KC Parent magazine June 2023

CELEBRATE DAD ON HIS SPECIAL DAY

LIFE LESSONS LEARNED FROM SPORTS

HELPING KIDS COPE WITH BAD DREAMS

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JUNE 2023

Besides summer, June is also the month in which we set aside a day to honor dads. Dads are important people that work hard for their families and deserve a day to be spoiled. Check out Kailyn Rhinehart’s article, “Dad’s Rock!” for just a few of the important lessons dads teach kids and how they help to positively influence their children’s development.

When my younger daughter, Ally, was a preschooler, she would often have bad dreams, which made bedtime a bit tricky. To combat the bad dreams, we purchased some dream spray (spoiler alert: it was body spray from Bath & Body Works). Each night before bed, we’d spray the dream spray to keep the bad dreams away. It worked—maybe I should market this! Kids often are frightened by dreams. Check out Judy Goppert’s article on pg. 28 for ideas on how to help a kiddo cope with a bad dream.

Happy summer and Happy Father’s Day, KC!

Publisher Michael Gimotty

elcome, summer! My favorite season of all is here! Each year I look forward to its arrival, because from the lazy days of no school to the warm smell of sunscreen that permeates the house, I love everything about summer. (Well, almost everything—I could certainly do without mosquitoes.) Some of my most cherished summer activities and traditions include blueberry picking (thanks to our amazing digital media manager, Kristina, for introducing me to this years ago), attending Jazzoo, Friday Night Sound Bites at the Lenexa Public Market, Monarchs games that are such great, family-friendly events, and the beach at Shawnee Mission Park. What are some things you love to do in summer? If you are feeling uninspired, never fear! Our Summer Fun Guide, starting on pg. 42, has tons of great ideas. I also love putting together the June calendar and picking out what fun events I want to attend.Michael@KCParent.com

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Local Contributing Writers Kim Antisdel (Liberty), Bill Bartlett (Belton), Julie Collett (Overland Park), Janelle Cumro-Sultzer (Manhattan), Judy Goppert (Lee’s Summit), Christa Melnyk Hines (Olathe), Emily Morrison (Independence), Kristina Light (Kansas City), Regan Lyons (St. Joseph), Kerrie McLoughlin (Peculiar), Hailey Saunders (Kansas City), Joleen Sams (Shawnee)

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Headaches are a well-known ailment that nearly everyone has experienced at some time. In fact, the most frequently reported type of pain is headache. As familiar as headaches are, there is no one-size-fits-all definition. More than 100 types of headaches can afflict people, and they all vary in frequency, duration, characteristics and severity. The different variations of headaches can also have similar symptoms. There are two basic headache categories: primary and secondary. Secondary headaches are a symptom of an underlying health problem, whereas primary headaches are not a symptom of a medical problem.

Examples of primary headaches include tension-type ones and migraines. Tension headaches are the most commonly experienced. As the name implies, tension headaches are the result of tension in the body. This tension can be the result of physical or emotional stress. Physical stress may be from poor posture, especially the forward head position that comes with technology use, or clenching the muscles of the jaw, neck or face for long periods of time. Emotional stress includes depression, anxiety or inadequate sleep. These headaches are typically described as mild to moderate and affecting both sides of the head. The characteristics are dull, non-throbbing and feeling like a tight band around the head—but without nausea or

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aura. Tension-type headaches last from 30 minutes to seven days.

Migraine headaches are considered a neurologic condition. They last four hours to multiple days and frequently recur. The pain of a migraine is considered moderate to severe and may affect one or both sides of the head. The description is throbbing or pulsing and usually associated with nausea, vomiting and light or sound sensitivity. Some will experience an aura prior to symptom start.

One effective preventive measure for primary headache is identifying triggers. Common triggers include caffeine, alcohol, chocolate, cheeses, environmental allergens, secondhand smoke and chemical smells. Keeping a headache log to track activities, food, stress, sleep and phase of menstrual cycle when headaches occur can aid in identifying triggers. While recognizing and avoiding triggers is beneficial, headaches cannot always be prevented.

Sufferers have numerous treatment options for primary headaches. What is most effective will be unique to each person. Natural options may include heat or cold applied to the head, stretching the neck and shoulders, massage, sleep, physical therapy or light exercise. There are several over-thecounter medications available for headache as well. If these interventions are not effective and the headaches are frequent and severe, a medical provider may recommend a prescription medication. Triptans are the

classic prescription headache drug, but there are other types that have shown to provide relief for certain types of headaches. These include medications for blood pressure, seizure and depression. If your health care provider is not successful in alleviating headache symptoms, they may refer to a neurologist or headache specialist.

Secondary headaches are of varying risk. Minor causes may include dehydration, allergies, medication overuse or just the common cold. More serious conditions include head injury, stroke, brain tumor or meningitis. If you are seriously concerned about your headache, seek emergency treatment. The only cure for secondary headache is addressing the medical problem that has led to the pain.

Being aware of headache symptoms and triggers as well as communicating that information to your health care provider are the best ways to get the personalized help you may need. Check with your medical provider before starting any new over-the-counter medications to ensure they are safe for you.

Hailey Saunders, APRN, MSN, FNP-C, is a family nurse practitioner and Kansas City native who is passionate about evidencebased health education.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

ninds.nih.gov/health-information/disorders/headache, my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9639-headaches, uptodate.com/contents/evaluation-of-headache-in-adults

Our six-year-old Beagle/Coonhound mix loves to lift his leg all over the house. What gives?

- Katherine B.

It appears that he might be marking his territory. Urine marking is when a dog urinates in multiple spots in the same area, usually a small amount of urine at a time. It is normal for them to not fully express their bladders when they mark. There are many reasons for this behavior such as stress, new pets in the home, environment changes, being an unaltered (not spayed or neutered) pet or around other unaltered pets. I recommend going to the veterinarian to rule out anything medical like an infection. Clean soiled areas well so the scent is removed from the area and handle him like a puppy that needs housetraining. Provide lots of potty breaks, positively reinforce when he urinates outside, and keep an eye on him all the time. I find it helpful to leash dogs to my belt and have them walk around with me so that once they start sniffing, I can take them outside immediately.

- Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

I have two seven-year-old schnauzers. My husband and I are retired so we are normally home with them all day. The dogs are very protective and territorial. Our three-year-old granddaughter does not have any pets at home and is coming to our house for the week for the first time. Any suggestions on keeping the peace?

- Ellie W.

I recommend talking to the kids before introductions and asking them to remain calm and quiet to not scare the dogs. Teach the children to be gentle and go slow with the pets. If your dogs are nervous, separate them as needed. Always supervise children around dogs and go slow with introductions to set everyone up for success. Taking a family walk with everyone and the dogs before going into the home can make introductions go a little easier. There are tons of online resources on how to acclimate dogs and children to one another, so check them out.

- Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

Both of our dogs hate our neighbors’ dogs. At first our dogs responded with curiosity and attempts at playing/running with them, but it has escalated to our dogs fully barking and snarling back at the neighbors’ dogs. We have tried introducing the dogs through the fence, erecting a secondary three-foot fence to create a buffer zone and a squirt bottle with water. None of these have stopped their instinct to escalate. What can we do to get them to just ignore the other dogs. Any ideas?

- Dorena G.

Teach your dogs the “leave It” command when they are inside. Once they have learned this command reliably, take them outside on a leash and get close enough to the fence so that your dog is still listening to you and will follow basic commands, but can view the dogs in the other yard. Once the dog barks at the other dogs, say “leave it” and

make them sit. Reward calming behavior and redirect them into “watch me” when they are reacting to the other dogs. Do this routinely until they learn the command, then try it closer to the fence. This will take patience but is highly effective. It would be even better if your neighbors practiced this with the dogs on their side of the fence. Train your dogs individually for even quicker results.

- Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

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Along with being super dog-friendly, he also does well with kids! Younger kids may make him a bit more nervous, so he would still like to meet all the children in the home before being adopted! Noah is also super smart and absolutely loves being with his toys and learning new things. If you are interested in meeting Noah, please email foster@ greatplainsspca.org for more information!

TASTYTREATS

A COBBLER FULL OF SUMMER FLAVORS

(Culinary.net)

This summer, get a little wild in the kitchen and make something different. Mix up the seasonal menu now and again by creating out-of-theordinary dishes that are a change-up from predictable warm-weather favorites.

True, many fruits are at their peak during the summer months; however, eating fruit plain can be boring and bland on a hot day. This summer, when heading to an event like a family reunion or picnic or just dining at home, try making this Oh-So-Berry Cobbler. It’s served warm and is a perfect sweet treat when berries are at their freshest. Everyone will enjoy the summery goodness of strawberries, blackberries, blueberries and a splash of lemon juice topped with a crunchy crumble and served with ice cream.

Next time you’re thinking about grabbing a fruit tray from the supermarket for an upcoming gathering, think again. This cobbler is the perfect addition to any party menu or special occasion.

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OH-SO-BERRY COBBLER

Servings: 8

2 c. strawberries, sliced

2 c. blackberries

2 c. blueberries

2 T. lemon juice

3 T. cornstarch

2 c. flour

1 t. baking powder

1 t. salt

1 c. butter, softened

1 1/2 c. brown sugar

2 t. vanilla extract

Nonstick cooking spray

Ice cream

Heat oven to 350 F.

In large bowl, mix strawberries, blackberries and blueberries, then add lemon juice and cornstarch; mix to combine. Refrigerate 20 minutes.

In medium bowl, whisk flour, baking powder and salt. Set aside.

In bowl of stand mixer, beat butter, brown sugar and vanilla extract on medium speed until blended. Gradually add flour mixture until crumbles form. Spray 9-by-13-inch baking dish with nonstick cooking spray.

Pour berries into bottom of dish. Top berries with crumbles.

Bake 30-40 minutes, or until lightly browned. Serve with ice cream.

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BY PEGGY GISLER AND MARGE EBERTS

THE PROS AND CONS OF YEAR-ROUND SCHOOLING

QUESTION: As our school district switches to year-round schooling next year, I wonder what the advantages of doing this are as well as the disadvantages. I hate seeing the kids’ long summer vacation vanish. Just how widespread is year-round schooling in the United States? – Unhappy

ANSWER: With all the talk, parents are likely to think that year-round schooling is becoming the norm everywhere. This simply isn’t true. Only about 10 percent of all public schools have year-round schooling. The most common schedule is 45 days of schooling followed by a 15-day break. The usual holidays are built into the schedule, and the summer break is 30 days. The next most common schedule is 60 days of school followed by a 20-day break with a four-week summer break. And some schools have a 90/30 schedule with a 35-day summer recess.

The typical length of the school year remains 180 days. It is usually the same with most year-round schedules, although some school districts may add as many as 20 extra days.

Some year-round schools operate on a multitrack system in which students are assigned to one of four or five tracks. At any one time, one of the tracks is not attending school—thus expanding the capacity of the school. This works smoothly in elementary school but makes it more difficult to schedule high school courses.

The top advantage to year-round school, according to advocates, is that it reduces summer learning loss.

Shorter breaks can help students retain material that they learned during the school year. A significant advantage at some schools is that an enrichment session may be offered between regular sessions that gives excelling students a chance to explore new areas of interest. And at some schools, remediation is offered during the intersession, which can help struggling children build basic skills and reduce their chance of failing. Intersession programs may be just half a day or last all day with morning classes and extracurricular activities in the afternoon. Another advantage to year-round schooling is that it reduces burnout for both students and teachers.

Year-round schooling does have some disadvantages. For parents, it complicates finding childcare and making family vacation plans. For teachers, it limits their time to attend summer school or to get jobs to increase their income. It also makes it more difficult to improve school facilities and costs districts more to operate. Furthermore, it does not give students the opportunity to participate in lengthy summer recreation activities.

Loads of studies have been trying to determine whether year-round schools really have advantages. The results are quite mixed. Overall, the results may be positive—but not significantly so. In addition, the challenge of switching to a year-round school is made more difficult by the need to convince both teachers and parents of the benefits of the plan. ©Compass Syndicate Corporation, 2022

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Volunteer Opportunities

Youth Volunteer Corps (YVC) has partnered with Patrick Mahomes to encourage kids to volunteer this summer. To participate, fill out the Volunteer for 15 pledge and commit to serving 15 hours in the community between May 1 and Aug. 31. The volunteer opportunities are organized and supervised by YVC, and there are events on the weekends as well as during the week. To learn more and register, visit YVC.org/KansasCity.

Local Coloring Book

A new, local coloring book debuted this spring, City of Fountains. The book celebrates the 50th anniversary of the City of Fountains Foundation, and proceeds help restore and maintain KC’s fountains. Each drawing is by a local artist. In fact, daughter Emily of KC Parent’s very own digital media manager, Kristina Light, is one of the contributing artists. Each drawing is accompanied by information about the fountain including history and interesting stories. Available at Made in KC stores.

