Bridal Guide March April 2024 by Bridal Guide Magazine

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What weddings really cost + ways to save big! Fast-track your planning! (here's how) Let's do this! Dreamy dresses, Perfect palettes and Chic Details

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CONTENTS Bridal Guide March/April 2024

FASHION & BEAUTY 7 COVER STYLE

All about that beautiful look.

12 MOOD BOARD: BRIDES Glittery disco-licious looks; danceworthy ballerina footwear.

14 ALL THAT GLITTERS Charming Moi et Toi rings.

16 BEAUTY FILE

Big-day beautifying essentials that fit in the teensiest of bags.

36 FOR THE FUN OF IT

Go behind the scenes at our epic fashion shoot. ON THE COVER

• Love is in the air!

Dreamy dresses, perfect palettes and chic details p. 12, p. 14, p. 22, p. 35

• What weddings really

cost + ways to save big! p.26

• Fast-track your

planning! (Here’s how) p.30

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CONTENTS

Bridal Guide March/April 2024

WEDDING PLANNING 17 BODY FILE

Registered dietician Mandy Enright offers her tips on healthy eating for two.

18 PARTY PLANNER

Europe meets Idaho in this chic celebration.

22 PLANNERS WE LOVE

We’re putting our favorite pros in the spotlight. by Carol Straley

30 PLANNING NOTEBOOK

Here’s how to plan in record time.

31 ASK DAVID TUTERA

Our guru’s thoughts on holding your wedding over the holidays.

54 WEDDING ALBUM

Feast your eyes on Victoria and Will’s epic Colorado ranch wedding.

NEWS & FEATURES 9 WEDDING Q&A

Etiquette questions and answers.

26 WHERE DOES THE MONEY GO? What do weddings really cost? A coast-tocoast guide. by Daniel P. Smith

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THE DIAMOND LIFE

PHOTOGRAPHY: DAVID DUNAN, HAIR: FERNANDO TORRENT USING LIVING PROOF, MAKEUP: DEANNA MELLUSO USING DIOR FOREVER FOUNDATION

Right on trend, our sparklingly beautiful cover girl, BECCA SABOL, dazzles in the diamanté dipped, hand-beaded Everly gown with ruffled, off-the shoulder neckline by ENAURA. Her jewels? None other than DAVID YURMAN’s Starburst Triple Drop Earrings and Infinity Full Pavé Halo Engagement Ring. No wonder she’s smiling! Because we love diamonds as much as you, we went to the OG of the jewelry industry for a true insider look into diamond trends. JEN CULLEN WILLIAMS, Founder of Jen Cullen Williams Communications has worked with the world’s leading jewelry brands, retailers and organizations for 15+ years. Jen takes the ring question head on, “An engagement ring isn't just a ring—it's a canvas for your unique style and the life you’ll build with your partner. The ever-changing realm of diamond wedding trends of today are marked by a fusion of personal expression and timeless elegance. Personalize your engagement ring look with a distinctive diamond ring stack by incorporating different shapes and styles of diamond bands or opt for a ring with the center stone surrounded by diamond accents in varying shapes.” And wedding jewels? “When the big day arrives, let your style speak volumes. Whether you're rocking maximalist statement earrings or channeling a “stealth wealth” look with diamond studs, choose pieces that vibe with the sentiment of your personality and aesthetic of your wedding.” What about sustainability? A conscious mindset continues to prevail as antique and vintage jewelry gains popularity. Embrace the allure of the past for exquisite vintage diamond pieces like old mine or rose-cut diamonds or anything from the romantic Victorian era. Shop for quality vintage at places like JewelersCircle.com. It's time to rock the past in a way that's so now!

“Choose pieces that vibe with the sentiment of your personality and aesthetic of your wedding.” —JEN CULLEN WILLIAMS

Founder of Jen Cullen Williams Communications

ON THE COVER: Everly floral hand-beaded gown with ruffled, off-theshoulder neckline, $5,175, by ENAURA BRIDAL. Starburst Triple Drop Earrings and Infinity Full Pavé Halo Engagement Ring, both by DAVID YURMAN. March/April 2024 BRIDALGUIDE.COM 7

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etiquette ADVICE

A Q Wedding

Straight talk, smart solutions by Mary Clarke, Editor in Chief

WHAT’S IN A NAME?

IS THIS FOR REAL?

I plan to take my husband’s last name after we’re married and will notify business clients of the change. What’s the most professional way to do so via email? It’s best to send a mass mailing to clients stating “For future reference, please note my new email and last name, Marisa (maiden name) Wright.” Keep your old email address for a while and if any of your clients continue to use it, you can gently remind them to take note of your new contact info. Also, be sure to update your info with the following: Social Security (you’ll need an original marriage license for verification), voter registration, credit-card issuers, banks, insurance companies, frequent-flyer programs, utility companies, investment firms and your doctors. And don’t forget to get a new passport and driver’s license. It’s actually a good idea to carry two photo IDs with you for a while, one with your maiden name and the other with your married name in case you ever encounter a problem when dealing with any of the above institutions.

My daughter is going to be a flower girl in my brother’s wedding, and the maid of honor asked if I would like to help pay for the bridal shower. As much as I’d like to participate, we are on a tight budget. Am I expected to contribute to the cost of the shower? Short answer: nope. The shower is the bridesmaids’ responsibility. The couple’s mothers may also offer to chip in. The parents of the flower girl and ring bearer are only required to pay for their children’s attire, shoes and accessories and any travel or lodging expenses. You can politely decline and offer to help with decorating and setup, if you’re able. Let your brother and his fiancé know about her request. Should there be any grumbling, your future sister-in-law can set the record straight with her attendants.

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PLUS-ONE QUANDARY

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My partner’s parents think everyone invited to a wedding should be able to bring a guest. What’s the rule? Here’s the rule: You don’t need to extend plus-ones to single friends and family members. In fact, most couples don’t— unless they have an unlimited budget. You should, however, include partners of the following: anyone married, engaged or living with a significant other and anyone who is in a long-term relationship.

SAVE-THE-DATE QUERY

Q A

On our save-the-date notices, how should we ask our guests to RSVP? Text? Email? Your save-the-date notices do not require an RSVP. They’re sent simply to alert guests to the time and place of the wedding so they’ll have ample opportunity to make their travel arrangements. Reply cards are enclosed with the wedding invitation only, or you may guests to RSVP on your wedding website. However, if you would like to get a rough guest head count now, you can follow up via emails or texts. Keep in mind, that it may be too early for some people to confirm, so be sure to get

your invitations out four months before the big day (especially if it’s a destination wedding), and ask to have responses in at least 10 weeks before the wedding. That should give you plenty of time to finalize everything with your pros.

SO GIFTED

What’s the right amount of money for a wedding gift? I don’t want to appear super-cheap, but I’m desperately trying to pay off my student debt. There isn’t a golden rule or any set amount that’s considered appropriate for a wedding gift. Basically, you give what you can afford. With student loans to pay off along with other living expenses, it’s perfectly understandable that you might not be able to be as generous as you’d like. If writing a check makes you feel uncomfortable, then select an item from the couple’s registry that suits your budget. Your friends will love getting a gift they registered for, but more importantly, they’ll be glad you were there on the big day to share in their celebration.

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mood board BRIDES

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HOOP-LA. Single White Gold Diamond Pavé Mono Hoop Earring by MESSIKA.

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TO HAVE AND TO HOLD. Micro Bon Bon Silver Crystal Mesh Bag by JIMMY CHOO.

SHAKE YOUR BOOTY. Silver snakeskinembossed stiletto boots by PARIS TEXAS.

A deep dive into Studio 54 style is setting our fashion-forward hearts aflame with shimmery frocks and frills that spark our disco-diva soul. C’est Chic! by Juli Alvarez

MILLA BY LORENZO ROSSI

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DIAMOND LIFE. Lenox Bubble Ring in 18K White Gold, Diamond, Paraiba Tourmaline, and White Enamel by MELISSA KAYE. 12 BRIDALGUIDE.COM

FLATS

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PRETTY PUNK. Rockstud Satin Ballerina in Water Lilac by VALENTINO.

WING IT. “WIFEY FOR LIFEY” Butterfly Flat in Ivory by SOPHIA WEBSTER.

TOE TO TOE. Les Mules Plate Ballet in Off white by JACQUEMUS.

Prima Ballerina

Glissade down the aisle, pirouette on the dance floor, and jeté for joy. These ballerines du jour are the tippy-top toe shoes you’ll fall head over heels for! FANCY FEET. Strass Lambskin Ballet Flats in White by ALAIA.

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BARBIE! Ane Crystal Lace Up Flat in Marshmallow Satin by AMINA MUADI.

ICE QUEEN. Attila Swarovski Crystal Covered Pointy Toe Flats by JIMMY CHOO. EN POINTE. Strass Buckle Slingback Ballerinas in OffWhite by ROGER VIVIER.

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all that glitters rings The Toi et Moi engagement ring could very well be the sweetest statement ever to grace a hand in betrothal. Set with a duo of mismatched stones that come together in union as one, as it were, the ring has an illustrious history behind it: Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to his beloved Josephine with a sapphire and diamond Toi et Moi ring. And the style has seen a recent surge of celeb engagements that go hand in hand with a fascination for the old, made new. Opposites attract, as they say.

