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CONTENTS Bridal Guide November/December 2023

FASHION & BEAUTY

16 COVER STYLE

How to get that beautiful look.

18 MOOD BOARD: BRIDES

The choice is yours: Be a glamazon or take a more tailored approach. It’s all good!

22 ALL THAT GLITTERS

ON THE COVER

Let’s hear it for ear stacks!

• 410 Genius Wedding

26 BEAUTY FILE

Ideas Cakes, flowers, decor & more

It’s true: Beauty sleep is a real thing.

• Gowns that will steal

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Make fashion your love language.

• Great Save!

25 smart ways to slash spending p.30, p.34, p.40

• The Perfect Dress for Your Body, p. 187 • 10 Gorgeous Hairstyles for Night, p. 202 • 101 Best Budget Tips, p. 166 • Make It Personal: Reception Ideas To Suit Your Theme, p. 68 • Aisle Style: Fabulous Ceremony, p. 207 22 • Celeb Rings! Get the Look, p. 92 • Cheers! Ways to Trim the Bar Bill, p. 164

CONTENTS Bridal Guide November/December 2023

WEDDING PLANNING 28 ASK DAVID TUTERA

Hair dos and hair don’ts from our guru.

29 PLANNING NOTEBOOK

Planner David Anthony’s ground rules.

30 PARTY PLANNER

A fully sustainable celebration.

34 PLANNERS WE LOVE

We’re putting our favorite wedding pros in the spotlight. by Carol Straley

38 PLEASE BEHAVE

How to dial down the pre-wedding drama. by Michele Bender

54 WEDDING ALBUM

Gianna and Sam’s “Oceanside Elegant” Westhampton wedding.

NEWS & FEATURES 13 WEDDING Q&A

Etiquette questions and answers.

40 SMALL MOVES, BIG SAVINGS Painless ways to trim that ever-growing wedding budget. by Sharon Naylor

82 ALL-INCLUSIVE GUIDE

Genius tips from top resorts that have it all.

34 Get more online at bridalguide.com INCLUDE YOUR BRIDAL PARTY Get your attendants more involved in the planning with these creative ideas at bridalguide.com/bridalpartytasks PLAN YOUR DESTINATION WEDDING Discover a picture-perfect spot to tie the knot at bridalguide.com/fortmyers

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TRAVEL NEWS

60 WEDDINGS AWAY

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62 RESORT ROUNDUP

These resorts deck the halls in festive style with fun seasonal offerings.

72 REAL DESTINATION WEDDING This grid-skipping couple celebrated with friends and family at a memorable Caribbean destination—Turks & Caicos.

88 FIRST LOOK

A private island resort welcomes guests to pristine Bocas del Toro.

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Straight talk, smart solutions by Mary Clarke, Editor in Chief

AM I INVITED?

We’ve been planning a very small wedding. What’s the best thing to say if someone not on our guest list asks if they’re invited?

Just be gracious. Let them know you’re flattered to be asked but that you’ve planned an extremely intimate celebration and sadly cannot ask as many guests as you’d like. Post-pandemic, more and more couples are going for smaller gatherings so your friend shouldn’t be too surprised about your decision. You can elaborate further. Perhaps you’re still feeling a lingering need to follow safety guidelines...or you have budget constraints, limited spaced, etc.—or simply leave it at that. Most people are fully aware of how costly weddings are, too, and will understand. BELATED THANKS

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It’s been five months since I attended a friend’s wedding, and I still haven’t received a thank-you note for my gift. Is this amount of time acceptable? As a soon-to-be-wed person, when should I send out my thank-yous?

Thank-you notes should be sent within three months after the wedding. It may be an oversight on your friend’s part or perhaps they are simply overwhelmed by the task. If you find yourself in the same position, you should still send your notes no matter how many months have passed. But to avoid falling behind, it’s best to write your thank-yous as soon as gifts start rolling in. Keep a list of what you’ve received from whom, and which notes

you’ve sent out. Get your partner involved as well. Suggest that they write to their family members and friends. Oh, and as tempting as it may be, do not use email for this task: Thank-yous should always be hand-written. WHO PAYS?

We’re on a budget and don’t want to shoulder the food and drink costs at our restaurant reception. How do we word this on our invitation?

Simple: You don’t. A wedding invitation—no matter where the reception is held or how miniscule the guest list—means that the hosts (that’s you) are responsible for the costs. The only way for you not to incur expenses is if some other family member or friend offers to host the reception in your honor. Another option: If money is a major concern, you and your partner might want to marry at a venue that offers an elopement package—no guests, but the savings can be considerable. MAKING MUSIC

Our reception site manager recommended a DJ for our wedding. Should we give them a playlist of our favorite songs, or just let them do their thing?

It’s always better to provide your DJ with the type of music the two of you would like to hear at the reception. Make time to check out the DJ’s website, listen to some demo mixes and get recommendations from other couples. Once you’ve hired your

DJ, share a playlist of your favorite tunes, especially if yours is a dancing crowd. You’ll want to make sure the DJ spins plenty of get-out-on-the-floor music. Work out a list in advance with your partner, and don’t forget to include a few slower-paced tunes for guests who prefer less-energetic dancing. Also, ask your DJ how many breaks (and for how long) they usually take—and be sure to provide a meal. GIVE A GIFT?

Our neighbor is hosting a prewedding party for us. We’re planning to get gifts for our attendants; should we also purchase something for her?

Definitely! Anyone who goes above and beyond to assist in any way or host a party for you should be acknowledged. The gift needn’t be super-expensive, but it should be thoughtful: a gift card for a mani/ pedi or one to her favorite restaurant. Wine, champagne, flowers, a small potted plant or a gift basket filled with culinary treats will always be appreciated. ››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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Celebrity wedding and event expert David Tutera shares his game plan for fabulous big-day hair. Is there any beauty bummer worse than the classic bad-hair day? Smudged makeup can be fixed with relative ease, but frizzy, flat or flyaway hair? That’s a different story, and it’s certainly a scenario you want to avoid on your wedding day. So be prepared. Be very prepared. Here are some guidelines.

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I DONT’S FOR HAIR • Don’t assume your regular stylist is best for your wedding. The go-to hair pro who cuts your hair every six weeks may not be well-versed in wedding ’dos. If this is the case, get referrals from recently married friends. • Don’t assume anything when it comes to the language of hair. Bringing in images will help your stylist identify what you want. Terms like “big bun,” “soft waves,” “sophisticated” and “chic” mean different things to different people, so comparing visuals can be the best way to communicate. • Beware of tendril-overload. A few flirty tendrils around your face can look romantic as long as there are only a few and they are not too long. Too many strands can cast unflattering shadows on your beautiful face. • Don’t neglect the neckline of your gown. Whether it’s strapless, one-shoulder or sweetheart, the top of your gown is a key shape to keep in mind when it comes to choosing your hairstyle. A full-on updo may feel (and look) too bare with a strapless dress. • Don’t hide your highlights. When highlighted hair is pinned into an updo, a chunk of dark hair is revealed beneath. Break up the solid color by having extra highlights applied at the underlayers of your hair if you plan to go with an upswept style. 

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Have a hair trial. The salon appointment should allow enough time for you to try three different hairstyles. Be sure to bring your headpiece (or a photo of it) along. Book your hair stylist four to six months ahead of time, and have your trial four to six weeks prior to the wedding. Speak up! Explain the style of your wedding and reception to your stylist, and bring a photo or sketch of your gown. Ask them to suggest looks that will harmonize with the overall feel of your wedding. Be open to suggestions. You may think you want a cascade of rolling waves, but don’t pass on the opportunity to try, say, a low, loose chignon, or some clip-on extensions. Go on—it’s only a hair trial, and you may be pleasantly surprised. Take pictures as you go. Bring a friend to your trial, and have her take photos of all your options from every angle. Be sure to capture front, profile, back, even how hair looks from above. The goal is to have every side be your “best side,” since you’re sure to be photographed from every angle on the big day. When scheduling your hair appointments for your actual wedding day, add a cushion of time so no one (neither you nor your bridesmaids) will be “fashionably late.” Do wear a button-front shirt or dress for your day-of styling. That way, when you change into your wedding finery, you won’t have to navigate pulling your shirt over your finished hairdo.

planning notebook BIG DAY YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER First, make sure you are comfortable with your photographer, keeping in mind that they will effectively be directing you and your wedding party from one photo op to another. Have very specific timelines set up along with your shot list so there’s a clear understating of how long your pictures are going to take. Huge question: If they have not been there before, are they going to go scout the venue? What pictures do you definitely want? Go and scout the venue together. Make sure this is on the table before you book.

