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CONTENTS Bridal Guide September/October 2023

FASHION & BEAUTY 14 COVER STYLE

How to get that beautiful look.

16 MOODBOARD: BRIDES

BG reports from the international fashion front that is Barcelona; plus, marvelous minis!

21 BEAUTY FILE

Foundations with complexion perfecting benefits.

26 ALL THAT GLITTERS Dazzling engagement rings.

45 EXPRESS YOURSELF Dress like nobody’s watching.

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• Just Beyond! Brilliant new runway looks. p.16, p.18, p.45

• 101 Budget Tips:

the best advice to help you save. p.38

• Feel the Joy!

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How to create a celebration that’s totally you. p.26, p.32, p.36, p.38, p.43

CONTENTS

Bridal Guide September/October 2023

WEDDING PLANNING 28 PARTY PLANNER

A serene West Coast celebration.

32 PLANNERS WE LOVE

We’re putting our favorite wedding pros in the spotlight. by Carol Straley

36 PLANNING NOTEBOOK

How to avoid family drama as you plan.

37 BODY FILE

Elevate your kitchen essentials with our roundup of registry picks.

43 ASK DAVID TUTERA

Find your true (wedding) colors.

62 WEDDING ALBUM

Alix and Rob’s enchanting wedding weekend on chic St. Barth.

NEWS & FEATURES 13 WEDDING Q&A

Etiquette questions and answers.

38 101 BUDGET TIPS

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wedding Straight talk, smart solutions by Mary Clarke, Editor in Chief

VENDOR SEARCH

I’m about to start planning my wedding. Any tips on how to nail down the best wedding pros?

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Finding the right pros does take some digging, but the effort will be well worth it in the long run. Start by doing online research and make sure you check out a vendor’s website and Instagram. Both should be up-to-date and feature their most recent work. We like to see galleries on vendor sites that effectively showcase their diverse talents. Look for positive online reviews as well. Word of mouth is always a plus, and if you liked a vendor’s work from a friend’s or relative’s wedding you attended, by all means seek them out. When you meet with vendors, ask to see complete portfolios of the weddings they planned, decorated or photographed. Keep in mind that good communication is key, and if your emails or phone calls are not answered promptly, consider it a warning that this unresponsiveness could be a potential problem down the road. When you meet with vendors, have a list of questions ready, and make sure you feel comfortable speaking with them. Are you hitting it off? Are they friendly and willing to take the time to answer your questions and address your concerns? Can they work within your budget? Do they make you and your partner feel special? If there is any hesitation or second-guessing, then it’s best to keep looking.

JUNIOR MISS

Is my niece, who is 10, too old to be a flower girl, or should she be

considered a junior bridesmaid? If so, what is her role and should she be paired with a groomsman for the processional and recessional?

Your niece is just the right age to be a junior bridesmaid— flower girls are generally between the ages of 4 and 8, and junior bridesmaids are 10 to 14 years old. Your niece won’t have any specific responsibilities other than to participate in your rehearsal and ceremony. And although she can attend the bridal shower she’s not expected to contribute financially. As far as her position in the processional and recessional, she can either walk down the aisle before the other bridesmaids (a partner from the groom’s side is not needed), or after the bridesmaids and just before the maid of honor. The same procedure follows for the recessional. TAKE A SEAT

Guests will be standing at our outdoor ceremony. However, we will have some chairs for our older relatives. How can we make sure the other guests will not take their seats?

Your best bet is to place “Reserved” signs on the backs of the chairs so others won’t assume it’s a first-come, first-served arrangement. You should also make sure your ushers know which relatives are to be seated so they can escort them to their seats. And should any of the other guests take the seats by mistake your ushers should politely inform them that the chairs have been reserved.

DIVORCE DILEMMA

My divorced parents are not on good terms, and I’m worried about how they might interact with each other at my wedding. Have you any advice?

We assume you have a good relationship with both your mom and dad, so let each one know how you are feeling. It will help a great deal if they realize just how anxious you are about their displaying any animosity or unpleasant behavior on your wedding day. Stress how this will affect not only your enjoyment of the day itself, but also the memories you’ll have of what should be one of the most joy-filled days of your life. Let your parents know that you hope they will not let their emotions rule the day and will be able to let go of any anger or ill will. You want this to be a happy occasion for everyone. They may not realize how concerned you are, so addressing this issue now—openly and honestly—should persuade them to make every effort to be on their best behavior. ››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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Speaking of glowing, we added these gleaming green amethyst drop earrings for an unexpected, and yes, very glamorous pairing. Since (style) rules are meant to be broken, brides are taking advantage of the hottest jewelry trend for weddings - color! Jewelry designer Anne Sisteron shares her thoughts, “Wearing colored gemstones on your wedding day is a fun way to add a pop of color and show your personality. It allows for wearability beyond the big day! These Green Amethyst Luxe Olympia earrings are the perfect earrings for your wedding day, as they have a classic cut with a modern twist of color. They pay homage to the tradition of wearing something blue in a unique way.”

GLAMOUR GIRL ON THE COVER: Satin fit & flare gown with three-dimensional floral beaded bodice and separate satin and beaded sleeves, both Price Upon Request, by EVE OF MILADY BOUTIQUE. Green Amethyst, Turquoise and Diamond Luxe Olympia Earrings by ANNE SISTERON. Blue topaz signet ring by DALE NOVICK. (Seen here) Aquamarine & Diamond Ring, by ANNE SISTERON. Burmese Peridot & Diamond Ring by NICOLE ROSE. Flowers Provided by Afloral. Photographed at The 1896 Studios and Stages.

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Glamour is as much a state of physical being as it is a state of mind. The word itself conjures up an ideal of sophisticated beauty, polished style, and a heightened sense of awareness with an inherent ability to captivate. Our cover girl for this issue, Mieke Visser is naturally glamorous and dare we say that everything she wears shines brightly in her pretty patina of effortless glam. Wearing a gorgeous Eve of Milady Boutique gown with a stunning beaded bodice and very dramatic sleeves (more of that please!), Visser glows from head to toe.

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ALLURE BY LEE PETRA GREBENEAU

SOPHIE ET VOILA

FRINGE ELEMENT. Strass pendant earrings by CHANEL.

HALFPENNY LONDON

FRESH BUD. Silk Chiffon Peony Hair Clip by JENNIFER BEHR.

HAIR-SPRAY. Signature Fragrance Hair Perfume by BALMAIN HAIR COUTURE.

OSCAR DE LA RENTA

CARRY ON. Micro-Bow Bag by SELF PORTRAIT.

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BIG NEWS! The mini is major! Whether it’s the first, second, or third dress for your wedding day, these short, sassy bridal frocks are worthy of a real fashion moment. Frilled, feathered, laser-cut, corseted, and frou-frou’d out, these little. white dresses stand toe to toe with their full-length sisters. A mega shoe & perfectly-pitched extras are essential for an impression of epic proportions. by Juli Alvarez

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VIVIENNE WESTWOOD

STEP UP. Pink satin Evangelie Sandal Heel by SERGIO ROSSI.

IN A CIRCLE. Light Rose Crystal Begum Earrings by AMINA MUADDI.

HOLA, BARCELONA! Barcelona is the international capital of bridal fashion & our editors had a front row seat at the annual runway shows this April. Join us for a wild and wonderful peek behind the scenes from mega-brands like ELIE SAAB & PRONOVIAS to newer names in the US like SOPHIE et VOILA and MARCO & MARIA. Gracias Barcelona Bridal Fashion Week! by Juli Alvarez 18 BRIDALGUIDE.COM

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FOUNDATION

MAKEUP BY MARIO Surreal Skin Foundation. BENEFITS: Features Mario’s MoistureGrip technology that hydrates for 12 hours with buildable coverage. Perfecting Powders highlight skin’s natural texture for a refined, seamless finish.

YENSA Super Serum Silk Foundation. BENEFITS: A serum foundation formula informed by Yensa’s Superfood Science & Asian Rituals philosophy. Contains vitamin C for brightening, Ferulic Acid to reduce the appearance of fine lines and dark circles, and Bakuchiol Oil that improves skin elasticity.

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ILIA TRUE SKIN SERUM FOUNDATION. BENEFITS: A weightless, vegan formula that contains active levels of niacinamide to visibly smooth skin’s texture and refine skin tone. Allantoin and aloe soothes, calms and nourishes skin.

WESTMAN ATELIER Vital Skincare Complexion Drops. BENEFITS: Gives light to medium coverage with skincare actives at efficacy levels. Gucci’s Skin Vitality Complex of Tsubaki Oil, Ginseng and Pomengranate Extract improves texture, and imparts radiance so skin looks and feels visibly healthier and more youthful.

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(Foundation With Benefits) by Juli Alvarez Does your current face boo leave you feeling unsatisfied? Are you doing all the work in this relationship with little to show for it? OK girl, it’s time to level up with a new FWB. Everything, and we mean everything, you put on your face should work towards flawless, healthy, radiant skin. A pretty face just doesn’t cut it anymore. Your foundation should come with skincare benefits, like our curated picks here, that promote hydration, skin barrier protection, and firm, youthful skin. Give your face the love it deserves.

