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CONTENTS Bridal Guide March/April 2023

FASHION & BEAUTY 16 COVER STYLE How to get that beautiful look.

18 MOOD BOARD Airy, ethereal dressing; plus a (floral) garden of earthly delights.

22 ALL THAT GLITTERS Express yourself in fine jewelry that has something to say.

24 BEAUTY FILE How to get healthy, shiny hair.

49 FASHION FEATURE The newest wedding fashion is poised for takeoff. Come along for the ride!

68 WEDDING ALBUM Abigail and Tyler’s nuptials take center stage at a theatre in Wisconsin.

ON THE COVER • The prettiest new dresses & accessories with major style, pp 18, 20, 49 • Get gorgeous! Must-have healthy hair products, p 24 • 15 Simple ways to stretch the budget, p 42

• You Said Yes! Your planning starts here! pp 28, 32, 36

CONTENTS

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WEDDING PLANNING 23 BRIDAL INSIDER Artful watercolor inspo and ideas.

28 PARTY PLANNER

A fabulous tropical fete on the East Coast.

32 PLANNERS WE LOVE We’re putting our favorite wedding pros in the spotlight. by Carol Straley

36 GET THE WEDDING YOU WANT The most important questions to ask each of your vendors. by Debra Witt

40 PLANNING NOTEBOOK Shopping tips from Kleinfeld’s Mara Urshel.

41 ASK DAVID TUTERA Our guru answers your biggest wedding questions—and adds a few of his own.s

44 PERSONAL BEST Showcase your creative side with these stylish tips and ideas.

NEWS & FEATURES 12 WEDDING Q&A Etiquette questions and answers.

42 15 MONEY SAVING MOVES The easy-peasiest ways to slice and dice your wedding budget.

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ANSWERS

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Wedding

Straight talk, smart solutions by Mary Clarke, Editor in Chief

Q A

Not at all. Surely you already have enough names on your guest list without adding the parents of your entire wedding squad. There’s absolutely no need to invite them unless you or your partner have an especially close relationship with some of the parents.

RECEIVING LINE LIMIT Is it necessary to have a receiving line? It seems hopelessly outdated.

Q A

A traditional receiving line is not necessary, but you and your partner should take time to greet all of your guests. Stop by every table at the reception and thank your friends and family members for helping you celebrate. They will appreciate the opportunity for a little one-on-one time with you and your beloved to extend their congratulations and offer you their best wishes.

SITE SEARCH We haven’t booked a reception venue yet. What are some key things to keep in mind?

Q A

First, make sure that whatever site you choose suits your wedding style. For example, couples who want a big, formal wedding may opt for a grand, opulent ballroom while others may be going for something more low key. For them, something cozy and intimate would be a better fit. There are tons of options to consider, from country farms and garden

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settings to sophisticated city settings such as a loft or art gallery. Once you’ve determined your own personal style you’ll be better able to narrow down your choices to find a site that’s totally you. There are also a plethora of details to be aware of when you visit various venues. The room should be big enough for the number of guests, and the dance floor should be an adequate size and well situated. Is there decent space for a band or DJ? Are there enough electrical outlets to accommodate all their needs? Make sure there is plenty of parking and that the air conditioning or heating are in good working order. Check the restrooms, too, and find out if another wedding is going to be held at the same time on the premises (you may prefer more exclusivity). Ask to see the venue’s insurance and health department certificates to confirm they’re up to date and ask if there’s insurance in place in case someone is injured on the premises. You’ll need to know what the reception package includes, such as gratuities for the maître d’, wait staff and bartenders, and perhaps the inclusion of a wedding cake and basic decorations. And ask if any extra fees are required for valet parking, coat check and restroom attendants. One last thing, in light of the many weddings that had to be postponed due to Covid-19, make sure you are aware of your site’s postponement or cancellation policies. Discuss the last possible date for a postponement and what the financial repercussions are. Can you apply your current deposit to your postponed

wedding date and will your payment schedule in your current contract still apply? Take your time, prepare a list of questions, get the answers and don’t rush into a decision. Remember, though, popular sites do get booked early on. ON THE MENU My partner and I are trying not to blow the budget, but everywhere we go the catering costs for the reception are so high. What can we do to save money?

First, start with the guest list. See if you can pare down. The more guests you have, the heftier your catering bill will be. As for specifics, offer a sparkling or white wine in place of champagne for the toast and cut back on the number of courses served. Forgo a multi-course meal and instead offer a salad, an entrée and the wedding cake for dessert. And instead of pricey hard liquor, provide beer and wine plus one specialty drink. Ask your caterer for suggestions. He or she can recommend less expensive menu options for the cocktail hour and reception to help keep you on budget. ››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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WHO’S INVITED? A friend tells me it’s proper etiquette to invite our attendants’ parents. Is that really true?

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GET THE LOOK

GET HAPPY! The joy of being a bride is expressed in so many ways on the big day. Monica Loretti’s geometric lace gown is the perfect place to start; sophisticated yet sexy, romantic and utterly modern. Pair this knockout dress with a megawatt smile and a wedding bouquet in a showstopping color combination. Photographed at the retro-fabulous TWA Hotel at NYC’s JFK airport.

Wedding bouquets are much more than a fashion accessory. They are an expression of excitement, energy, and pure happiness and represent a creative, bold spirit. — Sandra McBride, Owner & Creative Director, Posy Floral Design

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A GORGEOUS SMILE IS YOUR BEST ACCESSORY! “A great option for brides to consider as she’s prepping for the big day, are porcelain veneers. They can make yellow teeth look dazzling white, transform crooked teeth or simply glamorize a smile in just two visits, one week apart.” –DR. MARC LOWENBERG, Cosmetic Dentist, Lowenberg, Lituchy & Kantor

PHOTOGRAPHY: DAVID DUNAN. HAIR & MAKEUP: ANN BENJAMAS

Long sleeve geometric lace gown with cut-out back by MONICA LORETTI, $2239, monicaloretti. com. Rhyme Major Pearl Earrings by STATE PROPERTY, thisisstateproperty.com. Engagement ring & wedding bands by SOFIA KAMAN, sofiakaman.com. Silver sandals by SCHUTZ, schutz-shoes.com. Wedding bouquet by POSY FLORAL DESIGN, posyflowers.com.

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BRIDES

Walking on air. Rosie Glass PVC Slingback by AMINA MUADDI.

Featherweight. Hermes Feather Earrings by APPLES & FIGS.

All clear. Bess Rhinestone Shoulder Bag by CULT GAIA.

SEBASTIEN LUKE

CHRISTIE NICOLE

YOLANCRIS

ELOQUII

Clear cut. Diamond Tire Necklace by PEARL OCTOPUSS.Y.

SEE THE LIGHT Shed some light in layers of ethereal, transparent tulle. Breathtaking, diaphanous shapes are sheer drama with icy flashes of sparkling diamanté that are as clear as day. by Juli Alvarez

Fine feathers. Marabou butterfly Chiara sandals by SOPHIA WEBSTER.

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BRIDES

MONIQUE LHUILLIER

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ANNE BARGE

Golden. Large Rose Earrings by MEADOWLARK.

Pretty petals. Hand Carved Conch & Morganite Earrings by GUITA M.

Lip service. Rouge à Lèvres Voile Lipstick in Vantine Fuchsia by GUCCI.

HERMIONE DE PAULA

HALFPENNY LONDON

REBECCA SCHONEVELD

HONOR

Hot house. Silk & cotton orchid brooch by GUCCI.

HEY BUD.

A delicate flower. 18K Lace Flower Ring with Lab Grown Diamonds by OSCAR MASSIN.

Flamboyantly voluminous forms awash in faded, hazy-hued botanicals blossom in awe-inspiring ode to nature’s grand gesture. Ostentatious orchids double dare gilded garden roses in sly, surrealist mode. Fancy a floral fantasy? by Juli Alvarez

In the pink. 3D Flower Heels by MAGDA BUTRYM.

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Coming up roses. Mae Headband by LELET NY.

all that glitters

JEWELRY Speak easy. Petit Scale Talisman Individuality Pendant by RETROUVAI.

SAY WHAT?

Can you feel it? Diamond Braille ‘LOVE’ Huggies by MILAMORE.

by Juli Alvarez

You don’t have to mince words. Now, you can wear them instead. Fine jewelry designers are speaking out in favor of expression that transforms the turn of a phrase into a literal art form.

Buzz word. Gold and diamond Happy Necklace by SYDNEY EVAN.

Word has it. 14K gold and diamond I Adore You ring by MATEO.

You have my word. Express Yourself Dome Ring by EDEN PRESLEY.

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Written in stone. Pave Diamond Love You Heart Necklace by ALI WEISS.

Momento Mori. If Not Now Then When Baguette Band by FOUNDRAE.

Parola d’amore. 18K Love Coin Edge Bracelet by FOUNDRAE.

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INSPIRATION

LIGHTEN UP UP LIGHTEN Leila Lewis, the creative force behind Inspired by This, proposes an artful palette of pastels layered with watercolor flourishes and thoughtful details. Take a look...

Table design by Mandy Connor, Hummingbird Events & Design, @HummingbirdWed

Event design by Anthem House at The Barn of Chapel Hill at Wild Flora Farm

Bella Rosa Collection handmade bridal clutches, thebellarosacollection.com

A lounge set-up at The Barn of Chapel Hill with floral design by Wild Flora Flowers

Cocktails by Colette’s Catering take center stage at The Revery, LA, produced by Be Inspired PR.

PHOTOGRAPHY: PHOTOGRAPHY: ALL THE LITTLE STORIES (TABLESCAPE); ALLY AND BOBBY (INTERIOR); KAITLYN BLAKE PHOTOGRAPHY (LOUNGE); SHANNON GRANT PHOTOGRAPHY (INVITATION); LISETTE GATLIFF PHOTOGRAPHY (COCKTAILS)

Watercolor invitation suite by Wouldn’t It Be Lovely, @wouldntitbelovely

Eichholtz “Kinley” dining chair, sweetpeaandwillow.com

Le Rose Stories bridal lounge sets and bag, @lerose_online

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HAIRCARE

Repairs weak, overlyprocessed hair. Leave-In Hair Repair Treatment by IN COMMON.

Repairs and restores dry, damaged, processed hair from the inside out. STEP 3 BY PH PLEX.

Vegan spray-on treatment that rebonds hair’s structure. Bond Repair Hair Treatment Kit by EPRES.

Ultra-hydrating mask that strengthens and restores hair. HYDR-8 Deep Moisture Repair Mask by VEGAMOUR.

These vegan vitamins promote hair growth, thickness, and overall hair strength. Plant Based Hair Capsules by ACT + ACRE.

THE

MANE Restorative treatment for thicker, fuller, healthier hair. The Scalp Serum by NÉCESSAIRE.

A shampoo alternative that cleanses, locks in color, and maintains hair and scalp pH balance. Apple Cider Vinegar Hair Rinse by DP HUE.

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EVENT by Juli Alvarez

Having a good hair day on the big day is no small thing. How healthy your hair and scalp are could make or break your wedding-day do. An innovative, new category of hair and scalp wellness brands are taking a top-down, science-based approach with products that put care for your coif ahead of everything else.

This power duo massages and soothes to promote thicker, denser hair and a healthy scalp. Superpower+ Advanced Comfort Liquid Comb & Superpower+ Advanced Hair Densifying Scalp Serum, both by BETTER NOT YOUNGER.

Exfoliates and nourishes the scalp. The Cleansing Scrub by CROWN AFFAIR.

Wedding Dress Shopping

101

CONGRATS, YOU’RE ENGAGED! You’ve probably been dreaming of this day for a long time — with good reason! There’s no greater feeling than trying on a wedding gown and seeing yourself as a bride for the very first time. Read on for everything you need to know about shopping for your wedding dress.

Choose Your Stores

Brides should begin shopping for their gowns 10-14 months ahead of their big day. Look up your favorite designers online to see which stores near you carry their dresses. A traditional bridal salon offers a large selection of reputable designers and styles, whereas a designer’s store or showroom is dedicated to their specific brand.

Bring These Important Items

It’s a good idea to bring a strapless bra and a pair of shoes with the heel height you’d like to wear on your big day.

Communicate With Your Consultant A bridal consultant cannot read your mind, so be vocal about what you’re

looking for, give honest opinions, and tell her if you love a dress or not. You’ll be making both of your jobs easier. Not sure? Bring trusted family and friends—your “YES” moment will be that much sweeter!

Make the Dress Your Own

The dress you try on in the store is just a starting point. Want to add a sleeve? Lower the back? Elongate the train? At a traditional bridal salon, you can work directly with the dress designer and an in-house seamstress to customize your gown and turn your dream into a reality.

Ask About Special Pricing

If budget is a concern, there are many ways to shop smart at a local salon. Many brick-and-mortar stores offer

discounts at designer trunk shows, and host sample sales annually.

Inquire About Delivery Dates

Don’t forget to ask your consultant about delivery dates. Due to supply chain issues, your dress may take longer to arrive. Short on time? Many bridal salons have off-the-rack sections where you can select a gorgeous gown and bring it home the same day.

Add on Accessories

Once you say yes to the dress, your consultant will help style your look with accessories like veils, headpieces, jewelry and belts. This is an important step as it helps you envision how you’ll look on your wedding day!

For more wedding day fashion shopping tips, visit bridalguide.com/perfectdress.

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RECEPTION “It was a real ‘pinch-me’ moment on the day of the wedding, seeing everything come together,” Jeanenne says.

tropical blend Planner Jeanenne La Bella created a masterful mix of rattan, lush greens and colorful blooms for Asya & Anders Cohen’s wedding held at their waterfront home. PHOTOGRAPHY BY DEAR STACEY WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

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“Asya knew she wanted a tropical theme,” says Jeanenne La Bella, CEO and co-founder, La Bella Planners, LLC. “And we both understood we had to go all out. We couldn’t just throw a few palm fronds around.”1 An anthurium, sago palm and monstera-leaf bedecked chuppa. 2 The invitation suite from Proper Notice offered a sneak peak of what was to come. “Asya and I are not afraid of color!” 3 The floral design throughout was a collaboration between ES Blooms and Bride & Blossom. 4 A hand-calligraphed monstera-leaf seating chart helped guests find their tables.

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RECEPTION

1 3

1 The reception tent featured both round and square tables, the latter set beneath pergolas. 2 “When you have the amazing Ron Ben Israel on the team, you just trust the process,” Jeanenne says. “We discussed the wedding vision and specific floral direction and let him do the rest.” 3 “We brought everyone into the ‘tent of lights’ after the ceremony,” she continues. “It was one of the longest days of the year. We needed to find a way to incorporate romantic, magical and fun lighting for the event. Rattan lanterns provided the tropical ambience while the tent of lights held the whole event together.”

Planning & design: Jeanenne La Bella, La Bella Planners LLC Location: Asya and Anders’ home, Sands Point, NY Flowers: ES Blooms; Bride & Bloom Tent: Sperry Tents Lighting: Ambient Events Cake: Ron Ben Israel Catering: On the Marc Catering Invitations: Proper Notice Rentals: Smith Party Rentals, Taylor Creative, Luxe Party Rentals

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Take inspiration from these creative forces as we spotlight the best in the business in our ongoing series. by Carol Straley

MCKENZI TAYLOR founder, Electric Sugar Elopements

Not every couple wants a traditional “white wedding.” That’s what elopement and micro-wedding planner extraordinaire McKenzi Taylor, founder of Las Vegasbased Cactus Collective Weddings, discovered back in 2020, when requests for darkly romantic goth-themed weddings and rebel rock ’n’ roll nuptials began to roll in.“We decided to create a second brand, Electric Sugar Elopements, to accommodate hundreds of couples who wanted something different.” McKenzi attributes this shift to the wilder side in part to the pandemic of 2020. “People have become “I think the pandemic gave people more permission to do bolder in how they wish to express themselves.” what they want. It’s a ‘life is short. I am going to do this my way’ feeling that we’ve been seeing a lot more of.” After a year spent putting together the right team of vendors and photographers, and scoping out the best venues to set the scene, whether for delicious decadence or rock star glamour, Electric Sugar Elopements officially launched in early 2022. To echo their website, these are weddings to die for!

Rock-star decor

Who Are the Electric Sugar Elopement Couples?

• “Couples who favor an alternative personal aesthetic, whether it is body modification like piercings and tattoos; couples who are gender fluid; couples who are into a more rock ’n’ roll or edgier lifestyle; a lot of couples who are into fantasy and cosplay as well. It’s also that person who is badass on the inside, but doesn’t necessarily get the opportunity to express that side of themselves in their everyday life You don’t have to be outrageous to crave an alternative wedding theme. It could simply be about having an outrageous and unforgettable day.” “I love helping couples create their own unique elopement vision.”

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A sweetheart table, ESE style.

“We specialize in elopements for couples who want to do things their way.”

PHOTOGRAPHY: IMAGES COURTESY OF ELECTRIC SUGAR ELOPEMENTS

Planners We L ve

“We are getting back to what really matters: love and commitment between two people.”

A dreamy desert setting. LQuatquiae simint dolum eum, venis autempe riatem quam

Black lace and blood-red blooms.

“You can still have traditional moments like cake and champagne,” McKenzi says.

Dream Themes

• “Beyond goth, themes tend to lean towards the whimsical and campy, rock ’n’ roll, and from ’70s or ’50s-inspired and vintage themes to the sensual 1700s or 1800s period.” • “Gothic Steam Punk is another popular theme. It’s a specific style that falls into the Gothic aesthetic, but with a futuristic vibe—an interesting blend of retro-futuristic, tech and fantasy.”

Mixing It Up

• “Goth and alternative weddings are all about unapologetic self-expression, so blending traditional wedding elements with goth or alternative themes is perfectly fine.” • “You can still play pop or dance music if you choose, and have traditional moments like throwing the bridal bouquet, and a cake and champagne ceremony.”

Picture This

Striking a pose at Las Vegas’s Neon Museum.

• “Our wedding photographers typically have to shoot a bit differently from a technical standpoint, so it is better if your photographer specializes in a darker mood photography and they know how to work with underexposed lighting, as well as special effects in their post-production process.” • “Keep in mind that the film look is also making a comeback. There are very few photographers that shoot well on film, but if you can find one, it’s great. Please make sure you find a photographer who isn’t scared to break the mold and experiment with set-ups and nontraditional lighting.”

Emotional Connections

• “We understand that romance means something different for every couple and we go above and beyond to make each couple’s vision a reality.” • “ESE is inclusive in that we encourage diversity and equity for all couples, regardless of gender, faith, personal style and lifestyle. ESE is quickly becoming known and loved as an outside-the-box wedding company.”

Looking Ahead

• “One thing we anticipate a lot more of in the coming year are more couples who are non-binary or outside the scope of traditional gender roles.” • “It’s fun to be fluid, flexible and open to new ideas. From a creative standpoint, that is very energizing for me, as well as for my vendors. Our clients continue to stretch the limits of our imagination.” ➺ 33

DONIELLE WARREN founder and owner, Elegant Events ,

Our Expertise

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“Fusion weddings are where we shine!”

So in love.

