Bridal Guide March April 2021

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FASHION & BEAUTY 16 COVER STYLE

How to get that beautiful look.

18 STYLE FILE: BRIDES

Romantic red details; ethereal touches of lilac.

24 ALL THAT GLITTERS

Multi-stone engagement rings prove that more is definitely more.

26 BEAUTY FILE

Our just-in-case guide to fixing latebreaking beauty emergencies.

53 CLOUD NINE

A roundup of dreamy dresses, each more special than the next. Think airy tulle and floaty chiffon touched with lavish lace detailing.

60 RUNWAY REPORT

Square necklines; sexy peekaboo cutouts; detachable skirts and more.

ON THE COVER • 425 Insta-Worthy Ideas: Special Touches for a Wow Day! • Find the Right Dress!

With the Look, Fit and Details You’ll Love, p.18, 53

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Bridal Guide March/April 2021

WEDDING PLANNING 28 PARTY PLANNER

A magical take on a holiday wedding.

32 BRIDAL INSIDER

Creative cocktail ideas. Salut!

36 SHARE THE LOVE

Put a wildly romantic spin on your wedding with these creative ideas.

by Kristen Finello

40 PERFECT PLANNING

Pros share the common planning mistakes they see couples make, and offer their easy fixes. by Mary Clarke

42 COUNTDOWN CALENDAR 47 ASK DAVID

A few things our guru likes and dislikes about wedding planning.

48 BUDGET GURU

Here’s how to ask your parents to help defray your wedding costs.

62 WEDDING ALBUM

An Art Deco celebration in Park City, UT.

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Where to go in 2021

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50 10 BUDGET BLUNDERS

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Straight talk, smart solutions

by Diane Forden, Editor in Chief

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I’m about to start planning my wedding. Do you have any tips on how to find the right wedding pros? Wilmington, Delaware

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Finding the right pros does take some time but the effort will be well worth it in the long run. Start by doing online research and make sure you check out a vendor’s website and Instagram. Both should be up-to-date and feature their most recent work. I personally like to see galleries on vendors’ sites that effectively showcase their diverse talents. Look for positive online reviews as well. Word of mouth is always a plus, and if you liked a vendor’s work from a friend’s or relative’s wedding you attended then seek them out.

When you meet with vendors ask to see entire portfolios of the weddings they planned, decorated or photographed.

Keep in mind that good communication is key and if your emails or phone calls are not answered promptly consider it a warning that this unresponsiveness could be a potential problem later on. When you meet with vendors, have your questions ready, and make sure you feel comfortable speaking with them. Do you hit it off?

Are they friendly and willing to take the time to answer your questions and address your concerns? Can they work within your budget? Do they make you and your fiancé feel special? If there is any hesitation or second-guessing then it’s best to keep looking.

JUNIOR MISS

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Is my niece, who is 10, too old to be a flower girl or should she be considered a junior bridesmaid? If so,

what is her role and should she be paired with a groomsman for the processional and recessional? Atlanta, Georgia

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Your niece is just the right age to be a junior bridesmaid—flower girls are generally between the ages of 4 and 8 and junior bridesmaids are 10 to 14 years old. She won’t have any specific responsibilities other than to participate in your rehearsal and ceremony. And although she can attend the bridal shower she’s not expected to contribute financially. As far as her position in the processional and recessional, she can either walk down the aisle before the other bridesmaids (a partner from the groom’s side is not needed), or after the bridesmaids and just before the maid of honor. The same procedure follows for the recessional.

TAKE A SEAT

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Guests will be standing at our outdoor ceremony. However, we will have some chairs for our older relatives. How can we make sure that the other guests will not Bozeman, Montana take their seats?

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Your best bet is to place “Reserved” signs on the backs of the chairs so others won’t assume it’s a first-come, firstserved arrangement. You should also make sure that your ushers know which relatives are to be seated so they can escort them to their seats. And should any of the other guests take the seats by mistake your ushers should politely inform them that the chairs have been reserved.

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My divorced parents are not on good terms and I’m worried about how they might behave toward one another at my wedding. Any Richmond, Virginia advice?

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I assume you have a good relationship with both your mom and dad so let each one know how you are feeling. It will help a great deal if they realize just how anxious you are about their displaying any animosity or unpleasant behavior on your wedding day.

Stress how this will affect not only your enjoyment of the day itself but also the memories you’ll have of what should be one of the happiest days of your life.

Tell your parents that you hope they will not let their emotions rule the day and will be able to let go of any anger or ill will. You want this to be a joyful occasion for everyone. They may not realize how concerned you are so addressing this issue now, openly and honestly, will persuade them to make every effort to be on their best behavior. ››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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Add a slight flush with the longwear, fade-free pink blush on

the apples of your cheeks and then use the champagne shade to highlight the peaks of your face. After, swipe a generous amount of (3 ) YSL The Curler Lengthening and Curling Mascara to do as its name states for long, look-at-me lashes. Finish by gliding (4) Live Tinted Huestick in Perk on your lips to get a luscious long-lasting demi-matte color.

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tunning hand-embroidered floral accents complement the sleek fit, while the sequin underlay and chapel train bring the wow-factor to the next level. Gown, price upon request,

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The Message metallic red polish

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Hand-poured acrylic Mrs. clutch

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Amethyst and enamel earrings

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Peony wedding invite by Hartford Prints!; papier.com

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Mon Paris eau de parfum

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Lavender and gold cocktail ring

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RINGS

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Emerald- and ovalcut center stones surrounded by 44 pavé diamonds

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Don’t smudge your lipstick: Sip through a straw to avoid a lip color mishap and prevent liquids from staining your teeth.

From breakouts to bloating, remedy any big-day beauty troubles with these quick fixes.

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by Kayla Hayes

You wake up with a zit. If a dreaded day-of blemish makes an appearance do not pop it, urges Ashlee Glazer, New York Citybased on-air and celebrity makeup artist.

“No matter how tempting it may be, a little bump is easier to conceal than a scab.” In a pinch, press an ice cube against the spot to take down the swelling and use Visine to help reduce the redness.

Communication is key.

“If you see it’s not going well you have to stop and regroup,” says Elvin Arvelo, co-owner of Oon Arvelo Salon. Arvelo suggests having a curling iron and straightener on hand for touch-ups (plus, that’s what bridesmaids are for!) if the stylist has already left.

“The best way to avoid this altogether is to have a few practice trials.”

3. You’ve cried and now your makeup is streaky. All eyes will

be on you for your big day and tears will be shed.

“Don’t fret—it happens,” says Glazer. “A dab of eye cream can smooth out the dark streaks without leaving a hole in the makeup.” And reach for a waterproof formula as your default big-day mascara.

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You’ve overplucked your eyebrows. Fill in the

blanks using feathery strokes in two different shades, says New York City-based celebrity makeup artist William Scott. “One shade should match your brows; the second, lighter shade should mimic the shadow your hair casts against your face. Keep it light and slowly build up to the density you want.”

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8. You wake up with dark circles.

Stay hydrated and try, try, try to get adequate sleep, suggests Glazer. For dayof fixes, “color correctors and eye-brightening shadows work wonders.” For blue and purple tones choose a peach color to cancel out the darkness.

Add a pop of shimmer shadow at the inner corner of your eye to brighten and bounce the light.

9. Red wine stained your smile. The rehearsal went well, but the wine turned your teeth a shade of pink—don’t worry! Fiber-rich, crunchy snacks like apples or celery will quickly brighten teeth. “The astringent quality and rough texture of apples make them a natural toothbrush to rid extrinsic stains,” explains celebrity dentist Dr. Marc Lazare.

You’re bloated when you wake up. “To initiate the elimination process and flush out toxins, drink one to two glasses of warm water with lemon as early in the day as possible,” says Kimberly Snyder, celebrity clinical nutritionist. She suggests doing yoga poses, especially twists and bends that compress the midsection, to aid in reducing your bloat.

