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Joseph B. Norris, MD

Kristen Walsh, PA-C

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David Fox, PA-C

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Hello Friends and Neighbors,

Wonderful things are happening in August, starting with it’s the last month of Summer and I am very thankful about that. There is something about Southern heat that you cannot experience anywhere else. Born and raised in the South, I have earned my sweat badge of courage-proof that I can endure mercury levels like no other. And I can do it gracefully as I remind our northern brethren, Southern women don’t sweat, we 'glisten.' Therefore, hang in there everyone, the heat wave is almost over.

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This month’s feature story is about the Newcomers Club, a wonderful group that introduces any newcomer to our surrounding area by immersing them in the history of the Cape Fear region, along with delightful trips and events that will confirm your choice of living in Brunswick Forest

A special welcome to our newest Expert Contributor, Blue Wave Dentistry, located in The Villages here in BF. Dr’s Biggerstaff, Gould, and Vurnakes, along with their wonderful staff are a full-service dental practice that provide the most advanced technology to help you keep that beautiful smile. If you are looking for a local dentist, look no further.

Doreen Sargente, our content coordinator and BF resident, has really outdone herself by delivering excellent articles that emphasize life here in Brunswick Forest. We are fortunate to have incredible residents who have not only lived amazing and interesting lives, but who continue to live life to the fullest and make a difference in their community by giving back their time and talents. Please reach out to Doreen if you have an idea for a story, an event or just to say thank you for making Brunswick Forest Living a cherished publication and the most read magazine by our residents.

Take care and I’ll see you in the neighborhood.

Ciao!

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Hope you’re all enjoying the summer sun (or at least the air conditioning)! I wanted to share a funny story from my younger days and some exciting news about our community.

When I was a kid, I was always in school plays. I usually snagged the lead role, which was great—until high school. That's when I auditioned for the senior play and had to audition with singing 'Man of La Mancha.' Everything was going fine until I had to hit that high note. Let’s just say, I sounded more like a cat on a hot tin roof (see what I did there?) than a knight in shining armor. My friends still get a good laugh out of that one, and I definitely learned that maybe singing wasn’t my forte. Fast forward to now, and I’m super excited about our new local community theater, which you can read about in this issue. It’s awesome to see a place where everyone can share their talents and enjoy some great performances. I can't wait to support them and maybe even get involved—don’t worry, I’ll leave the singing to the pros this time!

This month I handed the writing reigns to Lisa Sandhaus, who has done a great job giving us the deets on the Newcomers Club and all it has to offer. They’ve got all sorts of activities and events to help you get to know our town and meet some friendly faces. Whether you’re into social gatherings, outdoor fun, or just making new friends, the Newcomers Club has you covered. And speaking of social gatherings, check out what The Lakes has been up to in this issue, and while you're at it, let us know if your community would like to be featured. We would love to hear from you!

Enjoy the rest of your summer, and remember, stay safe, stay healthy, and stay grateful!

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FROM LEFT MATA BURKE, COURTNEY BENNETT, TUCKER SANDLIN AT TEEN SCENE FUNDRAISER 2004

CREATING THE FUTURE GENERATION OF WRITERS

BY EMMY RUSS

The art of writing is essential to society. Written works of all forms- articles, prose, plays, novels, essays, etc.- have had profound impacts on humanity for centuries. The writings of Ancient Greek philosophers like Plato and Socrates have helped shape modern-day governments. Many people look to religious texts, such as “The Bible,” for guidance. Novels of all genres tell stories that teach valuable lessons; poems express emotion through rhythm and rhyme; plays provide messaging through their characters; and news articles keep the public informed by relaying the information that journalists work to find. It is clear to see that writing is essential.

This fact is not lost on Mr. Gerald Decker. Decker is the president and founder of Teen Scene Inc., a nonprofit organization that includes the newspapers Cape Fear Voices, a newspaper in which adults in the Cape Fear area can publish their writing, and The Teen Scene, which is a newspaper that is made by the youth. Decker started The Teen Scene in 2004 while teaching high school and college political science in Alabama. The program aims to help the younger generation develop useful writing and business skills by giving them a way to create and publish a monthly newspaper.