YOUR VIDEOGRAPHER What’s popular now are trailers— short films that last anywhere from five to 10 minutes. Rather than documenting the day, these are meant to capture people in the moment. As with your photographer, make sure you’re comfortable with the cameraperson as well as with their gear. Take a look at the type of equipment they use. Is it heavy duty (which could feel invasive) or compact and lightweight?

YOUR FLORIST A lot of florists do so much more than just flowers. Some are full stagers. They handle the draperies, the bunting, and other key decor elements. Do make sure if they are handling decor, that they’ll be handling the setting up and the taking down. Find out what the process entails and make sure you understand the costs. Some florists include it and others charge extra.

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David Anthony, aka the Wedding M.D M.D., ., shares some key planning truths that will keep you focused on the big, beautiful wedding picture.

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YOUR CAKE Often brides say, “I’m not going to have a wedding cake.” Here’s the problem. The cake cutting is symbolic. It’s either the reception kickoff so guests know it’s time to dance or the end point, signaling dessert time. And people love their individual desserts, too. So I would definitely do a combination, even if it’s just a small wedding cake. You want something to cut, something to get the party started.

he one thing I hear all the time from couples is, ‘This is the first time that I’ve done this.’ Well, rest assured that this is not the first time that I’ve done this,” says David Anthony, proprietor of six event venues in upstate New York. With 11 years and 2,200 weddings worth of experience, YOUR SEATING CHART Yes, you have to do a seating chart, Anthony has plenty of big-day planning wisdom with individual place cards at every setting to avoid to share, including some universal wedding truths the movie-theater effect. Let me explain: Nobody “Years ago, on What’s Really Important. Here, some highlights. likes to sit right next to someone at the movies, so they videographers leave an empty seat. Say you have a table of eight and fi lmed every the first couple sits down. The second couple sits and THE VENUE Do make sure it is the right size. wedding detail, inevitably leaves an empty seat, as does the third couSay you’re considering a venue that can seat 300 ple, which makes it awkward for the remaining guests, but you have 120 guests. Initially, that venue may resulting in a who are now separated. look impressive on the big day, but after an hour the three-hour film place will feel empty. Don’t cram your guests into a no one watched. space that’s too small, but don’t put too few people YOUR TABLES You’re a guest, you take a seat, What’s popular in a venue that’s too big. That’s very, very important. introductions start. By the time you are actually eatnow are short ing, it could be 45 minutes later. Put some food on 10-minute fi lms” the table. We do cutting boards with offerings such YOUR DJ You need to make sure that your DJ as vegetables, hummus, and tapenade. It doesn’t is at your venue and set up two hours in advance. So if your reception starts at 5 o’clock, the DJ needs to be set up at matter if it’s as simple as a loaf of bread—just pick something 3. You don’t want to find out 15 minutes beforehand that a speaker guests can eat while they wait. or microphone doesn’t work. You want to have time for the DJ to fix any problems. This is mandatory at all my venues, and it’s definitely Adapted from Don’t Let Your Wedding Be the Death of You, © David something you want to make sure is in the contract. Anthony, Wedding MD, davidanthonyweddingmd.com. Nov/Dec 2023

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Be inspired by this wedding weekend rooted in authenticity and sustainability.

In the Moment PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARLA MANES PHOTOGRAPHY

The mid-century venue, Kingston House, is an expression of the beauty of the Pacific Northwest, made from timber felled and milled onsite, surrounded by 27 acres of diverse landscape, and a mere ferry ride from Seattle.

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Emerald Hour is an organization that works to empower creatives to keep sustainablity top of mind as they design events. Enter Hannah Paukstis, of Hummingbird Events, the creative force behind this microwedding. 1 Vintage Snyder chairs owned by the venue, Kingston House, are accented with au naturel arrangements. 2 Clover Society Sign Co created invitations using handmade seed paper, which, when planted, yields flowers. 3 The team opted to use a giant maple as the ceremony backdrop. 4 The elegant ikebana-inspired floral accents were sourced from local growers and designed to provide a graceful counterpoint to the more abundant installations throughout. 4

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Says the team: “The shift towards making more environmentally friendly choices in our everyday lives is extending to events, as well. We’re seeing more and more couples seeking ways to plan a sustainable wedding that is also beautiful.” 1 Gema Collective’s grazing table was equal parts work of art and delicious spread, featuring local cheeses, produce and breads. 2 Locavore baker Alpenglow created the cakes and desserts. Even the colors used in the fillings and frosting were derived from fruits and berries. 3 Hitched Mobile Bar crafted seasonal cocktails that also featured local ingredients. 3

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Host organization: Emerald Hour Venue: Kingston House Planning: The Hummingbird Event Co. Cake + Desserts: Alpenglow Baking Co Grazing table: Gema Collective Floral design: Manette Flower Co Rentals: Celebrations for Every Season Bartending: Hitched Mobile Bar Linens: Pedersen’s Event Rentals Candles: DE BAEC Candles

Planners We L ve Take inspiration from these creative forces as we continue our series spotlighting the best in the business. by Carol Straley

MICHELLE NORWOOD Owner/Producer/Designer, Michelle Norwood Events

Why I Love Weddings • “Weddings hold a special place in my heart because they are filled with profound meaning. It’s often the biggest celebration people will ever host in their lifetime. And I love easing the pressure so they can enjoy it. Being entrusted with the responsibility of safeguarding that day is an honor.”

Michelle planned Alexandra Daddario and Andrew Form’s wedding.

Secrets of Success

A bewitching setting. • “Being personable plays a crucial role in building client trust. It fosters a sense of comfort and assurance, allowing for open communication and a deeper understanding of their vision.”

My Favorite Part of Wedding Planning

• “…Is witnessing the couple’s first look, meaning the moment they see the space for the first time, fully transformed. …Their excitement and appreciation for the details we’ve meticulously planned is truly the most fulfilling to me.” 34 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2023

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) MO DAVIS PHOTOGRAPHY: STORM SANTOS; MO DAVIS PHOTOGRAPHY (2)

A self-professed romantic at heart, destination wedding planner and event producer/ designer Michelle Norwood taps deep into her New Orleans roots to create celebrations—both intimate and grand—that vibrate with joy. Nearly two decades in the event Michelle Norwood planning world led her to strike out on her own, launching Michelle Norwood Events in 2015. Her goal? “To create events that transcend the ordinary, utilizing the art of design storytelling to craft moments that are both unique and timeless—and forever unforgettable.” Says Michelle: “My name is practically synonymous with ‘original design’ and ‘gregarious spirit.’ Initially, clients come for the design, but then they stay for Michelle Norwood. At least that is what I am told.” Her couples are drawn to what Michelle describes as her “blend of creative flair and personal connection.” And her undisputed philosophy as noted on her website, “Love is worth celebrating.”

“Love is worth celebrating!”

Beneath the Spanish moss.

An urban-chic affair.

A Secret for My Couples

• “The magic happens when you let go! Loosening your grip can make the process smoother and more enjoyable for both of us. I can really work to bring your vision to life. And you can take a deep breath and savor the journey.”

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Celebration Innovation

Grand entrance.

• “One memorable example that stands out: ‘Dinner and a Movie.’ We showcased a movie made by the groom, a film producer, starring the couple themselves.” • “Instead of a traditional dinner location, we opted for a setting that blended history with a Hollywood feel: the iconic steps of NOMA. While the choice posed technical and weather-related risks, we brought the vision to life. Guests were treated to a delectable dinner while the couple’s love story unfolded on the silver screen—an unforgettable evening.”

A Twist on Tradition

• “A new tradition that I hope stays for good: the grandmillennial tradition. It’s all about embracing family heirlooms and vintage keepsakes from grandparents or other cherished family members, even if they’re not physically present. It’s a beautiful way to honor the past while creating new memories for the future.”

Best Budget Move

Sheer magic.