Eliminate bloat-inducers like dairy, beans, onions and carbonated drinks from your diet seven days before the wedding to ensure you wake up bloat-free.

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“First, get in the shower and exfoliate from head to toe,” says Alyssa Hilliard, UV-free tanning expert and director at Sunless, Inc. Exfoliating diminishes the appearance of dark or orange tones. For a natural alternative, Hilliard says the acid in lemons works, “but will strip away the tan, so be careful not to use too much lemon juice as you lightly touch up areas that appear orange.”

7. Your skin is dry and flaky. Use an exfoliating cleanser or polishing mask. If you don’t have either on hand, make a simple scrub by mixing sugar and a cleanser. Massage the mixture over your dry patches, then rinse with cool water, Dr. Marnie Nussbaum, cosmetic dermatologist, suggests. Layer on a moisturizer and let it sink in completely before applying a primer.

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Stress leaves your skin looking red and splotchy. Take

a moment and breathe!

“The most important thing for you to do is quiet the skin’s inflammatory response,” says Dr. Karen Hammerman, dermatologist at Schweiger Dermatology Group. “Rashes themselves create excess stress, often making the reaction worse.”

Apply a super-hydrating moisturizer to your skin: This will protect it as it becomes more sensitive during highpressure periods— drink water and take essential fatty acids to help reduce inflammation. Cancel out redness by applying a green color corrector under your concealer.

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RECEPTION

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1. A trail of pink bud vases anchors the tables. 2.The pretty invitation suite features a snowflake motif on the envelopes.

3. Mirror tabletops amplify and illuminate the prevailing pink and gold palette. 4. Glitter reindeer roam the tablescape beneath the gaze of a gold nutcracker.

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“The stately venue brought the drama and heritage needed to give our soft, romantic palette the grandeur we sought.

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2. Pretty-in-pink swirled lollipops. 3. The wildly romantic bridal bouquet adds a dose of relaxed modernity.

4. Tiered cakes take center stage on the divinely decadent dessert table. 5. Monogrammed frosted cookies.

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Venue: Syon Park Floral design: Emma Soulsby Flowers Cakes & desserts: Georgia’s Cakes Invitations: Era Calligraphy Tableware: Duchess & Butler Furniture rental: Great Hire

“Rather than traditional wintry jewel tones or reds and greens, we went with rosy pink shades and flashes of silver and gold.

”—Charlotte Ricard-Queseda March/April 2021

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RECEPTION

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CHEERS!

Bartesian’s new cocktail flavor pods for their on-demand drinkmaker include: gimlet, negroni, sazerac and more, bartesian.com

Sweet Tea Arnold Palmer with Seagram’s Sweet Tea Vodka, lemonade, mint and lemon. seagramsvodka.com

Raise a glass to these colorful cocktail ideas.

Edited by Mary Clarke

Maple Marg with Ritual Zero Proof Tequila Alternative, orange juice, lime juice, maple syrup, lime wedge and mint, ritualzeroproof.com

Tanteo Lavender Jalapeno Cocktail with Tanteo Jalapeno Tequila, lavender syrup and fresh-squeezed lime juice, tanteotequila.com

That's the Spirit with Crystal Head Vodka, mint leaves, melon liqueur, fresh lime juice, fresh pineapple juice, crystalheadvodka.com

Lolea craft frizzanté sangrias in red, white, brut, organic and rosé. Also available in mini singleserve bottles, lolea.com

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Route 27 with Double Cross Vodka, sherry, simple syrup, lemon juice and blackberries, doublecrossvodka.com

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Reasons to Shop at Your Local Bridal Salon

The YES Moment

You,ve probably been dreaming of this day for a long time—with good reason! There is no greater feeling than trying on a wedding gown and seeing yourself as a bride for the very first time. Surrounded by friends and loved ones makes the YES moment that much sweeter!

Selection

Make the Dress Your Own

Bridal salons offer the largest selection of reputable designers, styles, and colors.Your consultant will work directly with the designer to ensure everything from the color, to the fabric and the fit, are exactly what you envision.

The dress you try on in the store is just a starting point.

Want to add a sleeve? Lower the back? Elongate the train?

At a traditional bridal salon, you can work with a seamstress to customize your gown and turn your dream into a reality.

Feel-Good Factor

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SET THE SCENE

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Hold your festivities at the site where your husband-to-be proposed. One

couple held their wedding at the majestic Mount Washington Hotel in Bretton Woods, New Hampshire, where the groom had proposed a year earlier. Since he’d popped the question in a horse-drawn carriage, they treated guests to their own romantic rides.

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Let your site inspire your wedding look. Engaged at the Eiffel Tower? In-

corporate a Parisian theme into everything

from your save-the-date cards to the napkins at your cocktail hour. (And consider a gorgeous French-style croquembouche cake, a wonderful cream-puff pastry covered with caramel.)

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Some locales are inherently romantic: Choose a vineyard, a botanical

garden, a lush backyard with beautiful plantings or an old mansion with chandeliers, ornate mantelpieces and a landscaped garden for guests to roam in.

With naturally gorgeous backdrops like these, you just can’t go wrong.

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Consider the hues you use. For a fairy-tale romance effect, try a color scheme of pinks, whites and silvers. Or use shades of red, from the palest pink to luscious watermelon to a deep rose. If you prefer a more sensual, romantic ambience, choose a palette of strong, passionate reds.

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Lighting sets the stage for romance.

Have a lighting specialist create a special glow for your first dance. You might project your married monogram or a simple, swirling design onto the dance floor. It never fails to get guests out there to

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WE ROUNDED UP 35 ULTRA-ROMANTIC WEDDING IDEAS FOR AN UNFORGETTABLE CELEBRATION.

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kick up their heels.

One idea for a very romantic looking table: a white linen tablecloth covered

with a pink overlay. Tuck a tiny, perfect rosebud into each guest’s pale pink napkin.

A centerpiece might include varieties of pink blooms, such as roses, orchids, peonies and tulips.

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Masses of candles will warm everyone’s heart. Float them in glass bowls

or cluster some in various heights on tables. At an outdoor wedding, you can achieve a magical effect by suspending dozens of tiny electric candles in small glass globes from tree branches. And don’t forget to consider nestling pretty Japanese lanterns among the branches—utterly enchanting!

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Have table cards printed with the “firsts” of your romance. The two of

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you can write these together. Use them instead of standard table numbers—for example, one table would be the “First Kiss” table and another would be the “First Date” table and so on.

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that he sent to you early in your relationship. Such a gesture will delight him— plus, the fact that you kept the note rates a 10 on the romance meter!

A somewhat different version of this idea: Have romantic facts about the

two of you printed on cards, and place one on each reception table. Put the cards in holders so guests can pass them around and enjoy them. For inspiration, think about the most romantic thing you’ve done for each other, how the groom proposed or your favorite thing to do as a couple. You could also include a line from a movie, song or poem that is special to you.

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Sheer fabrics make a romantic statement. Use lengths of tulle or

organza as table runners. Adorn windows, mantels and doorways with gorgeous swags of the same fabrics.

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Put friends’ and families’ wedding photos on display. This is a wonder-

fully inclusive way to show how much you appreciate the encouragement and support from everyone who loves you.

BE SENTIMENTAL

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Make meaningful music. Walk down

the aisle to a song that is particularly special to the two of you. One couple hired a guitarist they’d met on a vacation in Mexico to perform “Here Comes the Sun” at their wedding ceremony.

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For a sweet touch, consider a handpainted aisle runner. You can add

your monogram or a favorite quote from a love poem that is special to you.

ROMANTIC RIDES

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Have him meet you halfway. The

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Have your groom greet you at the altar with an offering. A truly roman-

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Another way for the groom to show his romantic side: One groom

bride who is walking down the aisle solo can have her groom meet and escort her to the altar. It will be an unforgettable moment for everyone.

tic gesture is for the groom to present his bride with a single flower when she reaches the altar—it could be a perfect yellow rose or her favorite garden bloom.

conspired with the florist to add a blanket of rose petals down the aisle that ended in two circles of petals at the altar where he and his bride would stand.

