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The Source Issue 90 | Jan 22 - Feb 5, 2015

You're good as Gold at Patchouli Spa

Cervical Cancer: Facts Every Woman Needs to Know A Family Friendly Holiday in Cyprus

Sarah Appleton Big on Mini Exchange

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8 INBOX

This page is all about you! Send us your poems, pictures or letters and see them published here. Ask us your questions and pick up some handy environmental tips.

10 NEWS 12 ENVIRONMENT

Species Deceasies

14 URBAN WOMAN

Be Treated Like Gold at Patchouli Spa

16 HEALTH & LIFESTYLE

Cervical Cancer: Facts Every Woman Needs to Know

18 STUFF FOR MEN

The Art of Being a "Real" man

20 SOCIAL & COMMUNITY FORUM Ten things you need to know about Arabs

22 FAMILY

Tic Tacs, You’re the Real MVP

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RECIPE L’italianos: The place for family and friends

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CITY HIGHLIGHTS W.A.R. 8

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MY WORLD A Family Friendly Holiday in Cyprus

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DIARY What are your plans for next week?

Take a look at our diary for the latest events happening around town

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TIME OUT

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SOURCEKIDS

24 FEATURE

It's raining coffee at Skydive Dubai

26 FASHION

New and now for spring at The Children Place

28 AL MAJLIS

Big on Mini Exchange and Sarah Appleton

30 ENTERTAINMENT

Hollywood & Bollywood gossip

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CERVICAL CANCER AWARENESS AT AL NOOR HOSPITAL

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anuary, 2015 is just about done and dusted and The Source is off to a flying start, with projects and events piling up around, on top and even under my strained desk. There is always something new to talk about, which brings me to the introduction of our charming and very talented Family & Parenting columnist, LaAisha Lorick. LaAisha, a mother of 3, will be sharing her expertise with our readers on a bi-weekly basis and has, in fact, already contributed an article discussing the challenges of breastfeeding while travelling in the Christmas issue of The Source. We warmly welcome LaAisha and look forward to many more educational and inspiring articles.

On a much more somber note, it is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of one of our brilliant contributing writers, Amanda Reid. Amanda shared her literary gift on several occasions in our My World column. She succumbed to a brain tumor shortly after Christmas and will be dearly missed by both our team and readers. I did not know Amanda personally but her spirit will forever rest in the archives of our publication and we send our most heartfelt condolences to her family and loved ones – R.I.P. Amanda.

Amanda with her husband Alex

In this issue we were extremely fortunate to catch up with a very busy young lady, whose entrepreneurial spirit and innovative e-commerce business, Mini Exchange, is creating quite a stir in the UAE and abroad. Meet our cover girl, Sarah Appleton, in our Al Majlis story and discover a unique and comfortable way of shopping for your kids and so much more. Best of all, Sarah is offering an exclusive 20% discount on top of the already fabulously low prices on all high quality top brand items listed on Mini Exchange's online shopping site.

Before signing off and in honour of Amanda Reid, whose passing serves as a reminder that life is an unpredictable gift, I will say this; the only thing we can control is the way we choose to live life and I urge everyone to make love, laughter, empathy and compassion a huge part of those choices. Yesterday serves as a lesson, enabling us to better navigate the course of our today. Make today count, for tomorrow may not arrive for all of us…

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Camilla's words of widsom

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

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ASK THE TEACHER

Dear Sarah,

in more than one language?

As a parent I am very pleased to have my son grow up with two languages, but sometimes he mixes words from English and Arabic together when he speaks. My question is; should I be concerned about the mixing of languages? I fear he will never be able to speak one without the other or either of the languages properly.

Multi-lingual children (and indeed adults) sometimes combine more than one language, or ‘code switch’, when they are speaking to another bi-lingual or tri-lingual person and some suggest this is linked to factors such as social cohesion.

Dear Parent, Some children are fortunate to be able to learn more than one language at school; at Brighton College, pupils can learn: English, Arabic, French, Spanish and even Mandarin!

There has been much research on ‘mixing languages’; why your son does this depends on different factors, including his level of fluency, who he is talking to and the context in which he is speaking.

The way that we teach languages at Brighton is usually discrete, involving immersing a child, for example only in French in a lesson.

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However, in some circumstances, a child’s first language can provide a ‘scaffold’ for a second language.

For beginners, we would support a child using some words of their first language, to help them with overall communication in a new language.

What about pupils who are already fluent

What is more important is whether your son is able to converse in those languages separately, when necessary – and I suspect he is able to do this.

It is similar to a parent who might fear that, if their child uses informal idioms in chats with their friends, they might not be able, in academic situations, to switch to Standard English.

I would advise that you talk to your son’s teachers to ascertain his progress in both English and Arabic, in the context of a more academic environment.

In the past, mixing languages has sometimes been considered a concern, but researchers now see it as part and parcel of language learning and indeed multiple language fluency - and being multi-lingual is a fabulous asset in the 21st century!

Sarah The Source’s very own “Ask the Teacher” columnist, Sarah Wood, comes to us from Al Ain’s prestigious Brighton College, armed with a passion for bringing out the very best in the children she teaches.

Sarah will be on hand in every issue of The Source to offer her professional advice on early childhood education best practices. Send your questions to asktheteacher@thesourceuae.com and see them answered here!

Wacky World Now that's a special delivery!

A group of real estate agents meeting in Ann Arbor surprised a man by giving him a $2,084 tip for delivering one pizza. The man, identified only as Rob, was stunned and said on video, "All I did was deliver pizza."

SHAMS means sun, so if you want to say look at the sun; you say enzor ela al shams

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MAN DELIVERS 1 PIZZA IN MICHIGAN _ GETS $2,084 TIP

Agents from Keller Williams Realty all pitched in while attending the company's regional conference. Stacey McVey says they wanted to show their appreciation to someone from the service industry. Besides cash, the man received a Visa gift card, lottery tickets and letters of encouragement. Brian LeFevre, delivery manager at Pizza House in Ann Arbor, says, the lucky delivery man was "ecstatic." He says "that's a pretty good day's work" for just one pizza.

FUNNY CELEBRITY TWEETS

ASK THE DR.

Dear Dr. Gabe I recently returned from a trip to North America and am suffering from severe jet lag. Since I must be at work and functional immediately, is there anything that one can do to alleviate the intensity of this horrible travel affliction.

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Stay up until dark if you fly west.

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Avoid bright morning light if you fly east.

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Eat meals at mealtime in the new time zone.

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Get some exercise, but not right before bed time.

