Lake Norman Woman Magazine February 2024

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L I S T E N I N G T O Y O U R H E A R T is not always easy,

especially with all the “noise” that modern culture bombards us with. For me, it was especially hard to hear my heart, because in addition to the cacophony around me, it was quite loud inside my head, too. I not only spent an inordinate amount of time in there analyzing every action I took and every word that came out of my mouth, but there were also quite a few other voices in there vying for my attention. I even argued with them, reiterating my position, listening to my imaginary opponent’s counter argument, and then forming a counter argument to that counter argument. It was exhausting!

Not only that, when I was growing up, my father actually chastised me for letting my heart lead my head. As far as he was concerned, the only thing a heart was good for was pumping blood around your body. Well, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but because raising a daughter didn’t come naturally to my dad, he decided he would just raise me as if I were a boy. As such, he was certain that allowing my emotions to rule my intellect would make me soft. (I feel you cringing … but this was the 70s.)

And that’s how I came to live most of my life in my head, listening to voices I didn’t need to be listening to and overthinking things that weren’t worthy of a lot of thought.

So imagine my surprise when I realized that my head didn’t really know all that much and what I thought it knew was mostly wrong. It was time to start using my heart more and my head less.

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That doesn’t mean that my heart-felt decisions always take me down the easiest path; in fact, though my heart has never led me astray, it has steered me down some painful ones: it told me to walk away from someone I loved who was not good for me; it told me to leave a well-paying job and start my own business; it told me to bring home the crazy pit bull running around the adoption pen like a tornado. All of these decisions—the heart-wrenching and scary parts notwithstanding—turned out to be the right ones for me in the end.

And my heart told me to give online dating one more go, even though I had kissed a lot of frogs and was certain there were no princes to be found.

It’s a good thing I tuned in, too, because in listening to my heart, I met my husband— the most genuine and loving man I’ve ever known. He’s smart and funny, honest and kind. He’s my compass when I’m lost and my anchor when I feel adrift. He’s my partner in discovering that life is one big adventure, but only if you live it like one. Sure, the noise in my head can still distract me, but that’s ok, because the message that my heart now sends me could not be more loud or more clear: he IS my heart. w

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February CONTRIBUTORS Jennifer Foster; Kim Jacobs; Lindsay Martell; Dr. Claire Papp; Barrie Rojahn; Katie Stankiewicz

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18 Hearts And Smiles 22 Your Blood Pressure & Heart Health!

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Life takes practice! And though they don’t always come wrapped in a shiny red bow, the lessons we learn along the way are invaluable gifts that are worth sharing. Here are a few noteworthy examples featured in this issue: LIFE IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL

POURING HER HEART OUT

During American Heart Month, it is our honor and privilege to hear from Kim Jacobs—mom, businesswoman, and philanthropist extraordinaire! “Have you ever loved someone so much that you wish you could give them your heart?” she asks. “Well, I literally attempted to be a heart donor while still living! Read Kim’s remarkable journey on PAGE 14 to learn more about this inspiring woman and her organization Gabe’s Heart Foundation.

FEBRUARY 4TH IS WORLD CANCER DAY

Flip on over to PAGE 20 and read all about outstanding teen Peyton Hawkins, a sophomore at Lake Norman Charter in Huntersville. In addition to volunteering with Bags of Hope throughout the year, she was recently nominated as a candidate for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s 2024 Charlotte Student Visionaries of the Year campaign. This seven-week philanthropic leadership development program raises money to help cancer patients not only survive but thrive after treatment.

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“The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experiences.”

–ELEANOR ROOSEVELT

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Be sure to read this month’s cover story on PAGE 24 where we meet the fabulous Marlene Billesdon (Helen Adams Realty in Cornelius). Marlene also founded her own company, MovingmadeeasywithMarlene, because of all the places she has lived. “With my personal experience of relocating numerous times, including internationally, “she explains, “I understand the challenges that come with the process.”

Having worn many hats through the years, Marlene has much to offer—not only on running a business but on living life to its fullest.

Emmanuel Deku, a licensed realtor/broker at Opulence Group Real Estate, grew up in Accra, the capital city of Ghana — a country in West Africa.

Having lived in numerous cities in the United States before moving to North Carolina in 2010, Emmanuel and wife Jayne fell in love with the area.

