, but its 1937 model really hooked customers. KitchenAid has continued to innovate on this solid favorite, offering dozens of attachments that allow you to spiralize veggies, make fresh pasta and even juice. It’s a baking powerhouse and a great tool for small kitchens thanks to its amazing versatility. $430, KitchenAid.com

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REGISTRY CAT EG O R I E S BAKEWARE COOKWARE KITCHEN APPLIANCES

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This set is a pricey but worthy investment— trust us.

ALL- CLAD D3 STAINLESS COOKWARE SET, 10-PIECE

Ever wonder who had the genius idea of a wedding registry? It wasn't us—we've only been around 25 years. But we're here for it and aim to make it easier than ever for couples to ask for what they want.

1924

You cannot go wrong with this essential set of cookware, compatible with all cooktops and oven-safe up to 600 degrees. Its tri-ply construction of aluminum core and stainless steel conducts heat fast and distributes it evenly. All-Clad products have been made in Pennsylvania for over 50 years and are built to last. $700, All-Clad.com

Chicago department store Marshall Field’s (now owned by Macy’s) established its first wedding registry.

1995 Wedding registries went online thanks to Target (125,000 couples signed up the first year).

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A chef’s knife is a kitchen essential and easily a cook’s MVP. It can be used for chopping, mincing, slicing and dicing; even a winter squash is no match for its extrasharp blade. Wüsthof has been in the business for more than 200 years and is still family-run and -operated. The quality can be felt in the hand: A comfortable grip and well-balanced blade let you take on just about anything. $225, Wusthof.com

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O F C O U P L ES R EG I ST E R AT AMAZON, THE MOST POPULAR R E TA I L E R O F T H O S E S U RV E Y E D

1998 The Knot helped pioneer the online registry. Couples received a curated list of registry items based on their answers to an online lifestyle quiz, and The Knot fulfilled online guest purchases for couples across the country.

BOOS CUTTING BOARD This Illinois-based brand has been in the business of wood (and steel) for well over 100 years. Its butcher blocks and cutting boards are legendary. This board is crafted from sustainably harvested North American walnut. It’s reversible and wide enough to handle meal prep with ease, while protecting your knife blades. The company continues to expand its offerings and tweak its manufacturing processes to be more energy efficient and have less material waste. $141, Williams-Sonoma.com

2017

YO U S H O U L D R E G I S T E R F O R

YO U R G U E S T L I S T

The Knot launched its first cash registry to help couples build their new life together, whether they want cash for the honeymoon, a nest egg to buy a home or funds for date nights to come.

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With over a dozen colors, Le Creuset has a match for your kitchen.

LE CREUSET ROUND DUTCH OVEN 5.5-QUART The iconic Dutch oven is ideal for slow cooking, roasting, frying and even baking (if you had one during quarantine, there’s a good chance it held a round of sourdough). Le Creuset has been making its ovens since 1925—using enameled cast iron for exceptional heat retention and easy cleanup—and is designed to be used for generations. It’s compatible with all cooktops and can withstand a 500-degree oven. Best of all, it’s dishwasher-safe. $370, LeCreuset.com

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OF COUPLES WHO REGISTERED FOR CASH PLANNED TO USE IT FOR A HONEYMOON

PYREX 10-PIECE GLASS FOOD STORAGE SET Odds are your childhood leftovers ended up in Pyrex. This glassware brand has been in homes for over 100 years, with the mission to make products as versatile as they are long-lasting. Hot foods can go directly into these tempered storage containers and straight into the fridge. They are microwaveand oven-safe and can even be used to freeze fresh foods or tote last night's dinner to the office. $28, Pyrex.com

CUISINART STAINLESS STEEL 13-CUP FOOD PROCESSOR The ultimate sous chef, the food processor is a kitchen workhorse. Introduced in 1973, this appliance was immediately adopted and beloved by home cooks. It easily chops, dices, shreds, grinds and purees almost anything. Many models, like the 13-cup, are perfect for making pie crust or juicing a big batch of limes for margaritas. $200, Cuisinart.com

KITCHEN ALTERNATIVES You can register for anything. Full stop. Anything—as long as it’s a gift you both will love and use (i.e. a firepit is fair game; a new pair of Air Jordans, not so much). Here are a few picks that top our wish lists.

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THERAGUN ELITE Full body massage, on demand— this handheld deep-tissue gun will melt away tension and release muscle soreness. It’s ultra-quiet with a 120-minute battery life and customizable speeds. $399, Therabody.com

PURA HOME FRAGRANCE DIFFUSER Diffuse designer fragrances throughout your home with this app-controlled device. Alternate between two scents, schedule dispersion and control the intensity. $68, Anthropologie.com

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Not every product is made for forever— especially smart home picks that will evolve—but we’ve rounded up a few pieces we predict will be on wish lists for years to come.

CASH Cash is king and will be a popular registry pick for now until…there's a new currency? It can be put toward anything from an epic honeymoon to a down payment on a home to fertility treatments. Or you can squirrel it away for future fun.

From muffins to cake, your baking needs are covered with this set.