Dear Reader, Thank you for an excellent question. Jet lag is a condition that causes sleep problems, tiredness, having trouble concentrating, constipation and having less energy than normal. It happens to people flying across several time zones. The more time zones a person crosses, the more likely he or she is to get jet lag. Jet lag gets better on its own as a person adjusts to the new time zone.

But this can take several days.

The farther from home a person is, the longer it takes to get over jet lag.

A supplement called “Melatonin” can help with jet lag associated sleep problems.

Melatonin is a hormone that is naturally made by a gland in the brain. Taking extra melatonin can help your body adjust to a new time zone. The usual dose is 5 milligrams after dark each night, about half an hour before you want to go to sleep.

Here are a few things you can try to reduce jet lag symptoms:

Only adults should take melatonin supplements.

Be well, Dr. Gabe The doctor is always on call at The Source and asking the right questions can lead to better health. Dr. Gabriel comes to us from Oasis Hospital, where he practices family medicine. Simply send your questions to askthedoctor@thesourceuae.com and see them answered and published in the magazine.

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Al Ain Police arrest man for theft The Al Ain Police Directorate managed to arrest a young Bangladeshi man who has raided some villas in Al Ain city.

He also indicated that community members’ safety is the main priority that the Abu Dhabi Police strive to achieve; as part of their strategy aimed at being the most efficient police entity. “The Abu Dhabi Police exerts diligent efforts to reduce crime rates to the lowest levels and achieve safety and security of society.

Brigadier Hamad Ajlan Al Amimi, Director of the Al Ain Police Directorate, revealed that the directorate recently received several complaints of thefts from a number of houses in Al Foah and Mesebej areas. He added that initial investigation indicated that the thefts occurred during the night.

“An investigation team was formed from the Criminal Investigation Section in order to arrest the suspect. A security plan was established and the thief was identified as Sh. A. H. (35 years old). The suspect was tracked, monitored, and then arrested and referred to the public prosecution. During interrogation, the man confessed to being involved”, said Brigadier Al Amimi.

Brigadier Al Amimi called upon home owners to secure their residences during

It is worth mentioning that the Ministry of Interior had recently launched an awareness campaign, carried out by the Security Media Department at the General Secretariat of the Office of H.H Deputy Prime Minister and Minister of Interior, at the countrywide level. their absence, and avoid leaving any open doors or windows. He also warned them against leaving any valuables or money in the open, and to deposit them in safe places such as banks. He emphasized the need for members of the public to contribute to maintaining their security and the safety of their money and property.

The campaign is initiated under the slogan “Our property…Our responsibility" and aims at boosting awareness among individuals on the need to maintain private and public property. Awarenessraising publications and posters were also distributed to individuals, stores, and others as a part of the campaign.

4-year-old Indian girl visiting dad in Abu Dhabi dies in road crash

Blood Drive at Al Ain Police Directorate

A four-year-old Indian girl, Sada Fathima, who came to Abu Dhabi to visit her father died after she was hit by a vehicle in the Shahama Jadeed area.

Child forgotten on Al Ain school bus rescued

The accident took place on Thursday evening at 5.30pm. The girl arrived in Abu Dhabi on December 9, 2014.

Luckily a driver passing saw the child and took him from the bus and returned him to his parents.

Her mother Sumayya, four-month-old brother Mohammed Nasim bin Siddique and grandparents were present at the time of the accident. Sada Fathima’s father, Abubaker Siddique, runs a grocery in Abu Dhabi and the family came to visit him.

A kindergarten child in Al Ain was rescued after he was forgotten in the school bus, reported ‘Al Khaleej’ Arabic daily.

Reportedly, the child was in deep sleep and stayed in the bus for a long time. Once he woke up, he started crying, attracting attention.

The child’s father said he was not accusing anyone of negligence and wish no child goes through this ordeal.

He said the child refused to take the school bus the following day, which shows the little one was traumatized with the incident.

“Sada was to take a flight back home on Friday and the accident happened when the family had just finished their shopping for the return trip,” family sources said.

According to the social worker, the mother was handling the small baby when Sada saw some family members on the other side of the road and she tried to cross to meet them. She was then hit by a vehicle.

The body has since been repatriated to Pappinasshery Kannur, Kerala.

Al Ain Police Directorate recently organized a blood drive at its headquarters. The campaign, organized in collaboration with the Regional Blood Bank at Tawam Hospital, witnessed significant turnout from the directorate’s officers, constables and female police staff members.

Brigadier Hamad Ajlan Al Amimi, Director of the Al Ain Police Directorate at the Abu Dhabi Police General Headquarters said that blood donation is a humanitarian duty and a community-based initiative aimed at encouraging community members to donate blood.

Adding further, he noted that the drive revives the noble humanitarian values; stressing the paramount importance of blood donation to provide help to patients in need, as well as building a strong relationship with the various community institutions.

Unlicensed doctor arrested in Sharjah Sharjah Police, in cooperation with the Ministry of Health, has arrested a Pakistan national for practicing medicine without licence.

Police said the doctor used to receive patients in hotels and apartments and used to give them drugs for diabetes in return for Dh500. The accused has been referred to the Public Prosecutor for legal proceedings.

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SPECIES Deceasies

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s a youngster I loved winter sports. But while I might have rugged up to watch the latest Warren Miller classic with eyes glued to the screen, they never actually witnessed snow until last year.

No problem. Well tutored in the Miller school of downhill derring-do, it all seemed pretty obvious. Wrapped head to toe in designer warmth, a skier simply switched back and forth as he plummeted through the powder, while guitars riffed up a storm and Nordic blondes awaited his return, nursing something hot.

Imagine my surprise then when making my debut upon the slopes that I immediately hurtled out of control, ricocheted off a series of hard objects like a pinball, bowled through a pack of patrons like ten-pins and wheeled to rest en-webbed in a safety net, nursing nothing hotter than a broken finger.

The lesson was that while I thought I knew what I was doing, I didn’t, and the consequences were dire. And thus, just as I cannoned into the walls

of Ski Dubai, so we cannon into the subject of this column, by way of a brief historical tangent.

Until the fifteenth century, Arabs and Turks controlled the spice trade. It was their ships that ventured east across the Indian Ocean, returning fat with cargo to feed the wharves at Venice. As the seasonings passed from hand to hand along the trail, they multiplied in value again and again until the price they won in the markets of Europe would have curled the nose hairs of the croppers who’d harvested them, had they got wind of it.

They didn’t. But the Portuguese did, so Vasco de Gama was dispatched to “make discoveries and go in search of spice,” and the European age of discovery began. Bit by bit, coast and continent took the place of seamonsters and sirens, and the upshot now is that we think the map of the earth is both accurate and complete.