See his amazing story on PAGE 54 where he shares insights on work, family, and how he lives his life in faith. w

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Include superfoods in your daily diet.

Think blueberries, brown rice, spinach, sweet potatos, salmon, walnuts, and oatmeal.

Know your numbers.

A normal reading for women over 20 is any blood pressure below 120/80 mm Hg; 140/90 or higher is considered too high.

After becoming the first African American woman to graduate from Columbia Law School in 1945, E L R E TA M E LT O N A L E X A N D E R went on to become the first African American woman in North Carolina to practice law, to argue before its Supreme Court, and to be elected to a district court judgeship.

MAKING IT MAGICAL AND MIXING IT UP Have your guests write down a few of their favorite songs on their rsvp cards to help compile the music list for the reception; it is a great way to personalize the party.

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Know your risk factors.

Risk factors you should diligently manage include blood pressure, blood cholesterol, weight, and diabetes.

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D U R I N G HE A RT AWA R E N E S S M O N TH, it is a personal time of reflection. Have you ever loved someone so much that you wish you could give them your heart? Well, I literally attempted to be a heart donor while still living! April 9, 2015, I begged the doctor to extend my 12-year-old son Gabriel Michael Jacobs’ life by placing my heart in him. He experienced sudden cardiac arrest due to a heart defect we didn’t know existed. The doctor emphatically answered no, and I believe it was the right response since I needed to remain here to cheer for my remaining four children (Frankie, Ivan, Jeremiah, and Jayla) through their life’s journey.

annual gala on May 4, 2024, in hopes of providing community members with portable defibrillators during the event.

Our 9th Annual 5K Walk will be held at Northwest Cabarrus Middle School’s track in Concord at 8:00 a.m. Visit Gabesheartfoundation.org to register.

Gabe is smiling from heaven because we formed Gabe’s Heart Foundation (501 c3 non-profit organization) to keep his heart beating on this earth. We do this by placing portable automated external defibrillators around the country where youth congregate.

This gives trained individuals time to administer CPR and utilize the portable defibrillator while paramedics arrive.

Gabe’s Heart Foundation will host our

A heart of gratitude is what I possess to be chosen as the mom of four more amazing children. I learn from each of them every day. My oldest son Frankie recently completed his studies at Chapel Hill with a major in computer science. He has a digital marketing agency and is currently pursuing a job in his field. Ivan, who beat cystic fibrosis, is a junior at UNC Charlotte and lost 100 pounds on his personal weightloss journey. He is a dual NASM certified personal trainer and also edits videos and serves as a student ambassador with Boomer Esiason Foundation. Jeremiah, who also battles cystic fibrosis, recently graduated high school with honors. He is an avid fisherman, builds websites, acts, and works another job as well.

My daughter, Jayla, who also kicks cystic fibrosis in the head, is in the 10th grade and is in the Arts Honor Society. Jayla draws animations from scratch on her YouTube channel. Ivan, Jeremiah, and Jayla (CF Trio) served as Cystic Fibrosis Foundation Ambassadors and spoke at The Guys and Dolls annual auction event to help raise $2.2 million last year! Gabe was affectionately known as “Guardian Gabe” serving as an anti-bullying mediator amongst his peers. He loved football and played in the national playoffs for the Northeast Dolphins Little League team the week prior to his passing. They retired his jersey #95, which looks like an NFL jersey since he stood 5’10 tall.

My heart is thankful for my children and for my hero, my mom, who uprooted her life to help us navigate this difficult journey. w

Kim Jacobs is a local mom, businesswoman, author, and host of The Kim Jacobs Show on YouTube. She is the Managing Director for eWomen Network in Charlotte and recently received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Volunteer Award.

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DEPRESSION

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Same goes for smoking and obesity—these are no-brainers. But what about depression? Should it be formally and officially classified as a risk factor for heart disease? Most of the researchers answer with an unequivocal “Yes,” and the American Heart Association (AHA) agrees. “Depression should join the ranks of obesity, diabetes, hypertension, and smoking as an official heart disease risk factor,” according to an expert panel convened by the AHA. Most of us realize how mind and mood affect our health. Just think how many times a headache has emerged after a stressful day. But, taking that notion a step further, and you can see how our mood can affect the cardiovascular system directly by creating a state of “emergency readiness” in which stress hormone levels rise, blood vessels constrict, and our heartbeat speeds up. If someone is depressed, this sense of emergency readiness becomes constant, which in turn damages the blood vessels. Simply put, the heart does not get the body’s signal to slow down and relax.