Park Passport

Looking for a fun summer activity? Check out Lenexa’s Playground Passport Program (say that fast five times!). To participate, download a copy from Lenexa.com or pick up a copy of the passport at the Lenexa Community Center or Lenexa Rec Center. Visit each of the 22 playgrounds listed to look for a hidden letter to help solve a puzzle. After you solve the puzzle, turn in your Playground Passport to the Lenexa Rec Center by 5:00 on Oct. 31, 2023. A fun way to explore and visit new parks! Lenexa.comAmazon.com

LOVE

5THINGS WE RIGHT NOW

Compiled by Margaret Sarver

Timepiece

I like watches and I like to wear different watches to match the outfit, season or occasion. For my birthday, my husband got me a watch because “it had been a while since I got you one.” He knows me well! I was pleasantly surprised by the one he picked out. It’s the perfect summer fun watch, with a great color and a little sparkle! And here’s a tip: when you need a new battery for your watch or need to have it sized, check out KC Watch (KCWatch.com). Great prices and great customer service. Fossil.com

Summer Outfit

I am not trendy or fashionable, but I do try to purchase cute outfits. Several friends have had luck finding outfits on Amazon, so I decided to give it a try. I am a review reader and spent a fair amount of time looking at different outfits and reading the reviews. I found the Nfsion Women’s Jumpsuit that looked not only cute, but comfy as well. It was positively reviewed, so I ordered and I’m here to save you time from having to read all the reviews … it IS cute and comfy! The button in the back is small and a bit hard to button on your own, but it’s not a deal breaker. If you need a cute summer outfit, check it out! Amazon.com

A WORKING MODEL

“Why in the Sam Hill don’t you watch where you’re going!” Grandpa sat back in his seat as Dad continued to drive.

Almost five years away from Driver’s Ed, I’d concentrated more on the scenery during the ride home than on the car in front of us. But Dad had just passed a car while pulling a small camper, and Grandpa showed his irritation with the driver as we rolled past.

Usually, our summer vacations meant a week in the Ozarks with my grandparents at their small store. However, this year they’d retired and we took them to Galveston with us for a dip in saltwater. A beachfront campground proved pleasant enough by daylight, but sunset brought hordes of voracious mosquitoes that sent us packing after two days. We went back to Lake Texoma, our first night’s stop, for some delightful time before heading homeward.

Until Dad found himself behind a car full of boys, apparently going to a baseball game. I don’t know why he passed the car on the two-lane highway, but it caused Grandpa to yell at the adult driver as we drove past.

The vacation gave me an opportunity to observe Dad, learning by his example. His patience and deliberate calm gave me lessons I’ve taken to heart in the nearly six decades since then.

This time, Dad taught me restraint when he sighed and spoke. “I wish you hadn’t said that, Walt.” That was it. No ranting or raving. No road rage as the other car passed us in revenge. Just those seven words, delivered in a conversational tone. Grandpa said nothing and the matter could have been forgotten, if it hadn’t been for a little boy in the back seat who learned a lesson he tried to pass on to his children years later.

William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family.

JUNE KC TRIVIA

4 Summer officially begins on:

A) June 1

B) June 15

C) June 30

D) June 21

1 Jazzoo, hosted on June 2, is the Kansas City Zoo’s largest fundraiser and helps feed and care for how many animals?

A) 1,000 B) 2,200+ C) 1,700+ D) 1,400+

2 June is National Rose Month. How many varieties of roses grow in Loose Park at 51st & Wornall?

A) 168

B) 215

C) 73

D) 112

3 June 1 is Donut Day. Ray Lamar, founder of Kansas City’s LaMar’s donuts, began his donut career at Jack Frost Donuts Company in 1933. How much did a dozen donuts cost at that time?

A) 50 cents B) 18 cents C) 25 cents D) 10 cents

5On June 1, Missouri’s Town of Kansas, named in honor of the Kansa Indians who inhabited the area, was incorporated and granted a charter by Jackson County in this year:

A) 1820 B) 1865 C) 1870 D) 1850

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Fruit picking is a favorite summer tradition for families. This fruit is ready to pick mid-June:

A) strawberries

B) blueberries

C) peaches

C) more than 1,700 animals

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D) apples ANSWER KEY:

June 1-July 29, 2023

Johnson County Library is excited to bring our community All Together Now this summer. Join us for:

Storytimes

Book Clubs

Author Visits

Read to a Dog

Sticker & Poetry Contests . . . and so much more!

Don’t forget to stop by any Johnson County Library location for your reading log and free book during the month of June!

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Make Time for Nothing

SCHEDULING SPECIAL OPEN MOMENTS

EACH DAY WILL DO YOUR CHILDREN GOOD.

One of the best things about the first day of summer vacation is sleeping in and making pancakes while the kiddos stay in their pj’s and watch early morning cartoons. Of course, the time soon comes to do chores, walk the dogs, go swimming, have slumber parties, head to camp, play baseball … the list goes on—and it’s all good. Though the stuff of summer is sweet, we parents need to remember the value in making sure kids get some downtime this summer.

Downtime is simply time to relax, which supports good mental health, an essential part of your children’s learning. As they relax, they can think clearly with a positive attitude and reflect on their emotions, which promotes better behavior. As we know, stress is inevitable even for children. Too much can have a negative impact on their health, social interactions and performance in school. Downtime ensures stress does not become overwhelming.

Public libraries have reading programs that encourage youngsters to find books that engage and match their interests. This is a nice way to make sure they don’t lose their ability to concentrate and to keep them reading through the summer months.

Another nice way to create peaceful times is to play games. Board games make for family fun minus electronics or time constraints. Try learning a new card game or play checkers or mancala.

Making a calendar together is another fun idea. Not on the computer, but with poster board, pieces of construction paper and tape. Brainstorm ideas and write them on the pieces of paper, then pick days to stick them on. For example, write flying kites, grocery store, swimming, play dough, ice cream store, movies, bake cookies or volunteer at the animal shelter. A dry erase board also works and is changeable, so you can add as the summer progresses. Plan around your children’s activities and practices, so they can spend time doing things they love and look forward to.

Sleep is another form of downtime. Make sure your kids snooze plenty, whether camping in a tent in the yard or on a pallet in the living room after a movie.

Also plan time with family and friends, which gives children the chance to socialize and build enriching relationships. They will learn skills like cooperation, problem-solving, patience and different ways of interacting with others. They’ll also forge lasting bonds with relatives and pals.

By creating that calendar together and conversing often about making deliberate activity choices, you can teach kids to prioritize their time. They’ll begin to consider the benefits of downtime, the sweetness of free, unstructured play and the fun of running with their imaginations.

Another thing to note is that physical activity during downtime can reinforce all these ideas. It can reduce stress and help make sure kids are tired at the end of the day.

If your children’s current schedule involves practices and games every day, try scaling back. Discuss how many free days or hours they have within a week. During the summer, children

benefit from three solid weeks of downtime for every one week of intense activity or camps. Discuss what hobbies, sports or clubs they have the most interest in. If they don’t want to quit anything, talk with the Scout leader or coach and ask whether your youngster can take some days off. Remember, don’t overschedule your child. Raising high achievers is nice, and they may hit home runs at every baseball game, but they also want to jump in the lake or just walk the dog.

Focus on having fun this summer, and you’ll find the downtime will create itself. Play in the yard, plant a tree or vegetables, take a walk as a family, ride bikes or scooters together and visit a local park or playground. These rich and engaging activities can get help your children both grow and get involved in their community and with their friends.

Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

Sources: TheMomHour.com, Playworld.com

DADS ROCK:

How Fathers Help Positively Influence a Child’s Development

Dads are awesome and important! They contribute greatly to a child’s life and development. Their presence and teachings affect their children throughout their entire lives. Not just childhood or adolescence. From infancy to adulthood, fathers and male caregivers have the chance to positively and greatly impact their children.

A Father’s Influence Through Development

Fathers influence both social and emotional development. Many adult children later admit to suffering the lasting effects of absent fathers in early childhood. These include abandonment issues, unhealthy relationships, a lack of self-confidence or emotional security. Because these have the possibility to affect a child’s development so much, a father’s positive influence on a child is imperative. And entirely possible!

Early childhood years

Dads play a key role in their children’s lives. This starts as early as pregnancy and infancy. Before a child is born, a father can show involvement in pregnancy through the child’s mother. Despite not carrying the child, a father still profoundly influences the birth and earliest days.

Although the child grows inside of the mother, the father can nurture its development in specific ways. These include strengthening his relationship with the child’s mother and aiding in a baby’s early care, for example, by feeding, diapering and engaging in initial communication.

Much of the role of a father in the early childhood years is as playmate, advocate and teacher. Dads teach children skills like

listening and following directions, and they enable laughter and roughness. Yes, even roughness is a necessary skill to growing and learning!

As children grow, they follow the example of those around them.

School-aged years

In the school-aged years, the role of the father is likely to be more of the protector and disciplinarian. Fathers stand up for their children when they face inevitable adversity that comes with being in social situations. Many fathers take on the role of rule enforcers in the household. This starts at an early age, but it will usually carry into the teen years before the child has left the home.

Fathers also help children learn regulation. Children need to learn regulation and commonly receive this skill through their father. Often dads will “rough and tumble” play with their children—throwing them, wrestling and engaging them in fast or loud play. This interaction is important in helping children learn self and body regulation. This type of play gives children an outlet for emotions. It helps them to regulate for other circumstances where it may not be as socially acceptable to play this way.

By receiving this loving type of interaction at home, children learn to regulate their bodies and emotions in a safe and secure way.

Teen years

Parents can feel distant from their children in their teenage years, which is why the early years are so important. Parents must use the early years to establish a foundation. When a father establishes a close relationship with his child in these years, he will be more likely to maintain

it as they both age. A child’s teen years confront a family with complex and rapid development—kids and parents feel the impacts. It is during these years that a child rapidly gains independence.

Much of the early years’ learning and lessons come to fruition in the teen years. When a father helps instill confidence and self-control early on, the child is more likely to be successful—both socially and in other areas—as a teenager and an adult.

Adulthood

A father can still positively influence his child into adulthood. Dads provide an example of fatherhood, a successful relationship and how to face inevitable struggles. Children look to their parents’ relationship as the first example of a relationship. It’s the parents’ job to provide an example of a healthy and safe one. Fathers demonstrate the ability to care for a partner. Adult relationships between a child and father are often complex as both of them navigate new and changing dynamics.

Tips for Dads to Positively Influence Their Child’s Development

Even if a dad doesn’t live in the same home as his child, he is still an important aspect of his child’s development. Here are some tips for dads to positively influence their children.

n Make one-on-one time for each child. Make a special activity you only do with that child. Really customize that time to your child’s interests. Even if it’s just going to get ice cream or run a special errand, consider how to make it special in some way. Maybe your child

enjoys spending time outside or learning about animals. Spend some time with just that youngster in a favorite setting.

n Seek out your child’s love language. Finding a person’s love language can make them feel seen and loved.

n As your children get older, talk with them. Ask them how you meet their needs. Ask them about things they’d like to do with you. Open communication is important in any relationship. Don’t discredit the power of communication when meeting your child’s needs!

n Be present and intentional. When playing with or spending time with your children, focus your time and energy on them. Quality over quantity. As adults, we often want to multitask or find ourselves easily distracted. Put your phone away and actively engage with the kids. It’s better to spend a shorter amount of time giving your undivided attention to them than a longer amount of time distracted.

Overall, fathers have a vast influence on a child’s development. They have the ability to have a positive one!

Fathers can foster a positive relationship with their children. They can do this by showing examples of regulation and emotional well-being, demonstrating healthy relationships of their own and looking after their child’s emotional well-being. Children want to have a relationship with their fathers. And it is important for their growth and development that they do—not just in early childhood, but throughout their teen and adult development, too.

Dads rock! They are such an important part of a child’s life. Dads bring many special moments and lessons over the course of a child’s development. Their presence in a child’s life is both meaningful and necessary. Remember to celebrate and appreciate the dads in your life today!

Kailyn Rhinehart writes from Warrensburg, Missouri. She lives with her husband and two small children. She knows, loves and appreciates that her husband is not just the “fun dad,” but a great one.

DADS ROCK! They are such an important part of a child’s life. Dads bring many special moments and lessons over the course of a child’s development. Their presence in a child’s life is both meaningful and necessary.