• “The best way to have an elegant and sophisticated celebration that’s budget conscious is simply to reign in that guest list. This is your opportunity to curate a tight-knit crew of people who truly matter to you. You’ll also create an intimate atmosphere where every moment feels comfortable, meaningful, and personal.”

Quality Over Quantity

• “I believe in quality over quantity, so I meticulously curate six to eight weddings a year, ensuring that each couple receives my undivided attention and nothing slips through the cracks. For 2025 I’m considering taking on fewer weddings to dive even deeper into the artistry and craft.”

Biggest Learnings Raising the bar.

• “This past year has taught me the importance of seeing myself through the eyes of others. It’s ironic, considering my whole career revolves around celebrating milestones, yet I sometimes forget to celebrate my own. But now I’m eagerly looking forward to embracing self-celebration and raising a glass to acknowledge my own achievements. Cheers to that!” ➺ 35

Planners We L ve LINDSEY SHAKTMAN, Mavinhouse Events

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Renowned for exquisite destination weddings that uniquely reflect the tastes, traditions and personalities of her couples, Lindsey Shaktman joined Mavinhouse Events, a sister company to 42 North Events, an award-winning planning firm based in New England, at its inception in early 2019. “The Mavinhouse model is entirely brand new to the wedding indusLindsey Shaktman try,” says Lindsey, “offering transparent pricing and a collective of planners that serve a variety of geographic areas. We now have planners from Boston to Charleston.” Says Lindsey: “Wedding planning allows me to flex my logistical muscles and be creative at the same time. I never back down from a complex situation and strive to create events that feel a bit disruptive toward the status quo.”

Why I Love Weddings

• “I love that weddings happen in the blink of an eye. You spend over a year preparing, and after one day it’s all gone. Only the memories remain, so making sure that you’re focused on impactful and meaningful moments has always been a core value of mine.”

Favorite Wedding Tradition

• “First looks! It’s a big day, so feel free to toss old wives’ tales to the wind: wake up in the same bed, have breakfast together, do a first look and then spend the rest of the day together. You’ll feel so much more relaxed.”

All smiles.

A tent provides elegance and protection at once.

Secrets of Success

• “My clients appreciate that I’m a big-picture thinker. I have the ability to think ahead and maximize smaller moments into something more impactful.”

My Favorite Part of Wedding Planning

“… Is the venue search. I love taking an anecdote that a client may share during their first consultations with us, and using that to creatively present venues to them. Doing so feels infinitely more personal than just sending a PDF sales sheet.”

Escort cards in bloom.

Words of Wisdom

• “I always remind my couples that the wedding industry is nearly exclusively made up of small businesses helmed by people who combine their work and their personal lives in more ways than anyone else. For that reason, the cadence of planning can feel a touch odd. It’s important to understand that not every decision can be made up front, and that’s okay”. Adorning the aisle. 36 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2023

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Let there be light (and flowers)!

The sweetest thing.

Celebration Innovation

A picture of pure joy.

• “For a Brooklyn rave wedding, we welcomed 250 guests to a bustling cocktail reception on a rooftop overlooking the Manhattan skyline that was followed by the bride and groom reciting their vows in front of all their guests.” • “For dinner, we passed small plates in addition to serving food stations in a casual, free-seating environment. The party featured dancers dressed in disco ball outfits from a local club, a DJ accompanied by live horns, and late-night pretzels served off umbrellas.”

Wedding Evolution Into the blue.

• “While the list of invited guests is relatively the same as in pre-pandemic days, we’re seeing a lot fewer people RSVP ‘regrets’ to weddings than ever before. Our previous estimates of 10-15 percent falling off the guest list is going down to nearly 5 percent in some cases.” • “Two main reasons we’re seeing this: guests are more excited to celebrate than ever before, but also because invite lists feel a lot more intentional. More people are RSVPing ‘yes’ because they have a genuine connection to the couple.”

Kicking Off the Wedding Weekend

• “I think that all weekend weddings should quietly begin on Thursdays. I love when couples host their immediate families for an intimate dinner before all their guests arrive in town.”

Finding Inspiration

“I’m most inspired by traveling to new places and studying local architecture. Whether it’s colorful doors along the crooked streets of Athens, or the juxtaposition of ancient ruins next to the windows of Gucci in Rome, I find that I’m constantly bringing glimpses of other locations into my everyday life.”

New Discoveries

• “Most of my venues are new to me this year. While I’m working in markets I know, I am enjoying discovering new space and places. This makes for a greatertrust between my couples and me, and challenges me to constantly evolve.” ¢ Feeling the love. 37

PLEASE BEHAVE! Diva bridesmaids, meddling moms, inappropriate in-laws. Here’s how to handle them all, with grace and ease. by Michele Bender

if you didn’t have to deal with friends and families. But it’s a time when everyone’s emotions can run high, explains Sheryl Paul, Boulder, CO-based bridal counselor and author of The Conscious Bride’s Wedding Planner. “Even though you’re the one getting married, it’s also a transition for them,” she says. Adds Jeri Kadison, a bridal coach and an expert in stress management in Teaneck, New Jersey. “Differences of opinion are a natural part of the planning process, and weddings can be stressful. But if you start with good, clear communication, you can keep everyone on the happiness track.” Here, some helpful tips. 38 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2023

The Problem ›› MEDDLING MOMS Mother-daughter relationships are complex enough. Add wedding planning to the mix and they get even more so. “A mother’s role in the wedding can touch on financial, emotional and cultural issues,” explains Bethann Schacht, bridal coach and director of Aurora Counseling Associates in Natick, MA. ›› FIGURE OUT THE FINANCIALS If your parents are paying for the wedding, they may do so with strings attached. “My mother wasn’t sold on the wedding planner so she fired her,” says Lily, 24. “It was frustrating, but she was paying so she had the final word.” You and your

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fiancé should figure out your budget early on and discuss with both sets of parents who will pay for what and how much. If Mom and Dad are kicking in a large amount, ask them how involved they expect to be. If you find out they want a high level of control, you may want to think twice about the arrangements. ›› PICK YOUR BATTLES If you don’t care all that much about the flowers and tablecloths, give those jobs to your mom; if the dress and music are critical to you, take those tasks on as your own. When it comes to her desires versus yours, pick those that matter most to you and address them head on. Simply tell her, “I understand that you want me to wear your wedding dress, but finding my own is really important to me. However, I’d love to wear your earrings,” Kadison says. ›› GO BELOW THE SURFACE “When you’re able to recognize and address the issues underlying your mother’s behavior, the two of you can actually become closer through this process instead of more fractured and resentful,” says Paul. Think about what may be triggering your mother’s behavior; she may feel she’s losing her daughter, or she may be experiencing emotions that have to do with her own marriage. Perhaps she feels she has to plan your wedding because her mother planned hers. Have a heart-to-heart talk. Start by trying this: “Mom, I know this is a really emotional time for you, too. Can we talk about it?”

The Problem ›› INAPPROPRIATE IN-LAWS Everyone is familiar with that old saying, “A daughter is a daughter for life, a son is a son until he finds a wife.” The essence of this saying may be lurking behind your future mother-in-law’s outrageous behavior. “A wedding signifies that it’s time for a son to cut the apron strings and to make his future wife the number-one woman in his life,” says Paul. “A transfer of allegiance from mother to wife takes place and this may not be easy for his mom or his whole family.” ›› INCLUDE THE IN-LAWS Often, in-laws feel left out, pure and

GROOM SERVICE If your fiancé isn’t jumping for joy at the prospect of wedding planning, don’t take it personally. “Many men truly believe that wedding planning is a woman’s realm,” says Schacht.

Give him credit for his efforts. Has he gone the traditional route of choosing a ring on his own, asking your parents for your hand and planning how to pop the question? In that case, by the time you’re engaged, he has done a lot of work, and he may prefer the ball to be in your court.

Divide and conquer. “You may assume that your guy doesn’t want to be part of the process, so you do everything without him. Next thing you know, you resent that he isn’t involved,” says Schacht. Have him take charge of the details that matter to him.