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A H E A D O F W E D D I N G DAY I S THE BEST TIME TO REGISTER

OONI KODA PORTABLE OUTDOOR GAS PIZZA OVEN Win best backyard on the block with this authentic pizza maker. A onetouch gas ignition lets you make restaurant-quality pizza. You can even take it camping or on a picnic. $350, Williams-Sonoma.com

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This family-owned and -operated brand has been revolutionizing baking for over 70 years. It's best known for its iconic Bundt pan, which can be found in 75 million households worldwide. The business was started in a Minneapolis basement by a husband-and-wife team and has continued to grow, from a handful of Scandinavian cookware products to a wide array of kitchen helpers. The bakeware set is a versatile mix of classic pans made from rustproof aluminum. $85, CrateandBarrel.com

GOPRO MAX CAMERA Take home videos to the next level with this portable, 360-degree action camera. Its stability control is fierce enough to handle all terrain and a waterproof lens allows underwater exploration. $400, GoPro.com

More and more couples are adding speakers and flat-screen televisions to their wish list. With technology always in motion, we expect the “next generation” of these products to be registry staples for 25 years to come.

GIFT CARDS Love them or hate them (we love them), gift cards are here to stay. They help prolong the celebration and allow you to choose something just right for your newlywed life—or your fifth wedding anniversary, depending on your spending restraint.

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FUTURE FAVO R I T E S

PARAVEL LUGGAGE SET This is a suitcase you can feel good about. Paravel offsets all carbon emissions and delivers a sleek and functional design for worldwide adventures. From $280, TourParavel.com

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STYLE + PLANNING

YOUR ‘I DO’ HOW-TO S TA

N AIL D OWN YO U R

B U D G ET

Envision your wedding and decide how much you want to spend (and if anyone else will be contributing).

FIN D YO U R

WE D D I N G S T YLE Not sure where to start (totally normal, btw)? Download The Knot Wedding Planner app and take our Style Quiz. Zero in on your vibe—think industrial with bohemian details—and we’ll generate a personalized Wedding Vision you can share with your pro squad.

P H OTO G R A P H BY J ES S I CA P E T T WAY

G AT H E R YO UR

C RE W

Ask your besties to stand by you at the altar and in the months leading up to your day. Celebrate your peeps and your engaged status!

KEEP

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Not sure what to do when? Enter: our app’s totally customizable checklist. If you’re asking a friend to officiate, you can cross “find an officiant” off your to-do list. There’s also a budgeter to track spending.

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Download our app and get a personalized list of to-dos between now and wedding day.

WE GOT YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. HERE ARE THE BIG TO-DOS FROM “YES” TO “I DO.” PLUS, THE 411 ON OUR TOOLS (PERSONALIZED CHECKLIST, WEDDING WEBSITE, CASH REGISTRY) THAT WILL HELP GET YOU THERE WITH EASE.

ALL YOURS

FIN D A

EDITOR TIP It’s okay to go out of order or not tick every item off the list. Ask for help from your wedding VIPs—they want to help, trust us.

VE N U E

Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the date.

EDITOR TIP Think about what you love as a couple. Are you homebodies or the types to dress up and hit the dance floor? Your wedding should be a true reflection of who you are, so let your personalities define your style. (FYI: Most couples aren’t just one style.)

H IRE YO UR

TE AM

Research and book pros—anyone you have to have should be locked in ASAP. If you share your info with us (budget, location, guest count), we can recommend vendors and help you assemble a stellar pro squad. You can find tons of talent on The Knot Marketplace and check out reviews from newlyweds who hired them.

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G O FOR A

FIT TI N G

Have final attire fittings and arrange for dress and/or suit pickup.

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Raj is extremely dedicated and disciplined in everything he does, so it’s not surprising that ahead of his proposal, he spent an entire year emailing me every morning something that he loved about me.

-Alex PHOTOGRAPH BY HEATHER WARAKSA OF THE WEDDING ARTISTS CO.

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Alex + Raj

6�12�2021 | RANCHO SANTA FE , CA

POLISHED LUXURY PHOTOGRAPHS BY HEATHER WARAKSA OF THE WEDDING ARTISTS CO. EVENT PLANNING BY HAUTEFÊTES

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HEARTFELT INVITES The suite included handmade engraved wood frames as a nod to some of Raj’s favorite gifts he’s received from Alex over the years.

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Florals for the mehndi brunch included dendrobium orchids, pink ginger flowers, anthuriums and king proteas.

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POSITIVELY PERSONAL “It was important to us that we didn’t replicate other Indian weddings, but instead create a weekend and series of celebrations that uniquely reflected us as a couple. The end result was a Serbian x Indian wedding, or ‘Serbindian’ if you will,” says Alex of how the couple honored their heritage. WELCOME GIFTS Curated to represent the couple’s story, the boxes included caramels from Alex’s home state of Montana; candles from Colorado, where they met; and one of the couple’s favorite snacks: spicy cashews. LET’S DANCE For the sangeet, Alex and Raj hired dancers to perform “Indian dances and a traditional Serbian Kolo dance.” PLEASE BE SEATED The escort cards were “lotus-blossom capiz tea lights, which sat on acrylic lily pads with our guests’ names calligraphed on each.”

alifornia’s Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa holds a special spot in the hearts of Alexandra (Alex) (a physician scientist, M.D. Ph.D.) and Raj (the founder of a tech company). “Raj has been visiting Rancho Valencia for at least 20 years and we have celebrated many milestones there, so it feels like a second home for us,” says Alex. As such, when the pandemic made it clear that a wedding in India, Montana or Chicago (all of which were in the running) wouldn’t be possible, it felt like kismet for them to welcome guests to the property, where Raj proposed, during their eight-event “Passage to India meets SoCal garden-chic” wedding weekend. And they still memorialized those other locales; copper accents nodded to the Montana mining industry, while their stationery included Taj Mahal details. — HAN NAH N OWAC K

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FULL OF MEANING “Our entire wedding was a celebration of tradition and the marriage of different cultures, religion and familial history,” says Alex. For their Serbian Orthodox ceremony, the couple commissioned a custom stefana (a Serbian wedding crown) that they hope to pass down to their children. During the ceremony, they also lit candles last used by Alex’s parents in their marriage ceremony more than 40 years ago. STYLISH SWEETS Edible paper that mirrored the stationery embellished the center of Alex and Raj’s mixed-berry almond cake. SIGNATURE SIPS The couple served two signature cocktails: a strawberry sparkler with St. Germain, sparkling wine, lemon and strawberry; and blueberry vodka with pear puree and cherries.

