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LES HILL, a master stylist and colorist is a leader in the industry with 35+ years of experience working with hair. Les has an uncanny ability to assess a client and determine the most flattering cut and style for both their features and personality. Les is constantly upgrading his repertoire by continuing education with global masters. CHARLOTTE MCGRAW Charlotte began her career at Shelton’s Salon and Spa in Bedford, Texas. After 16 years of working and training with top designers from around the world, she moved to Waxahachie. She began working with Les in 2010 and continues to use her artistic ability and passion to create a look designed for each individual. BEVERLY FRANKLIN With 32 years of experience working with hair, Beverly has been Aveda-trained for six years. She is constantly inspired by her continuing education. Beverly has a passion for creativity in color and hair design. She enjoys giving 100% to each client and possesses a true love for the industry. STEPHANIE JONES Stephanie is a haircut specialist with more than 10 years of experience. She was trained by and worked with Aveda for seven years. Her passion is creating haircuts customized to reflect your individual style. DESI MUÑOZ Trained by Aveda, Desi has created looks for individuals for more than 10 years. Highly educated in the art of color application and cutting hair, she excels at achieving a completed look of beauty by design. Desi has worked with Les off and on over the years and joined him most recently in 2010.

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MICHAEL GREEN Michael is a strong colorist and stylist and has joined our team after relocating from Houston. He has been in the industry for 24 years and trained under Salon Friends’ own Les Hill when he graduated from cosmetology school. We’re excited for him to be a part of our team! JACLYN NESS Jaclyn completed the requirements for a cosmetology license in 2004. For the next few years, she continued her education and honed her skills at Worx, an Aveda Salon in Cedar Hill, where she first met and worked with Les. Since then, Jaclyn has worked locally, pursuing her passion of creating great looks through her haircutting skills. MELISA SALAZAR Melisa has a passion for hair that began in her childhood. She followed her dreams and eventually graduated from the Aveda Institute of Dallas. She now calls Salon Friends her home. Melisa uses her skills as a cosmetologist, along with client input, to realize her vision for your perfect look. SHARON LEACH Sharon has been practicing massage therapy in Ellis County since 2005. Professionally trained, Sharon takes a holistic approach in her treatments. She specializes in, but is not limited to, Swedish massage, aromatherapy, myofascia release and pre-natal massage. Her healing touch speaks for itself.

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DELILAH TERRY Delilah is a certified nail technician with 20+ years of experience. Her passion is healthy nail care, and she has continued her education and focus to hone her craft. Delilah is continually educating herself on fresh new trends and application of products from global industries. Her attention to detail, coupled with her dedication to customer service and professionalism has rewarded her with a faithful and loyal clientele. PAULA WEATHERLY Paula brings nearly 10 years of experience to her esthetician services, and she is constantly looking to improve the client experience. She offers eyelash extensions, full body waxing, skin care, microdermabrasion, brow and lash tinting, lash perms and facials. She believes facials are the healing of the skin inside and out. MEL RUIZ Mel is a hair stylist and barber. She graduated from Aveda Institute of Dallas and Dallas Blends Barber College. She specializes in color and cuts for men and women. Her passion is making each client look and feel their best.

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CONTENTS NOVEMBER-DECEMBER 2017 |

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LIFE & STYLE

28 BEAUTY: TRAVEL WELL Don’t let winter travels get yor skin off track. 30 TRAVEL: BISHOP ARTS DISTRICT Take your visitors north to see eclectic shopping, food and art. 32 BOOKS: MAKE A LIST! New releases to complete your gift list. 34 RECIPES: WINTER DINNER & DRINKS Fix a meal and a spiced cocktail for a quiet night at home.

HOME

54 ON CHRISTMAS’ PAST Diane Johnson Collard looks back at the origin of Christmas in America. 56 COURTNEY WARREN COLUMN DIY Wreaths for the family. 58 HYGGE AND HOUSE STAGING Realtor Melinda McCutchan’s advice for letting your holiday decor stage your home. 60 NOVEMBER/DECEMBER GARDENING Ellis County Master Gardeners on winter gardening best practices.

MEDICAL

38 FEATURE: TRIM THE TREE!

38 THREE TREES FOR INSPIRATION 44 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE 2017

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18 - 22 HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS Rustic casual looks and glam party outfits are on our list this winter. Firefly Gardens in Midlothian provides the perfect backdrop for these local looks.

66 ALZHEIMER’S AWARENESS Marisa Sibley on advances in Alzheimer’s treatments 66 ON TRAUMA Recovering from from Dr. Skinner 70 DISMISSING 6 COMMON FLU MYTHS Baylor Scott & White on why the flu is more dangerous than we think.

72 Cindy Burch, Our Journey

EDITOR’S NOTE

Happy Holidays! THANK YOU FOR ANOTHER AMAZING YEAR! -Cindy Camp, Publisher & the Living Staff

The holiday season has arrived! Summer heat will be replaced with chilly evenings and sunny winter days. We are thrilled to share with you our Holiday Issue and all the lovely contributors who made this issue so beautiful. Our feature story is continuing in the tradition we began last year that brings local designers together to design unique trees to inspire our readers to try something vintage, new or themed. Special thanks to Firefly Gardens for letting us use their fabulous event space for the photoshoot. Have a holiday season full of gratitude, charity and, most of all, love.

- Meagan

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Celebrate Christmas in Ennis! ROSEWOOD RANCHES LIGHTS OF ENNIS PARADE AND BLOCK PARTY

Our mission is to deliver healthy, delicious, naturally raised Texas Wagyu Beef in a sustainably sensitive environment, preserving our family’s rich ranching history. 8017 Hwy. 85 | ENNIS (903) 326-7611 Cell: (214) 729-9454 rosewoodbeef.com

Join us in historic downtown Ennis on Thursday, November 30th to kick off the holiday season with a magical parade of lights and block party. Download the Ennis Y’all app to stay in the know about all of the festive holiday events in December including carriage rides, movie nights and snow in Minnie McDowal Park.

KINDRED SOULE MARKETPLACE Tis the season for holiday spirit! Come rediscover the art of gift giving at Kindred Soule. Shop unique goods, relax over lunch and try an assortment of loose leaf tea choices. 200 W. Knox St. #100 DOWNTOWN ENNIS (972) 876-4202 kindredsoule.com

“Expect More”

ENNIS PUBLIC THEATRE It’s A Wonderful Life, A Live Radio Play | Adapted by Joe Landry December 1st - December 17th This beloved American holiday classic comes to captivating life as a live 1940’s radio broadcast. With the help of an ensemble that brings a few dozen characters to the stage, the story of idealistic George Bailey unfolds as he considers ending his life one fateful Christmas Eve. 113 N. Dallas St. | DOWNTOWN ENNIS (972) 878-7529 | ennispublictheatre.com

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AROUND TOWN

A LOT IS HAPPENING IN ELLIS COUNTY...

NOVEMBER: WAXAHACHIE November 2-3 SAGU Campus Days Southwestern Assemblies of God University Preview weekend for prospective students and families. For more information, visit www.sagu.edu/campusdays. November 3-4 Waxahachie Old Fashioned Singing Chautauqua Auditorium Begins on Friday at 7 pm and Saturday at 3 pm. For more information, visit www.WaxaOFS.com. November 4 Battle Cry 5K MKT Depot in Downtown Waxahachie Benefitting the Ellis County Salvation Army Boys & Girls Club. For more information, contact 972-937-0509. November 4 Fall Farm-to-Table Feast Downtown Waxahachie Gather with friends and family to enjoy a fall four course meal prepared by the culinary students and culinary teacher and chef at Waxahachie High School. November 4 Rockin’ Downtown Downtown Waxahachie Scavenger hunt and rock painting event that will benefit Waxahachie Care. For more information, visit www.downtownwaxahachie.com. November 9 Ladies Night Out Downtown Waxahachie Every month in downtown Waxahachie with participating merchants from 5 to 9 pm. November 10-12 Waxahachie WWII Weekend & Reenactment Historic Downtown Waxahachie The big battle will take place at 3 pm on Saturday, November 11th.

November 11 Ellis County Veterans Appreciation Ceremony Waxahachie Civic Center Gather together to celebrate the lives of our veterans, beginning at 10 am. November 11 BOGO 2nd Saturday Downtown Waxahachie Participating downtown merchants will be offering sales on the second Saturday of the month. November 11 Waxahachie Riding Club Playday Waxahachie Rodeo Complex, 704 Howard Road For rainout dates and more information, visit www. waxahachieridingclub.com. November 11 Waxahachie Symphony Association Southwestern Assemblies of God University The show will be “Music Outside the Bach” by the Philadelphia String Quartet. For more information, visit www.waxahachiesymphony.org. November 11 Lantern Fest Texas Motorplex For more information, visit www.Texasmotorplex.com. November 17 - 18 5th Annual Festival of Trees – A Home for the Holidays Waxahachie Bible Church Silent auction and lots of fun family activities, including Santa and Mrs. Clause. This event, benefitting Habitat for Humanity of Ellis County, is open from 5 to 9pm on November 17th and 9 am to 3 pm on November 18th. For more information, email elliscountyhfh@ gmail.com or call 972-937-2797. November 18 Texas Wines Sip ‘N Stroll Downtown Waxahachie Enjoy some well-deserved wine.

