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What is Your Favorite Dessert to Bring to a Party? By Warren Westura

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In the Vicinity News and Happenings from the Area

Calendar of Events 17 Event Highlight—New Jersey Ballet’s Sleeping Beauty 21 Event Highlight—Shop Art & Crafts at Spring Craft Morristown

13 Intellectual Curiosity, Compassion and Self Reliance 14 Home Pros 14 Over 8 Decades of Offering Peace of Mind

15 Designing the Dream Living Space

23 Summer Camp Guide 34 Dining 34 Restaurant Guide 35 American B-B-Q Company Keeps It Simple– and Tasty 37 Visit the Middle East Without Leaving Essex County

38 Diamond Minds

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On the Cover: NJ Ballet Performs Sleeping Beauty, May 5, 2019 MPAC (The Mayo Performing Arts Center)

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In The Vicinity

Chatham Restaurant Serves Up Food and a Mission

pened in November 2018, Sorriso Kitchen has had customers lining up daily for its farm-fresh food and friendly service prepared by CIA trained Chef Ryan Chatfield. But one of the more heartwarming things Sorriso serves up is a mission to provide job training to students with special needs. Sorriso Kitchen owners and Chatham Borough residents, Karen and Jimmy Bellas, were joined by Chatham Borough government officials and ECLC of NJ (Education, Careers and Lifelong Community) administration as they cut the ribbon at their restaurant at 252 Main Street, Chatham. Once a week, the restaurant is closed so that it can serve as a training classroom for ECLC of NJ to offer service and hospitality training to its students. There they learn real-life job skills which can help them become employed in the community.

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Jimmy and Karen Bellas draw inspiration from their sons, one of whom has Down Syndrome. Said Karen Bellas, “Our children are capable of so much, just given a chance to show what they can do. We are delighted to help train them and be able to have our place serve our community on so many levels.” For more information, visit www.sorrisokitchen.com or call 973-665-8068.

Summit Cereal Bowl Fights Hunger

ummit sixth graders helped to fight hunger by collecting boxes of cereal! Lawton C. Johnson Summit Middle School’s fifth annual “Cereal Bowl” ran from January 23 to February 6. During the competition this year, teams of students tried to collect the most boxes of cereal to donate to the Loaves and Fish Food Pantry at St. Teresa of Avila’s Church. In total, 1,480 boxes of cereal were donated. “Team Captain Crunch” led the way by bringing in an astonishing 292 boxes of cereal, with the other teams also collecting hundreds of boxes. “We are constantly encouraging our students to be a community that helps others. Through the Cereal Bowl, our 6th graders took the lead in helping to feed many local families. Their enthusiasm was overwhelming. We could not be more proud of this group and their effort to support our community,” said Bridgette Moore, leader of Team 6B.

Madison Announces Inaugural Summer Camp Expo

till working out your children’s plans for the summer? Madison’s inaugural summer camp expo will make things even easier! The Madison Area Chamber of Commerce announced that they will be hosting their first ever Summer Camp Fair on Sunday, March 24 from 10am to 3pm at the Madison Community Arts Center. The Camp Fair will be a great resource fair for families in the area. Parents are invited to attend and gather valuable information and discover their options to keep their children enriched and entertained during the summer months. Admission is free for consumers. The Madison Area Chamber of Commerce is currently seeking New Jersey local businesses and area camps to participate. To participate, contact Madison Area Chamber of Commerce executive director, Karen Giambra at MadisonChamber@gmail.com or 973-377-7830.

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not-for-profit in Short Hills, New Eyes for the Needy, has been providing clear vision–prescription eyeglasses–for children, famillies, and individuals in the U.S. and globally for more than 85 years. New Eyes recently started to offer vision clinics at its 549 Millburn Avenue facility, where people in need can come for an eye exam and be fitted with prescription eyeglasses. The prescription eyeglasses are mailed to the recipient. A clinic was held in December 2018 and this past February, with more planned throughout the year. “Our core mission is to bring clearer vision to those in need. And we want to also make a deep impact in the lives of our fellow New Jersey residents who might not be able to afford a new pair of prescription eyeglasses,” said Jean Gajano, Executive Director of New Eyes for the Needy. “We’re giving people who qualify a one-stop-shop to have their vision checked, speak with an optometrist on-site, and, with help from our many volunteers, pick a pair of prescription eyeglasses.” To be eligible to attend a vision clinic, individuals and families must be in financial need, and have no other resources available to them to pay for glasses, including federal or state programs or assistance from local charitable organizations. Actor/producer Jake Gyllenhaal is an advocate and spokesperson for New Eyes for the Needy. “Want a shock? Over two billion people around the world struggle with poor eyesight,” said Gyllenhaal in a prepared statement. “That’s 6 in 10 of our fellow humans who need glasses in order to perform the most basic business of modern life with comfort and clear vision. And yet, up to 30 percent of those people in the US and around the world do not have access to the medical attention they need, to get fitted with the proper prescription lenses.” To donate to New Eyes, visit new-eyes.org.

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“ Images of Avian Personality” Exhibit RUNS UNTIL MAY 27 Each species and individual displays a unique personality. Think of the relentless determination of the shorebirds, the soaring independence of the raptors, or the colorful charm of the warblers. For bird photographer Scott Gilbert, the magic happens on those special occasions when he is able to reflect the subject’s distinctive character in a way that meaningfully resonates with the viewer. Wayrick Wildlife Art Gallery, at the Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Hardscrabble Rd., Bernardsville

Calendar of Events MARCH 2019 Art Exhibits Artist Exhibit

Paul Edward Pinkman: Crossing Lines, the first solo exhibition of the artist’s paintings, drawings and monotypes from 1984 until today. The works on exhibit feature Pinkman at his best, at times provocative, confrontational, vulnerable and whimsical. Line, point, plane and identity are the four defining elements seen in his work. Runs through March 30. Watchung Arts Center, Upper and Lower Galleries, Watchung. 908-753-0190. www.watchungarts.org

Food, Help and Hope Exhibit

Every Day People Exhibit

In the mid-1990s food insecurity affected nearly one million people in New Jersey. To help raise awareness about this critical social issue, the Morris Museum commissioned photographer Barbara T. Beirne to document the people, services, and agencies associated with the Community FoodBank of New Jersey over a two-year period. Runs through March 17. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3700. www.morrismuseum.org

Cathleen McCoy Bristol loves people and it shows in her painting. Believing people are as individual as snowflakes, she has always been fascinated by the variations in the human race. Her enjoyment of cultural differences among people has led her to explore diverse expressions of tradition and beauty in this exhibit. Runs through March 21. Village Hallways Exhibition Space, 76 South Orange Ave., third floor, South Orange. www.southorange.org/270/Exhibitions

Fresh Perspectives

West Orange Art Center Art Exhibit

The Fresh Perspectives juried exhibition began in 1989 as an outlet for artistically-accomplished New Jersey high school students to express their curiosity and creativity. Runs through June 9. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-9713700. www.morrismuseum.org

Through an exciting partnership with the Visual and Performing Arts Program at West Orange High School (WOHS), the West Orange Arts Center’s (WOAC) latest show features rising stars of the arts community. A reception will take place on March 2 from 1-4pm at the West Orange Arts Center, 551 Valley Rd., West Orange. www.woarts.org

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Solo Artist Exhibit

Medy Bozkurtian will be showing 40 of her latest original acrylic and watercolor paintings. Medy is a fellow of the American Artists Professional League in NYC, Northeast Watercolor Society and the Garden State Watercolor Society and Essex Watercolor Club, where she recently served as President. Inspired by her worldwide travels, music, people and nature, they are a celebration of life. Runs through April 13. Main Gallery of the Morristown Medical Center, 100 Madison Ave., Morristown. www.medystudio.com

Friday, March 1 Sounds of Sondheim Concert Enjoy an evening of the music of Stephen Sondheim, with solo, small ensemble, and full chorale performances. 7:30pm. St. John’s Lutheran Church, 587 Springfield Ave., Summit. www.brownpapertickets.com

2019 Summer Camps Summer Nature Camp registration is now open for a range of exciting and educational camps that help connect children to nature. Available for children aged 4-15 (or entering 10th grade in the Fall). Begins June 24, runs through August 30. Early Bird discounts are available until midnight on March 15, and this year post-care is extended to 5:30pm, as well as offering pre-care 8:30-9am. NJ Audubon is connecting children across three venues at Bernardsville, Blairstown and Barnegat Bay. www.njaudubon.org/places-to-visit/ scherman-hoffman-wildlife-sanctuary/#summer-camp

Women’s Workshops The March program is “Bring Back Your Glow.” Free for NCJW members. Fee for non-members is $7 per workshop. Please call for date and time. NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973-994-4994 or visit www.centerforwomenNJ.org for more information.

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George Marriner Maull, Music Director of The Discovery Orchestra, will present Hector Berlioz’s “Roman Carnival Overture,” which was first performed in 1844 to instant success and has remained one of Berlioz’s most popular works. Sign up required. 2:30pm. The Senior Center Of The Chathams, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. 973-635-4565. Chathamseniorcenter.org

The Minstrel Acoustic Concert Series Mike & Ruthy (of The Mammals) perform. The Asaran Earth Trio opens. Children 12 and under, free. 8-8:45pm. Fridays. Morristown Unitarian Fellowship, 21 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 7:30-10:30pm. For more info call 973-335-9489 or go to www.folkproject.org.