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WEDDING STYLE An E LEG ANT and SO PH I S TI CATE D B L AC K-TI E celebration packed with CU LTU R AL ACC E NT S . A VI N E YAR D or PR IVATE ES TATE is an ideal venue.

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MUST-HAVES S PECIAL SO N G “The Scientist,” by Coldplay, played for the father-daughter dance since Alex’s dad inspired her to pursue medicine. SC E NT SCAPI N G The couple scented the tent with

spritzes of jasmine to bring in an olfactory element that would transport guests back to the celebration in the future. LIVE PAI NTE R The couple hired a painter to capture the rehearsal dinner scene. The artwork now hangs in their home.

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C E R E M O NY S ITES St. George Serbian Orthodox Church, San Diego, CA; Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa, Rancho Santa Fe, CA R EC E PTI O N S ITE Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa PH OTOG R APHY Heather Waraksa of The Wedding Artists Co. VI D EOG R APHY East West Production E VE NT PL AN N I N G + D ES I G N HauteFêtes FLO R AL D ES I G N Plenty of Petals O FFI CIANT S Father Bratislov Krsic; Pandit Narinder Shastri R E H E ARSAL D I N N E R AT TI R E Alex: Oscar de la Renta; Raj: Brunello Cucinelli M E H N D I AT TI R E Cucculelli Shaheen SAN G E ET AT TI R E Alex: Sabyasachi; Raj: Suitsupply WE D D I N G AT TI R E Alex: Reem Acra; Anita Dongre, Mumbai, India; Raj: Tom Ford; Anita Dongre H E ADPI ECES Veil: Reem Acra; stefana: Gigi Burris ACC ES SO R I ES Bhojwani; Silk Threads; Tanmai Jewelers FAS H I O N S T YLI N G Carrie L. Goldberg RI N G S Alex: J. Albrecht; Raj: Zofia Day HAI R + MAK EU P Beauty by Stacey S TATI O N E RY The Idea Emporium R E NTAL S Amber Event Production; The Ark; Bright; La Tavola; Theoni; Zephyr Tents CATE R I N G Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa CAK E Hey there, Cupcake! D ES S E RT Bottega Italiana M U S I C Ceremony: Slavyanka Chorus; reception: Lucky Devils Band; Indian music: DJ Raj Soundnation E NTE RTAI N M E NT Henna San Diego; painter: Laura Jane Fine Art; dancers: Karmagraphy WE LCO M E BAG S Marigold & Grey TR AN S P O RTATI O N Boutique Tents; La Jolla Golf Carts; San Diego Charter

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“We tried to infuse special meaning and significance in every element of the wedding,” says Alex. A lotus motif was one way the couple did that. To indicate guests’ seats at dinner, plaster blocks carved with lotus designs, representing Alex and Raj growing as a couple, sat atop each place setting.

Lotus flowers grow in muddy waters and can survive in harsh conditions for years, yet they produce stunning blooms—much like our journey on the way to true love. -Alex

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Bridget + Dapo

4�22�2021 | HOUSTON, TX

ALL ABOUT ELEGANCE PHOTOGRAPHS BY JOSH & DANA FERNANDEZ EVENT PLANNING BY SG3 EVENTS

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TIMELESS AESTHETIC “The overall theme we were going for was a very intimate, classic and elegant affair.”

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STORIED VENUE The historic French chapel where the couple said “I do” was shipped piece by piece from Europe to Texas and then reconstructed. MINIMAL PALETTE Bridget and Dapo’s color scheme consisted of whites and ivory with hints of taupe and greenery. ALL TOGETHER Bridget and Dapo sat all of their 25 guests at one long table for dinner. It was decorated with a “runner” of roses, ranunculus, anemones, lisianthus, trick dianthus and green viburnum. DRESSED TO THE NINES Given that Bridget is a fashion designer, it was no surprise that sleek attire filled the day. Her column wedding dress was a “statement piece on its own and exuded my style perfectly.”

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ridget Awosika (a womens wear designer) and Dapo Olagundoye’s (an agro-commodity trader) wedding planning journey was a globetrotting affair. The couple met (thanks to a chance run-in at an ATM) and reside in Lagos, Nigeria, but flew stateside for their nuptials. In late 2019, they wed with a traditional Nigerian minimony in Washington, DC, and planned to celebrate later with a Tuscan-inspired California wedding. Though the pandemic forced Bridget and Dapo to pivot to an event in Houston, the duo still brought European flair to their sequel wedding: The second vow exchange took place at a 15th-century French chapel. With a planning journey that took them all over the world, it’s no wonder their best advice for to-be-weds is to “be very flexible and keep an open mind!”— H N

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WEDDING STYLE A perfect blend of M O D E R N M I N I MALI S M and TI M E LES S E LEG AN C E . Invite guests to a H I STO R I C ES TATE or VI N E YAR D to celebrate.

