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The Upshift-The Path to Evolution on Earth: Ervin Laslo Interview
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5 Tips for Improving your Yoga Practice in the Wintertime
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Devotional Practices Worldwide and Japamala
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5 Ways To Find Your Soul Peeps
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Our Lives, and How To Live Them
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5 Surefire Signs You are Facing an Existential Crisis
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My First Mind Science Journal and Workbook
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Feng Shui: Reenergize Your Home in Wintertime
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Reincarnation of Animals
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Puzzling Paradoxes
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OMTIMES.COM January 2022
Starting Anew OMTimes January 2 2023 Edition spotlights the Polymath Ervin László, a Hungarian philosopher of science, systems theorist, integral theorist, and originally a classical pianist. He is an advocate of the theory of quantum consciousness, and a believer in Human Potential. In an exclusive interview with Sandra Sedgbeer, Ervin László discussed the last book "THE UPSHIFT: The Path to Healing and Evolution on Planet Earth, a groundbreaking work on bringing to light a new way to see our Evolutionary Journey
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ERVIN LÁSZLÓ:
The Upshift-The Path to Evolution on Earth
An Interview with Sandie Sedgbeer
THE UPSHIFT
Climate Change, the Pandemic, the Refugee Emergency, Poverty, conflict, and Violence. It's hard to imagine that there could be a positive side to these converging global crises. Still, according to this week's guest, they do have an unsuspected silver lining. They bring us to a tipping point where we can choose our destiny. With me, today to outline the nature of this crucial point and share what each of us as conscious and responsible human beings can and must do to choose the right way forward is a world-renowned Hungarian philosopher of science systems theorist and integral theorist Ervin László.
A former professor of philosophy systems science and future studies at various universities in the US, Europe, and the Far East. Nobel Peace Prize nominee. Ervin László is the author, co-author, and editor of 106 books and over 400 articles and research papers. Ervin László joins us now to talk about his latest book, The Upshift: The Path to Healing and Evolution on Planet Earth, which not only lays out a pathway to healing and evolution on planet Earth but also offers us a detailed guide to becoming the change we need to see in the world.
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If a little more of the crisis deepens, it will spread as it will probably in the next week. The motivation will grow until it becomes very evident to policymakers, politicians, business leaders, and everybody that we need to shift to another path. And the Path I would like to offer I called Upshift. And that is the option that we have. And I say, this is not a bad thing that is happening. It's a necessary thing. This rectification of our path has been overdue. We didn't start yesterday the way we go, the way we have been going. This has been happening for most of the 21st century and the second half of the 20th century.
Sandie Sedgbeer: In your new book, the Upshift, you claim that humanity is at a historical turning point and that two paths are opening for us today. A path up to healing and evolution and a path down to crises and chaos. And the global crisis from which we are emerging holds vital lessons for our life and future. Tell me about those lessons. Ervin László: Yeah, the bifurcation or evolution is branching off. If we continue the way we go, the path is downshifting because it's unsustainable. What we are doing needs to be rectified. So, it's about time that something happened to rectify it. It's unlikely that we'll continue the way we have been, living through this crisis period as the need for change grows.
I have to say that I was pretty horrified by some of the things I read because I think the general public really doesn't know what's happening. I mean, they see the headlines and various newspaper reports. But you laid it out so well when you said that, in the mid 19 hundreds of the last century, there were about 1 billion people. Now we've got 7.8 billion people. It's grown so fast, and the cities aren't sustainable anymore because they're taken and not putting anything back into the system. We don't know enough about these kinds of things, and I think that that is probably part of the problem is that the average person doesn't know.
So, for example, in 1972, my partners and colleagues and I published a report to the Club of Rome, which talked about the limits to growth, saying that it couldn't go on like this because a collapse would happen. And that didn't have much effect on the people we talked with about it, even though it only dealt with physical resources, primarily physical resources, and a few human resources. And we dealt mainly with politicians and policymakers addressing it. So, it was a more limited thing. Today, we know it's a global phenomenon. We are at the limits of the kind of growth we have been exercising and subjecting ourselves to, which is a good thing. So, we can continue this discussion as you like, Sandie. I just want to say that the rectification of the past is overdue. We should be happy and grateful that it's happening before it's too late. Sandie Sedgbeer: Absolutely. You know, the book, um, the book lays out some incredible statistics- it's a fabulous book OMTIMES\ JANUARY 2022
Ervin László: Well, there are ways we could know just by opening our eyes, but even more important is to open our hearts in our minds. That means allowing our consciousness to take in more of what is happening below the surface. Of course, the surface is what's in the daily news in every newspaper, standard media and television station, radio, and whatnot, which I think is general knowledge. But under the surface, what is really happening, what I'm telling you, what is happening is an interesting twopronged process. On the surface part and on the piece like this would be a deep reservoir of events, a sphere of vibrations. There are various dimensions to this top dimension that increase chaos, confusion, disorientation, and depression. All these negative signs that you can make are growing very rapidly. But, underneath, there is something else happening underneath. There is a reorientation from the individual, from the national, from the purely business, from the purest power politics section to something larger. It is as if now humanity on this planet is beginning to organize itself, to live on this planet consciously. We didn't need to live consciously on the planet because, previously, our powers were limited. So, we couldn't do much harm. True, but We didn't do much good for the planet as a whole, but we couldn't harm it much because we had very limited powers. I mean, sort of up to 250 years ago. Then our powers slowly through the 20th century increased, and now they are so great, such vast powers that we can destroy all life on Earth.
We can be pushed into an unsustainable situation like Mars, an arid planet, and that means no life is possible. That's one of the worst scenarios, perhaps the worst scenario we could think of. But there are many other ways of unsustainability. Climate change is just an advanced sound, an advanced signal of it. So underneath it all, there is something else happening. Now, when we talk about the problem, we talk about climate change. We talk about heating up the atmosphere in the same way. Then we talked about the refugee crisis. We talk about violence and war, the disheartening of people, and the conflicts of various atmospheres. We talk about the surface. When we reach what is happening, we realize it's all a global phenomenon. It had become global. Before it was local, then it was national and local, and now it's become global. All the solutions are just the same way as all the problems are now on the global level. And that's remarkable because concerning this phenomenon, now something is being made to happen. And that's what's being made to happen, overcoming the problems we have been accumulating for the past 150 to 200 years. And especially in the past, let's say, 20 or 25 years. And there's high time to do so, and humanity is becoming organized, reaching the global level, and trying to work out a way to live sustainably on this planet. So, today, probably already 8 billion people because many of these things are not registered on censuses.
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We estimate that about 8 billion people can live on this planet, so we don't kill each other, we don't destroy each other, and we don't remove the power and the ability to survive and thrive on this planet. We allow our people to live in peace. There are various ways we can ensure that we can talk about it. Still, I just want to say the positive side is that something was long overdue, which is now taking place. It's a crisis, but a crisis is an opportunity. Sandie Sedgbeer: I think that one of the words that underlie a lot of our problems is separation. We think everything is separate. We think that we are separate from one another, that we are all individuals, and it is now that people, especially with quantum science, are showing us that everything is connected. People are just beginning to realize that we survive as a collective, not as individuals. Ervin László: Interestingly, you are saying this. You're absolutely right. Einstein, who had never really fully accepted all the findings of the quantum sciences, kept a very matter-of-fact, practical turn of mind. And some of it's so fantastic that it's difficult to accept. But even though he said it very clearly, separateness is an illusion now coming through more and more in quantum physics and biology, quantum consciousness research, and quantum sociology. You can't do just one thing because one thing has so many other implications and consequences. But we can say that we can't do one thing because there is not one thing anybody can do. We can whenever we do one thing, we address the whole system of connections of each of we are a part. We are not outside. And that's a great advantage, a great benefit of the crisis in which we live. As we recognize. That's why we are not out of nature. We are not above it. We are not beyond it. And we have, we have had this so sophistry that we can overcome nature. We can become superior to nature. We can use technology to govern nature the way we want. That we are learning that we can't do that. We are part of nature, we are part of the limits of life on Earth, but we are also part of the opportunity of life on Earth.
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So, you've got to rejoin and reconnect. These are terms that are coming up more and more. I wrote the book about a year and a half ago, reconnecting to the source. But these terms are coming up every more. Yes, we are not separate, we are one, and the scientists are telling us, but common sense and our consciousness itself to us, if we just allow our consciousness to receive that Information as we are getting when they are relaxed when we allow our mind to float and to encounter people, to experience nature, to experience the beauty and to experience love and all these experiences have a deep resonance. We are now resonating with the world, with the changing world around us. That's a marvelous opportunity.
Let's take it. If we wait too long, it's not guaranteed that we'll succeed because irreversibilities are occurring. And if we wait too long, we find ourselves on a dead-end street. But we are not there. And I think the opportunity is now to get together and act together in light of who we are and the natural member of the Natural system. It's a beautiful thing to be. We thought it would just overcome it. We can do what we want. We can't do what we want. We have to do what there is in nature. It's a generous nature. This is an evolutionary universe. It's a participatory universe. All of these things are coming through the new sciences. It's there in our instincts, in our intuition. So, let's listen to ourselves. That is the message I'd like to say. Listen, hear, and feels who we are. Watch what is around us, and you'll find the right way.