Create a sentimental surprise. Many couples write their own vows, but you could carry this a bit further. Read aloud a few words from a note or love letter

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Choose an over-the-top mode of transportation. If you’re getting mar-

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Build some alone time into your ride. One bride and groom decided

ried on a yacht, sail up to it in a charming, flower-festooned boat.

to splurge on a vintage Bentley to bring the two of them to their reception. That automobile ride turned out to be one of the only pockets of time that they had alone together on their wedding day. They relaxed for a few minutes, sipped champagne and marveled at the fact that they were actually married.

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For an even more private getaway, go it alone. Some newlyweds are

choosing to go solo—sans even a hired driver. Grooms are whisking their brides away in a friend’s vintage automobile or the groom’s dream car, rented for the occasion. One groom we know decided ➺

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send guests audio files of the playlist along with details that include the name of the song, the couple who chose it and how long they’ve been married.

(For example, “My Own True Love,” Maureen and Anthony, married 37 years.)

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Another way to express the love you share: Create playlists of

favorite music from the early years of your relationship to use as the sentimental soundtrack during your cocktail hour.

Sing out your love. After graciously thanking their parents and the friends who had introduced them, a groom serenaded his bride with “All of Me” by John Legend. The combination of her tears and laughter, his nerves and the knowledge of what had just come to fruition was magical for his bride and their guests.

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Make your last dance of the evening as sweet as your first.

Invite your guests to surround you on the dance floor. Have someone pass around a basket of rose petals so your guests can shower you and your new hubby with the petals. Everyone will remember this final, loving moment.

FESTIVE MEALS

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Select a menu that incorporates items with romantic significance.

Consider dishes you shared on your first date, on the night you got engaged or the first meal you cooked for your groom (or he prepped for you).

Go for big-time romance with your cake. Try a confection of strawberry mousse or one filled with raspberry, iced with buttercream and topped with fresh, deep-pink roses and pink orchids. For chocolate lovers: pink fondant icing and a cascade of sugar-paste pink and lavender roses that conceal layers of chocolate within!

Don’t serve just any drinks. One bride and groom served beer from the brewery/restaurant where they first met, as well as specialty cocktails with monikers like “First Date.” With dessert, they offered the “Happily Ever After,” a tasty liqueur in a chocolate shot glass.

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Consider serving a rose champagne (the pink tint comes

from a splash of pinot noir in the blend). If you’re offering similarly pink-hued foods, like lamb or salmon, you can even serve

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the bubbly with the meal.

Your first dance as husband and wife should be magical and memo-

rable. One bride wanted an a cappella

group of a dozen vocalists to sing her favorite ballad as she and her new husband took a turn around the dance floor. Maybe the two of you will want to show off your salsa moves with a hot number you’ve rehearsed.

Choose your style!

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Have a gorgeous slide show.

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Up the romance of the first dance.

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Keep the romantic vibe going

Plan a super-romantic visual accompaniment to your first dance: a slide show presented on a large screen, featuring photographs of the two of you over the time you've been together.

Ask your wedding planner to arrange for sparklers that burst from the centerpieces as you and your hubby take center stage.

strong all night. Before the big day, compile a list of your married guests’ firstdance songs. Ask your band or DJ to play those tunes throughout the night. Later,

TENDER TOUCHES

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Opt for a “sweetheart table.”

Many couples choose to sit at their own table during the reception. Not only do they get to enjoy each other as newlyweds, but the bridal party gets to sit with their significant others as well. No one wants to be separated from their sweetie at a wedding!

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Instead of an ordinary guest book,

create a “Romantic Wish Guest Book.” Ask guests to use their imaginations and pen a loving, personal hope for your future.

During the cake cutting, some grooms offer their brides a special toast. This gives the groom a chance to express his feelings in a more personal way than the vows the two of you recited before the officiant at the ceremony.

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Your groom might prefer creating a loving video tribute. It might fea-

ture a photo montage in which he describes the moment he fell in love with you. He can inject some humor—whatever helps him best express his tenderest emotions. 

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BY MARY CLARKE

Outdoors after dark If your warm-weather soirée will stretch into the night, you need to prepare for insects as well as a drop in temperature.

Ask your venue to light citronella candles around the perimeter or lounge area. For one outdoor wedding, we had cute little buckets set up with day-into-evening essentials: sunscreen, bug spray, flip flops, hand-held paper fans, cold wet cloths and pashminas. —Andrea Freeman, founder & principal designer, Andrea Freeman Events

INADEQUATE TECHNICAL SUPPORT

There’s nothing worse than sitting through a ceremony you can’t hear—so be sure to book a sound system.

Being able to hear the ceremony means your guests will actually be able to be in the moment right along with you. A wireless system ensures there will be no unsightly mic stands in your photos.

—Michelle Cousins, owner & lead designer, Michelle Leo Events

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Obsessing It’s one thing to be detail-oriented, just don’t fall into overthinking every bit of minutiae. Obsessing over the types of mushrooms in the canapés or the precise order of the DJ’s playlist is a waste of time and good energy. — Marcy Blum, president, Marcy Blum Associates

Pre-ceremony prep Food may be the last thing on your mind, but if you start getting ready hours before your ceremony and pre-wedding photos, and then don’t grab a bite until cocktail hour that can be bad news. You want to have a little something in your system before the party starts so that your first cocktail doesn’t go straight to your head or worse. —Andrea Freeman

PLANNING BY COMMITTEE

Couples can lose themselves trying to please others, especially their parents. While it’s important to plan an event that makes everyone happy, it is your wedding and should reflect your style, personality and relationship.

—Jove Meyer, owner + creative director, Jove Meyer Events

Putting the dress before the venue We always advise booking the wedding venue before dress shopping. Why? Because your dress should complement the environment. A ballgown with a huge train isn’t appropriate for those rustic barn or mountainside weddings (not only will it not look right, snags are inevitable and large trains get filthy in seconds).

—Michelle Cousins

Budget blunders Don’t commit to a single thing for your wedding until you’ve set a budget. All too often, I see heartbroken couples who booked a venue that eats up 75% of their budget and then we have to tell them the photographer of their dreams is out of reach. Don’t just settle on some arbitrary number: Do your due diligence and cost research first so you can arrive at a budget that will work. Google is your friend here!

—Kate Turner, founder, Kate + Co. Events Steer clear of dumping too much money into decor and not paying attention to the “experiential” elements such as enough service staff (especially bartenders), interesting music for the ceremony and cocktail hour, and decent wine. —Marcy Blum

Grass isn’t always your friend The best way to ensure you can dance the night away under a tent is to place a hard-surface floor over the grass. A simple solution like plywood is perfect: You will never notice it under all those dancing feet, but I guarantee you and your guests will be happy to feel it.

—Bryan Rafanelli, founder + chief creative officer, Rafanelli Events

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Venue selection Always book your venue before selecting your wedding date. Otherwise you run the risk of setting the date only to find the venue you had your heart set on isn’t available.—Michelle Cousins Booking a venue before you make your final guest list is a huge mistake. If you book a space that is too small, you will have to lower your guest count or possibly book another venue and lose the deposit of the one you booked prematurely.

—Jove Meyer

Estimating RSVPs Many couples still believe that 20 percent of their guest list will RSVP regrets, but this is an outdated planning rule. Only invite the amount of people your venue and budget allow. Here in wine country, where 90% of our celebrations are destination weddings, almost everyone RSVPs with pleasure. So assume everyone will say yes—and plan accordingly.

—Brittany Westerman, owner & creative director, Reed & James Events

NO RAIN PLAN

Weather is always a variable no matter the time of year.

If you are thinking about an outdoor wedding, be prepared. Even if no rain has ever fallen on that day in that location in history— ever!—having a solid poor-weather plan almost guarantees you won’t need it.

