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CONTENTS NOV/DEC 2024

FASHION & BEAUTY 7 PROFILES

Meet Bronx and Banco’s Natalie De-Banco.

8 COVER STYLE

How to get that beautiful look.

10 MOOD BOARD

See for yourself why pearls are officially vibing.

12 ALL THAT GLITTERS

How many rings can you stack on one finger?

14 BEAUTY FILE

Bid adieu to circles, puffs and bags with these eye-opening products.

17 BODY FILE

Be picture perfect with these pro photo-posing tips.

36 DREAMY

Soft-focus textures and structured shapes assume center stage.

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JAS I G N AT U R E .C O M

CONTENTS NOV/DEC 2024

WEDDING PLANNING 16 ASK DAVID TUTERA

Here’s what our guru loves (and doesn’t love) about wedding planning.

18 PARTY PLANNER

A stylish celebration in Buffalo, NY.

22 PLANNERS WE LOVE

Meet (and learn from) some of our favorite wedding geniuses. by Carol Straley

26 YOU’RE ENGAGED—NOW WHAT? Wedding planning 101.

33 PLANNING NOTEBOOK

A groom’s practical (and hilarious) planning advice. by Sam Ofman

50 WEDDING ALBUM

Tying the knot in a soccer stadium.

NEWS & FEATURES 6 WEDDING Q&A

66 TRAVEL NEWS

Etiquette questions and answers.

30 IT’S HOW MUCH?

Don’t let these hidden costs wreak havoc on your budget. by Stella Katsipoutis

58 WEDDINGS AWAY

A revamped seaside hideaway welcomes couples looking to swap vows in a modern yet laid-back setting.

60 RESORT ROUNDUP

The healing appeal of spas goes outdoors at these posh properties.

62 REAL DESTINATION WEDDING

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This couple’s love of food was the center of their celebration in Brooklyn.

66 ALL-INCLUSIVE INTEL

Activity menus at our favorite resorts take you beyond the beach.

74 REAL DESTINATION WEDDING A fantasy island destination played host to one Florida couple’s wedding.

78 CRUISE DISPATCH

Bachelorette bashes take to the high seas on these celebratory cruise itineraries. by Donna Heiderstadt

88 FIRST LOOK

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etiquette ADVICE

A Q Wedding

Straight talk, smart solutions by Mary Clarke, Editor in Chief

REHEARSAL REQUIRED?

Is it really necessary to have a rehearsal for our ceremony? We’d much rather keep it loose and not plan anything too formal. No matter how loose, laid-back or informal you want your ceremony to be, it’s still necessary to have a run-through sometime before the big day. You and your spouse-to-be, your officiant, your bridal party and any others involved in the ceremony such as your musicians need to know who does what—and when. Otherwise you run the risk of confusion and unnecessary agita on the wedding day. A rehearsal needn’t take long, and once it begins you’ll be relieved that all involved are fully versed in the protocol.

INVITATION ETIQUETTE

I was surprised to receive an invitation to a friend’s wedding that was only addressed to me. She knows I’m engaged and has met my partner. Shouldn’t their name be on the invitation as well? The rule of thumb is to invite the partner of anyone who is married, engaged, living with someone or in a relationship of six months or more. Members of the wedding party should also be invited with a guest. If you happen to be living together then your betrothed’s name should have been written beneath yours on the envelope. If your spouse-to-be has their own place, your friend should have asked for their address and sent them an invitation. Perhaps she just assumes that you will both attend or inadvertently omitted your intended’s name on the envelope. Either way, it wouldn’t hurt to find out. Thank her for the invitation and ask if your partner is also invited: “I know the

invitation is addressed only to me, but I assume my partner is invited as well and just want to confirm this with you.” If she isn’t inviting your spouse-to-be, she’ll need to explain this etiquette “don’t,” but our guess is that your partner is definitely on the guest list.

TOAST TIPS

My fiancé’s best man is a great guy, but a bit unpredictable. I’m a little worried about the type of toast he may give. Any advice? Be open and honest about your expectations right from the start. You and your fiancé should make time to get together with your best man to discuss his toast and your vision for the wedding. Make it clear that you’d like his words to highlight the positive qualities of your relationship and answer any questions he might have. Creating and writing a good toast takes effort, forethought and practice, so invite him to collect funny, sweet or meaningful stories about and your fiancé from your families and friends. That said, as long as his speech is heartfelt and includes a little humor and sentimentality, you needn’t worry.

BOTTLED UP

My spouse-to-be and I are providing the alcohol for our wedding. For 75 guests, how many bottles of red and white wine and champagne should we purchase? Good question. Most couples don’t have any idea how many drinks per guest are needed. Here’s a guideline: One bottle of wine or champagne provides about five to six glasses and most guests will probably drink no more than two glasses per hour. So,

depending on the time of day (guests are apt to drink more at an evening wedding) and your crowd (are they party people or a more subdued bunch?), you can figure on about 25 bottles each of champagne, red wine and white wine for 75 guests. You’ll also want to have plenty of soft drinks and water on hand (a liter for every three or four guests) and lots of ice. And ask your reception site manager if there’s a corkage fee—some places charge as much as $10 per bottle just for opening and serving beverages that you provide. Finally, request that both opened and unopened bottles are returned to you after the wedding.

FOOD ALERT

We plan on serving beer, wine, sandwiches, salads and wedding cake at our afternoon reception. How should we let our guests know not to expect a full sit-down meal? It’s considerate to inform your guests about the type of meal they’ll be served so they can plan accordingly. On your wedding invitation, below the reception location information, state “light refreshments will be served.” You and your spouse-to-be can also spread the word to family and friends beforehand.

››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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ne of the topics our editors get asked on the reg is about styling the wedding look. Sure, some brides are laser-focused and know exactly what dress they want and how they’re going to wear it. But if you’re like us, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by the choices. There are so many gorgeous wedding dresses out there, take a cheeky gander at this stunning Galia Lahav gown! Six times a year we shoot a cover and each time we’re faced with a choice of similar import. We admit not quite as consequential, mind you. Once we have our dress...

We Like Your Style

HOW YOU WEAR YOUR DRESS IS ALL YOU.

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PHOTOGRAPHER: DAVID DUNAN; MAKEUP: WILLIAM MURPHY AT STATEMENT ARTISTS; HAIR: THOMAS DUNKIN: AT ART DEPARTMENT; STYLING ASSISTANT: CHLOE MANGO

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...and yes, tears might be involved, we too are faced with the exciting task of styling the look with jewelry, headgear (to veil or not to veil), and flowers. We can’t stress enough that every bride should look and feel like her best self on the wedding day so if a bouquet of black orchids suits, then go for it. A choice like that can be strikingly beautiful. A knockout headpiece like this handmade couture flower band from Monvieve makes a big fashion statement, but the natural makeup and easy, sexy (yet polished) hair feels more real than reality-show trying too hard. Styling is a nuanced balancing act. Proportion and personality are everything. How you wear your dress is all you, so don’t stress. It is meant to be joyful and fun!

COVER STYLE: Corded French lace corset Anais gown with angel wing neckline worn with dramatic, structured Anais overskirt, $10,800, by GALIA LAHAV. Fleurette Bespoke silk floral band with vintage silk netting by MONVIEVE. Rashi ring with rose cut diamonds by MODERN MOGHUL. Black orchid bouquet by JILLIAN ELLIOTT, Senior Event Designer at WINSTON FLOWERS, NYC. 9

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SWEETNESS Bow Double Earring with freshwater pearls and 14K certified recycled yellow gold by SOPHIE BILLE BRAHE.

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ON POINT Danger Spike Ear Cuff with South Sea pearls and 18K yellow gold by TASAKI.

RETRO-RAVE 18K White gold Lily Ring with pearls and diamonds by AMRAPALI.

The tides have turned on the status of wedding day pearls. This ethereal natural gem brings an otherworldly polish that adds a cool touch and a twist to tradition. No longer just a pretty accent, pearls have become the main event. Dresses are swagged, shoes are electrified, and jewels get supersized, studded, and sugar-coated. Pearls are officially vibing.

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THE WEDDING STACK

If you’re not sporting a multi-level wedding ring stack, are you really even married? We jest of course, but the wedding stack is well, stacking up to be a major trend among brides. Sure, it starts out with that dazzling engagement ring and then your wedding band on the big day, but then you hit an anniversary, a birthday, a personal milestone, the birth of a child, and before you know it, your wedding stack is not only epically beautiful, but it’s a part of your story marked in diamonds, gemstones, and precious metals. So, pile them on and stack them up, your ring ﬁnger awaits.

