Northeast Ohio Boomer | May June 2023

EDITOR´S NOTE

May I Be Candid? THAT DEPENDS

of themselves, preferring an edited version of their faces and lives. Who wouldn’t? If all it takes is a decent photo on Facebook to reframe an event, I’m all in.

But while I don’t actively encourage candid photos of myself, I tolerate them for the greater good of reality. Candids capture messy moments, the this-is-what-it-wasreally-like times of our lives.

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I’m an unapologetic social media fan… Instagram, Facebook, TikTok. I check in several times a day. If I understood Snapchat, I’d be on there, too.

Social media makes me happy because I block negative people and causes. My feeds, my choice.

I follow folks I want to see doing things I don’t ordinarily see: Harry Styles dancing in wild costumes, a guy trimming cow’s hooves (surprisingly meditative), a couple restoring a house in Charleston, S.C.

It’s an eclectic lineup, peppered with celebrities who encourage thousands of people to see what they’re up to. On Instagram, I follow the singer Lizzo, a chicken hatchery, the Princess of Wales and a dog daycare in Virginia. My TikTok is all over the place. Lately, I’ve been watching a guy crack open geodes. Family, friends and organizations I care about are part of my social media circles, too, although their clothes aren’t as interesting as Harry Styles’ and I’ve never seen one of them trim a hoof.

Their common thread is a desire to put their best face forward, literally and figuratively. I listened to a discussion recently about how most people don’t like candid photos

My late Mom was a ton of fun, wildly unconventional. But she didn’t like photos of herself, saying she didn’t take a good picture. We have too-few photos of her in all of her joyful, up-for-anything moments. We don’t make that mistake with Dad, now 89. He’s in lots of photos, some flattering, some not.

Always game for a photo shoot, I happily relinquish editorial control of my image for a moment so my kids and grandson can see the relatively real me when I’m no longer around. I say “relatively” because kind photographers know when to hit “delete.”

Here’s a challenge: When you’re out this summer and someone asks for a photo, say yes. Someone, years from now, will be glad you did.

In between dodging (or posing for) photos, I hope you get a chance to enjoy this summer season, both here in lovely Northeast Ohio and in other nearby spots. Use our summer-themed stories and events to get started.

We also bring you a story about foster parenting and why it can be a good fit for people over 50, providing a place to land for a child who needs a home.

I’m putting my money where my mouth is and using a candid photo for my editor’s note. It was taken earlier this month when I helped my brother move 10,000 bees into his beehive. Not a great picture — I’d say bee-quality — but it captures a memorably terrific time.

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FarmMarket Fresh

Season’s Eatings

Lettuce, berries and other fresh produce are standard fare at local farmers markets, but don’t forget to look for other goodies like mushrooms, flower bouquets, piquant cheeses, meat, soaps and herbs.

If you get Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) assistance, you can use your EBT card to buy most food items. Check at the information table for assistance. Find a list of local farmers markets at northeastohioboomer.com.

Meet Our (NOT-SO) CRANKY WINNER

Gerry Uffman isn’t cranky, he just looks like he is. The friendly, selfdescribed “people person” is the winner of our Crankshaft Lookalike Contest. The Parma Heights resident gets an autographed book, “Strike Four!” by Tom Batiuk and Chuck Ayers.

Batiuk, featured in our March/ April issue, created the cranky and popular “Crankshaft” comic strip character and generously donated the book.

Crankshaft, as fans know, drives a school bus. Uffman just so happens to be a retired school bus driver.

Congratulations, Gerry!

READ THIS

HELP OTHERS TO READ IT, TOO

When we first learned to read, the letters magically came together to form words and paragraphs, opening a wide, wonderful world. Some adults haven’t experienced the magic yet. Sixty-six percent of Cleveland adults are functionally illiterate, living in a smaller world than necessary. You can do something to help. Seeds of Literacy, an adult education program, needs volunteers for their GED prep and Adult Basic Education in-person and virtual programs.

While the impact can be huge, the time commitment to volunteer is minimal. Tutoring sessions are two hours long and are offered three times a day, four days a week, with flexibility for students as well as tutors, says Seeds of Literacy president and CEO Bonnie Entler.

“You can tutor as often as you like, whatever days fit your schedule, even if it’s different each week. If you have a high school diploma, patience, and a desire to make a very real difference, you can be a tutor,” she says.

Learn more at seedsofliteracy.org.

Garden Smart, Not Sore

Remember when a hot shower was all you needed to recover after a day in the garden?

It’s a different story for many of us now gardening in our 50s, 60s and older. Here are a few tips from experienced gardeners and gardening organizations to keep you going and growing this season.

Try container gardening for vegetables, herbs and flowers. The height saves on back strain, they’re easy to maintain, and they can pack a visual punch. Read the Gardening Sweet Spots blog on northeastohioboomer. com for container suggestions.

• Stretch and strengthen your muscles before heading out to the garden. Stationary lunges, chair squats and arm curls with one-pound weights will make it easier to dig a hole or move a wheelbarrow.

• Use lighter, smaller equipment. Try using a kid’s wagon or trade the big wheelbarrow for a smaller version. If you can’t bend over or kneel for a long time, use a chair or a garden scooter.

• Install raised garden beds. Bringing plants up 8-12 inches or more reduces back strain.

• If you can afford it, hire out heavy chores like spreading mulch, digging holes or edging beds.

• Incorporate shrubs and evergreens and perennials in flower beds, and cluster high-maintenance annuals in groups or planters to reduce chores.

• Use soaker hoses or buy hose extensions to save steps when watering plants.

• Garden in the early morning or early evening to avoid the heat of the day.

• Eliminate tripping hazards on walkways and steps. A fall outdoors can be just as dangerous as one indoors.

• Keep your phone nearby in case you get hurt and need help.

• Drink plenty of water.

• Use sunscreen and a hat.

Happy gardening!

Magical, Marvelous AKRON MOON WALKS

If you want to see the full moon, you can set a reminder on your calendar, look out your window, take a peek outside and then go back to your easy chair.

But if you really want to see a full moon, you’ll check in with the Akron Recreation & Parks website (akronrecreationandparks.

com) and join a Full Moon Walk. Led by a recreation staff member, the free event takes moon viewers on a different trail each month to enjoy the rising full moon. Upcoming summer walks are June 3 (Strawberry Moon), July 3 (Buck Moon), Aug. 1 (Sturgeon Moon) and Aug. 30, (Blue Moon).

Over-50, Curvy Fashion

DEBUTS IN “BOOMER”

We’re thrilled to welcome NEO fashion writer, blogger and influencer Linda Peavy to Northeast Ohio Boomer magazine, where she will promote her body positivity message and enthusiasm for curvy, over-50 fashion through her column, “Style Stop,” starting in our July/ August issue. You can get a jumpstart online with her blog at northeastohioboomer.com.

A native of Cleveland, Peavy created “Cultured Curves: Sophisticated Style, Fashion, and Beauty for Curvy Women over 50,” a blog encouraging women to celebrate their vibrant, intelligent and sexy selves. Peavy is a 2023 Outstanding Blogger of the Year nominee for the Full Figured Industry Awards. Her website is culturedcurves.com.

Later this year, Peavy will publish “The Cultured Curves Guide to Style for Mature Curvy Women, Volume 1,” a roadmap to developing an effortless style for mature women, including tips and suggestions on fashion, makeup and skincare.

In addition to her work in fashion and beauty, Peavy owns LiPav Consulting, a marketing and grant-writing firm.

We’re already feeling more confident and fashionable with Peavy aboard.

What’s in Your Smartphone?

THE ANSWER: EVERYTHING

By Tak Sato

Lately, the old advertising tagline, “What’s in your wallet?” has joined the cacophony in my head. Today, that same question could be, “What’s in your smartphone?”

Or, taken one step further: Who needs a wallet?

I’m sure many of you, as I have numerous times, forgotten your wallet when rushing out of your house. Before smartphones became a thing, I’d make a quick trip back home to fetch it. Today, thanks to my smartphone, I’m less likely to make that U-turn.

FAST ACCESS

Remember how we used to carry a few family pictures in our wallets? Now, we just open our photos app — on our Apple iPhone, iPad or Android smartphone or tablet — and we instantly have access to hundreds (thousands?) of photos and videos.

How many credit and debit cards are fattening your leather wallet? For the iPhone, Apple Pay works in conjunction with its Apple Wallet app (digital wallet) in your smartphone so you don’t have to reach for your physical card to buy stuff. Google Pay, in conjunction with Google Wallet, is for Android-based smartphones and offers similar payment features.

Google Pay and Apple Pay are contactless payment methods. Most payment terminals at brick-andmortar stores accept traditional magnetic stripe or chip cards, and many have been upgraded to also accept contactless payment through smartphones, often with just a tap of the phone on the terminal pad.

If you feel naked if you forget your

driver’s license or a state-issued ID card, there’s an app for that (yes, another tagline). Google Wallet and Apple Wallet apps not only store credit or debit card information for contactless payment, but they can also securely store your driver’s license, ID card, airplane boarding pass, event ticket, digital key, etc. on your smartphone. It’s another “not-ifbut-when” kind of thing.

When my mom and nephew visited Cleveland in 2019, a friend threw a beach party to welcome them. I did a lot of translating because Mom doesn’t speak English. I opened the Google Translate app on my smartphone to help with communication.

The free Translate app is available for iPhone/iPad. In the newest version, the translations are much smoother and better integrated with Google services, such as the Google

Lens. For example, I simply point the smartphone’s camera at something I want to be translated and the app starts translating.

With the summer travel season approaching, this app would be useful abroad, translating everything from road signs to menus. Even though you don’t speak French, you’ll “vous commanderez une baguette et un café pour deux” at a cafe near the Eiffel Tower that accepts Apple Pay. In Paris, you can pay with your smartphone, let the app translate any road signs to avoid jaywalking, and enjoy your vacation.

Tak Sato is a founder of the Cleveland-area nonprofit Center for Aging in the Digital World (empowerseniors.org) which teaches digital literacy to people 60+ through the free Discover Digital Literacy program.

Grand

FUN WITH THE GRANDKIDS

SUNDAYS

Family FUNday. Family-friendly games, movementbased activities, art and more. First Sunday of each month. 1-4 p.m. Community Arts Center, West 25th St., Cleveland, clevelandart.org

WEDNESDAYS

Fun on the Farm. Pony and pony cart rides, horse rides and more. June-August. 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Spring Mist Farms, 691 Pearl Road, Brunswick Hills, springmistfarms.com

SATURDAYS

STEAM Team Saturdays. On the second and fourth Saturday of each month, children, ages 5-11 discover the wonder of S.T.E.A.M. 12 p.m. Akron Children’s Museum, 216 S. Main St., akronkids.org

ONGOING

Shark Gallery & Sea Tube. Features three species of sharks, stingrays, eels and many other species of fish. Greater Cleveland Aquarium, 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland, greaterclevelandaquarium.com. FREE$19.95 greaterclevelandaquarium.com

Science Phenomena. Explore electricity and magnetism; light and optics; motion and mechanics; sound and resonance, and more. Great Lakes Science Center, 601 Erieside Ave., Cleveland, greatscience.com. $14.95-19.95

DAY-BY-DAY

5/20

Super Science Saturday: Mammal Mayhem. Discover the science behind these living organisms, their classification, and their crazy lives. 10:30 a.m.3:30 p.m. Akron Fossils & Science Center, 2080 S. Cleveland Massillon Road., Copley, akronfossils.com

5/23

Kids Dig! Fossils & Paleontology. Hands-on experience for children, ages 6-11, interested in history and science. 6-8:30 p.m. Lee Road Branch Library, 2345 Lee Road, Cleveland Hts., heightslibrary.org

6/2

Falls Fire Showdown. Family-friendly event where firefighters from around the region will compete in a relay challenge to determine who is the best of the best. 5-10 p.m. Downtown Cuyahoga Falls, cityofcf.com

TUESDAYS

Northeast Ohio Parent Events. Free, family-friendly entertainment with activities for kids ages 2-9, northeastohioparent.com

6/3

Monster Jam Stadium Tour. The most unexpected, unscripted and unforgettable motorsports experience for families and fans. 7-9 p.m. FirstEnergy Stadium, 100 Alfred Lerner Way, Cleveland, feldentertainment.com

Kids Day of Safety and Play. Summer reading kick-off, KidArt, physical fitness challenge, toucha-truck and more. 2-6 p.m. Mainstreet Medina, mainstreetmedina.com

One Lump or Two?

