2023 Franklin Living January-February

HAPPILY EVER AFTER starts with a firm financial foundation. The average Listerhill member saves $538 a year (versus a traditional bank), so you’ll have more for the heels, honeymoon and house. At Listerhill, just like in marriage, it’s all about we.

Ah, the season of love is upon us!

It’s so fitting that our special bridal edition of Franklin Living is the January/February issue each year, coinciding with Valentine’s Day. Though sometimes the world feels dark and gray this time of year, with the end of the holiday season, a focus on love brings a little joy back into our days.

Starting on page 17 of this edition of Franklin Living, feast your eyes upon the beautiful weddings of three Franklin couples. They share all the details of their special days, as well as the love story that led up to the moment of the I do.

Of course, that’s not all we have to offer when it comes to love and romance. On pages 36-37, ministers from across Franklin County share thoughts from the Bible and from their own experiences to

encourage long-lasting marriages. Starting on page 11, enjoy the love story and farm life of a local couple. To plan a special meal for the one you love, check out Taste of Franklin on page 5.

Of course, we also have some great “non-lovey-dovey” content, too. Emily Mays has your bi-monthly financial advice on tap, and Heath Grimes gives us an update on the state of things in Russellville City Schools. Additionally, learn a little about the new Downtown Collective and its vision for the future of Russellville.

It’s all inside this edition. Thank you for your continued support of Franklin Living. We do it all for you – because we love ya!

Alison James

What’s Happening

Rockin’ at the Roxy

Jan. 14 and Feb. 11

Franklin County Basketball Tournament

Jan. 14-18

Check out all the upcoming community events!

Check out all the

upcoming community events!

Submit community events for future issues of Franklin Living to alison.james@franklincountytimes.com. Requests must be received by the first of the month for consideration for the next edition.

Submit community events for future issues of Franklin Living to alison.james@franklincountytimes.com. Requests must be received by the first of the month for consideration for the next edition.

LifeSouth Blood Drives

The second Saturday night of each month at 7 p.m. is the monthly Kerry Gilbert Band concert at the Historic Roxy Theatre in Russellville. The KGB will be joined by a special guest for each show. Doors open at 6 p.m. Admission is $15 for adults, $5 for children 6-12 and free for children younger than 6.

Red Bay, Tharptown, Vina, Belgreen and Phil Campbell basketball teams will face off on the court for the Franklin County Varsity Tournament. Teams will play at Red Bay in

January and February

Spring Sports Registration

Jan. 1 through Feb. 1 Jan. 29 through March 7

The LifeSouth bloodmobile is scheduled to be in Franklin County on the following dates: Jan. 12 at IHP in Russellville from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.; Jan. 18 at Listerhill Credit Union in Russellville from 10 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.; Jan. 20 at Franklin Homes in Russellville from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m.; and Jan. 25 at Red Bay Hospital in Red Bay from noon to 6 p.m. Donors must be in good health, 17 years old or older or 16 years old with parental permission, weigh at least 110 pounds and show a valid photo I.D. For more information visit www.lifesouth.org.

The Russellville Parks and Recreation Department will begin spring sports registration with soccer signups Jan. 1 through Feb. 1. Youth soccer is for boys and girls ages 3-12, and cost is $35. Teams will play their games at the soccer fields by the Chucky Mullins Center. Youth softball signup for girls ages 6-12 will begin Jan. 29 and continue through March 7, with a cost of $35. For more information call 256-332-8870, ext. 14.

Franklin County Basketball Tournament

Jan. 10-14

Rockin’ at the Roxy

Jan. 11 and Feb. 8

Red Bay, Tharptown, Vina, Belgreen and Phil Campbell teams will face off on the court for the annual Franklin County Varsity Basketball Tournament. Teams will play at Belgreen High School for this year’s competition. Divisions will include A-Junior Boys, JV girls, B-Varsity boys, and varsity boys and girls.

The second Saturday night of each month at 7 p.m. is the monthly Kerry Gilbert Band concert at the Historic Roxy Theatre in Russellville. The KGB will be joined by a special guest for

BTCPA’s “A Bad Year for Tomatoes”

Feb. 9-12

The Bay Tree Council for the Performing Arts in Red Bay will stage its second production of the season, “A Bad Year for Tomatoes,” Feb. 9-12, with dinner available before the play for all performances, at the Weatherford Center. Tickets go on sale Jan. 30. For information about bringing a group, contact Beth Hammock at 256-668-0045.

The Weigh-In Week for teams participating in Scale Back Alabama will be Jan. 20-26, kicking off the two and a half month program. SBA is a free statewide weight-loss campaign designed to encourage Alabamians to get healthy and have fun doing it. Since the first challenge in 2007, Alabamians have lost more than 1 million pounds. For more information, to sign up or to find a local weigh-in site, visit www.scalebackalabama.com.

Mountain Valley Hee Haw

There will be live music at Mountain Valley Hee Haw in Phil Campbell every Saturday night beginning at 7 p.m., featuring The House Band. For more information call 256-810-4840.

bloodmobile will be in Russellville Jan. 22 at IHP and Feb. 1 at Cricket Wireless. The bloodmobile will be at IHP from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. and at Cricket Wireless from noon to 7 p.m. For more

Franklin living

Recipes and photos by AMY DOLAN MCCOLLUM

CRESCENT ROLL TACO BAKE

Many of my favorite Mexican recipes are from my 20-plus years of teaching Family and Consumer Sciences. We entered the Franklin County Beef contest each year and found that Mexican recipes were very successful. This recipe is simple but delicious. It won first place in the junior beef division and was a classroom favorite.

Ingredients

• 1 1/2 lbs. lean ground beef

• 1/2 cup chopped sweet Vidalia onion

• 10-oz. can enchilada sauce

• 1 packet taco seasoning

• 8 oz. can refrigerated crescent roll dough

• 2 cups shredded Mexican-blend cheese

Instructions

1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

2. Cook beef and onion in a skillet over medium heat until beef is browned and crumbly; drain and return to skillet.

3. Stir in enchilada sauce and taco seasoning; cook five minutes or until slightly thickened.

4. Meanwhile, press the crescent rolls into a greased 13x9-inch baking dish, pressing perforations to seal. Bake 15 minutes.

5. Spoon meat mixture over crust and sprinkle with cheese.

6. Bake 20 minutes or until golden brown. Let stand 5 minutes.

7. Garnish with lettuce, tomatoes, sour cream, cilantro and additional cheese if desired before serving.

TASTE OF FRANKLIN

DORITO CASSEROLE

Ingredients

• 1 sweet Vidalia onion, finely chopped

• 1 1/2 lbs. ground beef or ground chuck (I prefer ground chuck)

• 1 packet taco seasoning

• 14.5-oz. can Rotel tomatoes

• 15-oz. can cream of chicken soup

• 9.25-oz. bag Doritos Nacho Cheese-Flavored Tortilla Chips

• 2 cups shredded Cheddar cheese

• Fresh cilantro to garnish

Instructions

1. In a medium skillet, brown the beef, breaking it up with a spatula, with the onion. Cook until beef is completely browned.

2. Add taco seasoning and stir to incorporate.

3. Mix in the Rotel tomatoes and cream of chicken soup and stir occasionally over medium-high about five minutes, or until the mixture thickens. Remove from heat.

4. Transfer chips from the Doritos bag to a large bowl. Use your hands to break up the chips until the pieces are small but not quite crumbs.

5. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

6. Pour one-third of the meat mixture in the bottom of a 9x13-inch baking dish. Sprinkle 1/2 cup shredded cheese over the layer of meat. Sprinkle half of the crushed Doritos evenly on top of the shredded cheese. Pour another third of the meat mixture on top of this Dorito layer and spread evenly over the chips.

7. Repeat the layering process with another 1/2 cup cheese and remaining Doritos. Pour remaining meat mixture over top and spread evenly.

8. Sprinkle remaining 1 cup shredded cheese on top.

9. Cover the baking dish with aluminum foil and bake for 30 minutes.

10. Remove the aluminum foil and bake until the cheese begins to brown, about 10 minutes.

11. Allow to cool slightly before serving with fresh cilantro to garnish.

12. Serve with a tossed salad, sour cream and Doritos.

TACO MEATLOAF

Ingredients

• 1 1/2 lbs. lean ground beef

• 1 small onion, chopped

• 1 cup crushed tortilla chips

• 3/4 cup shredded pepper jack cheese

• 1 packet taco seasoning

• 2 large eggs, beaten

• 1/2 cup milk

• 1/4 cup mild red taco sauce, or more to taste

Instructions

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

2. Mix together beef, onion, tortilla chips, pepper jack cheese and taco seasoning in a large bowl until combined.

3. Whisk together eggs, milk and taco sauce in a medium bowl. Add to beef mixture and stir until well combined.

4. Press mixture into a 9x5x3-inch loaf pan.

5. Pour a strip of taco sauce down the center of loaf.

6. Wrap the dish in aluminum foil.

7. Bake for about 45 minutes. Uncover and bake about 10 more minutes. An instant-read thermometer inserted into the center of loaf should read at least 160 degrees.

Ingredients

TACO SOUP

• 1 1/2 lbs. lean ground beef or ground chuck

• 1 small onion, diced

• 15-oz. can Rotel tomatoes, drained

• 15-oz. can diced tomatoes, undrained

• 2 16-oz. cans of chili beans, undrained

• 15-oz. can white kernel corn, drained

• 15-oz. can yellow whole kernel corn, drained

• 1 packet taco seasoning

• 1 packet dry ranch dressing mix

• Toppings: crushed tortilla chips, sour cream, shredded cheese, sliced green onions

Instructions

1. In a medium skillet, brown and crumble ground beef along with diced onion. Drain off excess grease and return to the skillet.

2. Add the taco seasoning to the beef, along with 1/3 cup of water. Cook for about five minutes on medium heat, stirring constantly.

3. Transfer ground beef and onion mixture to a slow cooker.

4. Add Rotel, diced tomatoes, both cans of corn, chili beans and taco seasoning to slow cooker.

5. Cover and cook on low for six to eight hours.

6. Serve with corn chips, sour cream and shredded cheese.

TASTE OF FRANKLIN

MEXICAN CORNBREAD MUFFINS

Ingredients

• 3 cups self-rising corn meal mix

• 3 tablespoons sugar

• 1 teaspoon salt

• 1 large sweet onion, chopped

• 1/4 to 1/2 cup. prepared, diced jalapeños (depending on taste preference)

• 1 1/2 cups sharp cheddar cheese, grated

• 15 oz. can cream-style corn

• 1/2 cup canola oil

• 1 cup milk

• 3 large eggs

Instructions

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

2. Generously spray two 12-cup muffin tins with cooking spray; set aside. (Do not use paper liners.)

3. In a large bowl, stir together the cornmeal, jalapeño peppers, onion, sugar, salt, and cheese.

4. In another bowl, break three eggs and beat lightly with a whisk.

5. Add the corn, milk and canola oil to eggs and stir.

6. Add this mixture all at once to the dry ingredients and stir until the dry ingredients are just moistened. Do not over mix!

7. Evenly divide the batter among the muffin tins.

8. Bake for 20 minutes or until golden brown. Cool 1-2 minutes before removing from the muffin tins.

9. Serve immediately or place in zip-top bags when cool and freeze to use later.

MEXICAN WEDDING COOKIE RECIPE

This recipe belonged to my mama. I remember her making these for us when I was growing up. I love these delicious cookies!

Ingredients

• 1 cup salted butter, softened

• 1/3 cup confectioners’ sugar

• 2 egg yolks

• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

• 2 1/3 cups all-purpose flour

• 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon

• 1 cup finely-chopped pecans

• Extra confectioners’ sugar

Instructions

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line baking sheets with parchment paper.

2. In a large bowl, beat butter and 1/3 cup confectioners’ sugar at medium speed with a mixer until creamy.

3. Add egg yolks and vanilla, beating until combined.

4. Add flour and cinnamon, beating until combined.

5. Stir in pecans.

6. Roll dough into 1-inch balls and place on prepared pans.

7. Bake for 17-20 minutes or until edges of cookies are golden brown.

8. Sift confectioners’ sugar over hot cookies and let cool on pans for three minutes.

9. Remove from pans and let cool completely on wire racks.

10. Sift confectioners’ sugar over cooled cookies.

11. Store in airtight containers for up to one week.

TASTE OF FRANKLIN

MEXICAN WAFER COOKIE BARK

Ingredients

• 1 tablespoon butter, melted

• 10-12 oz. bag white chocolate chips

• 12 Mexican pink wafer cookies, broken into pieces

Instructions

1. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Brush with melted butter.

2. Microwave white chocolate chips on high until melted; stir until smooth.

3. Pour melted chocolate onto prepared pan and sprinkle with broken wafer cookies.

4. Set aside for at least two hours until firm or refrigerate for 20 minutes.

5. Break into pieces and serve at room temperature.

MEXICAN CHOCOLATE CAKE

Ingredients

For the cake:

• 1 box devil’s food cake mix

• 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon

• 1 cup mini semisweet chocolate chips

For the frosting:

• 2 sticks butter

• 1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder

• 7 oz. jar marshmallow cream

• 1 cup confectioners’ sugar

Instructions

1. Heat oven to 350 degrees. Coat two 8x2in. round cake pans with non-stick spray.

2. Prepare cake mix as package directs, adding the cinnamon, and stir in the white chocolate chips.

3. Evenly divide batter into prepared pans and bake as package directs.

4. Cool cake layers in pans on wire racks for 15 minutes. Invert and remove from pans. Cool completely.

5. Frosting: Beat butter in a large bowl with mixer on medium until creamy. On low speed, beat in cocoa, marshmallow cream and then confectioners’ sugar. Increase speed to high and beat until fluffy, about three minutes.

6. Place a cake layer on a serving plate. Spread with 3/4 cup of frosting. Top with remaining cake layer. Frost sides and top of cake.

Forever and ever, amen

Eons ago – February 1988, to be more precise – Marla, who is now my wife of 34 years, and I became engaged and began planning a wedding.

Like many couples, we had “our song,” but other songs were also significant during our engagement. The iconic Randy Travis hit, “Forever and Ever, Amen” was one. An anthem for almost anyone planning to get married, it clearly stated the longevity goal for a marriage – forever and ever!

Then there was the lesser-known “Time In,» by the Oak Ridge Boys, about a couple who had raised a family and were now beginning to experience the joy of being empty-nesters; the couple now had «time in.» I remember listening to that song and imagining what married life would be like all those years down the road. Today, as we are now living that reality, I count it as an amazing blessing from God.