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November 18 – 19 WaxaCon (Comic Convention) Waxahachie Civic Center For more information, visit www.waxacon.com. November 25 Junk in the Trunk/Shop Small Business Saturday Downtown Waxahachie Begins at 9 am and ends at 1 pm. A great time to shop Waxahachie’s unique treasures! November 27 Christmas at SAGU This annual campus tradition continues into its 9th year on the first Monday following Thanksgiving. Join SAGU and neighbors to start the holiday season with the lighting of the campus, activities, live music and an opportunity to get your photos with Santa himself. This event is free, and open to the public. More information, call 972-825-4700. November 28 Christmas Parade & Community Tree Lighting Downtown Waxahachie From 6:30 to 9:30 pm, this event will include other activities as well, like CNB of Texas Train Rides, EwePet Petting Zoo & Pony Rides and other children’s activities followed by photos with Santa. ENNIS November 3 Public Antique Auction Ennis Auction House For more information, call 972-872-9926. November 18 Bark in the Park Jaycee Park A day of furry friends and family fun. For more information, call 801-824-5450.

November 25 Small Business Saturday Downtown Ennis A special day of shopping to support small businesses in historic downtown Ennis. November 30 Lights of Ennis Parade of Lights and Block Party Downtown Ennis From 5 to 9 pm, there will be a free open house at the Ennis Railroad & Cultural Heritage Museum. Then, starting at 7 pm, there will be the Parade of Lights, live performances and plenty of photo opportunities throughout downtown. MIDLOTHIAN November 4 Wine & Arts Festival Heritage Park Begins at 2 pm and ends at 7 pm with art and wine for friends and family! November 4, 8, 11, 15, 18 Yoga in the Park Heritage Park Spend some time in the park, doing yoga with Dayme’s Yoga. November 14 Tree Lighting Ceremony Heritage Park Beginning at 5:30 pm, join for the lighting of the Christmas tree and the reading of the Christmas story by Mayor Bill Houston. follow us on instagram

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AROUND TOWN DECEMBER: WAXAHACHIE December 1 - 3 SAGU Theatre : A Christmas Carol Hagee Communications Center Performance Hall Tickets will be $10. To reserve tickets, visit www.sagu.edu/ christmascarol. December 1 – 3 Bethlehem Revisited 402 N. College Street (Behind Central Presbyterian Church) Free admission, but donations are welcome. Step back in time, over 2000 years ago, and walk the streets of ancient Bethlehem as Mary and Joseph did on the night of Christ’s birth. On your journey, you will meet innkeepers, merchants, craftsmen, tradesmen, clergy, the three wise men and many other citizens as they portray daily life in the City of Bethlehem, complete with sheep, camels, and donkeys. December 1-2 Christmas Market & Gift Show Waxahachie Civic Center This event is sponsored by the Waxahachie Junior Service League. The preview party runs from 6 to 9 pm on Friday, December 1st and the main event runs from 10 am to 5 pm on Saturday, December 2nd. December 2 – 3 Candlelight Home Tour Waxahachie Three unique homes, spanning from the Victorian era to the 21st century, will don their holiday finery. Tickets will be $15 per weekend; children under 12 are free. December 2, 9 Christmas Hayride & Photos with Santa Downtown Waxahachie Smile for the camera as you tell Santa Claus what you want for Christmas (4 – 8 pm). Then, enjoy a traditional hayride down Main Street (6 – 8 pm).

December 3 An English Christmas Tea Downtown Waxahachie Tickets will be $25 per person and are available online at www. downtownwaxahachie.com. December 8 – 10 A Charlie Brown Christmas Chautauqua Auditorium in Getzendaner Park Tickets are available online at www. waxahachiecommunitytheatre.com. December 9 YMCA Santa Run Downtown Waxahachie The run begins at 8 am with all participating runners wearing Santa costumes. December 9 Chocolate Sip ‘N Stroll Downtown Waxahachie Themed holiday Sip ‘N Stroll with participating downtown Waxahachie merchants. December 9 BOGO 2nd Saturday Downtown Waxahachie Participating downtown merchants will be offering sales on the second Saturday of the month. December 14 Ladies Night Out Downtown Waxahachie Every month in downtown Waxahachie with participating merchants from 5 to 9 pm.

Several films, like The Grinch, The Christmas Story and Polar Express, will be played to the public. December 1 – 17 A Christmas Carol Theatre Rocks! For more information, visit www. theatrerocks.com. December 1 – 17 It’s a Wonderful Life: A Live Radio Play Ennis Public Theatre For more information, visit www. EnnisPublicTheatre.com.

RED OAK December 2 Christmas in Red Oak Watkins Park Parade begins at noon followed by a festival in Watkins Park. Bring your camera for pictures with Santa in the gazebo after the parade. There will be bounce houses, hay rides, vendors and fun activities for the kids. For more information, email lmcglothlin@redoaktx.org or call 469-218-1202.

MIDLOTHIAN December 2 Southern Star Christmas Celebration Parade & Festival Downtown Midlothian This year’s theme is “A Christmas in Wonderland.” There will be entertainment, vendors and the light- up parade from 1 to 5 pm with the parade starting at 6 pm. December 7 Annual Jingle Mingle Courtyard by Marriot Begins at 8 am and ends at 12 pm with community shopping, crafts and delicious food!

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VIP SHOPPING PARTY & TASTE OF ELLIS COUNTY FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1, 6 P.M.-9 P.M. | WAXAHACHIE CIVIC CENTER AN EXCLUSIVE SHOPPING EXPERIENCE THAT INCLUDES CATERED FOOD, DRINKS, AND A RAFFLE TICKET. FOOD FROM: CREATIONS BAKING COMPANY, FUZZY'S TACO SHOP, HIBACHIO, AND THE VAULT SMOKEHOUSE.

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WRITTEN AND STYLED BY CARLY PECHAL PHOTOS BY REBECCA CHESNEY

Shirt, Multitudes, $34 Undershirt, Multitudes, $28 Pants, Multitudes, $48 Earrings, Multitudes, $24 Bracelets, Multitudes, $5-6

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Dress, Multitudes, $52 Earrings, Multitudes, $36 Bracelets, Multitudes, $5-6

Layer Up! Searching for that perfect style to the upcoming Holiday festivites? Try layering patterns, textures and fun colors when you are blending your summer and winter wardrobes. Here are three looks to get you started!

Top, The Briarpatch, $54.95 Pants, The Briarpatch, $44 Bracelets, The Briarpatch, Brighton, prices available upon request

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Dress, The Briarpatch, $36.95 Hat, The Briarpatch, $26.95

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Dress, The Briarpatch, $42

Top, Three Bears, $28 Skirt, Three Bears, $36 Earrings, Three Bears, $6

Be Bold! Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t let the outdoors keep you from bright colors and bold lips.

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Plaid Forever! Shawl, The Mix, $184 Top, The Mix, price available upon request Pants, The Mix, $178 Necklace, The Mix, $69

Top, The Mix, $202 Pants, The Mix, $69 Earrings, The Mix, $18

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Jacket, Multitudes, $38 Dress, Multitudes, $42 Necklace, Multitudes, $23

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Glammed Up! This is a truly modern LBD that can be made more casual with a fun moto jacket or glam enough for date night by adding statement jewelry. Have a comfortable dress you want to glam up? Find a faux collar or vest to add that twist.

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DRESS FOR THE HOLIDAYS

the look

A big thank you to our intern Jessica Lenamond for all of her help.

MAKEUP ARTIST:

HAIR STYLIST:

Sarah Kinney-Kennedy Summer Tucker Merle Norman Cosmetics 972.937.9696

Julie Stroope Salon Narcisse 972.938.9044

MODELS: Emma Sapp Sarah Lucas

the style A BIG THANK YOU TO THE PARTICIPATING BOUTIQUES: THE BRIARPATCH THE MIX MULTITUDES THREE BEARS

the shoot PHOTOGRAPHER:

Rebecca Chesney www.rebeccachesneyphotography.com

LOCATION: Firefly Gardens Wedding & Event Venue 5410 Hwy 287 Midlothian, Texas 76065

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BEAUTY

Travel & Beauty

BY TYLER-MARIE EVANS

With the holidays rapid approach, it’s time we begin to consider the threats posed against our yearlong beauty routines when traveling home to be with the ones we love. With as much as there is to do with grocery shopping, gift buying, and making travel plans for you and yours, we decided to do the research for you on how to protect your beauty routine effortlessly. Continue reading and see how you can take steps to prevent under-eye bags, dry skin, and cracked lips when traveling more than normal. These essentials will take care of it all!