The good news is that depression, despite being so pervasive, is treatable.

And with proper awareness and education, people are more likely to seek that treatment. While not yet considered an “official” risk factor for heart disease, depression is certainly being singled out as a primary indicator, and that alone will make a positive impact when it comes to heart patients being appropriately screened, diagnosed, and treated. w

Here are some easy things you can do to improve your mood and heart health. While common and somewhat obvious, they are essential to good living and bear repeating for sure!

STRETCH IT AND MOVE IT! Stretching and yoga-type movements have a fantastic calming effect and help keep you focused and fit.

Additionally, exercise in general helps raise your endorphin levels, which relieves stress and ignites the pleasure centers of the brain.

DON’T FORGET YOUR OMEGA-3S! Not only do our bodies need them, but research has shown that they help with depression as well. To load up on these naturally, think seafood and spinach!

WATCH WHAT YOU EAT! Small and frequent meals that are low in saturated fat are the way to go. And remember, be sure to get your daily recommended servings of fruits and veggies!

WATER, WATER, WATER! Remember the 8x8 rule, eight 8oz glasses of water a day.

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oral health can affect your heart. Whether you have an existing heart condition, congenital defect, or are at risk for cardiovascular events, it is important to make your dental provider aware of your health history.

In fact, disclosing your entire health history is only going to help your dentist be able to safely treat you in the dental office. Your oral health can provide your medical and dental providers with warning signs for a range of diseases and conditions, including those in the heart.

According to University of Pennsylvania Medicine, gum disease is found in nearly half of American adults ages 30 to 70 years old. With periodontal (gum) disease being as prevalent as it is, knowing how it can negatively affect your cardiovascular system is important. Bacteria that is in a mouth with gum disease can travel throughout the bloodstream, ultimately coursing through your heart. This can lead to inflammation and infection of the heart valves and vessels. Having your gums evaluated for periodontal disease every six months is an easy and effective way to prevent or lessen the risk of a vascular event such as a heart attack or stroke. Harvard Medical School tells us that you may be at a two to three times greater risk for having a heart attack or another serious cardio problem if you have gum disease.

It is also important to know if you need to be premedicated for a dental appointment to prevent harm to your heart and its different anatomical components. According to the American Heart Association, if a patient has a prosthetic heart valve, congenital heart disease, or a history of infective endocarditis, it is necessary to take an antibiotic prior to dental work or a hygiene visit; this is called antibiotic prophylaxis. Again, this is an example of why it is extremely important to inform your provider about your health history. w

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CONNECTION BETWEEN THE HEALTH OF YOUR GUMS AND YOUR HEART: There is an increased risk of heart disease if you have gum disease (periodontitis).

Poor oral health increases bacterial infection of your bloodstream, which can directly affect the heart valves.

Tooth loss patterns have been tied to coronary artery disease.

Diabetics or those with prediabetes need to be diligent in oral care because those conditions put you at a greater risk for heart disease.

TIPS TO MAINTAIN ORAL HEALTH

(Especially if you have cardiovascular disease):

Brush at least 2x daily.

Use floss or interdental brushes daily.

Keep up with your routine dental appointments.

Make sure your dental provider is aware of heart problems and your health in general.

Follow instructions from a healthcare provider in regards to medication, i.e. antibiotic prophylaxis.

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Dr. Claire Papp is with White and Haines Advanced & General Dentistry located at 9725 Caldwell Commons Circle in Cornelius. Connect with her and the entire team at 704.896.9535 or via www.drswhiteandhaines.com.

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TEEN SPOTLIGHT

A Go-Getter From the Get-Go Perhaps my biggest passion is helping others. I volunteer with Bags of Hope throughout the year and was recently nominated as a candidate for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s (LLS) 2024 Charlotte Student Visionaries of the Year campaign. This sevenweek philanthropic leadership development program raises money to help cancer patients not only survive but thrive after treatment. My other passions are dance and swimming, which I’ve been doing most of my life. I’ve been with SwimMac Carolina for 10 years, and I’m on my school’s team as well. I’d also like to start a summer program for families in surrounding neighborhoods in my community who are unable to afford swim lessons.”