MAKE TIME FOR TEA TIME

By Karen Shadrach

Hosting a tea party is a fun way to celebrate an occasion or introduce children to the custom of tea drinking. A children’s tea can be a teaching experience in a social setting. Young boys and girls alike can learn the etiquette of table manners and conversation. Make the experience magical for your grandchild by using a theme, decorating your space, serving tea and snacks, and playing games.

BUT FIRST…

The fun is in the making. Your grandkids will love to help plan and prepare their tea party items ahead of time.

Choosing a festive theme is important. Many little girls love to dress up as fairies, so a Fairy Tea Party is a good choice. Another is a Teddy

Bear and Doll Tea. Children bring their favorite bear or doll and set them on their own chairs as party guests. A Storybook Reading Tea Party, where the kids can bring a favorite book, gives you the option to read a few of the books to them, either after or during the tea. Another is a Princess and Pirates Tea.

The kids can have fun dressing up in costumes and, as a craft, make their own crowns and hats or swords.

Centerpieces for your table, as well as brightly colored tablecloths, should be associated with your particular theme. Containers of flowers or balloons are always a hit, especially if they can also take them home.

Sometimes you can find cheap china plates, tea cups and teapots at garage or flea market sales. Collect these for a future tea party.

Plan your menu, keeping in mind that children can be finicky eaters and others may have food allergies. The usual custom is to either serve three or four selections for both the sandwich and sweet courses.

Caffeinated tea for children is not recommended. However, many other beverage alternatives can be served in a teacup. I’ve served an assortment of herbal teas so the kids can sample the different flavors. If your grandchildren dislike tea of any kind, substitute fruit punch or lemonade.

It is so fun to make your own finger party sandwiches. Place the spread of your choice on bread and cut in fourths or on the diagonal. Mini-wraps also make colorful small sandwich options. An adorable, however labor-intensive, idea is to use cookie cutters and cut out bread for shaped sandwiches. Try cream cheese and cucumber, peanut butter and jelly, Nutella spread and banana, tuna or chicken salad, American cheese and ham, flavored cream cheese and jelly or blueberry or raspberry jam.

Fill small fruit cups, or place fruit on skewers for easier eating. If you are feeling brave, or have older grandchildren, you could cut up fruit and provide one of those chocolate fountains for them to dip strawberries.

Don’t forget the sweets. Treats can be small cookies or scones. Cut

brownies into small squares, and buy macaroons or mini cupcakes. Decorative garnishes, such as colored sprinkles, sanding sugar, shredded coconut, and assorted small candies will make your sweets fun and memorable. Buy sugar cookies and decorate them with food paint as a fun addition.

End the party with games. Play Teacup Hunt and hide paper tea cups around the house or outside to get the kids up and moving. Children also love to stack sugar cubes, especially if you time them to see who can stack

the highest sugar tower. The most important thing is that you join the grandkids and participate in their tea. Dress up and wear a fancy hat for the occasion. Enjoy your tea time and be sure to take pictures to remember the special event.

Karen Shadrach is a Northeast Ohio on-the-go, in-the-know grandmother of two sets of twins. Read her grandparenting blog at northeastohioboomer.com.

PHOTO COURTESY OF KAREN SHADRACH

A kid-friendly tea party reinforces table manners.

The fun is in the making. Choose a festive theme.

Wanted:

Foster Parents

Yes, You

By Erin Sernoffsky

Michelle Holmes, 66, headed out for a bike ride before picking up two boys from school — her most recent foster children in 17 years of welcoming kids into her Cleveland Heights home. She’s fostered more than 20 children, beginning with two girls when her youngest daughter was 11.

“I just love it,” Holmes says. “They keep me active, it keeps me young at heart. Don’t get me wrong, you have challenges. Some of these kids have never had the opportunity to learn how to brush their teeth or their hair. Some of them need so much help and have so much going on in their lives, but the best thing you can give them is love and make them feel safe, and pretty much everything else will fall into place. We need more grandmas in the world.”

Holmes is right about that. About 8,500 kids live with foster parents in Ohio; many more are awaiting placement.

As Holmes has learned, there’s a demographic ideally situated to help these children — older adults.

SUPPORT, LOVE

of the children have experienced grief, trauma or loss. As a result, trust, bonding and showing gratitude take time and patience.

“One myth is that, once you hit a certain age, you are too old to foster kids. This is far from true,” Tarantino says.

So You Want to Be a Foster Parent?

Foster parents get free preplacement training and must pass a criminal background check. The state pays a monthly stipend to cover the cost of food, diapers and other expenses. Foster children get health insurance through Medicaid, which covers the cost of prescriptions, therapy, counseling and doctor visits. Learn more at fosterandadopt.jfs.ohio.gov/ home.

“People 50 and older and empty nesters make great foster parents,” says Kim Weltman, Executive Vice President at Beech Brook in Pepper Pike. “Regardless of whether they have their own children or not, people 50 and older can bring patience, understanding and love to a child who is not able to live with their biological family.”

Cheryl Tarantino, Executive Director of NOAS, Northeast Ohio Adoption Services, says amazing foster families are light-hearted, patient and accept delayed gratification. Most

Age can be an asset for a foster parent, especially when working with preteens and teens transitioning to adulthood, she adds. Some are in their early 70s. Couples, single people, homeowners, renters, city dwellers, suburban and rural residents: the foster family net is wide and inclusive.

Fostering can take many forms, including foster-to-adopt, foster-only, mentorship, and emergency and respite care. In a temporary placement, a child’s family needs immediate assistance and is working to provide a safe home for their child.

“The best-case scenario is when a foster family can nurture the relationship between the child and their birth parent and can work toward reunification,” says Shannon Deinhart, Executive Director of Kinnect, a Cleveland-based nonprofit that works to prevent and reduce the time a child spends in the welfare system.

“Our work at Kinnect is to get kids out of foster care and back to kin quickly,” Deinhart says. “Foster parents have been instrumental in our success because they know and often end up being a support and resource to the kinship family.”

Deinhart says, ideal foster parent relationships with these families continue after the placement, oftentimes with foster families serving in a grandparent-like role.

Agencies provide support to foster families. “Our foster care team is available 24/7,” says Weltman. “We have

case managers who visit weekly and as needed, as well as ‘wrap workers’ who provide extra services to the children to teach them basic skills. Depending on the individual needs, children may also take part in individual, group and family therapy, art therapy, psychiatric consultation, and independent living skills for older teens.”

NOAS’ IGNITE Mentorship program is designed for older adults not ready or able to commit to the full fostering experience. IGNITE pairs an adult with a child in a less formal relationship to serve as a “wise and trusted guide,” explains Tarantino. “You aren’t there to parent or discipline, but to be there for them and help them.” This can often look like taking part in hobbies, helping with school and career advice, or simply spending time together.

Says Weltman, “Some foster parents are concerned about separation and loss issues when the foster child must leave their home. In many instances, the foster parents remain connected to their foster child or children and continue to serve as a resource for many years.”

This is true for Michelle Holmes, who keeps in touch with many of her former foster children.

“I actually cry when some leave because I get so attached but I know in the end, they are happy and I am happy for them. I had one boy that I took care of knock on my door and say, ‘Ms. Holmes, do you remember me?’ and he had grown so much but I still knew him. They all come back to visit.”

Erin Sernoffsky is a freelance writer in Fairlawn who enjoys exploring Northeast Ohio.

Summer fun Guide

Outdoor Concerts, Road Trips & Other Warm-Weather Faves

Sweet Summer Treats

AT THE LOCAL ICE CREAM STAND

By John Matuszak

Like magic, they open as the days get longer and the weather gets warmer, perennial favorites tempting us with vivid colors and tantalizing fragrances.

These aren’t flowers, but other harbingers of summer: neighborhood ice cream stands.

Biggies Custard in Mentor-on-theLake, Frozen Dee-Lite in Parkman, Fantasy Delight in Aurora, Bidinger’s Ice Cream in Wadsworth, Dariview in Fairview Park... Northeast Ohio is lucky to have dozens of seasonal ice cream and custard stands, most serving families, ball teams and others for decades.

Open for a few brief, steamy months each summer, it’s showtime for neighborhood ice cream and custard stands like Parma’s Zero Zest on State Road in Parma, which dates to 1950, and Brayson’s nearby on Ridge Road.

Zero Zest owner Linda Champa sells prints of a photo of the stand at its original location. “We have a little bit of everything,” says Champa, who bought Zero Zest in 2016, after operating another shop for 10 years.

While giving a nod to the past, Champa is very much in the future, catering to evolving different tastes and dietary needs, such as vegan and dairyfree treats, along with traditional items.

Champa doesn’t know the origin of the name Zero Zest, but kept it because of its long presence in the community.

Zero Zest delivers a cold treat worth the wait on a hot day.

Southern-style, alcolohol-infused ice cream makes old favorites new again. PHOTOS: TOP, JOHN MATUSZAK; BOTTOM, MIKE OLSZEWSKI

“I didn’t want to lose the mystique,” Champa says.

Zero Zest offers itself as an oasis from the bustle of everyday life. A sign in the window urges customers to “Take a 15-Minute Vacation” at the location.

Along with filling cones, Champa strives to be a positive influence on the young employees who work at the stand.

“They’re like my kids,” Champa says. “I don’t ask them to work any harder than I do, and I bust my butt.”

Champa exemplifies how a neighborhood business owner can have an impact far beyond the things they sell.

She recalls how she lent one of her employees money to help her attend nursing school. Years later, she ran into the woman, now the head of physical therapy for an area hospital.

Champa loves the work — in part, because she gets winters off. She doesn’t tire of ice cream and takes a treat home after every shift.

Nearby, at Brayson’s, 5840 Ridge Road in Parma, Jim Fritsche went from ice to ice cream. He spent 35 years as a hockey coach and trainer, then crafted an old-fashioned ice cream parlor at the building he’s owned for 35 years.

“I built everything myself,” says Fritsche… including the counters, seats and other fixtures.

He named the shop for his two twin grandsons, Brady and Mason,

One Cone

(Hold the Boiled Peanuts)

By Mike Olszewski

When we settled into our winter home in Florida, my wife Janice and I realized we’d have to adapt to certain Southern customs and cuisine. Boiled peanuts are odd. Does this menu say, ‘cheese and grits ravioli’? And that’s a hard pass on chicken livers and gizzards at the breakfast buffet.

But if there’s one food item that’s an American staple, it’s ice cream… though we’re learning there are significant regional variations.

Before we shelled out five bucks for a cup of coffee and still drank free water from a fountain, we had our version of ice cream; the homemade kind.

now eight. The boys and his other grandchildren like having a granddad who owns an ice cream shop.

“They eat a lot of ice cream,” Fritsche says.

Fritsche is committed to the community, where his family has lived for 200 years, supporting local youth hockey and baseball teams.

Other neighborhood shops include the Honey Hut at 6250 State Road in Parma, and Lumpy’s Shake Shop at 6372 Pearl Road in Parma Heights.

EAST SIDE STORY

Ice cream lovers on the region’s East Side aren’t left out. There are plenty of places to indulge their sweet teeth.

A few include:

Mickey’s Ice Cream & Sandwich Shop, 14 E. Spaulding St., downtown Willoughby

Biggies Custard, 5665 Andrews Road, Mentor-on-the-Lake

Cooper’s Twist & Shake, 35766 Lakeshore Blvd., Eastlake

King Kone, 10621 Grant St., Chardon Scooter’s Dawg House, 9600 Blackbrook Road, Mentor (on the way to Headlands State Park, off Route 44)

When I was a kid, I remember my father taking me for a ride in his prized 1960 Pontiac Bonneville, possibly the ugliest car ever produced. “Where are we going?” I asked. “Your grandmother needs rock salt,” he replied.

Rock salt? Grandma had a cinder driveway, it was the middle of summer, and we didn’t need to melt ice. Turns out, she had an ice cream churn that looked like a wooden bucket with a handle that was impossible to crank. She used rock salt to make her own ice cream (it keeps the ice from melting), tossing in whatever flavors she had around.

Going out for ice cream was a big deal. When we pulled into the parking lot and saw the lines, we were getting more than a cone; we were part of a shared social experience.

In Northeast Ohio, we have dozens of flavors available in stores, many seasonal and related to Ohio with “Buckeye” in the name, a combination of chocolate and peanut butter.

Back to this Southern-culture thing and ice cream. I’ve found a few pecans but plenty of pralines, “hot chocolate” made with peppers, a bacon-andcaramel topping, and peach everything.