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The right way forward is the Upshift, which is a shift into togetherness. Sandie Sedgbeer: Yeah. Your book, the Upshift, outlines several recommendations for overcoming the problems we are facing. Can you share some of those steps with us? Because I think a lot of people agree with everything we are saying, but they don't know where to start. What can they do? The pathway that you lay out in the book is very solid. So, if you could just share some of the steps along that pathway. Ervin László: There are several; there are many. There is the simplest one, except for young kids in big cities, where it may not be so simple. But for many people, middle-aged people, a little bit middleclass people, it's possible; experience nature! You know, the Japanese word shinrin-yoku or something like that means forest bathing. Yes. It means going out into nature, into the taller trees, and where you lay down on the lawn, grass, or leaves. See the sky above you, the clouds. Hear the rustling of the winds and trees. See, I'm not a poet. I can't. I can't say that many words, but the fact is, if you allow yourself to experience nature, that's one way. It's not the only way, but there certainly is one way. Another way, which I mentioned very briefly, is simply to allow., Allow your consciousness to access all Easter religions, the Easter spiritual systems, practically without exception. They all tell us, don't force what we want to achieve, to allow things to happen, and allow our minds to enter a larger dimension. We now know we are looking at the instrumental details of the waves admitted by our brain. This EEG electroencephalograph waves. We know that in our everyday consciousness, there is a certain level of frequency that we pick up. Above it, we have an exultant consciousness, and deep, sudden inspirations can happen. So sudden exaltation can take place. But below it, there's another dimension, the alpha dimension, the theta dimension in which connections happen. So people feel themselves connecting to other people's minds or minds, unlike our bodies, which connect more indirectly. We are directly connected through the waves. OMTIMES\ JANUARY 2022
What happens in our consciousness reflects what happens in other people's consciousness. And it reflects back on that. So, there are so many ways that we can relax. We can take the time to enjoy life, enjoy nature, and enjoy being what we are without all the worry, frustrations, and fear. That is now so much on the surface today. Depression is a danger, all those things are dangerous, but we can be one with the universe. So is this poetry, no science? Yes. This is the new way of understanding who we are. Sandie Sedgbeer: You've written in the book that one of the things that we can do is to rid ourselves of obsolete beliefs and assumptions. Can you outline some of those beliefs we need to eliminate and haven't? OMTIMES\ JANUARY 2022
Ervin László: There a lot of them? And I think there's no substitute for just looking at the book. And in one chapter, I will try to summarize most of these. Everything that's individualistic, in that separateness sense, the individuals great, you know, are all individuals. We want to serve the cause of the individual. But you have overdone it. We have separated ourselves from the collective, from the social systems. So, believe that there is only one country. That's one thing. For example, it's only one country to which we owe allegiance. Never mind the rest: "There is only one country, our flag, nation, state," or whatever. And that's not who we are. And the rest is out, is outside of us. The rest is "they are strangers." These are outdated and dangerous beliefs. We are also members of a family, members of a community, or members of a region, a state city, of course, of the nation. But not only that, but beyond that, we are also human beings, members of the human family. And even more, the human family is a member of the system of life on Earth or what is known as the Gaian system. They, we all of those things together, not exclusively. One. We can have multiple identities, and we have a more embracing identity. It doesn't destroy the local identity. It just incorporates it and embraces it. We can't help it. We can't change that. Life on Earth has developed as a community, a communal form of existence.
But strangely enough, and I don't want to get into physics details now, I just want to mention that we know the way atoms come together using, for example, a so-called Pauli Exclusion principle, but also the whole atomic generation process, the nucleus, and the electron shells. These are not accidental conglomerations. They are highly entuned elements, diverse elements coming together. It's as if the nucleus of a hydrogen atom would love certain electrons and, given a pass, would accept them into its electron shells.
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That's a sort of particular metaphor, but every natural system is a system of diverse elements coming into harmony, coming into oneness. And then when we recognize as their natural system, the other system with which we are in touch, to which we resonate, they are systems that we can embrace, that we can enter into ourselves, into us so that we become one with them. So, again, it seems like sophistry, poetry, and pure spirituality. Still, as you know and as you practice, spirituality is a great guide to what? To the right way to behave in the world. But about the point I am trying to make, when you examine the highest levels of evolutionary development, the highest level of consciousness in people defines the higher level of spirituality. And it's expressed as a sense of wellness, a sense of belonging, a sense of being part of something larger. William James, a great scientist and philosopher, said that the religious experience, which he was very much in awe of, he said, it's the experience of being part of something larger than we are. And that's now the experience that we need. Not just religious experience, spiritual experience, aesthetic experience, a natural experience, and the beliefs and convictions that go with it. Not separateness, not just the individual alone, but you and I individuals are embracing a larger whole. That, I think, is a natural way. It's the way in which we can feel it when we feel it. We feel closeness, we feel love, maybe. And that's how we can go forward because that's how nature operates. The entire system of life on Earth, on this planet, is a system of highly integrated elements joining together in such a way that every part of the system is an essential part of the whole.
If you remove any one part, you damage the whole. If you remove a set of parts and allow them to work separately, you're creating disease in the whole. And that happens in the human body or any living body. Then we call it cancer. The Information, the embracing all things that's health, and that's part of joining others. Not by external links but by internal feeling and perceiving who we are, part of a larger whole, part of an evolving system on the planet. For example, the Gaian system, which I'm sure is also part of an evolution of life on other planets in myriad places in this enormously vast universe. Sandie Sedgbeer: I read something the other day, a little headline that said if aliens landed on this planet, they wouldn't want to study humans. They would want to study ants because they have the system down. And they would want to know how ants have organized such an incredible system. So, it strikes me that we would do well to study ants ourselves and behave a little bit more as they do. Ervin László: We don't know what it is that orients ants in such a fantastically coordinated way. So, the ant colony is not a good heap of separate individuals. It's really, you just look at it because you see the individual hands use your eyes. You can touch the individual hand, the insects, but actually, that's a whole system of which that, and that we have in mind that you look at, is only a manifestation, is a single, single level of expression. So the system that's real is the whole, you know, the great German philosopher Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel said: "the truth is the whole." And that was what inspired many philosophies since then. So it's not only the holistic philosophy of wholeness.
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We are looking for wholeness. But I will take exception to this premise of looking at the ants. If you want to study life on Earth, look at consciousness because what we have is something unique. All things that consciousness that I want to say, but the way human consciousness is articulate, and can express itself, is able to perceive and respond to perception. That's more developed than any consciousness on this planet. So perhaps whales and dolphins together to come closer to it. We don't know exactly, but their environment is different environment. Our terrestrial environment calls for highly articulate consciousness and manipulative consciousness, and we have that. We can consciously choose to upshift to nature. And ants can't do that, even in a colony, unless it has a joint consciousness, a collective consciousness. I don't think so. But it's not impossible. But they can't do that. Our consciousness is here for a purpose. It's to help us come back to living the life that we are meant to live A life of striving, a life of togetherness, a life of oneness. So, again, child's poetry, but it is the bottom line. That's the way to upshift. If you don't do that, we'll pay by running into more crises and difficulties. We can't block the evolutionary trend. It's there, and we are a part of it. So let's study the consciousness that allows us to become conscious of people and nature. Sandie Sedgbeer: Ervin László, you drafted, in collaboration with the Dalai Lama, a Manifesto on the spirit of Planetary Consciousness. Tell us about that manifesto. Ervin László: It was a very interesting experience. It was quite an experience, and we are now interested enough. There's a project now to revive that dialogue, to make it an internet-based dialogue. This is Holiness. And today, I've been working on my input into that and quoting the Manifesto Planetary Consciousness. Interesting that you mentioned that because there's no way you could have known that this something came up yesterday. OMTIMES\ JANUARY 2022
And I'm suggesting we should revive the dialogue with his Holiness, the Dalai Lama, and talk about the need for this kind of consciousness. Let me just say why it was such an interesting experience. At the time, I was staying in Auroville. Auroville is an international settlement in India but not formally part of India. It's an international city in India with its own governing board. But, based on the ideas of Sri Aurobindo. And at that time, I served as chairman of the Auroville board, looking at what Auroville was doing and trying to communicate it with the rest of the world so that there is support; and then spread the idea of Sri Aurobindo which is the more spiritual, high and uplifting ideas that you could imagine. Part of the great imaginings of independence for India, and the new thinking, the New India. So I was in Auroville, and his Holiness the Dalai Lama came to visit, and we sat down to talk. They allowed me to go to meet him. His secretary said he has a few minutes, is very busy, and has planned his whole day out, but let's start talking. And he asked me, what are you working on these days? And I said I have a sketch. I have a project I would like to say, a manifesto on a new kind of consciousness. And he said: " Can I read something?".Can you have something of it?
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I had it with me because that's what I was always thinking about those days. So I started reading his Holiness, then suddenly everyone surrounding me said this, and that's how about that, and so on. And he ended up the rest of the day. His secretary was sitting there and noting it all down. He canceled all his other appointments. That day the evening came, and we had a few pages, which became the plan, the manifesto, or the Spirit of planetary Consciousness. And it was signed by, later on, a few months later, a year later, at the meeting that I organized at the Hungarian Academy of Sciences.
I'm a member of that academy. I was born in Budapest. And that at that meeting, his Holiness came to that meeting in the fall of 1996. We, besides the manifesto, are the spirit of planetary consciousness. So this was an experience, a spontaneous experience. Then we adopted this manifesto, and it's part of the work of the Club of Budapest with its 24 member clubs worldwide, and it is a set of distinguished individuals. We are developing a new set because life doesn't go on forever. And there's a certain change, our attrition, and you'd have to want to bring in new members, especially young members. But we are trying to work on the consciousness, on the potentials of the human spirit, and bring that to people's attention. So that's one thing. Another project that is so relevant to what we are discussing is something I'm working on these days, just for the last two weeks. Very recent, but very intensely good. I decided, and I'm joined by my good friend David Lauermann, the head of the Scientific Analytic Network. I decided we should ask thought leaders, deeply insightful scientists, and spiritual people. What do they think of the path that we need to take? In my book, The Upshift, I say, yes, the path to healing and the Evolution of Planet Earth. How do you look at this path without trying to suggest it to people? What should you look at? What do you think of it? Asking for insights from people, articulated people to write this out. I don't know what will come out of it. I've asked more than two thousand outstanding individuals in the past few days. I don't want to name any names, but they are people you would know. Ask them to write the path in five or six pages.
Give us an indication of what you think is the right thing. Is it right to shift forward, the right way to go? And the answers are coming in. Just today. I got two very important answers. Again, no names, but I'm very delighted to have them. And I think by the end of this year, end of December, we will probably have two dozen or more contributions to what we then jointly call the imperatives, the upshift imperatives. And so it's another six months or so, and we'll publish that too. It follows the book the Upshift, but this time it goes and taps into mind the inside, the consciousness of 2000 or more thought leaders. Sandie Sedgbeer: Just to go back to the manifesto. There were three clarion calls in that manifesto. Can you describe those to us? Ervin László: Well, now you expect me to remember what I've written all this time, exactly? Sandie Sedgbeer: I can tell you. Well, the first is the core of creativity and diversity, right? Ervin László: Yes. Diversity is absolutely necessary. As I mentioned, even the atom has diverse elements if you want to join that whole. This idea is that somehow things are just by things coming together into contact. And that's what makes a larger hole, just more of the same. The larger whole is not more of the same. Even quantitatively, a whole is never the sum of the parts, and it is always something else. Wholeness is another factor. Diversity is to make wholes. Nature makes wholes, creates wholes, creates molecules, cells, macromolecules, crystals or single-cell organisms, multi-cell organisms, ecology of organisms, and the planetary ecology. These are all whole systems made of diverse plant parts.
