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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Vol. 36, No. 2 EILEEN BRADSHAW President & CEO of LIFE Senior Services, LIFE PACE & Vintage Housing

Redecorating on a Budget

The Rise of HGTV

Give your home a new look without taking a deep dive into your bank account. Creative decorating tips can help you feather your nest for less.

If you find yourself compulsively watching HGTV, you’re not alone. Take a look at some of the network’s top home improvement and real estate shows.

KELLY KIRCHHOFF Senior Director of Communications

DEE DUREN Managing Editor dduren@LIFEseniorservices.org

BERNIE DORNBLASER Advertising Director bdornblaser@LIFEseniorservices.org

LEAH WEIGLE Graphic Designer

CAROL CARTER Copy Editor

MICHAEL SMITH Communications Assistant

DICK MCCANDLESS ESTEBAN VALENCIA Community Distribution

Expert Opinions: Decorating Tips From Local Designers

Aging in Place Checklist: Plan Now to Stay in the Home You Love

Take your home décor to the next level by learning from the experts. Local designers share hot trends in home decorating – and what mistakes to avoid.

On the Cover

A living space by Duvall Atelier interior design studio in midtown Tulsa, owned by architect John Duvall and interior designer Sherri Duvall. Photo by Focus B Studio

MICHAEL SMITH

Remembering a Life Well Lived In memory of Michael Smith, communications assistant at LIFE Senior Services, whose journalistic skills, work ethic and sense of humor will be sorely missed.

Making modifications to help people age in place safely is a fast-growing segment of the home remodeling industry. Prioritize with this room-by-room checklist. 6 Letter From Eileen 8 Looking Back 10 Caregiver Corner Working Successfully With Paid Caregivers in the Home 12 Medicare & You Medicare Special Enrollment Periods 27 LIFE's Virtual Programming 29 LIFE PACE 30 Mindbender & Puzzles 31 Puzzle Partners 32 Table for Two 34 In the Spotlight A World War II Veteran Keeps the Memory of V-J Day Alive 35 Bunkering With Books 36 Share Your Time & Talent 37 Make an Impact: Join LIFE's Give 5 Volunteer Program 38 Noteworthy 39 Business Directory 40 People & Places 41 Classifieds 43 Vintage Friends

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LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine is published monthly by LIFE Senior Services (a Tulsa Area United Way nonprofit) and helps fulfill LIFE Senior Services’ mission to promote and preserve independence for seniors. This publication is printed and mailed at no charge. Donations of any amount are appreciated and will help offset LIFE Senior Services’ production costs. A donation of $25 per year is suggested. To make a donation, visit www.LIFEseniorservices.org or call (918) 664-9000. LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine accepts advertising to defray the cost of production and distribution, and appreciates the support of its advertisers. The publisher does not specifically endorse advertisers or their products or services. LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine reserves the right to refuse advertising. Rates are available upon request by calling (918) 664-9000. © LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine and LIFE Senior Services, Inc., 2021. All rights reserved. Reproduction without consent of the publisher is prohibited. Volume 36, Issue 2, August 2021 LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine (ISSN 2168-8494) (USPS 18320) is published monthly by LIFE Senior Services, 5950 E. 31st St., Tulsa, OK 74135. Periodicals postage paid at Tulsa, OK. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine, 5950 E. 31st St., Tulsa, OK 74135-5114.

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LETTER FROM EILEEN Dear Vintage Reader: I like to change up my space pretty frequently. Neither my husband’s patience nor my budget can support a new house or a largescale remodeling project as often as I want a change, so I have become a fan of the simple refresh. This issue of LIFE's Vintage Newsmagazine focuses on that concept, bringing back excitement about your space without breaking the bank.

Eileen Bradshaw

President and CEO LIFE Senior Services, LIFE PACE, Vintage Housing eileen.bradshaw@LIFEseniorservices.org

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I am sentimental, so I keep pieces of furniture in my home which are old but would never be elevated to the status of heirloom. One of these is “Gramps’ chair.” Gramps was my husband’s great grandfather, and we have his favorite chair. It hails from the 1940s, has a deep seat, carved wooden legs and a matching ottoman. It had already been reupholstered at least once when it was gifted to us in 1986. At that time, it was covered in burnt orange tweed with yellow flecks. I saved up to have it recovered and chose a yellow floral chintz. In my defense, Mario Buatta, the “Prince of Chintz,” was all the rage in 1987. The chair moved from house to house with us, and then from room to room. The chintz faded – literally and figuratively – over the years. The chair is now covered in blue and grey swirls. I like the way it looks, and admire how it adapts to its changes of color and venue. Good bones. But the best part about the chair is the stories my husband tells. I find myself picturing Gramps in that chair, cleaning his pipe and watching Gunsmoke. I feel like I know him, though we never met. My house also contains some fabulous finds from Bargains, Assistance League Tulsa’s

upscale resale shop. I have purchased some beautiful original paintings there. I see them on my walls and smile for two reasons: I love the way they look, and I know that these purchases helped buy clothes for children in need – a doubly good experience. My three children have their own places now, and each of them contains great stuff from Bargains, ranging from furniture to rugs. Most recently, my youngest daughter found a fantastic set of mid-century china for her new apartment. It is stunning and makes her tiny kitchen seem so elegant! Estate sales are another great source of décor. Tulsa has such a rich history, and it is so fun to look for a treasure in a historic home. I will admit that my estate sale affinity did get awkward once. A guest in my home recognized a set of original drawings as having belonged to her aunt. She wanted to know how I came to have them, and finally, could she have them back? I said yes, albeit a bit grudgingly. I hope this issue gives you some inspiration on how to spruce up your space. I love the idea that fresh eyes might see newfound potential in things we already own. Maybe we should all find a friend to pair up with and assess each other’s nests. That sounds like an inexpensive and enjoyable exercise to me. Let me know if you try it and how it goes. My best,

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A MEETING OF HOPE WITH DR. JAMES WEBB Why did you choose Dr. Webb? I had back surgery in 2002 and was on pain meds and had lots of issues. I went to [a local orthopedic group] and as soon as they saw what I was going through, they sent me to Dr. Webb. They said “He can help you”.

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Looking Back

The Creekmore family poses in the kitchen of their home at 1727 S. Erie Ave. in 1957.

Tulsa architect Cecil Stanfield designed and built a round home for his family at 2831 S. Florence Pl. in the 1950s.

Welcome Home Tulsa Historical Society & Museum 2445 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa All photos courtesy of Tulsa Historical Society & Museum

A room inside the Skelly Mansion at 21st Street and Madison Avenue. The three-story home was built in 1923.

This 1970s bedroom was in a home located at 2807 S. 104th E. Ave.

This Month in History AUGUST 7, 1782: George

Washington Created the Purple Heart

General George Washington, commander of the Continental Army, created a “Badge for Military Merit” to be presented to soldiers for “any singularly meritorious action.” The decoration consisted of a purple, heart-shaped piece of silk edged with a narrow binding of silver. The Purple Heart was largely forgotten about until the bicentennial of Washington’s birth in 1932 when it was reinstated. It is the oldest American military decoration.

AUGUST 10, 1846: Smithsonian

Institution Created

James Smithson, a British scientist who authored numerous papers on geology and chemistry, left his fortune to the United States of America should his only nephew die without heirs. Though Smithson had never been to the U.S., he funded “an establishment for the increase and diffusion of knowledge.” When his nephew died without children, Congress accepted the bequest of well over $500,000. President James K. Polk signed an act establishing the Smithsonian.

AUGUST 14, 1945: V-J Day Celebrated

Ending six years of World War II, President Harry Truman announced on the radio at 6:58 p.m. that the Japanese had surrendered. Celebrations broke out in every city in the nation, including Tulsa. Japanese Emperor Hirohito accepted the terms of an unconditional surrender which was announced in Japan on August 15 due to time zone differences. Official surrender documents were signed on September 2 upon the USS Missouri battleship in Tokyo Bay.

AUGUST 21, 1959:

Hawaii Became 50th State

President Dwight D. Eisenhower signed a proclamation admitting Hawaii into the Union and issued an order for the American flag to feature 50 stars arranged in staggered rows. The U.S. had established a naval base at Pearl Harbor in 1908 after acquiring it in the Reciprocity Treaty of 1875. Hawaii became an important part of the American national identity during World War II following the surprise Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor in 1941.

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AUGUST 23, 1902: Fannie Farmer Opens Cooking School

Pioneering cookbook author Fannie Farmer, who changed the way Americans prepare food by advocating the use of standardized measurements in recipes, opened Miss Farmer’s School of Cookery in Boston. Farmer suffered a stroke as a teenager that left her unable to attend college, but she attended cooking school in her early 30s. She published her first cookbook in 1896. Farmer later educated medical professionals about the importance of nutrition.

AUGUST 26, 1939: First Major League Baseball Game Televised

The first Major League baseball game was broadcast in New York to showcase the new technology which was on display at the World's Fair. Announcer Red Barber called the game between the Cincinnati Reds and the Brooklyn Dodgers. There were only two camera angles: a stationary camera pointed down the third-base line to pick up throws to first and another high above home plate for a view of the field. © The History Channel

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CAREGIVER CORNER

4 Essential Job Skills Home healthcare workers are like anyone else, and they bring a mix of talents to the job. It’s up to you to determine whether they’re a good fit to meet your loved one’s needs. Here are some essential job skills to address:

Working Successfully With Paid Caregivers in the Home You are the caregiver who has finally realized that outside help is needed, and you’ve taken the plunge. Paid caregivers are now in place to help care for your loved one in their home or yours. You may expect to feel relieved but are surprised to find new sources of stress, even if the care recipient is delighted with their new caregiver. You may find that on top of your other responsibilities, you now feel you need a nurse’s aide skills with a smattering of R.N. and M.D. abilities; accounting skills with knowledge of employer responsibilities, and supervisory skills covering personal care, household care and the special needs of aging adults. You ask yourself, “Isn’t this why I hired help?” Hang in there! Home healthcare can be a big benefit to you and your loved one.

HAVE A PLAN

Sorting out “who wears which hats” may help things run smoothly as you access the world of home care services. As you manage that home care, it’s a good idea to have a plan of care in writing. Especially if more than one home health aide is visiting your home, have copies of a written schedule to present to each person. Consistent routines are important, and in the case of medically fragile adults, may be lifesaving. A written care plan is especially useful if there is a last-minute substitute in caregivers. Include the main duties of each work shift, including medications and meals. Be sure to highlight any safety concerns. The plan may even provide hints on what strategy works well in getting your loved one to cooperate. Remember, care plans need to have some flexibility and be reassessed as time goes on.