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Explore Your World: America’s Foreign Interventions Join instructor Bruce Tucker of Rutgers Osher Lifelong Learning Institute for this four week course examining the foreign policy of the United States as it pertains to regime changes since the establishment of the Department of State in 1789. Registration required and space is limited. 10:30am-12:30pm. Summit Library, 75 Maple St., Summit. 908-273-0350. www.summitlibrary.org

The Glass Menagerie

Tennessee Williams’s autobiographical memory play looks at the Wingfield family: frustrated writer Tom; his nagging mother, Amanda, who is often lost in memories of her Southern-belle past; and his painfully shy sister, Laura. it explores the effect a visit from a gentleman caller for Laura has on all their lives. March 1, 2, 8, 9, 15,16 at 8pm. March 3 & 10 at 2pm. The Summit Playhouse, 10 New England Ave., Summit. 908-273-2192. summitplayhouse.org

Every Day People Exhibit

Runs through March 21

Cathleen McCoy Bristol loves people and it shows in her painting. Believing people are as individual as snowflakes, she has always been fascinated by the variations in the human race. Her enjoyment of cultural differences among people has led her to explore diverse expressions of tradition and beauty in this exhibit. Village Hallways Exhibition Space, 76 South Orange Ave., third floor, South Orange. www.southorange.org/270/Exhibitions

LAW (Legal Assistance For Women) Ongoing program that provides clients with a confidential consultation with a professional to determine how best to approach a legal concern. Appointments must be scheduled in advance. Fee is $12. Please contact NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973-994-4994 or visit www.centerforwomenNJ.org for more information.

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Career Services This ongoing program is a service of their vocational counseling, which holds one-on-one meetings and group workshops designed to help women enter the job market, return to the workplace, or make a career change. Services include goal setting, career planning, resume writing, interviewing skills, and job search strategies. Clients may also visit the Career Closet to be outfitted with work appropriate clothing. Please contact NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973994-4994 or visit www.centerforwomenNJ.org.

Saturday, March 2 Harmonium Chamber Singers Present “Swan Songs”

Will you find a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow? A fun St. Patrick’s Day themed craft for kids in grades K-8, with a story and treats included. 3:45pm. Kemmerer Library, 19 Blue Mill Rd., New Vernon. 973267-2665. www.hardinglibrary.org

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Artistic Director Dr. Anne J. Matlack leads the select 25-voice group in presenting works by Jacques Arcadelt, Claudio Monteverdi, Heinrich Schütz, Sarah Rimkus, Sarah Quartel, and more. 7:30pm. Grace Episcopal Church, 4 Madison Ave., Madison. Also March 3, 3pm. Christ Church, 66 Highland Ave., Short Hills. 973-538-6969. www.harmonium.yapsody.com

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Seussology Show Explore the background of Dr. Seuss and his beloved works. You know Thing 1 and Thing 2. Now you will meet Thing 3–Wild Thing and watch him cause all kinds of mayhem. 11am and 1:30pm. Early access at 10am for children and adults with special needs and their families. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3700. www.morrismuseum.org

Seasonal Job Fair Essex County Turtle Back Zoo is hiring for their spring/summer/fall season. Specific positions include: guest relations; cashier; farm aid; maintenance/custodial; parking attendant; party host/birthday party sales; mini golf safari; paddle boats; treetop adventure course. All applicants must be 18 years of age or older and successfully pass a criminal background check. Turtle Back Zoo, 560 Northfield Ave., West Orange. 973-731-5800. www.officialturtlebackzoo

Garden Club Workshop A panel of gardening experts, including Master Gardeners, will field questions on a wide variety of topics. Whether you’re new to yard and garden care or a more-seasoned-but-hesitant gardener, you’re sure to find inspiration and learn something new after talking to the pros. Free. 10:30am. Maplewood Garden Club, Maplewood Memorial Library, Lower-level meeting room, 51 Baker St., Maplewood. www.maplewoodgardenclub.org

Yoga for Beginners These sessions are appropriate for anyone over 7 years of age and offer simple and powerful yoga postures to bring stability and balance. They can also strengthen the spine and take only 5-10 minutes to practice daily. 2pm. Free 90 min session. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. www.springfieldpubliclibrary.com

Swingin’ Tern Contra Dances Donna Hunt will call the contras. The band will be Coracree. Beginners’ workshop at 7:30 pm. No partner necessary. Listeners are welcome. Clean soft-soled shoes for dancing. Adults $10; students $5. 8-11pm. First Presbyterian Church, Parish House, 14 Hanover Rd., East Hanover. For more information, call 973-295-6864 or go to www.folkproject.org.

Sunday, March 3 The Metropolitan Orchestra of NJ Concert A Winter Concert featuring Ludwig van Beethoven’s Symphony No. 7, George Frideric Handel’s “Harp Concerto in Bb,” and Franz Schubert’s Symphony No. 8 “Unfinished Symphony.” Chatham High School, 255 Lafayette Ave., Chatham. 862-571-5270. www.MetropolitanOrchestraNJ.org

Ed Goldberg & the Odessa Klezmer Band in Concert The Odessa Klezmer Band, under the direction of Ed Goldberg, brings the joyous dance music of the Klezmorim (Jewish folk musicians) to mainstream America. The band celebrates the great variety and wealth of music heritage of Eastern Europe, Ladino, and Middle Eastern music, including polka and czardas. 2-3pm. Summit Library, Rotunda, Summit Library, 75 Maple St., Summit. 908-273-0350. www.summitlibrary.org

Musical Theatre Conservatory Auditions

Auditions! Broadway Boot Camp! July 1st-20th. Final Show in N.Y.C. Exciting classes in singing, dancing, TV/ acting, comedy, stage combat, auditioning and more. Meet and train with Agents and B’way Professionals. Ages 7-18, beg.- adv. levels. Pool party. Call 973-868-6259 to schedule appointment.

Antiques & Collectibles Market Offered are wide variety of finds, custom creations, and costume jewelry as well as coins, nostalgic holiday items, primitive, folk and Americana items, Native American jewelry, pottery and handcrafts, vintage vinyl records, comics and print media, toys, kitchenware, antique furniture, and more. Offerings differ each week. 7:30am2pm. Meyersville Grange, 188 Grange Hall, 500 Meyers Villa Rd., Gillette. meyersvillegrange188market@yahoo.com.

Celtic Music Concert Ian Gallagher, Irish singer and musician, will perform Irish songs in this free performance sponsored by the Friends of the NPML. 3pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

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Monday, March 4 Drop In Tech Help Come in for free assistance with Nooks, Kindles, Androids, iPads, and iPhone. Learn how to borrow free eBooks, e-audiobooks, movies, music, and more with your Springfield card. 7-8:30pm each Monday – no appointment necessary. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

Jazz Mondays! Love big band music? Stop by and listen to some great tunes, played by Glenn Franke and his very talented 16-piece Jazz Band. 8-10pm. SuzyQue’s BBQ and Bar, 34 South Valley Rd., West Orange. 973-736-7899. www.suzyques.com

Tuesday, March 5 Blues Tuesdays Andy Lackow and friends play it the way you like it. 8-11pm. SuzyQue’s BBQ and Bar, 34 South Valley Rd., West Orange. 973-736-7899. www.suzyques.com

Lecture Rabbi Charles Kroloff, Rabbi Emeritus Temple Emanu-El Westfield and Professor at Hebrew Union College, New York, will speak about his research and his book on the homeless population, ‘When Elijah Knocks’ and also about the “I Have a Dream” project to help underprivileged children advance to college. 9.30-11.30am. Guests welcome. New Providence Municipal Building, 360 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. www.summitoldguard.org

Teen Wii Gaming Teens are welcome to come play Wii in the library with friends for an afternoon of Mario March Madness. Teens Grades 6-12. 3-4:30pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

Wednesday, March 6 Golf Clinic Series of four 90-minute lessons with pro instructor Lou Ruina. Instruction includes improving your swing, understanding your short game, and hitting off the tee, all with emphasis on drills. Classes held in Chatham Municipal Gym using plastic balls and your own clubs. Fee applies. Wednesdays. 12:30-2pm. The Senior Center Of The Chathams, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. 973-635-4565. Chathamseniorcenter.org

Morristown International Folk Dancers Beginners and newcomers welcome. No partners needed. Every Wednesday evening. 7:3011pm. Mountain Lakes Community Church, 48 Briarcliff Rd., Mountain Lakes. 973-228-5966. www.njfolkdance.tripod.com/fd_morristown.html

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Suzzanne Douglas SUNDAY, MARCH 3 Luna Stage and The United Tastes of America (formerly Syria Supper Club) have teamed up to co-host a memorable evening which includes a full Syrian dinner and live entertainment. The event features jazz headliner Suzzanne Douglas, and supports both newly immigrated local refugee families and cutting-edge local theatre. 6-9pm. Luna Stage, 555 Valley Rd.,West Orange. www.theunitedtastesofamerica.org. Tickets available at www.LunaStage.org/Dinner or by calling 973-395-5551 x10. Wednesday Karaoke

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Sing the night away with your host, Fausto. 8pm. SuzyQue’s BBQ and Bar, 34 South Valley Rd., West Orange. 973-736-7899. www.suzyques.com

Enjoy a good laugh every now and then? Every first Thursday, the floor is given to the comedians. SuzyQue’s BBQ and Bar, 34 South Valley Rd., West Orange. 973-736-7899. www.suzyques.com

Diabetes Self Management Class Topics covered include: Diabetes disease process; nutritional management; physical activity; medications; prevention and treatment of acute and chronic complications, problem solving and psychosocial adjustment. Wednesdays. A fee applies and pre-registration is required by calling 973-322-7007. Barnabas Health Ambulatory Care Center, 200 South Orange Ave., Livingston.

