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It’s Not Easy Being Mom She’s the Best Mom Possible! I’ve known a lot of moms over the years: my own, my friends, my neighbors. Some, of course, can appear to be doing a better job of “mothering” than others. No matter the times or their situation, moms everywhere have this in common: They’re doing the best they can. Most moms parent the way they were parented. My moms (I include my mother-in-law here) stayed home and took care of us and the house, handling those “motherly” tasks that varied from family to family because no two are alike. What I remember most? Mom was always there when we got home from school. Today, many moms have careers and an office; others have jobs they can do from home. Single moms bear the whole responsibility of raising the kids, keeping the house, and earning a living. Regardless of their situation, all moms have the same goal: Raise their kids to be the best adults they can be. Think of all the things your mom does…the many hats she’s worn over your lifetime. Mom’s a primary teacher by the example she sets for how to live a productive life. Mom’s a nurse, providing bandages and tender loving care when the kids are injured, whether the problem is a scraped knee, a stubbed toe, or a broken heart. Moms make arrangements for getting their kids to ball games, scout meetings, dance
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lessons, tutors, and any other activities they’re involved in. With the Mom Job, you are tenured. The kids may be parents (or even grandparents), but “Mom” is still “Mom,” and the kids are still referred to as “the kids.” Moms are concerned that something bad will happen. Moms tend to put their kids first. We’re happy when you are. Our hearts sink when we see you having difficulty or getting upset. We’re ready to help you in any way we are able. Sometimes, you might do things we don’t like or don’t approve of (kids are people, too), but you’re still our kids and we love you. We eagerly waited for bedtime because it meant some time to ourselves…and then we spent that time standing at the bedroom doorway, watching you sleep and giving thanks. If it weren’t for our kids, we wouldn’t be moms. They are our reason for being…part of our identity (“I’m Mary’s mom,” or “Aren’t you Tommy’s mom?” or “This is my kid!”) for a lifetime. Most moms think their kids are the best in the world… and that’s as it should be. They are the power that drives our lives for many years. Then, they leave. Sometimes, they keep in touch; sometimes, they don’t. No matter what, they’re still “the kids.” Being a mom isn’t an easy job. Mother’s Day is coming up soon. Let your mom know you love her and appreciate all she’s done to be “The Best Mom Possible!”
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