Birthday Party Life Lessons

Abirthday party may look like just a birthday party to you now, but what I see is a breeding ground for life lessons kids can learn that will carry them through their lives to help make them successful, happy and kind. Read on to check out a few teaching opportunities for your child’s next birthday party!

Graciousness and Disappointment

I’m lumping these two together because they seem to go hand in hand. The birthday child gets disappointed by not getting something she really wanted or sometimes not getting anything she really wanted at all during the entire party. That’s when it’s time to step in and

talk about how disappointment is okay, but that we should be gracious about it. It’s kind of like being a sore loser versus being a happy loser. Even though there is disappointment going on, you want your child to learn how to say thank you and show appreciation for the gift giver’s time and money or skills that went into the gift.

Consideration

Yes, it’s your child’s party, but consider where everyone would have a good time when planning your party venue. If it’s at your house, think up some fun games everyone might enjoy and build in plenty of time for just playing around. Have a friend with food allergies, such as gluten or dairy? Make sure to pick up something special for that friend—cookies or their own piece of cake—it’s easier than ever these days.

Sharing

Your kid may get some pretty good stash at his birthday party, and other kids are certainly going to want to play with the new goods. Explain to your child before the party that she is going to be getting some cool new stuff and that she can put some of her favorite things up right away but that she should share some of the things and play with them with her friends and not hide them all away.

Giving Back and Donating

This year, consider having your child ask for gifts for someone else. In my town, our local food bank supplies a birthday cake and all the fixings as long as the guests bring canned goods, take the tour and help out for a bit. Also, if your child has a particular love for, say, animals … how about hosting a birthday party for or at a local animal shelter? Instead of presents ask guests to bring donations like pet food and other supplies.

Instead of lecturing, which we all know gets tuned out anyway, get your party on with some cool hidden lessons that will take your kid beyond their kid years and into a fun and full life!

Kerrie McLoughlin lives in Peculiar, Missouri, and puts on five chaotic birthday parties per year for her kids and lives to tell about it at TheKerrieShow.com.

We get it. You’re working a fulltime job while coordinating school pickup and drop-off with only mere moments to hug your child goodbye before speeding away to the office. Breakfast was a blur. It took you an extra 10 minutes to find your car keys on the way out the door, and you’re already flustered about that big morning meeting.

In the midst of your crazy lifestyle, try not to let small moments to bond slip away. You’d be surprised how many minutes in a day you can actually bond with your kiddos without even overexerting yourself. We’ve prepared a short guide to get you started. You may even think of several other opportunities in addition to these everyday moments.

Read together

(even just bedtime stories)

Is bedtime the only part of the day this week you can truly settle down with your child and be present? That’s okay! Soak up every single one of those few minutes. Read one or two of her favorite books. Use silly voices. Be animated. Give her an extra hug and say you love getting to read with her. Tell her, “Same time, same place?” for tomorrow.

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Enjoy music

Sing along with the radio together in the car. Have Amazon’s Alexa play a few Disney tunes at bedtime as you’re tucking them in. I promise they’ll soak up and appreciate these positive, mindful moments as much as—if not more than—a well-planned vacation or expensive new toy.

Take a walk or head to the backyard

Instead of jumping right into homework after school, take the kids outside and join them in a game of catch or hide-and-seek. Walk around the block once. Take a few minutes to breathe in the fresh air while asking them about their day.

Cook together

If you’ve been working all day, just picked your kids up from school or daycare and don’t necessarily have energy to take them to the park or plan a special activity together, don’t worry. Why not include them in cooking dinner? It doesn’t have to be a complicated, home-cooked meal. Even if you stir up a box of pancake mix or heat up some chicken nuggets, include your children in the process.

Watch a movie

Change up story time and instead watch a quick episode of Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood or a Disney short on the iPad before bed. Even if the two of you don’t chat and just snuggle up with a blanket, you’re still bonding, and your presence makes your child feel safe and secure.

Just listen

My 5-year-old sure knows when I’m not giving him my absolute, undivided attention. He tells me, “Wisten, wisten (listen)!” until I make eye contact and notice what he is trying to show me on his iPad or a toy he brought me. This may happen while we’re playing with PlayDoh, coloring or building with Legos. Sometimes, the simplest and best way to snatch those bonding moments is to be fully present and engaged in simple activities together.

Emily Morrison is a freelance writer, former copy editor, full-time mommy and Disney fanatic who lives in Independence with her husband, son, daughter and dog.

How to enjoy moments with your kids when you’re always on the go

help your child deal with bad dreams

We’ve all had the experience of being awakened by a scream or cry from our child’s bedroom. Often, they will run into your bed and cuddle for a bit, or you can turn on their light and assure them they are OK. My daughter liked a radio playing softly in her room, and my son liked his Donald Duck nightlight when he was young. I even threaded tiny lights around my daughter’s bed on a suspended canopy, making her bed a special, safe place.

Childhood nightmares occur at any age, and studies do suggest they are exceptionally common for young children. Roughly half of children between the ages of 3 and 6 report frequent bad dreams. The same is true for 20% of kiddos ages 6 to 12. Most eventually outgrow these troublesome dreams, although some may develop nightmare disorder, which is characterized by recurring unpleasant or frightening dreams that cause sleep disturbances.

Night terrors, outbursts during sleep that can last for several minutes, are also more common in children than adults. Typically, nightmares primarily occur during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep, which is the final stage of a normal human sleep cycle. REM sleep is more prevalent during the middle of the night or early morning, so children are more likely to wake up from a nightmare during this time.

Most often, the dreams include things that scare them, such as monsters, ghosts, aggressive animals or people who pose a threat to their safety. Other nightmares may involve the child’s being scolded, harassed, bullied or otherwise mistreated.

Nightmares can be mistaken for night terrors, which are defined as episodes of terror and panic that occur during sleep. Unlike nightmares, night terrors are often accompanied by vocalizations, autonomic symptoms and other signs the child is acting out against the dream.

Sleepwalking is caused from night terrors, and research suggests a higher risk of night terrors if the child or adult has a family history. Counseling, anticipated awakening and addressing underlying medical issues or stress are parts of treatment.

Reassurance by you is the most effective way to calm and show your children they are safe and sound. Discuss fears and anger triggers with your kids in a relaxed setting. This helps promote feelings of relaxation before bedtime, which in turn may improve their sleep quality. Encourage your little ones to comfort themselves. Perhaps place a “sleep partner” in bed with them, such as a beloved stuffed animal, and tuck them in snug as a bug in a rug.

Make up a story about why that sleep buddy might be scared. This gives children the idea that they are the comforters and can pretend to protect their sleep buddy at night.

There are children’s books that discuss nightmares, and these are great to read at bedtime. Your child will see the pictures and know he is not alone and that everything is OK.

Parents may want to consider a psychological evaluation for a child if the youngster experiences at least two nightmares a week for around six months.

Another way you can help discourage recurring nightmares is to employ image

rehearsal therapy (IRT), a type of cognitive behavioral therapy that works by asking nightmare sufferers to write down the dream, re-script the narrative then rehearse that dream narrative during the day to cement it in their subconscious. For example, say a dog always jumps over the fence and bites your child in her dream. When you write it down, rewrite it. What color is the dog? How big is he? Say the dog turns into a sweet animal, and lies down so your child can pet him, then jumps back over the fence into his own yard. This way, the dog is no longer the enemy but a friend. With time, IRT works, and you can draw pictures and add to the story whenever you like. Rehearse the re-scripted dream once a day for 10 to 20 minutes, so it becomes a part of your child’s daily life. Ideally, this will change the dream completely, so it is no longer a nightmare. Just a dream that doesn’t wake them up!

Add some happy sounds as you discuss the story or build a movie around it. Even watch movies where friendly dogs are around. Or visit your local animal shelter and pet the puppies. Show your child that not all dogs are frightening. Then tell her that friendly puppy will be her dream.

Let’s face it. We tend to think of sleep when not much is happening after a busy day. When your kids nod off, their brains are still working hard to process the day’s events and their emotions. Sleep also plays a role in learning and memory consolidation. The National Institutes of Health suggest sleep also plays a housekeeping role. In other words, while you sleep, your brain clears away toxins that build up throughout the

day. Try to understand that little ones can internalize anxiety, fear, stress and trauma. They may not be able to tell what’s real and what’s not. Then their dreams can feel so alarmingly real that they can have a hard time separating what they experienced in their sleep from what is actually happening.

Try exploring your child’s room together and asking what they see. Show them the tricks their eyes play on them. For example, “See, it’s not a witch. It is just your coat hanging from the

chair,” or, “See the shadows moving on your wall? Those aren’t bad guys creeping into the house. They are the headlights from cars driving by.”

Make sleep a priority. Children are more likely to have nightmares when they are running on too little sleep. Nightmares are actually a form of parasomnia, or sleep disruption, and can be associated with poor sleep quality or not enough sleep.

Although it can be easy to bring children into your bed with you, be

prepared for the consequences. Snuggling together is something families cherish but does not give your child the chance to learn to sleep independently.

It can’t be emphasized enough how important a sleep partner or comfort item can be. When you hear, “Mommy, I neeeeeed youuuuuu!” in comes the giant teddy bear to cuddle with. Or even have your child snuggle your shirt or pillowcase—something that smells like a person they love can be a great source of comfort for a child.

If you think about, you can probably remember that special doll or stuffed animal you carried until it was ragged. Mine was a Lassie dog, which I still have!

Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

Sources: SleepFoundation.org, Fatherly.com, Health.ClevelandClinic.org

SCALING BACK TO KEEP FROM BURNING OUT

We live in a world of technology that keeps us on top of every scheduled minute of every scheduled day. It’s a cinch to reschedule a practice, cancel a work event and schedule a tooth cleaning at the touch of a button. But even with that magic in our back pocket, parents are still feeling burned out and tired in a way that is at best problematic and at worst detrimental to their mental and physical health.

So it shouldn’t be a surprise that we might be coping with life’s stresses in unhealthy ways. Overeating, overcaffeinating, over-shopping and over-managing everything in our lives is making us less productive and less effective. It’s one thing to understand that this is happening, but it’s quite another to do something about it. Perhaps it’s time to allow ourselves to take action. By scaling back.

Here are five ways you can switch into a lower gear and level up on your work/life/ parenting balance.

(Important note: It’s important to discuss any medication changes with your doctor or health care provider. Have a talk before making any big adjustments.)

Chill on the cocktails

It’s been a long day, and nothing sounds better than a refreshing margarita to close the night out. But is that booze really helping—or hurting? Alcohol seriously messes with your sleep cycle, causing you to wake up feeling less than fresh as a daisy. Not to mention those extra calories love to hang out right in our gut, making us feel less secure in our own bodies.

Additionally, children are always listening. If the chorus at home is one of Mom and Dad saying, “What a day. I need a drink!” the lesson learned is that relieving stress is directly related to drinking alcohol. Yikes.

Consider switching out that late-night toddy for a warm cup of herbal tea for an evening wind-down. You will discover the following day starts—and ends— measurably better.

Cut the social media cord

Human beings are hardwired to compare themselves to others. To a certain degree, this is healthy; a little healthy competition can give us goals to shoot for. But too much comparison steals our happiness. When we’re bombarded with images of influencers living in perfect, all-white homes with immaculate toy storage (seriously, how ridiculous), or our neighbors running their third marathon, it can take a dangerous toll on the lens of own lives. Those filtered images can cause us to feel “less than” and question whether we’re doing enough—even when we totally are.

Consider taking a social media hiatus and deleting those apps completely. If that feels like a bridge too far, simply set time limits on your devices. Start with a onehour-a-day limitation and see how it feels. The less you compare your life to others’, the more time and attention you can pay to yourself and your family.

Smash that “unsubscribe” button

We’ve all signed up for a company’s email in exchange for that extra 10% discount. What’s it going to hurt? Believe it or not, those seemingly harmless subscriptions compound and, over time, end up cluttering our minds just as much as our inbox. Sifting through endless junk wastes precious time and increases burnout. Get that index finger in prime shape and start clicking “unsubscribe.” Trust me, you aren’t missing anything. Use the time you get back to do some deep breathing or savor your coffee for just a few more minutes.

Three Ways to Cut Back, Be Grateful and Simplify Today

1. Clean the closet. Take a set amount of time and go through your drawers, one by one. Remove anything that doesn’t fit and either sell or donate it. Have your entire family follow your lead.

2. Declutter the fridge. Just like our closets, our fridges and pantries are full of items that are old and don’t fit in our lives anymore. Check expiration dates and eliminate products that are expired. Yes, all of them.

3. Move your body. Feeling the urge to go shopping? Or scroll your phone? Your body wants a serotonin boost. And, spoiler alert, there is a free way to get it.

