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ello and welcome to the Autumn edition of the Family Buzz, we hope you've all had a fantastic summer, enjoying some of that rare English summer sunshine! So, September brings a new school year, all the excitement of new teachers and new class-mates. If you're looking to start a new hobby or activity, in this issue you'll find details of many places offering fantastic activities in the local area. We've also got details of all the places to go and things to do during the October half term. Plenty of Halloween fun on offer this year. If you're having a party this Halloween, check out our tips for making some spooky cupcakes on page 22. We hope you enjoy the magazine - Jason & Debby The Family Buzz would like to thank the Hastings Printing Company for the excellent service they have provided, enabling us to bring you a great magazine. www.hastings-print.co.uk
CONTENTS 04. Event listings 06. Reader competition 08. Learning to read 09. Child care 12. Party planning 14. Ask Alison 16. Active kids 22. Event listings Contact us: Tel - 01424 429 139 Sales - debby@familybuzz.co.uk Editorial & listings - jason@familybuzz.co.uk www.familybuzz.co.uk facebook.com/FamilyBuzzMagazine Twitter - @FamilyBuzzMag
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Dover Lane, Near Arundel, West Sussex, BN18 9PX 01903 871820 fundraising@chestnut-tree-house.org.uk www.chestnut-tree-house.org.uk Like our Chestnut Tree House page @ChestnutSussex Registered charity no 256789
Everyone at Chestnut Tree House children’s hospice would like to invite people across the county to come and see for themselves what a wonderful place it is and learn about the specialist care we provide for children and young people with life-limiting and lifethreatening illnesses. On Friday 4 and Saturday 5 October 2013, we will be throwing open our doors and everybody is welcome. There will be tours of the House, taking in the youngsters’ favourites like the hydrotherapy pool and multi-sensory room, plus a chance to meet the nurses and care workers who do such a wonderful job looking after the children and families. This year, the Open Days are extra special because we are celebrating our 10th birthday. When we first opened in November 2003, we were caring for just 30 children. Now, we expect to be caring for around 300 children in our 10th birthday year. During our first decade, we have seen a tremendous increase in demand for our care and have introduced our Oncology and Neonatal services. We have also expanded our Community Team and now have nurses providing care in the families’ own homes across East and West Sussex and South East Hampshire. However, for every child currently being cared for, there is another child somewhere in our locality that we are not yet reaching due to lack of funding. Families are never charged for their care but this specialist service costs almost £3 million each year and the hospice receives hardly any government funding. Without the support of the people of Sussex, Chestnut Tree House would not be able to keep its doors open so the Open Days are a fantastic opportunity for us to show you what your generosity has achieved and to say thank you. There’s no need to book and parking and refreshments are available on both days. Just come along between 10am and 4pm, see for yourself what a special place Chestnut Tree House is and find out how you can help your local children’s hospice. Chestnut Tree House, Dover Lane, Near Arundel, West Sussex, BN18 9PX. Tel 01903 871820 www.chestnut-tree-house.org.uk
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Event Listings Battle of Hastings Skate Competition Hastings Skate Park, Falaise Rd, Hastings. 7th Sept 10.30am-5pm The UKs best skaters head to Hastings to compete on a newly extended skatepark. Shinewater Fun Day Shinewater Park, Eastbourne 7th Sept from 11am. A fun filled day at Shinewater with family activities and fete. Bexhill Sea Angling Festival Bexhill Seafront. 7th to 15th Sept 2 days of fishing competitions and food & games for all the family on the festival lawns. For full details, visit: bexhillseaanglingfestival.co.uk Tales for Toddlers De La Warr Pavilion, Bexhill. 9th Sept 10.30am & 11.30am Fun filled, free sessions of stories, rhymes and creative activities aimed at pre-school children. dlwp.com
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they do for abandoned and neglected Medieval Weekend animals. paradisepark.co.uk Michelham Priory, Upper Dicker, Hailsham 14th & 15th Sept 10.30am-5pm Christmas Panto Auditions network group for women Living history displays, archery Battle Memorial Hall, Battle. competition, medieval traders, 17th September, 7pm. storytelling, falconry, barbecue and Ages 8 and above. beer tent. www.sussexpast.co.uk Tel 07711806498 office@outthereproductions.co.uk Dragon Boat Festival Bewl Water, Lamberhurst, Kent Medieval Merriments 14th -15th Sept. 85 teams competing in 8 dragon boats, Bodiam Castle, Nr Robertsbridge 21-22 Sept 11am-4pm the largest event of its type in Europe. Find out what people did for bewlwater.co.uk entertainment before the invention of Harvest Festival video games and TV. Normal admission Rare Breeds Centre, Highlands Farm, applies. Woodchurch, Kent nationaltrust.org.uk/bodiam-castle 14th & 15th September Best Dressed Scarecrow competition, Day out with Thomas learn where food comes from, make 28-29 Sept your own work of art to take home. For Kent & East Sussex Railway, Station Rd, more info, visit: Tenterden. rarebreeds.org.uk Come and meet everyone’s favourite steam engine as well as a fun packed Animal Rescue Weekend programme of events. Paradise Park, Newhaven. kesr.org.uk 15th September. Local charities demonstrate the work
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Event Listings from the Stade leading to the lighting of the bonfire and a spectacular firework display on the beach.