Super Gloss: Super Glow by Glossier is the travelling queen’s dream. Altitude has nothing on the hydration and rejuvenation this mask will give your skin. Plane, train, or car, this hydrating mask has your back all the way across the world.

Morphe Brush Set 503: One of the biggest stresses of travelling is fitting your entire morning routine into those over-head-bin-size bags. Luckily, Morphe already thought of that. Brush set 503 proved to be the best fit for travel across Europe. It has every brush needed for any fabulous morning preparation, and slides nicely into the front or back of any carry-on bag. Make sure you don’t leave these behind with the house sitter when you’re rushing to make your flight!

Energie De Vie Day Cream: Something we tend to forget is that planes have the same effect on your skin as a desert. Look as glamorous coming off the plane as you did when you got on, with the Energie De Vie Day Cream. Applied the day of travel, it will keep your skin as alive and ready for adventure as you are!

DLS Lip Gloss: DLS nude beach gloss gives a double meaning to runway, plumping and hydrating your lips no matter how much turbulence they went through. This gloss is perfect for any day, but what makes it so special for travel is it’s long-lasting moisture, and fabulous glow.

Merle Norman Love “Looking for that perfect long wear

RPATCH THE BRIA RY FROM L E NEY S W E JE H ND AC DRESS A REBECC HED BY P A R G PHOTO

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foundation that doesn’t fade, is transfer proof and photographs beautifully? Try out the Merle Norman Lasting Foundation with SPF 12! This foundation helps prevent fine lines, wrinkles and is packed with Vitamin A, C and E. Made easy to blend for a quick and flawless application, it’s perfect for the upcoming fast pace holiday season when you may not have a lot of time to spend on your make up.” - Sarah Kinney-Kennedy, Merle Norman Cosmetics

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TRAVEL

Art & Shopping

STORY AND PHOTOS BY MEAGAN CAMP

Bishop Arts lives up to its name with a number of galleries for all price points and eclectic shopping for the home and for your closet. Pop by Jen Maudlin or Ginger Fox galleries for your art fix and then stop by Dirt to pick out stunning floral designs that will make an Instagram-worthy centerpiece.

You can see it now, your relatives are staying with you for the holidays and the excitement of being together is starting to wane. Where do you go that’s not too far, has shopping for your last--minute gift list and food that is light years away from the food court at the nearest mall? Just 25 minutes north of Waxahachie and Midlothian is the charmingly funky Bishop Arts District. I took a drive in the 2017 Cadillac XT5 Platinum to show you why this is the perfect day trip from Ellis County.

Events The Bishop Arts District Merchants Association (www.bishopartsdistrict. com) hosts monthly wine walks, festivals and shopping events monthly. If you end up on Bishop Avene on a quiet day, search for the many murals on the side streets. Oak Cliff Bat Girl is a favorite.

Our Ride

What a surprise it was to be offered a chance to drive the car that every family would like to be driving to and from pickup everyday. The Cadillac XT5 is comfortable to ride in, from any seat, and gives drivers so many amenities to enhance the everyday commute. It is spacious, has lots of luxury details and was perfect for this day trip as it holds lots of presents of all sizes in it’s back end.

Explore For such a small neighborhood, Bishop Arts has something for everyone. If it is a bit too chilly and you want to try something new, venture to Bishop Arts Cidery. Have a tasting of their popular ciders and learn about the brewing process. Want more cider? They also have a spot called Cidercade on I-35 that features at least 100 vintage arcade games and ciders from all over Texas.

My biggest surprise was how much I like the heads-up display that uses the windhsield for something more than a bug catcher. View your speed and other information without losing sight of the road.

Classic Lunch Walk over to Cretia’s if you are looking for a nice lunch with delicious desserts.

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Date Night Plan a true date night by heading to Lucia’s for dinner. Get a reservation in advance, at least a week, dress up a bit and have an experience at this romantic restaurant on the fringe of Bishop Ave.

Group Friendly Tucked behnd Hattie’s and Oddfellows is the Dallas Grilled Cheese Co. The answer to the whole families request for something amazing for lunch.

THE ENGLISH MERCHANT’S INN, A SMALL INN WITH A BIG PERSONALITY

Escape the fast pace of everyday life with a visit to The English Merchant’s Inn located on picturesque Main Street in Waxahachie. Immerse yourself in the relaxing ambience of this unique property and a historic Texas town.

RELAX

GOOD FRIENDS

LIFE-CHANGING BREAKFAST

“What a perfectly lovely place to relax and rejuvenate. Four posh bedrooms and comfortable common areas provide plenty of room to lounge around (even in pjs) and chat, watch movies, read books, or simply gaze at the interesting accoutrements.” - DTPegasus, TripAdvisor

“Wow! This place is wonderful. Mary and Howard were so genuine, kind, helpful, and considerate. Breakfast was delicious and the rooms were extremely comfortable. Located off Main Street, it is close to everything you could ever need.” - TravelingRaider4, TripAdvisor

Breakfast was sumptuous and beautiful: Prosciutto-wrapped melon to start, followed by a cheesy frittata with farm sausage and fresh-baked cranberry and orange scones served on antique French porcelain plates. - Jaithan K., Yelp

The English Merchant's Inn

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THE PERFECT BOOK PAIRINGFOR EVERYONE ON YOUR LIST BY MEAGAN CAMP

THE COOK

THE SCI-FI GUY OR GIRL

THE COWBOY:

THE SOUTHERN LADY

America the Great Cookbook Edited by Joe Yonan In this gorgeous collection of recipes and photographs, the Washington Post’s food editor Joe Yonan brings together this collection of 100 recipes from American chefs like Mario Batali, David Chang and Austin’s Franklin Barbecue. Pick this up for the cookbook lover on your list.

Cowboy Up! H. Alan Day with Lynn Weise Sneyd Alan Day’s memoir of his time as the owner of Lazy Branch, 200,000 acres in Arizona is filled with his philosophies on life. As the brother of Sandra Day O’Connor, he has seen the humble and the famous and shares his impressions of a life well lived. A perfect fireplace read for the holiday season.

Artemis Andy Weir The author of “The Martian” has a new story set in space. Jazz Basshara is a girl living in the only city on the moon, Artemis, and finds that life on the right side of the law is a tough one to live. Tempted into committing the perfect crime, Jazz finds herself learning that the future of Artemis may be in her hands. A heist set in space? Sold.

S Is for Southern: A Guide to the South, from Absinthe to Zydeco Editors of Garden and Gun magazine Continuing the popular series chronicling the essentials of southern living, “S is for Southern: A Guide to the South from Absinthe to Zydeco” features writing by Frances Mayesm who writes about the Magnolia, Alison Glock on the glory of Dolly Parton and Roy Bount Jr. on, what else, humidity.

THE WIZARD

THE SISTER

THE MYSTERY LOVER

THE MOVIE BUFF

Harry Potter: The History of Magic British Library The world of Harry Potter continues to expand and new titles to fill your favorite Potterhead’s bookshelves are being released to shed more light on the wizarding world. The British Library has compiled this beautiful book that will delight Slytherins and Gryffindors alike.

On Her Majesty’s FrightfullySecret Service Ryhs Bowen Have a friend who longs for the return of “Downton Abbey” and loves a good mystery? This series by Rhys Bowen follows the adventures and cases of Georgiana Rannoch, 36th in line to the throne. The Queen regularly enlists Georgie to glamourous royal weddings and luxurious house parties to seek out those who may hurt the crown. Independent and smart, Georgie always gets her man and that includes the Lord of Kilkenney, Darcy O’Mara, an agent for the crown.

Sisters First: Stories from Our Wild and Wonderful Life Jenna Bush Hager and Barbara Pierce Bush The Bush sisters have experienced a life that none of us can relate to, but they are relatable and now the famous pair have co-authored this memoir that gives us a peek into what it was like to watch their grandfather and then father take the presidential oath. Full of stories and personal reflections on their life and their sisterly bond, this is the book to share this season.

Miss D and Me: Life with the Invincible Bette Davis Kathyrn Sermak Actress Bette Davis’ powerful persona and intimidating stare kept her in the public eye until the end of her life and in that final phase before her death, she hired Kathryn Sermak to be her assistant, confidante and, at the end, friend. Set on a four-day road trip between Biarritz and Paris, Sermak recounts Davis in a way only she could. Fun fact, Sermak is an executor of Davis’ estate and has gone on to be a personal assistant to royalty and celebrities around the world.