Put on your sneakers and go for a 30-minute walk. Focus on what you’re grateful for and what you love about your life. Too hot or cold to walk outside? Write in a journal instead. When you look inward at what you have, it will help diminish the need to find happiness externally.

Take out the takeout

Please remain calm.

I am not suggesting you never eat food from a greasy paper bag again. Schedules get busy, and some nights it’s fast food or no food. But let’s collectively admit that garbage from a takeout window is doing us zero favors. It’s full of heavy carbs that make us sleepy, sugar that makes us crash and grease that the hardest workout session has a tough time combating.

Consider committing to a two times per week maximum on fast food. It will take a smidge of discipline, but try to plan ahead for the nights you know will be chaotic. Engage your family to assist with this; it’s just as much their responsibility as yours. One person can cut strawberries to keep at the ready for when the snack urges strike. Another can cook up some chicken as a high protein element for a quick salad. When all family members have ownership in the meals, they will be more likely to eat and appreciate the food.

Stay out of the stores

There has never been an easier time to buy ALL THE THINGS. We all have our triggers. For some, it’s a leisurely TJ Maxx

stroll (ahem, that’s mine). Or a quick Target run. We enter these bank account drainers for perfectly valid reasons and emerge with a new espresso machine and a bronzer we don’t even know how to use.

It’s OK to admit this isn’t a healthy approach. It doesn’t make you a bad person or an irresponsible person. It makes you quite normal. Social media, websites and advertising have conditioned us to “add to cart.”

It’s time to break the cycle of consuming.

The simplest way to win the war on impulse buys is to avoid the physical store. Utilize the pickup option for ordering what you need without setting a foot inside the doors. After all, strolling through aisles that are designed to make us spend money is a danger zone like no other. Do what you can to order what you need when you need it, and you’re 10 steps ahead of that urge to buy, buy, buy.

Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son.

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Ceramic Café

Camp Guide

Campers will explore the fascinating world of the fired arts with creative, hands-on projects including: clay sculpting, ceramic painting techniques, and fused glass. We will feature all new projects for camp 2023 using our favorite fired arts materials in new and creative ways! Items created will be fun and functional. Glazed ceramics are food safe! There will be built-in breaks for snacks and fun activities to get everyone up and moving around. Don’t wait, many of our sessions sold out last summer. See display ad on pg. 37. www.CeramicCafeKC.com

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The Coterie Theatre School Classes and Performance Camps

The Coterie offers summer acting and drama classes to students entering Grades K-12 at five sites: Crown Center (at the Coterie), The Plaza (Pembroke Hill), Overland Park (MillerMarley), Liberty (Liberty Community Center), and Kansas City, KS (KCKCC). Led by professional, trained teaching artists, Summer 2023 week-long, halfday classes include creative drama,

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Culture House

Come have a summer blast at The Culture House where performing and fine arts camps fill the building with creativity, friendship and fun! There are all kinds of camps for your children: Theater, Musical Theater, Dance, Music and Art. Parents will love how smooth all aspects of registration and logistics are handled making it easy for all to enjoy a summer filled with great memories and new friendships. Sign up today before camps are full at www.CultureHouse.com! See display ad on pg. 33.

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Get ready for 10 weeks of fun at Kansas City, Missouri Parks & Recreation’s Summer Day Camps!

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DID YOU KNOW?

KCParent.com has a geo-based, searchable Camp Guide with maps, descriptions, photos and videos. With these stats, it’s easy to see how KC Parent has camps covered!

Summer camp is a time-honored tradition, rich with activities, newfound friendships and a lifetime of memories. Explore a few ways to make your child’s camp experience smooth sailing from start to finish.

S’more Than Just Fun

According to the RAND Corporation, a nonprofit research organization, children who participate in summer programs, like experiential learning activities offered in an organized camp, are less likely to experience a significant summer learning slide.

Camp also enhances a child’s physical and emotional well-being. Activities build social skills, teamwork and independence, which all contribute to stronger selfconfidence and leadership abilities.

“I often hear from parents how amazed they are when their children return home after spending time at camp … about how they seem older and more mature,” says Doug Berkel, a YMCA senior program director of Youth Development Services.

Avoid Camp Run Amok

First, together with your child, decide what skills you want your child to gain and choose a camp that fits her needs and interests, as well as your family’s values.

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Check out safety guidelines in the camp’s parent handbook. Look for overnight camps accredited by the American Camp Association (ACA). “ACA standards are the most universal and well-known standards adopted by most camps to ensure a quality and safe program,” Berkel says.

Day and specialty camps should carry a current state childcare license. Additionally, staff should be trained in emergency, communication and safety procedures, behavior management techniques (including handling the common bout of homesickness), and child abuse prevention.

Camp Sunshine

Day camps are a practical way to introduce children, ages five to 12, to the camp experience. Most center on a theme, like sports, science, nature, technology and the arts.

Ann Bowley says that when her stepson, Trevor, was younger, he enjoyed planning out the day camps he wanted to attend each

summer. However, as her son got older he grew more apprehensive about starting over with a new group of kids each week.

“We talked to him about it and he never changed his plans. We just looked for schoolmates that might be in camp with him to help him be more comfortable,” she says.

Camp Ability

Specialty camps center around one activity like music, art, sports or science. These camps provide children the space to further explore and develop a skill that interests them.

“Specialty camps tend to run ... partial days and could be a nice addition to regular day camps,” Berkel says.

Camp Starlight

Overnight camps, typically in an outdoor setting, can last anywhere from a few days to several weeks and are generally offered for children ages 7 and up. If you aren’t sure your child is ready, allow him to spend

the night at friends’ houses occasionally. Or, as Berkel suggests, take advantage of a weekend family camping opportunity, usually offered in the fall and spring to familiarize campers and their families with the facilities and staff.

Conquer Camp Blues

Preparation and an awareness of what to expect can ease the transition from home to camp. Before your child departs, go over a list of everything she will need. Pack a physical connection to home like a favorite sleeping bag, stuffed animal or pillow.

Also, mail a card ahead of time to ensure it arrives before the end of camp. Tell your child how you look forward to hearing her camp stories, but avoid saying how much you miss her which can trigger homesickness and worry.

Fourteen-year veteran Boy Scout leader, soccer coach and father of eight, John Whiteside, is a camping pro. Over the

years, he and his children have participated in multiple camps, including sports, band and weeklong Scout camps.

Initial nervousness isn’t unusual. If your child asks to come home, Whiteside says to consider the situation, but to encourage him to discuss his anxieties with the camp counselor and take it one day at a time. “Tell him ‘Yes, today was hard, but I think it will be better tomorrow’ and usually tomorrow is better,” he says.

While your child may struggle at first, chances are he’ll come home a happy camper with a heightened sense of selfconfidence, memorable stories and a passel of new friends to boot.

Freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines lives in Olathe with her husband and their two happy campers. She is the author of Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

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Oakhill Day School

Every day is a vacation at Oakhill Fully Charged! Our flexible weekly themed day camps for campers ages two through middle school are a high-energy combination of play and creativity! Embark on a journey of what summer should be through field trips, camp-wide water balloon fights, trips to the pool, and more from our fantastic crew of Fully Charged counselors! Enroll online: www.OakhillDaySchool.org/Summer. See display ad on pg. 37.

Summer at Barstow

Have you heard the buzz? Summer at Barstow is Kansas City’s favorite summer camp program for kids ages 3 and up! Campers love Summer at Barstow’s action-packed adventures in creative arts, athletics, academics and new this

year STEAM camps for grades 1-12 at the Dan & Cassidy IDEA Space just down the road in Leawood, Kansas. Kids love exclusive camps and adventures; parents love our experienced instructors, 4:1 camper-to-staff ratio and extended care options. Check out camps for every budget, age, interest and schedule at www.BarstowSchool.org/ Summer. Email summer@barstowschool.org or call 816.277.0445 for more information. See display ad pg. 38.

Tiger Rock Martial Arts

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Victory Soccer Camp

Victory Soccer Camp provides quality soccer instruction in a fun and exciting environment. Children learn to combine excellence in sports with a focus on the fundamentals of the game, skills and understanding of the game. Our curriculum is designed for every player to be challenged according to their age level. Our camp is for students with all levels of athletic ability. Every camper is encouraged to live with good character qualities through our daily Bible halftime. See display ad on pg. 37.

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LIFE LESSONS KIDS LEARN FROM PLAYING SPORTS

Children often get signed up for sports at a young age. Parents generally sign their children up to be active, burn off energy and learn new skills. The decision to put our children in sports had a slightly different motivation for us though—all the many lifelong benefits to being involved in sports! Having been a coach for the last 27 years, my husband has seen firsthand how life-changing being active in sports can be for children. Though there are definitely more, here are 10 life lessons kids can learn from playing sports.

HEALTH: Playing sports teaches kids how to take care of their bodies. They learn what being physically active looks and feels like, how important rest and recuperation is, as well as how to best fuel their bodies. Kids learn they cannot load up on soda and junk food, then go play their best football or soccer game. Healthy eating habits, the importance of staying properly hydrated and steering clear of drugs and alcohol are all naturally taught through being involved in athletics. Not only do kids learn the physical benefits of being active and playing sports, they learn the mental health side as well. Being active releases endorphins to improve overall mood and promote a more positive mental health outlook.

SELF-CONFIDENCE: Molly

Karagyaurov, former athlete and head women’s volleyball coach at MidAmerica Nazarene University, shares, “There is a famous line of jokes which goes something like, ‘If you can’t play, coach; and if you can’t teach, teach P.E.’ As a young woman I chose P.E. and coaching not because I couldn’t do other things but because almost everything that made me successful I learned through sports and fitness. My parents put me in sports and a variety of physical activities from a very young age. Looking back now, those activities built a foundation of selfconfidence, which fuels my endeavors to this day. From sports, I knew and had confidence that my body was capable of speed, strength, dexterity, physicality, pain tolerance, etc. I also developed confidence in what my body couldn’t do. Either way, I live with confidence today because I had the opportunities to test this tool God gave me through sports!”

TIME MANAGEMENT: This one may not seem that obvious, but I believe being able to manage time is definitely a byproduct of sports involvement. For example, if our son has soccer practice at 6:30, we know we have to leave our house at 6:10 to be there on time. This means he has to manage his time from when he arrives home from school until he leaves. He has to make sure everything gets done prior to leaving: being dressed and ready, homework, dinner, chores and more. This creates a natural and real-life learning situation that will be applicable for the rest of his life. Once kids are able to drive themselves, not only do they have to manage their time, but also plan accordingly to arrive on time for games and practices, too.

a test they didn’t study for, so consequently, don’t get the grade they were hoping for. Maybe it is not getting to play much during a soccer game because they were lazy at practice the week before. Maybe it is simply not earning their chore money because they didn’t want to put in the hard work to get the jobs done. Whatever it is, children will encounter this natural cause and effect reality the rest of their lives.

SPORTSMANSHIP: Being able to handle disappointment, wins, losses, competition and so much more are crucial life lessons. Things are not always going to go our kids’ way, and they are not always going to come out on top. Our kids need to learn how to handle these things graciously. Winning, too. We don’t go around bragging about having won but celebrate with grace— and a bit of humility doesn’t hurt either.

FRIENDSHIPS: Playing sports helps kids manage their social skills, exposes them to diverse people and helps them to understand everyone has a different skill set. Lifelong friendships can be forged through the blood, sweat and tears that go into being a part of a team. “I believe playing sports as a young kid teaches them how to mesh with different personalities to achieve the same goal. What a wonderful lesson to carry with you throughout the rest of your life,” says Crystal Krueger, an Olathe mom of two young athletes.

TEAMWORK: You’ve heard it a million times, but the statement is true: There’s no I in team! Kids learn the value of operating together as a team when playing sports and not relying only on themselves. Dilyn Davies, an Olathe North Sports Medicine and Exercise Science Academy student and athlete shares, “By learning to rely on one another and trust each teammate to do their own job, kids are able to focus on working as a team as well as learning to win and lose together.”

HARD WORK: Sports, whether team or individual, teach kids the value of hard work, which is a necessary component of daily life. You don’t get very far if you aren’t willing to put in the work. We see this with our own children sometimes. Maybe it is a project they didn’t work very hard on or

COURAGE: According to PBS.org, “Courage involves making good choices in the face of fear or obstacles. It’s another term for bravery. Remember: bravery doesn’t mean fearlessness. It means we do not let fear hold us back from exploring new opportunities, developing our skills, and doing what is right.” What a wonderful application to sports … and life!

I recently saw a Dick’s Sporting Goods commercial on TV, which sums up perfectly: “Teams change people, fields change towns, seasons change futures, coaches change character, sports change lives.”