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Oneness is not created by just adding one thing together or multiplying things. It is opening up to everything else but opening and embracing diversity and working with diversity. So that's something we already recognized in the late 20th century in the manifesto, which is becoming increasingly evident. The need for it becomes more evident as we want it today. Sandie Sedgbeer: The second one is the call for responsibility. Ervin László: It's an awful word, actually very often said. I'm just responsible when something goes wrong. And then people feel you are being accused of being responsible. So many things have gone wrong, and now the whole planetary system you're living in has gone off track. And so, my goodness, that means that we are responsible, but there is a call to assume responsibility for what we can do, for what we truly are, and do it to the best of our ability. What we can do is try to live together so all can live. And it's one of the things I'm saying in this book, that's ethics; living in a way that other people can also live. I don't necessarily mean they have to live the same way, but it can also exist. They have often lived in a way that used up too many resources and too much energy, attention, and insight and Information, so many people were locked out of it. It's not ethical to do anything that others cannot share. Today, this is close to 8 billion people. So at least in principle, you must be able to live in a way that enables or allows at least other people to live. As I said, not necessarily the same way we live their own way, live the way we can. We are also diverse, but to live, strive and become more of what we are, whole systems working together is all the life on the planet. Sandie Sedgbeer: And, of course, the third is the core of planetary consciousness.
Ervin László: I said it in the beginning, my goodness. Planetary consciousness, do you mean the consciousness of the planet? In the beginning, this was a relatively new term. This was not much used. Now people talk about planetary consciousness. They don't misunderstand it. Usually, they know it's a new human consciousness that embraces the planet. It's not the consciousness of the planet. Even though I should add as a philosopher, I've convinced that all large bodies in the universe have their own consciousness. All complex bodies, including the Sandie Sedgbeer: I recently, um, interviewed Dr. Jude Currivan, who I know is a good friend of yours and sometimes a collaborator as well. And I loved what Jude says in her new book, that we need to start seeing ourselves as Gaians, not Americans or Britain or whatever, but as Gaians, and then we will begin to understand that we are one. Ervin László: Yeah. So, I said multiple identities. We have the largest identity, which means we are living beings in this universe, and that's already an identity. Not everything is a living being. The living beings that emerged are a particular articulate expression of the evolutionary drive toward creating complex and coherent systems
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Here I'm using one term, coherence. Coherence is so important because now we recognize that nature is coherent. And Einstein said. Also, it's almost a miracle that in this, all this wealth of chaos, the wealth of interactions that are happening in space and time, there's something coherent that is emerging, as coherent is a system of life. And even the universe, the planets, the system of planets, and the galaxies are themselves coherent systems from the initial chaos after the big bank; ever more coherence is emerging in space and time. That's a great forward trend. That's the upshift trend. It's an attractor. I call it the holotropic attractor in my current work, whole, you know, toward wholeness. Tropic means trophism or something pulling you toward something that is an attraction toward the universe that appears to be attracted toward wholeness. Wholeness means the joining together of those different diverse elements into wholeness. You know, and so recognizing or being part of that is our largest identity. Within that, multiple identities are part of life on Earth, a Gaian, and identity is certainly a very important element. Sandie Sedgbeer: I find it really interesting; you were a concert pianist. You are still a pianist. What do you think about music, all of the things that make music so wonderful and connect us to our souls? The same things you're talking about now, coherence, harmony, all of these qualities. Do you notice, do you regard yourself as some kind of musician in the sense of what you are preaching about the planet? Ervin László: I don't know how I regard myself. I mean, I'm a seeker. I try to find things, particularly that wholeness and harmony that you find in music, not in every kind of music.
I don't relate to music that is violent with percussion and whatnot. But it doesn't have to be sentimental songs but music, which is at a higher level, is a unit of perfection. Every element of it is perfect. When Mozart was asked by the Duke or Emperor at the time in Austria about actually writing too many notes, this was in the film. Amadeus, I think, he said: No, no, your highness, there are just as many notes as need to be. These are more, no less. Every note counts in a masterpiece; you can't remove any note without destroying wholeness, unity, and coherence. You can't even just arbitrarily add anything. So this is what I'm seeking. I'm seeking perfection where all things operate to maintain, to be the whole, the expression of art, the experience of art, the aesthetic experience is precisely that. So when we talked earlier about the ways that we can approach this higher level of upshifted consciousness, now talking about the nature experience, I would like to add the aesthetic experience of human artifacts, music, painting, and even dance in a way that we dance. You know, it's all human artifacts. And that the express wholeness and oneness and that experience, which is a high level of, a deep experience, a highly satisfactory experience of Oneness That I think is again, one of the ways that we can evolve our consciousness so that we move toward this higher level of Upshift that is so badly needed into work and that we can contribute to. And these are our pathways to move towards. Sandie Sedgbeer: You created the upshift movement, which you are inviting everybody to join. What is its subjective and its mission?
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Ervin László: Okay, I can share with you, as I've written out the mission statement. I can make it available. And when the time comes from to if you present that. Next week, we will have a meeting in Rome, Italy, of the members of what we now call the WUM, the world Upshift movement, which has its own board. It's registered formally as a movement at the so-called company's House in London, England. But it would be an international registration, and it'll have its own website developing the current websites, which remains, but it'll be developed as such. We have to emphasize the term world, which we added to it because it's not a local initiative in any sense. I would like it to be an initiative of the US Yes, certainly of Europe, but also the east, around the south. So, and I'm going to ask organizations, I said, I'll ask, ask the or radio on TV as well to see which way we could adhere to this Movement.
So it becomes an international, a world movement. I, myself, I may add, dislike and somewhat the mistrusted term international. We are not talking about Nexus nations being connected in some way. We're talking about transcending the level of nations so that we become global, which is what the spread needs to be. So world, a world movement. That is our goal. And I hope to involve people at all levels of insight, education, and different interests to come together because it's our world and one world, and we are one with it. And so let's see how each of us can contribute to it. We all care. Let's be articulate. Let's talk to each other about that. Sandie Sedgbeer: Can children become part of this Movement? Ervin László: Children are part of this Movement.
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Sandie Sedgbeer: They are part of the Movement. Ervin László: I think they only get corrupt when they go to school. Sandie Sedgbeer: Yes, they do. They do. Yeah. Okay. I mean, certainly, your book, "the Upshift, should be part of the school curriculum. Ervin László: They're wonderful schools as well. I don't disregard that. But then we are told that we are only concerned with human affairs as though they will be separate. The only concern is our national interest as though it will be separate; then those are corrupting influences. I've been talking to people trying to develop an upshift in business. And I say that there are two terms that I found very dangerous. One is in the business world, particularly, and one is private. It's a term. And the other is national. A private business. It's the private sector. We used to say that in Europe, when we had communism, we were looking for a private sector, a small sector, and more freedom. And I was happy with my parents belonging to the private sector. But now it's not a question of the private sector; it's all businesses practically private except for a very small part of enterprises. But the question is, how did the private sector become public? Becomes part of the human enterprise. Not by taking it out of hand and time to organize it, to direct it by a group of people, managers or politicians, or whatnot. But part, becoming by spirit, becoming a public enterprise, having the public, the human spirit as its guiding principles, profit,
yes, it needs to be to run the organization but not as an end and in itself and by itself, profit to become one, and part of a wholly diverse system, which you can call the Gaian system, which is the planetary system, which is a planetary consciousness. That is the great chance and the great challenge that we face. Sandie Sedgbeer: If people started taking the steps that you advocate now, and now is the only time you know that they should be doing that, how long do you think it would take to turn things around? Ervin László: Next week! Sandie Sedgbeer: Next week? Ervin László: Yes. Things could go very fast. You see, the way ideas spread, insights and beliefs spread can be very rapid. There's an openness now because the old ways of thinking, believing, and feeling are breaking open. The danger is that before reaching the new, natural way, you may break down in depression, fear, the negative attributes. But if you don't break down in between, we reach the next level, and the next level will be beyond what we have today. So you have a higher level of up-shifted level, which could go very fast. Sure. Next week could be next year, but we don't have much time. We don't have decades. We have years. So let's get going with it. Sandie Sedgbeer: We have a situation in England right now, especially in London, where many people concerned about climate change are taking radical actions. They are sitting on freeways and blocking traffic for hours on end. They're standing on big bridges, et cetera.
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He started to create a more collective, a new human, as you call it, a new society, a proletarian society. But he did it by counterposing it to a negative movement, to the capitalist Movement So we are fighting the proletarian struggle fighting the capitalists and finding free enterprise. That became a very negative struggle among political groups. But the principle was good, actually, I must say. And there was also Mao in China, that completely reformed from the Hsinhai one day to the next and practically reformed the entire Chinese system, moving it to this new level. Not necessarily all the way. It could continue to be a racist practice. Still, it changed the future system tremendously into a completely They're doing all kinds of things. The other day, different one. So things can move very fast, a young woman in her mid-twenties was very, very fast. And when good ideas catch reported standing on top of one of our major hold, they also can move. Good ideas can go bridges. very deep. There was a being of this Earth on this planet whose beliefs whose personality They had to close the bridge down, and all the created the last change that changed the world traffic and the public were annoyed because they forever. So as known as Jesus Christ and the could not continue their normal daily life. But love that he brought forth radiated inspired this young woman was crying, but she said, I some disciples, and those disciples inspired know that everybody is going to hate me for some more. what I'm doing, but you are robbing me of my future. And it was such an emotive thing to hear And despite the repression of the classical and see this young woman crying and taking Roman empire, this Movement survived and such radical action, knowing that it would make spread and became Christianity as a force in her very unpopular. What would you advise that the world. Tremendous events happened from some of these young people do instead? Hitler to Jesus. You know, the largest possible contrasts. So this is just a response to the Ervin László: Well, it's fine to take individual question. How long would it take? It can go action, but you're exposing yourself to a great very fast, but the deep changes take time to deal of criticism and a blockage. Try to create a happen. But to keep in mind that the time is movement, try to bring other people together. not likely to be very long because we don't But, of course, great sudden movements that simply have a long time for change to happen. happened very quickly in the 20th century were Things will break down if we don't act in time mostly negative. Not all, because Gandhi's insight or make the change happen. led to India's independence and a new way of looking at things. There was Castro's attempt to .So let's not worry about the time, let's start it, create a more egalitarian society in Cuba, but and it will go. It's, it's a snowball effect. It's a most of the great movements that got going very butterfly effect. You know, the idea of the fast had negative consequences. Lenin started butterfly effect of a butterfly flapping its wings very positively. in California? We create a storm in Mongolia. OMTIMES\ January 2022
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It Amplifies. And It amplifies because we are dealing with a so-called turbulence system. It's a non-linear system. Lots of things can happen from one moment to the next. And this led the anthropologist Margaret Mead to say never doubt the power of a small group of people to change the world. I shared it. Nothing else ever had. I was still adding another thing. Nothing else ever had. Especially when the world is unstable and it's already on the point of bifurcation, then the change can be very fast. So I'm optimistic about change, being able to happen and happen fast.
