Sex Appeal & Confidence: We See It. We Want It – How to Gain a Little for Yourself by Chrisha Rouse There’s something so entrancing about a woman that can walk into a room and OWN it. Without saying a word, she can catch the attention of everyone in view. We’ve all seen those women. Some of you may BE those women (and if you are, I tip my proverbial hat to you). However, the rest of us mere mortals watch these mysterious masters of female sex appeal and wonder, “How does she DO that? And how does she seem to not even TRY?” I’m going to let you in on a little secret that might just blow your mind – it’s probably her panties. Or, to use a more allencompassing term, her lingerie. I know. Just the mention of the word lingerie and we immediately think sex. Rightfully so. It does have an important role to play in the bedroom, and it’s probably not how you think. Intimate apparel is so much more than eye-candy for your partner and then landing on the floor. In my opinion, wearing lingerie is much less about what it does for your partner and all about what it does for YOU.
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your booty into “Hey, boo-tay.” Or maybe it’s that pair of sky-high stilettos that you only get the opportunity to rock on special occasions. Whatever it is, the power that you feel when wearing that perfect outfit can’t be denied. There’s a shift in the way you walk, you stand taller, there’s a little je ne sais quoi that you don’t feel every day. Unfortunately, it’s usually not convenient (or appropriate) to wear that magic dress daily and that would lessen the impact, anyway. Here’s the exciting news: you can still get that feeling, that power, that confidence without wearing the soles off of your sexy shoes! Imagine having a sexy secret that no one knows but you. Because no one can see what you’re wearing underneath your normal workday attire. You can have on khakis and a polo and be rocking an entirely different vibe underneath! New sexy matching panties and bra? Sure! A satin & lace teddy that no one in the office would ever imagine you owning? Of course! Wanna feel EXTRA frisky? Try a little black leather number under a button up shirt. That takes the term “work-to-play” outfit to another level! Lingerie in the bedroom should follow the same rules – wear what makes YOU feel sexy. Because confidence, my dear, is the SEXIEST thing a woman can wear!
Sound a little crazy? It shouldn’t.
So, go try it and see the difference for yourself.
Think about it. We all have that ONE outfit that makes us feel great – maybe it’s the little black dress that hugs all the right curves or that pair of jeans that turn
Remember, it’s about you - From the bedroom to the boardroom, lingerie can take you from feeling like “girl next door” to goddess!
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