COMMUNICATE

A notebook in the care recipient’s home is a great tool to keep the lines of communication open. Caregivers can leave notes to each other and to the family about how well the plan of care is working. Some paid caregivers will bring new and useful ideas to you about how to care for your loved one. Some notes may reveal problems you’re not aware of or could help you decide the caregiver is not a good fit for your loved one. The notebook will also let you track your loved one’s behavior and get an idea of how they are functioning. Caregivers can track essential bodily functions and note any changes in behavior or health. The notes may provide clues as to a health concern you might otherwise overlook. Just remember, the communication notebook doesn’t replace the need to check in personally with the home care worker.

CHECKING IN

Hopefully, you’ve hired someone who stepped right in and took over care duties without a problem. You may find they are making your life easier by taking phone messages, cooking for your loved one or giving you tips on how to provide care. They may have a magic touch that gets your loved one to cooperate with taking a shower, for example, when you’ve often had difficulty getting them to comply. Even in the best-case scenario, it’s important to check-in and observe how the caregiver interacts with the care recipient. If your loved one still lives in their own home, drop by to visit periodically. Bring groceries over and put them away or take care of a needed home repair during the caregiver’s shift. You could even ask a friend or another relative to stop by to check on how things are going. Though checking in on the caregiver may make you feel like a job supervisor, a good plan of care needs assessment.

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1. MAKE A CONNECTION The home care worker should be able to make a connection with your loved one and provide companionship. If your loved one is no longer able to connect with others, does the worker demonstrate gentleness and respect in working with him or her? 2. IDENTIFY HEALTH AND SAFETY CONCERNS Tasks that involve the health or safety of your loved one should be demonstrated to the worker, be demonstrated back to you by them, and reviewed from time to time. Any medical treatment plans must be followed exactly, and if there are problems, the worker should be able to follow your instructions on what to do next. 3. F OLLOW EMERGENCY PROCEDURES It is essential to discuss emergency procedures with the home care worker. Make sure the health aide knows when and how to call 911, and be sure any contact information you give them is up to date. 4. H AVE A BACKUP CAREGIVER ON STANDBY If your loved one cannot be left alone, make sure from the start that you’re covered in case of worker absence. Will the agency or private contractor provide backup? Article printed courtesy of Family Caregiver Alliance, www.caregiver.org c 1996-2021.

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MEDICARE & YOU

Medicare Special Enrollment Periods

By Kathy Jones, Medicare and Tax Assistance Program Supervisor

You can make changes to your Medicare Advantage and Medicare prescription drug coverage when certain events happen in your life, like if you move or you lose other insurance coverage. These chances to make changes are called Special Enrollment Periods (SEPs). Rules about when you can make changes and the type of changes you can make are different for each SEP.

CHANGE OF ADDRESS

LOSS OF CURRENT COVERAGE

1. You move to a new address that isn’t in your plan’s service area.

1. You left coverage from an employer or union (including COBRA coverage).

HAT CAN I DO? – You can switch to a new Medicare Advantage Plan W or Medicare Prescription Drug Plan. W HEN CAN I DO IT? – If you tell your plan before you move, your chance to switch plans begins the month before the month you move and continues for two full months after you move. If you tell your plan after you move, your chance to switch plans begins the month you inform your plan, plus two more full months.

2. Y ou move to a new address that's still in your plan's service area, but you have new plan options in the new location. HAT CAN I DO? – Switch to a new Medicare Advantage Plan or W Medicare Prescription Drug Plan. W HEN CAN I DO IT? – If you tell your plan before you move, your chance to switch plans begins the month before the month you move and continues for two full months after you move. If you tell your plan after you move, your chance to switch plans begins the month you tell your plan, plus two more full months.

3. You just moved into, currently live in or just moved out of a senior community like a skilled nursing facility or long-term care hospital. HAT CAN I DO? – Join a Medicare Advantage Plan or Medicare W Prescription Drug Plan. Switch from your current plan to another Medicare Advantage Plan or Medicare Prescription Drug Plan. Drop your Medicare Advantage Plan and return to Original Medicare. Drop your Medicare prescription drug coverage. HEN CAN I DO IT? Your chance to join, switch or drop coverage W lasts as long as you live in the institution and for two full months after the month you leave the institution.

HAT CAN I DO? – Join a Medicare Advantage Plan or Medicare W Prescription Drug Plan. HEN CAN I DO IT? – Your chance to join lasts for two full months after W the month your previous coverage ends.

2. Y ou involuntarily lose other drug coverage that's not as good as Medicare drug coverage (creditable coverage), or your other coverage changes and is no longer credible. HAT CAN I DO? – Join a Medicare Advantage Plan with drug coverage W or a Medicare Prescription Drug Plan. HEN CAN I DO IT? – Your chance to join lasts for two full months after W the month your previous coverage ends.

OTHER SPECIAL SITUATIONS 1. You qualify for Extra Help paying for Medicare prescription drug coverage. HAT CAN I DO? – Join, switch or drop Medicare prescription W drug coverage. WHEN CAN I DO IT? – Most people with Medicare can only make changes to their drug coverage at certain times of the year. If you have Medicaid or receive Extra Help, you may be able to make changes to your coverage one time during each of these periods: • January – March • April – June • July – September If you make a change, it will go into effect the first day of the following month. You’ll have to wait for the next period to make another change. You can’t use the Special Enrollment Period, which is October through December. However, all people with Medicare can make changes to their coverage from October 15 to December 7. These changes will go into effect on January 1. Source: www.medicare.gov

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Redecorating on a BUDGET BY JULIE WENGER WATSON

After months of hibernating in our homes during the pandemic, the world seems to be re-opening. In addition to packing away your shelter-in-place wardrobe of baggy sweatpants and stretchy leggings, consider a little redecorating as a way to mark a new beginning and a gradual transition to normalcy. With some creativity and a sense of adventure, it’s possible to give your home a fresh look without breaking your budget.

Repurpose Objects as Decor "I have sentimental attachments to a lot of objects, so I used things that were already in my family or were my own." – Lori Lassman

LORI LASSMAN REALTOR

Hang Your History All types of family heirlooms make beautiful art for your walls. Here a few ideas for inspiration.

Tulsan Lori Lassman is a self-described “repurposer.” She worked for several years as an interior designer before becoming a residential realtor. Recently, she put both skills to work when she purchased a home she plans to operate as a short-term rental. The property was built in 1958, and Lassman chose to decorate it with a

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vintage motif. Using pieces like nightstands that belonged to her grandmother and a Donald Duck lamp from her own childhood, she was able to add decor she loved while saving money in the process. “I have sentimental attachments to a lot of objects, so I used things that were already in my

HANG CHINA PLATES Spring-style hangers or adhesive discs from a home improvement store provide a quick and easy way to turn family china into gorgeous complements to your paintings.

family or were my own,” she said. The imagination is the limit when it comes to repurposing, whether the new use is functional or decorative. For example, chairs can serve as end tables or nightstands, and bookshelves can hold more than reading material.

FRAME ARTWORK Framing art made by a child or grandchild results in both a decoration and a keepsake. For more ideas on how to display children's art, visit www.kylieminteriors.com.

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The Best Places to Buy Affordable Home Décor Online When you're ready to shop for home décor, you’ll find an active community of buyers and sellers online. Check out these resources for furniture and decorations that you can purchase for a bargain.

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1. Facebook Marketplace www.facebook.com/marketplace While you're logged in to see what's up with friends and family, check out Facebook Marketplace. Shop by category, distance or just type what you need into the search bar. Use caution to meet sellers in a public place where you can check the quality of items in person. 2. Facebook Marketplace Live Shopping www.facebook.com/marketplace/live-shopping A growing number of businesses and individuals use Facebook Marketplace Live Shopping to host their own versions of the shopping network. Check your favorite shop's business page to see if they host live sales to move merchandise at a discount. 3. Etsy www.etsy.com Beware of checking out Etsy if you enjoy unique, handcrafted décor. You might find yourself on the site for longer than you intended! Artists and artisans offer handmade and custom designs for every room in the home. 4. OfferUp www.offerup.com OfferUp is described as a C2C or customer-to-customer marketplace to connect with people in your area who have merchandise to sell. The online market distinguishes itself from old standby Craigslist by having user profiles where happy (or disgruntled) customers can post reviews. Buyers generally meet the seller in person to make exchanges.

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5. eBay www.ebay.com eBay remains a go-to website for buying and selling anything under the sun from anywhere around the world. For larger items, you can search by location. eBay has extra protections for buyers and sellers should the deal go south, but those protections may make the cost a little higher for both parties. 6. Nextdoor www.nextdoor.com The Nextdoor app may have started as a way to connect with neighbors and community happenings, but it has an active “for sale” section as well. Users are connected with people very close by who are cleaning out their closets and attics. If the owner doesn’t want to take the time to sell their unwanted objects, they may post a “curb alert” for freebies. 7. Everything but the House www.ebth.com Everything but the House describes itself as the app that brought estate sales online. Estate agents or heirs – and even celebrities like Susan Lucci – use EBTH to connect to a larger customer base for uncommon items. Connect to estate sale finds without the crowds and lines. The business is so popular it was featured in an HGTV series. www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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"Shop" Your Home

Color

Beyond repainting your walls, Lassman believes color is a welcome addition to any decorator’s toolbox. “When you’re talking about redecorating a space, you can do so much with color,” she said. “Colorful accent pieces, pillows or accessories can give your room a whole new look without even changing the furniture!” Similarly, Lassman recommends using lightcolored pillows, white ceramics and white or bright colors if a space feels dark. It’s simpler and less permanent than painting walls.

Sometimes that exact piece you need is right in front of you. Using what you already own is a cost-free way to redecorate. Rearranging your furniture is an obvious option. Simply moving a few pieces around or relocating them from other areas of your home can quickly elevate the look of a room. Taking photos of your space on your phone can help you look at the space in a new light and picture a different layout. Lassman also suggests asking a friend to help by bringing a new perspective to the project. “We walk right by our own belongings all the time. They become just a part of the background after a while,” she explained. “Somebody with a fresh set of eyes might come in and see something that’s really cool, or find a new spot for it.”

Other Suggestions ARTWORK – Local artists can be an excellent source of affordable, original art. Check out festivals, galleries and college art shows.

Floor Coverings

According to Lassman, floor coverings are a great way to change up a room. Although Lassman isn’t averse to thrifting and shopping consignment for many home buys, she prefers to purchase her rugs new. “You don’t know whether the previous owner took good care of it or if they had pets,” she said. She recommends places like www.Overstock.com, Tuesday Morning and www.Wayfair.com as affordable resources.

Shopping for “Pre-loved”

Lassman is also a fan of shopping for previously owned furniture and other home décor items. She’s found some real gems at thrift stores like Goodwill, local consignment stores and Habitat for Humanity’s ReStore. If you’re considering shopping pre-owned, Lassman offers some good advice. “When you shop like this, it’s good to know how to look for quality,” she said.