Play as a team. “Often a couple starts out with an idea and then it snowballs. Now, the groom feels his day is nothing like what was discussed,” says Paul. Make sure you’re sticking with your plan. “In the end,” says Schacht, “the details don’t matter as much as the fact that you carried out your plan together.”

simple. This happened to Madeline, 29. “My in-laws were upset that we didn’t invite more of their friends. At the wedding, my mother-in-law acted displeased the whole time. It was mortifying! I think it was her way of getting even.” Though you don’t have to do everything they want, figure out how you can accommodate at least some of their wishes, so you start out on the right foot with your soon-to-be family. ›› BE CLEAR ABOUT THEIR ROLE Not too long ago, there were traditional divisions of wedding responsibilities. For example, the bride’s family paid for the wedding and the groom’s paid for the rehearsal dinner. “But times have changed and these things can’t be assumed anymore,” says Schacht. So sit down with

your in-laws and decide what they will be responsible for. Say something like, “We understand this process can be difficult. But we want everyone to be happy, so let’s agree upon what your roles are now.” “Just don’t ask your soon-to-be mother-inlaw to be your wedding planner. For me, that ended in disaster,” says Beth, 25. ›› LET YOUR FIANCÉ DO THE TALKING If there are issues with the in-laws, let your groom-to-be step in and show his family that the two of you are a team. “It’s part of his transition to manhood and a symbolic start to your life together,” says Paul.

The Problem ›› HIGH-MAINTENANCE BRIDESMAIDS “One of my bridesmaids showed up at my shower with a severe hangover,” says Sara, 30. “And on the wedding day she was late to the hair and makeup session.” When a bridesmaid behaves badly, there may be more going on than meets the eye. ›› ANALYZE YOURSELF FIRST Although you’re probably not making extreme demands, perhaps you’ve gotten a little carried away. “I loved the idea of my maids all having the same hairdo, so I suggested that one of them cut her bangs to match the others,” says Sue, 28. “Later I realized how ridiculous it was and why she seemed so miffed.” ›› PICK A POINT PERSON Choose a go-to gal to be in charge of the bridesmaids. “Have her—not you—be the one to lead the way,” Schacht says. “She’s a neutral party, so it may be easier for her to organize them to plan the shower, for example.” ›› HAVE SOME GIRL TALK “Your ’maid may say that she’s ‘busy,’ but busy may hide her jealousy of your wedding or even disapproval of the groom,” says Schacht. She also may fear your friendship is going to change once you’ve wed. “Be up front,” says Paul. “Try: ‘It seems to be hard for you to be a part of things. I’d like to talk about what’s going on.’ ” If she’s a true friend, she’ll be open to making changes.  39

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TRIMMING THE WEDDING BUDGET DOESN’T HAVE TO AFFECT YOUR BIG-DAY VISION. HERE, EASY AND EFFECTIVE WAYS TO CUT COSTS—WITHOUT SACRIFICING STYLE. BY SHARON NAYLOR

THE DRINKS Beware of stinting too much here. Most people can distinguish a fine wine from a not-so fine one, so take a smarter approach: Schedule a winetasting with your site manager and bar manager, and ask to test well-rated wines. You might decide that the mid-list vintages are the perfect choices for your bar for less money. Ask about any so-called dead stock: for example, a leftover case of New Zealand sauvignon blanc or two cases of a Napa cabernet that they happen to have in stock. You can also save money stylishly by offering

THE LOCATION

unique microbrew beers over imported brands.

whether it’s by the sea or on a mountaintop, in a garden, a ballroom or on a yacht. Many couples are choosing historic homes with gardens or a friend or relative’s backyard. Go for a nature museum, a Napa Valley winery, a botanical garden or a New England inn. Rates may vary, according to the day of the week and the season, so prepare to negotiate for a good price. Parks can be perfect—and they can be had at low cost. Anything outdoors requires a tent or a backup indoor space. If you have to rent a tent, tables, chairs, a dance floor and other essentials, spend more for better rental items. You don’t want guests sitting on rickety chairs or dining at wobbly tables. Ask the rental agent for a discount for renting more than 50 of each of these items: chairs, tables, china and glasses. You may be able to negotiate for a 10 to 20 percent break on the price.

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Your site, or venue, should have special meaning to you and be beautiful to behold,

THE MENU Couples quickly discover that catering

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can eat up the lion’s share of the wed-

No one will notice if you don’t have:

ding budget. Some tips: At the cocktail

EXTRA CEREMONY DECOR

party, treat guests to hand-passed hors

Skip altar flowers, pew decorations and a custom-designed aisle runner. Your wedding site is probably lovely as is.

d’oeuvres—but limited to five or six selections. Ask your caterer about mixing some pricier, exotic foods into your menu, such as chunks of lobster added

VANITY RECEPTION DECOR

to creamy risotto, served in porcelain

Do you really need your names spelled out in roses on the lawn? Or silk table runners imprinted with your names and wedding date? No. Some couples have their custom monogram projected on the sides of the tent and on the dance floor. If you don’t want to allot the money for lighting equipment, then don’t. Instead, create a glowing ambience with clusters of candles and votives on your tables.

spoons. Or consider mini meat or veggie kebabs, as well as gazpacho served in shot glasses. The better the food looks, the more guests will appreciate it. If you fear you can’t afford a sit-down dinner, think again. Simple, delicious fare like three or four pieces of grilled shrimp or crab cakes, plus several marinated beef medallions and colorful steamed vegetables can be less pricey than you thought. A special sauce can punch up budget-friendly chicken or pasta, giving the impression that you spent much, much more than you did.

THE FLOWERS Since nothing says wedding more than beautiful blooms, don’t prune your petals too

PHOTOGRAPHY: (FROM TOP) LISA LEFKOWITZ; HEATHER NAN PHOTOGRAPHY; MICHA AND MEGAN PHOTOGRAPHERS

much. At the same time, instead of breaking

AN ORNATELY DESIGNED CAKE Don’t spend hundreds of dollars on sugarpaste flowers, butterflies, piped-on pearls or a replica of the lace pattern on your dress. The amount of labor the cake requires will determine its cost, so keep the design simple and sweet.

the bank on large, ornate table arrangements,

FRIVOLOUS FAVORS

think small, in season and locally grown.

Treat your guests to edibles, like cookies or chocolates, with DIY labels. Or try $2 packets of flower seeds from Home Depot or Lowe’s. Making charitable donations in guests’ names is a tasteful and costeffective solution to what to give.

Surround centerpieces with votives; choose inexpensive glass vases and use lots of greenery—green is always chic. Have your florist create one centerpiece and then gather your bridal party to copy it—you’ll save on costs and have a ball, to boot.

Use a local baker instead of a specialty wedding cake designer to cut a major slice out of your dessert budget. THE CAKE

HIGH-END TRANSPORTATION It’s expensive to rent limousines—especially white limos—classic cars and party buses, and overtime charges can pile up. Instead, decorate your own or your friends’ cars, convertibles or even minivans, for fun rides to the ceremony and reception. Or just hire one limo for the two of you and one for your parents.

Schedule a tasting with the baker and

SPECTACULAR ENTERTAINMENT

ask to sample the no-extra-charge fla-

Do you need the most expensive chamber group in town? Of course not. DJs are less expensive than bands, but if you do want a live band, look for one with three musicians who can play different instruments. Or program a custom playlist with your favorites—just make sure the venue is equipped with good speakers. 

vors and fillings. A lemon cake with lemon buttercream filling and coconut shavings is a real treat, and it will look more expensive than it is. And don’t forget that a lovely two-tier wedding cake will look just as impressive as a five-tier creation that can easily cost four times as much.

MAKING WAVES.

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Krystina Pearl Statement Crown by EDEN LUXE Bridal. Celebrate Forever embroidered gloves by THE LE BLANC COLLECTION by CASABLANCA BRIDAL. Zsa Zsa ruched gown, $2,400, by GRACE LOVES LACE.

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Pink A Capella floral textured ballgown, price upon request, by INES DI SANTO. Early 19th century amethyst and diamond festoon necklace and earrings from FRED LEIGHTON.

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Silk faille cut-out Quinn gown & satin organza bow sleeves, price upon request, by NARDOS. Gwyneth Chantilly lace eye mask by ELLEN CHRISTINE COUTURE. Early 19th century paste cluster earrings, cultured pearl and diamond choker and c1915 diamond heart ring, all from FRED LEIGHTON. 000

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Floral and Feather Embroidered Hooded Gown, $8,495, by NAEEM KHAN. Champagne lamé Natalie flats by SARAH FLINT.