RMS BEAUTY’s ReEvolve Natural Finish Liquid Foundation. BENEFITS: A 12-hour formula that provides medium coverage with a clean, natural finish. Infused with a natural retinol for firming, organic aloe that soothes skin, & vegetable squalene for hydration.

TYPOLOGY TINTED SERUM. BENEFITS: This luscious vegan formula gives a refined, no-makeup finish. Vitamin C, squalene, and aloe vera combine for radiant, hydrated, calm skin. Derived from 99% natural ingredients.

KJAER WEIS Cream Foundation. BENEFITS: A certified organic multi-tasking, luxe foundation that perfects and nourishes skin. Infused with Certified Organic Sweet Almond Oil with antioxidant Vitamin E, Certified Organic Cera Alba Beeswax that gives it a soft, melty texture and Certified Organic Sunflower Seed Oil that protects skin’s barrier.

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ICE ICE BABY. Classic Solitaire Bezel Oval Diamond Engagement Ring by A. JAFFE. SOLITAIRE. 18K Yellow Gold Emerald Cut Caydia Lab Grown Diamond Tapered Bezel Ring by CHARLES & COLVARD for KAY JEWELERS.

ROCK SOLID. Platinum Autumn Ring with Asscher Cut diamond center and shield cut diamond side stones by JEMMA WYNNE.

FULL CIRCLE. 18K yellow gold Sloan Ring with Old Euro Diamond by BRYONY RAYMOND.

THE STONES. Basilica Baguette & Marquise Diamond Ring from Art Echo by Tomfoolery London.

Quiet Luxury We’re fully embracing the boldly beautiful bezel set engagement ring. This underthe-radar, centuries-old style is experiencing something of a resurgence among jewelry lovers and designers alike. And we’re here for it. Giving clean, modern vibes, diamonds and gemstones are gently surrounded by a wall of metal that creates a luxuriously smooth, seamless appearance. We can’t think of a chicer way to say “I do.”

IN THE BAND. 14K gold White Diamond Mixed Shape Bezel Band by MARROW FINE.

by Juli Alvarez

LIT. Asscher Diamond & Bezel Set Halo Engagement Ring in platinum by KWIAT.

DECO DIVA. Platinum & Diamond Art Deco Ring by JESSIE V E.

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SHINING EXAMPLE. Emerald Cut Wide Side Set Lab Grown Diamond Rivet Engagement Ring in 14K white gold by AETHER X SHAHLA KARIMI.

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party planner RECEPTION

In Dreams Natalie Good conjures up a California celebration with a French countyside feel for a couple living in Hong Kong. Photography by Garrett Richardson

“The idea was for guests to feel they were dining under a lush canopy of blooms that had been growing there for years,” Natalie says. . 28 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Sept/Oct 2023

“It doesn’t even feel like California,” says Natalie Good, owner & creative director of A Good Affair, of Beaulieu Garden. “The bride has a very European aesthetic, and I thought the venue would be perfect.” A good call on Natalie’s part. “The couple didn’t see the venue in person until two days before the wedding. They live in Hong Kong and couldn’t travel due to COVID restrictions.” 1 The invitation suite features an illustration of the venue’s fountain. 2 The cake design was informed by the bride’s dress. 3 Table numbers echo the stationery suite’s watercolor detail. 4 Natalie and her team placed flower petals just so in the garden pond “to make it feel like an intentional part of the design while still feeling organic.” 4

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“The bride has a really discerning eye,” Natalie says. “And wanted everything to be impeccable. From the super-manicured garden to the shimmering pond where the ceremony took place, everything felt elegant and elevated while still keeping a slightly playful, whimsical touch. This was very much reflective of the bride’s personality.” 1 “I had the idea to do an open-ended ceremony arch to create a focal point and highlight the garden sculpture.” 2 A classic white bridal bouquet “lets the bride’s dress shine,” Natalie says. 3 “We did a classic escort display with a European touch.” Lush florals “give guests something to stop and admire.” 3

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Planning, design & production: A Good Affair @agoodaffair Venue: Beaulieu Garden, beaulieugarden.com Catering: Paula LeDuc @paulaleduc Florist: Amy Burke Designs @amyburkedesigns Stationery: Luxe Marie @luxemarie_stationery Bakery: Flour & Bloom @flourandbloomcakes Rentals: Theoni @theonicollection; Bright Event Rentals @brighteventrentals; BBJ La Tavola @bbjlatavola

Planners We L ve Take inspiration from these creative forces as we continue our series spotlighting the best in the business. by Carol Straley NANCY PARK & PAEAN WANG,

Paean and Nancy.

So Happi Together, Event Design and Planning

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) SALLY PINERA (2); CAROLINE TRAN (2); SALLY PINERA (2)

Back in 2008, together with her then fiancé (now husband) Nancy Park launched So Happi Together, a blog dedicated to their wedding planning journey. Between working on her PhD in Cultural Studies and lecturing at various universities, Nancy was also organizing events for various nonprofits. Informed by her own event planning experience, Nancy’s blog attracted a loyal readership whose members began clamoring for help in planning their own weddings. Within a year, two dozen weddings were booked! And with that, So Happi Together Event Design and Planning was born. Paean Wang joined the team as

an intern in 2017, becoming an official partner in 2021, having earned degrees in dance and economics along the way. To deliver the high-touch service they are known for, Nancy and Paean keep their calendar to 12-15 couples/weddings at a time. Whether couples want to tie the knot in a glittering ballroom or a rustic barnyard, with a celebration that can be intimate or extravagant, this dynamic duo will pull out all the stops to ensure they are So Happi Together!

A quiet moment.

A summer wedding with a winter wonderland theme.

Our Signature Wedding Style

• “A beautiful combination of classic elegance and contemporary charm.” • “Our couples are not concerned about trends, but rather appreciate the beauty of personalizing You’re invited! traditions and focusing on guest experience over doing something ‘for the gram.’ ” • “Caterers and hotel venues joke that we are the ‘pink-salt planners,’ because we obsess over the tiniest details, like the type of salt that gets set on our tables.”

What Inspires Us

• “Firstly, we are inspired by our couples, their story and the location and season of the wedding.We incorporate personal touches such as family heirlooms, meaningful music, and/or traditional or cultural foods.” • “We also play into the colors of the season and surroundings, which ultimately So Happi! 32 BRIDALGUIDE.COM Sept/Oct 2023

Magic hour.

A cake in bloom.

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serve as a foundation for the overall design.” • “Our inspiration also comes from traveling to new cities and visiting our favorite high-end resorts.” A happy couple and their fur baby.

Favorite Moments

• “We recently produced a wedding for a bride who was 18 when her cousin (one of our previous brides), got married 10 years ago! A true highlight was seeing our previous bride and groom (and their parents!) with their three children, and helping those kids walk down the aisle as flower girl and ring bearers.”

Making Magic

• “We once built a winter wonderland in the middle of summer at our bride’s family cabin in the mountains of Big Bear. The bride grew up visiting the cabin built by her grandfather and always dreamed of a winter wedding in the backyard. Due to timing issues, she needed to host her wedding ceremony in the summer.” Dinner is served.

Bird’s-eye view.

Happy Endings

“A casual brunch or lounging and drinks by the pool is a perfect way to close out a wedding weekend. But keep it informal! Most guests are living their best lives at our receptions, so casual day-after events, with coffee and carbs, are the way to go.”

Favorite Wedding Tradition

• “Kicking off the reception with a traditional first dance. It’s the moment when couples go from being hosts to being able to enjoy the party like everyone else!”

Safe Celebrations

• “From live action savory stations to multiple sweets stations, something we’ve seen stay (post-pandemic) is having chef and service attendants present. This not only helps to keep stations clean and serviced throughout the evening, but also provides guests with a VIP experience.”

Words of Wisdom

• “Our motto is, whatever happens on the wedding day was meant to happen… Letting things go and letting yourself just be in the moment is when we see our couples at their truest, happiest selves.” ➺ 33

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Arden and Darci. PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) JEREMIAH & RACHEL PHOTOGRAPHY; THE GROVERS PHOTOGRAPHY; ERIC KELLEY CARRIE PATTERSON; RYAN RAY

DARCI GREENWOOD & ARDEN GREENWOOD Greenwood Events

For Darci Greenwood and her stepdaughter Arden Greenwood, the wedding planning business is a family affair. Whether creating dream weddings in the majestic Rocky Mountains, at a ranch in the wilds of Montana or a private oceanside residence in California, one detail that always stands out is their exquisite in-house floral design. In fact, the Greenwood Events backstory begins with Darci’s recognition as a top-flight florist, starting with the opening of her own acclaimed boutique-style flower shop in 2003. Along with her love for florals and flair for event design, Darci’s expertise in hospitality and venue management for luxury hotels gave her the formidable skill set and experience needed to plan and design magical wedding weekends for her clients. By 2012 she was ready to launch Greenwood Events as a full-service wedding and event planning, production and design company. Growing up amidst the excitement of all things weddings, Arden had a front row seat to the intricacies that go into putting together sublime celebrations. Her own sharp eye for detail, in-depth knowledge of fine food and love of cooking and hosting parties made her a natural for this world. When Arden officially came onboard in 2012, Darci had the ultimate team player! “While design and planning are different, … we feel the planning side of an event must always be considered designed,” says Darci. “Meaning designing an exceptional experience every step of the way for each and every guest.”

Sealed with a kiss. Feel the love.

Pretty in pastels.

Scenes for Celebrations

• “We are known for our elevated Mountain style. We generally work and create at unique properties, private estates, and ranches that do come with logistic challenges, but are also all very unique and one of a kind.”

Our Signature Style

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Wedding with a view.

A serene lakeside setting.

A painterly palette.

color palettes that highlight the backdrop. Therefore we are known for colorful weddings, and palettes that may not have been discovered before.”

What Inspires Us

• “History of the location. Lifestyles of interesting people. Nature, Interior Design. Also, the art of gathering and hosting.” Animal magnetism.

Why We Love Weddings

• “While we love bringing our clients’ vision to life, telling their story and creating a memorable event is so rewarding. Working as a team, making sure every detail is in place and seeing our months (sometimes years!) of teamwork come to life is really a beautiful thing”.

Secrets to Success

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) JEREMIAH & RACHEL PHOTOGRAPHY; RYAN RAY; LAURA GORDAN; CARRIE PATTERSON; ERIC KELLEY

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Natural beauty.

• “Reading people, being able to pick up small details and nuances through conversations and helping clients highlight those details and nuances throughout a wedding weekend. “

How To Choose A Destination

• “Feel connected to the location. Look for a venue that has meaning to the families; it will make the event so much more special and heartfelt.”

Words of Wisdom for Our Couples

• “Trust the process and the professionals you chose to hire. Many clients want to race at every detail in the planning process.” • “Trust that we have you covered and that not everything needs to be done immediately when beginning the planning process a year+ out.”

Favorite New Wedding Tradition

• “Both the mother and father walking the bride down the aisle. Never understood why it’s been just the father.”

We Are Most Excited About

• “Discovering and working at new locations, which allows us a fresh perspective each time. Uniqueness is key to our professional contentment.” ¢ 35

planning notebook ADVICE might walk you halfway down the aisle to your dad, who can then escort you the rest of the way to your groom—or vice versa.

Well Received PROBLEM: “Both my fiancé’s parents and my parents have divorced and remarried. Who should stand in the receiving line to meet and greet our guests?” SOLUTION: If everyone wants

to participate, here’s a sample lineup: bride’s mother, bride’s HINT: Figure out how you stepfather, groom’s stepfawant to handle ther, groom’s mom, bride, things before the wedding, and discuss groom, bride’s stepmother, your decisions with bride’s father, groom’s father, your parents. groom’s stepmother. Too long? It’s okay to simply include your biological parents, or to forgo the tradition altogether. Many couples prefer to visit each dinner table during the reception as a less formal way to thank everyone.

KEEP THE PEACE

s if wedding etiquette weren’t tricky enough. Bring divorced parents into the mix, and you’ve got sticky situations galore. Here, we discuss some typical problems, and offer a few solutions. Of course, every family is different, so feel free to improvise.

Take Your Seats PROBLEM: “My divorced parents don’t get along at all, and I have no intention of seating them anywhere near each other during the ceremony. What advice can you give me?” SOLUTION: At a typical wedding, the first few rows of seats

are reserved for close family members, with parents in the front row, grandparents and siblings in the second row, and so on. If the relationship between your parents is tense, traditional wedding etiquette states that the parent to whom you happen to feel closest—let’s say it’s your mom—would sit in the front row, while your dad would be seated in the third or fourth row (with your stepmother, if he has remarried).

Here Comes the Bride PROBLEM: “My stepfather feels more like a father to me than my real dad, and I’d like him to walk me down the aisle. Is there a way to do this without hurting my dad?” SOLUTION: This is a tough one. To avoid hurting your dad’s

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Dancing Dos and Don’ts PROBLEM: “My fiancé wants to have a mother/son dance. Am I expected to only have a father/daughter dance? Can I also dance with my mom, who basically raised me?” SOLUTION: You’re under no obligation to have a traditional father/

daughter dance. Instead, you might include both your parents, with separate dances and songs for each of them. Or (our favorite option), choose one tune for a “parent dance.” Start out with Dad, then, halfway through the song, switch to your mom. 

PHOTO PHOBIA DON’T WORRY: You don’t have to round everyone up for that “one big, happy family” photograph if your parents don’t get along or if you’re not particularly fond of a stepparent. But you should meet with your photographer ahead of time to discuss the types of photos you want and which members of your family should be included. A professional photographer is sure to have dealt with divorced family situations and can probably offer some expert advice on how to handle potential problems. AS FOR THAT STICKY QUESTION—“Does my obnoxious stepparent have to be in the photos?”—the answer is yes. Leaving a stepmother you dislike out of your wedding photos, for example, is bound to hurt her—and your dad’s—feelings and affect your relationship with them. So, have some shots taken of you and your groom with your father and stepmother. Your dad will have a keepsake, and both of them will appreciate your generosity.

PHOTOGRAPHY: SARAH KATHLEEN

Are mom and dad divorced? Here’s how to navigate for a drama-free (big) day.

HEALTHY LIVING

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101BUDGET TIPS HERE’S HOW TO SAVE ON EVERYTHING FROM COCKTAIL HOUR TO CAKE-CUTTING, FLOWERS TO PHOTOS—PLUS LOTS MORE.

Create a comparison chart to track what is included in the price for each venue you’re considering. One company may not include linens and the cake, for example, while another company does. Many public spaces like parks or the local village green may be available to rent at a low fee. However, if the space is not equipped to handle events, you’ll have to rent everything from napkins to tables and chairs. Make sure you come out ahead. Choose an unusual venue, such as an aquarium, a zoo, a gallery or a historical site. Site fees are not high and you’ll save on decor because the venue already supplies ambience. But the same caveat

goes as for public spaces: Figure in what you'll have to spend on rentals. Hold your ceremony and your reception in the same place. You’ll save yourselves multiple site fees as well as transportation from one location to the other. If you belong to a community organization or to the military, you may have access, at low cost, to a venue belonging to them. Depending on your venue, you may not need to decorate extensively. If you marry outdoors at a winery, for example, there’s not much you'll need to add to the gorgeous vineyard backdrop. Rent a vacation home. Even if the owners charge you a week’s worth of rent for the day, it may still be equal to or less than renting a tradi-

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tional reception venue. Don’t forget your alma mater—these usually rent for a few hundred dollars. If a family member has a scenic property, find out if you can hold your wedding there. One couple held their wedding on the Wyoming ranch where the groom had grown up. Unique and cost-conscious!

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If you’re a city-dweller, leave town for your wedding. One Boston bride saved more than $50 per person by holding her wedding in Burlington, Vermont. For a garden wedding, look into renting a historic mansion; many of these have gardens that are included in the deal. You may find, as

PHOTOGRAPHY: (FROM TOP) KATELYN JAMES PHOTOGRAPHY; B. JONES PHOTOGRAPHY

SET YOUR SITES

did one couple, that the mansion they rented had no time limit, and the fee was less than half a hall rental. Look for reception packages. Holding your event at a venue that provides catering and food-service items will save on extra rentals. Save on your rehearsal dinner site by throwing a backyard barbecue or a picnic in a local park, both of which can cost considerably less than a dinner in a restaurant. Accept a post-wedding brunch at a relative’s home as a wedding gift. You may find that in lieu of a gift, a friend or relative will be thrilled to host this event in his or her home. Trim the length of your reception. Even doing a three-hour party instead of four or five will save you money. Trust us, everyone will enjoy themselves just as much. Determine early on what you can (and cannot) spend and stick to it. One rule of thumb: Food, beverage and venue should come to half of your budget. Most venues charge more for Saturday night, so go for a reception on a Thursday, Friday or Sunday night instead. Consider the season— you’re likely to get a better price for a venue in January than you would for the same spot in June. Because the guest list will be smaller, consider a destination wedding. It may cost less than a traditional event held in your hometown. Check into bed and breakfast venues in your area and place firm limits on your guest list. When deciding between an indoor or outdoor space, figure in the cost of a tent rental: If it rains, a tent is worth every penny.

