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2VBOEP PSNBJ EJWFSTJ BOOJ GB TPOP TUBUB DPTUSFUUB B JNCBS DBSNJ OFM EJGGJDJMF WJBHHJP BMMB SJDFSDB EJ VO GJHMJP NJ TPOP TFOUJUB DPNQMFUBNFOUF QFSEVUB /PO QPTTFEFWP VOB DBSUJOB TV DVJ DFSDBSF MB TUSBEB HJVTUB EB QFSDPSSFSF F JO QJรก OPO DPOPTDFWP OFTTVOB EPOOB TUFSJMF P BMNFOP OFTTVOB EJTQP TUB B QBSMBSF BQFSUBNFOUF EFMMF QSPQSJF EJGGJDPMUร B SJNBOFSF JODJOUB P EFHMJ FWFOUVBMJ BCPSUJ TQPOUBOFJ *M NJP HJOFDPMPHP WPMFWB TPUUPQPSNJ B RVBMDIF JOEBHJOF QSFMJNJOBSF NB OPO NJ IB NBJ TVHHFSJUP EJ SJWPMHFSNJ B VO DFOUSP QFS MB GFSUJMJUร & RVBOEP IP DPOGJEBUP B NJP NBSJUP F BMMB NJB GBNJHMJB DIF NJ TFOUJWP FNPUJWBNFOUF TPUUP BTTFEJP OFTTVOP IB TBQVUP USPWBSF MB NBOJFSB HJVTUB QFS EBSNJ DPOGPSUP 1FHHJP BODPSB FSP JP TUFTTB B OPO USPWBSF JM NPEP QFS WFOJSOF GVPSJ OPO BWFWP GPSTF QBTTBUP BOOJ F BOOJ B DFSDBSF EJ non SJNBOFSF JODJOUB "EFTTP DIF FSP GJOBMNFOUF QSPOUB B FTTFSF NBESF QFSDIร NBJ JM NJP DPSQP TJ SJGJVUBWB EJ DPPQFSBSF .JP NBSJ UP F JP DJ FSBWBNP TPUUPQPTUJ QFS MVOHP UFNQP B JOEBHJOJ DMJOJDIF F UFSBQJF EJ WBSJP HFOFSF F JM NJP DJDMP FSB BODPSB SFHPMBSF DPNF VO PSPMPHJP $POWJOUB DPN FSP DIF M JNQFHOP TJB TFNQSF SJDPNQFOTBUP DPO JM TVDDFTTP NJ TFOUJWP EBWWFSP BM DPMNP EFMMB GSVTUSB[JPOF 1PTTJCJMF DIF OFTTVOP SJVTDJTTF B
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DBQJSF RVBOUP GPTTJ EJTQFSBUB BMM JEFB EJ OPO SJVTDJSF BE BWFSF VO CBNCJOP 2VFTUB TJUVB[JPOF WJ TVPOB GBNJMJBSF .BHBSJ MP TDFOBSJP DIF WJ IP EFTDSJUUP OPO SJTQFDDIJFSË BM DFOUP QFS DFOUP MB WP TUSB QFSTPOBMF SJDFSDB EFMMB NBUFSOJUË NB IP JM GPSUF TPTQFUUP DIF SJVTDJBUF B JEFOUJGJDBSWJ BMMB QFSGF[JPOF OFM NJP TUFTTP TFOTP EJ TPMJUVEJOF GSVTUSB[JPOF F USJTUF[[B 4FOUJNFOUJ ESBN NBUJDJ UVUUJ RVFTUJ DIF TPMP VO BMUSB EPOOB DIF DFSDB EJTQF SBUBNFOUF EJ SJNBOFSF JODJOUB F EJ BWFSF VOB HSBWJEBO[B TBOB QVÛ DPNQSFOEFSF TJOP JO GPOEP "MDVOF FTQFSJFO[F TVPOFSBOOP GBNJMJBSJ B DIJVORVF BCCJB VO QSPCMFNB EJ JOGFSUJMJUË NFOUSF BMUSF TBSBOOP EJWFSTF B TF DPOEB DIF TJ USBUUJ EJ JOUFSSV[JPOF EJ HSBWJEBO[B P EJ GBMMJ NFOUP EFMMB GFDPOEB[JPOF JO WJUSP TF TUBUF QSPWBOEP BE BWFSF VO TFDPOEP GJHMJP PQQVSF TF TJFUF TJOHMF P MFTCJDIF * DBQJUPMJ DIF TFHVPOP BGGSPOUFSBOOP UVUUF RVFTUF TJUVB[JPOJ -F TUSBUFHJF F MF SJGMFTTJPOJ QSPQPTUF EB RVFTUP MJCSP QSP WFOHPOP EBMMF PMUSF EVFDFOUP EPOOF F DPQQJF DIF IP BWVUP PDDBTJPOF EJ DPOPTDFSF F BTDPMUBSF OFJ NJFJ WFOU BOOJ EJ QSP GFTTJPOF DPNF DPOTVMFOUF EJ GFSUJMJUË 5VUUF JOTJFNF RVFTUF QFSTPOF GPSNBOP VOB DPNVOJUË EJTQPTUB B DPOEJWJEFSF FNP [JPOJ TUSBUFHJF EJ SJVTDJUB F QFSDIÏ OP TQFTTP BODIF USJPOGJ )P NPEJGJDBUP BMDVOF JOGPSNB[JPOJ BM TPMP TDPQP EJ QSPUFH HFSF MB MPSP QSJWBDZ TFO[B QFS RVFTUP BMUFSBSF M FGGJDBDJB F M P SJHJOBMJUË EFMMF EJWFSTF FTQFSJFO[F $PN Ò PWWJP MB NJB TUFTTB WJUB Ò TUBUB QSPGPOEBNFOUF TFHOBUB EBM QSPCMFNB EFMM JOGFSUJ MJUË F TFOUJSFUF MB NJB WPDF NFTDPMBUB B RVFMMF EFMMF BMUSF EPO OF PMUSF DIF OFHMJ TQVOUJ UFSBQFVUJDJ JO DIJVTVSB EJ PHOJ DB QJUPMP 4DPQP EFM MJCSP Ò GBSWJ DPOPTDFSF RVFTUJ DPNQBHOJ EJ WJBH HJP DIF DPO MF MPSP TDFMUF TVMM JOGFSUJMJUË IBOOP PUUFOVUP VO DPOUSPMMP NBHHJPSF TVMMF QSPQSJF WJUF *ODPOUSFSFUF VOB HSBO EF WBSJFUË EJ EPOOF GPSUJ F EJTQPOJCJMJ B DPOEJWJEFSF BQFSUB
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NFOUF MB QSPQSJB FTQFSJFO[B EJ WJUB *O RVBMVORVF TJUVB[JPOF WJ USPWJBUF MFHHFSFUF TUPSJF DIF TPNJHMJBOP BMMB WPTUSB F SJ TQPOEPOP BMMF NJMMF EPNBOEF DIF JO RVFTUP NPNFOUP WJ TUB UF TJDVSBNFOUF QPOFOEP & BM EJ Mร EFMM FNQBUJB FNBOBUB EBM MF WPDJ DIF QPQPMBOP RVFTUP MJCSP USPWFSFUF BODIF MF TUSBUFHJF QSBUJDIF DIF RVFTUF EPOOF IBOOP NFTTP JO BUUP QFS SJBQQSP QSJBSTJ EFMMF MPSP WJUF NBOEBUF BMMB EFSJWB EBMM JOGFSUJMJUร $PNF NPMUF MFUUSJDJ CFO TBQSBOOP BMM JODJSDB JM EFMM JOGFSUJMJUร EJQFOEF EBMM VPNP 4F BWFUF VO DPNQBHOP B QSFTDJOEFSF EB DIJ EFJ EVF WFOHB TPUUPQPTUP BM USBUUBNFOUP QSPWFSFUF entrambi VO JOGJOJUร EJ FNP[JPOJ MFHBUF BMMB WPTUSB TQFSBO[B DPNVOF EJ DPODFQJSF VO CBNCJOP .B EPOOF F VP NJOJ WJWPOP M JOGFSUJMJUร JO NBOJFSB QSPGPOEBNFOUF EJWFSTB 4POP TJDVSBNFOUF UVUUJ F EVF TUSFTTBUJ BMM JEFB EJ OPO SJVTDJSF BE BWFSF GJHMJ DPO GBDJMJUร NB MF EPOOF TJ TFOUPOP TQFTTP FTDMVTF EB RVFMMP DIF JP DIJBNP jJM DMVC EFMMF NBNNFx $JS DPOEBUF EB DPQQJF JO BUUFTB P HJร HFOJUPSJ MF EPOOF DIF OPO SJFTDPOP BE BWFSF GJHMJ TJ TFOUPOP JO JNCBSB[[P P TJ JSSJUBOP TF TJ QSFUFOEF DIF TJBOP GFMJDJ BHMJ BOOVODJ EFMMF OBTDJUF BJ CBU UFTJNJ BMMF SJDPSSFO[F P BJ DPNQMFBOOJ 1JBOP QJBOP VOB EPO OB QVร DPNJODJBSF BE BWFSF M JNQSFTTJPOF DIF UVUUF USBOOF MFJ TJBOP JODJOUF P JOUFOUF B TQJOHFSF VO QBTTFHHJOP & JO PHOJ DBTP TJB DIF MF BNJDIF JODJOUF TJ NFUUBOP B GBSGVHMJBSF RVBM DIF QBSPMB TVJ DPSTJ QSFQBSUP TJB DIF NBOUFOHBOP VO TJMFO[JP JNCBSB[[BUP OFMMP TGPS[P EJ SJTQFUUBSF JM EPMPSF EFMM BNJDB MB WJUB RVPUJEJBOB EFMMF EPOOF ร QJรก MFHBUB EJ RVFMMB EFHMJ VPNJ OJ BJ SJUNJ EJ DPODFQJNFOUP HSBWJEBO[B OBTDJUB F DVSB EFJ CBNCJOJ &E ร JOFWJUBCJMF DIF M BTTFO[B EJ UVUUP DJร QSPWPDIJ VO TFOTP WJTDFSBMF EJ QFSEJUB 7J JOWJUP B DPOEJWJEFSF RVFTUP MJCSP DPO HMJ VPNJOJ EFMMB WPTUSB WJUB (MJ VPNJOJ TQFTTP OPO WJWPOP M JOGFSUJMJUร BMMB NB OJFSB EFMMF EPOOF NB EPQP RVFTUB MFUUVSB TBSBOOP QJรก EJTQP OJCJMJ B SJDFWFSF TVHHFSJNFOUJ TVM NPEP JO DVJ PGGSJSF BJVUP F
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TDFO[F JO DPOUJOVB FTQBOTJPOF & IP QSPWBUP VO SJTQFUUP TFNQSF QJรก HSBOEF QFS MB EFUFSNJOB[JPOF F MF TPMV[JPOJ JOHF HOPTF FTDPHJUBUF EBMMF NJF QB[JFOUJ /FHMJ VMUJNJ UFNQJ IP DBQJUP DIF MF EPOOF DIF IBOOP DPO EJWJTP JM MPSP WJBHHJP DPO NF IBOOP SJDFWVUP FTBUUBNFOUF DJร EJ DVJ PHOJ EPOOB BMMF QSFTF DPO M JOGFSUJMJUร IB CJTPHOP UBOUF DBSUJOF TV DVJ DFSDBSF MB TUSBEB HJVTUB BCCPOEBOUJ QSPWWJTUF EJ TUSBUFHJF F VOB HSBO RVBOUJUร EJ FTQFSJFO[F EB DPOEJWJEFSF
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VOB SJTQPTUB DFSUB BMMB MPSP EPNBOEB BODIF EPQP VO JUFS EJBHOPTUJDP DPNQMFUP 4F OPO BMUSP OFHMJ VMUJNJ UFNQJ TPMP VOB QJDDPMB QFSDFOUVBMF EJ DPQQJF OPO SJFTDF JO BMDVO NPEP BE BQQVSBSF MB WFSB DBVTB EFM MPSP QSPCMFNB 7PJ F JM WPTUSP QBSUOFS BGGSPOUFSFUF QJá TFSFOBNFOUF MF JO EBHJOJ QSFMJNJOBSJ TF BWSFUF VO JEFB EJ DPTB WJ BTQFUUB *OPM USF DPOPTDFOEP M JNQPSUBO[B EJ RVFTUJ UFTU JOJ[JBMJ TBSFUF JO HSBEP EJ TDFHMJFSF M ÏRVJQF NFEJDB DPO QJá FTQFSJFO[B JO NB UFSJB JO GJO EFJ DPOUJ VO BOBNOFTJ BQQSPQSJBUB Ò MB CBTF TV DVJ TWJMVQQBSF VOB UFSBQJB EJ TVDDFTTP 4FO[B BEEFOUSBSNJ OFJ EFUUBHMJ F OFMMB UFSNJOPMPHJB UFDOJDB WPSSFJ QSFOEFSF BEFTTP JO FTBNF BMDVOF EFMMF DPOEJ[JPOJ DIF QPTTPOP GBWPSJSF M JOGFSUJMJUË EJ DPQQJB F MF QSPDFEVSF TPMJUBNFOUF VTBUF QFS JEFOUJGJDBSF UBMJ DPOEJ[JPOJ - JOGFSUJMJUË OFMMF EPOOF Ò TQFTTP DBVTBUB EB VO QSPCMFNB EJ PWVMB[JPOF P EJ DBSBUUFSF BOBUPNJDP DPNF MF UVCF EJ 'BM MPQQJP PTUSVJUF P EBOOFHHJBUF /FHMJ VPNJOJ MB GFSUJMJUË QVÛ FTTFSF DPNQSPNFTTB EBMMB RVBMJUË P RVBOUJUË EFMMP TQFSNB µ JNQPSUBOUF TPUUPQPSSF B UFTU DMJOJDJ FOUSBNCJ J QBSUOFS QFS USPWBSF MF DPOEJ[JPOJ DIF DPOUSJCVJTDPOP BMMB MPSP JOGFSUJMJUË %J TPMJUP MF EPOOF TPOP TPUUPQPTUF BMMF JOEBHJOJ EFM DBTP QSJ NB EFJ MPSP DPNQBHOJ NB JO SFBMUË OPO FTJTUF VOB TQFDJGJDB SBHJPOF UFDOJDB TPQSBUUVUUP TF TJ DFSDB EJ BHJSF JO NBOJFSB FGGJDJFOUF (MJ FTBNJ GPOEBNFOUBMJ QFS FOUSBNCJ TJ QPUSFCCFSP DPODMVEFSF JO TFUUJNBOF 6O BOESPMPHP QSFGFSJCJMNFOUF TQFDJBMJ[[BUP JO JOGFSUJMJUË NBTDIJMF DPNJODFSË DPO VO BOBNOFTJ DPNQMFUB F VOB WJTJUB BDDVSBUB EFM QB[JFOUF DIF QPUSFCCF JODMVEFSF FTBNJ EFM TBO HVF FDPHSBGJF UFTU HFOFUJDJ P UFTU TQFDJGJDJ TVM TFNF 2VFTUJ VMUJNJ GPOEBNFOUBMJ OFMMB WBMVUB[JPOF EFMMB GFSUJMJUË NBTDIJ MF EPWSFCCFSP JODMVEFSF WPMVNF EFM TFNF DPOUB TQFSNBUJDB motilità WFMPDJUË F morfologia GPSNB 2VFTUJ UFTU QPTTPOP SJWFMBSF J GBUUPSJ QJá DPNVOJ EJ JOGFSUJMJUË NBTDIJMF azoosper-