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Gold Lame Cape Gown, price upon request, by HONOR. Petite Marie straw boater by ELLEN CHRISTINE COUTURE. Rock Crystal & Black Enamel Chandelier Earrings by HANUT SINGH at FRED LEIGHTON.

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Plunge neckline Angelina gown, $6,995, by REEM ACRA. Swarovski Crystal Cordelia Crown by EDEN LUXE Bridal. Antique Victorian Diamond Earrings & Paste Stone Necklace, both by BRIONY RAYMOND. Rose cut diamond navette shaped ring from FRED LEIGHTON.

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Ciclamino lace mini dress with taffeta bow cape, $4,835, by YOLANCRIS. White Bride hand curled ostrich feather headpiece by ELLEN CHRISTINE COUTURE. Collet set blue topaz earrings and rose cut diamond navette shaped ring, both by FRED LEIGHTON. Champagne lamé Leah 85 mules by SARAH FLINT. 51 000

DREAMY.

(left) Micropleated tulle and organza Inman gown, $7,690 and matching floral Inman veil, $2,190, both by ANNE BARGE.

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(right) Maléna Corsage and matching Lola Crinoline with exposed yellow piping, both Price Upon Request, by YELLOW BY SAHAR. Camille Beaded Headband by DEEPA GURNANI.

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Silver sparkle plisse tulle Olivia Gown, price upon request, by MARK INGRAM COLLECTION. Giuliana pearl choker and pearl crystal pendant necklace, both by BEN-AMUN by ISAAC MANEVITZ. HAIR: YUKIKO TAJIMA AT SEE MANAGEMENT USING ORIBE MAKEUP: WILLIAM MURPHY STYLING ASSISTANT: JOSHUA SOUZA

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Gianna Sam

A late-summer wedding by the sea on Long Island’s East End? Yes please! PHOTOGRAPHS BY MANDA WEAVER PHOTOGRAPHY

Six years after Gianna Schiavone and Samuel Rozzi IV first met—sitting next to each other in a college accounting class—Sam dropped to his knee and proposed. “We were on a walk down by the beach on our street,” Gianna says. “Our typical route, in December at day’s end with our Cavalier, Claudius. It was a perfect moment! Sam had champagne and glasses hidden by the dock, and we celebrated sipping champagne as we watched the sun go down.” Oceanbleu in Westhampton, NY, has also been a big part of the couple’s peregrinations. “It’s a venue Sam and I have been walking past for years,” Gianna says. “Sam’s family has a beach home in Westhampton. It’s a special place to us. I think we always knew at some point we wanted to bring our family and friends here. Celebrating our love there with them meant so much to us!”

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Gianna’s vision: fun and festive, yet timeless, beautiful and whimsical. “As an interior designer, beauty and life intertwined inspire me. A huge inspiration was the chinoiserie I’ve been collecting for a few years now. It brings me so much joy! I loved being able to draw on that for the bridesmaids’ dresses and flower vases.”

For the ceremony decor, Gianna “wanted the beach grasses and ocean to be the stars. We had a broken arch that allowed the sightline of the sea to remain visible.” Gianna was less decisive about her dress. “I had to have tried on over 100 dresses. It was actually a question during my bridal shower game. It’s safe to say everyone underestimated,” she laughs.

Alix’s love of blue and orange extended to their island transport.

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“We incorporated as many family members as possible in the ceremony,” Gianna says. Her uncle served as as the officiant. “Our songs for the ceremony were our parents’ first dance songs. My father-in-law played the bagpipes and joined in with the band for ‘Wagon Wheel,’ the song that closed every bar at our college.”

“I procured these vintage Andrea Sadek dinner plates for our head table, which is where I drew colors for all the florals: pinks, blues, whites and greens,” Gianna says. “It was the perfect whimsical touch. Those and our embroidered napkins are the best wedding keepsakes. Beyond that, the stationery, linens, florals and layered textiles are what truly brought our ‘Oceanside Elegant’ vision to life.”

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The fireworks (a total surprise!) were planned by Charlotte’s dad.

Says Gianna: “When I first started planning my wedding, I was staying safe with choices and colors. I decided it just wasn’t me, and went with my gut. I am so happy I did!”

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A grid-skipping couple celebrated their union at one of the most photogenic and memorable places under the sun—Turks and Caicos. One of the country’s most historic hotels welcomes beach-lovers seeking vintage accents and impeccable offerings. Check into a private island resort on the breathtaking Bocas del Toro in Panama. And check out these festive hideaways that deck the halls in celebration for the holiday season.

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A historic guest room.

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The great lawn welcomes gatherings.

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Marriage licenses are issued at the local registrar office in New Jersey. Couples must appear in person and furnish a social security number, copies of birth certificates, and, if applicable, divorce decrees and/or death certificates. There is a 72-hour waiting period; the license is valid for six months.

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f your vibe is beach bride coupled with a dash of charm and some vintage details, look no further than Cape May, New Jersey. Dubbed the country’s first seaside resort, the quaint expanse is chock-a-block with VictoSunset at Cape May. rian homes and adorable local shops, all edged with wide Atlantic beaches. And at the proverbial center of it all stands the aptly named Congress Hall. First built in 1816, the grand and stately property welcomes brides and their guests with classic seaside elegance. There’s a formal ballroom that reflects the storied appeal of the hotel and a gorgeous lawn just outside its arched doorways. The green space is the heart of the hotel with culinary programming in the summer season and a sweet holiday fair come Christmas. Welcome dinThe Beach Shack Vintage motel ners and brunches can be hosted here vibes meet a very now service-first while after-parties often take place in experience at this sister property of the Boiler Room, a subterranean pizza Congress Hall. The laid-back Rusty Nail place. A clubby cocktail lounge and is a buzzy barefoot bar and restaurant the Blue Pig Tavern, named for a 19th perfect for a chill wedding party. century gaming hall, and the Annie The Virginia Hotel A gingerbread Knight Suite are perfect perches for house with 24 guest rooms and a wide more intimate gatherings. Of course porch that’s kissed by ocean breezes, this being a full-service resort, the this adults-only property is best for brides 104-room Congress Hall also houses who want an intimate gathering in a a luxe spa, sparkling outdoor pool, gorgeous garden or historic dining room. and access to the postcard-perfect Beach Plum Farm Cottages beach where a dedicated team sets Weddings at this spectacular 62up photogenic loungers and umbrelacre expanse are a true farm-to-table las. Honeymooning couples will want experience, since much of the food is to reserve a cabana (wedding site fees sourced here. Guests repose in one of start at $15,000; menus start at $295 five adorable cottages. per guest; caperesorts.com). ¢

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A newer entrant to the luxury hotel scene in the ever-appealing— and tony—Buckhead area of this metropolis, The St. Regis Atlanta is a 16-story oasis of high-end pampering. To celebrate the season, the property is working with a local architectural team to launch The Astor Chalet, an exclusive handcrafted space made from reclaimed elm, ash, oak and maple hardwoods. The seasonal structure houses Lucy’s Market, a holiday shopping destination. Events include special high teas and bunches. There’s also a towering 24-foot Christmas tree in the lobby (room rates start at $608 a night; marriott.com). Town & Country Resort.

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Town & Country Resort Mid-century design, laid-back vibes and a dash of kitsch combine to create the perfect home base for San Diego visitors. The recently renovated resort houses a Trixie trailer at its center. During the holidays, it is festooned with festive lighting and expands its menu to include seasonal offerings including spiked hot chocolate. Toy trains and Christmas lights spark joy throughout the 25-acre property. Only-in-SoCal amenities, including a pool complex with water slides and a sand volleyball court, are on offer along with five restaurants and a modern fitness center (room rates start at $188 a night; towncountry.com).

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Ugly sweater parties, holiday bingo and Elf on the Shelf are just some of the planned activities at this stately hideaway in downtown Savannah. The hotel’s clubby Wayward Bar is Christmas central with all those offerings, plus an Advent calendar of specialty drinks. Playful holiday menus are also on offer, as is gorgeous decor throughout the property. The rooftop Peregrin showcases an awesome city view served alongside a heavy-on-local-taste dining menu and crafted cocktails. Book a private tea party in the Library space (available all year round) to fully experience the elevated atmosphere of the historic city (room rates start at $289 a night; perrylanehotel.com).