Far too many couples miss the blessing of that kind of marriage, and perhaps that is because they have never had a clear understanding of God’s role in the relationship. Scripture reveals marriage was first conceived in the mind of God. Since he invented it, the institution of marriage belongs to him – so it should come as no surprise that he has explained how it is supposed to work. God has explained how to have a healthy and long-lasting marriage.

What if more husbands were to commit to loving our wives “just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her” (Eph. 5:25)? What if more wives were to “be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord” (Eph. 5:22)? When both husband and wife are following God’s plan for marriage, the likelihood of a marriage that lasts is exponentially higher.

If you are planning to be married, the following advice is sure to be a blessing: First, make sure your spouse-to-be is committed to helping you spend eternity in heaven. Second, as a couple, be devoted to knowing what God intends for you. Both of you should be committed to spending time in God’s Word. Third, agree before you get married that you will be together in God’s house for worship every week. Finally, invest in quality pre-marital counseling from a Christian counselor. It will bless your relationship every day of your life.

God wants you to have a “Forever and Ever, Amen” kind of marriage. He wants you to one day have “Time In.” The key is following his plan for your marriage.

H e r e a t F i r s t S o u t h e r n B a n k , w e a r e c o m m i t t e d t o h e l p i n g y o u a c h i e v e y o u r f i n a n c i a l g o a l s ! F r o m b u y i n g y o u r f i r s t h o m e , t o s t a r t i n g a f a m i l y , t o g r o w i n g y o u r s m a l l b u s i n e s s ,

Philip Goad has been serving as the minister at North Highlands Church of Christ in Russellville since March 2020.

Phil Campbell couple shares

Love for farm life

Horse enthusiast and Franklin farm boy find each other through online dating and God’s hand

CAMP

Story and photos by MARÍA

Tucked away in a picturesque corner of Phil Campbell, Rise Again Riding School wel comes students ages 3 and older to learn about horses –and about life.

Working with horses is second nature for the school’s riding instructor, Jam Lee TePoel Saarinen, who said she has loved horses for “pretty much as long as I can remember.” She’s now been teaching consistently for about 23 years and averages 15 students a week. “Riding and learning about horses are excellent activities to do together,” she said. “Being around horses is therapeutic. They have a very calming effect.”

TePoel Saarinen moved to Phil Campbell in fall 2020. What brought her to the area was a love story years in the making.

She and now-husband Jeff Saarinen, a Phil Campbell native, met online through eHarmony. The two were initially hesitant to meet in person because they lived nearly eight hours apart. “We just talked as friends for a long time,” Jam explained, “and then we finally decided to meet.”

Jeff had been married previously. He said when his first wife passed away, he didn’t think he would ever get remarried and went through a long period of time when he was not interested in even looking. “One day, I suddenly got up, and I think God was just working in my heart, telling me it was time to move forward in my life,” he explained. “I couldn’t get any peace about it, and I finally just prayed and said, ‘Lord, if you’re wanting me to find someone else, I’m going to trust you to bring them into my life.’”

He said working on his farm kept him busy, not leaving much time to be social or pursue a relationship. After doing some research, he decided to give eHarmony a try. “They do a very good job of screening people,” he explained, “finding out your likes and dislikes, and I just felt led to try that out. As I recall, Jam and I were around a 98 percent match.”

Jam, who had not been married before, “was 42 and just looking for a committed Christian who wanted to live on a farm and live the kind of life I wanted. I had been praying about it a long time, and God put it on my heart to try this way,” she added. “I really feel like God led Jeff and I together.”

She describes him as “a wonderful man and a wonderful Christian.” She said one thing that really stood out for her in getting to know him was what a “giving heart” he has. When the two were still just getting to know each other, Jeff had followed Jam’s Facebook page and learned about one of her students, Briella, who had cerebral palsy and couldn’t afford lessons but very much wanted them. Jam gave her some discounted lessons, and Jeff donated a sizable sum to pay

for more. “When Jam told me about her,” he explained, “I just felt in my heart that I wanted to try to help and support her in more riding lessons.” Jam said this provided about 20 lessons for Briella, who really benefited from them.

It was after this expression of compassion that Jam said she started thinking more seriously about meeting Jeff. That’s when everything started coming together, despite their mutual concerns about the long-distance relationship that

Skoolboy is Jam’s favorite among their horses. “I got him when he was 6 months old,” she said, noting he’s now 26. “He was a stallion when we got him. I broke him to ride myself. He’s retired from showing now but is really sweet and has a good personality. He does walking and trotting lessons, and he’s great with the kids. A lot of them love riding him.”

would be required at first. “All through this, I just felt in my heart that Jam was the one God was pulling on my heart to be with, and I decided to trust Him, accepting that it would work out if it was meant to be,” Jeff explained, “and it did, and it has been wonderful.”

“I feel like it was all God leading us,” Jam agreed.

God’s leading also had a hand in the naming of Rise Again Riding School. “God kind of put the name on my heart,” explained Jam. She said it has both practical and spiritual meanings, including that Christ will rise again, as well as that people should rise again and get back on if they fall off a horse. It’s also a reminder to those stumbling in life or spiritually to rise up and try again. Additionally, it’s in reference to a part of English riding called a “rising trot,” also known as “posting.”

A “theme verse” from the NLT Bible goes along with the name: Micah 7:8, which says, “Do not gloat over me, my enemies. For though I fall, I will rise again. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord himself will be my light.”

Jeff said his main exposure to horses has been since he and Jam got married. He has worked with poultry and other animals over the years but had only had limited exposure to horses. “It’s been an enjoyable journey,” he added. “I enjoy the one-on-one interaction with horses. They have their own unique personalities, and I have a closer bond with certain ones.”

He explained living and working on a farm can be difficult and stressful at times but notes there’s something “kind of peaceful about it,” adding the horses help with that. His favorite is Lola, who

Jam describes as a “great big 17-hand draft horse – huge, very gentle and sweet.”

They also have Jam’s favorite, Skoolboy, and five other horses: Sage, 27; Rain, an Appaloosa; Pepper, a Pony of the Americas; Mara; and Big John, a half-draft, halfpaint horse. In addition to running the riding school, they raise Kiko goats and operate a pullet house, where they raise chickens for Mar Jac Poultry.

The riding school, located at 240 Cochran Road, holds birthday parties and special event days, such as an equine field day for 4-H students in the Franklin

County Horse Club. At a special event the day after Thanksgiving, students did crafts and Bible activities while learning about and working with the horses. They were given the option to participate in a horse devotional at the end of lesson.

Students learn basic grooming, parts of a horse and safety, including “the right way to fall,” Jam explained. Children play age-appropriate games to help learn balance and coordination, as well as learn skills to help prepare them for school and life in general, including math skills. Jam said life lessons

learned from horseback

Lola is Jeff’s favorite horse.

Big John is a half-draft, half-paint horse.

riding lessons include responsibility, patience, commitment and discipline. Lessons are offered both mounted and unmounted.

“Students learn to put the needs of the horse first, as well as how to solve problems with kindness and build relationships based on trust, not to mention goal-setting and accomplishment, as well as delayed gratification,” Jam explained. Her students are also offered the opportunity to participate in horse shows.

Sisters Elizabeth, 11, and Emily, 12, Yancey, of Phil Campbell, describe their lessons as “calming, therapeutic and fun,” and Jam said she can tell their confidence has improved since they started. At home, they have a pony, Zack, and a mid-size horse, Sparky.