Let me come up with this last discussion, the last metaphor. Some biologists some decades ago came up with this concept of the hopeful monster.
Sandie Sedgbeer: The Russian writer Leo Tolstoy once said that the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do. So I guess we all need to get a bit crazier.
Sandie Sedgbeer: I think that's a really good note to end the show on Ervin László: thank you so much for joining us today.
Ervin László: Yes, I think it's almost necessary, but this means being a hopeful monster.
The hopeful monster is simply a mutation in a species ahead of its time. Which is now a monster because it doesn't fit the rest. And it's being exposed and expelled from the rest cause it's not understood. But then the change occurs when the mutation happens elsewhere to become the new species' forerunner. So that's why it's hopeful, but right now, it's a monster. So I would say let's be more and more hopeful monsters.
Ervin László: And it really was seriously a great pleasure on your part. So that you and your network are doing a wonderful job. So, it was my pleasure and privilege to talk with you.
Ervin László is a Hungarian Polymath, a philosopher of science, systems theorist, integral theorist, and originally a classical pianist. He is an advocate of the theory of quantum consciousness. THE UPSHIFT: The Path to Healing and Evolution on Planet Earth is the latest and most essential contribution to peace and well-being by Ervin Laszlo, considered one of the greatest thinkers and humanists of our time. His book is an antidote to the pessimism and inaction that spreads worldwide. It shows that we can meet the challenges that face us—the challenges of war and aggression, climate change and destitution, and the virus pandemic. Two paths are opening for us today: a path UP to healing and evolution and a path DOWN to crises and chaos.
This book tells you how you can move upward and upshift to a better world. Those who have read its advanced drafts consider it a must-read for every awakened and responsible person on the planet. Open its pages and see why. It could change you and change the world around you. If you want more information about Irving Laszlo's work, his books, and the upshift movement, visit upshiftmovement.com and ErvinLászlóbooks.com
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5 Tips for Improving your Yoga Practice in the Wintertime
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by Dixie Somers
n the traditional practice of yoga,
energy imbalances that affect your
changing seasons produce different
health and well-being. In addition,
elements that influence the body,
adjustments need to be made to keep
internally as well as externally. For
your circulatory and digestive systems
example, winter's low temperatures
functioning optimally. Here are five tips
and reduced humidity can lead to
to keep in mind for wintertime yoga.
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LIVE HEALTHILY
PRACTICE FAITHFULLY
Keep a healthy lifestyle throughout
It may be tempting to stay in bed
the winter to maintain optimal
or curl up in a blanket in f ront of
health and get the most from
the TV when it's cold outside, but
your yoga practice. That means
your yoga practice is something you
plenty of physical activity and
should keep up with. Suppose you
consistently getting a good night's
start skipping sessions that were
rest. All the precautions should be
your steady routine before. In that
taken to stay healthy, including a
case, you're developing bad habits
diet of f resh foods. Eat balanced
that may impact your sense of self-
meals, and even though it's cold
discipline in the future, as well as
out, nibble on natural fruits, seeds,
the quality of results you get from it.
nuts, and raw vegetables as your
Establish a warm-up routine to better
snacks.
prepare your body for the cold. OM TIMES | January 2023
KEEP WARM
PREVENT ILLNESS
Regular exercise and daily yoga will
Winter weather is the cold and
help you to fight the cold and feel
flu season. An upper respiratory
warmer. If you're used to going outside
infection can mean plugged-up
for yoga, just dress warmly and take
sinuses, sore throat, and fever,
a mat or blanket to lie on the frozen
making yoga more difficult. Be
ground. Or get used to doing it indoors.
sure to observe standard cold-
Always have your HVAC checked out
season practices, such as washing
by a company before the cold weather
your hands frequently, drinking
kicks in. Call a qualified HVAC company
plenty of liquids, especially citrus
for any heating issues so you can still
juice, and taking Vitamin C
feel comfortable during your routine.
supplements to be safe.
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TRY TO BE POSITIVE
Snow, ice, and f reezing temperatures
Don't let the cold and gloomy
kinds of tasks. But your yoga routine
weather get you down. Be mindful
is too crucial to your well-being to
of the benefits that yoga gives
put aside.
can be an excuse for avoiding all
you. If you feel ill, your breathing exercises (pranayamas) can help to
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your immune response. If you start
home, and family niches. Dixie
to really think that you're not up to
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physical yoga, study books on the
is the proud mother of three
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your motivation.
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Japamala and other Devotional Practices By Ageless Wisdom Institute
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J
apamala, better known
it means only "bead of beads. "We
in the West as a rosary of
then have two chains, one spiritual,
prayers, is an ancient object
"Japa," and another material,
used in various religious
"Mala." Thus, the spiritual energies
practices and spiritual devotions.
invoked "Japa" energize the "Mala."
For example, they are used in many
Generally, the "mala," used for the
cultures and religions to pace prayers
"japa" or "whisper," contains 108
or mantralizations. These beads
beads.
come in many different shapes, sizes, and materials. Depending on culture
It is believed that completing
or religion, they can have an unusual
the circuit of 108 mantras is one
number of beads.
more step on the path of spiritual upliftment. Each turn performed in
Hinduism and Buddhism use
the mala is a step on the ladder for
108 beads, always having a more
union with the divine ether.
significant account representing the Divinity, around which the 108
A Mala encourages its user to do the
distinct manifestations, returns,
japas daily.
or incarnations revolve. It is the representation of diversity that
THE DEVOTIONAL PRACTICE
revolves around a single unit. Reciting japamalas is a most "Japa" is a Sanskrit word that comes
essential prayerful attitude for any
from the verbal root "jap," which
devotee who wants to approach
means "to whisper, to whisper." So
the mystical philosophy of Divinity.
"Japa" is the yogic Practice of the
It may consecrate Japamala to the
murmuring repetition of mantras,
Blessed Vishnu, Krishna, the Blessed
scripture passages, or the name of
Divine Mother, Christ, or God if you
a deity.
will. To make Japamalas is to worship the Divinity, and one humbles
The repetition of these mantras for
oneself. Therefore, adopt the
the "Japa," or a "chain," a "cord of
Practice of doing japamalas many
energy." Mala is a word with many
times a day. Every day facilitates an
meanings in Sanskrit, but in this case,
individual to advance blessedly.
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HOW TO PRAY WITH JAPAMALAS
continuing until the end, until you complete the 108 accounts. Your Rosary of prayer beads can
Hold the Japamala with one hand,
be magnetized with your mantra's
and with your thumb, turn the small
"Japa" power. You will need to
beads as you make your prayers or
practice every day for at least 40
repetitions of sacred mantras or Bija
days. After 108 days, the mala will
sounds. Hold the first count with your
be charged with the power of
thumb and make your first prayer
the mantra intoned/ whispered/
when you finish; pull the second
meditated. Then, you may place
account and continue your prayers,
it lightly on yourself or others to
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transmit the energy of the mantra,
hold in their hands as they repeat
stored in the light mandala, formed in
their prayers. Then, they roll the beads
your' prayer rosary "or mala.
between their fingers as they repeat the name of Allah.
The ideal would be to use a different mala for each mantra. However, when
Christians have their "rosary" in their
using your mala with a new mantra,
hands as they pray their daily prayers.
the energy of the new mantra will
It is said that the word "rosary," which
begin to replace the power of the
has obvious similarities to the mala,
previous mantra, so we strongly
came from the traditional Hindu
recommend using a new one with
"Japamala."
each mantra, if possible, of course. When Roman explorers came to Another good idea is to have a Mala
India and found the Prayer beads,
for each spiritual ray and chakra. Each
they heard "jap mala" instead of
of the seven major chakras carries the
"japa mala." "Jap" means "rose," and
energies of one of the seven major
a suitcase was then taken to the
consciousnesses of God. Store it in a
Roman Empire as a "Rosarium."
clean, holy place when you are not using your mala. The best place to
The Rosary has 50 beads separated
guard it is on a personal altar or on a
ten by ten by a larger one, and its
sacred statuette of a deity.
ends are joined in a cross. A Christian rosary has 54 beads (half of the
The mala beads are used so that a
eastern Rosary of 108 beads). All the
person can think about the meaning
hail Mary prayers are symbolized
of the mantra and his words as he
by the white roses, and all the 5
chants, without having to keep
Lord's prayers at the beginning of
counting the times he chants.
the sequences of ten Hail Marys are symbolized by the red Rose of Christ.
JAPAMALAS, A TRADITION IN VARIOUS RELIGIONS
When they decide to make a mantra more than 108 times, Hindus put one
Islamic tradition also has a rosary of
grain of rice every 108 times into a
prayer beads called "Tasbi," which they
bowl. Then, every time they get to
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Meru (The central bead in a Japamala),
on each individual's will. What counts
they take a grain of rice from the bowl.
is the repetition of mantras.
In Tibetan Buddhism, it is common to
The Islamic tradition works with a
use larger malas, for example, malas
rosary of 99 beads. The Rosary is
that contain 111 beads. They count a
divided into three series of 33 beads,
suitcase like 100 beads and 11 extras
each representing one world. It is said
to make up for possible mistakes
that the missing bead to complete the
made along the way. In Buddhism,
hundredth is only found in Paradise.
the use of the malas can be done with either hand, and the fingers used for
Many materials are used to make the
counting can also be other, depending
mala beads throughout every culture.
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In the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, they
to the afterlife. Its price is high because
can use bone (animal bones, most
of its rarity. The purpose of this Bones
commonly ox) or sometimes human
malas is to pray, recite mantras and
bones, the bones of deceased Lamas,
meditate on cutting selfishness and
which are of great value.
strong attachments and cultivating a
SACRED HUMAN BONES OF NEPAL
free conscience. Others use wood or seeds from the
Many Sacred and Holy Malas are made
Bodhi tree. Semi-precious stones such
of 108 fine human skull bones from
as coral and amethyst can be used, too.
Nepal. These are practicing Buddhist
However, the most used material for
skull bones that have already passed
the making of malas is sandalwood.