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DRINK UP

Forget the full bar. Instead, serve beer and wine (both red and white) with one or two signature cocktails that you’ve personalized with a cute name and your wedding colors. If you're holding your event near a vineyard or microbrewery, buy your wines and beers from them. Keeping to local products gives your celebration a special touch (and it’s cheaper). Don’t forget to have some inexpensive (nonalcoholic) drinks on hand. Consider fresh lemonade in tall, sugar-rimmed glasses for a warm-weather wedding or sparkling water with wedges of orange, lemon or lime. If you’re stocking your own bar, do your homework. Check winespectaTop shelf isn’t a high priority. Choose tor.com for less-expensive wine vintages. mid-shelf liquors for significant savCorkage fees (a charge for opening bottles ings (guests usually can’t tell the difference). Another way to approach this: If the best brands of wine or liquor) may be up to $10 a bottle are important to you, indulge your guests with or even more. Try to negotiate these out of your contract. just a few choices of these but close the bar early and offer just wine and beer as the Close the open bar an hour early and party winds down. offer coffee. You’ll save hundreds of dollars; even better, guests will have a chance For an added festive touch, dress up to sober up before they head out to the road. your signature drinks with garnishes, like orange slices or mini fruit kebabs on Make sure the waitstaff knows absotoothpicks. Garnishes are usually provided free lutely not to pre-open bottles or clear of charge by the venue or caterer, but give the away glasses from tables that aren’t empty. appearance that you’ve spent more. Speaking of coffee, forgo a coffee bar offering expensive liqueurs with Eliminate shots or any drinks that make java and instead treat guests to a rich brew use of a number of liquors—these with flavored syrups. Or serve espresso all raise your bar tab and aren’t necessary for before sending everyone home. guests to have fun.

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MUSIC NOTES

Want a live band? Hire talented students from a local music school to perform at the ceremony. Ask to hear them play—they may be just as good as professionals, and charge you less. And stay local: If a band has to travel for more than an hour, your costs will increase. If you’re deciding whether to go with a fivepiece band or a DJ, you’ll save at least half by choosing the DJ. Or, why not be your own DJ? Create customized playlists for the ceremony and the reception on your phone or laptop, hook up to rented speakers and enjoy! Negotiate a deal that you like. The closer you are to the wedding date (six months or less), the likelier it is that the band leader will work on your terms. Find out if one or two musicians can perform for the ceremony or cocktail hour as well. If your band offers a singer who also plays an instrument, you’ll save money. And remember: You don’t need more than one of each instrument—one saxophone will do as well as two or three. ➺

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The traditional wedding cake is usually covered with fondant, but keep in mind that it’s expensive because it requires extra labor to make. You may want to go with buttercream instead. One caveat: For an outdoor wedding, go with fondant since buttercream or cream cheese will melt in the sun. Consider cupcakes. These save money because they require much less intricate decoration. Have a small cake for the cake-cutting ceremony and supplement it with a sheet cake, served from the kitchen. Go with fresh flowers. The amount of labor that goes into creating flowers out of sugar ups the price of the cake. Consider your humble local grocery store. One bride’s supermarket bakery made her an elegant confection, based on a magazine photo, for less than $200.

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FABULOUS FOOD

At the cocktail hour save costs by handpassing pricier appetizers like shrimp, scallops or other seafood items. When guests self-serve, they usually consume 40 percent more. Have a lunch or an afternoon tea reception instead of a sit-down dinner. Guests tend to drink less during the day, so you’ll save on liquor costs. If you prefer an evening reception, but still want to stick to a budget, consider a desserts-only reception. Specify on the invitation that you will be serving desserts, so that guests don’t expect a full meal. Offer a delicious array of sweets: pastries, pies, mousses and a dramatic flaming treat like Bananas Foster. To ac-

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If you like fruit fillings, think seasonal. Strawberries can cost triple the price out of season so consult with your baker to stay on budget. The baker may calculate the price by averaging the cost of different flavors, so plan carefully. If you have the most expensive flavor on the bottom layer (the biggest), it will cost more. Traditionally, couples save the cake’s top layer to share on their first anniversary. If you and your fiancé don’t think you’ll be ready to dig in, forgo that extra layer and save some dough. Have a dessert buffet featuring pastries and other sweets and save money by having only a small cake for your cake cutting. The cheesecake option can be a boon because it costs less. Arrange the cheesecakes on pedestals of varying heights— they will resemble tiers—and offer sauces, such as chocolate and kiwi.

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company, serve champagne or prosecco and specialty coffees and teas. Another increasingly popular choice is the cocktail party reception. And with good reason: You’ll save thousands on food and decorations; after all, you can forgo big floral arrangements for your tables and adorn small cocktail tables with candles and modest bunches of blooms. Hand-pass hors d’oeuvres like mini pigsin-a-blanket, grilled cheese sandwiches and mini quiches. On a multi-tiered table offer finger foods like Italian breads, olives, artichoke hearts and cheeses (at room temperature), finger fruits and salads. Consider a refined winetasting reception. Guests can sample from an array of small dishes at food stations, each matched with a special wine. Printed cards

on small tapas-style plates, guests won’t notice or care if the fare is quite simple. Crudites don’t actually have to be, well, crude just because you’re on a budget. How about an array of artichoke hearts, broccoli florets and radishes cut in shapes—instead of carrot sticks and celery. Comparison shop for cocktail-party offerings. Seafood like mussels or calimari are usually half the price of shrimp cocktail. Your caterer should be able to offer guidance about other lowercost selections. Instead of traditional cocktail-party fare, go for cozy comfort food like macaroni and cheese in martini glasses, mini grilled cheese bites and tiny crab cakes. (Hint: These low-cost goodies are guaranteed to be crowd-pleasers!)

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can explain the pairing. Go for a rich look at a low cost: Caterers often suggest putting out lots of lush salads and grilled vegetables in unusual platters, like colorful bowls and big woks, for a great presentation. Also keep in mind that people eat with their eyes first, and if you display food beautifully, as

Theme stations are always popular, and a fajita or Thai station are not budget-busters. Consider pyramids of basmati and jasmine rice, egg noodles and condiments. Other options: a mashed-potato bar where guests can top spuds with bacon and sour cream, or a panini bar that serves grilled sandwiches.

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CAKES & DESSERTS

How about a pierogi bar? These potatostuffed morsels of dough, served with cheese or spinach and a sauce, are a terrific variation on low-cost comfort food. A perfect (and inexpensive) appetizer option for a cool-weather wedding: Serve miniature cups of soup like clam chowder or acorn squash. In warm weather, consider mini cups of cold soup like gazpacho. Two kinds of stations to skip: first, the raw bar, which will be quite expensive; second: a carving station. Prime rib, ham and pork loin are too heavy—and costly—for cocktail-hour fare. After nibbling on appetizers, your guests will not need a five-course dinner. Three will do—salad, an entrée and dessert. Use a delicious sauce on a simple pasta or chicken dish to up the wow factor. Ask your caterer for lowcost recommendations. A sophisticated salad course—like spring greens—can elegantly offset a less costly entrée. Forgo the filet. Your caterer can show you price options for different cuts of lamb and pork as well as beef. Braised boneless short ribs are a great choice. For savings of up to 20 percent, consider family-style dishes: think big bowls of pasta or platters of sliced meat that guests can pass around the table. Add interest to pasta —a good budget choice—by considering more unusual varieties, like mushroom ravioli or spinach and cheese tortellini. Beware the buffet option. It won’t necessarily cost less than a sit-down

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dinner because you have to supply more food than you would for a plated meal. Do a cost comparison before you make a decision. Cut out the bubbly; guests can toast with whatever they’re drinking. Serve a duet plate for every guest. For example, you might serve a plate of beef medallions and grilled shrimp or crab cakes. You’ll save on the amount of food you offer—and on costs. Before deciding on a seafood entrée, find out from the caterer what will be in season at the time of your wedding: A seasonal choice will save you hundreds of dollars. Have your caterer patronize local farms for produce; not only is it fresher and better-tasting but also more cost-effective. Consider a vegetarian entrée option. These are usually less expensive, and becoming ever more popular. For side dishes, consider risotto instead of potatoes for something inexpensive and a bit unusual. A simple meal will seem special when you consider the visuals. Colorfulvegetables on low-cost chicken can make all the difference. Consider a modified DIY approach: One groom’s cousin baked enchiladas, and the couple ordered more food from local Mexican outposts. Hint: Don’t make the wedding meal yourselves—that's too DIY for your own sanity! To feed your photographer and musicians, offer lower-cost food—this may cost 60 percent less per person. If children will be attending, choose a caterer who offers free or half-priced meals for kids.

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TRANSPORTATION

Instead of renting a limo, go with a less costly option like a party van from a local carrental company. Whether you decide to book a limo or a van or any other sort of transportation, do this at least six months in advance of the wedding in order to get the best deal. Ask about any special wedding packages a car-rental company may have. A typical one may offer three hours of service, a bottle of champagne and a tuxedo-bedecked driver for about $400 (depending on your location). Remember that white limos will always cost you more than black or silver ones. Don’t have the car that brings you to the ceremony wait for you all day—hourly rates will add up quickly. Have a different car pick you up later, after the reception.