Julie Collett is experiencing these life lessons with her children firsthand as they now begin to be active in sports!

By learning to rely on one another and trust each teammate to do their own job, kids are able to focus on working as a team as well as learning to win and lose together.

diy paper pinwheels

Ready for a fun and easy summer craft project you can use both to keep your crew entertained and also decorate for a summer party?

Step one: Using a 6-inch-by-6-inch square of card stock, fold the square in a triangle, corner to corner. Repeat with other corner.

Step two: Cut just over halfway along each seam toward the middle of the square.

Step three: Poke a tiny hole about a half-inch down from the top of a paper straw.

Step four: Poke a tiny hole in the middle of the square.

Step five: Poke a tiny hole on the right side of each now triangle.

Step six: Secure the triangles with the brad and place the brad through the center of the square.

Step seven: Place the bead on the back of the pinwheel square on the brad before attaching the straw.

Step eight: Secure the brad and you are all set to spin!

Step nine: Repeat as many times as you want—we ended up with nine in total before my kids were done!

Materials Needed:

• Card stock

• Scissors

• Extra-long brads (paper fasteners)

• Beads

• Paper straws

• 1/8 inch hole puncher or an extra small pokey stick—think of a small object to poke things, perhaps something in a toolbox, a meat thermometer or even a door key for a bedroom door.

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Manhattan, Kansas, with her husband, three children, two dogs, eight fish and a frog. Janelle is the owner of Flint Hills Mediation LLC and loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

UMMER! School is out, schedules are free, and the living is easy. Or is it? Modern life remains hectic even during the hazy days of summer. With a little prep and planning, though, summer can be the way it should be—worry free. Follow these tips for a carefree summer.

Plan Ahead

A stress-free and fun summer begins with preparation and planning. Get out your calendar and block off all the camps, vacations, practices and sports you have scheduled throughout the summer. Make your notations as detailed as possible. I like to have a color for each family member’s activities on my calendar. Once you’ve done this, you can break it down week by week and day by day. Are there days you will need to find a babysitter, or is there a block of days where a day camp would fit in for the kids? If so, get it planned out and on the calendar now, so you don’t find yourself in a frenzy when something unexpected pops up.

Follow a Daily Schedule

While the kids are home from school all summer, keep them on a daily schedule. Kids thrive with routine. We schedule time for breakfast, reading, crafts and play, as well as outside time, free time and chores. I’ve found it helps my daughter to know what’s coming next in her day. I work from home, so it’s nice that she can check the schedule without having to ask me. It also keeps me from hearing the dreaded, “I’m bored,” whining all day.

Consistent Bedtime

Try your best to keep your children’s bedtime and wake-up time consistent each day. Don’t let them stay up all night and sleep all day! We let our kids stay up a half hour to an hour later in the summer, but we don’t vary much more than that. If you do adjust bedtime, make sure the kids still get the same amount of sleep each night.

Make a Bucket List

TIPS TO PLAN A wor ry-free summer s

Every season I like to make bucket lists, and summer is no exception. A few fun things I like to include each year are to make s’mores, catch fireflies, have a lemonade stand, visit the splash pad, go fishing and visit Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. I’ve found if we have a visual list of things to check off, we’re more likely to do that activity. It’s also nice when we have a free day and can’t decide what to do. We just pick something off the list and go! Don’t forget to include some rainy day activities.

Pack Your Car

In the summer, parents can be pulled in a million different directions. The consequence is logging many miles and many hours in their cars. You might be dropping one kid off at camp and taking the others to swim lessons all on the same morning. The best tip I’ve found is to load up my car with all the summer items

we might possibly need. I have a large tote packed with sunscreen, bug spray, beach towels, aloe, sunglasses, swim goggles, an umbrella, jackets and of course, snacks. I do this throughout the year when we are in our busiest seasons. It’s nice to have everything we need in one place, so we don’t have to pack a separate bag every time we leave the house.

Stock Healthy Snacks

Being home all day makes it tempting for kids to snack more than normal. To prevent this, keep routine meal times and don’t leave the kitchen a free for all. We like to have bins of healthy snacks they can eat throughout the day, so they stay away from the junk food and sweets. Fresh cut fruit, trail mix, yogurt and cut celery and carrots with peanut butter are all good options to stock up on.

Carpool

Because summertime schedules may change daily, getting kids to activities during the season sometimes is more stressful. Try to lighten your load by carpooling with other families. Take turns driving the kids to day camps and practices. My husband is a teacher, so he’s able to do the majority of the carpooling in the summer, and then in our busiest season, the other families pick up the slack for us.

Get Outside

Take advantage of the season and get outside to enjoy the weather and take in the fresh air every day. There are so many advantages to soaking in the sun: It improves your sleep quality, lifts your mood, lowers blood pressure, and promotes good mental health. I’ve noticed when the kids are having a rough day, just taking them outside improves all our moods. Take a family walk, make a

trip to the park, eat dinner on the patio, read a book under a tree or have a picnic on a blanket for lunch.

Join the Fun!

Sometimes all the planning and preparing can leave parents exhausted and left to watch the fun from the outside looking in. Parents deserve to have fun too! This summer, make sure you are completely present and jump in and join the fun with your kids. Nothing will wash away the stress and worry like an impromptu water balloon fight or a good jump in some puddles with your kids. Your inner child will thank you, and the best part is you will be making the best summer memories with your kids.

Regan Lyons is a girl mom and freelance writer. She lives with her husband, Cale, and daughters Atley, 8, and Ensley, 2, in St. Joseph, Missouri.

STAY SAFE IN THE SUMMER HEAT

Summer’s a great time for fun in the sun! Of course, you already know sunscreen is essential and to avoid being out during the hottest times of the day. But do you know how to recognize the signs of heat illness?

Kiddos are especially prone to heat-related illnesses, which include heat exhaustion and heatstroke. Babies and young children cannot regulate their body temperature as well as adults can. They also may be unable to articulate when they feel uncomfortable, hot or thirsty. Older kids may get so wrapped up in play they don’t realize when their bodies need to take a break and hydrate.

Midwest summers are hot and humid. When the temperature rises above 90°F, it’s easy to get dehydrated and experience heat illness symptoms. Make sure you can recognize the signs associated with heat exhaustion and heatstroke so you can intervene and keep having fun!

Signs of Heat Exhaustion

n Extra thirsty

n Hot and sweaty OR cool, clammy skin

n Weakness

n Fatigue

n Muscle cramps

n Nausea and vomiting

n Increased fussiness or irritability

n Headache

n Temperature above normal, but less than 105°F (40.5°C)

Move your child to a cooler, shady location with good air circulation. Remove unnecessary clothing layers and offer lots of water. A cool bath or washcloth can also help your child cool off more quickly.

If you miss the early signs, heat exhaustion may progress to heatstroke, a life-threatening emergency. Extreme dehydration and body temperature create a cascade of problems with how a body functions. If you see any of the following signs, call 911 or seek emergency medical care.

Symptoms of Heat Stroke

n Weakness or dizziness

n Confusion

n Fast breathing and heartbeat

n Severe headache

n Passing out, unable to wake

n Seizures

n Little to no visible sweat

n Hot, dry, flushed skin

n Dry mouth

n Body temperature greater than 105°F (40.5°C)

Again, seek emergency medical care if you notice any of these symptoms. While waiting, move the child to a cool, shaded area or into air conditioning. Remove extra clothing and offer sips of water.

Tips to enjoy all your favorite outdoor summer activities

n Avoid being outdoors or doing strenuous activities during the hottest parts of the day, especially from 10:00 to 2:00.

n Make sure you have water available.

n Encourage your child to take frequent breaks.

n Offer water regularly, even if kids say they aren’t thirsty.

• Water is the best option.

• Low-sugar electrolyte drinks are OK in small amounts.

• Avoid sugary drinks like fruit juice or soda.

n Dress in light, loose clothing that allows for air circulation.

n Don’t forget sunscreen. Follow the instructions on your bottle and reapply as directed.

n Go for a swim! Enjoy one of the many splash parks, pools, and water parks that KC has to offer.

With a little bit of planning and a lot of water, you’ll be set to have your best summer yet!

Joleen Sams lives with her family in Shawnee. She’s a family nurse practitioner who has always loved taking care of kids and their families.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

S weet S hoppes!

June is National Candy Month! Treat your sweet tooth to something special at one of these local shops.

The Candy Wizard

This shop sells a wide variety of retro, hard-to-find candies, including saltwater taffy, Bavarian fruit, Necco wafers, caramels, Jelly Bellies, lollipops and more. This is every candy lover’s dream come true. Tip: It’s in the same building as the Arabia Steamboat Museum. TheCandyWizard.com

Chip’s Chocolate Factory and Chip’s Candy Factory

Chip’s is a local landmark selling a variety of novelty treats and chocolates. Kids love watching the fudge-making demonstrations at the chocolate factory on Crown Center’s second level. At the candy factory, on the first level, you can choose from more than 450 classic and unique candies. Tip: The shops in Crown Center are a perfect treat after a show at the Coterie or a visit to Legoland or Sea Life. ChipsCandyFactory.com

Christopher Elbow

This gourmet chocolate shop has become a Kansas City landmark. The artisan chocolates are true works of art—both beautiful and delicious. Tip: The shop is in the Crossroads Arts District, and on First Fridays it sells chocolates at a discount. ElbowChocolates.com

It’Sugar

This penultimate candy store on the Country Club Plaza is ready to satisfy all your sugar cravings! In addition to all the classics, It’Sugar is known for a selection of giant-sized candy, including the world’s largest solid Chupa Chups lollipop, a 1.75-pound solid strawberry sucker. Tip: Enjoy a visit to the Plaza after exploring the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. ItSugar.com

Laura Little’s

This sweet shop is famous for delicious candy made from scratch in copper kettles with wooden paddles. For holidays and special occasions, they even sell personalized chocolate treats with your child’s name. Tip: This shop isn’t far from the Shawnee Indian Mission, a local historic site. LauraLittleCandy.com

AQUARIUM

MONTH Visit Sea Life Aquarium where you can come nose-to-nose with sharks and stingrays as you walk the tunnel.

JUNE FUN CALENDAR

JUNE 3 World Bicycle Day: Check out our favorite bike trails. The metro is home to many fun trails, including locations where you may rent a bike with the RideKC Bike system.

JUNE 6 National Trails

Day: Discover a new adventure on a trail using the guidebook Hiking Kansas City by William B. Eddy and Richard O. Ballentine. Also, check out the “Best Trails in Town” article at KCParent.com.

DAIRY MONTH

Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead’s dairy exhibit offers kids a firsthand experience as they watch staff milk cows, pet calves themselves and milk a pretend cow.

NATIONAL ADOPT A CAT MONTH Great

Plains

SPCA is one of the largest no-kill animal shelters in the Kansas City area. Learn how to adopt a pet, volunteer or help support the cause at GreatPlainsSPCA.org.

JUNE 9 Donald Duck

Day: Donald Duck has Kansas City roots as a creation of Walt Disney, who started his animation business Laugh-O-Grams Studio that he founded in Kansas City. Celebrate with a trip to Marceline, Missouri, where you can visit the Walt Disney Museum.

JUNE 12 National Peanut

Butter Cookie Day: Head to Cookies and Creamery in the Red Bridge Shopping Center where you can enjoy Mary’s Mountain cookies, creamwiches and other yummy goodies!

JUNE 23

National Pink

Day: It’s the day to celebrate the color pink, and what better way than to visit the restaurant in St. Joseph, Missouri, that looks like a giant pink ice cream cone? Kris & Kate’s serves delicious hot dogs, ice cream and malts.

FIRST WEEK OF JUNE National Gardening Week:

Family

Tree Nursery’s expert staff is always on hand to help with your gardening questions, and the nursery is stocked with everything you need for the garden of your dreams. FamilyTreeNursery.com

JUNE 25 National Food

Truck Day: Local food trucks serve up fabulous servings of deliciousness all summer long at local parks and events. Visit KCFoodTrucks.org for locations and dates.

JUNE festivals ACROSS KANSAS CITY

Summer is festival season in Kansas City! Visit KCParent.com and use our Festival Guide for a complete guide to fests and fairs all season long!

Old Shawnee Days June 1-4, Shawnee Town 1929. The bands will be rockin’, kids will be smilin’, and the turkey legs will be smokin’! Come join us as we celebrate 55 years of Old Shawnee Days fun! Old Shawnee Days is FREE and open to the public.

Festa Italiana June 2-4, Zona Rosa. One of Kansas City’s favorite festivals, Festa Italiana is a unique celebration of Italian traditions and ItalianAmerican culture. Enjoy an amazing assortment of Italian food favorites, great entertainment, an Italian motorsports show and much more.