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MADRE, NON MADRE
mia BTTFO[B EJ TQFSNBUP[PJ F oligospermia CBTTP OVNFSP EJ TQFSNBUP[PJ 2VBMDIF WPMUB HMJ TQFSNBUP[PJ TPOP NBMGPSNB UJ P NVPJPOP QSJNB EJ SBHHJVOHFSF MB DFMMVMB VPWP " DBVTB EFMMF BMUFSB[JPOJ DIF QPTTPOP WFSJGJDBSTJ OFJ DBNQJPOJ EJ TFNF TPMJUBNFOUF J NFEJDJ SJDIJFEPOP EVF QSFMJFWJ BE BMNF OP EVF TFUUJNBOF EJ EJTUBO[B /PO BTQFUUBUFWJ DIF JM WPTUSP DPNQBHOP GBDDJB TBMUJ EJ HJPJB BMM JEFB NB GBUFHMJ QSFTFOUF DIF MB TVB DPMMBCPSB[JPOF ร EJ WJUBMF JNQPSUBO[B QFS MB CVPOB SJV TDJUB EFMMF JOEBHJOJ &TBNJ TVQQMFNFOUBSJ QPTTPOP TFSWJSF B NJTVSBSF J MJWFMMJ EJ PSNPOF NBTDIJMF EBM NPNFOUP DIF VO EFGJDJU PSNPOBMF QVร FTTFSF USBUUBUP DPO GBDJMJUร F DPOUSJCVJSF B SJQSJTUJOBSF VO MJWFMMP EJ GFSUJMJUร OPSNBMF /FM GSBUUFNQP BODIF WPJ EPWSFTUF TPUUPQPSWJ B TQFDJGJDIF JOEBHJOJ EJBHOPTUJDIF DIF QFSMPQJรก QPTTPOP FTTFSF FTFHVJUF EB VO RVBMTJBTJ HJOFDPMPHP 4QFTTP UVUUBWJB VO HJOFDPMPHP TQFDJBMJ[[BUP JO JOGFSUJMJUร F QSPCMFNJ PSNPOBMJ QVร SJWFMBSTJ QJรก BEBUUP OFMMB WBMVUB[JPOF EFM QSPCMFNB %PQP VO BOBN OFTJ BDDVSBUB F VO FTBNF PCJFUUJWP MB WBMVUB[JPOF EFMMB GVO [JPOF PWBSJDB QSPTFHVF DPO VOB WJTJUB BMM JOJ[JP EFM DJDMP VOB BM NPNFOUP EFMMB QSFTVOUB PWVMB[JPOF F VOB UFS[B BMM JODJSDB VOB TFUUJNBOB EPQP 6O FDPHSBGJB QFMWJDB F VO EPTBHHJP PS NPOBMF EBSBOOP NPEP BMMP TQFDJBMJTUB EJ NPOJUPSBSF M BOEB NFOUP EFMM PWVMB[JPOF -B riserva ovarica QPUFO[JBMF EJ GFSUJ MJUร BOESFCCF WBMVUBUB NJTVSBOEP M '4) VOP EFJ EVF PSNPOJ DIF TUJNPMBOP MF PWBJF F M estrogeno VOP EFJ EVF QSJODJQBMJ PSNPOJ QSPEPUUJ EBMMF PWBJF 4PQSBUUVUUP EBJ BOOJ JO TV ร VUJMF FTFHVJSF VO UFTU QFS NJTVSBSF MB SJTFSWB PWBSJDB "MUSP BTQFUUP SJMFWBOUF EFMM BOBNOFTJ ร MB WBMVUB[JPOF EFMM BOBUP NJB QFMWJDB JO QBSUJDPMBSF MF UVCF EJ 'BMMPQQJP F MB DBWJUร VUFSJOB * EVF NFUPEJ QJรก DPNVOJ TPOP M isterosalpingografia VOB QSPDFEVSB B SBHHJ 9 JO DVJ VOB TPMV[JPOF JPEBUB JOJFUUBUB JO VUFSP BUUSBWFSTP MB DFSWJDF DPOTFOUF EJ WJTVBMJ[[BSF MB GPS NB JOUFSOB EFMMB DBWJUร VUFSJOB F JM HSBEP EJ BQFSUVSB EFMMF
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UVCF EJ 'BMMPQQJP F P MB laparoscopia VOB NFUPEJDB EJ DIJ SVSHJB BNCVMBUPSJBMF DPO DVJ MP TQFDJBMJTUB QVÛ WFEFSF M JOUFSB BOBUPNJB QFMWJDB BUUSBWFSTP VO MBQBSPTDPQJP JOTFSJUP OFMMB DBWJUË BEEPNJOBMF
Rivolgersi allo specialista 2VBOEP EFDJEFUF EJ BWWJBSF M JUFS EJBHOPTUJDP MB DPTB QJá JN QPSUBOUF QFS WPJ F QFS JM WPTUSP QBSUOFS Ò USPWBSF VO DFOUSP TQFDJBMJ[[BUP JO DVJ J NFEJDJ TJBOP TDSVQPMPTJ FE FGGJDJFOUJ .BHBSJ BWSFUF HJË EJTDVTTP DPO JM WPTUSP HJOFDPMPHP JM QSPCMF NB EFM DPODFQJNFOUP F EFMM FWFOUVBMF HSBWJEBO[B F EJ TJDVSP FTJTUPOP NPMUJ NPUJWJ BMNFOP BMM JOJ[JP QFS BGGJEBSWJ BM WP TUSP NFEJDP EJ GJEVDJB JODMVTJ VO SBQQPSUP PSNBJ DPOTPMJEBUP OFHMJ BOOJ F MB WJDJOBO[B B DBTB P BMM VGGJDJP &QQVSF B NFOP DIF JM WPTUSP HJOFDPMPHP OPO TJB TQFDJBMJ[ [BUP JO JOGFSUJMJUË DPMMBCPSJ DPO VO BOESPMPHP TQFDJBMJ[[BUP JO JOGFSUJMJUË P BCCJB TUBCJMJUP DIF MB WPTUSB EJBHOPTJ Ò DIJBSB F JM USBUUBNFOUP OPO USPQQP DPNQMFTTP QPUSFTUF DPSSFSF JM SJTDIJP EJ QFSEFSF UFNQP F NBHBSJ TPMEJ JO VO USBUUBNFOUP JODPN QMFUP P JOBEBUUP QSJNB BODPSB EJ BQQSPEBSF BMMF DVSF EJ VOP TQFDJBMJTUB EJ JOGFSUJMJUË DIF QSPCBCJMNFOUF WJ DIJFEFSË BEEJ SJUUVSB EJ SJQFUFSF UVUUJ HMJ FTBNJ *M WPTUSP HJOFDPMPHP TBSË TJDVSBNFOUF CSBWJTTJNP NB RVBTJ UVUUF MF TVF QB[JFOUJ P TPOP JODJOUF P DIJFEPOP EJ OPO SJNBOFSF JODJOUF * DFOUSJ QFS MB GFSUJMJUË IBOOP UFBN EJ TQFDJBMJTUJ DPNF HMJ FOEPDSJOPMPHJ SJQSPEVUUJWJ DIF FTFHVPOP JOEBHJOJ EJBHOPTUJ DIF F USBUUBNFOUJ UFSBQFVUJDJ UVUUJ J HJPSOJ EFMM BOOP F TPOP QSFQBSBUJ BE BGGSPOUBSF TJB M JNQBUUP NFEJDP TJB RVFMMP FNPUJ WP EFMM JOGFSUJMJUË GFNNJOJMF F NBTDIJMF - FMFODP DIF TFHVF
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MADRE, NON MADRE