But we couldn’t be more wrong. We know practically zilch about our singular rock.

For instance, ninety-five percent of the sea is unexplored nothingness.

It’s a frontier as formidable as space.

Blacker than Beelzebub’s bovril, nothing grows; the temperature averages a shiver above icicle and the pressure is akin to lugging a backpack stuffed with a fleet of jumbo jets. The only food is detritus that drifts down in flurries of snow-like flakes, or living flesh.

But it’s pregnant with promise. We know that complex creatures live around volcanic vents, cold seeps and brine pools, and that life-forms are surviving without oxygen three kilometers under the Mediterranean. If each of these discoveries was revolutionary, the possibilities seem boundless.

But, alas, the babies might never be born.

Elizabeth Kolbert’s latest book, The Sixth Extinction, reveals that one third of corals, a third of fresh-water mollusks, a third of sharks and rays, a quarter of mammals, a fifth of reptiles and a sixth of birds are on the boat to oblivion.

And we booked their seats. Human activities of fossil fuel consumption, ocean acidification, pollution, deforestation and forced migration will account for 20 to 50 percent of species by the end of the century.

The captains of carbon are destroying something about which we know nothing as if they know what they are doing.

Just as I would have benefited from a measure of humility on the slopes of Ski Dubai, so we all might benefit from knowing the limits of the earth before treating it as if it has none; otherwise we might find ourselves sailing into the sunset along with the unfortunate 20 to 50.

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Be Treated Like Gold at

PATCHOULI SPA

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here is a well-kept secret in the heart of Zakher, a place where women can escape and indulge in a little pampering. Patchouli Spa is the labor of love of two local sisters who spent two years conceptualizing, planning and designing this luxurious retreat. The sisters explored spas of Europe, America and Dubai, to bring back best practices in beauty and wellness to the women of Al Ain. Patchouli Spa is housed in a beautifully renovated villa close to Al Ain Zoo, which seems unusual, but the sisters purposely selected this area to avoid the congestion of Town Center and to give the women of Zakher community a place to get away.

As soon as I walked through the grand filigree patterned double doors, I was greeted by Imen, the enthusiastic manager, who briefed me on what makes Patchouli unique. To begin with, Patchouli Spa not only caters to women, but it also provides services for girls ages 5 and up. They have

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dedicated an entire rosy pink section of the spa for little princesses, complete with pink child-size hair and nail stations. For children, the stylists use Original Sprout, an ultra-gentle line of organic, natural products that are safe for sensitive young skin and hair. This is the perfect place for a spectacular spa birthday party, and the staff will see to every detail to make it a memorable event.

While little girls are kept busy, mothers can indulge in a full range of Patchouli’s hair, face and body treatments, all featuring sumptuous, natural products that are gentle on your skin and the environment.

Multilingual, experienced aestheticians, massage therapists and hair stylists have been selected from around the world and are given professional development opportunities to improve their skills and knowledge of the products. The sisters spared no expense in creating an opulent environment with gold gilded walls and crystal chandeliers. The facility has two shimmering hammam chambers, relaxing facial rooms and a palatial hair and nail

salon, where you can custom print any photo or design onto your fingernails using the state of the art, ArtPro Nail Printer. Soon to open, there will be a private VIP suite for brides to be or anyone wanting a more private setting for their treatments.

I couldn’t leave Patchouli without trying the signature Gold Facial by Nimue, a line of luxury South African face products.

This facial is said to improve elasticity and have an anti-aging effect, which I very much welcome as I’m soon entering a new decade of my life. My aesthetician, Megumi started with a deep cleaning followed by an exfoliation. She then applied the gold mask to my face and indulged me in a scalp massage as the mask penetrated my skin. After gently removing the mask and applying a moisturizer, I was left with a golden glow that made me feel radiant from inside out.

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health & lifestyle

Cervical Cancer: Facts Every Woman Needs to Know

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hile cervical cancer was once a common cause of cancer death among women, the use of Pap tests (or Pap smears) for cervical cancer screening has dramatically decreased the incidence in the past few decades. Here's important information that can save lives.

What Is the Cervix?

The cervix is the narrow passageway at the lower end of the uterus (the womb) that connects the uterus to the vagina.

The cervix makes the cervical mucus that helps sperm move from the vagina into the uterus. Ordinarily, the cervix stays closed; it opens during labor, allowing the baby to pass through the birth canal. During the menstrual period, blood flows out of the uterus through the cervix as well.

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cervix. Cervical cancer grows slowly, and precancerous, or abnormal, cervical cells can usually be detected by a Pap smear long before cancer develops. When cervical cells begin to change from normal cells to abnormal ones, the condition is called dysplasia. Dysplasia is not cervical cancer, since dysplastic cells do not spread to nearby tissues the way cancerous cells do.

Although dysplasia sometimes goes away without treatment, it may develop into cervical cancer if left untreated.

smoke are at higher risk of developing cervical cancer.

Cervical Cancer and HPV Scientists now know that there is a connection between HPV, or human papilloma virus, and cervical cancer. But while many women develop HPV infections, relatively few with HPV will develop cervical cancer.

There is very strong evidence that you have to have chronic HPV infection to develop cervical cancer. If you have HPV, it's even more important to get regular Pap tests.

If you are getting screened, you detect precancerous changes by the Pap test.

Cervical Cancer: Common Risk Factors Women who don't get screened are the ones who are at highest risk. Women with weakened immune systems (due to HIV infection, for example) and those who

Here are other risk factors to be aware of and talk to your doctor about: •

You have chlamydia, a common sexually transmitted disease.

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You eat few fruits and vegetables.

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You are overweight.

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You take oral contraceptives (birth control pills).

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You have had pregnancies.

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Your mother or sister had cervical cancer.

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Your mother took a drug called diethylstilbestrol (DES) while pregnant with you.

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Whether or not you have risk factors for cervical cancer, it is important for every woman to have regular Pap tests. A Pap test can detect precancerous changes in the cells of the cervix before they become cancer, and early detection means a much better chance of survival. Talk to your doctor about how frequently you should be tested.

It's a fast and painless test that could save your life.

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The

"REAL"MAN!

ART of Being a

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e have often heard the expression “be a man” but what does this really mean?

Many men are also f a t h e r s but there is a huge difference between a sperm donor and an actual, hands on dad. All too often, fathers are not in the picture, either emotionally or physically and the result manifests itself in the form of children suffering from blurred boundaries, low self worth and a lack of awareness in general.

It creates anger and emotional voids perpetuating a lifetime of unhealthy habits and choices.