And that’s what makes the happiest day of all!

—Bryan Rafanelli

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A MASTER PLAN Celebrations expert David Tutera takes on the to-do list.

Let the wedding planning begin! This should be one of the most enjoyable and creative processes you will ever experience. But many brides and grooms tell me they get so overwhelmed they feel as if they’ve taken on a second job they’ve had no training for. As for me, I started at 14, learning the craft of floral design while working at my grandfather’s flower shop. That’s where my journey began. I truly believe I was born to create parties. Here, some of the planning aspects I love most—and least. Get the more difficult wedding elements under control and the rest should fall into place.

THE PROS (what I ❤) • SETTING THE VISION Getting a chance to dive in and understand what a couple is all about is the important first step to a beautiful event. My television work has always made it seem as if a superspecific wedding theme is mandatory, but please trust me when I say it is not. However, I do love when a couple knows the types of looks, colors, feelings and moods they want for their wedding. Ask: What are your favorite colors, historic eras, flowers, seasons? The answers will help you better envision the overall look of your wedding.

• FLOWERS AND DECOR I love meeting with vendors in all areas from invitations to flowers, colors and lighting. Whether discussing invitations, color palettes or venues with my brides and grooms, I always envision the overall celebration. Flowers are forever key: A bride without a bouquet or a table without a centerpiece isn’t, to me, a wedding. Soft colors, bold colors or combinations thereof create an overall style or even evoke a period in time. These visual components can be the most pleasurable parts of planning.

• FOOD AND DRINK It’s great to use food to tell the story of your culture and background—this is something I always explore with my couples. Do take care, however, not to get on the full-on foodie bandwagon when planning your wedding, incorporating too many exotic ingredients that may make your guests uncomfortable. When it comes to beverages, specialty drinks have been a major trend but I am now loving specialty bars, such as whiskey, champagne and/or wine bars. Any of these options can make your wedding more unique.

• THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE I love the chance to make special moments happen: perhaps a dance that no one knew about or changing up the timeline in a new way. I always say that something different should happen every 30 minutes. This allows guests to become interactive participants vs. inactive participants following the same old routine (ceremony to cocktails to dinner) and results in something special. This is what I will always love about doing weddings.

THE CONS (what I don’t ❤) • WHO’S INVITED? Determining the guest list can be a tough task, as can deciding on seating arrangements: who should sit next to whom. Once this gets set, the sailing becomes much smoother, I promise!

• DETAILS, DETAILS Picking the perfect songs for your processional, recessional, first dance and all of your important formalities (e.g. toasts) can be challenging, since these elements require a final, set-in-stone decision—you want to make sure everything is exactly as you want it. These all-important nitty-gritty details can be a chore, but they are essential to get right.

• TOO MANY COOKS You do not want a committee of opinions. Pick a few supportive friends and family members (three at the most) and trust in them to guide you and support you. The key word is support.

• TRAVEL LOGISTICS Coordinating travel details for all your wedding guests can be mind-numbing, not to mention time-consuming. Instead of being the point person for travel questions, I suggest finding a good travel agent ahead of time (especially if you’re having a destination wedding!) who can handle these issues. It will be worth it if it means having time you would otherwise lose to focus on the other important details of your day.

• OVERSHARING (especially on social media) One of my ground rules: Don’t forget that some parts of your wedding should be a surprise for your guests, so don’t spill too many details ahead of time! 

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YOUR MONEY

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Remember that there are two sides of the family now: yours and his. If your own mom and dad offer to pay for half the wedding, you should run it by your future in-laws before you agree. Bruised feelings may result whenever people are put in a position to pay more or less than other people. The same goes for divorced parents—discuss the money question with both separately in order to see what each is comfortable with.

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Are you thinking about approaching your parents for help with wedding expenses? Here, some essential advice from a financial pro.

MONEY’S A TOUGH ENOUGH SUBJECT TO BRING UP, BUT WITH TODAY’S

challenging economy, you may find yourself especially nervous about asking your parents and in-laws for help in paying for the wedding. We brought this predicament to financial pro Pam Krueger, author of The Moneytrack Method (John Wiley & Sons).

Here, some sound advice.

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Before saying anything to Mom and Dad, sit down with your fiancé and discuss your expectations. “Make sure you get to a point where you both agree on your vision and how much it will cost,” says Krueger. “This conversation will be the springboard for how you deal with money as a married couple.” Remember to listen to your guy and to make compromises. Be honest with each other about both families’ financial situations; you may find that you have to scale back on your original idea.

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Whether you speak to Mom and Dad by phone or in person, take care to be ultra polite and respectful, Krueger says. “Ask, ‘Do you feel comfortable making a contribution to the wedding?’ Then let them suggest what’s best for them.”

For example, they might propose a dollar amount or offer to pay for an aspect of the wedding, like the liquor.

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Once money is offered and accepted, other issues arise. Will your parents assume that they’ll have more control than you’d like? You’ll have to be clear that the buck stops with you and your fiancé. At the same time, be aware that their contribution does mean that they’re involved.

Let’s say that your mother wants to pay for food, but she insists that salmon be on the menu. Before agreeing, consider whether her agenda fits yours.

Also, make sure they know that you’re asking for a gift, not a loan. “Don’t borrow money,” says Krueger. “You don’t want to start your marriage in debt. There are things—a car, a home—you’ll want to buy together as a couple.”

WHO PAYS FOR WHAT? TRADITIONAL The bride’s parents pay for the wedding, while the groom’s are responsible for some extras, perhaps the rehearsal dinner or the bar tab.

MODERN The couple pays for everything.

MODIFIED The tab is split three ways, among the bride’s parents, the groom’s parents and the couple themselves.

CUSTOM Contributing family members pay for a specific piece—or several pieces— of the wedding. For example, the bride’s parents might take on the reception and the groom’s parents could pay for the photographer and the entertainment.

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THE MONEY TALK

Once you’ve accepted family contributions, create your wedding budget.

“Your job as a couple is to stay on track,” says Krueger. “It wouldn’t be right to take money from your parents and then go over budget.” If you’re planning to save up money yourselves during your engagement, decide how much you can set aside each month and keep a running total as you go; for each couple this will be different. For extra motivation, keep your tally prominently displayed on your fridge.

Krueger suggests using a debit card for wedding-related purchases, so that these costs are immediately deducted from your account, making it easier for you to stay on top of what you have left. If you spend a little extra on any one item, make sure to spend that much less somewhere else. ■

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BUDGET BLUNDERS 1 2 STEER CLEAR OF THESE MAJOR NO NO’S TO KEEP YOUR SPENDING UNDER CONTROL.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, you don’t want to think priorities; you want to revel in dreams! Sorry, sister—if you don’t wake up, you’ll become mired in bills without really knowing why (um, who thought the Rolls-Royce rental was a good idea?!).

THE SOLUTION: Start with a realistic overall budget (which will involve planning meetings with your fiancé).

Then list, in order of “gotta have it,” your wedding details, says Debi Lilly, owner of A Perfect Event, in Chicago.

“That way you can put your dollars on the higher priorities, and spend less on what isn’t so important.” One example: A foodie couple might prefer to host a fabulous dinner for 50 that includes wonderful wine, whereas a couple who loves a party might invite 100 or more for a simple buffet, and splurge on a hot band.

NOT READING THE FINE PRINT

Don’t skip reading anything, and if you have questions—no matter how seemingly insignificant—ask immediately. This is extra critical when it comes to clarifying payment terms. You want to know exactly when payments or balances are due; if there are any minimum charges, corkage fees for wine, cake-cutting fees—or any other possibly pricey unknowns. If your wedding is a year or more away, be sure to block in guaranteed prices on catering and liquor.

THE SOLUTION: Never ever sign any contract on the spot; always take it home and read over everything, making note of any and all questions and concerns. If a vendor pressures you to sign, take that as your cue to move on to the next vendor.

Nothing is so urgent that it can’t wait at least overnight.