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M O D E R N N EUTR AL S A contemporary take

on a neutral palette filled with crisp white, jet black and pops of green and berry.

5 MUST-HAVES CO U PLE ’ S COC K TAI L To complement Bridget’s Moscow mule signature cocktail and Dapo’s French 75, the duo served a third specialty drink: a champagne mule. M E AN I N G FU L M E N U Filet mignon and lobster

tails were “our meal on the night Dapo proposed and a meal we share often on our anniversary,” making them a big-day must. G R E AT TU N ES The couple made their grand entrance to “Better,” by Khalid.

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE Houston Oaks, Houston, TX PH OTOG R APHY Josh & Dana Fernandez VI D EOG R APHY Reverent Wedding Films E VE NT PL AN N I N G + D ES I G N SG3 Events E VE NT COO R D I NATI O N Belle Events FLO R AL D ES I G N Bramble & Bee O FFI CIANT Pastor Clayton Hurst GOWN Dsquared2 TUXE DO Giorgio Armani S H O ES Bridget: Escada; Giuseppe Zanotti; Dapo: YSL ACC ES SO R I ES Bridget: Swarovski FAS H I O N S T YLI N G Anna Awosika RI N G S Dickinson by Design HAI R Sean Dapper MAK EU P Japididit S TATI O N E RY Minted R E NTAL S Nüage Designs; What’s the Occasion CATE R I N G Houston Oaks CAK E Becca Cakes FAVO RS Jentee Bakes M U S I C Ceremony: Divisi Strings; DJ: Mixmaster Joe

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Celebrating family was key to Bridget and Dapo. “Being able to have my sister Sarah plan my wedding, wearing her veil from 12 years prior, having my sister Anna style my entire wedding day look, hosting the wedding in Dapo’s family’s hometown and having our parents wear matching ceremonial Nigerian attire were ways that we honored our family and made it meaningful to all of us!”

Family is very important to us and it was important to celebrate our journey to the altar alongside our family and include them in the celebration in very meaningful ways. - Bridget

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Alex + Karl

11�28�2020 | CHADBOURN, NC

BIRDS OF A FEATHER PHOTOGRAPHS BY KATE SUPA PHOTOGRAPHY EVENT PLANNING BY A . NOBLE EVENTS

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RUSTIC BLOOMS Bunny tails, roses, ruscus and scabiosa complemented feathers in the floral arrangements.

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FEATHERY FINE CHINA The pheasant-patterned china from Alex and Karl’s rental company inspired them to thread an avian motif into the day. PICKLED PRESENTS The “Pickled You’re Here” wall at cocktail hour, where guests received homemade pickles as their favor-meets-escort-card, was Alex and Karl’s favorite wedding detail. “Karl and I both grew up eating pickled veggies right out of the jar and I have memories of helping my grandma can vegetables from her garden,” says Alex. FARMWORTHY FAREWELL “My uncle owns a 1958 Ford tractor and we couldn’t think of a more fitting way to end the night than to drive off on the tractor through a tunnel of fireworks,” says Alex. The getaway nearly didn’t happen, however, as Karl only learned how to drive a stick shift mere minutes before the exit!

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amily and legacy were at the center of Alexandria (Alex) Noble (29 and an event planner and designer) and Karl Williams’ (30 and a sponsor contracts analyst) wedding. Even the ground where the couple tied the knot carried immense meaning: The day took place on Alex’s grandparents’ homestead in North Carolina. “Their love story on the farm began in 1958,” says Alex. “Their loving and devoted marriage of more than 60 years stands as an example to us. Exchanging vows on their farm was our way to honor them for instilling the importance of family into us.” Beyond choosing a special locale, the couple also settled on a Southern, pheasant-inspired aesthetic because to them, the South represents a warm and welcoming place that is defined only by the people in your company. — H N

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WEDDING VISION WEDDING STYLE A feather-filled RU S TI C event. Tie the knot on a FAR M or in a BAR N with vaulted ceilings and exposed wood beams.

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7 5 MUST-HAVES FAM I LY H E I R LOO M S The couple used diamonds

from a ring Karl’s grandmother gifted him to create Alex’s custom eternity wedding band. CU S TO M COC K TAI L NAPK I N S The couple had

napkins printed with cheeky idioms about life in the South like “The South: A place where we party till the cows come home.” CO LO R FU L B R I D ES MAI D S For each of her

attendants, Alex chose a dress color that represented their friendship.

INGREDIENTS C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N VE N U E A private residence, Chadbourn, NC PH OTOG R APHY Kate Supa Photography VI D EOG R APHY Light Cannon Films E VE NT PL AN N I N G + D ES I G N A. Noble Events FLO R AL D ES I G N Designs by Dillon O FFI CIANT Pastor Bill Simpson GOWN Theia, Lana Addison Bridal, Cary, NC S U IT Paul Betenly, Ticknors, Raleigh, NC S H O ES Alex: Bella Belle; Karl: Florsheim ACC ES SO R I ES Veil: Alexia’s Bridal, Raleigh, NC; lapel pin: Chesire Countrywear; bow tie: The Tie Bar E N G AG E M E NT R I N G Diamonds Direct WE DD I N G RI N G S Perry’s Emporium HAI R Alex: Megan Fann/ Salon 29:11; bridesmaids: Kate Barefoot MAK EU P Alex: Kimberly Mareno/Beautiful Irony; bridesmaids: Chelsea Elise Artistry WE D D I N G PART Y AT TI R E Bridesmaids: various; groomsmen: Ticknors S TATI O N E RY Invitations & day-of paper: Emily

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“A Southern tradition we followed was burying the bourbon,” says Alex. “Legend says that if you bury a bottle of unopened bourbon upside down at the ceremony site, within one month of your wedding, it will keep rain away. You are to dig it up after the ceremony and each take a swig from the bottle. In the end, it did actually rain the morning of the wedding, but cleared in time for setup.”