CLEAR THE CLUTTER – Even if you can’t afford to buy new things, getting rid of dated, worn or damaged items in your home can give it a cleaner, fresher feel. Don’t be afraid to leave empty space. Simply clearing up clutter can make a big difference. ADD LIVE PLANTS – Bring the outdoors in with potted plants and fresh flowers. Not only do they add color and beauty, but they also have a calming effect. Stools or small circular and square tables from the thrift store can make interesting plant stands. Use spray paint to add coordinating color to a plastic or terra cotta pot. Look for low-maintenance, hardy plant varieties that require minimal care. UPDATE YOUR LAMPSHADES – Pick out a new lampshade to update an old piece, or replace a lamp with a plug-in wall sconce for a different look. Candles in stylish holders add mood and atmosphere. Give even simple, everyday items a luxurious feel by using nice containers. Put your favorite liquid dish or hand soap in a glass dispenser for an economical and environmentally friendly update.

She recommends looking for labels and paying attention to materials and where things were manufactured. “I turn everything upside down,” she laughed. Stores like Tulsa’s Round the House Consignment, Assistance League Tulsa and even Facebook Marketplace are good spots to look for well-made, used wooden furniture, which she believes is better quality than many new pieces. She also suggests shopping estate sales for fun, vintage finds at a bargain price. Garage sales are another avenue, although Lassman describes them as “hit or miss.”

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HGTV is a network known for reality TV shows related to home improvement and real estate. Launched in 1994 as Home and Garden TV, HGTV has since become the No. 4 ranked cable network in audience size.

BY STEVE CLEM

Hit shows like "Property Brothers," "Fixer Upper" and "Love It or List It" have made HGTV synonymous with spectacular home transformations and superstar renovation experts. HGTV’s magic is in its ability to not just entertain, but to inspire. Its programs offer knowledge and ideas for DIY projects, punctuated by feel-good reveals!

The network was purchased by Discovery, Inc. in 2018. Here are some of HGTV’s most popular shows with their debut year.

HOUSE HUNTERS (1999) PREMISE – An individual, couple or family

is searching for a new home. Working from the clients’ wish list, an agent shows three properties in or near their price range. At the end of this 30-minute show, the prospective owner decides which property to purchase. Drama often comes from the couple’s opposing views of what constitutes their dream home. Part of the fun for the audience is guessing which house will be chosen. One reviewer called the show "an on-screen utopia" for presenting people from all backgrounds achieving the shared goal of purchasing a home. “House Hunters” has filmed several episodes over the years in Oklahoma City and the Tulsa area.

PROPERTY BROTHERS (2011)

LOVE IT OR LIST IT (2008)

HOSTS – At first, twin brothers Drew and

HOSTS – Hilary Farr, a designer from

Jonathan Scott’s careers in real estate and construction supported their entertainment ambitions – Drew as an actor and Jonathan as an illusionist. However, that changed after “Property Brothers” debuted in Canada in 2011, and later on HGTV in the U.S. The brothers became reality TV superstars. PREMISE – On “Property Brothers Forever Home,” the brothers work with families to transform their current space or a fixer-upper.

The brothers learn their clients’ personal tastes and present two renovation options. After a ceremonial “beginning of demolition” where family members swing sledgehammers, the show focuses on construction, design choices and overcoming unforeseen obstacles. The family returns to see their beautifully appointed living space, amidst “Oh, my goshes,” and huge smiles!

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Toronto, and David Visentin, a real estate agent in Southern Ontario. PREMISE – Episodes involve homeowners

who have a major issue with their house. Typically, one-half of a couple thinks the problem can be solved through a renovation, while the other believes they would be happier finding another property. As designer Farr comes up with a remodeling plan to convince the homeowners to stay, Visentin gets busy showing the couple other houses to buy. At the end of each episode, the beautiful renovation is revealed and the couple decides whether to “love it” (stay), or “list it” (move to a property Visentin has found). Guessing the outcome is an addictive viewing pleasure!

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FIXER UPPER (2013 – 2018) PREMISE – During the show’s five-year run, Chip and Joanna Gaines, owners of a home renovation business in Waco, Texas, helped families in central Texas find fixer-uppers and transform them into forever homes. In each episode, a client is presented with three potential properties and must choose one. The show then focuses on the renovation process, culminating in the end-of-episode reveal. Joanna’s keen eye for design, Chip’s construction acumen and goofy antics, combined with the married couple’s overall likeability made them America’s home-renovation sweethearts.

The Gaines' upcoming Magnolia network and new series, “Fixer Upper: Welcome Home” are part of the discovery+ streaming service.

UNSELLABLE HOUSES (2019) HOSTS – Real estate consultants and twin sisters Leslie Davis and

Lyndsay Lamb work with homeowners in the Pacific Northwest who are having trouble selling their houses. PREMISE – Davis and Lamb identify problem areas and devise a plan.

Using their own money, which they will get back when the house sells, the sisters install the upgrades. The eye-popping home is revealed to the seller, then relisted at a higher price. The show ends with the seller choosing between multiple offers – often above the asking price – along with a breakdown of the profits, which are split between the sisters and the seller. Since the show is about making dated houses look new, there are lots of home-refreshing tips for viewers.

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DECORATING TIPS FROM LOCAL DESIGNERS

BY KAREN SZABO

After spending a year inside our homes, many of us may be ready for a change in décor – and it’s likely we appreciate our humble abodes more than ever. We reached out to a few local designers for their tips on what’s hot, what to avoid and how you can take your décor to the next level.

SHERRI DUVALL / Duvall Atelier Duvall Atelier is an architecture, interior design studio and showroom founded in 2001. Located in midtown Tulsa, they integrate architecture and interior design to best serve their clients, no matter the scale or scope of each project. The Duvall Atelier showroom features a highly curated selection of their favorite finds and distinct treasures.

ow long have you been a designer and H what drew you to the profession?

"Always be true to your heart and what you love – not necessarily the latest trend. " – SHERRI DUVALL

I got my degree in architecture in 1992 and through my love of all things design – materials, finishes, color, texture, fabrics, furniture – you name it, I naturally drifted toward doing more of the interior design work on our projects, too, and truly love doing them both. I really don’t see a distinction between them; they both are so integrated in my practice. I was drawn to the profession because I have always had a huge imagination, and I like to create spaces and study how they affect people who use them, even if it is unconsciously. I was the kid who always rearranged their room when they were bored! What is the most challenging thing about your job? The most challenging thing is the volume of work you have to do at any given time on multiple projects that are in different phases of work. It tends to be 24/7. When you are in a creative field, you can’t turn it off sometimes – lots of balls in the air and decisions to make! Also in construction, time is money – so there’s the pressure to get answers to them very quickly. What styles or colors are hot right now? There is an undercurrent of more color and an eclectic blending of styles out there that really excites me. I will always love a classic neutral palette, but only because it allows the colors/textures you choose to be the star of the show. Minimalism is slowly on the way out right now – “maximalism” is coming back. Should be a fun change! What are common décor errors people should avoid? Doing too many things in the same space. There are so many amazing inspirations out there, and you just cannot do everything in one space! I f you could give people one or two lines of advice, what would they be? Always be true to your heart and what you love – not necessarily the latest trend. And just have fun with it!

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AMBER WELCH / Amber Marie & Co. Amber Marie & Co. is a Tulsa-based, award-winning boutique, offering interior design services, clothing, jewelry, gifts and home décor. ow long have you been a designer and what drew H you to the profession? I have always been interested in architecture and design! As a young girl, I would draw house plans on graph paper and arrange all of the furniture in the plan as well. After graduating college in 2004, my mom and I launched Amber Marie & Co. It all started with a $500 garage sale! In 2006, mom and I made our first international trip to begin our import business of home décor. What is the most challenging thing about your job? The most challenging part of my job is having enough hours in the day! It's hard to say no; it’s hard to know when to stop – and it’s hard to just sit back and not keep exploring new ideas to make sure that what I have created is the absolute best!

"Home is still where the heart is. Make those home memories that will last a lifetime and outlive you in the stories your children pass along. " – AMBER WELCH

What styles or colors are hot right now? Neutral palettes with pops of color are still what most clients are asking for; however, wallpaper prints and warmer colors are starting to find their way back into the hearts of our clients. What are common décor errors people should avoid? Not utilizing a designer to help make a cohesive flow in your space. Even as a designer, when it comes to my own space, I ask for assistance from another professional. I f you could give people one or two lines of advice, what would they be? Find joy in your home again! COVID-19 taught us a lot – I mean, it challenged us in a lot of ways, but it also brought a huge realization to all of us. Home is still where the heart is. Make those home memories that will last a lifetime and outlive you in the stories your children pass along.

TERRI KERSCHEN / TLK Interiors Located in Owasso, TLK Interiors is a small, local business with a strong family influence. Terri specializes in recreating her clients’ space – whether it is a one-day makeover or a full-blown redesign. As an environmental engineer, she brings a broad knowledge base for both interior decorating and construction means and methods. ow long have you been a designer and what drew you to H the profession? I have always loved decorating, but didn’t have an opportunity to make it a full-time business until 2010 when I retired from the oil industry. I grew up in a construction family and have always been fascinated with design and decorating. What is the most challenging thing about your job? We are a decorating, design and renovation company. The hardest thing is finding quality craftsmen. What styles or colors are hot right now?

"Follow your passion. Follow your heart. Don’t worry about what other people think! " – TERRI KERSCHEN

Modern farmhouse has been trending for a while now and is still popular. For finishes, the “new” gold or brass is growing in interest. Neutral tones in paint colors work very well with the modern farmhouse feel. What are common décor errors people should avoid? Buying materials and finishes “on a whim” is always a mistake. If a client takes the time to have a complete design plan created before a project is started, they will save money and aggravation. I f you could give people one or two lines of advice, what would they be? Follow your passion. Follow your heart. Don’t worry about what other people think!

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Here are room-by-room checklists to reduce barriers to safety and mobility. Use them to consider what to prioritize based on the individual needs of the occupant.

AGING IN PLACE CHECKLIST Plan Now to Stay in the Home You Love BY KAREN J. O’BRIEN

Cork Flooring

Low-Entry

Tub

BATHROOM Taller Toilet – An ADA-compliant toilet seat height for A comfort is from 17 to 19 inches from the floor to the top of the toilet seat. rab Bars – Depending on the configuration of your G bathroom, grab bars should be accessible at the toilet and both inside and outside the shower/tub area for ease of entry and exit.