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LEAPING BEFORE YOU LOOK

You walk into the first reception venue on your list, fall in love and reach for the pen to write a deposit check.

Sometimes that works fine. Other times, it doesn’t. A week later, you may hear about a place that costs less and offers more services. Then you have to cut from your budget in other areas.

THE SOLUTION: Spend some time investigating. If you’re the spreadsheet type, go ahead and plug in details— cost, services, extras, terms—for every vendor you consider. Even if you end up going back to that love-atfirst-sight place, you know you did your due diligence.

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FALLING PREY TO PEER PRESSURE

So you just went to a wedding that featured free-flowing champagne, lobster and filet mignon and a fabulous band. Stop right there—and refuse to try to keep up with those particular Joneses. Why? They may not have actually paid for all those bells and whistles (credit cards, anyone? wealthy parents, perhaps?). And anyway, even if they could afford to pay for every detail themselves, who says that will make them happy? More importantly, who says copying them will make you happy?

THE SOLUTION: Repress the urge to impress other people, says Lilly. Imagine that you’re in a safe little bubble, where you’re unaffected by others’ choices. You’ll be more likely to stick to your budget.

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GETTING STUCK ON “SHOULDS”

You must have pricey favors.

You need napkins that match the fancy silk tablecloth overlays that, of course, you must have. But to quote the song, all you really need is love. (And a wedding license, right?)

THE SOLUTION: Ask yourself, as you consider every extra detail, whether it will be something you’ll care about in the future. If you’re convinced you’ll be upset to think back on a wedding without a videographer, then by all means hire one.

But if you realize that looking back on a two-minute ride in a snazzy car is unlikely to mean much to you, feel free to skip it.

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NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU BOTH WANT

Ever go food shopping, without a list, when you’ve skipped lunch? You probably spent too much on stuff you didn’t need. Same thing with weddings: When you’re unsure of what you want, you’re susceptible to sales pitches, to vendors pushing for more expensive choices, or to someone who insists you need, say, engraved invites.

THE SOLUTION: Figure out what you really—really—must have. After that, financial decisions come easier.

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NOT THINKING CREATIVELY

Let’s say your sister chose to have dozens of long-stemmed red roses in tall crystal vases on every table at her reception. Must you follow suit—especially since you know full well that this option is rather pricey? Maybe it isn’t the best idea.

While doing exactly what your sister did may be safe, it probably isn’t economical.

THE SOLUTION: Be imaginative. What if, instead of the red roses, you chose local blooms? Or what if you asked a florist to create one centerpiece that you and your friends can use as a template for making the rest yourselves? You’ll save lots on the labor that the florist would have to put in.

LETTING YOUR GUEST LIST GET THE BEST OF YOU

You may feel you’re being generous when you extend the invite to your entire office or to peripheral plus-ones, but you won’t feel quite so expansive when you’ve strained your budget to the breaking point.

THE SOLUTION: Start by figuring out how many guests you can actually afford.

Then make your initial “A” list, dividing it into columns detailing your own guests, your groom’s and your parents’. Now comes the hard part, where you have everyone chop names from their “A” lists to create a “B” list. Make sure to order extra invitations and reply cards and send these after the initial RSVPs come in and you know you’ll have space for some of the “B” listers. You may be able to invite a few people that you cut from the original list—without breaking the budget.

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We get it: You’re so afraid that your wedding will be the one where guests go home hungry or unhappy that you overorder food or try to dazzle everyone with a seven-course dinner extravaganza rather than a more modest but perfectly adequate two. Rest assured, no one at your wedding will starve: “A reputable catering company will never underestimate how much food you’ll need,” says Lilly. And keep in mind that the more menu choices you offer, the higher the cost.

THE SOLUTION: “Always be sure to tell your caterer what your budget is, and what kinds of food you want to include in the meal, and then let her work her magic within the parameters you give her,” says Lilly. “Remember, you’re paying for the wealth of her expertise, so trust her to do the job right!”

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Attempting to handle every last detail yourself can end up costing you because you simply don’t have time to research the most economical choices.

THE SOLUTION: Enlist help.

Though wedding planners come with their own costs, hiring one might save you money. Another way to share the work and save money? Delegate jobs to friends and family—you may be surprised at the fine options they come up with. Also, many brides who have talented friends ask for their help with decorating, invitations or flowers. People are usually happy to pitch in and contribute to the success of a friend’s big day. n

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Strapless midi ballgown with allover cotton lace florals and Swarovski crystal-beaded bodice, about $6,325, by EisenStein; eisen-stein.com.

Blush fingertip veil with beaded trim by Bel Aire Bridal; belairebridal. com. Blush floral earrings by Ines x Ciner; inesdisanto.com.

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Strapless tulle ballgown with ruched bodice and textured ruffled skirt, about $3,595, by Marchesa Notte; marchesa.com. Gold hoop earrings with pearls

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Evoke a lightness of being sure to bring you a higher love in one of these dream-worthy gowns layered with airy tulle and chiffon, and detailed with stunning lacework.

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Long-sleeve, A-line gown with Guipure lace bodice and tiered tulle skirt, price upon request, by Viktor&Rolf Mariage; viktor-rolf.com. Floral earrings, similar styles can be found at Jennifer Behr; jenniferbehr.com. Beaded necklace styled as a belt by Of Rare Origin; ofrareorigin.com.

Blue hair-bow barrette styled as a belt embellishment by BHLDN; bhldn.com.

Engagement ring by Vow by Ring Concierge; ringconcierge.com.

Tulle backdrop by LaMorA Invitations; etsy.com/shop/ lamorainvitations

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Illusion long-sleeve gown with plunging-V neckline, beaded floral embellishments, and detachable tulle overskirt, about $1,399, by Galina Signature Collection exclusively at David’s Bridal; davidsbridal.com. Feather earrings by Ranjana Khan; ranjanakhan.com.

Engagement ring by Vow

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Floor-length silk chiffon gown with blouson sleeves and waist cutouts, about $2,550, by L. Wells Bridal; lwellsbridal.com.

Earrings by Ines x Ciner; inesdisanto.com.

Engagement ring by Vow by Ring Concierge; ringconcierge.com.

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Tulle and silk georgette A-line gown with beaded floral silk organza appliquĂŠs and flutter sleeves, about $4,390,

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Engagement ring by Vow by Ring Concierge; ringconcierge.com.

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Strapless midi ballgown with allover cotton lace florals and Swarovski crystal-beaded bodice, about $6,325, by Eisen-Stein; eisen-stein.com.

Blush fingertip veil by Bel Aire Bridal; belairebridal.com.

Earrings by Ines x Ciner; inesdisanto.com. Engagement ring by Vow by Ring Concierge; ringconcierge. com. Tulle socks by Grace Loves Lace; graceloveslace. com. Floral blush heels by Bella Belle Shoes; bellabelleshoes.com.

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Afterward they went to her favorite restaurant, Talula’s Garden, with their siblings to celebrate. Afton, a buyer for Free People and Colin, a medical sales representative, spent the next year and a half planning their autumn nuptials with the help of planner Michelle Leo Events. They decided to hold the ceremony at St. Mary’s Catholic Church and the reception at St. Regis Deer Valley in Park City, Utah. “I grew up skiing there and my family has been going to Deer Valley for as long as I can remember,” the bride said. “It’s like a second home to me.”

Her masterfully embellished Zuhair Murad gown inspired the entire event’s graphic Art Deco theme, best reflected in the reception’s grand dance floor where the party truly came alive. Overall, the couple described their wedding day as, “The most spectacular and loving party we will ever attend.”

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Personal Touches • “I wore my mother’s diamond necklace and earrings which I always wanted to wear on my wedding day.”

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Haig Point Lighthouse off the coast of South Carolina.

Talk about an exclusive hideaway—this island just off the coast of South Carolina is just five by two and a half miles, and residents get to traverse the white-sand fringed expanse via golf cart, horseback, bike or foot. The charming Haig Point Lighthouse, a classic site that has stood proudly on the island since 1873, is a favorite place to host weddings; it’s also an intimate hotel for just four guests.