We buried a half-gallon of Woodford Reserve that was mostly consumed at the reception. However, we saved a little of our wedding bourbon to enjoy on our one-year anniversary. -Alex

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Megan + Daniela

4�10�2021 | DALLAS, TX

LADYBUG LOVE PHOTOGRAPHS BY CHARLA STOREY EVENT PLANNING BY PARTRIDGE AND PEAR WEDDINGS

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FRESH FLOWERS “The florals were chic and refined with a hint of whimsy.” The arrangements included ranunculus, roses and sweet peas.

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FILLED WITH LADYBUGS Megan and Daniela threaded a ladybug motif throughout the nuptials as a way to honor those not present at the event. “My grandmother always said ladybugs were good luck,” Megan explains. “And when our dog Olive passed, we asked her to come back as a ladybug.” Daniela’s mom gave the couple ladybug pins in remembrance of Olive. PERSONAL NOTES “We wrote handwritten notes to each guest that we placed at their table setting,” says Megan. “We wanted to make sure they knew how grateful we were that they were in our lives. Especially as a gay couple, the support of family and friends has been the greatest blessing for us.” MODERN RINGS Instead of traditional engagement rings, the couple chose simple eternity bands.

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agazine clippings inspired the backyard wedding Daniela Acosta (30 and a business owner) and Megan Lane (34 and an administrator) planned to celebrate their nine-year relationship. “We found a floral centerpiece we loved in a magazine and went from there,” says the couple. With that specific aesthetic as the foundation for their big day, Megan and Daniela got to work designing and DIYing the rest of their event. “We wanted the style to feel elegant, refined and appropriate for a garden wedding, without being fussy.” Since they couldn’t find the perfect black farm tables they envisioned, Megan and her dad built two for the dinner party-esque occasion. Furthermore, when the stationer the couple originally hired fell through, Daniela’s sister saved the day and designed all of their paper. — H N

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aesthetic that leaves pastels behind in favor of burgundy, dusty rose, black and slate blue.

WEDDING STYLE A CO NTE M P O R ARY, G AR D E N - I N S PI R E D affair. Make it official at a BOTAN I C G AR D E N or in a regal BALLROO M decked out in fresh blooms.

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M E AN I N G FU L R E AD I N G S The ceremony included

three readings: “Blessing for a Marriage,” by James Dillet Freeman, and excerpts from Les Misérables, by Victor Hugo, and The Bridge Across Forever, by Richard Bach. TAS T Y FOO D The menu included chestnut

agnolotti and dry-aged tomahawk steaks. TO - GO PAS TR I ES Guests departed with boxes

filled with a blueberry-sour-cream coffee cake loaf and pistachio madeleines.

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“It was important to both of us that the wedding honored the intimate promise we were choosing to make to each other, and we did not want to include elements simply because they were typical,” says the couple. In addition to including a ladybug motif as an ode to their late dog Olive, the couple also included “our sweet new puppy, Georgie (named for the restaurant that catered),” in the day.

Our wedding planner gave us great advice that some people enjoy having a private moment during the wedding. So we had a first look in front of the house with Georgie, our new pup. - Megan

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Jess + Neal

12�16�2020 | WASHINGTON, DC

SNOWY ELOPEMENT P H O T O G R A P H S B Y T E R R I B A S K I N P H O T O G R A P H Y E V E N T P L A N N I N G B Y L I LY & G R AY S O N E V E N T S

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TRIO OF GOWNS Jess started the day in a ball gown, then donned a slip dress with a denim jacket and ended with this puff-sleeve look.

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PROCLAMATION OF LOVE In her vows, Jess told Neal: “Most know that you proposed to me officially about three years ago; however, most do not know that you re-propose to me every now and again. Some may say it waters down the original time, but I say it strengthens it because each time I say ‘yes,’ we continue to choose each other.” CHARCUTERIE SPREAD Not only is Italian cuisine a favorite of Jess and Neal’s, but the couple also hopes to one day honeymoon in Italy. As a nod to the country, they shared an hors d’oeuvres display of Italian bites. LUSH DECOR The floral arrangements included black anemones, proteas and snapdragons. CUP OF JOE The couple met on the app Coffee Meets Bagel, so java for the couple and their vendors was a must.

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hen the pandemic forced Jessica (Jess) Zayas (28 and a consultant) and Neal Raaz (31 and a financial systems manager) to cancel their 120-person wedding, the couple decided to get married on their front doorstep and consider having a big celebration later on. “With all the uncertainty brewing, we wanted to get legally married as soon as possible,” says Jess. However, as the pandemic raged on, it was clear that a large wedding wouldn’t be possible in the immediate future. That’s when the couple’s vendors stepped in and gifted them a styled elopement so they could celebrate, create memories and have wedding pictures to cherish. “We loved being able to spend so much quality time with each other since there were no guests in person,” says Jess. — H N

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WEDDING STYLE A VI NTAG E , G L AM event with a M O D E R N E DG E . The setting could be a H I S TO R I C ES TATE or ART M U S EU M filled with granite and concrete.