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Family Dinner

BY MEAGAN CAMP

MUSHROOMS IN BALSAMIC SAUCE »» »» »» »» »»

5-6 Cremini or White mushrooms, sliced 2 T Balsamic Vinegar 1/4 C Chicken Stock 1 T Butter Salt and pepper to taste

PEPPERCORN CRUSTED PORK TENDERLOIN

Heat a sauté pan over medium heat and add 1 T of olive oil. Add the mushrooms and let them cook for 5-7 minutes, add the balsamic vinegar and chicken stock. Let the sauce reduce until thick, add salt and pepper to taste. Finish the sauce by whisking in the butter and serve over the pork.

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1/2 lb of cheddar 1/3 lb of Parmesan or Gruyere 2 C of flour 1 stick of butter, chopped into chunks Ice water for dough

1 lb. Pork Tenderloin 2 T Dijon Mustard 2 T Peppercorns, crushed Kosher Salt

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Preheat your oven to 375˚. On a sheet pan lined with aluminum foil, brush the entire tenderloin with a thin coating of mustard. Roll the pork tenderloin in the peppercorns and season with salt. Roast for 35-40 minutes and then let rest before slicing for around 10 minutes. Serves 4.

Preheat oven to 450˚ Grate cheeses or throw them in to the food processor, remove when finished Pulse flour in food processor Add butter and mix Pulse in cheese Remove dough and knead with your hands for a few minutes, add ice water if you need to bind the flour and butter. Let the dough rest for 30 minutes in the refrigerator. Roll out dough to about 1/4 inch of thickness Cut into strips Drizzle some salt on the baking sheet and place strips Bake for 5-8 minutes until golden brown

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Signature Holiday Cocktails Holiday season is the perfect time to put your bar cart to use and make some craft cocktails. Whip up these delicious libations to make your holiday party a hit!

Scottish Eggnog »» »» »» »» »» »» »» »»

12 parts Drambuie 4 egg yolks 4 egg whites 1 pint heavy cream 1 cup heavy cream 2 dash vanilla 1 tsp freshly grated nutmeg Optional: 4 parts of Glenfiddich 12 Year Old if you’d like more of a kick!

In a bowl, beat the egg yolks until the color lightens. Add the Drambuie, milk, cream, nutmeg, and vanilla. Place the egg whites in a bowl and beat into stiff peaks. Whisk the egg whites into the mixture. Chill in the fridge one, two, or three days, serve in a punch bowl and sprinkle with grated nutmeg. Some things never change, like Eggnog during the holidays and the way Drambuie is crafted. So it makes sense to pair the two up to make a classic cocktail taste even better! Drambuie’s memorable taste is the result of infusing a unique blend of aged Scotch whisky with a secret combination of spices, heather honey and herbs. www.drambuie.com

Milagro Coffee Cocktail »» »» »» »» »» »»

1 1/2 parts Milagro Añejo 2 part Ancho Reyes Chili Liqueur 4 parts Fresh Brewed Coffee 1 tsp Brown Sugar 1 part Heavy Cream Garnish: Two Coffee Beans, whipped cream, chili flakes

Build in a clear mug or other drink vessel suitable for hot beverages. Top with whipped cream and chili flakes and two coffee beans. The hot Coffee Cocktail uses Milagro Añejo tequila, a 100% blue agave tequila which is aged in American oak barrels for a minimum of 14 months, creating a well-rounded flavor. This beverage will warm the heart and the hands! www.milagrotequila.com

Sailor Jerry Apple Ginger Punch »» »» »» »» »» »»

1 1/2 parts Sailor Jerry Spiced Rum 2 parts sour mix 1 part apple juice 1 part ginger syrup Pinch of ground cinnamon Add ingredients into mixing glass, add ice, shake, strain over ice into a rocks glass and garnish with an apple slice and a sprinkle of ground cinnamon.

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Cozy up next to the fire with this refreshing cocktail made with Sailor Jerry Spiced Rum. The all-natural spices and flavors chosen give the rum a smooth taste characterized by top notes of vanilla and cinnamon. Norman ‘Sailor Jerry’ Collins was a craftsman whose tattoos were precise, bold and flawless and the rum that is named after such a man, is no different. www.sailorjerry.com

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Oh Christmas Tree

TREE STYLING BY THE PROS STORY BY CARLY PECHAL PHOTOGRAPHED BY REBECCA CHESNEY

Tis the Season... The tree. Whether you put it up the day after Thanksgiving or wait until the week before the big day, everyone loves having a tree lit in the living room. The ECLM team came up with the idea to ask local designers and shop owners to design a tree that is one-of-a-kind. Why? Because every tree is a collection of children’s creations, souvenirs from vacations or a combination of inherited ornaments surrounded by the latest trendy ornaments from Target. All three trees focus on blending the new and the vintage with lots of texture and unexpected elements. Mandy Johnson of Texas Pearls & Co. used her signature cotton and plaid to bring some log cabin whimsy to her tree. The sweet vignette is a throwback complimented by a cozy plaid chair and antique wood sleigh and ice skates. Kindred Soule’s Cindy Pechal drew on the present day for her inspiration citing the need for this season to bring calm to the world. Pechal incorporated antique ornaments with globes, golden feathers and unique Scrabble-tiled ornaments from Ashley Nichols with Vintage Faith. Shannon Atkins-Almon’s tree design pulls from the classic hand-painted, neon colors of the 1960s bringing the nostalgia to the forefront. Atkins-Almon used her own collection of ornaments and ones she has found while shopping for her store High Cotton Exchange LLC. Lastly, we asked Midlothian’s Kayla Glenn to make custom wood signs for each display. Glenn’s style fit wonderfully with the theme and brought in the handwritten script trend that is very popular this year. See more of Kayla’s designs on Instagram @glenandpen. We wish you all a very warm, peaceful and nostalgic Christmas! - Meagan Camp, Editor-in-Chief

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Plaid is Hot! I love to use it all year long, but especially at Christmas time. For this design, I mixed up several plaids, but all the patterns had one common color of red to tie together. Originally, I planned to reupholster a chair in a plaid print for this shoot. When I stumbled upon this pair of plaid wing backs in mint condition at a flea market, I screamed inside because I knew these would be perfect and complete the look I was going for, so “A Very Plaid Christmas” was born.

Repurpose Old wooden boxes gathered around the base of the tree create interest and pockets to display collectibles like these vintage trucks I scored when junkin’ in Seattle. If you are a late shopper like me, and the base of the tree stays empty most of the season (sorry, kids), it entertains the eye while giving you time to shop. Try using an old wooden box for a tree stand and a blanket or a cowhide as a tree skirt. I am a big fan of incorporating things found around the house and repurposing them like lanterns with illuminary candles scattered in and at the base of the tree. Cotton stems, berries, antlers to create dimension and fake packages (shhh, no one will have to know but you!) scattered around. Shout out to Rhonda Lowrey & Pam Till who helped haul half the store to decorate one tree. These ladies are always up for my crazy ideas, and without them, I would be lost.

Mandy Johnson Mandy Johnson owns and operates Texas Pearls & Co. a design and furniture company in downtown Waxahachie. Mandy is a true southern girl with a big ole heart, who is passionate about helping others design and decorate their homes. She is married with three children and has successfully turned a hobby into a thriving business.

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Antique Favorites My favorite items on the tree are the mercury glass Shiny Brite ornaments. I love how colorful they are as well as all the different shapes and designs. I am also in love with the mercury glass picks, beaded garland and of course the Santa Mugs. The Santa Mugs have a personality of their own. Being hand painted each one is a little different, especially the facial expressions.

Use What You Find What I love about this tree is that all of these items can be found year around at antique stores, flea markets, estate & garage sales. If you are lucky, you might find them in your grandmother’s attic! This is where the love of vintage ornaments came from. I found my grandmother’s ornaments from her and my grandfather’s first Christmas tree. She let me have them to decorate a tree when I was a kid. I packed them away every year and brought them back out. Once I started antiquing as a hobby, I acquired more for personal use and now that I antique and pick as a profession I have them for resale. They are fun to craft with and also decorate an actual tree. Team - Shannon Atkins-Almon, Cora Martin, Michelle Goettle and Linda Hughes

Shannon Atkins-Almon Shannon Atkins-Almon is a 5th generation Waxahachie resident. She currently owns and operates My Daughter’s Wedding & Events, a full -service wedding and event planning boutique and High Cotton Exchange LLC which is a brick and mortar antique and home decor store where she also houses her wedding and event office. For the last four years, she has partnered up with Out Of The Box designing Christmas Trees. Shannon has been happily married to her husband Jerry for over 30 years, and they are the parents of a daughter and two grown sons. They reside in Waxahachie with their two dogs Annabelle & Pearl.

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Peace on Earth Caitlyn Vestal with Global Gal Designs customizes globes and ready to sell globe ornaments and I knew this had to be the tree topper. Ashley Nichols with Vintage Faith created the “Peace On Earth” ornaments with rulers and Scrabble letters as well as cones from sheet music for the red berries. Recent antiquing discoveries included distressed tin dove ornaments, gold paper maché angel wings and oversized vintage jingle bells.