Making modifications to help people age in place is the fastest-growing segment of the residential remodeling industry, according to the National Association of Home Builders (NAHB). Like it or not, there comes a time when things just start getting harder to do, like doing chores or even moving from room to room. But some things can make it easier for us to stay in the home we love. The NHBA trains remodelers as Certified Aging in Place Specialists (CAPS) for their ability to design livable homes for aging in place safely. A local CAPS remodeler is Mike Headrick with Allied Plumbing. His advice: “Renovate now to extend the time you can stay in your home by another five years and save as much as $300,000 compared to a move to assisted living.”

athtub Entry – A low-entry tub or shower configuration is B helpful to avoid the need to climb over the 18-inch edge of a standard bathtub. Including a bench seat and easy-to-use fixtures is advised. The showerhead should be adjustable and should have anti-scald or pressure balancing valves to avoid burns from hot water. athroom Doors – Widening the doorway into the bathroom B accommodates walkers or wheelchairs. The standard bathroom doorway is 24 inches; accessibility guidelines say the doorways need to be at least 32 inches wide.

Unfortunately, many people wait until after a situation occurs before considering changes. Headrick says most of the calls Allied receives are from seniors who have fallen or adult children concerned for a parent with mobility issues. A whole house remodel isn’t the only solution. Modifying one area at a time is an option to consider and may be more affordable. Pick a place where you regularly face challenges, like getting in and out of a bathtub or shower or simply opening doors or drawers. Start there.

Under Cabinet Lighting

Wide Pulls

KITCHEN ardware – Start with a simple change of cabinet hardware H and plumbing fixtures. Consider the difficulty of use with arthritic hands or weaker muscles when choosing the design. ighting – Adequate lighting placed under cabinets and L in work areas with on-off toggle switches is another easy adaption.

“Renovate now to extend the time you can stay in your home by another five years and save as much as $300,000 compared to a move to assisted living.” – Mike Headrick, Allied Plumbing 24

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loor Coverings – Falls on wet floors can have serious F consequences. Cork floor coverings may help to prevent slipping and offer comfort while standing. Or you can apply a slip prevention texture to existing stone or tile. Hardwood is much easier to roll a wheelchair over than tile. ink, Countertop Height – The sink and countertops should S be no taller than 30 inches for general accommodation. Consider installing a contrasting band on countertop edges for those with limited vision.

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The 2021-22 LIFE’s Vintage Guide is a full-color publication that features nearly 300 housing options categorized by level-of-care; more than 180 healthcare, hospice and specialty services, and more than 500 community-based services. The publication also includes 27 articles addressing some of the most frequently asked questions about aging issues, as well as checklists for comparing different housing, healthcare and hospice options. Pick up your FREE copy at any LIFE Senior Services location listed below, or at CVS Pharmacies and Reasor's. Copies of LIFE’s Vintage Guide are also available at all 24 Tulsa City-County libraries, the Will Rogers (Claremore), Catoosa and Coweta public libraries. LIFE Senior Services is always here to help when you have questions about senior issues or are looking for solutions to aging challenges. For more information, call LIFE’s SeniorLine at (918) 664-9000.

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TIPS FOR HIRING A HOME CONTRACTOR For certain improvements, you may need to hire a skilled contractor. Review the six tips below for selecting a contractor for your home projects

Start now to consider adaptions that will make your home safer and easier to live in as time passes. A good resource for more ideas is www.aginginplace.org/home-modifications. This site goes space-by-space in the home with potential hazards and suggestions to prevent them.

LAUNDRY AREA ighting – Good lighting in the laundry area is a simple solution to make the L space more pleasant (and possibly safer) to work in. looring – It can be similar to that in the bathroom or kitchen, easy to F clean, nonslip and comfortable to walk on. ountertops – The height should be around 30 inches and set to avoid C bumping into, with edges easy to see for those with reduced vision capabilities. Doors and drawers should have modified hardware for ease of use.

BEDROOM ed and Bedding – The bed is the main component of a bedroom, with many B options for easy access and comfort. Don’t overlook the way the bedding fits the needs of the person. Sheets and blankets that are too long or wide may make it easier to get tangled and fall when trying to get out of bed. Consider aids such as railings to prevent someone from rolling off. athways – Placement of the bed and other furniture should leave a path to a P bathroom or doorway and should be hazard-free. Don’t use throw rugs as they can contribute to falls. edroom Furniture – Furniture should be sturdy enough to help someone with B balance issues.

WHOLE HOME RECAP ome Right In – Doorways, hallways and entrances should be wide enough for C equipment and people to move through easily. Entryway modifications with ramps and/or nonskid flooring may be expensive but necessary. ight It Up – Keep lighting bright enough for visually impaired persons to be L comfortable both inside and outside the premises. ake It Easy – Buy easy-to-use switches, door and window hardware for persons M with arthritis or poor muscle strength. Help With Stairs – Handrails at stairs or steps will help prevent falls.

1. Make a list of what you need done.

Write down exactly what you want the contractor to do.

2. Seek recommendations from family and friends.

Beware the stranger who shows up at your home unannounced and says something like, "I'm on a job in the area already so I can give you a good price." This is rarely a smart choice and could be a scam. (Visit www.aarp.org/fraudwatch for more about protecting yourself from scammers.)

3. Check the recommendations.

The Better Business Bureau (visit www.bbb.org) can tell you if complaints have been filed against a contractor or company. Also, although having a state license doesn't guarantee reliability, it's a minimum qualification a contractor should have.

4. Ask for estimates.

Meet with at least three contractors. Estimates should detail the materials to be used, the labor charges, the start and end dates and the total cost. Ask for proof that the contractor is licensed, bonded and covered by workers' compensation and liability insurance. Check references from past clients.

5. Get everything in writing.

Don't approve any plans you don't understand. Never sign a contract with any blanks, and do keep a copy of everything you sign. Take your time to make a decision and, remember, genuinely good deals will still be there tomorrow.

6. Don't pay the final bill until all the work is complete.

Be sure all the required building authorities have inspected the work, and get a written statement that the contractor has paid all of the subcontractors and suppliers. Adapted from AARP's HomeFit Guide

eep It Clean – Clutter-free floors, walkways and living areas are essential for K maneuvering in the home safely.

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“Keeping V-J Day Alive” Tuesday, August 10 • 10 a.m. Meet World War II veteran Frank Riesinger as he shares his vivid memories of V-J Day when Japan surrendered. Riesinger, who was home on furlough when news of the victory reached the United States, remembers how downtown Tulsa spontaneously celebrated the news. Hear about plans to celebrate the anniversary this month at the Broken Arrow Performing Arts Center on August 14 (see pages 13 and 34 for more on the celebration).

In a world where healthcare has become increasingly complicated, the LIFE PACE program is unique in its simplicity and common-sense approach. LIFE PACE brings together a coordinated team of medical and social service providers who make it possible for older adults to live at home and age in place.

LIFE’s Senior Centers Writers’ Symposium Judy Allen, “Cooking and the Changed World” Thursday, August 12 • 10 a.m. Judy Allen, a food writer at Tulsa World and former senior food editor for Martha Stewart Living, shares her experiences in LIFE’s Writers’ Symposium, made possible by a grant from the Oklahoma Arts Council. Attend in person at Legacy Plaza East, 5330 East 31st St., or stream it from LIFE’s Facebook page. To reserve your spot for attending in person, call LIFE’s Senior Center at (918) 744-6760 or go online to www.LIFEseniorservices.org. “Estate Planning 101” Tuesday, August 17 • 10 a.m. Join Tulsa attorney Brian Crain as he explains the basics of estate planning – what an estate plan is, who needs one and what all it should include. “Give 5 – A Volunteer Matchmaking Program” Tuesday, August 24 • 10 a.m. Heidi Braver, volunteer manager at LIFE Senior Services, will talk about the former RSVP (the Retired Senior Volunteer Program) organization coming under the LIFE Senior Services umbrella and introduce viewers to Give 5, a civic matchmaking opportunity for seniors.

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HOW TO GET STARTED

Begin by doing a walk-through of your home, exploring every nook and cranny for forgotten items. Make notes of anything that you would like to have repaired. Next, take photos of everything. It’s easier and faster to see what will work by holding up a picture, rather than having to drag furniture all over the house. Finally, it’s OK to remove, not just add items. Expert organizer Marie Kondo in her book “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up,” recommends going through your home item by item and asking, “Does this spark joy?” If not, it’s time to say goodbye to the old painting or pair of candlesticks.

TIPS FROM A LOCAL

When Tulsans Angie and Chad Classen moved back to Tulsa after living in Edmond and renting their house out for a few years, they decided it was time to make some updates.

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It doesn’t take an entire crew from HGTV to make your home feel new and refreshed. By following some practical tips, you can update the look of your home and maybe even use some items you already own in new ways.

Here are a few suggestions on how to inexpensively update your home:

1. CREATE OPEN SPACE IN YOUR HOME

Open floor plans are very popular, but if you have an older home, there may be walls preventing you from your dream of wide-open spaces. You can make your living spaces seem more open by getting rid of big, bulky furniture, or moving furnishings around to create a more open look.

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QUICK TIP: By painting a wooden armoire or cabinet a warm off-white color, you can create the illusion that it has “disappeared” into the room. Mirrors are also great for tricking the eye to think the space is more open.

“When we came back after renting it out for several years, we decided we wanted to make it homey,” Angie said. They loved their house, but they wanted it to feel more modern. Some of the changes they made included painting the fireplace from grey to white and adding a new mantle, updating lighting to brighten the home, adding inviting landscaping and painting kitchen cabinets. Angie loves making regular, subtle changes to spruce up the home. As a plant aficionado, she believes that plants have a way of adding life to a space. “Just get a few hanging plants or corner plants,” she recommended. “That makes a huge difference.”

2. ADD NEW LIGHTING

Lighting is an inexpensive way to update your home. Plus, a well-lit home can help prevent potential accidents. Well-lit areas also look more open, airy and welcoming.

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As far as artwork goes, Angie has made some inexpensive additions. She found an artistic book of plant and animal life at a used bookstore for $3. “I sliced out the pictures I wanted and framed them and put them in a couple of places.” When her picture frames need a color update, she uses spray paint to update them to the color that is the latest style. She also fills baskets with plants and blankets to decorate living spaces.

QUICK TIP: Place tall floor lamps in corners and layer them with table lamps. If you’re feeling adventurous, you could replace outdated ceiling fans with more modern light fixtures. Consider hiring an electrician if you choose to go this route.

3. UPDATE HARDWARE

Perhaps you’re not ready to do an entire kitchen makeover with new cabinets, but you can make subtle changes by updating drawer pulls and door handles. Nothing dates your kitchen and bathrooms more than old-fashioned handle pulls and knobs. QUICK TIP: A trip to a home improvement store and less than $100 in hardware can result in a fresh look in your bathroom and kitchen.

4. CLEAN AND PAINT

Sometimes a deep clean can be the change you’ll find fulfilling. Once you (or a cleaning service) have given the house a good scrubbing, evaluate your walls. Are there any walls or areas that you could accent with a pop of color? QUICK TIP: Wallpaper could also do the trick! The latest wallpapers are removable and make your room look like you’ve hired an interior designer. There are dozens of wallpaper stores online where you can shop for a design you love.

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5. UPDATE FURNITURE WITH PAINT AND FABRIC

That old couch could be revived with a couch cover. Perhaps your old dresser just needs a new coat of paint. Or perhaps you just need to strip off the old, chipping paint and add a fresh coat of wax.

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QUICK TIP: Furniture can live many lives; it’s up to you to decide how many! Visit www.ourhomemadeeasy.com for more ideas on updating your furniture.

6. INSTALL MOLDING

Moldings or trim are a great way to make your home look polished and more expensive. While white looks best for a clean and polished look, you can also add a pop of color to a room by painting your molding. QUICK TIP: Installing crown molding may require the assistance and tools of a professional carpenter. If you're curious how it's done, or want to give it a try, view a tutorial at www.familyhandyman.com.

7. CHANGE OUT YOUR WINDOW TREATMENTS

Curtains can make a huge difference in any room and are probably one of the easiest and fastest ways to freshen things up. There is no installation, no fuss and it isn't time consuming.

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QUICK TIP: It is easy to make drop cloth curtains, and they make a great option if you’re on a budget. If you’re looking to get that soft, farmhouse style, use a neutral color.

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You can spruce up a room with little touches such as baskets, plants, throw pillows and blankets. A well-positioned rug can provide a completely different look to a living space. QUICK TIP: If a rug is too small for the space, consider using a larger rug underneath and centering the small one on top. Be sure the edges are taped down for safety.

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LIFE PACE Prioritizes Safe, Independent Living BY ADRIAN ROLLE, INTAKE MANAGER

Many seniors prefer the safety, comfort and familiarity of their own

home. They want to remain as independent as possible, living in their own place rather than a nursing home. But sometimes changes in health conditions or physical abilities can make living independently difficult, or even dangerous. LIFE PACE – a Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly – is a comprehensive, coordinated senior healthcare program that uses a team approach to provide services. It includes medical, skilled therapies, behavioral health, dietary, nursing, transportation, caregiver training, social, recreation, hospitalizations, basic health supplies and durable medical equipment. LIFE PACE assists with personal health care and daily activities, providing support and services to help participants maintain as much independence as possible. LIFE PACE prioritizes the safety of their participants above all else. During the intake process, the interdisciplinary team (IDT) evaluates whether a potential participant can be cared for safely at home and what services may be needed to make that happen. They assess any noticeable safety risks including tripping hazards like loose rugs, electrical cords or clutter. They will suggest improvements considered medically necessary like grab bars or wheelchair ramps. The personal care assistance that LIFE PACE can provide is ideal for seniors who require more support. Senior care is not "one size fits all." The IDT works with you and your family to outline the services you will receive. The plan of care serves as a road map developed by the participant and the team to define how and when services will be provided and what goals the participant would like to achieve.

PACE If you or someone you care about could benefit from LIFE PACE, contact a LIFE PACE specialist at (918) 938-7653 or (918) 938-7660 (en Español).

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PUZZLE PARTNERS

MUMBO JUMBO A mumbo jumbo is a list of words/hints for you to unscramble. You then take designated letters from each word/hint to come up with the final word that is associated with each hint you have unscrambled. Unscramble each of the clue words. Take the letters that appear boxes and unscramble them for the final word. in Answers on page 43. PUZZLE THEME: The art of restyling a room or home.

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TABLE FOR TWO

TEA forTWO BY DEE DUREN, MANAGING EDITOR The British custom of taking high tea is well-known, but did you realize the country celebrates Afternoon Tea Week? The tradition of afternoon tea, finger sandwiches and petite desserts will be celebrated this year during the second week of August. If you don't have plans to fly across the pond anytime soon, consider hosting a tea party here at home. The seventh Duchess of Bedford, Anna Maria Russell, is credited with introducing the custom of afternoon tea in the 1840s, according to the British Museum. With the rise of industrialism and the use of gas lights, the English upper class began postponing the evening meal until 8 or 9 p.m. The duchess complained of a "sinking feeling" in the late afternoon and requested a tray of tea, bread, butter and cake. As she was one of Queen Victoria's ladies-in-waiting, the habit soon became an afternoon ritual across Britain. Afternoon tea is also a custom at Harwelden Mansion, a Tulsa boutique hotel and event space. The Harwelden began as the home of oilman Earl Harwell and family, an English Tudor-Collegiate Gothic construction built in 1923. Located south of downtown near the Arkansas River, the mansion was added to the National Register of Historic Places in 1978. The Harwelden serves finger sandwiches, scones and sweets on tiered serving plates once a month. In addition to the food, guests receive a lesson in tea etiquette and can choose a proper tea hat to wear for the occasion.

CUCUMBER DILL SANDWICHES

Recipe courtesy of www.preppykitchen.com The cucumber and cream cheese sandwich is a traditional favorite for afternoon tea time. The pinch of salt helps prevent the cucumber from making the sandwich soggy. INGREDIENTS: • Large cucumber (English cucumber preferred) • 3 ounces softened cream cheese • Lemon zest • ½ pinch salt • Finely chopped dill • 4 slices potato bread INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Chop fresh dill. Combine with softened cream cheese, lemon zest and a ½ pinch of salt. 2. Cut the cucumber into paper-thin slices. 3. Spread cream cheese mixture onto bread and add cucumber slices. 4. Cut off the crusts of bread and cut into rectangles or use a cookie cutter to make a circle- or heart-shaped finger sandwich.

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Use a good serrated bread knife if possible to cut the sandwiches into “fingers.” Let the serrations do the work. Cookie cutters also work well for unique shapes.

Soften the cream cheese for 20 minutes to make it easier to mix with herbs.

Lightly butter or spread a thin layer of mayonnaise on the inside of the bread to prevent it from getting soggy. Patting fresh ingredients dry will also help.

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SKINNY PIMENTO CHEESE

Recipe courtesy of www.theskinnyfork.com Pimento cheese is a favorite at the Harwelden. This recipe is a low-fat version that replaces mayonnaise with Greek yogurt and adds the smoky taste of Worcestershire sauce. Serve it on marbled rye bread for a real treat. INGREDIENTS: • 2 ounces sharp cheddar cheese, shredded • 2 ounces fat-free cheddar cheese, shredded • 1.5 ounces fat-free cream cheese, softened • 1 ounce fat-free plain Greek yogurt • 2 ounces pimentos, drained • ¼ teaspoon lemon juice • ¼ teaspoon Worcestershire sauce • Salt and pepper to taste • Diced chives to taste INSTRUCTIONS: 1. M ix all ingredients in a medium bowl. Cover and chill in the refrigerator for at least two hours before serving. 2. Slice crusts from marble rye bread. Spread a thin layer of pimiento cheese and cut in dainty, bite-sized rectangles or use a cookie cutter for different shapes. Recipe courtesy of www.31daily.com INGREDIENTS: • 5-8 fresh strawberries • ½ cup whipped cream cheese • 1 tablespoon granulated sugar or 2 tablespoons powdered sugar, plus more for dusting • ½ teaspoon grated lemon zest plus 2 tablespoons lemon juice, plus more zest for garnish • One 1.9-ounce package mini phyllo (or filo) pastry shells • Small mint leaves for garnish

MINI STRAWBERRY CHEESECAKES

INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Wash strawberries and remove the top. Thinly slice strawberries and set them aside. 2. Whisk together the whipped cream cheese, sugar, lemon zest and juice in a medium bowl. 3. Spoon or pipe dollops of cream cheese mixture into the phyllo shells, then top with sliced strawberries. 4. Add small mint leaves. Freshly grate lemon zest on top to garnish and dust with powdered sugar just before serving.

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PIMM'S CUP

Recipe courtesy of Harwelden Mansion The Harwelden’s signature Pimm's Cup cocktail is for those afternoons when tea isn't quite enough. Pimm's is a mildly herbal, ginbased liqueur often used in fruit cups. INGREDIENTS: • 1-2 parts Pimm's Liqueur • Lemon wedges • Orange wedges • Sprigs of mint • Slices of cucumber • Sprite or Fresca INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Pour two to four jiggers of Pimm's Liqueur in a decanter. Squeeze a large wedge of lemon and orange into the liqueur then drop the fruit into the decanter. Slap two sprigs of mint between your open palms to release flavor, and add it to the decanter. 2. Stir the mixture and let it ferment. 3. Prepare two tall glasses by adding ice. Make a cut in the slice of cucumber from the center to the outer edge to balance it on the top rim of the glass. 4. Using a strainer, pour the Pimm's mixture over the ice, half in each glass. Fill with Sprite or Fresca. Stir. 5. Cut smaller wedges of lemon and orange, squeeze into drink and add as garnish. Use a straw or swizzle stick to give it a slight stir and serve.

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IN THE SPOTLIGHT

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A WWII Veteran Keeps the Memory of V-J Day Alive BY DEE DUREN, MANAGING EDITOR

Frank Riesinger was home on furlough and at his father’s jewelry store in downtown Tulsa when he got the word. The Japanese had surrendered, and World War II was over. Celebrations broke out in cities across the nation, including downtown Tulsa. “I went out in the middle of 4th Street with my 4-year-old brother,” he said. "I was the only serviceman I knew of that was in downtown Tulsa at the time, which was very thrilling.”

"I went out in the middle of 4th Street with my 4-year-old brother. I was the only serviceman I knew of that was in downtown Tulsa at the time which was very thrilling.” – Frank Riesinger

People working downtown threw ticker tape from office windows. A photographer captured the moment as the brothers celebrated on the downtown street. You can see part of Brown Dunkin Department Store and the Orpheum Theater in the background. Riesinger’s Jewelry was located above the theater. V-J or Victory Over Japan Day effectively ended the war, and Japan formally signed an unconditional surrender on board the USS Missouri on September 2. Germany had surrendered six months before. Riesinger was an airman with the U.S. Army Air Corps who would have seen active duty after his visit home. Instead, he was four floors over the Orpheum Theater when he and his family members heard a commotion outside. With no air conditioning at the time, the open windows carried the sounds of honking horns and cheers. Someone burst into the room and told them the good news. Streams of white paper fell like snow through the streets, so the two brothers ran outside to take part in the excitement. Riesinger is 95 now, but his memories are sharp and the joy of the moment still rings in his voice. Determined that the importance of the date not be overshadowed, he has organized a V-J Day Remembrance Celebration, first in Tulsa and now in Broken Arrow. This year, the 76th Anniversary of V-J Day will be celebrated at the Performing Arts Center at 701 S. Main St, Broken Arrow. He especially wants the community to remember and honor the men and women who served their country who are no longer with us to celebrate in person. Riesinger was honored to attend the 75th anniversary of the Battle of the Bulge in the Ardennes in place of his fellow countrymen.