Shortly after its creation, The Teen Scene paper was nominated “Small Business of the Year” by the local Chamber of Commerce in Anniston, Alabama. Unfortunately, the

program’s stellar beginning was cut short. Facing a battle with cancer, Decker had to put The Teen Scene on hold. Over a decade later, after having beat cancer and moved to the Leland area, Decker felt that it was the right time to revive the program. Amid the craziness that was 2020, Decker and his business partner began the Cape Fear Voices newspaper and sent out a call for the youth to publish works in The Teen Scene.

Since then, The Teen Scene has amassed over 180 registered students who have helped with the production of papers and has worked with eleven schools in three counties and one school in Sydney, Australia. It was once again nominated “Small Business of the Year,” in 2022, and then named “Nonprofit of the Year” in 2023 by the North Brunswick Chamber of Commerce.

Students gain more than just journalistic skills from The Teen Scene. Mary Said, a junior from the Brunswick County Early College High School, said that she enjoys expressing her opinions in writing, but values The Teen Scene because “The writing is published, and it helps me reach a broader audience so that I have the opportunity to make a difference.”

I have been a writer and editor for The Teen Scene for over a year, and it has been a phenomenal experience. I have gained feedback from others about my writing, and it has helped me grow my skills and my confidence. I have had the privilege of having many new experiences, such as interviewing a National Geographic

Explorer, learning about graphic design and editing, and collaborating with members of my community that I wouldn’t have met without this program. However, the best part has been the opportunity to impact others through my writing. I recently had a classmate contact me to tell me that she had read one of my stories, and then immediately sought out the rest because she loved my writing and that it positively impacted her. That will always be one of my proudest moments.

The Teen Scene is currently in print every other month and is published online monthly. The public is more than welcome to go online and browse the articles on the Cape Fear Voices website, cfvts.org. Knowing that people are reading their work motivates teens to write more! The Teen Scene is grateful for any contributions from the public. They are a 510 (c) (3) organization, meaning that their only source of revenue is donations and grants. Donations are tax deductible to the maximum extent of the law.

If any youth are interested in having their work published, The Teen Scene is always looking for new writers. Simply contact Editorteenscene@gmail.com. Teens from all around are encouraged to submit their work so that they have the opportunity to be published and join the growing list of young authors who want to make their voices heard! As author Charles De Lint said, “No one else sees the world as you do, so no one else can tell the stories you have to tell.”

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COVER PHOTO Back Row from Left, Jim Stevens (outgoing president), J.J. Kaiser (IT Director), Lisa Sandhaus (outgoing Hospitality/incoming Secretary). Alan Krieger (Finance Director); Front Row from Left, Joan Phillips (Activities Director), Deb Mansir (Outgoing Membership/Incoming President), Marla Montemarano (Publicity), Ron Rothberg (Vice President).

WELCOMING NEW FACES: The Newcomers Club Experience

On the second Friday of each month, September through May, a group of people gather at the Leland Cultural Arts Center. They have a chat with friends, grab a snack, then take their seats as the meeting begins. My husband Marc and I were in an apartment in Spring of 2022, waiting for our house to be built in Brunswick Forest, when we learned about this group. We felt it would be beneficial and began attending meetings. The members are not airing grievances or working through a multi-step program, although it could be considered therapeutic by some. No, they are learning about Leland and the surrounding area, and engaging in fun and interesting activities, all thanks to the North Brunswick Newcomers Club (NBNC).

The NBNC is a non-profit social organization for adults. Incorporated as a 501C7 in 2007, its purpose is to introduce residents to the numerous cultural,

recreational and historic opportunities open to them in our area. Although its name suggests you must be new to the area to join, that is not the case. Any adult resident of Brunswick County may join the club, no matter how long you have lived here. The only limitation is you may only be a member for four years. The club is 100% run by volunteers. Even the Board of Directors are club members. This means the members choose the speakers and activities they feel will be of value to the group.