Branching out.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT

Donielle Warren’s love affair with wedding planning began back in 2004 with an internship for Elegant Events, a Philadelphia-based design and event planning company renowned for events “created out of love for helping others.” There she thrived under the tutelage of founder Sheila Corbett, who launched the company in 1997 to meet the increasing demand for professional wedding planners in the greater Philadelphia area. Beyond fulfilling her college course requirements, Donielle had found her destiny. And so upon graduating, she continued to follow her passion, planning exquisite weddings and special events for the company. At the same time, Donielle pursued a career in the corporate sphere, working as a project manager and team manager for an insurance company. Multitasking would ultimately serve her well when at last in 2015 Donielle took on ownership of Elegant Events, which celebrated the transition with a major rebranding on Valentine’s Day. Perfect timing for a self-described “hopeless romantic” (Donielle’s favorite movie is “P.S. I Love You”), who continues to share the love with every dream wedding she and her team create. Whether couples want an “enchanted island” wedding on a pristine white sand beach in the Caribbean, or to tap into the tradition of a timeless, intimate ceremony in a historic church, or go for the over-the-top splendor of an exuberant, three-day South Asian celebration, Donielle promises a wedding that will always be true to their vision, “never bland or boring.” Far from it!

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“Any unique venue gets our vote!” Donielle enthuses.

fusion, Indian, and interfaith weddings. We ensure the wedding day reflects our couple’s personal story, favorite experiences, culture and traditions.” • “Our planners are well versed in the etiquette and traditions of the respected cultures, but we’re also knowledgeable and ambitious enough to honor, embrace and respect each individual request. That’s the Elegant Events approach!”

Love Stories

• “Many couples are incorporating their cultures into their design elements, food selections or even getting married in the city where they met to play out a beautiful love story.”

Mazel tov!

My Favorite Part of Wedding Planning

• “Fusion weddings are where we shine! It’s an incredible opportunity to not only celebrate more than one culture, but to unite families and traditions.” • “We create a customizable plan that’s catered to the needs and desires of our couple, while at the same time identifying opportunities to elevate their wedding experience.” LQuatquiae simint dolum eum, venis autempe riatem quam

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• “Wow, where do we begin! We’ve loved everything from unique ceremony locations on a helipad overlooking a coastal mountain range to over-the-water chapels with a glass floor aisle.” • “We swoon over unforgettable receptions at historic museums such as the Philadelphia Museum of Art and estates. Any unique venue has our vote!”

Smart Solutions

• “Supply chain shortages have been a challenge, but we manage this concern by planning extremely early and having multiple backup plans in case supplies are unavailable. We have been successful with this approach.”

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Here come the groomsmen! “We swoon over unforgettable receptions in historic museums.”

• “We have a remarkable technique in which we customize a plan that is inclusive of our couple’s ideas and event aspirations.” • The planner should address etiquette and traditions, but also be willing to plan while carefully considering the couple’s distinctive requests, ensuring that everyone feels respected and honored and most importantly, that the couple is celebrated with love.

More Excitement Ahead

• “We were delighted to finally celebrate our rescheduled weddings in 2022 but as a result had to decline new inquiries from incredible couples. Our team is growing, and we’re excited to be available to plan and design with even more couples throughout 2023 and beyond!” • “Additionally, we have revamped our international wedding offerings, expanding our services into new markets.”  35

GET THE WEDDING YOU WANT! ASK YOUR VENDORS THESE KEY QUESTIONS AS YOU START PLANNING THE BIG DAY. BY DEBRA WITT

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ou know you need a great venue, cake designer, florist, caterer, DJ and photographer. But other than help you pull off the wedding of your dreams, do you really know what you need each of them to do? Maybe if you’re an event planner by trade, but probably not if you’re like the rest of us. The fact is you’re not only taking on the role of brideto-be, you’ve just become the operations manager of what will essentially become a small village for a day. Exciting, yes. But also more than a little overwhelming. Take a deep breath, we’ve done the initial hard work for you. We asked a few of our favorite wedding designers to share the top questions every bride should be asking each of her vendors before signing the dotted line.

What to ask your site manager “So many points about your event begin and end with the space or location you choose,” says Amy Jones, owner of Amy Champagne Events in Milford, Connecticut. “It’s key to know exactly what to expect from your venue.” • How many people can you accommodate and how long will I have use of the event space?

• What are the per-person charges? And are there additional service charges or other fees such as gratuities or overtime costs?

• Do prices differ based on the time of day and/or day of the week? What is your payment and cancellation policy?

• What time can my vendors arrive to set up/clean up? Can any rentals

What to ask your florist “The flowers are often the first thing your guests will notice,” says New York Citybased wedding-planning and lifestyle expert Shawn Rabideau (who began his wedding career as a florist). “What florists do impacts the entire look of your event, not to mention your budget.”

or decor be dropped off the day before and picked up the day after?

• Are tables, linens, etc. provided or will I need to rent them elsewhere? • Am I able to use an outside caterer and/or cake maker? Is there an extra cost to do so?

• Do you have a signature design style? Will you be doing the arrangements yourself or using another floral designer?

• Do you offer specific arrangements or can centerpieces, bouquets, etc. be customized?

• What bloom recommendations can you suggest that fit within my budget and my theme/ color story? What flowers will be in season for my wedding?

• Have you done any weddings at my venue? • What can you suggest to help me get the most from my budget?

• And are there extra fees for containers or other vessels?

• Is there a price difference between similar blooms? (Ideally you should see an itemized price list of flowers under consideration.)

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• Can you provide other decor, such as trees,

THE FIRST QUESTION YOU’LL WANT TO ASK ANY VENDOR IS WHETHER OR NOT THEY’RE AVAILABLE ON YOUR DATE, BUT THAT’S NOT THE ONLY ESSENTIAL INFO YOU’LL BE GATHERING.

• Can we bring in our own wine, beer, champagne or other alcohol? Is there a corkage fee?

• Are there any restrictions regarding music? Is there an on-site technician to help with any lighting or sound problems that may crop up?

• Is there parking on site or do you offer valet parking? If not, where can guests park?

arches, votives, and what are the additional costs?

• Do you offer an on-site coordinator? If so, what services are included and

• Will you work with my cake designer to

will she/he be there on my wedding day?

provide coordinating blooms for my cake? Is there an additional fee for this?

FOR OUTDOOR SPACES

• How far in advance are the arrangements/

• What’s your weather contingency plan?

bouquets created? How are they stored?

• Can the space be heated or protected, if necessary? And if so, are those

• Do you charge a delivery and/or set-up fee?

supplies on hand or would they need to be rented elsewhere?

Will you pick up any vases, etc. after the ceremony, or is that my responsibility?

• How do you meet the technical needs of other vendors, such as a DJ, caterer or videographer? (Is there an on-site technician, for example.) ➺ 37

What to ask your caterer If the caterer’s food tastes great you’re done, right? Not quite, says Napa, California–based event designer Sasha Souza. It’s not enough that they can prepare delicious meals, she says—they also have to be able to handle the size and scope of your event and have fantastic service. • What foods do you specialize in? Do you have set menu options or can you create a custom or themed menu? • What would you recommend given my budget, guest count and event theme? • How do you handle tastings? (Ideally each dish should be presented as your guests will see them, and you and your groom shouldn’t have to take a bite from the same serving.) • What’s the price difference between a buffet and a sit-down meal, and between passed appetizers and appetizer stations? How are your fees broken down? • Do you provide linens, utensils, serving table decor, etc.? How about tables and chairs? What colors and

styles do you offer? • Will you be overseeing the meal service at the reception, or do you have an on-site manager to coordinate these things? (If the caterer won’t be present, it’s always a good idea to ask to meet whomever will be in charge of your day ahead of time.) • Is there a cut-off date for making menu changes? • Are you licensed to serve alcohol? (If not you may need to hire a separate bar service.) • How much do you charge for vendor meals? (Musicians and photographers get hungry, too!) Can leftovers be wrapped for guests or donated? • What’s the ratio of servers to guests? How will servers be dressed?

What to ask your cakemaker

• What are your specialties

• What icing options do you

and/or top flavors and fillings? Can you do gluten-free, organic, or vegan cakes? • Can I view examples of cakes you’ve baked and decorated? (Many newer cake makers may have photos in their portfolios of cakes they assisted on, but you want to see what they’ve done themselvesfrom start to finish.) • Do you work with set designs or can you design a custom cake to match my theme? • Can you outline your pricing fees? For example, do you charge for a cake tasting, are there additional fees for cake stands, cutting knives, toppers, etc.? • Will you work with a recipe I’ve provided? If so, will there be an additional cost?

recommend for the cake style I’m looking for? • If I want fresh flowers on my cake will you collaborate with my florist to include blooms that coordinate with my floral decor? • How far in advance is the cake actually made? How is it stored and transported? • Will you preserve the top tier of my wedding cake for my first anniversary?

FOR OUTDOOR SPACES • How will my cake hold up to the elements? An unprotected table won’t be able to shield your wedding cake from stiff ocean breezes, high temps or humidity. You’ll want to know how your baker handles outdoor venues.

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ALWAYS ASK VENDORS, “WHAT’S YOUR BACKUP PLAN SHOULD YOU FALL ILL OR OTHERWISE NOT BE AVAILABLE?” AS TO THE VENUE ITSELF: “WHAT’S PLAN B IF THE WEATHER TAKES A BAD TURN?”

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“You want a ‘wow’ factor here!” says Rabideau. “And that can happen if you’re clear with your cake designer about your wishes, and listen to their ideas, too.” Taste and presentation are only part of the equation. You also need to know if they can handle the specifics of your wedding.

KEY QUESTIONS THAT APPLY TO EVERY VENDOR Put these six important questions at the top of your list.

How long have you been in business and how many weddings do you do each year?