Another difference with the local walk-up is a special, dog-sized sundae for our four-legged friends with vanilla ice cream, honey and peanut butter. Then there’s the alligator jerky by the cash register that I fear will someday be a sundae topping.

And don’t forget the local ice cream makers. Walking through the supermarket one afternoon, I noticed people milling around a freezer. When the crowd finally thinned, I was able to get a look and… well, let’s just say, my love affair with ice cream has taken a dramatic new turn! Alcohol ice cream.

Just hold the boiled peanuts.

John Matuszak is a Northeast Ohio writer.

Mike Olszewski is Northeast Ohio Boomer’s pop culture columnist and ice cream eater.

Jim Fritsche scoops up a cone at Brayson’s Ice Cream Parlor in Parma. The shop is named for the owner’s twin grandsons.

PHOTO: JOHN MATUSZAK

A Taste of Kentucky

SIPPING

ALONG THE BOURBON

Have you invited neighbors yet for a drink on your porch or patio? If not, won’t it be great to serve them something different — like a special bourbon you picked up on the Kentucky Bourbon Trail?

If you haven’t “done the Trail” yet, there are now 42 distilleries producing quality bourbon on the route. Eighteen are large, familiar names — Bulleit, Four Roses, Woodford Reserve — and another 24 are smaller, artisanal craft distilleries. It’s almost impossible to choose which to visit, which is why the Kentucky Distillers’ Association recommends spending a week on the Trail.

“It depends on the experience you’re after,” says Amandalin “Mandy” Ryan, director of the Kentucky Bourbon Trail Experiences. “They’re all a little different;

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some visitors come looking for one brand they love, others want to try something new. I’m a big believer in mixing it up — go for the big Jim Beams, then stop at the small family distilleries operating out of a barn. I hear good things about all of them.”

TASTES FOR EVERY TASTE

Different, you bet. Maker’s Mark, for instance, offers several varieties of tours, ranging in price for the basic, all-outdoors tour ($22) to the “Behind the Bourbon” immersive, cellarto-cistern tour that includes a tasting ($55). And, based on reviews (and my own experience), Maker’s Mark’s has the best gift shop on the Trail, including a corner where you can dip your own bottle top in their signature red wax.

Wild Turkey, on the other hand, is offering no tours at this writing. Still managed by 64-year veteran Master Distiller Jimmy Russell, the longest-working master distiller in the world, Wild Turkey has a gift shop that sells their tasty “crafted with conviction” rye.

Evan Williams Gift Shop Experience, Kentucky’s first commercial distillery, offers a one-hour tour for $18, including a tasting. If it’s on the shelf (it’s only produced seasonally), do yourself a favor and pick up a bottle of Evan Williams Egg Nog, made with whiskey, rum and brandy.

While the craft distilleries are popular, I haven’t visited them; they take more time than I can afford right now. My favorite of the big guys is Maker’s Mark. The tour is fascinating, and the bourbon strikes me as a bit sweeter than the others. If bourbon is your poison, you already know that legally, the mash bill, or recipe, must contain at least 51 percent corn; the rest can be any combination of other grains. Maker’s 46 might be their sweetest, but no distiller will reveal the exact ingredients.

HOW-TO HINTS

Planning your trip to the Bourbon Trail is easy. Start at kybourbontrail.com and read the offerings of all the distilleries, download the map, and decide which ones to visit. Northern Kentucky is about a six-hour drive from Northeast Ohio, so plan two travel days and give yourself time to relax.

You won’t run into a crowd of 20-somethings when you get there, though visitors are starting to trend a little younger, Ryan says. “The older demographic is still pretty primary for us, though. They can travel during the week, and I think there’s a bit of nostalgia at work with them, too. They saw their parents and grandparents drinking whiskey and bourbon, and they want to experience those drinks and learn the histories. People are looking for an authentic connection.”

One note to keep in mind: you might not find some of your favorite distilleries on that website. Buffalo Trace Distillery, for instance, doesn’t belong to the association that sponsors the distillers’ website because Buffalo Trace gives tours free of charge. Still, if you wish to tour the distillery, you must register at buffalotracedistillery. com before you visit. And be ready for disappointment: all of their bourbons and most of their other bottlings were sold out when we checked. If they are in stock, they limit purchases to one bottle per visitor, per day.

KENTUCKY TRAIL TIPS

“Book every tour in advance,” Ryan says. “That’s my number-one tip. Some are booked a month-and-a-half ahead.” You can schedule most tours online.

Ryan also advises taking advantage of the cocktail bars and culinary experiences springing up at the distilleries. Their bartenders know how to showcase their products in their drinks, and you’d be smart to sample them—and ask questions.

Don’t show up just to drink—take at least one tour. Even if you already know how a still works and whiskey is bottled, it will be fascinating and informative.

Bring a designated driver. You won’t want to pass up the wonderful tastes you’re offered along the way.

Wear closed-toed shoes. On some distillery tours, they are required.

WHERE TO STAY

• Old Talbott Tavern - A tiny inn with only six rooms. Dine at the world’s oldest (since 1779) bourbon bar, talbottavern.com in Bardstown, “The Bourbon Capital.”

• 21c Museum Hotel Lexington - A modern art museum/ hotel with a sister hotel in Louisville, curated exhibitions, downtown Lexington, 21cmuseumhotels.com.

• The Samuels House - Established by the same family that started Makers Mark, near Bardstown, thesamuelshouse.com.

Mary Mihaly is a Northeast Ohio writer.

Set Your Summer íights to Music

GRAB A SEAT AT THESE FREE OPEN-AIR CONCERTS NEAR YOU

By Estelle Rodis-Brown

Sweet summer nights are too short and too few in Northeast Ohio. Why not set them to music?

Whether your groove is Big Band, R&B, jazz, rock, classical or some other genre, enjoy an open-air venue near you, where live music will carry you along in the balmy breezes. Pack a picnic, grab your family and friends, and make lasting memories by attending some of these free, outdoor concerts this summer.

Check event websites for details and updates. And see northeastohioboomer.com for even more free outdoor concerts this summer.

CUYAHOGA COUNTY

Berea – FREE Live at the Lake Summer Music Concerts

Where: Coe Lake Park, 1 Berea Commons, Downtown Berea

When: Fridays, June 23-July 28, 2023, 8-10 p.m. cityofberea.org/226/ Live-at-the-Lake-Concert-Series

Chagrin Falls – FREE Simple Summer Nights Concert Series

Where: South Russell Park, 1050 Bell St., Chagrin Falls

When: Tuesday, June 20, 2023, 6:30-8:30 p.m. cvcc.org/events/details/simple-summernights-concert-series-2023-rock-radioband-23639

Cleveland – FREE Square Sounds at Public Square

Where: Public Square, 50 Public Square, Cleveland

When: Select weekdays, May 23-September 29, 2023, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. clevelandpublicsquare.com/events-calendar

Cleveland – FREE Gigs on the Green

Where: Public Square, 50 Public Square, Cleveland

When: Wednesdays, June 7-28, 2023, 5-8 p.m. clevelandpublicsquare.com/events-calendar

Cleveland – FREE Sounds of Summer Concert Series at Cleveland Metroparks

Where: Multiple Locations

When: June 15, 2023, 4-8 p.m., Merwin’s Wharf

June 22, 2023, 4-8 p.m., Coast Guard Station

July 20, 2023, 4-8 p.m., Euclid Beach Park

clevelandmetroparks.com/parks/calendar? view=list&activitytype=24& eywordsearch=concert

Lakewood - FREE LakewoodAlive’s 2023

Front Porch Concert Series

Where: Lakewood Lakewood Public Library, 15425 Detroit Ave. (6/2-7/14) & Madison Park Pavilion, 13201 Madison Ave. (7/21 & 7/28)

When: Friday evenings at 7 p.m., June 2 -July 14, 2023 on the front steps of Lakewood Public Library; and July 21 and July 28 at Madison Park Pavilion LakewoodAlive.org/FrontPorchConcerts

Middleburg Heights – FREE Concert in the Park Series

Where: Middleburg Heights City Hall Park, 15700 Bagley Rd., Middleburg Heights

When: Fridays, May 26 & October 6, 2023 Saturday, August 26, 2023 facebook.com/

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North Royalton – FREE Parkapalooza

Where: Memorial Park, 14600 State Rd., North Royalton, OH 44133

When: Saturday, June 24, 2023 northroyalton.org/government/mayor_s_ office/events.php

University Heights – FREE University Heights Symphonic Band Concert on the Lawn

Where: James A. Garfield National Historic Site, 8095 Mentor Ave., Mentor

When: Thursday, June 8, 2023, 7 p.m. facebook.com/events/480458897456646/

Westlake – FREE Music in the Park at Crocker Park

Where: Roche Wealth Management of Raymond James Theater, 148 Crocker Park Blvd., Westlake

When: Friday-Sunday evenings, May 26-September 3, 2023, Fri-Sat: 6:30-8:30 p.m., Sun: 4-6 p.m. crockerpark.com/music/

GEAUGA COUNTY

Chardon – FREE Concerts in the Park

Where: Chardon Square Gazebo, 101 S. Hambden St., Chardon

When: Fridays, June 2-August 11, 2023, 7-9 p.m. chardon.cc/calendar.

aspx?month=6&year=2023

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LAKE COUNTY

Kirtland – FREE Concerts & More at the Glen

Where: Penitentiary Glen Nature Center, 8668 Kirtland-Chardon Rd., Kirtland

When: Select nights, June 9-August 15, 2023, 7 p.m. lakemetroparks.com/events-activities/ events/concerts-more-at-the-glen

Mentor – FREE Music at the Manor

Where: Wildwood Cultural Center & Park, 7645 Little Mountain Rd., Mentor

When: Wednesdays, May 24-June 21, 2023, 6:30-8 p.m. cityofmentor.com/departments/ parks-recreation/events/ music-at-the-manor/

Painesville – FREE Summer Concert in the Park Series

Where: Painesville Square, Painesville

When: Wednesdays, June 14-August 9, 2023 (No concert on July 12), 6 p.m. painesville.com/concerts

LORAIN COUNTY

Avon Lake – FREE Party in the Park Summer Concert Series

Where: Miller Road Park, 33760 Lake Rd., Avon Lake (Sundays, June 18, July 16 & 30, August 13, 2023), 6-8 p.m.

Veterans Park, 32756 Lake Rd., Avon Lake (Thursdays, June 29, July 27 & August 10 + CLE Market), 4-8 p.m.

When: Sundays, June 18, July 16 & 30 & August 13, 2023 , 6-8 p.m.

Thursdays, June 29, July 27 & August 10, 2023, 4-8 p.m. avonlake.org/events/2023/6/

North Ridgeville –Summer Concert Series

Where: South Central Park Gazebo, 7565 Avon Belden Rd., North Ridgeville

When: Sundays, June 11 & 25 at 6 p.m., July 2 at 5 p.m., & August 6 at 6 p.m. northridgeville.recdesk.com

MEDINA COUNTY

Medina – FREE Jazz & Opera

Under the Stars

Where: Uptown Park, Medina

When: Select nights, June 3-August 26, 2023

Jazz – June 3, July 8, August 5 & 26, 2023, 7 p.m.