Worldly Tree This year has been so full of tragic moments across the globe. Everyone says we want Peace and Love; no matter the nationality, beliefs, the color of our skin. Yet it must begin with US. I wanted to design a theme with an unexpected flair, with symbolic elements and convey the meaning of the Christmas Season. For me personally, our family Christmas tree includes favorite elements, usually of sentimental value collected over the years and ALWAYS something new. With this in mind, my late mother’s gold feathers accent the tree, adding the extra sparkle of her personality along with the newest trend for velvet ribbon, new turquoise and gold encrusted ornaments.

Cindy Pechal Cindy is married with two adult children and is blessed to be Yaya to two grandchildren and one on the way. As a life-long Ennis resident, Cindy was encouraged to be a part of the downtown revitalization. Pechal enjoys the search, the hunt for goods that aren’t easily found in every store, and does not describe herself as a big ‘mass market buyer’. As such, the unique goods offered at Kindred Soule are intentional with either a heartfelt story of the maker, an inspirational brand or is supporting an emerging small business.

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Buy gifts for your favorite ladies that will bring inspiration and peace during the holidays. The Kuvée wine system allows you to preserve a bottle of wine for up to 30 days and let you have mutliple bottles open at once without wasting a drop. Lagos has designed a “Heart of Texas” necklace to support the victime of Hurrican Harvey. the Dreampad is a pillow perfect for the restless sleeper. Using Bluetooth through the app, you can play white noise or music to help fall asleep without disturbing your partner!

Misti Diffuser can go with her anytime.

For the wine lovers! Kuvée is a unique wine dispenser and wine subscription service. LAGOS will donate 100 percent of proceeds from its “Heart of Texas” necklace to support the relief efforts of Americare

1. Dreampad Pillow, www.dreampadsleep.com, $149-$179 2. DYI Define Your Inspiration Activewear, multiple styles, www.ShopDYI.com 3. Misti Portable Aromatherapy Diffuser with Rosewater, www.gurunanda.com, multiple metal finishes, $25.99 4. “She in Shenanigans” Costmetic Bag by Ruby’s Rubbish, Kindred Soule Marketplace, $15 5. Kuvée Connect Wine Dispenser, www.kuvee.com, starting at $150 6. LAGOS, “Heart of Texas” necklace,www.lagos.com/heart-of-texas, $225

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The perfect gift for the men in your life should be practical, not too fancy, and look handsome on a coffee table. This collection of gift ideas includes an official Scotting title (hello, Lord!), a sleek bedside clock and a kick of whimsy in the fashion department.

A captivating look at Cuba for the traveler planning his trip to Havana.

The WITTI BEDDI Style is an app controlled intelligent alarm clock. Mood lighting, alarms, white noise and a phone tracker are all features on this minimalist clock.

This unique gift not only grants the legal use of the Scottish title Laird, Lord or Lady, it will also give back to Mother Earth directly. Over the last thousand years, the forests throughout Scotland have been destroyed by industry and farming. With eco-conservation initiatives increasing across the globe, Highland Titles has created a new approach to land conservation by selling small plots to help fund the rescuing of woodlands, tree planting, maintenance and acquisition of land at risk of development – ensuring it cannot be purchased or developed.

1. “Cuba” by Elliott Erwitt, www.amazon.com, $60 2. Swell Bottle in Teak, Multitudes, $35 3. “The Better Bungee” Cord, Multiple colors and sizes available, www.thebetterbungee.com 4. WITTI BEDDI Style Alarm Clock, www.wittidesign.com, $99.99 5. Men’s Socks, Velvet Angel, $10.99 6. Highland Titles Souvenir Plot, Plot sizes range from one square foot to 1,000 square feet and are available for purchase starting at $47.99

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As technology becomes more and more a foundation for children, it isn’t all games and movies. From STEM tools for girls, adventure series exploring life skills and headphones that are designed to keep sound from impairing hearing, these gifts will last longer than the trendy toy.

The world’s first line of self-balancing coding robots for girls.

The mat works by gently mimicking the sound and feel of the womb to trigger babies’ calming reflex and lull them into peaceful slumber.

Perfect for the on-the-go family dog!

1. SmartGurlz, www.smartgurlz.com, dolls start at $79.99 2. Puro Sound Labs Kids’ Volume-Monitoring Bluetooth Headphones, www.purosound.com, $99.99 3. “Code 7: Cracking the Code for an Epic Life” by Bryan R. Johnson, www.amazon.com, $6.99 4. Tranquilo Mat, www. tranquilomat.com, $84.99-99.99 in two sizes. Pets: SiliPint Dog Bowl, www.silipint.com, starting at $15.95

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GIFTS FOR THE HOSTESS Be the guest who brings something more special than a bottle of wine. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve found gifts that bring someone joy, good food and a special delivery.

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A cute card or photo holder turned name card with a little chalk super versatile Hostess idea they can use

Spoonful of Comfort delivers a complete meal for four to anyone you want. Signature soups, rolls, cookies and a ladle are all included in the sweet packaging.

Letterpress journals made in Dallas by Color Box Letterpress

1. Metal Placecards, SoCo Depot, $8 2. SpoonfulofComfort.com, starting at $69.99 3. Cookbook Holder, Texas Pearls & Co., $31.95 4. The Original Saltine Cracker Seasoning Kit, Velvet Angel, $12 5. Letterpress Journals, Color Box Letterpress, ColorBoxLetterpress.com, $18 6. Nest Candle, The Doves Nest, $16.95

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Shopping Guide

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Who says you can’t be fashionable on Christmas morning too? Get warm and fuzzy this holiday season in all of the stylish threads we have to offer!

107 W. Franklin St. WAXAHACHIE 972.938.2403 Find us on Facebook & Instagram

2. FARMHOUSE

Add the perfect farmhouse touch to your home this holiday season with this cotton wreath. We are your one stop shop to make your holiday shopping easy and fun! Home - Garden - Antiques - Art. Open Monday through Saturday from 10 to 5.

308A S. College St. WAXAHACHIE 972.938.9090 Find us on Facebook & Instagram

3. MOSAIC MADNESS

Make your own mosaics this holiday season! Walkins are welcome during store hours. Join us for a special pique-assiette (AKA broken china) workshop on Sunday, November 12th. Visit Facebook for more info!

211 S. College St. WAXAHACHIE 972.937.5797

www.MosaicMadness.net

Find us on Facebook & Instagram

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4. HIGH COTTON EXCHANGE

Step back in time with vintage Christmas decor from High Cotton Exchange. Come browse our fun, whimsical pieces and much more!

209 S. College St. WAXAHACHIE 469.261.4772 Find us on Facebook & Instagram

5. MULTITUDES

The joy of the holiday season is in the air. Make it even sweeter with this lovely scent from Lollia. Our dream is to combine small town service with big town trends by providing the Waxahachie community, and all of Ellis County, with forward-thinking, style-setting goods.

205 S. College St. WAXAHACHIE 972.923.0345

www.MyMultitudes.com

Find us on Facebook, Twitter & Instagram

6. THE STUDIO Whether you’re searching for the perfect jewelry, holiday outfit, cowhide or gift, we have you covered at The Studio. Cowhides are on sale for $199 (regularly $299)! Stop in today to see our wide selection of trendy and classic items.

3671 N. Hwy. 77 WAXAHACHIE 972.617.7740 www.TheStudioTX.com

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On Christmas’ Past

BY DIANE JOHNSON COLLARD

When I was a little girl, I can remember a lot of conflict in the church about Christmas traditions, especially Santa Claus. Some folks thought it was a terrible thing to include Santa in our celebrations. Others, who were really strict, weren’t sure we should celebrate at all because it was a pagan holiday.

In the beginning, the holiday was a celebration of the harvest and the beginning of winter. Of course, the Gods of the harvest were celebrated. At this time of year, animals were slaughtered, and meat was plentiful for feasts.

My father was the pastor of our little church and he basically just left it alone for people to do what they thought best. But, at our house, we had Santa. I certainly don’t feel that it harmed me in any way. As a matter of fact, it was a highlight of my childhood. It didn’t matter that we didn’t get very much. It just mattered that Santa came.

The celebration of Christmas ran from one end of the world to the other for hundreds of years. However, at one point the orthodox priests ruled that any celebration of Christmas in any form was condemned. Even gift exchanges were against the law. It didn’t last a long time because people loved this special holiday. They fought the system and won the right to celebrate the birth of Christ in their own special way.

For those who thought Christmas was a pagan holiday that was evil and ungodly, there was no joy and laughter in their homes. I just didn’t get it. Why would they think it so wrong? Especially when we were worshipping the birth of our Savior.

As the years progressed, so did the form of the celebration. Christmas trees, Santa Claus, gift exchanges, eggnog and Christmas carols were all added to the fun. However, it did become more about a big party that lasted for days than the celebration of Christ birth.