Eastbourne Bonfire Society Procession & Fireworks 5th Oct, 7.30-9pm Eastbourne Seafront Torch lit procession from Fishermans Green featuring drummers, pipers, dancers and local bonfire societies. Hastings Week 12th to 20th October Throughout Hastings. Commemorating the anniversary of the Battle of Hastings. Classic car shows, Town Crier championship and much more, for full details, visit: 1066.net/hastings-week Prepare for Conquest 12th & 13th October Battle Abbey, Battle Step inside a Norman army camp and meet the characters preparing for invasion. english-heritage.org.uk Hastings Bonfire Celebrations 19th October 7- 9pm Hastings Seafront. Spectacular, torch lit procession starts
Spooky Half Term Fun 19th Oct to 3rd Nov. Penshurst Place, Penshurst, Tonbridge. Delve into the legends of Halloween with medieval workshops and activities. Explore Penshurst and discover the gargoyles that lurk in the grounds. penshurstplace.com Sid’s Show Devonshire Park Theatre, Eastbourne. 20th Oct 2pm Join Sid from Cbeebies live on stage for a fun filled show perfect for kids aged 3 to 7. eastbournetheatres.co.uk Fireman Sam Live 20th October, 1pm & 5pm. White Rock Theatre, Hastings. Meet the Hero next door in this thrilling new show. whiterocktheatre.org.uk
Halloween Party in the Woods 26th October, 5.30pm. BBQ site via the Langham Rd entrance, St Helens Woods, Hastings. Fancy dress competition, games, face paints and family fun. Refreshments available, Free entrance. World Crazy Golf Championships 26th & 27th October Crazy Golf Course, Hastings Seafront. The top crazy golf players in the world come to Hastings for the 4th year running. Crime & Punishment and Medieval Surgery Bodiam Castle, Nr Robertsbridge 26-27 Oct 11am-3pm A gruesome weekend with gory talks and demonstrations on medieval surgery. Normal admission applies. nationaltrust.org.uk/bodiam-castle
What the Ladybird Heard competition! De La Warr Pavilion has got an amazing opportunity for all children who love theatre. Draw, paint, design or create a ladybird. You can be as creative as you want! The three lucky winners will win a family ticket to the show, will meet the cast and get some amazing Ladybird goodie bags! All entries will be displayed in the auditorium foyer during the show. Please send or bring your entries to De La Warr Pavilion by 10th October 2013. Please address them to: Dominika Hicks De La Warr Pavilion Marina Bexhill on Sea TN40 1TW The three lucky winners will be contacted on Tuesday 15th Oct. *terms and conditions apply
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I believe it is a parent’s duty to ensure their children can read well. Of course, schools are responsible for teaching our children how to read and they have minimum expectations that all children should meet but, and this is a big BUT; a teacher can only do so much with the limited resources and time they have available to them. For the teaching your child receives in school to be effective, you need to continue to practise and support your child’s learning at home. If you take a look at the children who are doing best in school, you will notice the one thing they all have in common is highly supportive and involved parents – I don’t mean those who pay a fortune for expensive tutors, I mean those who take an interest and take the time to find out what their children are learning and spend time helping and encouraging their children to excel.
and understand the mass of information we have to deal with in our everyday lives is one of the most useful skills we can have today. But how can you support your child when you don’t know how literacy (or maths etc…) is taught in schools today surely you will teach it the wrong way and confuse your child? Well, yes, that can be a problem but, like all problems, there are simple solutions! Many schools offer free parent classes to update you on current teaching methods, if yours doesn’t, perhaps you could ask your school if they could? There are websites with information and of course there are books too. Even if you are short on time (and who isn’t?), a few minutes each day helping your child and showing interest in what they are doing is enough to demonstrate how you highly value what they are doing and will, in turn, influence them to value their own work too. It doesn’t take a lot to make a big difference; a good teacher and highly supportive parents are the ultimate ingredients to your child achieving their potential. I truly believe that if we bring children into the world, we have a duty to ensure they are brought up in a loving and nurturing environment and that it is our responsibility as parents to provide a good education and to support our children in their learning. Literacy is one of the most essential skills needed for a successful life and of course, every parent wants to ensure the success of their children.