Motherly Inspiration My mom has inspired me so much. I am so grateful to her and all that she does for our family ... she works, takes care of us all, and still finds time to volunteer at my various activities. She motivates and encourages me to pursue my dreams, to be there for others, and to learn something new each day.

Bright Aspirations My dream is to attend UNC-Chapel Hill and study science. Ultimately, I want to be an orthodontist. I’ve been intrigued with this line of dental work after my own treatments, and I’m fascinated by the art and science of braces and teeth alignment.

Overcoming Obstacles, One Breath at a Time A challenge I have faced is being diagnosed with vocal cord dysfunction, which has been affecting my swimming performance for about a year. It causes dysfunctional movement of the vocal cords, restricting the airway when you inhale.

Despite this condition, I continue to push myself and give 100 percent each time I get in the pool. It’s taught me that although things do not always go as planned, if I just believe in myself and have the courage to never give up, that’s a huge win!

Peyton HAWKINS

Why World Cancer Day (February 4th) Means So Much I got involved with LLS because I want to make a difference, especially for kids, so they can be given the best chance to live out their hopes and dreams.

Cancer does not discriminate and affects people of all ages.

Breast cancer is something that has affected my entire family. I never had the chance to meet my grandmother and three of my aunts—they passed away before I was born. As I strive toward raising $100,000 for my campaign, I think of how the funds will help so many patients and their families. Whether it is helping them afford lifesaving medicine, helping them get to their doctors’ appointments, or connecting them with LLS support services, it makes me smile to know that these types of fundraisers exist and that I can be a part of it.

Peyton Hawkins is a sophomore at Lake Norman Charter in Huntersville.

When she’s not busy with her swim teams, dance, coaching, and volunteering, Peyton enjoys travel, listening to music, watching football, and hanging out with friends and family. For more information or to donate, scan the QR code:

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WRITER Lindsay Martell

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Heart-Healthy RED VELVET CUPCAKES F O R T H E C U P CA K E S YO U W I L L N E E D : 2 cups whole wheat or gluten-free flour ½ cup unsweetened cocoa powder 1 tsp baking soda ½ tsp salt 1 tbsp unsalted butter or coconut oil, melted 2 large egg whites, room temperature 2 tsp vanilla extract 4 tsp vanilla stevia 2 tbsp liquid red food coloring ½ cup plain nonfat Greek yogurt 1 tbsp white vinegar 1 cup nonfat milk F O R T H E F R O ST I N G YO U W I L L N E E D : 1 cup plain nonfat Greek yogurt 8 oz (1 block) light or fat-free cream cheese, well softened

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In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, cocoa powder, baking soda, and salt. In a separate bowl, whisk together the butter, egg whites, vanilla extract, and vanilla stevia. Carefully stir in the red food coloring. Add in the Greek yogurt, stirring until no large lumps remain. Stir in the vinegar and then alternate between adding the flour mixture and the milk until well incorporated. Bake for about 20 minutes or a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean.

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Life is not a dress rehearsal.

And while this phrase may have become a bit cliché through the years, the words resonate for a reason.

You mustn’t wait for things to get easier, better, different to start living.

The time is NOW. If all the world is a stage, then each day you must don your costume and answer the curtain call, as it were ... it’s showtime!

Do this while remaining superbly authentic, grounded, and grateful and you’ll know a little more about Marlene Billesdon (Helen Adams Realty in Cornelius).

A true go-getter, Marlene also founded her own company, MovingmadeeasywithMarlene, because of all the places she has lived. “With my personal experience of relocating numerous times, including internationally, “she explains, “I understand the challenges that come with the process. That’s why I am committed to delivering a seamless and stressfree move to the best of my abilities.”

Born in Toronto, Canada, Marlene grew up in the small town of Brantford before moving to her parents’ hometown in Portugal where she finished high school.

Her preference to attend college back in North America led her to the University of Waterloo in Ontario where she majored in English and economics. Marlene’s husband was born in California but lived in Canada for much of his life.

He spent a lot of time in Hilton Head with his grandparents, which spurred his interest in retiring to the Carolinas. “We moved to Lake Norman about 10 years ago,” she says, “to be closer to family, and we absolutely adore it here.”

Real estate runs in Marlene’s family with her father being a successful home builder in his day and her sister owning a real estate firm in Canada. After graduating from college, she worked in sales for a telecommunications firm and then decided to be a stay-at-home mom to her three children becoming, in her aptly chosen words, “a Domestic CEO managing a bustling household of boys.”