The purpose of this article is not to sell you a definition of what it is to be a real man but to remind the men out there, especially those that are fathers, that your emotional and physical presence are essential in an upbringing that leads through positive example and will ultimately determine the future happiness and solid grounding of your children.

I believe men underestimate the impact they have in this world. I believe definitions need to be challenged. I believe every man should posses these four characteristics.

1. MEN RESPOND. Most males don’t think of how their words and actions will affect others. Examples of this are: a husband who assassinates his wife’s character or verbally vomits on his children; someone who gets into physical altercations to prove something or someone who pulls from his ego instead of his heart.

It takes discipline, patience, and maturity to filter oneself and think about others before one responds. A response requires thought; meta-cognition. A reaction is instinctual.

Boys react. Men respond!

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2. MEN LOOK INWARD FIRST. They are willing to examine their defects.

They practice transparency and nondefensiveness. They express how they feel. They don’t try to be someone they’re not. By walking with a mirror, they don’t get caught up in heated arguments.

They handle confrontations by acknowledging, taking responsibility, and making choices. And they move forward, changed.

3. MEN HAVE A CAUSE. Make your causes something worth fighting for. It doesn’t have to be to end world hunger. It can be to save a marriage or fighting for one’s position in life, expressing art, sharing gifts or being a better version of yourself.

Something you believe in, even if others don’t. Whether it’s one’s character or an empire; men build. Boys deconstruct!

4. MEN TAKE ACTION. Boys complain. I have to admit, I have only recently made a choice to stop complaining when things don’t go my way in life. Many habits like complaining and losing one’s temper stem from undisciplined thinking and the inability to manage emotions. I know many men who talk about change, about wanting to “fix” their relationships, to lose weight, be a better father, stop drinking, cheating, spending, hiding, or numbing. But only a few take action and climb that mountain daily. Only a few fall down over and over again but keep getting back up. Only a few put their money where their mouth is.

Think about all the men you know in your life; friends, fathers, uncles, brothers, coaches, boyfriends or husbands. How many posses all four? If they do, acknowledge them because we need more of them in this world.

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Ten things you need to know about

ARABS

Whoever coined the term “Ignorance is bliss” is an absolute idiot. Ignorance is not bliss. In fact, ignorance leads to misunderstanding.

Misunderstanding leads to fear. Fear leads to bias and hate. So I am here to present to the Western public the top 10 things that Arabs want nonArabs to know about them. If you remember these, then Arabs will not see you as “Ignorant Westerners.”

1. NOT ALL OF US ARE MUSLIM

As an Arab Christian myself, I wish I had a nickel for every time I heard, “When did you convert?” I would be a very rich man.

About 10% of the Arab population is Christian. Yes, we are a minority, but we are still there and have been Christians for 2,000 years. I’m not sure how good the average American is at geography, but Jesus is from the Middle East!

2. FALAFEL, HUMMUS, AND SHAWARMA ARE ARABIC FOODS, NOT ISRAELI FOODS. A couple of months ago, I was talking with an American girl about Middle Eastern food. She told me that she loves falafel 20

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social and community forum and she used to eat it a lot because she has Israeli friends. Please, do not ever say that to an Arab. Israel was created in 1948, and I can say with complete certainty that we have been eating hummus for much longer than that.

late to the party. I don’t remember the last time I went to a family function and there was no hookah lit up and ready to go. If you are fortunate enough to smoke hookah with an Arab, be prepared for the licorice-tasting goodness that is Double Apple flavor.

3. ARABS AND JEWS HAVE NOT BEEN FIGHTING FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS

6. WHEN I SAY THAT I AM FROM PALESTINE, THAT DOESN’T MEAN PAKISTAN, AND IT DEFINITELY DOESN’T MEAN ISRAEL

If you really want to make a Palestinian mad, just ask if he is from Israel. Your result will not end happily, I can assure you of that. And it is Palestine. Not Pakistan. Please know that we aren’t the same thing.

7. THERE'S A RIGHT WAY TO SAY "IRAQ"

Arabs and Jews have been fighting since only 1948, when Israel was created. In fact, Jews left Europe to the Middle East because Arabs historically treated Jews better than Europeans did. Jews are Semitic people, and so are Arabs. We are actually closer to each other than Europeans.

4. FANATIC MILITANT GROUPS DO NOT REFLECT THE VIEWS OF ALL MUSLIMS Yes, you see these guys on the news all the time. But they are huge minorities and not popular at all. The Middle East is much more secular than you would think.

In an American equivalent, it would be like the Westboro Baptist Church serving as a reflection on all Christians.

5. SMOKING HOOKAH IS NOTHING NEW Hookah is the new thing. Hookah bars are everywhere near college campuses, and its popularity among our youth grows by the day. But from our perspective, you’re a little

We aren’t asking for you to use the hard beginning and ending that the word “Iraq” has in it. Just remember, it is “E-rock” rather than “I-rack.”

8. PERSIANS AREN’T ARABS Persians hate this too. We are completely different people. We come from completely different backgrounds. Yes, we have the same skin tone and are ridiculously hairy, but we are not the same. We speak Arabic, and Persians speak Farsi. They might sound the same, but they aren’t even close. And, to be honest, Persians have the better kabob (sorry Arabs).

9. “LEBANESE FOOD” IS ARABIC FOOD If you have a Lebanese friend, you know exactly what I’m talking about. “Traditional Lebanese food” includes hummus, tabbouleh, and kibbeh nayyeh (yeah, it’s raw meat). But this food isn’t specifically Lebanese. We all eat that food. Don’t let them fool you when they say “Lebanese food,” because that is just a cover for Arabic food.

10. WE LOVE TO PARTY Forget Vegas. If you want to go party, go to Dubai, Beirut, Sharm el Sheikh, or Amman. I promise that you will have the time of your life. Don’t believe me? If you have an Arab friend, just wait until they get married. Arab weddings might be the best parties that you will ever go to. If you don’t have an Arab friend, just crash an Arab wedding. There will be so many people there that they probably won’t notice you.

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Tic Tacs, You’re the Real MVP

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was excited about using a reward system with my children when they became toddlers.

After all, I am a teacher and have done a pretty good job of implementing successful incentive programs. However, my recent run-ins with child rearing are forcing me to rethink my classroom practices and procedures.

I have discovered that there is a very thin line between using incentives and just down right bribing your child. I’m not sure exactly when I crossed that line but I’ve done it and I think that I’m too far-gone - hello bribery.

Initially, I was so very diligent with my incentive plans. When I potty trained my daughter, I printed out sticker potty charts for each bathroom in our home. Every time she used the potty, she was able to put one sticker on the chart and give one to herself.