The Grand American Hotel Aptly named—this property clocks in at 24 stories and 775 guest rooms, plus an expansive array of amenities and spaces—Salt Lake City’s grande dame celebrates the season of giving with a welcoming—and neighborly—festive only-in-Salt-Lake-City flair. The annual Holiday Window Stroll is a showcase of joyful scenes hand-crafted by an artist team. There’s also an impressive—ok, it’s lifesize—gingerbread house and the chance to meet Santa and Mrs. Claus at a special breakfast. The guest rooms of the property, which spans over 10 acres of downtown, boast floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the exquisite gardens and the snow-capped Wasatch Mountains (room rates start at $319 a night; grandamerica.com).

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FUN FACT: Some say Christmas markets began in way back in 1296 in Austria,

others credit the King of Bohemia with granting the gathering of seasonal markets in 1384. And many trace the first modern market to Strasbourg’s event in 1570.

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Bardutt’s Palace Hotel It is said that this chic, lakeside town in Switzerland is the birthplace of alpine sport tourism. And its storybook setting in addition to the exquisite snow activities—it was, after all, host to two winter Olympic games—has beckoned discerning travelers for generations. Being a winter wonderland means its holiday offerings glitter a bit brighter than other destinations. The St. Moritz 155-room jewel box hideaway has a marquee holiday event. The annual Holiday Tree Auction Charity Gala auctions a selection of extravagantly designed trees, some in partnership with the world’s most exclusive fashion houses. Local charities receive the funds from the festive gathering (room rates start at $1,287 a night and include breakfast; barduttspalace.com). Bardutt’s Palace Hotel.

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Yes, the weather may not be frightful, but the cozy holiday scene surely is delightful at this 156-room hotel in downtown Los Angeles. This season the speakeasy-like lounge Lily Rose is offering an exclusive High Tea & Highball experience. A peppermint twist on their Through the Looking Glass offering, this menu features holiday-infused offerings in the whimsical setting. Check in here for all the cultural events of the revitalized downtown neighborhood. PS: In season, locals head to Toluca Lake in the Valley to stroll amid mansions that are all aglow with over-the-top holiday lights and decor (room rates start at $175 a night; wayfarerdtla.com). ¢

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Tomika and Mike swapped vows in paradise.

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go? For Tomika Anderson Green, who grew up as “an army brat” and is founder of a travel group called Single Parents Who Travel, it meant sharing a memorable location with her groom. “I attended a wedding in Turks & Caicos about 20 years ago and said to myself that whenever I got married, it was the place I wanted to be married.” Another factor: “Turks and Caicos has been touted as the home of the number one beach in the entire world!” says Tomika. And two years from the date of their first date, Tomika and Michael jumped the broom at Beaches Turks & Caicos, a luxury family-first resort that was welcoming to their children, friends and family. 72 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Nov/Dec 2023

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A LUXE FAMILY-FRIENDLY CARIBBEAN RESORT PROVIDED A HAPPILY-EVER-AFTER SETTING FOR THIS TRAVEL-LOVING COUPLE.

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Tomika took full advantage of the test drive offering at Beaches Turks and Caicos, a prewedding visit that gives couples a look at the venue, cuisine and more. “My husband and I visited the destination once together before our wedding,” she says. During the trip— Mike’s first to the island nation—which was six months prior to their big day, they enjoyed the resort and sampled the offerings. “We were able to sit down with the planning team, confirm all the details and sample the wine, the cake, the food, the photography,” explains Tomika.

Tomika and Mike hosted their ceremony on the spectacular Neptune’s Beach.

Their youngest son served as ring bearer.

“The Beaches team walked us through which forms to fill out and by when to officially be married on the island,” says Tomika. They “helped us get them notarized and signed off on by our officiant.” Shine bright like a diamond.

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In addition to hosting a spectacular ceremony on the sparkling sands at sunset, Tomika and Mike invited their guests to a welcome party and rum-and-game night. Perched by the photogenic pool adjacent to Neptune’s Beach, the rehearsal dinner featured specialty cocktails, a relaxed vibe and all the love. At the party, guests played board games, sipped sweet rum drinks and enjoyed a DJ-curated playlist. ➺ Vendors were a blend of local and afar.

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“Mike and I ‘jumped the broom,’ which is a tradition held by many African American families,” says Tomika. “Once a symbolic way for enslaved people in the American South to recognize their marriages, modern couples like us do it as a way to honor those ancestors who did it before us,” she explains.

At Beaches Turks and Caicos “the sunsets there are especially beautiful over the water,” says Tomika. “I chose to have a beach wedding at sunset.” Picture-perfect.

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Providenciales, the capital island of Turks & Caicos is home to one of the most spectacular beaches on the planet—Grace Bay. The strand’s beauty is hyperbolic thanks to its brilliant white sands edged with crystalline turquoise waters. Luxury resort properties line the stretch and many snorkeling excursions leave from this spot. Notable insider tip: The waters are so crystal-clear that you don’t need a mask to spy the vibrant fish. “The biggest activity highlight of our wedding week was a four-hour catamaran sailing and snorkeling tour from Grace Bay,” says Tomika. “It felt awesome to set sail and enjoy swimming and island hopping with each other.”

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Marriage licenses are issued at the Registrar’s Office in Providenciales and are required to wed in Turks & Caicos. Couples must apply in person and furnish photo identification, birth certificates and, if applicable, a death certificate or divorce decree. An affidavit of single status, a certificate of no-impediment, an application form for special license, two declaration forms, TCI immigration arrival and departure stamp and a fee of $250 are also required. Couples must be in the country for 48 hours before they can apply.

Seafood fans, the couple invited their guests for a celebratory surf and turf menu at their reception. The cocktail hour featured local favorites including island fritters, coconut breaded shrimp and crabmeat salad, along with signature cocktails “Mai Tai the Knot (groom) and Sparkling Sangria (bride).” While staying on the island after their celebration, they savored the local flavors at The Grill at Grace Bay Club. It’s “not only gorgeous, but the food, including its sushi, is divine,” Tomika says. “It’s expansive, with a mixture of tables and hammocks so guests can spread out. There was a guitarist who sang beautiful love songs the whole time. It felt like a movie.”

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The Ultimate All-Inclusive Glossary Sure, it sounds uncomplicated, but understanding the ins and outs of an all-inclusive resort are key for your happily-ever-after vacation. By Maria Corazzini

fter what’s likely a year (or two!) of making decisions and really dialing into the details for the picture-perfect Big Day, your requirements for a honeymoon are fun, sun, and—pretty please with a tequila chaser—no more choices. Enter the all-inclusive resort. Most often located on a made-for-the-feed sun-kissed strand, these retreats offer the unparalleled allure of only having to decide what time you prefer to enjoy breakfast and maybe what kind of cocktail is best enjoyed at the swim-up bar. Of course, before you get to that step, you’ll need to decide which slice of paradise is right for you. We’re partial to Isla Mujeres, a serene island off the coast of Mexico; we also love lively Punta Cana in the festive Dominican Republic—the chic boutique property group Finest Resorts has dazzling spots in both locales. Beyond location, knowing some key terms will streamline your honeymoon. Now all you need to do is check in, and check out the amenities.

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include cart rentals. LAND SPORTS Activities such as beach volleyball, tennis, lawn chess, and even billiards are generally referred to in this manner. And they are all included in the price tag.

NON-MOTORIZED WATERSPORTS These sea-fun activities, which—you guessed it—don’t require motors are generally included in the single tariff. PLUNGE POOLS Smaller in size than typical pools, these private places to make a splash are often located on spacious suite or villa decks.

PREMIUM LIQUORS Also referred to as top shelf, these encompass pricey brand-name spirits. Some properties include them in the overall fee, others may sell them as an add-on package. Similar packaging can occur for wine. RESORT CREDIT A set amount that can be used to purchase additional experiences including spa, golf and scuba. SPECIALTY RESTAURANTS Sushi, steakhouses, Italian–oh my! Similar to à la carte eateries, these are menu-first outposts. Dining at one of these will incur an additional charge. ¢

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A LA CARTE Eateries that are not buffet-style. Many all-inclusive resorts offer a host of à la carte options. CLUB CATEGORY This is a special term found at Finest Collection Resorts that signifies exclusive access to select amenities and services. GRATUITIES Tips are generally included in the package rate. Speciality services and restaurants are not usually covered and should be accounted for separately. GREENS FEES The pricing for golf. At Finest Collection, the greens fees

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The scene is set at RIU Hotels & Resorts.