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MEET NATALIE DE-BANCO OF BRONX AND BANCO

Join us in conversation with some of our favorite people in the wedding biz. We’re so inspired by these incredible talents and their unique vision as they bring you the very best of all things bridal (and beyond). Because our friends are your friends too, please welcome Natalie De-Banco. BG: Hi Natalie. Can you

such a personally rewarding experience!

offer women the opportunity to dress in

tell us a little bit how

BG: Who is your bride?

what they feel confident in that day.

you forged your brand

NDB: Anyone and everyone. The beauty of

BG: Your recent bridal collection was

BRONX and BANCO?

our bridal collections is that there is not only

inspired by ballerinas. Can you elaborate?

something for everyone, but there is

NDB: La Danse Blanche collection was

started when I was little, playing in my

something for every occasion. We want her

inspired by my life-long love affair with

grandmother’s button collection and

to have a look for her engagement, brunch,

ballet. It’s my tribute to a ballerina’s ability to

drawing (very amateur) fashion illustrations.

reception, ceremony, honeymoon, etc.

radiate femininity while embodying the

During college, I started my own resale

BG: If you could dress anyone for their

strength and confidence of a dancer on

business back when eBay was red hot, and

wedding day, who would it be?

stage. I really wanted to represent the

eventually this grew into a pop-up store. It

NDB: Oh, working with Zendaya to design

dancer’s elegance and spontaneous

was actually Channel 9 (Bondi Beach’s

her bridal dress would be amazing—I love her

playfulness through each of my designs.

beloved local news station) that reached out

style. That said, it’s a huge honor to be part

BG: What would you like brides to know

to me to do custom pieces for their team,

of any bride’s wedding day. For a bride to

about you and your brand?

and I thought, let me build a brand of my

choose one of your designs is the biggest

NDB: Believe it or not, about 12 or 15 years

own. Bronx and Banco was born!

compliment you can receive as a designer.

ago when I was first working on custom

Recently I began designing the brand’s

BG: Your collections are filled with sexy,

bridal back in Australia, I was one of the first

first bridal collections. Years ago, before the

strong looks. What is your philosophy on

designers to make contemporary bridal

brand really got started, brides would reach

the power of dressing?

styles and enter them into the department

out to me for custom wedding dresses.

NDB: My design process really depends on

store landscape. Kicking off the

Being able to get back to these roots and

how I wake up feeling that day. Sometimes

contemporary bridal space all those years

and show at New York Bridal Fashion Week

you are feeling feminine or flirty, other times

ago really forged the way for the DNA of the

years later under the brand name has been

more masculine or contemporary. I want to

designs you see in my collections today.

NDB: Of course! It all

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ask david ADVICE

A Master Plan

Celebrations expert David Tutera takes on the to-do list.

et the wedding planning begin! This should be one of the most enjoyable and creative processes you will ever experience. But many brides and grooms tell me they get so overwhelmed they feel as if they’ve taken on a second job they’ve had no training for. As for me, I started at 14, learning the craft of floral design while working at my grandfather’s flower shop. That’s where my journey began. I truly believe I was born to create parties. Here, some of the planning aspects I love most—and least. Get the more difficult wedding elements under control and the rest should fall into place.

THE PROS (what I ❤)

• SETTING THE VISION Getting a chance to dive in and under-

• FLOWERS AND DECOR I love meeting with vendors in all areas

from invitations to flowers, colors and lighting. Whether discussing invitations, color palettes or venues with my brides and grooms, I always envision the overall celebration. Flowers are forever key: A bride without a bouquet or a table without a centerpiece isn’t, to me, a wedding. Soft colors, bold colors or combinations thereof create an overall style or even evoke a period in time. These visual components can be the most pleasurable parts of planning.

• FOOD AND DRINK It’s great to use food to tell the story of your

culture and background—this is something I always explore with my couples. Do take care, however, not to get on the full-on foodie bandwagon when planning your wedding, incorporating too many exotic ingredients that may make your guests uncomfortable. When it comes to beverages, specialty drinks have been a major trend but I am now loving specialty bars, such as whiskey, champagne and/or wine bars. Any of these options can make your wedding more unique.

• THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE I love the chance to make

special moments happen: perhaps a dance that no one knew about or changing up the timeline in a new way. I always say that something different should happen every 30 minutes. This allows guests to become interactive participants vs. inactive participants following the same old routine (ceremony to cocktails to dinner) and results in something special. This is what I will always love about doing weddings.

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THE CONS (what I don’t ❤)

• WHO’S INVITED? Determining the guest list can

be a tough task, as can deciding on seating arrangements: who should sit next to whom. Once this gets set, the sailing becomes much smoother, I promise!

• DETAILS, DETAILS Picking the perfect songs

for your processional, recessional, first dance and all of your important formalities (e.g. toasts) can be challenging, since these elements require a final, set-in-stone decision—you need to make sure everything is exactly as you want it. These all-important nitty-gritty details can be a chore, but they are essential to get right.

• TOO MANY COOKS You do not want a committee of opinions. Pick a few supportive friends and family members (three at the most) and trust in them to guide you and support you. The key word is support.

• TRAVEL LOGISTICS Coordinating travel details

for all your wedding guests can be mind-numbing, not to mention time-consuming. Instead of being the point person for travel questions, I suggest finding a good travel agent ahead of time (especially if you’re having a destination wedding!) who can handle these issues. It will be worth it if it means having time you would otherwise lose to focus on the other important details of your day.

• OVERSHARING (especially on social media) One of my ground rules: Don’t forget that some parts of your wedding should be a surprise for your guests, so don’t spill too many details ahead of time! 

PHOTOGRAPHY: MIKI & SONJA PHOTOGRAPHY

stand what a couple is all about is the important first step to a beautiful event. My television work has always made it seem as if a super-specific wedding theme is mandatory, but please trust me when I say it is not. However, I do love when a couple knows the types of looks, colors, feelings and moods they want for their wedding. Ask: What are your favorite colors, historic eras, flowers, seasons? The answers will help you better envision the overall look of your wedding.

body file WEDDING PHOTOS

Strike a Pose

Get picture perfect— instantly—with these pro posing tips.

Jean-Pierre Uys knows a thing or two about glamour. The award-winning photographer has shot countless A-listers around the world,as well as over 700 weddings. Here, he shares some key dos and don’ts to help you look your big-day best.

YES

NO What’s wrong with this picture? It’s totally natural to for many of us to pull our heads back when we laugh or smile—especially when nerves are part of the equation, Jean-Pierre says. This compresses skin into a double chin. Here, our bride has great posture, but at the last minute pulled her head backward when she smiled, just as the shutter clicked.

The easy fix Rather than pull back, push your head forward for front-facing photos. “Push more than you normally would,” says Jean-Pierre. “It will still look natural in a 2-D photo.” Practice in front of a mirror to see how you can create a sharper jawline using this move. Full-figured brides should also drop their chins ever so slightly.

NO What’s wrong with this picture? Let’s break it down: Just standing there, with legs together, weight distributed equally on both feet and with hips square to the camera visu-

PHOTOGRAPHY: JEAN-PIERRE UYS

ally adds needless width to your body. Letting your arms dangle close to the torso only ups the resulting blocky look. Pulling the head up and back creates a double chin. It doesn’t have to be that way.

The easy fix Success starts from the ground up: Place

one foot forward so that one knee is in front of the other to create an hourglass shape. Keep your weight on the back foot and turn hips slightly to the side. Also, keep space between one or both arms and your waist. Not only will your waist look narrower, your arms will appear slimmer and your shoulders shapelier. Keep your head forward, as explained above right.

What’s wrong with this picture? When

YES

you white-knuckle your bouquet, the effect is almost messy looking. The overlapping of your fingers creates a strange shape and takes away from the beauty of both your hands and your flowers.

The easy fix Relax, take a deep breath and shake out your hands. Now, place them one above the other to hold your flowers, with fingers parallel rather than bunched together.

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party planner RECEPTION

TUX EDO

SHAHEEN AND ADAM PLEDGED THEIR LOVE BENEATH A TUMBLE OF WHITE BLOSSOMS IN BUFFALO, NEW YORK. PHOTOGRAPHY BY COLIN GORDON PHOTOGRAPHY

CHIC

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Adam and Shaheen met during their first year of dental school, quickly becoming friends, then romantic partners, and moving from city to city as dental residents before settling in Buffalo, NY. Ten years in, Adam proposed, and the event-planning wheels were set in motion. Their sophisticated chiarascuro wedding palette was offset with a living wall of lush greenery, fronted by a matching arch bedecked with white blossoms, the flowers echoed in Adam's boutonniere and a swag of blooms that adorned Shaheen’s lapel.

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During cocktail hour, guests could amble up to a custom-built living champagne wall, ring a bell and be served a glass of bubbly by a disembodied white-gloved hand reaching through the greenery. Another wall installation—black and white panels set with bud vases, tea lights and topped with the couple's custom monogram—was positioned at the sweetheart table. Following the ceremony, guests moved to the ballroom for dinner, and from there to a tented outdoor courtyard for the reception. By this time, the couple had traded in their black jackets for white tux jackets with black lapels. Custom black and white fans bearing the couple’s initials ensured guests’ comfort as they danced the night away.