Although I am not well versed on the subject, I did take it upon myself to read a little about the history of Christmas. Yes, it did start out as a pagan holiday, but sometime after Jesus was born, it was deemed a special time to celebrate His birth.

After the Revolutionary War, Christmas was forbidden in America, because it was considered an English holiday. The new country wanted no part of European traditions.

Since we really don’t know when Christ was born, except that it was in the spring, the time of celebration remained the same as it had been for hundreds of years.

However, especially in the southern states, Christmas was eventually celebrated as a special festive time. Even though Christmas had become a part of the American culture by the early 1800’s, it wasn’t until 1870 that Christmas was declared a federal holiday to be

celebrated on December 25th of each year. The rest is history. Through the years Christmas has become bigger and bigger. Many think it is too commercialized and I must agree. However, the excitement of decorating the tree and hanging the lights starts to stir as soon as the air begins to cool in the fall. My grandchildren can hardly wait for the season to begin. I remember that same feeling of excitement and joy. Although our decorations were very meager, they were special. Today, my whole house is aglow with lights, candles and trees, but there is no more joy in this household than there was in that little four-room house with a little tree filled with tinsel and popcorn streamers. It isn’t about how much you have, but how much you enjoy what you have. The birth of Christ is our true reason for celebration. The rest is just frosting on the cookie. It is lots of fun and a lot of great memories to be passed on from generation to generation. As you decorate for the holidays fill your home with the sweet fragrance of peppermint and cranberries, homemade cookies and holly, but don’t forget to say Happy Birthday to Jesus.

Merry Christmas,

MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS YOUR NEW YEAR.

DIANE JOHNSON COLLARD Diane has been decorating Ellis County for more than 30 years. Contact Diane Johnson Interiors at 972.935.8899 or djohnsoninteriors@hotmail.com

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WRITTEN AND STYLED BY COURTNEY WARREN PHOTOGRAPHED BY REBECCA CHESNEY PARENTING— where the days are long but the years are short. (Although I might have argued with that idea when I took my son to Sephora, and he used the sample makeup applicators to clean out his ears. There is nothing like the embarrassment of buying a new lipstick while holding another human’s used q-tips.) Setting aside those rare embarrassing moments, I am starting to feel the years fly by. Especially at this time of year! One of my favorite holiday traditions is taking the kids for photos with Santa Claus. As we decorate, I love unwrapping each photo frame to see what year and what crazy circumstance it entailed. The only thing better than individual frames is having those memories in one place! Cue the feelings and mom-nostalgia (momstalgia?)!

meet courtney

I’m an interior designer who specializes in decorating, renovation & home staging. I am passionate in helping stuck people love their home. I love my home, which was just chosen to be featured in Better Homes & Gardens special publication, “Best of Flea Market Style 2016.” I live in my 3rd renovated historic home in Waxahachie with our 2 boys & my husband, who is a local pastor. I would rather be wearing flip flops than heels. Follow my daily projects on Instagram at @courtneywarrenhome or see my work at courtneywarren.com.

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BY MELINDA MCCUTCHAN

It is time for holiday hygge! Holidays are coming and decorating our homes for the season can feel like an overwhelming task. So, what is hygge (pronounced hue-guh)? This is a Danish concept of creating an atmosphere of coziness. It is not a thing you buy. It is used to describe that feeling or moment of specialness or charm experienced as a result of the surroundings. So, the question begs, is decorating for the holidays really much different than staging a house to sell during the holidays. Remember that the number of buyers during this season are fewer than in the spring and summer yet these buyers right now are dedicated and eager to find a home. Also, the number of guests that may show up are greater this time of year! People’s calendars start to get crazy, and sellers may find buyers wanting to see a house at the drop of a hat or last-minute visitors dropping by with short notice. The following list includes three hints which might help to create an awesome atmosphere that entices us to smile during the holidays.

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1. KSS! OR KEEP STAGING SIMPLE! If your house is on the market, keep the decorations to a minimum. Two reasons for this would be to lessen the time it takes to get a house ready for showing and to inspire people to imagine themselves living in the house as their new home. Now, if your house is not on the market, keeping the decorations to a minimum means less stuff to repack later, yet I want to get all my decorations out and find a place for them. So, there is a happy balance to achieve somewhere between minimal decorations to lessen work later versus all-out decorations because we get to enjoy these collectibles only once a year. 2. CURB APPEAL IS IMPORTANT WHETHER YOUR HOUSE IS ON THE MARKET OR NOT! Be sure and clear pathways and outdoor spaces that a buyer will find appealing such as porches and patios. Again, infusing “hygge” in the outdoor spaces can be inviting to potential buyers and

can allow guests to congregate outside when the weather permits. Have bushes and trees trimmed as it is easier to string lights and, if weather permits, placing plants in pots or beds can infuse texture and color.

3. OMG, THEY WILL BE HERE IN AN HOUR! SO, IF THAT LAST-MINUTE SHOWING APPOINTMENT HAPPENS, LOOK AROUND AND QUICKLY DO THE FOLLOWING: • LIVING ROOM - Fluff up the couch and hide any issues with strategically placed blankets and throw pillows. Clear the coffee tables and other flat surfaces of clutter. Have some cool baskets to plop clutter into and put a book or arrangement on top. Vacuum the carpet and sweep that dirt under the rug. No one is looking under the rug! • KITCHEN – Move the dirty dishes from the sink and clean the sink. If the dishwasher is full, put them in a big pot in the cabinet. Clear all the pictures and magnets from the fridge, put in a baggie and get them back out later. • BEDROOM – Here is where bed skirts earn their keep! Clear the clutter and get an under-bed storage to hold the clutter. Just fill it up and slide it back under the bed. It is easy to get back out later. Don’t put overflow in the closet because buyers look in closets to determine if they meet their needs. Always make your bed! • CHILDREN’S ROOMS – Like the bedrooms, clear the clutter and again, those baskets come in handy for stowaways with blankets or stuffed toys placed on top. Spritz any diaper changing areas with air freshener, if necessary. • BATHROOM – Wipe down the mirror, sink and toilet. Pull the shower curtain if running out of time and put all the toiletries in a plastic basket or baggie and pop in the laundry hamper or under the sink. Keep a couple of new white towels handy to hang out for that spa feeling. • AND DON’T FORGET THE BEST FAST STORAGE PLACE OF ALL - the trunk of your vehicles. If all other places are full, this temporary place works well. When time is of the essence, cat litter boxes, dog beds, toys, and other things that just need to be removed to clear clutter can go in here! • NOT SELLING? If you are decorating for the season and your house is not on the market, you might just want to do a deep clean and not hide items in areas your guests will use! I would suggest not using the car trunk for storage if you are not prepping to meet a buyer’s appointment.

Holidays can be stressful and, hopefully, some of these hints will help reduce the mania whether preparing for buyers or decorating your house for guests. Enjoy the holidays and be in the moment. Remember to create hygge for yourself!

These are all things that will help you successfully survive the pre-contract stage. Once you have a contract in hand, the work continues. There is the work to be done from pre-contract to closing that will require effort and attention on your part and on the seller’s part. Your agent will gladly assist with this process. Having survived the house hunt in great shape will allow you to survive the next stages which are closing the house and turning it into your new home!

Melinda McCutchan is a REALTOR® with Keller Williams in Waxahachie. Visit her website at ellisforsale.com.

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HOME & GARDEN

BY MELINDA KOCIAN {ELLIS COUNTY MASTER GARDENERS ASSOCIATION}

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Now through February is the perfect time to plant container-grown trees and shrubs. Use the “Custom Tree Selector” at http://texastreeplanting.tamu.edu for help in selecting the right tree for the location. Dig a hole two times the diameter and one inch shallower than the root ball. Make sure the root ball and the hole are thoroughly wet before planting. Backfill with existing soil and water well. Plant pansies and violas, and mix in blood meal. Bluebonnets can still be planted from transplants. Daffodils and grape hyacinth may be planted once soil temperature drops below 55° F. Plant 2-3 times as deep as the bulb is tall.

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Feed winter annuals growing in the ground and in outdoor containers with a high-nitrogen, water-soluble plant food every two to three weeks. Also, feed and water cool-season vegetables that you are growing now. Remove the tops of herbaceous perennials after they have died. Add 2-3 inches of mulch to the beds to reduce winter weed growth. Trim patio plants and hanging baskets before moving indoors for the winter. Locate them near bright windows. Refrain from pruning freeze-damaged woody plants at this time. This pruning is best done in late winter.

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Shantung Maple The Shantung Maple is a medium-sized, deciduous tree reaching heights of 25 feet with a width of 20 feet. The tree is reminiscent of the Japanese maple but with greater toughness and is a designated Texas Superstar®. This maple has a spreading canopy with foliage that turns spectacular red to red-orange in late fall. Tolerates full to part shade.