Our Blue Planet – A Handmade Parade June 4, The Great Lawn (18th & Vine). Join StoneLion Puppet Theatre in a creative new FREE spectacle to raise awareness for our amazing home. Handmade parade features costumes, masks, street bands, hand pulled floats, giant puppets and crazy art.

Dragon Boat Festival June 10, Brush Creek at the Plaza. Held as a daylong event, the festival features a fleet of boating teams competing on the water, as well as a variety of live cultural performances and delicious food and beverage options.

Future Stages Festival June 11, noon-5:00, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. The FREE one-day festival invites everyone to explore a diverse range of performances and interactive arts activities. Featuring a variety of performing arts organizations and arts activity partners, the festival provides fun for all ages!

Great Lenexa BBQ Battle June 23-24, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park. The competition attracts cooks from all over the nation who compete for the coveted title of Grand Champion of the Great Lenexa BBQ Battle—the Kansas state championship.

Waterfest June 23-24, historic downtown Excelsior Springs, Missouri. Waterfest is a FREE event with more than 90 vendor booths, two main stages with live bands, a beer garden, a Waterfest parade with celebrity grand marshals, kids activities, a classic car, hot rod and truck show and so much more.

Greenwood Freedom Fest June 24, 4:00-10:00, Hitt Park. Freedom Fest is an outdoor event with live music, local vendors, food trucks, rides and games, and a fireworks display that begins at 9:30. Event attendance is free with rides/games packages available for preorder and purchase at the gate.

Dragon Boat Festival

Great Lenexa BBQ Battle

Festa Italiana

KANSAS CITY’S ULTIMATE

bucket l ist

• Visit stingrays, polar bears, kangaroos, tigers, penguins and giraffes at the Kansas City Zoo

• Ride the Zambezi Zinger at Worlds of Fun and try all of their world-class roller coasters. Then, make waves at Oceans of Fun—all for the price of one ticket!

• Spend the day bird watching at the Overland Park Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

• Play miniature golf at the Art Course on the lawn of the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art

• Stop and smell the roses at Loose Park

• Attend a KC Monarchs baseball game! TIP: Sundays are Family Fun Day.

• Challenge the kids to an escape game at Tick Tock Escapes

• Participate in hands-on history at the National World War I Museum and Memorial and get a spectacular view of the city atop Liberty Memorial.

• Explore Fortopia at Powell Gardens

• Participate in a summer reading program.

• Spend a day at Crown Center—visit Legoland or Sea Life and catch a show at the Coterie

• Pick berries, peaches and apples at local u-pick farms You’ll find a complete guide to local u-pick farms on KCParent.com.

• Ride bikes at one of KC’s best bike trails

• Spend a day at the Legends Outlets and meet up with friends on the Lawn.

• Explore one of Kansas City’s best parks. Use the Going Places guide on KCParent. com to find a new one.

• Visit the Johnson County Museum and play in KidScape, a child-sized village.

• Ride the KC Streetcar and visit the FREE KC Rail Experience at Union Station, play chess on the roof at the Central Library, explore Rooftop Park in the Power & Light District and taste-test a yummy treat at City Market.

• Watch a show and make your own puppet at the Puppetry Arts Institute

• Take a tour of the Roasterie and learn about coffee.

• Step back in time at one of Shawnee Town 1929’s familyfriendly summer events.

• Join a summer movie club at your local movie theater

KC is cool all the time, but especially in the summertime! Enjoy the best of summer with our MEGA FUN Bucket List!

• Rent a pedal boat at Shawnee Mission Lake or Lake Jacomo. Rent a stand-up paddle board at Lake Olathe or Legacy Park in Lee’s Summit

• Marvel at modern art at the Nerman Museum, where admission is free.

• Ride aboard the KC Northern Railroad for only 75 cents on weekends!

• Shop at one of KC’s farmers markets

• Go camping at a campground in Missouri or Kansas.

• Play disc golf at Swope Park

• Try the zip line at Go Ape Zipline and Adventure Park in Swope Park.

• Nurture your creative bug at Ceramics Cafe

• Attend a weekend tour at Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary where big cats live in Louisburg, Kansas.

• Share a Skyscraper, a giant ice cream soda or shake, at Winstead’s

• Swim at a local pool, waterpark, sprayground or beach—discover them all in our KC Water Fun Guide on KCParent.com.

• Feed the goats at Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead

• Ride a stagecoach during one of Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm’s Family Fun Nights on Thursdays in June and July.

• Jump at Urban Air, an indoor trampoline park, and try their virtual reality experience.

• Participate in hands-on science at Science City, catch a planetarium show at Gottlieb Planetarium, watch a movie at the Extreme Screen and experience the Amazing Spider-Man exhibit at Union Station

• Learn about Missouri’s real discovered treasure at the Arabia Steamboat Museum

• Stroll through Kauffman Memorial Gardens

• Celebrate Black America’s baseball history at the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum

• Explore Downtown Kansas City and take photos with public art on display.

• Picnic near a Kansas City area waterfall. You’ll find a list on KCParent.com.

• Get an amazing view of the city from the River Observation Tower as you gaze out over the vast Missouri River.

• Roller-skate with the family at a local skating rink

• Go old school and catch a movie at one of KC’s drive-in theaters

• Take a family float trip and canoe locally

• Learn about the Santa Fe Trail at Cave Springs Nature Center

• Learn new things about nature through a class or program at one of KC’s nature centers or gardens

• Grab some cash and take the kids on a trash or treasure hunt ... a.k.a. garage sale shopping

• Stargaze at Powell Observatory, home to the Ruisinger telescope, one of the largest telescopes available for public viewing in a five-state area.

• Explore the Central Branch of the Kansas City Library, because any library with a parking garage painted with classic books has to be cool.

• Head to Moon Marble in Bonner Springs and watch a marble making demonstration.

• Root, root, root for the Royals! TIP: If attending a first game with a little one, take the family to guest services where young fans are awarded a souvenir certificate in honor of their first game.

• Watch the fish at Bass Pro in Olathe or Independence, the outdoor shop featuring giant fish tanks kids love.

• Ride the $1 Ferris wheel at Scheel’s.

• Munch on Topsy’s popcorn and enjoy their homemade lemonade.

Kristina Light will be writing about summer fun in Kansas City all season long on KCParent.com.

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OVER 1,000 EVENTS EACH MONTH!

learn

Head to Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead on June 3 for Safety Day

Hop aboard a fire truck, slide into a police cruiser and visit with members of emergency services.

OPKansas.org

enjoy

The Snow Queen comes June 9-10 to JCCC Polsky Theater. The Culture House performs the story of a young woman traveling through the seasons. CultureHouse.com

The Liberty Summer Festival is June 10-11 at Family Tree Nursery (Liberty). Enjoy live music, food trucks, workshops, kids activities and more! FamilyTreeNursery.com

Madagascar The Musical comes to the Music Hall June 16. See all of your favorite cracka-lackin’ friends as they find themselves on a journey.

Ticketmaster.com

watch

On June 16 head to Electric Park for Movie in the Park. Pack blankets and snacks to enjoy Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark under the stars. Lenexa.com

Movies in the Park at Electric Park in Lenexa.

1 Thursday

Fortopia Thru Sept 4, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a playful exhibition composed of awe-inspiring forts that invite explorers of all ages to discover the gardens! PowellGardens.org

Life on the Farm 9:00, Colonial Gardens. Activities may include feeding the chickens, hugging an alpaca or holding a baby goat! ColonialGardensKC.com

Nature Walk Thursdays 9:30, George Owens Nature Park. Discover one of the trails with a park naturalist on Thursdays in June and July. Dress for the weather. 816.325.7115

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Mondays and Thursdays, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $12! CeramicCafeKC.com

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Old Shawnee Days Thru Sunday, Shawnee Town 1929. Carnival rides, entertainment, food and lots of family fun! Old ShawneeDays.org

2 Friday

Enchanted Faire Today and tomorrow, Overland Park Arboretum. Enjoy arts and crafts, hair painting, photo ops and merriment for the whole family. ArtsAndRec-OP.org

Downtown Days Festival Thru Sunday, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Festivities include live entertainment, carnival rides, sports zone, festival food and more! DowntownLS.org

Festa Italiana Thru Sunday, Zona Rosa. Festival celebrates unique Italian traditions and ItalianAmerican culture. ZonaRosa.com

Prairie Village Art Show Thru Sunday, Prairie Village Shops. Annual art show featuring more than 100 artists. Children’s activities, music and more. PrairieVillageShops.com

Fresh Fridays 5:00, City Market. Sip and shop while enjoying music, food and fun each month. Admission is free, and all ages welcome. TheCityMarketKC.org

First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Art galleries, retailers and other participating art venues of the Crossroads Art District showcase their art. KCCrossroads.org

Jazzoo 7:30, Kansas City Zoo. Be a part of the wildest fundraiser in town! Enjoy unlimited food, drinks and entertainment—all while raising money. KansasCityZoo.org

3 Saturday

Hospital Hill Run 7:00, Crown Center. Kansas City’s long-standing running tradition. Choose from the half marathon, 10K or 5K. CrownCenter.com

46th Annual Fishing Derby 8:00, C Lee Kenagy Park (Raytown). The derby is free and open to Raytown residents of all ages. UnctionMedia.com/rp2019

Strawberry Festival 9:00, Vaile Mansion. Hamburgers, hot dogs, strawberry treats, craft and antique vendors, plants for sale and more! VaileMansion.org

Donuts with Dad 9:00, Smithville Senior Center. Celebrating dads, grandpas, uncles or other positive male role models with a snack, craft and photo op! Pre-reg at SmithvilleParksRec.com.

Spring Jamboree 9:00, Missouri Town Living History Museum. Try your hand at the important work and play of Victorian children. MakeYourDayHere.com

Days Out with Frank and Ella

Safety Day 9:00, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Hop aboard a fire truck, slide into a police cruiser and interact with members of emergency services. OPKansas.org

Kids Projects and Activities 9:00, Home Depot locations across the metro. Children will enjoy making their own putting green. HomeDepot.com/c/kids

A Day in the Park 10:00, Shawnee Mission Park. Pack the picnic basket and kick off the summer with a fun-filled variety of facilities and activities. JCPRD.com

Global Neighbors & Flavors Fest 10:00, Lenexa Public Market. Feast on cuisine, performances and experiences from around the world! Lenexa.com

AKMA Art Fair 10:00, Albrecht-Kemper Museum of Art. Discover original artwork and enjoy live musical performances, art activities and more. Albrecht-Kemper.org

Let’s Be Friends! 10:00, Olathe Library (Downtown). Storyteller Priscilla Howe brings stories, songs, puppets and silliness for kids of all ages. OlatheLibrary.org

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Children hear a story, make a craft and often see a wildlife interpretation. LakesideNatureCenter.org

Hy-Vee SummerFest Noon, Memorial Park (Belton). Live music and performances, cornhole tournament, food trucks, games, crafters and fireworks. BeltonParks.org

4 Sunday

KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Line Creek Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. 75 cents/ride. KCNRR.com

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

Our Blue Planet 2:00, The Great Lawn (18th & Vine). Handmade parade features costumes, masks, street giant puppets and more. Festival after parade. StoneLionPuppets.org

Historic Middle School Book Club 4:30, Alexander Majors Home. Middle schoolers discuss a historical fiction novel. WornallMajors.org

Family Fundays 6:00, Legends Field. Bring a glove and ball and play catch on the field, and after the game, kids run the bases! MonarchsBaseball.com

Summer Concerts 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

5 Monday

Sensory-Friendly Mondays 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Limited occupancy session for kids with sensory processing differences and autism spectrum disorders. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Summer Kid Series 10:00 and 12:30, Miller Theatres (Blue Springs). See the Goosebumps movie for only $2.50/ticket. Combos also available. MillerTheatres.com

KidsGiG Thru Thursday, Westside Family Church. Engaging games, relationship building time with peers and learning about Jesus. Pre-reg at WestsideFamilyChurch.org/kidsgig.

Storybook Trail Thru June 11, Armstrong Park (Grain Valley, Mo.). Walk, bike or run along the trail to read pages from a storybook. CityOfGrainValley.org

6 Tuesday

Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Merriam Community Center. Kids can ride, slide and play inside! Parents supervise children. Merriam.org/park

Grinnin’ & Groovin’ 9:30, Ironwoods Park Amphitheater. The popular series features concerts and entertainment. Today’s performer is Mr Stinky Feet. 913.663.9154

Summer Kids Series Select days, B & B Theatres. Another reason why it’s great to be a kid in the summertime! Specially priced movies in June and July. BBTheatres.com

Story Time in the Park 10:00, Indian Creek Library. Bring a blanket for stories, songs and fingerplays. Stories geared to 3- to 5-year-olds, but all are welcome. OlatheLibrary.org

7 Wednesday

Spider-Man: Beyond Amazing Thru Oct 1, Union Station. The story of the web slinger, from his origins in 1962 to his modern-day adventures. UnionStation.org

Art in the Park 10:00, Heritage Park Shelter (Smithville, Mo.). Kid-friendly art and craft activities in the great outdoors. Pre-reg at SmithvilleParksRec.com.