HEART TO HEART. Duo Heart Ring in 18K Gold with Diamonds by MILAMORE.

A PERFECT PAIR. Emerald Cut White Diamond and Teal Pear Sapphire Ring in 18K Gold by MICHELLE OH.

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TWIN FLAME. 14K Gold and Diamond Toi Et Moi Ring by WHITE/SPACE.

DOUBLE UP. Radiant & Tycoon Cut Toi et Moi Ring in 14K Gold and Diamonds by GRACE LEE.

ME &

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TWICE AS NICE. Chloe Toi et Moi Engagement Ring in Yellow Gold and Diamond by MARROW & FINE.

THE TWO OF US. Duét Asscher Ring in 18K Gold and Diamonds by KATKIM.

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DOUBLE WHAMMY. Double Stone Heirloom Ring in 14K Gold with Diamond and Emerald by RETROUVAI.

beauty file MINIS GOOD ON PAPER. The Geisha Ritual mattifying papers by BIENAIMÉ.

It's the little things by Juli Alvarez

Carrying the essentials when your clutch barely has enough room to hold your phone is a tall order. But it’s no biggie. Beauty brands are keeping it to a mini-mum with scaleddown favorites that fit neatly in the tiniest of bags so you’ll never have to sacrifice style for practicality again.

HANDY. Micro Cloud Clutch with All-Over Pearl Embellishment by JIMMY CHOO.

GLOW UP. LE BALM Skin Savior Solid Sérum by BONJOUT BEAUTY.

ROSY. Mini size Baby Cheeks Blush Stick by WESTMAN ATELIER.

LIP SERVICE. Velvet Blur Mini Lipstick Balm by SIMIHAZE BEAUTY. HAIR DO. VICIOUS Strong Hold Flexible Hairspray Mini by R+Co.

EYE OPENER. Greatest Lashes Of All Time Mascara by POLITE SOCIETY.

SCENTSATIONAL. Pocket Perfume in Rose Atlantic by D.S. & DURGA. NATURALLY. Nourishing Rouge Stain by EVER AMID.

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LET YOUR HAIR DOWN. Bi-color Italian resin comb by DRIES VAN NOTEN.

WELLNESS

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EATING FOR TWO

It’s all too easy to fall off the healthy-food track after the big day. Here, some key guidelines for newlywed nutrition.

t was a light-bulb moment for New Jersey-based Mandy Enright, RDN and certified yoga teacher, expanded her soon-to-be-wed client base in 2015, taking on already-married couples seeking to maintain (or return to) their wedding-goal weight. Since then, Enright has grown her practice, working with brands and corporate clients—but her basic rules still apply. Here, she shares some of her signature wellness wisdom.

What are the best ways to get back on track, food-wise, after the wedding?

Planning really is the key when it comes to a healthy lifestyle. Just like no bride is going to wing it on her wedding day, you need to plan for healthy

eating and exercise as well. I always encourage my clients to plan their meals for the week, and use that plan as the basis for their shopping list.

And what are some common misconceptions?

People think that healthy eating is expensive. But when you do the math, a homemade meal will always be less expensive than going out to eat. Convenience foods (pre-cut or prewashed fruits and veggies) inevitably cost more, which causes you to assess what your time

Enright’s Ground Rules • DO NOT FIXATE ON NUMBERS. “I have so many people who count every single calorie and they drive themselves insane. Or they get on the scale and actually punish themselves by not eating if it’s a number they don’t like. That is not a healthy relationship with food or yourself.” • PLATE FOOD BEFORE SERVING. “I grew up in a traditional Italian household where every meal had large serving platters placed in front of us. Seeing the additional food as you’re eating makes it more tempting to go back for more. Plating the food not only helps with portion control, but also allows me to account for leftovers that can go toward another meal.”

PHOTOGRAPHY: SHUTTERSTOTCK

• STICK TO ONE PLATE. “Fill half of it with veggies (and/or fruit), ¼ with a lean protein, and ¼ with a hearty whole grain. Make sure there is a variety of nutrient-dense food at your meals. It’s more important to have a healthy complete meal rather than worry how many calories are on that plate.” • FORGET “GOOD” AND “BAD”. “There are no good or bad foods, only food. And all foods fit a healthy eating plan—it just comes down to moderation.” • MAKE THE TREATS SPECIAL. “My husband and I love ice cream. But to me, it’s more worthwhile to get in the car and drive to the homemade ice cream parlor versus going in my freezer and scooping out some store brand. By having to go out of my way to get a treat, it makes me assess how badly I really want it (as opposed to just being bored). I get my scoop in a kiddie cup, and I’m happy with the small serving I get to enjoy.”

is worth. For me personally, my time is not worth washing and spinning a head of lettuce until it’s bone dry; I always buy the prewashed lettuce because it’s so much easier. But I buy just about all of my fruits and veggies in their whole form due to cost.

What are the biggest obstacles to healthy eating?

What about eating at restaurants? Any strategies?

The food-service industry preys on immediate gratification and convenience, which often leads to poor choices. If you can plan accordingly, you will have healthy food in your home most of the time and make better choices. Have one or two go-to meals in your arsenal that you know can be made under 30 minutes. Use your freezer to store some back-up meals that can be heated when needed (but not frozen pre-made meals, those are scary calorie bombs). Or have a place where you can pick up relatively healthy meals—local delis or supermarkets offer healthy to-go meal options —just be mindful of the portion sizes.

My husband and I usually go out to eat two times a week. Typically we’ll share either an appetizer or a dessert, very rarely both. And often we’ll coordinate our entrées, which means we’re that couple exchanging dishes across the table halfway through a meal. And we both aim to take enough food home with us to make another meal, which helps on nights when we know we’re working late.  March/April 2024 BRIDALGUIDE.COM

party planner RECEPTION

A la Mode Old World charm meets elegant modernity at a celebration held at Chateau des Fleurs in Idaho. PHOTOGRAPHY BY KRISTA COX PHOTOGRAPHY

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“I love to capture historic locations in today’s world,” says Krista Cox. “Mixing history with designs and couples of today is an absolute dream.” To wit, the chalk-white table and chairs set off with a tumble of romantic cottage blooms, opposite page. 1 The graphic lace table covering is romantic and contemporary at once. 2 A tiered floral cake by Honey Bakes Cakery. 3 An invitation suite sets the scene for the festivities that await. 4 A clutch of ranunculus, peony and garden roses in repose. 4

party planner RECEPTION

1 A closer look at the artful tablescape, with linen napkins knotted just so, touches of blush pink via blooms and drinking glasses, and long tapered candles in a quirky yet sophisticated mauve-grey. The lush florals were arranged in small clusters set from one end of the table to the other, and kept low, for easy conversation. 2 Cocktails are served on a tiered, circular display table. “It was a stunning display,” Krista says. 3 An outdoor bar takes advantage of the sunlit setting, the better to show off the pretty glassware. 3

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Planning & design: Tiffani Price for Love Birds & Co. @lovebirdsvintage Concept: Heather Benge @styledshootsacrossamerica Venue: Chateau des Fleurs, Eagle, Iowa @chateaudesfleurs Local planning: Iridescent Events @iridescent_events Floral design: Lae Floral Event Design @lae.event.floral Rentals & decor: Blush Creek Rentals @blushcreekrentals Cake artist: Honey Bakes Cakery @honey.bakes.cakery Stationery: Jo’s Paper Kitchen @jospaperkitchen Linens: Nuage Designs @nuagedesignsinc

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) ANJAJENSENPHOTOGRAPHY; COURTNEY MASTERS, ABBY JIU TEAM; ALICE AHN PHOTOGRAPHY-COURTNEY MASTERS, ABBY JIU TEAM

Planners We L ve Take inspiration from these creative forces as we continue to spotlight the best in the business in our new series. by Carol Straley RAQUEL BICKFORD founder, ROQUE Events, Napa Valley, CA

VENUES OVERLOOKING THE SUN-

drenched vineyards of California’s Napa Valley; a rustic ranch under Raquel Bickford dazzling, wide-open skies; an elegant Asian art museum; lush, fragrant gardens; oceanside in Hawaii. These are just a few of the IG-worthy settings where ROQUE Events founder and executive producer Raquel Bickford and her gifted team work their magic to create memorable dream weddings. Driven by what she calls “my deep passion for weddings and events,” Raquel launched ROQUE Events in 2014. “My background in design, coupled with my upbringing in Napa Valley, inspired me to create a luxury wedding and event planning company where I could combine these two passions.” “What makes our weddings stand out is the unique, one-of-a-kind experience we create for each couple. No two events are the same, and we strive to make each one unparalleled and exceptional, leaving an enduring emotional imprint.” As Raquel so eloquently sums it up on her website: “At ROQUE, we chase exceptionalism.”

MY INSPIRATION

So in love.

• “I draw inspiration from a variety of sources, including art, nature, travel, and fashion. I believe that inspiration can come from anywhere and that it’s essential to stay open to new ideas and trends to keep our designs fresh and exciting.”