Can you share recent references and examples of your work? (In the case of your venue, be sure to ask to see recent pictures of weddings in the space you’re considering.)

Do you have liability insurance? (If not, you’ll very likely want to take out your own policy to cover unexpected mishaps such as a guest tripping over the photographer’s tripod and getting hurt, or to repair or replace rented linens that were scorched by the votives in your floral centerpiece.)

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What’s your payment structure and cancellation policy?

What’s your backup plan should you fall ill or otherwise not be available at the time of the wedding? In the case of the venue site, what’s their plan if the weather takes a bad turn or another unforeseeable circumstance occurs?

What are your travel and/or overtime fees? (Unexpected travel fees may crop up if your ceremony and reception are in different locations or if you’re hiring out-of-town vendors.)

What to ask your photographer & videographer The images of your special day are so important, “yet many couples only focus on the pricing, or base their choice on portfolio alone,” says Amy Jones. But there are many more details to focus on. • Do you specialize in weddings? (You don’t need a weddings-only shooter, but you do want someone who’s comfortable with both the ceremony and the reception.) • How would you describe your photography style? And can I see a portfolio of your work— beyond what’s featured on your website? • How/when do we go about creating a shot list? What information do you need from me before the event? • What is your working style on the day of the wedding? And how many shooters will cover the day? • How much time do you need to set up? And for how long will you shoot? • What type of equipment do you use? Do you have backup equipment on hand? • What’s the length of time for delivery of proofs? And what is the ordering process? • Can you provide me with a detailed price sheet? What do packages include? • Do you have a minimum number of hours? Will you stay if my event is running

FOR VIDEOGRAPHERS • How long is your editing process? • Is there a cost for a video “tease”? (This is typically a one-minute video short to share on social media.)

What to ask your musicians or dj “DJs and musicians set the tempo for your party,” says Shawn Rabideau. “You want to make sure you find the right professionals who can keep your guests entertained.” • What genres can you cover? Do you

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late and what are your overtime fees? • Will my wedding be your only job on that day? If not, what are the hours I can count on and what happens if you can’t make it to my wedding?

have any particular specialties? • Do you have a video from a previous wedding you performed at that I can view? And where can we see you perform live? • Can my fiancé and I give you “doplay” and “no-play” lists? • Do you have ideas to encourage more guests to dance? (For example, are they willing and able to deviate from their set list to try and energize the crowd?) What’s your game plan if you notice guests aren’t dancing? • Do you provide the sound equipment or does it have to be rented elsewhere? And do you have backup

equipment should something go wrong? • Do you have a technician who stays on site if there’s a problem? (This is especially important if you have an outside event, or are booking a venue that doesn’t typically handle weddings.) • Do you provide any lighting design? What kind of space/staging requirements do you have? • Does your pricing include set-up and breakdown? How much time do you need for set-up, breaks, breakdown? • How many breaks do you need and for how long? Will you play recorded music during breaks? • What will you be wearing—can I make specific attire requests?  39

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SHOPPING

Mara Urshel at Kleinfeld Bridal.

READY, SET, SHOP! Take advantage of this insider intel from gown guru and Kleinfeld co-owner Mara Urshel.

should set aside 10 to 15 percent of her overall budget for her dress. However, that should be adjusted based upon the importance of the dress to the bride. One bride’s attitude may be, “I’m only going to wear it for five hours, so I don’t want to spend a lot,” while another will say, “I want everyone to remember how fabulous I looked, so it’s of utmost importance.” You have to know how you feel in order to set your price point.

BG: What is the worst dress-shopping mistake a bride can make? MU: Not having a budget when you start is a huge mistake—and the most common one. Another big problem is not realizing that the dress isn’t the only thing you have to pay for. Headpieces and veils and jewelry are part of the equation. And don’t forget the extra fee for alterations. Your dress size will also affect the price of your gown; some designers offer up to size 40 BRIDALGUIDE.COM March/April 2023

16 without extra cost, but otherwise it can cost 10 to 20 percent more.

BG: If a bride comes to Kleinfeld with a photo of a dress that she can’t afford, what will the sales consultant do? MU: Our consultants try never to go over a bride’s budget, and 90 percent of brides respect that. But there are always one or two who insist on trying on that $20,000 gown. Then it becomes very difficult for her to consider anything else! It’s as if you tour a two-million-dollar house and then you look at one for one-third that much—trying on a dress you can’t afford is unrealistic and disrespectful of whoever may be planning to pay for it.

BG: What’s your advice on customizing a gown? MU: Almost every bride wants something done—more beads, a longer train, a sweetheart neckline, straps, a bolero jacket—because she wants to “make it her own.” It’s natural to want to be unique, but do be sure to figure customized work into your budget.

BG: Beading and other details will

up the cost, so it makes sense to go for a simpler dress. But what if a bride dreams of bling? MU: Compromise. Consider a belt— that’s the simplest way—or get a headpiece with bling or some dazzling jewelry. A dress doesn’t have to be the most expensive one to be beautiful.

BG: How can friends and family help—or hinder—your attempts to stay on the financial track? MU: I’ve seen a bride’s friends or family members pull dresses that are not right for her style or her budget. Only bring people with you who truly understand your budget and lifestyle.

BG: What is your best piece of advice for brides? MU: There is nothing worse than when wedding guests look at the bride and ask each other, “Who is that?” When this happens, it usually means the bride is wearing too much makeup or the wrong hairstyle or she’s chosen the wrong dress. My advice is to be yourself—the best, most beautiful version that you can possibly be for your big day. 

>> BRIDALGUIDE.COM Don’t make these dress-shopping mistakes at bridalguide.com/mistakes

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Bridal Guide: What are your guidelines for the bride-to-be who is about to start shopping for her wedding dress? Mara Urshel: It’s said that the bride

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Q&A

NEED TO KNOW

When it comes to weddings, everyone has questions, both couples and their planners, says celebrations expert David Tutera. MY QUESTIONS What kind of wedding would you like to have?

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The answer I often get is “We want a unique, different, creative wedding” —which is not the answer I am looking for. Every couple wants something unique; I want to see how far outside the box the couple wants to go. The style and personality they want to come through are important, but I need to understand how far they’re willing to venture—and how much they’re willing to break with the formula of a traditional wedding.

What’s your color scheme? Surprise: A lot of my couples don’t have a ready answer. Think about specific colors, preferably bringing in fabric swatches, paint chip colors, screenshots—anything that depicts what you’re envisioning. Ideally, I like to see three color choices per palette: a primary color (your

main color), a secondary color (your accent color) and a third color I call it the finish color: silver, crystal, copper or gold).

How would you like to infuse your personalities into your celebration? I hope the couple answers by telling me more about who they are—the foods they love, their cultural backgrounds, stories about their relationship, etc. The reason I ask this is so I can tell the couple’s story. The more personality and detail in your wedding, the more your wedding becomes your wedding.

What style do you live your life in? Are you Modern? Classic? Eclectic? Traditional? Retro? I ask this question because the answer gives me a sense of who you are as a couple, as well as the way you like to live.

What style would you like your wedding to be executed in? The style a couple wants for their wedding may not be the style they live their lives by.

It’s often more of a fantasy they want to live out for that day.

MY COUPLES’ QUESTIONS How can I make my wedding different and unique? It isn’t about trying to find a unique theme or concept that’s different because that doesn’t necessarily make sense for who you are as a couple. Instead, aim for a wedding that breaks the mold of the traditional formula and timeline that everyone else follows. Have some interactive participation so your guests can’t predict what’s around the corner, and they leave feeling like they experienced—experience is they key word here—something unique.

Do I have to do all the expected formalities (for example, first dance as a couple, father-daughter dance, motherson dance, the bouquet toss, cake cutting)? You don’t have to do any of it! It’s your wedding and it is up to you when it comes to these traditions.

However, when making these decisions, take a moment to consider whether you will later regret not including them (e.g. having that special moment with your dad, your mom, etc.).

Should we have an afterparty or a separate late-night lounge area? Neither. Both break the energy and flow of the celebration, and you can lose guests that way. Keep everyone within the four walls of one space and try not to spread out too much for too long a period of time. Instead, opt for switching up the environment over the course of the evening. Have a lounge area within your reception space, then change up the entertainment, music and lighting to create a new atmosphere and keep the party going strong.

What are the season’s top color trends? Rather than go with the trends, pick colors that speak to you. If you follow your heart and stay true to what’s meaningful and special, a beautiful wedding will unfold. The truth to your wedding being your wedding is you being you! 

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SOME OF THOSE WEDDING MUST-HAVES DON’T HAVE TO BE AS COSTLY AS YOU MIGHT THINK. HERE, STRESS-FREE WAYS TO SAVE.

office. Don’t split up groups, says Syd Sexton, CEO at Catering By Design in Denver, CO. “If you can invite your office gang, great. But if not, don’t invite only one of them.”

THE DRINKS

5. notes that you don’t need to fill every corner of your venue with flowers for a lovely look. Work with your florist to use the freshest, in-season blooms to their advantage, then fill in the rest with budget-friendly candles or greenery. The look will still be beautiful. If you just adore flowers, check out botanical gardens in your area— you’ll have a bounteous backdrop of blooms at your disposal.