What’s Your Caribbean Wedding Style? Whether you’ve been dreaming about your Big Day since you can remember or you just started imagining saying “I do” after putting a ring on it, this quiz will help you discover the best venue for the two of you. By Maria Corazzini YOUR BIG-DAY DRESS IS:

You Picked Mostly As:

A. Short and sweet. B. Flowing, sheer ’n sexy. C. Classic and timeless. D. Hip and funky.

You want your destination wedding to make a splash. That means hosting your ceremony in the sand and celebrating in a palapa-roofed restaurant with a view.

A. Did someone say seafood? You love it all—lobster, fish,oysters—freshcaught. B. Appetizers and cocktails. Small plates are your favorite way to savor flavors. C. Kobe beef and champagne. D. A table for two. It’s all about the company.

YOUR GUY’S FAVORITES INCLUDE: A. Tevas, an ice-cold Pacifico, a Sunfish. B. Stan Smiths, a local brew, the latest map app. C. Loafers, Scotch, golf clubs. D. Hiking boots, absinthe, star chart.

Free spirited, you are also intrigued by local offerings and authentic experiences. Your best bet is swapping vows in a beachfront deck before hosting guests for a night of dancing on a terrace under the stars.

You Picked Mostly Cs: A grand reception in a formal ballroom is the perfect match for your elevated aesthetic. Your ceremony would naturally take place on a sky terrace with sweeping vistas.

You Picked Mostly Ds: Opting for an intimate affair is likely on your radar. Say “I do” in a just-the-twoof-us ceremony in a pretty gazebo and savor a romantic dinner curated just exclusively for you.

Book your Big Day with RIU Hotels & Resorts, a boutique collection of properties including the Bahamas, Jamaica, Mexico and other Caribbean destinations, where you can host guests at any of these kinds of venues in high style.

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108. Sandals Grande Antigua Sophisticated travelers are lured to Dickinson Bay where the famous beach at Sandals Grande Antigua is renowned for its calm, crystal-clear water. 1-800-SANDALS. sandals.com

ARUBA

109. Hilton Aruba Caribbean Resort and Casino Perched on 15 tropical acres on the pristine white sands of Palm Beach, say “I do” to your dream wedding and create unforgettable memories at Hilton Aruba. hiltonaruba.com/weddings

BAHAMAS

110. Grand Lucayan Bring your fairytale wedding to life at Grand Lucayan. With our experi-

111. Margaritaville Beach Resort Nassau Nestled across a gorgeous stretch of beach in the heart of downtown Nassau, Margaritaville is the perfect spot to tie the knot. margaritaville beachresortnassau.com 112. Sandals Royal Bahamian in colonial Nassau, and Sandals Emerald Bay in the Exumas, are close to home, yet far from the ordinary. 1-800SANDALS. sandals.com

BARBADOS

113. Sandals Barbados where exclusive is always inclusive, is now joined by Sandals Royal Barbados. Stay at one, play at both! 1-800-SANDALS. sandals.com

DOMINICAN REPUBLIC

114. Excellence Punta Cana This adults-only resort in Punta Cana features idyllic locations for you to tie the knot, from a stunning beach paradise to a charming gazebo. excellenceresorts.com 115. Finest Punta Cana Our inspired Punta Cana wedding packages were curated to ensure a stress-free experience, from the onset of preparations until the moment you say “I do.” ﬁnestresorts.com 116. Sanctuary Cap Cana On the magnificent shores of the Dominican Republic, adultsonly Sanctuary Cap Cana all-inclusive resort can bring your wedding fantasies to life. sanctuary capcana.com

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117. Grecotel Hotels & Resorts In magniﬁcent Greek locations, luxurious details create fairytale hotel weddings and honeymoons, each as exceptional as the couple living it. www.grecotel.com

GRENADA

118. Sandals Grenada located on the island’s best beach, defies every convention of traditional design to bring you the Sandals of tomorrow, today. 1-800-SANDALS. sandals.com

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119. Beaches Resorts are the world’s #1 allinclusive family resorts where everything’s included for all guests. Generation Everyone. Also #1 for destination weddings and honeymoons. 1-800-BEACHES. beaches.com 120. Jamaica Inn Exchange vows barefoot in the sand at sunset on a private peninsula overlooking the Caribbean Sea or in our glorious gardens. jamaicainn.com 121. Sandals Sandals Montego Bay, Sandals Royal Caribbean, Sandals Negril, Sandals South Coast, Sandals Ochi Beach and Sandals Royal Plantation, Jamaica’s only five-star Luxury Included® Resorts. 1-800-SANDALS. sandals.com 122. Sunset at the Palms This award-winning, all-inclusive, adults-only, beachside Negril retreat includes Fast-Track service at the airport, 85 elegantly appointed treehouse style accommodations, superb dining and more. thepalms jamaica.com

MEXICO

123. Excellence Riviera Cancun Imagine your big day with the Riviera Maya as a backdrop and your toes in the sand. Your perfect venue awaits at Excellence Riviera Cancun. excellence resorts.com 124. Finest Playa Mujeres Wedding planning professionals will ensure the flawless execution of your day through a beautiful ceremony, surrounded by friends and family, at a unique Cancun destination. finestresorts.com 125. Hilton All-Inclusive Resorts Spectacular wedding venues in Mexico, Dominican Republic, and Jamaica. Let the talented Hilton All-Inclusive wedding team take care of every detail. hilton byplaya.com 126. Hyatt Zilara and Hyatt Ziva Incredible wedding venues in Cancun, Los Cabos, Montego Bay and Puerto Vallarta. Choose from wedding packages or customize nearly every detail for your dream wedding. allinclusive.hyatt.com 127. Hyatt Ziva Riviera Cancun The pictureperfect seaside backdrop for your destination wedding, romantic honeymoon or cherished anniversary celebration. Luxurious inclusions, expert wedding specialists, custom options and free packages. resortsbyhyatt.com/ziva-rivieracancun/weddings-all-inclusive 128. Palladium Hotels Group The Weddings by Palladium team of experts provides individualized service and a full line of customizable packages in an idyllic setting for your destination wedding. PalladiumWeddings.com 129. Wyndham Alltra All-Inclusive Resorts The new Wyndham Alltra All-Inclusive Resorts in the heart of Cancun and famous 5th Avenue in Playa del Carmen are Mexico’s two hottest wedding destinations. alltrabyplaya.com

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130. Bay Gardens Beach Resort & Spa The Caribbean’s top honeymoon and wedding destination. This four-star beachfront property is perfect for your fairytale Saint Lucia wedding. www.baygardensresorts.com 131. Coconut Bay Beach Resort & Spa Begin your love journey on Saint Lucia. Discover this all-inclusive resort where stress-free wedding packages and picturesque settings combine for a once-in-a-lifetime celebration. cbayresort.com 132. Fond Doux Eco Resort Fond Doux Eco Resort is a 19th-century eco-friendly boutique resort ideal for any dream wedding, honeymoon, vow renewal, anniversary, babymoon or soft adventure. fonddouxresort.com

133. Ladera Resort On a lush volcano ridgeline above the sea, each suite features an open wall, heated plunge pool, and breathtaking panoramas of the Pitons and the Caribbean Sea. ladera.com 134. Saint Lucia Lauded by the World Travel Awards as the World’s Leading Honeymoon Destination, boasting some of the finest romance settings, and providing a lifetime of cherished memories. stlucia.org 135. Sandals Resorts Stay at one of the Sandals in Saint Lucia and play at all three— Sandals Halcyon Beach, Sandals Grande St. Lucian or Sandals Regency La Toc. 1-800-SANDALS. sandals.com

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136. The Sands at Grace Bay Sapphire sea, white powder beach, and gracious suites. The Sands at Grace Bay is the perfect prelude to the rest of your life. thesandstc.com 137. The Somerset on Grace Bay Say “I do” at The Somerset on Grace Bay. Stunning outdoor event space. Accommodations for up to 200 guests. Handcrafted wedding packages. Every detail personalized. thesomerset.com