Note: It’s said to be home to a brokenhearted ghost—the daughter of the first lighthouse keeper. Island activities include beaching, golfing and tours of art galleries in the historic little town (room rates start at $424 a night; haigpoint.com).

FUN FACT: Revere Beach in Massachusetts was the first public beach in the United States. It opened in 1869. The states of Oregon and Hawaii dictate that all beaches are accessible to the public.

High camp in California.

Flying Flags RV Resort & Campground Only-in-Cali kitsch meets glam at this old-school meets high-end campsite north of Santa Barbara. The property, which is perfectly planned for social distancing and is just 15 minutes from some of the state’s best surfing spots, houses a variety of accommodations including individually appointed Airstreams, vintage trailers, surf-inspired cabins and safari tents. Since the property sits adjacent to Los Padres National Forest, guests hike, bike and generally explore the untouched wilderness during their stay. A favorite path winds to a hot spring (room rates start at $200 a night; highwaywestvacations.com).

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) BUNGALOWS KEY LARGO; FLYING FLAGS RV RESORT & CAMPGROUND; CAROLINA HILTY PHOTOGRAPHY

Tropical delight in the Florida Keys.

Lanai’s Sweetheart Rock is steps from the Four Seasons.

FOUR SEASONS LANAI In Maui county, Hawaii there’s a magical little island that was once entirely a pineapple plantation. Today, this fantasy-on-earth welcomes visitors in search of a quiet place to enjoy Hawaii’s wonders. Hulopo’e Bay, a nature preserve that fronts the Four Seasons Lanai, is such a place that’s home to an honest-to-goodness kaleidoscope of tropical fish. In the mornings and evenings, Spinner dolphins come to the golden cove. And in season, it’s common to see humpback whales.

The 231-room hotel offers all sorts of viewing points, including the Nobu restaurant with a widestone lanai, the lush grounds punctuated by tropical plantings and the comfort of your uber-posh guest room (room rates start at $1,105 a night; fourseasons.com).

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) FOUR SEASONS LANAI; THE REEDS AT SHELTER HAVEN; SHUTTERS ON THE BEACH; IMAGES COURTESY OF FREDRIKA STJARNE FOR SHOU SUGI BAN HOUSE

Ohm away in the Hamptons.

There’s a reason the Hamptons—a collection of beach towns on New York’s Long Island—are so star-studded. The actual strands of sands are cinematic in their beauty. They are wide and golden, the ocean is at once calm and ripe for surfers, and then there are the dunes that tower and in some spots meet the pine-scrubbed interior landscape. While the celebrity factor makes for a buzzy scene, there are pockets of pure zen throughout the region. One such spot is this new sanctuary that specializes in wellness. The spa is the centerpoint of the property, which showcases a Japanese design ethos. Programming includes guided meditations and hikes along with beach picnics provided by Michelin-star chefs (room rates start at $1,240 a night; shousugibanhouse.com).

The Reeds at Shelter Haven

Sunny side up

in New Jersey.

The Jersey Shore—at one time synonymous with meatballs, spray tans, high hair and an overabundance of day drinking—is actually a charming expanse of pristine sands framed by seagrass dotted dunes.

This more than 100-year-old property sits on one of the prettiest parts of the shore— Stone Harbor. Amenities at the beachy-chic 58-room hideaway include all the expected seaside amenities—umbrellas, loungers, dedicated attendants and boat docking—as well as a rooftop pavilion, plunge pool and daily yoga (room rates start at $550 a night; reedsatshelterhaven.com).

Star-struck at Santa Monica.

SHUTTERS ON THE BEACH There is perhaps no beach that’s more recognizable on film than that of Santa Monica, just to the west of Los Angeles.

In addition to the romantic long strand, there’s the screen favorite—the pier, home to a small amusement park, numerous concessions and myriad spots for enjoying the cinematic view. For a decidedly LA experience, stay at this celeb magnet positioned right on the beach. The vibe is breezy and beachy thanks to the Cape Cod style design with pops of blue details. This being a Hollywood hangout, all the food and spa treatments are organic (room rates start at $495 a night; shuttersonthebeach.com). ¢

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The Ocean House.

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The Chanler at Cliff Walk.

Gurney’s Newport.

The Preserve Sporting Club.

RHODE ISLAND In every issue, we scout a spot that’s perfect for tying the knot away from home. by Jenna Mahoney

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s the smallest state, Rhode Island, with its pretty beaches, excellent seafood shacks and historic mansions, doesn’t get as much of the glory as its bigger beach resort neighbors—The Hamptons and Cape Cod. And that’s what makes it so special. Offerings here are less crowded than those other names. Add the only-in-Little Rhody Gilded Age ocean-facing grand homes and you’ve got a great place to wed. Here, some of our favorite hotels to host your big day.

THE CHANLER AT CLIFF WALK

OCEAN HOUSE

Elevated both figuratively—the bespoke design of each guestroom is of special note—and literally—the mansion property is perched over the famed Cliff Walk, which hugs the coast and the oversize gardens of some of Newport’s most revered buildings—this retreat checks all of the glamorous couple’s big day boxes. Celebrations here showcase all of the property’s spectacular offerings from the sparkling setting to the exquisite cuisine. Outdoor ceremony spots include the Cliff Lawn, overlooking the eponymous site; Meadow Lawn, with ocean and mansion vistas; and the secluded Woodland Lawn with its fairy-tale vibe (wedding packages start at $12,000 and include ceremony; thechanler.com).

This stately beachfront property has been hosting guests since the beginning of the century. And has been doing so with such detailed service, excellent cuisine (locally sourced or grown on site) and such sumptuous accommodations that the oceanfront grand dame in Westerly is arguably Rhode Island’s most luxurious hotel. Weddings here are a celebration of the historic property packaged with an innate sense of luxury. Micro weddings are held in the herb garden, which affords excellent ocean views (wedding packages start at $3,500 for up to 10 guests and include an officiant, a bouquet and boutonnière, champagne toast and cheese board and one hour of photography; oceanhouseri.com)

Set on an island in the middle of picturesque Narragansett Bay, this 257-room hideaway has all the glitz of its Hamptons sister properties (the eatery Scarpetta; outdoor firepits) blended with the traditional appeal of Newport (maritime design and uninterrupted water views).

The property also boasts 22 slips for boats as large as 125 feet—Newport is, after all, one of the most famous host sites of the famed America’s Cup regatta. Wed here in a micro wedding and celebrate under the famed Goat Island Lighthouse and toast to your union over a traditional New England clambake (wedding packages start at $1,500 for up to 15 guests and include ceremony set up on the North Lawn, champagne toast and pool cabana rental; gurneysresorts.com).

THE PRESERVE SPORTING CLUB & RESIDENCES A resort designed for our new normal, this haute outdoors-first resort is a collection of cabins, treehouses and high-end tents scattered across 3,500 acres. Activities are all about the natural surroundings.

There’s hiking, fishing, horseback riding, clay shooting, swimming and more. Micro wedding ceremonies for up to 10 guests embody the property’s chic approach to enjoying the great outdoors with an elevated emphasis on farm-to-table menus (wedding packages start at $2,000 for up to 10 guests and include an officiant, a bouquet and boutonnière, champagne toast and cheese board and one hour of photography; thepreserveri.com). 

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) THE CHANLER AT CLIFF WALK; THE OCEAN HOUSE; THE PRESERVE SPORTING CLUB & RESIDENCES; GURNEY’S NEWPORT RESORT & MARINA

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START SPREADING THE NEWS—THIS COUPLE CELEBRATED THE BEST OF THE BIG APPLE AT THIS URBAN-CHIC RETREAT IN THE CITY’S HIPPEST BOROUGH.