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Vegan and/or vegetable-forward cuisine options can be considerably less expensive than meats and seafood, and will be appreciated by many of your guests

INVITATIONS

If you, your fiancé or your friends are DIY-ers, consider creating your own invites by hand or high-quality printer. Your crafts store will have invitation and program kits—you can really get some unique effects this way. Don’t pay extra to have your invitations assembled; just get the bridal party together and set up an assembly line. If you have a friend who happens to be a terrific calligrapher, have her address your invitations as her gift to you—rather than paying someone else to do so. Calligraphic fonts that look like the real thing are readily available. Free font sources: searchfreefonts. com, highfonts.com, dafont.com. Choose basic black ink for your invitations and other stationery. Prices go up if you choose colored inks or a deluxe foil-stamp process. Also, colored paper and unconventional shapes tend to be more expensive than white or ecru or the standard square or rectangle. Order your thank-you notes when you order your invitations. Some stationers give bulk discounts. ➺

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ding planner with Evantine Design in Philadelphia, points out: “It’s less expensive to buy an apple than an orchid!” Sure, peonies may be your favorite flower, but if you’re tying the knot in winter, these springtime beauties will cost you a pretty penny. A good florist should be able to suggest in-season blooms that get the look and feel of your out-of-season favorites. Be sure to do your research on flowers (go to bridalguide.com/flowersbyseason to learn what blooms will be in season at the time of your wedding). If your wedding day happens to fall on Easter, Mother’s Day or Valentine’s Day, you may pay more for your flowers. On the other hand, scheduling a wedding around a holiday can work in your favor: Your reception spot may already be decked out—saving you a small fortune! Less is more. The more elaborate the arrangements, the higher your bill. For simple elegance, consider a few roses, tulips or even orchids submerged in water. A cluster of rose petals floating in water in clear bowls are pleasing to look at, too. Be sure to use all kinds of candles to good advantage: Place flickering votives, pillar candles or tapers between floral arrangements and create a stylish look on a mere shoestring. Keep ceremony flowers simple by only placing arrangements near the spot where you’ll be exchanging vows, not on every aisle seat or pew.

Must you place flowers on tables? Of course not. Pick one focal point—perhaps the entrance or the front corners of the room—and place just one gorgeous arrangement there. Adorn plain white tablecloths by layering organza or tulle on top (which costs just a few dollars a yard). Or you may want to forgo the linens entirely and cover your tables with mirrors or frosted glass. The finished look will be artfully glitzy, yet the cost

PICTURE PERFECT

If a photographer you love is out of range of your budget, find out if you can wait till after the wedding to order proofs or albums. That way, you can put some of your gift money to good use. Point and shoot videography is the least expensive option (around $1,800). For this fee, you’ll get nutsand-bolts footage of your wedding. Tell the videographer to avoid gimmicky graphics and not to ask guests “to say a few words” to the camera (if you find this tacky). With plain “point and shoot,” the best treatment is simple and classic. The most surefire way of finding a photographer and videographer who are right for you is to get recommendations from friends and family. However, be sure to carefully consider the work of many pros before making a decision about whom to hire—and always keep in mind that the most expensive choice is not necessarily the best. Photography is no place to skimp. Your photos are the tangible mementoes of your wedding day—but if you do know someone who is just getting started, you may get a more affordable deal. A caveat: Make sure the work is top quality. Ask for references from former brides and grooms who have used the pro’s services. 

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of this dazzling display is surprisingly modest. Rent colored or textured chargers (choose bamboo or rattan) to add a simple but distinctive detail to each place setting. Forgo expensive silver vases in favor of clear glass. Or shop local flea markets for vintage containers of different but complementary designs for your table—you’ll achieve a unique and stylish look at small cost.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (TOP) KATELYN JAMES PHOTOGRAPHY; (BOTTOM) GEOFFREY SOKOL

Have artistic friends pitch in on your wedding. A friend who’s got a penchant for flowers can handle your table arrangements and floral details. Another way to go: Hire a florist to do just one arrangement and then have your friends and family copy it for all the tables. Potted plants make attractive table decor—and cost considerably less than floral arrangements do. Make the most of greenery in other ways; put plenty of it in your centerpieces to save money on flowers. Potted blooms are also a less expensive choice; check at your local nursery. Another option: Incorporate locally grown flowers and grasses into your arrangements. Buy flowers wholesale in a local market or online, and pay a florist to do simple centerpieces. Want to keep things really easy? Do one look in abundance and make an impact. Place tons of branches, like curly willow or dogwood, in urns or tall glass vases from the dollar store; for a bit more flair, hang LED tea lights from them with ribbons in your wedding colors. Try groupings of the same flower in different hues for an affordably stylish look. Cluster vases of different sizes in interesting configurations on tables. Use fruits and vegetables to fill out arrangements; this way, you can create a sense of colorful abundance without excessive cost. As Melissa Paul, a wed-

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TRUE COLORS Find your perfect palette with celebration and wedding expert David Tutera.

CHOOSING A COLOR SCHEME ISN’T just about picking a color; it’s about setting a style. Where does color first get infused? It starts out with color in the invitations, the color of the bridesmaid dresses, the embellishments for the groomsmen, the tablecloths, the flowers, the cake and, ultimately, the lighting. What does color do? It sets a tone, a mood and a powerful, palpable energy. I’ve always said you should not go beyond three colors: Any more than that can result in a look that’s a little too juvenile or circuslike. So either pick three different colors or variations of one overall color—if the latter is the case, you can have more than three shades (e.g. five or seven shades of blue).

Here are some of my favorite palettes: Everyone knows my favorite color is blue. It’s the color of my brand, it’s soothing, calming and it of course fits in with the “something blue” aspect, which should definitely be in your wedding. Think about working in multiple iterations of this dreamy color, along with white and silver or pewter (but not both).

A GOOD RULE OF THUMB IS NOT TO OVERDO IT. Go regal with a combination of violets. Plums and burgundy jewel tones are a perfect match when paired with lighter accent shades like creams or lavenders, imparting a royal look, perfect for fall or winter weddings.

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Considering a classic approach? Classic to me is whites with ivory and a touch of pewter or silver—super refined and very traditional. Black and gold are great when it comes to adding sophisticated glam. The bold combination has a modern vibe, while retaining a classic, opulent look. Don’t limit yourself: Use a few different shades of gold, including both metallic and non-metallic versions. A modern color scheme is pure diamond white across the board—literally just one color. If you wish, sprinkle in some accent colors, which could be metallic (no gold) and one strong color (e.g. purple, red, cobalt blue)—or simply a solid white paired with a metallic.

Stick with a variation of one hue or no more than three different colors. You don’t want to overwhelm yourself or your guests with too much of a good thing—leave some room to breathe—and dream. Now, exhale slowly—and get started.

Whether you’re holding your wedding near the seashore or in a lush garden, mint greens, soft creams and pops of pretty peach tones create the perfect contrast of warm and cool within this fresh color palette. The striking combination of pastels really captures the beauty of a light, airy affair. Don’t be afraid to even add flashes of a metallic (like gold, silver or copper) as an accent. With vibes both casual and elegant at once, coral plays well with a plethora of palettes. Chic, upbeat, yet warm and calming, coral works well no matter the season. Think about coordinating it with ombréed tones of peach, apricot, sand and beige, or let it take the starring role, as we did at a recent celebration, embellished with robin’s egg blue and lilac as well as olive green.  Sept/Oct 2023 BRIDALGUIDE.COM 43

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“Our friend Darren Sukonick officiated the wedding as well as our cantor from Temple Emanu-El, who co-officiated and sang,” Alix tells us. Her bouquet included orange ranunculus, mokara orchids and salmon roses. The chuppah was covered in white orchids. Design: B Floral Events. Choosing the wedding location, Gyp Sea Beach, was a no-brainer. Alix’s family has been visiting St. Barth since 1985 (and her parents honeymooned there!). Plus “Rob and I went there together and he loved it,” Alix says. “We wanted a place that felt like us for our wedding. Any other place just didn’t feel right!”

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The prevailing palette, blue and orange, Alix’s favorite colors, were seen in both florals and table linens. All vendors were local, including planner Nelly Roussel at Gold’n Guest Events St. Barth. “Our family has visited St Barth for so many years, it was important for us to give back to the local economy,” Alix says.

“Arty yet elegant bohemian,” was the design ethos, realized in decor that was an unexpected mix of sleek orchids with natural woods and brushy pampas grass. Israel-based artist Danny Azoulay designed the ketubah (above), which was signed by family friends Mona Seltzer (who designed all the paper goods) and Jeffrey Kaplan. Fun fact: “Mona introduced my parents to each other!” Alix tells us.

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The fireworks (a total surprise!) were planned by Charlotte’s dad.

Personal touches abounded. Alix crafted place cards out of teal sea glass and made gold safety pins with charms from her past for her family to wear; Her mother sang a sentimental song in lieu of a speech. “She practiced with her cantor.” Alix says. “I thought I would pass out from nerves walking down the aisle, but it ended up being the easiest thing. It was so meaningful being up there sharing our vows. I loved every minute of it!”