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Marlene’s father is her hero and biggest inspiration. He immigrated to Canada in 1956 from Portugal with just $20 in his pocket. Determined to make a better life for his family, he worked hard at learning English and even harder in labor-intensive jobs.

“He started working for a plumbing/ heating company,” she shares, “and worked his way up to VP of Purchasing and eventually opened his own construction company building homes. My dad’s tenacity, work ethic, and unwavering love for his family has always inspired me to pursue my dreams and to never give up. At 91 years of age, he continues to amaze me – he has been married to my mom for 70 years and even though she has Alzheimer’s, he has been her primary caregiver until last year. His love for her and his family, especially his grandchildren, is truly remarkable.”

Sadly, Marlene’s family is no stranger to disease and loss. Her aunt passed away from ALS at only 55 years old, and her cousin (who was more like a brother to her), lost his life in a car accident when he was just 30. “It’s a very difficult part of life and it’s particularly hard to watch your loved ones suffer from a distance ... my parents have been stuck in Portugal since COVID so it can be a challenge to say the least, but we keep our gratitude intact.”

A large part of Marlene’s heart is devoted to Little Smiles of North Carolina—a volunteer-driven, nonprofit charity that provides gifts and fun activities for children impacted by serious illness or trauma.

Her mother-in-law, Margi Kyle, is the founder of the North Carolina chapter and knows all too well the countless hours spent in the hospital with a child. Her son (Marlene’s husband) broke his neck when he was

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15 years old and spent months in the hospital. This fueled Margi and the entire family to give back and pay it forward. “We all volunteer as much as we can,” Marlene says, “and I donate a portion of my sales to the North Carolina chapter of Little Smiles and to the Alzheimer’s Association.”

Fluent in Portuguese and formally trained in jazz, tap, ballet, and Portuguese Folklore Dancing, you can see where Marlene gets her energy and zest for life. As it is for so many of us, the hardest part of a full life is time management, but Marlene seems to keep all her plates spinning.

This passion for helping others runs deep for Marlene, and it is evident in her business as well. “Building relationships,” she smiles, “is one of my greatest joys. I love working with diverse individuals. There’s always something new to learn when collaborating with others from different backgrounds and cultures.

Staging homes to make them ‘showstopper-ready’ is one of my favorite parts ... it is my greatest desire to provide honest and transparent services to help people achieve their real estate dreams. It is incredibly rewarding.”

Recognizing how fleeting life can be, her perspective is impressive and noteworthy: “I tend to go all-in and lose track of time so maintaining the delicate balance of work and home is something I continue to cultivate.

I find that daily exercise is essential to maintaining a good headspace. A lot of problems can be solved with a good, long walk or on the pickleball court! Be kind to yourself and spread love and gratitude; you will find more of it yourself. I believe that what you focus on gets bigger, so let’s focus on the good stuff. Life is a one-time offer ... live it well!” w

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Secure your venue & main vendors Start shopping for your dress Create a wedding website

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tested from the get-go when it comes to planning a wedding ... it can be

stressful and overwhelming at times;

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For a venue that will be the perfect backdrop for your once-in-a-lifetime memoires, check out THE BARN AT ELK SHOAL CREEK in picturesque Claremont, North Carolina. This elegant, rustic, and peaceful 55-acre farm is nestled by a creek in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains. Another sure-to-please event space is the CHARLES MACK CITIZEN CENTER in Mooresville. Whether you are looking for an indoor or outdoor party, they have all your bases covered for both the ceremony and reception. With beautiful outdoor courtyards and six distinctive ballrooms, you can find the right space for your specific vision. Or perhaps you fancy a destination wedding. OPAL COLLECTION is a premier assortment of luxury hotels and resorts located in the most treasured destinations on the East Coast. Spanning north from Bar Harbor, Maine, to the southernmost tip of Key West, Florida, this collection of properties offers curated, memorable getaways for every traveler.