QVร BJVUBSF B DBQJSF TF ร BSSJWBUP JM NPNFOUP EJ BGGJEBSTJ BM USBUUBNFOUP EJ VOP TQFDJBMJTUB t 4F BWFUF NFOP EJ BOOJ F DFSDBUF EJ DPODFQJSF VO CBN CJOP EB QJรก EJ NFTJ TF BWFUF QJรก EJ BOOJ F DFSDBUF EJ DPODFQJSF VO CBNCJOP EB QJรก EJ TFJ NFTJ PQQVSF TF BWFUF QJรก EJ BOOJ F DFSDBUF EJ DPODFQJSF VO CBNCJOP EB QJรก EJ USF NFTJ t 4F WPJ P JM WPTUSP QBSUOFS BWFUF QSPCMFNJ EJ TBMVUF DSPOJDJ P NBMBUUJF JNQPSUBOUJ OFMMB WPTUSB TUPSJB DMJOJDB %JBCFUF QSFTTJPOF BMUB P UVNPSF TPOP FTFNQJ EJ DPOEJ[JPOJ DIF QPTTPOP BMUFSBSF MB QSPEV[JPOF EJ TQFSNB F MB GVO[JPOF PWBSJDB t 4F WPMFUF VO JOEBHJOF F VOB UFSBQJB FGGJDJFOUJ FTFHVJUF EB VO QFSTPOBMF TBOJUBSJP TQFDJBMJ[[BUP DIF DPOTJEFSB MB jDPQQJBx DPNF VO VOJDP QB[JFOUF t 4F BWFUF BWVUP OVNFSPTJ BCPSUJ TQPOUBOFJ t 4F WJ TJFUF SJWPMUJ B VO NFEJDP F OFM HJSP EJ TFJ NFTJ OPO BWFUF BODPSB PUUFOVUP VOB WBMVUB[JPOF DPNQMFUB EFMMB WP TUSB GFSUJMJUร t 4F ร TUBUB JEFOUJGJDBUB VOB DBVTB NBTDIJMF PQQVSF UVCBSJ DB P VO FOEPNFUSJPTJ F TJFUF PSJFOUBUJ QFS MB GFDPOEB[JPOF JO WJUSP t 4F BWFUF TQFSJNFOUBUP QSPDFEVSF DPNF M JOTFNJOB[JPOF JOUSBVUFSJOB P UFSBQJF GBSNBDPMPHJDIF B CBTF EJ DMPNJGFOF VO PSNPOF TJOUFUJDP DIF TUJNPMB M PWVMB[JPOF JO TFJ DJDMJ P QJรก F OPO ร TUBUP QSFTP JO DPOTJEFSB[JPOF BMDVO BMUSP FTBNF P USBUUBNFOUP BHHJVOUJWP t 4F M JTUFSPTBMQJOHPHSBGJB IB SJMFWBUP VO VUFSP GJCSPNBUPTP P VO EBOOP BMMF UVCF
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t 4F BWWFSUJUF EPMPSF QFMWJDP NFTUSVB[JPOJ BCCPOEBOUJ F P EPMPSJ JOUFTUJOBMJ P WFTDJDBMJ EVSBOUF JM DJDMP F JM WPTUSP NFEJDP OPO SJDIJFEF VO JTUFSPTBMQJOHPHSBGJB P VOB MBQBSP TDPQJB QFS EFUFSNJOBSOF MB DBVTB -F FWFOUVBMJUË TPQSB FMFODBUF PQQVSF MB OFUUB TFOTB[JPOF EJ FTTFSF jJNQBOUBOBUFx OFM QSPCMFNB EFMM JOGFSUJMJUË EPWSFC CFSP DPOWJODFSWJ DIF MB WPTUSB TJUVB[JPOF SJDIJFEF VO MJWFMMP EJ BQQSPDDJP UFSBQFVUJDP QJá BQQSPGPOEJUP .B EFDJEFSF EJ OPO BGGJEBSTJ BM WPTUSP HJOFDPMPHP EJ GJEVDJB QPUSFCCF SJWFMBS TJ DPNQMJDBUP F JO RVFTUP DBTP Ò CFOF FTTFSF QSPOUJ BE BGGSPO UBSF TFOUJNFOUJ DPOUSBTUBOUJ j$PNF GBDDJP B EJSF BMMB NJB HJOFDPMPHB DIF JOUFOEP SJWPM HFSNJ B VO DFOUSP TQFDJBMJ[[BUP OFMMF EJBHOPTJ EJ JOGFSUJMJUË -FJ NJ BTTJDVSB DIF QPUSÛ FTFHVJSF UVUUJ HMJ FTBNJ WJDJOP B DBTB F RVFTUP NJ BMMFUUB NPMUP QFSDIÏ JM DFOUSP TQFDJBMJ[[BUP QJá WJDJOP F NBHBSJ OFBODIF JM NJHMJPSF Ò JO VO BMUSB DJUUË 4POP TVB QB[JFOUF EB BOOJ F TF EPWFTTJ SJVTDJSF B SJNBOFSF JODJOUB NJ QJBDFSFCCF DIF GPTTF MFJ B GBS OBTDFSF NJP GJHMJP /PO Ò DFSUP NJB JOUFO[JPOF FTDMVEFSMB EBM QSPCMFNB NB JO SFBMUË TPOP QBTTBUJ EJWFSTJ NFTJ F BCCJBNP FTFHVJUP TPMP HMJ FTBNJ QSFMJNJOBSJ & JM QFHHJP Ò DIF MB TVB TBMB E BUUFTB Ò TFNQSF HSFNJUB EJ NBNNF JO BUUFTB DPO JM QBODJPOF JO CFMMB WJTUB x j*M NJP HJOFDPMPHP NJ TUB GBDFOEP EJWFOUBSF NBUUB .PMUJ FTBNJ WBOOP DBMJCSBUJ JO CBTF BMM PWVMB[JPOF F PWWJBNFOUF JM NFTF TDPSTP JM HJPSOP HJVTUP QFS JM QSFMJFWP EJ TBOHVF DBEFWB EJ EPNFOJDB & DPTÖ BEFTTP NJ UPDDB BTQFUUBSF VO BMUSP NFTF x
"O[JDIÏ EJTQFSBSTJ MB DPTB NJHMJPSF Ò QBSMBSF DIJBSBNFOUF DPO JM WPTUSP HJOFDPMPHP "OEBUF BMM BQQVOUBNFOUP JOTJFNF BM WPTUSP DPNQBHOP F EJUFHMJ RVBMDPTB EFM HFOFSF j$BSP EPUUPS 3PTTJ WPMFWBNP WFEFSMB QFS SJOHSB[JBSMB QFS MB TVB EJTQPOJCJ
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MADRE, NON MADRE
MJUË F QFS DPNVOJDBSMF DIF BMMB GJOF BCCJBNP EFDJTP EJ SJWPM HFSDJ BMMB DMJOJDB QFS MB GFSUJMJUË 9 -FJ IB GBUUP JM QPTTJCJMF DPO NF FE Ò TUBUP JOFDDFQJCJMF NB TBQQJBNP FOUSBNCJ DIF OPO TPOP QJá HJPWBOF OPO TPOP BODPSB SJVTDJUB B SJNBOFSF JODJO UB F JO GVUVSP WPSSFJ HVBSEBSF B RVFTUP EJGGJDJMF NPNFOUP EFMMB NJB WJUB DPO MB DFSUF[[B EJ BWFS GBUUP UVUUP JM QPTTJCJMF -FJ Ò TUBUP GPOEBNFOUBMF GJOP B RVFTUP NPNFOUP F TQFSP EJ QPUFS DPOUBSF BODPSB TVM TVP BJVUP x 6OB DPOWFSTB[JPOF EJ RVFTUP UJQP OPO TNJOVJSË BJ TVPJ PDDIJ JM WBMPSF F M JNQPSUBO[B EFM MBWPSP TWPMUP JOTJFNF OP OPTUBOUF MB WPTUSB QSFDJTB EFUFSNJOB[JPOF B TFHVJSF VO JUFS EJBHOPTUJDP QJá TQFDJBMJTUJDP