SECRET TO SUCCESS • “One of my key traits is my ability to stay calm in stressful situations and come up with creative solutions quickly. This trait has been instrumental in handling any unexpected challenges that can arise during wedding planning.”

MY FAVORITE PART OF WEDDING PLANNING

Be seated.

• “There have been many touching and professionally rewarding moments in my career. But one that stands out is when a couple had a surprise live performance by the bride’s favorite artist at their reception. The look of joy and astonishment on their faces was incredibly touching and a highlight of the event.” 22 BRIDALGUIDE.COM March/April 2024

An ethereal confection.

Farm-fresh florals.

A pastel palette.

Right this way!

Too much fun.

WORDS OF WISDOM • “I would like couples to understand that wedding planning is a partnership. Open communication and trust between the couple and the planner are essential. It’s about working together to make the planning process as stress-free as possible and ensuring that their vision comes to life.”

HOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) EASTON MIKA ; ALICE AHN PHOTOGRAPHY; EASTON MIKA; PHOTOGRAPHY COURTNEY MASTERS, ABBY JIU TEAM (3)

MAKING MEMORIES • “For a memorable welcome party, I love the idea of combining a stunning backdrop, like a poolside setting, with a blend of activities and treats. Imagine specialty cocktails and tray-passed champagne, setting the stage for a lively cocktail party.” • “As for food, indulgent options like gourmet tacos and churros dipped in chocolate are sure to get guests excited about the rest of the celebration.”

THE CASE FOR THE FAREWELL BRUNCH

A chiarascuro table setting.

• “While some couples may consider skipping farewell brunches, I believe they add a meaningful touch to the wedding weekend, leaving everyone with lasting memories of the entire celebration.” • “I adore the idea of a buffet-style breakfast with delicious bites that cater to various tastes and preferences, complemented by refreshing mimosas, zesty Bloody Marys, and an espresso bar to revitalize anyone who may be nursing a slight hangover.” A drone’s-eye view. • “A farewell brunch I am designing now that I absolutely love is at Switzer Farm, set on farm tables with a backdrop of the stunning ocean, creating a picturesque and serene atmosphere for guests to reflect on the wonderful memories made and to wish the couple all the best for their journey ahead. It’s a moment of gratitude and connection that beautifully rounds off the wedding celebration.”

WEDDING EVOLUTION • “Since the recovery from the pandemic began, we’ve noticed that guest lists are starting to grow again, with couples inviting more friends and family to celebrate with them. While the average guest count had temporarily decreased in 2021 and 2022, it’s now getting closer to pre-pandemic numbers.” • “We’ve put together around 25 weddings in 2022-2023, and we have about 15 more in the pipeline for 2024.”

GOING WITH THE FLOW • We’ve had to pivot and adjust plans to accommodate changing circumstances, which has made us more resilient. The silver lining has been discovering new ways to create unforgettable experiences, including virtual elements for those who couldn’t attend in person.” ➺ 23

Planners We L ve CHRISTINE ALTIERI & PHOEBE ALLEN

Founder/senior event manager, AE Events, Boston, MA

“IN ORDER TO BE IRREPLACEABLE,

one must always be different.” So Christine Altieri pronounced the enigmatic fashion legend Coco Chanel. One look at any of the exquisite, one-of-a-kind weddings created by Boston-based AE Events and you can see why it’s a quote that guides and inspires founder Christine Altieri. Drawing on her years of experience in the events industry, with a particular Phoebe Allen expertise as a floral and event designer, Christine launched AE Events in 2001. “As my experience grew, I learned that the design and the florals and all the pieces of the wedding did not have the desired overall impact if the many other details did not align.” Skill in aligning all the details is indeed AE Events’ super power. “We are known for our commitment, our go-getter attitude, attention to details and caring,” says Christine. Here, Christine teams up with Phoebe Allen, AE Events’ Creative Lead and Senior Event Manager, to share the joys—and challenges—of planning singular, stress-free weddings.

OUR SIGNATURE STYLE • “Our style is being flexible; we don’t follow one path when it comes to design. We listen to our clients and find ways to produce events that are inspired by their vision and their aesthetic.”

Feeling the love.

Let there be light.

OUR FAVORITE PARTS OF WEDDING PLANNING • “The moment that they say ‘I DO.’ There is such a release of energy and joy that fills the room, a smile Final touches. on every face.” • “The wedding ceremony rehearsal! It is the first time friends and family are seeing each other. You can feel the excitement in the air for the weekend to come.”

MEMORABLE MOMENTS • “Our overall favorite is a couple who loved the outdoors. The groom wanted to take the bride around the city in a pedicab but to do so had to get his hackney license. 24 BRIDALGUIDE.COM March/April 2024

An artful arch.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) CHERYL RICHARDS; ALLEGRO PHOTOGRAPHY; LEILA BREWSTER PHOTOGRAPHY (2); MAGGIE CROSBY: GREER GATTUSO

WHY WE LOVE WEDDINGS • “It’s the beginning of a new journey. We are graced with the opportunity to be a part of that beginning. Crafting an environment that matches the couple’s dreams and vision, while exceeding their expectations—how can we not love what we do?”

A glorious floral mix.

The sweetest thing.

And he did! It was such a moment when after the ceremony she climbed in the cab and he pedaled off, holding her hand!”

WORDS OF WISDOM • “Wedding planning is not just the flowers and the pretty touches. It is the keeping and managing of the many details that tie the day together. Our first and most important task is to find our couples their dream team of vendors. These are the best vendors that suit their aesthetic, vibe Joy riding! and budget. Once we have put this team together, let the details begin.” • “The couple should always breathe easier knowing that there are so many questions and tweaks and adjustments that happen that day (many of which go unseen), and it is one of our greatest talents that we are able to put out any ‘fire’ that may arise, without anyone ever knowing!”

Golden hour.

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THE BIG DAY • “The perfect wedding day is filled with activities for guests but also down time. You don’t want the day to be so jam-packed that the couple and guests can’t feel present to absorb every detail. We love a short and sweet ceremony, leading into a full cocktail hour with tons of passed apps and stations.” • “After ample time to dine, let’s have a dance party to end the night, with latenight bites and sweets and an espresso cart right on the side of the dance floor!”

WEDDING EVOLUTION • “Post COVID, when the flood gates opened, it was a bit scary how fast venues, rentals, tents, etc. were getting taken. The weddings that we produce now seem to have become much more thoughtful, as has the planning process itself. We’re spending more time listening and understanding what the most important elements of the weekend are for each couple and why.”

LOOKING AHEAD • “As we grow our business, we are eager to discover the new trends in the wedding industry, to meet new couples and their families, to travel and plan with them, and bring their vision to life.”  25

WHERE DOES THE

MONEY GO? NO MATTER WHERE YOU HOLD YOUR WEDDING, YOU’RE GOING TO HAVE TO TOE THE BOTTOM LINE. HERE, PLANNERS SHARE REGIONAL BUDGET BREAKDOWNS ALONG WITH SAVINGS TIPS THAT CAN BE USED ANYWHERE.

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BY DANIEL P. SMITH

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NORTHEAST

BUDGET BREAKDOWN Average wedding cost NYC metro • $46,756*

VENUE: 16% When deciding on the right locale, Brooklyn-based wedding planner and designer Jove Meyer calls “getting clarity on costs” the first order of business. “Some venues have no rental fee, just a food and beverage minimum, whereas others don’t do food and only make money on venue rentals.” A full-service venue that includes food, beverage, staff and space often helps the budget, Meyer says.

FOOD AND BEVERAGE: 31% Outside of reducing the guest count, Meyer suggests exploring other creative cost-saving measures. For instance, forego appetizer stations in favor of passed appetizers during the cocktail hour or downsize from a fully stocked open bar to a limited bar featuring select beers and wines. PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO: 16% Meyer suggests couples book an eight-hour minimum for photo and video coverage. “But 10 hours if you want full coverage of getting ready through dancing,” he notes. Booking one company that shoots both photo and video rather than two separate teams can spur savings. ENTERTAINMENT: 5% Entertainment costs will shift dramatically if couples select a live band over a DJ. For those dead set on a band, which can cost about five times more than a DJ, Meyer recommends sticking with the core band members and being mindful of their time.

SOUTH

For the ceremony and cocktail hour, for example, couples might pipe in a playlist through the venue’s speakers instead of having live music. RENTALS: 16% Rentals like tables, chairs and linens can be both functional and decorative. For the budget conscious, Meyer suggests chairs that work for both the ceremony and dinner, favoring on-site rentals. And, for those really seeking savings, consider disposable dinnerware for buffets or beach weddings—chic options abound, from sustainable bamboo to glossy acrylic.“Just keep the glassware,” Meyer says. FLOWERS: 16% A living product requiring staff, storage and transportation, flower costs frequently surprise couples. Meyer offers these tips: Instead of full bouquets, have your ’maids hold a single bloom, a fan or other pretty prop, and avoid any floral arrangements that require on-site construction.