“I think the riding lessons are teaching them responsibility,” explained their mother, Amie Yancey. “It builds their confidence and their character. Jam is very patient with her riders and knows how to teach them and help them feel comfortable.”

Yancey said Jam is good at detecting what each rider needs and which horse they need to ride to feel more comfortable. “My girls love coming every week,” Yancey added. “They like the games Jam plays with them to teach them things, and they are so busy having fun they don’t even realize they’re learning sometimes.”

Thirteen-year-old Debora Sagastume has been riding for the past nine months. “Horses are really nice,” she explained. “I love them. I like trotting with horses. Mara is my favorite. She’s really smooth to ride – very gentle and pretty.”

Mother Vilma Sagastume said the riding lessons have been good for Debora. “She enjoys coming. She’s always happy to learn about horses and get to spend time with them, and it helps her learn more patience.”

Eric and Giovanna Jenkie’s two daughters also take lessons together at Rise Again Riding School. “They love horses,” explained Giovanna. “They enjoy the environment, being out in the country and learning new skills. They have a horse, Maggie, at home, and the lessons help them know how to work with her better.”

Eric said Jam’s focus on safety is important to them, noting she helps her young riders learn to pay attention to details.

“I love seeing my students learn to interact with horses and the joy it brings them to be able to control a large animal. I take safety very seriously and require all my students to wear SEI-approved riding helmets,” Jam said.

As part of lessons, students care for their horses before and after, take care of the tack, learn the value of focus and practice and work to improve empathy.

“It takes time to build balance and core strength before learning to canter fast, gallop or jump,” Jam explained, noting students sometimes get impatient, wishing they could get to those points sooner. “They have to realize they’re learning things in their lessons like how to do a rising trot with and without stirrups and how to do a two-point position. They have to learn certain things before they can progress to the next thing.”

Most recently from Tazewell, Va., Jam’s journey to riding instructor started at 7 years old when she had her first riding lesson with Snuff, a Welsh Pony, while her family was living in North Dakota. She said she fell in love with riding and being with horses right away and took weekly lessons. “I was very happy and excited,

Debora adjusts Skoolboy’s bridle.

Emily, Elizabeth and Debora are ready for their riding lessons.

Five-year-old Isabella Sagustume enjoys her horse lessons.

and I’ve been riding ever since,” she explained, noting her riding lessons were a Christmas present. She describes that first lesson as “exhilarating,” – the spark that started her life journey of appreciating, learning, teaching and working with horses.

When the family moved to Virginia, she got her first horse, Pherzella, a 12-year-old grey registered Arabian mare, when she was 12 years old herself. Pherzella was pregnant, and Jam’s family started raising horses.

“We would always imprint the foals when they were born, and I would do the breaking and training of the young horses and get them ready for sale. At one point, we had 27 horses,” she added.

They quit breeding horses around 2009 and started keeping only riding horses. Jam eventually began teaching riding lessons after graduating high school, continuing some while in college.

While in her senior year of vet school at Virginia Tech, she rented a seven-bedroom farm with a house and barn on 10 acres. She had horses she rented, and

she rented a room to another girl so she could also ride and help with the horses.

In addition to her work on the riding school and farm, Jam is the official volunteer leader for the Franklin County 4-H Horse Club, and students have been to the farm to meet and learn about

the horses. She and one of her students, 22-year-old Morgan Russ, are signed up to attend training sessions for horse judging for 4-H and FFA teams.

For more information, visit Rise Again Riding School’s Facebook page, email RARSriding@gmail.com or call 540-230-9777.

Debora, Elizabeth and Emily are among Jam’s riding students.

Elizabeth grooms Mara.

The Brides Here come

Maggie&Patrick

Maggie is from Russellville, and Patrick is from Tuscumbia. The happy couple now resides in Tuscumbia following their Oct. 8, 2022 wedding.

HOW THEY MET: Patrick and Maggie knew of each other for years, but Maggie’s brother-in-law and Patrick’s distant cousin, Seth Pendergrass, introduced and encouraged the two to date. Maggie was living in Birmingham attending law school when Patrick asked her on the couple’s first true date at Longhorn Steakhouse. Maggie was focused on finishing law school before jumping into a relationship, so the two lost touch until she graduated. When Maggie moved back to the north Alabama area and began her career as an attorney in Decatur, just minutes from Patrick’s work, it was truly fate. Patrick reached back out to Maggie after almost two years, and the two rekindled their relationship at Swamper’s Bar and Grill – the place they always return to now for special occasions. After that, they were almost inseparable. To this day, Maggie often thanks Patrick for being patient and never failing to pursue her and their relationship.

THE PROPOSAL: Patrick and Maggie knew they would marry sooner rather than later, and the two talked about the proposal often. Maggie gave Patrick some hints and requests to follow when planning the proposal. First, she wanted it to be a complete surprise both to her and her very close-knit

family. Second, she wanted the two to be alone when the special moment happened. And lastly, she wanted Patrick to pop the question at a place the two could always return.

May 14, 2022, Patrick told Maggie he needed to go to the family cabin on Cedar Lake to turn off the water and check on the progress of the new landing before they went to dinner at Swamper’s that night. The couple arrived at the cabin, where Patrick pretended to turn off the water, and then the two proceeded to the lakefront. After looking at the new landing, Patrick asked Maggie what was on the neighbor’s pier. As she turned to look, there hung a sign reading “Will you marry me?” After Maggie’s tearful “yes,” the couple proceeded to the pier to retrieve the sign. When they arrived at the neighbor’s property, owned by Ron Crow Sr., some of Maggie’s family friends were there, the Kiel family, to assist in taking pictures and to congratulate the couple. Jamie Kiel loved the opportunity to tell Maggie’s mother and aunts that he knew about Maggie’s engagement before any of them.

LET’S CELEBRATE: An intimate engagement celebration, cupcakes and champagne, was held at Maggie’s sister’s home.

WEDDING TEAM

Venue: George’s 217

Wedding director: Samantha Stone

Florist: Chase Sparks, Russellville Florist & Gifts

Catering: George’s 217

Cake: The Mustard Seed Bakery, Samantha Montgomery and The Donut Shoppe

Photographer: Right Brain Photography

Engagement Photos: Cortney Green

Invitations: Ledgewood Fine Stationery

Wedding dress: Cherry Tree Lane

Bridesmaid dresses: Azazie

Hair and make-up: Salon St. Clair; Sophie Hill and Tara Hill

Spray Tan: Get Glowing

Balloon Arch: Trey’s Balloon Bar

Men’s attire: Cherry Tree Lane and Coats Clothing Co.

Music: Kinfolk; Michael and Sera Rice and Kassidy McCorkle

Travel Agent: Cassie Goodwin, Joyous Adventures with Cassie

Jeweler: Grogan Jewelers by Lon

Lodging: Stricklin Hotel

For pre-wedding celebrations, a Bridal Coffee was held at the home of Addie Harbin, hosted by friends and family; a Bridal Brunch took place at the home of Sherene Wade, hosted by Dana Aycock, Penny Pickett, Samantha Stone, Missy Hargett, Lacy Hargett, Ponda Gordon and Lela Ray; and a Bachelorette Celebration was held at the home of Kara Pendergrass hosted by Addie Harbin, Shelby Stephens Hovator and Shelby Hovator. The rehearsal dinner was a fun, casual event of pizza and drinks hosted at George’s 217.