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TOG ETH E R I N S PI R IT Although her parents couldn’t join them in person, Jess kept them close at heart by wearing “the traditional Indian gold jewelry that my mom gifted me for our original wedding day.”

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COC K TAI L S The couple enjoyed basil-lemon

specialty cocktails with sorbet from the same shop where they had their first date. A WH O LE N E W WO R LD A hip-hop violinist played

the iconic Aladdin song for the first dance.

INGREDIENTS C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N S ITE Larz Anderson House, Washington, DC PH OTOG R APHY Terri Baskin Photography VI D EOG R APHY Vona B. Productions E VE NT PL AN N I N G + D ES I G N Lily & Grayson Events FLO R AL D ES I G N Bee Inspired Events GOWN S Madison James,

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While canceling a wedding just one month out is an unimaginably hard decision, Jess and Neal were blessed with a group of vendors who gifted them a meaningful elopement instead. One of the vendors who came to help them celebrate was a typewriter poet, who asked the duo a few questions before giving them a custom piece of writing to reflect their relationship.

Though I yearn for the day that we can celebrate with family, our elopement truly felt like we were doing something for ourselves and we could cherish the quality time on our special day together. -Jess

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SEASIDE SUNSET When Caila Quinn and Nick Burrello shared a slow dance overlooking the ocean in Sarasota just after getting engaged, little did they know that a year and a half later, they’d be twirling as newlyweds to “A Million Dreams” in the very same charming seaside town. BY HANNAH NOWACK PHOTOGRAPHS BY STEPHANIE SUNDERLAND EVENT PLANNING BY NK PRODUCTIONS

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SAY YES TO THE DRESS Caila found her dream ball gown during an episode of TLC’s hit show.

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love of travel is something that Caila Quinn (29 and a lifestyle blogger) and Nick Burrello (28 and works in private equity technology) share, so it was only natural that the duo set their sights on Lake Como, Italy, for their wedding. Despite having to pivot their plans because of the pandemic, Caila and Nick found a way to bring the romance of Italy stateside by exchanging vows at the Venetian-inspired Ca’ d’Zan mansion at the Ringling Museum of Art. With the decision to celebrate at the former home of circus magnate John Ringling and his wife Mable, Caila and Nick let the Ringlings’ story inform their own day. “The romantic in me had a soft spot for their relationship and their love for travel, Italy and art,” Caila says. “These interests are pillars of our story, too, so it felt like the perfect place to say, ‘I do!’” To bring travel- and art-inspired nods into the day, Caila and Nick commissioned a sign made to look like a vintage travel poster and chose a song from The Greatest Showman for their first dance.

TIE THE KNOT In her self-penned vows, Caila promised to “be honest with my heart and gentle with yours. To be by your side not only through life’s happiest moments, but also the ones that no one should go through alone.”

To match the sunsetthemed palette, Caila wore Carrie Bradshaw–worthy yellow heels.

BROADWAY Caila surprised Nick by having a flash mob of Broadway stars sing “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You,” by Frankie Valli, at the ceremony.

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INVITATIONS Wax seals and ribbons finished off the invites, which featured a drawing of the venue to get guests excited about visiting Florida.

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REAL LOVE CAKE Portuguese tiles informed the pattern on the bottom of the raspberry-filled cake with sugar flowers.

DINNER “My dream was to have long family-style tables with candles as a nod to our warm Italian theme.” SIGNAGE The couple plans to hang the Art Deco–style welcome poster in their newlywed home.

NEUTRAL FOUNDATION The duo kept the linens neutral “like a blank canvas to paint on” so the other reception details would pop.

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FLORALS The gardeninspired centerpieces included peonies, roses, delphiniums, ranunculus and lisianthus.

Within the arched columns of the garden courtyard, Nick saw me in my white dress for the first time. Surrounded by artistic masterpieces, this moment between the two of us was its own work of art. He cried, I cried, and it was perfect.

-Caila

PAY IT FORWARD In lieu of favors, Caila and Nick gave guests “a donation in their honor to sponsor two children for a year with Save the Children.”

INGREDIENTS

TRADITION To honor Caila’s Filipina heritage, the couple included a cord-and-veil ritual in their ceremony.

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C E R E M O NY + R EC E PTI O N LOCATI O N The John & Mable Ringling Museum of Art, Sarasota, Florida PH OTOG R APHY Stephanie Sunderland VI D EOG R APHY Moon & Back Co. E VE NT PL AN N I N G NK Productions FLO R AL D ES I G N Ode & Bastille O FFI CIANT Pastor JR Carmichael GOWN S Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City; veil: Jane Rhyan TUXE DO Balani, Chicago S H O ES Caila: Manolo Blahnik; Nick: Magnanni ACC ES SO R I ES Caila: Van Cleef & Arpels; Nick: Audemars Piguet Royal E N G AG E M E NT + WE D D I N G RI N G S The Clear Cut HAI R + MAK EU P Michelle Elise Artistry WE D D I N G PART Y AT TI R E BHLDN S TATI O N E RY Minted CATE R I N G Michael’s on East CAK E Julie Deffense Artistry M U S I C Ceremony: Simply Strings; reception: The Hit Factory PH OTO BOOTH The Fancy Booth TR AN S P O RTATI O N Primetime Limousines; SRQ Trolley

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SUIT YOUR FANCY Jumpsuit in sizes up to 20, price upon request, ViktorRolf.com; earrings, $125, CZbyKennethJayLane.com; shoes, $1,050, JimmyChoo.com