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BUDGET BREAKDOWN Average wedding cost Charlottesville VA metro • $28,088*

VENUE: 25% Charlottesville, VA-based wedding planner Alana Futcher of Chancey Charm Weddings urges couples to take advantage of the region’s many venues capable of accommodating the ceremony, cocktail hour and reception. “You can give your guests different experiences at one location and often capture some savings, too,” she says. FOOD AND BEVERAGE: 35% Futcher recommends couples carefully review the caterer’s proposal to see if there are any menu items that require special equipment for prep or extra staff for serving—both of which add extra costs. PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO: 15% While couples might initially balk at allday coverage, Futcher often finds it’s the better way to go. “Couples often need more time and booking extra hours on the day-of instead of beforehand can be costly.” *Source: TheWeddingReport.com

ENTERTAINMENT: 7.5% Favor entertainment that performs double duty, Futcher says, such as those who can play music and serve as the evening’s emcee. Booking a band? Then inquire about additional music options for the ceremony and cocktail hour, which will often be more affordable than bringing in a separate entertainment provider. And don’t forget to ask about the inclusion of sound systems. “You don’t want to have to rent a sound system at the last minute,” Futcher says. RENTALS: 10% As with catering, the guest count can intensify rental costs—more chairs, more linens and so on. A venue with chairs, tables and the like included in the price frequently spurs savings compared to renting such items. “See what equipment rentals are already included in your venue and, most importantly, clarify what needs

to be brought in,” Futcher says. FLOWERS: 7.5% It’s a universal, often-overlooked floralbudget truth: “The more bridesmaids and groomsmen you have, the more bouquets and boutonnieres you need,” says Futcher. “And the more guests you have, the more table centerpieces you need.” Ask the florist for ideas on what pieces from the ceremony can be repurposed for the reception—just be sure to monitor the fees for moving flowers between locations. ➺ 27

MIDWEST BUDGET BREAKDOWN

Average wedding cost Chicago metro • $37,769*

VENUE: 15% When comparing venues, Kate Lerman, owner of Chicago Vintage Weddings, urges couples to consider the overall value, not simply the final tally. A venue with tables and chairs, a stage and a quality sound system on hand might cost more than raw space, but ultimately prove more cost effective since those items won’t need to be rented. Still, Lerman encourages budgetary vigilance. Some venues, she says, have “hidden costs” like strict vendor lists or in-house services that might not be “as flexible or affordable as couples would like.” FOOD AND BEVERAGE: 50% With food and beverage service greatly impacting the overall guest experience, couples are right to invest in it. Still, Lerman suggests couples ask caterers about their most affordable meal format. In some cases, plated meals might be more economical because fewer rentals

are needed compared to a buffet or family-style meal. PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO: 14% If couples love an established professional whose fee is simply too high, Lerman suggests asking that pro about more economical associates, perhaps someone the pro trained. Also, review the contract regarding digital rights. “This will allow you to make your own prints and albums instead of having to order them through your photographer,” Lerman says. ENTERTAINMENT: 8% Whether a couple chooses a DJ or a band, Lerman recommends asking the music pros if they will work with the venue’s sound system. “Just because it’s available doesn’t mean they’ll want to use it, and that will drive up costs,” she says, noting that many music pros prefer the reliability of their own equipment.

RENTALS: 8% Though optional, Lerman says fun extras like vintage lounge furniture and photo booths add to a reception’s vibe without breaking the budget. In some cases, these goodies can be available from existing vendors. “So, ask,” Lerman says. FLOWERS: 8% Lerman advises selective extravagance. “You don’t need giant centerpieces on every table,” she says. “Instead, have some showpieces and keep the rest more modest. This will save a lot of money and provide a pleasing texture and variety to your wedding style.”

SOUTHWEST

VENUE: 15% Houston-based destination wedding planner and designer Skylar Caitlin says many notable venues in the Southwest offer more than raw space. That’s a plus, as it means many items are conveniently and affordably factored into the venue costs. FOOD AND BEVERAGE: 50% Given catering’s hefty costs, Caitlin urges couples to prioritize. If premium liquor is paramount, then consider a buffet dinner to offset costs. If a grandiose display cake 28 BRIDALGUIDE.COM March/April 2024

Average wedding cost Houston metro • $37,282*

isn’t important, then consider a dessert table or a cost-effective sheet cake paired with a more modest three-tier display cake. And rather than trying to slash catering costs to the bone, investigate trades such as swapping the salad course with additional cocktail-hour hors d’oeuvres. PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO: 10% Avoid selecting the photographer’s lowest option package, which often fails to provide enough hours of coverage and excludes extras you may end up wanting. “You can chat with them about removing items like prints or albums, but remember that adding these on later will typically cost more when they are not a part of the package,” Caitlin says. ENTERTAINMENT: 9% DJ’s, Caitlin reminds couples, will almost always be more cost-effective than bands, where costs can escalate if lighting or a stage is needed. For those dreaming of live

music, however, Caitlin proposes bypassing full-fledged bands in favor of string quartets or small acoustic groups who can play during the ceremony or cocktail hour. RENTALS: 6% According to Caitlin, minimizing the rental budget starts with selecting a venue that doesn’t need a lot of “dressing up.” “Draping, false walls and replacing unsightly banquet chairs can add up fast,” she says. She suggests pushing the rental budget toward high-impact places, such as a backdrop for the band or higherquality linens. FLOWERS: 10% Provide a color palette, your likes and dislikes and then give way to the professionals, Caitlin says. But do tell the florist you want to reduce and recycle. Bridesmaids’ bouquets can double as flowers at the reception bar while the ceremony’s floral wall can later serve as a photo backdrop.

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BUDGET BREAKDOWN

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BUDGET BREAKDOWN

Average wedding cost LA metro • $46,143*

VENUE: 20% The Western U.S. offers an array of desirable, picturesque venues, though those with ocean views carry a premium price, reports Jen Bergmark, owner of First Pick Planning based in Los Angeles and San Francisco, CA. Yet many venues do not include rentals, which means every element of the wedding needs to be brought in—which can add up. While a full-service venue can lower costs, so, too, can a weekday wedding. For those less traditional couples, a non-weekend wedding can provide substantial cost savings, even at some of the most sought-after venues. FOOD AND BEVERAGE: 30% Bergmark isn’t one to support food and beverage service as a money-saving area. After all, cutting corners and veering away from a professional caterer with reliable, qualified staff can affect a wedding’s vibe

and hamper the guest experience. Still, Bergmark says, “Your caterer can suggest cost-cutting suggestions without compromising quality of service or food.” PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO: 12% Reminding that pictures and videos are long-term testaments to the wedding day, Bergmark cautions couples against choosing inexperienced, inexpensive photographers. “While a lower rate might look appealing at first, in the end you’ll want your wedding photos to reflect the technical skills only an experienced photographer has to capture those special moments accurately and beautifully,” she says. ENTERTAINMENT: 6% Though a live band will almost always cost more than a DJ, Bergmark doesn’t think that should preclude live musicloving couples from booking musicians. “It doesn’t have to be all or nothing,” she

says. Couples can mix and match. Perhaps a live band kicks off the night with one set before giving way to a DJ to close the evening. RENTALS: 20% When it comes to rentals, particularly at a venue that requires various extras, Bergmark suggests creating a priority list. “Know your deal-breaker items, but also have realistic expectations of items you would be okay not having in order to adhere to the budget,” she says. FLOWERS: 12% Given the prevalence of outdoor weddings on the West Coast, Bergmark says couples can utilize their surroundings to stretch the budget. “Less is sometimes more,” she says. To save, Bergmark recommends providing the florist creative freedom to make alternative suggestions, as many pros can share thoughts on cost-effective alternatives or ways to repurpose flowers throughout the wedding day. Garlands, for example, can easily transition from the ceremony to reception decor.  29

planning notebook QUICK TIPS and set your priorities. For example, your top three might be great jazz music, authentic Italian food and a first-rate photographer. “Once you’ve done all that, you’ll be right on track with those who’ve been at it for months,” says Paul. HINT: Enlist the help of friends. Give them jobs they’ll feel comfortable doing, like managing the RSVP list. You’ll be glad you did.

BE FLEXIBLE AND CREATIVE

You may find that some of your first choices aren’t available. For example, many popular wedding locations are reserved a year in advance. So learn to be flexible; a fabulous venue could be a place you haven’t yet imagined. “Instead of the more obvious choices, perhaps a friend has a beautiful beach house, or you could get married in a local park,” says Paul. Open your mind to different dates and times as well. Sometimes it’s much easier to find and secure a place for a Friday or Sunday—or earlier in the day. The better able you are to come up with creative alternatives, the happier you’ll be with the end result.

ASK FOR HELP Event planners may be hired to do the entire wedding, or simply to handle a few tasks you can’t fit in or even just to manage things on the big day itself. Researching vendors to learn who’s right for the job is time consuming, and a good wedding planner with a network of reliable vendors can figure out the celebratory logistics quickly and easily.

PERFECT TIMING

lthough many couples take up to a year and a half to organize their weddings, other duos want to make it snappy. “There is always that call from a couple who would like to get married in a couple of months,” says event planner Julie Pryor of Pryor Events in Los Angeles. There are plenty of reasons for having a wedding in a hurry—from a job change or military deployment to just plain eagerness to tie the knot. Here, some pros’ tips to ensure that, even with fast-andfurious planning, your wedding goes off without a hitch.

MAKE THE FIRST MONTH COUNT Wedding timelines usually start a year before the big day. So what’s a bride to do when she’s just six months out (or less)? “First, set your budget and make all your major decisions and purchases,” recommends Christine Paul of Christine Paul Events in New York City. “That means booking your ceremony and reception sites, purchasing or ordering your gown and the bridesmaids’ dresses, hiring a photographer and deciding on the honeymoon.” You’ll also want to sit down with your partner 30 BRIDALGUIDE.COM March/April 2024

Remember to take time to soak it all in. Sure, you’ll be in a hurry, but tastetesting dishes and listening to bands is still fun. Luckily, you’re already on top of this. “Couples who’ve gotten their weddings together in six months or less have told me they actually enjoyed the process,” says Paul. “They had less time to stress out and found the preparations surprisingly exciting.” 

But will it cost more? In many cases, you’ll receive the same treatment—and fees—as any other bride. In other words, giving shorter notice to vendors and other service providers doesn’t mean you’ll be getting a higher fee. And, says Debi Lilly of A Perfect Event in Chicago, “don’t assume you should refrain from negotiating prices just because you’re on a short timetable. Negotiate whenever and wherever it seems reasonable.” Although there shouldn’t be rush fees for booking your venue, your band, your florist or most other vendors, Lilly notes, “You can expect to pay extra for hurrying your and your bridesmaids’ gowns and maybe the invitations or favors.” So try to make quick, smart decisions. You really don’t have time to be fickle about the colors of your bridesmaids’ dresses or about whether to have roses or white orchids for your bouquet. Chances are, you won’t regret your choices—especially when you find you’ve eliminated costly “rush” fees.

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ENJOY YOURSELF!

ON HOLIDAY

ask david ADVICE

Thinking about nuptials on Memorial Day weekend, Valentine’s or New Year’s? Here’s what celebrations expert David Tutera has to say.

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here are many pros and cons to having your wedding on notable holidays: Valentine’s Day, the Fourth of July, Christmas Eve, and New Year’s Eve are all memorable days that can make your celebration even more special (and ensure you never, ever forget your anniversary!). I personally believe your wedding should be a special day of celebration on JULY FOURTH its own and set apart from anything else. But if you have your heart Keep it summer-perfect in set on a holiday wedding, here are a few tips to keep in mind. clean shades of white Your goal should be to own the holiday-inspired theme with minimal color accents. without going overboard and focusing on just the holiday. Instead, make subtle nods to the special day that you are sharing your wedding with. It’s very important to let your wedding be about style, color and you as a couple…not the VALENTINE'S DAY holiday itself. Go with nuanced To keep a personal feel, decor and embellishshades of blush, ments should drive the concept and not the holiday. garnet and red. For example, utilize elements available in the season: Winter spices, spring flowers, summer beaches or the fall harvest are all great ways to incorporate the time of year without being too literal. NEW YEAR'S EVE If you feel strongly about incorporating holiday Glam it up with black, colors into your decor, don’t go overboard. For white and gold. instance, for a July 4th wedding, try to choose just blues and whites—if you prefer red, choose a deep burgundy and use it sparingly, just as an accent. difficult to nail down, too. That said, one advantage is that some Red, garnet and blush are all Valentine-perfect shades. guests will see this as perfect timing since they won’t have to take Weekends like Memorial Day, which for most people is consid- off personal days from work if they need to travel to your nuptials. ered the first official weekend of the summer, can be challenging Others, however, may be put off because they cannot attend due to due to the popularity of family travel—accommodations can be a yearly family vacation or reunion (as these are popular weekends for family travel). Your RSVPs will reflect both results.

I Do’s for a Gala New Year’s Eve Wedding • Always check with the venue you are interested in to

make sure it’s available—many often open their doors to the public to host their own event on New Year’s Eve. • If you’re planning a New Year’s Eve wedding, keep in mind

that your reception time should start later than normal, as you want to make sure you are also celebrating the turn of the New Year with your guests when the clock strikes twelve. • Black-tie will make this night extra special. Or be extra

fabulous and throw a glamorous masquerade wedding! • To tie in the theme of this night, decor ideas could

include crystals, color, sparkle, props and even bubbles to celebrate the two special occasions.

HOLIDAY WEDDING DO’S & DON’TS • DO give as much notice as possible to your guests through save-the-date cards. People often plan vacations around the holidays so you may have more guest declines than expected. • DO make sure printed matter from save-the-dates to escort and thank-you cards visually connect to the holiday and season. • DON’T play holiday music at your reception. You want your guests to feel they are at a wedding, not a big holiday party. • DON’T forget that costs of vendors and travel may be higher. Flowers always cost more in winter months and during holidays such as Mother’s Day or Valentine’s Day. Hotels and airfare are more costly during peak vacation times, too—which can be financially inconvenient for out-of-town guests.  March/April 2024 BRIDALGUIDE.COM 31

planning 101

Countdown Calendar

Adapted from Bridal Guide’s How to Plan the Perfect Wedding…Without Going Broke, by Diane Forden (Grand Central Publishing)

12 MONTHS TO GO • Announce your engagement • Gather ideas for your wedding theme and style • Work out a basic budget; research wedding/reception venues • Determine number of guests • Get started on attire ideas • If you’ll be working with a planner, review potential candidates • Research photographers, videographers, reception bands or DJs; set up Zoom or live consultations; review portfolios, reels, recordings

11 MONTHS TO GO • If you’re working with a planner, make your selection and set up a meeting • Select and reserve your ceremony venue; schedule rehearsal time • Choose reception venue; negotiate contract; leave a deposit to hold the time • Determine theme/decor for your reception • Meet with potential caterers; arrange for tastings • Select and book caterer • Reserve musicians/DJ • Determine ceremony musicians and make musical selections • Book videographer and photographer; put together a shot list • Research floral designers • Secure venue parking and/or guest transportation • Visit local bridal salons and start looking/trying-on • Choose your wedding-party members; invite them to take part in your celebration

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• Meet with your officiant to discuss the ceremony • Determine your honeymoon budget • Start creating a wedding website as soon as your wedding date and venue are set

10 MONTHS TO GO

• Research wedding rings for you and your partner • Determine your floral designer; discuss wedding theme/style/palette

7 MONTHS TO GO

• Register for gifts (and update your website accordingly) • Work closely with vendors to ensure your theme/style/palette will be woven into all aspects of your day • Decide on the food and drink to be served • Prepare a playlist of reception music ideas for your DJ (include any Do Not Play titles if need be) • Select and order your headpiece, veil, shoes • Confirm order of delivery dates for your wedding attire • Research air, hotel and car-rental options for guests

• Review and finalize wedding details with your partner and/or planner • Coordinate any fittings/alterations with your bridesmaids • Consider groomsmen attire; make recommendations for formalwear shop or rental house • Select attire for flower girl and/or ring bearer • Scout stationers: Determine the design, wording and paper stock for your invitation suite, table cards, thank-you notepaper (you may include your website URL on a small insert, not on your formal invitation); finalize order • Hire a calligrapher (if needed) for table and escort cards • Determine order of ceremony events and choose appropriate wording for your programs • Book hotel-room blocks for your guests; negotiate rates; post info to your website • Select and order your wedding rings • Purchase bridal accessories: jewelry, lingerie, etc. • Choose and order something fun for guests to toss after your ceremony (rose petals, confetti, etc.)

8 MONTHS TO GO

6 MONTHS TO GO

• Go for your first gown fitting: invite your maid of honor to join you • Choose and order bridesmaid dresses and accessories

• Now’s the time to start thinking about honeymoon ideas • Review and approve proofs of invitations and stationery

• Select and order your wedding gown • If your ceremony or reception will be held in a special setting such as a park, obtain any necessary permits • Go over attendants’ duties with your maid of honor and bridesmaids • Send out save-the-dates if yours is a destination wedding (include your wedding website URL)

9 MONTHS TO GO

5 MONTHS TO GO • Order table cards; place print order for programs • Final choice of honeymoon destination • Taste-test a variety of wedding cakes and select a baker; place cake order and arrange for delivery • Make reservations for rehearsal dinner and select your menu

4 MONTHS TO GO • Determine method of addressing invitations and hire a calligrapher, if applicable • Hand address—or have a calligrapher address—invitations • Create your wedding vows • Have groom try on tuxedo • Purchase or rent groom’s wedding accessories • Make honeymoon travel reservations and place all deposits

3 MONTHS TO GO • Review and approve wedding announcement and printed program proofs • Book venue or secure reservations for post-wedding brunch • Discuss any bachelorette party plans with your attendants • Plan a bridesmaids luncheon or dinner, if desired • Book an appointment for a hair trial

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2 MONTHS TO GO • Weigh, purchase postage for and mail invitations • Secure a wedding-day dressing room for your bridesmaids • Go to final gown fitting; arrange for pickup or delivery • Have groom’s formalwear fitted • Purchase attendants’ gifts • Arrange transportation for bride and groom from ceremony site to reception • Update wedding website as needed

6 WEEKS TO GO • Send rehearsal dinner invitations • Write thank-you notes as you receive gifts • Confirm music selections with musicians and/or DJ • Select menu for post-wedding brunch • Shop for/create wedding favors • Plan and/or purchase honeymoon apparel essentials/luggage • Go for a dry run with your hairstylist and schedule a day-of-wedding appointment

4 WEEKS TO GO • Confirm floral order and arrange for delivery times • Meet with ushers and assign duties • Discuss ceremony details with your officiant • Determine placement or distribution of programs at the ceremony venue • Arrange for preparation, storage and break areas for musicians/DJ at the reception venue • Determine seating arrangements for guests • Go in for a makeup trial with a makeup artist and schedule a day-of-wedding appointment • Book a mani-pedi for the day before the wedding

• Finalize details with photographer and videographer • Finalize honeymoon plans and confirm all reservations • Arrange for transportation to and from the airport • Arrange for escort-card setup at your reception • Schedule pickup/return of groom’s formalwear if needed

3 WEEKS TO GO • Call anyone who has not yet responded to their invitation • Finalize guest list • Give final head count to caterer and review details • Arrange for deliveries: flowers, decor, rentals

1 WEEK TO GO • Reconfirm honeymoon travel arrangements • Start packing for honeymoon • Pick up your wedding dress

WEDDING DAY • Eat a healthy, energizing breakfast • Allow plenty of prep time for you and your ’maids • Relax and feel the love!