Opera – June 17, 2023, 7 p.m. ormaco.org/jazz-under-the-stars-events/

Wadsworth – FREE Opera

Under the Stars

Where: 217 E. Liberty St., Medina

When: Saturday, June 17, 2023, 7 p.m. ormaco.org/z-opera-under-the-starscleveland-opera-theater/

PORTAGE COUNTY

Aurora – FREE Summer Concerts

Where: Veterans Memorial Park, 40 W. Garfield Rd., Aurora

When: Thursdays, June 22, July 13, & August 10 & 24, 2023, 6:30-8:30 p.m. auroraoh.com/departments/parks___ recreation/community_events/driveup_concert_series.php

SUMMIT COUNTY

Akron – FREE Music in the Park

Where: Goodyear Heights Metro Park, Main Entrance, 2077 Newton St., Akron

When: Tuesday, May 23, 2023, 7-8 p.m. summitmetroparks.org/ ProgramsAndEvents.aspx?id=11502

Akron – FREE Live at the Library

Music & Food Truck Series

Where: City Hall Portico, 145 N. Main St., North Canton

When: Thursdays in June & July 2023, 5:30-7 p.m. ncantonlibrary.libnet.info/event/6578746

Akron – FREE Summer Concert Series in the Parks

Where: Multiple locations

Mondays @ Hardesty Park (6/5, 6/12, 6/26)

Mondays @ Lawton Street Community Center (7/3, 7/10, 7/24)

Tuesdays @ Firestone Park Community Center (6/6, 6/13, 6/20)

Tuesdays @ Joy Park Community Center (7/11, 7/25, 8/1)

Wednesdays @ Shadyside Park (6/7, 6/14, 6/21, 6/28)

Wednesdays @ Summit Lake Community Center (7/5, 7/12, 7/26, 8/2)

Thursdays @ Patterson Park Community Center (6/8, 6/15, 6/22, 6/29)

Thursdays @ Balch Street Fitness Center (7/6, 7/13, 7/27, 8/3)

Fridays @ Reservoir Park Community Center (6/9, 6/16, 6/23, 6/30)

Fridays @ Ellet Community Center (7/7, 7/14, 7,28, 8/4)

When: Monday - Friday, June 5 -Aug. 2, 2023, 7-9 p.m. akronrecreationandparks.com/ summerconcerts

Cuyahoga Falls – FREE Falls

Downtown Fridays

Where: Downtown Cuyahoga Falls

When: Fridays, June 16-August 11, 2023, 6-10 p.m. cityofcf.com/events/ falls-downtown-fridays-5

Fairlawn – FREE Fairlawn

Summer Concert Series

Where: Bicentennial Park, 3486 S. Smith Rd., Fairlawn

When: Fridays, June 2-July 28, 2023, 7-9 p.m. fairlawn.us/435/Concerts

Hudson – FREE Hudson Bandstand

Summer Concert Series

Where: Gazebo Green, 27 E. Main St., Hudson

When: Monday, May 29, 2023, 6:30-8:30 p.m. Sundays, June 4-August 27, 2023, 6:30-8:30 p.m. hudson.oh.us/1226/Events

Hudson – FREE Hudson Summer Music Nights Series

Where: First & Main Green, 42 Village Way, Hudson

When: Select nights, July 7-August 25, 2023, 7-9 p.m. hudson.oh.us/1226/Events

Norton – FREE Music By the Lake

Where: Silver Creek Metro Park, Lake House, 5000 Hametown Rd., Norton

When: Tuesday, June 6, 2023, 7-8 p.m. Metro Parks Ensemble at Main Beach Shelter, 521 S. River Rd., Munroe Falls

– Tuesday, June 13, 2023, 7-8 p.m., Metro Parks Ensemble at Sherman Shelter, Lake House, 5000 Hametown Rd., Norton summitmetroparks.org

Stow – FREE Concerts on the Green

Where: Stow City Hall, 3760 Darrow Rd., Stow When: Select nights, May 27-August 11, 2023 stowohio.recdesk.com/Community/ Program/Detail?programId=1805

BLOSSOM MUSIC FESTIVAL

The countdown to the 2023 Blossom Music Festival starts now. Reserve your seats today for concerts from July 1 - Sept. 9. Highlights include a Salute to America, Beethoven’s Ninth, Debussy’s La mer, movie nights and Broadway favorites. Guest artists Jean-Yves Thibaudet, Michael Feinstein, Capathia Jenkins, Audra McDonald, Nicholas McGegan, Nikolai Lugansky, and Mao Fujita visit Blossom this summer. Save by buying season subscriptions or ultra-flexible Lawn Ticket Books. Ask about Under 18s free tickets.

CLEVELAND PUBLIC LIBRAY - CLEVELAND READS

A city that reads together grows together! That’s the purpose behind the Cleveland READS Citywide Reading Challenge. There are 3 easy steps: Read. Log. Win! Books, magazines, comic books, and audiobooks all count. Log your reading online or complete a paper log and return to your Cleveland Public Library branch. Then, earn chances to win prizes and a lifetime of positive results! Join the challenge today at clevelandreads.com

HALE FARM & VILLAGE

Hale Farm & Village, an outdoor living history museum of the Western Reserve Historical Society, creates immersive opportunities to explore the Hale family story as part of a rich and diverse regional history through daily interpretation and special programming. Take a walk through our historic grounds and buildings, meet heritage breed farm animals, and get hands-on with historic demonstrations. The public season begins June 1. Museum hours are Wednesday through Sunday, from 10 a.m .- 4 p.m.

LORAIN COUNTY METRO PARKS

Lorain County Metro Parks offers a variety of public programs, including hikes, outdoor concerts, animal encounters, educational opportunities, and more. Lorain County Metro Parks has been caring for the landscape of your family traditions since 1957. With more than 11,000 acres of protected and public land, everyone can find a park to enjoy. Visit loraincountymetroparks.com to see what’s happening and to find your chance to enjoy nature nearby.

MALTZ MUSEUM

Celebrate Rube Goldberg™: The World of Hilarious Invention! Exhibit on May 24, with a family-friendly launch event from 7 pm to 8:30 pm. Join us for an outdoor Community Jam Session and bring your own picnic blankets, lawn chairs, and instruments if you have them. No experience required to participate, just the courage to create. Come early to explore the exhibit. We’re open 11am-5pm! $5 per Person; Maximum $20 per Family. Register at maltzmuseum.org/rube

SKIN-DEEP SUN SAFETY

We all did it. Slathering baby oil and iodine on our smooth skin, hoping for a fast tan, taking midday sun baths, spending hours poolside, wearing as little as possible, save for the occasional dab of Coppertone lotion. And don’t forget the tanning beds.

Sunblock? The earliest version had an SPF of 2. Water-resistant sunscreen didn’t arrive until the late ‘70s. Most of us didn’t buy a bottle of sunblock until the mid-1980s.

Years of blistering sunburns and peeling skin took their toll. We’ve got more wrinkles than we should, freckles where we shouldn’t, and alarming rates of skin cancer. One in five Americans will get skin cancer before they’re 70, according to the Skin Cancer Foundation, and it affects more people than all other cancers combined. Rates are skyrocketing.

And keep this in mind: a single blistering sunburn as a child or teen doubles your odds of later

getting the deadliest form of skin cancer, melanoma, according to the Foundation’s fact sheet.

Today, most of us have more respect for sun exposure than we did when we were younger. Sunblocks are better, we wear UV-blocking lenses and polarized sunglasses to protect our eyes and reduce glare, and we’re more likely to seek shade, not the glaring sun. But because May is Skin Cancer Awareness Month, it’s a good time to revisit sunsafe basics.

THE AMERICAN ACADEMY OF DERMATOLOGY SAYS:

Exposure to UV light is the most preventable risk factor for all skin cancers. Stay out of indoor tanning beds, protect your skin outdoors by seeking shade, wearing protective clothing — including a long-sleeved shirt, pants, a wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses with UV protection — and applying a broad-spectrum,

water-resistant sunscreen with an SPF of 30 or higher to all skin not covered by clothes.

For more effective sun protection, wear clothes with an ultraviolet protection factor (UPF) number on the label.

Skin cancer warning signs include changes in size, shape or color of a mole or other skin lesion, the appearance of new growth on the skin, or a sore that doesn’t heal. If you notice any spots on your skin that are different from the others, or anything changing, itching or bleeding, see a board-certified dermatologist.

Regular skin self-exams are important for people who are at higher risk of skin cancer, such as those with a personal and/or family history of skin cancer. About half of melanomas are self-detected.

A dermatologist can decide how often you need a skin exam, based on individual risk factors, including skin type, history of sun exposure and family history.

CHAGRIN VALLEY DERMATOLOGY

At Chagrin Valley Dermatology, our focus is on high-quality medical and cosmetic dermatologic care for the entire family. Every patient is evaluated and treated by Dr. Wahby, a board-certified dermatologist. We will work with you to create an individualized plan to keep your skin healthy and looking its best.

Solo Agers

Sandy, 73, is divorced, has no children and is an only child. She’s a solo ager. Active since her retirement six years ago, Sandy loves her part-time job at a local florist, volunteers at church, is an avid reader and enjoys walking in her neighborhood.

Recently, she has been short of breath on her walks; even ordinary tasks make her breathless. After a few medical appointments, her doctor determined that she needs mitral valve replacement.

WHAT IF?

As Sandy prepares for surgery, including finding someone to feed her cat and keep an eye on her home, many “What If?” questions go through her mind: What if something goes wrong with the surgery? What

ALONE & PREPARED

By Jennifer Beach

if I can’t come home by myself after the surgery? What if I need someone to stay with me after the surgery? How will I ensure my bills are paid? Going through a medical event and or a multitude of situations as we age can be challenging, but solo aging is a different situation and more common than we may realize.

A growing portion of people 55 and older is composed of solos like Sandy. These are individuals who cannot or do not rely on family to help navigate life events and make health decisions. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 15.2 million Americans over 55 do not have children. Even those with biological children can end up effectively childless because of parental estrangement. (One family in eight admits there is no contact between generations.) And the older we get,

the more likely we are to have lost a partner through death or divorce, so even those who are married may age alone. If you think about it, we could all become solo agers at some point.

Typically, a spouse, family member or adult child will provide support in the following areas as we age:

• Social and emotional support

• Recognition of problems

• Medical advocacy

• Transportation

• Housing and care decisions

• Managing finances

• Coordinating care

• Personal care

• End-of-life decisions and support

Like all older adults, solo agers must prepare financially for their later years and obtain legal documents (proxy decision-maker designations), otherwise known as

A GAME PLAN FOR SOLO AGERS

• Prioritize retirement savings

• Look at all the possible housing options

• Assemble a team of professionals

— an attorney, certified financial planner, geriatrician or primary medical provider and an aging life care manager

power of attorney for both health care and financial decisions. The consequences are considerable if solos do not plan ahead and make arrangements; they could become wards of the court.

Things can change quickly in life. Some individuals can say with certainty that they will be aging alone. Others may be confident in their current support systems, only to have divorce, estrangement, illness or death change their plans. The

• Pay for services, locate community programs or make creative arrangements

• Address the realities of social isolation and cultivate ways to make and interact with friends

• Be proactive about health (physical, emotional and cognitive) and vigilant about addressing problems

• Recognize the need for and accept help — an especially difficult concept for independent people

possibility of being a solo ager can be unpleasant to think about, but failing to consider and prepare for this scenario leaves you vulnerable to unnecessary hardships and stress. Thinking, talking and taking steps now will help ensure you will not be isolated and helpless when facing the many challenges that come with aging. The best step for any of us, whether we are solo agers or simply aging, is to plan and put safeguards in place.

Jennifer Beach is an Advanced Aging Life Care Professional. She established Advocate for Elders (advocate4elders.com) in Rocky River and has 25 years of experience working with and advocating for older adults and their families.

LEGAL Attorney or Agent

WHO’S WHO IN REAL ESTATE

By Amy Turos

People can pursue many careers in real estate: agent, attorney or property manager, to name just a few.

While some jobs in the real estate arena share similar responsibilities, there are key differences, particularly between real estate attorneys and agents. If you’re selling your home or property, understanding those differences can help maximize your real estate goals.

Good real estate agents and attorneys understand Ohio real estate laws and customs, providing expert insight and advice for their clients.

Examples include:

• Knowing information about neighborhoods and surrounding areas

• Analyzing current home values

• Submitting and negotiating offers

• Helping clients identify potential defects in the property they are selling or buying

• Negotiating a price for repairs or upgrades, if needed

• Negotiating and drafting real estate transactions

A real estate attorney can perform all of the duties of a real estate agent, but in addition, an attorney brings their legal expertise to transactions. For example, a real estate attorney can: ANSWER QUESTIONS. Every real estate transaction involves many complicated legal documents that must be read and understood before clients sign the paperwork. An

attorney sorts through the legalese, explaining terms and technical language in the purchase contract, mortgage and other transaction documents.

OFFER ADVICE. An attorney is the best person to answer a legal question. For example, there's more than one way to hold title to residential real estate in Ohio.

EXPLAIN OPTIONS. Each decision clients make throughout the buying or selling process has the potential for clients to gain or lose a significant amount of money. If clients have offers from various lenders but aren’t sure which to accept, an attorney can compare them to determine which best suits a client’s needs. If clients decide against the purchase, an attorney can examine the terms under which a client's deposit is forfeited and get money back from the seller.

REVIEW PLANS. An attorney can review real estate paperwork and transactions and ensure a client’s assets transfer smoothly to a loved one after death.

Not every property sale or purchase needs a real estate attorney. But for some people in some instances, using an attorney can be crucial to a successful transaction. Consult with a real estate attorney to determine your needs.

Attorney Amy Turos represents clients in Portage, Trumbull, Geauga and Summit counties. Her website is ohiofamilyandcivillaw.com.