Planning: EVL Events Venue: The Westin Buffalo Florals: Beck & Forth Champagne wall & table backdrop: KMG Designs Cake: Muscoreil’s Rentals: Tesoro Event Rentals Signage: B in a Bonnet Invitations: August Sinclair Stationery: Graphic-Poetry Custom suits: Bureau Photo booth: H and H Entertainment Band: XOXO Pop Band

Planners We L ve Take inspiration from these creative forces as we continue to spotlight the best in the business. by Carol Straley

CHRISTINA PADAVANO,

Owner + Designer, Pinch Me Planning Portland, Maine

he Mayor of Portland! That’s how one elated bride, who turned to Portland, ME-based Pinch Me Planning to plan her wedding, described owner and designer Christina Padavano in a glowing review. “Knowing she recognized my passion for Maine and its people made me happy,” says Christina, who marvels at her company’s origins. “I launched Pinch Me Planning in 2016. At the time, I was living my career dream as a buyer and product developer for L.L. Bean Home.” That dream began to shift when Christina’s creative gifts and organizational savvy inspired her friends to enlist her help in planning and designing their weddings. Comparing her role at L.L. Bean with that of a wedding planner, Christina remarks, “I realized the striking similarities between the two roles. Both required an eye for detail, amplified the voice and talents of vendors, predicted trends, and prioritized building relationships.”

Exit plan.

CREATIVITY TO THE RESCUE!

• “Whenever we work at a private residence, our creativity shines. We have to understand the flow of guests throughout the property, and need to create a plan that amplifies the beauty of the setting. We must analyze the parking, the restrooms, the power options and a weather plan. I love planning these events as I have to remain innovative with every new property we work at.” • “Rather than a surface-level ‘best day of your life,’ we work to ensure each couple’s event is a highly personal Bespoke blossoms. and meaningful celebration of all that’s to come.” • “It’s all in our name—we want to invoke ‘pinch me’ moments. We want to create surprise and delight for guests— A moment that stops you in your tracks.”

MY GREATEST STRENGTH

• “Collaborating with both couples and vendors. The strongest vendor teams understand the couple’s personalities and priorities, so I try to facilitate interaction when appropriate. That way, the vendors 22 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2024

In neutral.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) HEADSHOT CR TK; ELIZABETH LADUCA; COURTNEY ELIZABETH MEDIA THE LIBBYS PHOTO AND FILM

MY SIGNATURE STYLE

• “Elevated classic designs with unexpected details. Our clients often seek ‘coastal elegance’ with a blue-and-white palette to complement the Maine coastline. Year after year, I challenge myself to reimagine what that means.”

Brooklyn-cr-Tilly Blair Photography

In full bloom.

Tribeca-crTILLY BLAIR PHOTOGRAPH

Raise a glass.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) THE LIBBYS PHOTO AND FILM; JILL HOYLE PHOTOGRAPHY; THE LIBBYS PHOTO AND FILM; JILL HOYLE PHOTOGRAPHY (2); ELIZABETH LADUCA; THE LIBBYS PHOTO AND FILM

BFFs.

Walk this way.

Cheers!

always have the client’s best interests first, and do not make assumptions. Similarly, I collaborate with my vendors and their workflows in a way that sets them up for success.”

MORE CONSIDERED CELEBRATIONS

• “With the increasing prices of many things post-pandemic, our couples are becoming more thoughtful about their guest lists. I rarely used to see a 100-person wedding, but now it seems like a more intimate crowd is the preference.” • “We also see people being more diligent about spending their money. They want to understand the ‘why’ behind the cost.”

MY FAVORITE WEDDING TRADITION

Dinner is served.

“Wedding house parties! Our couples forgo large wedding parties but still invite their friends to join them in the morning festivities. That way, they don’t have to get ready alone, and don’t put the financial burden or wedding party ‘duties’ on anyone.”

WHERE TO WED

• “80% of our weddings are destination weddings. We primarily work in Southern Maine, but we also love traveling to the Bar Harbor/Acadia region.” • “Sometimes, our couples don’t even have a connection to Maine; they just want to find a neutral territory for both families. With its excellent food and beverage scene, Portland has grown in popularity in the last few years, so that’s always on people’s radar.”

WHY I LOVE WEDDINGS

•It’s surreal to look around and see your different groups connecting and interacting while celebrating your marriage. We’re there to ensure that’s the focus of the day, and that the setting is spectacular.”

NEW HORIZONS

• “I’m actually in the midst of starting a new project! It’s a website that will promote Maine’s venues and planners. The goal is to ensure that prospective engaged couples keep Maine in mind for their destination wedding. Stay tuned!” ➺ Decidedly Down East.

Planners We L ve GUADALUPE ALVAREZ

Planner & Designer, Penzi Weddings, San Miguel de Allende, Mexico

ouples dreaming of a magical wedding in “The Land of the Sun” are often drawn to the beguiling charm and vibrance of historic San Miguel de Allende. The allure is everywhere, starting with the stunning architecture, from the Baroque to the neo-Gothic. Timeworn cobblestone streets and sparkling fountains. Strolling mariachi bands and an exciting arts scene. Small wonder that Guadalupe Alvarez chose what she calls “Mexico’s prettiest town” as the location for the bespoke wedding planning company she launched in 2004, Penzi Weddings.

WHAT KEEPS ME INSPIRED

• “First the couple—their story; their relationship; what they want in life; what they like. And of course, my incredible city of San Miguel de Allende.”

WHY I LOVE WEDDINGS

• “So many reasons! A wedding is the start of a lifelong partnership. It’s the moment when two individuals commit to each other for life—the moment when the couples show the world their love and commitment.” •“The smiles, the love, all the guests who have traveled long distances to show the couple their love and share their happiness.”

First dance.

So happy together.

SECRETS TO SUCCESS

• “I think there are many secrets, especially my dedication to the couples. I am creative, but I’m also a business person, so I can manage budgets. I am very intense, and this intensity makes things happen.”

MY FAVORITE PART OF WEDDING PLANNING

• “Getting to know the couple; making sure we understand what they want; and of course, the day of the wedding, when we see all the months of planning come alive. The moments I especially love are when the bride walks down the aisle, when the guests enter the reception area, and the first dances.” 24 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2024

Into the blue.

PHOTOGRAPHY: COURTESY OF PENZI WEDDINGS

ATTENTION TO DETAIL

• “We are known for paying attention to what our clients want; for our organization; for having a large and incredible inventory of decor and tabletop for weddings. And for making sure your wedding has your personal touch.”

In full bloom.

An artful arrangement.

Taking a moment.

TO MY COUPLES

• “Wedding planning has stages; some months are very intense, and there are some when there is not much to do. But as planners we are working on your wedding all the time, making sure it will be just as you want it. Know that we have your back!”

FRESH FLORAL STYLE

• “We started using succulents 15 years ago when most people did not even know what they were. We also did floating arrangements early on. We did an incredible wedding with hundreds of floating sunflowers.” Step by step.

MY FAVORITE WEDDING TRADITION

• “I like the lazo [a lasso placed around the couple’s shoulders after the recitation of vows, joining them together]. The lazo is a Mexican tradition that symbolizes the fusion of the two souls of the couple. I love that.”

THE PERFECT WEDDING WEEKEND

Be seated.

Teamwork.

• “In a perfect world, I would love: a welcome cocktail on Thursday; a Friday rehearsal dinner with all the guests; a spiritual wedding ceremony at the same venue; and a fun reception with a live band.” • “But the most important thing is that I love to see happy couples, because their happiness is infectious, and then everybody is happy.”

LESSONS LEARNED

• “What we know is that when looking for a wedding planner, most couples will read reviews, check your reputation, and will want to work with planners with experience and good reviews.”

NEW HORIZONS

• “I am excited to start speaking at wedding conferences. I did one in Barcelona early this year, will do two in Peru and will also be one of 10 designers from around the world at the Table Design Exhibition in Istanbul in December 2024.” • “Beyond wedding planning, I love to travel, and I do have some exciting trips in mind.”¢ 25

YOU’RE ENGAGED NOW WHAT? OUR ULTIMATE PLANNING GUIDE LAYS OUT EVERY STEP, FROM SPREADING THE WORD TO TAMING THE GUEST LIST.

FIRST THINGS FIRST

GET ORGANIZED Set up a spreadsheet or notebook with sections for each budget category. This way you can input the amount you want to spend on each item and then note your expenditures. As you near your limits, you can start to figure out ways to cut costs.

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SET YOUR SITES CEREMONY SPECIFICS. Finding an officiant and a ceremony site can be simple—if, say, you wish to marry in your hometown house of worship. Even if you’re no longer living in the area, you may have family who still are and can help out. Sometimes, for the sake of convenience, couples choose a place that’s in between their homes and their parents’. And then there’s the destination wedding: Just make sure that everyone you really want to join you and your groom can afford to travel and is able to make it.

THE RECEPTION VENUE. Think again about those wedding dreams, and see how they mesh with reality. Perhaps you envision a lush outdoor garden abloom with pink and white flowers. Fine, but what if you can’t find just the right place or the weather is an issue? Maybe there’s a quaint hotel with a pretty courtyard that would suit. Some couples find historic homes in their area to rent. Use local resources to narrow down options: a wedding planner or a recently married friend. Check wedding websites and bridal magazines. Then start scheduling visits.