But how can YOU be more effective at helping your child to learn than an experienced and qualified tutor? For the simple reason that, whether you like it or not, YOU are your child’s strongest influence; what you do, what you say and how you act is what dictates their attitude to learning and inevitably, their future success. A teacher friend of mine told me, she could always predict the children who would do best at school from reception – they were the ones with the most support from their parents. Supporting your child’s early literacy; from learning their first letters to reading chapter books and beyond is one of the most important areas in which your support and influence can contribute the most. With the prevalence of smart-phones and the internet, being able to access, read
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Artemis Nursery, Calvert Road, tel: 01424 426178 Artemis Nursery, Chapel Park Road, tel: 01424 461188 web: www.artemisnursery.co.uk email: artemischildcare@btconnect.com
Monday - Friday 9.30am - 3.00pm Saturday 10.00am - 4.00pm
Artemis Nursery is open from 8am to 6pm offering both full and half day sessions for children from 3 months to 5 years. Situated in St Leonards and Hastings, both nurseries are conveniently located for Warrior Square and Hastings railway stations and hold secure buggy parks to the front of the premises for those parents who prefer to walk their children to nursery. Our nurseries have both received the coveted accolade of ‘OUTSTANDING’ by Ofsted. Inspectors reported that at Artemis, ‘Children flourish in the inspiring and inclusive nursery environment. (Hastings, Ofsted 2011)
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Blacklands Playgroup For Children 2-5 years of age
Flexible dates and times Ofsted registered Government Funding Childcare Vouchers accepted
NEW Breakfast club 8.15 to 9.15 - £2.50 Elim Church, Elphinstone Ave, Hastings, TN34 2DJ
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Blacklands Playgroup – Our aim here at Blacklands Playgroup is to provide a secure and caring, safe and happy environment in which your child will learn and develop through play and a stimulating environment. Praise and encouragement are very important in helping children to succeed; we take children from the age of 2 to 5. We are Ofsted Registered, accept government funding and also take part in the Co-operative Employee Benefits Childcare Voucher Scheme. We understand that parents need flexibility when it comes to childcare and hours. We offer very flexible dates and times. We welcome parent’s visits and look forward to meeting you here at Blacklands. Please call Sharon Reeve (owner) to book an appointment: 07939 635799
Church of St Peter & St Paul Parkstone Road Hastings TN34 2NT
Established 42 years Open Monday & Thursday 9am to 3pm Wednesday, Tuesday & Friday 9am to 12pm
Tel. 01424 751841/755336
Elim Family Centre 1A Hartfield Rd Eastbourne BN21 2ET A place for your child to grow!
Tel: 01323 731843 email: karen@littleacornsnursery.com St Peter & St Pauls Playgroup meets in the Church Room of St Peter and St Pauls Church, Parkstone Road. The staff are all fully trained and very experienced. There is a large, safe outside area with a good selection of equipment. The staff provide an exciting and varied curriculum including outings to the Library and Blue Reef Aquarium. Our Ofsted report said that the children respond very well to the warm, caring and very good humoured interaction of Staff. Children are accepted from 2½ and are entitled to 15 hours per week from 3+. Parents are always welcome to visit.
Mobile Softplay Hire and Pre-school Movement Classes for under 5’s We bring the FUN to your chosen VENUE! with colourful soft play shapes, ballpool, tunnels, slide and more! ideal for 0-5 year olds. See website for package options and more info. HAPPYJACKS TUMBLERS pre-school movement classes for under 5’s. See website for more information and to book a place. ALSO Affordable, Pay as you Go Gymnastics for 5-14yrs. First class FREE! – see website for info. call jaki on 07738 381384 or visit www.happyjackssoftplay.co.uk
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Rye Pre-School Nursery
Tel No. (01797) 226992 Registered charity no. 802873
Claverham Day Nursery
Bigger • Brighter • Better Full Day Care. Open 50 weeks, 8am - 6pm Catering for children from 3 months to 4 years for more information, contact Lisa Parker on :
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Rye Pre-School Nursery provides a friendly and stimulating environment for children from 3 months to 2 years at Tilling Green Community Centre, Rye. Children from 3 months to 4 years are cared for at our Ferry Road site. All staff are qualified, caring and experienced, which allows us to provide a high quality of care to all children. We accept childcare funding. We have a large outside area which all children have access to. Please contact us on 01797 226992 or you can email us at ryeplaygroup@hotmail.co.uk for more information. Registered charity no: 1034010
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RAINBOW PLAYGROUP 07715 685984
Open Mon, Tues, Wed, Thu & Fri 9am - 3pm OFSTED Registered Ore Centre, 455 Old London Road, Hastings, TN35 5BH rainbow.playgroup@hotmail.com www.rainbowplaygroupore.vpweb.co.uk
Battle Full day care 8.15-5.45 3 months - 5 years VACANCIES AVAILABLE 01424 774548 nursery@claverham.e-sussex.sch.uk Rainbow Playgroup is committed to providing a safe and secure, caring and happy environment for children. We aim to offer your child an atmosphere in which to grow, develop and thrive. We are Ofsted registered and open for children ages 2 to 5. We offer 15 hours of free government funding for every child who starts the term after their 3rd birthday, with flexible hours available to suit. We open 5 days a week 9am – 3pm for 39 weeks of the year, term time only. We have a safe fenced garden area with trampoline, sand pit and various play equipment.
Wiggly Woo is a children's clothing agency in Queens Road, Hastings, selling quality, pre-loved and nearly new designer labels and clothes from quality high street retailers.
If have clothes that you think we may be able to sell on your behalf please bring them to the shop or contact us via facebook -wigglywoopopup or www.wiggly-woo.co.uk If we are not able to sell your items within an agreed time frame you can have them back, either way you won't be out of pocket and we aim to make some cash for you! We are constantly updating our range of new toys and showcasing local talent and their gorgeous handcrafted gift ideas.