Boomer

THE HEIGHTS LIVING

Three cities that are age-friendly, inclusive and fun

Iolanda Ingram at her home in Cleveland Heights

Susie Zimmer and Bob Zimmer with Hank in Shaker Heights

Since the early 20th century, there has been support for aesthetics, arts and culture ranging from the Van Sweringens’ architectural standards in Shaker Heights to John D. Rockefeller’s support of Cain Park in Cleveland Heights to John Carroll University’s influence

Height Arts

COMMUNITIES OF CREATIVITY

By Margaret Briller

in University Heights. Early residents, including industrialists, whitecollar professionals and academics, were often patrons of museums, galleries and theaters in Cleveland, and this interest extended to their communities.

Lucky for us, their efforts helped create a rich artistic

heritage in the Heights, with neighborhoods like Larchmere and Coventry becoming eclectic, creative hubs. Today, the Heights are known for diverse and dynamic cultural scenes that benefit residents and visitors alike.

Within the past few decades, arts-based nonprofits like Heights

Arts and Shaker Arts

Council have cultivated the impact of art in these communities, with the Shaker Historical Society adding its Lissauer Art Gallery to highlight local talent.

The arts include performance, too. Dobama Theatre in Cleveland Heights not only hosts

playwriting workshops but also offers an eclectic mix of plays. The combination helps the theater develop both theater artists and audiences.

Here are just a few events happening in the Heights that will tap into your artistic spirit:

CARING FOR YOUR TREASURES

Shaker Historical Society welcomes ICA Art Conservation educators for a presentation and conversation on how people can best care for their historic treasures and heirlooms. Bring an item of personal interest to share the story of the object and learn about the specific care and presentation of the item. Free but registration is required. Thursday, June 8, 6:30-8 p.m., at 16740 South Park Blvd. Visit education@ shakerhistory.org or call 216-921-1201 to register.

SHAKER PUBLIC ART TOUR

To bring increased visibility to public art located in Shaker Heights, the Shaker Arts Council is sponsoring a self-guided Public Art in Shaker Tour as a way to travel, imagine and discover art. The tour was created by Shaker Heights artists as a way of bringing art into the neighborhoods by adding visual interest that all can enjoy. Feel free to bike it, drive it, or walk it.

The Blue Line Tour begins at Van Aken Blvd. and Southington Rd. The Green Line Tour starts at the historic Shaker Square area at Loganberry Books on Larchmere Blvd. Gets maps at shakerartscouncil.org.

MAKE LIKE... ALL-AGES ART KIT IN-PERSON

Ever seen a work of art and wished you could make it yourself? These craft kits will help you do just that.

The Noble Neighborhood branch of Heights Libraries is celebrating Viktor Schreckengost, industrial designer, teacher, sculptor and artist. Kits will be available starting Thursday, June 1, while supplies last. Registration is appreciated but not required. All ages are encouraged to participate. Registration opens Thursday, May 18.

UNIVERSITY HEIGHTS PHOTO SCAVENGER HUNT

Do you know University Heights? Follow the clues to visit iconic UH locations. Send a selfie (or group shot) at each location and you'll be entered into the Heights Library Adult Summer Reading Program prize drawing. You may also be showcased on its social media pages. Photos can be submitted from June 1 – Aug. 4 at heightslibrary. org/services/summerreading-photo-submission.

BIKE SHAKER

"Welcome to Shaker Heights" bike tour on Saturday, June 17, takes riders to significant sites related to Shaker Heights history. The ride is great for families, especially new residents. More information can be found at: shakerhistory.org/ bikeshaker.

Margaret Briller is a freelance writer in Northeast Ohio.

Village in the Heights

HELPING NEIGHBORS AGE IN PLACE

By Estelle Rodis-Brown

Does

it worry you to be alone?

How do I feel by the end of the day?

Are you sad because you're on your own? No, I get by with a little help from my friends

As if in response to The Beatles’ hit, “With a Little Help From My Friends,” Paul Sobel established Village in the Heights in 2018 as a grassroots membership group — a village community — where volunteer "neighbors helping neighbors" are

coordinated through a central office to help one another “live better longer at home.” Their service area is the network of neighborhoods surrounding the office at 1611 South Green Road in South Euclid, encompassing Beachwood, University Heights, South Euclid, Mayfield, Lyndhurst, Shaker Heights and Cleveland Heights. Annual membership dues are $200 per person/ $350 for

households with more than one person.

Sobel says, “If you are living by yourself and you could use a little help with day-to-day activities or are lonely, we are here for you. There’s no reason for you to suffer loneliness and isolation. Loneliness can be more harmful to you than smoking or other bad health habits.”

Village in the Heights is a diversitydriven organization that offers social engagement and programming (ranging from lunch out with friends, to public speakers, volunteer opportunities, and support for aging while LGBTQ or facing institutional racism in health care), along with practical help: a handyman for minor home repairs, tech support, a ride to an appointment or store, or help with daily chores.

Sobel says membership in Village in the Heights will help you live interdependently in your home and neighborhood where your neighbors look out for you.

Both Village in the Heights membership and its volunteer corps have been growing in recent months. To get involved in either capacity, call 216-297-3179, email info@ villageintheheights.org. or visit the website: villageintheheights.org.

BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES — SHARON FRIEDMAN

Serving the Eastern suburbs as a Realtor® with Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Professional Realty, Sharon Friedman serves clients from first-time buyers, to move-up, and seniors. Her 35 year plus career gives her an expert’s insight into the neighborhoods and market. “I pride myself on exceptional knowledge of the area,” she says. “My clients have brought me to where I am today, and I am very grateful for that.”216-338-3233, sharonfriedmanhomes.com

CAIN PARK

Discover Cain Park, located in Cleveland Heights, where the arts thrive under starry skies. Enjoy shows at our outdoor, covered Evans Amphitheater or enclosed Alma Theater and view art exhibits inside the beautiful Feinberg Art Gallery. The 2023 season includes concerts, family-friendly entertainment and more. Our awardwinning Arts Festival takes place July 7-9

and includes the work of artists from across the country, fabulous food and free concerts. You’ll find something for everyone at cainpark.com.

DOBAMA THEATRE

Now in its 63rd season, Dobama Theatre, Cleveland's OffBroadway Theatre, is dedicated to premiering important new plays by established and emerging playwrights in professional productions of the highest quality. Through theatrical production, community engagement, and educational programming, Dobama nurtures the development of theatre artists and builds new audiences for the arts while provoking an examination of our contemporary world. For information about tickets, season memberships, and educational programming, visit dobama. org or call 216-932-3396.

GOODWILL

Goodwill Industries of Greater Cleveland and East Center Ohio has been serving the local community for more than 100 years. Most

people recognize Goodwill as a thrift chain, that is only a portion of their work. Local donations to Goodwill are sold, and revenue from those sales funds 28 different outreach programs. More than 18,000 people were supported through Goodwill programs last year. In the greater Cleveland area, Goodwill has 13 stores and 3 donation centers. goodwillgoodskills.org.

SHAKER LAKES

What will you discover when you unplug and reconnect with the outdoors?

Nestled in the heart of the 300-acre Shaker Parklands on Cleveland's east side, informational signage will guide you through our trails, habitats, and exhibit area as you escape, explore and make lasting memories in all seasons. The Nature Center at Shaker Lakes is free and open to the public. Join us for a nature or environmental program, birdwatching, nature walk, hike, or an event. With over two miles of trails and connecting trails throughout the Shaker Parklands, adventure awaits. shakerlakes.org

Facing Long-Term Care or Other Challenges?

Lean on Cleveland Senior Network

Sometimes, life’s troubles pile up and become overwhelming. If you’re struggling with the physical, emotional and financial stress of needing long-term care for yourself or a loved one, you can lean on Cleveland Senior Network to help guide your way forward.

Each Cleveland Senior Network member has the professional know-how and the personal mission to Network With a Heart as we serve the community with skilled senior services. You can contact any number of professionals in the Network to build a support team that will best serve your needs.

Attorney Jim Koewler of Koewler Law Firm specializes in elder care law. He helps people who need long-term care to get that care without having to exhaust their entire life savings. He also helps those with chronic illnesses who want to delay their need for long-term care.

Further, Jim helps people with special needs and their families provide for long-term care and support. Through strategic planning and legal formalities, he helps clients qualify for Medicaid or VA benefits (or both) to pay the otherwise overwhelming costs for care. He helps disabled veterans to get disability payments from the VA’s compensation program, a great source of support for health or personal care.

He can also guide you through the asset protection and government benefit application processes, or shelter assets for those with special needs while also creating opportunities to receive government and charitable support.

Registered nurse Roberta Brofman is president and founder of Five Star Clinical Solutions. She works with elder law attorneys like Jim to coordinate “life care services” that help clients handle issues arising from health challenges. Five Star helps bridge the gap between patients, families and the health care system as patient advocates. Nurses provide a personalized assessment and plan of care that fits each patient’s health care and financial needs.

Larry Lesiak of Medicare Advocates can also help clients review all the Medicare options available and match the optimum services to your individual needs. Larry will meet with you to review coverage options, free of charge.

Check out our listing of Cleveland Senior Network sponsors and board members to see how we can best serve you, whether you need support while aging at home, want help downsizing or transitioning to senior housing, or seek advice selecting the best senior community to join. Unsure where to start? Ask us for a referral by emailing clevelandseniornetwork@gmail.com.

Whatever your challenges may be, remember to laugh along the way. Join us for a live performance of “Not a Day Over Fabulous,” a musical comedy about aging, to benefit the Alzheimer’s Association’s

The Longest Day Campaign

This original set of rib-tickling vignettes and musical spoofs set to ‘70s hits is the brainchild of playwright and director Jill Koslen-Freireich and will be performed by local actors.

Performances will be

Saturday, June 10 at 7:30 p.m. and Sunday, June 11 at 2:30 p.m. at Beachwood High School Auditorium, 25100 Fairmount Blvd. note the change in venue). Tickets can be purchased online through ClevelandSeniorNetwork.org or Eventbrite. If you cannot attend, you can donate directly at act.alz.org/goto/CLESeniorNetMusical

Cleveland Senior Network Sponsors

Electronic Caregiver: Offers Connected Care Technologies with easy-to-use tools to coordinate and improve the way we care for ourselves and others.

Melinda Smith, Connected Care Partner: 216-409-8140. msrimelda@gmail.com

Right at Home: We employ amazing caregivers & companions! Call the Plotkin Family - A Tradition of Caring.

Shalom Plotkin, Owner: 216-752-2222, shalom@ohioseniorcare.net

BOARD MEMBERS

Koewler Law Firm: Attorney Jim Koewler helps people who need long-term care, have chronic illness, or have special needs by working with their wishes and needs rather than cost-driven decisions.

Jim Koewler, Attorney: 330-659-3579, jkoewler@ProtectingSeniors.com

Five Star Clinical Solutions: As Patient Advocates, we ensure you receive the best possible medical care and services.

Robera Brofman, President/Founder: 216-513-9622, roberta@ fivestarclinical.com, fivestarclinical.com

Residence Home Care: A skilled nursing agency dedicated to providing the highest quality of care and customer service in a patient-focused environment.

Tracy Debevits, Community Liaison-East Side: 440-725-8601; Gayle Richards, Community Liaison-West Side, 216-269-9057

Benjamin Rose Institute: Mary Norris-Pack

BigHearted Blooms: Sue Buddenbaum

Care Patrol of Northeast Ohio: Tiffany Fields

Right At Home West: Donn Kramer

Solon Pointe: Jelena Kirkland

Medicare Advocates: Licensed Insurance Broker helping clients navigate the “Medicare Maze” for the best benefits and coverage for individual needs. No-cost review of coverage options provided.

Lawrence Lesiak, Licensed Insurance Broker: 330-523-7002, Larry@MedicareAdvocates.US

North Coast Residential: Advocates for seniors making a move, helping to plan your transition and the sale of your home with unsurpassed service, care and dignity. We provide free confidential consultations. Call us.

Lee-Ann Spacek, CRB, SRES, President & Broker: 216-513-6800, LSpacek@NorthCoastRelo.com

Howard Hanna Real Estate Services: Stephanie McFearin, Realtor expert for Northeast Ohio. Call, text or email anytime for info on a free market analysis or buyer consultation.

Stephanie McFearin, REALTOR®: 440-554-7712, StephanieMcFearin@HowardHanna.com

Tapestry Senior Living Wickliffe: A senior community dedicated to helping your loved ones live full and meaningful lives with Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care.