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on the bribery path; somehow I just ended up here.

I knew I had arrived there when I started buying more juice. See, my children weren’t true juice drinkers as I’m a water advocate.

This proved to be a great attribute as juice started to be treated as gold. So I could say, “If you eat all of your carrots you can have juice after lunch,” and carrots would quickly disappear. I took juice boxes to the doctor’s office when my son got his immunization shots to quiet his yells. While I never said, “If you stop crying, I’ll give you a juice,” it was a secret language that we both understood.

Like wise, my son and daughter understood that if they got juice when I was trying to eat or tend to their baby brother, it meant give me moment. Juice was a lifesaver. But as is true with anything, the more accessible something becomes, the less desirable it is.

Juice just wasn’t as effective as it used to be.

A few nights ago I told my daughter that she could have juice if she ate her dinner and she so calmly replied as she pushed her plate away, “It’s OK mommy, I don’t want juice.” My world was crushed! How on Earth would I get her to eat her dinner now? Right before I could hang my head in

LaAisha Lorick is a full time mom and wife, from South Carolina, USA. She is also a teacher and best of all, sharing her parenting expertise with The Source readers.

defeat, my husband came into the kitchen, like the superhero he is, and offered my daughter a Tic Tac. Then, just like that, she agreed to finish her dinner. Tic Tacs saved that meal and I’m sure will save many more meals down the line. I should write their new slogan: Tic Tacs: allowing parents to bribe one tic at a time.

If you too find that you are bribing rather than using incentives, be careful, as I have been told bribery is the gateway to threats.

“Eat your dinner or…,” none of us would ever do that! May the odds forever be in all of our favor or Tic Tac flavors that is.

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It's raining coffee at Skydive Dubai Tim Hortons special launch celebrates 20 years of DSF

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his past weekend Tim Hortons gave its customers another reason to love coffee with the launch of its new Dark Roast blend, which joins the Company’s iconic Original premium blend. To celebrate, guests at “Skydive – Dubai” were invited to enjoy an enhanced tasting experience highlighting the full, rich profile of the new coffee blend…in the dark!

The event was packed with music, entertainment, and activities for guests both young and old, who were thrilled to receive skydive passes. Professional skydivers

toting branded Tim Hortons and Dark Roast flags marked the official launch of the coffee. Guests joined the conversation and excitement online using the hashtag #DivewithTimHortons on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

“The launch of Dark Roast is historic for Tim Hortons and it couldn’t have come at a better time than during our 50th anniversary year and the 20th anniversary of Dubai Shopping Festival,” said David Roy, Managing Director, Tim Hortons International. “At Tim Hortons, we pride ourselves on serving best-in-class coffee and responding to the evolving tastes of our guests, and our new Dark Roast blend further reaffirms that commitment. We are confident that the people of Dubai will enjoy this new blend and are inspired to include Dark Roast in their daily coffee routine.”

Said Santhosh Unni, Chief Executive officerFoods business of the Apparel Group Tim Hortons Dark Roast is a brand new premium blend made from 100 per cent Arabica beans, sourced from the world’s most renowned coffee regions. The new blend offers hints of citrus, cocoa and earthy tones with a rounded body. It is carefully roasted to bring out the full, rich flavour and aroma of a dark roast coffee, while ensuring a perfectly smooth finish.

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The new Dark Roast coffee is now available at Tim Hortons across Dubai, and soon at all other Emirates.

Follow Tim Hortons on Twitter (@ TimHortonsGCC) Facebook (facebook. com/TimHortonsGCC) and Instagram (@ TimHortonsGCC) and read more on the launch on #DivewithTimHortons

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e were very excited to catch up with Sarah Appleton in this issue of The Source and introduce an alternative and relaxed way of shopping for your kids in the comfort of your home. Let’s face it, shopping at the mall with offspring in tow can be a challenge at the best of times but with Mini Exchange, access to your favourite brands at fabulous prices, plus an opportunity to capitalize on your own gently used kids fashion stock, puts a refreshing new perspective on shopping for those precious little darlings.

Mini Exchange is the Middle East’s online marketplace for kid’s fashion, the website where parents can buy and sell new and like-new kids’ clothing and accessories, costumes and school uniforms for children aged 0-12. Mini Exchange also works as an outlet for retailers and brands looking to sell last season’s stock.

Mini Exchange does the hard work for sellers and gives buyers easy access to discounted branded and designer clothes.

Items are collected from sellers free of charge, and quality-checked by the team.

They are then professionally photographed, described and listed on the site. When they sell, Mini Exchange deposits the profits directly into the seller’s account. Buyers can order from the comfort of their own homes and are assured that items purchased are nothing less than perfect – genuine, freshly laundered and in great condition.

Giving back to the community Mini Exchange gives users the opportunity to support some great causes across the Middle East whilst clearing out their kids’

al majlis Mini Exchange has won the following awards to date: • • • •

The E-Commerce Enterprise Agility Award at the Entrepreneur Middle East Awards

Winner of ArabNet's Startup Demo Competition

PITME Labs Middle East Impact & Ingenuity Award

Listed as one of the UAE's Top 14 Start-Ups at Seedstars World

Sarah Appleton has won the following awards to date: •

Small Business CEO of the Year at the CEO Middle East Awards

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Woman Leadership Award at the Asian Leadership Awards

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Listing in Arabian Business’ UAE Brit List 2014

wardrobes. The company has tied up with three reputable organizations – START, Little Wings and Action Care – all of which work in different ways to help and support children across the region. Sellers can make a real difference in their community by listing clothes and gifting the profits directly to one of these good causes.

The website also allows individuals and organizations to support causes close to their own hearts by creating a “Mini Group”. Users can invite friends, family and colleagues to clear out their kids’ wardrobes by listing items on the site, and when the items sell the profits can be contributed to the good cause. Whether it’s supporting victims of a natural disaster, or trekking the Himalayas for a personal charity, Mini Groups allow users to support causes that matter to them.

1. What has the response been like so far?

The response to the site really has been amazing. Parents love how easy the site makes shopping online and also how easy the site makes selling items that their little ones have grown out of.

In 12 months, we have signed over 30 partnerships with global and local brands and retailers, have had over 1,000 items listed on the site from parents and a further 8,000+ items

listed on the site from the brands or retailers themselves, which is really exciting. Those numbers should double over the next six months, so that parents can select from an even wider range of kids fashion on Mini Exchange.

The site currently has everything from Gap pajamas to Dior dresses, and everything’s listed at a 30-80% discount, so there really is something for everyone.