Helen and Rick Goldenberg heard about the NBNC shortly after moving into Waterford. They have participated in many activities, from walking tours to trivia night, and have enjoyed the information presented at meetings. “We were surprised by the speakers,” Helen says. “We learned so much.” She was inspired to volunteer with Lower Cape Fear Life Care and Cameron Art Museum after hearing speakers from

each organization at club meetings. Other speakers inspired the couple to visit local sites such as Brunswick Town, Moore’s Creek and Latimer House, on their own.

Meetings always begin with social time including coffee & tea provided by the club, and snacks donated by members, as well as the chance to enter into a prize raffle. There are typically two speakers at each meeting, with an eye toward representing a wide variety of organizations. Recent speakers have included representatives from H2GO, Samara’s Village and Heritage Fresh Market. Similarly, monthly activities are chosen to provide something of interest to everyone. There have been walking and historic tours, hikes and kayak trips, dinners, lunches and much more. All of it organized by the North Brunswick Newcomers Club.

While the Goldenbergs went out and discovered new places on their own, Marc and I preferred visiting these places as

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organized tours through the club. Some favorites were touring the local television stations, and the Port of Wilmington Tour. The Port Tour is probably the most popular activity Newcomers offers “It’s worth joining just for this tour,” Lisa says, “but there is so much more. We have learned about things we might not have discovered otherwise.”

I volunteered to take over the position as Hospitality Director for the start of the 2022/23 season and will transition into the role of Secretary for the coming year. There are always opportunities to volunteer with the club. Several people are needed at meetings, whether to greet new members, assist with raffles, or help out with coffee/snacks. Other opportunities could include assisting the Activities Director or leading an activity. Of course, the ultimate volunteer positions are those of Board Members.

Ann and Jim Steven moved into Compass Point during COVID. They joined the club, but at the time, no activities were being offered and meetings were held remotely. While these were missing social interaction, Jim says the speakers provided such wonderful information he and Ann were eager to continue with the club. In the fall of 2020 Jim took on the role of club Vice President, and followed that with two years as President.

During that time, the Board has worked to rebuild its membership. Prior to COVID, membership hovered around 500. During the pandemic the number dropped to 114, says Deb Mansir, outgoing Membership Director/Incoming President. Since then, the Board has made a concerted effort to remind former members they are still here. At the same time, they have reached ou to the greater Leland community. At the end of the 2023/24 season, membership was over 600.

Joan and Ray Phillips learned about Newcomers from a Waterford neighbor soon after moving in. They attended their first meeting as guests in the Fall of 2023, and joined right away. They were eager to learn about the area, try out activities and meet new people. Not long after they joined, Susan Meek, the Activities Director, announced she would have to step down from her position and the club needed someone else to take her place. “I knew, at least for us, that the activities were one of the main reasons that we joined the Newcomers,” Joan says. Joan spoke with Susan about the responsibilities of the Activities Director and decided to take over the position. She looks forward to finding some new activities to add to the list next year, and hopes to include more outdoor activities.

In March, Joan and Jay were on a walking tour of Southport with Alan Krieger, the NBNC Financial Director, and his wife Jill, from

Brunswick Forest. They learned they are all big UCONN fans. Alan invited them to join their group of other UCONN fans to watch the basketball games. Alan’s friends Ron and Eileen Rothberg, also members of NBNC, were part of that group. As the Newcomers’ year was closing out, and some Board members had reached the end of their term, Ron made the decision to step into the Vice President position. It may sound like everyone who joins NBNC sits on the board. Of course this is not the case, but as members realize the value they get out of membership, there are many who want to help it succeed for others.

Janine and Mark Crawford have lived in Adair Park, a small neighborhood behind Aldi Market, for four years. They first learned of Newcomers this past February, from a friend in their pickleball group who lives in Compass Pointe. The Economic & Community Development Director for Town of Leland was speaking at the meeting, and the Crawfords were interested to hear what he had to say. They have attended multiple activities, including a 3- night trip to Savannah with other club members (a collaboration of NBNC and Trips by Patty). “It was a great trip. Very well organized,” Mark says. They look forward to what’s to come, and like others members, they appreciate the philanthropic goals of the club.