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When it’s time to start the search for a home, look no further than Tracy Cromie with MOORESVILLE REALTY. As an architecture enthusiast she designed and built several waterfront homes for her family—causing her to catch the real estate bug! Tracy started her career in 2004, becoming a local fixture and securing many national awards. Once you’ve settled in your new home, it’s time to call Anna Stowe, owner of GREAT DESIGN 4 U. With a passion for providing fabulous interior design in a professional and timely manner, Anna and her team are located in the Lake Norman area but travel throughout the Southeast making homeowner’s dreams come true. w

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According to the ancient Greeks and Romans, the bridal veil’s original purpose was to protect the bride from evil spirits.

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All of Henry VIII’s wives were related to each other.

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Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue …. Tradition

after long-standing tradition, let’s look at some interesting (or not!) wedding facts:

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The tradition of a wedding cake comes from ancient Rome where guests broke a loaf of bread over the bride’s head to wish the couple good fortune and fertility.

Grace Kelly’s wedding dress had a bodice made from 125-year-old lace.

In Egypt, the bride’s family traditionally does all the cooking for a week after the wedding so the couple can relax.

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From left to right: Patsy Kerley, The Birth Place nurse; Sharon Paul, Director of The Birth Place; Katie Jones; and Nichole Wells, The Birth Place nurse.

HITCHED CHARLOTTE, a collective of local businesses and wedding vendors dedicated to making dreams come true, has come together to generously bless one deserving couple with a free wedding in 2024.

Because they believe that this giveaway will not only bring joy to the winning couple but also inspire others to embrace love and generosity, the date is set for Sunday, September 15th, 2024, and all they need now is the bride and groom! To learn more about Hitched Charlotte and how you can help or nominate a couple, visit www.hitchedcharlotte.com.

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Lake Norman Regional Medical Center welcomes two new members to the leadership team— MARQUITTA “LATRICE” THOMPSON, MSN, RN, Director of Medical Surgical and Ortho/ Neuro/Spine and SARAH WHITE, MSN, RN, Director of Emergency Department Services.

GIFTED TRAVEL NETWORK (GTN), the premier host agency for luxury travel advisors, proudly announces its ranking as #10 on the Charlotte Business Journal’s 2023 “Fast 50” List of Fastest Growing Private Companies.

SYDNEY MILLER of The Nomadic Jeweler of Cornelius was recently presented with a $2,500 check for being a runner-up in SCORE Charlotte’s Pitch for Growth 2023. Winners were among ten small business owners from North and South Carolina who pitched their business growth proposals live to five judges at the final competition recently held at the Mint Museum in Charlotte. SCORE is comprised of volunteers who mentor small business owners across a variety of business disciplines.

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Declutter and depersonalize each room.

It’s hard for buyers to envision themselves living in your home if there are obstacles blocking their view. To make the home feel spacious, remove oversized furniture that takes up too much floor space, clear out about half of the contents from closets, and take down artwork and personal photos that cover significant wall space. Go ahead and pack these items in moving boxes/ containers and store them in the garage.

Buyers don’t typically purchase a home for its amazing garage space, so it is ok to use this area as temporary storage in efforts to declutter the rest of the home.

Hide valuables.

Cabinets and drawers in the kitchen and bathrooms are often opened to view the amount of space. Take stock of what is stored there and secure items you care about such as medicine, jewelry, keys, passcodes/ passwords, and anything else that might be important.

Deep clean and deodorize.

A deep and/or professionally cleaned home can go a long way in a potential buyer looking past blemishes the home might have. Dirty, stinky, and cluttered homes give the buyer the impression the home is not well maintained and leads to the question,

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Kitchens and bathrooms should be sparkling, and older carpets should be steam cleaned or replaced if there are stains or odors.

Apply inexpensive upgrades.

Renovated kitchens and bathrooms will almost always reap a significant return on investment. However, there are less expensive things you can do to increase home value and bring it up to date such as freshly painted walls and cabinets as well as new light fixtures.

Hire a home inspector to conduct a pre-list inspection.

Home inspections are relatively inexpensive, and it allows an opportunity to identify if there is anything wrong with the house that you might not know about—such as roof leaks, a leaky/moldy crawl space, plumbing leaks, or deficiencies with windows, HVAC systems, or appliances. Oftentimes it’s cheaper for the seller to coordinate their own repairs/replacements ahead of listing the property for sale rather than waiting for the buyer’s inspection report to discover any problems. Once the improvements are made, they can be included in a listing description as a selling feature which will make the property stand out from others. w

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2 HIGH-INTENSITY INTERVAL TRAINING:

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After all, it’s been a few decades since John Gray popularized the idea that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. And as much as we love sharing women’s stories, we decided it was time to lend the Martians of LKN our ear, too. This month we share the perspectives of Emmanuel Deku with Opulence Group Real Estate.