2. Less than a year old, Mini Exchange has already made a name for itself.

How did you decide on taking on this venture?

During my University years I dipped my toe into the consignment world by running an online store on eBay, which was a lot of fun; however after graduating, I thought that I should get a proper job and left the fun of buying and selling clothes to join Deloitte in London and Dubai in Mergers & Acquisition Advisory.

Working in finance, I was always working for other people, advising inspiring entrepreneurs on how to grow and sell their companies and I was always envious when they left the room. I wanted to be on the other side of the table! So one day, after a huge amount of soul-searching and more than one sleepless night, I decided to take the leap and now I’m here, absolutely loving my new role and excited by all the new challenges that lie ahead.

3. What current plans do you have for your website?

Mini Exchange is planning to be the ‘go to’ place for kidswear in the region. The feedback so far has been incredible with mums, dads, brands and stores already loving it so we’re hoping that we can keep that up.

Next steps are spreading the word to more people in the UAE and then hopefully launching the site in a number of other neighboring markets, which I have no doubt will bring us lots of new and exciting challenges.

Along with beauty, charm and an award winning business, Sarah Appleton is quickly making a difference on the e-commerce landscape in the UAE and beyond. The Source is excited to be sharing this innovative service and urges you to take advantage of the exclusive, additional 20% discount now offered to our readers. Offer valid until May 31st; see the ad on page 15.

Be sure to visit www.miniexchange.com for some great deals!

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entertainment Spider-Man caught in web: Emma Stone to tie

down Andrew Garfield

Emma Stone and Andrew Garfield are reportedly planning to get married this summer.

The couple, who started dating in 2011 and sparked rumours they got engaged last May, are said to be secretly scouting for a romantic wedding venue in Rome, Italy.

A source told: "Andrew would be happy with a city hall ceremony. But Emma wants something a little more dramatic and memorable." The insider claims the 'Birdman' actress, 26, already has a dress in mind for their ceremony, and is eager to exchange vows in front of just 25 friends and family members.

The duo first started talking about getting married in late 2013. A friend said at the time: "They want to marry and have a family. They're discussing it. They're madly in love."

Emma recently admitted she is a workaholic as she fears she won't always be in demand in Hollywood. She said: "I think I have this kind of non-stop neurotic awareness that it won't always be this way, and it hasn't always been this way.

"There have been periods of time throughout it all where it felt like the nature of being an actor is that you finish something and then you feel like you're never going to get another job again, and that doesn't really ever go away. It doesn't really matter what it is you last did.

Pregnant Maci Bookout is

"Thanking God" after she survives "Nightmare" car accident with son Bentley

Maci Bookout is giving extra thanks after surviving a frightening car accident near her home.

Taylor Swift's Girls' Night

The Teen Mom star took to Instagram where she detailed the real-life "nightmare" she experienced on the roads.

"Thanking God that my unborn baby girl is perfectly healthy after this," she wrote online.

"I'd also like to [thank] @JeepOfficial @ Jeep because if our seatbelts and the roll cage had not done their job, I'm not sure my family and I would have had the same outcome."

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Bentley. "Thanks to everyone that stopped to help, that was huge," she added. "I pray everyone else involved is doing okay The accident comes at an important time for the 23-year-old MTV fan-favorite who is expecting a baby with her boyfriend of two years Taylor McKinney.

Prior to getting pregnant for the second time, Bookout was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), which makes it difficult to have a child.

Girls' nights in New York just never go out of style!

As temperatures in New York City hit below freezing Saturday, Taylor Swift decided to invite a few of her close gal pals over for some quality time together.

Instead of venturing into the city, the "Shake It Off" singer decided to throw the ultimate gathering in her apartment complete with lots (and lots) of cooking. "Cooking all day with @Ashavignone @MarHunt @ Tavitulle," she captioned on Instagram as her friends whipped up a variety of dishes.

"Cold New York. Hot tea. @marhunt"

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SUNDRIED TOMATO PESTO PENNE (for 1 plate)

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Penne Pasta (1 portion, 200g)

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Cherry Tomato (6pcs cut in 4)

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Olives (sliced, 40g)

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Process 120g sundried tomatoes, 50g pine nuts, 1.5 garlic cloves, chopped.

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BASIL RASPBERRY LEMONADE (for 1 glass, 250-280ml) Ingredients: •

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Put the raspberries and the sugar syrup in the glass and muddle gently

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The Source Foodies were back at L’italianos to take advantage of their amazing monthly promotions. We have shared a couple of this month’s featured items and encourage you to get busy in your own kitchens or better still, head over to L’italianos, conveniently located at Al Jimi Mall and settle in for a dining delight! It’s an ideal meeting place for family and friends and the delicious menu items, along with their easy on the wallet monthly promotions, will keep you coming back for more!

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WAR 8

At 9:00 AM, on January 17th , the crack of a single shot echoed across the Wadi Adventure Park and marked the exhilarating start to yet another W.A.R. in Al Ain. W.A.R. 8 saw more than 800 participants challenge themselves to one of the UAE’s most invigorating endurance races, boasting a 10 km track of obstacles.

Both newbies and veterans from all over the UAE and abroad came together to test their skills and ultimately walk away with medals and above all, a sense of pride and accomplishment – not to mention the odd scrape and bruise!

Wadi Adventure was honored to welcome Sheikh Doctor Abdul-Aziz Bin Ali Al Nuaimi and his sons; Sheikh Omar Al Nuaimi, Sheikh Nasser Al Nuaimi and Sheikh Abdullah Bin Ahmed Bin Hamed Al Nuaimi, all of whom participated in the race.

The winners were as follows: Male: 1st place Hallavard Borsheim (Nor), Finsih time 00:50:16.

2nd Place Boris Rajencikz (SVK), Finish time: 00:51:16.

3rd Place Stephen Blaisdell (USA), Finish time: 00:53:58 Female: 1st place Heba Zoghby (EGY), finish time: 00:57:24, 2nd place Carolina (Colombia), finish time: 01:02:38 3rd place Emily Rentsch (Aus), finish time: 01:04:45 We could go on and on describing the magnificence of the day but instead invite you to feast on the photos that do a much better job of telling the story!

And stay tuned for W.A.R. 9, coming up in April…

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hen we made our long journey to the UAE nearly three years ago, I was pleased to note that not only had my children done well on the their first overseas voyage but they proved to be pretty enjoyable travel companions.

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other parts of the world in a relatively short amount of time. So when National Day holiday came around, we hopped on a direct flight to Cyprus, the European island country in the Mediterranean Sea. With its sun-kissed beaches, ancient sites and charming villages, Cyprus has something to offer for everyone in the family. If you are considering Cyprus for your next family getaway, here are some tried and true suggestions to help make traveling with little ones a fun and memorable experience.