THE DESSERT TABLE

2. THE GUEST LIST

Keeping your guest list trim is of the utmost importance. But don’t worry about offending people by not inviting them. Of course you wouldn’t leave out your nearest and dearest, and just think of all those people who’d probably be flattered to be invited but not bothered if they’re not. Your best bet is to make some rules. That is, first cousins, but not second. Spouses and live-in or serious partners, but not dates. Your boss, but not your whole

Unless you’re having a dessert reception, don’t go overboard on sweets. Wedding cake is so spectacular that offering a dessert buffet, a crêpes suzette station and mini ice cream cones is just excessive. THE FLOWERS

The first time you gazed upon your reception site, you saw veritable fields of flowers, right? It’s no surprise, though, that piles and piles of blooms can ratchet up your costs quickly. Sexton

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Feel free to skip the champagne toast and just use whatever wine you have on the table. Create a bar you can afford, whether that means only beer, wine and soft drinks; a signature cocktail and wine with dinner; or lessexpensive liquors for mixed drinks. Keep it simple: The more varieties of liquor involved in assembling the drink, the more you will pay. THE 5-COURSE MEAL

We know—you’re worried about guests going home hungry. This concern has led many couples to go down the path of offering too much—up to seven courses—

COCKTAIL HOUR

Don’t overload guests with everything from sushi bars to hors d’oeuvres to pasta and carving stations. By keeping it short and sweet, you’ll ensure that you’ll need less food. Hand-pass hors d’oeuvres instead of having stations. This limits

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MONEY SAVING MOVES

the amount of food you’ll need. Stick with just enough food to keep guests from getting too tipsy too early on, advises Meghan Walls, owner of Meghan Walls Events in Hoboken, NJ. “A pretty display of cheese, fruit and crackers will do just fine.”

and paying too much for it. If you’re looking to cut costs, “eliminate one course, and just serve an appetizer and an entrée,” says Walls. Or instead of offering chicken, steak or salmon entrées, assemble a plate that combines, say, a few grilled shrimp and medallions of beef, plus a creative array of vegetables (you may save 40 percent or more).

THE INVITATIONS

Engraved and letterpress invitations are pricey. Choosing an unusual color, paper or design may also raise your costs. If you’re a DIY-er, design and make your own invitations by hand or digitally, using high-quality paper stock. TRANSPORTATION

10.

White limos cost more than black or silver ones, so cross white ones off your list. If you do hire a limousine, don’t have the car that took you to the ceremony wait for you all day—book another to come for you later (you’ll save on hourly rates).

get a big price reduction, you may get some extras thrown in.” And, if you are willing to be flexible with days of the week (a Friday or Sunday, say), times of day or seasons, you can often work out a much better deal. Remember: Vendors want your business as much as you want a nice wedding.

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REHEARSAL DINNER

12. THE CAKE

A five-tier tower covered with elaborate sugarpaste flowers, butterflies and bows? The more elaborate the design, the higher the cost. Consider serving a smaller, tiered display cake and supplementing with a sheet cake that is brought out after the official cake cutting. Or do less-pricey cupcakes in your wedding colors (always a big guest favorite!).

THE FAVORS

“Unless the favor is food—like chocolates to eat right then—it’s an expense you can forgo,” says Walls, who also suggests making donations in guests’ names to charities as another option.

THE VENUE

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You’ve learned the price per person at your chosen venue, and it’s too high. Don’t worry—negotiate. Some brides are shy or they think this is tacky. “Uh-uh,” says Sexton. “In a tough economic climate, vendors expect it. Be honest about your budget, and ask, ‘What can you do for me with this amount?’ Even if you don’t

You need not make the rehearsal dinner a mini wedding by booking an expensive restaurant. “If you can, have it in the home of someone willing to host,” says Sexton. (Hint: Perhaps someone wants to make this their wedding gift to you!). “Do something casual, like a backyard barbecue or picnic. Or ask your wedding caterer if he or she is willing to cater it in a private home for a lower fee, as part of your wedding package.”

THE LINENS

13.

The standard white or off-white table coverings have kept their classic good looks. Perk up the tables with napkins tied with ribbons or rent stylish napkin rings.

>> BRIDALGUIDE.COM Find more money-saving secrets at bridalguide.com/budget

THE FOOTWEAR

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Focus your energy and your money on your dress—not your shoes, advises Walls. “Why spend hundreds of dollars on footwear you’ll wear for a single day? Unless you have a short or tea-length dress, no one will see what’s going on below your ankles.” Find inexpensive (but comfortable) shoes that complement your gown, and leave it at that.

THE IMPRESSION

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It isn’t your job to dazzle your friends. “Just remember to take care of them,” says Walls. Be sure they have little amenities in their rooms, and that older guests don’t have far to walk. Take care not to have too long a time gap between ceremony and reception. Or consider this sweet finale: Leave milk and cookies for guests at the end of the night to make everyone feel loved.  43

PERSONAL BEST CELEBRATE YOUR CREATIVE SPIRIT WITH THESE 50 STYLISH TIPS AND IDEAS.

DREAM THEMES 1. DON’T BE AFRAID TO BE BOLD. Los Angeles designer Wayne Gurnick had a bride wild for Alice in Wonderland. He threw her a Queen of Hearts-worthy bash, complete with flower lollipops lining the walkway, cocktails served with “drink me” tags, and a cutout of the white rabbit holding a clock that showed the ceremony time. 2. THE STANDARD BALLROOM NOT

New York City-based tabletop and event designer Tammy Carmona recommends finding a location that’s meaningful to you. “One of my brides wanted to get married in the same castle where her mother married. The place was no longer

YOUR STYLE?

4. SHOWCASE YOUR FAVORITE HOBBY.

in use, but with enough persistence, we were able to secure permission to do the wedding there. It brought back a lot of happy memories for her mom.” 3. FORGET THE GO-TO TULLE AND GOLD CHIAVARI CHAIRS—put your personal 44 BRIDALGUIDE.COM March/April 2023

Jill planned a nautical-themed wedding for a couple that loved to sail. “For the cocktail hour, we had roving ‘cigarette girls’ offering vintage candy, as though guests were on the first-class deck. We flew flags, as if from the mast of a boat. And there

were lifesaver rings where the guests could pose for photos.” 5. LOOK FOR INSPIRATION IN THE . . .

For a bride and groom who were teachers, Tammy placed shiny fresh red apples in the centerpieces and mini pencils on the escort card table. For a race-car driving groom, Wayne created a purple-and-white checkered flag motif and used it as a border on the table numbers and escort cards. 6. SAY IT WITH FAVORS. Wayne had a couple from San Francisco and Los Angeles who gave guests a sweetly wrapped duo of their favorite San Francisco tea and L.A.-roasted coffee beans.

OFFICE?

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style stamp on your wedding, says Jill La Fleur, a Los Angeles wedding planner. Jill threw a hacienda-style wedding for a Santa Barbara couple that loves the Spanish mission style. The stemware was Mexican blue glass, Spanish tiles served as escort cards, the centerpieces were set in rustic tin containers, and on the dance floor? Maracas, of course.

7. SHINE THE SPOTLIGHT ON YOUR FAMILY BACKGROUND. For a Moroccan

couple, Tammy placed each dinner table under its own gauzy tent decorated with low seating and vibrant pillows.

PARTY ON 8. GIVE A SHOUT-OUT TO YOUR COL-

After the ceremony, a USC groom Jill worked with surprised his bride by having the entire USC marching band escort the newlyweds and their guests to the cocktail hour.

LEGE YEARS.

9. HAVE A WACKY SENSE OF HUMOR?

One of Tammy’s couples hired their parents’ favorite comedian to do a set during dinner. “He was cracking everyone up!” Tammy reports. 10. SAY IT WITH PICTURES. Plan a slideshow with snaps of you and your groom, or think even bigger and create a slideshow that features a shot of everyone in your wedding party, or each of your guests.

TASTE MAKERS 11. CAN FOOD REFLECT YOUR PERSONALITY? Yes, says Sabdy Pacheco-Williams at Miami’s A Joy Wallace Catering, Design & Special Events. She had a groom show his love of the ballpark by serving mini hot dogs and kettle corn at the cocktail hour.

12. BITE INTO YOUR HERITAGE.

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Jill had an Italian couple who served a pasta course—one heaping bowl of pasta for each table. 13. ANOTHER VARIATION? At a wedding with a groom from Mexico, guests received end-of-the-night Mexican hot chocolate and bags of churros. 14. BRING BACK MEMORIES OF THE RESTAURANT

where you had your first

date. Many of Sabdy’s couples ask the chef at their favorite eatery to consult on their wedding menu. 15. PUT GRANNY IN THE KITCHEN.

A Joy Wallace Catering & Events will not only recreate your family recipes—they’ll also invite your relatives into the catering kitchen to make sure everything tastes exactly the way the family likes it. 16. DO YOU REALLY NEED A COCKTAIL

Is a sit-down dinner a wedding must? Sabdy says to plan the meal your way. A Cuban couple couldn’t wait to get the dancing started, so they skipped the cocktail hour altogether. Instead of passed hors d’oeuvres, guests were seated at the dinner table right away. There were nibbles on big lazy Susans for between dances, and when it was time for dinner, waiters cleared the lazy Susans and set the first course.

HOUR?

Shop,” a lavish dessert “doggie bag” station in honor of the couple’s dog.

PERFECT PLAYLISTS 19. LOOKING FOR A FIRST DANCE

Let Hollywood inspire you, suggests Frank Macioce of Windy City DJs in Phoenix, Arizona. Romantic movies almost always have a gorgeous song you can dance to, such as “Flightless Bird, American Mouth” from “Twilight” or “Young and Beautiful,” from “The Great Gatsby.”

SONG?

20. THE COCKTAIL MUSIC DOESN’T HAVE

For a bride and groom who loved reggae, Tammy brought in an island-style band.

TO BE VIOLINS OR JAZZ.

21. THERE’S A SECRET TO GETTING THE RIGHT DANCE MUSIC for your friends and

family. Just ask them. Email your crew ➺

17. INVITE YOUR GUESTS ON YOUR FAVORITE LATE-NIGHT SNACK RUN. An L.A. bride of Wayne’s had an In-N-Out Burger truck roll up to her reception at 10 p.m. so everyone could get a bite of her favorite guilty pleasure.