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CUT A RUG Dress in sizes up to XXL, $1,395, Retrofete.com; earrings, $5,975, EvaFehren.com

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LET IT SLIP Dress in sizes up to 24, $1,995, Watters.com; earrings, $600 to rent, necklace, $500 to rent, Verstolo.com

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DO DECO Dress in any size, $7,995, NaeemKhan.com; engagement ring, $13,000, Monique Lhuillier Bliss, Kay.com; earrings, $13,630, CathyWaterman.com

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SHINE BRIGHT Dress in sizes up to 10, $5,490, Wiederhoeft.com; engagement ring, $8,000, Monique Lhuillier Bliss, Kay.com; earrings, $15,020, CathyWaterman.com

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BOOST YOUR HONEYMOON BLISS BY EXPLORING THE GREAT OUTDOORS TOGETHER—BUT WITHOUT ROUGHING IT. THESE ESCAPES MAY BE AT THE EDGE OF UNTOUCHED WILDERNESS, BUT THEY OFFER LUXE LODGING WITH PAMPERING SPAS TO RETURN TO AFTER A DAY ON THE TRAILS. BY

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CRESTED BUTTE, COLORADO WHY Called Colorado’s snowiest town, it averages more than 18 feet of powder per year and is often called the state’s last great ski town, thanks to its mom-and-pop shops and authentic charm. WHEN TO GO Late winter through early spring is a skier’s (downhill and Nordic) paradise, and the town feels half as crowded as the busy summer.

WHERE TO STAY Taylor River Lodge, part of adventure collective Eleven Experience, is tucked away in the Taylor Canyon, just 30 minutes from town. Six cozy log cabins are perfect for honeymooners, and the spa features a saltwater pool with forest views, steam room and sauna. From $900, all-inclusive; elevenexperience.com

ROMANTIC MOMENT Follow up forest bathing—a mindful nature walk— with a ﬂotation meditation session then spiked cocoa and stargazing by the firepit. SPA SPLURGE Get your circulation ﬂowing with a snow-shower hydrotherapy treatment, which alternates between steamy sauna sessions and 30-second plunges into the snow. ADVENTURE TO HAVE Head off the beaten path on a guided crosscountry ski excursion in the backcountry. Half day $325 for two people; irwinguides.com

Due to COVID-19, reopening times and prices are subject to change.

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SOUTHERN ALASKA WHY The vastness of the Alaskan wilderness inspires awe and delivers true adventure. WHEN TO GO Late winter, when days are a little bit longer but you still have a chance to glimpse the aurora borealis. WHERE TO STAY The six cabins at family-run Winterlake Lodge are set near the historic Iditarod Trail and can only be reached by seaplane. Despite the remote location, it has award-winning food and service. Gourmet Alaskan fare such as king crab beignets and reindeer tenderloin with blueberry gastrique rivals any big-city restaurant. From $6,250 for three nights, all-inclusive; withinthewild.com

ADVENTURE TO HAVE Try your hand at dog mushing and learn to drive WInterlake Lodge’s resident team of sled dogs along one of Alaska’s most iconic trails. Don’t miss Alaska’s famous king crab— winter is peak season.

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ROMANTIC MOMENT Bundle up in blankets on the frozen lake and take in the aurora borealis.

SPA SPLURGE Walk the frozen meditation labyrinth on the lake, then detox with an aromatherapy session in the banya, a traditional Russian sauna.

ROMANTIC MOMENT Take in Sonoran Desert views while savoring filet mignon and lobster tail paired with cult cabernet at Lincoln Steakhouse at JW Marriott Camelback Inn.

WHERE TO STAY The storied Camelback Inn (which once hosted icons like Bette Davis and Clark Gable) recently underwent a huge renovation. Renamed the JW Marriott Scottsdale Camelback Inn Resort & Spa, it has 453 guest casitas and suites, championship golf, tennis courts and swimming pools. From $430; marriott.com

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WHY Arizona is home to some of America’s most lauded spas, plus endless miles of hiking trails and world-class golf courses. WHEN TO GO November through March, when high temperatures hover around 70 degrees.

SPA SPLURGE Reserve a poolside cabana at the resort’s new 32,000-square-foot spa and spend the day relaxing with a detoxifying adobe clay purification treatment ($210), followed by time in the Himalayan salt room and lunch from Sprouts café. ADVENTURE TO HAVE Earn your massage and hike the 2.5-mile, out-and-back Echo Canyon Trail. The steep and rocky ascent to the 2,704-foot summit of Camelback Mountain rewards trekkers with 360-degree views of the area.

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STOWE, VERMONT WHERE TO STAY A modern twist on the traditional ski lodge, Topnotch Resort rests on 120 bucolic acres. Spring for the spacious Moss Glen Suite so you can take in the views from the private deck or cuddle by the fireplace after a day on the slopes. From $199. Moss Glen Suite from $499; topnotchresort.com

Stowe Mountain Resort’s Cross Country Ski Center has 28 miles of groomed trails and 19 miles of backcountry terrain suited to all abilities. Day pass $31; stowe.com

WHEN TO GO The village feels like a snow globe in winter, and Stowe Mountain Resort offers some of the best skiing in the Northeast.