1. Visit during the low season, which is midNovember to mid-March. You’ll find lower rates on resorts, hotels and vacation rentals during this time of year. Thanks to the mild Mediterranean climate, you can still enjoy outdoor activities during the winter months without the crowds, which children can find overwhelming. It might be too chilly to swim in the hotel pool but in the warmth of the

afternoon sun, exploring jewel-toned tide pools along the sea can be just as much fun.

Some restaurants and shops along the beach close down for the winter but there are still plenty of places to sample grilled halloumi cheese or to find that perfect souvenir. Shopkeepers and restaurateurs take the time to chat with you, since they are not dealing with throngs of tourists walking in an out. In December, the island sparkles with Christmas decorations and children will be delighted to find Santa at one of the town square festivals.

2. If you are comfortable driving on the left side of the road, rent a car. Public transportation is limited and taxis are very expensive, given the long distances between points of interest. Drivers in Cyprus are generally safe and responsible, and the

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dishes, such as moussaka, a layered dish of eggplant, lamb, and tomatoes. If you are not sure what to try on the menu, opt for meze, which literally means "small dishes."

A style of eating that has many different courses, but each course contains just a little of each item; enough for everyone to have a taste. Kids wanting more familiar flavors, will have no problem finding pizza and chicken nuggets in the multitude of restaurants along the beaches or in the mountainside towns.

Aphrodite emerged from the foam of the crystal waters, and you can visit it between Limassol and Paphos. Tales of knights, kings and dungeons made our visit to a medieval Kolossi Castle all the more memorable.

4. Enchant your children with Greek mythology and medieval tales before visiting archeological sites. I was enthralled by the Greco-Roman ruins such as the Aphrodite’s Sanctuary, but I could tell my children were not impressed by the pile of rocks. With the aid of my smartphone, I retold legends of Greek heroes and heroines, and the places became more magical and meaningful to them. Petra tou Romiou is the rock where

5. Help them take it all in. No matter what your itinerary includes, be sure to pencil in some quality relaxation time with loved ones.

Each evening in our hotel, we reflected on our favorite part of the day and by the end of the weekend, we all agreed that Cyprus was one of our favorite family getaways because of all the beautiful adventures we experienced together.

Animal lovers will enjoy the Paphos Zoo, Ocean Aquarium in Protaras and learn a lot at the Lara Bay Turtle Conservation Station.

Thanks to the warm weather, Cyprus boasts many waterparks and playgrounds for children to burn off energy.

Medieval castle and harbour in Kyrenia

roads are easy to navigate, especially if you have a trusty GPS. The biggest advantage of having a car is being able to explore little villages along the coastline at your own pace and give the kids a chance to pick citrus fruits from the trees that line the country roads. Renting a car gives families the freedom to explore on their own schedule and work around nap time. Best of all, within a couple of hours you can go from the beach to the winter wonderland of Troodos Mountains for a bit of skiing.

Ruins of ancient town Kourion on Cyprus A view of a Coral beach in Paphos, Cyprus

Agios Georgios church near Paphos

3. Break away from fast food. Cypriot cuisine appeals to every palette. Similar to Greek and Turkish cuisine, Cyprus flavors are light and not overpowering so even young diners can be convinced to try souvlaki, little spits of meat served either as a sandwich in a pita or on skewers. Tavernas serve freshly baked breads and fruits and vegetables are picked daily to prepare popular Cyrpus The Source

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diary MARK THESE EVENTS ON YOUR CALENDAR shopping experience, while supporting local traders and learning about deeprooted Emirati heritage at the same time.

Emirati forefathers were particularly prolific in creating products which helped them endure an environment of limited resources, and the market allows crafters to demonstrate how modern Emirati society preserves this heritage as part of its national identity and originality.

SOUL-N-SOUL: WHERE FOOD MEETS SOUL MUSIC

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Come enjoy the cool, laid back sounds of The Tower Project while dining on some of the best soul food that Al Ain has to offer by 'A Lil Taste of the South.' Business casual attire is suggested as this event is for the "grown folk."

Place: Al Ain Sands Golf Club, Date:February 6th, 7pm-12am. AED 175 per ticket. For tickets call 0567230947 https://www.facebook.com/ events/1382930182010327/

FRIDAY MARKET

Oct 23, 2014 - May 31, 2015, Al Qattara Oasis, Al Ain. More than 30 local families will showcase a wide variety of traditional products in the Market which offers visitors a convenient

The Market will be open to the public every weekend (Thursday, Friday and Saturday) until May 2015.

Market Hours: Thursdays: 8am – 1pm and 4-10pm. | Fridays: 4 -10pm. | Saturdays: 8am – 1pm and 4-10pm.

AL AIN ROTANA VALENTINE’S DAY

TRADER VIC’S – AED 599* PER COUPLE: Including exotic rum fog cutter for two persons and entertainment by the Trader Vics Band and Saxophonist from 7:30 pm to 11:30 pm ZEST – AED 225* PER PERSON: Including grand valentines buffet, live entertainment by our resident pianist. All ladies also receive a red rose on arrival from 6:30 pm to 10:30 pm

MIN ZAMAN – AED 199* PER PERSON: Featuring a romantic evening with an Arabic twist that reflects the Min Zaman formula from 6:30 pm to 10:30 pm ATRIUM CAFÉ: With romance in the air, enjoy during February à la carte style menu selection of romantic goodies such as heart shaped cookies, cakes and velvet cakes.

ATRIUM CAFÉ - MONTHLY SPECIALS FRESH PIES PROMOTION: February is pie season at Atrium served à la carte. Will be serving freshly baked pies using a choice of traditional and unique stuffing sure to keep you coming back for more.

AQUARIUM POOL BAR – Speed dish of the day: Expect Aquarius to come alive at lunch time right through February. As part of our Chef Specials, will be serving a special dish of the day for lunch.

For table reservation or more information, please call +971 (0)3 754 5111, ext 1132, email bodylines.alain@rotana.com or visit www.rotanatimes.com

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TAKEN 3 STARRING: Liam Neeson, Maggie Grace, Famke Janssen GENRE: ACTION RUNNING TIME: 110 min LANGUAGE:English SYNOPSIS: Ex-government operative Bryan Mills finds his life is shattered when he's falsely accused of a murder that hits close to home. As he's pursued by a savvy police inspector, Mills employs his particular set of skills to track the real killer and exact his unique brand of justice.