18. IT’S NOT JUST THE FOOD THAT SHOWS WHO YOU ARE—it’s also how you

serve it. Sabdy once set up “Missy’s Bake

FOR A BRIDE GETTING MARRIED AT A MUSEUM, ONE DESIGNER COLLECTED OVER 100 VINTAGE BOTTLES, EACH HOLDING DIFFERENT FLOWERS. ➺ 45

22. CRAVING A TRULY MEANINGFUL

Have one written for you! Jill plays matchmaker between her couples and local songwriters, and the result is a custom first dance song that tells your personal love story.

FIRST DANCE SONG?

23. DOES “BUILD ME UP BUTTERCUP”

make you think of that road trip with your sister? Give your special peeps a shout-out by asking your band or DJ to dedicate a trademark track to them. 24. THE BEST LOVE SONGS ARE ABOUT HEARTBREAK—which can make it diffi-

cult to find something to dance to with your

dad. Frank suggests casting back to childhood. Ask your father what song reminds him of you as when you were a kid, whether it’s a silly campfire tune or an instrumental version of a lullaby. When your dad twirls you with tears in his eyes, it will all be worth it.

grandmother’s drive. 29. REMEMBER THE ONES YOU’VE LOST.

Kim’s brides are big on mementos—recreating their mother’s bridal bouquet or wrapping their bouquet in a sleeve of lace from their grandmother’s wedding gown. 30. ONE BRIDE TIED HER FATHER’S WED-

25. SOUTHWESTERN BRIDES TAP

DING RING to the handle of her bouquet.

THEIR TOES TO SALSA OR COUNTRY,

“She said it made her feel as if he were there for the whole ceremony, holding her hand,” says Kim.

Frank says, and down south it’s all about Southern rock. Put you and your fiancé’s hometown stamp on your dance floor.

BEAUTIFUL BLOOMS

31. ARE YOU NOT A FLOWER GIRL?

Wayne had a jewelry-loving bride who created a dazzling bouquet out of a clutch of multi-colored brooches.

26. THERE’S A FLOWER FOR EVERY PERSONALITY says Kim Sutherland of Moun-

tain High Flowers in Sedona, Arizona. For instance, she sees sunflowers as fun and playful—large flowers for a bride with a lot of personality. Girlie girls love the fluff of the peony, and free spirits swoon over fresh-from-the-meadow wildflowers. 27. LOOK FOR FLOWERS THAT REMIND YOU OF HOME. Arizona brides have been

getting excited about desert-dwelling succulents, says Kim. 28. ANOTHER TAKE? Jill La Fleur tucked a single lilac into her own bouquet because it reminded her of the lilacs that lined her

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for their top dance songs about six weeks before your wedding, then pass along the list to your DJ. That way, everyone is guaranteed to hear a favorite during the night, and you know your DJ is spinning the right tracks for your BFFs.

32. KIM HAD A FUN-LOVING GROOM

whose boutonniere was a colorful mini pinwheel. 33. EVEN YOUR VASES CAN SHOW YOUR

For a woodsy bride, Kim used vases covered in birch bark. And . . .

BAKERS ARE CRAFTING CAKES WITH DRESSMAKER DETAILS, INCLUDING LACE, CRYSTAL, PEARLS AND GRACEFUL SWIRLS OF BUTTERCREAM “RUFFLES.”

SIGNATURE STYLE.

34. . . . FOR A BRIDE GETTING MARRIED

she collected over 100 vintage bottles, each filled with a different clutch of flowers. AT A HERITAGE MUSEUM,

35. WHO SAYS EVERY BRIDESMAID SHOULD HAVE THE SAME BOUQUET?

Wayne suggests a custom bouquet for each girl to highlight her unique sense of style.

to a pickup truck with hound dogs for a groom that liked to hunt. 39. IS YOUR MOM A BAKER? Ask your baker to recreate her signature dessert. Jim is still using a treasured, old Southern family recipe that a bride gave him for a lemon coconut cake. 40. FIND INSPIRATION IN YOUR OWN

“I worked with a local Charleston couple who live out on one of the rivers and held their wedding under an old oak tree. They wanted me to recreate their oak tree, complete with Spanish moss,” Jim says. 41. TAKE A STAND. From your motherin-law’s heirloom pedestal, to a round of birch, to a modern acrylic square, Jim reminds you that the cake stand is another chance to highlight your sense of style.

BACKYARD.

44. HAVE A PIECE OF ART MADE JUST

For a bride who lived on the California coast, Ceci painted a watercolor of her favorite bucolic view over the water and used it on the invitation liner. FOR YOUR WEDDING.

45. THINK OUTSIDE THE TRADITIONAL BLACK AND CREAM. One couple sent

their guests a comic book save-the-date that told the story of how they got engaged on the Coney Island ferris wheel. 46. SAY IT WITH SYMBOLS. Ceci loves to include personal touches in her designs, like a love knot for a nautical groom, or even a mini cameo of the bride.

INVITING INVITES 42. GET PERSONAL ON YOUR INVITA-

with a custom monogram, crest, or even a logo made just for you. Ceci Johnson, the couture designer behind Ceci New York, loves to create logos for her couples based on what they love, their favorite city, or even their pets: “We can make a pattern from the logos, and then use it on the envelope liner.” 43. TAKE IT EVEN FARTHER—make your wedding pattern into fabric for table runners or pillows at the wedding. Your monogram or wedding pattern can even be made into a lighting scrim and projected onto the wall.

TIONS

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CAKE MASTER 36. THE LOOK OF THE CAKE SHOULD

says Charleston’s Jim Smeal, who has baked for Southern trendsetters such as Reese Witherspoon. He’s made traditional white towers for his Carolina belles, but he’s also created unexpected confections—like the Japanese pagoda cake he baked up for a bride and groom who had a love of Asia.

BE ALL ABOUT YOU,

37. SHOW OFF YOUR FASHION SENSE

It’s a common request for Jim to recreate the lace from a bride’s gown on her wedding cake, but lately his girls are taking it further. They’re asking for big buttercream flowers and ruffles to mimic the soft, romantic textures on the latest couture dresses.

WITH . . . CAKE?

38. GET WILD WITH A GROOM’S CAKE.

Jim’s made everything, from a lion clutching a football for a sports-loving groom,

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ABIGAIL WASN’T EXPECTING A PROPOSAL FROM TYLER. “In fact, I was in the process of pre-heating the oven to cook us dinner,” she says. “When I turned around, he was down on one kn knee.” ee.” Law school (Abigail) and medical school (Tyler) found them in a long-distance relationship during the pandemic: not an optimal time for wedding planning. “I was studying in Madison, Wisconsin, so I was already familiar with the Overture Center,” Abigail says. The couple planned to use both the stage and the lobby, but at one point they were unsure if dancing would be restricted. That’s when they decided to book additional space in the Orpheum Theater, a venue right across the street “to give our guests and entertainers more space to dance, drink and enjoy the final hours of our wedding. Thankfully, most Covid restrictions were lifted by the time we had our big day,” says the bride. Bravo!

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“We always knew we wanted to have an indoor venue, but we wanted to incorporate lots of natural elements, too,” Abigail says. 1 Guests mingle on a mezzanine at the Overture Center. 2 In the spotlight, ceremony musicians The Camerata String Quartet. 1 3 Marquee attraction: Abigail and Tyler outside the Orpheum Theater. Abigail’s dress by Lazaro; Tyler’s attire, Men’s Wearhouse; Bouquet by Gene’s Floral. 4 Look up! Groomsmen’s attire, Men’s Wearhouse. 5 Beneath hundreds of lights, a lineup of transparent ghost chairs accommodated 175 friends and family. The dark, glossy stage provided a completely different look for the ceremony, in stark contrast to the venue’s airy lobby where Abigail and Tyler held their cocktail hour and dinner. mm

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There was no official wedding palette because “I didn’t want anything too matchy-matchy,” Abigail says. 1 “My bridesmaids wore dove-grey Bhldn dresses, which looked great in both the ceremony space and the Overture Lobby.” 2 The couple opted for a sweet tiered cake—by Gigi’s Cupcakes— dressed in vari-textured frosting with floral accents. 3 The foil-stamped escort cards by Minted were white, grey and pink, each color representing a specific meal option. 4 Each guest received a custom cookie from Carl’s Cakes. 5 A bird’s-eye view of the Overture Lobby setting. 4

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5 4 1 The celebration’s second act took place at the Orpheum Theater. 1 Abigail and Tyler survey the scene from an opera box above the dance floor. 2 “I wanted the overall design to have a very natural vibe,” Abigail says. To that end, event planner Sarah Davidson of Hue by Sarah Davidson created an indoor garden look, replete with a swing set, fountain, and living statues. 3 Abigail and Tyler’s first dance. 4 Lighting by Celebrations Entertainment brought the dance floor to life. 5 Gold played a supporting design role throughout, as seen in tableware and chairs from Event Essentials.