OM TIMES | January 2023
5 Ways To Find Your Soul Peeps
I
By John Holland
saw someone recently wearing
These are the like-minded people
a t-shirt that read: Where My
of a particular group or community
Peeps At? It made me smile
where you feel most comfortable.
because we all need our peeps
These are the members of
on our journey toward a more
your spiritual family where the
fulfilling and soulful life!
relationships are all about sharing, OM TIMES | January 2023
giving, and receiving energetically
I've met thousands of people at
from each other. These are like-
my workshops and online events
minded souls who are drawn
who are f rom all walks of life and
to each other, have similar
f rom all over the world and have
interests, will push you to be all
one thing in common: They're all
that you can be, challenge you,
on a spiritual quest to discover their
understand your point of view
soul and purpose. I really enjoy
and help you expand your mind
watching people come together,
and consciousness. These people
become f riends (sometimes for
in the f ront row of your cheering
life), and feel they can express
section accept you for who you
themselves with one another in a
are, encourage you to reach your
positive way. They no longer feel
goals and dreams, applaud your
alone or different. They have found
accomplishments, and are there
the members of their community—
when you stumble.
their peeps! OM TIMES | January 2023
So, where are your peeps? First,
JOHN'S MESSAGE
let me say that you're not alone. As members of my newsletter
Remember, you won't find your
community and My Soul Community,
like-minded community if you're
you're my peeps, and I'm yours!
constantly sitting at home. Is there a certain activity you like, perhaps
If you feel you're not part of a
a meditation group, book club, or
community/group, you resonate
online class you can look into? Most
with or believe no one out there
people enjoy each other's company,
understands you, please think again.
especially when they're all in sync
Your peeps are there. You just have
with a commonly shared activity or
to believe it, keep following your
passion.
spiritual practices, and your souls will come together. When this happens,
Here are some suggestions on how
you'll feel that you have known these
to find your peeps. Give one a try this
people your entire life!
week! OM TIMES | January 2023
Attend more local events that you're
you, or possibly one that you may have
passionate about.
said in the past: "I want to help them."
Join an online community that focuses
Just keep believing in your thoughts,
on your favorite interests.
attracting exactly what you need. Your peeps may even become your
Form your own club if you can't find one.
soul family. Reach out and explore. Trust your feelings and have fun!
Take a class that you've had your heart set on. You'll meet so many different
If you know someone who may
people. You never know. Synchronicity
like to get this message, feel free
may be guiding you to this class.
to share these Soul Inspirations or recommend they join my newsletter
Volunteer! There are so many varied and
list. Equally, I'd love to hear your
different organizations that need help.
personal stories, so do share them on
But, trust me, there is one out there for
my Facebook and Instagram pages.
OM TIMES | January 2023
Your Lives, and How To Live Them
R
By William Bezanson
eincarnation is a valid
should be happy, relaxed, and
spiritual law of the
confident to optimize one's life.
universe. Therefore, people should study their
Most OMTimes readers very likely
previous lives for guidance on their
already know of the validity of
current and future lives. Overall, one
reincarnation, and they know how
OM TIMES | January 2023
to live their lives. If such is the case,
Second, my hope. I sincerely hope
save your time by not reading this
that humankind will wake up
article.
and finally realize that religion, in general, is mostly based on myths,
But, by now, I'll bet that I've got you
allegories, and folk tales. I hope that
hooked and that you will indeed read
most people switch to mysticism for
this article. Great!
their answers to cosmic questions. Religion enables indirect union with
Your lives. (Plural). Yes, reincarnation
God through priestly teachings,
is a valid (spiritual) law of the
scriptural study, and corporate
universe.
worship. Mysticism, on the other hand, enables direct union with
The usual guidelines for living one's
God through spiritual study, psychic
life are f rom religious institutions.
practices, and individual spiritual
Some time ago, I was asked which
development.
religion would be the number one in the World in the next hundred years.
Now, speaking of mystical and
I interpreted "number one" to mean
spiritual matters, there are many
the highest number of members, and
writings that defend the laws of
for churches, this is often meant to be
karma and reincarnation. How else,
the highest number of "identifiable
except by karma and reincarnation,
givers." I have two answers: my guess
can one explain the death of an infant
and my hope.
child or the impoverished peasant born into suffering? Why should
First, my guess. I would guess that
one person be so "lucky" to have
the same religion that dominates
frequent fortunate circumstances
currently, namely Christianity, in its
while another has a long run of "bad
many variations, will be the number
luck?" Why should only the orthodox
one religion a hundred years from
Christian have the potential to be
now. I guess this situation is because
"saved," but another who was born
of inertia. Specifically, people don't
into a "heathen" environment and
like to make fundamental changes,
never learns of the Gospel be doomed
so they will resist switching to a
to damnation? Such a universe would
different religious affiliation.
be very unjust if the whims of God OM TIMES | January 2023
caused such inequities or if God could
As for "How to live (your lives)," I try
be persuaded to change Its mind by
to live my current life in three ways:
an appeal. Karma and reincarnation
being Happy, Relaxed, and Confident.
provide a much more rational and just
(I acknowledge this categorization
explanation.
as first suggested to me by Gary L. Stewart.) To my mind, Being
In my own case, I have had vivid
Happy involves working in and out;
experiences of seven of my previous
switching f rom religious affiliations
lives, f rom ancient China, through
to mystical orders; ceasing ineffective
southern France, Egypt, the Middle
praying to a deity over to mystical
East, Brazil, South Carolina, USA, as
healing; and other such spiritual
well as several less vivid memories
methods.
of other lives. As a result, I enjoy researching my former lives (what
Being Relaxed involves being a
I term "spiritual genealogy") much
generalist rather than a specialist;
more than who my ancestors were
realizing that spirituality is far
("physical genealogy").
more important than physicality; OM TIMES | January 2023
the outer life. Sports scores no longer matter. Weather reports no longer matter. Accumulating wealth no longer matters. What really matters in this life is preparing oneself for the next life. Preparation for the future automatically motivates you to clean up the present because you will want the World to be in better shape than it is currently when you return here in your next life. This article is based on a book by the same title I am currently researching and writing, projected to be published in 2024. I hope that these words may be inspiring and focusing depending on your intuition to
for many readers.
enhance your reasoning; and others. William Bezanson is a regular Finally, being Confident involves
contributor to OMTimes. After
creating your own future, rather than
retiring f rom an electrical
just drifting along, knowing how
engineering career, he
to separate the abstract from the
writes books on systems
concrete, and being content that
design, spirituality, and world
your actions are saving the World and
stewardship. He lives with his
others.
wife in Ottawa, Canada, and their children are scattered over
Overall, being mystical means
the earth's surface. His latest
following one's inner guidance, as
book is Bill's Collected Wisdom,
revealed through intuition, for using
available f rom online book
your life altruistically, cosmically, and
retailers. His website is www3.
in service to the World. One feels the
sympatico.ca/bezanson1.
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Feng Shui: Reenergize Your Home in Wintertime
W
By Omtimes Staff
inter always ends
Winter is the Season of the
up being a time
Element of water
of more stillness, coziness, and just
being. So winter is naturally a "yin"
Feng Shui has five elements: water, wood, fire, earth, and metal.
season, A quieter, more reflective period that encourages us to spend
The Water Element is an essential
more time in the house with our
component in the field of Feng Shui.
loved ones.
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knowledge that allows the water
liveliness, refresh the air and prevent
element to guide you into a space of
the accumulation of bacteria in our
confidence. So enjoy the wintertime
homes during these months: citrus
to refuel, dream and plan changes in Citrus oils are more than pleasant
the next initial stages.
smells. They are among the most Winter is a time when the earth
useful essential oils. Just a few drops
breathes. Like a gestation period, it
of lemon or orange oil will increase
prepares to sustain life for another
the power of cleaning products. They
year. It offers us a particular time
disinfect surfaces, purify the air and
for introspection. By creating a cozy
release a pleasant f ragrance besides
and harmonious home during this
rejoicing those in a bad mood.
period, the house itself will help you stay attentive and cheerful at this
Do something new
time of year. While you have more time indoors When winter seems to be creeping,
during the colder season, it is a great
purifying our homes with new energy
time to work on all the projects you
may be healing. Read more about
want to get started. Cooking is a
some Feng Shui remedies to organize
great way to add warmth and joy
your living space, making it brighter
to your home. Creating and trying
and warmer while staying in tune
new soups and stews with seasonal
with the season.
vegetables is a great way to connect with nature since we cannot get our
FENG SHUI REMEDIES FOR WINTER
hands on the garden at this time
MONTHS
of year. You can also try any other hobby you've always wanted to do
Clean Your Home With Citrus
Change the decoration of your home
With the cold, we have not opened
When the energy feels "stuck" in the
the windows for a long time, and the
winter, it may be time for a small
energy and air of our houses can be
environmental change. However,
tremendously stagnant. Fortunately,
instead of buying things for a new
there is a simple cure to raise
decoration, you may already have
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what you need. Try to move a vase,
sensation by cooking healthy organic
an image, or even furniture from one
seasonal food such as pumpkins and
room to another. You may be surprised
Zucchini.
how the energy changes just by moving something that has not been
Create a meditation chant
touched for some time, emptying it, and giving it a new home. You can
We know that spring and summer
be inspired to redecorate your entire
months are full of yang and vibrant
house with just a unique view of what
energy. Yin energy is restful, silent,
you have Invite your friends to dinner.
and contemplative. Cultivate this seasonal energy, receiving it with open
Plan to celebrate the long winter
arms, renewing it for the more active
nights with friends. Make sure you
seasons. It is natural for all of us to
invite friends to dinner and share
want to engage in more yin activities
stories around the fire. Honor the taste
during the colder months, such as
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reading, sleeping, and meditating. Create a space with more comfortable pillows, armchairs, and candles to feel cozier with this energy of renewal. Change Your Lamps During winter, we experience much more darkness, so we spend much more energy on interior lighting. Therefore, this is the year to audit your home's lighting to ensure you use energy-efficient bulbs in all fixtures. You can also add a few more daylight bulbs in certain areas to magnify your light entrance. Let natural light enter It would be best if you worked to
Are there things in your closet that you
make the most of your full hours of
have not used for a long time? As you
light, and the best way to do that
redecorate and rearrange, you may find
is to leave natural light instead of
some things you do not really need. If
artificially illuminating your space.
you have not used the item in more than
Create a distinct area in your home
six months, it's time to say goodbye.
that captures more sun, warm with
On the other hand, if you are only
yang warm colors like burnt orange,
accumulating dust, you are increasing
yellows, and reds, with a heartfelt shot
your stagnant energy and need to go.
and cushions where you can curl up
In my Feng Shui consultations, I highly
with a good book. Always have some
recommend always analyzing what
good books.
works for you, what you can donate, and even reforming it for something
Make an assessment of what you
that can make you more useful.
really need
Creativity is the key! OM TIMES | January 2023
Reincarnation of Animals DO OUR PETS REINCARNATE?