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The soft play offers a range of exciting, fun, energetic and adventurous play for children aged 6 months to 14 years. Let your children spend hours in our kaleidoscope of colours amongst super slides, special toddler area, tremendous tunnels and other challenging obstacles whilst you relax with a superior blend coffee and one of our homemade cakes in our fresh and comfortable coffee shop. in the fun! Come and jo newest and rne's ...at Eastbou lay centre! greatest p
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Fight the Summer Slide with Genie Tutors Recent research confirms that a child’s learning falls back during the six week summer holiday when their academic skills can regress by three to four months. They don’t just stop and pick up where they left off at the end of term. They go backwards. Statistics show that pupils who fail to reach the level expected of their age group at primary level rarely reach the competence needed to pass their GCSE. If you are on the mathematical scrap heap at the age of 11, you stay there. Is your child not achieving the grades that you know they are capable and deserving of? Genie Tutors offers the highest standards of tutoring and with the support of our qualified teachers, we promise excellent academic progress. So why not come down to the new Genie Tutors centre in Eastbourne? Here at Genie Tutors, with our money back guarantee, you can be assured that your child will walk away with improved confidence and focus in their learning along with an improvement in their academic abilities.
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Ask Alison...
Alison Waterhouse has worked with children with Additional Educational Needs for the past 22 years in both mainstream and the private sector. Initially, she trained as a Special Needs Teacher and has worked in a variety of schools and educational settings. Alison now works as an Independent Educational Consultant for Special Educational Needs and Emotional Well being in both the Independent sector and mainstream. She is involved in staff training for Young Minds and Releasing Potential and she has an Educational Psychotherapy practice. For more information, please visit www.alisonwaterhouse.co.uk. In her regular “question and answer” page she’ll be using her experience to help readers & their children with educational concerns or problems. If there’s something you’d like to ask Alison, email your question to : alison@familybuzz.co.uk
Dear Alison, We have a son at secondary school in Year 8 who is really struggling with all aspects of school. He has always found school difficult and has always been in the bottom groups for Literacy and Maths. He struggles with following instructions at home and constantly forgets what he is doing. He never seems to remember his school books or equipment and is constantly in trouble at school due to forgetting things. When I work with him at home he often loses his place in what he is doing, he misses important steps in activities or does them twice. He has a really poor attention span and is really easily distracted. School reports always say that he doesn’t focus or concentrate. Please can you help as we are desperate to help him as he is becoming so fed up and it is causing him to believe he is stupid and he stops trying. Thank you for your letter. From what you have said I would suspect that your son has a special learning need that both he and you need help with understanding and then supporting. I would strongly suggest that you make an appointment and talk to your schools SENCo. The Special Educational Needs Co-ordinator within school is the schools expert on learning. They have access to a range of professionals that they can call upon to help them identify and assess a range of special needs. They can ask the Educational Psychologist to meet up with your son and then undertake an assessment. They will then write a report and then share this with both yourself and your son. The report will then help all those people who work with your son to support his learning within school. Dear Alison, Thank you so much for your advice and support. We did what you suggested and spoke to our son’s SENCo in school. She was lovely, she listened to our concerns and then gathered information from his teachers and organised for the Educational Psychologist to work with our son. There was a bit of a wait as they only have access to a certain amount of days with her each year. However he was seen last term and they found that he has a difficulty with his working memory. The Educational Psychologist’s report detailed a range of strategies school could use to help him and ones that we could use at home. I can not tell you just how much difference it has made to our son who now understands that he is not stupid. He understands that his brain needs
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him to do things in a certain way and then he can manage. He will never be in the top sets however he is much happier and that was all we ever wanted. Thank you. A poor working memory is a difficulty that is shared by approximately 10% of children. It is characterised by slow progress in most areas of classroom learning. Working Memory is the term used to describe a memory system that is used as a kind of ‘mental jotting pad’ which stores information necessary for everyday living. This includes remembering telephone numbers, what you went upstairs for, where you live and where the shops are, following directions and instructions. Working memory consists of several interacting subsystems that include specialised stores for verbal and visual-spacial material. Information in working memory can be easily lost through distraction or overload. Children with difficulties with working memory often find the demands of the classroom really hard to manage, which then impacts on their learning and eventually their self esteem. Developing a range of memory aids, reducing memory loads, repeating information and instructions or having a checklist and developing a range of strategies to deal with specific difficulties with the child are all important ways of supporting a poor working memory. Identify the best person you know at remembering information and explore the strategies they use. Start collecting new and creative ways of remembering! Dear Alison, Our son has just been diagnosed as having ADHD. My husband is finding this very difficult as he has always thought that this is not a true medical need but is due to bad parenting. I don’t know what to do or how to manage this for our son and my husband. I have chosen your letter as I have many emails from parents wanting to know more about ADHD and how to manage this. It is a medical condition and is not caused by bad parenting, too much sugar or a bad diet. Sadly some of the behaviour that children with ADHD display is similar to that which might be found in families where parenting is an issue, sadly this has caused the misunderstanding that you have talked about with your husband. The exact cause of ADHD is unknown
though studies have shown that it may be due to some form of chemical imbalance in certain areas of the brain. ADHD commonly overlaps with other conditions including oppositional defiance disorder (ODD) anxiety disorder, conduct disorders and can be associated with ASD, dyspraxia, attachment disorders and other neurodevelopment disorders. ADHD or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder is a complex condition where inattention, impulsivity and hyperactivity are all symptoms. These symptoms occur in all places and are not just found in the home or within school. Having ADHD seriously affects a child’s ability to settle and concentrate and therefore has huge implications for learning within school and managing the school learning environment successfully. It is the most common medical condition underlying behavioural difficulties and educational underachievement in children. It affects approximately 5% of school aged children. This means that out of a class of 30 children one or more will have the condition. Recognising the symptoms in very young children can be difficult. It is important to make the distinction between normal active toddlers and those with genuine ADHD symptoms. When a child is diagnosed with ADHD it is really important that all people working with that child work together. Families need help and support in understanding the condition and ways of helping their child manage this in a positive way. Children need help understanding their condition and to develop a range of strategies to support them to manage it successfully. Schools also need to be made aware of the diagnosis so that they can ensure that the child has support recognising difficulties and developing a range of acceptable strategies to manage their needs within the learning environment that do not interfere with the learning of other children. Within East Sussex there is an ADHD team who work with children, parents and schools. They are great and the majority of families I have dealt with have been really pleased with their support. They offer parenting groups and support groups as well as practice help and support for families. They can be accessed through the school SENCo or School nurse or by a GP referral.