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Selene textured tulle cape with sweep train, $960, and narrow crepe Amber trouser, $750, both by BESA BRIDAL. Aida Raspberry Ring with Diamonds by SELIM MOUZANNAR. Amora Mid Slingbacks with crystal heart toe by SOPHIA WEBSTER. 38 000

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Ruffled mini cape dress by LÙCHEN. The “Black Swan” Mask with Swarovski jet and hackle feathers by SUZANNE COUTURE MILLINERY. 43 000

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Light blue Reflection mini dress with flirty skirt, $3,680, and sheer beaded corset, $2,070, both by INES DI SANTO. Bonnet by HONOR. Infinity Full Pavé Halo Engagement Ring by DAVID YURMAN. “Wifey For Lifey” Pumps by SOPHIA WEBSTER. 45 000

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Colette Blanc Lace Mini Dress, $950, and Colette Blanc Lace Bolero, $250, both by BRONX AND BANCO. Vanessa Over The Knee butterfly sandals by SOPHIA WEBSTER. Rings left to right, Sapphire & Multigem Nicola Bouquet Ring by CHROMA BY GREENWICH ST. JEWELERS and Beirut Rosace Ring with Tanzanite and Diamonds by SELIM MOUZANNAR. 50 000

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Colette Blanc Lace Mini Dress, $950, and Colette Blanc Lace Bolero, $250, both by BRONX AND BANCO. The “Dior Classic” velour felt platter hat by SUZANNE COUTURE MILLINERY. Ruby and Diamond Devmani Earrings by MODERN MOGHUL. Rings, right hand, a stack of Multigem Bouquet Rings by CHROMA BY GREENWICH ST. JEWELERS. Rings, left hand, Sapphire & Multigem Nicola Bouquet Ring by CHROMA BY GREENWICH ST. JEWELERS and Beirut Rosace Ring with Tanzanite and Diamonds by SELIM MOUZANNAR. 52 000

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A sense of family and place lay at the heart of this Colorado ranch wedding. PHOTOGRAPHS BY JODY ZORN PHOTOGRAPHY

Having grown up on the same street and dated for five years, one could say that Will Johnson knew Victoria Krage very well. Well enough to pull off a surprise proposal, a metal “Will You Marry Me” sign he hung in the barn at Victoria’s family ranch, which she spotted while she was feeding the resident horses. Recently remodeled and set against a majestic backdrop of mountains, the pastoral Krage Ranch was without question a fitting venue for the celebration to come. “We had so much fun,” Victoria says. “Our memories are fabulous, and the vendor team was amazing.”

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“The wedding took place on my parents’ ranch outside of Westcliff, Colorado,” Victoria says. “Our wedding party was small. My sister was the maid of honor, and Will’s brother was his best man. My brother Garrett officiated.” The ceremony itself took place in an airy meadow with a single tree in the heart of the property.

“My dad drove me from our home to the ceremony in his vintage 1950s Ford,” Victoria tells us. “I was praying the brakes wouldn’t give out as I arrived.” (They made it!) A cloud of baby’s breath was fashioned into a ceremony arch, echoed in the wedding cake, a three-tiered almond confection covered in white fondant ribbon.

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“My vision was to have a high-end feel that also celebrated the ranch,” Victoria says. Once the barn doors were thrown open for the reception, guests were greeted with a stunning palette of sharp black and white and soft woods. The color palette prevailed throughout, from tabletop and florals down to the black and white dance floor. “Mountain elegance was at the core of every element.”

The “Will You Marry Me” proposal sign was given new life as part of the reception decor. Stainless steel luggage tags, designed and fabricated at the family’s steel business, served as both escort cards and guest favors. Final thoughts from Victoria? “Live in the moment, the day will go so quickly! Surround yourself with family and friends!”

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perience upon booking into ENTERTAINMENT: Bentley Boys; the circa 16th century Dromoland Castle, a Celtic Steps; Fergus Nolan stately and quintessential country property CELEBRANT: just 15 minutes from Shannon International Clara Malone of Coastal Ceremonies Airport. A true treasure box of 98 guest WEDDING DRESS: Beloved Bridal, Ann Arbor Michigan rooms overlooking Lough Dromoland (that’s MAKE UP: Sara Duffy lake in Gaelic), the intimate hotel excels at HAIR: Donetta Behen all the traditional trappings of Irish hospitalTRANSPORTATION: Carrig Coaches ity—loads of cozy nooks for canoodling, individually appointed accommodations and exquisite service—and offers the best in only-on-a-grand-estate experiences like falconry, fly fishing, archery and horseback excursions. The golf on the property, which is legendary, was also a big draw for groom Joe, who hosted friends and family twice over the course of the One of the best wedding gathering. ways to tour. Meandering across the 450 wooded and pastoral expanse is another popular activity. A property overview. Guests can spy the locals—pheasant, badgers and deer—as they explore the rolling landscape. Cycling across the paths is also a fun way to experience the castle. Picnics can be arranged with the kitchen staff. Inside the distinguished stone walls, guests can repose in myriad settings including the full-service spa, a clubby cocktail bar, and a variety of eateries. Note: The afternoon tea is not to be missed (room rates start at about $460 a night; dromolandcastle.ie). 

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What are the five things every traveler should bring to Ireland? “Wellies and a raincoat, a sense of an adventure and a sweater,” says Meghan. “No matter the time of year, you’ll need a sweater.”

The stately set-up.

All the vendors including the florist were local.

“The Cliffs of Moher: Its natural, raw, beauty paired with the Irish fog is indescribable. You see it in photos and know that it is beautiful but when you experience it in real life—it truly takes your breath away.”

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A grand entrance.

“Within our ceremony we incorporated two Irish traditions: ring warming and LoSed mostion nobis handfasting.” In the ancient celtic ritual of handfasting, the couple’s hands are aut ipsaper rorpor bound together with ribbon to symbolize the binding of two lives. During a ring warming, the wedding bands are passed among the guests who lay blessings and other good thoughts on them for the couple and their future. “When our celebrant, Clara, told me about the ring warming, I knew we had to incorporate that as well,” explains Megahn. “It was an honor to have all of our guests bless our rings prior to us exchanging them.”

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In addition to the excellent food at Dromoland, the couple has a few favorite spots to grab a bite and a pint. “There is a speakeasy in Dublin, called the Vintage Cocktail Club that I found to be one of the most romantic restaurants,” says Meghan. The candlelight and the ambience are enhanced by the intimate tables. “In Doolin, there is a pub called Gus O’Connor’s, where there is always live music and some great Irish food—the Guinness Stew is amazing! The environment is exactly what you would picture when you think of a traditional Irish Pub,” she adds.

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Irish marriage requirements are strict. Couples must apply for permission to marry and meet with the Registrar in the county in which they intend to wed 5 days before the ceremony. Passports, notarized birth Marriage licenses are compulsory certificates, a marriage application, and issued by the County Clerk in and, if applicable, death certificates or California. Couples annulment certifi cates,must alongapply with ainfee person, and present proof of age, must be submitted at least 3 months marital status and the prior. Couples may be asked to submit necessary fees, vary by the following: the which intended marriage county. There is no waiting date, type of ceremony, names period. and birth Licenses are validand fordetails 90 days. dates of witnesses of the proposed officiant and venue.

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The artful cake made by bakers at the castle.

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Meghan and Joe booked their wedding at Dromoland Castle in February 2020, thus changes had to be made—all of which, it turns out, were enhancements to the magic of hosting a destination wedding in Ireland. One was the ceremony, which was planned to take place on the grounds of We are family. Dromoland Castle. Instead, guests were whisked away via bus to the epic Cliffs of Moher. “The Tower was covered in the most perfect dense Irish fog, to the point that the Cliffs were completely covered. As our ceremony progressed the fog had cleared to reveal the Cliffs,” recalls Meghan. Other tweaks included different musical acts (since bands were a no-go) and a troupe of Irish dancers. “The restrictions turned out to be the biggest blessing in disguise as those last-minute changes became the highlights of our wedding.” ➺

“I love that anywhere you go in Ireland there is live music. Whether you are in a pub or restaurant or just walking down Grafton Street where artists are busking, you will always hear music and see people just enjoying themselves.” Guests were surprised by the ceremony venue.

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Michigan couple Meghan and Joe celebrated their love surrounded by love.

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IN MEGHAN BEHEN’S FAMILY, Christmas is a time for travel. The tradition began in 2007 and one of their most memorable trips was to Ireland, a place that holds the name and history of the family. It was also the final vacation for Meghan’s little sister, Morgan, who passed away from a rare disease 10 months after their trip in 2016. When she and Joe DeFever (whom she met within that year) became engaged, Meghan knew that she wanted to honor her sister in some way. “Picking the venue in Ireland was a very easy decision. When we visited in 2015, we stayed at Dromoland Castle and it truly just felt like home. The staff was extremely friendly and inviting, we played board games in the den,” she says. “Not to mention, the castle itself is breathtaking, and the grounds provide the most picture perfect backdrops.” Ultimately why Meghan and Joe swapped vows in the Emerald Isle: “Dromoland hosts some of the most magical memories for me and my family, and I wanted nothing more than to share that with our guests during our wedding trip.

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SIDE BY SIDE, NOW AND FOREVER. One of the most enchanting destinations on earth, Saint Lucia is a wedding destination fit for a fairy tale. Picture-perfect venues range from charming churches and elegant plantation houses to Pigeon Island National Park, The Diamond Botanical Gardens, and beautiful beaches. Plus expert local wedding planners can help to plan your special day in an unforgettable way. Voted the ‘World’s Leading Honeymoon Destination’ fifteen times, Saint Lucia is also a magical escape for newlyweds, with romance, relaxation, and adventure woven into one. To find out more visit stlucia.org/wedding

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Picture-perfect wedding locations range from local churches and elegant plantation houses to Pigeon Island National Park, Diamond Botanical Gardens, and not to be forgotten, beautiful beaches. With so many options, expert wedding planners are available to add even more wows to your vows with those all-important personal touches.

Voted the World’s Leading Honeymoon Destination fifteen times and counting, Saint Lucia is a truly magical escape for newlyweds. Start married life in style, with romance, relaxation, and adventure woven into all kinds of memorable activities and experiences. Share in the indulgence of a private candlelit dinner on the beach, set sail on a sunset cruise, soak in the baths at Sulphur Springs, or even hop on a pair of Segways through winding trails. However you choose to spend it, let Saint Lucia make your wedding or honeymoon not just special, but spectacular.

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WEDDINGS AWAY about 2,000 cacao trees. The beans are harvested and used for bean-to-body spa treatments like the mocha massage and chocolate-oil third-eye drips, as well as in cocktails, catering and dessert buffets. There’s an in-house, full-time chocolate alchemist who holds tastings and workshops, and can sculpt edible centerpieces, cake toppers and custom favors (wedding packages include ceremony site fees, officiant, bridal bouquet, cake, champagne toast and more; jademountain.com).

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There are few brands on the planet that are as synonymous with romance as the Caribbean-born-and-bred Sandals name. Since their launch more than 40 years ago, the familyhelmed all-inclusive resort company has placed couples at the heart of their guest experiences. And the destination wedding business is as special to them as it is to you when planning your big day. All events are customizable, come with wedding planning assistance and can be test-driven beforehand—talk about a great excuse to experience the beauty of the island! Packages run the gamut from just-the-two-of-us celebrations to blowout bashes. While we’re partial to the overwater chapel at this postcardperfect location, however you choose to say “I do,” book into the sultry overwater bungalows, which come with enormous private decks, cool hammocks suspended over the sea, an oversized soaking tub for two and butler service (wedding packages start at an elopement package, which includes planning assistance, ceremony and reception, which features an hour cocktail hour and private dinner, as well as some flowers, a couples massage and more; sandals.com).

A jewel box of a boutique property where large resorts are de rigueur, this quiet option is the perfect match for those couples looking for an intimate celebration experience. Positioned on a cliffside, the sustainable property of 49 rooms promises pairs that nearly every corner in the tropical enclave is Instagram-ready for a ceremony. While the individually appointed accommodations will spark joy for every discerning visitor, we encourage you to reserve one of the offerings with a private plunge pool. The main pool is a popular place to lounge with guests in between nuptial events; the smaller one really makes a splash thanks to its serpentine cascading edge. A waterview restaurant, access to the hotel motor boat for sunset cruises and a showstopper of a beach accessed via a staircase round out the amenities (starting wedding packages include ceremony site and celebrant, some flowers and decor, a bottle of champagne and cake, as well legal fees and more; capmaison.com). ¢

Legally Wedded St. Lucia requires couples to be on island for two days prior to marrying. Licenses are issued after a presentation of notarized and translated passports, birth certificates and divorce decrees or death certificates. Fees change regularly and are separate for notary, registrar and marriage certificate.

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A wedding on St. Lucia is a tropical delight.

Consider swapping vows on this paradise found.

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ne of the southernmost islands of the Caribbean region, St. Lucia is something of a rockstar. Popular with actual rockstars (we’re looking at you, Chris Martin of Coldplay and Justin Beiber) and A-Listers— Matt Damon famously hosted his blow-out anniversary celebration on

island—and the one and only Oprah, who owns a home on St. Lucia, the island welcomes visitors in search of a robust Caribbean experience. But what does that mean exactly? It means, unlike other island nations, St. Lucia truly offers it all. There’s adventure in the form of sailing, snorkeling, and stand-up paddleboarding, but also of the heart-pumping variety, thanks to the island’s emblematic Piton with some of the best island views. Sure, there is lounging in the sun, but this island

excels in the act of rejuvenation, thanks to its natural hot springs. Hot tip: They are located in the world’s only “drive-in” volcano. All of those natural offerings are enhanced by unbeatable food—chocolate is a marquee product, and many of the estates on which it is grown and crafted welcome visitors—elevated cocktail scene (the drinks here aren’t your run-of-the-mill sugar-sweet rum punches) and exquisite accommodations, many of which come standard with butler service. Yes, you read that correctly. So with all these offerings, it’s understandable why couples in search of all the picture-perfect amenities of the Caribbean along with a desire for a top-shelf wedding experience turn to St. Lucia to host their destination event. Here, some of the standout hotels that promise happily-ever-after when you choose to swap vows on this sun-kissed 16 HONEYMOON GUIDE March/April 2024

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Of all the offerings on the island, this may be the most recognizable, thanks to its open-air villas. That’s right—accommodations, called sanctuaries, at this luxury hideaway have just three walls; the fourth is open to the gentle tropical sea breezes, private patios with pools and unbeatable views of the marquee attraction: the Piton peaks. Wed here and your guests can relish in all the riches of St. Lucia including its robust chocolate offerings. The 600-acre property is home to

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The Rockhouse Hotel & Spa.

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BUILT INTO A SERIES OF ROCKY OUTCROPPINGS perched on the picturesque Caribbean Sea, The Rockhouse Hotel & Spa is aptly named. With just 40 guest accommodations scattered across eight lush acres, this is the true definition of a boutique hotel. Visitors here (the resort only welcomes those 12 years and older) are treated to supreme serenity. The full-service spa is an ode to pampering, with treatments savored VENUE: THE Rockhouse Hotel & Spa either in breezy cliffside cabanas WEDDING PLANNER: or in the tranquil pavilion nestled Kimberley Dunkley Watkins amid tropical flora and foliage. PHOTOGRAPHER: Opt for a two-hour sound bath, a Ana Reyes, @Huds0nhawk weekly ritual of meditation, sound VIDEOGRAPHY: Bailey Reese Visuals therapy and breathwork, for an FLORIST: Tai Flora Luxe Events immersive healing experience. INVITATIONS: Minted Food here is another standBAR: select Aperitivo out, with many of the ingredients CAKE: Lee Lee’s Cake Creation sourced at the property’s orCUSTOM COCONUTS: Have a Jelly ganic farm and hydroponic greenBRIDAL GOWN: Alon Livne White house. The resort’s Rockhouse HAIR: Bridal Glow Restaurant is positioned on an MAKEUP: Joni Stone outcropping overlooking Pristine Cove, while Pushcart Restaurant & Rumbar specializes in classic jerk offerings, and the Pool Grill & Bar is all about those island rum punches and accompanying bites. Additional resort offerings are classically Caribbean and include yoga in a pretty pavilion, stand-up paddle boards, shaded chaise longues and a serene infinity pool over the sea (room rates start at $160 a night; rockhouse.com) .

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Accommodations are rustic luxe. The main restaurant all aglow.

Ohming in paradise. On shore.

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the coolest

One only-in-Jamaica activity is the bobsled experience on Magic Mountain. Based on the success of the Olympic winter sports team and the movie that followed their journey, visitors get the chance to whiz down a mountain in a bobsled via a 1,000-meter-long suspended track. The park in which it is located is a beautiful location to spend the day exploring.