PHOTOGRAPHY: CORINNE GRAVES PHOTOGRAPHY

• MAKE THE ANNOUNCEMENT. Some couples just don’t feel right if anyone knows their big news before their parents and other close family members do. If possible, tell both sets of folks in person. If your parents don’t live nearby, put in a special phone call or FaceTime. • DELVE INTO DREAMS. Sit down with your fiancé and talk ideas. Think about the style you envision, whether it’s a beach bash, a sit-down dinner in a ballroom or a ceremony on a mountaintop. No talk of money. Yet. • ROUGH OUT THE TIMING. While you don’t have to set a firm date now, it’s smart to have an idea of what month or season you want to marry in. Then you’ll know how long you have to get things organized. Because your wedding’s size determines where you’ll hold the party, how much it will cost (prices usually rise per guest) and whether travel will be involved, creating a guest list is one of the most important things to do. So make your list; your fiancé and both families should do the same. You can, and likely will, cut later, but this first number will be your base. • NOW TALK MONEY. It’s rare these days that the bride’s parents pick up the whole bill, so decide on your bottom line. Find out from both sets of parents if or how much they can contribute.

KNOW YOUR PROS Here’s how to hire the best.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (WEDDING PARTY) LAUREN FAIR PHOTOGRAPHY; (TABLE) PHOTOGRAPHY: CORINNE GRAVES PHOTOGRAPHY

• PHOTOGRAPHER AND VIDEOGRAPHER. The best ones usually book weddings many months in advance, so get on this one early. Gather recommendations from friends, then research what kinds of shots you’d like to see—formal portraits and dancing shots or a candid, journalistic format? Always ask to see other wedding albums the pro has done. • MUSICIANS. Arrange to hear musicians perform before you sign them on. Make sure they agree to stick to the playlist you give them, including any “do not play” tunes. Find out how they will dress and how many breaks they will take. Hiring a DJ is usually less expensive than a live band, but not always. • FLOWERS AND DECOR. Once you have your QUICK TIP reception site booked, you can decide on table Not sure what kind of album arrangements and other decorations. A hotel you want? Look for photograballroom might be a relatively blank slate, phers with a looser style and whereas a museum may need little more than many package choices on simple centerpieces. If you can buy fresh stems offer. You don’t have to make at a local farm, ask a talented friend to help up your mind right away. After put together bouquets and centerpieces. Or ask the wedding, you may even your florist to incorporate tons of greenery to want to get creative and make your own album. make fewer flowers look like a lot more. • CATERER. You want to know how dishes will taste and look and how flexible the caterer is with menus and prices. Don’t be afraid to bargain; you can cut costs by limiting the number and kinds of hors d’oeuvres served at cocktail hour.

MAIDEN VOYAGE When choosing your attendants, follow these tips:

• Explain to prospective bridesmaids what the role requires, like planning the shower and paying for their attire.

• Tell each ’maid that she’ll need to commit to a certain amount of

time and energy—and if she can’t, it’s fine for her to decline. • Choose as many or as few bridesmaids as you want. • Give your closest friend or relative the maid of honor position. • Include a female relative of your groom in your bevy of bridesmaids; it’s a diplomatic move that can only strengthen family relations.

ATTIRE ADVICE It’s not strictly necessary to know wedding place and time details before you shop. Whereas fashion guidelines were more rigid in the past (not wearing a glittery sheath for a daytime wedding, for example), the rules are looser now. But check with your house of worship; some require covered shoulders or heads. Start shopping whenever you feel pumped—and don’t forget to have your guy rent formalwear for himself and his groomsmen. ➺

ON THE MONEY Wedding budgets have a way of expanding like a balloon. Keep yours from popping (and give yourself some wiggle room for those unexpected expenses or must-haves) by reining in spending. Here, six smart saving tips: ➊ BORROW. Did you totally love the tiara your sister wore? Borrow it for your ensemble! You can borrow jewelry (just like the stars do at Oscar time) and other accessories, honeymoon luggage (no reason to splurge on new suitcases if your parents have good stuff), vases for centerpieces (if you’re doing these yourself) and so on. ➋ USE PEOPLE’S DIY SKILLS. If your aunt is a sewing whiz, she can create a veil or even do alterations on your dress. A skilled artist can create personalized invitations. A crafty pal can come up with a fun favor. An avid scrapbooker can put together an album for you. Just let them know this will be their wedding gift to you. ➌ CREATE A SIGNATURE DRINK. If you’re tempted to save by having a cash bar, stop! Instead, cut down on liquor costs

by offering one signature drink (like a gourmet martini) along with beer, soda and juices. Another idea: Buy cases of a favorite local wine and serve just that. ➍ LIMIT THE LIMOS. It’s nice to pull up to the ceremony location in a sleek, shiny limo or classic car, but consider skipping the rides elsewhere to save money. Instead have your brother or a cousin chauffeur you and your new hubby to the reception. ➎ DON’T GO FLOWER MAD. There are plenty of ways to keep your bill from blooming: Buy flowers wholesale and give them to a florist to work with or create centerpieces that use candles and just a few beautiful blooms. A profusion of petals looks lush and lovely, but keep in mind you can get the same effect with fewer flowers than you think. ➏ AVOID IMPULSE BUYING. Got everything on your list? Then stop shopping. If you’ve already bought your bridesmaids lovely shawls, and you see pretty handbags that would match…and sparkly earrings…put them down.

DRESS SHOPPING • ERASE THE EMOTION. If you were the girl who pinned towels in her hair to play bride, you may need extra help with this step. Pulling the emotion out of the event and remaining level-headed as you shop for your dress will help you stay within the bounds of both budget and practicality. If it helps, bring your mom and a down-to-earth pal along with you. • KNOW WHAT KIND OF SHOPPER YOU ARE. Some brides relish the hunt for the ideal dress, and happily book a number of appointments at bridal salons. They like having a salesperson who offers ideas and selects gown styles for them. Others would really love to just slip into a store (a department store, a specialty boutique, a secondhand shop) and find their dress hanging there on the rack. Both ways are possible. Decide which kind of shopper you are, and work accordingly.

QUICK TIP It’s likely everyone will be going snap-happy with their phones. To avoid ending up with 300 nearly identical shots, give guests a few ideas (print up a card to place on each table). Suggest one photo of each couple at the table, some goofy dance pics and a surprise shot of their choice—all to be shared later.

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PHOTOGRAPHY: LAUREN FAIR PHOTOGRAPHY

• DON’T SECOND-GUESS YOURSELF. Think you’ve found The One? Then you probably have. Look no further—and relax.

TAME THAT GUEST LIST When you pay a caterer by the head, every guest is a ka-ching on the total bill—not just for the food and drink, but also for tips and taxes, which rise accordingly. Here are some ways to keep the list under control:

• DON’T INVITE THE WHOLE OFFICE—either just ask your boss and your closest friends at work or no one at all.

• DON’T DIG INTO YOUR OLD ADDRESS BOOK

for blasts from the past; stick to those people you see regularly. • REIN IN PARENTS. They can invite their friends, but they don’t have to ask the garden club and the tennis buddies and the former neighbors.

HOW INVITING Your invitations should be sent out six to eight weeks before the big day, so work backward from there to be sure you order in time. The basic invite announces the hosts of the wedding (whether that’s the two of you, your parents or a combination) and the place and time of the ceremony. It may include a card that gives the reception details, a reply card and envelope. Have a sample of the invite in hand before deciding to use it— and proofread! Never include registry information with your invitation.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (INVITATIONS) CORINNE GRAVES PHOTOGRAPHY; (CAKE) DANIELLE COONS PHOTOGRAPHY

PIECES OF THE PIE No matter what your wedding budget may be, here’s a rough idea of how much is typically spent in each category. Keep in mind that the numbers are not hard and fast. Some couples may, for example, choose to spend more on photography and less on flowers. It’s completely up to you!

• Reception: 40% • Engagement rings & wedding bands: 6% • Photography & videography: 10.5% • Invitations: 2%

• Wedding attire: 7% • Flowers: 5% • Music: 5% • Miscellaneous: 10% • Honeymoon: 14.5%

MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A SAMPLE OF YOUR INVITE IN HAND BEFORE DECIDING WHETHER OR NOT TO USE IT— AND REMEMBER TO PROOFREAD, PROOFREAD, PROOFREAD!