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By Ministry Earth
nimals, like humans, are
According to several spiritual
beings endowed with
traditions, all individuals in the
Souls. Souls are part of
Animal Kingdom have a reincarnating
our eternal nature, so
soul. However, mammalian-class
it is entirely possible to claim that
animals have spirits closer to human
these beings (Non-Human Beings)
characteristics of evolution. The
also pass through the process of
reincarnation of animals is close to
evolution and reincarnation.
ours, except for the element of Free OM TIMES | January 2023
will, which only human beings seem
have a human conscience - the
to have.
reincarnation of animals is carried out according to their spiritual
After the departure of an animal f rom
needs.
earthly life, only its soul is repaired. The reason is that they do not have a
For example, let us say that a
system of consciousness as complex
dog was very loved in a particular
as ours to work with. At least not
family, and he died. His soul goes
in this plane of existence. For that
to a temporary spiritual plane and
reason, some spiritual schools regard
soon returns to the body of another
the process of reincarnation of
domestic animal to continue its
animals to be more agile and fluid
evolution.
than human reincarnation. So, the question would be that Animals share with us the
in his new reincarnation, is it
privilege of having a soul.
possible for the animal to return
Pythagoras
to its "original" family? Yes, it is possible. Depending on the animal's
THE REINCARNATION OF ANIMALS:
needs, it can still have strong
WHERE DO THEY GO?
emotional bonds with a group of people, such as his original family,
Many families are concerned. They
promoting a feeling of happiness
think their pet has reincarnated
and concomitant evolution. This
elsewhere and is no longer loved by
is why some animals become our
the new owners. This is a thought
'Familiars."
that needs to be removed from your The real difference between
strain of thought.
humans and other animals is Animals and ourselves go through
that humans have a perception
reincarnation to evolve their souls,
of good and evil, just and unjust,
acquiring cognitive skills so they
etc. The sharing of a common
can one day be at peace on the
view in these matters makes
spiritual plane. With this in mind -
a household and a state.
and knowing that animals do not
Aristotle
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IS IT CRAZY TO WORRY ABOUT
Animals reincarnate in caring
OUR ANIMAL REINCARNATION?
environments at their evolution levels. Therefore, the Beings
The reincarnation of animals is a crucial
of light that care for animal
step in the evolution of their species.
evolution always look for means and conditions to contribute to a
Domesticated animals that live with
progressive evolution process.
families will never regress to a wild environment. That is, it is not necessary
The best thing we do as human
to create a concern about dangerous
beings is love them to help our dear
whereabouts that may exist.
animals to good reincarnation. OM TIMES | January 2023
The effective exchange of feelings
preserves purity and innocence that
and coziness is essential for animals
distinguish them f rom the fabric of
to evolve with more quality and
our own souls.
spirituality. The Seeds of love flourish within an animal soul and bloom into
Did you know that there is
many different noble sentiments,
an Animal heaven?
such as devotion, gratitude, loyalty, and adoration. Their Souls are
However, the most unfortunate
enriched by good energies, and
feature is that our animals have
they flourish, facilitating further
shorter lifespans.
development of a beautiful spiritual Yes, domestic animals that live
plane.
more than ten or twenty years are Animal Heaven: Where Do Animals
rare. But, after our friends leave,
Go after Death?
do we ask ourselves if there is a heaven for them? Or will we ever
It is a fact that an animal's death
meet again? These are questions
is unfortunate, especially when it
that afflict all those who have
comes to our fur babies. That pet
already lost an animal. Being that a
that we took care of since childhood
puppy, a cat, a bird, or some animal
suddenly, in an instant, can just
endowed with invincible love and
disappear, with them a piece of our
devotion.
hearts. From this, we decided to study Many people become incredibly
more deeply about the fate of these
desperate, even entering into a
animal companions more:
depressive crisis. Does Animal Heaven Exist? The Non-Human Beings' essence, in other words, our animals, are
The sky of animals and that directed
different f rom human nature. They
at us is located in the divine
are beings who do not hold a grudge
Paradise. That is why we will be
and are always by our side, no
reunited with our f riends, who we
matter what the situation. Their soul
have learned to love in the earthly
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life. This is because animals, as well
have malice as part of their dharmic
as humans, are beings with a soul.
programming.
The only difference that distinguishes
Their consciousness evolves more
us is that animals' consciousness
clearly. Therefore, animal minds are
is so pure that it is not blemished
not intensely opposed and divided
like ours. Therefore, they are also
between good and evil like ours.
regarded as "sinless," as they do not
For this reason, the mistreatment of
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animals, in addition to being terrible,
Legend says that when four-legged
is unfair and exceptionally cruel.
angels (and any other creature we love) say goodbye to us, they cross the
Heavenly lives of Animals
Rainbow Bridge. On the other side of this bridge are fields and hills where
Even the animals that suffered the
animals can run, play, and enjoy their
most here on earth will find rest
childlike innocence, purity, and a deep
on the spiritual plane. All of them
sense of love.
will receive blessings and freedom to play, run, and live their essences
They say that there is enough space,
in peace. The only reason that can
food, and sun to make them all feel
sometimes make them thoughtful is
good on the other side of the Rainbow
to miss the owner.
Bridge.
In the same way that we will not
Furthermore, according to this legend,
forget them, they will also keep in
all those who were ill, mutilated or
their hearts the reminder that they
cruelly hurt have their health restored
were once very loved and how much
and overflowed with everlasting joy.
they also loved. According to this beautiful legend, During this period, both will end
our f riends are happy and satisfied.
up thinking about each other. But,
Still, they miss someone special they
as still in earthly lives, we will suffer
left on the other side of the Rainbow
much more because animals in
Bridge.
heaven have an abundance of joy, and the feeling of pain or sadness
This beautiful legend fills our hearts
does not exist.
with hope in the face of the loss of our beloved animals. It also helps us
However, as soon as we meet our
metaphorically understand that it
faithful f riend, we will know that
remains in our hearts when an animal
even before we arrive, he will be
leaves this world, even though we
waiting for us and that all the time
may not enjoy its warmth physically.
spent waiting for this moment was
They live forever in our own version of
worth it.
Paradise. OM TIMES | January 2023
Relationships
The interconnectiveness among all human beings and, consequently, the relationships among us are the focus of this section. The dynamics of the web of connections we make is one of the most prominent aspects of human existence: how we interlace with each other’s existence in a meaningful way.
How to Recognize Emotional Blackmail
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By Ascending hearts
motional blackmail can
A blackmailer's goal is to manipulate
happen in friendships,
the other person and turn them into
family relations, or
someone who fulfills their desires.
romantic relationships.
Sometimes Blackmailing can be
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done subtly so that the other person
someone telling your partner, "If you
may not even realize that it is being
do it again, it's all over!" These are
manipulated.
basic phrases in which there will be a later consequence if the order is not
Although it may seem difficult to
followed.
believe, a person who resorts to emotional blackmail is also insecure
How can we defend ourselves against
and weak. They need to recourse to
this kind of emotional blackmail?
blackmail to reach their goals since
First, making the blackmailer see
they do not see themselves as able to
that he is not capable of causing
achieve healthily. Although they tend
us fear. A threat or pressure always
to present themselves as very secure,
seeks to generate fear, and thus, the
well-mannered, reasonable, and self-
victim ends up obeying. However,
contained people.
if there is no fear or if we make the person feel that we are not feeling
Here are 4 ways to avoid Emotional
fear, we dismantle the manipulation.
blackmail and avoid falling into this type of manipulation.
The answer to an "If you do it again, it's all over" threat could be, "I'm free
1. EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL BY PRESSURE OR THREAT
to do whatever I want, and if that makes you want to leave me, I cannot do anything!" So the important
Manipulation of this kind consists of
thing is to make the person see that,
putting pressure on another person
instead of accepting the threat or
so that f reedom is limited. If one
punishment, we can face it, and not
does not do as one is asked to, there
for that, we will change our actions.
is a later punishment or a great deal of upset. The feeling presented by the victim in the face of this
2. EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL THAT CREATES GUILT
manipulation is fear. This Emotional blackmail creates a The typical phrase parents say to
sense of guilt in the victim, making
their young children is, "If you do
one believe oneself to be a bad
it again, you will be punished," or
person if one does not obey. Phrases
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like "If you do it, it's because you
How do you stop this kind of
do not like me anymore," "After
emotional blackmail? First, making
everything I've done for you, this
the blackmailer see that we do not
is how you pay me?", "If you leave
feel bad as a consequence for not
me, I will get sick, and I will not be
following their orders.
able to bear it," "You disappoint me. I thought you were a good person."
There are extreme cases, like the person who says, "If you leave me,
What they are looking to do with
I do not want to live." This would
these phrases is that the other
be the most exceptional example
person feels bad and guilty. This way,
because not feeling guilty in a case
the victim could be manipulated and
like this is complicated since we
consent to satisfy the other not to
would feel responsible for the health
get "bad on tape."
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that each person owns his own life,
in a role in which he is right; he will
and we must live in freedom; we
try to become a kind of guide or the
cannot be attached to someone out
sane voice in a desert. To be able to
of pity or guilt because, after all, the
manipulate, the manipulator will
victim would be really the person
know perfectly the weaknesses of
manipulated in that case, and the one
the victim and will make the victims
suffering from emotional blackmail.
believe that they need his advice to be ready to go the right way.
3. EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL THAT CREATES CONFUSING, DISTORTING REALITIES
He will try to create a kind of dependency in which the blackmailer will be the person in possession of
The blackmailer will try to deceive
the truth. It will have arguments that
situations until he can find himself
can come out over any situation to
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make the victim realize that salvation is in ignorance.
4. EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL THAT CREATES POSITIVE AND PRESENT PROMISES
How to stop this kind of distortion? Simply Informing the manipulator
Another type of blackmail more
that each person sees things
hidden that does not even
differently and that we, whether
seem blackmail is the promise
wrong or not, wish to make the
of something very positive if we
decision that we think is the best for
manifest the desires of the other.
ourselves.
We are awarded or presented with something that we want very much,
So even if the blackmailer tries to
but only in the case we do what is
induce the victim to make a mistake,
requested of us by the blackmailer.
we can respond to him that we do not care whether we can make
Parents often do this to their
mistakes or not but want to be able
children, "when you get older, I'll
to make our own decisions.