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other members at the annual Spring Fling Luncheon. The luncheon is a year-end tradition held at Shell Island Resort in Wrightsville Beach. It is also the club’s major fundraiser, with basket raffles and silent auction. Besides their commitment to educate members about the community, the North Brunswick Newcomers Club is dedicated to supporting worthy local charities. This year the club donated a record $8,000 to local charitable organizations, thanks to the generosity of our members and local businesses. And Janine was delighted to go home as a winner at the basket raffle!

The North Brunswick Newcomers Club meets the second Tuesday of each month at the Leland Cultural Arts Center, 1212 Magnolia Village Way in Leland. The next meeting will be held on Friday, September 13. Social time starts at 9:15, and the meeting begins at 10:00. The speakers will be the Director of the Brunswick County Board of Elections and the Fire Chief from Leland Fire and Rescue. Members will always find coffee/tea and snacks. Anyone is invited to visit a meeting with no obligation, so feel free to come check it out. If your neighbors or community would like to know more about the NBNC, you may consider hosting a get together where a representative will attend to share information and answer questions. Membership for the year opens August 1 via the club web site. For questions or more information, check out the web site https://www.nbnewcomers.org.

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MARIE ELIZABETH LANGWORTHY Fierce, Funny, and Forever Unforgettable

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

I first met Marie at a Together Women Rise meeting a couple of years ago. From the moment we met, I knew she was someone special. There was an unmistakable twinkle in her eye, and despite her advanced age, her energy levels were higher than a toddler after a sugar rush. But the most striking thing about Marie, and the reason everyone adored her, was her genuine curiosity about others. When you spoke with her, it was all about you, never about her. And trust me, it wasn't that fake, nodding-along-whiledaydreaming-about-lunch kind of interest. It was real, and that's a rarity. There's definitely a lesson to be learned here: be more like Marie.

Recently, her friends gathered to honor her memory and share stories about this fun-loving woman. One tale involved a friend accidentally turning on Marie's oven, completely unaware that Marie stored shoes in there. I mean, who doesn’t use their oven as a shoe rack, right? And let's not even get started on her driving skills, which were legendary for all the wrong reasons. The room was filled with laughter, and it was clear that's

exactly how Marie would have wanted it.

I’m absolutely thrilled and honored to share her obituary with you all today. Just like Marie, it's witty, charming, and unapologetically unique. Here's to celebrating a life well-lived and a spirit that will continue to inspire us all.

“Marie Elizabeth Langworthy (aka "Aunt Betty", aka "Mommy Dearest"), 85, of Leland North Carolina, passed away on February 7th after a brief illness.

Marie was born on May 24th, 1938 to George & Mahar Joseph of Fall River, Massachusetts. After Marie graduated from Holy Name High School in 1956, she joined the convent becoming Sister Francis La Salles in 1962. Marie spent 16 years as a nun during which time she earned both her undergraduate & graduate degrees in English from Salve Regina University.

Upon leaving the convent in 1972, Marie had a career in public education working as a teacher and administrator in public school systems in Massachusetts, New Hampshire, and Connecticut.

Before retiring from the Groton Public School System where she led Technology & Media Services, Marie earned her Doctor of Education from Nova Southeastern University.

In the early 1980s, Marie met John Crompton while attending night classes at community college. Marie was amazed by John's ability to release snacks stuck in the vending machine. John's superpower led to Marie's first marriage lasting until John passed away in 1995. Together they traveled extensively to Europe and Asia. Marie met her second husband,

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Robert Langworthy on April 1st, 2008 (Anyone else see the irony here?). They were married January 19th, 2013 and she became the great love of his life right after boating and fishing. They bought a home together in Columbia, Connecticut in January of 2009 and Marie retired from the Groton Public School System later that year. Bob introduced her to his joy of gardening, and the many benefits of traveling with a disabled veteran. Marie returned the favor as only she would, by running over his foot with her beloved Nissan 370Z convertible and terrifying him with her driving. They enjoyed traveling to Hawaii, Alaska, Belize, and Costa Rica, among many other destinations, until Bob passed away in May of 2021.