ALL ABOUT YOU It’s easy to become so caught up in the planning that you forget one simple thing: you! So start now to create and stick to a self-care plan. EXERCISE REGULARLY AND KEEP TO A HEALTHY DIET. Even a 30-minute walk several times a week can be enough to keep you feeling energetic. To prevent fatigue, take a mul-

tivitamin everyday, especially if you’re skipping meals. Bring healthy snacks—almonds, a banana—along with you when you go shopping or to work. GET PLENTY OF SLEEP. Most brides-to-be find themselves having some late nights, but try your best not to skimp on sleep; not getting enough contributes to lowered immunity,

and you don’t want to get sick now. Plus, well-rested folks always look their best. MEET WITH A HAIRSTYLIST. If you want to maintain your current cut and/or color, tell your regular hairstylist, and be sure you’re not due for an appointment the week before your big day (you should ideally have your hair cut and colored

a couple of weeks prior). If this stylist will do your hair for the wedding, see her for a practice session or two to try a couple of hairdos. (If you’re wearing a headpiece or tiara, bring it along.) PRACTICE MAKEUP. Most stores will give you free makeovers; tell them you’re getting married and they’ll go all out. 29

h ? c u m w s o it’ h DON’T LET THESE HIDDEN WEDDING COSTS WREAK HAVOC ON YOUR BUDGET.

PHOTOGRAPHY: HEATHER NAN PHOTOGRAPHY

BY STELLA KATSIPOUTIS

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rom the moment your beloved slips that ring on your finger, your brain goes into wedding-planning overdrive. But even the most detail-oriented, budget-conscious bride can be caught offguard by unanticipated expenses. Here’s how to avoid them.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (FROM LEFT) SANDRA D. PHOTOGRAPHY; ©LIZBANFIELD

VENUES & CONTRACTS

“You must be aware of the financial pros and cons of each venue if you don’t want to be hit with unexpected expenses,” says Cheryl Beitler, who heads up The Zanadu Group, event planners in Hollywood, FL. “If you want a wedding outdoors, for example, you’ll need to obtain a number of pricey permits for your open-air event, and you’ll have to make sure that everything from city regulations to fire regulations are strictly adhered to. You’ll also have to rent tents in case of rain or inclement weather.” Beitler adds that every rental item placed in the tent is also your responsibility, including electricity generators, air conditioning or heating, the sound system and tableware. As for indoor venues, JoAnn Gregoli, the owner of Elegant Occasions event planning in New York City, says, “Ask the vendor for the price per person, all inclusive, so that you know the fee for food and beverages, plus tax and service charges. When reviewing the contract, look out for the words ‘additional costs may be incurred’ and ‘plus the cost of setup and delivery.’ ” Ask what these costs are: They can increase the price per person by 30 percent, adds Beitler, de-

pending on your state’s sales tax. Certain venue prices depend heavily on what time of year and where in the country you decide to get married. “If a majority of weddings take place between May and December where you live, you could save money across the board by getting married in a quieter month,” says Beitler. “The same applies to the day of the week or the time of day you choose. Reception halls charge the highest fees for Saturday night weddings. You might want to consider a Sunday brunch or luncheon instead, or consider a Friday night celebration.”

DECOR & FLOWERS “Selecting out-of-season flowers (such as peonies in October) will increase the budget considerably, as the flowers will need to be imported,” says Lisa Gorjestani, founder of Details Event Planning in Los Angeles. “Choosing flowers that are in season, abundant and have popular colors plays a big role in minimizing cost.” Gorjestani recommends hydrangeas for spring because they are large, luxurious and full—and they fill up space more easily and cheaply than, say, tulips. “If you want the feeling of lush blooms, but your budget doesn’t provide ➺

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In the end it’s all about having a detailed plan and always being open and honest with your wedding vendors. the crowd drinks heavily, the price can be more than double the per-head cost.”

WEDDING CAKES

ENTERTAINMENT

“There are slower seasons and slower days that will give the bride and groom more negotiating leverage,” says Deanna Jones of the Deanna Jones Orchestra. “In general, Saturdays in the fall and spring are peak price. Summer is moderately busy, depending on the city and part of the country.” Consider slower (and thus less expensive) days like the Saturday of Memorial Day or Labor Day weekends, or choose an offValentine’s Day may season month like January or March. sound like a romantic bands and DJs usually bring their time to marry, but flowers ownBoth audio equipment, but according to Jones, are triple the price at CATERING a venue could insist that your entertainment that time of year. vendor use the in-house audio system instead, Think you’ve heard the end of food-rehiding another fee that could add up to $4,000 lated expenses when your venue tells you how much each guest’s plate will cost you? Think the only number to your venue’s asking price. Says Jones, “If you don’t remember to that matters is the price for the buffet-style spread? Not so. When tell your band that your reception takes place on the third floor, and utilizing a catering company for an outdoor event, there are other there is no elevator, then you can understandably anticipate there is costs. “Generally, pricing without rentals and dinner wines and going to be an extra fee.” Because your DJ and/or band will be charging you by the hour, champagne runs about $245 to $375 (or more) per person for a high-end catering company,” says Olivier Cheng, president of Ol- timing really is everything. Most entertainment packages include a ivier Cheng Catering and Events in New York City. “Keep in mind half hour for arrival at the ceremony, a half hour for the ceremony that rentals are billed separately and can average another $75 to itself and four hours for the reception. If you accidentally overstep $175 per person.” those strict boundaries, the charges will begin to stack up. “Tell Cheng notes that a good caterer will help you figure out how to your DJ or musicians exactly how long you want them to perform,” use simple plates, glassware and linens to create a satisfying feast Jones advises. “They can only give you a firm quote if you give them that’s still within your means. “I tell brides to go with the things your date, time, length of performance and location,” she says. Althat really matter. Nix the cocktail stations if you have to—no one ways ask what your price quote includes (for example, the number will miss them if you have enough passed food.” of pieces, the number of hours, taxes and gratuities and so on), and Beitler advises asking if the cocktail reception is included in the make sure that overtime prices are listed on the contract. package price. You should also inquire if bartenders are included Remember: There is money-saving power in the act of kindness in the venue fee, says Gregoli, and the types of expenses each bar and courtesy with everyone you work with. “There’s a domino efoption entails: “The biggest unexpected situation I have encoun- fect,” Jones says. “People will be eager to work with you and probtered is when a bride chooses to do a bar and pays per drink. If ably offer much more than you expect.”  32 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2024

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for it, choose one type of flower and use a mass quantity of it. This will create a greater visual impact,” says Gorjestani. Gorjestani suggests adding costeffective votives and candles to your centerpiece. However, most event spaces require fire permits and have restrictions on candles. She notes that a good florist will take care of the permit and the fee. You can create depth on the tables and conjure up a romantic mood—without digging too deeply into your pockets—by adding light-reflecting mirrors. “The one item that is often overlooked that I feel plays an absolute integral part is lighting. It is a key element in the overall look of your wedding,” says Gorjestani.

Although many venues offer wedding packages that include the price of the cake, Beitler warns that they tend to charge an extra cake-cutting fee if you bring in a cake from an outside bakery, so ask exactly how much this fee will add to your bill. If you do bring in an outside cake, be aware that “the price is based on decoration,” says Lauri Ditunno, a cake designer based in New York City. “The more labor-intensive the design is, the higher the price.”

planning notebook ADVICE

Sam Ofman DOESN’T love wedding planning Still, along with millions of like-minded couples, he had to plan a wedding anyway. In his book, A Groom with a View: What I Learned Helping My Wife Plan Our Wedding, he proves that experts aren’t the only ones with worthwhile advice. Here, some insights. by Sam Ofman Sam and Alex and the ’49 Plymouth. Sam at work in the rental showroom.

• Relax. You don’t need a wedding survival guide. It’s a big party you throw for yourself. I promise, you’ll survive. disillusionment. Don’t let it get to you. Your wedding may not be special to your caterer or day-of planner, but it’s still special to you.

cartoon thumbs won’t add to your joy. Skip the photo op anxiety and stay in the moment. Remember: self worth over selfie worth.

PHOTOGRAPHY: ALEX OFMAN (TOP LEFT); MISTY MCLENDON PHOTOGRAPHY (TOP RIGHT)

• Your fiancée may ask you to be more

decisive. Don’t fall for it. Never do anything without her approval.

• Hiring a costumed-chauffeur to drive you

home from the reception in a ’49 Plymouth is a cute idea, but at $33 per minute, it becomes an expensive photo op.

• The catering tasting is fantastic, but not for the reason you’d think. It represents the first return on your investment, when the decisions, money, emails, and aggravation culminate in something concrete. You don’t just taste the hors d’oeuvres, you taste the fruits of your labor.

• Read the fine print. Don’t let a $500 confetti fee catch you by surprise.

• Tell your mom in advance that she can’t invite Nancy. Nancy is your mom’s friend

a ceremony rehearsal that wasn’t chaotic. Don’t panic.

• All you’re practicing is

• Planning a wedding is an exercise in

• Stressing about Instagram hearts and

• I’ve never participated in

that you haven’t seen since the previous millennium. Set a precedent early to keep the guest list under control.

• Here’s a Weddingese-to-English translation guide: Sage means green. Blush means pink. I thought I wore a beige bowtie but I’ve since learned it was oyster.

• My wife thinks the registry is for things

you’d never buy for yourself. That’s why she has three new crystal cake stands. I’m more practical. My favorite gift was a dust-buster. Regardless, gifts are more fun than cash.