SCHOOL APPEALS YOUR SCHOOL YOUR CHOICE
If you have been unsuccessful with your child’s application to the school of your choice then contact SCHOOL APPEALS for all you need to know about winning your appeal.
www.schoolappeals.org.uk E-mail: schoolappeals@yahoo.com Tel: 01903 718741 Please quote ref: FSE/2012 in all communications WHAT CAN I DO TO ENSURE THAT MY SCHOOL APPLICATION IS SUCCESSFUL? The most important thing is to ensure that your application is submitted on time; secondary school applications must be submitted by 31 October 2012 and primary school applications by 15 January 2013. Go and have a look at the schools concerned and discuss any questions with the staff. There are no guarantees but check to see what happened with applications last year to see if you would have secured a place then. Be realistic with your preferences otherwise you may be wasting them. Ensure that you submit all relevant information to the admission authority with the application and do not assume that you will secure a place at the school. If there are special reasons, medical or otherwise, include these on the application and provide supporting documents from professionals, for example social workers, consultants and GPs. If you do not provide the information the admission authority will not be able to take it into consideration. The obligation rests on you to provide the information. If the application is unsuccessful, there is always the independent appeal process. If you require any assistance contact School Appeals on 01903 718741 or schoolappeals@yahoo.com for a range of support services to suit different needs and budgets.
Kumon’s maths and English study programmes work to build your child’s confidence and inspire a passion for learning. Contact your Local Instructor for a Free Assessment : Eastbourne Study Centre & Hastings Study Centre Dale Kusano-Puffett 01424 754633 / 07903 274140 eastbourne@kumoncentre.co.uk hastings@kumoncentre.co.uk
What is Educational Psychotherapy? For parents whose children are struggling at school, stuck in their learning, anxious or depressed, who have stopped thriving or are acting out, life can become overwhelming, full of worry and confusion as they try to find help for their children. Educational Psychotherapy is a powerful approach to addressing these issues. It is a way of meeting the child’s individual learning needs, which in turn positively affects their ability to cope within the classroom. Educational Psychotherapy is a way of working with children which combines teaching with therapeutic exploration of the emotional factors triggered by learning. It is recommended for children and young people who have become ‘stuck’ due to complex emotional barriers to learning and development. Barriers to learning and development may manifest themselves as: • Poor attitudes to learning based on attachment patterns, • Failure to learn, • Withdrawal, • Difficult behaviour, • Difficulty with social interactions and friendships, • Violence or aggressive outbursts, • Physical symptoms, • Anxiety, • Difficulties with transitions, • Restlessness and an inability to focus, • An inability to make good use of the learning environment or the teacher. Educational Psychotherapy produces real benefits in children’s emotional well being and their capacity to learn and engage with schools. By helping children and young people overcome these emotional barriers to learning, their self esteem, resilience and skills for learning are strengthened and engagement, positive relationships and sense of well being are promoted. For more information, contact Alison on: 01580 881 271 or alison@alisonwaterhouse.co.uk
Educational Psychotherapist Qualified Teacher and S.E.N.C.O
Is your child struggling at school? Are they ‘stuck’ in their learning? Behaviour causing concern? Educational Psychotherapy is a specialised educational and therapeutic intervention recommended for children and young people with complex emotional barriers to learning and social development. Phone: 01580 881 271 E-mail: alison@alisonwaterhouse.co.uk www.alisonwaterhouse.co.uk
Active Kids Our regular section showcasing the wide range of activities on offer in the local area, all of which offer a great way to burn off some youthful energy!
Haywood Way Hastings TN35 4PL Our programme of gymnastics offers activities for babies through to our Elite gymnasts. We start with daily drop-in play sessions through to structured classes with qualified coaches.
• Tumblegym (open play) • Activities for under 5’s • Structured classes for General & Elite gymnasts
We're having a ball! Come and see what all the fun's about Football and Rugby for children 18 months - 7 years Classes in: Eastbourne � Hailsham � Seaford � Lewes FREE trial class available NEW AREAS opening soon in East Sussex call Bev for details: 01323 749640 or email: blevett@littlekickers.co.uk www.littlekickers.co.uk www.littlerugby.co.uk
We're having a ball! Little Kickers and Little Rugby are fun filled football and rugby programmes executed in a friendly, pressure free environment. We run football and rugby classes for girls and boys aged 18 months to 7 years all over the country and the world. Our classes, that are conducted by qualified FA coaches, teach the children invaluable life skills such as listening, sharing, taking turns and teamwork. Much emphasis is put on simple learning concepts such as colours and numbers and helping the children concentrate on basic balance, agility and coordination.