To avoid further scandal, Marie absconded to Leland, North Carolina on September 23rd of 2021 where she went on to coauthor three books: Shifting Gears To Your Life & Work, Shifting Gears To Your Career, and QuickSwitch To Working Online. She loved riding her tricycle around her neighborhood, working out, and continuing to take classes.

Accompanied by her family & many close friends, Marie loved travel, reading, attending theater, movies, dining out (aka

not cooking!) and not having children, at least none that she was willing to admit to. Despite her complete lack of maternal instincts, she reveled in the company of both of her husbands' children and grandchildren.

Marie was predeceased by younger sister, Georgia Stark and nephew Shaune Stark. She is survived by her brother-in-law Charles Stark, her niece Erin Stark, her nephew (and reputed illegitimate child) Timothy Stark, and a traumatized air-fryer. While no DNA tests have proved conclusive, those of us who were blessed to have Marie in our lives know that, given the right circumstances, she could be a ‘real mother' when she wanted to!

Marie will be remembered for her irrepressible sense of humor, fierce independence, infectious curiosity, and her infamous ‘Four S's' (Smart, Strong, Stupid & Stubborn). Her final hours were filled with lively conversation, laughter, and a large frozen mocha shake with extra chocolate & caramel drizzle which she described as "better than..." I'll let you fill in the blanks ;)

(Those of us who know her best, know that this is the obituary she would have wanted!)”

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MARIE'S FRIENDS AND EVENT ORGANIZERS FROM LEFT, MARY KAY OTTING, MAUREEN TOOHER, BRIDGET MASTURZO AND AUDREY STUCKO.

CITIZENS LAW ENFORCEMENT ACADEMY

BY MARIANN KAYSER

2024 brought new opportunities and learning experiences for me. One of them I’m excited to share is that I had the privilege of being accepted into the 35th Class of the Brunswick County Sheriff’s Office Citizen Law Enforcement Academy.

Several people have asked me about the Academy, so I thought I would give an overview of what it entails and what it was like. The BCSO holds two academy classes a year: one in February and another in August. After filling out the online application, if you are accepted, you attend Tuesday afternoon classes for 13 weeks. Class size is limited to 25 people and there is a long list of 100+ people waiting to be accepted. While you are allowed to miss one or two classes, it would be remiss of me not to state the obvious that if you can’t commit to attending all the classes what’s the point of taking a coveted

spot. Each week you learn a different area of law enforcement and the presenters are full-time employees of the BCSO, either working in that field of expertise or they are the supervisor of that department. We participated in numerous “mock” situational experiences and there were field trips to the Brunswick County Court House, the 911 Call Center, the Detention Center, the Firing Range, the K9 Training Facility, and the Marine Patrol location.

Each week we met at the BCSO in Bolivia and the average class lasted 3 hours (1pm4pm); occasionally some were longer. After every class there was always an extensive question and answer session and let me tell you, they answered everything. No question was off limits. It was a unique feeling like you were getting “inside information” of something you’ve never been exposed to before. And the law enforcement staff trainers were professionals in their field.

We were curious, they filled in the gaps and gave us the big picture. We got to understand them more as neighbors and friends and not just those who serve us. My attitude and respect changed dramatically by being a part of the Academy. Now, having said that, I know some of you are thinking that we got some benefits from graduating from the Citizens Academy. Nope, nada! If I get pulled over for speeding tomorrow by the BCSO, it doesn’t mean anything that I was part of the Citizens Academy. There are no benefits, no perks, no rewards. So why participate? Well, sometimes people are curious what it’s like to be in someone else’s shoes. What is their day like? What is their job really like? That’s what the Citizens Academy gives you. A better understanding of your local law enforcement agency. How it functions, how it’s structured, how it affects the lives of those who protect and serve us.