• Something will go wrong. Our photo

booth broke. Twice. Accept it, and take solace knowing no vendor can deny a full refund when you use the phrase, “a great deal of stress and embarrassment for the bride.”

• Let your guests fend for themselves.

Whether it’s hotels, transportation, or veganism, let their personal problems be personal. It doesn’t matter if your wedding is memorable to them, it matters if it’s memorable to you. Make selfish decisions— all of your guests will celebrate you anyway.

when to walk, who to walk with, how fast to walk and when to stop walking. If something goes wrong during the ceremony it’ll get tons of laughs. People are there to share a memory, not critique the choreography.

• Vows should be hard. In all of history,

only Shakespeare and a handful of romantic comedy screenwriters have found the words to capture the essence of love. Don’t try to match them. It’s less about what you say than how you say it. Practice out loud. People won’t remember the words, but they’ll remember if you stumbled over them.

• The best advice for wedding planners? Easy. Don’t listen to anybody’s advice. Especially mine. Who cares what I think? I’m just some guy who got married. Do what you want. It’s your day.

• Don’t write a book about planning your wedding. It forces you

to relive a lot of vendor scams, frustration, and cash outflows ($800 couch rentals). Read my book instead, it’ll be more fun. 

Sam Ofman’s A Groom With a View (Amazon) offers a hilarious and insightful outsider’s perspective on wedding planning.

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Gabby and Nic Graner kicked off married life with a rollicking celebration held at Austin’s Q2 Stadium. PHOTOGRAPHS BY CAROLINE’S COLLECTIVE

IT WAS “SUPER CHILLY” THE DAY NIC PROPOSED, GABBY RECALLS. His plan was to photograph the two of them for a New Home/New Year announcement card, and capture the proposal on film at the same time. But Gabby was having none of it. “I just didn’t feel like dressing up,” she says. Nic put the camera aside. “He avoided me all day,” Gabby continues—until later that evening as the couple sat together by the fireplace, when Nic pulled a ring out of his Carharrt jacket and asked Gabby to marry him. Gabby said yes, and then “We proceeded to FaceTime everyone we knew!”

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The venue: The Q2 Stadium holds a special place in Gabby’s heart. “My dad and I share a big love of soccer, and we attend almost every Austin FC game,” Gabby explains. And with a 20,000-plus capacity, there was more—way more—than enough space to accommodate the couple’s 280 wedding guests.

The ceremony: The Q2 Stadium field served as the ceremony setting. Granger Smith—one of the couple’s favorite country artists “and a fellow Texas A&M Aggie”— was the officiant. “We wanted the ceremony to be short and sweet,” Gabby tells Bridal Guide. “We aren’t mushygushy vows kind of people.”

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“I wanted our wedding to be an experience unlike most of the weddings we have been to,” Gabby says. Escort cards and place cards were nowhere to be found. “The reception was a mix and mingle wherever you please deal,” says Gabby. “Our guests loved not being locked into one spot. Our amazing planners and florist took care of all the details.”

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What’s your idea of happily ever after? For one New Jersey couple, it’s sharing their love of food from around the globe in one of the world’s most exciting melting pots—Brooklyn, New York. Another duo opted to swap vows on an idyllic island that’s so intimate it feels like a completely private experience. Historic Nantucket island is a storybook destination with a different—but equally romantic—appeal. Speaking of heavenly, explore these spas with luxe, outdoor treatments, and experience some of our favorite resorts beyond the beach. Go all out when you set sail for a bachelorette weekend aboard a cruise ship, and say “I do” in a modern retreat on Long Island.

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The magic is at once tangible and ethereal, timeless and fleeting. That dazzling golden hue across the coastal sky. The way the sea breeze envelopes you. How every detail caters to your dreams. The sensations are vivid, enduring as the live oaks, a big day as good as gold. Listen to your soul and the Golden Isles will reveal itself to you. It’s like getting lost in an embrace, welcoming where bliss takes you. Satisfy your soul in the Golden Isles.

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The Sound View Greenport.

In every issue, we scout a spot that’s perfect for tying the knot away from home. by Jenna Mahoney

• JEDEDIAH HAWKINS INN in nearby Riverhead boasts a photogenic barn for events; guests stay in the 1863 Italianate mansion.

Happily ever after in the North Fork.

pointed guest rooms, most which overlook the placid Long Island Sound; all flaunt Malin + Goetz toiletries and artwork from Brooklyn makers. By day, everyone can kick back by the pool with casual eats at Jack’s Shack. Welcome dinners can be hosted in the Lobby Lounge or the clubby Library, both with sweeping beach views. Swap vows in the sand before toasting your union in the piano bar, then savor the region’s bounty with a farm-totable meal at the marquee Halyard, which juts out over the sand and Sound (site fees start at $5,000; food and beverage minimums start at $10,000; room blocks are required to host exclusive events; soundviewgreenport.com). 

legally wed Marriage licenses are required in the state of New York, and must

be obtained in person by the couple. Each must furnish proof of age (requirements of exact documents may vary by county), the required fee ($40) and, if applicable, a divorce decree or death certificate. Licenses are valid for 60 days. And there’s a 24-hour waiting period.

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• THE HARBOR FRONT INN sits in the heart of historic Greenport and offers a port-facing lawn that’s also accessible to the town’s celebrated antique carousel.

• THE PRIDWIN HOTEL & COTTAGES on neighboring Shelter Island has an elevated sleepaway camp vibe complete with a verdant lawn for games.

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Party ready in the Halyard.

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he eastern end of New York state’s Long Island forks into two beach areas—the southern, known collectively as the Hamptons, gets the lion’s share of press for its A-list inhabitants and ocean-front estates while the North Fork, with its pastoral farmlands, buzzy wineries, and sparkling bay beaches with unparalleled sunsets, has remained somewhat undiscovered. For generations, the expanse has welcomed young families to its rocky shores and quiet inlets, artists in search of historic and untouched landscapes and bachelorette party-goers for wine and cheese adventures—with accommodations heretofore limited in appeal. In recent years, however, the hospitality scene has upped its game, with new and upgraded offerings for a more sophisticated clientele seeking the area’s casual vibe plus elevated wedding amenities. One such offering is the circa-1935 Sound View Greenport, an aptly named, revitalized coastline hotel that’s a delightful blend of the North Fork’s charm and modern amenities. Wed here and your guests will happily repose in chicly ap-

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Sukha Spa at Nayara Tented Camp.

Inside the sumptuous Costa Rican resort.

Nayara Tented Camp

The rainforest of Costa Rica holds an unparalleled appeal to romance-seeking visitors. Perhaps it’s the natural hot springs, or the gorgeous flora—or maybe it’s the promise of spying monkeys at every turn. But for many, it’s the chance to completely unplug at the only high-end tented camp in Central America. Inspired by the luxury safari experiences of Africa, this enclave of 39 accommodations, which is all about experiencing the surrounding natural world, welcomed a new spa last year. In addition to a robust treatment menu, the breezy pavilions host sound baths, yoga sessions and more (room rates start at $1,285 a night and include breakfast; nayaratentedcamp.com).

fresh air Resorts around the world are amping up the spa experience with lush outdoor areas and luxe treatment options. by Jenna Mahoney

The Oberoi Beach Resort, Lombok A Dominican wellness center.

Cayo Levantado Resort

The spa at this all-inclusive mind, body, spirit-first resort in the Dominican Republic is a peerless sanctuary of healing. Called Yubarta, the spa, which is truly a wellness center, has eight outdoor palapa structures echoing the traditional designs of the local Taíno people. Activities here include yoga, breathwork and sound bath sessions, Reiki rituals and ice baths, as well as healing floats. Stays at this sustainably forward retreat include personalized nutrition counseling and expertly crafted meals served in spaces that both celebrate the surroundings and elevate the entire dining experience (room rates start at $690 a night and are all inclusive; cayolevantadoresort.com).

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The Indonesian island of Bali is rightfully known as a paradise on earth, but don’t overlook equally idyllic Lombok, which embodies all the blissful aspects of its famous neighbor minus the crowds. Ensconced in exquisite tropical gardens, this romantic property on the white sands of Medana Beach is an ultraluxurious hideaway steeped in island traditions and nature’s bounty. Snorkeling and diving are stellar, with guaranteed turtle spying. And the romantic dinners on the beach are a must-experience. The property’s breezy spa, with its traditional Balinese menu administered in open-air thatched treatment rooms, is a standout (room rates start at $827 a night; oberoihotels.com).

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A traditional massage.

The hammam.

Euphoria is set in the classic Mediterranean landscape.

Fun Fact: A survey of more than 50 studies found that being outdoors for an average of 20 to 90 minutes a day boosts mental health and mood.

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Sprawling across citrus and olive groves in the foothills of Mount Taygetus in the Greek countryside just two-and-a-half hours from Athens, this wellness center is based in a revitalized 19th-century Byzantine villa. Guests at the 45-room property spend their days focusing on holistic living and self-realization, with workshops, meditation sessions, yoga classes, acupuncture and other healing rituals, healthful meals and hiking both in the property and the surrounding forest. In addition to massages and bodywork on offer in the spectacular four-story spa itself, treatments can be experienced in an outdoor area (room rates start at about $305 a night; euphoriaretreat.com).

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Four Seasons Bali at Jimbaran Bay

At its core, wellness is more than a physical journey—it’s a metaphysical one as well. This whole-body approach is the marquee mission at Four Seasons Bali at Jimbaran Bay, an enclave of 147 luxury villas and nine residences. At the ocean-view, outdoor Nirvana Shanti Yoga Bale (bale is a name for home) signature treatments are performed. The Ocean Embrace experience reflects the healing properties of the sea with a sea-salt body scrub and massage, while Suara Jimbaran harnesses the traditions of Balinese gongs in a sound bath and concludes with a rose-and-sandalwood face treatment (room rates start at $814 a night; fourseasons.com).

Paws Up is the first-ever glamping experience.

The Resort at Paws Up

Healing in Bali.

A spa scene.

A working cattle ranch may not be the first thing one imagines when they hear the term “luxury resort,” but this Montana hideaway on the banks of the Blackfoot River is a standout in rugged, luxe hospitality. Meals and adventures such as fly-fishing, white-water rafting and horseback riding are all planned and led by unparalleled experts. Guests who stay in one of the safari-style tented camps also receive butler service. In addition to sumptuous decor, each tent is outfitted with deep soaking tubs and heated floors in the bathrooms. The spa, which is housed under a series of white canvas structures, is equally decadent (room rates start at $2,048 a night; pawsup.com). ¢ 61

Leanna and Adam swapped vows in a private ceremony before hosting their wedding celebration.

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AFTER HAVING WHAT THEY CALL A “minimony” (an intimate Western-style exchanging of vows), college sweethearts Leanna Truong and Adam Ye, who currently live in New Jersey, looked to one of the most dynamic food scenes on the globe to host friends and family for a food-hall style wedding celebration. “NYC is known as the best city for international foods—it’s like traveling the world,” they say, and that, along with good music and their shared love of the exploring the city, was at the forefront of their decision to

The foodie couple opted for an ice cream truck instead of a cake.

host a wedding weekend in Brooklyn, a borough known for its excellent—and diverse—food scene, international arts appeal and impactful maker community. “Our top moments from our wedding weekend were centered around our love for food, and we cherished having our close friends and family with us the entire weekend in one place.”

The bouquets for the wedding party were made by the couple, utilizing Sola wood flowers, which are dyed by hand. “I used the same wood bouquet for my minimony in November as well as my big wedding day in April,” notes Leanna.

Year of the Dragon envelopes served as place cards.

The traditional tea ceremony was special for the couple.

“We embraced the color red, symbolizing good luck and fortune.”

great taste “Finding the right vendors was the longest and most important part of our wedding planning,” explain Leanna and Adam, who tasted cuisine from

17 different outposts. “Our reception was food-hall style with five key vendors.” Dinosaur BBQ served smoked chicken wings, BBQ brisket and chopped salad, while Los Tacos No. 1 served up Tijuana tacos. For cocktail hour Mom’s Momo, a Tibetan food truck from Queens, presented steamed and pan-fried dumplings and cold peanut noodles. That was joined by San Antonio Wood Fire Pizza “serving four types of freshly made brick oven pizza: classic Margherita, Truffle White Pizza, 3 Little Pigs Pizza, and Sweetie Pie’s Hot Honey Pepperoni.” Dessert was a choice of eight flavors from a Van Leeuwen Ice Cream truck. ➺

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The escort cards doubled as a keepsake and talisman for good luck in the coming year: “Each guest received a custom red envelope with their name and a dragon for the Year of the Dragon with a real $2 bill.”

Delectably local. The Friday night wedding gave guests the weekendto explore NYC.

Leanna and Adam’s favorite number is 2.

Bespoke boxes.

love songs Music was also of paramount importance to the couple. “Our music was provided by three born-and-raised Asian-American

New York City is where the couple got to know each other.

DJs from Jersey City, who frequently play at popular bars and restaurants in the area.” Each was discovered by the couple over the past years. And their inclusion in the event mirrored their love story. “These DJs/MCs were part of our love journey, as we went out listening and dancing to them,” they explain.

“New York is the city that never sleeps, where dreams come true, love is found, and international cuisine thrives. Our guests could explore and enjoy New York at their leisure. They could dance and experience the local culture and indulge in the diverse cuisines that define America.”

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of gold and money in exchange.”

Striking a pose.

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required in the state of New York, and must be obtained in person by the couple. Each must furnish proof of age (requirements of exact documents may vary by county), the required fee ($40) and, if applicable, a divorce decree or death certificate. Licenses are valid for 60 days. And there’s a 24-hour waiting period.

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A traditional moment.

Since Leanna and Adam swapped vows six months prior to their celebration, they opted for a tea ceremony. The couple incorporated both Chinese and Vietnamese traditions and wore the color red, which symbolizes good luck and fortune. Dressed in a traditional Chinese jacket (Adam) and a Vietnamese two-piece dress (Leanna), they “served tea to our elders on our knees as a sign of respect, and received red envelopes

The photogenic cottages of Nick’s Cove.

Sleek and sophisticated at Ace Hotel Brooklyn.

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KNOWN FOR DEFINING HIP NEIGHBORHOODS ON THE BRINK of revitalization and celebrated for creating a welcoming “lobby culture,” where visitors and neighbors are equally welcome to hang, create and collaborate, the Ace family of hotels brings the cool. Notably, the chainlet also hosts artist-in-residence programs. And the 287-room Brooklyn outpost is just that—the artful blend of innovative and exciting, with light-filled common spaces and guest rooms that are both modern in their appeal and reminiscent of the borough’s industrial heritage. In addition to a cuisine program by Top Chef Camille Becerra, who is known FLORIST: for her approachable yet refined and August & Sage seasonal New American cuisine, the MUSIC: buzzy lobby is home to an awesome Jedd Kristjan, Kevlove, Eric Joseph collection of original artwork, plenty COORDINATOR: of room for working (we love the long Parties N’ All communal table) as well as hanging out CATERING: Mom’s Momo, Dinosaur BBQ, (the bar’s happy hour starts at 5 pm) Los Tacos No.1, Van Leeuwen, San and a green space at the center of it all Antonio Wood Fire Pizza aptly named The Garden. Other comMAKEUP: mon areas include a full-service gym, a Makeup Masters coffee shop and an outdoor gathering HAIR: Saint Luxe area called The Stoop. Guest rooms PHOTOGRAPHER: Scott Bui flaunt industrial-style, floor-to-ceiling VIDEOGRAPHER: casement windows that brighten the Kiss the Bride Films intimate accommodations, which are PHOTO BOOTH: modern in design (room rates start at Brindamour StudiOS $299 a night; acehotel.com). 

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Beyond the Beach Resort activity menus are ripe with new ways to experience the locale and culture. by Jenna Mahoney

Hilton Tulum Riviera Maya.

tunning sands, epic ocean views and unbeatable sunsets are all synonymous with the words “all-inclusive resorts.” And with those paradise-on-the-beach settings come all manner of—included—

activities, with non-motorized water sports making the biggest splash. But from cooking and language classes to dance and yoga, there is so much more to experience at an all-inclusive resort. Here, some of our favorites.

ENTERTAINMENT This is an all-inclusive resort calling card. The entertainment crew makes the most out of almost every hour of days and nights. The team generally holds pool competitions and beach volleyball sessions during the day. At night, they take to the stage to perform various song and dance spectaculars. COOKING Bring home a new dish (not just pottery) when you enroll in sessions with local chefs. Some resorts offer the opportunity to master the national dish—ackee and saltfish in Jamaica at the Grand Palladium Jamaica Resort & Spa, mofongo at TRS Turquesa Hotel in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, for example—in breezy kitchens. Experi-

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TRS Turquesa Hotel in Punta Cana.

ences that include market tours or fishing outings may come with an extra fee. BODY MOVING Oceanfront yoga is often included at all-inclusive resorts around the world, as are dance lessons we love the bachata sessions (at TRS Cap Cana Waterfront & Marina Hotel) and merengue (at Turquesa, Hilton La Romana Resort & Spa). Gyms are free to use, and some resorts, including all Sandals across the Caribbean, include greens fees in the room rate. LANGUAGE LEARNING Improve your Duolingo skills when you take a language class on vacation. These are generally offered via the enter-

tainment staff.

Hilton Tulum Riviera Maya.

GETTING ARTY Trying your hand at jewelry-making at Hilton Cancun, crafting your own piñata at the Hilton Tulum Riviera Maya or hat-painting at the TRS Cap Cana Waterfront & Marina Hotel are other ways to experience the culture of your surroundings. 