• Birthday parties
01424 444615 www.summerfields-gymnastics.com 741_Eastbourne Family Buzz gymnastics 135x90_Layout 1 17/08/2012 16:45 P emma@summerfields-gymnastics.com
Gymnastic Lessons at the Sovereign Centre
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Little Kickers and Little Rugby recognise that every child is an individual and feel they develop best with children of their own age hence the classes are broken down into four age groups. If your child would like to have a go at a fun Little Kickers or Little Rugby class ring Bev on 01323 749640 for a free trial class.
www.littlekickers.co.uk & www.littlerugby.co.uk
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£4.50 PER LESSON For full details of courses available and prices, please visit:
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www.eastbourneleisurecentres.com Tel: 0845 267 1200
Royal Parade, Eastbourne, East Sussex, BN22 7LQ
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y l i m a f e l o h w e h t r o f e r u s Fun i e l m o d e e r f h t i w
Swimming Flumes, waves, inflatable, family fun and lessons Holiday activities Sports, games, arts and crafts, swimming, soft play and bowling Creche Birthday parties Sports courses Summerfields Leisure Centre, Helenswood Sports Centre, Falaise, Rye Sports Centre, Bexhill Leisure Centre Bexhill Pool.
visit www.freedom-leisure.co.uk/familyfun to advertise us call Debby 01424 family. 429139 and see how freedomleisure canwith entertain theonwhole
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The Martial Arts Centre - Eastbourne, Hastings Bexhill and
The instructors at The Martial Arts Centre Eastbourne, Bexhill and Hastings are highly trained and fully qualified having passed instructor courses and are officially recognised by the World Kuk Sool Association (WKSA). • • They are •fully insured and CRB checked. On • • • offer is instruction in the traditional Korean • • • • of martial arts Kuk Sool Won, as seen on ITV’s • • • ‘Let’s Get• • Gold’. Our syllabus includes hand and foot strikes, blocking and sparring, joint throwing, empty hand and weapons locking, forms, pressure points, throwing, falling and much more… Our are dedicated to Instructors your progress and development and will ensure that you receive the very best that traditional martial arts training can offer. They continually strive to help students reach and maintain their own personal goals as well as our aims of Health, Fitness, Respect, Discipline, Confidence and Self-Defence. To book your Free Intro lesson today please call on: 01323 416634 or 07540 179194 Alternatively you can check out our websites at:
www.martialartseastbourne.com www.martialartsbexhill.com www.martialartshastings.com
HKA Relocates to a New Gym! Hastings Kickboxing Academy have recently moved into Unit 1, Brook Way, Ivy House Ind. Estate, working alongside Micks Body Sculpture. Come up and have a look at our new facilities, we have over 5,000 sq foot of purpose built gym space to cater for nearly every need. Hastings Kickboxing is now located at the back of Body Sculpture in a 1,400 sq ft BRAND NEW purpose built DoJo, designed with one thing In mind, Martial Arts. With a competition ring and over 20 workstations along with the whole gym area being matted. There is a great sound system with DJ booth, mirror, and military style zones, we have something for everyone here. We run over 15 classes each week catering from 3 years old ranging all the way through to 55 +. Visit our website or give us a ring to find out more about how our positive training can help improve your confidence and fitness.
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The Hastings Stage Studio School for the Performing Arts
BUILD CONFIDENCE
HAVE FUN
DEVELOP YOUR TALENTS
IMPROVE COORDINATION MAKE NEW FRIENDS
Experience the thrill of
KEEP FIT
Battle School of Dancing Ballet, Modern and Tap
Contact Sarah Holt A.I.S.T.D.
01424 773806
battleschoolofdancing@hotmail.co.uk or join us on facebook: facebook.com/battleschoolofdancing
in a safe, fun environment promoting teamwork, cooperation and artistic development
Ask about our Beginner Specials - 3 Disciplines/week for only £8.00
Expert and unrivalled tuition in Ballet, Tap, Street, Jazz, Modern Dance, Drama, Singing, Mime, Public Speaking, Musical Theatre, Pilates & Adult Classes
Call Vanessa for details on:
01424 850028 John & Vanessa Pohlhammer, Principals - West End, Film and TV Performers/Directors/Choreographers. Teaching Qualifications: LAMDA, ISTD, BTDA, RBS, Full Member RAD, MRBS, AISTD, IDTA, LLAM & Guildhall
Swimming Lessons are available at the Sovereign Centre 50 weeks of the year, for children and adults from six months plus. Lessons cater for all levels and abilities, and certificates and badges are awarded to pupils at the end of every level to celebrate their progress. Children are encouraged to enjoy the benefits of swimming, and lessons ensure children have confidence in the water and are given the essential water safety skills for living by the sea. The Sovereign Centre are now taking bookings for the current Term which runs until the 22nd December. Lessons can be paid for by the course or children and adults can enjoy the extra benefits of becoming a swimming lessons member from just £18.99* per month, including free parking and unlimited swimming outside of lessons!