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THE COASTS MAY GET ALL THE INK WHEN IT COMES TO cultural attractions, but Dallas—specifically its 20-block Arts District—is a showstopper that impresses all manner of art aficionados from classical connoisseurs to modern enthusiasts. The former score big with a stay at the ultra sleek, and uniquely bespoke Hall Arts Hotel, where every one of the 183 guest rooms and oversized common areas are decorated with original—many exclusively commissioned— contemporary works from emerging and big-name artists. Guests are invited to private tours of the collection hosted by the resident Experience Curator. The free event includes a wine tasting. The city hotel is also an oasis, thanks to its exclusive in-room spa experiences and rooftop pool and garden area. After a refreshing dip, seek shade under the wide umbrellas and toast to the urban landscape, which includes a number of Pritzker-winning buildings and an impressive sculpture garden that spans the entirety of a city block. Neighboring amenities include the aforementioned riches of cultural attractions plus a host of equally celebrated gathering spaces including the Cathedral VENUE: Hall Arts Hotel Guadalupe, the column-fronted Arts District Mansion and Klyde CATERING: Hall Arts Hotel Warren Park, home to 3,000 CAKE: Fancy Cakes trees and indigenous plants. WEDDING PLANNER: MK Event Boutique And the expert hotel staff AKA PHOTOGRAPHY: Jeff Brummett curators can arrange—or lead FLOWERS: Terry Riberich, @flowersbyterri themselves—insider tours of all DJ: Harmland Visions of it (room rates start at $400 a HAIR AND MAKEUP: Etoilly night; hallartshotel.com). 

The sleek Hall Arts Hotel.

The light-filled lobby area.

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A chic guest room.

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An experience at the restaurant enticed the couple to host their reception here.

Cozy and comfortable in the bespoke guest rooms.

All together now.

WHOLE FOODS Having dinner at the hotel is how they identified it should be the setting for their wedding reception. Other favorite eateries include The Charles—”it’s chic and the food is consistently amazing”—and The Mexican for dinner. For a romantic evening Stacia and Clif like The Library Bar thanks to the “good drinks, music and dancing.” Adds Stacia “the lounge singer there, Aubreanna, is great.”

All vendors were local.

The couple enjoys dancing at the local Library Bar.

One missing moment from their perfect day? Their puppy, says Stacia.

“I’ve always loved museums. I’m always in awe of the creativity of humans.”

“My bridal suite was gorgeous. There was the most beautiful artwork on the walls, it was huge and had the most fantastic tub I think I’ve ever seen!”

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Marriage licenses are required in the state of Texas and are available at any County Clerk office. All couples must apply in person with proof of age and identity, birthplace (city, county and state) and social security number. Divorce decrees must be longer than 30 days from the date of marriage. There is a 72-hour waiting period, and licenses are valid for 90 days. Application fees vary per county, but may be waived if the couple participates in a marriage course.

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Stretching over 20 blocks and nearly 70 acres, the Dallas Arts District is a robust destination for all manner of artistic experiences. World renowned auditoriums such as the Meyerson Symphony Center and Winspear Opera House sit alongside powerhouse museum collections including those at the Dallas Museum of Art, Nasher Sculpture Centre and the Crow Collection of Asian Art, as well the locally focused performance spaces. The buildings themselves, some of which date to the 1890s, are also works of art. In fact, within the walkable enclave, four of the structures are Pritzker Prize laureates.

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hic, modern, artistic: adjectives that not only describe newlyweds Stacia and Clif Thomas but also their chosen wedding location—the peerless Hall Arts Hotel in Dallas. The 11-story glass tower is filled with dynamic works exclusively commissioned for the 183-room hideaway. “I love art, and they had beautiful modern pieces all around the hotel,” explains Stacia who counts the Dallas Museum of Art as one of her favorite local attractions. The hotel is “absolutely gorgeous, also the staff was so warm and welcoming,” she says. “I was delighted how kind and accommodating they were. They really took care of our guests,” says the bride of her wedding reception location. The couple swapped vows across the street at a terrace space where, as at the hotel, they and their guests marveled at the unique visual attractions. The spark of love.

A bespoke mural in the event space.

The cake was included in the reception package.

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A planner helped. with the details..

“Our meal was simple but it was elevated—just like our style. We had lots of great small bites during the cocktail hour, and the main meal was chicken, mashed potatoes and asparagus. It sounds so simple, but it was so good.”

One of the couple’s favorite features of the haute hotel is

the sculptural staircase. The site of their first look, the modern white structure is crafted from metal and serves as the connector between the hotel’s two

main spaces—the lobby and the restaurant. It’s even more impressive when viewed in conjunction with the adjacent magenta tambourine hanging sculpture. “I’ll always remember walking down the stairs and seeing him turn around to see me for the ➺ first time in my wedding gown,” Stacia says. ➺

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DALLAS PHOTOGRAPHY: JEFF BRUMMETT PHOTOGRAPHY

A LOCAL COUPLE CURATED A WEDDING BURSTING WITH VISUAL APPEAL AT EVERY TURN AT AN ARTS DISTRICT HIDEAWAY IN THE DAZZLING TEXAN CITY. BY JENNA MAHONEY

Stacia and Clif’s first look was. on the grand staircase..

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A POWERHOUSE FOR WEDDINGS AND HONEYMOONS, the Caribbean coast. the Riviera Maya, which stretches along the Caribbean coast of Mexico, is a magical destination where the jungle meets the A welcoming sight in the lobby white sands and placid turquoise sea. And the Mayakoba resort complex, (and a brand hallmark). an enclave of four exclusive water-facing luxury hotels, including the Banyan Tree, is set amid mangrove laced canals, flora-dense sand paths and seemingly endless paradise-on-earth acreage. With its private-pool-flaunting accommodations, the Banyan Tree Mayakoba seamlessly weds the brand’s Asian aesthetic and attention VENUE: Banyan Tree Mayakoba to service to postcard-perfect surroundings WEDDING PLANNER: Love on Top and vacation-wish-list food and beverage proWeddings by Patty G gramming (we’re looking at you, tacos, ceviche PHOTOGRAPHER: Lux Art Wedding Studio and spicy margaritas). Romantic encounters VIDEOGRAPHER: Frame Wedding Film at the hideaway include private excursions on FLORAL DESIGNER: Vanessa Jaimes Floral Design boats cruising along the canals, candlelight MUSIC: Big Bang Productions Weddings dinners at the sea-facing modern Thai restauAUDIO AND LIGHTING: Weddings by Inspire rant, couples massages in the award-winning SPECIALTY RENTALS: Canteiro Weddings spa and, of course, kicking back in your private WEDDING DRESS: Ines Di Santo pool. Adventure isn’t too far either—there’s RECEPTION PARTY DRESS: cycling on complimentary bikes around the Bronx and Banco vast enclave, a private cenote (limestone cave WELCOME PARTY DRESS: with fresh water) to explore, a championship Bronx and Banco golf course and some good snorkeling just off BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES: BHLDN shore, and all available within the 240 acreage. HAIR AND MAKEUP ARTIST: The spa is a knockout. Tip: Sunrise is a spectacular sight when viewed Zoe Elizabeth Makeup from the quiet strand of powdered sands (room KIDS LOUNGE: Rebel Bloom Rentals Honeymoon-perfect rates start at $799 a night; banyantree.com).  FIREWORKS: Special Events Fireworks

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A main pool.

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Steeped in pre-Columbian history, the Riviera Maya is rich with offerings. Tulum, an oceanfront ruins complex, and Chichen Itza, one of the largest Maya cities, are well-known for good reason—they are as fascinating as they are photogenic. Coba, a ruin set deep in the jungle, is less popular but just as interesting thanks to its oversized pyramid and option for biking amid the dense tropical flora.

A kids lounge meant all ages could enjoy the fun.

The couple arrived to their reception via boat. “Every spot in Instagrammable.”

make a splash The Banyan Tree is a hospitality group

What’s in your suitcase? “Lots of bathing suits, a hat and SPF. It’s casual chic so no need to get too dressed up.”

Lacey found her ace wedding planner on social media.

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To us!

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The requirements for saying “I do” in Mexico are extensive. All couples must be 18 or older and not currently married. You’ll need to present a valid passport, tourist card (issued upon arrival), birth certificate, blood test results (done in Mexico), completed marriage application forms from the local registry and four witnesses. All foreign documents, with the exception of your passport, will need to be translated, apostilled and notarized. The couple, and their witnesses, must arrive in Mexico four business days before the wedding day for legal ceremonies.

“We hosted the welcome party as an upscale fiesta at the Beach Shack. We had a wonderful menu, live Flamenco guitar, bonfires, string lights, high-top tables, and excellent margaritas,” says Lacey. The couple was overjoyed to see their guests getting to know each other. “That’s the thing about a destination wedding, people are there to have fun,” she says. “Everyone was laughing, mixing, and having a beautiful time under the Mexico stars. We were just there to have fun.” 000HONEYMOON GUIDE March/April 2023 14

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steeped in the traditions of pampering. Fun fact: The Thailand-based company has an exclusive spa academy in Bangkok, where the bulk of the therapists train. A hallmark of this Banyan Tree property is that all accommodations—from seaview suites to multi-bedroom villas—flaunt private plunge pools. And that was a major selling point for bride Lacey. “We loved the setup of the villas for families and groups. We felt this offered a luxury feel for our guests.” She and Malek spent their wedding night in a spectacular beachfront villa. “It was stunning and very romantic.”

A table to remember.

Encanto With the expert insight of local planner, Patty G of Love on Top Weddings,

The floral designer and DJ are local-favorite vendors.

Lacey was able to realize her “jungle disco, boho vibe.” In addition to organizing all the details (including some travel needs), Patty tapped her list of expert local vendors. Among them was the spectacular florist Vanessa Jaines. “She is a floral wizard,” gushes Lacey. “The ceremony and reception were dripping with the most beautiful flowers I’d ever seen,” she says. “During the ceremony, I kept getting distracted by staring at the gorgeous flowers.” Margaritas and signature cocktails were served.