Frank Riesinger celebrates V-J Day with his brother Teddy while home on furlough. Photo courtesy of Tulsa Historical Society and Museum

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The World War II veteran is shown with his induction photo (above) and in a dedicated room of his home dubbed "The War Room."

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Recommended Reads

Bunkering With Books HISTORY BOOKS WHERE THE STORY BEGINS BY CONNIE CRONLEY It’s probably a myth that Winston Churchill, who enjoyed his drink, said, “So much brandy, so little time.” I like the quote because that’s how I feel about books and especially how I viewed the wealth of books about racism in the wake of the Black Lives Matter movement.

HOW THE WORD IS PASSED The new book I chose is Clint Smith’s “How the Word is Passed” with a clarifying subtitle, “A Reckoning with the History of Slavery Across America.” He takes us on a first-person tour of nine places linked to slavery including Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello plantation in Virginia (another tourist said, “This really takes the shine off the guy,”) and the unusual Whitney Plantation in Louisiana which memorializes the Black people who were enslaved there. Some of their descendants work at Whitney and live nearby. Smith’s book is so personal and descriptive I feel as if I was traveling with him. I was most surprised to learn of the walking tour of slave sites in New York City. The slave market in Wall Street was in operation from 1711 to 1762. By the mid-18th century, one in five people (Blacks and Native Americans) in New York was enslaved. “Almost half of Manhattan households included at least one slave,” Smith wrote.

TULSA 1921 I like a book that starts at the beginning and takes me all the way to the end, with little side trips for detail. No book about Tulsa’s Race Massacre does

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that better than Randy Krehbiel’s award-winning “Tulsa 1921,” published in 2019 and the next year named the best book on Oklahoma history and the state’s best nonfiction book. Krehbiel, a Tulsa World reporter since 1979, spent 20 years researching and writing this scrupulously documented historical account. He has nailed every fact to the ground and can prove it with a 10-page bibliography, 48 pages of citation notes, a chronology of events and a list of key figures. With all this documentation, the text might have plodded on leaden feet, but it doesn’t. Krehbiel is a writer of the first rank, and his prose is lively and enjoyable. He leads us slowly to the day of calamity, beginning in 1882 when Josiah Perryman, part Creek, part white and possibly part Black, opened a store in Tulsa, Indian Territory. This little settlement grew into a modern city with boosters like Wyatt Tate Brady and Charles Page, white men whose names would be tarnished. Page's reputation, remarkable for his philanthropy, wasn't darkened by accusations of racism against Blacks but toward Native Americans and how he treated them in acquiring oil leases from their land. Sadly, he wasn't the only prominent Tulsa oilman to do so. He walks us through a growing climate of racism and vigilantism, shows us the greed for real estate and illustrates the acts of fervent and misguided patriotism. The heart of Greenwood was in a poorly drained valley yet, “When in March 1921, 350 Blacks petitioned the city commission [for annexation] to provide sewers, running water, paved streets, and a fire station, they were practically laughed out of the room.”

The story builds with drama while Krehbiel’s book shimmers with a cast of characters even a fiction writer would have trouble imagining.

MANKILLER: A CHIEF AND HER PEOPLE And speaking of storytelling that starts at the beginning, I just reread “Mankiller: A Chief and Her People,” the nationally best-selling autobiography of the late Wilma Mankiller written with Michael Wallis. I had forgotten how extraordinarily good this book is with perhaps the best succinct Cherokee Nation history I’ve ever read, starting before the 1838-1839 forced Removal of the Five Tribes from southeastern states to northeastern Oklahoma. The parallel in her own life was the 1950s federal government’s plan to break up Indian reservations with a relocation program that took her family from Oklahoma to California. For displaced native people, she said, this removal was “every bit as upsetting and catastrophic” as Andrew Jackson’s policy. The architect was Dillon S. Meyer, commissioner of the Bureau of Indian Affairs, who had headed the Japanese War Relocation Authority during World War II with its internment camps for Japanese-Americans. The militant American Indian Movement of the late 1960s jolted her life. She came home to Oklahoma and made history as the first female principal chief of the Cherokee Nation. She’s making it again. It was announced recently that in 2022, Mankiller will be one of five women featured on a newly minted American coin.

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SHARE YOUR TIME & TALENT To submit a volunteer opportunity, contact Dee Duren at dduren@LIFEseniorservices.org or (918) 664-9000, ext. 1215.

Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle. – Charles Glassman

H illcrest Hospital Hillcrest Medical Center in Tulsa has volunteer opportunities available now. Hillcrest believes volunteers are a vital part of the healing environment within their medical facilities. Volunteers are needed at Hillcrest Medical Center at 11th and Utica and Hillcrest Hospital South located in Broken Arrow. Hours and tasks vary depending on skills and availability. Some roles include book cart delivery, registration, mail delivery and patient visitation. Volunteers receive invitations to special events, a free meal on volunteer days, a free flu shot and a discount in the gift shop. For more information, call (918) 579-7500 or go online to www.hillcrest.com/volunteer.

Neighbors Along the Line Neighbors Along the Line provides a variety of assistance to residents in northwest Tulsa and Sand Springs. Residents can receive help with food, medical needs and literacy issues as well as career services, utility assistance and answers to legal questions. The agency is looking for volunteers in its food pantry from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Monday, Tuesday and Thursday; or 5 to 6:45 p.m. Wednesday and Thursday. They also need front desk workers at the food pantry and people to help with food pickups on the second and fourth Tuesday morning of each month. Other volunteers are needed to be literacy tutors and to teach basic skills of all kinds. You can fill out a volunteer application at their website, www.neighborsalongtheline.org. 36

LIFE’s Medicare Assistance Program LIFE Senior Services Medicare Assistance Program is looking for people to help others in our community during the annual enrollment period beginning October 15 and running through December 7. Volunteer roles range from basic office support to assisting individuals with Medicare Part D on Medicare’s Plan Finder portal. All volunteers receive training. For more information, contact Kathy Jones, Medicare Assistance Program Supervisor at (918) 664-9000, ext. 1185.

Walk to End Alzheimer’s The Tulsa Walk to End Alzheimer's is gearing up for its in-person event on September 18th at Veterans Park. The walk will be 2 miles long with a half-mile option. They need 10 volunteers to join the Tulsa Logistics Committee to ensure participants have an excellent experience from the parking lot to the finish line. They are also seeking 200 volunteers to help with set up on September 17 and on Walk day. Visit www.tulsawalk.org to sign up or email Chrystal Medlock at cmmedlock@alz.org.

If you would like more information on any of these opportunities, call (918) 280-8656.

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MAKE AN IMPACT

Join LIFE’s Give 5 Volunteer Initiative

If there’s anything the last year has taught us, it’s the importance of social connection. U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy describes loneliness as another epidemic - one with serious health consequences, especially for older adults. Separation from family, friends and normal activities has affected people around the world. The prime minister of Japan recently designated a cabinet post to work toward alleviating social isolation, following the U.K.’s example of appointing a “Minister of Loneliness.” Plugging into a volunteer experience may be just what the surgeon "Give 5 does a general ordered. LIFE Senior fantastic job of helping Services is launching a new people discover what opportunity in the Tulsa area their strengths are and called Give 5, a volunteer how to give the most placement program that valuable of those gifts connects seniors with nonprofit understanding of Tulsa’s to the community,” organizations in need of help. challenges and are introduced Give 5 allows retirees to easily – Charlie Baker to a variety of nonprofits find purpose and meaning in working to address these issues. their next chapter with a volunteer Cohort members will tour the opportunity matching their passion. organizations and learn about available volunteer opportunities. An important goal of “Give 5 started in Springfield, Missouri, as a kind of the experience is to help prospective volunteers ‘civic matchmaking’ for retirees and those close to realize what a significant impact they can make in retirement,” said Heidi Braver, manager of LIFE’s our community through their gifts of time. They volunteer programs. “Participants will learn more may find themselves called to work directly with about the needs in the community and how their children and other individuals or provide a service experiences and skills can make a difference.” like transportation or administrative support. The program’s presenting sponsor is There are options available that work for a wide UnitedHealthcare. The company offers health variety of schedules and interests, and they all benefit programs for individuals, employers make a difference. and Medicare and Medicaid beneficiaries. They partner with physicians and other healthcare “Give 5 does a fantastic job of helping people professionals with the goal of improving access to discover what their strengths are and how to quality, affordable healthcare. give the most valuable of those gifts to the “We are thrilled to be partnering with Give 5; their mission and purpose align perfectly with ours at UnitedHealthcare. In particular, the recognition of the importance of social connectedness and finding meaningful purpose as we age – these are areas at the forefront of the work we do each and every day as we recognize the impact on overall health,” said Kurt Heumann, CEO, UnitedHealthcare Medicare & Retirement in Oklahoma. The first Give 5 class or “cohort” will begin in September 2021. Members of the cohort meet weekly for five weeks to gain a better

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community,” said Charlie Baker, co-founder and CEO at The CC Group in Tulsa. Baker, 79, spent 24 years as an executive coach for one of the country’s top accounting firms. Now he’s on a mission to help retirees find their deepest

meaning in life during retirement. That mission started after one of the executives he’d coached came back to him with a complaint. “He told me retirement was the worst time of his life. No one asked his opinion anymore. No one needed his help. He felt useless, and he was depressed and angry,” Baker said. Baker then began coaching executives to prepare for life after retirement, and he knows how much a program like Give 5 can help those who once derived much of their identity and purpose from work. With an estimated 10,000 baby boomers retiring each day, that’s a lot of people who have so much to give – and finally have the time to give it. “The old picture of retirement is, ‘I’m going to go home and do nothing,’” Baker said. “That’ll kill you, and it robs you of value. We weren’t created to do nothing. You need a reason to get up in the morning, and life has to have a continuing purpose to it.” “We were made to be part of a team, part of a community,” he continued. “Finding community all the rest of your life is important.”

Interested in Becoming Part of Give 5? LIFE is recruiting volunteer opportunities throughout the Tulsa community to be featured in the Give 5 program. Nonprofits that would like to take part in the program are encouraged to contact Heidi Braver. To learn more about the program or volunteer your time, contact Heidi Braver at hbraver@LIFEseniorservices.org

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BE A SANTA TO A SENIOR LIFE Senior Service is getting an early start to its 2021 Holiday Project. Each year, this project provides Christmas gifts to clients in several of LIFE’s programs. The Holiday Project fulfills holiday wishes and needs thanks to the generous donation of time and financial support from companies, groups and individuals in Tulsa and the surrounding areas. LIFE is looking for volunteers to adopt a senior or one of its Vintage Housing facilities. These are people who wouldn’t have a Christmas without you. Volunteers can be employees of a company, a group of friends, a church congregation or just one individual who wants to help another. Volunteers will also be needed with gift wrapping, administrative work and delivering gifts to clients in the area. Adoptions start in August, and gifts will be delivered by November 23, 2021.