For more information on the Sovereign Centre’s swimming lesson programme visit www.eastbourneleisurecentres.com/ sovereign_centre or to enrol your child on the learn to swim programme call 0845 267 1200. *£18.99 membership is a 12 month minimum term direct debit
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Fully licensed cafe with Outdoor Games and programme of events on the Open Space
Breakfasts, great meals, home made cakes and much more! Vegetarian, vegan and non-gluten menucafe itemsand available. Drop by and check out our new new menu Open 364 days a year from 10am Mon-Fri, 9am Weekends. open 10am Mon-Fri, 9am Weekends Late night opening for Stade Saturdays!
T: 01424 447116
www.eathastings.co.uk
Delicious Kellys Cornish scooped creams our charming info@eathastings.co.uk Ice cream, giftware & local craftsicefrom our from beautiful seaside kiosk kiosk
Family Friendly Cafe Diner Kids Eat HALF PRICE After 3pm
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All day breakfasts, light lunches, Kids Menu & Much More! Quality food, great value, large car park and garden. Open: Mon-Weds & Friday 7am-6pm Thurs 7am-7.30pm Sat & Sun 8am-6pm Situated on the A21 between Robertsbridge and Johns Cross, T N32 5JH
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01580 882155 www.route1066cafe.co.uk info@route1066cafe.co.uk
* one child meal half price with each adult meal purchased
The Rainbow Trout Village Pub & Restaurant
01424 882031 Chitcombe Road, Broad Oak, Rye, E Sussex, TN31 6EU
Located between the famous towns of Rye and Battle, the Rainbow Trout is a beautiful, family friendly village pub boasting a huge garden, outdoor play area, indoor toddler activity corner and a toddlers car track, ample parking and a private function room. Our traditional pub menu features a wide range of Home-Cooked & Locally Sourced food, with a separate childrens menu. Breakfast served from 10am Thursday to Sunday
Halloween Childrens Party on October 31st Bookings now being taken for Kids Christmas Parties To find out more, please visit:
WWW.RAINBOWTROUTPUB.CO.UK
Dick Whittington this year’s magical pantomime adventure at the White Rock Theatre, opens on Friday 13th December 2013 and will run until Saturday 4 January 2014. Following the success of last year’s Peter Pan, The White Rock Theatre is delighted to announce that Ben Watson who received rave reviews for his performance of Smee, will be returning to play Simple Simon. Ben is very excited about coming back to Hastings as last Christmas he had a great time, made a lot of friends and has missed ‘proper fish n'chips!’ When asked about playing the role of Simple Simon Ben replied “ My family have told me that the part suits me very well, which I don't really get because my names not Simon?”. Dick Whittington is the perfect pantomime, an unmissable treat for the forthcoming festive season, outstanding entertainment for all the family! Book now and take advantage of the opening weekend tickets just £14.50
A WARM AND HEARTY WELCOME AWAITS YOU
Relax and bring the whole family. We have a large garden with a fantastic, adventure play area for the children plus indoor arcade games to keep them entertained when the sun’s not shining!
Our Famous Carvery Just
£4.95 with this voucher
Mon-Fri Lunchtimes only usually £8.95
The Star Inn offers a fantastic range of food, including our famous carvery! The best joints of meat, roasted to perfection, with a choice of three succulent roasts and a vast array of steamed vegetables. With a varied childrens menu and some delicious vegetarian options, we have something for the whole family!
THE STAR INN NORMANS BAY 01323 762648 www.thestarinnnormansbay.co.uk
Event Listings Halloween Shriek Week at Drusillas Park Nr Alfriston 26th Oct to 3rd Nov 10am-5pm Fang-tastically spooky half term fun at Drusillas. drusillas.co.uk Halloween Fun 26th Oct to 3rd Nov Yesterdays World, Battle High St. Ghost hunt, children go free when accompanied by a full paying adult. yesterdaysworld.co.uk Halloween Trail Bodiam Castle, Nr Robertsbridge 26th Oct to 1st Nov 11am-3pm Become a ghost sleuth, solve the mystery and claim a prize. Separate charges apply in addition to normal admission nationaltrust.org.uk/bodiam-castle Halloween Daytme Rare Breeds Centre, Highlands Farm, Woodchurch, Kent 26th October to 1st November Come in fancy dress for a chance of a prize. Spooky quiz trail. rarebreeds.org.uk
Zany Zone of Experiments 28th October Observatory Science Centre, Herstmonceux Create colour and experiment, be amazed by puzzles and weird kitchen science. Normal admission price plus £1 per child. the-observatory.org Half Term Fun 28th October - 1st November Sovereign Centre, Royal Parade, Eastbourne A wide range of special events and activities for half term, Kids Holiday club, Junior Aqua Jets, Junior Scuba, Junior Diving, Halloween H20 Pool Party, daily visits from Sovey the Seal and much more. For full details of the exciting events on offer, please visit: eastbourneleisurecentres.com/ sovereign_centre
£10. Normal admission prices apply for House & Grounds access. penshurstplace.com Hallowe ‘en 31st October, 10.30am to 4pm. Michelham Priory, Upper Dicker, Hailsham. Traditional entertainment, drama sessions, story telling, crafts and fun. www.sussexpast.co.uk Halloween Storytelling 31st Oct 2pm, 2.45pm & 3.30pm. Penshurst Place, Penshurst, Tonbridge. Bring on the Autumn shivers with some not too scary storytelling. Fancy dress competition at 4pm, come dressed to kill. penshurstplace.com
Theatrical Make-up Workshop 30th Oct 9.30-11.30am. Penshurst Place, Penshurst, Tonbridge. Create fake cuts, bruises & amputated fingers. For children aged 7+, tickets
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PUMPKIN & EYEBALL CUPCAKES FOR HALLOWEEN!