Angela Simon, Director of Sales & Marketing: 440-855-1722 (mobile), angela.simon@ tapestrysenior.com, tapestrycompanies.com

FYZICAL Therapy & Balance Centers – Mentor: Helps restore and maintain the ability to walk confidently so you can LOVE YOUR LIFE! Our physical therapists can help you get stronger, improve your balance, and help you get your confidence back.

Aaron Cook, Dr. of Physical Therapy/Clinical Director: 440-740-8877, mentor@ fyzical.com, fyzical.com/mentor-oh/

Boomer Bash West

THE DISCO WAS A BALL

We danced, we talked, we ate and we sipped. Our April 12 Boomer Bash West at LaCentre in Westlake was so much fun that we’re doing it two more times this year: in June in Willoughby Hills and in October in Aurora.

Several hundred people poured into the spacious and lively LeCentre to meet with our sponsors and more than 50 vendors, enjoy the music and food samples, and revel in Northeast Ohio Boomer magazine’s premier event that’s like no other around.

With a disco theme (and plenty of disco-style outfits to match), the Bash provided a terrific way for our readers and advertisers to mix and mingle. It was lively, it was entertaining, and it perfectly reflected the energy and interests of people 55 and older.

We hope you can join us in June. Watch our website and Facebook page for details.

THANK YOU to Our Exhibitors

Every Step Senior Movers everystepseniors.com

419.602.7578

Foundations Health Solutions foundationshealth.net

216.570.0460

Fyzical Therapy & Balance Centers of Westlake fyzical.com/westlake-oh

877.568.2188

Generations Senior Living generationshcm.com

440.238.3600

AAA East Central ace.aaa.com

216.467.8053

ACE Handyman Services Cleveland acehandymanservices.com/offices/ cleveland-west

440.925.5222

All American Gutter Protection allamericangutterprotection.com

330.268.7270

Angels Care Home Health angmarcompanies.com

440.653.8080

Apex Skin apexskin.com

833.279.SKIN

Arden Courts of Westlake arden-courts.org/westlake

440.808.9275

Assisted Living Locators assistedlivinglocators.com/ cleveland-east

330.348.0957

Avenue at North Ridgeville avenueatnorthridgeville.com

440.412.7100

Benjamin Rose Institute on Aging benrose.org

216.791.8000

Better Business Bureau

BBB.org

216.241.7678

CapTel Outreach oeius.org

877.473.0005

Center for Aging in the Digital World empowerseniors.org

440.787.2020

ClearCaptions clearcaptions.com

614.601.8994

Cleveland Senior Network clevelandseniornetwork.org

216.409.8140

CommuniCare Advantage communicare-advantage.com

855.969.5869

Concord ReserveA Life Enriching Community lec.org/communities/ concord-reserve

440.871.0090

Copeland Oaks copelandoaks.com

330.938.6126

Dedicated Senior Medical Center dedicated.care

216.296.9463

Greater Cleveland Volunteers greaterclevelandvolunteers.org

216.391.9500 ext.2116

Health Insurance or Seniors, LLC medicarewithmichelle.com

216.387.3293

HealthMarkets healthmarkets.com/mfelice

440.378.4210

Hearing Science hearsci.com

440.438.3401

Insight Clinical Trials LLC insightclinicaltrials.com

216.526.1843

It’s Just Lunch Cleveland itsjustlunchcleveland.com

216.328.9000

JKM Insurance Group jkminsurance.com

440.221.8399

Joseph L. Motta Co., LPA josephlmotta.com

440.930.2826

Justin M. Brenis, NYLIFE Securities LLC newyorklife.com/agent/jmbrenis

216.469.9317

Kabb Law Firm kabblaw.com

216.991.5222

Keller Williams CitywideEd Huck Team edhuckteam.com

440.617.2500

Keller Williams ElevatePamela Holley and Cindy Otonoga seniorrealestateagents.com

440.552.7842

Keller Williams ElevateRhonda Buynak

440.376.3623

Kemper Cognitive Wellness kemperwellness.com

216.337.1400

Leaf Guard leafguard.com

856.600.7906

Leaf Home Water Solutions leafhomewatersolutions.com

888.701.5497

LeafFilter leaffilter.com

800.290.6106

Legacy Health Services - Franklin/ Hillside/Cedarwood Plaza lhshealth.com

216.990.0174

Long Term Care Ombudsman ltco.org

800.365.3112

Marcum Wealth marcumwealth.com

866.605.1901

Mobility Plus Northfield mobilityplus.com/northfieldoh

330.748.0675

My Medicare Network mymedicarenetwork.com

440.793.7745

Neighborhood Alliance myneighborhoodalliance.org

440.233.8768

Northeast Ohio Adoption Services noas.com

330.856.5582

Oak St. Health oakstreethealth.com

888.387.9002

OndeCare ondecare.com

234.567.8911

Paramount Chiropractic paramountfamilychiro.com

440.385.7726

QC Kinetix of Cleveland qckinetix.com

216.510.9048

Sanctuary Hospice sanctuaryhospiceoh.com

216.520.4080

SCORE Cleveland SCORE.org

216.503.8160

Select Specialty Hospitals selectspecialtyhospitals.com

215.983.8030

Southwest CLE Business Group facebook.com/groups/swbizgroup

440.249.6211

Sprenger Healthcare Systems sprengerhealthcare.com

800.772.1116

St. Mary of the Woods atriumlivingcenters.com/ community/ohio/st-mary-of-thewoods.aspx

440.937.3111

The Ganzhorn Suites Specialized Memory Care ganzhorn.com

440.294.1500

The Gathering Place touchedbycancer.org

216.595.9546

The Health Plan healthplan.org

330.834.2328

TheKey thekey.com

440.332.0170

The Renaissance Retirement Campus elizajennings.org

440.235.7100

UnitedHealthcare Medicare Solutions myuhcagent.com/charles.jennings

216.470.7849

Unity Catholic Federal Credit Union unitycatholiccu.org

888.815.6571

Wellcare wellcare.com

502.542.1043

Westwood Place Senior Apartments ownerslive.com/apartments/ ohio/strongsville/ westwood-place-senior-apartments

440.588.3448

A Special THANK YOU to the following Westlake restaurants who provided delicious food samples!

Aladdin’s Eatery - Crocker Park aladdins.com

151 Crocker Park Blvd.

Bahia Bowls - Crocker Park bahiabowls.com

225 Main St.

Bonefish Grill - Crocker Park bonefishgrill.com

1900 Crocker Rd.

Hot Chicken TakeoverCrocker Park hotchickentakeover.com

242 Main St.

Houlihan’s houlihans.com/Westlake

25651 Detroit Rd.

Hospice of the Western Reserve Comfort & Hope for Patients and their Families

With President Jimmy Carter announcing his decision to enter hospice care, hospice has found its way into the current public discourse. Hospice is a relatively new discipline in the health care field, only having been in the United States since the 1970s. Its recent arrival, combined with a focus on end-of-life care, has created a significant stigma towards the word “hospice.” President Carter’s announcement has provided space for health-care professionals to further discuss the definition of hospice and its transformative effect on a patient’s end-of-life journey.

HOLISTIC SUPPORT

Hospice focuses on comfort for patients nearing the end of their lives, alleviating pain and physical symptoms rather than curing them through further diagnostics and procedures. Hospice also provides holistic support to both the patient and the family, including their spiritual and emotional needs. To qualify for

hospice care, patients must have a life expectancy of six months or less, though they can continue to receive care if they live longer.

Hospice of the Western Reserve has provided quality hospice care to Northern Ohio residents for over 40 years. Our mission is to foster choice in end-of-life care, so we provide our services in many settings. This can include one of our inpatient units, a skilled nursing or assisted living facility, or even the comfort of a patient’s home, which was President Carter’s choice in his home state of Georgia.

There are thousands of hospice agencies throughout the United States. It can be overwhelming to choose where to begin. We suggest evaluating the enrichment programs of the agency, including art and music therapy, as well as the comprehensive grief services for families and loved ones. Staff who are certified in their specialty also make a tremendous difference in the quality of care provided. Each hospice agency covered by Medicare has its quality scores available at medicare.gov.

Most hospice patients are Medicare/ Medicaid-eligible and have their services fully covered. Commercial insurers often have hospice benefits available in their plans. For those with limited or no coverage, it is important to select a hospice agency willing to

sit and talk through available options. Hospice of the Western Reserve has a Financial Resource Advocate who provides this information to families across Northern Ohio.

A common misconception of hospice is that it means “giving up” or that the care involved hastens death. Hospice only hastens comfort, and many families who have walked with Hospice of the Western Reserve wish that they started their journey with the agency sooner.

Hospice doesn’t mean “giving up.” Hospice gives hope. Hospice gives hope to those who are grieving. Hospice gives hope to families who want to spend quality time with their loved ones, free from pain and suffering. Hospice means giving hope to patients seeking peace in their end-of-life journey.

Death is part of life. Millions of friends, neighbors and coworkers have experienced hospice. When starting on this path, seek out those who have traveled here before. These intimate and educational conversations, as well as the public ones that President Carter has helped to start, can help end the stigma of hospice and open the possibilities of care for our loved ones.

Hospice of the Western Reserve is the premiere hospice and palliative care provider for 14 counties in Northern Ohio. For more information, visit hospicewr.org or call 216-383-2222.

JOIN US FOR 2 MORE BOOMER BASHES THIS YEAR!

Boomer Bash East

June 29, 2023

La Vera I Willoughby Hills

Bringing back 1960s beach fun from the dreamy era of Annette Funicello!

HearingLife

HearingLife is part of the Demant Group, a world-leading hearing health care group built on a heritage of compassion and innovation since 1904. Demant was founded by a husband who was determined to help his wife lead a better life. Camilla Demant had hearing loss, which Hans Demant wanted to improve. But he just didn’t care about her hearing,

he cared about her as a unique individual.

Our purpose is to provide lifechanging hearing health delivered with the best-personalized care. HearingLife operates nearly 700 hearing care centers across 42 states. We follow a scientific, results-oriented approach to hearing health care that is delivered by highly skilled and caring professionals. The care that customers receive is world-class

and second to none. At HearingLife, we know that helping people to hear and enjoy full, meaningful lives is of the utmost importance.

Most HearingLife offices offer complimentary hearing assessments and demonstrations of the latest technology. This is in addition to risk-free trials, cleaning and checking of your hearing devices, fittings, adjustments and more.

We also provide virtual expert hearing care resources, free to everyone in the U.S. These OnDemand services are provided by our knowledgeable hearing care specialists and can help you with any of your hearing loss, prescription hearing aid and overthe-counter hearing aid questions or treatment options. OnDemand Support is available weekdays from 8:30 a.m. -10 p.m. EDT and weekends from 9:30 a.m-.3 p.m. EDT by calling 888-277-3802.

Locate a HearingLife location at hearinglife.com/ hearing-aids-centers.

Humana

Humana Inc. (NYSE: HUM) is committed to helping millions of our medical and specialty members achieve their best health. Our successful history in care delivery and health plan administration is helping us create a new kind of integrated care with the power to improve health and well-being, and lower costs. Our efforts are leading to a better quality of life for people with Medicare as well as families, individuals, military service personnel

and communities at large. We support physicians and other health care professionals as they work to deliver the right care in the right place for their patients and our members. Our range of clinical capabilities, resources and

tools such as in-home care, behavioral health, pharmacy services, data analytics and wellness solutions combine to produce a simplified experience that makes health care easier to navigate and more effective.

O’Neill Healthcare

In 2023, O’Neill Healthcare celebrates its 60th Anniversary on Cleveland’s West Side, where compassionate care is a family tradition.

Since 1962, the John O’Neill Family has built a solid reputation for providing comprehensive senior health care in a positive environment. O’Neill Healthcare is committed to providing the finest health care services at its six communities — Bay Village, Fairview Park, Lakewood, Middleburg Heights, North Olmsted and North Ridgeville — maintaining a sincere, respectful concern for each resident and family, and providing seniors with diverse, personalized, quality care.

With its mission to provide the highest quality of life to each resident, its holistic approach involves family

and community. O’Neill offers Skilled Nursing, Assisted Living, Independent Living, Memory Care, Hospice Care, Dialysis, Rehabilitative Therapies, Cardiac Rehabilitation Programs and Stroke Rehabilitation programs.