Giggle Time 10:00, Roe Park. Gather little ones for some giggling and wiggling and a funfilled time with Mr Stinky Feet at this children’s program. OPKansas.org

Reading to a Rooster 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Kids can pull up a chair and show off their reading skills to help entertain the flock. ShawneeTown.org

8 Thursday

Used Homeschool Curriculum Sale 6:00, Journey Bible Church. Used curriculum sale. If new to homeschooling, come early for workshop. MidwestHomeschoolers.org

Nature Story Time 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Little nature lovers are invited to enjoy a morning filled with music, movement and outdoor adventure. OPKansas.org

Sunset Music Fest 6:00, Town Center Plaza. Free summer concert series. Performing tonight: Danielle Nicole band. TownCenterPlaza.com

Concert in the Park 7:30, Thompson Park. Grab a lawn chair or blanket and hear country rockers Drew Six. Listen to favorite songs under the stars. 913.344.8656

9 Friday

Fairy Tale Village 10:00, Crown Center. Discover a world of make-believe as classic children’s tales come to life. CrownCenter.com

The Snow Queen Today and tomorrow, JCCC Polsky Theater. The Culture House School of Dance performs the story of a young woman traveling through the seasons. CultureHouse.com

Greek Festival Today and tomorrow, St Dionysios Greek Orthodox Church. Festival features Greek food, dancing, music and more! StDionysios.org

Arts in the Park Today and tomorrow, Macken Park. Festival showcases local artists and makers. Also enjoy food, entertainment, kids activities and more! NKC.org

Sugar Creek Slavic Festival Today and tomorrow, Sugar Creek. Music, food and dance from Slavic nations of Eastern Europe. SlavicFest.com

Summer Concerts in the Park 6:30, Central Park (Zona Rosa). Bring a chair, blanket and friends and enjoy free concerts on Fridays. ZonaRosa.com

Olathe LIVE! 7:00, Stagecoach Park. Bring blankets, lawn chairs, food and nonalcoholic beverages to enjoy a night of live music. OlatheKS.org

Sounds on the Square 7:00, Linden Square. Grab your blankets and lawn chairs and join for a night of music under the stars. LindenSquare.info

Night Flight 9:00, Legacy Park Amphitheater. A nighttime 5K to benefit the Legacy for Parks Foundation. Pre-reg at CityOfLS.net/parks.

10 Saturday

Youth Fishing Derby 9:00, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park. Catch-and-release derby for kids 13 and under at Black Hoof Park. Prizes awarded. Pre-reg at Lenexa.com.

Free Admission 9:00, Johnson County Museum. A chance for families to enjoy the museum’s exhibits and Kidscape for FREE. JCPRD.com/1836/Museum

Concours D’Elegance 9:00, Crown Center Square. British car owners from around the region will display their cars. CrownCenter.com

Wild Miles 2023 9:00, Grounds Park (Blue Springs). Kids ages 5-13 complete a course full of climbing, crawling, swinging and jumping. Pre-reg at BlueSpringsGov.com/events.

Liberty Summer Festival Today & tomorrow, Family Tree Nursery (Liberty). Enjoy live music, food trucks, local vendors, workshops, kids activities and more! FamilyTreeNursery.com

Kids Club 10:00, Colonial Gardens. Kids enjoy fun activities while you shop at Colonial Gardens or savor a coffee at the Bean Counter. Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Dragon Boat Festival 10:00, Brush Creek (Country Club Plaza). Dragon boat races, entertainment, food and fun for the entire family. KCParks.org

1875 Historical Event 10:00, Shoal Creek Living History Museum. Enjoy family fun activities and historical demonstrations. ShoalCreekLivingHistoryMuseum.com

Babes in the Woods 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Flutter like a butterfly and learn about how the monarch butterfly makes its trek to Mexico.

Fun on the Bluff 10:00, Fort Osage. Join for music, food, storytelling, games and crafts from the past. Explore life on the wild frontier. MakeYourDayHere.com

Brick Fest Live Today and tomorrow, KCI Expo Center. See life-sized models made from bricks and enjoy hands-on activities. BrickFestLive.com

Family Fossil Find 3:00, Martha LaFite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Spend a day immersed in the Missouri wilderness experiencing a nature program. NatureSanctuary.com

Blues Fest 6:00, Lee’s Summit Amphitheater. Enjoy an evening of soulful blues music with performances from Jason Vivone and others. CityOfLS.net

Raytown Live 7:00, Town Center Greenspace. Bring blankets or lawn chairs and join folks from all over to kick back and enjoy the tunes. Raytown.Live

Movie Night on the Lawn 6:00, Legends Outlets. Watch timeless classics and Hollywood blockbusters on the big screen on Saturdays through October. LegendsShopping.com

Sounds on the Square 8:00, Independence Square. Every Saturday from June to August, live music will be featured around the Square. IndepSquare.com

Public Viewings 8:30, Powell Observatory. Bring lawn chairs or blankets to see images from the Ruisinger telescope on a large screen. ASKC.org/observatories/powell-observatory

11 Sunday

Second Sundays 10:00, Lexington, Mo. Enjoy first class fun with the farmers market, trolley tours, historic attractions and sites and more! VisitLexingtonMo.com

Future Stages Festival 2023 Noon, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. Free festival showcases hundreds of young performers. KauffmanCenter.org/futurestages

Stories by the Campfire 1:30, George Owens Nature Park. Bring your lawn chair and sit by a roaring fire with great stories. Call 816.325.7115 for more information.

Summer Concerts 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

Freaky Friday 8:30, Shawnee Theatre in the Park. Bring the entire family to this delightful show based on the hit Disney film! TheatreInThePark.org

12 Monday

Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Play items are available, including push toys, riding toys, balls and inflatables. Lenexa.com

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Mondays and Thursdays, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $12! CeramicCafeKC.com

13 Tuesday

Time Travelers 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Step back in time to the 1920s with family activities in this living history program. ShawneeTown.org

Story Time in the Park 10:00, Indian Creek Library. Bring a blanket for stories, songs and fingerplays. Stories geared to 3- to 5-year-olds, but all are welcome. OlatheLibrary.org

Art in the Park Pop-Up 10:30, Ironwoods Park. Forage for leaves, flowers and rocks and make photographic impressions on cotton fabric. 913.663.915

Spider-Man: Beyond Amazing

Thru Oct. 1, Union Station. The story of the web slinger, from his origins in 1962 to his modern-day adventures. UnionStation.org

The Princess and the Pea 10:00, Theatre for Young America. The Hans Christian Anderson fairy tale comes to vivid life in this musical comedy. TYA.org

The Tempest 6:00, Southmoreland Park. Bring a blanket and enjoy a show in the park! Preshow entertainment, food for sale and a performance. KCShakes.org

Nerf Night 6:30, Kanga’s Indoor Playcenter and Café. Enjoy Nerf night with blasters, foam darts, Nerf obstacles and pizza! Independence. KangasPlaycenter.com

Popsicles in the Park 6:30, Armstrong Park (Grain Valley, Mo.). Make new friends, hear a special story and enjoy free Popsicles! CityOfGrainValley.org

Movie Under the Stars 8:30, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. See a short introductory program followed by a movie under the stars. MDC.mo.gov

14 Wednesday

Fortopia Thru Sept 4, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a playful exhibition composed of awe-inspiring forts that invite explorers of all ages to discover the gardens! PowellGardens.org

Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center. Hear a story from long ago read by a guest from the 1950s All-Electric House! Craft included. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

Days Out with Frank and Ella 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Enjoy a different history theme each Wednesday and Thursday with plenty of hands-on activities, crafts and a stagecoach ride! Mahaffie.org

Art in the Park 10:00, Heritage Park Shelter (Smithville, Mo.). Kid-friendly art and craft activities in the great outdoors. Pre-reg at SmithvilleParksRec.com.

Summer Kids Series Select days, B & B Theatres. Another reason why it’s great to be a kid in the summertime! Specially priced movies in June and July. BBTheatres.com

Music in the Garden 6:00, Colonial Gardens. Join for free live music and enjoy food and drink in the beautiful courtyard. ColonialGardensKC.com

Flag Day 2023 6:00, Great Overland Station (Topeka). Outdoor concert, children’s activities and a ceremony to retire 2022’s flags and present new flags. VisitTopeka.com

15 Thursday

Spider-Man: Beyond Amazing Thru Oct 1, Union Station. The story of the web slinger, from his origins in 1962 to his modern-day adventures. UnionStation.org

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Mondays and Thursdays, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $12! CeramicCafeKC.com

Kids Day at Kenagy 10:00, C Lee Kenagy Park (Raytown). Check out the petting zoo, fire truck and police cars, story times and more! UnctionMedia.com/rp2019

Free Family Fun Nights 5:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Come explore a special place where children can create, discover and learn through play. KansasDiscovery.org

Sunset Music Fest 6:00, Town Center Plaza. Free summer concert series. Performing tonight: JAM with Quite Frankly. TownCenterPlaza.com

16 Friday

Time for Tots 10:30, Kemper Museum. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own art with a Kemper Museum educator. Pre-reg at KemperArt.org.

Local Life Today and tomorrow, Downtown Overland Park. Explore locally owned businesses, activities and more. Head to DowntownOP.org for details about this month’s theme.

Lake Fest Today and tomorrow, Smithville Lake. Pop-up makers fair, food trucks and vendors, live music, parade and more! SmithvilleMO.org

Friday Flamingle 5:00, Kansas City Zoo. Enjoy music, free carousel and train rides, yard games, cash bars, food truck treats and more! Ages 21+. KansasCityZoo.org

Third Friday Art Walk 5:00, Downtown KCK. Free, family-friendly events in Strawberry Hill along with pop-ups, art exhibits, performances and more. VisitKansasCityKS.com

Popcorn in the Park 6:00, Bennett Park. Tonight’s featured movie is The Rise of Gru. Enjoy free popcorn and water. LibertyMissouri.gov

CREATE YOUR TRADITIONS!

Summer Concerts in the Park 6:30, Central Park (Zona Rosa). Bring a chair, blanket and friends and enjoy free concerts on Fridays. ZonaRosa.com

Madagascar The Musical 7:00, Music Hall. See all of your favorite cracka-lackin’ friends as they find themselves on a journey. See pg 53 for a coupon. Ticketmaster.com

Olathe LIVE! 7:00, Stagecoach Park. Bring blankets, lawn chairs, food and nonalcoholic beverages to enjoy a night of live music. OlatheKS.org

Sounds on the Square 7:00, Linden Square. Grab your blankets and lawn chairs and join for a night of music under the stars. LindenSquare.info

Friday Flicks and Food Trucks 7:30, Blue Springs Rotary Park. Enjoy a special night under the stars. Tonight’s movie: Top Gun Maverick BlueSpringsGov.com

Movie in the Park 9:15, Electric Park. Pack lawn chairs, blankets and snacks to enjoy Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark under the stars. Lenexa.com

SIX-STOP TOUR: KANSAS CITY, KANSAS

Legends Outlets is a favorite local shopping destination. With more than 75 stores, many delicious dining options, a movie theater and the shopping center’s Lawn, an outdoor gathering space with yard games, picnic tables and a huge 40-foot TV screen for movie nights and watch parties, this is the place to be in the summer in KCK.

Cheer for the Kansas City Monarchs at Legends Field as you watch a local baseball game (part of the American Association of Baseball). In 2022, the team celebrated winning backto-back division championships. Every Sunday home game is Family Fun Day with pregame entertainment, carnival games and more. Monarchs Baseball.com

Enjoy a summer classic—catch a movie at Boulevard Drive-In Theatre. One of the few drive-in theaters remaining in the region, the Boulevard was the first drive-in theater in the world to install digital sound and 4K resolution digital projection. The theater shows double-features throughout the summer for $15/ person; children 11 and under are FREE.

The prettiest lake in Wyandotte County is Big Eleven Lake. The 3.8-acre manmade fishing lake is skirted by picnic tables and an amphitheater with electrical outlets. It is a great place for family outings and celebrations. Big Eleven Lake is located between State Avenue and Washington Boulevard on N. 11th Street. Park closes at 10:00 p.m.