Ingredients Makes 12 cakes 90g self raising flour 90g caster sugar 90g softened butter 2 medium eggs ½ teaspoon vanilla essence For the icing: 175g icing sugar 1½ tablespoons warm water
Why not have a bit of spooky fun in the kitchen this Halloween and make some gruesome cupcakes? We made some eerie eyeball cakes and some petrifying pumpkin cakes and had a wail of a time! Once your cupcakes and icing are prepared, divide the icing in two, leave one half white to make eyeball cakes and mix in some orange food dye to the other half to use for your pumpkin cakes. Top the cupcakes with a generous blob of icing. Once the cakes are finished you can use "Writing Icing" pens available at your local supermarket to decorate them. Morrisons offer a set with some spooky colours suitable for Halloween. Be as creative as you like with your decorations, we made eyeballs and pumpkins but there are loads of other spooky things you can decorate your cakes with. Just make sure to have lots of fun!
Cooking Instructions Adults, don't attempt to lick the stirring spoon or bowl yourselves, make sure you ask a child to do this for you!
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Heat your oven to 190c. Sift the flour into a bowl and add the sugar, butter and vanilla. Add the eggs and stir everything together until it's nice and creamy. Divide the mixture evenly between 12 paper cake cases and bake in the oven for about 15 minutes. To make the icing just mix icing sugar with water until you have a smooth white paste.
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Go crazy with your decorations
Step into the Past... Today! New for 2013! The Royal Family display
Well that about wraps it up from us for the Autumn issue, we hope you enjoyed it! We shall be back in November with a bumper Winter edition packed with festive fun and frolics. If you're interested in advertising in the Winter edition, please contact Debby on 01424 429 139 for more information about our competitive rates. Our artwork deadline for the Winter issue is Friday 18th October Have a spook-tacular Halloween everyone!
Michelham Priory • E x p e r i e n c e ov e r 1 2 5 y e a r s B r i t i s h S o c i a l H i s t o r y • • 5 f l o o r s w i t h ov e r 1 5 0 , 0 0 0 n o s t a l g i c a r t e f a c t s • Fantastic life size street scenes and displays • • E vo c a t i ve s o u n d s a n d s m e l l s o f t h e p a s t •
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Hallowe’en Fun Day
Thurs 31st Oct 2013
10.30 am to 4.00 pm
• Virtual & interactive exhibits • • Tea room with garden terrace • • All weather attraction • Open all year • • Nostalgic sweet & gift shop • • Large secure garden & play village • Opposite Battle Abbey, 89-90 High Street, Battle, East Sussex TN33 0AQ Tel: 01424 777226 • www.yesterdaysworld.co.uk
£1
off standard admission per person (up to max 6) Upon production of this voucher - valid 2013 only. Not to be used in conjunction with any other offer.
Kent & East Sussex Railway
Punch & Judy, Drama Sessions, Crafts and Hallowe’en Fun Michelham Priory, Upper Dicker, Hailsham, East Sussex, BN27 3QS
01323 844224
Tenterden Town Station
28 October to 1 November Pumpkin Carving and ‘spooktacular’ entertainment with Mr Mystery.
31 October & 1 November Be frightened silly on our ‘Halloween Howler’ evening train ride. Firework display! Face painting! Pumpkin carving! Come in fancy dress the scarier the better!
www.sussexpast.co.uk
Open all year round
Come visit our farm for a fun filled family day out! Café open all day, tractor rides, animal handling, pony rides, birthday parties, memberships, pony club, large play area and lots more…… Blackberry Farm, Whitesmith, East Sussex, BN8 6JD Tel: 01825 872912 www.blackberry-farm.co.uk
The most fun pumpkin c arving in town
in k p m Pu ving Car
26 - 31 October 10am - 4pm ild small fee per ch (3-16 yrs)
01323 768490 | sharnfoldfarm.co.uk Hailsham Rd, Stone Cross, East Sussex. BN24 5BU.
Telephone 01580 765155 or visit kesr.org.uk
Farm Shop, traditional Butcher Coffee Shop, PYO, Farm Trail & play area Open 7 days a week, 9.30am - 5.00pm
Kent & East Sussex
Railway
TENTERDEN TOWN STATION
In partnership with Home of Thomas & FriendsTM toys
Join Thomas & Friends™ at a Heritage Railway near you. Experience a ride on a real steam train and take part in Thomas-themed activities.
September 28th & 29th
Kent & East Sussex Railway Tenterden, Kent TN30 6HE
www.dayoutwiththomas.co.uk/kesr Day Out With Thomas ™ Thomas the Tank Engine & Friends ™ Based on The Railway Series by The Reverend W. Awdry. © 2013 Gullane (Thomas) Limited. Thomas the Tank Engine & Friends, Thomas & Friends and Day Out With Thomas are trademarks of Gullane (Thomas) Limited. © 2013 HIT Entertainment Limited.
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