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130. Bay Gardens Beach Resort & Spa The Caribbean’s top honeymoon and wedding destination. This four-star beachfront property is perfect for your fairytale Saint Lucia wedding. www .baygardensresorts.com 131. Coconut Bay Beach Resort & Spa Begin your love journey on Saint Lucia. Discover this all-inclusive resort where stress-free wedding packages and picturesque settings combine for a once-in-a-lifetime celebration. cbayresort.com 132. Fond Doux Eco Resort Fond Doux Eco

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139. The Beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel The words “I do” come naturally on The Beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel. Live the day of your dreams on warm white sands. fortmyers-sanibel .com/weddings 140. Florida’s Sports Coast Unique event venues from country barns, picturesque beaches and chic golf courses partnered with unrivaled outdoor adventures awaits you on Florida’s Sports Coast. flsportscoast.com 141. Martin County Office of Tourism A picturesque place to host the wedding of your dreams. Whether you’re looking for a rustic outdoor space, a luxury mansion or the perfect beach. discovermartin.com 142. Punta Gorda/Englewood Beach From secluded islands, to stunning beachside settings, to unforgettable eco-adventures for your whole party, Punta Gorda/Engelwood Beach awaits to steal your heart. pureflorida.com/weddings 143. Visit South Walton Say “I do” on South Walton’s sugar-white sand beaches, just steps from turquoise water. It’s so effortless; your honeymoon starts before your wedding ends. visit southwalton.com/weddings

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144. Golden Isles is a magical setting for any coastal wedding. Breathtaking beaches, historic churches and picturesque landmarks create the atmosphere of a bygone era filled with romance. www.goldenisles.com

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145. North Carolina’s Crystal Coast To find out everything the Crystal Coast has to offer couples seeking a destination wedding and unforgettable honeymoon, visit crystalcoastnc.org.

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Fort Myers, Florida, offers open-air venues, outdoor natural spaces and worldclass services. Set against the enchanting backdrop of the locale’s beaches and islands, there’s no better place for a dream destination wedding. Begin your life together in a place as beautiful as the love you share. Visit visitfortmyers.com/weddings.

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More Favorites CONDADO VANDERBILT HOTEL The sister property and neighbor of La Concha is named for a former mansion of the eponymous family, which stands at the center of the beachfront, adults-only property.

DORADO BEACH, A RITZ-CARLTON RESERVE This 50-acre expanse has been welcoming guests since the 1950s. The luxury property is revered for its impeccable accommodations and gorgeous tropical foliage laden grounds.

HOTEL EL CONVENTO Set in a former convent built in 1646, this hideaway sits in the center of historic Old San Juan, a magic mix of charm, beach access, and distinct sense of place.

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simply lounge by the hotel’s pair of pretty pools and enjoy the island’s most famous cocktail—the piña colada. First built in 1958, the property’s heart is the namesake architectural accent—La Perla, a glassy, wave-roofed eatery that appears to hover over water. Wedding events can be held in this space, which has a chic vintage vibe. For a private ceremony option with uninterrupted beach, city and mountain views, brides reserve the Salon Mirador & Terrace, a rooftop patio and adjacent event room. Parties who prefer to be in the center of it all celebrate at poolside Marena overlooking the hotel’s beach. A grand ballroom hosts large parties and an onsite disco makes sure dancing lasts well into the night. Whichever celebratory venue you choose, the expert wedding

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team is led by a devotee of the details who has relationships with florists and other island vendors ready to transform each space for the ultimate Big Day (wedding packages start at $146 per person and include canapes, sparkling wine toast and specialty drink, three-course meal with wine pairings, four-hour open bar and coffee service; laconcharesort.com). ¢

Marriage licenses and medical tests are required to swap vows on Puerto Rico. Couples must appear in person and furnish valid ID, copies of birth certificates, and, if applicable, divorce decrees and/or death certificates. Non-residents of Puerto Rico must provide a notarized affidavit stating intent to marry. A certified marriage certificate must be registered within 10 days of the ceremony.

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Puerto Rico you lovely island/Island of tropical breezes—with a name that means “rich port,” it’s no wonder this sun-drenched Caribbean island is a daydream destination. There are golden beaches lined with luxury accommodations, the nation’s only rainforest and some swell surf breaks, a historic Old Town and an exciting food scene and, since it’s a US territory, it’s all available without the hassle of packing a passport. Host your wedding at the mod beachfront La Concha Resort in the buzzy Condado district of San Juan, and you and your guests can enjoy it all—or

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Fall in love with Saint Lucia, the ‘World’s Leading Honeymoon Destination’. Explore, relax, indulge, and celebrate with loved ones, enjoying all that this romantic island has to offer. For more information visit stlucia.org

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is Where Love Comes Naturally Fort Myers’ islands, beaches and neighborhoods are ideal for a dream destination wedding, especially for couples with tropical settings and ocean views on their wish lists. Located on the Gulf of Mexico in Southwest Florida, our white-sand beaches, natural islands and unobstructed sunsets make memorable backdrops for ceremonies and receptions. As a U.S. destination, it’s easy to secure the idyllic location for your dream day—no passport required. A variety of indoor and outdoor venues can suit any type of event from microweddings to larger celebrations. Say “I do” at a resort with unmatched views of the Gulf of Mexico, in a Victorian-style solarium set in a lush garden or inside a rustic barn next to towering oak trees. Lean into the natural beauty of Fort Myers and its surrounding areas during your celebration—decorate reception tables with whole seashells plucked from white sands and take your first photos as a married couple in front of the setting sun.

Let our Weddings Department help guide you toward the venues and vendors who will execute your vision with ease. Start dreaming at VisitFortMyers.com/Weddings and sign up for our newsletter or submit an RFP.

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Soaking up the sunshine in the Bahamas.

Beautiful Beginnings Let’s celebrate together.

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TAKE FLIGHT

Paradise found at Gili Lankanfushi in the Maldives.

SAVOR EXQUISITE, INVENTIVE TASTING EXPERIENCES AT SOME OF THE WORLD’S MOST SPECTACULAR RESORTS. BY JENNA MAHONEY

UXUA Casa Hotel & Spa

FUN FACT: Wine flights are the most common tasting experiences. They are usually made up of three to six selections that have a common thread such as producer, region of origin, variety, or type.

GILI LANKANFUSHI This archipelago nation comprised of 1,192 sugar-sand-ringed islands and atolls in the brilliant blue waters of the Indian Ocean is a day-dream realized. Barefoot luxury beckons romance seekers in search of the ultimate hideaway on a private island resort. One such spectacular castaway destination is this property of 45 overwater villas, endless watersports, a full-service spa with open-air treatment rooms and a food program that’s nearly entirely plant based. The dynamic culinary team offers a special curry flight that showcases 10 different types of curry from a variety of countries (room rates start at $1,394 a night; gili-lankanfushi.com).

PARK HYATT TOKYO Park Hyatt Tokyo, is a marquee urban retreat.

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In celebration of one of its most talked-about moments 20 years ago— Suntory Time—in the memorable Lost in Translation, a cinematic masterpiece that artfully showcased this grand dame luxury hotel, the towering Park Hyatt hosts Suntory whiskey flights. In the New York Bar (made famous by Bill Murray and Scarlet Johansson in the film), guests savor a trio of the whiskeys that trace the history and evolution of the esteemed brand. Additional marquee hotel amenities include an indoor pool with Mt. Fuji views, oversized soaking tubs and impeccable service (room rates start at $833 a night; hyatt.com).

PHOTOGRAPHY (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP) IMAGES COURTESY OF GILI LANKANFUSH (2); PARK HYATT TOKYO, JAPAN (2); UXUA, TRANCOSO, BRAZIL

In the chic yet untouristed beach town of Trancoso, Brazil, global-minded guests feed mind, body and spirit at this zero-waste enclave of 13 individual Brazil’s wellnesscentric UXUA casas, all crafted by local artisans using Casa Hotel & Spa. sustainably sourced materials. Like its decor and cuisine, programming at the property focuses on a holistic approach to whole living and community support. UXUA Vida, the healing spa, is a centerpiece. Here, under the tutelage of Dr. Julian Hamamoto, wellness programming includes custom juice flights crafted from locally grown fruits and herbs specifically formulated for desired results (room rates start at $445 a night; uxua.com).

Lush and luxurious in Costa Rica.

NAYARA SPRINGS

TENUTA DI MURLO

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP) IMAGES COURTESY OF NAYARA SPRINGS (2); FIFE ARMS, SCOTLAND (2); IMAGES COURTESY OF TENUTA DI MURLO (2)

At this fit for the big-screen estate that’s been owned by the same family for generations in the cinematically gorgeous hills of Umbria, a celebrated culinary Italian region known for truffles, wine and chocolate, guests are warmly welcomed to intimate accommodations ranging from personal villas and a private apartment to sumptuous guest rooms. Activities at the 18,000acre expanse include farm tours, olive grove visits, strolling the winery and, of course, savoring all of its bounty. The honey-tasting flight, led by the head gardener, showcases the beehives, after which guests are treated to a series of sweet honeys to sample (room rates start $1,800 for a two-person villa; murlo.com).