O’Neill Healthcare communities continually earn prestigious 5-Star Ratings from Centers for Medicaid Services. O’Neill Healthcare North Ridgeville is also a 2023 Best Nursing Home by Newsweek and Statista, among only 15 facilities in Ohio to earn

this award. O’Neill Healthcare offers assisted and independent living in Bay Village, Lakewood, North Olmsted and North Ridgeville. Assisted living residents enjoy the privacy of their apartment with 24/7 care according to an individualized plan. Activities staff arrange daily activities and social outings in the community.

Call or text for a private tour: 216-386-6687.

SPRY SENIOR

Spry Senior provides holistic primary care focused on prevention, as well as the management of chronic and complex medical conditions for patients 58 and older. The dedicated team of exceptional providers offers extended appointment times and frequently connects with patients through in-person and virtual visits. This keeps us connected to our patients and responsive to changes in their health while keeping them engaged in their care.

Spry Senior is centered on the belief that your best life starts with a connection to health care, wellness and community, and brings all three aspects together under one service.

Each patient has a dedicated primary care provider, along with the conveniences of an onsite lab, door-to-doctor transportation for those who need it, and same-day appointment access. Because Spry Senior believes in promoting a socially active and healthy lifestyle and a strong connection to friends and neighbors, we offer on-site community activities and education at our larger centers.

Our hours are Monday – Friday from 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Spry Senior accepts all major insurance plans. To schedule an appointment, call 440-5926200 or sign in to MyChart at mychart.sprysenior. com to book online.

To learn more, stop in for a tour at any location and visit us at sprysenior.com to check out our latest community events calendar.

Let’s SPRY Together.

THE NORMANDY

The Normandy is a Senior Living Campus that combines topnotch amenities and a connected community lifestyle to provide a continuum of care for every stage of senior life. We offer three specialized facilities on one convenient campus. Family-owned and operated for almost 35 years, we take pride in our caring staff, diverse amenities and thoughtful support services. Our beautiful and calming campus stretches over 30 acres along the shores of Lake Erie in Rocky River.

The Normandy Senior Living offers a continuum of care for residents to age in place. Our campus services range from independent living to skilled

nursing care.

Breakwater Independent Living Apartments — This option eliminates home maintenance, transportation and cooking concerns while placing a premium on unique and relevant social activities that build community. We have newly renovated, spacious, modern apartments with one-, two- and three-bedroom accommodations.

Lakeside Assisted Living — Residents live independently with easy access to daily care and

assistance under the supervision of a medical director and a team of qualified nurses. Perks include medication management, assistance with dressing and bathing, and continence care. Lakeside also includes dedicated memory care at Edie’s Place, featuring 40 unique suites designed to support those coping with Alzheimer’s or dementia.

The Normandy Care Center — A leading rehabilitation and skilled nursing facility, we focus on supporting cognitive, emotional, physical and social needs. Our Care Center houses 150 beds, is licensed for skilled nursing, rehabilitation, and memory care, and is under the supervision of a medical director. We offer compassionate nursing home living and ‘round-the-clock medical and personal care services. Schedule a tour by calling 440333-5401 ext. 3. Learn more about our campus at thenormandy.com.

4415 Euclid Ave

Suite #200 Cleveland, OH 44103 216-391-9500

GREATER CLEVELAND VOLUNTEERS

Connecting You with Opportunities to Serve

Now in its 50th year, Greater Cleveland Volunteers recruits volunteers age 18+ to serve at numerous nonprofit organizations in Cuyahoga County. The organization assists people in finding the right opportunity to serve based on their interests, skills and availability.

Greaterclevelandvolunteers.org

MATURE LIVING SHOWCASE

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Just because you’re growing older doesn’t mean your green thumb has to go away. Retirement is a wonderful time to garden, experiment with plants, and reap the benefits that come from being outdoors.

Connecting with nature brings a sense of tranquility while providing a boost of vitamin D and fresh air. And while you may not be training for a marathon, gardening is sure to get your blood pumping and joints moving. Want an enjoyable hobby that promotes wellness?

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before starting your daily gardening. Anything that could cause a fall should be stored safely out of the way. Always carry a cell phone with you, as well. If you have an emergency, you’ll be grateful you have it to call for help. Before you head out, check the weather and dress accordingly. If there’s a chill in the air, throw on an extra layer, and if it’s rather warm, wear linen to avoid overheating. Use these simple suggestions to keep yourself thriving and your green thumb growing. Say goodbye to the pesky parts of landscaping and spend time enjoying your hobbies when you choose senior living at Concord Reserve. Schedule a tour today.

ZOOMING Over and Out!

Presented by McGregor

Are you experiencing Zoom fatigue?

80 million meetings per day. That’s an estimate of how many meetings are being held in the United States alone.

On average, meetings within companies and organizations went from seven per month before the pandemic to 12 during the pandemic.

Are we having too many meetings?

Maybe, especially when there’s no clear agenda or people don’t stick to it. Are the topics content-worthy?

Estimates show that about 70% of meetings keep employees from working and completing all their tasks. Ineffective meetings that waste our time can negatively impact our psychological, physical and mental well-being.

On average, meetings take up nearly half of our work week. According to Microsoft, since the pandemic began, the number of meetings has jumped 153%.

Some surveys show that employee productivity was 71% higher when meetings were reduced by 40%, making employees feel more empowered and autonomous. They owned their to-do lists and held themselves accountable, which consequently increased their satisfaction by 52%. The question becomes, does everyone need to be involved in the meeting?

A company we all know, Shopify, put a moratorium on meetings that included more than two people, giving back their time. “Companies are for builders, not managers.”

Meetings should focus on three things: clients, expectations and productivity levels:

To review work that’s occurred (what worked or didn’t and why)

To clarify and validate something (policies, team goals, etc.)

To distribute work appropriately among your team members

Being judicious about which meetings add value and which don’t will help free up people’s calendars. Note to self: Strategy garners loyalty towards managers.

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meetings fit into that, and where meetings do and don’t add value, you’ll minimize the need for useless meetings.

On the bright side, the senior services industry saw that virtual meetings among families scattered throughout the country added significant value and encouraged the family unit to foster collaboration for everyone.

What’s Happening

Sundays Mentor Marsh Family Hike

Come explore the forest. 2-3:30 p.m. Cleveland Museum of Natural History, The Carol H. Sweet Nature Center, 5185 Corduroy Road, Mentor, cmnh.org

CLASSES

TUESDAYS

Wheel Throwing. Learn everything from throwing to attachments and everything in between. 6/27, 7/5 and 7/11. 4 or 6 p.m. Busy Bees Pottery & Arts Studio, 7850 Mentor Ave., Mentor, mentor. busybeesart.com. $179

WEDNESDAYS

Drawing Media. Learn the basics of working with graphite, colored pencil, and

pen and ink. 6/14-28. 6:30-8 p.m. Fairmount Center for the Arts, 8400 Fairmount Road, Novelty, fairmountcenter.org

$52

SATURDAYS

Abstraction. An experience in understanding what abstraction is and how to make it happen in a variety of mediums. 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Beginning any Saturday for 6 weeks. The Peninsula Art Academy, 1600 Mill St. W., peninsulaartacademy.com

$185

SUNDAYS

Yoga on the West Terrace. Yoga class on the last Sunday of each month where you can unwind and stroll the gardens afterwards. 10:3011:30 a.m. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, stanhywet.org. $12-16

5/31

Create an Edible Garden. Learn how to create an edible garden. 10 a.m. South Lorain Branch Library,

2121 Homewood Drive, lorainpubliclibrary.org

FREE

6/1

Intergenerational PuppetBuilding and Playwriting. Join a fun group of seniors (ages 55+) and children to create puppets, write a play and perform for an audience. 4-5:30 p.m. Shaker Heights Public Library, 16500 Van Aken Blvd., shakerlibrary.org

FREE

WHAT´S HAPPENING

6/5-7

Power Boating Basics. Learn launching and loading and other skills for operating and owning a power boat. 6-9 p.m. Genever State Park Boat Launch, 4499 Padanarum Road, ohiodnr.gov. FREE

6/9

Date Night: Honey with your Honey Learn all things honeybees and hives in a bee-free classroom. Decorate a honey jar, then suit up to see the bees at work. Quail Hollow Nature Center, 13480 Congress Lake Ave., Hartville, starkparks.com. $10-15

6/10

Herbs, Etc. Tour herb gardens and find out how to grow your own herbs and plant a mini-garden to take home. 10 a.m.-noon. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com. $22

6/22

Senior Craft Hour. Use your imagination to transform the ordinary into the extraordinary. 2 p.m. Euclid Public Library, 631 E. 222nd St., euclidlibrary.org. FREE

7/10-11

Bass Boot Camp. Intensive twoday workshop for electric bass and double bass. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. The Music Settlement, 2610 Detroit Ave., Ohio City, themusicsettlement.org. $180

CLUBS

MONDAYS

Delicious Discussions. Join on the 4th Monday at downtown Willoughby establishments to discuss new releases. 7-8 p.m. Willoughby Public Library, we247.org. FREE

Tremont Think & Drink Book Club. Enjoy an engaging book discussion while enjoying your favorite beverage. 6/12, 7/10 & 8/14. Lincoln Park Pub, 2609 W. 14th St., Cleveland, cpl.org FREE

TUESDAYS

Bookin’ and Cookin’. Grab a bite to read and join this cookbook club. 6/13, 7/11 and 8/8. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org. FREE

Memory Cafe. Relaxing and comfortable gathering for those in the early stages of memory loss and their caregivers. 1-2 p.m. Various Akron Library Branches, akronlibrary.org. FREE

WEDNESDAYS

Adult Art Club. Join a group of art enthusiasts and creators to share ideas and show off your works. Meets once a month. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Twinsburg Public Library, 10050 Ravenna Road, twinsburglibrary.org. FREE

Castaways. Meet with fellow fiber artists to work on projects, get ideas and learn from each other while you work.

Second Wednesday of every month. 10:30 a.m. Mentor-onthe-Lake Branch Library, 5642 Andrews Road, mentorpl.org

FREE

Erie Shores Photography

Club. Meets on the first and third Wednesday of each month. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org

SATURDAYS

Woodcarvers Club. Meets on the second and fourth Saturdays each month. 9:30 a.m.-noon. The Wilderness Center, 9877 Alabama Ave. SW, Wilmot, wildernesscenter.org

Board Game Club. Drop in on the first Sunday of each month to play board games with other adult enthusiasts. 1:30-3:30 p.m. Kent Free Library, 312 W. Main St., kentfreelibrary.org. FREE

MUSIC, THEATER & ARTS

WEDNESDAYS

Lakewood Front Porch Concert Series. Free, live music in a welcoming environment. 7 p.m. Lakewood Public Library, lakewoodalive.org

WEDNESDAY-SUNDAY

Featured Musicians at the Still House. Wednesday, Thursday & Sunday 7-10 p.m., Friday and Saturday 8-11 p.m. Gervasi Vineyard, 1700 55th St. NE, Canton, gervasivineyard.com. FREE

FRIDAYS

Third Fridays at 78th Street Studios. Join the creative businesses as they open their doors for you to explore the arts complex every third Friday. 5-9 p.m. 1300 W. 78th St., Cleveland, 78thstreetstudios.com. FREE

FRIDAYS & SATURDAYS

Summer Music Nights. Funkology, Jump the Gun, Monica Robins, Backtraxx and more. 7-9 p.m. 7/-8/25. First & Main Green, Hudson, firstandmainhudson.com

FREE

5/31

Ellie Martin Album Release Tour. Toledo-based vocalist and educator Ellie Martin makes her debut as she celebrates the release of her new album Verdant 7-8:30 p.m. BOP STOP, The Music Settlement, 2920 Detroit Ave., Cleveland, themusicsettlement.org

$15-20

6/7-7/2

Moulin Rouge! The Musical. Enter a world of splendor and romance, of eye-popping excess, of glitz, grandeur, and glory! State Theatre at Playhouse Square, 1519 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, playhousesquare.org. $39-129

6/11

ABBA Brunch with Super Troupers. Mamma Mia, what a brunch. Noon. Music Box Supper Club, 1148 Main Ave., Cleveland, musicboxcle.com $20

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WHAT´S HAPPENING

6/15-7/9

Ragtime The Musical. History’s timeless contradictions of wealth and poverty, freedom and prejudice, hope and despair, and what it means to truly live in America. Weathervane Playhouse, 1301 Weathervane Lane, Akron, weathervaneplayhouse.com. $16-39

7/2

Live Music: The Boomers at the Blind Squirrel Winery. 5-7 p.m. 7918 Pettibone Road, Chagrin Falls, blindsquirrelwinery. com. FREE