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TYING THE KNOT, CELEBRATING A WEDDING, OR JUST BECAUSE? For moments of connection and celebration at Sandals® Resorts, worries are not included; everything else is. We know it’s the big moments shared with loved ones that count, though a stunning sunset and beachside view don’t hurt. We’ll focus on every detail, making your celebration the center of attention so you can focus on connecting with the people you love at the party of a lifetime. Personalized wedding packages, decor, and inspirations allow you to build your perfect day—without the stress, on the world’s most beautiful beaches, in the heart of the Caribbean. With eight stunning destinations to choose from, your adventure awaits. Climb the iconic Dunn’s River Falls, kiss the rim of Saint Lucia’s dormant volcanoes, or taste your way across the Spice Isle of Grenada. Here, you can do as much or as little as you choose—you lead the way. A poolside prenuptial tan is hard work. Can we bring you a drink? Here, the most difficult decision you’ll make is which isle you choose to walk down.

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private paradise to share with an intimate group of guests was the idyllic destination wedding scenario for Tampa couple Catherine and Evan Rubinson. When they explored options of where to host their celebration, they quickly landed on the Mandarin Oriental Canouan, a luxury enclave on a tiny island in the Caribbean St. Vincent and the Grenadines archipelago. “Our vision was to bring everyone to a tropical, remote location without having people feel like it was a typical beach wedding,” they say. The elevated setting and the impeccable service are marquee attractions of the property. “We essentially had the entire resort to ourselves, which felt like a dream,” they say. “It was the wedding of a lifetime.”

standing on ceremony Although tiny, the venue is mighty in its appeal. One hallmark is the 17th century Anglican church relocated from Europe. “We fell absolutely in love with its historic architecture; we did our ceremony outside with the church as our backdrop,” says the couple, who truly wanted a private, exclusive event for friends

A view of the ceremony.

and family. “There was an unspoken air of love, bonding and connectivity,” they recall of the celebration. Following the ceremony, Catherine and Evan hosted guests in the hotel’s exterior courtyard overlooking the beach. ➺

Catherine and Evan wanted a beach wedding without having feet in the sand.

Far-flung is more than a feeling. The Mandarin Oriental Canouan is accessible via private jet charter, group charters from Barbados or boat transfers from St. Vincent.

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“Canouan translates to ‘Island of the Turtles’ and has a long-standing history as a turtle sanctuary in the Caribbean. Many turtles roam freely across the grounds, and are known to bring good luck. It was very special to incorporate them into our wedding.”

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“Barracuda is a local delicacy,” and the couple offered the dish at both the buffet at their welcome dinner and the plated meal at their reception. Other fresh-from-the-surrounding-sea items included ahi tuna and tiger prawns. At the welcome dinner, the seafood was prepared on the beach by a chef “on an open flame, as is traditional on the island. This made for a really fun, engaging and interactive experience ” 76 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2024

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The Mandarin Oriental Canouan is fronted by the largest coral reef in the Caribbean. Following the wedding, Catherine and Evan invited their guests to snorkel. “We had gear ready for everyone and we were able to swim out to the famous barrier reef.” Sunset sails and hanging by the pool were also on offer. Many guests played golf at the picturesque course—”it’s iconic”—and hiked Mount Royal, the island’s highest peak.

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HEAVEN ISN’T TOO FAR AWAY WHEN YOU BOOK INTO THE ultra-luxe Mandarin Oriental Canouan, an elevated enclave of just 26 chic suites and 21 villas on this far-flung-feeling, yet totally accessible eponymous Caribbean island in the St. Vincent and Grenadines archipelago. Catherine and Evan chose a five-bedroom, three-story villa with a private pool. They used the space, which, like other resort accommodations, boasts soaring ceilings and spectacular water views, to get ready for the wedding events with some of their guests. Days here are spent however you’d want to while away your time in paradise— lazing by the pools, strolling along the stellar sands, walking among the tropical flora and rejuvenating in the stellar spa. If being active is more your speed, there are guided hikes up verdant Mt. Royal, the island’s highest peak, classes in kite-surfing and snorkeling and diving in the Caribbean’s largest reef, which is located just offshore. The culinary program is exquisite, with seven distinct eatery options and hands-on classes in cooking and cocktail-making with peerless pros. Breakfast is savored with sea views in Asianne, while seafood rules at L’Ance Guyac, a breezy outpost offering lunch and dinner. Tides Bar + Grill, a favorite VENUE: Mandarin Oriental Canouan of the couple, offers unparalleled fine WEDDING PLANNER: dining with a Caribbean flair (room JoAnn Gregoli of Elegant Occasions rates start at about $1,200 a night; PHOTOGRAPHER: Christina McNeill mandarinoriental.com). 

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hat happens when you combine a spa vacation with an around-the-world eating tour, an activity menu that includes water slides and your best ladies? It’s the “World’s Biggest Weekend,” a moniker for a threenight Bahamas cruise from Orlando/ Port Canaveral on the just-launched 5,668-guest megaship, Utopia of the Seas by Royal Caribbean. And from the moment you board on Friday afternoon until you disembark on Monday morning, the party never ends—except when you grab a few hours of sleep between sipping a Mai Time of My Life in the new Pesky Parrot tiki bar and a Lime and Coconut Signature Cocktail poolside. Chill at Royal Caribbean’s

private Bahamian island, home to seven beaches, including adults-only Hideaway Beach, offering live DJ party vibes, and Coco Beach Club, with a more chill ambience and overwater bungalows. Utopia of the Seas has five pools, eight hot tubs and 23 bars offering signature sips, so a bridal-party bar crawl is a must. There are also midnight dance parties, performances by top rock cover bands in the Music Hall, adults-only stand-up comedy in The Attic, a spectacular Aqua80Too aquatic/acrobatic show and a chance to shine at Spotlight Karaoke—plus 21 dining venues to choose from (staterooms start at $860; royalcaribbean.com). 

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• If your celebratory style is more Palm Springs, opt for a three-night Bahamas & Perfect Day cruise from Fort Lauderdale aboard 3,046-guest Celebrity Reflection (celebritycruises.com). Reflection features sleek decor, three pools, 10 restaurants, a lively Martini Bar, a terrific spa, and a no-kids-allowed Solarium Pool.

• For an adults-only, anything-goes setting, set sail on the Fire & Sunset Soirées from Miami to Key West and Bimini on Virgin Voyages’ 2,770-guest Scarlet Lady or Valiant Lady (virginvoyages.com). These ships offer a mix of edgy entertainment (headed by The Diva, the resident drag queen), more than 20 dining options, a Sip champagne lounge (one of 13 bars) and raucous Scarlet Night deck party. As a bonus, the Squid Ink tattoo parlor offers lasting mementos.

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Celebrate your love story and create your dream wedding in paradise at Coconut Bay Beach Resort & Spa. Customizable packages, including the timeless tradition of “ Something Blue,’’ cover everything from an elegant rehearsal dinner and joyous vows at oceanfront venues to a beach bonfire bash. You’ll relax and unwind in the luxurious Bridal Suite before walking down the palm-fringed aisle. A dedicated wedding team will handle every detail for a stress-free celebration. The Premium All-Inclusive experience includes family-themed and adults-only accommodations, unlimited à la carte and buffet dining at 8 restaurants and premium drinks at 7 bars. A waterpark, 5 pools, endless activities, and more ensure there’s something for everyone. Just minutes from Hewanorra International Airport and Saint Lucia’s wonders. Visit cbayresort.com or call 1-877-252-0304. TOP TO BOTTOM: Celebrate your nuptials with a reception overlooking the azure Caribbean; A pictureperfect setting with the Maria Islands as the backdrop

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The Cottages at the Boat Basin

Nantucket’s Boat Basin.

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The revamped guest rooms have seafaring murals.

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MADAKET BEACH, on the western coast of the island, has restless surf and prime sunset views. Best accessed via bicycle, note that a few areas are tricky to access due to erosion. NANTUCKET WHALING MUSEUM. Set in a brick building that dates back to 1846, this compact collection offers a comprehensive history of the island when it was the center of the industry that powered the country.

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nce the thriving home to North America’s most prolific economy—whaling—this island 30 miles off the coast of Cape Cod, Massachusetts is as historically adorable as advertised. Here on cobblestoned streets, ancient (but charming!) clapboard homes are fronted by masses of climbing rambler roses and bountiful hydrangea bushes, while the golden beaches are guarded by historic lighthouses. The island’s interior is a bucolic expanse crisscrossed with meandering bike paths—cycling being the easiest and most popular transport. Book into the newly revamped The Cottages at the Boat Basin and you’ll experience the best of Nantucket—including your own bike to explore it all. The basin itself is a warren of wharves dating back to the late 1770s. Today, the port area welcomes local ferries, neighbors and their boats, a world-famous regatta and visiting yachts, with the Cottages, as they are colloquially known, perched on the piers overlooking them all. Ranging from studios to three-bedroom duplexes, all feature nautical decor touches that harken to whaling history while showcasing luxury modern amenities (room rates start at $370 a night; thecottagesnantucket.com). — Jenna Mahoney

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