THE WEDDING: Patrick and Maggie were married in an intimate ceremony at George’s 217 in Sheffield Oct. 8, 2022, surrounded by close friends and family.

The couple chose a ceremony and reception style that mimicked their own personalities, opting for traditional elements that evoked timeless elegance – with a twist, of course. From the unconventional aspects to the bride’s dress, to the timeless classic of filling the space with candlelight, the day was the perfect combination of the couple’s unique styles. Even the signature cocktails spoke to the couple’s personalities – bloody mary for the groom and margarita for the bride.

Most important to the bride was to fill the ceremony and reception with sentimental items to symbolize the true meaning behind the wedding – from wearing her cousin’s veil and sister’s reception jumpsuit, to adorning the cake and donut table with heirloom items from her family, such as her great-grandmother’s tablecloth that each woman in her family had used before her. Stemware for first toast and the vase holding the floral arrangement on the couple’s table at the reception were all treasured heirlooms from Maggie’s great-great grandparents. Maggie and Patrick chose to combine their families as one and celebrate the beginning of their new union.

FAVORITE MOMENT: Patrick and Maggie’s favorite part of the day was riding away after the reception in the groom’s first car, a Jeep Wrangler given to him by his late grandfather.

WHAT THEY LOVE: Patrick’s favorite thing about his bride is her bubbly personality. From dancing while she cooks to getting the couple’s pups riled up, Maggie is always keeping Patrick on his toes. Maggie’s favorite thing about Patrick is his patience and calmness. He always knows just how to calm her when she needs it the most. His ability to turn her mood upward makes them the perfect match.

Hargett Lacey&Evan

Lacey and Evan are both from Belgreen. The happy couple now resides in Russellville following their July 9, 2022, wedding.

WEDDING TEAM

Venue: Triple H Barn

Wedding planner: Dana Aycock and Samantha Stone

Florist: Dana Aycock and Samantha Stone

Cake: Samantha Montgomery

Photographer: Michael Vandiver

Wedding dress: The Something Blue Shoppe

Hair and make-up: Hair by Bethany Mansell, Makeup by Brianna Robison

Men’s attire: Men’s Warehouse

Music: JB Nelson

Rentals and décor: Party Pros

HOW THEY MET: Lacey and Evan first met during high school. Evan tried to pursue Lacey, however, things did not work out. Evan asked Lacey on a date years later after both of them had returned to Franklin County. They had an instant connection and fell in love quickly. They were inseparable from their first date forward.

FIRST DATE: Evan and Lacey’s first date was wonderful. The conversation was easy, and they were both smitten instantly. They enjoyed a nice, yummy steak at Conner’s Steakhouse at Bridge Street. After they ate, they shopped around for Evan a new suit for work. Lacey had lots of fun dressing Evan up and helping him pick out a new suit and tie.

THE PROPOSAL: Evan proposed to Lacey in his apartment. It was a very sweet, intimate proposal. Lacey had an idea the proposal was coming – it was evident when he was about to propose because he was acting very anxious all of a sudden!

THE WEDDING: The wedding took place at Triple H Barn in Russellville. It was a simple, intimate wedding celebrated with the couple’s closest family and friends.

FAVORITE MOMENT: Lacey’s favorite moment of the wedding was when they exchanged vows. There were lots of happy tears shed, and they knew the significance of their vows. Evan’s favorite moment was the first look. He thought Lacey looked

stunning, and he could not wait for the ceremony so he could officially call her his wife!

Spencer Allison &

Isaac

Allison is from Russellville, and Isaac is from Red Bay. The happy couple now resides in Red Bay following their Nov. 5, 2022 wedding.

HOW THEY MET: Allison and Isaac met through mutual friends. At first, nothing happened; they just introduced themselves and then went on about their night. About four months later they saw each other in Florence, and again, nothing happened. Fast forward four weeks; Allison was getting ready for a concert and had a friend request from Isaac. The twi exchanged phone numbers and began to talk all night. The concert was on a Thursday night, and Allison drove all the way home to Russellville from Tuscaloosa that night. Isaac stayed up with her to make sure she had made it home safely. He called the next day and asked if she had plans. That Friday night was their very first date.

FIRST DATE: The couple went to a local Mexican restaurant in Belmont, Miss. It was a typical first date, with questions like what do you do, do you have hobbies, who are your parents, etc. When the question about birthdays came up, Isaac said he wished he could change his birthday, and Allison said she bet her birthday was worse. They went back and forth on who had the worst birthday. Allison asked Isaac when his birthday was, and he responded with Dec. 21. Allison knows her jaw hit the floor; she thought he was pranking her. Isaac asked when Allison’s birthday was, and she said Dec. 21. His face lit up with pure shock. She handed him her ID, and they laughed for a good 10 minutes.

WEDDING TEAM

Venue: Community Church at Hackleburg

Florist: Brittni’s Florist and Gifts

Catering: Pam Hester

Cake: Lynsi Fincher

Photographer: Mandi Nunley Photography

Videographer: Eleven9 Media

Invitations: Shutterfly

Wedding dress: Cherry Tree Lane

Bridesmaid dresses: Kay Kreations

Hair and make-up: Bethany Mansell

Men’s attire: Kyle & Company Menswear

Music: Community Church at Hackleburg

THE PROPOSAL: The proposal was at the lake. Allison’s mom and Isaac’s mom and friend were there to take photos. Allison was so excited, she wanted to call everyone, and Isaac said to wait until the couple got home. She was confused why he wanted her to wait, but when they pulled in his driveway, all of the couple’s friends and family were there for a surprise party.

THE WEDDING: The wedding took place at Community Church at Hackleburg. It rained all day, but that didn’t stop the couple or their guests. They felt so loved by

everyone coming and celebrating the day with them.

FAVORITE MOMENT: Allison’s favorite wedding moment was the introduction of the parties. She and Isaac had selected different songs for their groomsmen, bridesmaids and themselves to walk out to. It was a hit, and everyone enjoyed it. Isaac’s favorite wedding moment was the first look. He was so nervous to see Allison, and when he turned around and saw her standing there, he completely fell in love all over again. She was and is still the most beautiful bride.

WHAT THEY LOVE: Allison loves how compassionate Isaac is, with a heart of gold. She feels so blessed to have such a sweet and caring husband. Isaac loves Allison’s big heart for others and thinks she is absolutely beautiful, inside and out.

FINAL THOUGHTS: Isaac and Allison would like to thank each and every person who played a part in their wedding day. It would have not been possible without them. The couple is so blessed to have so many sweet and loving people in their lives.

Go back to basics with your finances

Sometimes the best advice is the simplest.

Many times, when it comes to our finances, we get so overwhelmed with anxiety that we never even start with a new goal or plan. With that in mind, the new year is a great time to take it back to the basics of just good old-fashioned advice around finances.

Some of these truths we have heard before or all of our lives; we just need to be reminded of from time to time.

1. Saving will always be the most important and the hardest lesson we learn. The sooner you start, the better off you’ll be.

2. Having money in your account does not necessarily mean you have money to spend. Just because there’s money there, that doesn’t guarantee it’s actually «available.» As a banker, I can tell you: We live in a society that does not keep up with their check register. That is a life lesson we should all be learning. Keep up with how much money you actually have!

3. Comparison is a thief of joy. Buying something just because you want to be like someone else will never leave you truly happy. If you find yourself buying just for the sake of keeping up appearances – don’t. Wait two weeks, wait 30 days, then

see if you still want it – especially in the world of “influencers” we are inundated with today.