Scegliere un centro per la fertilità "EFTTP TJFUF QSPOUF B SJWPMHFSWJ B VOB TUSVUUVSB TQFDJBMJ[[BUB NB RVBMF TDFHMJFSF $J TPOP BMDVOF DPTF JNQPSUBOUJ EB QSFO EFSF JO DPOTJEFSB[JPOF µ VUJMF DIJFEFSF JM DPTUP EFJ USBUUB NFOUJ UFSBQFVUJDJ M FWFOUVBMF FTJTUFO[B EJ VO TFSWJ[JP EJ DPVOTFMJOH P EJ VOB UFSBQJB EJ TVQQPSUP QTJDPMPHJDP OPODIÏ JOGPSNB[JPOJ TVMMB UFNQJTUJDB EFHMJ FTBNJ QFS MF DPQQJF DIF BCJUBOP MPOUBOP $POWJFOF BODIF BDDFSUBSTJ DIF JM QSPQSJP HJ OFDPMPHP EJ GJEVDJB QPTTB FTFHVJSF JO TUVEJP FTBNJ EFM TBOHVF F JOJF[JPOJ 4J QPUSFCCF WFSJGJDBSF VOB EFMMF TFHVFOUJ JQPUFTJ j- JEFB EJ TDPOWPMHFSF MF OPTUSF WJUF DPO WJBHHJ DPOUJOVJ GVP SJ DJUUË NJ TQBWFOUB NPMUP "MMPSB IP UFMFGPOBUP B VOP EJ RVFTUJ DFOUSJ QFS DFSDBSF JM NPEP NJHMJPSF EJ BGGSPOUBSF JM QSPCMFNB EFMMB EJTUBO[B " RVBOUP QBSF JM QJá EFMMF WPMUF QPUSÛ FTFHVJSF MF BOBMJTJ EFM TBOHVF F MF JOJF[JPOJ OFMMB NJB DJUUË F QPJ JM NJP NFEJDP QSPWWFEFSË B TQFEJSF WJB GBY J SJ TVMUBUJ BMMB DMJOJDB %BM DBOUP TVP MB DMJOJDB TJ JNQFHOB B
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FTFHVJSF JM NBTTJNP OVNFSP EJ UFTU TV FOUSBNCJ OFJ HJPSOJ EFHMJ BQQVOUBNFOUJ JO TFEF x
4F SBHHJVOHFSF MB DMJOJDB WJ TFNCSB EJGGJDJMF B DBVTB EFMMB EJTUBO[B EFM UFNQP EFM DPTUP P EFHMJ JNQFHOJ MBWPSBUJWJ QSPQPOFUF EFMMF TPMV[JPOJ JO NBOJFSB EB GBDJMJUBSWJ MF DPTF 7FSJGJDBUF JM MPSP HSBEP EJ GMFTTJCJMJUË DIJFEFUF TVHHFSJNFOUJ CBTBUJ TV BMUSJ QB[JFOUJ DPO DBSBUUFSJTUJDIF TJNJMJ BMMF WPTUSF F DFSDBUF EJ USPWBSF VO DPNQSPNFTTP DIF GVO[JPOJ - BTTJTUFOUF TPDJBMF P MP QTJDPMPHP EFMMB DMJOJDB EPWSFCCFSP FTTFSF MF QFS TPOF QJá JOEJDBUF DPO DVJ BWFSF RVFTUP DPMMPRVJP QSFMJNJOBSF EBM NPNFOUP DIF TQFUUB TPMJUBNFOUF B MPSP QSFOEFSF MF EJGFTF EFM QB[JFOUF 2VJOEJ EBUFWJ VOB CFMMB QBDDB TVMMF TQBMMF QFS DIÏ JO SFBMUË MF WPTUSF EJGFTF WF MF TBQFUF QSFOEFSF CFOJTTJNP EB TPMF
Parlarne con il partner e confidarsi con gli altri .PMUF DPQQJF BMM JOJ[JP NBOUFOHPOP JM NBTTJNP SJTFSCP NB DPO JM UFNQP MB TJUVB[JPOF EJWFOUB FNPUJWBNFOUF USPQQP TUSFTTBOUF QFS TPQQPSUBSMB EB TPMJ "ODIF QBSMBSOF BQFSUB NFOUF QVÛ QFSÛ SJWFMBSTJ JNCBSB[[BOUF F EPMPSPTP &DDP BM DVOJ FTFNQJ EJ TJUVB[JPOJ JO DVJ MF DPQQJF IBOOP USPWBUP EJG GJDJMF DPNVOJDBSF USB MPSP F DPO HMJ BMUSJ j2VBOEP IP EFUUP B -VLF DIF WPMFWP QBSMBSF DPO RVBMDVO BMUSP EFMMB OPTUSB JOGFSUJMJUË TJ Ò JOGVSJBUP B NPSUF µ DPOWJO UP DIF TJBOP TPMP GBUUJ OPTUSJ F OPO DBQJTDF QFSDIÏ NBJ EPWSFJ BWFSF CJTPHOP EJ QBSMBSOF DPO EFHMJ FTUSBOFJ 1FSDJÛ DPNF NJ EFWP DPNQPSUBSF JO VGGJDJP RVBOEP BSSJWP UBSEJ BM MBWPSP QFS WJB EJ VO FTBNF EFM TBOHVF 0 RVBOEP MB NJB NJHMJPSF BNJDB DIF BTQFUUB VO CBNCJOP OPO SJFTDF B TQJFHBSTJ DPNF
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MADRE, NON MADRE
NBJ OPO TPOP UVUUB FDDJUBUB BMM JEFB EJ BJVUBSMB B DPNQSBSF HMJ BCJUJ QSFNBNBN x jµ TUBUP VO WFSP TIPDL QFS UVUUJ F EVF WFOJSF B TBQFSF DIF Ò +JN B FTTFSF TUFSJMF * NJFJ FTBNJ FSBOP UVUUJ OFHBUJWJ F NJ TPOP TFOUJUB RVBTJ JO DPMQB B TUBS CFOF .B JM QFHHJP Ò DIF MVJ OPO WVPMF QBSMBSOF DPO OFTTVOP 'JOJSÛ QFS TDPQQJBSF TF OPO OF QBSMP DPO RVBMDVOP x j.JP NBSJUP OPO SJFTDF QSPQSJP B DBQJSF QFSDIÏ NF MB QSFO EP UBOUP 4F EJQFOEFTTF EB MVJ QPUSFNNP BODIF OPO BWFSF GJHMJ USB IPCCZ MBWPSP F BNJDJ TJ TFOUF QFSGFUUBNFOUF B TVP BHJP .J TB DIF EJDF EJ EFTJEFSBSF VOB GBNJHMJB TPMP QFS GBS NJ GFMJDF .B BEFTTP DIF JP NJ TFOUP B QF[[J OPO WVPMF TFOUJSOF QBSMBSF F DFSDB JO UVUUJ J NPEJ EJ UFOFSNJ BMMFHSB *M QSPCMFNB Ò DIF JP BWSFJ TPMP CJTPHOP EJ QBSMBSF DPO RVBMDV OP -VJ OPO TB EBSNJ EBWWFSP BMDVO DPOGPSUP x