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with your grandmother, I'll buy you
Another similar form of
candy." If a child desires too much, it
Emotional blackmail is reminding
is normal for him to do his best to get
someone of the present data
what he wants.
and the amounts they owe, such as, "Do you remember the gifts
This is a positive case for emotional
I gave you? "Remember what
exchange because the outcome
I did for you? "Is like saying,
is something beneficial for both
subtly," I have given you many
parties. Still, there are other cases
material things, and therefore
where the exchange is an attempt
you must obey me. "
to deceive the victim, such as the case of a passionate person who
How not give in to this kind of
wants to win over a girl with financial
Emotional blackmail? Reminding
problems. The blackmailer offers
the blackmailer that everyone is
some "rewards" or "compensation"
f ree to pay or gift what they want,
in exchange that he knows would
and we are not obliged to return
convince the victim to date him.
the favor.
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In any kind of relationship, be it in
wants to occupy another position,
a friendship or a loving relationship,
the internal alarm should go off. Even
we must feel the same, as equals to
if someone is in trouble, a healthy
the other. It is an exchange. It must
person helps reasonably. Still, if
be reciprocal; the moment someone
someone takes advantage of it to put
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themselves in a "hero" position and
invalidate reason and come to a
leaves the other as a "victim that
point when we feel unable to make
needs to be saved," we can end up
decisions.
getting into a handling zone. • They usually boast about their
SIGNS TO DETECT AN EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILER
lives and properties since they seek to be seen as "heroes or saviors." Therefore, people
• For one, talking with them
with low self-esteem are more
can be stressful because they
likely to fall into the hands of
continually change the subject
manipulators, as they may be
of the conversation, change their
overcharged.
strategy and try to confuse the victim until they find the weak
"They want to be the ones who
spot where they feel they can
dominate the conversations and are
manipulate.
always right; they are not flexible and do not know how to listen. As a result, they tend to speak much
• When we are in front of a manipulator, the sensations tend
more than they can hear.
to speak more than the reason, especially if you are an empath.
• They do not like to receive
Therefore, we should always
advice since they consider it is
watch our emotions; if we meet
insulting to their intelligence.
a healthy person, the feelings will also be healthy, but if we
• They change their moods
are faced with a blackmailer,
quickly, since if they manage
it is widespread for us to feel
to manipulate, they are happy,
uncomfortable, unwell, frustrated,
but if the victim resists, their
and undecided.
features can change in a matter of seconds.
On the one hand, our mind may realize something is not going
• They wish at all times to nullify
well. Still, on the other hand, the
the opinion of the other, making
fears and blackmail we receive may
only theirs valid and accurate.
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Metaphysics
Puzzling Paradoxes
A
By Royce Amy Morales
paradox is a complex,
Like a political debate of two equals,
entangled, messy place
there is no winner.
to find yourself. It means that you are sitting in
Lately, humanity is finding itself
a duality, with two sides of equal
thrashing about in some massive
power, both sides pulling at you,
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or flee, and needing something
WHERE DOES DUALISTIC
external for happiness are all signs
THINKING COME FROM?
of dualities. The truth is you have already These attitudes are indicative of
accomplished that high-level
feeling divided from within.
spiritual task. Maybe before you were even a toddler.
On this evolutionary journey we have chosen to be on, duality is the
You entered this physical world in
final f rontier to get past an essential
a non-dualistic state; everything is
spiritual goal. However, there is no
the same, and I am connected to all
user manual explaining how to get
consciousness. However, within a few
there, and non-duality goes counter
months, you recognized yourself as
to everything we have been taught.
an individual and started dividing life between yourself and others.
Giving opposing labels to things seems a logical choice. Think
Plus, in order to have control
about how often your thoughts
over you, and assuring you would
divide something into two sides.
acceptably fit into society, parents
You watch a movie and criticize
labeled some things you did as good,
it as good or a waste of time. You
some as bad, some choices as right,
meet someone and immediately
and some as wrong. Naturally, you
determine if you should continue a
wanted to please them, trying to
relationship or chalk them off. You
keep or gain their approval, so you
judge a political party as senseless,
bought those dualities. Thus, their
yet you continue to dutifully vote for
value system became your own.
them. Even before you entered school, you What would it look like to no longer
were taught by use of comparisons.
perceive the world and all that
Nighttime is for sleeping, and
happens as divided into two parts?
daytime is for playing. Sweets are for
How can that happen? Is it possible
dessert not dinner. Spring is better
to reach a spiritual place of “is-ness,”
than winter. Happiness is good, and
seeing reality as one unified field?
sadness is bad.
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Teachers continued using this form to
high alert doing its assigned job to
educate you, defining concepts using
make sure you survive. It then made
one to explain the other.
decisions about yourself, others and life to assure you were safe from then on.
Seeing life dualistically comes from another source even more powerful an
Those decisions became your inner
influence than how you were raised or
programming.
what you were taught: Subconscious, From those survival-based thoughts,
fear-based programming.
you divided the world into certain As a young child, prior to developing
things symbolizing survival and
your ability to think logically, you
other things as perceived threats.
experienced incidents that contained
Then, based on those etched-in
some degree of pain and/or loss.
subconscious programs, you began
During those moments, your survival-
observing life in a generalized,
based consciousness jumps to
separated, dualistic way.
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No amount of logic or reasoning can change that viewpoint since it feels like truth and keeps you safe. Perceiving life non-dualistically feels like death to your primitive mind. DEALING WITH DUALITY There are ways to shift out of dualistic thinking. Mindfulness and observing those false notions can help. Notice the judgments, the right-wrong labels you automatically put on things. Generally, those notions contain various triggers, negative emotions, and physical sensations. Then, do an inner check to see if you have the same or similar judgments
Without duality, you experience
of yourself. This can be as simple as
things exactly as they are like seeing
catching yourself thinking he is an
a flower as just a flower rather than a
idiot and asking yourself where do
beautiful object that brings joy to the
I believe I’m an idiot?
receiver on Valentine’s Day.
Duality vanishes when you see
THE POWER OF SPIRITUAL
yourself as one with others. You
EXPERIENCES
experience that we are all the same, manifesting in unique ways,
Spiritual experiences, before your
choosing to be here to help wake
mind attempts to describe or make
each other up to whatever denial
sense of them, are non-dualistic. A
we are in. The willingness to look
spontaneous out-of-body experience
honestly at what is being reflected
is simply that until you return and
takes you back to connectedness, to
try to understand logically what
oneness.
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With more spiritual experiences,
Your personal history is not the source
you change how you see them and
of who you are and how you perceive
live from them. That enlightenment
things. Getting past dualities takes
will be how you live your life and
mindful work, not avoiding them.
experience different situations. It means a part of you has shifted,
THE ULTIMATE GOAL
and there will be many more transformations to experience.
Although there is a place for dualistic thinking in this physical reality, once
Those light bulb moments change
dualities start dissolving, life takes
your awareness of reality, but your
on a feeling of connectedness and
fear-based consciousness is often the
expansiveness. Obliterating it can
main boss. Resolve those old incidents
be as simple as recognizing where it
that are subconsciously running you,
comes from, determining whether it
having you divide yourself into dual
is truth, a need to be right, or an effort
aspects that divide the world.
to prove something. OM TIMES | January 2023
Your values may change and
That does not mean that you are
become more “world-centric,” caring
eliminating all differences. Instead,
about the entire world instead of
it means you see the differences as
something smaller like your tribe,
connected, like a yin/yang symbol.
society, or nation. Life is an ongoing dance of not You may still care about those
knowing and revelation. It is quite an
smaller entities, but your primary
adventure discovering that you don’t
orientation is toward the health of
know and yet you do. However, with
the whole planet. You identify as a
each passing year, you are mellowing
global citizen, part of the human
out and not as drastically dividing
family rather than just a nation. You
things.
pursue causes like social justice, human rights, animal rights, and
Your spiritual journey escorts you
the environment. Your concern is
to experience that everything is the
about the entire web of life you are
same even though things change
part of, especially the evolution of
from minute to minute in this
consciousness.
physical reality. The ultimate goal is self-realization and then letting go of
SEE IT, KNOW IT
self. Having a glimpse of a spiritual state can start the process, dangling a carrot of possibility.
Start to envision life without duality. Realize that you are already non-dualistic, rediscovering your
Keep in mind what St. Francis said:
connectedness. Allow yourself to
“What we are looking for is what is
remember experiences of non-
looking.”
duality. Perhaps times you did not even realize that was what they were.
The ultimate non-dualistic truth is simple: All is love. It is your true
Wherever you are on your spiritual
nature and does not need an
journey, know that it is possible. Be
opposite to exist. And, if love is
open to living in a nondual state.
who you are, there is no loss. How
Don’t try to fake getting there by
could there be a loss if you are
using spiritual bypass techniques.
everything?
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We grow as individuals as we face challenges and overcome life’s obstacles. This section is dedicated to helping you chart your course
Personal Growth & Development
How to Practice Emotional Self-Healing?
H
By OMTimes
ow we see ourselves
Many people took advantage of
had changed since the
the more secluded time to better
pandemic's beginning
care of their skin and hair, and skin
when we were forced to
care recipes began circulating on
think about our health and look at
the internet. It became an object of
Self Care through a new lens.
consumption to post that photo in
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a bathrobe, surrounded by candles,
about what is acceptable, negotiable,
with masks and hydration in the hair
or not and base your relationships
and a glass of good wine in hand.
on that basis. It may be difficult at first, but knowing how to say "no"
However, self-care goes far beyond
is a powerful way to take care of
aesthetic care.
yourself and avoid potentially painful situations.
There is emotional self-care, which is just as important, if not more so. After
Wanting to please others has a name:
all, what's the use of having perfect
"People Pleaser."
skin and shiny, soft hair if, internally, there are criticisms, judgments, and
Intend to Live life with "Gusto."
unhappiness with who you are? It is very common, especially in the So, in addition to aesthetic care,
busy routine of most people, that
which is also important, it is essential
emotions are not experienced as
to take care of mental health, and
they should. That's when internal
that's where emotional self-care
repressions come into play, the
comes in.
difficulties in understanding what you're feeling and the escape of
Self-care is nothing more than
some emotions. However, none of
taking care of yourself, as the name
this is healthy: emotions are part
suggests; when there is a concern
of the human condition. Therefore,
with emotional self-care, what is at
knowing how to identify and feel
stake is being well, inside and out.
them in all their power is important.