The homey Tenuta di Murlo in Italy.

There’s something different about waking up and smelling the morning’s first cup of Joe when you are in one of the world’s most prolific coffee producing countries. At this adults-only hideaway deep in the misted rainforest below the Arenal Volcano—which itself is a postcard-perfect phenomenon that helps create the namesake healing waters of the resort’s private soaking pools—coffee is an art form. Baristas at the property’s dedicated espresso bar, Mi Cafecito, craft coffee flights showcasing beans roasted on-site and featuring different toasts, washes, and growing altitudes (room rates start at $1,140 a night; nayararesorts.com).

Stately Fife Arms in Scotland.

Fife Arms, Scotland History buffs, art lovers and monarchists all repose in regal style at this stately manor near Balmoral Palace, a summer home of the House of Windsor in the Scottish Highlands. Along with 46 individually appointed accommodations designed in homage to famous guests, the hotel boasts more than 112 works of art, including one created by Queen Victoria. Traditional experiences include tartan design (guests work alongside textile designers to craft a bespoke plaid), guided castle tours with local historians and an on-site Whiskey Afternoon Tea. The four-whiskey flight is paired with sweet treats to compliment the spirits’ flavor profiles (room rates start at about $405 a night; thefifearms.com). ¢

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WA LT O N IDEAL FOR “I DO” In South Walton, Florida, you can truly have it all. With an idyllic setting, distinctive venues and convenient amenities, there’s nothing standing between you and the wedding of your dreams.

These 16 unique beach neighborhoods are filled with exciting activities for creating lasting memories. With great year-round weather, any season is perfect for starting your ‘happily ever after.’

W H AT ’ S B E S T F O R Y O U R G U E S T S This beautiful destination was named one of “The World’s Greatest Places” by TIME Magazine. Your guests will enjoy excellent dining featuring Gulf-fresh seafood and upscale options for farm-to-table cuisine, as well as a wide variety of boutique shopping and championship golf, all with 26 miles of beautiful white-sand beach as your backdrop. Luxurious accommodations range from boutique hotels to beach cottages or full-service resorts. And travel is a breeze, whether by car or by plane. With non-stop flights from 28 U.S. cities, all major carriers service two convenient airports.

WHERE FOREVER BEGINS With diverse activities, accommodations and dining, South Walton is ideal for bringing family and friends together to celebrate. VISIT SOUTH WALTON. COM / WEDDINGS

MIRAMAR BEACH • SEASCAPE • SANDESTIN • DUNE ALLEN • GULF PLACE • SANTA ROSA BEACH • BLUE MOUNTAIN BEACH GRAYTON BEACH • WATERCOLOR • SEASIDE • SEAGROVE • WATERSOUND • SEACREST • ALYS BEACH • ROSEMARY BEACH • INLET BEACH

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BALI

THIS COUPLE QUIETLY CELEBRATED THEIR UNION IN A REMOTE SETTING THAT’S AS SPECTACULAR AND INTIMATE AS THEIR WEDDING. BY JENNA MAHONEY WEDDINGS ARE MAGICAL. THEY CELEBRATE THE ROMANCE OF THE FUTURE grounded in centuries-old customs, and each couple chooses a special spot on earth that reflects their unified magic. For Cypriots Yulia Bogolepova and and Ilya Loshak, that revered selection was the incomparable Mandapa, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve, a stunning hideaway in one of Bali’s spiritual centers: Ubud. “The resort is situated next to the impressive Ayung River and surrounded by lush forests and expansive rice fields,” explains the couple of their happily-ever-after location. “Additionally, the presence of the resort’s own temple adds to the unique experience, making for

PHOTOGRAPHY: COURTESY OF YULIA BOGOLEPOVA AND ILYA LOSHAK

unforgettable moments that simply cannot be replicated in a single destination,” they say.

Yulia and Ilya at their just-the-two-of-us wedding celebration. 000HONEYMOON GUIDE Sept/Oct 2023 14

Yulia and Ilya raved about the cuisine.

Sealed with a kiss.

Sacred Ceremony

The couple opted for an intimate celebration of just-the-two-of them (their only guests were the on-site coordinators), but that doesn’t mean they avoided rituals. Their union was celebrated on the expansive lawn that fronts the property’s stately Pengiyasan Temple. Fun fact: Mandapa means “temple” in sanskrit, and this structure predates the resort. “The temple has been there for more than 100 years—three generations, can you imagine!” they gush. “The immaculate setup surrounding the temple provided a breathtaking backdrop, which made for truly exceptional video and photo opportunities.” They add their guests “graciously adorned themselves in traditional dress, which added an extra special touch to the celebration.”

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) COURTESY OF YULIA BOGOLEPOVA AND ILYA LOSHAK (3): MANDAPA, A RITZ-CARLTON RESERVE (2)

A Temple Lawn Reception set up at the resort.

In The Field

“One of the highlights of our trip was the VW tour we took through the picturesque Ubud countryside.” Hosted by the resort in their classic Volkswagen Type 181, the bespoke excursion tour winds through the spectacular landscape and A dreamy reception table. stops at some of Bali’s jewels depending on the guests’ interests. Among their stops, Yulia and Ilya enjoyed a water purification ritual at Tirta Empul (a Hindu temple with springs), a tour of the ancient and sprawling Gunung Kawi Temple, and a picnic overlooking the rice fields. “It was an absolutely stunning experience that we will never forget.” ➺

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“We highly recommend adding Mandapa, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve to your top 3 list of must-visit destinations. With its incredible location, stunning scenery, and luxurious amenities, it truly is an unforgettable experience.” Down by the river.

REAL DESTINATION WEDDING To the sweetness of life.

Inner Grace

Wellness and spiritual healing is a mainstay of Balinese culture. The on-site spa celebrates those traditions with inspired treatments that showcase local ingredients and the opportunity to meet with a Balinese healer. In addition to five ultra-luxe treatment rooms, the spa complex also houses a yoga pavilion, a meditation temple, a vitality pool, and more relaxation spaces.

The hotel entrance.

Yulia and Ilya chose an intimate celebration post-COVID.

Savor the Place

Local florals.

“The planning team was absolutely incredible and went above and beyond, treating our wedding as if it were their own. From the very beginning of our correspondence to the very end of our stay, we had unwavering support and guidance from every angle.”

The wedding planners helped with every detail.

legally wed

To get married in Indonesia, couples must wed in a religious ceremony. They each must be of the same religion and a member of the country’s six recognized faiths—Islam, Catholic, Protestant Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism and Confucianism. With the exception of Muslim marriages, civil registration is also required. In addition, all non-Indonesian citizens must complete a certificate of no impediment to marriage at the local embassy prior to arrival. It should be furnished along with a proof of age/passport, the fee of around $50 and, if applicable, a death certificate or divorce decree.

Monkey Business

Among the seemingly endless array of spiritual attractions in Ubud is the sprawling Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary. An expanse of just over 30 acres is home to more than 600 monkeys, 186 species of plants, and three stone-carved temples. The Hindu temples each feature a different homage. One is for Shiva, another is dedicated to purification, the third is sometimes used for ceremonial burials.

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PHOTOGRAPHY: PHOTOGRAPHY: COURTESY OF YULIA BOGOLEPOVA AND ILYA LOSHAK

As travelers, Yulia and Ilya pride themselves on immersing themselves in the offerings of their destination. Of course, that extends to the cuisine. They celebrated their ceremony with “a truly amazing menu from the fine dining restaurant, KUBU” at the hotel. Tables are cocooned in individual bamboo structures overlooking the Ayung River. Here, the ingredients are local and are presented in six- or eight-course tasting menus (a la carte options are available as well).

The magical Mandapa, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve.

Stately and sumptuous.

PHOTOGRAPHY: MANDAPA, A RITZ-CARLTON RESERVE

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OUR GLOBE DAZZLES AND DELIGHTS WITH SPECTACULAR natural occurrences and deeply local cultural experiences, and the ability to explore it all is the true siren call of travel. Staying at the exquisite Mandapa, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve in the heart of the misted jungle of Ubud, Bali is an elevated experience that encompasses the rich offerings of our world. And a visit to the pampering enclave of individual villas and luxurious suites is as spiritual an experience as the revered surroundings. Among the low-slung structures on the Ayung River is an unbeatable yoga pavilion, an intimate spa and a family-owned temple that predates the hotel. Programming here also reflects the traditions of the region, with wellness activities steeped in such customs as the Balinese lunar calendar, nature excursions and meals that celebrate the local bounty. Accommodations are an artful blend of traditional and ultra luxe with elevated finishes including private garden-edged outdoor spaces, oversized soaking tubs, and bespoke local art. Guests reposing in the villas also enjoy private pools and outdoor showers. In keeping with the impeccable Ritz-Carlton brand, VENUE AND CATERING: the service here is nothing short of otherworldly. All Mandapa, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve guests have private butlers and excursions are easily WEDDING DRESS: customizable (room rates start at $1,350 a night; Zuhair Murad ritzcarlton.com).  BRIDE’S RING: Michalis Diamond Jewellery in Cyprus A different perspective.