.PMUF DPQQJF OPO IBOOP TPMP CJTPHOP EJ RVBMDVOP DPO DVJ QBSMBSF NB BODIF EJ QSFWFEFSF DPNF HMJ BMUSJ QPUSBOOP SFBHJSF BMMF MPSP DPOGJEFO[F & TFOUPOP BODIF MB OFDFTTJUË EJ FTTFSF QSFQBSBUJ BMMF EJWFSTF SFB[JPOJ DIF EPWSBOOP BGGSPOUBSF j.JB NBESF Ò TDPQQJBUB B QJBOHFSF RVBOEP MF IP EFUUP DIF OPO QPTTP BWFSF CBNCJOJ $SFEP DIF EFTJEFSJ VO OJQPUF BM NFOP RVBOUP JP EFTJEFSP VO GJHMJP 4POP DFSUB DIF BEFTTP TUB NBMJTTJNP F BWSFJ EBUP RVBMTJBTJ DPTB QFS OPO EPWFSMF DPNVOJDBSF VOB OPUJ[JB DPTÖ USJTUF 'SBODBNFOUF OPO TP RVBOUP SJVTDJSË B FTTFSNJ EJ BJVUP WJTUP DIF MB NJB JOGFSUJMJUË TFNCSB GBSMB TPGGSJSF DPTÖ UBOUP x j2VBOEP M IP EFUUP B NJB TPSFMMB OPO SJVTDJWP B DSFEFSF BMMB TVB SFB[JPOF 4BQFUF DPT Ò SJVTDJUB B EJSNJ -FJ IB USF GJHMJ TPUUP J TFJ BOOJ F NJ IB DPOGJEBUP DIF TF QPUFTTF UPSOBSF JOEJFUSP OF BWSFCCF GBUUP WPMFOUJFSJ B NFOP .J IB TVHHFSJUP EJ HPEFSNJ MF WBDBO[F MF DFOF GVPSJ MF QPTTJCJMJUË EJ DBSSJF SB F EJ OPO GBSOF VO ESBNNB TF OPO QPTTP SJNBOFSF JODJO
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UB µ EBWWFSP JODSFEJCJMF DIF OPO SJFTDB B DBQJSF RVBOUP TUP TPGGSFOEP x j/FM OPTUSP HSVQQP EJ BNJDIF MFTCJDIF RVBTJ UVUUF IBOOP EFDJTP EJ OPO BWFSF CBNCJOJ 0WWJBNFOUF MB NJB DPNQBHOB F JP SJTQFUUJBNP MB MPSP EFDJTJPOF BODIF TF MB QFOTJBNP JO NBOJFSB EJWFSTB F DPTÖ TUJBNP CFO BUUFOUF B OPO TCBOEJFSBSF USPQQP JO HJSP JM OPTUSP EFTJEFSJP EJ BWFSF VO GJHMJP $PNF D FSB EB BTQFUUBSTJ OPO UVUUJ TPOP QSPOUJ B EBSDJ VOB NBOP x j-B NJB NJHMJPSF BNJDB Ò TUBUB TFNQMJDFNFOUF NFSBWJHMJP TB .J IB MBTDJBUP QJBOHFSF NJ IB QSFTP EFJ MJCSJ JO CJCMJP UFDB F IB TFNQSF DBQJUP DIF M BSSJWP EFM DJDMP QFS NF FSB VO NPNFOUP UFSSJCJMF .B DPO JM QBTTBSF EFM UFNQP IP DPNJODJBUP B TFOUJSF VO HSPTTP TRVJMJCSJP OFM OPTUSP SBQ QPSUP -FJ EFTJEFSBWB DPO UVUUP JM DVPSF BJVUBSNJ FNPUJWB NFOUF NB TFNCSBWB TFNQSF DIF GPTTJ TPMP JP B QPUFS DPO UBSF TV EJ MFJ 0HOJ WPMUB DIF DFSDBWP EJ GBSF RVBMDPTB QFS MFJ NJ SJTQPOEFWB JNCBSB[[BUB DIF TBQFWB RVBOUP GPTTF EVSB MB WJUB QFS NF %PQP VO QP IP TFOUJUP DIF MB OPTUSB BNJDJ[JB JOJ[JBWB B [PQQJDBSF F DIF FSB UVUUB DPMQB EFMMB NJB JOGFSUJMJUË x j.JP NBSJUP IB QSPWBUP B QBSMBSF DPO RVBMDIF BNJDP EFHMJ FTBNJ DMJOJDJ DVJ DJ TUJBNP TPUUPQPOFOEP FE Ò TUBUB VOB CFM MB TPSQSFTB WFOJSF B TBQFSF DIF RVBTJ UVUUJ DPOPTDFWBOP RVBM DVOP DIF FSB TUFSJMF P DIF BWFWB BWVUP VO BCPSUP P DIF BWFWB BEPUUBUP VO CBNCJOP 1SJNB TJ FSB TFOUJUP NPMUP TPMP NB BEFTTP HMJ GB EBWWFSP QJBDFSF RVBOEP J TVPJ BNJDJ HMJ DIJFEPOP DPNF QSPDFEPOP MF DPTF x j* NJFJ BNJDJ IBOOP BWVUP SFB[JPOJ EJWFSTF RVBOEP IP DP NVOJDBUP DIF TUP DFSDBOEP EJ SJNBOFSF JODJOUB 4JDDPNF TPOP TJOHMF F OPO IP OFTTVOB JOUFO[JPOF EJ TQPTBSNJ IP M JNQSFTTJPOF EJ GBSF MB GJHVSB EFMMB NPTDB CJBODB USB J NJFJ BNJDJ F DPMMFHIJ RVBTJ UVUUJ TQPTBUJ P TFQBSBUJ &DDP QFSDIÏ
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MADRE, NON MADRE
IP CJTPHOP EJ TBQFSF DIJ ร JO HSBEP EJ TUBSNJ BDDBOUP QFS DIร PHOJ UBOUP UFNP EJ FTQMPEFSF TF OPO NJ DPOGJEP DPO RVBMDVOP 5SPWBSF VO NFEJDP EJTQPTUP B QSFOEFSNJ JO DVSB DBQJSF TF QPUSร FTTFSF VO CVPO HFOJUPSF TFO[B VO NBSJUP FDDP EJ DPTB IP CJTPHOP EJ QBSMBSF DPO J NJFJ BNJDJ 1FS GPS UVOB IP USPWBUP QBSFDDIJF QFSTPOF HFOUJMJ F EJTQPOJCJMJ NB TPOP BODIF JODBQQBUB JO VO TBDDP EJ HFOUF DPO DVJ EJ TJDVSP OPO BGGSPOUFSร NBJ QJรก M BSHPNFOUP x
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j-B QSJNB WPMUB DIF IP QBSUFDJQBUP B VO JODPOUSP OPO TBQF WP EBWWFSP DPTB BTQFUUBSNJ /PO BWFWP JOUFO[JPOF EJ FTQPS NJ USPQQP *NNBHJOBUF MB NJB TPSQSFTB RVBOEP IP WJTUP DIF FSBOP UVUUJ NPMUP BDDPHMJFOUJ F OPO TJ BTQFUUBWBOP DIF GPTTJ EJTQPTUB B DPOGJEBSF BMUSP DIF JM NJP OPNF EJ CBUUFTJNP *O RVFMMB QSJNB PDDBTJPOF TPOP BOEBUB EB TPMB NB TJDDPNF BWFWP WJTUP BMDVOJ VPNJOJ USB J QBSUFDJQBOUJ F 5PN OPO DP OPTDFWB OFTTVOP DPO VO BOBMPHP QSPCMFNB EJ TUFSJMJUË MB WPMUB TVDDFTTJWB M IP DPOWJOUP B WFOJSF DPO NF - FTQFSJFO[B TJ Ò SJWFMBUB EJ HSBOEF BJVUP QFS FOUSBNCJ TJBNP FOUSBUJ JO BNJDJ[JB DPO EJWFSTF QFSTPOF F BMMB GJOF IP USPWBUP VO HSVQ QFUUP EJ BNJDIF JO HSBEP EJ DBQJSF TJOP JO GPOEP MB NJB EF