Income Tax Assistance Please bring all your financial records from 2018, copies of your 2017 Federal and State tax returns, all printed and blank forms from the IRS, picture identification, and proof of Social Security for all dependents filing. Wednesdays, March 6 to April 10 from 10 am-2 pm. Free by appointment. Library of the Chathams, 214 Main St., Chatham, 973-635-0603. www.chathamlibrary.org

Thursday, March 7 Free Tax Assistance Free tax counseling and preparation for middle and low income taxpayers, with special attention to those 60 and older. Thursdays through April 11, from 9amnoon. Please call 908-598-5509 for information and to schedule your appointment (no walk-ins). Sage Eldercare, 290 Broad St., Summit. 908-273-5550.

Book Discussion Group “Behold the Dreamers,” a novel by Imbolo Mbue. The book is about marriage, immigration, class, race and the trapdoors of the American Dream. Jende Jonga, a Cameroon immigrant living in Harlem, lands a job as a chauffeur for a Lehman Brothers executive not long before the 2008 financial crisis. With the collapse of Lehman Brothers, Jonga and his family must decide whether to continue fighting to stay in a recession-ravaged America or give up and return to Cameroon. 7pm. Refreshments are served. The Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. To reserve a copy of the book call 973-376-4930 x228 or send an email: questions@ sfplnj.org.

Tech Support For Seniors For assistance with your smartphone, laptop, tablet, call to schedule a one-on-one appointment with a Chatham High School student volunteer. Also Mar. 21, 3:15–4:15pm. The Senior Center Of The Chathams, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. 973-635-4565. www.Chathamseniorcenter.org

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Education

Intellectual Curiosity, Compassion and Self-Reliance By Christine S. Maxwell, photos by Dan Epstein

rue to its mission of promoting “the disciplines of academic excellence and moral responsibility within our young women by sustaining a scholarly environment and a nurturing community of faith,” the Academy of Saint Elizabeth (AOSE) provides a rigorous academic environment for its students in grades 9 through 12. AOSE is accredited by the Middle States Association of Colleges and Schools. AOSE offers a complete selection of college-preparatory classes, Advanced Placement and honors classes in English, Social Studies, Mathematics, and Science. Beyond the required courses for graduation, the students have a wide selection of courses. “We also offer a diverse electives program so that our girls may develop new skills, have new options, and discover new passions,” states Lynn Burek, principal of AOSE. “We have courses in Forensic Science, Criminal Justice, Pathology, Genetics, Business and Marketing, Digital Photography and Ceramics.” AOSE offers the “College Now” program through which the students may take college credit courses in the school or at the College of St. Elizabeth. Academic life is balanced with 10 varsity sports and more than 25 clubs and activities. “Each student carries a commitment to charity and a sense of duty to those who are disadvantaged,” says Burek. “They respect

Principal Lynn Burek the sanctity of all people.” Called to service, the students prepare and deliver food to the homeless, sponsor a coat drive, and support the missions of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth. The students graduate equipped to face the challenges of the 21st century. States Burek, “Academy of Saint Elizabeth graduates leave us empowered with intellectual curiosity, compassion, self-reliance and an understanding of their God-given talents.” The Academy of Saint Elizabeth is a private, all-girls Catholic school in Convent Station. The Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth founded the school almost 160 years ago. As the oldest all-girl Catholic school in New Jersey, AOSE boasts a diverse student body of 170 students and is well represented geographically, with young women from approximately 50 communities in New Jersey. The campus on which AOSE is located also includes the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth Convent and the fouryear College of Saint Elizabeth.

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Friday, March 8

Saturday, March 9

A Morning with Sara Hagerty

Romeo and Juliet Production

Sara Hagerty is author of ‘Unseen: The Gift of Being Hidden in a World that Loves to be Noticed’ and ‘Every Bitter Thing is Sweet.’ She is a wife and mother of six children and will offer her insight and wisdom on the topic of how do we find contentment when we often feel so hidden? Childcare is available. 9am. For more information about the event, contact the church office at 908-665-0050. New Providence Presbyterian Church, 1307 Springfield Ave., New

This classic tale of feuding households, domestic drama, and budding romance remains one of the most popular of Shakespeare’s master works. A must-see for all Shakespeare lovers. This is an abridged performance including a post-show discussion with the cast. Runs through April 13. Kirby Shakespeare Theatre, 36 Madison Ave., Madison. wwwshakespearenj.org

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Matilda’s Tea: Shall We Dance? The dawn of the 20th Century gave rise to the ballroom dance craze so that every young girl and boy learned to dance the waltz and the foxtrot gracefully. Make your dance card and join dance instructor Jamie DiMare who leads everyone in the basics of ballroom dance. Then enjoy tea, pastries, and tea sandwiches, both sweet and savory. 1-3pm. Frelinghusen Arboretum, Haggerty Center, 353 East Hanover Ave., Morristown. www.arboretumfriends.org

A Midsummer Night’s Dream Production Shakespeare’s uproarious comedy is the ideal “first Shakespeare” for young people and a riotous roller coaster ride for audiences of all ages. This is an abridged performance including a post-show discussion with the cast. Runs through April, 13. Kirby Shakespeare Theatre, 36 Madison Ave., Madison. www.shakespearenj.org

Free Tax Preparation AARP-trained volunteers will complete tax returns and file them electronically. AARP membership is not a requirement to participate. Fridays, through Apr. 12. 9:30am-3pm (last appt. at 1:30pm). The Senior Center Of The Chathams, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. Appointments can be scheduled by calling the Center at 973-635-4565 or online at www.freetaxesmorrisnj.wordpress.com/chatham.

Maple Sugaring at the Library Grand Marshal Father Patrick “Paddy” O’Donovan. Noon. Begins at Morristown Town Hall, 200 South St. The parade route follows South Street to the Morristown Green and continues along Washington St. to Morristown High School. This is a family-friendly, alcohol free event. Mass at Assumption Church at 10am. www.morristown-nj.org

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How is sweet maple syrup made from tree sap? See the process from start to finish during this interesting program. 2pm. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. 973-377-0722. www.madisonnjlibrary.org

Give Your Pet a Great Job! Is your pet calm and friendly? Loves meeting strangers? Volunteer with your pet to visit hospitals, nursing homes, schools, shelters and special needs programs and bring healing comfort to others. To become a certified pet therapy team with Creature Comfort Pet Therapy, you and your pet must pass a test that evaluates obedience and temperament. Also March 30. The evaluation takes place from 9-11 in Morristown. You MUST fill out a volunteer application and pre-register. Information is available at www.ccpettherapy.org or contact kclark@ccpettherapy.org.

Annual Book Sale The sale is a major fundraiser with all proceeds going to purchase more books, CDs and DVDs for use by the library patrons. The selection is in all categories– fiction, history, biographies, art, classical collectibles, cookbooks and music. The children’s section features brand new and hardly-used classics and modern children’s specialties. $25 fee for early entrance 7:30-9:30am. No fee starting at 9:30am. On March 10 from 10am-4pm there will be a bag sale–all you can carry in a bag for $8. Sale runs through March13th. Library of the Chathams, 214 Main St., Chatham. 973-635-0603. www.chathamlibrary.org

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Eagles are on their nests! Learn about these magnificent birds and their growing success in New Jersey. Presentation by NJ Division of Fish and Wildlife. Refreshments. Visitor Center. 1:30-3pm. Helen C. Fenske Visitor Center, 32 Pleasant Plains Rd., Harding Township. www.friendsofgreatswamp.org

NewJersey Ballet’s Sleeping Beauty

Sunday, May 5, 1:30 & 4:30 pm MPAC, Mayo Performing Arts Center NJ Ballet, New Jersey’s premier dance company presents Tchaikovsky’s classic Sleeping Beauty. Beautifully staged and filled with such familiar characters—Princess Aurora, The Handsome Prince, Red Riding Hood and Puss in Boots—this performance enchants the whole family. The glorious dancing, beautiful sets and costumes bring the “Storybook Tale” to life. Even the young ones can follow along. The professional dancers of the NJ Ballet bring classic and contemporary ballet to New Jersey audiences. The company’s artistic advisors include some of the greatest international dancers of the 20th century; Edward Villella, Eleanor D’Antuono and Leonid Kozlovand. Find out more about the company and other ballets featured this season on their website: www.njballet.org.

Nature Adventurers: Family Nature Club

The Mayo Performing Art Center, in the heart of Morristown, presents more than 200 diverse performances each season including dance, theater, classical and pop music, comedy, Broadway shows and special family performances. MPAC offers reserved parking for most shows. Check their website for upcoming events. www.mayoarts.org

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Network with other professionals who are currently unemployed or looking for new career opportunities. Meetings alternate between guest speakers and career workshops. Programs are free and open to the public. Also March 25. 10am-Noon. Maplewood Memorial Library, Hilton Branch, 1683, Springfield Ave., Maplewood. 973-762-1688. www.maplewoodlibrary.org

Reflections: Ireland in Song and Story

Monday, March 11 Teen Job Hunting 101

Harness the power of gaming to get families up and moving while exploring and learning about local nature and conservation. Each ticket includes a Family Nature Club water bottle. 1-3pm. Turtle Back Zoo, 560 Northfield Ave., West Orange. 973-731-5800. www.turtlebackzoo.com

Teens and their parents are invited to learn the ins and outs of teen job-hunting. Local business owners, organizations and HR reps will be part of a Panel Discussion, and will feature information on specific jobs that are available to teens, different types of work to consider, how to prepare for interviews, and more. Teens grades 7-12 & parents of teens. 7-8:30pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

“It Don’t Mean a Thing” – Music of Duke Ellington Rob Kapilow takes listeners inside the music, slowing down and recomposing key passages to hear why a piece is so extraordinary. Next the piece is performed in its entirety, followed by a question and answer session. Featuring the Kyle Athayde Dance Party. 2-5pm. The Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3721. www.morrismuseum.org/special-performances

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Grand Marshal Mr. James Travis. Irish dance groups, Irish bands, community groups, bagpipes, drums, Hackettstown and surrounding area fire departments and rescue squads, as well as the Hackettstown Community Band. This parade is pet-friendly, with a special pet costume contest sponsored by Doggie Styleashes. 3:30pm. Main St., Hackettstown. www.hackettstownbid.com/stpatricksparade

A tapestry of Irish song, story and cultural lore examining the themes of religions, emigration, the Troubles and more. 3pm. Sitnik Theatre of the Lackland Performing Arts Center, 715 Grand Ave., Hackettstown. 908-979-0900. www.centenarystageco.org

“Landscape Design” Program Craig Stock has over 30 years of experience in the landscaping industry. He will discuss the principles of designing beautiful green spaces. Refreshments will be served. 7-8:30pm. New Providence DeCorso Center, 15 East 4th St., New Providence. www.npgardenclub.weebly.com (continued on page 18)

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The ABC’s of Organic Lawn Care and Renovation Learn the how, when and why, plus the correct method of lawn renovation. The selection of the right grass seed for your specific needs and soil conditions plus other lawn care tips will be discussed. 7pm. Presented by Brian Monaghan, Master Gardener, Rutgers Cooperative Extension. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. 973-377-0722. www.madisonnjlibrary.org

Tuesday, March 12 Discussion with Boardwalk Empire Writer Nelson Johnson

Nelson Johnson, Boardwalk Empire writer, will visit the Library to discuss his book and his experience writing for HBO’s hit show, Boardwalk Empire. 7pm. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. 973377-0722. www.madisonnjlibrary.org

College Athletics – Then and Now Mr. Robert Beller, Risk Management and Institutional Compliance Officer- Athletics at Rutgers University, will speak about today’s demand on men and women’s college athletic programs versus the demands of decades ago. Mr. Beller was a member of Harvard’s basketball team in the 1970s. 9.3011:30am. Guests welcome. New Providence Municipal Building, 360 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. www.summitoldguard.org

A Celtic Music Journey SUNDAY, MARCH 17 Heather Mulvey plays fingerpicking acoustic guitar and sings traditional Americana, Celtic, and contemporary folk songs, entertaining audiences of all ages. In the Celtic Music Journey the audience will learn about the history of these beloved songs and be encouraged to sing along. The Farmstead Arts Center, 450 King George Rd., Basking Ridge. 908-636-7576. Tickets at www.farmsteadartscenter.org/ performances.

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Friday, March 15

A Cache of Kinetic Art: Simply Steampunk Opening Reception

Spring Craft Morristown

The second installment in a four-year exhibition series features the creative energy and the vitality of kineticism by reenvisioning 19th century aesthetics combined with advances in machine technology. By mounting this exhibition, the Museum draws parallels between the innovative engineering, design, and imagination of present-day artisans with the technical ingenuity and functionality of a bygone era. Member free. 6-7:30pm. Runs through August 11. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973971-3700. www.morrismuseum.org

The Spring International Film Festival

Wednesday, March 13

The St. Patrick’s Day Parade Newark

Head and Neck Cancer Support Group Patients and their loved ones are invited to join the Saint Barnabas Cancer Program Department of Psychosocial Support Services for discussion, information and support regarding Head and Neck Cancer. The group is facilitated by an Oncology social worker and Radiation Oncology nurse. 6-7:30pm. Radiation Oncology Classroom, Room 1749, Saint Barnabas Medical Center, 94 Old Short Hills Rd., Livingston Free; registration required: 973-322-2743.

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Collectors, art enthusiasts and discerning shoppers will enjoy the rare opportunity to meet these visionary artists and purchase their latest work. Find unique gifts for family and friends, one-of-a-kind and limited edition jewelry, fashion and accessories, furniture, home décor, as well as functional and sculptural works in many medias. Visitors can also enjoy specialty foods from across the country. Saturday and Sunday. Morristown National Guard Armory, 430 Western Ave., Morristown. 845-331-7900.

Grand Marshal Sean O’Neill. Parade route starts at the Prudential Center on Mulberry St. past Gateway Center, NJPAC, Military Park, St. Patrick’s Pro-Cathedral, the Newark Museum and Washington Park. 1pm. www.newarkparade.com Aging Hollywood superstar Gloria Grahame and her younger lover, Peter Turner, conspire to keep them in each other’s lives even when it proves difficult and demanding in the movie “Film Stars Don’t Die in Liverpool” (2017). Rated R. 1 and 7pm. The Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

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Date Night! Treat you and your date to a night to remember. Keep things steamy by learning to play with molten glass together. You will each make a special keepsake like a flower, heart or another unique treasure to commemorate the night. Light appetizers will be served and a complimentary glass of champagne to toast your accomplishments after you play with the fire. 6:30-8:30pm. Also March 23. Morris County School of Glass, 89 Whippany Rd., Morristown. 973-7340900. www.mcsog.com

The Minstrel Acoustic Concert Series

Selections from Verdi’s Breathtaking Requiem

The Murphy Beds perform. Tal Naccarato opens. Morristown Unitarian Fellowship, 21 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 7:30-10:30pm. Children 12 and under, free. Handicapped accessible; free parking. 973-3359489 or go to www.folkproject.org.

The Masterwork Chorus performs selections from Verdi’s breathtaking Requiem, a musical tour de force guaranteed to provide an unforgettable evening. 7:30pm. Chatham United Methodist, 460 Main St., Chatham. www.brownpapertickets.com

Refuge Readers–A Book Discussion Group

St. Patrick’s Day: Storytime and Craft

Discussion of “A Naturalist Buys An Old Farm” by Edwin Way Teale, an American naturalist, photographer and writer. Teale’s works serve as primary source material documenting environmental conditions across North America from 1930-1980. New members welcome. Copies available for loan. Visitor Center. 2-3:30pm. Great Swamp, 32 Pleasant Plains Rd., Harding Township. www.friendsofgreatswamp.org

Celebrate this popular holiday with St. Patrick’s Day stories and a variety of crafts, from handprint shamrocks to rainbow streamers. A variety of St. Patrick’s Day stories (old and new) will be told at 11:30, 12:30, 1:30 & 2:30. All activities are included with regular admission. Registration is recommended. Museum of Early Trades & Crafts, 9 Main St.,Madison. Register at w w w. m e t c . o r g / r e g i s t e r- s t - p a t ricks-day-storytime-craft

Italian Conversation Group

Sunday, March 17

Luciana Santoriello and other fluent speakers will moderate Italian discussion groups. 1pm. Also March 26 at 7:15pm. Library of the Chathams, 214 Main St., Chatham, 973-635-0603. www.chathamlibrary.org

Saturday, March 16 The Jazz Ambassadors Perform The United States Army’s premier big band have a diverse repertoire that includes big band swing, bebop, Latin, contemporary jazz, standards, popular tunes, Dixieland, vocals, and patriotic selections. 3pm. Sitnik Theatre of the Lackland Performing Arts Center, 715 Grand Ave., Hackettstown. 908-979-0900. www.centenarystageco.org

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Summit Symphony Concert “Dances in Time” will feature concert music meant for or inspired by dance. Bach’s Orchestra Suite #3, written around 1731, includes the movement now known as “Air on a G String.” Bartok’s Roumanian Dances are just that, orchestral pieces based on Roumanian folk dances. Symphony No. 7 by Beethoven is often considered to be dance like. 2pm. Free. Summit High School, Kent Place Blvd., Summit. www.summitsymphony.org

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Swingin’ Tern Contra Dances Desiree Halcomb will call the contras. The band will be The Jody Kruskal Band. Beginners’ workshop at 7:30 pm. No partner necessary. Listeners are welcome. Clean soft-soled shoes for dancing. Adults $10; students $5. 8-11pm. First Presbyterian Church, Parish House, 14 Hanover Rd., East Hanover. For more information, call 973-295-6864 or go to www.folkproject.org

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Celebrate the season with this 30-minute fun fast-paced pint taster class. Play with 2,100 degrees of molten glass and learn some basics of glassblowing while using color and molds to shape your very own usable drinking glass. 10am-1pm. Morris County School of Glass, 89 Whippany Rd, Morristown. 973-734-0900. www.mcsog.com

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Monday, March 18

Muppet Guys Talking

Friday, March 22

Acrylic Painting Class

An Incredible Movie Night

“Springtime In The Rockies.” Learn how to paint a beautiful mountain landscape. All levels of ability welcome and all necessary supplies provided. Fee applies. Limited class size. Must sign up. 10:30am12:30pm. The Senior Center Of The Chathams, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. 973-635-4565.