“If you can make it to the Pelican Bar, it is our favorite spot. It is a bar in the middle of the ocean that is man made, and you can only get there by boat.”

teamwork

What’s Erin’s biggest piece of advice for fellow brides? Hire a local planner. “We used a wedding planner and she was fabulous. I would recommend her

At the signature cocktail cart.

to anyone—Kimmi Watkins.” Among her tasks, Kimmi streamlined all correspondence with vendors, created checklists for every stage “and, most

The place cards.

importantly, the day of—she made sure everything went to plan.” A wedding

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planner also “lets the couple know of everything that would need to be done if they were obtaining their marriage license in Jamaica.”

Guests signed records.

You can get married on Jamaica 24 hours

after you arrive on the island, however, you should arrange all paperwork at a minimum two weeks

in the bag The couple’s welcome

bags for their guests showcased offerings from local vendors. There was Blue Mountain coffee scrub from Paradise Child, lip scrubs and other self-care accessories. Chocolate and scotch bonnet sea salt were also placed in the pretty pouches.

before the ceremony with the following: birth certificates, passports or other photo IDs, stated occupations, and, if applicable, a divorce decree or death certificate. A wedding coordinator can assist with all the paperwork for the What’s in the bag?

required marriage license. Both parties

so splashy

One year before they jumped the broom, Erin and Steven had visited Jamaica and stayed at The Rockhouse, an intimate boutique hotel in Negril. They chose the location for all their wedding weekend events not only for its location and stellar service, but also for its unabashed beauty. “It doesn’t get

more beautiful or unique then The Rockhouse. To me, it is an architectural phenomenon, all built out of rock, and on the beautiful turquoise waters of Jamaica,” says Erin. She calls the infinity pool on property “epic” and says of her first-look spot: “Many choose the iconic bridge, but we wanted to be To infinity.

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different, and did this spot with a spiral staircase down by the water.”

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must be at least 18 years old.

F ALL THE PARADISES FOUND IN THE CARIBBEAN, there may be none as treasured as Jamaica. Called by many the island of One Love, it is adored not only for its epic beaches and mountain interior from which its

unbeatable coffee is sourced, but also its cuisine—did someone say jerk?—affordability, accessibility, and excellent array of hotel and resort offerings. It’s also a spot that people enjoy returning to year after year and for special occasions. Such was the thinking of Erin Cohen and Steven Berrebi, a pair of content creators, who wed on

The island-chic table

the sun-kissed island. “Jamaica has always held a special place in my heart. Our first international work project was to The Rockhouse in Jamaica in 2021, and we both fell in love with it. A year later we got married at the same location,” says Erin. She adds: “Jamaica is affordable, not a long flight from the east coast of the U.S., most airlines

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offer direct flights, it’s beautiful, they speak English and we love it.”

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“I think Jamaica is great for anyone. I went there in college on spring break, then in my thirties multiple times—there is so much to do and see or it is also the perfect place to just relax and unwind.”

A Jamaican baker made the cake.

Erin and Steven love Jamaica’s Blue Mountain coffee. (When asked what one should buy when there, her response was “coffee, coffee, coffee.”) And they equally savor jerk, the dry-rubbed or wet marinated spicy blends that are poured over meats and fish, then roasted on an open fire. Those tastes, along with other marquee Jamaican offerings, were featured prominently in their wedding celebration. In addition to “lots of jerk chicken,” the seating cards were fashioned from Red Stripe bottles, the local beer, while the guest book was made of Bob Marley records. They also served a signature cocktail—the Select Spritz—and a cake made by a local baker, adorned with pressed flowers. ➺ The chuppah held the bride’s father’s tallit.

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JAMAICA

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PHOTOGRAPHY: ANA REYES, @HUDS0NHAWK ⁣

THIS COUPLE OF CREATIVES JUMPED THE BROOM ON THE CARIBBEAN ISLAND OF ONE LOVE. BY JENNA MAHONEY

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artists, creatives and chefs, this Colonial town in the heart of Guanajuato, Mexico, San Miguel de Allende is renowned for its charming cobblestone streets, Baroque architecture, excellent gastronomic offerings and delightful gallery scene. Among the historic buildings in the country’s oldest town is this enclave of just 67 individually appointed guest rooms housed within a classic facade. The exquisite hotel amenities include Luna, a sky bar that promises the best vantage point for watching the sky swirl with color as the sun sets (room rates start at $450 a night; rosewoodhotels.com).

Perched on a pink palace edged by powdered sands and that unmistakable cerulean Bahamian water is one hot Skybar. The design and vibe is full-on Caribbean whimsy with a distinct touch of luxury. With a menu that’s all about elevated cocktail offerings and unbeatable views, this spot put the ‘happy’ in happily ever after, especially at magic hour when the color of the sky reflects with that of the vibrant facade. The hotel is part of the luxurious Baha Mar complex on the island of Nassau that encompasses stellar beaches, cool pools, two spas, multiple eateries and a casino (room rates start at $599 a night; bahamar.com).

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In Paris’s up-and-coming 13th arrondissement stands the city’s third tallest tower, an haute masterpiece designed by Pritzker-winning architect Jean Nouvel that houses Too Hotel, a 139-room hotel with unbeatable views of the most emblematic symbols of love in one of the most romantic cities in the world—the Eiffel Tower. At the top of one of the twin skyscrapers stands Too TacTac, the highest bar in the City of Light. The food menu is a fusion offering of Asian specialities and the cocktails are as spectacular as the view (room rates start at about $220 a night and include breakfast; toohotel.com). ¢

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Make a splash, savor the flavors of one of the world’s most recognizable chefs—Nobu Matsuhisa— and marvel at Barcelona’s most famous site, La Sagrada Familia cathedral, when you spend the afternoon on this rooftop bar, restaurant and pool area in this chic and cosmopolitan hideaway. Restricted to houseguests of the 259-room hotel, the outdoor space is the perfect perch to retreat from the city heat, thanks to the small pool and amply shaded Balinese beds. At twilight, the vistas sparkle with the twinkling lights of the cathedral, the city, and its highest point, Montjuic (room rates start at about $250 a night; nobuhotels.com).

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Thompson Savannah This Southern city has become a buzzy destination in recent years thanks to its walkability, awesome food scene, and oh-so-ready-for-social-media architecture. And with this influencer status have come some elevated options for enjoying it all. The sleek Thompson Savannah, with its cool rooftop bar in the River’s Edge, is one such offering. Not only is Bar Julian the tallest in the city, it’s also one of its brightest new outposts, with food and cocktail menus that showcase modern interpretations of local ingredients (room rates start at $299 a night; hyatt.com/thompson-hotels).

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Among the towering skylines of the world, perhaps New York City’s is the most recognizable. Marvel at the notable (and OG) skyscrapers—the Empire State Building and the Chrysler Building—the uber-modern One World Trade Center and countless other towers kissing the sky when you reserve a table at Nubeluz, the rooftop bar and eatery space at this gleaming 250-room Big Apple retreat. Helmed by the incomparable Spanish chef José Andrés, the menu reflects his singular approach to cuisine. The high tea offering is a fun way to experience the space and its amazing view (room rates start at $950 a night; ritzcarlton.com).

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In every issue, we scout a spot that’s perfect for tying the knot away from home. by Jenna Mahoney WITH ITS CLASSIC NEW ENGLAND TOWNS of historic white clapboard buildings, pastoral landscapes dotted with dairy farms, quaint covered bridges and rushing streams, and the foliage-dense mountains for which it gets A ceremony set-up. its name, the Green Mountain State is inherently romantic. And hosting a wedding here is equal parts elevated and homey—and all utterly photogenic. The Hermitage Inn, which sits at the base of Haystack Mountain in southern Vermont, is as emblematic of the offerings of the state as its decadent maple syrup. Once a farmhouse, the 112 acre property was home to sheep and cattle before opening up to guests in 1962. The inn is now the epitome of a luxury country retreat complete with a charming covered bridge that’s the picture-perfect spot to tie the knot. Wedding guests are treated to an array of outdoor activities all on property—there’s fly fishing, kayaking, archery and trekking across the hiking trails. There are opportunities to host wine tastings and pastry classes and relax with a bespoke massage. Meals can be hosted in spots including the wine cellar, the fine dining restaurant and clubby tavern. Ceremonies are often held outside in view of all that natural beauty The Equinox Golf Resort & Spa (wedding packages start at $32,500 and Located in Manchester village, this historic 195-room property is known for its striking include site fee, food & beverage miniwhite columns and a 14-acre site called mum, and exclusive wedding planning Equinox Pond. services. Events here require a full buyEdson Hill out; thehermitageinnvermont.com). ¢

The historic inn.

The covered bridge welcomes guests.

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This country estate set in the mountains just outside the popular ski resort town Stowe offers 23 guest rooms, a classic barn and horse stables.

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Legally Wedded

Fly fishing happens on site.

Any two people 18 or older can get married in Vermont and licenses ($80 and valid for 60 days) can be obtained from any town clerk in the state by providing your names, addresses, dates, and places of birth (and birth certificates as proof), as well as both of your parents’ names (including mothers’ maiden names) and places of birth. If widowed or divorced, you’ll need to provide documented proof. Vermont also allows almost anyone to become a temporary officiant for a $100 fee.

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