BY JENNA MAHONEY

“IT’S THE GREATEST CITY IN THE WORLD,” SAY BRIAN AND TONY STREATER-FROUGE OF THEIR HOME TOWN, NEW YORK CITY. The pair, who live in the industrial-chic section of DUMBO, Brooklyn, hosted a wedding celebration in the neighboring Williamsburg area, known for its cool art and music scene, buzzy boutiques, bars and restaurants, and as being the heart of hipsterville. The couple hosted friends and family from all over the world at The Hoxton, Williamsburg, a hotel that has all the cool factor of the neighborhood, including design touches and programming from local tastemakers, served along excellent cuisine and great service. “The Hoxton’s lower level is welcoming and bustling with locals and tourists who are socializing in a space that not only offers music, coffee, cocktails and eateries collected into one but also sprawls seamlessly both indoors and outdoors,” explain the couple, who loved the venue’s Brooklyn vibe.

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Bright lights, big smiles, Tony and Brian on the rooftop of The Hoxton.

The city that never sleeps.

all night long

Prior to its explosive gentrification, Williamsburg was the epitome of American industrialism with a diverse population. The area’s abandoned factories and rickety warehouses drew artists who then welcomed a burgeoning food scene. That buzzy cuisine movement is an interpretation of the New American movement where simple dishes are prepared in exquisite detail with locally sourced ingredients. The food at The Hoxton embodies the best of Williamsburg’s offerings and the couple showcased the Americana-influenced menus over the course of the evening. At the rooftop cocktail hour, there were Jonah crab cakes, wild mushroom croquettes and cucumber tea sandwiches. When the party moved downstairs guests were wowed with dim sim and pasta stations. Then there were late-night bites of truffle mac and cheese and fried chicken.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP) LAURIE RHODES (2); THE HOXTON, WILLIAMSBURG; LAURIE RHODES (3); THE HOXTON, WILLIAMSBURG

The Hoxton, Williamsburg.

on the waterfront

The DUMBO House pool is a favorite local spot of the couple. The rooftop outpost flaunts up-close views of the Brooklyn Bridge and sweeping vistas of the island of Manhattan.

Wallabout Bay isn’t as bold-face a brand as other Big Apple attractions. But what it lacks in name recognition it more than makes up for in historical context and impact. The inlet at a northern point of Brooklyn was the site of one of the bloodiest battles in the Revolutionary War. In 1801 the Navy Yard was erected here and so began a storied powerhouse of American A toast to the couple. warship building. After employing more than 70,000 people at its height of production, it was decommissioned in 1966. Today, the 300-acre site is experiencing a robust revitalization, and houses more than 500 businesses, studios and small-batch production outfits. For an interactive look at the history of the Navy Yard, check out Building 91, a small museum housed in a reconfigured circa 1857 Commandant house. ➺

The couple with their dog.

The seasonal Summerly.

Tony and his mom.

Brian’s sister walked him down the aisle.

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UP ON THE ROOFTOP One of the spaces that captivated the couple is The Hoxton’s rooftop restaurant and bar called the Summerly. “The sophisticated outdoor space offers stunning views of the NYC skyline,” the couple says. And it is here that they swapped vows, officiated by the first openly gay federal judge. After the ceremony, guests toasted to Brian and Tony’s union on the sparkling rooftop deck.

A variety of sweet treats were served throughout the night.

THE MAKERS MOVEMENT IS AS BROOKLYN AS TRUMAN CAPOTE, NATHAN’S Hot Dogs and Coney Island’s Cyclone (a rickety wooden roller coaster). The borough

is home to the global HQ of shop-small, crafting juggernaut Etsy and the famous Brooklyn Flea. Hosted weekends around the borough (its location depends on the day and season), the flea market is a showcase for the best and newest handcrafted and vintage finds curated by local artisans.

The Brooklyn Bridge (constructed 1870-1883) is one of the world’s most recognized sights. And it has influenced some of the most renowned poets from Jack Kerouac and Hart Crane to Federico Garcia Lorca to compose odes in its honor.

The couple forgo a sit-down meal in exchange for food all night.

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The cermony concluded with a live perfomance of Beyoncé’s song “XO” by Tamara Jade.

legally wed

Marriage licenses are required in the state of New York, and must

be obtained in person by the couple. Each must furnish proof of age (requirements of exact documents may vary by county), the required fee ($40) and,

Women played major roles in the event.

if applicable, a divorce decree or death certificate. Licenses are valid for 60 days.

And there’s a 24-hour waiting period.

Manhattan’s East River, which is actually a saltwater tidal estuary, bifurcates Manhattan from Brooklyn and Queens. For generations the only way to access the populous island from the outer boroughs was via bridge or tunnel (or subway). Similarly, it was difficult to navigate between Brooklyn neighborhoods. That all changed a few years ago thanks to a comprehensive ferry service. With stops along the Brooklyn and Queens side, various routes hug the banks of the East River affording awesome city views. Manhattan-side stops run from Wall Street downtown up to 90th Street. Tickets must be purchased prior to boarding.

PHOTOGRAPHY: LAURIE RHODES

made in brooklyn

Posing at a former Brooklyn tenement.

Some enchanted evening.

travel notes

The hip Brit Hoxton hotel brand is known for its sense-of-place The bar at Summerly. appeal, local design ethos and relaxed gathering spaces for visitors and neighbors alike. Each property is an artful blend of hyper-local details crafted and curated by in-the-know tastemakers who also happen to live near the particular outposts. So it’s no surprise that the company’s first American property is the 175-room The Hoxton, Williamsburg, a jewel box of a hideaway that flaunts an only-in-Brooklyn vibe and is set in a low-rise building with peek-a-boo views of Manhattan and its epic skyline.

The lobby area is a sunken space that’s accessed by an oversize cement staircase. Here local DJs spin throughout the week while a coffee bar serves up a bespoke roast exclusively blended by La Colombe. Juices are also on offer throughout the day and are best enjoyed on one of the many mod couches.

Mixologists at Klein’s, the hotel’s marquee eatery, specialize in artful cocktails inspired by the Americana history of the neighborhood. Seating spills outdoors onto a patio that changes its setup seasonThe cool lobby ally—winter often welcomes awesome igloos. and Klein’s.

The roofdeck with a bar and heavy-on-theOFFICIANT: The Honorable Deborah A. Batts, light bites menu (rosé, lobster rolls and hearty Judge of U.S. District Court for the salads are go-tos) is aptly called Summerly Southern District of New York and is open in warmer months (room rates CATERING: The Hoxton, Williamsburg start at $159 a night and include grab-and-go PHOTOGRAPHY: Laurie Rhodes breakfast; thehoxton.com. 

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DJ: Khloe G, AKA Milkyshake SINGER: Tamara Jade GUITARIST: Alex Nolan

PHOTOGRAPHY: THE HOXTON, WILLIAMSBURG

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Brittany Ward of Modern Rebel PHOTO BOOTH: Sharing Box SUCCULENTS ARRANGEMENTS: La Catrina Flower Studio BRIAN’S ATTIRE: Grey suit by River Island UK collection; shirt and tie by Brooks Brothers; shoes by Cole Haan TONY’S ATTIRE: Blue suit by Paul Smith; shirt and tie by Brooks Brothers; shoes by Cole Haan

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PHOTOGRAPHY: BAHWAH RESERVE; JILLIANNE PIERCE

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PARADISE FOUND Romance rules at Bawah Reserve.

Jillianne & Saúl

“One of the items on our wedding registry was a request for donations to the Bawah Anambas Foundation, the reserve’s independent charity supporting local community development and marine and forest conservation.

STAR TURN Enjoying a private dinner.

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f the globe actually had far-flung corners, one would certainly be a paradise on earth—a place where sugar sands are met by crystalline waters. A visit to such a Shangri-La would be all about lazing about the untouched natural setting and savoring fresh-caught fish. Bawah Reserve, an enchanting enclave stretching over six pristine islands in Indonesia is such a hideaway. Flaunting 13 exclusive beaches edging dense tropical foliage, this all-inclusive resort is the stuff of honeymoon daydreams. Newlyweds Jillianne Pierce and Saúl Reza Arcelus of Orlando, Florida jetted off to this hideaway to celebrate their union in blissful privacy with unbeatable service and even better natural views.