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It’s time to winterize! Disconnect hoses from faucets and drain all hose-end sprinklers. Bring all tender tropicals indoors. Greenhouse owners should check the heating and ventilation systems to ensure proper operation. Perform maintenance on outdoor equipment. Drain fuel from gasolinepowered engines and run the carburetor dry. Check potted plants growing outside for insects (mealy bugs, whiteflies, spider mites, aphids, roaches, ants) before moving inside for the winter. Apply a labeled insecticide several days prior to the move, if needed. Stockpile fallen leaves for use in compost or as mulch. It is an excellent way to enrich the soil and to nourish plants. Mix one cup of high nitrogen fertilizer per cubic yard of compost. Turn pile with spade fork to keep it aerated. Water, if needed. When planning new landscapes, select trees, shrubs and perennials that are winter hardy in your area. It is best to choose plants from your zone and the one or two zones to the north of you. According to the USDA Plant Hardiness Zone map, Ellis County is located in Zone 8 (average lowest annual temperature is 10° F to 20° F). Therefore, plants listed for Zones 6, 7 and 8 would be your best bets.

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Plant pre-chilled tulip and hyacinth bulbs mid to late month. Plant bulbs in masses for best effect. Daffodil bulbs may still be planted. Look for early and small-flowering varieties that tend to naturalize and return yearly. Plant berry-producing trees and shrubs to add winter color to your landscape. Some good choices include possumhaw holly, yaupon holly, Carolina buckthorn, rusty blackhaw viburnum and American beautyberry. Create a wildlife-friendly landscape that attracts birds, bees and butterflies by planting a diversity of native and adapted plants. For more information, visit http://tpwd.texas.gov/huntwild/ wild/wildlife_diversity/wildscapes/. Considering a living Christmas tree? Choose an adapted plant. Junipers, Arizona cypress and pyramidal hollies are good options. While indoors, place the tree in the brightest natural light and keep soil moist. Do not leave indoors for more than two weeks.

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Apply a root stimulator such as liquid seaweed or a high-phosphorus fertilizer to newly planted trees and shrubs. Do not top crape myrtles or remove the central leader of any shade tree. It destroys the crape myrtle’s natural shape, and delays blooming by five or six weeks. If your plant is too tall or too wide, remove or relocate it, and replace with something smaller that won’t require trimming. Apply 2 to 3 inches of mulch around perennial flowers and newly planted trees, shrubs and vines. It protects against winter freeze damage, conserves moisture and moderates soil temperatures. Remove mistletoe from trees as soon as it becomes visible. Use a pole pruner to remove the entire twig from infected branches before the mistletoe produces berries. There are no effective consumer products to control this parasitic plant.

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Protect tender vegetation from the cold with a lightweight frost cloth available at most nurseries and garden centers. Continue to water lawns and newly planted trees, shrubs and perennials if rainfall is insufficient. Prepare garden soil for spring planting by tilling in 6 inches of organic matter (compost) to a depth of 8 to 10 inches. Let’s not forget our feathered friends during the winter when their natural food supply is limited. Providing sunflower, safflower and thistle seed, suet and fruit will attract many species of birds to your backyard. And be sure to provide water. Take time during the holidays to check out the new seed and nursery catalogues. Order early to ensure availability.

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Japanese Maple The Japanese Maple is a small, deciduous tree with moderate water needs. This tree requires partial to heavy shade and is a slow grower. The Japanese Maple has brilliant fall color ranging from copper, yellow, orange, or red depending on the cultivar. This tree requires good soil drainage and pruning to develop good form. Take care to not damage its thin bark.

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Alzheimer’s Awareness Making Progress Together BY MARISA SIBLEY, CCRC

November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month. Visit www.alz.org and www.PhRMA.org to learn more. I remember sitting in my undergraduate neuroscience class listening to my favorite professor explain the intricacies of the human brain. As the most complex organ in the human body, it produces our every thought, action, memory, feeling and experience of the world. It was ironic to even consider wrapping my mind around its complexity. As medicine and technology has advanced over time, we have been able to study more and more about certain areas of the brain, how they function, and how they affect other parts of the body. Yet, there is still a great amount of information about the brain that is unknown. We have questions that we do not yet have answers to, which can be frustrating for individuals and families that are affected by neurological diseases like Alzheimer’s. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia, which is a general term for the loss of cognitive abilities, like memory, that negatively impact an individual’s daily life. An estimated 5.5 million Americans are currently living with Alzheimer’s disease. It is not a normal part of aging, although the greatest risk factor for the disease is increasing age. Alzheimer’s is a progressive disease with symptoms of memory loss and the lack of ability to carry on a conversation and respond to the environment. These symptoms worsen as time passes, which can be extremely frustrating for individuals and families that are affected.

Alzheimer’s disease is one of the most complex diseases clinical researchers have ever studied. Just as the brain is complicated, the disease is complicated. Current treatments for Alzheimer’s only help to slow the worsening of symptoms, such as memory loss and confusion, and improve the quality of life for those with the disease and their family or caregivers. There are no current medicines that treat the underlying cause of the disease. However, clinical researchers are going boldly in their efforts, seeking to pinpoint what causes Alzheimer’s and working to develop better ways to not only treat the disease but to prevent it from developing. Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias are estimated to cost the United States health care system over $259 billion by the end of 2017 with costs projected to increase into the trillions of dollars by 2050. The research industry is therefore racing to develop new treatments for the disease. PhRMA, an organization that supports the search for new treatments and cures for disease, reports that there are 87 potential new treatments in clinical trials regulated by the Food and Drug Administration for Alzheimer’s disease. Researchers are currently focusing on developing treatments that, for example, target the immune system to enable it to fight the disease or help to lower inflammation in the brain, which has been found to be associated with Alzheimer’s disease.

“For years, research has been focusing on the symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease. We are on the edge of discovering the root cause of this terrible illness. Investing in research now will cost our nation far less than the cost of care for the rising number of Americans who will be affected by Alzheimer’s in the coming decades.” – Dr. Thomas Ledbetter, Medical Director at ClinPoint Trials The number of new treatments being studied in clinical trials for Alzheimer’s will continue to rise as we learn more about the science of the disease. Since 1998, here have been 123 potential treatments halted in clinical trials while only four treatments were approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration. Despite the frustration of these setbacks, the knowledge gained about the disease and about what treatments show promise versus those that don’t is critical to the advancement of medicine for Alzheimer’s. “The number of treatments in the research pipeline for Alzheimer’s alone is hope enough that there will one day be a cure for the disease. It is exciting to consider that our very own neighbors may soon be able to have an opportunity to take part in finding a cure by participating in clinical trials for Alzheimer’s disease.” – Sherry Johnson, BSN, Site Director and Research Nurse at ClinPoint Trials It is crucial for all of us, as we all know individuals affected by Alzheimer’s, to keep watch of opportunities to participate in clinical trials for the disease. ClinPoint Trials hopes to provide these opportunities to participate in finding the cure for Alzheimer’s to individuals in the Ellis County and surrounding areas in the near future.

Marisa Sibley, CCRC | 972.937.1640 | www.cptrials.com

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Trauma

This year Texas and the rest of the world have endured trials and tragedy. Even when the water recedes and the rubble is swept away the battle to survive doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t end. BY JOHN R. SKINNER, JR., PH.D.

This has been a rough couple of months. The nation has experienced multiple traumas: hurricanes Harvey, Irma, and Jose that followed close on the heels of one another. Fires are raging in California and hundreds were murdered or injured in Las Vegas. Mexico City was assaulted by an earthquake that killed around 370 persons and injured some 6000. It occurred on the 32nd anniversary of another national trauma, Mexico Cityâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s devastating 1958 earthquake. News programs seem to carry word of world-wide tragedies daily.

Unfortunately, we cannot control or prevent all such traumatic events. We can, however, control or at least manage how we respond to them. This is important on a national and individual scale. Those in the midst of the traumas, direct victims, experience their direct effects: losses of things, loved ones, or security and safety. Those beyond the stricken area feel an emotional and economic impact as well. Did you feel at least a bit less safe after the murders in Las Vegas? Were you worried about fuel after Harvey hit Houston? It is normal for us to have thoughts about how this affects me. It is also normal and important to want to help those direct victims. There are several components involved in experiencing and responding to traumas.

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As I break these down, there are several phases: Shock, Response, Support, Attitude, Resilience, Recovery, and Resolution. The initial experience or response to traumatic events is shock. The impact strikes us and, for an instant, we are not sure how to respond. When we can shake ourselves out of this phase, then we can respond. I can think of three ways to respond: freeze and try to hide, run away in fear, or run forward to help. Helping is the only useful response. We have seen that in corporate responses to hurricane victims, Doctors Without Borders in Mexico, governmental and individual intervention, and churches taking in victims, among others. I know one man, a police officer, who took vacation to go with friends and a boat to Houston and pluck persons from flooded buildings. Many have given needed money and supplies. These examples represent a Response in the form of physical Support. Emotional support is also critical. For example, the Texas Psychological Association mobilized volunteer trauma teams to provide services to victims and those close to them on the Gulf Coast. Understanding a situation can be critical in making a response. Clarify and verify information so that responses can be helpful and focused on need. Attitude is also critical. A survival specialist would probably say it is the most important component.