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138. The Buccaneer Family owned and operated, this renowned historic 340-acre estate offers St. Croix’s finest accommodations, three beaches, golf, tennis, spa, pools, superb cuisine, and water sports. thebuccaneer.com

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139. The Beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel The words “I do” come naturally on The Beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel. Live the day of your dreams on warm white sands. fortmyers-sanibel .com/weddings 140. Florida’s Sports Coast Unique event venues from country barns, picturesque beaches and chic golf courses partnered with unrivaled outdoor adventures awaits you on Florida’s Sports Coast. flsportscoast.com 141. Martin County Office of Tourism A picturesque place to host the wedding of your dreams. Whether you’re looking for a rustic outdoor space, a luxury mansion or the perfect beach. discovermartin.com 142. Punta Gorda/Englewood Beach From secluded islands, to stunning beachside settings, to unforgettable eco-adventures for your whole party, Punta Gorda/Engelwood Beach awaits to steal your heart. pureflorida.com/weddings 143. Visit South Walton Say “I do” on South Walton’s sugar-white sand beaches, just steps from turquoise water. It’s so effortless; your honeymoon starts before your wedding ends. visit southwalton.com/weddings

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Sponsored by Bridal Guide, New Rochelle, NY. Entries must be received by November 21, 2023. 1. The Sweepstakes is open to any legal resident of the 50 United States and the District of Columbia who is 18 years or older except where prohibited by law. Employees of Bridal Guide, RFP Corp., Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club, and any and all of their related companies and corporate suppliers are not eligible. Sweepstakes void where prohibited by law. All federal, state and local laws apply. Winners agree to publication and/or display of their name, likeness and entry form to be made at the discretion of Bridal Guide without further compensation. Participants are subject to official rules. 2. The Sweepstakes runs from 9:01 AM Eastern Time on September 19, 2023 through 9:00 AM Eastern Time on November 21, 2023. To enter, complete the order form at bridalguide.com/ getinfo, or print your name, street address, daytime telephone number, mobile phone number, email, wedding date and the words "Aurora ND23" on a 3" x 5" plain index card and mail to: Bridal Guide ND WPI Sweepstakes, 1333A North Avenue #706, New Rochelle, NY 10804. Only one entry per household. Entries must be received by November 21, 2023 and become the property of Bridal Guide, who assumes no responsibility for illegible, late, misdirected or lost entries. 3. One grand prize winner will be selected in a random drawing the week of December 4, 2023, under the supervision of Bridal Guide, whose sole decision will be final. By accepting the prize, winner and travel companion agree to release Bridal Guide, RFP Corp., Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club, and their affiliates, agents and employees from any and all liability, claims, injuries, actions or proceedings arising out of and/or sustained in connection with use, acceptance or possession of prize. Potential winner will be notified by email. If a potential winner cannot be contacted, does not respond within 5 days from the date the Sponsor first tries to notify him/her, and/or the prize or prize notification is returned as undeliverable, such potential winner forfeits all rights to win the Sweepstakes or receive the prize, and an alternate potential winner may be selected. Potential winner and guest will be required to sign Bridal Guide's Affidavit of Eligibility and Liability within 14 days of notification, or prize will be forfeited and an alternate winner may be chosen. Original Affidavits must be notarized and mailed to: Bridal Guide, ATT: ND23 WPI Sweepstakes, 1333A North Avenue #706, New Rochelle, NY 10804. A copy of the Bridal Guide Affidavit of Eligibility may be obtained by sending a stamped, self-addressed envelope (VT residents may omit postage) to Bridal Guide, ATT: ND23 WPI Affidavit, 1333A North Avenue #706, New Rochelle, NY 10804. The number of eligible entries received will determine odds of winning. Limit one prize per family or household. If through a printing, production or other error more winners are notified than the rules state, the actual number of such winners, per the rules, will be selected in a random drawing from among those notified. Bridal Guide, RFP Corp., and Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club make no warranties with regard to any prize. Prize is nontransferable by winner, has no cash value, and cannot be redeemed for cash. There are no substitutions for prize or changes to available dates. 4. Grand Prize: A 5-night stay in a 1-bedroom Ocean Front Deluxe Suite at Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club, including daily buffet breakfast at Chef’s Table, or a $50 per person per day breakfast credit in Oliva located in the Merrywing Tower. Estimated ARV $4,191.

144. Golden Isles is a magical setting for any coastal wedding. Breathtaking beaches, historic churches and picturesque landmarks create the atmosphere of a bygone era filled with romance. www.goldenisles.com

5. The Grand Prize winner will be responsible for the following: Roundtrip airfare and airport transfers, airport taxes, any and all local, state and/or federal taxes, ground transportation, food and beverages, tours, gratuities, personal expenses and any other expenses not specified as part of the prize. Amendments to confirmed travel arrangements may result in forfeiture of trip or administrative fees. Winner will be issued an IRS 1099 form for prize value.

145. North Carolina’s Crystal Coast To find out everything the Crystal Coast has to offer couples seeking a destination wedding and unforgettable honeymoon, visit crystalcoastnc.org.

6. Travel can be taken through August 31, 2025. No extension will be given after the prize has expired. Package inclusions may be subject to change. Accommodations are based on availability at time of booking and blackout dates that include but are not limited to December 20, 2023 - January 2, 2024 and December 20, 2024 - January 2, 2025.

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146. Explore Charleston Charleston is waiting to welcome you. From iconic portrait spots and unique venues to endless activities—the Low Country is your ideal destination wedding getaway. CharlestonWeddingGuide.com 147. Explore Elkin From picturesque vineyards, barn settings, historic courtyards and rolling hills, Elkin in the Yadkin Valley of North Carolina has your perfect trail to forever after. exploreelkin.com

7. Entrants agree that by entering the Promotion, they agree to add their contact information to the Bridal Guide and the Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club mailing lists, subject to Entrant’s right to thereafter opt out or unsubscribe to such lists at any time. 8. The name of the winner may be obtained by sending a stamped, self-addressed envelope after December 4, 2023 to Bridal Guide, ATT: ND 23 WPI Winner, 1333A North Avenue #706, New Rochelle, NY 10804. Requests for winner must be received by February 29, 2024.

FIRST LOOK

The private island resort Nayara Bocas del Toro.

Sneak a peek at one of the hottest new hotels where romantic amenities are always on offer.

YOU AND YOUR FAVORITE PERSON ARE LINGERING ON AN endless ring of sand surrounded by crystalline waters. Steps away from the golden shoreline are swaying palms fronting a lush topical expanse robust with a riot of flowers, fauna and simple peace. This is more than a daydream, this is Las Bocas del Toro, an archipelago of pristine and romantically remote islands in the Central American country of Panama. Here, couples get their hearts pumping with days filled with adventure and quiet romantic nights under the star-laden sky, and the accomThe treehouse. modations just might be heaven on earth. The latest daydream realized is Nayara Bocas del Toro, an intimate adults-only hideaway tucked Suite dreams. into a private island with an ancient pagoda at its heart center. Accommodations on the aptly named Frangipani Island consist of 16 overwater bungalows fashioned from local woods and flaunting private outdoor pools and firepits, plus an ultra-romantic treehouse. Guests are free to revel in the spectacular surroundings thanks to a seemingly limitless menu of excursions. There’s snorkeling at three surrounding reefs, underwater A breezy bathroom. spearfishing and visits to Monkey Island, kayaking through mangroves and dolphin spotting at sunset with a champagne toast. As if you needed more ways to ignite the romance, massages can be enjoyed in the open air or in the privacy of your bungalow (room rates start at $1,300 a night and are all inclusive; nayarabocasdeltoro.com) —Jenna Mahoney

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An island-life eatery.

Local Favorites

• WAIKIKI This mellow beach break off of the Isla Colon is best for beginners and intermediate surfers looking to practice new skills. • SIMON BOLIVAR PARK Artisans and local vendors sell handmade wares at this plaza in Bocas Town. • BIRD ISLAND Accessible by boat when the waters are calm, this aptly named islet is home to an endless number of avian species. Humans are not allowed on its shores—instead, visitors view the locals from their perch on the water.

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