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SISTERS, OREGON WHY Central Oregon is an adventure mecca with a serious restaurant and craft beer scene. WHERE TO STAY The 36 craftsman-style cabins at FivePine Lodge and Spa are nestled amid a pine forest in the artsy town of Sisters. Splurge on the Serenity Cabin, which boasts romantic touches like a cast-iron soaking tub, a three-sided fireplace and a waterfall shower. From $184; fivepinelodge.com ROMANTIC MOMENT Housed within the Clearwater Gallery in Sisters, the Open Door is an intimate restaurant known for its seafood lasagna, artisanal flatbreads and killer wine list showcasing some of Oregon’s top producers. SPA SPLURGE Shibui Spa at FivePIne Lodge transports guests to the Far East with its oversized statues of deities and therapies like the Lotus Dream Abhyanga Massage, which uses warm oil to relax the nervous system. $185 for 75 minutes; shibuispa.com ADVENTURE TO HAVE Borrow snowshoes from FivePine Lodge and take in views of the Cascades on a hike along the 1.75-mile Peak View trail.

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WHEN TO GO In spring, it’s often possible to downhill ski in the morning and hike and mountain bike in the afternoon.

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SPA SPLURGE Revive your skin after days in the cold with a Vino Source facial from Topnotch Spa. Fresh grapes exfoliate while nourishing skin with antioxidants. A finishing recovery oil ensures a glowing appearance. $150 for 50 minutes

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WHY Set at the base of Mount Mansfield, Stowe is the quintessential New England getaway with its covered bridges, old-timey general stores and endless wilderness trails.

ROMANTIC MOMENT Book a private horse-drawn carriage ride with Gentle Giants and take in spectacular views of the snowcapped mountain. $40 for 25 minutes; (802) 253-2216

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PALM SPRINGS WHY A desert oasis close to Joshua Tree National Park, Palm Springs has been the weekend playground of Hollywood stars since the 1920s. Today it attracts architecture aficionados and hiking enthusiasts. WHEN TO GO Visit between December and April to avoid unbearably hot temperatures.

SPA SPLURGE Follow up a poolside Vinyasa yoga session with an invigorating espresso mud wrap made with black silt clay. $185 for 60 minutes ADVENTURE TO HAVE Rise early and drive to Joshua Tree National Park to tackle the strenuous 1.5-mile hike to the summit of Ryan Mountain.

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ROMANTIC MOMENT Sleep in and order breakfast in bed. The resort’s hyperlocal menu offers berry pancakes and artisanal egg sammies, plus breakfast cocktails like Infinity Paloma, a mix of tequila, grapefruit bitters, soda water and serrano-spiked simple syrup.

WHERE TO STAY Designed in 1952 by legendary desert modern architect William F. Cody, L’Horizon Resort and Spa has hosted luminaries including Marilyn Monroe and Ronald Reagan. Revamped for a modern-day Hollywood crowd, the 25-bungalow, adultsonly retreat oozes Mad Men style with chic poolside cabanas and firepits. From $480; lhorizonpalmsprings.com

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WEDDING GOWNS 101 Searching for the one? Study up on everything you need to know before you hit the salon.

A GUIDE TO DRESS SILHOUETTES

Ball Gown

Perfect for the bride looking to make a statement, there’s nothing subtle about a ball gown. This classic silhouette has a fitted bodice and a voluminous full skirt.

A-line

This universally flattering style hugs the torso and has a skirt that flares out in—you guessed it—an A shape. Consider it a halfway point between a sheath and a ball gown.

Mermaid

Va-va-voom. This sultry silhouette has a fitted bodice, waist and hips, and dramatically flares out at the knee. It’s a great option if you want to show off your curves.

Trumpet

Sheath

This slim silhouette A toned-down version skims over the body, of the mermaid, the falling straight to skirt of this gown flares the floor below the out just below the hips, hips. What a sheath creating a semi-full dress lacks in volume, shape (like the bell it makes up for in of a trumpet) without versatility—it works with nearly every fabric. any extra volume.

Empire

A dress for the Grecian goddess in us all, the empire style has a fitted bodice ending just below the bust, giving a high-waisted appearance that lengthens the body.

S H O P E A R L Y A designer wedding gown will take months to create and a series of alterations to fit your body perfectly. In other words, it’s not the kind of garment you can toss into an online shopping cart and have show up on your doorstep two days later. Book your first appointment 9 to 12 months before your wedding date. If you’re shopping closer to your wedding, you may be limited to samples or off-the-rack gowns. A L W A Y S B O O K A N A P P O I N T M E N T Scheduling an appointment is the only way to ensure you’ll get a full hour of undivided attention. If you’re the type who hates feeling rushed when shopping, make an appointment on a slow weekday morning or afternoon. L I M I T Y O U R E N T O U R A G E Bringing a big group to the salon is a gown shopping don’t. Enlist one or two of your closest friends or family members to help you start your search. This way you can find the gown that best suits your style and not feel pressured by too many opinions.

H I D D E N C O S T S A D D U P Remember, your wedding gown budget doesn’t just include the dress. Your veil or headpiece, accessories, undergarments and alterations will also add to your bottom line. Factor in these costs before you give the salesperson your shopping budget. T R U S T I S K E Y Even if a gown doesn’t look amazing on the hanger, that doesn’t necessarily mean it won’t look amazing on you. Be open to what an experienced consultant thinks will work for your body (after all, they’ve done this before). Bottom line: The dress you end up loving might be different than what you originally pictured, and that’s okay. S A L O N S C A N S O M E T I M E S T A K E R E Q U E S T S Just because a bridal salon carries your favorite designer, doesn’t mean it’ll have the exact wedding dress you’ve been wanting to try on. But, if you phone in advance and ask about a specific style, your consultant may be able to request a loaner sample of that gown especially for you.

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