An attitude of confidence is needed, believing that no matter how hard the road may be, you will overcome. In Texas, the State attitude seemed to be “We’ve got this!” and the response has been strong. A trauma is also an opportunity to demonstrate and experience Resilience, the exercise of the attitude of overcoming. Resilience is the ability to recover from misfortune or the changes imposed by trauma. Support and attitude contribute to potent resilience. Resilience leads directly to the next phase, an important goal: Recovery. This is the beginning of restoring things to the new normal, reopening businesses, rebuilding houses, and so on, replicating what was as can be done and creating new when it cannot be done. The final phase, Resolution, is the endpoint of Recovery. Achieving Resolution requires sustained overcoming attitude, support, and resilience. These must continue until recovery is completed, whether that is days or years. In a way, it is like friends responding to a death. Support may be strong initially, but tends to fade after about 2 weeks, leaving the person or family to fend for themselves. Recovery from a major trauma cannot afford this loss of support, being left short of resolution. A sustaining of effort is required.

The American Psychological Association has published tips for managing trauma among individuals (www.apa.org/helpcenter). Much of this applies to groups, as well.

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First, talk about the trauma and your experience, but avoid giving you advice. Seek persons who care about you and can listen, accept their comfort and reassurance. Work to restore balance to your life, recognizing meaningful positive events and people in your life. Work to achieve some normalcy rather than being overwhelmed. Respite is important, that is, turn off the news and schedule breaks from focusing on and thinking about the traumatic event. Honor our feelings, accept that it is normal to experience a range of emotions, to feel exhausted, or off balance. Take care of yourself. It can be easy to neglect self-care by focusing all your attention and effort on your problems or helping someone with theirs. You need time for yourself, good nutrition, adequate rest, and exercise. Avoid drugs and alcohol. Establish routines for rest, eating, relaxation, and meditation. Help others affected by the trauma, identify community resources, and attend to needs beyond the trauma. Finally, be prepared for grief. Grief is a long-term process. Old losses and traumas may rear their head in this new situation and revive or worsen old grief. Allow yourself to experience your feelings and to recover. Recognize and accept that dealing with the effect of this trauma, including grief, will take time to manage, process, and reach a new resolution. Cut yourself some slack.

John R. Skinner, Jr., Ph.D. | 972.923.0730 | www.donaldsonwellnesscenter.com

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Dismissing Six Common Flu Myths

BY BAYLOR SCOTT & WHITE MEDICAL CENTER - WAXAHACHIE

It’s the fall season! It’s the holiday season! It’s football season! While all these seasons are welcomed by most Texans, there is one season currently underway that is not welcome by anyone: flu season. Each year, millions of Americans come down with the aches, pains, fever, nausea and other unpleasantness associated with the influenza virus. For all the trouble it causes, flu is an illness that can be avoided most of the time by getting a flu vaccination. However, many people forgo getting their annual vaccination based on myths and misconceptions about both the flu and the vaccination. Myth #1: The flu isn’t that dangerous. The flu virus and resulting complications are responsible for thousands of deaths annually. The vast majority occur in elderly adults. However, young children and those with compromised immune systems also are susceptible. That is why everyone eligible for a flu vaccination should receive one – if not for yourself, to protect those who may not recover from the flu. “All of our staff is required to get vaccinated to protect the public,” explains Linda Cawthon, BSN, RN, employee health nurse at Baylor Scott & White Medical Center – Waxahachie. “We don’t want to get any patients sick who haven’t been immunized.” Myth #2: I’ve already had the flu, so I can’t get it again. There are multiple strains of the flu virus every flu season. Even if you suffer through a bout of flu early on during the season, without a vaccination, you can catch another strain and get sick again. “There are actually several types of flu vaccines. The most common is the quadrivalent vaccine, which protects against four different strains of the flu virus,” explains Cawthon.

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Myth #3: The flu vaccine isn’t very effective. Researchers and immunologists develop the flu vaccine for the upcoming flu season a year in advance based on what they believe will be the most common strains of flu virus for that season. With multiple strains of flu circulating, the effectiveness of flu vaccination can vary somewhat from year-to-year. But it is generally highly effective, and getting vaccinated is likely the most important step people can take to avoid the flu. Myth #4: The flu vaccine can actually cause the flu. “The flu vaccine isn’t made with a live virus so you cannot get the flu from the vaccine,” states Cawthon, who has given out thousands of flu vaccinations over the course of her 34-year career. Sometimes people experience side effects such as rash at the injection site, fatigue or even mild fever as a reaction to the vaccine, but it is not the flu. Additionally, some people catch other viruses during winter with flu-like symptoms (but usually milder) and mistake it for the flu. Because the flu vaccination takes about two weeks to provide full immunization, in rare instances, people may contract flu before the immunization has taken full effect.

Myth #5: Women who are pregnant and people with egg allergies can’t get vaccinated. According to the Centers for Disease Control, the flu vaccine is recommended for everyone 6 months and older, including pregnant women and people with medical conditions. As far as the flu vaccine and people with egg allergies, Cawthon says all you have to do is ask, “There is a special vaccine that you can still get if you are allergic to eggs.” Myth #6: If I didn’t receive a flu vaccination early on in flu season, it’s too late now. Flu season usually peaks every year between December and March. While ideally people should receive their vaccination in September or October, getting vaccinated before yearend will still allow for protection during the time of year when you are most at risk of contracting the flu.

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Our Journey…. When my mom opened an art gallery and gift shop on Waxahachie’s town square, she was nervous about starting a new business. With borrowed antiques, her original artwork and a few gift lines we opened the doors in 1987. Our first customer seemed to appear out of nowhere. She began looking at my mom’s art, where a hidden scripture and a white dove can be found in all of her work. She had a beautiful head of white hair and was wearing a simple lavender dress with a single strand of pearls around her neck. She looked at my mom and said: “The Lord is in your work and He has brought you here”. As quickly as she appeared, she was gone. From that day on, we have never doubted Waxahachie is where we are meant to be. By 1994 we moved Marilyn’s Art & Gifts to a larger space next door to the Ellis County Museum, where I had room to open a small café in the back of the store. We were filled to capacity each day but only able to seat 30 people at one time. We knew we needed more space when the owner of a large building down the block asked if we would be interested in buying his property.

Having only been married for one year my husband and I had not yet even bought our first home, much less had the money to buy a 12,000 square foot building. However, God again had a plan. The next day the motivated owner walked us over to the corner bank and co-signed a note. Before we could even process what had happened, we were the new owners of the historic Moore Hardware store building. My mom retired at that point, and we opened a few months later as The Doves Nest. That was 23 years ago. Today we are able to serve over 100 customers daily; many are loyal and wonderful patrons who have come to be like family. In some cases, we are seeing a third generation of customers. Our awardwinning cookbook is in its fifth printing, having sold 40,000 copies and winning the National Writers Digest Grand Prize Award. From the high accolades we have received in the Dallas Morning News to the Fort Worth Star-Telegram coining the phrase, “It’s Worth Flying South,” we have indeed been blessed. Texas Monthly magazine even voted us one of the top ten best small town restaurants in the state.

As we enter our 24th year, we are excited about the addition of our new chef, Dan Gocken. With 30 years experience, Dan has consistently worked in privately owned, scratch-based kitchens including Rough Creek Lodge in Grandbury and the Clay Pigeon in Fort Worth. Our new lunch menu is already getting rave reviews, and with Dan at the helm, we will soon be offering dinner service on Friday nights as well as a Sunday brunch beginning in early 2018. As we close out a very tumultuous year in our country, I cannot help but reflect on how thankful I am to live in a community like Waxahachie, where folks look out for each other and support those in need. For a couple of city kids, my husband and I consider it an honor to be a part of this community and serve as an anchor business in our historic downtown. According to TheRestaurantBroker.com, the average restaurant’s lifespan is five years with up to 90% of independently owned restaurants closing in year one. If I have learned one thing, it’s to trust those plans God lays out for you.

We wish each of you a blessed Thanksgiving and a very Merry Christmas! Please join us on November 18 for a storewide event featuring our new dealer Melissa Benge, jewelry designer Dian Malouf and a custom sign painting class by Chrissy Ballance of Kenzie Grace Creations. We will also have a booth at the Waxahachie Junior League Christmas Market on December 2.

Cindy Burch and her husband, Andrew, own and operate The Doves Nest in historic downtown Waxahachie. Cindy is also a freelance writer, caterer and consultant. Her award-winning cookbook, “The Doves Nest Restaurant: New American Recipes From A Historic Texas Town,” is in its fifth printing.

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