Local Talent Takes Center Stage: WELCOME

"Over the River Theatre Company"

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

Recently, I had the pleasure of meeting Michael and Diana Schottle, the visionary founders behind the newly launched Over the River Theatre Company. Their inaugural performance unfolded at Leland’s Cultural Arts Center, captivating an audience of over 150 community members.

Michael, the mastermind orchestrating behind the scenes, originally cultivated his passion for theatre in Milwaukee, where he immersed himself in various acting roles with various theatre companies. However, he soon found conventional productions uninspiring. Driven by a desire to showcase lesser-known gems from celebrated playwrights, he embarked on founding a theatre company dedicated to staging these overlooked treasures. Recognizing Leland’s interest in theatre, Michael’s artistic sensibilities led him to believe that such a venture would be warmly embraced by the community, and I have a feeling he was correct.

Meanwhile, Diana, the face of the company, effortlessly excels at rallying volunteers, welcoming audiences with grace, and running the house. Jen Ingulli, another core member of their team, expertly navigates the realms of marketing and publicity.

“Thanks to Diana's successful volunteer outreach and the large audiences at our inaugural performances, the community response has been overwhelmingly positive, " says Michael. "We've received enthusiastic follow-up from audience members eager for our next production. Additionally, the venues where we performed, both in Leland and Southport, are interested in hosting more of our shows.”

Michael and Diana are always interested in hearing from people willing to help as ushers and other front of house help, as well as people interested in getting involved in any other aspect of theatre, including acting, directing, stage management, sound, and light technician, etc. Interested? Then head on over to their website at www.overtherivertheatrecompany.org/get-involved.

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Meet Josie & Lexie.

We've had German Shepherds for over 25 years. Josie and Lexie are descendants of the same bloodline. Josie is nine yrs old this month, and Lexie is just 6 months old, Lexie is in training so if you see us walking, stop and say hello!

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“We started our house search in 2021 with the intention of moving from New Jersey to the area in a few years. Fast forward to 2024 and we are finally building our dream home in Brunswick Forest. Lisa Burton, ReMax Essential, has been with us every step of the way… a very long way. We aren’t sure if any other realtor would have persevered for three years! From the beginning, she kept us informed of new listings, pros and cons of different areas, and spent countless hours with us. She answers every call, email or text and is always available to meet or be on a conference call, including with multiple builders during our decision making process. And now that we are in the building process, she still has offered her assistance at design meetings and makes time to meet with us whenever we are in Leland. We have no doubt she will continue to be our best advocate until we finally close on our house this summer. HER PROFESSIONALISM, KNOWLEDGE, HONESTY, AND HARD WORK ETHIC ARE RESPECTED AND APPRECIATED. WE NEVER FELT THAT SHE WAS JUST TRYING TO SELL US A HOUSE, BUT THAT SHE WAS A MENTOR TO ANSWER OUR QUESTIONS AND HELP US TO MAKE THE BEST DECISION FOR US. WE CONSIDER LISA A FRIEND AND WOULD HIGHLY RECOMMEND HER TO ANYONE THAT IS SEARCHING FOR A NEW HOME.YOU WILL NEVER FEEL PRESSURED, ONLY TAKEN CARE OF BY ONE OF THE BEST!” ~ PAUL & LINDA MAHONEY

Meet Elvis and Yuki.

Elvis is a 2-year-old Burmese, he is very outgoing, eager to play, can be very vocal, and loves attention. Elvis belongs to my daughter Izzi, who is on vacation for two weeks, so I am kitty-sitting. Yuki, (my cat, hiding behind a computer monitor) is not happy to have a guest in her home and has been staying out of site, refuses to play or engage with poor Elvis.

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FROM NEIGHBORS TO FRIENDS:

The Lakes' 'Cocktails on the Cove' Tradition"

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

In the heart of our community lies The Lakes, a neighborhood known for its tight-knit, friendly vibe. For the past four years, residents have gathered for 'Cocktails on the Cove,' a cherished monthly event held ten months out of the year, excluding July and August to beat the heat. On Saturday, June 29, I had the distinct pleasure of joining this wonderful, vibrant community at their monthly gathering. With great music courtesy of John Toppings, I experienced first-hand the warmth and hospitality that comes naturally to this community, especially from its founders, Sandy Nielson and Noreen Dalton.