4. When it rains, it usually pours. So, plan accordingly. Just about the time you need new tires, the washing machine is going to go out, or there will be a leak in the roof, or a kid will need braces. An emergency fund can make a lot of difference in these situations.

5. Learn to live on less than you earn. This might mean getting budget-focused, which I know sounds horrible. It isn’t that bad if you think of it as more of a challenge than a punishment. The budget helps you figure out how much you have to spend, save and splurge. Once you identify these numbers based on your income, all the other financial goals can fall into place.

Diligence pays off. The top money habit we can learn is to stay diligent! Mistakes will happen, and just like a GPS, we must recalculate and get back on the right path.

Emily Mays is vice president/chief administrative officer at Community Spirit Bank in Red Bay, working in finance for 15 years. She is an enthusiastic social media marketer, financial literacy advocate and go-local supporter.

A vision for Russellville Downtown Collective forms, Aspiring to next level for city

Story by ALISON JAMES Photos by MARÍA CAMP

New life is coming for Russellville – at least, if the Downtown Collective has anything to say about it.

The Downtown Collective is the official name of the board that has formed to see downtown Russellville returned to its former glory – or, perhaps, to find new glory worthy of its future.

“We have a strong historic core, and that gives us a great place to start. As I’ve heard often, downtown revitalization is a forever activity, so success right now is movement, taking little steps that build

into something larger,” explained Julie McKinney, president of the newly-formed board.

McKinney and her husband Mitch began leading the charge for downtown’s renewal when their family moved to Russellville a couple of years ago. Julie, 47, grew up in Russellville, a 1994 graduate of Russellville High School. Mitch is a Georgia native, and the couple settled in the Atlanta area after college. After 20 years of watching downtown Atlanta grow and thrive, they began to yearn for a similar revitalization in Julie’s hometown. “We

watched the world around us in Atlanta grow and change, and we saw the potential here,” Julie explained. “Just to watch that and see the potential, it was like, ‘Why can’t we do this here?’”

Although the city welcomed the McKinneys’ involvement in the already-existing downtown redevelopment committee, they said energy was lacking – so they took over to lead the charge. “We just – jumped in and did it,” Julie said.

The first goal was to get Russellville affiliated with Main Street Alabama, a

non-profit coordinating agency that guides its designated communities to “create jobs, spark new investment, attract visitors and spur growth.” With a four-point approach that includes organization, promotion, design and economic vitality, Main Street Alabama has helped more than two dozen cities across Alabama to renew their communities and find new life.

The McKinneys took charge to apply for Russellville to become a Main Street designated community. Ultimately the state group decided Russellville isn’t

ready – but was so impressed by the McKinneys’ effort, it created a brand new level of involvement, with Russellville serving as the pilot city. At the new Aspiring tier, “communities receive training and resources to strengthen their organizational foundation, including volunteer development and economic impact training.”

“I think they realized the amount of work to become designated is a lot, so this is a year program prepping you, as a stair step basically to get you designated,” Julie explained.

Since the Aspiring designation was announced in August 2022, progress has continued fairly quickly. Main Street hosted a community meeting at the Historic Roxy Theatre in September to share information and discuss next steps, and board members began to be sought for the Downtown Collective.

Mitch is serving as vice president/president elect for the new board. An attorney, the 49-year-old said he has always heard from his wife “how vibrant downtown Russellville used to be, and it makes me look forward to bring just some of that back.”

Matt Cooper

“As a downtown property/business owner and a resident of Russellville/ Franklin County, I am interested in seeing more opportunities for recreation/entertainment for citizens – a place where people can congregate, dine and shop,” said Mitch. “The Main Street program is a proven way of infusing new life and vitality in downtowns across not just the state of Alabama but across the U.S. It is a way of not trying to reinvent the wheel by using something that is proven.”

When the process first began to form the Downtown Collective, the McKinneys focused on the importance of having a variety of voices on the board. “It takes time and talent from everybody,” Julie said. “It’s going to take everybody from every angle to pull it off. The collective effort brings so much to the table.” Thanks to thank focus, a diversity of people have come to the table.

“Russellville is very near and dear to my heart, and I am proud to be a resident. I wanted to help in this endeavor to have a positive impact on my community,” explained Blake Evetts, owner/operator of H&H Property Management, who is serving as treasurer for the group. “Mitch McKinney actually performed a closing for a piece of real estate that I purchased; he told me about the project, and I actively lobbied to join.”

Kassie Franks, secretary, said she decided to get involved after joining downtown’s Facebook page and seeing the efforts that were being made. “I want to show my kids that it is important to be involved in your community and projects that support or help your community,” said Franks, a branch sales manager at CB&S Bank. She and her husband Jesse have two children, 9-year-old Jason and 5-year-old Emmett. “I have always wished there was something to do in our downtown area. As teenagers, if we wanted to go do something fun or entertaining we had to go to the Shoals area. I want to see Russellville strive.”

Other board members include Guillermo Vasquez, Maleia Gist and Matt Cooper, as well as three non-voting liaison

members: Belinda Miller, representing the City of Russellville; Cassie Medley, representing the Franklin County Chamber of Commerce; and Sherye Price, representing Franklin County.

“I’m especially excited about the younger group that has stepped up to say they want this town to have a legacy for their kids and be a place to begin their careers,” said Julie. “I believe we all bring different talents and skills to the table. We also have some strong committees that represent the four pillars of Main Street Alabama.”

Improving downtown is not a quick or easy task. The biggest hurdle is waiting and being patient with the process.

Kassie Franks Blake Evetts

As a board, members of the Downtown Collective are largely focused on the same needs for downtown, from restaurants and retail to entertainment options.

“If we can attract new business so locals, instead of spending their money elsewhere, spend it here – it would help not only the upcoming investors but the businesses already operating in our town,” noted Vasquez, a local insurance agent. “My kids love their town, and if I can part of the evolution, it would be an honor … We have to mold our community for future generations, and the community

that I’m part of (Latino) has become an important and maybe essential part.”

As a representative of the Latino community in Russellville, Vasquez has recently been part of local involvement by assisting the 2020 census effort. He and his wife Jakelin have three children – ages 16, 12 and 5 – and he said he cherishes memories of time spent downtown in the summer with his friends.

“I hope to bring many ideas to the table,” he said. “In my case, I hope to help build a bridge with the Hispanic community … As a business owner, I hope to

bring ideas and try to propose ways to facilitate a process to get investors interested in downtown Russellville.”

Empty buildings and languishing side streets will, of course, be a crucial focus for the group.

“Main Street will provide an economic study to give direction into what is needed,” explained Medley. “MainStreet does a remarkable job energizing downtowns across the state. I see potential for growth with new downtown businesses, offering more opportunities to shop local … Improving downtown is not a quick or

Belinda Miller

Guillermo Vasquez

Mitch and Julie McKinney

easy task. The biggest hurdle is waiting and being patient with the process.”

“Gaining traction with actual property owners will be a challenge,” Evetts added. “It’s hard to convince someone to agree to an ‘agreed upon color palette’ when you have no way of even contacting them. We will have to leverage all resources available to overcome this.”

Although the challenges might be many – “The most important thing will be educating the community and business owners of what all Main Street has to offer and the importance of an attractive downtown,” noted Franks – the potential is monumental, and the current energy level is key.