QSFTTJPOF PHOJ WPMUB DIF NJ BSSJWBWBOP MF NFTUSVB[JPOJ x j*M HSVQQP EJ TPTUFHOP EFMMB NJB [POB BOEBWB CFOF QFS DFSUJ WFSTJ F NBMF QFS BMUSJ * WBOUBHHJ TPOP TUBUJ J MJCSJ JO QSFTUJUP F VO QBJP EJ QFSTPOF TJNQBUJDIF DPO DVJ IP TUSFUUP BNJDJ[JB .B TJDDPNF NJ JNCBSB[[B QBSMBSF EBWBOUJ B UVUUJ OPO QBS UFDJQBWP NPMUP BMMF EJTDVTTJPOJ µ TUBUP molto VUJMF BTDPMUBSF HMJ BMUSJ FTQPSSF J MPSP QSPCMFNJ TQFTTP DPTÖ TJNJMJ BJ NJFJ NB PHOJ WPMUB MBTDJBWP JM HSVQQP DPO MB TFOTB[JPOF DIF MB NJB UJNJEF[[B NJ JNQFEJTTF EJ QBSUFDJQBSF RVBOUP BWSFJ WP MVUP x j*M HSVQQP Ò TUBUB MB NJB ËODPSB EJ TBMWF[[B * QBSUFDJQBOUJ FSBOP UVUUJ NPMUP EJTQPOJCJMJ F IBOOP SBDDPOUBUP MB MPSP FTQFSJFO[B DPO J NFEJDJ (SB[JF BJ MPSP DPOTJHMJ IP TDFMUP VO HJOFDPMPHP SJTQFUUPTP EFM QB[JFOUF DIF DJ Ò SJNBTUP BDDBOUP TFO[B NFUUFSDJ GSFUUB NFOUSF WBMVUBWBNP UVUUF MF QPTTJCJMJ PQ[JPOJ - FTQFSJFO[B EJ RVFMMF EPOOF NJ Ò TUBUB VUJMJTTJNB F NJ IB QFSNFTTP EJ FWJUBSF EPUUPSJ F DFOUSJ NFEJDJ EJ CBTTB RVBMJUË x j1SFNFUUP DIF NJ SJUFOHP VOB QFSTPOB DBQBDF EJ USBSSF HSPT TJ CFOFGJDJ EBJ HSVQQJ EJ TPTUFHOP )P GSFRVFOUBUP VOB RVBO UJUË EJ HSVQQJ QFS TPMF EPOOF F TPOP TFNQSF SJNBTUB QJFOB
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MADRE, NON MADRE
NFOUF TPEEJTGBUUB 1VSUSPQQP JM HSVQQP EJ BVUP BJVUP EFMMB NJB [POB FSB MFUUFSBMNFOUF NPOPQPMJ[[BUP TFNQSF EBMMB TUFTTB QFSTPOB .J EJTQJBDFWB QFS MFJ F EJ TJDVSP HMJ BMUSJ NFNCSJ DFSDBWBOP EJ BJVUBSMB JO UVUUJ J NPEJ NB TPOP CBTUB UJ QPDIJ JODPOUSJ QFS DBQJSF DIF BWSFCCF TFNQSF QSFTP JM TP QSBWWFOUP DPTÖ IP TNFTTP EJ GSFRVFOUBSF " RVFM QVOUP EFM MB NJB FTQFSJFO[B BWFWP CJTPHOP EJ EBSF F SJDFWFSF BJVUP F RVFM HSVQQP OPO GBDFWB BM DBTP NJP x
*O NPMUF DJUUË Ò QPTTJCJMF SJDIJFEFSF MB DPOTVMFO[B EJ QTJ DPMPHJ F BTTJTUFOUJ TPDJBMJ TJB QSJWBUBNFOUF TJB QSFTTP J DPO TVMUPSJ GBNJMJBSJ 6O UFSBQFVUB TJ EJNPTUSB JOEJTQFOTBCJMF OFM DBTP WPJ P JM WPTUSP DPNQBHOP OPO SJVTDJBUF B PUUFOFSF M BJVUP DIF WJ TFSWF EBM HSVQQP P WJ TFOUJBUF B EJTBHJP B QBSMBSF EJ RVFTUJPOJ DPTÖ QSJWBUF EBWBOUJ B UVUUJ -P QTJDPUFSBQFVUB QVÛ SJWFMBSTJ VOB TDFMUB QFSGFUUB BODIF QFS MF EPOOF P MF DPQQJF DIF TJ TFOUPOP TPQSBGGBUUF EBMMB MPSP JOGFSUJMJUË DIF TJ TFOUPOP jJNQBOUBOBUFx OFMMF MPSP SFB[JPOJ FNPUJWF DIF IBOOP QSP CMFNJ B QBSMBSF DPO HMJ BMUSJ EFMMF MPSP FTJHFO[F P DIF OPO TBOOP EFDJEFSTJ USB BEP[JPOF P WJUB TFO[B GJHMJ 5FPSJDBNFOUF MB DPTB NJHMJPSF TBSFCCF USPWBSF VO UFSB QFVUB FTQFSUP JO QSPCMFNJ EJ JOGFSUJMJUË JO NPEP DIF TJB HJË B DPOPTDFO[B EFJ WBSJ FTBNJ F USBUUBNFOUJ UFSBQFVUJDJ F EFJ MPSP QPTTJCJMJ FGGFUUJ DPMMBUFSBMJ 5VUUBWJB TF QSPQSJP OPO TJ SJFTDF B USPWBSF VOP TQFDJBMJTUB Ò JNQPSUBOUF TDFHMJFSF VO UFSBQFVUB FTQFSUP JO BCPSUP F SBQQPSUP EJ DPQQJB 2VFTUJ EVF BSHPNFO UJ UFOEPOP JOGBUUJ B QSFEPNJOBSF OFM DPSTP EFM USBUUBNFOUP F VOP QTJDPMPHP RVBMJGJDBUP TBSË VOB WFSB GPOUF E BJVUP BM EJ MË EFMMB TVB TQFDJGJDB QSFQBSB[JPOF TVMM JOGFSUJMJUË .BHBSJ BOESFUF EBMMP QTJDPMPHP TPMP VO QBJP EJ WPMUF NFO USF BMUSF SJNBOHPOP JO UFSBQJB QFS NFTJ P BEEJSJUUVSB QFS BOOJ B TFDPOEB EFMMF MPSP FTJHFO[F P EFMMB EVSBUB EFMMB MPSP MPUUB BMM JOGFSUJMJUË -B UFSBQJB EJGGFSJTDF EB EPOOB B EPOOB
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j%BM NPNFOUP TUFTTP JO DVJ TPOP WFOVUB B TBQFSF DIF BWFWP VOB UVCB PTUSVJUB TPOP SJNBTUB DPTÖ TDJPDDBUB DIF IP DBQJUP TVCJUP EJ BWFS CJTPHOP EJ RVBMDVOP DBQBDF EJ BJVUBSNJ B DPNQSFOEFSF DIF DPTB QPUFTTF DPNQPSUBSF QFS JM NJP GVUV SP -B NJP QTJDPMPHB Ò TUBUB NFSBWJHMJPTB DPNF WBMWPMB EJ TGPHP QFS JM NJP TUSFTT F JO QJá NJ IB BJVUBUP B DBQJSF RVBO UP BWFTTJ JOWFTUJUP FNPUJWBNFOUF TVM NJP EFTJEFSJP EJ EJWFO UBSF NBESF "CCJBNP EJTDVTTP B MVOHP TVM NJP TFOTP EJ GBM MJNFOUP QSJNB DIF GPTTJ QSPOUB B QSFOEFSF JO DPOTJEFSB[JPOF M JQPUFTJ EJ USBUUBNFOUJ UFSBQFVUJDJ JOWBTJWJ .J IB JOTFHOBUP DPNF FTTFSF EFUFSNJOBUB OFJ SBQQPSUJ DPO JM NJP EPUUPSF DPNF