Initially conceived as a casual social gathering to help neighbors get to know one another, the event has blossomed into a cornerstone of community life. During warmer weather, tents are constructed for much needed shade, and during cooler winter months, portable fire pits are brought in to stay cozy and warm.

In addition to their monthly gatherings, the community also gets

involved in some fun and impactful fundraising during the Super Bowl with a 50/50 raffle. Their efforts have made a real difference, raising impressive amounts for local charities: $420 for Mother Hubbard’s in their first year, $500 for Monty’s Home in their second, and another $500 for First Fruit Ministries in their third.

Through 'Cocktails on the Cove,' neighbors have fostered lasting bonds, transforming from mere acquaintances into true friends. The gatherings are filled with laughter, conversation, and a genuine sense of camaraderie, reflecting the spirit of togetherness that defines The Lakes. Whether celebrating milestones, offering support during challenging times, or simply enjoying each other's company, the residents of The Lakes sets the standard of the essence of a vibrant and supportive community.

Thanks to the vision of Sandy and Noreen, The Lakes has grown into a community where everyone feels right at home. Here's to many more years of good times and great neighbors!

SANDY NIELSON, DON MOORE, NOREEN AND BILL DALTON

Shoulder Replacement

Sports Related Injuries

Dislocations, Ligament + Tendon Tears

Sprains, Strains + Fractures

Services and Treatments

Meniscus Damage

Tendinitis + Bursitis

• Robotically-Assisted Total Knee Replacement

Arthritis + Joint Pain APPOINTMENTS

• Hip Replacement

• Shoulder Replacement

• Sports Related Injuries

• Dislocations, Ligament + Tendon Tears

• Sprains, Strains + Fractures

• Meniscus Damage

• Tendinitis + Bursitis

• Arthritis + Joint Pain

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

TUESDAY, AUGUST 6

August

Family Beach Fishing

Bald Head Island

Head to the beach and prepare to get your hands dirty catching fish! Family Beach Fishing provides families with a hands-on fishing experience using modern and traditional fishing techniques such as rod & reel and seine nets. No experience necessary. This program is recommended for children 10 and up. If your child is younger please reach out with any questions. Children must be accompanied by a parent/guardian.

Anyone over the age of 16 who wishes to participate in program-related fishing activities must possess and have on hand an NC Fishing License.

Meet at Beach Access 5. All equipment and bait are provided. Registration ends 60 minutes prior to program start time.

Time: 9:30 am - 11:00 am

Cost: Tickets start at $42.75 Visit: www.bhic.org

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 7

Straight No Chaser

Wilson Center

Time: 7:30 pm

Visit: www.wilsoncentertickets.com

FRIDAY, AUGUST 9

Motel Soap

Airlie Gardens

Motel Soap performs primarily 70's and 80's pop and rock from bands such as Chicago, Toto, Journey, Steely Dan, U2, the Beatles and more!

Tickets go on sale Monday, August 5. Visit: www.airliegardens.org

SUNDAY, AUGUST 11

Train

Live Oak Bank Pavilion

Visit: www.allevents.in for details and tickets

THURSDAY, AUGUST 15

An Evening w/John Cruz Trio Bourgie Nights

127 Princess Street

Time: 8:00 pm Cost: $20 Early Bird tics Visit: www.tickettailor.com

THURSDAY, AUGUST 15

9-5 Club Dinner

Women in BF who still work and would like to engage and network with other BF working women.

Reach out to Jayne Kaiser for more information.