Come to the Chatham High School Key Club’s 2nd Annual Family Movie Night. Showing of “The Incredibles,” a fan-favorite for all ages. Games, food, and fun, plus all proceeds help hungry NJ families. 6:30pm. Snow date is 3/29. Gym of CHS, 255 Lafayette Ave., Chatham. Tickets available online or at the door. www.incrediblesmovienight.weebly.com

Tuesday, March 19

The Minstrel Acoustic Concert Series

Annual Special Topics for Saint Patrick’s Day Dr. Dermot Quinn, Professor and Director of Graduate Studies at Seton Hall University, discussed last year at the Summit Old Guard the diaspora of the Irish to New Jersey. This year he will continue speaking about some special interests with the Irish and Ireland. 9.30-11:30 am. Guests welcome. New Providence Municipal Building, 360 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. www.summitoldguard.org

The Statue of Liberty - All the Facts

The SOMA Film festival welcomes legendary filmmaker and actor Frank Oz and his film, “Muppet Guys Talking.” The film is about five of the original Muppet performers coming together to discuss the creation of their iconic characters under the visionary leadership of Jim Henson. The stories are legendary and the film catches the innovation and the madness through converstion and archived video imagery. 8-10pm. The Woodland, 60 Woodland Rd., Maplewood. www.somafilmfestival.com

Tom Chapin. Dan Pelletier opens. 7:30-10:30pm. Children 12 and under, free. The Minstrel, Morristown Unitarian Fellowship, 21 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. For more info call 973-335-9489 or go to www.folkproject.org

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Learn the fascinating history of the Statue of Liberty in this program led by Kevin Woyce, author, photographer and lecturer specializing in regional American History. Learn about the people who created her including sculptor Frederic Bartholdi, engineer Gustav Eiffel and artichitect Richard Morris. 1-2pm. To register call 908-598-5548 or email education@sageeldercare.org.

Wednesday, March 20 What’s Changed Since I Started Driving? TransOptions, Inc will present a program outlining all the changes that have taken place since you first got your license. Vehicles have changed as well as technology. It’s important to stay up to date to ensure you keep driving safely. 1-2pm. Sage Eldercare, 290 Broad St., Summit. To register call 908-598-5548 or email education@sageeldercare.org.

Parents Enduring Loss from Addiction (PELA) Support Group

Meet Mayada Anjari, author of “The Bread and Salt Between Us,” who came to the United States in 2016 when she, her husband and four children fled Syria’s civil war by way of Jordan under the Refugee Admissions Program of the US government. The book tells the story of Mayada’s journey through food with over 40 recipes from her personal recipe collection of easy-to-approach dishes from Syria including fresh tabbouleh, rice pudding stuffed grape leaves, and falafel. 6:30-8pm. The Book House, 281 Essex St., Millburn. 973-564-6262. www.thebookhousemillburn.com

Thursday, March 21 Spring Woodcock Walks Watch and listen to the mating displays of the American woodcock. Indoor program followed by a guided walk. Program and walk led by volunteer Pete Axelrod. Meet at Visitor Center. Also March 31. 6:30–8:30pm. Great Swamp, 32 Pleasant Plains Rd., Harding Township. www.friendsofgreatswamp.org

Learning the Birds by Song This birding-by-ear workshop series will improve your bird identification skills. Learning their songs will add another dimension to your birdwatching. This workshop will meet every Thursday evening until April 25. 7-8:30pm. Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Hardscrabble Rd., Bernardsville. Call 908-396-6386 to register by March 19.

Facilitated by Charlie Berman, a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor. It is a gentle and caring group. All are welcome. 5:30-7pm. 3rd Wednesday of every month, Community Hall of the First Presbyterian Church, 2 Lees Hill Rd., New Vernon. (Green Village). www.willowtree.org

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Agnes Evans leaves her childhood home in Ohio following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she stumbles into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was Tilly’s refuge. In this high-octane dramatic comedy laden with homicidal fairies, nasty ogres, and 90s pop culture, acclaimed young playwright Qui Nguyen offers a heart-pounding homage to the geek and warrior within us all. Ages 14+. Runs through March 25. Kutz Theatre of the Lackland Performing Arts Center, 715 Grand Ave., Hackettstown. 908979-0900. www.centenarystageco.org

Saturday, March 23 Gala Library Fundraiser The Friends of the Madison Public Library will honor Sue Carter, a long-time technology volunteer, Library Trustee, and Board Member. The public is cordially invited to attend. Enjoy delicious hors d’oeuvres, served with wine and beer. 5:30-7:30pm. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. 973-377-0722. www.friendsmadisonnjlibrary.org

Lute Concert by Ronn McFarlane GRAMMY-nominated lutenist Ronn McFarlane presents a concert of Celtic music and original compositions. Fee applies. Student admission is free with ID. 7:30pm. Morristown United Methodist Church on the Green, 50 S. Park Place, Morristown. To reserve discounted tickets in advance, please call 973-5382132.

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ollectors, art enthusiasts, and discerning shoppers are invited to attend Spring Craft Morristown, a craft show featuring 165 artists and craftspeople from across the country. Meet these visionary artists and shop from their vast collections of artwork, including works in ceramics, glass, metal, painting, photography, wood and mixed media. Looking for unique gifts for friends and family? Find one-of-a-kind jewelry, fashion and accessories, furniture, home decor, and more.

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Ceilidh: An Evening of Irish Music and Dance Artistic Director Darrah Carr has created a sensational and unique blend of traditional Irish step and contemporary modern dance she calls ModERIN: a playful combination of the words modern (dance) and ERIN (an Irish American reference to Ireland). The program has a live music component and features champion Irish step dancers. 8pm. Sitnik Theatre of the Lackland Performing Arts Center, 715 Grand Ave., Hackettstown. 908-979-0900. www.centenarystageco.org

Aging Services Kiosk (ASK) Program Summit residents seeking information about services for seniors age 60 and older can receive advice and information about home delivered meals, respite care, home care, adult day care support services for caregivers, and more. The ASK program also enables residents to obtain assistance with completing applications. Assistance is given on a one-to-one basis and is available in English and Spanish. 10:30am–12:30pm. Summit Library, Summit Library, 75 Maple St., Summit. 908-273-0350. www.summitlibrary.org

Stephen Whitty On Film Noir The Senior Center welcomes back Stephen Whitty, a writer and critic for the Star-Ledger, the New York Daily News, nj.com and Fortune.com. Stephen will make a presentation on the film noir genre which began in Hollywood in the 1940s and continues to influence filmmakers today. He will look at classic originals and modern homages, and share stories and famous film clips. 12:30pm. The Senior Center Of The Chathams, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. 973-635-4565.

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Tuesday, March 26

A Walk Back In Local History Presentation

Diabetes Support Group: What’s New In Diabetes Join The Center for Diabetes Wellness and Prevention at the Ambulatory Care Center for this important support group facilitated by a certified diabetes educator. 12:30pm and 6pm. Barnabas Health Ambulatory Care Center, 200 South Orange Ave., Livingston. Free; registration required: 888-724-7123 or rwjbh.org/sbmcevents

Wednesday, March 27

Makers Day Drop-in From high tech experiences such as 3D printing to no-tech crafts like sewing, Makers Day is sure to be a great time. Visit with local Madison merchants demonstrating their skills and try some yourself. The goal of NJ Makers Day is to facilitate connections among NJ residents by exploring new and interesting opportunities for community wide education, entrepreneurship and hands-on learning experiences. 1-3pm. For all ages. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. 973-377-0722. www.madisonnjlibrary.org

In 1973 Fran Drew and her sister, Rosanne were among 60 tourists from eleven countries who traveled as far south as possible, crossing the “roaring forties”, the roughest passage in the world where three oceans meet and waves are 40 feet high. Enjoy as Fran relates her undaunted travel experience. 7pm. Library of the Chathams, 214 Main St., Chatham. 973-635-0603. www.chathamlibrary.org

DBSA Morristown Area Learn what life was like back in 1870, the impact of the “Trains,” and the early founding fathers of the Central Presbyterian Chruch. Architects will highlight the 1907 building features, and Warren Braunwarth will present important aspects of the church history. Then follow docents on an interior and exterior tour, highlighting the Tiffany stained-glass windows. Fellowship and refreshments follow. Free and open to the public. 2-4pm. Central Presbyterian Church, 70 Maple Street, Summit. www.Centralpres.org

Support group for people with depression and/or bipolar disorder. Family and friends also are a priority and each week there will be an opportunity for learning and growth. Bruce P. Friedman, MD, will present “Ask the Doctor on mood disorder topics for all ages” preceded by “All about OCD, an update on strategies to navigate the repetitions, rituals and fears.” 7:45pm. Also two adult peer support groups every Tuesday and a group for Young Adults age 1825, from 7:30-9pm. No charge. Morristown Unitarian Fellowship, 21 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown.