For more information about how you can be Santa to a senior, contact: Jennifer Thompson (918) 664-9000, ext. 1225 jthompson@LIFEseniorservices.org

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Raise a Toast to 80 Years of Service The Community Service Council (CSC) is celebrating 80 years of serving Oklahomans. CSC was founded in 1941 to bring social services agencies together to identify concerns in the community and better serve people in need. Today the agency serves as a backbone organization for several community initiatives, including 211 Eastern Oklahoma, Oklahoma Veteran Alliance, Tulsa Weather Coalition and Healthy Start. CSC’s primary focus is assisting underserved and marginalized individuals and families across the community. CSC is also a Tulsa Area United Way Partner Agency. The Community Service Council will celebrate with a Morning Toast event Friday, August 6, from 7:30 to 9 a.m. at the Tulsa Historical Society & Museum. Mayor G.T. Bynum and Dr. Bruce Dart of the Tulsa Health Department will be guest speakers. Seating is limited, and sponsorships are now available. Guests will enjoy gourmet breakfast boxes, live music and a coffee and mimosa bar inside the museum at 2445 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa. For more information, visit the CSC website at www.csctulsa.org, call (918) 585-5551 or email info@csctulsa.org.

Dog Days of Summer Tulsa Botanic Garden is offering a special enticement to tempt dog lovers to the park during August. Furry companions are welcome to join their owners for a walk in the gardens from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. on “Boozy, Brunchy Dog Day” Sunday, August 1 (dogs are not allowed at other times). From 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., there will be food and drink options available with beer, mimosas, alcoholic margaritas and, of course, non-alcoholic alternatives. Calaveras Food Truck will be on-site to offer Mexican food options. Water bowls and treats will be available for the pups. Dogs must be controlled and on a nonretractable leash at all times, and they must be current on all vaccinations. Advance tickets with timed entry are available online for non-members and their pets at www.tulsabotanic.org. Tulsa Botanic Garden is located at 3900 Tulsa Botanic Dr., Tulsa, about 8 miles northwest of downtown Tulsa. Dog Play Wednesday is back at Gathering Place, Tulsa’s Riverfront park. Dogs can join their owners each Wednesday from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. at the Patio – though not inside buildings or on play equipment. Owners must keep their pets on a leash and are responsible for cleaning up after their canines. Visit Gathering Place at 2650 S. Williams Way E. in Tulsa. Call (918) 779-1000 or email info@gatheringplace.org for more information.

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PEOPLE & PLACES

Denise Redmond and a group of friends enjoyed their time at Celebrate LIFE, a gala held by LIFE Senior Services.

Dolores Savoy chose a white fascinator with partial veil when she took high tea at the Harwelden in Tulsa.

Otis, a resident at The Linden at Stonehaven Square, takes a bike ride on a lovely summer day.

Residents at Covenant Living at Inverness enjoy a community crawfish broil on the patio.

Thanks to Bruce Buffum for helping LIFE's Vintage Newsmagazine staff organize storage in anticipation of the new Vintage Guide to Housing & Community Services 2021-22.

Bank of Oklahoma volunteers help collect food in the United Way Day of Caring Food Drive held at LIFE Senior Services in June. Thanks to the volunteers and all who donated!

LIFE Senior Services CEO Eileen Bradshaw poses with a patriotic pair who attended LIFE’s Senior Safety and Lifestyle Fair in July.

Send Us Your Pictures Whether it's your traveling group, tennis buddies or a night on the town, we want your pictures. Submit high-resolution photos to dduren@LIFEseniorservices.org by the 1st of every month.

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AUTO REPAIR

Strickland Automotive Strickland Automotive is locally-owned and – operated with over 40 years of auto repair experience. We perform all types of vehicle repair, from computer and electrical problems to engine and transmission overhauls. ASE Certified mechanics. Open six days a week, with towing provided. Call Gary (918) 832-7072.

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Weekly Bible Reading Session Join us in reading, explaining and discussing the bible on Tuesday nights 7:00 p.m. CST and 8:00 p.m. EST. Questions are always welcome. Perfect for those who cannot get out of the house. Call (918) 872-1400.

CARPET CLEANING ALL PRO Carpet Cleaning Senior and caregiver discounts. Carpet, furniture, rug cleaning. Pet odor removed and Teflon protectant available. Emergency water extraction. Residential and commercial services. Professional truck mount steam cleaning. Carpet repairs and restretching. Prompt, professional, quality service at a fair price. Certified, insured. Veteran owned and operated. Call Thomas Fink, owner/technician, for free estimate (918) 636-6303.

CEMETERY LOTS 4 Burial Lots at Floral Haven Located in Garden of Prayer in Broken Arrow. Value $6,000+ each. Will sell all 4 for only $5,000! Call Ruth Mahaney at (352) 406-4307. Floral Haven will handle all paperwork. $175 transfer fee to be paid by buyer.

Memorial Park Crypts, Tulsa Two crypts, $5500 each. Includes bronze crypt nameplate and perpetual care. Mausoleum location near lake, Sec 27-2, crypt E, rows 53 & 54. A 2021 retail value of $7325 each. Contact Clark Duffe at clark.duffe@yahoo.com or (405) 760-3108. Memorial Park – Prime Lots Memorial Park Cemetery Tulsa Oklahoma three single spaces next to each other. Section 2, Lot 113, space seven, eight, nine. Monument privilege. Prime lots next to road. $2200.00 each. Contact Eugene or JoAnne Bowlin, (918) 698-7797. Memorial Plot for Sale Memorial Park Cemetery Plot in Tulsa, Ok for sale Section 56, Estate 110 Space 1. Price includes plot, opening and closing plus title transfer. $3,260 not negotiable. Please contact David or Joyce at (918) 322-3010 after 5:00 pm for more info. Spaces at Memorial Park Multiple spaces for sale. Section 34, Lot 416. No burials there and no markers. Current value is $2,200/ea. Will sell for $1,900/ea. If interested, contact Cindy Taylor at Oxley.Plots@gmail.com or (281) 990-6223.

COMPUTER SERVICES Does Technology Frustrate You? Honest, patient, ethical help with your pc, router, Wi-Fi, cell phone, email, streaming, camera, password recovery, etc. 30 years of IT experience in Tulsa. Special rates for seniors. References available. Call Carmen Armstrong (918) 688-7453.

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Arlington Memorial Cemetery 6 cemetery spaces all in the same section at Arlington Memorial Cemetery, 3400 N. Midwest Blvd, Spencer, OK. $3,000 per space plus 1/2 of the $750 deed transfer. If you purchase all 6, we will pay deed transfer. Call or text (405) 640-8044.

Daytime Care For Older Loved Ones LIFE’s Adult Day Health offers convenient, affordable daytime care at three locations in Tulsa and Broken Arrow. For more information, call LIFE’s Adult Day Health at (918) 664-9000.

Calvary Cemetery Calvary Cemetery, section 7, Way of the Cross. Two side-by-side spaces lot 204, space 6 and lot 257 (correction), space 4. Asking pricing is $3600 for both. Price is negotiable. Truly a beautiful view. Call (405) 273-7071.

2MS Estate Sales...Tulsa’s Finest! Downsizing? Estate Liquidation? Let us take the worry away and Maximize your return. No out of pocket expense. We specialize in senior transitions, with over 20 years in the senior housing market. My team includes realtors, moving company, senior housing and attorneys if needed. Please contact Michelle Reed (918) 691-5893 or Atulsa@aol.com also Facebook 2MSestatesalestulsa for a Free consultation.

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FINANCIAL/INSURANCE Medicare Assistance Program The Medicare Assistance Program (MAP) at LIFE Senior Services provides accurate information, counseling and assistance relating to Medicare benefits for Medicare beneficiaries, their representatives and persons soon to be eligible for Medicare. Call MAP at LIFE Senior Services (918) 664-9000 or toll-free at (866) 664-9009. Need A New Medicare Plan? The Medicare Supplement Store at Promenade Mall is your “One-Stop-Shop” for Medicare Supplements, Advantage Plans, & Drug Plans. We can give you a quote from top-rated carriers like: Aetna, Blue Cross, Humana, GlobalHealth, UnitedHealthCare, Mutual of Omaha and others. For information, call Bob Archer today (918) 814-5550. WORRIED ABOUT FUNERAL EXPENSES? Preferred Rates, Standard Rates, Guaranteed Issue Plans, Permanent Whole Life Rates never increase. Issue up to $40,000. Benefits paid to beneficiary of choice or assignment to any funeral home. We can give you quotes from top rated carriers, Mutual of Omaha, American Amicable, and AIG. Call or text Michael Moore Insurance Agency (918) 557-5665 for RATES or email ineedlifeinsurance@sbcglobal.net

GARDENING/LAWN CARE AAA Lawns & More Total lawn care. Lawn Mowing. Leaf removal. Gutter clean-up. Specialist in fence/property line lawn clean-up. Stump grinding and small tree work. Dedicated to making your lawn look its best. Insured, honest, experienced and dependable. Veteran-owned. We are a small company with personal service. References available. FREE ESTIMATES. Call Larry. (918) 361-1299. Green Hibiscus Lawn & Garden Services Scheduled garden maintenance (weeding, planting, mulching). Garden bed design and installation. Hedge & shrub trimming. Tree pruning & removal. Leaf clean up. Hauling green debris. Call Charles (918) 636-0298. Kimble Davis Tree Company Family-owned and operated. Specializing in all aspects of tree care: restoration, pruning/ thinning, removal, stump

grinding, hedge trimming, firewood available. Serving Tulsa for 25 years. References. Member BBB. Insured. ISA certified arborist. Check us out at www.kdtreeco.com. Call Kimble at (918) 853-5383. Mower Repair / Maintenance All brands – Riders, ZTR's, Walk-behinds, UTV’s / ATV’s. Top Quality work, ASE certified Mechanic. Pick-up and Delivery available. Tulsa and surrounding counties. Maintenance specials include pick-up and delivery 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. Call Scott (918) 519-3869. New Season Tree Masters Specializing in tree removal and stump grinding. Tree trimming service available. Certified arborist on staff. Serving all of metro Tulsa with over 20 years’ experience. Fully insured. BBB accredited. Free estimates. Contact us at info@newseasontreemasters.com or call Todd at (918) 934-4868. www.newseasontreemasters.com.