BRIDAL GUIDE: How did you discover Bawah Reserve?

JILLIANE PIERCE: We wanted to travel to a quiet destination—the more remote, the better—and somewhere we’d never been. A friend, who is a travel writer, had visited Bawah and recommended it. The secluded nature of each villa and the fact that we would be two of a limited number of people on the island really sold it for us.

BG: Were there any other draws?

JP: We try to be sustainable in our every day, so the environmental-friendliness of the Bawah Reserve was huge for us. The resort is a leader in eco-friendly practices—there are impressive solar water heating and water desalination systems, a zero-waste program and a permaculture garden to supply the property.

SLEEP IN A look at the fantastic BG: What was it like to stay at an eco-paradise? accommodations.

JP: We loved the horticulture tour. It was so refreshing to see rather than just hear about the importance of sustainability to the resort. Another WET ROOM highlight was a picnic on a secluded beach Baths are fashioned from and a gorgeous beach cabana. The crew local wood. gave us a walkie-talkie to call if we needed anything, and boated off to leave us all alone. And movie night was phenomenal— it was an elaborate barbecue party under the stars, followed by a surfside screening.

BG: What were other mealtimes like?

JP: The food at Bawah was incredible. We enjoyed fresh-caught snapper daily. Our final night, the Bawah team made a private candlelit dinner on a sandbar. We enjoyed

HIGH LIFE Overwater accommodations are the ultimate in romance.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) BAHWAH RESERVE (3); JILLIANNE PIERCE

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ON TOP OF THE WORLD The couple overlooking the resort.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) JILLIANNE PIERCE; BAHWAH RESERVE (6)

FRESH CAUGHT Meals feature local seafood.

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FOR THE LOVEBIRDS Garden villas feel like treehouses.

Bawah Reserve’s 36 accommodations consist of overwater bungalows, garden villas, beach tents and suites. Each was expertly crafted by local artisans using sustainable or recycled woods and have sexy outdoor showers. The trio of garden villas features freestanding copper baths. The tents are a glamping experience privately positioned right on the sands.

SEAWORTHY Kayaking to an overwater villa.

INCOMING The resort is accessed via seaplane.

SUPER SPREADERS Villas are blissfully distanced.

an amazing meal and personal stargazing.

BG: Did you have a favorite daily treat?

JP: The fresh juices were so good that we almost never felt compelled to order cocktails.

My go-to was watermelon; Saúl's was mango.

BG: What island activities did you enjoy?

JP: We did some wonderful snorkeling. Saúl was over the moon when we rented a small sailboat to cruise around the lagoon fronting the resort. One evening as the tide was coming in, we walked out as far as we could on the exposed sand next to the Boat House. And we saw bioluminescence in the waves.

BG: Any travel tips?

JP: We were able to secure better rates in January because it was the wet season. Our visit was far from stormy. We loved getting caught in an occasional passing rain shower or lying in bed in our villa listening to the sound of the rain on the roof (room rates start at $1,980 per couple per night and include all meals, activities, a spa treatment daily and more; bawahreserve.com). ¢

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The River House at Odette’s

Sneak a peek at one of the hottest new hotels where romantic amenities are always on offer.

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n the banks of the storied Delaware River in the charming town of New Hope in Bucks County, Pennsylvania, stands a historic stone-and-timber building that’s been welcoming guests since 1794. Today, the space is a modern rustic-chic hideaway of just 38 rooms, many with river views, a cool rooftop private club, a new American restaurant and cozy lobby anchored by an oversize chimney. The pampering hotel—seriously, the service is excellent—recently opened with the name River House at Odette’s, an artful ode to the history of the building and the area.

One of the hallmarks of the hotel is its location on the historic Towpath, the nearly 60-mile gravelly trail that once linked the cities of Philadelphia and New York (the journey took three days then; today, it’s mere hours). The Towpath is now used for recreation, and The River House at Odette’s has bikes available for guests’ use. Inside amenities include live music—another homage to the hideaway’s history. The namesake of the property—vaudeville star Odette Myrtil Logan—helmed an eponymous bistro with cabaret and piano bar for years after she purchased it in 1961. Her love letters can be seen in the event space—they’ve been refashioned into chic wallpaper. There’s a galLOCAL FAVORITES lery wall of her performance photos in an entryway, WARWICK FARM BREWING and above the Insta-perfect stone fireplace in the Set on a high grassy point in hotel lobby hangs a painting that Logan commisJamison, this newer-to-the Bucks sioned. The chimney also bisects the Piano Lounge County brew scene specializes from the river-facing restaurant, a hip space that in hazy IPAs and outdoor Saturday events on the lawn. spills onto an iron balcony suspended over the canal and Towpath (room rates start at $349 a SHADY BROOK FARM night; riverhousenewhope.com). —Jenna Mahoney Founded in 1913, the nearly 200 acre farm is an area juggernaut for seasonal activities. There’s the Harvest Fest in fall complete with a corn maze and tractor pull; spring welcomes egg hunts.

BUCKS COUNTY PLAYHOUSE The stage of this marquee regional attraction has welcomed the best names in acting.

Dinner and a view.

The Piano Lounge welcomes a rotating roster of musicians.

Chic and sumptuous— the river-view accommodations.

A chimney anchors the outdoor dining space.

PHOTOGRAPHY: THE RIVER HOUSE AT ODETTE’S

The River House at Odette’s in New Hope, Pennsylvania.

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eaches and beginnings. Begin your life together in a place as beautiful as the love you share— The Beaches of Fort Myers & Sanibel.

Set against the picture-perfect backdrop of Southwest Florida’s beaches and islands, there’s no better place for a destination wedding. A wide variety of venues are available, from waterfront resorts on tropical islands to historic homes and gardens with Old Florida charm.

Whether you want a traditional wedding, an open-air beach wedding or something in between, all the right touches are within reach. So if you're looking to walk down a white-sand aisle, or want to raise a little (s)hell with close friends before your big day, enjoy celebrating with loved ones exactly how you imagined.

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Stroll into forever on The Beaches of Fort Myers & Sanibel

Let’s celebrate together.

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WA LT O N IDEAL FOR “I DO�

In South Walton, Florida, you can truly have it all. With an idyllic setting, distinctive venues and convenient amenities, there’s nothing standing between you and the wedding of your dreams.

These 16 unique beach neighborhoods are filled with opportunities to create lasting memories. With great year-round weather, any season is perfect for starting your ‘happily ever a er.’

W H AT ’ S B E S T F O R Y O U R G U E S T S This upscale yet relaxing destination was named one of “The World’s Greatest Places� by TIME Magazine. Your guests will enjoy excellent dining featuring Gulf-fresh seafood and upscale options for farm-to-table cuisine, as well as a wide variety of boutique shopping and championship golf, all with 26-miles of beautiful white-sand beach as your backdrop.

Luxurious accommodations range from boutique hotels to beach co ages or full-service resorts. And travel is a breeze, whether by car or by plane. With non-stop flights from 28 U.S. cities, all major carriers service two convenient airports.

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Upscale accommodations, five-star service, exceptional amenities

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WHERE FOREVER BEGINS With beautiful scenery and settings, South Walton is ideal for bringing family and friends together to celebrate.

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SHE’S THE ONE

She is Saint Lucia Let her inspire a day like no other. A day when the promise of forever love, brings memories that will last a lifetime. Where the backdrop of breathtaking scenery and unique locations add extra wow to your vows. Walk hand in hand along the golden sand. Dance your first dance to the magical rhythm of the island. And spend romantic nights embracing all the comforts and finery of hotels that offer everything your hearts could desire, and more. Say ‘I do’ in Saint Lucia. Say ‘yes’ to the world’s leading honeymoon destination.