7/9

Something DADA. Live, improvised comedy show based on audience suggestions. 7:30 p.m. French Creek Theatre, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Village, loraincountymetroparks.com. $15

7/7-8/6

Once On This Island. A wise peasant girl on a tropical island uses the power of love and the beauty of acceptance to bring together very different people. Beck Center for the Arts, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, beckcenter.org. $34-38

7/16

She’s Got Soul at Blossom Music Center. A wide ranging revue of R & B classics with Capathia Jenkins. 7 p.m. 1145 W. Steels Corners Road, Cuyahoga Falls, clevelandorchestra.com. $25-99

OUTDOORS

TUESDAYS

Geauga Walkers. Join other active seniors on the second and fourth Tuesdays of the month for hikes. 1-2:30 p.m. geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE

Hiking Seniority. Folks aged 55 and older meet year-round every Tuesday at nearby parks for nature appreciation, exercise and camaraderie. 10 a.m.noon. lakemetroparks.com. FREE

WEDNESDAYS

Wednesday Walkers. Join this ambitious group of walkers in staying active and healthy on North Olmsted Parks’s walking path. Call to register 440-777-8100. 28114 Lorain Road, north-olmsted.com/senior-center FREE

THURSDAYS & SUNDAYS

Garden Tram Rides. Hop on board to tour the Schoepfle Garden. Thursday 10 a.m-1 p.m. Sundays 1-4 p.m. 11106 Market St., Birmingham, loraincountymetroparks.com. FREE

ONGOING

Murch Canopy Walk and Kalberer Emergent Tower. A 500-foot-long elevated walkway that’s 65 feet above the forest floor and a tower 12 stories tall provide a breathtaking view. Holden Arboretum, 9500 Sperry Road, Kirtland, holdenarb.org

DAY-BY-DAY

5/21

Recenter & Reset Hike. Watch Spring come to life while trekking the beautiful trails of Shaker Parklands and surrounding neighborhood. 6-7 p.m. 2600 S. Park Blvd., shakerlakes.org FREE

6/9

Senior Saunter. Join this leisurely stroll as you enjoy nature as summer approaches. Noon-1:30. Liberty Park

Nature Center, 9999 Liberty Road, Twinsburg, summitmetroparks.org FREE

6/16

Elevation. Summer celebration with hiking, trail mix bar, dinner buffet, music, dancing and campfire. 6:3011 p.m. Indigo Lake with parking at Howe Meadow, 4040 Riverview Road, Peninsula, forcvnp.org/elevation. $95125

6/20

Civil War Walking Tour. Learn about the places and people of Hudson who played a role in our nation’s Civil War. 10 a.m. Hudson Library, 96 Library St., hudsonlibrary.org. FREE

7/8

Headwaters Adventure Race. Run 2 miles, pedal 10 miles and paddle 5 miles. Buckert Park, 4808 East High St., Mantua, portageparkdistrict.org. $50

7/16

Whiskey Island 5K. Enjoy this timed run/walk while checking out the newest trails including Whiskey Island Trail and Wendy Park Bridge. 8:30 a.m. Lakefront Reservation, Edgewater Park, clevelandmetroparks.com. $30-35

SPECIAL EVENTS

5/20-21

Horsefest. Be transported to a time when horses were vital to transportation and working. 9 a.m.5 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com

WHAT´S HAPPENING

5/26-29

Berea Rib Cook-Off. A familyfriendly environment with a picnicstyle atmosphere. Cuyahoga County Fairgrounds,164 Eastland Road, Berea, berearib.com. $10

5/27 & 5/29

Memorial Day at Hartville Marketplace & Flea Market. Visit more than 1,000 indoor and outdoor vendors. 1289 Edison St. NW, Hartville, hartvillemarketplace.com

5/27-29

Free Passenger Fare for Active Military and American Veterans. Receive free passenger fare aboard Miller Ferry to Put-inBay or Middle Bass Island. millerferry.com

5/29

Memorial Day Parade, Ceremony & Car Show. Parade at 10 a.m. from Green High School. Ceremony is at 12 p.m. at Green Veterans Memorial Park. Picnic and Car Show begins at 12:30 p.m. at John Torok Community Center. cityofgreen.org

6/8-10

Coshocton Hot Air Balloon Festival. Kiddie rides, entertainment balloon launches and more. 707 Kenilworth Ave., Coshocton, coshoctonhotairballoonfestival.com

6/10

BAYarts Art & Music Festival. Over 75 local vendors: art, locally grown food, live music, food trucks, kid-friendly projects. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. 28795 Lake Road, Bay Village, bayarts.net

6/11

Neighborhood Block Party. Safety seminars, vendors and exhibitors, giveaways, K-9 demonstrations and much more. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Crocker Park, Westlake, crockerpark.com/blockparty. FREE

6/15

June in Bloom Garden Tour & Luncheon. A tour of five inspirational gardens, luncheon and shopping at artisan boutiques. 9:30 a.m.-3 p.m. Woodside Event Center, 5025 E. Mill Road, Broadview Hts., june-in-bloomevent.cheddarup.com. $30-60

6/17

Strawberry Festival. U-pick strawberries, food trucks, pony rides, face painting, music and more. 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Bauman Orchards, 161 Rittman Ave., Rittman, baumanorchards.com

6/29

Boomer Bash East: Beach Blanket. Music of the 1960’s, sketch artist, glam photo opportunities, raffle prizes, small bites and more. 4-6 p.m. Lavera, 32200 Chardon Road, Willoughby Hills, northeastohioboomer.com. $10-15

7/8

Tequila ‘N Tigers. Margarita tastings, keeper talk, animal enrichment, tiger training, music and more. 6-9:30 p.m. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., akronzoo. org. $30-35

TALKS

TUESDAYS

Lunchtime Lecture at The Cleveland Museum of Art. First Tuesday of the month, join curators, scholars, and other museum staff for a talk on objects currently on display. Noon. 11150 East Blvd., clevelandart.org FREE

6/1

Good Garden Talk. Learn weed management and property water techniques for your vegetable garden. 6-7:30 p.m. Summit Lake Nature Center, 411 Ira Ave., Akron, summitmetroparks.org. FREE

Rain Gardens for Your Home. Discover the benefits of installing a home rain garden. 7-8 p.m. Coventry Village Branch Library, 1925 Coventry Road, Cleveland Hts., heightslibrary. org. FREE

6/3

Plan Your Paddle: Virtual Ranger Talk. Are you ready to paddle the Cuyahoga River? Every trip starts with a plan. Learn to safely navigate the river. 10 a.m. Cuyahoga Valley National park, nps.gov/cuva/index.htm. FREE

6/15

Enhancing Quality of Life

After Stroke. Learn strategies for communication, ways to support activity engagement and potential safety concerns. 7-8 p.m. Independence Branch Library, 6361 Selig Dr., cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE

6/17

The Higher you Climb, the Broader the View. Join Deseree Perry, who will share her mother’s memoir, author Deseree Mitchell-Liddell. 2-3 p.m. Buckeye Library, 6625 Wolff Road, Medina, mcdl.info. FREE

6/19

Author Talk. Hear from Dr. Sylvia Mustonen, D.O. about her new book NEW MEDICINE FOR A NEW MILLENNIUM. 7-8 p.m. Bainbridge Library, 17222 Snyder Road, Chagrin Falls, divi.geaugalibrary.net. FREE

6/22

Open Heart. Meet Dr. Akil Taher, the author of “Open Heart: The Transformational Journey of a Doctor Who, After Bypass Surgery at 61, Ran Marathons and Climbed Mountains.” 5:30-6:30 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, westlakelibrary.org. FREE

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Bye, Bye Busyness

By Kathryn Kilpatrick

Just because computers multitask 24 hours a day doesn’t mean it’s a healthy habit for us. One of the problems with multitasking is, while other thoughts are swirling through your mind, it can be hard to switch gears and concentrate on what you need to do.

Try to make an effort to do one thing at a time, even just for one day. Be totally

present in the moment. When eating, just eat; when reading, just read. Don’t allow background distractions to intrude. Appreciate the experience.

Are you able to stay on a task until it’s done, or are you easily sidetracked? Two things to try: Reduce distractions and break the task into smaller time frames that are compatible with your attention span.

“Desire to have things done quickly prevents their being done thoroughly.” — Confucius

TAKEAWAY Make a Word in a Word

By Kathryn Kilpatrick

Here’s a good exercise: Remove one letter from each word to form a new word. Seems easy, right? Maybe, maybe not.

Example: Window = Widow

Through _ _ _ _ _ _

Country

Sweater

Dessert

Short

Forge

Ground _ _ _ _ _

Mourning _ _ _ _ _ _ _

Three _ _ _ _

Smile _ _ _ _

Pleasant _ _ _ _ _ _ _

Quartz _ _ _ _ _

Restrain

Smoother

Complaint

Estate

Splice

Crouch _ _ _ _ _

Flight _ _ _ _ _

Answers: Through = Though, Country = County, Sweater = Sweaty, Dessert = Desert, Short = Sort, Forge = Fore, Ground = Round, Mourning = Morning, Three = Tree, Smile = Mile, Pleasant = Peasant, Quartz = Quart, Restrain = Retrain, Smoother = Soother, Complaint = Complain, Estate = State, Splice = Slice , Crouch = Couch, Flight = Light

For memory tips and brain health advice, visit Kathryn Kilpatrick’s blog at northeastohioboomer.com.

I Beg to Differ

COOLNESS & WHAT DID I JUST SEE ON TV?

By Mike Olszewski

For some odd reason, I’ve been seeing a lot of online articles with headlines like, “Things Boomers Say That Drive Millennials Crazy!”, “Things You Won’t Believe Baby Boomers Still Do” and “Stuff that Boomers Still Think are Cool.”

These are likely written by Generation X, Y or Z folks who moved back with their parents because they blew their money on tickets to see an act that we saw in a club for two bucks when they could still sing. The last time I checked, there were over 65 million Boomers, which is a pretty good chunk of the population. And we’ve managed to enlighten and entertain ourselves pretty well without giving up things our younger friends don’t understand.

I’d rather get breaking updates from a 24-hour news network

than social media (which is the #1 source of information for certain demographics). I know what I’m getting from an occasional visit to a favorite chain restaurant rather than a pop-up that could close next week. I know you’re a lot healthier playing racquetball than a video game. And I’d rather watch a movie on a big screen than on my smartphone. Plus, in the long run, it’s easier for a doctor to treat a sore neck from looking up at a screen than having to use a crowbar to pry a phone out of someone’s hand.

SPEAKING OF SCREENS

I was dialing around one morning and came across the show “2 Broke Girls.” Funny stuff, but definitely “Adults Only.” All of a sudden, video games seem like an attractive and

safer option. This stuff wouldn’t have made it on the air when we were younger but look at reruns of “All in the Family,” “Sanford and Son” and early “Saturday Night Live” episodes. Broadcast networks would pay serious fines if they used some of that language today.

While I’m on the topic of old TV shows, the birth name of Redd Foxx, the star of “Sanford and Son,” really was Sanford and his dad’s name was Fred. The show was based on a longtime BBC comedy called “Steptoe and Son.” Like the American version, it focused on a father-son duo who were in the “rag and bone” business and the dad was constantly being labeled a “dirty, dirty old man” by his kid.

The father was played by Wilfrid Brambell, who at the same time was in The Beatles film, “A Hard Day’s Night,” as Paul McCartney’s uncle. At one point in the film, you’ll recall John Lennon speaking to Brambell and then looking at the audience and stating with a wink, “He’s very clean,” an in-joke for British telly fans.

Both “Sanford” and “All in the Family” (based on the BBC’s “Til Death Do Us Part”) were adapted for American TV by Norman Lear, who made it a point to hire guys well past their prime. Without Lear, who is still around, people like jazz great Billy Eckstine, former Bowery Boys Billy Hallop and Gabe Dell, former Little Rascal Stymie Beard and others would have faded from memory.

Mike Olszewski is a veteran award-winning radio, TV and print journalist, and a college instructor. Contact him at janmike1978@gmail.com

Last issue, I asked about Tribe pitcher Mel Harder’s two memorable pitches. When Municipal Stadium opened in 1932, Harder was the starter and tossed the first pitch. When the Indians held their last game there in 1993, they brought Harder out after the final ceremonies to toss the very last pitch.

For next time: “Sanford and Son” had a Cleveland connection. What was it?

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Sanford and Son

The birth name of Redd Foxx, the star of “Sanford and Son,” really was Sanford and his dad’s name was Fred.