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Preservation and Grace, an American Legacy Actress Jill Lawrence brings the woman we now know as Jackie O’ to life by interpreting her tireless efforts for the public good. By conveying Jacqueline’s personal and professional struggles and victories, a poignant portrait of the First Lady, wife and mother and activist vividly comes alive. A great American Legacy who wore many hats, not just her pillbox. 7pm. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. 973377-0722. www.friendsmadisonnjlibrary.org

Teen Movie & Craft Calling all Harry Potter fans. Make magic wands and invisible ink messages, then stay for the newly-released movie, “Crimes of Grindelwald.” Open to students in Grades 5-12. 3-5pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

Notable Women of New Jersey Guest panelists will include Bonnie Guerin, MD; Mila Jasey, representative of the 27th Legislative District in the New Jersey General Assembly; Ingrid Steffensen, former college professor and race car driving instructor; and Kate Tomlinson, Publisher and Editor-in-Chief of New Jersey Monthly. The panel will be moderated by Myriam Alvarez, journalist, writer, and author of the historical novel, Flowers in the Dust. 7pm. Registration required. 973-635-0603. Library of the Chathams, 214 Main St., Chatham. www.chathamlibrary.org

Thursday, March 28 Retrospective Film Series Take the Money and Run, a “mockumentary” that was Woody Allen’s first film for which he was the writer, director and actor. 7pm. The Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave,. Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.springfieldpubliclibrary.com

Burn Peer Support Group The Susan Fischer Burn Peer Support Group is designed to help burn survivors and their families adjust to their new lives. The group is led by staff from The Burn Center and SOAR (Survivors Offering Assistance in Recovery) volunteers who are burn survivors themselves. 3:30pm. Saint Barnabas Medical Center, 94 Old Short Hills Rd., Livingston. Free; registration required: 973-322-5856.

Join Michelle Pasia, MPH, RDN, the new Program Coordinator of The Kogan Celiac Center, for this support group. It is intended for both those with celiac disease or gluten sensitivity as well as their loved ones who would like to learn more. The group is designed to share and learn about what is new in the gluten-free world through conversation, recipes, educational presentations and food tastings. 6:30pm. Barnabas Health Ambulatory Care Center, 200 South Orange Ave., Livingston. Free, registration is required: 1-888-724-7123 or rwjbh.org/sbmcevents

Library Sale Children’s books, young adult books, jewelry, and watches are being sold by the Friends of SFPL. 10am– 6pm, March 29th, and March 30th from 10am–4pm. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

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Whether you garden in sun or shade, there are many native plants that will attract and retain butterflies to your garden. This talk explores the relationship that butterflies have with specific native plants and suggest easy steps to protect these relationships in order to enhance our local ecosystems, as well as your own garden. 1:30-2:30pm. Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Hardscrabble Rd., Bernardsville. Call 908-396-6386 to register by March 28.

Sunday, March 31 Macbeth Production

Friday, March 29 The Songs Of Phil Ochs Performed Greg Greenway, Reggie Harris, Tom Prasada-Rao and Pat Wictor will perform “The Songs Of Phil Ochs.” There will be an opening act. Children 12 and under, free. The Minstrel, Morristown Unitarian Fellowship, 21 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 7:3010:30pm. 973-335-9489. www.folkproject.org.

The Music Faculty at the College of Saint Elizabeth in Morristown, will present a concert entitled, Shall We Dance? The concert is free and open to the public. A reception to meet the performers will follow the concert. An audience singalong will conclude the performance. 7-9pm. Dolan Performance Hall in Annunciation Center on campus, 2 Convent Rd., Morristown. 973-290-4315 or at vbutera@cse.edu for questions.

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The concert will feature the Music Department‘s Jazz Band, Pops Strings, and Chorale. Selections will include “Somewhere Over the Rainbow,” “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy,” and music by Dizzy Gillespie, Journey, Charles Mingus and Aerosmith. Free. 7:309pm. Millburn High School, 462 Millburn Ave., Millburn. 973-376-3600 ext. 375. www.millburn.org

Butterfly Gardening with Native Plants

Celiac Disease & Gluten Free Support Group Meetings

“Shall We Dance” Music Faculty Concert Pops Concert

Saturday, March 30

The Summit College Club (SCC) book sale is seeking books and other media donations for its 6-day annual Book Sale. The drop off will be open from 10am-6pm daily and from 10am-9pm on April 4th. The Summit College Club Book Sale welcomes donations of books, CDs, and DVDs, but does not accept textbooks, manuals, magazines or encyclopedias. Donations should be brought to the American Legion Post No. 433 through April 4. The American Legion, 357 Elkwood Ave., New Providence, next to the library. For more information e-mail summitcollegeclub@yahoo.com or call 973-2165243.

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Shakespeare’s most intense and terrifying tragedy, directed by Rufus Norris, will see Rory Kinnear (Young Marx, Othello) and Anne-Marie Duff (Oil, Suffragette) return to the National Theatre to play Macbeth and Lady Macbeth. The ruined aftermath of a bloody civil war. Ruthlessly fighting to survive, the Macbeths are propelled towards the crown by forces of elemental darkness. 2pm. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3700. www.morrismuseum.org

You Would Have Known Them: Township Residents of the Past In conjunction with the new Chatham Township Historical Society Gallery exhibit at the Township Municipal Building, speaker Patricia Wells will talk about some of the interesting people who would have been your neighbors in decades and centuries past. 2pm.Chatham Township Municipal Building, 58 Meyersville Rd., Chatham. www.chathamtownshiphistoricalsociety.org

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Camp SPOTLIGHTS Basking Ridge Country Club Junior Summer Camp 185 Madisonville Road, Basking Ridge 908-766-8200 ext. 4 baskingridgecc.com/junior-summer-camps/ Contact: Douglas deMarrais Email: ddemarrais@baskingridgecc.com Age Groups: 6–18 Camps are designed to educate golfers in all aspects of the swing, the game and its application to the course. Grouped by similar abilities and ages, PGA Pros will create an informative and fun learning atmosphere all while instilling the integrity and life skills needed to perform the game. The Academy’s goal is to honor the traditions of golf and to pass on the passion for the game.

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Chatham Summer Arts Camp 255 Lafayette Ave, Chatham 973-635-0956 chathamsummerartscamp.weebly.com Contact: Brian Conti Email: chathamsummer arts@gmail.com Age Groups: Students entering 4th–8th grade in September 2019 The Chatham Summer Arts Camp is celebrating its 41st season! Students can choose from classes in Band, Orchestra, Piano and Art. Classes meet during the morning between 9am–12pm. Please join in during the morning program and explore the wonderful world of the arts!

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REGISTER ONLINE The Connection Summer Camps 79 Maple St, Summit 908-273-4242 www.theconnectiononline.org Dates: June 24–August 23, half and full days; 9am–4:30pm with extended hours available Age Groups: 3 and up All the new this summer: exciting all day or half day camps. Co-ed includes daily swim lessons and specialized camps like Sports, Gym/Gymnastics, Theater, Jr Warrior, Digital Media & Robotics, Travel, STEM, Art, Nature, Fashion, Cooking. ACA Accredited.

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Camp SPOTLIGHTS (continued from page 27) Fairview Lake YMCA Camps 1035 Fairview Lake Road, Stillwater, NJ (973) 383-9282 | (800) 686-1166 | www.fairviewlakeymca.org Camp is a magical place for children to laugh, sing and make friends. It is a place where children can learn about themselves and others in a safe setting. It is one of the only places left where a child can learn to sail, make a candle, and hit a bullseye in archery all before lunch. Camp is designed just for kids. As adults we can say we are going to focus on achievement, belonging and relationships. What that means to a child is we are going to have fun learning stuff and making friends. Fairview Lake hires and train staff team to do just that. They understand how to make the fun safe, and take the concepts of healthy child development and add the spice of camp. What comes out is a special place that has been helping children grow in spirit, mind and body for 102 years. Offering sleepaway co-ed camp, day camp, ranch, specialty & adventure camp.

Far Hills Summer Camp 697 US-202, Far Hills | 908-766-0622 fhcds.org/camp Contact: Brian Junger Email: bjunger@fhcds.org Age Groups: 3 years* to 13 years old, depending on program (Pre-K children must be 3 by September 1 and be potty trained) Through academic excellence and character development, Far Hills Country Day School provides each child brilliant beginnings for success in the modern world.

GSB Hi Hills Camps 25 St. Bernard’s Road, Gladstone | 908-234-0067 hihills.com Contact: Cindy Wyatt Email: info@hihills.com Age Groups: Ages 3–16 GSB Hi Hills Camps provide a balanced, diverse and secure community that allows children the opportunity to explore, learn and grow toward a more purposeful and meaningful life. Campers learn and play on a 208-acre campus including a pool, pond, garden and farm. Each week focuses on the core values of Respect, Diversity, Integrity, Compassion, Kindness, Leadership, Courage, and Balance.

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HudsonWay Immersion Camp 249 Bebout Ave, Stirling | 908-598-8088 hwis.org/summercamp-3 Contact: Tracie Xiong Email: txiong@hwis.org Age Groups: Ages 2.5–12 Exploring the world in three exciting adventures through language and culture! Each week provides an age-appropriate perspective on important aspects of our world. Students acquire an appreciation for diverse cultures while developing language skills in a Mandarin or Spanish immersion environment. Activities will include exposure to science, geography, literature, cooking, art, music, and outdoor activities. Each two-week theme will culminate in a project and presentation.