PHOTOGRAPHY: LUX ART WEDDING STUDIO

Dig In “I can never eat enough ceviche

or guacamole,” says the bride when asked about her favorite foods in the Riviera Maya. The couple showcased both popular options of the area (a welcome party offered more traditional Mexican foods—“we A dreamy reception table. had grilled seafood, meats, tacos, ceviche, and guacamoles.”) along with what Lacey calls “more familiar” dishes at the reception. There was also a late-night taco bar and dessert table in addition to the lemonorange wedding cake with vanilla frosting. Lacey suggests guests at the resort opt for the unique Haab traditional Mayan meal ritual. “It’s a threehour dining experience in the jungle.” ➺

Four resorts comprise the Mayakoba complex. Each is connected by a series of mangrove canals and sandy pathways. An underrated excursion includes “the eco-boat tour. It’s great to ride along in the boat and learn about local nature.”

The property’s namesake tree.

Lacey opted for a variety of venues across the resort.

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Riviera Maya

A FULL-SERVICE RESORT ON MEXICO’S CARIBBEAN COAST ENTICED THIS CHICAGO COUPLE TO HOST THEIR SPECTACULAR WEDDING WEEKEND COMPLETE WITH GOLF OUTINGS AND A FIREWORKS DISPLAY.

“I WANTED TO FIND A VENUE where the jungle meets the ocean. I wanted the boutique resort feel without too much noise around,” says Lacey Bishawi of her idyllic destination wedding setting. The oceanfront Banyan Tree Mayakoba on Mexico’s eastern Riviera Maya provided exactly that, she adds as she recalls her made-for-the-feed nuptial event where she swapped vows with now husband Malek and hosted friends and family in February (for the perfect Mexican weather). “The resort offers privacy, beauty around every corner, incredible photo opportunities, and unique dining experiences,” say the couple. Their guests enjoyed much of the amenities, from the pristine beach to the diverse eateries, upscale spa and championship golf course in addition to lounging in the exclusive villa accommodations with private pools. “It was pure magic.”

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In every issue, we scout a spot that’s perfect for tying the knot away from home. by Jenna Mahoney

or those who have daydreamed of starting their happily-everafter in the Tuscan hills at a fantastical Medieval monastery turned intimate boutique hotel, hosting a nuptial celebration at Villa San Michele, A Belmond Hotel just outside of Florence is that fantasy realized. The baroque hideaway houses 45 rooms, all of which flaunt sweeping views of the region’s cinematic beauty. Add to that a pretty pool, a pair of celebrated eateries along with a more casual spot plus tennis courts, and

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La dolce vita is getting married at this iconic Roman property that flaunts panoramic terraces overlooking some of the world’s most famous sights.

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The Grand Hotel Convento di Amalfi This circa 13th century monastery is robust with regional riches—lemon trees, bougainvillea and awesome sea views.

Il Sereno Lago di Como Modern meets classical at this 40-room retreat with an exclusive dock on Italy’s most storied lake.

Gilded spaces abound.

The pool at Villa San Michele.

you and your guests will feel like you’re in a luxe private residence when you book the property in its entirety for your wedding. Complimentary shuttle service to Florence is on offer should you and your guests wish to venture beyond the villa. The on-site team works with each couple to create the most bespoke celebrations that speak to not only the beauty of the surroundings, but also the personality of those to be hitched (wedding packages start at about $413 per person and include welcome drink and bar service, aperitivo, seated dinner, a cake, midnight snack and more; belmond.com). 

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The requirements for non-residents to marry in Italy are extensive, and all documents must be officially translated, apostilled and authenticated. Marriage licenses are required and should be obtained before traveling to Italy, as should an atto notto (appointment with Italian officials to ask permission to marry). At that session, the couple along with two witnesses and an interpreter, must show proof of entry to Italy or, if applicable, a visa. The nulla osta (document stating there are no impediments to marriage) is to be completed at this time, as should an intention to marry.

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If you dream of saying “I do” with your toes in the sand, than Florida’s beaches offer stunning sunsets, lush landscapes, and plenty of gorgeous wedding venues that inspire romance. Wherever you decide to make your memories, there’s a perfect spot just waiting for you.

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Florida’s Sports Coast is home to diverse venues from rustic chic to classic Florida architecture. Choose a country-style barn at Cypress Creek Event Venue in Land O’ Lakes or The Block, a former 1920’s car dealership complete with an onsite brewery in downtown Dade City. The riverside, historic pink Hacienda Hotel, opened in 1927 to welcome the rich and famous to New Port Richey, offers Spanish revival architecture, and is walkable to local shops and restaurants. Saddlebrook Resort has indoor venues of various sizes or outdoor spaces like a ceremony on the golf course and a reception by the pool. For a bit of adventure, head from the ceremony to outdoor fun at Epperson Lagoon, a 7.5-acre lagoon, a first-ofits-kind amenity in the United States. Charter a pontoon boat from Windsong Charters & Boat Rentals and have Captain Wendy officiate your destination wedding right on the beach of Anclote Key! For a high-flying experience, there’s Skydive City, one of the top drop zones in the United States, or American Balloons who can host up to 10 people in one basket.

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Chic seating at The Ritz-Carlton, New York NoMad

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LA RÉSERVE GENEVE HOTEL & SPA

Stretching over 10 acres on the shimmering shores of Switzerland’s glittering Lake Geneva and just minutes by boat to its eponymous city, this 102room hideaway is the ultimate retreat. In addition to four restaurants and two pools, the property’s home to an unparalleled wellness center. Clocking in at a whopping 20,000 square feet, the Nacans Spa is dedicated to scientifically backed programming with a focus on longevity. Therapists, coaches and medical experts work in tandem to counsel guests on active and anti-aging approaches to everyday living, along with a bit of pampering (room rates start at about $519 a night; lareserve-geneve.com).

Did someone say chic? At this brand new outpost of the legacy luxury hotel brand, guests are welcomed with an haute design ethos sure to entice the modern aesthete. In addition to an excellent food and beverage program (one eatery is helmed by superstar chef José Andrés; and there’s a spectacular rooftop bar), the 250-room hotel is home to a sprawling spa. Treatments in the subterranean hideaway showcase natural ingredients inspired by the hotel’s location—New York City’s Flower District. Signature treatments include the rose quartz remedy, a fullbody massage and exfoliation infused with the notes of frangipani, rose geranium and palmarosa (room rates start at $995 a night; ritzcarlton.com). Eat well at Six Senses Ibiza.

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Steeped in traditional Asian healing practices blended with local ingredients and amenities, this sanctuary that’s cut into the rugged landscape of the Mediterranean island of Ibiza stuns. While a stay here is absolutely jaw-dropping thanks in large part to the sweeping views, the triplex spa is a standout. Positioned under an ancient olive tree, the retreat houses impressive wet rooms, including a traditional hammam and gorgeous relaxation areas. Some treatments offer guests the option to blend their own restorative oils and herbal pouches in the hotel’s holistic alchemy bar. Hands-on classes in the space are also available (room rates start at $501 a night; sixsenses.com). ¢

FUN FACT: The inventor of cereal as we know it today—Dr. John Kellogg—was also a spa savant. His Battle Creek Sanitarium treated all manner of ailments with such inventions as massage chairs, sun lamps, and baths of differing temperatures. 5

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The open-air spa.

Daily massages are included

FUN FACT: The first spas were built around thermal waters. While there is evidence that ancient Egyptians practiced rejuvenating rituals, the Romans are the first society documented to “take the waters” in around 70 AD.

NAYARA SPRINGS Deep in the tropical rainforest of Costa Rica near the country’s majestic active volcano sits this wellness oasis that’s artfully situated around naturally occurring hot springs. At this ode to all that is rejuvenating, resplendent and romantic, guests repose in one of 35 sumptuous villas, each with private mineral spring-fed pools and outdoor rain showers. Activities include hiking throughout the flora (keep your eyes peeled for macaws!). And sure, the treatments, many of which feature volcanic mud, are memorable but it’s the spa itself that’s otherworldly—treatment rooms are open-air and cantilevered above the rainforest (room rates start at $885 a night and include breakfast; nayarasprings.com)

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With the tagline “Life in Balance” and a robust list of fitness, health and lifestyle classes, three pools and a rejuvenating spa menu, this retreat is the ultimate oasis of self-care in the picturesque—and tranquil—Sonoran desert. The extensive wellness-first activity offerings at this sprawling desert property dotted with local flora also include lectures and interactive classes on sustainability, meditation and “creative expression,” which means sessions on photography and mala making, for example. All meals are on-site or locally sourced as are many of the ingredients in the spa (room rates start at $759 per person, per night and are all inclusive; mirivalresorts.com).

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THE RANCH MALIBU

You’ve likely seen this sun-kissed at The Ranch Malibu. fitness retreat on your feed. Limited to 26 guests a week, the wellness program is a favorite among the celebrity set. They, like other likeminded guests, come for the hiking in Malibu’s epic natural scenery, beach workouts, yoga sessions, and daily in-room treatments. There are also wellness talks, nutritional counseling sessions, healthy cooking demos and the opportunity to make friends that last a lifetime. Consider the four-day program option for a health-focused bachelorette celebration (room rates start at $7,600 for a week-long stay and are all inclusive; theranchmalibu.com).

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Talk about rest and relaxation—these wellness retreats are all about rejuvenating the mind, body and spirit.

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An idyllic setting to swap vows in Italy.

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A Chicago couple throws a big bash at a luxury resort in the Riviera Maya.

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Chic and contemporary—check out this wedding at an art-filled hotel in Dallas.

Villa San Michele, A Belmond Hotel. ON THE COVER: This cover was photographed at the Pink Shell Beach Resort & Marina in Fort Myers Beach, Florida; Pinkshell.com. Event planning by “I Dew” Events; idewevents.com. Fort Myers, Florida, offers open-air venues, outdoor natural spaces and world-class services. Set against the enchanting backdrop of the locale’s beaches and islands, there’s no better place for a dream destination wedding. Begin your life together in a place as beautiful as the love you share. Visit visitfortmyers.com/weddings. Photography by Terry Doyle

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