Explore KCK’s vibrant cultures on the KCK Legacy Trail. The trail features multiple journeys for visitors to learn about the different local ethnic groups, including Latino, Eastern European, Black Heritage, Indigenous Peoples and Modern Immigrants. Discover the people, stories and legacies of Kansas City, Kansas. For info and a map: VisitKansasCityKS. com/legacy-trail.

The Strawberry Hill Museum tells the story of the region’s ethnic heritage. This Queen Annestyle 1887 home tells the story of immigrants from Eastern Europe. On weekends, take tours of the museum and learn about the original citizens of KCK. You may also make reservations for the tea room.

1. SUMMER SHOPPING

2. CATCH A BALLGAME

3. DRIVE-IN MOVIE

4. GO FISHING

5. LEGACY TRAIL

6. MUSEUM TOURS

17 Saturday

Lost Trail Days & Tours 10:00, Louisburg Cider Mill. History of Lost Trail Soda, viewing of production run and tasting event. Pre-reg at 913.837.5202.

Nature Story Time 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Enjoy music, movement and adventure in the great outdoors. Pre-reg at OPKansas.org/events.

Fascinating Fireflies 10:00, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Celebrate the flying bioluminescent insect by making a lantern. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov.

Story Time in the Barn 10:00, Alexander Majors Home. Preschoolers enjoy themed activities and crafts based on a storybook. WornallMajors.org

Juneteenth 10:00, Weston Bend State Park. Event entertains you with drumming, dancing, storytelling, poetry and more! WestonMo.com

Mr Puppet 11:00 or 1:30, Puppetry Arts Institute. Zany characters entertain with whimsy, humor and audience participation. PuppetryArtsInstitute.org

Movie Night on the Lawn 6:00, Legends Outlets. Watch timeless classics and Hollywood blockbusters on the big screen on Saturdays through October. LegendsShopping.com

18 Sunday

FATHER’S DAY

Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org

Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Frank Vaydik Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. 75 cents/ride. KCNRR.com

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

19 Monday

Fairy Tale Village 10:00, Crown Center. Discover a world of make-believe as classic children’s tales come to life. CrownCenter.com

Juneteenth Celebration 10:00, Indian Creek Library. Events include family story time, historical figure portrayal, children’s craft and more! OlatheLibrary.org

Twists & Turns VBS Thru Friday, Westbrooke Church. Kids will learn that Jesus guides them through all the twists and turns of their lives. Pre-reg at WestbrookeChurch.org.

20 Tuesday

Fortopia Thru Sept 4, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a playful exhibition composed of awe-inspiring forts that invite explorers of all ages to discover the gardens! PowellGardens.org

Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Merriam Community Center. Kids can ride, slide and play inside! Parents supervise children. Merriam.org/park

Grinnin’ & Groovin’ 9:30, Ironwoods Park Amphitheater. The popular series features concerts and entertainment. Today’s performer is Janie Next Door. 913.663.9154

June Bug Ball 1:00, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Come dressed as your favorite bug and enjoy crafts, a bug petting zoo and more! OPKansas.org

Popsicles in the Park 6:30, Glendale Park (Independence). Enjoy free frozen treats, live children’s entertainment and special activities. CI.independence.mo.us

21 Wednesday

Summer Movie Clubhouse 9:30, Cinemark Merriam. Bring the kids and enjoy exciting bigscreen entertainment for just $1.50 per ticket. Cinemark.com

Art in the Park 10:00, Heritage Park Shelter (Smithville, Mo.). Kid-friendly art and craft activities in the great outdoors. Pre-reg at SmithvilleParksRec.com.

Camp Day 11:00, Legends Field. Great for any youth group. Pregame select player autographs plus postgame opportunity to run the bases. MonarchsBaseball.com

Garment District Grooves 11:30, Garment District Place. Grab some lunch and listen to live bands in this quaint downtown park! KCParks.org

Make Music Kansas City Various times and locations, Kansas City, Mo. Enjoy concerts on streets, sidewalks, venues and parks across the city. MakeMusicDay.org/kcmo

Family Movies 2:30, Indian Creek Library. Enjoy a free movie on the big screen. Bring blankets and pillows for floor seating. OlatheLibrary.org

22 Thursday

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Family Fun Nights 6:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Family fun includes stagecoach rides, fire starting workshop and more! Mahaffie.org

Sunset Music Fest 6:00, Town Center Plaza. Free summer concert series. Performing tonight: The Elders with Michael Shaun Brown. TownCenterPlaza.com

Meet Me in St Louis 8:30, Shawnee Theatre in the Park. See the musical about the opening of the 1904 World’s Fair in St Louis. TheatreInThePark.org

23 Friday

Wonders of Discovery 9:00, Pollinator Prairie. Family-friendly event with fun, family-friendly activities and exhibits. Johnson.K-State.edu

Play and Learn 10:00, MCPL (Red Bridge Branch). Enjoy a special preschool playtime to stimulate young minds and strengthen early literacy skills. MyMCPL.org

Kansas City BBQ Fest Today and tomorrow, GEHA Field at Arrowhead Stadium. Great tunes, great food, barbecue conversations and more! KCBBQFest.com

Waterfest Today and tomorrow, Downtown Excelsior Springs. Event features arts and crafts, live entertainment, kids activities and more! EXSPGSChamber.com

Art Fair Today and tomorrow, Downtown Overland Park. Food trucks, live music, children’s activities and 75 juried artists. DowntownOP.org/events

Fourth Fridays Art Walk 5:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Showcases from local artists, live music, shops, restaurants and more! DowntownLS.org/fourthfridays

Downtown Olathe Fourth Friday 5:30, Downtown Olathe. Face painters, balloon artists, glitter tattoos, caricature drawings, bubbles and more! FourthFridays.Olathe.org

Dive-In Movie Night 8:30, Merriam Community Center. Join us for a special screening of Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse in the outdoor pool. Merriam.org

Time Travelers

Tuesdays and Thursdays, Shawnee Town 1929. Step back in time to the 1920s with family activities in this living history program. ShawneeTown.org

24 Saturday

Bluey’s Big Play Today and tomorrow, Kauffman Center. The preschool series hits the road! See Bluey, Bingo, Bandit and Chilli in a stage show. Tickets.KauffmanCenter.org

Great Lenexa BBQ Battle 9:00, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park. Watch cooks from all over compete while children enjoy activities and games. Lenexa.com

Alpaca Brunch Today and tomorrow, Colonial Gardens. Enjoy a farm fresh brunch and get to meet the alpacas! Tickets at ColonialGardensKC.com

Intro to Fishing 10:00, George Owens Nature Park. Learn all the basics to begin fishing, from how to cast to choosing bait. Call 816.325.7115 to reserve your spot.

Freedom Festival 4:00, Hitt Park (Greenwood, Mo.). Entertainment, carnival rides and inflatables, a car show, games and fireworks! GreenwoodMo.com

Disney Night 5:00, Legends Field. Special character appearances, plus wear a costume and be featured in the on-field parade! MonarchsBaseball.com

Movies in the Park 6:00, Downtown Smithville. Enjoy backyard and video games, followed by a movie under the stars! Movie starts at dusk. SmithvilleParksRec.com

Movies at Linden Square 6:30, Linden Square.

Sounds on the Square 8:00, Independence Square. Every Saturday from June thru August, live music will be featured around the square. IndepSquare.com

Monday - Saturday 9am - 4:30pm

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Ages 2 weeks to 12 years 6:30 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Child Development Center “Where Your Child Is Special”

Ages 2 weeks to 12 years

6:30 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

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Child Development Center

“Where Your Child is Special”

Ages 2 weeks to 12 years 6:30 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Part-Time Preschool (Ages 3-5) 9:00-11:30 or 9:00-3:00

Mother’s Day Out (12 mos-3 years) 9:00-3:00

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162nd & Metcalf Ave 913.681.2191

Family Owned and Operated since 1990

50 Nights of Fire Thru Aug 12, Worlds of Fun. An ending to the day featuring some of the greatest moments of Worlds of Fun’s dedication to adventure and fun. WorldsOfFun.com 8788 Metcalf Ave Overland Park, KS JCPRD.com/Museum

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Public Viewings 8:30, Powell Observatory. Bring lawn chairs or blankets to see images from the Ruisinger telescope on a large screen. ASKC.org/observatories/powell-observatory

25 Sunday

Brunch and Bingo 10:00, Chicken N Pickle (Overland Park). Join for a delicious brunch and enjoy FREE bingo games. ChickenNPickle.com

Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Frank Vaydik Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. 75 cents/ride. KCNRR.com

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

26 Monday

Twists & Turns Thru Friday, 9:00 or 1:00, Lenexa Baptist Church. At this VBS, kids will learn that Jesus guides them through all the twists of their lives. Pre-reg at LenexaBaptist.com.

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos get their energy out! KawPrairie.org

Spider-Man: Beyond Amazing Thru Oct 1, Union Station. The story of the web slinger, from his origins in 1962 to his modern-day adventures. UnionStation.org

27 Tuesday

Story Time in the Park 10:00, Indian Creek Library. Bring a blanket for stories, songs and fingerplays. Stories geared to 3- to 5-year-olds, but all are welcome. OlatheLibrary.org

The Princess and the Pea 10:00, Theatre for Young America. The Hans Christian Anderson fairy tale comes to vivid life in this musical comedy. TYA.org

Popsicles in the Park 6:30, Beckett Park (Independence). Enjoy free frozen treats, live children’s entertainment and special activities. CI.Independence.mo.us

28 Wednesday

Summer Movie Clubhouse 9:30, Cinemark Merriam. Bring the kids and enjoy exciting bigscreen entertainment for just $1.50 per ticket. Cinemark.com

Days Out with Frank and Ella 10:00, Mahaffie. Enjoy a different history theme each Wednesday and Thursday with plenty of hands-on activities, crafts and a stagecoach ride! Mahaffie.org

Doctor Dolittle 11:00, the Coterie. See this new youth and family audiences version of a country physician who can talk to animals. TheCoterie.org

Jammin’ on the Green 7:00, Shawnee Town. The free concert continues with Betse and Clarke String Band. ShawneeTown.org

29 Thursday

Fortopia Thru Sept 4, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a playful exhibition composed of awe-inspiring forts that invite explorers of all ages to discover the gardens! PowellGardens.org

Life on the Farm 9:00, Colonial Gardens. Activities may include feeding the chickens, hugging an alpaca or holding a baby goat! ColonialGardensKC.com

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Mondays and Thursdays, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $12! CeramicCafeKC.com

Fortopia

Thru Sept. 4, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a playful exhibition composed of awe-inspiring forts that invite explorers of all ages to discover the gardens! PowellGardens.org

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Summer Kid Series 10:00 and 12:30, Miller Theatres (Blue Springs). See Sonic the Hedgehog 2 movie for only $2.50/ticket. Combos also available. MillerTheatres.com

Time Travelers 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Step back in time to the 1920s with family activities in this living history program. ShawneeTown.org

30 Friday

Fairy Tale Village 10:00, Crown Center. Discover a world of make-believe as classic children’s tales come to life. CrownCenter.com

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Read a book, then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack. CeramicCafeKC.com

Parked 5:30, Stump Park (Shawnee). Annual event kicks off with food trucks, live music, fireworks, bounce houses and more! CityOfShawnee.org

Dotte Proud 6:00, Legends Field. Celebrate all things Wyandotte County with a special ceremonial first pitch and a “Dotte Proud” giveaway. MonarchsBaseball.com

ICI Summer Nights 6:00, Independence Community Ice. Each Friday night public skate this summer has a theme. Tonight’s theme: Taylor Swift – the Eras Skate. IndependenceCommunityIce.com

The Tempest 6:00, Southmoreland Park. Bring a blanket and enjoy a show in the park! Preshow entertainment, food for sale and a performance. KCShakes.org

Summer Concerts in the Park 6:30, Central Park (Zona Rosa). Bring a chair, blanket and friends and enjoy free concerts on Fridays. ZonaRosa.com

Sounds on the Square 7:00, Linden Square. Grab your blankets and lawn chairs and join for a night of music under the stars. LindenSquare.info

Sister Act 8:00, Gladstone Amphitheatre. A woman hiding in a convent helps her fellow sisters find their voices as she rediscovers her own. GladstoneTIP.com

13 8:30, Shawnee Theatre in the Park. With an unforgettable rock score, 13 is a musical about fitting in and standing out! TheatreInThePark.org

ENTERTAINING THE TROOPS

“War is months of boredom punctuated by moments of sheer terror.”

ENTERTAINING THE TROOPS gives a peek into the life of a WWI soldier beyond the battlefield, whether they were waiting for the enemies’ next move or partying in Paris.