“I have been working in downtown Russellville at CB&S Bank since I was 16 years old and have lived in Russellville all of my life. I remember times when the downtown area was a more vibrant and busy area,” said Cooper, who has been a constant in downtown efforts over the years. “The mayor and city council have worked hard over the past eight to 10 years to improve the streetscape and see more business grow, but I feel like the Main Street designation can help take us to the next level.

“I feel like I bring the knowledge of what has been done to this point, and organization will be where I am most involved,” added Cooper, who with his wife Greta has three children – Madeline, 19, Bryson, 15, and Jack, 9. “The Main Street program offers great research into our area, and if given the final designation, we will have to take that information and properly organize to maximize the potential.”

Julie said one thing that will be important in this process is “getting every single person living here to realize and believe they have a stake in downtown.”

“It is a shared vision that requires work, both individual and team effort,” she explained. “We have already heard anecdotal stories that show us gaps in communication and awareness. That’s something we can tackle as a liaison between various leaders in the community. The board will need courage to dream and ask for things. I know Mitch and I have already been inspired by support we’ve experienced in one-on-one discussions.”

In the latter part of 2022, the group was focused on interviewing and hiring a part-time director to help lead its efforts –a Main Street requirement. Going forward, the focus for 2023 will be “getting ready to reapply for designation; working on an inventory of all downtown buildings; and completing a placemaking project before May when the next presentations will take place,” Julie explained.

Board members are eager to see their efforts bear fruit.

“I feel as if downtown has been forgotten about,” said Miller, who is city clerk/treasurer for the City of Russellville. “We live in a ‘fast-paced’ world, so everything has conveniently moved to the

The Main Street program is a proven way of infusing new life and vitality in downtowns across not just the state of Alabama but across the U.S. It is a way of not trying to reinvent the wheel by using something that is proven.

main highway. Our goal with Main Street is to bring back life and that charm to our downtown.”

Miller and her husband Jason, a Franklin County commissioner and owner of Miller’s Affordable Furniture, have three children: Hunter, 16, Jaxon, 8, and Elizabeth, 3. She said she carries fond memories of cruising the strip as a young person in Russellville. “It was a safe place for most teenagers,” she said. In the future, she hopes to make fond memories downtown with her children – “eating out for the weekend and the kids getting ice cream afterwards.”

That’s a dream that’s shared.

“I have lived in Russellville my entire life and have always admired the tradition and diversity our city has to offer,” Franks added. “I would like to help highlight those things and bring new and exciting things into our town … I would love for downtown to offer enough businesses in all areas of entertainment. This could lead to memories for others like first dates. I would love to see people be able to say their first time performing live or displaying their art was at an event in downtown Russellville.

“I want Russellville downtown to be a place where people come park their cars and walk around for a day of eating, shopping, entertainment and treats.”

“There are so many wonderful people here that I have full confidence that we can improve downtown,” Mitch added. “I think it will be gradual and with each effort to bring a new business or event into the area, it will hopefully build on itself. I do think great strides have already been made.”

The wheels are turning, and now is the time to get on board for the future of downtown Russellville. “If you truly want the these new businesses to come to Russellville, please show it by supporting them,” Evetts said. “I believe our downtown is in dire need of life.”

Cassie Medley

Maleia Gist

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Sending messages of love

Every child – and adult – needs to be reminded often that people love and value him or her. Often we get busy and forget to send messages of love to our children –or we send messages poorly, or we send only angry messages.

Sometimes we send a message of love, but the child does not receive it. It is as though we are speaking different languages. There are at least three “languages” of love: showing, telling and touching. Consider examples of each:

SHOWING: A child who likes show-me messages of love might want you to do things for her. She might want you to wash the dishes for her, buy her a gift, take time with her, take her for ice cream or repair her bike.

TELLING: A tell-me child wants to hear words like, “I love you.” “You’re important to me.” “I love to be with you.”

TOUCHING: A touch-me child might want a parent to hug him, rock him, cuddle him or hold his hand.

That all seems easy enough. Sometimes, however, the message of love does not get through because we do not speak the child’s “language.” For example, if I send a message of love to my daughter by telling her that I love her, but she wants me to take time to fix her bike, she might not get a message of love. She might feel I do not really care. To make it more complicated, if you have more than one child, each child probably has a different way of getting messages of love.

How can you effectively send a message of love to a child?

One way is to notice what your child asks for. Does he want time, attention, a listening ear, materials for a hobby, outings? Another way is to notice how the child sends messages of love to you and others. Does she tell you, hug you, write you notes, clean up

the house? Observing these things can help you know how to be more effective at sending messages to a given child.

You can learn to send the right messages of love to your children. Think of each of your children and consider what method would be effective in sending messages of love.

Schedule special time with each child. It could be a “date” or even a “chore,” as children often enjoy even jobs that seem like “work” if they provide a special time to be with the parent. For example, a child might feel important if allowed to go grocery shopping with a parent, especially if the child is allowed to help.

At least once every day we should find some way of sending a message of love to each child. That might include taking a few minutes in the evening to talk with a child about her day; inviting your son to help you cook dinner; reading a story to your daughter. Every day the message of love should get through to each child.

One additional note: Be sure to send clear messages, and don’t let anger obscure your messages of love. In any family there are times of conflict. It is not reasonable to believe there can be no differences, arguments or fights at home. By learning to control the problems, however, we can be sure the message of love is still getting through.

Children want to know that they are loved and valued by their parents. We can be effective at sending messages of love if we learn their “language,” send messages regularly, schedule special time with them, and avoid letting anger block our message.

Katernia Cole Coffey is director of the Franklin County Cooperative Extension. To reach the Extension call 256-332-8880.

A word of advice

Men of faith share best guidance for marriage

When it comes to assuring a long and happy marriage, there’s certainly more than one school of thought. For ministers of various faiths across Franklin County, the key can be found within the word of God. Even some of the most common sense marriage advice can be found rooted in scripture. Here’s the advice a few local men of faith believe to be most crucial, when it comes to marital bliss:

“ Iwould say to certainly keep God at the center of the covenant relationship, which is what marriage is – a covenant relationship between the man, woman and God. Always have good communication – open and honest communication – and keep things focused on the issue at hand. Don’t go to bed angry – try to talk things out. Always seek the other’s best interest, and remember that love requires sacrifice.”

–TODD OWEN

Pastor, Russellville First United Methodist Church

“ It goes back to Genesis 2. My wife and I, we’ve been married for 10 years now, and a lot of that has to do with forsaking all others and cleaving to each other – not leaving room for divorce. There will be days when we have disagreements, but we’re not going to look to someone else. When you have that sincere commitment – putting the Lord first and then your spouse after that – it certainly does make things easier to have a happy marriage and a happy life after that.”

–DANIEL PARRISH

Preacher, Russellville church of Christ

“ Communication – open, honest, truthful communication and having a level of trust for one another. Trusting your spouse and talking about anything and everything. It helps you avoid misperceptions and shows there’s nothing to hide, which encourages trust as opposed to mistrust. Today people interpret things through a filter, or doubts are planted by outside sources, so communication allows you to express your thoughts and feelings – to understand and be understood. Also, make time for one another. Don’t be so busy. You find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with – spend some of your life with them, instead of spending so much time on work or other things.”

–STEVE LINDSAY

Paster, Red Bay Free Will Baptist Church

“ To someone that’s going into a new marriage, consider the idealization of marriage. Each person has an idea of what marriage is, and what their ideals are versus reality is usually really far apart. That’s why pre-marriage counseling is a good tool. Even if you’ve been married for quite a while, counseling can be helpful because it helps deal with that idealization. Being in a church that can go along beside a couple and help show them what a marriage is to be, biblically, the different roles of the man and the woman – God made us equal, but a man and a woman have different, specific roles they play in that marriage. Find a good church that can help instruct. The Bible says, ‘In a multitude of counselors there is safety.’ When you can have good godly people who have been married for a long time as mentors, it’s going to help you figure out some things that, going in, you just really didn’t have a grasp of.”

–DEREK WASHINGTON

Pastor, Russellville First Free Will Baptist Church

Ahappy marriage is when people live by what God’s word, the Bible teaches. Work together and consider each other feelings. That’s what really keeps a marriage together and makes a happy marriage. Live your life according to God’s word, and people can get along.”

–GARY CARTER

Preacher, Washington Avenue church of Christ

“ In order to have a happy marriage, first of all, Christ must be first in your life and in your spouse’s life. If you do what Christ wants you to do, you’ll always please your spouse, if they’re a believer. The second thing would be to love each other with an agape love. In English there’s one word for love, but there’s three words in the Greek. One is phileo love, or friendship love. Then you have eros love, or erotic love. Then you have agape love, and that’s self-sacrificing love. When the Bible says, ‘Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church,’ he uses that self-sacrificing love. Marriages can’t survive on friendship love, and marriages can’t survive on sensual love – but on agape love. It’s not what I can get out of it but what I can give my spouse. Some people say marriage is 50/50, but it’s not. It’s 100/100.”

–SAMMY TAYLOR

Pastor, Mountain View Baptist Church

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FACES OF FRANKLIN COUNTY

A WALK THRU BETHLEHEM

Russellville First Baptist hosted this live walking nativity experience titled A Walk Thru Bethlehem in December. The interactive event, including live animals, was designed to take people back to the time of Christ’s birth.

Photos by MARÍA CAMP

Bradley Townsend, Linda Mueller, Lynn Suddith and Renee Reed

Angela Pierce

Jessica Sharp and Sheila Woods

Ashleigh Raney

Debbie Beason

Larry Dover and Eddie Beason

Mary Elizabeth Peters

John Payne and Jimmy Pearson

Kaitlyn and Dana Balding

Trevor Allison

FACES OF FRANKLIN COUNTY

Franklin living

Scott and Kristie Daniel

Bill Allen and Nestle

Sandy Montgomery and Teresa Alsbrooks

Addie Strickland, Frieda Ellison and Hugh Plott

Lakin Derrick, Maria Gonzalez and Beth and Larry Gilmer

Kathy Cleveland, LeAnn Strickland and Monica Balding

Linda Parmer and Janice Dover

Nehemias Garcia, Ed Lucas, Taylor Morgan, Sheryl Plott, Hillary Hall, David Balding and Noah Brady

Judy Baker, Jessie Patrick and Anna Harper

It’s a Love Story

While away the gloomy gray days of winter with a good book. In the mood for a little romance? Northwest-Shoals Community College library director Lori Skinner has a few titles to recommend:

“Veil of Night”

By Linda Howard

In “Veil of Night” by Alabama author Linda Howard, Jaclyn Wilde is a wedding planner who loves her job – until her latest client turns out the be the worst bridezilla ever. When the bride is murdered, everyone involved in the ceremony is under suspicion, with Jaclyn being the prime suspect. Complications arise when the detective assigned to the case discovers he and Jaclyn have a romantic past.

“Lady Be Good”

By Susan Elizabeth Phillips

Described as a modern fairy tale, “Lady Be Good” features a laugh-out-loud romance between a proper English headmistress and a Texas athlete. When Ms. Emma Wells-Finch arrives in Texas, she is determined to destroy her spotless reputation to avoid an unwanted marriage. Kenny Traveler, her tour guide through blackmail, is determined to salvage his reputation by keeping hers spotless. Humor abounds as each works for their own goals and discovers that opposites might attract after all.

“The Worst Best Man”

By Mia Sosa

Named one of the Best Romances of 2020 by EW, Cosmo, OprahMag, Buzzfeed, Insider and NPR, “The Worst Best Man” is a fresh take on the enemies-to-lovers tale. Carolina Santos, bride and wedding planner, is embarrassingly left at the alter at her own wedding. Hoping to never revisit that chapter in her life, Carolina is dismayed to learn that an amazing opportunity to grow her business means she must partner with the former best man – also known as the groom’s brother, who encouraged him to jilt her – from her failed wedding.

“Twice in a Blue Moon”

By Christina Lauren

Twice in a Blue Moon features a second-chance romance between first loves, Sam and Tate. Fourteen years ago, Sam betrayed Tate’s trust by revealing she is the long-lost daughter of one of the world’s largest film stars. Reunited on set when Tate, an aspiring actress, get her first big film break, Tate must question whether a oncein-a-lifetime love can actually happen twice.

“How to Be a Wallflower”

By Eloisa James

Fans of Bridgerton will be thrilled with Eloisa James’ “How to Be a Wallflower,” the first in the Would-Be Wallflowers series. Miss Cleopatra Lewis is making her society debut but has zero interest in making a match. With a plan in place to fend off suitors, she meets Jacob Astor Adams, a rough American businessman, when she visits a costume shop to build the perfect wardrobe to play the wallflower. They strike a bargain, and amongst their competitiveness, emotions develop that highlight the stark differences in their lives.

RCS offers something for every student

Since school began in August, we have been able to enjoy cheering on our fall athletic teams; watching great performances from our performing arts department, which includes our band, choral and theater groups; experiencing two great community-involved programs, the Hispanic Heritage Program and Veterans Day Program; and celebrating academic achievements at all of our schools.

We also celebrated two major accomplishments at RCS: the first being our district receiving an overall “A” on the Alabama State Department of Education Report Card for the very first time and the second being the national recognition our district received because of the amazing English language instruction in our schools. These are two things I have been extremely proud of – and our community can be proud as well.

With all the recognition in these areas lately, I wanted to make sure our community is aware of the other specialty programs we offer, too.

Our RCS Fine Arts Department doesn’t just encompass our high school students. It starts at the elementary level with Emily Rush, music teacher at West Elementary, and Lauren Ritter, music teacher at Russellville Elementary. These two ladies give our younger students a glimpse of what it’s like to study music, which helps spark their interest in fine arts. This specialized learning continues at the middle and high school levels with Aaron Freeman teaching choral classes; Jeremy Willis, Scott Stephenson and Kyle Clements teaching middle and high school band; and Patrice Smith teaching theater. Additionally, our traditional art classes, taught by Melissa Grissom, offer a way for those interested in drawing, painting, sculpting and other art expressions to hone those talents.

In another area of excellence, Liza Scott is doing great things with our Gifted and Talented program at RES. She creates lessons to challenge these students and nurture their abilities and talents, which leads them to being even more prepared for rigorous coursework and achievement as they get older.

Our AP and honors teachers continue to prepare our students for higher learning through a wide range of courses and specialized lessons. Our RCS Career and Technical Education classes, as well as our student organizations, offer a way for every student to find training and collaboration opportunities for the career path of their choosing.

We have something for every student at RCS, from pre-K students all the way through our seniors. It’s one of the things that makes me so proud to be part of this system – the desire to make sure every student is receiving the best education possible.