International Ivy Summer Enrichment Programs 14 locations across NJ 908-899-1338 | www.iisummer.com Contact: Lily Wong Email: info@iisummer.com Age Groups: Ages 3–15 International Ivy Summer Enrichment Program provides fun and intellectuallystimulating experiences to fuel young people’s interest and creativity. Kids design video games, build robots, tinker with the engineering of gadgets, conduct experiments and make films. Kids learn best by doing. There are many classes in STEAM – Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Math.

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Newark Academy Mott-Leeney Baseball Camp 91 South Orange Ave, Livingston 973-992-7000 ext. 212 www.newarka.edu/summer Contact: Liz Bona-Beach Email: mottleeney@newarka.edu Age Groups: Ages 5-13 The Mott-Leeney Baseball Camp, celebrating its 51st year, is the flagship summer sports camp program at Newark Academy. Campers will hone their skills in pitching, catching infield play, outfield play, hitting and base running. One-week sessions run June 24 through July 26.

Newark Academy Summer Programs 91 South Orange Avenue, Livingston 973-957-3174 ext. 217 www.newarka.edu/summer Contact: Robert Mallalieu Email: summer@newarka.edu Age Groups: Ages 5–17 Academics, Enrichment, Sports–over 50 Summer programs offered at Newark Academy. For more than 40 years, Newark Academy has been the premier source in northern New Jersey for summer programming. The highly-respected Summer Session provides summer academic experience including advance credit, enrichment and skill development courses, as well as STEM courses.

Prime Time Summer Arts 14 South Park Street, Montclair | 973-655-9819 | smapa.org Contact: Sharron Miller or Sharon Alonzo, Director Ages Groups: Ages 6–14 Prime Time Summer Arts is a full-day musical theater program for boys and girls ages 6–14. Daily classes in vocal music, dance, and drama culminate in a staged performance at the end of each 2-week session. Session 1—July 1-July 12 (closed July 4), Session 2— July 15-26, Session 3—July 29-August 9. No previous experience required—just a joy of singing, dancing, and acting.

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Robot Revolution 34 Maple Street, Summit 908-608-8896 robotrevolution.net/?utm_source=vicinity Age Groups: 4th–12th grade Robot Revolution is an award winning robotics program for grades 4–12. Build, program, and even compete in exciting games with robots of your design. Bring math, science, and engineering together to solve problems. Robotics brings STEM to life. (continued on page 30)

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Summer Excitement Experience June 24 - July 26 For Above Average Students in Grades 1-8 Choose 2 or 4 Weeks of Day Camp from 2 Campuses: Mountain Lakes: Community Church Summit: Oratory Prep

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Camp SPOTLIGHTS (continued from page 31) SEE Camp Oratory Prep, Summit | Community Church, Mountain Lake 973-994-4665 | www.seecamps.com Contact: Chris Patrick Email: seecamp@horizonsinlearning.org Age Groups: entering grades 1–8 SEE Camp is the place to be for Summer Excitement and Intellectual Adventure. Created for inquisitive students entering grades 1-8, SEE Camp encourages kids to do all the things they love: sports, academics, and the arts. Whether building and testing bridges, learning to fence, embarking on field trips, or chilling out in the pool, campers revel in summer experiences that keep them returning year after year.

Summer at Oak Knoll 44 Blackburn Road, Summit | 908-522-8186 www.oakknoll.org/summer Contact: Debi Tarowksy Email: debi.tarowsky@oakknoll.org Age Groups: Ages 3-16 There is something for everyone this summer at Oak Knoll! They offer an ACA-accredited day camp for boys and girls, including extreme sports and performing arts specialty camps. They also offer an academic prep program that includes kindergarten readiness, a youth football camp, and a new signature program that empowers Middle School girls to risk, fail and recover using interactive activities.

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> Junior clinics, camps and adult programs offered! > We are proud to be hosting a series of camps throughout the summer for students age 7-16. > Half Day and Full Day sessions are available. > A variety of junior clinics are available starting at the age of 6. The golf academy also offers individual lessons for all ages and abilities that are formatted to suit individual student needs.

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taying healthy doesn’t have to mean overhauling your lifestyle. Sometimes small changes can have big impacts. Take it from celebrity fitness trainer, Latreal “La” Mitchell, “Everyone can reach their health and fitness goals. It’s all about setting attainable goals and staying motivated to see results.” To look, feel and live better, Mitchell is offering tips for small lifestyle changes you can make that can inspire you to make more in the future:

Get Moving If exercise is not a part of your life now, don’t worry. “In a short time, you can be doing quality exercises,” says Mitchell. “The key is to start small.” Photo: © Gelner Tivadar – ThinkStock.com

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Just be sure to make exercise non-negotiable. Life is busy and it’s easy to find any number of reasons to skip a workout. Make yourself a fitness schedule and stick to it—and then don’t let anyone or anything stop you from staying on track.

Eat Right The small goal of adding more fiber to your diet can lead you to better nutrition choices. Aim to get 25 to 38 grams of fiber every day. In addition to upping your fruit and vegetable intake and swapping out processed white bread and pasta for the whole wheat variety, fiber supplements can help you meet your fiber goals. But choose wisely, as some options have additional benefits beyond supporting digestive health.

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For many people, snacking can be a downfall, especially during a busy workday. Try substituting your usual temptations with healthier options. For example, almonds and light popcorn are a good substitute for chips, and are more satisfying. If you have a sweet tooth, ditch the afternoon pastry that’s high in calories but won’t actually help you feel full. Instead, look for a delicious, easy-to-pack snack like a Meta Health Bar that helps satisfy hunger as a healthful snack.

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Restaurant Guide BERKELEY HEIGHTS

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Giovanni’s Bistro Bar & Catering

East Hanover Diner

449 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-464-6644 | www.giovannisbistrobar.com Featuring a fresh modern style combining the flavors from America’s melting pot with traditional techniques with a classic dining experience.

275 NJ State Highway 10, East Hanover 973-884-8840 | www.EastHanoverDiner.com Soup, salad, pasta, omelets, burgers and more. Whatever the fare, they do it right. Bring the whole family to this delicious, neighborhood restaurant.

Strega Bistro 430 Springfield Ave Berkeley Heights 908-665-5905 | www.stregabh.com Modern Italian Farm to Table Bistro featuring seasonal organic menu with Mediterranean influenced-specials.

CHATHAM Mitsuba Japanese Cuisine 237 Main St, Chatham | 973-635-3888 www.MitsubaChatham.com Traditional Japanese specialties and cuisine served in a casual setting.

Restaurant Serenade 6 Roosevelt Avenue, Chatham, NJ 07928 973-701-0303 | www.restaurantserenade.com Artful dining, as conceived by award-winning Chef James Laird. A showcase of the finest handselected seasonal and regional ingredients in simple, refined presentations by Chef Laird.

Thavma Mediterranean Grill

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6230 Town Center Way, 2nd Fl., Livingston 973-992-8999 | www.ThavmaGrill.com Thavma offers the very best of the Mediterranean by combining Greek and Middle Eastern specialties to create an unforgettable dining experience. All preparations and cooking are done fresh daily on the premises to give you the freshest seafood and grilled meat dishes. Lunch and dinner are served daily with takeout and limited delivery service for dinner only. Call for details.

Mezza Mediterranean 277 Eisenhower Pkwy, Livingston NJ 07039 973-992-9300 | www.mezzalivingston.com MEZZA prepares authentic Mediterranean cuisine with a modern touch. As you walk into our new spacious and attractive dining space, the aroma of fresh spices with a hint of citrus greets you at the door. As you and your dining companions relax in the ambiance of main dining room or our intimate private dinner space, the sight of the artistic presentation of our appetizers, entrees, and desserts will entrance you. When our attentive wait staff serves your selection from our new menu, you’ll immerse your palate in the delicious tapestry of flavors of dishes prepared with only the freshest ingredients.

MILLBURN Ms. Lin Chinese Cuisine 59 Main St, Millburn | 973-912-8838 www.MsLinMillburn.com

Ms. Lin Chinese provides convenient take-out and delivery for lunch and dinner and specializes in off-premise catering.

Umi Sushi 339 Millburn Ave, Millburn | 973-921-2848 www.MillburnUmi.com Traditional and Fusion sushi and sashimi. Also find teriyaki, tempura, udon and soba noodle dinners. Most fish is wild-caught. Free delivery all day. MonThu 11:30am-10pm, Fri-Sat 11:30am-11pm, Sun 12:30pm-9:30pm.

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NEW PROVIDENCE

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Moe’s Bistro and Bar

12 Islands Greek Taverna

535 Central Ave, New Providence | 908-8404540 moesbistroandbar.com Located inside the Best Western Plus & Murray Hill Hotel and Suites, offer a full and varied menu with a Mediterranean flare. Full bar and live entertainment.

1255 Valley Rd, Stirling | 908-647-2193 www.12islandsgreektaverna.com Charming eatery crafting traditional Greek fare, including seafood & classic homestyle dishes. 12 Island has a full bar and themenu is assembled with a wide variety of recipes from the Dodecanese and other islands.

Fan Bistro 8 South St, New Providence | 908-898-1818 www.fanbistro.m988.com Warm, stone-&-wood-clad stop offering Chinese & Japanese fare such as sushi plus lunch specials.