SPORTS AND HOBBIES AND TRAVEL, OH MY!

EMMANUEL DEKU,

OPULE N CE G R O U P R E A L E ST A T E

FROM AFRICA, WITH LOVE

I grew up in Accra, the capital city of Ghana — a country in West Africa. I lived in numerous cities in the United States before moving to North Carolina in 2010. We had family and friends who lived in Mooresville and my wife, Jayne, and I absolutely fell in love with the area when we visited, as did our two kids, Jayden and Emma. I can’t imagine living anywhere else.

PLENTY OF POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS

Psalm 23 centers me greatly: ““The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” And when I need a reason to smile, I think of the times I spent with my mother. I have so many memories with her, and that keeps me grounded.

My favorite hobby is playing table tennis.

It brings out my competitive spirit! I also love to unwind by listening to music and podcasts or watching sports shows. My other passion is traveling internationally any chance I get. I’ve visited Toronto, London, Dusseldorf, and Paris to name a few. Honestly, my favorite places are the ones brimming with good food, good music, and good friends.

ALL ABOUT ADVICE

If I were to give my younger self some nuggets of wisdom, I would tell him to work hard. But perhaps more than anything else, I think the best advice is to be kind, patient, and always, always smile.

SWITCHING GEARS BY SWITCHING CAREERS

I worked in IT (network administration) for years, but after being laid off in 2016, I decided I did not want to work in corporate America any longer.

That was the impetus for me to take the leap into real estate in 2017 when I was in my 50’s. I never looked back. Around that time, I also started making healthier choices to live a more balanced life. I began waking up early to exercise, and I poured my energy into my new career.

It was scary, but invigorating.

LOVING LIFETIME LEARNING

I’m proud of my ability to be disciplined, compassionate, and to empathize with others. I’m a big proponent of keeping everything in perspective. Some of my favorite mantras are: “Mind Over Matter,” “It could’ve been worse,” “In everything good or bad, always come from a place of gratitude,” and my favorite, “Be Happy” — not because everything is good all the time but because you can choose to see the positives in the situation.

I also love the belief that the purpose of life is to LIVE IT! That always keeps me motivated. w

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Elegant But Easy This Valentine’s Day (or any special day!), prepare this easy yet elegant Beef Wellington that’s sure to impress. First, sear the tenderloin pieces on both sides (45-60 seconds per side). After they cool, spread a bit of Dijon mustard on each filet and wrap in puff pastry (from your grocer’s freezer). Bake the Wellingtons in a 400-degree oven until the pastry is fully cooked and golden brown (about 20 minutes).

Repair to the Boudoir Easy fixes to glam up the bedroom include new light fixtures, lamps, and hardware; area rugs or runners; plants and a table-top fountain; a focal-point piece of fine art. (Painting in photo is an MGFreeman original. Visit www.marionfreeman.com)

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IT IS AT THIS POINT YOU BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY toward meditation and mindfulness. Terms which are increasingly used in conjunction with improved mental, physical, and spiritual wellbeing. You detach from outside stimuli and quiet yourself. Your focus is on being in the present, totally engaged in experiential experiences without judgement. It is the pause, the deep breath, the emersion of yourself that produces the calm inner peace. This practice slows you down, engaging your world and allowing you to live in the moment.

MAKE A COMMITMENT TO SLOW DOWN, BE PRESENT, AND CONNECT. Active listening is a hard and important skill.

You commit to a conversation to truly hear and feel what is being said. You are centered and engaged in that moment.

Release random thoughts and judgmental nuances. Eye contact binds the moment. This solidifies your intention to be more aware. It is the measure of what is going on around you.

You are choosing to live, to be more creative, and to be more considerate of yourself and others.

MINDFULNESS ENGULFS THE SENSES. Notice your world through your senses with pleasure. Immerse yourself in tastes, sights, and sounds. Nature and mindfulness go handin-hand so enjoy the beauty around you. Take in the rays of sunshine, the intricacies of a wooded path, the song of a bird … stop, breathe, embrace. You are in that moment and that moment alone. You are grounded and subsequently freed from negative energy. w LKN EXPERT

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