HOME REPAIR/REMODELING Allen’s Handyman Services of Tulsa “Your Home Improvement and Repair Specialist.” 21st year serving Tulsa seniors. “One call can do it all.” 10% senior discount. Insured. All work guaranteed in writing. No pay until job is completed. Plumbing, drain cleaning, grab bars, electrical, carpentry, painting, seamless guttering installation/repair/ cleaning. Dryer vent cleaning. Roof, tile and drywall repair. Wood siding/trim replacement. Deck repair, power washing, staining. Tree trimming. No job too small. For free estimate, call Allen at (918) 630-0394. Big C’s Plumbing Services Your one stop Plumbing Shop! Call us and I guarantee you will never have to call another plumbing company. Licensed, bonded and insured for your protection....Call (918) 855-9216, tell us you saw us in the Vintage Newsmagazine receive an automatic 10% discount....call us now. Bumgartner Plumbing Licensed, with over 30 years of experience. Rates are low and based on the job, not the hour. No service call fee or travel time charge. Senior and caregiver discount. Plumbing service and repair our specialty. Honest, professional service you can count on. Lic. # 82750. (918) 355-4747.

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CLASSIFIEDS Burton Painting Specializing in all aspects of exterior and interior home painting. Staining, sealing, and painting faux finishes. Decks, fences, cabinets and floors. Free estimates. 30+ years of experience. Reliable, courteous, professional service. Fully insured. (918) 378-2858. Dave’s Heat and Air, Inc. Licensed, insured, and bonded. Honest and reliable service for over 30 years. Competitive rates. Specializing in heating and air conditioning service and repair. All makes and models. Residential and light commercial. Tulsa metro area. Family-owned and operated. (918) 437-8101. Doc J’s Heat and Air LLC Avoid costly repairs and breakdowns and save on service, repairs and replacements with our yearly maintenance plan. Mention this ad and get $25 off our Fall Furnace tune-up service. Financing, free estimates and senior discounts. Call Doc J today (918) 921-4240, docj@docjsheatandair.com. Free Storm Inspection Do you have a leaky roof? Call for free inspection/emergency tarp service. Small roof repair free for seniors. We provide patient, honest and ethical help through any insurance claims. Call Brian Morris at (918) 734-4444. Proof Construction, 1924 W. Albany St., Broken Arrow. Other services include patios, outdoor kitchens, etc. www.proofok.com or www.patiobrothersok.com. GENERAL FRAMING WORK, LLC Specializes in additions and remodels. Grab bars, Electrical, Carpentry, Fencing, Painting, Drywall repairs. No job too small. (918) 896-9812.

Same Day Services Light Hauling /Light Moving – help you rearrange room furniture, lawns-grass mowing/small paint jobs/cleanup/ fence repair/light construction/sheet rock tile repair – We are honest dependable. References. Call (918) 313-5230. Scrap Metal Haul Off Free haul off/pick up of appliances such as washers, dryers, refrigerators, air conditioners, hot water tanks and any scrap metal. Call John at (918) 313-4405.

HOUSING SHOULD I MOVE, OR SHOULD I STAY? Can't decide whether to Age in Place, or move? Feeling Overwhelmed? We can help. We are your One Source for Downsizing, Moving, Aging in Place, Estate Sales, Selling Home, Selecting a Community, Etc. www.MatureTransitionsOfTulsa.com.

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Bobbi and Bob’s Personal & Business Assistance Personally assist in driving to beauty shop, medical appointments, and other destinations; provide accounting, secretarial, and specialized administrative assistance; help with business-related matters; serve as liaison with physicians/ healthcare personnel; resolve Medicare and medical insurance issues. Bobbi Warshaw, MPH and Bob Warshaw, MBA (918) 852-5302, bobbi.warshaw@att.net Compassionate Senior Services We offer a wide variety of services for seniors. Whether it's: Rides, Errands, Meal Preparation, Companionship, or Sitting With A Loved One, we're here to help. We offer competitive rates and Smiles are always free. 24 hour Care Available. Contact Christie at (918) 934-7986.

Full Service Estate Planning Law Firm Trusts, Wills, Gift and Tax Planning, Powers of Attorneys and more! With offices in Sand Springs and Tulsa. Discount to Veterans and Retired Teachers. Willing to meet you in your place for no extra charge! Call Penni of the Skillern Law Firm at (918) 805-2511. www.skillernlaw.com

Financial Organizer/Liaison Do you or a loved one need help keeping up with mail, balancing a checkbook, paying bills, making phone calls, organizing or preparing for tax time? I can help! I will work with you or act as a liaison between family members. Call or email me to discuss options. Essential Strategy Consulting, LLC. Gwen Stevens (918) 557-5259, esc9315@gmail.com

Need Legal Help? Call Me First. Ramona Jones, Attorney at Law. Why travel when we can do a video conference? Wills, trusts, deeds, advance directives, powers of attorney, probate, divorces, civil, DUI, criminal, guardianships, adoptions and more. Also paperwork for limited scope representation. Credit cards accepted. (918) 585-2255.

Kind Hands Home Care, LLC We are a team of dedicated health care professionals who work hard in order to keep our clients in their homes safely and well taken care of. 12 to 24 hour shifts available. For information please call or message Delia at (405) 714-8016.

Handyman & Construction Services 30 Years Experience! All Handicap Accessories – grab bars, handicap access abilities; Framing, Drywall, Tape & Bed; Texture & Paint, Plumbing, Electrical, Tile, Laminate & Wood Floors. Free Estimates, Competitive Rates, Professional Service. Call Craig (918) 892-4168.

Protect Your Family. Preserve Your Legacy. Attorney Brian Crain can assist you through the legalities of all the big events in your family's life. Estate planning, probate, trusts, adoption, guardianships, real estate, elder exploitation and more. Call (918) 627-4400 or visit www.brianacrain.com.

Home Improvements Energy Efficient Windows. We offer custom made replacement windows to make your home comfortable and reduce your energy bills. Interior/exterior painting, general remodeling and home improvements. 15% discount to those over 55. Free Estimates. Call Richard Johnson (918) 261-9999.

Tulsa Movers Dependable Movers! Low Rates. Free Estimates. Senior Discounts. Call (918) 836-3225.

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Ms Pac Ma'am Need help packing or organizing? I can pack boxes for moving, downsizing or decluttering. I can help organize rooms, closets, attics or garages providing you more space. Flexible hours – day or evening. Lots of experience. References available. Jacki (918) 922-9558. Rush By Your Side Registered LTC/CNA/HHA, *Companionship, *Errands, *Appointments, Excellent References, 9+ years’ experience, Long Term/Short Term, Need a vacation or a day off? Call Kami Rush (918) 810-6738.

PERSONAL SAFETY HALO Medical Alarms Worried about falling? HALO provides medical alert services for those at home or on the go who may need help in an emergency.

HALO allows you to get help at the push of a button which is worn as a necklace or wristband. We offer a variety of choices to best fit your needs. Check out the HALO products at our retail store – Mobility City at 61st & Sheridan (918) 392-0566 or (877) 747-HALO (4256). SAFETY GRAB BAR SUPPLY AND INSTALLATION Including handicap accessories for Residential, Commercial, Decorative, Indoor/Outdoor, Stairways, Bathrooms, and more. Secure your space, whether existing, remodeling or new construction, we handle it all. Call before you fall! Free Estimates. Licensed & Insured with over 20 years experience. Grab Bars of Tulsa, (918) 619-7324.

PERSONAL SERVICES Affordable Hairstyling In-Home or My Shop With 35 years’ experience, I can help with all of your hairstyling needs. I will come to your home, the hospital, rehab or you can come to my shop. In-shop special: haircut $7 for first time customers only and perms for $45. Senior special pricing can’t be beat! Available Tuesday – Saturday. A Mane Event hairstyling, located near 11th and Yale at 937 South Canton. Call Mary Wilkinson at (918) 834-2686. Following CDC Guidelines – masks worn, temperature taken, safe environment. Salon Retro Hair care for men and women, specializing in senior clients. This month’s special - First time customers receive one of the following for $12: Haircut or Style or Manicure. $45 for cut and perm. Pedicures are $20. Very Experienced Hairdressers! Come see us in Midtown at Highland Plaza, 5661 East 41st Street (corner of 41st and Hudson). (918) 742-3440.

PET CARE Home Veterinary Care Experience Tulsa’s most convenient veterinary service in the comfort of your own home. Our goal is to develop a personal relationship with each of our clients and patients. Contact us today to schedule your house call appointment. Call (918) 892-9382 or email DrFielstra@gmail.com or visit us at www.homevetcaretulsa.com.

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SOCIAL Single Seniors (50+) Are you over 50, single, divorced or widowed? We are a fun-loving group of single seniors over 50. We meet every Wednesday, 11:15 a.m. – 4 p.m. at the Buffet Palace, 10934 East 21st Street. We eat at 11:15, have a short meeting and then play cards. Join us for great fun and fellowship. Questions, call Beverly at (918) 272-1049.

TRANSPORTATION My Driver Transportation Service Let me do the driving. To and from work, airport, shopping, errands, post office, appointments. Also, LIFT VAN transportation available. Able to assist getting to and from bed. Senior sitting. Also, small breed dog boarding. 20 years experience. CLEET certified and licensed. References. Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 491-9929.

VACATION SPOT Staycation in Sand Springs! Meadow Lake Ranch is fun for the whole family just 15 minutes from downtown Tulsa! Find your staycation in one of our beautiful lakeside cabins, offering private docks for fishing, tomahawk throwing, archery, shooting, hiking and much more! Visit www.meadowlakeranch.com to book your stay or give Susie a call (918) 494-6000.

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Saint Francis Hospice Ginny Schulte Margaret L. Schulz ShelfGenie of OK Southwood Landscape & Garden Center Bruce and Carolyn Stewart Lynn D. Stockley Cheryl L. Sullivan Nancy A. Swab Vaughan The Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Paula and John Tiefenthaler Tom and Deanna Tirrell University Village Retirement Community Maria Veliz Barnes Janet Vierra Volunteers of America Oklahoma Ben A. Weddington Tadd A. Weese Orcella Whistler Warren C. Whitsel Darren Whitson Wilson Investment Consultants Kent and Jeanette Young Betty Young

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Francis Ferrantino In Memory of Alfonso Ferrantino Theresa M. Finck and Mary Ann Finck In Memory of Theresa Ann Finck LeRoy and Linda Fore In Memory of Chuck Christensen Kenneth L. Hampton In Memory of Jean Hampton Sandra Hayes In Memory of Ava Herring Dennis and Elizabeth Jones In Memory of Jenifer Lynn Jones Philip Rao In Memory of Ann Egan Wendy Sasser In Memory of Kenneth Sasser Christine Smith In Memory of Troy & Irma Smith Betty F. Willhite In Memory of Jerry L. Willhite

IN HONOR OF:

Janet Miller In Honor of Edra Miller

VOLUNTEER JUST DO IT! If you've been looking for a way you can make a difference, consider joining the Millennium Hospice team as a volunteer. Caregiver relief is so important during this difficult time. Volunteers provide that by sitting with patients for an hour or so. Training is provided. (918) 493-6555.

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