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Adan, an apprentice of the legendary Tasburai order, is training hard to become an elite warrior in the service of the Avanist Republic. He's horrified to discover the Republic's authoritarian leaders are reshaping the Tasburai as a tool of persecution. Innocent people are being imprisoned. He didn't sign up for this. Feisty young thief Ylwa robs the rich of the walled city of Kronnoburg. She's helping her father Olaf, one time mercenary, redistribute wealth to the needy.

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Poetry centre THE CHASE

The UAE is a precious jewel in the desert, like a shining constellation in the flawless night sky. It harnesses people from many different ethnicities, cultures and backgrounds. It shows the real meaning of togetherness and hospitality. I have great affection for this country and all of its exceptional leaders.

By Ahmed Alkindi Can you write a mini-saga in exactly 50 words? Choose your vocabulary carefully!

Submit your story to us at brighteens to see your work in print.

The car’s tires scratched the red-hot road.

It’s V-10 engine roaring like a tiger, Eager to leave its cage.

The breaks released, The speed broke records, Still unbeatenSo for now, It can just stay on its wheels.

But the chase is still on.

Brilliant Books Find in the missing letters for these books.

T_e H_b_it Th_ H_ng_r _am_s L_rd _f _he Ri_gs Harr_ P_tt_r Th_ M_z_ _unn_r G_n_

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By Felix Nibelle Would you like to create your own poem?

Anagrams Challenge

Submit it to The Brighteens!

by Hector Nibelle Can you unscramble these words from New Year?

Riddle me this!

Easy:

EASIER:

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What lights up on most nights, but blows up on some nights?

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What applies only on two days of the year and is forgotten for the rest?

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What works with fire?

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What is old but doesn’t age?

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How many words can you make out of this greeting? Try to find four or even five letter words.

Examble: Way, Near

Hard: nutseoroin theforidetmyfsrectib enseobclrati

Answers: Happy New Year, Fireworks, Midnight

What is always coming, but never comes?

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Hi, we are Suhail and Jonah, and we are good friends. We both go to school at Al Towayya Kindergarten. Suhail is an Emirati National, born in Al Ain; Jonah is from Canada, but has lived in Al Ain for three and a half years.

Jonah went to Suhail and his sister, Alyazia's birthday party last week and had a great time.

There were so many fun things to do at the party – like bouncy castles, games, face painting, and yummy treats. Suhail's actual birthday is on January 23, and he will be five years old and Jonah celebrated his fifth birthday a few months back, on October 18th. At school, Suhail helps Jonah with his Arabic, and Jonah helps Suhail with English.

During break time, the boys enjoy laughing, running and chasing each other. Suhail's favourite food is chicken, and Jonah likes fish. They both love the colour red. They have become great buddies and are very excited to share their story with The Source.

Parents if you have a special youngster who you think would be great for our Sourceling of the Week, send a photo and a bio of no more than 100 words to sourcelings@thesourceuae.com.

.‫ يذهب كالنا إىل روضة الطوية‬،‫ ونحن صديقان حميامن‬،‫ نحن سهيل وجونا‬،‫مرحبا‬

Story time PERCY JACKSON'S GREEK GODS

BY RICK RIORDAN So begins Percy Jackson's Greek Gods, in which the son of Poseidon adds his own magic--and sarcastic asides--to the classics.

He explains how the world was created, then gives readers his personal take on a who's who of ancients, from Apollo to Zeus. Percy does not hold back. "If you like horror shows, blood baths, lying, stealing, backstabbing, and cannibalism, then read on, because it definitely was a Golden Age for all that."

‫الساحرة مأنوفة لمحة عن كتاب‬

‫فالريي توماس وكوريك بول‬ ‫تعيش الساحرة مأنوفة يف بيت كبري أسود مع ه ّرها نفّوش‬ ‫ تصيبها بعض‬،‫ ومن وقت آلخر‬.‫األسود‬ ‫ تحلّها‬،‫ وبسحر ساحر‬.‫ بسحر ساحر‬...‫ هكذا‬،‫املصائب السوداء‬ ‫ رششفونا‬:‫ما إن تل ّوح بعصاها وتصيح‬ ّ ‫شفرشونا! أ ّما بني‬ ‫ فحفنة من الجمل السلسة‬،‫كل مصيبة وحلّها‬ .‫والفكاهيّة مع رشّ ة من الخيال الجامح ودزّينة من الرسوم العابقة بالتفاصيل الطريفة‬ .‫ ال تدعو أيًّا منها يفوتكم‬:‫نصيحتنا‬

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‫ أما جونا فهو كندي الجنسية لكنه‬،‫سهيل إمارايت الجنسية و مولود يف مدينة العني‬ .‫يعيش يف مدينة العني منذ ثالث سنوات و نصف‬ ‫دُعي جونا لحضور حفل عيد ميالد سهيل و شقيقته اليازية االسبوع املايض و قد لبى‬ ‫ فقد كان هناك العديد من األشياء املمتعة‬،‫الدعوة بكل رسور و حظي بوقت مذهل‬ ‫ والرسم عىل الوجه و‬،‫ واأللعاب‬،‫ كالقالع النطاطة‬،‫لفعلها يف حفلة عيد امليالد تلك‬ .‫الطعام اللذيذ‬ ‫ أما جونا‬،‫ و سيتم حينها الخامسة من العمر‬،‫ يناير‬23 ‫عيد ميالد سهيل الفعيل هو يوم‬ .‫ أكتوبر‬18 ‫فقد أتم الخامسة من العمر قبل بضعة أشهر و تحديدا يف‬ ‫ و يقوم جونا مبساعدة سهيل‬،‫يف املدرسة يقوم سهيل مبساعدة جونا باللغة العربية‬ ‫ و خالل االسرتاحة يستمتع الولدان بالضحك و الجري و مطاردة‬،‫باللغة اإلنجليزية‬ .‫بعضهام البعض‬ ‫ و كالهام يحب‬،‫ أما جونا فيحب السمك‬،‫الطعام املفضل لدى سهيل هو الدجاج‬ ‫ و قد أصبحا أفضل صديقني و هام متحمسان جدا ً ملشاركة قصتهام‬،‫اللون األحمر‬ .‫مع مجلة املصدر‬ ‫األهل‬ ‫الكرام الذين يرغبون برتشيح طفلهم لعمود‬ ‫ للعدد القادم إرسال صورة‬The Source ‫طفل‬ ‫وسرية‬ ‫ذاتية‬ ‫من‬ 100 ‫كلمة فقط إىل الربيد االلك‬ sourcelings@thesourceuae.com ‫رتوين‬

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