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YourDay YourWay GO BIG OR GO SMALL

Whether it’s just the two of you or everybody who follows you on Instagram, there’s a wedding venue at Hyatt Ziva Riviera Cancun that matches the size of your guest list. Choose from verdant gardens, glittering pools, spacious ballrooms or romantic beach nooks. For tiny weddings the over-the-water Gazebo is delightful; huge affairs can be accommodated in the immense Papaya Garden.

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How to personalize your destination wedding. by Becca Hensley

situated across the most perfect section of the Riviera Maya, the 438-suite, all-inclusive resort feels both large and intimate simultaneously, casual and elegant at once. With 10 restaurants, nine pools, a tranquil spa, an electrifying waterpark and countless activities and cultural opportunities Hyatt Ziva Riviera Cancun also has highly trained staff ready to help you customize the wedding of your dreams. Here, their expert tips for specializing your big day.

PLAY WITH COLOR

Choose any hue for a fun wedding themed activity. How about a chic “White Party” at the beach or pool. Remind all your guests to bring a white OOTD for the event—and ‘gram.

JAZZ UP THE CUISINE

Who says you have to serve an expected chicken dish? Hyatt Ziva Riviera Cancun boasts 17 distinctive restaurants and bars on site, bastions of gastronomic

diversity. Choose menus that span the globe from Asian, Mexican, Italian, French-inspired—even cozy comfort food.

PLAY WITH ENTERTAINMENT

Keep your guests happy with unexpected activities that make the wedding feel like a vacation for them. The resort can organize tequila tastings, wine and jazz parties, spa days, drone and firework shows, cooking classes, kids activities and so much more. ¢

PHOTOGRAPHY: HYATT ZIVA RIVIERA CANCUN

ou didn’t want ordinary, that’s why you chose to wed away from home in the sun-drenched, history-packed, endlessly romantic Caribbean Sea-hugging destination of Cancun, Mexico. Of all the options, the all-inclusive Hyatt Ziva Riviera Cancun, a resort that brims with a cornucopia of picture-perfect possibility is a perfect perch to host love birds sharing their story with guests or simply with each other. Elegantly

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The Best of Both

♥ PACK ONCE All the wedding planning and events before the ceremony have been exhausting. Now it’s your time, so indulge. At the Finest, you can choose between numerous wedding venues, including gazebos, terraces, the beach and a salon. Additionally, the resort offers complete wedding and honeymoon packages. What you don’t do during wedding week, you’ll do twice during your honeymoon.

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Check in once, celebrate twice when you stay at a single heavenly resort.

For example, in Punta Cana, the Dominican Republic’s most tantalizing bit of beach-land, the stellar brand offers two resorts, equally pampering, pretty and romance-perfect: adults-only Excellence Punta Cana and family-friendly Finest, Punta Cana, which also has an adults-only section. The all-inclusive retreats are so abundant with places to eat, things to do, activities to conquer, chairs to lounge on and people to meet, that one stay never quite satisfies the spirit. Read on to find out why we endorse the idea of hosting a wedding and honeymooning in the same hot spot.

♥ FIND YOUR FAVORITE RESTAURANT AND REPEAT THE FUN Ever noticed how you finally find the restaurant you like at a resort and then it’s time to go? Doing your wedding and your honeymoon at The Finest gives you plenty of time to try every eatery on property, a range that includes Italian, Mexican, steak and lobster, Japanese, Italian and more.

♥ SPEND MORE TIME HANGING OUT WITH LOVED ONES WHO TRAVELED TO SEE YOU WED No doubt, there’s a surreal feeling after any wedding where you feel like you didn’t get to talk to anyone you love. Holding both events in one place slows the pace and allows for more interaction and the chance to make even more memories together. ¢

PHOTOGRAPHY: EXCELLENCE PUNTA CANA

or brides and grooms in search of a stellar setting, a destination wedding at a picture postcard-perfect Caribbean resort is a daydream realized. With upscale amenities, gorgeous beaches and the best vantage points for viewing the sunset, such properties offer an easy segue to a spectacular honeymoon. The Excellence Collection of aptly named properties stands tall in its ability to transport guests to an otherworld of luxury, pampering and haven-like comfort in stunning tropical settings.

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A REMARKABLE WEDDING IN THE RIVIER A MAYA Experience the day that you both deserve in the All Inclusive adults only oasis of Excellence Riviera Cancun. Make your vows to each other amidst stunning ocean views, Mexican hacienda style, personalized service, and comprehensive wedding plans. Scan the QR code to learn more or contact: groups@theexcellencecollections.com

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SAINT LUCIA

Let Her Inspire You

h, the island of Saint Lucia, let her into your heart, and she will stay with you forever.

Exuding romance at every turn, Saint Lucia’s allure will simply sweep you off your feet with her boundless natural beauty, palmfringed beaches and abundant rainforests. It’s one of the most enchanting wedding and honeymoon destinations on earth. And from the moment you arrive, you’ll fall instantly in love. Her warmth and welcoming charm will captivate and embrace you. Breathtaking scenery and unique locations will open your eyes to a whole new world, and her seductive luxury and elegant resorts will soothe your soul. Because from the exhilarating views of the Pitons to the serenity of the hidden wonders of the rainforest, hers is a unique offering; one of mesmerizing grandeur and intimate moments. It’s this impeccable balance that makes Saint Lucia the perfect place to start the adventure of a lifetime. Perhaps that’s why it’s been voted the world’s leading honeymoon destination of 2021. Here, every day is a celebration of life and love. And she can’t wait to help you celebrate yours.

Let her inspire a day like no other—get started at stlucia.org.

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sapphire sea tickles the white powder beach. Ocean breezes welcome you to the gracious suites. A tropical moon hovers over the oceanfront restaurant. When it comes to out of the

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BAY GARDENS RESORTS Set the Scene and Say I Do

reaming of a private beach ceremony, a beautiful garden gathering, or an intimate affair in an island setting? Planning your destination wedding in Saint Lucia should be anything but stressful! Let your journey begin at Bay Gardens Resorts with a carefree, customizable wedding package. Say ‘YES’ to new beginnings with your Bay Gardens Wedding experience and toast to everlasting memories! Book your wedding now through July 2024 and receive a FREE couples massage and FREE Candlelit Dinner for two.

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The Pierside Santa Monica

Welcoming in Santa Monica.

Sneak a peek at one of the hottest new hotels where romantic amenities are always on offer.

CHANCES ARE WHEN YOU HEAR “CHIC CALIFORNIA COOL,” YOU THINK Santa Monica, the city that’s tucked between the Pacific coast and Los Angeles. Here, Hollywood stars, surfers, sun followers and those just looking for a swell time stroll along the famous boardwalk, pier and golden sands. Art galleries, an aquarium, Muscle Beach (an outdoor gym that Check in and hang out. debuted in the 1930s) and an antique carousel are among the sites that draw visitors to the famous shoreline. And for decades there have been a handful of haute hotels welcoming guests to experi• UNIVERSAL STUDIOS HOLLYWOOD ence it all. A hip offering that’s emblazoned The theme park has the movie-magic mix of thrill rides—roller coasters, 3D experiences with a custom mural by Shepard Fairy just and Harry Potter adventures—and backlot joined the club to offer all the access and tours of some of your favorite TV shows. cool amenities for today’s travelers. • THE ORIGINAL FARMERS MARKET Located steps from the Pier, the 132First launched in 1934, the sprawling outdoor room Pierside Hotel faces the ocean space is lined with food stalls, eateries and, yes, fruit and vegetable stands. Don’t be and houses a full-service surf and activity surprised to cross paths with a star or two The fun pool area. center called The Board House, where in “just like us” mode – enjoying some gear including, you guessed it, surf boards, excellent food and company. beach umbrellas and bikes to cycle down the • LACMA Who says there aren’t cultural attractions in LA? The largest boardwalk are included in the room rate. There’s museum in the western United States also a shimmering pool, an eatery The Surfing famously houses pieces by Frida Kahlo, Fox, with its seafood-forward menu, and a lightGoya, Rembrandt and Jeff Koons. filled lobby space that invites lounging. Guests at the dog-friendly retreat are treated to sumptuous The Surfing Fox. accommodations, many of which boast their The custom own balconies (room rates start at $375 a night; outdoor artwork. thepiersidehotel.com). —Jenna Mahoney 28 HONEYMOON GUIDE Sept/Oct 2023

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