TEN WAYS TO PRACTICE SELF-CARE WITH EMPHASIS ON SELF-HEALING
GET USED TO JOURNALING: WRITE A JOURNAL Often, writing about what you feel
Setting limits: Learn how to say No.
can help a lot in the process of self-knowledge. It doesn't have to
In relationships with others, it is
be a diary per se. It can be a lined
essential to set clear boundaries
notebook or any other notebook you
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have on hand. The most important
keep people who are bad for you
thing is to create the habit of writing
in your life. So keep around people
about what you feel, how your day
who make you happy, honest
went, and what you felt. This helps
and true to you, support you, and
to recognize internal processes and,
accept you for who you are.
accordingly, improve emotional
FEELING DEPRESSED? SEEK HELP
health.
TRY TO KEEP ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS HEALTHY
Expert help is recommended in most cases, as it provides what no
There is little point in following all
f riend or family member can: an
the steps of emotional self-care if you
impartial and qualified exchange
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that will help you in the process of
you f rom the problematic issues.
self-knowledge. In addition, several
Try writing a list of things you
professionals serve for free or
are grateful for. It could be in the
charge more affordable value.
diary, some app, or even mentally.
PRACTICE GRATITUDE
The important thing is to always remember that there is so much to be thankful for every day.
Although it has become a cliché to talk about gratitude, the tip here is to learn to be grateful for the good
LEARN TO HAVE SELFCOMPASSION
things that happen daily in your life. This creates a positive feeling about
Most people have a very
the storyline without alienating
overwhelming internal judgment
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about themselves. It's destructive criticism, meaning internal comments that no one would make to any f riend. Therefore, it is essential to have self-compassion and acceptance and learn to identify when this internal "judge," loaded with negativity, appears.
MEDITATE Meditation is an accessible practice, and its main objective is to calm the mind and help in self-knowledge. If you find it difficult to meditate for a long time, try starting with 5 minutes and increasing the time as you feel more comfortable. In meditation,
you want to be. Far beyond the
it is normal for thoughts to arise,
material things you want to have,
and as soon as they arise, don't
think about the person you want to
scold yourself, just let them flow
become, what's important to you,
and disappear. One of the simplest
and what your priorities are. Fight
techniques is to focus on breathing.
for it and see your life acquire a new
Still, there are several ways to
meaning.
meditate, suitable for the most varied profiles.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
HAVE A PURPOSE: ESTABLISH SHORT GOALS FOR YOUR LIFE
Emotional self-care also involves taking care of yourself externally. So, take care of your appearance, dress as you like, choose healthy foods,
From time to time, stop to reflect
drink water, and sleep well. All of this
on the kind of life you want to have,
helps in the process of feeling good
what you want to achieve, and where
about yourself in all aspects.
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5 Surefire Signs You are Facing an Existential Crisis
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By Cathedral of the Soul
xistential crises are
In other words, the existential crisis
phases of deep reflection,
is natural for the human being and,
marked mainly by
when well lived or understood,
personal conflict, that can
it can represent a moment of
arise at any moment.
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as attaining self-knowledge, moral
it, will make the appearance of other
and emotional maturation, personal
symptoms favorable.
growth, and even spiritual awakening. 2. Does not feel like being with anyone But if the symptoms are not correctly "worked out," the person facing an
As your mind is already in constant
existential crisis may suffer much
turmoil, the person with existential
more, drowning in various disorders,
crisis seeks to isolate himself to find a
phobias, depression, and isolationist
balance in his thoughts.
behaviors. Also, mental fatigue eliminates any According to psychologists, five
desire to make social interactions,
main symptoms characterize most
such as hanging out with f riends or
existential crises.
even being in the company of family members.
Find out if you have any of them: Playing in bed, listening to music, 1. Anxiety and mental fatigue
or watching movies is one of the people's favorite shows during this
This is considered one of the most
phase.
common signs of an existential crisis, the famous psychological fatigue.
"There is no worse death curse than the humdrum daily
Even the person pretending to be
existence of the living dead."
reflective, and "calm" can endure the
― Anthon St. Maarten
reigns of total chaos inside his head. A constant whirlwind of thoughts,
3. Pessimism and discouragement
usually pessimistic, filled with lower emotions that make the individual
Defeating ideas and thoughts also
extraordinarily anxious and exhausted.
prevail in those who go through this type of crisis. The existential crisis
Like other body muscles, the human
typically develops f rom an impactful
mind also needs moments of rest.
event, such as the death of a loved
Otherwise, stress increases and, with
one, the loss of a job, reaching
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certain years of life, among other
"Somebody took my actual
traumatic and stressful affairs.
physical presence away and substituted this"
In these situations, the person
― Philip K. Dick, A Maze of Death
tends to reflect on his life, 4. Feeling lost in the world
questioning the values and decisions that followed until that moment. For this reason, before
Perhaps it is one of the most striking
the various unanswered questions,
features of the existential crisis.
a latent feeling of helplessness
As our whole existence is put into
begins to grow, as if nothing could
reflection, the feeling of uncertainty,
be resolved and the anguish will
bewilderment, and insecurity is quite
never disappear.
intense. OM TIMES | January 2023
We do not know how to act or
consequences such as mood swings,
what we want for the future.
sleep, and changes in one's appetite.
Impotence and passivity are
For example, some people eagerly
agonizing; if not adequately
eat when anxious, while others lose
addressed, these emotions
their will to eat.
will eventually lead to a depressive picture. The sense of
Thus, those facing an existential
Powerlessness will tend to grow.
crisis may also have insomnia and loss of appetite, causing the immune
5. Changes in appetite
system to weaken, making room for the disease to appear.
The constant anxiety and nervousness also trigger physical
How to deal with an existential crisis?
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As stated, existential crises can be
• Practice some Chants to modify
beneficial to our maturation and self-
the vibrational f requencies of
knowledge. But for this, this phase
your subtle bodies, namely your
must be lived with care. Otherwise,
emotional body.
the consequences will be disastrous for the future of the person.
But beware, if you feel that no matter how hard you try to understand the
Since the existential crisis consists of
reasons for your introspection, the
a reflexive conflict over the individual
symptoms do not go away, nor you
nature, an excellent exercise to
just cannot handle it yourself, by all
help overcome this moment is to
means, seek someone's help.
question. Why am I feeling this way? Why do I not think I can? Why do
Finding the follow-up of a
I not feel motivated?
psychologist or a counselor should be your first step if you do not know
In almost every aspect of life, the
how to overcome an existential
first step in finding a solution is to
crisis.
correctly identify the problem. That is why it is essential to reflect to
Cathedral of the Soul intends
understand the source that triggers
to undertake the challenge of
your feelings.
creating a multidimensional healing space dedicated to
• Try to distract your mind from pessimistic ideas.
those who seek to enrich, enlighten and heal themselves
• Focus your mind on productive,
while serving and assisting in
relaxing activities that will relieve
the healing of others. Cathedral
you of the weight of the anguish
of the Soul is one of the
of this crisis.
many spiritual outreaches of
• Take control of your life and
Humanity Healing International,
understand that it is okay not to
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have all the answers we seek.
with Church status.
• Use some Affirmation to train your mind again into a more
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What are Your Secrets for Success in 2023? THE SEVEN SECRETS FOR SUCCESS
P
By Marcia Sirota, MD.
eople are always posting
to do well without having to work for
articles about the secrets
it. Unfortunately, the writers of these
to success. Still, many of
blogs are perpetrating a common yet
these blogs suffer from
dangerous myth.
a lack of common sense. All those tips for “quick and easy” success are
Only a tiny proportion of the
pandering to a segment that wants
population is lucky, and everything
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happens to come easily to them. So, for
about anything else. This quality really
most of us, the first secret to success is
separates successful people from not-
that it will take work if we want to do
so-successful ones. Consistent effort
well.
over time is what counts, not doing the work only when we’re in the mood
Here’s my 2023 list of the seven
to work. When we can buckle down
secrets for real and lasting success.
and get it done, even when we’re tired
Follow these tips, and you’ll be well on
or it isn’t fun, we’re going to reap the
your way to being your best self and
greatest rewards.
living your best life! Silence the inner critic. For many Put in the time and effort. We wish
people, there’s a voice in our heads
it weren’t the case, but there’s no
that’s always ready to put us down,
shortcut to success. Even those who
undermine our confidence, criticize
are extremely talented will still need to
our efforts or tell us that nothing
put in the work to achieve their goals.
short of perfection is acceptable. But,
The good news is that the more we do,
unfortunately, that “inner critic” won’t
the more skilled we become, so over
help us succeed. On the contrary, it
time, we’re bound to perfect our craft,
can demoralize us or even paralyze our
whatever it is. Plus, when things come
efforts. Any successful person will tell
too easily, we miss out on that feeling
you they don’t have or don’t listen to
of pride and accomplishment. Instead,
negative self-talk. But, if you want to
deep down, we feel like we cheated, so
succeed, you must do the same.
we can’t fully enjoy our success. But, when we’ve worked hard for it, success
Always work toward a positive;
tastes sweet. We feel like we’re putting
never away from a negative.
in our best effort, which has paid off.
I can’t tell you how often I’ve heard
We can enjoy and appreciate the
someone say, “I can’t mess up” or
results of all our hard work.
“I can’t fail.” Instead, they need to say, “I will succeed” or “I can do it.”
There’s no substitute for self-
When we try to avoid a negative
discipline. Successful people do the
outcome, we become focused on the
work even when they’re tired, not in
negative instead of putting our energy
the mood, or would rather do just
into creating a positive outcome.
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When we focus on the negative, we
to have the right attitude, a willingness
inadvertently create the negative.
sometimes to make sacrifices and
Success is only possible if we focus on
give up a bit of fun to succeed. With
the positive.
our eyes on the prize, we’ll reap the rewards. If all we want to do is a party,
Attitude is everything. An overly-
the only reward will be a hangover and
entitled, spoiled brat who expects
possibly a set of bad habits.
everything to be handed to them on a silver platter is not going to get much
Persevere. Sometimes, there are
out of life. The energy we put in is the
setbacks. Sometimes, the challenges
energy we get out of all our endeavors.
can seem overwhelming. But we
A lazy or unmotivated person will
need to keep pushing through,
never achieve great things. We’ve got
no matter how hard it gets. The
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difference between a successful
back from adversity or never achieve
entrepreneur and the mediocre
real success. We need to heed the old
one is perseverance. The difference
saying, “When life gives you lemons,
between the successful artist and
make lemonade.” When we mess up,
the unsuccessful one is very often
we can use it as a learning opportunity.
perseverance. We can have all the
When we fail, we can use it as an
talent and ability in the world, but if we
opportunity for growth. Instead of
give up when the going gets rough,
letting the hard times stop us, we must
real success will always elude us.
get up, wipe ourselves off, and keep going forward no matter what.
Resilience is key. We can’t allow difficulties, challenges, failures, or losses
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