SHORT HILLS Par 440 Restaurant & Lounge 440 Parsonage Hill Road, Short Hills | 973467-8882 A full service restaurant, bar & lounge located on the East Orange Golf Course in Short Hills.

SUMMIT Natale’s Summit Bakery 185 Broad St, Summit | 908-277-2074 | www.NatalesBakery.com Enjoy a selection of house made specialties including breads, pastries, pies and cakes. Daily specials. This family owned and operated bakery is serving up their delicious twist on bakery classics for over 80 years.

USDA aged prime beef sourced from the highest quality ranches in the mid-west.

WEST ORANGE Highlawn Pavilion Eagle Rock Reservation, West Orange | 973731-3463 www.highlawn.com Characterized by panoramic views of the New York City skyline, Highlawn Pavilion on Eagle Rock Reservation offers scenic dining at its finest. The exceptional French-infused American fare is equally matched by the restaurant’s world-class service. Highlawn is increasingly becoming the venue of choice for weddings, anniversaries, birthdays and other special occasions. Live music is offered every Friday and Saturday in the Piano Room.

Roots Steakhouse 401 Springfield Ave, Summit, NJ 07901 | 908-273-0027 www.rootssteakhouse.com/summit Roots Steakhouse is an old-fashioned New York style Steakhouse. Diners can expect delicious

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American B-B-Q Company Keeps It Simple—and Tasty By Janis Hashe

ince 1996, it has been a year-round party at American B-B-Q Company—for the people whose celebrations they make memorable. “It’s a common misapprehension that we’re not open in the winter, but we are a full-service catering company and we operate year-round,” says owner Kevin Smith. “Corned beef, cabbage, and potatoes is hugely popular for St. Patrick’s Day,” Smith says. Plus, American B-B-Q also get raves for their shepherd’s pie, fish & chips, and lots of fun appetizers and desserts. Booking in advance is highly recommended, when possible. The company’s “We Make it Simple” motto extends to spring bridal and baby showers, graduation parties, and then the whole summer season. “Whatever excuse our clients come up with to get together, we can put the right menu together,” says Smith.

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Our famous skyline view of Manhattan is only the beginning.

Restaurant Guide The Manor 111 Prospect Ave, West Orange | 973-731-2360 www.themanorrestaurant.com The Manor combines distinctive gourmet cuisine, superior service and a fabulous environment both inside and out to provide an exceptional experience for your special event or simply dinner with friends or family.

WARREN Bruno’s Bistro 116 Mountain Blvd Ext, Warren | 732-217-1777 www.brunosbistro.com Italian fine dining restaurant, a great place to celebrate a romantic evening or a special occasion with a small group of friends or family. It is upscale ambiance with small town charm.

Lukas’ Seafood & Grill 61 Mountain Blvd, Warren | 908-668-4888 www.lukasnj.com Seafood, steak and bar offering Mediterranean cooking and culture in an upscale casual environment.

Silk Road Restaurant

“Proof that a spectacular view and extraordinary food can coexist.” Best Romantic Restaurant (GOLD)

41 Mountain Blvd, Warren | 908-561-8288 | ww.silkroadrestaurant. org Silk Road, the second Afghan restaurant in the state of New Jersey, transports its customers to classical Afghanistan. As you walk through the doors, you are welcomed with the sights of an old world Afghanistan, the sounds of its traditional music and the smells of fresh bread and kabobs awaiting you.

Spice Isle 41 Mountain Blvd, Warren | 908-834-8864 www.spiceislenj.com/index.html Spice Isle introduces diners and re-connects Caribbean vacationers to tasty, flavorful Caribbean fusion cuisine. Open for lunch Tuesday through Friday and dinner Tuesday through Sunday; closed Mondays. Spice Isle offers a list of wines from Alba Vineyards in NJ.

Stone House at Stirling Ridge 50 Stirling Road, Warren | 908.754.1222 www.stonehouseatstirlingridge.com The Stone House at Stirling Ridge, nestled on 10 acres of meticulously lush gardens. The Stone House menu changes seasonally and offers specials with ingredients that are sustainable and fresh. An open kitchen for foodies to admire.

Uproot 9 Mt Bethel Rd, Warren | 908-834-8194 www.uprootrestaurant.com American eatery with creative tasting menus & à la carte fare (pizza, salad) in bright, modern digs.

WATCHUNG Water & Wine Ristorante

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141 Stirling Rd, Watchung | 908-755-9344 www.visitwaterandwine.com Large, upscale venue on Lake Watchung featuring an Italian & American menu & lake views. Merging contemporary American fare with Italian Influence. Water & Wine offers a full service bar and wine shop.

Owner Vincent Leone

Visit the Middle East WITHOUT LEAVING ESSEX COUNTY

or the past year, under the watchful eye of owner Vincent Leone, and with the influence and innovation of an Israeli consulting chef who has a Moroccan and Tunisian background, Mezza Livingston has offered a fusion of Old World tradition and New World Innovation to delight your palate. The contemporary offerings are takes on traditional dishes, and the choices don’t disappoint! Several dishes worth highlighting include: a Classic Hummus made with chickpeas, olive oil and fresh lemon juice served, of course with pita; Strawberry Mango Salad featuring mixed greens, fresh strawberry & mango, dried craisins, fried goat cheese, pecans and strawberry vinaigrette; the best falafel I’ve ever had here or in the Middle East that is served over tzatziki & tomato relish; Crab Cakes served with avocado, clementine, red onion & chipotle radish; and the highlight of my trip—the Israeli Fish Tacos. The tacos are made with marinated Branzino, Israeli salad, Jerusalem spiced yogurt and Dukkah served on toasted pita, spinning a Mexican classic into a Middle Eastern treat. Leone, who worked managing the Mezza location in Westwood, partnered with the owner to open this location after stints at–to name a few–South City Grill, Harvest Restaurant Group, and Bobby Vans Steakhouse NYC, and has now brought that experience to Mezza Livingston. His passion for food and customer service attracts over 1200 people a week, many of who have become regulars, coming in to experience this new local jewel. Leone offers a sincere smile when he says, “I want people to enjoy the beautiful, casual modern atmosphere, great service, and delicious food.” He adds: “We’re striving for perfection.”

Mezza Livingston 277 Eisenhower Parkway, Livingston | 973-992-9300 www.mezzalivingston.com

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Diamond Minds

DON’T LOOK DOWN By Barry Farber

ear will block more achievements, discoveries and personal growth than all the excuses we’ve ever heard or have given. Here’s someone who understands fear better than most of us and brings his insight from a unique perspective. Nik Wallenda, King of the Highwire, is a seventh-generation member of the world famous Flying Wallenda family. He currently holds 7 World Records for feats accomplished on the highwire and on “The Wheel of Death.” Barry Farber: What does the word fear mean to you? Nik Wallenda: What a lot of people call fear I call respect. What I mean by that is I don’t fear heights, I respect heights. I realize that there’s definitely a risk there, a danger there, but I also know with the right training, preparation, skills and ability that I can overcome the fear. BF: I’d like you to expand on that word, respect. What can anybody do in their daily lives to overcome more of their fears and grow in the process? NW: The most successful people in the world are the

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ones that take risks. They’re the most confident people as well because they’re willing to take those risks. It’s all about the mentality of how you go into a situation in your life. I look at the end goal and try not to focus on everything in between. I like to relate it to relationships in general. When you’re dating, and you break up with someone you’re in love with, you feel like the world is over. You feel like life is not worth living. And then six months from now or a year from now you find someone else. If you’re able to look six months or a year ahead you would’ve never had that mentality in the first place. It just has to do with everything that you deal with in life. Your attitude controls your thoughts, your emotions and the level of your success. BF: So respect means that you study your craft, you train and prepare so that you diminish the risk. That preparation in itself makes you more confident. NW: And that is a huge part of it. Preparation is the key leading up to the event. I prepare for anything that’s going to come my way. BF: What do you think about fear being good for you if you learn how to control it? Fear is like fire, it can heat your home, warm you, cook your food, but it can also burn up everything around you if let it get out of control.

all relates to respect. When a fighter goes into the ring he definitely is not afraid of the fighter but he respects him. Many people would look at that and say does he respect him? Or is he afraid of him? There is a very close connection between those two in my opinion. Fear and respect. BF: Fear is an acronym that stands for False Evidence Appearing Real. We increase the fear by thinking the event is going to be much worse than it really is. NW: It all relates back to being prepared. In my line of work, I started walking the high wire at age 2 years old. Most people look at that and say this guy must be out of his mind. He walks on a wire for a living! My grandfather said life is on the wire and everything else is just waiting. What is normal to me is not normal to others. It’s just like walking on the ground. Obviously, it becomes more complex when you add in weather conditions and heights. I’ve only walked on the ground a year longer than I’ve walked on the wire. BF: So respect for the event so you prepare and control the fear, look at the end goal and keep a positive attitude through the difficult times. Some great advice from the king of the high wire.

NW: That makes sense. That’s where it

Barry Farber is a radio and television host with expertise in sales and marketing topics, as well as a marketing consultant for corporations, professional athletes, and entertainers. He is the creator and marketer of the FoldzFlat® Pens that can be seen at www.makemypen.com. Learn more about this author at www.BarryFarber.com

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