Time: 6pm-8pm

Cost: $30

SATURDAY, AUGUST 17

Wilmington Indoor Night Market

Coca Cola Bottleworks Building 921 Princess Street

Discover your next great find at the restored Coca Cola Bottleworks Building in the creative Soda Pop District, a short walk from historic downtown. There is always something different and unique during this climate-controlled market held in the expansive communal area filled with eclectic vendors, rotating food trucks, mocktails or zero proof cocktails, music and more. Time: 4:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Cost: FREE

FRIDAY, AUGUST 16

Behind-the-Scenes Tour of the Burgwin-Wright House

224 Market St.

Join the Burgwin-Wright House for a special behind-the-scenes tour that peels back the curtain on Wilmington's oldest and largest historic site. Only on this tour through the property will you get to step into unseen rooms and hear untold stories about the Colonial home and the people who have called it home. Time: 9:00 am

Cost: $20

Call: 910-762-0570 to reserve your spot

FRIDAY, AUGUST 23

Greggie And The Jets-Elton John Tribute Port City Marina

Time: 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

SATURDAY, AUGUST 24

Contra Dance

Leland Cultural Arts Center

Join Cape Fear Contra Dance for a night of live music and fun! Contra is a communal-style folk dance that is easy and fun to learn. No partner or experience is necessary, but show up right at 7 PM for a quick beginners lesson! Throughout the night, a caller leads the dancers through a series of moves and the sequence repeats itself.

Time: 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Cost: $15.00

SATURDAY, AUGUST 31

Oak Island Art Guild Arts & Craft Festival

An annual tradition for more than 25 years, the Oak Island Art Guild Arts & Craft Festival is a fantastic way for visitors to discover all the talented artists and craftsmen who call this coastal corner of North Carolina home. Held in the heart of town, the festival attracts more than 100 artists and vendors who bring along distinctive wares that are both eye catching and truly one-of-a-kind.

Time: 9:00 am - 4:00 pm

Cost: FREE

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 6 - SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 7

Carolina Beach Inshore Challenge

Anglers can explore the exceptional fishing of the Carolina Beach inshore waters while hopefully cashing in on some attractive prizes at this annual tournament that reels in local and visiting anglers alike. The Carolina Beach Inshore Challenge is a fun and full-day fishing tournament that targets the waters of Carolina Beach Inlet and beyond to reel in some big rewards.

Visit: www.fishermanspost.com for details

SLOPPY JOE'S & COLE SLAW

Originally from Reading, PA., my love of cooking and baking comes from my mother. She had German heritage and my dad's parents came from Sicily. Reading had a sandwich shop, bakery or bar on every other corner, and the food was amazing. After college I married the man of my dreams and we embarked on a journey that took us to South Carolina, Western PA, Illinois, Wisconsin, back to Central PA, and then to Western and Eastern North Carolina. Fourteen moves in all with lots of friendships and job changes. In each location I collected recipes from friends and co-workers, and of course, mom. I hope you enjoy what I have to share and if you have questions, or have suggestions on a specific recipe you are interested in, just contact me at bbaer8183@gmail.com. I'd love to hear from you!

Try this Sloppy Joe recipe and a side of Cole Slaw for a quick and easy meal. It makes plenty for a potluck. You can also freeze the Sloppy Joes for future meals.

Sloppy Joe Cole Slaw Recipes

2 LB ground hamburger (80/20)

3/4 Cup diced sweet onion1 Cup Diced celery

1-1/2 Cup catsup

2 TBSP light brown sugar

2 TBSP lemon juice

2 TBSP white vinegar

1 TBSP Worcestershire Sauce TBSP yellow mustard

Cook celery and onion in water until soft and translucent. Drain. Fry hamburger in a 4 quart pot (that has a lid) and drain fat. Return the meat to the pot and add the drained celery and onion. Mix the wet ingredients and pour over the meat mixture. Heat on Medium/Low heat for 20 minutes with the lid on. Serve on your favorite bun or slider roll.

1 bag Fresh Express Tri Color Deli Cole Slaw

1/2 Cup Duke's Mayonnaise

2 TBSP Apple Cider Vinegar

1 TBSP white granulated sugar

2 TBSP whole milk

1/2 tsp celery seed

Put cole slaw in a large bowl and chop into fine pieces (I use a Pampered Chef scissor chopper). Whisk other ingredients and pour over slaw. Chill for 1 hour before serving.

PHOTO & RECIPE SUBMITTED BY BONNIE BAER