JNQFEJSF DIF M JOGFSUJMJUË EJWPSJ PHOJ BUUJNP EFMMB NJB WJUB F DPNF QSFOEFSNJ DVSB EFMMB NJB TGFSB FNPUJWB .J IB EBWWFSP BJVUBUP B MBWPSBSF ADPO MB NJB JOGFSUJMJUË BO[JDIÏ TQSFDBSF VO NVDDIJP EJ FOFSHJB FNPUJWB OFM UFOUBUJWP EJ DPOUSBTUBSMB x j"MM JOJ[JP OPO BWFWP BMDVOB WPHMJB EJ SJWPMHFSNJ B VOP QTJ DPMPHP QFSDIÏ JO RVBMDIF NPEP BWFWP TFNQSF QFOTBUP EJ QPUFSNFMB DBWBSF EB TPMB & QPJ OPO FSP DPTÖ TJDVSB EJ WPMFS OF QBSMBSF DPO RVBMDVOP .B BM QSJNP BQQVOUBNFOUP MB UF SBQFVUB NJ IB GBUUP EFMMF EPNBOEF DIF NJ IBOOP DPNF TCMPDDBUB F QJBOP QJBOP IP DBQJUP NFHMJP RVBMJ GPTTFSP EBW WFSP MF DPTF DIF NJ GBDFWBOP TUBSF NBMF " DBTB DJ IP QFOTB UP NPMUP F OF IP QBSMBUP BODIF DPO +FGG 4F D Ò VOB DPTB DIF IP DBQJUP EFMMB UFSBQJB Ò DIF NJ JOTFHOB B MBWPSBSF TVHMJ BTQFUUJ EFMMB WJUB DIF NJ TVTDJUBOP QJá EPMPSF JO NPEP DIF TNFUUBOP EJ GBSNJ QBVSB )P JODPOUSBUP MB NJB QTJDPMPHB VOB WPMUB BMMB TFUUJNBOB QFS VO QBJP EJ NFTJ F QPJ VOB WPMUB BM NFTF QFS UVUUP M BOOP TVDDFTTJWP "MMB GJOF EFMMB UFSBQJB IP DBQJUP DIF GBDFOEPNJ BUUSBWFSTBSF VO QFSJPEP FNPUJWB NFOUF EPMPSPTP NJ BWFWB GPSOJUP VOB SFBMF GPOUF EJ BJVUP x j"MM FQPDB JO DVJ TPOP BQQSPEBUB OFMMP TUVEJP EFMMB NJB QTJ DPMPHB FSP JOEFDJTB TF SJWPMHFSNJ B VO UFSBQFVUB P B VO EJ WPS[JTUB 4VPOFSË TUSBOP MP TP NB MB WJUB DPO NJP NBSJUP
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MADRE, NON MADRE
FSB EJWFOUBUB DPTร JOTPQQPSUBCJMF DIF BWFWP RVBTJ EFDJTP EJ TFQBSBSNJ 4BN TJ SJGJVUBWB EJ QBSMBSF EFMMB OPTUSB JOGFSUJMJUร NFOUSF JP MP EFTJEFSBWP DPO UVUUB NF TUFTTB 1BTTBWB TFNQSF QJรก UFNQP GVPSJ DBTB F JM TFTTP PSNBJ FSB GJOBMJ[[BUP TPMP BMMB QSPDSFB[JPOF -B QTJDPMPHB NJ IB DIJFTUP EJ DPOPTDFSF 4BN F EJ TPUUPQPSDJ B RVBMDIF TFEVUB EJ DPQQJB F RVFTUP IB SJWP MV[JPOBUP JM OPTUSP NBUSJNPOJP "CCJBNP DBQJUP DIF M JOGFS UJMJUร TJ FSB JOTJOVBUB USB OPJ EVF QFS EJWJEFSDJ F DIF FSB JM OPTUSP VOJDP OFNJDP 6OB WPMUB DIF MB QTJDPMPHB DJ IB JOTF HOBUP B DPNVOJDBSF JO NBOJFSB DPTUSVUUJWB 4BN F JP DJ TJB NP GJOBMNFOUF TFOUJUJ QSPOUJ B TDFHMJFSF JM USBUUBNFOUP UFSB QFVUJDP QJรก BEBUUP B OPJ /PO TP EJSWJ RVBOUP TJB DPOUFOUB EJ FTTFSNJ SJWPMUB B VOP TQFDJBMJTUB QFSDIร DJ IB EBWWFSP BJVUB UP B TBMWBSF JM OPTUSP NBUSJNPOJP x j1FSEFSF VO CBNCJOP BM TFTUP NFTF EJ HSBWJEBO[B ร TUBUB VO FTQFSJFO[B EBWWFSP EFWBTUBOUF 6O BNJDB NJ IB DPOTJ HMJBUP JM OPNF EJ VOB QTJDPMPHB QSFQBSBUB TV UFNJ DPNF MB NPSUF F M BCPSUP %BM QSJNP NPNFOUP DIF M IP WJTUB IP TFO UJUP DIF DPO MFJ QPUFWP BQSJSNJ )B BODIF JOTJTUJUP QFSDIร GBDFTTJ RVBMDIF TFEVUB EJ DPQQJB DPO 4UV -VJ FSB TUBUP DPTร GPSUF F QSPUFUUJWP DIF OPO NJ FSP SFTB DPOUP EJ RVBOUP JO SFBMUร TUFTTF TPGGSFOEP -B OPTUSB UFSBQFVUB DJ IB JOTFHOBUP B QJBOHFSF JOTJFNF "CCJBNP SBDDPMUP VO BMCVN EJ SJDPSEJ F RVFTUB QSJNBWFSB QJBOUFSFNP VO BJVPMB EJ GJPSJ SPTB F HJBMMJ JO NFNPSJB EJ .JSBOEB J DPMPSJ DIF WPMFWBNP VTBSF QFS MB TVB DBNFSFUUB 4UV F JP DJ TFOUJBNP RVBTJ QSPOUJ B QSPWBSDJ BODPSB F TF OPO SFTUFSร EJ OVPWP JODJOUB WPSSร EJSF DIF UPS OFSร EBMMB QTJDPMPHB QFSDIร MFJ SJFTDF EBWWFSP B DBQJSF QFS DIร NJ TFOUP DPTร BOTJPTB F BQQSFOTJWB x j&TTFOEP MFTCJDB EJ TPMJUP UFOEP B TFOUJSNJ EJWFSTB EBHMJ BMUSJ F QFSDJร FSP EBWWFSP QSFPDDVQBUB BMM JEFB EJ USPWBSF VOP QTJDPMPHP DIF OPO NJ HJVEJDBTTF -B UFSBQFVUB DVJ NJ TPOP SJWPMUB ร NPMUP BQQSF[[BUB BMM JOUFSOP EFMMB DPNVOJUร MFTCJDB DIF GSFRVFOUP .J FSP HJร TDPOUSBUB DPO M JNCBSB[[P
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DIF TJ QSPEVDF SFHPMBSNFOUF DPO J DPMMFHIJ F J DPOPTDFOUJ PHOJ WPMUB DIF TJ QBSMB EJ HSBWJEBO[B F NBUFSOJUË F BEFTTP OPO QPTTP DFSUP BOOVODJBSF BMMFHSBNFOUF B UVUUJ DIF TUP QSP WBOEP BE BWFSF VO CBNCJOP 1FSDJÛ BM NPNFOUP MB QTJDPMP HB NJ TUB GBDFOEP BGGSPOUBSF MB QBVSB EJ OPO QPUFSDFMB GBSF x
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MADRE, NON MADRE
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