How to talk to a partner with
low self-esteem What can you do when the person you love, doesn’t love themselves? It can be quite a challenge, but here are some tips to help you provide the words of comfort and support they need Writing | Fiona Thomas Illustrating | Rosan Magar
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f you’ve ever looked in the mirror and disliked the person looking back at you, then you’ve experienced low self-esteem. It isn’t necessarily related to your physical self — although having poor body image can cause negative thoughts — but it’s
intrinsically linked to how you value yourself as a person. People with self-esteem issues often neglect to take care of themselves. They may refuse to go shopping for new clothes, or fail to maintain good personal hygiene. They could be unknowingly
sabotaging relationships, or other aspects of their life, because they feel undeserving of happiness. Being in a relationship with someone who has low self-esteem can be tough. Here are some suggestions on how to talk to them, to try to support them: